1 00:00:00,160 --> 00:00:08,479 Speaker 1: Hello, gorgeous. It's Lala Kent. Welcome to untraditionally Lala, Hello, 2 00:00:08,560 --> 00:00:11,680 Speaker 1: gorge La La Kent. Here we are bonusing our little 3 00:00:11,680 --> 00:00:14,160 Speaker 1: hearts out. I did a Q and A for you guys, 4 00:00:15,000 --> 00:00:19,720 Speaker 1: and you asked some amazing questions, a lot of questions 5 00:00:19,920 --> 00:00:22,240 Speaker 1: about Jasmine's wedding and why I wasn't there, and why 6 00:00:22,360 --> 00:00:25,759 Speaker 1: Easton and my mom don't recap the episodes. But first 7 00:00:25,840 --> 00:00:30,680 Speaker 1: I want to acknowledge this one. Joe Mini Underscore asks me, 8 00:00:31,240 --> 00:00:34,839 Speaker 1: what's the cheese routine looking like these days? Guda and 9 00:00:35,000 --> 00:00:39,040 Speaker 1: crackers still care gold for the win, so I've actually 10 00:00:39,600 --> 00:00:42,000 Speaker 1: I'm a weirdo. I go through phases. It was like 11 00:00:42,120 --> 00:00:44,279 Speaker 1: cheese and crackers in the bed for like months on end, 12 00:00:44,320 --> 00:00:46,920 Speaker 1: and I haven't done it in so long. But I 13 00:00:46,960 --> 00:00:48,960 Speaker 1: do cheese and crackers on the couch now like a 14 00:00:48,960 --> 00:00:54,520 Speaker 1: civilized human now. And I'm very, very into a pack 15 00:00:54,560 --> 00:01:00,600 Speaker 1: of Sargento either Havardi or I do love my Guda 16 00:01:00,640 --> 00:01:05,759 Speaker 1: with like a ritz cracker. That's my go to. Robertson 17 00:01:05,840 --> 00:01:07,920 Speaker 1: B two says, how do you and Amber co pair 18 00:01:07,959 --> 00:01:11,319 Speaker 1: in each other's kids? I actually love this question, so 19 00:01:13,080 --> 00:01:15,960 Speaker 1: she facetimes with her kids a lot, a lot, a lot, 20 00:01:16,000 --> 00:01:19,280 Speaker 1: like multiple times a day when she's in town or 21 00:01:19,319 --> 00:01:22,200 Speaker 1: when we're together. And there are times where you know 22 00:01:22,240 --> 00:01:24,480 Speaker 1: her kids are older and they're going through just the 23 00:01:24,520 --> 00:01:29,840 Speaker 1: spirals that happen when you're a teenager, and we'll sit 24 00:01:29,959 --> 00:01:33,480 Speaker 1: on the phone with them and if you know London 25 00:01:33,600 --> 00:01:36,600 Speaker 1: is feeling anxious, because she's kind of like me and 26 00:01:36,680 --> 00:01:40,440 Speaker 1: Amber and just an anxious human by nature. So with London, 27 00:01:40,440 --> 00:01:43,679 Speaker 1: if she's going through panic, I will step in with 28 00:01:43,720 --> 00:01:45,520 Speaker 1: Amber and we'll both be on the FaceTime like this, 29 00:01:45,600 --> 00:01:49,200 Speaker 1: and I'm like, Okay, let's pinpoint what's giving you anxiety. Okay, 30 00:01:49,200 --> 00:01:51,080 Speaker 1: do we feel like we need to do that? Do 31 00:01:51,280 --> 00:01:52,880 Speaker 1: is that like something we need to do? And if 32 00:01:52,880 --> 00:01:54,760 Speaker 1: London's like I feel like I need to do it, 33 00:01:54,800 --> 00:01:56,720 Speaker 1: but I'm so scared, and I was like, then we 34 00:01:56,800 --> 00:01:58,800 Speaker 1: come up with a game plan like, Okay, we're going 35 00:01:58,880 --> 00:02:00,640 Speaker 1: to take it step by step. You are gonna get there, 36 00:02:00,640 --> 00:02:02,840 Speaker 1: and you're gonna stay in the moment. If you're feeling anxious, 37 00:02:02,840 --> 00:02:04,320 Speaker 1: you're gonna have your phone with you, you can call 38 00:02:04,400 --> 00:02:07,960 Speaker 1: your mom. You're never stuck anywhere. Like moments like that 39 00:02:08,000 --> 00:02:11,359 Speaker 1: we co parent. Then there's Riley and she goes toes. 40 00:02:11,880 --> 00:02:14,920 Speaker 1: There are times where her mom will be talking to 41 00:02:14,960 --> 00:02:17,799 Speaker 1: her and I'll step in and be like, Riley, listen 42 00:02:17,880 --> 00:02:21,880 Speaker 1: to me. This person sounds crazy. I get it, but 43 00:02:21,960 --> 00:02:24,919 Speaker 1: you gotta disengage now. This is what you're gonna write 44 00:02:25,000 --> 00:02:27,360 Speaker 1: back and like leave it alone. So that's kind of 45 00:02:27,360 --> 00:02:31,360 Speaker 1: how we co parent and Ocean's just a little bit 46 00:02:31,440 --> 00:02:34,760 Speaker 1: chiller are co parenting with Ocean is like I wake 47 00:02:34,840 --> 00:02:37,200 Speaker 1: up early and I'm dealing with Sosa, and Amber will 48 00:02:37,200 --> 00:02:39,720 Speaker 1: be upstairs doing Ocean's hair and like getting her out 49 00:02:39,760 --> 00:02:42,639 Speaker 1: the door for school. Or I'll be throwing Ocean shoes 50 00:02:42,680 --> 00:02:44,639 Speaker 1: on and Amber's in there, like putting the lunch in 51 00:02:44,680 --> 00:02:47,239 Speaker 1: the backpack, getting the water bottle filled up, or hanging 52 00:02:47,280 --> 00:02:49,760 Speaker 1: out with or takes care of Sosa while I get 53 00:02:49,760 --> 00:02:51,440 Speaker 1: in the car and take Ocean school. Like it's a 54 00:02:51,560 --> 00:02:54,520 Speaker 1: very We just do it. It's like a you know, 55 00:02:54,560 --> 00:03:00,240 Speaker 1: it takes a villagin Tatelin with three ends says, is 56 00:03:00,560 --> 00:03:03,080 Speaker 1: what's something you're most proud of that never made it 57 00:03:03,080 --> 00:03:09,360 Speaker 1: onto TV? Honestly, I would say my Sobriety, I don't 58 00:03:09,400 --> 00:03:13,040 Speaker 1: feel like they ever have been able to really cover it. 59 00:03:13,520 --> 00:03:16,600 Speaker 2: Here's the thing, the rock and the hard spot because yes, 60 00:03:16,639 --> 00:03:18,280 Speaker 2: they'd want to cover it. And even if you say 61 00:03:18,320 --> 00:03:21,880 Speaker 2: you can, you still feel because it's an anonymous thing, 62 00:03:22,000 --> 00:03:25,480 Speaker 2: so a lot of people kind of respect that. Even 63 00:03:25,480 --> 00:03:27,120 Speaker 2: if you're like, come and follow me, they're like, we 64 00:03:27,160 --> 00:03:29,680 Speaker 2: would love to, but you're going to see other people 65 00:03:29,760 --> 00:03:32,040 Speaker 2: who are anonymous, and now you're putting it in other people, 66 00:03:32,080 --> 00:03:33,920 Speaker 2: so it's very hard. So I agree with you that 67 00:03:33,960 --> 00:03:34,760 Speaker 2: they haven't shown it. 68 00:03:34,920 --> 00:03:37,200 Speaker 1: They haven't shown it because they haven't been able to. 69 00:03:37,240 --> 00:03:39,520 Speaker 1: They're like, can we film you with your sponsor. I'm like, no, 70 00:03:39,640 --> 00:03:42,400 Speaker 1: absolutely not. That's the work that I do behind closed doors. 71 00:03:42,400 --> 00:03:44,840 Speaker 1: Can we film you in a therapy session? No, because 72 00:03:44,880 --> 00:03:46,360 Speaker 1: in real life I wouldn't bring a friend of my 73 00:03:46,400 --> 00:03:48,880 Speaker 1: therapy session, let alone an entire camera crew to then 74 00:03:48,880 --> 00:03:51,840 Speaker 1: air it on TV, So that's not happening. But I mean, 75 00:03:51,920 --> 00:03:54,560 Speaker 1: even when they ask me about my day to day 76 00:03:54,600 --> 00:03:58,880 Speaker 1: with sobriety, it's just never quite made the cut until 77 00:03:59,240 --> 00:04:04,320 Speaker 1: this season, where my seven year sobriety birthday actually happened 78 00:04:04,360 --> 00:04:08,880 Speaker 1: during filming because we used to film the other show 79 00:04:08,920 --> 00:04:12,840 Speaker 1: during the summertime, so things didn't really have like I 80 00:04:12,840 --> 00:04:15,800 Speaker 1: didn't have a birthday, a sober birthday on camera but 81 00:04:16,800 --> 00:04:20,760 Speaker 1: this season they do get to to capture that a 82 00:04:20,760 --> 00:04:23,719 Speaker 1: little bit more. This person. This was such an interesting 83 00:04:23,800 --> 00:04:26,800 Speaker 1: question to me because I like it, but I don't 84 00:04:26,880 --> 00:04:31,080 Speaker 1: understand it. Rebecca Carlton fifty two. Why do you always 85 00:04:31,120 --> 00:04:36,520 Speaker 1: pout your lips? I didn't realize that I was doing that. No, me, not, 86 00:04:36,680 --> 00:04:39,560 Speaker 1: you like this? I think I go like this a lot. 87 00:04:39,960 --> 00:04:40,720 Speaker 3: I think you do too. 88 00:04:41,200 --> 00:04:43,960 Speaker 1: You do. I do it when I'm pissed off, when 89 00:04:44,040 --> 00:04:47,839 Speaker 1: someone says something that I'm not quite sure about that 90 00:04:47,920 --> 00:04:52,120 Speaker 1: I find is bullshit, or when I'm listening intently, I 91 00:04:52,200 --> 00:04:54,640 Speaker 1: tend to first. 92 00:04:55,080 --> 00:04:57,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, you do it a lot, I will say. 93 00:04:57,320 --> 00:04:59,279 Speaker 2: Even when we're just at like lunchhall, look over and 94 00:04:59,279 --> 00:05:01,760 Speaker 2: you're doing it deep in thought. 95 00:05:02,000 --> 00:05:04,560 Speaker 1: That's what it is. I'm a thinker by nature, and 96 00:05:04,600 --> 00:05:07,479 Speaker 1: my face shows it. Like most people have a lot 97 00:05:07,480 --> 00:05:11,320 Speaker 1: on their minds all the time. Right, it's just human nature. 98 00:05:11,360 --> 00:05:12,000 Speaker 1: We're all thinking. 99 00:05:12,920 --> 00:05:13,360 Speaker 3: Everybody. 100 00:05:13,400 --> 00:05:16,920 Speaker 2: I want everybody to to pucker your lips like Law 101 00:05:16,960 --> 00:05:19,880 Speaker 2: does and even start thinking, because it really is a 102 00:05:19,880 --> 00:05:23,520 Speaker 2: different mindset. Oh, it's like all the things I've done 103 00:05:23,520 --> 00:05:24,320 Speaker 2: wrong in my life. 104 00:05:24,400 --> 00:05:26,159 Speaker 1: No, but my mom will look at me and go, 105 00:05:26,240 --> 00:05:28,200 Speaker 1: what are you thinking about? I'm like you can tell 106 00:05:28,200 --> 00:05:29,120 Speaker 1: them I'm thinking about. 107 00:05:28,880 --> 00:05:31,240 Speaker 3: Something right now. It's like, well, fucking very apparent. 108 00:05:31,320 --> 00:05:33,000 Speaker 2: We'll be in the car and she's just stewing in 109 00:05:33,040 --> 00:05:34,640 Speaker 2: the side and go, what are you thinking about? 110 00:05:35,080 --> 00:05:37,000 Speaker 3: How could you tell? How could you not? 111 00:05:37,560 --> 00:05:40,360 Speaker 1: There was this guy that I used to date, and 112 00:05:41,520 --> 00:05:44,720 Speaker 1: he always knew when I was livid because he'd go, 113 00:05:44,800 --> 00:05:47,440 Speaker 1: oh my god, the lips, the lips are happening. And 114 00:05:47,480 --> 00:05:50,599 Speaker 1: I'm like, yeah, I'm really fucking annoyed right now because 115 00:05:50,640 --> 00:05:55,800 Speaker 1: immediately it's person of the lips. That's why I pucker. 116 00:05:57,000 --> 00:05:57,880 Speaker 1: That's why I'm puckering. 117 00:05:57,960 --> 00:05:58,279 Speaker 3: Baby. 118 00:05:59,160 --> 00:06:04,520 Speaker 1: Call it three two three The Regrets BJ's for Pj's question, Mark, 119 00:06:04,560 --> 00:06:08,320 Speaker 1: will you encourage Ocean to do? BJ's for Pj's. I 120 00:06:08,360 --> 00:06:10,240 Speaker 1: find this to be kind of a dumb question because 121 00:06:10,279 --> 00:06:12,359 Speaker 1: I don't know of any mother who would encourage. 122 00:06:12,640 --> 00:06:18,800 Speaker 3: I don't think their daughter encouraging what happened? And does it? 123 00:06:19,040 --> 00:06:21,800 Speaker 3: I mean, I have a feeling we don't want that. 124 00:06:22,200 --> 00:06:25,000 Speaker 1: No, but I have a feeling that Ocean is going 125 00:06:25,040 --> 00:06:27,800 Speaker 1: to say a lot of things because life makes you 126 00:06:27,920 --> 00:06:30,720 Speaker 1: get older and you have no control over what your 127 00:06:30,760 --> 00:06:34,479 Speaker 1: kids say or do. Let me be very clear, during 128 00:06:34,480 --> 00:06:37,279 Speaker 1: that time when I was saying BJ's for pj's, I 129 00:06:37,400 --> 00:06:40,520 Speaker 1: was being called Yes, I was drinking. I was also 130 00:06:40,640 --> 00:06:43,000 Speaker 1: very young, and I was being called a lot of names. 131 00:06:43,440 --> 00:06:46,440 Speaker 1: So if you can't beat them, join them. So I 132 00:06:46,600 --> 00:06:49,560 Speaker 1: just started saying things to kind of get under people's skin. 133 00:06:50,080 --> 00:06:53,159 Speaker 1: You know. People were mad that I had my bum 134 00:06:53,240 --> 00:06:56,279 Speaker 1: is my profile picture. So what did I do? I 135 00:06:56,400 --> 00:07:00,200 Speaker 1: decided to wear thong underwear or bikinis to the beach. 136 00:07:00,360 --> 00:07:03,360 Speaker 1: Like now, I'm just feeding into this. Everyone was like, 137 00:07:03,920 --> 00:07:07,000 Speaker 1: you're sucking dick for this, and it's like, let's let's remember, 138 00:07:07,120 --> 00:07:11,360 Speaker 1: like I wasn't doing that for things like this person 139 00:07:12,640 --> 00:07:16,520 Speaker 1: was my boyfriend who went on to be my fiance, 140 00:07:16,760 --> 00:07:18,920 Speaker 1: who then went on to to be like the father 141 00:07:19,000 --> 00:07:20,120 Speaker 1: of my child. 142 00:07:20,600 --> 00:07:23,040 Speaker 2: You wouldn't take it as far as let me have 143 00:07:23,080 --> 00:07:26,200 Speaker 2: a child because the BJ's for the PJ wasn't enough. 144 00:07:26,680 --> 00:07:29,400 Speaker 1: No, I was just feeding into what was being said 145 00:07:29,400 --> 00:07:30,960 Speaker 1: about me. I was like, well, if you guys want 146 00:07:30,960 --> 00:07:32,760 Speaker 1: to be assholes, then I'm going to make jokes and 147 00:07:32,800 --> 00:07:35,720 Speaker 1: really like I'm really gonna be you want to talk about, 148 00:07:35,760 --> 00:07:37,800 Speaker 1: I'm going to give you fucking something to talk about. 149 00:07:38,600 --> 00:07:40,760 Speaker 1: Blow jobs for private jets. 150 00:07:41,080 --> 00:07:41,520 Speaker 2: Yay. 151 00:07:41,720 --> 00:07:43,600 Speaker 1: It was just me trying to be annoying and get 152 00:07:43,680 --> 00:07:46,080 Speaker 1: under people's skin. Now, would I operate that way now? No, 153 00:07:46,120 --> 00:07:48,360 Speaker 1: because I'm not twenty four years old and I'm not drinking. 154 00:07:48,480 --> 00:07:52,160 Speaker 1: I'm a grown ass woman. I still crack very inappropriate 155 00:07:52,240 --> 00:07:57,440 Speaker 1: jokes sometimes because I'm immature at times. And sometimes yes, 156 00:07:57,680 --> 00:08:00,960 Speaker 1: and sometimes I like to say things to have to 157 00:08:01,000 --> 00:08:03,360 Speaker 1: see the look on people's faces, like the shock. 158 00:08:03,520 --> 00:08:05,200 Speaker 2: Do you ever go out with somebody and they're like 159 00:08:05,960 --> 00:08:07,920 Speaker 2: our age and you're trying to make jokes and they're 160 00:08:07,960 --> 00:08:14,840 Speaker 2: like You're like whoas I know we're adults now, It's like, 161 00:08:15,240 --> 00:08:18,560 Speaker 2: I promise you we have at any time to be adults. 162 00:08:18,760 --> 00:08:20,280 Speaker 3: I'm going to be a kid right now at thirty three. 163 00:08:20,320 --> 00:08:21,520 Speaker 1: You're gonna be a kid for my whole life. 164 00:08:21,600 --> 00:08:22,920 Speaker 3: Yeah, looks way more fun. 165 00:08:23,000 --> 00:08:24,400 Speaker 1: And I'm going to assess the situation. 166 00:08:24,680 --> 00:08:29,360 Speaker 3: And that's why like so young there it is fruitful. 167 00:08:29,040 --> 00:08:32,800 Speaker 1: Cracking inappropriate joke sometimes, Yes, you got to assess the situation. 168 00:08:32,920 --> 00:08:35,560 Speaker 1: You think, I'm sitting at tables with CEOs all buttoned 169 00:08:35,640 --> 00:08:38,120 Speaker 1: up with like their bougie wives don't say that same 170 00:08:38,240 --> 00:08:41,400 Speaker 1: things like that. No, And by the way, they probably 171 00:08:41,480 --> 00:08:42,400 Speaker 1: have watched it. 172 00:08:42,800 --> 00:08:43,480 Speaker 3: Just to let you know. 173 00:08:43,600 --> 00:08:45,400 Speaker 2: I've been in some crazy rooms and I know you 174 00:08:45,440 --> 00:08:48,280 Speaker 2: have when I was in a little writer's room. And 175 00:08:48,720 --> 00:08:51,120 Speaker 2: to be completely honest, the ship that comes out of 176 00:08:51,280 --> 00:08:53,280 Speaker 2: half of these people's mouth that we all love and 177 00:08:53,320 --> 00:08:56,439 Speaker 2: a door, it's fantastic. 178 00:08:56,559 --> 00:08:58,240 Speaker 3: You're like you are one of us. 179 00:08:58,600 --> 00:09:02,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, because the kind of takes We're just. 180 00:09:02,760 --> 00:09:04,920 Speaker 3: People just here for whatever reason. 181 00:09:05,040 --> 00:09:07,240 Speaker 1: And I'm really never going to be around someone who 182 00:09:07,320 --> 00:09:09,640 Speaker 1: finds my behavior. 183 00:09:10,120 --> 00:09:13,240 Speaker 3: I don't like, we're not going to connect and I 184 00:09:13,280 --> 00:09:13,760 Speaker 3: don't need to. 185 00:09:14,120 --> 00:09:16,760 Speaker 1: Like when people write me on Instagram and they talk 186 00:09:16,800 --> 00:09:19,560 Speaker 1: about my behavior, it's like, save it, man, Like you 187 00:09:19,600 --> 00:09:21,000 Speaker 1: were just not each other's cup of tea. 188 00:09:21,320 --> 00:09:23,160 Speaker 2: Put a camera on you, and then maybe we can 189 00:09:23,200 --> 00:09:24,320 Speaker 2: talk about your behavior. 190 00:09:24,440 --> 00:09:26,360 Speaker 1: But beyond that, they're like, we would never be friends. 191 00:09:26,360 --> 00:09:27,760 Speaker 1: It's like, we don't need to worry about it because 192 00:09:27,760 --> 00:09:29,120 Speaker 1: I'm never going to even know who you are. I 193 00:09:29,200 --> 00:09:30,319 Speaker 1: know we're never going to meet. 194 00:09:30,720 --> 00:09:31,520 Speaker 3: And what's funny is. 195 00:09:33,440 --> 00:09:35,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, like the fact that you would think that you 196 00:09:35,320 --> 00:09:37,440 Speaker 2: have to turn me down to be your friend is. 197 00:09:37,400 --> 00:09:41,559 Speaker 1: Wild, right, just like everyone calm down, calm down, that's 198 00:09:41,600 --> 00:09:44,240 Speaker 1: the BJ's for PJS. Ocean is going to say inappropriate things. 199 00:09:44,280 --> 00:09:46,079 Speaker 1: So so SA and you know what. They're going to 200 00:09:46,120 --> 00:09:50,240 Speaker 1: be able to watch me back, like, won't you be embarrassed? No, 201 00:09:51,080 --> 00:09:53,160 Speaker 1: I was a young girl having the time of my life, 202 00:09:53,480 --> 00:09:55,600 Speaker 1: and they're going to watch that and be like, wow, okay. 203 00:09:55,760 --> 00:09:58,040 Speaker 3: I know what and not what to do and whatnot 204 00:09:58,120 --> 00:10:00,440 Speaker 3: what not to do. You'll find out their little and 205 00:10:00,520 --> 00:10:02,840 Speaker 3: go oh okay. Yes. 206 00:10:03,360 --> 00:10:05,920 Speaker 1: But also, don't you think when you know that your 207 00:10:06,080 --> 00:10:08,640 Speaker 1: mom has like done some crazy stuff, it's like, oh, 208 00:10:08,720 --> 00:10:10,760 Speaker 1: this is a judgment free zone. My mom may know 209 00:10:10,800 --> 00:10:13,080 Speaker 1: what she's talking about. My mom was a little bit wild, 210 00:10:13,720 --> 00:10:13,920 Speaker 1: you know. 211 00:10:14,320 --> 00:10:17,360 Speaker 3: Yeah. No, yeah, that's. 212 00:10:17,160 --> 00:10:23,440 Speaker 1: How I feel about it. A a Locke says, were 213 00:10:23,440 --> 00:10:27,880 Speaker 1: you invited to the wedding? I lost so many questions 214 00:10:28,440 --> 00:10:31,680 Speaker 1: about this? But by the ways, when people meet you, 215 00:10:31,720 --> 00:10:33,280 Speaker 1: they like you way more than they like me. 216 00:10:33,360 --> 00:10:36,240 Speaker 2: Well, no, I'm like a pair of brand new tips. 217 00:10:36,480 --> 00:10:38,280 Speaker 2: Pretty perfect. 218 00:10:39,040 --> 00:10:43,440 Speaker 1: It's so weird. Oh my god, someone needs a nap. 219 00:10:44,000 --> 00:10:46,480 Speaker 1: He's going rogue. Guys, he's gone rogue. 220 00:10:46,679 --> 00:10:47,839 Speaker 3: I really I do need a nap. 221 00:10:48,160 --> 00:10:50,360 Speaker 1: It's okay, Well, most most of these questions are about 222 00:10:50,400 --> 00:10:53,840 Speaker 1: me anyway, perfect. I was invited and I talked about 223 00:10:53,840 --> 00:10:57,280 Speaker 1: this on the main episode My best friend since kindergarten 224 00:10:57,480 --> 00:10:59,400 Speaker 1: has been trying to get pregnant for eight years and 225 00:10:59,480 --> 00:11:03,000 Speaker 1: is finally expecting a little boy with her husband the 226 00:11:03,120 --> 00:11:07,400 Speaker 1: end of August. So I went to Utah to celebrate 227 00:11:07,480 --> 00:11:10,320 Speaker 1: that and had massive fomo. Loved being in Utah. That 228 00:11:10,400 --> 00:11:12,320 Speaker 1: was a no brainer. It was like, obviously I'm gonna 229 00:11:12,320 --> 00:11:16,000 Speaker 1: be there with my bestie, but I had fomo. Looking 230 00:11:16,120 --> 00:11:19,840 Speaker 1: at the content that people were posting. I just wish 231 00:11:19,880 --> 00:11:22,280 Speaker 1: they would have fallen on different weekends. That's okay, Yeah, 232 00:11:22,320 --> 00:11:37,840 Speaker 1: all is good. Jessica underscore Monte Rosa. Why do you 233 00:11:38,280 --> 00:11:41,319 Speaker 1: say on the show that I'm not on? It's kind 234 00:11:41,320 --> 00:11:43,440 Speaker 1: of like my little stick because we're not allowed to 235 00:11:43,480 --> 00:11:47,760 Speaker 1: talk about the valley to hear the show I'm not on. Well, no, 236 00:11:47,800 --> 00:11:50,160 Speaker 1: because that's not why, and your turn will come because 237 00:11:50,160 --> 00:11:52,000 Speaker 1: someone else asked the question. 238 00:11:51,800 --> 00:11:52,640 Speaker 3: That I know you want to care. 239 00:11:53,600 --> 00:11:57,360 Speaker 1: This was long before, like when I signed my contract 240 00:11:57,400 --> 00:12:00,040 Speaker 1: and we started doing like the photos and filming and 241 00:12:00,120 --> 00:12:04,000 Speaker 1: we had the air date. They told me like, by 242 00:12:04,040 --> 00:12:06,480 Speaker 1: the way, you cannot talk about the show, like just 243 00:12:06,559 --> 00:12:09,360 Speaker 1: pretend that you're not even on it. And I was like, oh, 244 00:12:09,400 --> 00:12:12,840 Speaker 1: that's that's very different from when I was on vander Pump. 245 00:12:12,840 --> 00:12:16,119 Speaker 1: We were very much allowed to talk about that show, 246 00:12:16,200 --> 00:12:18,040 Speaker 1: So this is a little bit different. But I didn't 247 00:12:18,040 --> 00:12:22,040 Speaker 1: realize how hard that line was, where it's like, no, literally, 248 00:12:22,320 --> 00:12:23,480 Speaker 1: don't say a word. 249 00:12:24,000 --> 00:12:26,319 Speaker 3: So here I am talking about it again. 250 00:12:27,440 --> 00:12:28,800 Speaker 1: So that's why I say the show I'm not on 251 00:12:28,840 --> 00:12:32,280 Speaker 1: because we're not allowed to talk about it. Lure one 252 00:12:32,400 --> 00:12:35,520 Speaker 1: five eighty six. Are you still in an active custody 253 00:12:35,559 --> 00:12:39,440 Speaker 1: battle or have things come to an agreement? We came 254 00:12:39,480 --> 00:12:40,240 Speaker 1: to an agreement. 255 00:12:41,720 --> 00:12:43,439 Speaker 3: In define agreement. 256 00:12:45,040 --> 00:12:50,120 Speaker 1: We won't even get into those Sosa was born. Sosa 257 00:12:50,160 --> 00:12:53,840 Speaker 1: was born in September, and we reached an agreement the 258 00:12:53,840 --> 00:12:58,400 Speaker 1: following February. Beautiful, Yeah, it was great. Came to a close. 259 00:13:00,440 --> 00:13:05,280 Speaker 1: Chelsea Rose Kaylin. If you could have any superpower in 260 00:13:05,320 --> 00:13:09,000 Speaker 1: the world, what would it be? What would yours be? 261 00:13:09,040 --> 00:13:16,280 Speaker 1: Easton teleporting either teleporting flying. 262 00:13:16,360 --> 00:13:18,560 Speaker 2: Teleporting would be great, but flying would be way fun 263 00:13:18,559 --> 00:13:20,040 Speaker 2: because you've got to be a part of the flying 264 00:13:20,080 --> 00:13:23,160 Speaker 2: in the experience, which is I think ege my mind, 265 00:13:23,240 --> 00:13:25,640 Speaker 2: because like teleporting is just like, yeah, you're there, but 266 00:13:25,720 --> 00:13:27,920 Speaker 2: like the experience of flying would be crazy. 267 00:13:28,400 --> 00:13:31,000 Speaker 3: So that or mind reader. 268 00:13:31,520 --> 00:13:33,920 Speaker 1: See I was thinking mind reader, but I'm already in 269 00:13:33,920 --> 00:13:36,640 Speaker 1: my head so much that if I really actually knew. 270 00:13:36,840 --> 00:13:38,200 Speaker 3: But then you don't have to be in your head. 271 00:13:39,080 --> 00:13:41,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, and you know everything, so it's like there's nothing 272 00:13:41,760 --> 00:13:44,040 Speaker 2: to be in your head about, Like am I thinking that? 273 00:13:44,280 --> 00:13:47,480 Speaker 3: There are they thinking this? Am I? Right? You just know? 274 00:13:48,480 --> 00:13:53,000 Speaker 1: Maybe I would want to control the future. I don't 275 00:13:53,000 --> 00:13:54,679 Speaker 1: want to see the future, but like not in that 276 00:13:54,679 --> 00:13:57,160 Speaker 1: that's the raven kind of way where she does needs. 277 00:13:58,559 --> 00:13:59,240 Speaker 3: Reverse time. 278 00:13:59,559 --> 00:14:01,800 Speaker 2: When really good idea comes, I can reverse time and 279 00:14:01,840 --> 00:14:04,840 Speaker 2: come up with it myself, like loogle. 280 00:14:05,200 --> 00:14:07,520 Speaker 1: Could you only reverse time? Or could just speed it up? Too? 281 00:14:10,320 --> 00:14:14,320 Speaker 2: Is an option from this is your then both come on, 282 00:14:14,400 --> 00:14:17,480 Speaker 2: now you want a little fast forward like loogle. I 283 00:14:17,480 --> 00:14:20,360 Speaker 2: don't know if you've seen hot Tub time machine, but 284 00:14:20,760 --> 00:14:23,080 Speaker 2: Google is a thing. And then they go back in 285 00:14:23,160 --> 00:14:26,400 Speaker 2: time and he starts it instead of Google. His name's 286 00:14:26,440 --> 00:14:29,280 Speaker 2: Lou and he makes it Loogle and he's a billionaire. 287 00:14:29,520 --> 00:14:33,400 Speaker 1: Oh wow, you just beat him to the punch genius. 288 00:14:33,480 --> 00:14:35,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, so that would be mine too, because I could 289 00:14:35,640 --> 00:14:38,240 Speaker 2: be very rich, very rich. 290 00:14:38,720 --> 00:14:43,840 Speaker 3: Yeah, so rich. You're like fuel the jet, I know, 291 00:14:43,880 --> 00:14:46,120 Speaker 3: But then what if you're like fuel the jet and 292 00:14:46,160 --> 00:14:47,840 Speaker 3: then all of your friends are on the jet and 293 00:14:47,840 --> 00:14:50,000 Speaker 3: you're just to the side of it. Flying by, like, hey, 294 00:14:50,720 --> 00:14:51,720 Speaker 3: oh could be legit. 295 00:14:51,840 --> 00:14:55,120 Speaker 1: See now there's too many superpowers that I would want. 296 00:14:55,960 --> 00:14:59,760 Speaker 1: Molly underscore Ron. Does it interest you to date someone 297 00:14:59,760 --> 00:15:04,160 Speaker 1: who drinks around you and your kids? That's kind of 298 00:15:04,160 --> 00:15:10,160 Speaker 1: a loaded question. Yeah, I think a normy who can 299 00:15:10,200 --> 00:15:12,760 Speaker 1: have like a cocktail or like a glass of wine. 300 00:15:12,800 --> 00:15:14,720 Speaker 1: Here's the thing though, when you throw in the kids, 301 00:15:14,760 --> 00:15:16,840 Speaker 1: I think it's unnecessary for you to be drinking in 302 00:15:16,840 --> 00:15:17,880 Speaker 1: front of my kids. 303 00:15:18,160 --> 00:15:20,720 Speaker 3: But then again, it's like, I mean here's the thing 304 00:15:20,760 --> 00:15:21,960 Speaker 3: I feel like, see. 305 00:15:21,680 --> 00:15:23,560 Speaker 1: I immediately go to if you're gonna drink in front 306 00:15:23,560 --> 00:15:24,640 Speaker 1: of my kids, you're gonna be drunk. 307 00:15:25,040 --> 00:15:28,360 Speaker 2: No, See that's normy. Like all you have to say 308 00:15:28,440 --> 00:15:31,560 Speaker 2: is like I'm an addict. There's people who are normal 309 00:15:31,560 --> 00:15:33,120 Speaker 2: and they're like, does me drinking in front of you? 310 00:15:33,200 --> 00:15:35,680 Speaker 2: It's like, No, what pisses me off is that you're 311 00:15:35,760 --> 00:15:37,720 Speaker 2: leaving a little bit of that wine with you. Fuck, 312 00:15:38,160 --> 00:15:40,680 Speaker 2: that's what's pissing me off. But that's the addict. But 313 00:15:40,720 --> 00:15:44,920 Speaker 2: like there's been like Landing. Yeah, he would go out, 314 00:15:44,960 --> 00:15:47,280 Speaker 2: he would get an apparol sprits and like talk about 315 00:15:47,280 --> 00:15:49,000 Speaker 2: the taste of it, yeah, and how he loved it. 316 00:15:49,040 --> 00:15:50,640 Speaker 2: And when we leave there was still some in there 317 00:15:50,640 --> 00:15:51,920 Speaker 2: and be like, oh, are you gonna drink it and be 318 00:15:52,000 --> 00:15:55,440 Speaker 2: like no, I'm great. It's like, oh, you're normal, okay. 319 00:15:55,080 --> 00:15:57,320 Speaker 1: So then I like that. If they're a normal person, 320 00:15:57,440 --> 00:15:59,120 Speaker 1: I don't care if they drink around. 321 00:15:59,080 --> 00:16:01,480 Speaker 3: No lass of wine which take the. 322 00:16:01,480 --> 00:16:05,000 Speaker 1: Kids out of it. Though, if you're enormy and like 323 00:16:05,400 --> 00:16:07,520 Speaker 1: you're drinking and you have nights where you get a 324 00:16:07,560 --> 00:16:10,200 Speaker 1: little drunk, I'm totally fine with that. Again, if you're 325 00:16:10,280 --> 00:16:15,000 Speaker 1: a normal person. My sobriety, I obviously have my crew 326 00:16:15,040 --> 00:16:17,920 Speaker 1: of other sober people, which is a must. You have 327 00:16:18,000 --> 00:16:20,680 Speaker 1: to have those people. Amber is sober. A lot of 328 00:16:20,680 --> 00:16:22,560 Speaker 1: people that come to the house they may not be sober, 329 00:16:22,600 --> 00:16:25,000 Speaker 1: but they I've found a lot of people a lot 330 00:16:25,000 --> 00:16:25,520 Speaker 1: of just. 331 00:16:25,440 --> 00:16:28,240 Speaker 3: Don't drink or smug. They're just like, yeah, I just stopped. 332 00:16:28,320 --> 00:16:31,400 Speaker 1: I'm like, oh they're programmed. They're like no, they just 333 00:16:31,440 --> 00:16:32,400 Speaker 1: don't self control. 334 00:16:32,520 --> 00:16:34,240 Speaker 3: Yeah, exactly, oh something I don't have. 335 00:16:34,440 --> 00:16:36,800 Speaker 1: Then they'll have like a gummy or something, which doesn't 336 00:16:37,400 --> 00:16:38,120 Speaker 1: bother me at all. 337 00:16:38,160 --> 00:16:39,080 Speaker 3: No loss. 338 00:16:39,160 --> 00:16:43,520 Speaker 1: However, I don't and I always crack jokes because there 339 00:16:43,520 --> 00:16:44,880 Speaker 1: are some people that are like, do care if I 340 00:16:44,920 --> 00:16:46,760 Speaker 1: drink around you? I'm like, I would prefer you do. 341 00:16:46,920 --> 00:16:48,480 Speaker 1: And then it leads to a question of why, and 342 00:16:48,520 --> 00:16:51,600 Speaker 1: I go because I'm hell of fun sober, you're. 343 00:16:51,520 --> 00:16:51,840 Speaker 3: Kind of not. 344 00:16:52,080 --> 00:16:55,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's yeah, And then they get offended. 345 00:16:55,240 --> 00:16:56,440 Speaker 3: Just kidding, they don't get offended. 346 00:16:56,960 --> 00:17:00,240 Speaker 1: But the other part of it is I profer or 347 00:17:00,640 --> 00:17:04,240 Speaker 1: for me and my sobriety. I prefer to date someone 348 00:17:04,480 --> 00:17:07,120 Speaker 1: who is not in the program and who is not sober. 349 00:17:07,240 --> 00:17:12,600 Speaker 1: And here's why I am very strong in my sobriety. 350 00:17:12,880 --> 00:17:16,560 Speaker 1: I have my tools. I know what to do, God willing, 351 00:17:16,600 --> 00:17:18,919 Speaker 1: I will continue to know what to do for the 352 00:17:19,160 --> 00:17:23,000 Speaker 1: long haul, but exactly one day at a time. I 353 00:17:23,119 --> 00:17:25,800 Speaker 1: don't want to have to worry about your sobriety. Here 354 00:17:25,880 --> 00:17:28,480 Speaker 1: it is if you are in the program, that means 355 00:17:28,640 --> 00:17:30,560 Speaker 1: you and I are one and the same. I don't 356 00:17:30,560 --> 00:17:32,639 Speaker 1: know what you're like in your sobriety. You can say 357 00:17:32,680 --> 00:17:35,240 Speaker 1: that you're not triggered by things. I can't worry about it. 358 00:17:35,400 --> 00:17:39,280 Speaker 1: I have a life. I have a beautiful family that 359 00:17:39,359 --> 00:17:42,520 Speaker 1: I've created, these two beautiful babies who I can't take 360 00:17:42,560 --> 00:17:45,960 Speaker 1: any chances. So I prefer that you just are a 361 00:17:46,119 --> 00:17:49,480 Speaker 1: normal drinker, go out. Sometimes you may have a rougher 362 00:17:49,560 --> 00:17:53,960 Speaker 1: night than you know. The others all good. I don't 363 00:17:54,040 --> 00:17:58,160 Speaker 1: want to worry about you relapsing because I can't deal. 364 00:17:59,280 --> 00:18:01,840 Speaker 1: I know that that's cold and heartless. But if I'm 365 00:18:01,880 --> 00:18:04,959 Speaker 1: welcoming you in in that capacity, I can't worry about it. 366 00:18:04,840 --> 00:18:07,080 Speaker 2: It sounds that way, I will say from just like 367 00:18:07,080 --> 00:18:10,560 Speaker 2: an outsider's But that's me putting my foot in the 368 00:18:10,560 --> 00:18:14,720 Speaker 2: other shoe. But until you are an addict, and unless 369 00:18:14,760 --> 00:18:16,840 Speaker 2: you are, you'll never know what it's like to live 370 00:18:16,840 --> 00:18:20,760 Speaker 2: in this mind. But it's enough just to keep me sober. 371 00:18:21,240 --> 00:18:25,400 Speaker 2: I can't add somebody else, yeah, because that will fucking 372 00:18:25,480 --> 00:18:28,960 Speaker 2: drive me to relapse. Yes, And that's why it's like, 373 00:18:29,320 --> 00:18:32,600 Speaker 2: I just need somebody normal. You don't overdrink. I'm only 374 00:18:32,640 --> 00:18:35,560 Speaker 2: worried about me. I'm not like, are you sneaking? 375 00:18:35,920 --> 00:18:37,520 Speaker 3: Like I'm too worried about me. 376 00:18:37,600 --> 00:18:39,920 Speaker 2: And it's like if I'm worried about you sneaking and drink, 377 00:18:39,920 --> 00:18:42,199 Speaker 2: maybe it's because maybe I'm worried about me. 378 00:18:42,520 --> 00:18:45,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's just or for everything. 379 00:18:45,040 --> 00:18:46,560 Speaker 2: And that's where it's just like, you know what, I'm 380 00:18:46,600 --> 00:18:48,159 Speaker 2: happy where I'm at, and I like what I I. 381 00:18:48,160 --> 00:18:50,440 Speaker 1: Want a guy who's normal and walks in a room 382 00:18:50,440 --> 00:18:51,920 Speaker 1: and doesn't even have to think about it. Little kids 383 00:18:51,960 --> 00:18:54,040 Speaker 1: are here, like, not the time to get wasted, and 384 00:18:54,080 --> 00:18:56,400 Speaker 1: I don't even want to get wasted because I'm an ormy, right, 385 00:19:08,359 --> 00:19:11,120 Speaker 1: Holly Marie Loy says, why are you no longer doing 386 00:19:11,160 --> 00:19:12,760 Speaker 1: Monday recaps of the Valley? 387 00:19:13,119 --> 00:19:16,640 Speaker 3: Was loving those who oh man, mom. 388 00:19:17,520 --> 00:19:21,000 Speaker 1: We had people that were not happy about the recaps happening, 389 00:19:21,160 --> 00:19:24,760 Speaker 1: and it's easier to just say can you please be quiet, 390 00:19:24,840 --> 00:19:27,600 Speaker 1: because I will I do listen. I just thought I 391 00:19:27,720 --> 00:19:30,119 Speaker 1: wasn't allowed to talk about it, but I guess than 392 00:19:30,200 --> 00:19:34,239 Speaker 1: it is getting other people to not care. There's a 393 00:19:34,320 --> 00:19:37,440 Speaker 1: handful of people on this cast that are extremely sensitive, 394 00:19:37,760 --> 00:19:39,320 Speaker 1: which I didn't have to deal with. On the last 395 00:19:39,359 --> 00:19:42,560 Speaker 1: show that I was on, everyone knew the drill. We 396 00:19:42,640 --> 00:19:46,399 Speaker 1: talked about podcasts all the time when we picked up 397 00:19:46,400 --> 00:19:50,560 Speaker 1: cameras again, and no one was calling and complaining and 398 00:19:50,840 --> 00:19:54,000 Speaker 1: crying about things like your actions. 399 00:19:53,440 --> 00:19:56,240 Speaker 2: Were on the television and what was spoken about your 400 00:19:56,280 --> 00:19:57,560 Speaker 2: actions was all right. 401 00:19:58,480 --> 00:20:00,680 Speaker 1: A lot of thick skinned people, Yes, I'm like. 402 00:20:00,640 --> 00:20:02,719 Speaker 3: Okay, you're going to talk about it. I did it. 403 00:20:02,760 --> 00:20:03,639 Speaker 3: I can't run from it. 404 00:20:03,680 --> 00:20:05,840 Speaker 2: I did it, And now these people are like, I 405 00:20:05,880 --> 00:20:07,840 Speaker 2: did that but nobody can talk about it. 406 00:20:07,960 --> 00:20:09,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, because I can't. 407 00:20:08,800 --> 00:20:11,600 Speaker 1: Believe people just got sensitive and it's all good, you know, 408 00:20:11,840 --> 00:20:14,320 Speaker 1: but people do listen, people do miss listening to it. 409 00:20:14,400 --> 00:20:16,680 Speaker 2: I enjoyed doing it a lot, and Mom was starting 410 00:20:16,680 --> 00:20:19,720 Speaker 2: to pick up, started saying words. 411 00:20:19,840 --> 00:20:21,400 Speaker 1: I know, maybe it's a good thing. She's not doing 412 00:20:21,400 --> 00:20:23,800 Speaker 1: it right now. People want an update on her. 413 00:20:24,800 --> 00:20:27,159 Speaker 2: I was just going to say, I agree with you 414 00:20:27,280 --> 00:20:30,480 Speaker 2: right now with where she's at. But I also think 415 00:20:30,720 --> 00:20:32,800 Speaker 2: that she would have been really good, and I think 416 00:20:32,840 --> 00:20:35,600 Speaker 2: that this would could have taken her away from other 417 00:20:35,680 --> 00:20:39,080 Speaker 2: things and given her, like just something else to worry about, 418 00:20:39,080 --> 00:20:40,880 Speaker 2: where you're not just worried about that one thing. 419 00:20:41,920 --> 00:20:45,600 Speaker 1: Ocean watched Blackfish. 420 00:20:45,640 --> 00:20:46,200 Speaker 3: I know, she. 421 00:20:46,200 --> 00:20:48,639 Speaker 1: Started inquiring about things, and so I showed her the 422 00:20:48,680 --> 00:20:53,320 Speaker 1: trailer and she was very interested, and I thought, why not, 423 00:20:53,600 --> 00:20:57,160 Speaker 1: let's watch it. And now she tells me constantly, Mom, 424 00:20:57,200 --> 00:20:58,880 Speaker 1: I need to get on the podcast and I need 425 00:20:58,920 --> 00:21:00,720 Speaker 1: to tell them that we need to get a boat 426 00:21:01,160 --> 00:21:03,639 Speaker 1: and take the orcas in a net and put them back. 427 00:21:03,480 --> 00:21:07,080 Speaker 3: In the ocean. Right, you're right. 428 00:21:07,280 --> 00:21:08,800 Speaker 1: You have such a kind heart, Ocean. 429 00:21:08,840 --> 00:21:11,960 Speaker 3: I'm so proud of you. That's why we say see world. 430 00:21:13,640 --> 00:21:19,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly, Tierra Underscore Suerte. I hope I'm saying that right. 431 00:21:19,760 --> 00:21:22,520 Speaker 1: Lip filler, you guys, I have not had my lips 432 00:21:22,560 --> 00:21:24,359 Speaker 1: filled up in quite some time. 433 00:21:24,680 --> 00:21:25,840 Speaker 3: What is it? 434 00:21:27,280 --> 00:21:29,800 Speaker 1: You don't need to worry about that, baby, But can 435 00:21:29,840 --> 00:21:32,679 Speaker 1: I tell you I'm a huge fan of overlining, Like 436 00:21:33,600 --> 00:21:36,040 Speaker 1: if you I mean, they look pretty big right now, 437 00:21:36,640 --> 00:21:39,359 Speaker 1: but compared to what they look like when I overline them. 438 00:21:39,400 --> 00:21:47,760 Speaker 1: So I use bodily something Body body something lipliner, which 439 00:21:47,760 --> 00:21:51,840 Speaker 1: is like kind of the same hue as my actual 440 00:21:51,920 --> 00:21:54,840 Speaker 1: lip and I'll line that where my actual lip line 441 00:21:54,880 --> 00:21:57,640 Speaker 1: is and then I go on the outside of that 442 00:21:57,840 --> 00:22:01,960 Speaker 1: with whirl both by Mac and I have the biggest 443 00:22:01,960 --> 00:22:04,359 Speaker 1: lips ever and people are like, stop injecting them, and 444 00:22:04,400 --> 00:22:08,879 Speaker 1: I'm like, I haven't just overlining. The moment I drink water, 445 00:22:09,440 --> 00:22:11,720 Speaker 1: my lips are going to go down about four sizes. 446 00:22:12,520 --> 00:22:17,120 Speaker 1: That's okay. I like lip filler. If you want your 447 00:22:17,119 --> 00:22:20,040 Speaker 1: lips done and you have a good person to go to, 448 00:22:20,600 --> 00:22:21,840 Speaker 1: by all means, do your thing. 449 00:22:21,920 --> 00:22:23,679 Speaker 3: Boo Okay. 450 00:22:23,800 --> 00:22:29,520 Speaker 1: Dating life update by t Underscore Low Underscore Vision Dating 451 00:22:30,160 --> 00:22:34,200 Speaker 1: I would say is yes, I'm dating for the first time. 452 00:22:34,840 --> 00:22:38,040 Speaker 1: Like instead of going from one extreme to the other, 453 00:22:38,080 --> 00:22:40,240 Speaker 1: which was like, no men allowed to Like they're good 454 00:22:40,280 --> 00:22:43,720 Speaker 1: for one thing that I'm actually allowing men to come 455 00:22:43,720 --> 00:22:46,520 Speaker 1: in and like, even though I'm keeping my guard up, 456 00:22:46,560 --> 00:22:50,080 Speaker 1: we're like hanging out, We're talking, we'll go to dinner, 457 00:22:50,280 --> 00:22:55,440 Speaker 1: We'll share moments like that, and it's not so black 458 00:22:55,520 --> 00:22:57,480 Speaker 1: or white, like I'm finding the gray with dating, which 459 00:22:57,520 --> 00:22:59,879 Speaker 1: is good because I need to put the tools that 460 00:23:00,040 --> 00:23:02,919 Speaker 1: I have been working on to use. Because there was 461 00:23:02,960 --> 00:23:05,639 Speaker 1: someone that came into my world and I really shit 462 00:23:05,680 --> 00:23:08,160 Speaker 1: the bed with it and it was not okay. And 463 00:23:08,200 --> 00:23:12,560 Speaker 1: the shit that I allowed was utterly disgusting and I'm 464 00:23:12,640 --> 00:23:14,919 Speaker 1: so happy he's out of my world. But at the 465 00:23:14,920 --> 00:23:18,000 Speaker 1: same time, it fucked me up and taught me a lot. 466 00:23:18,800 --> 00:23:22,399 Speaker 1: It taught me a little. I did learn a huge lesson. 467 00:23:22,920 --> 00:23:25,200 Speaker 1: I'm ending it on this Oh. This person does want 468 00:23:25,200 --> 00:23:27,760 Speaker 1: to know if I smoke weed because I give sexy, 469 00:23:27,840 --> 00:23:31,520 Speaker 1: stoner vibes. I love that. No, I don't smoke weed. 470 00:23:31,560 --> 00:23:34,280 Speaker 1: I'm fully sober. This person wants to know if I'm 471 00:23:34,280 --> 00:23:38,399 Speaker 1: still friends with my assistant Jessica. We have reconnected and 472 00:23:38,440 --> 00:23:41,280 Speaker 1: I absolutely adore her. I always have and I always will. 473 00:23:41,920 --> 00:23:45,280 Speaker 1: She and I I don't feel like we went south. 474 00:23:45,640 --> 00:23:48,320 Speaker 1: It was I could not in the moment give her hurt. 475 00:23:48,440 --> 00:23:51,200 Speaker 2: Can I say this because I was reading comments, Sorry 476 00:23:51,240 --> 00:23:53,840 Speaker 2: to interrupt you. People really can't wrap their mind around that, 477 00:23:54,040 --> 00:23:56,680 Speaker 2: Like the timing. They're like, there's something deeper, it's deeper, 478 00:23:56,960 --> 00:24:00,560 Speaker 2: it's deeper. It's not deeper. Not deeper, It's not deeper. 479 00:24:00,960 --> 00:24:04,480 Speaker 2: She was one of my dearest friends and my rock. 480 00:24:05,280 --> 00:24:08,520 Speaker 2: On the other side of that was she was my employee. 481 00:24:08,800 --> 00:24:11,200 Speaker 2: There were things that we wanted to do and build 482 00:24:11,200 --> 00:24:13,919 Speaker 2: together to further her in her career. And then things 483 00:24:14,000 --> 00:24:17,880 Speaker 2: happened where the timing did not allow me to give 484 00:24:17,920 --> 00:24:22,360 Speaker 2: her what she wanted in that moment, and she had 485 00:24:22,359 --> 00:24:25,360 Speaker 2: to make a really big decision, which was to walk 486 00:24:25,400 --> 00:24:28,639 Speaker 2: away from me. And it was painful and I was 487 00:24:28,800 --> 00:24:34,000 Speaker 2: devastated by it. But it's where friendship and personal and 488 00:24:34,680 --> 00:24:38,359 Speaker 2: business kind of collided, and it was one of the 489 00:24:38,440 --> 00:24:42,840 Speaker 2: hardest breakups I've ever experienced in my life. We still 490 00:24:42,920 --> 00:24:45,920 Speaker 2: text and check in with each other because she will 491 00:24:45,920 --> 00:24:48,520 Speaker 2: always be one of my most favorite humans on the 492 00:24:48,560 --> 00:24:52,280 Speaker 2: face of the earth. And if I could snap my 493 00:24:52,400 --> 00:24:55,959 Speaker 2: fingers and give her everything she wanted and more and 494 00:24:56,040 --> 00:25:01,119 Speaker 2: deserved career career wise, I wish I could have, but 495 00:25:01,240 --> 00:25:04,600 Speaker 2: the timing and just things that had shifted, I couldn't 496 00:25:04,640 --> 00:25:06,200 Speaker 2: give to her in that moment. 497 00:25:06,240 --> 00:25:08,480 Speaker 1: And I think she was like, I have to make 498 00:25:08,880 --> 00:25:09,760 Speaker 1: faith and move on you. 499 00:25:10,000 --> 00:25:13,920 Speaker 3: And there's no ill will for her wanting to. 500 00:25:13,800 --> 00:25:16,080 Speaker 1: Do that, and and I understood that. 501 00:25:16,240 --> 00:25:18,200 Speaker 3: No, that was the thing, and that was the hardest part. 502 00:25:18,240 --> 00:25:19,960 Speaker 3: But that's where it was. 503 00:25:20,119 --> 00:25:23,199 Speaker 2: Is like, the hardest part was not being able to 504 00:25:23,240 --> 00:25:25,440 Speaker 2: give her what she wants at the time she wanted, 505 00:25:25,480 --> 00:25:29,000 Speaker 2: but knowing that we already we could in due time, 506 00:25:29,040 --> 00:25:32,680 Speaker 2: but she had been you know, you just start looking 507 00:25:32,680 --> 00:25:34,320 Speaker 2: and you're like, but I have it ready now and 508 00:25:34,359 --> 00:25:36,400 Speaker 2: I can't wait another X amount of time. 509 00:25:36,760 --> 00:25:38,639 Speaker 3: And it just and I understood that, and it is 510 00:25:38,680 --> 00:25:39,080 Speaker 3: what it is. 511 00:25:39,160 --> 00:25:42,640 Speaker 1: And I would have given anything, because she deserved everything 512 00:25:42,760 --> 00:25:46,480 Speaker 1: she wanted, but I can't. 513 00:25:47,119 --> 00:25:50,959 Speaker 2: Things are looking great with where you are in the things, 514 00:25:51,000 --> 00:25:54,440 Speaker 2: and I will say that that things are looking good, 515 00:25:54,520 --> 00:25:56,160 Speaker 2: and just yes. 516 00:25:56,200 --> 00:25:58,520 Speaker 1: It wasn't deeper than that, though, it really wasn't. 517 00:25:58,560 --> 00:26:05,080 Speaker 3: She just needed to find her way and she did. Yeah, 518 00:26:05,560 --> 00:26:07,600 Speaker 3: she did, and she's doing amazing. 519 00:26:07,400 --> 00:26:09,400 Speaker 1: I know, but I miss her terribly. 520 00:26:09,560 --> 00:26:12,360 Speaker 3: No, there is something about Jess that I yeah. 521 00:26:12,400 --> 00:26:14,639 Speaker 1: Okay, the last question then I want to wrap it 522 00:26:14,680 --> 00:26:18,479 Speaker 1: with this. Would you ever get a cat? Yes, we 523 00:26:18,560 --> 00:26:21,359 Speaker 1: had one, I know. I just don't like the thought 524 00:26:21,400 --> 00:26:24,560 Speaker 1: of them pooping in a box and then taking their 525 00:26:24,600 --> 00:26:28,320 Speaker 1: paws and walking on my countertop. I don't know, I'm weird. 526 00:26:28,680 --> 00:26:30,960 Speaker 1: But then again, my dogs go outside and go to 527 00:26:30,960 --> 00:26:32,800 Speaker 1: the bathroom on the turf and then walk in the house, 528 00:26:32,920 --> 00:26:35,000 Speaker 1: So maybe I would get a cat. I just picture 529 00:26:35,040 --> 00:26:38,320 Speaker 1: myself was more of a big dog. But remember kid 530 00:26:38,400 --> 00:26:39,720 Speaker 1: Kitty loved kid Kitty. 531 00:26:39,960 --> 00:26:40,639 Speaker 3: She was a dog. 532 00:26:41,040 --> 00:26:42,600 Speaker 1: And I hate when people say that my cat's like 533 00:26:42,600 --> 00:26:44,320 Speaker 1: a dog. I'm like, no, bitch, you still want me 534 00:26:44,359 --> 00:26:45,879 Speaker 1: to judge you for having a cat. I know this 535 00:26:45,960 --> 00:26:48,760 Speaker 1: cat was a fucking dog, hang out between the two 536 00:26:48,840 --> 00:26:50,800 Speaker 1: pit bulls, and then she would go on her hind 537 00:26:50,880 --> 00:26:51,640 Speaker 1: legs and bag. 538 00:26:51,520 --> 00:26:55,960 Speaker 3: For and I wouldn't. She died in my arm. 539 00:26:56,280 --> 00:26:57,480 Speaker 1: Just a lot of death in your day. 540 00:26:57,640 --> 00:26:58,560 Speaker 3: The hell's wrong with me? 541 00:26:58,920 --> 00:27:00,440 Speaker 1: All right? My loves. Thank you for listening to the 542 00:27:00,440 --> 00:27:02,960 Speaker 1: bonus episode of Untraditionally Lala. I'm going to catch you 543 00:27:02,960 --> 00:27:05,400 Speaker 1: on Wednesday for a regular old episode and a reminder. 544 00:27:05,560 --> 00:27:08,760 Speaker 1: Unlikely Affair with Me and Amber Childers airs Thursday nights 545 00:27:08,760 --> 00:27:13,960 Speaker 1: at nine pm love y'all, Bye Bye,