1 00:00:12,480 --> 00:00:15,880 Speaker 1: So I guess that Kim Kardashian and the family were 2 00:00:15,960 --> 00:00:18,960 Speaker 1: doing a promotion for their new show on Hulu that 3 00:00:19,079 --> 00:00:21,920 Speaker 1: they got nine figures for so the million ten millions, 4 00:00:21,960 --> 00:00:24,320 Speaker 1: so like in the hundred million dollar range that they split. 5 00:00:24,360 --> 00:00:26,520 Speaker 1: So let's pretend it's ten million of person, which is 6 00:00:26,560 --> 00:00:30,040 Speaker 1: a lot of money. Um And I guess they were 7 00:00:30,040 --> 00:00:31,720 Speaker 1: doing the photo shoot for it. They're all, you know, 8 00:00:31,760 --> 00:00:35,640 Speaker 1: beautiful and dressed, really sexy and et cetera. And Kim said, 9 00:00:36,159 --> 00:00:39,840 Speaker 1: I have the best advice for women in business, get 10 00:00:39,880 --> 00:00:43,320 Speaker 1: your fucking ass up and work. It seems like nobody 11 00:00:43,360 --> 00:00:46,440 Speaker 1: wants to work these days. Um As It's so funny 12 00:00:46,479 --> 00:00:48,720 Speaker 1: because I'm sitting right here in my office and as 13 00:00:48,760 --> 00:00:52,160 Speaker 1: I as I am, I'm sitting across from a working mother, 14 00:00:52,360 --> 00:00:55,160 Speaker 1: and it happens every day with people around me. Uh, 15 00:00:55,600 --> 00:00:59,600 Speaker 1: working women, and uh, I I just want to talk 16 00:00:59,640 --> 00:01:02,120 Speaker 1: about a comment because so many people had so many 17 00:01:02,120 --> 00:01:04,440 Speaker 1: different reactions. One woman on TikTok said, you're right. I 18 00:01:04,440 --> 00:01:06,640 Speaker 1: don't get paid a hundred thousand dollars to leave my house. 19 00:01:06,800 --> 00:01:08,720 Speaker 1: I don't want to work. Other people are like, what 20 00:01:08,760 --> 00:01:11,800 Speaker 1: are you talking about. I've worked four jobs. I worked 21 00:01:11,840 --> 00:01:13,560 Speaker 1: so many jobs just to try to keep food on 22 00:01:13,600 --> 00:01:16,880 Speaker 1: the table. And I mean, this is enraged people, and 23 00:01:16,920 --> 00:01:18,920 Speaker 1: there's so many things to talk about. First of all, 24 00:01:21,080 --> 00:01:24,040 Speaker 1: you know the Kardashians. Kim Kardashian started at all. I 25 00:01:24,040 --> 00:01:26,360 Speaker 1: mean she is. She did hand them all the success, 26 00:01:26,400 --> 00:01:32,319 Speaker 1: including the mother um. But people remember her first big 27 00:01:32,360 --> 00:01:35,720 Speaker 1: successful moment, and she's had to do a career rinse 28 00:01:35,760 --> 00:01:37,920 Speaker 1: on that. My rinse would be the only thing I've 29 00:01:37,920 --> 00:01:40,200 Speaker 1: ever been known about is the Housewives. Hers would be 30 00:01:40,280 --> 00:01:42,280 Speaker 1: the tape, and so she had to do a big 31 00:01:42,360 --> 00:01:45,080 Speaker 1: rinse on that. And it has been effective. From going 32 00:01:45,120 --> 00:01:49,520 Speaker 1: to law school becoming a billionaire. Uh skims the lips, 33 00:01:49,920 --> 00:01:54,680 Speaker 1: the lip kit. Uh. You know Balenciaga, Mary and Kanye, 34 00:01:54,920 --> 00:01:58,520 Speaker 1: who I do believe was largely responsible for her next 35 00:01:58,800 --> 00:02:01,040 Speaker 1: level rising fan The two of the sum was greater 36 00:02:01,080 --> 00:02:02,840 Speaker 1: than its parts. Whether you like either of them or 37 00:02:02,840 --> 00:02:06,760 Speaker 1: none of them, the two of them exponentially went into 38 00:02:06,920 --> 00:02:09,880 Speaker 1: another stratosphere, just in different industries. He she was his 39 00:02:09,919 --> 00:02:11,880 Speaker 1: plus one in fashion the first year at the met Ball. 40 00:02:11,919 --> 00:02:13,960 Speaker 1: The next year she I guess was invited in her 41 00:02:13,960 --> 00:02:17,840 Speaker 1: own right. His Yeazys went off the charts. I mean, 42 00:02:17,880 --> 00:02:21,720 Speaker 1: it all just was an exponential success. But this is 43 00:02:21,880 --> 00:02:25,280 Speaker 1: reminding people of how she started and people are you know, 44 00:02:25,480 --> 00:02:28,880 Speaker 1: saying and thinking that you know she her her father 45 00:02:28,960 --> 00:02:31,239 Speaker 1: was a big time lawyer who was representing O J. 46 00:02:31,400 --> 00:02:33,320 Speaker 1: And she grew up with these famous people and Beverly 47 00:02:33,400 --> 00:02:36,040 Speaker 1: Hills and was cleaning up the closets of Paris, Hilton 48 00:02:36,120 --> 00:02:38,239 Speaker 1: and things like that. So when people don't bring this 49 00:02:38,280 --> 00:02:40,480 Speaker 1: stuff up, and people don't go back to the original, 50 00:02:41,200 --> 00:02:46,040 Speaker 1: uh source of of wealth and fame. But when comments 51 00:02:46,080 --> 00:02:49,040 Speaker 1: like this are made, it provokes people. And it's provoking 52 00:02:49,240 --> 00:02:53,080 Speaker 1: moms and women. And it's also not only during a 53 00:02:53,120 --> 00:02:58,400 Speaker 1: worldwide pandemic where people's salaries have have have drastically been affected. 54 00:02:58,480 --> 00:03:02,440 Speaker 1: Not everybody has an e commerce platform. Not everybody can 55 00:03:02,480 --> 00:03:06,440 Speaker 1: become you know, very very wealthy and make multibillions, make 56 00:03:06,480 --> 00:03:09,680 Speaker 1: billions of dollars because their business is about e commerce 57 00:03:09,680 --> 00:03:12,840 Speaker 1: when everyone's sitting home on their ass, so a lot 58 00:03:12,840 --> 00:03:15,640 Speaker 1: of women are buying skims to put on their asses 59 00:03:15,720 --> 00:03:19,160 Speaker 1: and buying lip glass to put on their lips. So 60 00:03:19,720 --> 00:03:23,000 Speaker 1: those are the women who have been unemployed for the 61 00:03:23,040 --> 00:03:25,720 Speaker 1: past two years. And I just think this hit a 62 00:03:25,840 --> 00:03:29,519 Speaker 1: nerve because of the vortex of where this whole conversation lives. 63 00:03:30,200 --> 00:03:32,920 Speaker 1: In addition to this being a worldwide pandemic, and there 64 00:03:32,919 --> 00:03:35,600 Speaker 1: have been so many different disasters. There have been issues 65 00:03:35,600 --> 00:03:38,840 Speaker 1: in Haiti and disasters in New Orleans and crazy stuff 66 00:03:38,880 --> 00:03:41,960 Speaker 1: going on the world. There is an actual war in Ukraate. 67 00:03:42,440 --> 00:03:47,240 Speaker 1: Children's hospitals with maternity wards are being bombed. Two million 68 00:03:47,360 --> 00:03:50,880 Speaker 1: and counting refugees in a mass exodus. It is the 69 00:03:50,960 --> 00:03:54,240 Speaker 1: largest humanitarian crisis since World War Two. Because if you 70 00:03:54,280 --> 00:03:56,040 Speaker 1: put your hands in front of your eyes, it doesn't 71 00:03:56,040 --> 00:03:59,960 Speaker 1: mean it's not there. So it can be soul crushing 72 00:04:00,040 --> 00:04:02,240 Speaker 1: and you're watching the news and it's repetitive and it's 73 00:04:02,280 --> 00:04:04,960 Speaker 1: the same misery over and over, but it's happening to 74 00:04:05,000 --> 00:04:08,440 Speaker 1: individuals and human beings. But also the war in Ukraine 75 00:04:08,880 --> 00:04:12,040 Speaker 1: is a woman's war. Women are going back in and 76 00:04:12,160 --> 00:04:15,480 Speaker 1: fighting and the women are women are warriors and fighting 77 00:04:15,480 --> 00:04:19,080 Speaker 1: their own war because women have had to be an 78 00:04:19,080 --> 00:04:23,400 Speaker 1: a mass exodus. Like really, think about this, You have nothing. 79 00:04:23,520 --> 00:04:25,800 Speaker 1: You have this little suitcase. You have a child or 80 00:04:25,880 --> 00:04:29,279 Speaker 1: multiple children, because I am sending multiple children with these 81 00:04:29,320 --> 00:04:32,720 Speaker 1: mothers to other countries, to Africa, to Spain, all over 82 00:04:32,720 --> 00:04:35,520 Speaker 1: the world. Think about your house. You may be poor, 83 00:04:35,560 --> 00:04:37,559 Speaker 1: you may be rich, It doesn't matter. You have a house, 84 00:04:37,640 --> 00:04:39,320 Speaker 1: maybe you have an apartment, you have somewhere to live, 85 00:04:39,320 --> 00:04:41,360 Speaker 1: you're staying on a friend's couch, whatever it is, whatever 86 00:04:41,400 --> 00:04:45,360 Speaker 1: your circumstances. Picture yourself. You are told there's a fire drill, 87 00:04:45,520 --> 00:04:48,240 Speaker 1: but guess what, You're never coming back. Your house is 88 00:04:48,240 --> 00:04:50,520 Speaker 1: burned to the ground. Oh and by the way, it's 89 00:04:50,600 --> 00:04:52,920 Speaker 1: zero degrees outside. You're gonna walk outside and you're gonna 90 00:04:53,000 --> 00:04:57,200 Speaker 1: breathe smoke because it's freezing out. So you're holding your kids. 91 00:04:57,600 --> 00:05:01,200 Speaker 1: They have nothing, nothing to entertain them, a walking miles 92 00:05:01,279 --> 00:05:03,279 Speaker 1: and miles in the same shoes. Where they go into 93 00:05:03,279 --> 00:05:06,599 Speaker 1: the bathroom, where are they bathing? Think about what you 94 00:05:06,600 --> 00:05:08,320 Speaker 1: feel like when you've been in an airport for eight 95 00:05:08,360 --> 00:05:12,760 Speaker 1: hours times a million. These people are leaving their homes forever. 96 00:05:12,920 --> 00:05:14,640 Speaker 1: They can't get money out of the a t M. 97 00:05:14,680 --> 00:05:16,880 Speaker 1: They're walking out of an old life with a small 98 00:05:16,920 --> 00:05:19,880 Speaker 1: suitcase and children who have no idea what their future 99 00:05:19,920 --> 00:05:22,240 Speaker 1: will be. Why they're being put through this torture. They 100 00:05:22,320 --> 00:05:25,000 Speaker 1: were just born in a different country at a different time, 101 00:05:25,400 --> 00:05:28,480 Speaker 1: with a madman coming in and deciding you're all evicted 102 00:05:28,520 --> 00:05:31,240 Speaker 1: from your life. So right now, these are all women. 103 00:05:31,279 --> 00:05:35,240 Speaker 1: These are warriors, walking miles and going on trains, planes, 104 00:05:35,320 --> 00:05:39,039 Speaker 1: automobiles with their kids, leaving strollers. They have nothing, they 105 00:05:39,080 --> 00:05:44,760 Speaker 1: can't carry anything with them, bleeding feet, injuries, illnesses, you allergy, 106 00:05:44,839 --> 00:05:48,880 Speaker 1: medication doesn't matter, diabetes, insulin, where you getting it. It's 107 00:05:48,880 --> 00:05:51,400 Speaker 1: a nightmare. Okay, Mommy, I don't want to go. I 108 00:05:51,440 --> 00:05:52,880 Speaker 1: don't want to go. Mommy, I don't want to go. 109 00:05:52,920 --> 00:05:54,960 Speaker 1: Think about when your kid doesn't want to go, you know, 110 00:05:54,960 --> 00:05:56,680 Speaker 1: getting the car to go to the mall, or when 111 00:05:56,680 --> 00:05:58,839 Speaker 1: they're cold outside you you have to walk. They have 112 00:05:58,839 --> 00:06:01,000 Speaker 1: to walk miles. And I'm so passionate about this, so 113 00:06:01,320 --> 00:06:05,159 Speaker 1: it's not coming at the best time. So these women 114 00:06:05,279 --> 00:06:08,440 Speaker 1: are warriors. This is something that affects all of us 115 00:06:08,520 --> 00:06:11,280 Speaker 1: in in in inspiration. We if we if something is 116 00:06:11,320 --> 00:06:13,279 Speaker 1: to be taken away from us, would we fight for it? 117 00:06:13,520 --> 00:06:17,000 Speaker 1: Would I with a daughter, would I, you know, pick 118 00:06:17,080 --> 00:06:19,560 Speaker 1: up a firearm? Would I just bolt and leave America? 119 00:06:19,680 --> 00:06:22,320 Speaker 1: I mean, maybe you know I would be one of 120 00:06:22,360 --> 00:06:23,960 Speaker 1: the refugees. I have a daughter. I don't think I'd 121 00:06:23,960 --> 00:06:25,360 Speaker 1: be sitting with her in the house with a gun. 122 00:06:25,440 --> 00:06:29,400 Speaker 1: But like I applaud and admire these people fighting for 123 00:06:29,440 --> 00:06:31,880 Speaker 1: their country and when they talk about women joining the fight, 124 00:06:31,920 --> 00:06:34,960 Speaker 1: I think, do they have kids, you know? And I guess, 125 00:06:35,080 --> 00:06:37,480 Speaker 1: God forbid that something happens, they'll tell their kids, will 126 00:06:37,520 --> 00:06:39,320 Speaker 1: know that they died for their country. But you know, 127 00:06:39,440 --> 00:06:41,960 Speaker 1: I don't know where that line is. And it's crazy 128 00:06:42,000 --> 00:06:45,520 Speaker 1: the stories that you're hearing people going back into Ukraine 129 00:06:46,480 --> 00:06:51,800 Speaker 1: to to fight people who, um, maybe aren't from Ukraine, 130 00:06:51,839 --> 00:06:54,039 Speaker 1: but we're living there. This guy said it best on 131 00:06:54,080 --> 00:06:57,840 Speaker 1: the on the Internet, on the Internet, on the world 132 00:06:57,920 --> 00:07:00,760 Speaker 1: Wide Web. He said, you don't don't leave your friends 133 00:07:00,760 --> 00:07:03,839 Speaker 1: in a fight. So it's this whole concept about people 134 00:07:03,920 --> 00:07:06,239 Speaker 1: down the street. You see a fight down the streets, 135 00:07:06,240 --> 00:07:09,560 Speaker 1: someone's holding someone, a good point in a deli, don't 136 00:07:09,560 --> 00:07:12,160 Speaker 1: walk away. And they've done so many of those TV 137 00:07:12,280 --> 00:07:14,560 Speaker 1: specials where they've showed that most people walk away. So 138 00:07:14,680 --> 00:07:31,000 Speaker 1: would you walk away? A very serious question. I find 139 00:07:31,000 --> 00:07:33,800 Speaker 1: myself having to control myself because of how many people 140 00:07:33,920 --> 00:07:38,760 Speaker 1: don't even realize it's going on, so many superficial postings 141 00:07:38,840 --> 00:07:42,960 Speaker 1: and fashion Week, Oh god, thank god it's fashion Week 142 00:07:43,080 --> 00:07:47,000 Speaker 1: talking about things that are so absolutely important. Um. And 143 00:07:47,040 --> 00:07:49,000 Speaker 1: I'm one of those people who's a little grouchy about it. 144 00:07:49,000 --> 00:07:50,600 Speaker 1: I'm a little angry about it. I mean, maybe it's 145 00:07:50,840 --> 00:07:53,720 Speaker 1: because I'm so invested, but like, what the actual fuck 146 00:07:54,000 --> 00:07:59,600 Speaker 1: who cares? I mean, I'm so invested obviously in Pete 147 00:07:59,680 --> 00:08:03,040 Speaker 1: David Sin and and and and Kanye West. It's so 148 00:08:03,240 --> 00:08:07,800 Speaker 1: absolutely significant and important. It's as important as Fashion Week 149 00:08:07,840 --> 00:08:12,120 Speaker 1: to hear what Kanye West thinks again about his ex 150 00:08:12,200 --> 00:08:16,320 Speaker 1: wife's new boyfriend. How do we balance that need for 151 00:08:16,400 --> 00:08:21,200 Speaker 1: some superficiality and and and shopping and cooking and laughter 152 00:08:21,520 --> 00:08:26,960 Speaker 1: and comic relief and being totally tone deaf. I mean, 153 00:08:27,200 --> 00:08:29,720 Speaker 1: last week, I think Kim Kardashian posted a picture of 154 00:08:29,720 --> 00:08:31,680 Speaker 1: herself by a car. I think she's wearing a latex 155 00:08:31,720 --> 00:08:34,520 Speaker 1: outfit and she was by a car with dozens of 156 00:08:34,640 --> 00:08:38,280 Speaker 1: product and luxury goods bags because she's doing a giveaway, 157 00:08:38,360 --> 00:08:41,720 Speaker 1: like a big giveaway that you know, these people pay celebrities. 158 00:08:41,920 --> 00:08:43,920 Speaker 1: For the record, I've been asked to post these giveaway 159 00:08:43,960 --> 00:08:46,000 Speaker 1: posts and I haven't done it because I just feel like, 160 00:08:46,640 --> 00:08:50,040 Speaker 1: I don't know, it just feels a little Publishers sweep 161 00:08:50,080 --> 00:08:52,800 Speaker 1: steaks and just me holding a bunch of luxury bags. 162 00:08:53,000 --> 00:08:55,400 Speaker 1: It's a little cringe to me. But doing that in 163 00:08:55,440 --> 00:08:59,240 Speaker 1: the middle of a war, um and I could tell 164 00:08:59,280 --> 00:09:01,440 Speaker 1: you this that if I posted myself next to a 165 00:09:01,480 --> 00:09:03,840 Speaker 1: car with a bunch of shopping bags, it'd be bye bye, 166 00:09:04,360 --> 00:09:06,920 Speaker 1: bye bye Bethany by by be Strong by Bye Career 167 00:09:06,960 --> 00:09:09,480 Speaker 1: by by podcast. I would be canceled like that. Some 168 00:09:09,520 --> 00:09:14,079 Speaker 1: people sort of are less cancellable than others. Sometimes I've 169 00:09:14,120 --> 00:09:16,000 Speaker 1: seen I've seen this in the house I have. Sometimes 170 00:09:16,040 --> 00:09:19,200 Speaker 1: someone is so insufferable and does so many things that 171 00:09:19,240 --> 00:09:21,160 Speaker 1: are so wrong all the time that it all cancels 172 00:09:21,200 --> 00:09:23,840 Speaker 1: each other out. Like you could just do something horrible 173 00:09:23,880 --> 00:09:25,880 Speaker 1: because the bar on the things that you normally do 174 00:09:25,960 --> 00:09:29,360 Speaker 1: are so terrible that you can't get canceled. And sometimes 175 00:09:29,400 --> 00:09:32,200 Speaker 1: people are too big to fail. Kanye West does things 176 00:09:32,240 --> 00:09:35,520 Speaker 1: every day that people find to be so horribly offensive 177 00:09:35,520 --> 00:09:38,680 Speaker 1: that they should be cancellable, but he just doesn't get canceled. 178 00:09:38,760 --> 00:09:40,560 Speaker 1: Or he is a group that really likes that level 179 00:09:40,640 --> 00:09:44,760 Speaker 1: of um, you know, hostility. Maybe people can relate to that. 180 00:09:45,040 --> 00:09:48,240 Speaker 1: But I would certainly i'd be canceled if I posted 181 00:09:48,240 --> 00:09:49,840 Speaker 1: myself with a bunch of shopping bags. I can tell 182 00:09:49,840 --> 00:09:51,480 Speaker 1: you that would be over if I posted myself with 183 00:09:51,520 --> 00:09:53,200 Speaker 1: one bag. If I went upstairs and took one of 184 00:09:53,200 --> 00:09:56,840 Speaker 1: my expensive handbags and posted it and tagged it and said, God, 185 00:09:56,880 --> 00:09:59,200 Speaker 1: I'm a bag addict or I love this bag. I 186 00:09:59,240 --> 00:10:03,079 Speaker 1: think would be kind of over so um, I don't know. 187 00:10:03,480 --> 00:10:05,600 Speaker 1: And I guess some people don't really care, Like if 188 00:10:05,640 --> 00:10:08,040 Speaker 1: it's not paying their rent, if it doesn't affect their lives, 189 00:10:08,280 --> 00:10:10,880 Speaker 1: if they've got Instagram posts to post, they're just gonna 190 00:10:10,920 --> 00:10:12,640 Speaker 1: do it. I mean, I could tell you that I am. 191 00:10:12,920 --> 00:10:15,199 Speaker 1: I have to go on HSN and so my clothes. 192 00:10:15,200 --> 00:10:17,640 Speaker 1: I have a contract with you know, my partners and 193 00:10:17,679 --> 00:10:21,080 Speaker 1: with them, and you go on sometimes once a month, 194 00:10:21,080 --> 00:10:22,880 Speaker 1: and it's a t S and it starts at twelve 195 00:10:22,960 --> 00:10:26,480 Speaker 1: midnight until two thirty in the morning. Now, when I 196 00:10:26,520 --> 00:10:27,959 Speaker 1: signed on to do this one, I didn't know I'd 197 00:10:27,960 --> 00:10:30,720 Speaker 1: been knee deep in a relief effort. So I woke 198 00:10:30,800 --> 00:10:32,800 Speaker 1: up this morning thinking, oh my god, I can't believe 199 00:10:32,800 --> 00:10:34,679 Speaker 1: I'm gonna be uptil to thirty in the morning and 200 00:10:34,679 --> 00:10:38,240 Speaker 1: then do this all over again tomorrow. But it's a commitment. Um, 201 00:10:38,280 --> 00:10:40,839 Speaker 1: so I and and I don't feel great about it, 202 00:10:40,840 --> 00:10:42,480 Speaker 1: and I have to find a way to discuss what's 203 00:10:42,520 --> 00:10:44,560 Speaker 1: going on in the world while I do it. But 204 00:10:44,640 --> 00:10:47,319 Speaker 1: I feel like we have to at least be conscious 205 00:10:47,360 --> 00:10:49,760 Speaker 1: of what's going on and not in like that fake way. 206 00:10:50,000 --> 00:10:51,520 Speaker 1: I hate these people that are like sort of just 207 00:10:51,559 --> 00:10:54,880 Speaker 1: throwing it in like, Hi, here's my superficiality. But I 208 00:10:54,920 --> 00:10:58,840 Speaker 1: just threw in a little like you know, obligatory Ukraine 209 00:10:58,880 --> 00:11:01,600 Speaker 1: flag just to pretend that I care. Prayers and thoughts. 210 00:11:02,040 --> 00:11:04,520 Speaker 1: Prayers and thoughts are not putting those one point seven 211 00:11:04,559 --> 00:11:07,880 Speaker 1: million refugees in a home. So I think I'm a 212 00:11:07,920 --> 00:11:10,679 Speaker 1: little You do get a little affected by this work, 213 00:11:10,760 --> 00:11:13,960 Speaker 1: and it does, um make you less tolerant. Maybe that's 214 00:11:13,960 --> 00:11:16,120 Speaker 1: not even positive. I don't know. You're just getting such 215 00:11:16,160 --> 00:11:18,760 Speaker 1: business mode and you just are only talking to people 216 00:11:18,760 --> 00:11:22,880 Speaker 1: who care about this matter. And you know, the Kardashians 217 00:11:22,880 --> 00:11:26,080 Speaker 1: have inspired people because you know, they've made a lot 218 00:11:26,080 --> 00:11:29,640 Speaker 1: of they've made a lot of money and and um, 219 00:11:29,679 --> 00:11:32,880 Speaker 1: and so that is absolutely they're running a business, They're 220 00:11:32,920 --> 00:11:35,760 Speaker 1: running an empire. We have supported this business in the 221 00:11:35,800 --> 00:11:41,080 Speaker 1: media and in the products. So, um, that's something if 222 00:11:41,120 --> 00:11:43,040 Speaker 1: you're a business person and you want to go get it. 223 00:11:43,320 --> 00:11:46,160 Speaker 1: You know, that's something that that you may look up to. Um. 224 00:11:46,160 --> 00:11:49,280 Speaker 1: They've spent a lot of time and effort working and 225 00:11:49,480 --> 00:11:53,200 Speaker 1: to make themselves more and more successful. And make more 226 00:11:53,360 --> 00:11:59,560 Speaker 1: and more money. Um, And I think that also, money, 227 00:11:59,679 --> 00:12:01,840 Speaker 1: you know, can be addictive. You want more and you 228 00:12:01,920 --> 00:12:03,880 Speaker 1: need to have more, to wear more, to show people 229 00:12:03,880 --> 00:12:06,120 Speaker 1: what you have to do more, and it's a it's 230 00:12:06,120 --> 00:12:08,720 Speaker 1: a it's a vicious cycle in a way. For the record, 231 00:12:09,080 --> 00:12:12,480 Speaker 1: I don't know the Kardashians. Well. I've met Courtney. She's 232 00:12:12,480 --> 00:12:14,720 Speaker 1: been nice. Chloe is very always been very sweet to me. 233 00:12:14,880 --> 00:12:18,080 Speaker 1: I've met Kim Um a couple of times and she's 234 00:12:18,080 --> 00:12:20,440 Speaker 1: always been nice. It's been, hasn't been, It hasn't been years, 235 00:12:20,440 --> 00:12:23,680 Speaker 1: and it's truth be told, if I'm being honest. Because 236 00:12:23,679 --> 00:12:26,440 Speaker 1: I've met them, it feels unusual to talk about them. 237 00:12:26,440 --> 00:12:28,840 Speaker 1: We don't have a relationship, we don't speak, they don't 238 00:12:28,880 --> 00:12:31,400 Speaker 1: you know. I've invited them a few of them on 239 00:12:31,440 --> 00:12:33,480 Speaker 1: the show. But it's hard to talk about people that 240 00:12:33,520 --> 00:12:35,959 Speaker 1: you've met. But it's hard to not talk about people 241 00:12:35,960 --> 00:12:38,240 Speaker 1: that are so prevalent in society. So sometimes I feel 242 00:12:38,240 --> 00:12:41,120 Speaker 1: a conflict of interest because there's something I want to discuss. 243 00:12:41,600 --> 00:12:43,360 Speaker 1: But I do know them and I know people in 244 00:12:43,440 --> 00:12:45,880 Speaker 1: common with them, so uh And a lot of people 245 00:12:45,920 --> 00:12:48,920 Speaker 1: are afraid to talk about the Kardashians because they have 246 00:12:49,080 --> 00:12:52,400 Speaker 1: such a tremendous power. They've built this power where the 247 00:12:52,480 --> 00:12:54,880 Speaker 1: media is scared to talk about them because then they'll 248 00:12:54,920 --> 00:12:58,120 Speaker 1: say you're a black ball. So um, I don't know 249 00:12:58,200 --> 00:13:01,400 Speaker 1: that this Kim Kardashian comment will go away very quickly. 250 00:13:01,480 --> 00:13:03,520 Speaker 1: I think that I think that's going to leave a mark. 251 00:13:03,600 --> 00:13:06,319 Speaker 1: I think that's certain. You know, other members of the 252 00:13:06,360 --> 00:13:09,880 Speaker 1: Kardashian family will have other massive events and makeups and 253 00:13:09,920 --> 00:13:12,480 Speaker 1: breakups and babies and launches and a lot of other 254 00:13:12,520 --> 00:13:16,079 Speaker 1: things that will happen in amazing photographs that will be 255 00:13:16,120 --> 00:13:18,440 Speaker 1: put up that will distract from this. And I'm sure 256 00:13:18,480 --> 00:13:21,600 Speaker 1: the Kardashians will make a big donation to some philanthropic 257 00:13:21,720 --> 00:13:24,880 Speaker 1: organization or some women's organization, and something great will happen 258 00:13:24,960 --> 00:13:27,720 Speaker 1: to come of this comment. Uh, if you want to 259 00:13:27,760 --> 00:13:30,720 Speaker 1: donate to be strong the Kardashians, I'm here to accept 260 00:13:30,720 --> 00:13:33,760 Speaker 1: your money. We are we are raising one million dollars 261 00:13:33,760 --> 00:13:38,160 Speaker 1: a day on the average to help women and children relocate. 262 00:13:38,240 --> 00:13:41,880 Speaker 1: These are refugees in horrible, horrible mass X. It is 263 00:13:42,280 --> 00:13:45,560 Speaker 1: we have not seen this in our entire lifetime. I 264 00:13:45,679 --> 00:13:48,040 Speaker 1: choose to talk about things that I think are an 265 00:13:48,040 --> 00:13:50,880 Speaker 1: important conversation, even if it might not be that popular, 266 00:13:51,080 --> 00:13:53,040 Speaker 1: even if I know people in common and have met them, 267 00:13:53,040 --> 00:13:56,040 Speaker 1: because I do think the conversations are important, and I 268 00:13:56,080 --> 00:13:58,520 Speaker 1: can't cower and be afraid. You know, I have to 269 00:13:58,520 --> 00:14:01,360 Speaker 1: say things, and I do um choose my words wisely, 270 00:14:01,679 --> 00:14:04,160 Speaker 1: and I want to say that this I just happened 271 00:14:04,200 --> 00:14:06,120 Speaker 1: to think about my book Businesses Personal. I wrote it 272 00:14:06,160 --> 00:14:09,120 Speaker 1: months ago. That's my dedication. This book is dedicated to 273 00:14:09,160 --> 00:14:11,840 Speaker 1: strong women. We are the rock and the glue, beautiful 274 00:14:11,880 --> 00:14:14,320 Speaker 1: on the inside and outside, and often just trying to 275 00:14:14,320 --> 00:14:17,920 Speaker 1: hold it together. Motherhood is hard, work is hard. Nothing 276 00:14:17,920 --> 00:14:23,680 Speaker 1: good comes easy. So we work endlessly on our careers, families, homes, friendships, relationships, 277 00:14:23,680 --> 00:14:27,880 Speaker 1: and sometimes, last but not least, on ourselves. We are fierce. 278 00:14:28,200 --> 00:14:30,320 Speaker 1: We muster strength when we really think we have no 279 00:14:30,400 --> 00:14:32,240 Speaker 1: more to give. We try to do good in the 280 00:14:32,240 --> 00:14:36,200 Speaker 1: world and in our personal lives while attempting to look decent, exercise, 281 00:14:36,280 --> 00:14:39,280 Speaker 1: be intimate, get a good night's sleep, and find spiritual 282 00:14:39,320 --> 00:14:46,960 Speaker 1: meaning in our lives. I've learned about relationships, parenting, sex, miscarriages, philanthropy, politics, entertainment, family, 283 00:14:46,960 --> 00:14:48,840 Speaker 1: and the right thing to do from women. We have 284 00:14:48,960 --> 00:14:50,680 Speaker 1: been on this mission together and we have a good 285 00:14:50,720 --> 00:14:53,640 Speaker 1: part of this crazy journey left. I celebrate women and 286 00:14:53,680 --> 00:14:55,920 Speaker 1: our ability to come from a place of yes and 287 00:14:55,960 --> 00:14:59,080 Speaker 1: simply keep going under any and all circumstances. We are 288 00:14:59,120 --> 00:15:02,080 Speaker 1: the ultimate mo detaskers. Thank you for giving me the 289 00:15:02,160 --> 00:15:05,480 Speaker 1: inspiration to write this book. I write for myself, for you, 290 00:15:05,680 --> 00:15:08,080 Speaker 1: for my precious, beautiful daughter, and for all the wonderful 291 00:15:08,080 --> 00:15:10,840 Speaker 1: women in the world. X O, b These are important conversations, 292 00:15:10,880 --> 00:15:12,320 Speaker 1: so let me know what you have to say. Thanks. 293 00:15:15,040 --> 00:15:18,200 Speaker 1: Just Be is hosted by me, Bethany Franklin. Just Be 294 00:15:18,320 --> 00:15:21,360 Speaker 1: as a production of the Real productions I Heart Radio 295 00:15:21,440 --> 00:15:25,760 Speaker 1: and Blue Duck Media. 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