1 00:00:04,240 --> 00:00:07,840 Speaker 1: Hey, everybody, welcome back to the Battleground Podcast. Today we 2 00:00:07,920 --> 00:00:12,239 Speaker 1: have an incredible, incredible guest. Also timely. I'm sure you've 3 00:00:12,240 --> 00:00:14,960 Speaker 1: seen the success of the movie The Sound of Freedom, 4 00:00:15,040 --> 00:00:17,239 Speaker 1: which had beat Indiana Jones at the box office a 5 00:00:17,280 --> 00:00:20,680 Speaker 1: couple of weeks ago. Absolutely incredible movie that brings a 6 00:00:20,720 --> 00:00:23,599 Speaker 1: ton of attention to child traffic, child trafficking. 7 00:00:24,440 --> 00:00:27,480 Speaker 2: It amazes me. You know how this just misses people. 8 00:00:27,640 --> 00:00:29,800 Speaker 1: People either don't pay attention to it, they don't want 9 00:00:29,800 --> 00:00:31,720 Speaker 1: to pay attention to it, They turn a blind eye. 10 00:00:32,600 --> 00:00:36,080 Speaker 1: But today we've got a guy I've known for a 11 00:00:36,240 --> 00:00:39,879 Speaker 1: very very long time. Actually, his name is Jeff James. 12 00:00:40,000 --> 00:00:43,960 Speaker 1: Jeff is a Secret Service agent. For over twenty years, 13 00:00:44,240 --> 00:00:47,720 Speaker 1: he protected US presidents and he was also the Secret 14 00:00:47,760 --> 00:00:51,680 Speaker 1: Service liaison for the National Center for Missing and Exploited Children. 15 00:00:51,720 --> 00:00:54,160 Speaker 1: And again, this is why I say this episode so timely. 16 00:01:01,200 --> 00:01:05,120 Speaker 1: So Jeff, welcome to the show man. I'm so grateful 17 00:01:05,120 --> 00:01:05,800 Speaker 1: to have you here. 18 00:01:06,160 --> 00:01:07,760 Speaker 3: Oh, thank you, Sean, and honored to be here. 19 00:01:08,920 --> 00:01:12,760 Speaker 1: So so we were talking in the virtual studio before 20 00:01:12,840 --> 00:01:16,200 Speaker 1: getting on that you were actually I don't know if 21 00:01:16,240 --> 00:01:18,720 Speaker 1: you were a gym teacher at Frankin Regional High School 22 00:01:18,720 --> 00:01:21,000 Speaker 1: and West. We're both from western Pennsylvania. But you were 23 00:01:21,000 --> 00:01:24,160 Speaker 1: a teacher and we all called you Coach James. And 24 00:01:24,200 --> 00:01:25,040 Speaker 1: I was in sixth grade. 25 00:01:25,520 --> 00:01:28,960 Speaker 3: Yeah, I was actually teaching English and in the middle 26 00:01:28,959 --> 00:01:32,039 Speaker 3: school in high school and I was coaching football. So 27 00:01:32,040 --> 00:01:36,679 Speaker 3: so yeah, and yeah, the the way our past crossed 28 00:01:36,720 --> 00:01:38,840 Speaker 3: and then didn't cross again until you know, you went 29 00:01:38,880 --> 00:01:41,160 Speaker 3: on to the Army and had your illustrious career, and 30 00:01:41,200 --> 00:01:45,000 Speaker 3: then you came to a speaking event for the clarin 31 00:01:45,080 --> 00:01:48,040 Speaker 3: alumni and we re engaged there and that was, geez, 32 00:01:48,720 --> 00:01:53,240 Speaker 3: that was probably in twenty ten. Maybe, yeah, it was, 33 00:01:53,440 --> 00:01:54,280 Speaker 3: it was a while ago. 34 00:01:54,880 --> 00:01:58,600 Speaker 1: Well, it's just just so crazy, how small of a 35 00:01:58,680 --> 00:02:02,200 Speaker 1: world in this this crazy place that we live in now. Yes, 36 00:02:03,160 --> 00:02:06,840 Speaker 1: and I just feel like even back when I was 37 00:02:06,840 --> 00:02:10,400 Speaker 1: in sixth grade, I remember, even as a student, people 38 00:02:10,480 --> 00:02:13,320 Speaker 1: talking about, well, coach James, he wants to join the 39 00:02:13,360 --> 00:02:15,280 Speaker 1: Secret Service. And this is probably I mean, you didn't 40 00:02:15,320 --> 00:02:17,560 Speaker 1: join until ninety six, so sixth grade. I mean I 41 00:02:18,120 --> 00:02:21,680 Speaker 1: was a freshman in nineteen ninety six. So tell, can 42 00:02:21,720 --> 00:02:26,600 Speaker 1: you give give me a sense of of why where 43 00:02:26,600 --> 00:02:29,480 Speaker 1: did this desire to join the US Secret Service come from? 44 00:02:29,800 --> 00:02:30,120 Speaker 2: Yeah? 45 00:02:30,160 --> 00:02:33,639 Speaker 3: So, you know, I feel first that I have to 46 00:02:33,680 --> 00:02:36,000 Speaker 3: say I'm blessed and fortunate that all I ever wanted 47 00:02:36,000 --> 00:02:38,320 Speaker 3: to do growing up was either be a teacher or 48 00:02:38,360 --> 00:02:41,200 Speaker 3: be a cop, and I've been blessed to do both. 49 00:02:41,320 --> 00:02:43,560 Speaker 3: You know, I've I taught high school for six years 50 00:02:43,560 --> 00:02:46,400 Speaker 3: there at Franklin, and then you know, the opportunity came 51 00:02:46,480 --> 00:02:49,959 Speaker 3: up through through an acquaintance who was in the Secret Service, 52 00:02:49,960 --> 00:02:51,440 Speaker 3: who put the bug in my ear and said, hey, 53 00:02:51,440 --> 00:02:55,160 Speaker 3: why don't you think about applying? And you know, initially 54 00:02:55,240 --> 00:02:56,760 Speaker 3: I was, you know, I said, you know, I don't 55 00:02:56,800 --> 00:02:59,160 Speaker 3: have a law enforcement or military background that you know, 56 00:02:59,160 --> 00:03:00,960 Speaker 3: I'm not what they're looking for. But you know what 57 00:03:01,000 --> 00:03:04,280 Speaker 3: I know now is, you know, the Secret Service once 58 00:03:04,560 --> 00:03:09,400 Speaker 3: an intentionally diverse workforce, not just you know, male, female, black, white, 59 00:03:09,400 --> 00:03:12,560 Speaker 3: but people from all backgrounds because we deal with people 60 00:03:12,639 --> 00:03:16,280 Speaker 3: from all backgrounds, so you know, we want we want 61 00:03:16,280 --> 00:03:21,160 Speaker 3: people who are not just culturally diverse, but experience wise diverse. 62 00:03:22,880 --> 00:03:25,480 Speaker 3: So at that time, you know, everything was still snail male, 63 00:03:25,520 --> 00:03:29,560 Speaker 3: and everything took a lot longer. So yeah, it probably 64 00:03:29,639 --> 00:03:31,560 Speaker 3: was when you were in sixth grade when my when 65 00:03:31,600 --> 00:03:36,280 Speaker 3: my experience first publications started, But it took about a 66 00:03:36,320 --> 00:03:38,720 Speaker 3: full year and a half from my first application to 67 00:03:38,840 --> 00:03:41,320 Speaker 3: when they called me and said and said, we'd like 68 00:03:41,360 --> 00:03:43,840 Speaker 3: you to report for training. And the funny story to 69 00:03:43,920 --> 00:03:47,120 Speaker 3: that too was it was August and we were on 70 00:03:47,160 --> 00:03:48,960 Speaker 3: our second day of in services. We used to have 71 00:03:49,000 --> 00:03:51,120 Speaker 3: three days of in service days for teachers before the 72 00:03:51,160 --> 00:03:53,840 Speaker 3: kids came. And on the second day of in service 73 00:03:53,880 --> 00:03:57,400 Speaker 3: they called me and said, hey, you report September thirtieth. 74 00:03:58,120 --> 00:03:59,560 Speaker 3: So I had to go in and tell the boss 75 00:03:59,560 --> 00:04:01,680 Speaker 3: on the second and they have in services that that 76 00:04:01,720 --> 00:04:04,440 Speaker 3: I was leaving in a couple of weeks. But they 77 00:04:04,440 --> 00:04:08,040 Speaker 3: were able to replace me pretty easily. But yeah, that's how, 78 00:04:08,160 --> 00:04:11,040 Speaker 3: that's how that, you know, happened, just you know, just 79 00:04:11,080 --> 00:04:14,240 Speaker 3: a desire I had to you know, that an opportunity 80 00:04:14,280 --> 00:04:17,880 Speaker 3: came along that that really I never would have never 81 00:04:17,920 --> 00:04:19,960 Speaker 3: would have dreamed of and took the leap because there 82 00:04:20,040 --> 00:04:22,599 Speaker 3: was still a chance, you know, I'm leaving a teaching job, 83 00:04:22,800 --> 00:04:26,360 Speaker 3: a good job, still a chance that you know, if 84 00:04:26,360 --> 00:04:29,200 Speaker 3: something went wrong in training and I didn't pass that 85 00:04:29,279 --> 00:04:32,239 Speaker 3: I was going to come back unemployed and be looking 86 00:04:32,279 --> 00:04:35,880 Speaker 3: for looking for another job. But you know, again, blessed 87 00:04:35,880 --> 00:04:39,040 Speaker 3: and fortunate to get through, get through the training and 88 00:04:39,800 --> 00:04:41,479 Speaker 3: you know, and serve twenty two years. 89 00:04:41,520 --> 00:04:45,800 Speaker 1: So well, tell me about that. Tell me first about 90 00:04:45,839 --> 00:04:48,800 Speaker 1: the risk, because that that is a real risk. In 91 00:04:48,839 --> 00:04:53,000 Speaker 1: Western Pennsylvania, well in Pennsylvania in general, getting a teaching job, 92 00:04:53,080 --> 00:04:56,880 Speaker 1: especially at a place like Franklin Regional, is very very 93 00:04:57,200 --> 00:05:01,360 Speaker 1: very difficult and super competitive. Something times people wait years 94 00:05:01,440 --> 00:05:03,960 Speaker 1: or they'll sub for years before they can get So 95 00:05:04,360 --> 00:05:06,919 Speaker 1: there must have been something driving. You must have really 96 00:05:06,960 --> 00:05:10,680 Speaker 1: wanted to do this and be willing to risk. You know, 97 00:05:11,440 --> 00:05:16,440 Speaker 1: what's a great a great career, one that's obviously fulfilling, 98 00:05:17,600 --> 00:05:19,240 Speaker 1: to serve something greater than yourself. 99 00:05:19,960 --> 00:05:23,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, And and it was just that, just an opportunity 100 00:05:23,800 --> 00:05:27,080 Speaker 3: that was too good to pass up. That was really 101 00:05:27,120 --> 00:05:29,159 Speaker 3: it was worth rolling the dice over. And it's a 102 00:05:29,160 --> 00:05:32,719 Speaker 3: lot different now. You know, teachers are like nurses and 103 00:05:32,720 --> 00:05:35,360 Speaker 3: cops right there. They're in such dire need right now. 104 00:05:35,440 --> 00:05:38,640 Speaker 3: But back then, you know, the state universities were putting 105 00:05:38,640 --> 00:05:41,720 Speaker 3: out fifteen hundred teachers a year and it was cut through. 106 00:05:41,800 --> 00:05:44,280 Speaker 3: Everybody was moving south. You know, if you go to 107 00:05:44,360 --> 00:05:47,520 Speaker 3: Virginia and Florida, there's a slew of slew of teachers 108 00:05:47,520 --> 00:05:50,760 Speaker 3: who graduated from Claren in Edinburgh and iup that all 109 00:05:50,880 --> 00:05:54,080 Speaker 3: went south for jobs in that time. But you know, 110 00:05:54,120 --> 00:05:56,359 Speaker 3: even my dad said to me. You know, my dad, 111 00:05:57,440 --> 00:05:59,560 Speaker 3: you know, got out of high school and went to 112 00:05:59,560 --> 00:06:01,800 Speaker 3: work for you steal and never looked back. And he 113 00:06:01,920 --> 00:06:04,120 Speaker 3: was that generation where you were loyal and you worked 114 00:06:04,120 --> 00:06:07,680 Speaker 3: one job your whole life. And I remember him saying 115 00:06:07,720 --> 00:06:09,560 Speaker 3: to me, you know, you're twenty nine, are you sure 116 00:06:09,560 --> 00:06:12,240 Speaker 3: you want to do this? I'm like, I hope I'm 117 00:06:12,240 --> 00:06:17,440 Speaker 3: going to live past you know, forty. But but yeah, 118 00:06:17,480 --> 00:06:20,880 Speaker 3: it was. It was a risk in it, and it 119 00:06:20,920 --> 00:06:23,160 Speaker 3: worked out for me. But I got to be honest 120 00:06:23,200 --> 00:06:27,080 Speaker 3: with you, I was going to do it regardless. You know, 121 00:06:27,360 --> 00:06:29,440 Speaker 3: it was certainly worth the chance to take. 122 00:06:29,560 --> 00:06:32,840 Speaker 1: So, I mean, it's clearly something that you know, when 123 00:06:32,880 --> 00:06:36,520 Speaker 1: we have these opportunities presented to us in life, it's something, 124 00:06:36,920 --> 00:06:41,039 Speaker 1: at least for me, I've known when something unique presents 125 00:06:41,040 --> 00:06:44,560 Speaker 1: itself because oftentimes we wonder, I mean, at least, I 126 00:06:44,600 --> 00:06:46,679 Speaker 1: do you know, am I on the right path? 127 00:06:47,000 --> 00:06:48,200 Speaker 2: What am I supposed to be doing? 128 00:06:48,279 --> 00:06:50,960 Speaker 1: Even if I'm working something that's that's fulfilling and I 129 00:06:51,120 --> 00:06:54,800 Speaker 1: like and I enjoy. And by the way, teaching would 130 00:06:54,800 --> 00:06:56,200 Speaker 1: be one of those things. Being in front of a 131 00:06:56,240 --> 00:07:00,960 Speaker 1: classroom teaching kids would be would be awesome, But there's 132 00:07:00,960 --> 00:07:04,159 Speaker 1: always something deep within the recesses of myself or even 133 00:07:04,200 --> 00:07:06,120 Speaker 1: my soul, where I feel like this is what I'm 134 00:07:06,160 --> 00:07:09,520 Speaker 1: meant to do. And it sounds like it sounds like 135 00:07:09,520 --> 00:07:12,040 Speaker 1: the US Secret Service was something like that for you. 136 00:07:13,440 --> 00:07:16,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, it was. You know, I studied a lot about 137 00:07:16,920 --> 00:07:22,280 Speaker 3: it before I even applied, and you know, getting an 138 00:07:22,560 --> 00:07:24,960 Speaker 3: because everybody knows the Secret Service, how they protect the president, 139 00:07:25,080 --> 00:07:29,280 Speaker 3: vice president, but getting a whole look at the entire mission, 140 00:07:29,480 --> 00:07:34,400 Speaker 3: you know, what my career might look like, what what 141 00:07:34,480 --> 00:07:36,400 Speaker 3: twenty years down the road might look like, what ten 142 00:07:36,480 --> 00:07:38,720 Speaker 3: years down the road might look like. Because I'll be 143 00:07:38,760 --> 00:07:44,520 Speaker 3: honest with you, it's it's not something that's for everybody. 144 00:07:44,760 --> 00:07:44,880 Speaker 2: You know. 145 00:07:44,920 --> 00:07:46,840 Speaker 3: I'll have friends who reach out to me and say, hey, 146 00:07:46,880 --> 00:07:49,920 Speaker 3: I know this kid who you know, great kid thinks 147 00:07:49,920 --> 00:07:51,400 Speaker 3: he might want to go into the Secret Service. And 148 00:07:51,400 --> 00:07:54,560 Speaker 3: I'll have a conversation with him about it, and they'll 149 00:07:54,600 --> 00:07:56,520 Speaker 3: say something like, well, you know, I really don't want 150 00:07:56,520 --> 00:08:00,560 Speaker 3: to relocate or you know, really really want them, I 151 00:08:00,560 --> 00:08:03,120 Speaker 3: really don't want to travel, and I'm frank with him 152 00:08:03,160 --> 00:08:05,120 Speaker 3: about because one of the best things that happened for 153 00:08:05,600 --> 00:08:09,080 Speaker 3: me was the people who eventually on the job became 154 00:08:09,120 --> 00:08:11,800 Speaker 3: my mentors as I was going through the hiring process, 155 00:08:11,840 --> 00:08:14,600 Speaker 3: were just very honest with me about, hey, you're going 156 00:08:14,640 --> 00:08:20,120 Speaker 3: to miss birthdays and the anniversaries and holidays for lack 157 00:08:20,160 --> 00:08:22,200 Speaker 3: of a better term, you jettison a lot of your 158 00:08:22,280 --> 00:08:26,560 Speaker 3: freedom because it's such a small number of people to 159 00:08:26,560 --> 00:08:31,120 Speaker 3: to dedicated to this mission and we're plugging play right 160 00:08:31,440 --> 00:08:34,920 Speaker 3: Like Jean gets sick, somebody has to fill a spot. 161 00:08:36,600 --> 00:08:40,040 Speaker 3: So it was you know, a good good amount of 162 00:08:40,040 --> 00:08:42,800 Speaker 3: short notice travel, a good amount of travel where I 163 00:08:42,920 --> 00:08:45,760 Speaker 3: was gone for you know, there was several times in 164 00:08:45,800 --> 00:08:47,319 Speaker 3: my career where I was gone for well over a 165 00:08:47,400 --> 00:08:53,120 Speaker 3: month and it's just it's it's really not not for everyone. 166 00:08:53,240 --> 00:08:56,559 Speaker 3: And you know, again blessed and fortunate that I married 167 00:08:56,559 --> 00:09:01,240 Speaker 3: a gal who was very independent. Could you know, if 168 00:09:01,280 --> 00:09:03,000 Speaker 3: a pipe broke in the house, she knew exactly what 169 00:09:03,080 --> 00:09:05,199 Speaker 3: to do, you know, not to fix it herself necessarily, 170 00:09:05,240 --> 00:09:06,920 Speaker 3: but you know who to call to get it fixed. 171 00:09:07,440 --> 00:09:10,800 Speaker 3: And I saw I saw men and women that I 172 00:09:10,840 --> 00:09:13,680 Speaker 3: worked with struggle with that on the other end, that 173 00:09:13,679 --> 00:09:17,600 Speaker 3: that you know, maybe had a spouse that wasn't as 174 00:09:19,000 --> 00:09:21,520 Speaker 3: as independent, and they were, you know, on the road 175 00:09:21,559 --> 00:09:24,880 Speaker 3: constantly worried about what was going on back home, and 176 00:09:24,880 --> 00:09:28,480 Speaker 3: and that created another stressor for them that that can work, 177 00:09:28,559 --> 00:09:30,480 Speaker 3: that can really wear it down. The personal stuff will 178 00:09:30,520 --> 00:09:32,440 Speaker 3: worried out more than the professional stuff, for sure. 179 00:09:33,760 --> 00:09:34,840 Speaker 2: It's it's so true. 180 00:09:35,000 --> 00:09:37,760 Speaker 1: I mean, when I was in Afghanistan, I wasn't married, 181 00:09:37,800 --> 00:09:39,400 Speaker 1: and I look back on that time and I think 182 00:09:39,440 --> 00:09:42,480 Speaker 1: I'm glad I wasn't you know it would be It 183 00:09:42,480 --> 00:09:46,640 Speaker 1: would have been so tough on a relationship, even tougher 184 00:09:46,640 --> 00:09:49,880 Speaker 1: on the kids. But you it's it's what you did 185 00:09:49,960 --> 00:09:51,839 Speaker 1: in the Secret Service is not dis similar to what 186 00:09:52,280 --> 00:09:54,040 Speaker 1: men and women in uniform do all the time in 187 00:09:54,120 --> 00:09:58,079 Speaker 1: terms of sacrificing their freedom for a job to serve 188 00:09:58,480 --> 00:10:03,559 Speaker 1: this country at so, Jeff, what was it like, because 189 00:10:03,559 --> 00:10:05,040 Speaker 1: you said it took a full year and a half 190 00:10:05,120 --> 00:10:07,360 Speaker 1: from the time you filled out that application until you 191 00:10:07,360 --> 00:10:08,920 Speaker 1: got did you till you got the call? 192 00:10:09,520 --> 00:10:11,920 Speaker 2: Did you think that they were ever going to call? 193 00:10:12,080 --> 00:10:13,800 Speaker 2: And what was it like when you got the call 194 00:10:13,880 --> 00:10:14,719 Speaker 2: that you were good to go? 195 00:10:15,559 --> 00:10:18,400 Speaker 3: Well it? You know, they give you little indicators that 196 00:10:18,400 --> 00:10:20,960 Speaker 3: you're getting close, Like I remember they sent me for 197 00:10:21,000 --> 00:10:22,800 Speaker 3: a physical. I had to go to the federal building 198 00:10:22,840 --> 00:10:26,640 Speaker 3: in downtown Pittsburgh for a physical, and the nurse said 199 00:10:26,679 --> 00:10:29,080 Speaker 3: to me, well, when do you report for training? And 200 00:10:29,120 --> 00:10:31,720 Speaker 3: I said, oh, I'm not even close to that yet, 201 00:10:32,800 --> 00:10:35,560 Speaker 3: and she goes, I don't know, and she pointed to 202 00:10:35,600 --> 00:10:37,040 Speaker 3: the top of the forum and the top of the 203 00:10:37,080 --> 00:10:40,920 Speaker 3: forum said pre employment physical. And that's when I realized, 204 00:10:40,920 --> 00:10:44,719 Speaker 3: Holy crap, I better I better go pull up and 205 00:10:46,240 --> 00:10:49,960 Speaker 3: get ready for this. And the only step left after 206 00:10:50,000 --> 00:10:53,679 Speaker 3: that for me was the polygraph examination, and you know, 207 00:10:53,800 --> 00:10:57,040 Speaker 3: fortunately I passed that, and but that was still probably 208 00:10:58,280 --> 00:11:00,959 Speaker 3: six months prior to them actually calling and saying you're 209 00:11:01,000 --> 00:11:03,200 Speaker 3: good to go. It's you know, it's it's about an 210 00:11:03,200 --> 00:11:06,959 Speaker 3: eight step process, the application process of you know, it's 211 00:11:06,960 --> 00:11:10,240 Speaker 3: a couple of interviews in front of single agents and 212 00:11:10,280 --> 00:11:15,280 Speaker 3: panels of agents. You'll do. What they didn't do with 213 00:11:15,440 --> 00:11:18,240 Speaker 3: me that they do now is a pre employment PT test. 214 00:11:19,200 --> 00:11:21,000 Speaker 3: Back then, you didn't do it. You did your first 215 00:11:21,000 --> 00:11:25,200 Speaker 3: PT test when you when you reported the training. But 216 00:11:25,280 --> 00:11:27,680 Speaker 3: it's the you know, the part that takes the longest 217 00:11:27,679 --> 00:11:30,400 Speaker 3: amount of time is the background investigation. It's pretty extensive, 218 00:11:31,640 --> 00:11:33,240 Speaker 3: and then they do a physical and then the last 219 00:11:33,240 --> 00:11:36,479 Speaker 3: piece of it is the polygraph and the last statistic 220 00:11:36,520 --> 00:11:39,080 Speaker 3: I got from a contact of mine who's still in 221 00:11:39,120 --> 00:11:40,760 Speaker 3: and this was it's a little bit stale because this 222 00:11:40,800 --> 00:11:44,640 Speaker 3: was a Christmas was there was about one person passing 223 00:11:44,840 --> 00:11:48,599 Speaker 3: for every two hundred and forty eight that took the polygraph. 224 00:11:49,480 --> 00:11:51,319 Speaker 2: Here, these are people that passed the polygraph. 225 00:11:51,400 --> 00:11:55,480 Speaker 3: Jeff, No, it's one passes for every two hundred and 226 00:11:55,480 --> 00:11:56,280 Speaker 3: forty eight that take it. 227 00:11:57,000 --> 00:11:59,920 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, so the secrets was crazy. 228 00:12:00,280 --> 00:12:03,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, like like every other law enforcement agency is struggling, 229 00:12:03,920 --> 00:12:06,720 Speaker 3: is struggling to hire, and it's and you know, the 230 00:12:06,760 --> 00:12:09,360 Speaker 3: things they ask you are the things they want to 231 00:12:09,400 --> 00:12:11,839 Speaker 3: make sure of is you know, we're not hiring a spy, 232 00:12:12,000 --> 00:12:14,760 Speaker 3: We're not hiring the next Robert Hanson. They want to 233 00:12:14,760 --> 00:12:19,640 Speaker 3: make sure you're not extortable. So if you know, if 234 00:12:19,920 --> 00:12:22,439 Speaker 3: I'm into if I'm in deep to some guy in 235 00:12:22,480 --> 00:12:24,960 Speaker 3: the mafia, because I can't stop betting on the Steelers, 236 00:12:25,040 --> 00:12:27,840 Speaker 3: right Like, they want to make sure I'm not extortable. 237 00:12:28,720 --> 00:12:30,800 Speaker 3: They ask you about drug history, they ask you about 238 00:12:31,040 --> 00:12:33,800 Speaker 3: criminal history. They just ask you, did you ever come 239 00:12:33,840 --> 00:12:38,400 Speaker 3: into crime that you didn't get arrested for. And there 240 00:12:38,480 --> 00:12:40,439 Speaker 3: was a time in my career when I was at 241 00:12:40,440 --> 00:12:42,880 Speaker 3: the National Center where I was working very closely with 242 00:12:42,920 --> 00:12:46,240 Speaker 3: our polygraph examiners, and one of them told me that 243 00:12:46,320 --> 00:12:51,480 Speaker 3: he had he's had applicants admit to everything from arson 244 00:12:51,520 --> 00:12:57,440 Speaker 3: to child molestation. Now, the results of a polygraph aren't 245 00:12:57,440 --> 00:13:00,280 Speaker 3: admissible in court, but anything you admit during it is. 246 00:13:00,760 --> 00:13:03,120 Speaker 3: That's why the first thing they do before they give 247 00:13:03,120 --> 00:13:05,719 Speaker 3: you the polygraph is they read you your rights. You're 248 00:13:05,760 --> 00:13:13,720 Speaker 3: mirandized before you take a polygraph, because that, yeah, if 249 00:13:13,760 --> 00:13:16,840 Speaker 3: you admit to something bad enough, we're going to say, hey, 250 00:13:16,920 --> 00:13:19,720 Speaker 3: you know, do you have an unsolved arson from Yeah, okay, 251 00:13:19,720 --> 00:13:21,720 Speaker 3: we think we might have your guy. And you know 252 00:13:21,760 --> 00:13:25,640 Speaker 3: we're still law enforcement, we still still have the obligation 253 00:13:25,679 --> 00:13:29,400 Speaker 3: to do that. Yeah. So the so the passage rate 254 00:13:29,520 --> 00:13:32,720 Speaker 3: is is tough and and very frankly, it should be like, 255 00:13:32,760 --> 00:13:35,040 Speaker 3: there are these things that should be hard to do, right. 256 00:13:35,080 --> 00:13:37,600 Speaker 3: It should be hard to be a pilot and fly 257 00:13:38,160 --> 00:13:39,880 Speaker 3: you know, hundreds of souls all over the country. It 258 00:13:39,880 --> 00:13:42,440 Speaker 3: should be hard to be a surgeon, uh, And it 259 00:13:42,480 --> 00:13:45,000 Speaker 3: should be hard to be not just a secret service age, 260 00:13:45,080 --> 00:13:46,560 Speaker 3: but it should be hard to be in law enforcement 261 00:13:46,640 --> 00:13:49,440 Speaker 3: in any at any point. You know, when when you 262 00:13:49,480 --> 00:13:52,199 Speaker 3: were when you have the capability on your hip every 263 00:13:52,240 --> 00:13:54,880 Speaker 3: day to use deadly force. You know, we should make 264 00:13:54,880 --> 00:13:57,080 Speaker 3: sure we're bringing people on who are making good decisions 265 00:13:57,080 --> 00:13:59,800 Speaker 3: and who are dedicated to training and who are one 266 00:13:59,800 --> 00:14:02,440 Speaker 3: of masters in their craft, just like that surgeon would be. 267 00:14:04,160 --> 00:14:07,320 Speaker 3: So it is tough. As tough as it is on 268 00:14:07,360 --> 00:14:10,400 Speaker 3: the existing manpower to be shorthanded all the time, it 269 00:14:10,880 --> 00:14:12,600 Speaker 3: should be tough to bring new people on. 270 00:14:13,480 --> 00:14:16,160 Speaker 1: Well, I mean, can you imagine why, why do you 271 00:14:16,480 --> 00:14:21,000 Speaker 1: why would people volunteer to serve in the US Secret 272 00:14:21,040 --> 00:14:25,040 Speaker 1: Service if if they, you know, committed arson there or 273 00:14:25,800 --> 00:14:28,200 Speaker 1: child molestation or something horrific like that. 274 00:14:29,080 --> 00:14:31,640 Speaker 3: And well, I'll tell you an even better story, the 275 00:14:31,720 --> 00:14:34,360 Speaker 3: story that so when you sign up for a tour 276 00:14:34,560 --> 00:14:37,320 Speaker 3: of the White House, which I know you've done, you 277 00:14:37,480 --> 00:14:41,160 Speaker 3: give your name, data, barso security number. We would have 278 00:14:41,200 --> 00:14:43,120 Speaker 3: people show up for tours at the White House who 279 00:14:43,160 --> 00:14:49,440 Speaker 3: had active warrants, and we we would contact the jurisdiction 280 00:14:49,560 --> 00:14:51,600 Speaker 3: that had the warrant for them and just say, hey, 281 00:14:51,600 --> 00:14:54,400 Speaker 3: do you want to come get them? And sometimes they'd say, now, 282 00:14:54,440 --> 00:14:57,440 Speaker 3: it's just for traffic, We're not going to come. But 283 00:14:57,640 --> 00:15:00,680 Speaker 3: the one time there was a woman who deserted from 284 00:15:00,680 --> 00:15:04,480 Speaker 3: the United States Army in nineteen seventy four and she 285 00:15:04,600 --> 00:15:07,880 Speaker 3: was coming for a white house tour. She had changed 286 00:15:07,920 --> 00:15:10,760 Speaker 3: her name, you know, been married, changed her name. And 287 00:15:10,800 --> 00:15:16,560 Speaker 3: this was in oh, geez oh five maybe two thousand 288 00:15:16,560 --> 00:15:22,160 Speaker 3: and five, and Army CID came to the gate and 289 00:15:22,560 --> 00:15:24,640 Speaker 3: met her there and took her away, and she said, 290 00:15:24,640 --> 00:15:26,480 Speaker 3: you know, I just figured they stopped looking for me. 291 00:15:28,200 --> 00:15:32,560 Speaker 2: My god. So yeah, so mad, it's crazy. 292 00:15:32,640 --> 00:15:34,480 Speaker 3: And she's there with her husband and her kids who 293 00:15:34,560 --> 00:15:41,000 Speaker 3: never really knew any of that. So yeah, you know, yeah, 294 00:15:41,000 --> 00:15:42,480 Speaker 3: why would you sign for a white house tour? Why 295 00:15:42,480 --> 00:15:45,680 Speaker 3: would you Why would you subject yourself to a polygraph 296 00:15:45,720 --> 00:15:48,880 Speaker 3: and knowing that you had this this criminal history in 297 00:15:48,880 --> 00:15:49,480 Speaker 3: your background? 298 00:15:49,520 --> 00:15:54,840 Speaker 1: So holy cow, what was the trade? So you make it? 299 00:15:54,880 --> 00:15:58,080 Speaker 1: So you passed the polygraph, You start doing doing sit ups, 300 00:15:58,080 --> 00:16:01,400 Speaker 1: push ups, pull ups, whatever ever to get in shape. 301 00:16:01,760 --> 00:16:03,640 Speaker 1: Where tell me about the training? Where do you go? 302 00:16:03,880 --> 00:16:07,840 Speaker 1: I have absolutely it's not you're not going to like Langley, 303 00:16:07,960 --> 00:16:08,880 Speaker 1: obviously you're not. 304 00:16:08,960 --> 00:16:10,960 Speaker 2: I mean what do you do? Where you go? Well? 305 00:16:11,040 --> 00:16:13,320 Speaker 3: So the so basic training is six months long, and 306 00:16:13,360 --> 00:16:16,960 Speaker 3: it's it's split into two three months halves. The first 307 00:16:17,040 --> 00:16:20,080 Speaker 3: three months or at the Federal Law Enforcement Training Center 308 00:16:20,160 --> 00:16:23,920 Speaker 3: either in Glencoe, Georgia, or ar Tisia, New Mexico. I 309 00:16:23,960 --> 00:16:26,920 Speaker 3: went down to Glencoe, and that's where you know, you 310 00:16:26,960 --> 00:16:29,360 Speaker 3: get your base of federal law. You learn about, you know, 311 00:16:29,440 --> 00:16:33,040 Speaker 3: writing a federal search warrant, you learn about the federal 312 00:16:33,120 --> 00:16:37,880 Speaker 3: laws that you'll be you'll be in enforcing overall as 313 00:16:37,880 --> 00:16:41,440 Speaker 3: a federal agent. So it's a lot of classroom. But 314 00:16:41,440 --> 00:16:43,600 Speaker 3: then it's all the stuff you'd also expect from a 315 00:16:43,680 --> 00:16:46,320 Speaker 3: from a from an academy. It's a lot of you know, 316 00:16:46,440 --> 00:16:50,800 Speaker 3: running and jumping and shooting. So after that three months, 317 00:16:52,200 --> 00:16:54,120 Speaker 3: anybody who goes there kind of goes off to their 318 00:16:54,120 --> 00:16:58,880 Speaker 3: own academy. So the Secret Service at Training Center is 319 00:16:58,920 --> 00:17:02,240 Speaker 3: in Beltsville, Maryland. It's about a two hundred and two 320 00:17:02,280 --> 00:17:05,880 Speaker 3: hundred and fifty acre site we have out there and 321 00:17:05,880 --> 00:17:09,280 Speaker 3: that's where we really hone in on our mission. So 322 00:17:09,600 --> 00:17:11,720 Speaker 3: it's a lot of classroom stuff. You know. One of 323 00:17:11,760 --> 00:17:14,919 Speaker 3: the things people might not know about the Secret Services 324 00:17:17,200 --> 00:17:20,280 Speaker 3: that the Secret Service also has the investigative mission of 325 00:17:20,320 --> 00:17:27,160 Speaker 3: securing all all financial obligations, so we chase counterfears. In fact, 326 00:17:27,160 --> 00:17:29,840 Speaker 3: when the Secret Service was established on April fourteenth, eighteen 327 00:17:29,880 --> 00:17:33,480 Speaker 3: sixty five, that was the sole purpose of its establishment 328 00:17:34,240 --> 00:17:38,159 Speaker 3: was to counteract counterfeiting, because about a third of all 329 00:17:38,160 --> 00:17:40,720 Speaker 3: the currency and circulation after the Civil War was fake. 330 00:17:42,000 --> 00:17:45,280 Speaker 3: It was it was putting the economy into a spiral, 331 00:17:45,840 --> 00:17:47,680 Speaker 3: and Abraham Lincoln said, hey, we've got to do something 332 00:17:47,720 --> 00:17:49,879 Speaker 3: to fix it. So he created this new federal la 333 00:17:49,920 --> 00:17:54,320 Speaker 3: enforcement agency called the Secret Service. The twist of historic irony, 334 00:17:54,359 --> 00:17:56,480 Speaker 3: and I know your history buff like I am, is 335 00:17:57,320 --> 00:18:00,000 Speaker 3: you know, the president creates a Secret Service April fourteenth, 336 00:18:00,000 --> 00:18:02,680 Speaker 3: eighteen sixty five, with no intention of there ever being 337 00:18:02,680 --> 00:18:06,240 Speaker 3: presidential protection, and that night he goes to Ford's Theater 338 00:18:06,320 --> 00:18:12,000 Speaker 3: and gets assassinated. So yeah, like you talk about historic 339 00:18:12,560 --> 00:18:16,800 Speaker 3: you know, moments of historic irony. So the Secret Service 340 00:18:16,880 --> 00:18:20,520 Speaker 3: was very successful in some suppressing counterfeiting. In fact, by 341 00:18:20,520 --> 00:18:22,320 Speaker 3: the end of the eighteen sixties they had already put 342 00:18:22,400 --> 00:18:24,320 Speaker 3: thousands of counterfeiters in jail. That's how big of a 343 00:18:24,359 --> 00:18:27,960 Speaker 3: problem it was. But then we jump ahead to eighteen 344 00:18:28,040 --> 00:18:35,440 Speaker 3: eighty one, Charles Guiteau kills President Garfield, and then in 345 00:18:35,520 --> 00:18:37,800 Speaker 3: Night I'm Sorry eighteen and eight, and then in nineteen one, 346 00:18:38,160 --> 00:18:41,920 Speaker 3: Leon Cholgos killed President McKinley, and at that point Congress said, look, 347 00:18:41,920 --> 00:18:44,639 Speaker 3: we need somebody to protect the presidents. The only two 348 00:18:44,680 --> 00:18:46,680 Speaker 3: federal agencies created at the time were the Secret Service 349 00:18:46,720 --> 00:18:51,320 Speaker 3: in the US Marshalls and for whatever reason, from everything 350 00:18:51,359 --> 00:18:53,840 Speaker 3: I find, I can find that historians aren't even actually 351 00:18:53,880 --> 00:18:57,879 Speaker 3: sure why. But Congress handed that responsibility to the Secret Service. 352 00:18:57,960 --> 00:19:01,440 Speaker 3: So after President McKinley was killed than nineteen one, Teddy 353 00:19:01,520 --> 00:19:04,159 Speaker 3: Roosevelt became the first president to get Secret Service protection. 354 00:19:05,080 --> 00:19:06,800 Speaker 3: But that's a dual role. We still have, so we 355 00:19:06,880 --> 00:19:09,159 Speaker 3: still do the protection. That's what everybody knows us for. 356 00:19:09,280 --> 00:19:12,640 Speaker 3: But the other thing is we know we chase counterfeitters. 357 00:19:15,000 --> 00:19:17,480 Speaker 1: Today, I want to talk about something that's been on 358 00:19:17,520 --> 00:19:22,040 Speaker 1: the minds of many Americans lately, energy and dependence. With 359 00:19:22,280 --> 00:19:26,920 Speaker 1: rising energy prices and geopolitical tensions, it's more important than 360 00:19:27,160 --> 00:19:30,679 Speaker 1: ever for our country to be self sufficient when it 361 00:19:30,720 --> 00:19:33,920 Speaker 1: comes to our energy needs. And that's where Deep Well 362 00:19:34,040 --> 00:19:38,840 Speaker 1: Services comes in. They're a company that's not only dedicated 363 00:19:38,880 --> 00:19:42,720 Speaker 1: to delivering top not services to the oil and gas industry, 364 00:19:43,200 --> 00:19:47,160 Speaker 1: but they're also committed to the goal of American energy independence. 365 00:19:47,800 --> 00:19:51,720 Speaker 1: With their cutting edge technology and expert team of professionals, 366 00:19:52,000 --> 00:19:56,199 Speaker 1: they're helping to unlock new sources of domestic energy and 367 00:19:56,280 --> 00:20:00,119 Speaker 1: reduce our dependence on foreign oil. But that's not a 368 00:20:00,960 --> 00:20:05,240 Speaker 1: Deep Well Services is also a great American company that's 369 00:20:05,359 --> 00:20:09,359 Speaker 1: hiring like crazy right now, and they're not just looking 370 00:20:09,400 --> 00:20:13,040 Speaker 1: for anyone if they're seeking out talented and hard working 371 00:20:13,119 --> 00:20:16,360 Speaker 1: individuals who want to join their team and make a difference. 372 00:20:16,680 --> 00:20:20,280 Speaker 1: And with competitive salaries and benefits, it's a great opportunity 373 00:20:20,320 --> 00:20:23,280 Speaker 1: to not only work for a patriotic company, but also 374 00:20:23,440 --> 00:20:27,480 Speaker 1: build a rewarding career in the energy sector. So if 375 00:20:27,520 --> 00:20:30,840 Speaker 1: you're looking for a job with purpose and meaning, or 376 00:20:30,920 --> 00:20:34,359 Speaker 1: if you're simply passionate about American energy independence, then you 377 00:20:34,400 --> 00:20:38,600 Speaker 1: should definitely check out Deep Well Services. Visit their website 378 00:20:38,680 --> 00:20:42,720 Speaker 1: at Deepwellservices dot com to learn more about their company 379 00:20:42,880 --> 00:20:52,120 Speaker 1: and career opportunities. What a walk down history Lane, so 380 00:20:52,160 --> 00:20:55,399 Speaker 1: to speak. I mean, that is a gosh, I didn't 381 00:20:55,400 --> 00:20:59,159 Speaker 1: know that that about Lincoln's assassination and the founding and 382 00:20:59,200 --> 00:21:02,159 Speaker 1: the secret service. That is, you know, fate is not 383 00:21:02,600 --> 00:21:04,680 Speaker 1: without a sense of irony, as they said, I guess, 384 00:21:04,800 --> 00:21:10,000 Speaker 1: but my gosh. I so you're at the second part 385 00:21:10,080 --> 00:21:10,920 Speaker 1: of your training. 386 00:21:11,800 --> 00:21:13,159 Speaker 3: Yeah, And that's the point I was going to make 387 00:21:13,320 --> 00:21:17,000 Speaker 3: was that's that's where we learn about counterfeit, like we 388 00:21:17,119 --> 00:21:20,240 Speaker 3: learn all the properties of genuine currency. 389 00:21:20,000 --> 00:21:23,600 Speaker 1: So tell us about it, because I have genuinely no 390 00:21:23,720 --> 00:21:24,879 Speaker 1: idea about any of this. 391 00:21:25,520 --> 00:21:29,440 Speaker 3: So there's one way genuine currency is printed. And our 392 00:21:29,480 --> 00:21:31,919 Speaker 3: thing is we don't have to know. We don't have 393 00:21:31,960 --> 00:21:34,240 Speaker 3: to be experts on counterfeit because there's hundreds of ways 394 00:21:34,240 --> 00:21:36,600 Speaker 3: to make counterfeit. We just need to be experts on 395 00:21:36,640 --> 00:21:40,600 Speaker 3: genuine currency because anything that's not genuine is by virtue 396 00:21:40,600 --> 00:21:43,720 Speaker 3: of not being genuine counterfeit. Because you can use dot 397 00:21:43,720 --> 00:21:48,000 Speaker 3: matrix printers, you could use you know, typographic prints, however 398 00:21:48,040 --> 00:21:49,840 Speaker 3: you want to make the counterfeit. But there's only one 399 00:21:49,880 --> 00:21:53,120 Speaker 3: way that the genuine currency's made. And we even went 400 00:21:53,200 --> 00:21:57,119 Speaker 3: up to Crane Paper company in Upstate New York that 401 00:21:57,280 --> 00:21:59,840 Speaker 3: makes they make the paper the currencies printed on the 402 00:22:00,119 --> 00:22:02,679 Speaker 3: learned how the paper was made. So we really learned 403 00:22:02,720 --> 00:22:08,080 Speaker 3: every piece of how genuine currency is is how the 404 00:22:08,080 --> 00:22:11,280 Speaker 3: paper's made, how it's printed, how it's cut. Like all 405 00:22:11,280 --> 00:22:14,240 Speaker 3: the little numbers you see on the bills, they all 406 00:22:14,280 --> 00:22:18,320 Speaker 3: have it that denotes to the face plate where it was, 407 00:22:18,359 --> 00:22:21,520 Speaker 3: and those big sheets that get printed, that all tells 408 00:22:21,520 --> 00:22:26,800 Speaker 3: you something about the currency. And then we also learned 409 00:22:26,840 --> 00:22:30,840 Speaker 3: everything about our protective mission, and and and one of 410 00:22:30,840 --> 00:22:32,240 Speaker 3: the things we did. You know, we have a big 411 00:22:32,680 --> 00:22:35,560 Speaker 3: miniature city built out there, so we practice getting attacked 412 00:22:35,600 --> 00:22:39,280 Speaker 3: all the time. And you know, it's it's probably a 413 00:22:39,320 --> 00:22:42,280 Speaker 3: lot not probably not as intense as what you did 414 00:22:42,359 --> 00:22:44,280 Speaker 3: in the army. But the philosophy is, you know, you 415 00:22:44,359 --> 00:22:47,240 Speaker 3: die a thousand times in training, so you can live 416 00:22:47,840 --> 00:22:51,639 Speaker 3: in real life. And they really did. They put us 417 00:22:51,680 --> 00:22:55,960 Speaker 3: in some no win situations so that if it ever 418 00:22:56,520 --> 00:23:00,880 Speaker 3: came the real real ledges going down range, you'd really 419 00:23:00,920 --> 00:23:03,000 Speaker 3: pull back on that. And the best thing I can 420 00:23:03,000 --> 00:23:07,240 Speaker 3: say about the Secret Service is training was a career 421 00:23:07,320 --> 00:23:12,000 Speaker 3: long endeavor. One of the things I could if I 422 00:23:12,040 --> 00:23:15,440 Speaker 3: could waive a WAND in Pennsylvania and change it is 423 00:23:15,480 --> 00:23:18,080 Speaker 3: a police officer in Pennsylvania needs to qualify once a 424 00:23:18,160 --> 00:23:22,359 Speaker 3: year with their weapon, so you can shoot in January 425 00:23:22,440 --> 00:23:26,159 Speaker 3: of twenty twenty three and not technically not have to 426 00:23:26,200 --> 00:23:29,000 Speaker 3: shoot until December of twenty twenty four to be certified 427 00:23:29,000 --> 00:23:30,840 Speaker 3: for those two years, so you can go twenty two 428 00:23:30,880 --> 00:23:35,560 Speaker 3: months without pulling the trigger. I would change that immediately 429 00:23:35,560 --> 00:23:39,199 Speaker 3: if I had the power to change them. And I 430 00:23:39,240 --> 00:23:40,800 Speaker 3: tell the men and women who I work with, now 431 00:23:40,840 --> 00:23:44,040 Speaker 3: you know take practice, Amo, take take all you want. 432 00:23:44,240 --> 00:23:46,439 Speaker 3: You know, I bought a bunch. It's sitting there. I'm 433 00:23:46,440 --> 00:23:48,639 Speaker 3: getting ready to buy more this week and just go 434 00:23:48,680 --> 00:23:52,040 Speaker 3: out and practice. In the Secret Service, when when I 435 00:23:52,080 --> 00:23:54,720 Speaker 3: was in Washington, d C. For eighteen years, we had 436 00:23:54,720 --> 00:23:57,960 Speaker 3: to shoot at least once a month, So we were 437 00:23:58,000 --> 00:24:01,800 Speaker 3: constantly pulling triggers because and you know, it's all that 438 00:24:01,880 --> 00:24:06,040 Speaker 3: muscle memory and repetition, and you know when you're when 439 00:24:06,080 --> 00:24:08,680 Speaker 3: you're getting tunnel vision and your heart's beating, you know 440 00:24:08,840 --> 00:24:11,679 Speaker 3: that that level of training that you're going to fall to, 441 00:24:11,840 --> 00:24:14,040 Speaker 3: we wanted it to be. We want it to be 442 00:24:14,080 --> 00:24:15,080 Speaker 3: as high as possible. 443 00:24:15,280 --> 00:24:18,119 Speaker 1: When so much of what you do is scenario based. 444 00:24:18,200 --> 00:24:20,520 Speaker 1: I mean, if you're not pulling the trigger for twenty 445 00:24:20,520 --> 00:24:22,840 Speaker 1: two months and maybe you're just target shooting, you know, 446 00:24:22,880 --> 00:24:26,439 Speaker 1: if you're qualifying, you're not. I mean there are a 447 00:24:26,520 --> 00:24:30,880 Speaker 1: million different scenarios that could pose a threat to either you, 448 00:24:30,880 --> 00:24:33,880 Speaker 1: your your buddies, you know, somebody that you're trying to protect. 449 00:24:34,400 --> 00:24:36,320 Speaker 1: And if all you've done is shoot a piece of 450 00:24:36,320 --> 00:24:40,240 Speaker 1: paper to qualify, how could you possibly be ready for 451 00:24:40,960 --> 00:24:43,280 Speaker 1: all of the nightmare scenarios that could come your way. 452 00:24:43,640 --> 00:24:51,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, and and look I think you know, the reason 453 00:24:51,320 --> 00:24:54,760 Speaker 3: that bothers me the most isn't because of I'm not 454 00:24:54,800 --> 00:24:56,520 Speaker 3: saying like, oh, I came from a better place. The 455 00:24:56,560 --> 00:24:59,520 Speaker 3: reason it bothers me the most is I want every 456 00:24:59,520 --> 00:25:00,480 Speaker 3: cop that home. 457 00:25:00,280 --> 00:25:02,960 Speaker 2: At night exactly exactly right. 458 00:25:03,440 --> 00:25:06,560 Speaker 3: And you know if if and I tell them, you know, 459 00:25:06,600 --> 00:25:08,440 Speaker 3: I tell anybody who listens to me, you know, take 460 00:25:08,520 --> 00:25:11,000 Speaker 3: training personally because that guy just like you, right, that 461 00:25:11,000 --> 00:25:13,479 Speaker 3: guy wants to kill you, just like you experienced in 462 00:25:13,520 --> 00:25:16,840 Speaker 3: real life in Afghanistan. And if he's three feet away 463 00:25:17,280 --> 00:25:18,840 Speaker 3: or if he's one hundred feet away, are you going 464 00:25:18,880 --> 00:25:20,800 Speaker 3: to be able to put accurate fire on him? Are 465 00:25:20,800 --> 00:25:23,119 Speaker 3: you going to move to cover? Are you going to 466 00:25:23,240 --> 00:25:23,960 Speaker 3: use concealment? 467 00:25:24,040 --> 00:25:24,199 Speaker 1: You know? 468 00:25:24,800 --> 00:25:27,920 Speaker 3: So you know, I they get sick of hearing me 469 00:25:27,960 --> 00:25:30,040 Speaker 3: talk about it. We talk a lot about mental reps 470 00:25:30,080 --> 00:25:32,639 Speaker 3: and dry firing and all these things we can do 471 00:25:33,480 --> 00:25:38,359 Speaker 3: in kind of quiet moments that still get your reflexive 472 00:25:38,400 --> 00:25:42,560 Speaker 3: mind and your reflective mind to come together to put 473 00:25:42,560 --> 00:25:43,520 Speaker 3: you in a better place. 474 00:25:45,320 --> 00:25:45,840 Speaker 2: So I. 475 00:25:47,320 --> 00:25:50,000 Speaker 1: That is so spot on. I couldn't agree more. And 476 00:25:50,040 --> 00:25:53,960 Speaker 1: it's those little things, Jeff, if left unattended in training, 477 00:25:54,000 --> 00:25:58,159 Speaker 1: can come can be very big things, problematic things in 478 00:25:58,200 --> 00:26:03,080 Speaker 1: a real life scenario. And so okay, so take me 479 00:26:03,160 --> 00:26:10,119 Speaker 1: back to I have a question about the currency, is 480 00:26:10,200 --> 00:26:10,879 Speaker 1: the process? 481 00:26:11,119 --> 00:26:12,920 Speaker 2: Is it? Is it known? Is it public? 482 00:26:13,359 --> 00:26:17,879 Speaker 1: Could somebody say could a counterfeitter say, okay, well I 483 00:26:18,000 --> 00:26:20,520 Speaker 1: know where they make the paper, I know how it's cut, 484 00:26:20,600 --> 00:26:23,720 Speaker 1: I know how it's printed. Can't Can someone just do 485 00:26:23,840 --> 00:26:25,560 Speaker 1: the same thing? How would you tell the difference? 486 00:26:28,440 --> 00:26:31,480 Speaker 3: You could if you had enough money. So, making genuine 487 00:26:31,920 --> 00:26:38,000 Speaker 3: counterfeiting genuine currency so that it could pass is going 488 00:26:38,040 --> 00:26:40,359 Speaker 3: to be expensive. And one of the things we found 489 00:26:40,520 --> 00:26:46,200 Speaker 3: is stay sponsored counterfeiting of these other countries trying to 490 00:26:46,240 --> 00:26:51,000 Speaker 3: infiltrate our economy with counterfeit currency because they know it'll 491 00:26:51,040 --> 00:26:56,280 Speaker 3: weaken the dollar. You know, specifically, there was a note 492 00:26:56,320 --> 00:26:58,399 Speaker 3: that was coming out of North Korea that got dubbed 493 00:26:58,440 --> 00:27:01,000 Speaker 3: the supernote. It was so good and it was one 494 00:27:01,040 --> 00:27:06,800 Speaker 3: hundred counterfit hundred dollars bill and but it's it's essentially 495 00:27:06,840 --> 00:27:10,240 Speaker 3: state sponsored, a state sponsored terror attack on our economy 496 00:27:10,520 --> 00:27:11,119 Speaker 3: is what it was. 497 00:27:12,760 --> 00:27:15,880 Speaker 2: For you, I've never heard this is never in the news. 498 00:27:16,119 --> 00:27:19,240 Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, it's crazy. How do how does North 499 00:27:19,320 --> 00:27:21,880 Speaker 1: Korea get something like that? How is it shipped here? 500 00:27:21,920 --> 00:27:24,280 Speaker 1: How do they how do they get that get well, 501 00:27:24,600 --> 00:27:26,240 Speaker 1: those hundred dollars bills here? 502 00:27:26,480 --> 00:27:29,639 Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean you can whatever comes over in courier 503 00:27:29,760 --> 00:27:39,680 Speaker 3: bags to two embassies and ah yeah, consulates. I'm sorry, 504 00:27:39,680 --> 00:27:44,520 Speaker 3: I couldn't think of that word. It's okay, isn't isn't 505 00:27:44,560 --> 00:27:47,000 Speaker 3: searched like they they bring it over and it just 506 00:27:47,000 --> 00:27:49,640 Speaker 3: like our stuff that goes overseas to our embassies and consulates, 507 00:27:49,680 --> 00:27:51,560 Speaker 3: you know, they do. Those countries do the courtesy of 508 00:27:51,640 --> 00:27:54,680 Speaker 3: not you know, going in our bags and stuff like that. 509 00:27:54,800 --> 00:27:58,359 Speaker 3: So that's that's probably how it gets over here. And 510 00:27:58,400 --> 00:28:01,320 Speaker 3: then it's given to you know, they're operatives who are 511 00:28:01,320 --> 00:28:03,639 Speaker 3: here on the ground, and it's it's distributed. Look, it 512 00:28:03,680 --> 00:28:07,840 Speaker 3: never gets to the point where it's going to They can't. 513 00:28:08,119 --> 00:28:10,840 Speaker 3: That's too small of a ding to truly damage our 514 00:28:11,400 --> 00:28:16,199 Speaker 3: our economy. But it is. It is state sponsored, a 515 00:28:16,240 --> 00:28:18,720 Speaker 3: state sponsored terror attack, just like I said, on our economy. 516 00:28:19,920 --> 00:28:23,040 Speaker 3: You know, it's wow. And just to give you some 517 00:28:23,080 --> 00:28:26,000 Speaker 3: real numbers, and again these are a little bit stale, 518 00:28:26,000 --> 00:28:30,000 Speaker 3: but the last numbers I got were the three big cities, 519 00:28:31,080 --> 00:28:34,320 Speaker 3: New York, Miami, and Los Angeles. Those three cities taken 520 00:28:34,359 --> 00:28:37,000 Speaker 3: about one hundred thousand dollars a week in in counterfeit currency. 521 00:28:37,040 --> 00:28:39,440 Speaker 3: So just those three cities alone account for fifteen million 522 00:28:39,440 --> 00:28:43,360 Speaker 3: dollars a year in counterfeit Western Pennsylvania. The last statistic 523 00:28:43,400 --> 00:28:46,200 Speaker 3: I got was that it was about seven thousand dollars 524 00:28:46,280 --> 00:28:51,040 Speaker 3: a week in counterfeit. So it's still a substantial enough problem, 525 00:28:51,320 --> 00:28:53,080 Speaker 3: like you would think in twenty twenty three, who's still 526 00:28:53,080 --> 00:28:56,080 Speaker 3: going to try to make fake money? But it's still 527 00:28:56,120 --> 00:28:58,320 Speaker 3: substantial enough that we need to. When I say we, 528 00:28:58,440 --> 00:29:01,160 Speaker 3: I mean that the Secret Service needs to eas to 529 00:29:01,240 --> 00:29:02,520 Speaker 3: chase it down, and they. 530 00:29:02,480 --> 00:29:06,280 Speaker 1: Do that once it's in circulation, Jeff, I mean, for 531 00:29:06,360 --> 00:29:09,240 Speaker 1: all I know, I don't, but I mean I could. 532 00:29:09,320 --> 00:29:12,040 Speaker 1: How would I know if something that's so good, how 533 00:29:12,040 --> 00:29:16,000 Speaker 1: do you how do you hold people accountable for spending 534 00:29:16,000 --> 00:29:18,280 Speaker 1: counterfeit money and once it's in circulation that they might 535 00:29:18,320 --> 00:29:20,040 Speaker 1: not know is even counterfeit when they have it. 536 00:29:20,440 --> 00:29:22,840 Speaker 3: Yeah, we would get that and and and it's you 537 00:29:22,960 --> 00:29:25,680 Speaker 3: just figure that out through your investigation. So you know 538 00:29:25,840 --> 00:29:29,120 Speaker 3: how say a bad guy goes to Target with three 539 00:29:29,160 --> 00:29:32,960 Speaker 3: fake twenties excuse me, and they you know, they give 540 00:29:32,960 --> 00:29:34,680 Speaker 3: it to the cashier and then you come in with 541 00:29:34,720 --> 00:29:36,960 Speaker 3: one hundred dollars bill that's genuine, and they give you 542 00:29:36,960 --> 00:29:40,280 Speaker 3: those three twenties back. Then your next stop is I 543 00:29:40,320 --> 00:29:44,320 Speaker 3: don't know, a seven to eleven and they catch it. 544 00:29:45,520 --> 00:29:47,600 Speaker 3: You know, the local police are going to come. You know, 545 00:29:47,640 --> 00:29:49,920 Speaker 3: they're going to detain you. We're going to come and 546 00:29:49,960 --> 00:29:51,800 Speaker 3: talk to you. And look, it's going to be a 547 00:29:51,800 --> 00:29:53,000 Speaker 3: miserable four. 548 00:29:52,800 --> 00:29:55,800 Speaker 2: Hours for yeah, I mean that would suck. That would 549 00:29:55,840 --> 00:29:58,800 Speaker 2: Can you imagine that would suck so badly? That would 550 00:29:58,840 --> 00:29:59,840 Speaker 2: be terrible. 551 00:30:00,560 --> 00:30:02,280 Speaker 3: While we figure it out. But you know, we're gonna 552 00:30:02,280 --> 00:30:05,680 Speaker 3: look at you know, because we track every note because 553 00:30:05,720 --> 00:30:09,040 Speaker 3: here's the thing. Counterfeiters. While some of them are very good, 554 00:30:09,040 --> 00:30:11,479 Speaker 3: they're also lazy, right, they're not changing a lot of 555 00:30:11,520 --> 00:30:14,240 Speaker 3: serial numbers. So we'll say, all right, this serial number 556 00:30:14,240 --> 00:30:17,560 Speaker 3: has been seen from the Carolina is up through New York, 557 00:30:18,200 --> 00:30:19,880 Speaker 3: and we look at your travel and we sorry, we 558 00:30:20,200 --> 00:30:23,920 Speaker 3: know Sean hasn't left western Pennsylvania in the last six months, 559 00:30:24,240 --> 00:30:27,600 Speaker 3: so we know you're probably not out there distributing kinterfit currency. 560 00:30:28,360 --> 00:30:30,160 Speaker 3: You know, you're going to be out sixty bucks, And 561 00:30:30,880 --> 00:30:32,360 Speaker 3: like I said, it's going to be a miserable twenty 562 00:30:32,360 --> 00:30:36,640 Speaker 3: four hours while we background a little bit. But but yeah, 563 00:30:36,680 --> 00:30:39,120 Speaker 3: that good people get stuck with bad money once. Unfortunately, 564 00:30:39,200 --> 00:30:42,479 Speaker 3: and I'll tell you I feel worse for is. You know, 565 00:30:43,120 --> 00:30:45,200 Speaker 3: somebody goes in, like I said, to Target. You know, 566 00:30:45,800 --> 00:30:48,560 Speaker 3: Target's a big company. They're gonna they're gonna charge two 567 00:30:48,600 --> 00:30:51,160 Speaker 3: cents more for shampoo and cereal and stuff like that. 568 00:30:51,360 --> 00:30:53,800 Speaker 3: But you got a mom and pop store, you know, 569 00:30:53,800 --> 00:30:57,560 Speaker 3: where they're trying to pay insurance, rent employees. You know, 570 00:30:57,600 --> 00:30:59,440 Speaker 3: they get defrauded a couple times a month out of 571 00:30:59,440 --> 00:31:01,280 Speaker 3: a couple hundred bucks, and that can that can be 572 00:31:01,320 --> 00:31:06,320 Speaker 3: significant to a small business owner. So that's where that's 573 00:31:06,320 --> 00:31:09,520 Speaker 3: where I'm glad we were we were aggressive about it 574 00:31:09,560 --> 00:31:12,480 Speaker 3: was to really help the merchants who were getting defrauded. 575 00:31:13,240 --> 00:31:17,560 Speaker 1: Well I'm I'm like so fascinated by this, and you're right. 576 00:31:17,840 --> 00:31:20,400 Speaker 1: That was My next question was about small businesses. You know, 577 00:31:20,520 --> 00:31:22,840 Speaker 1: some of the larger corporations can probably handle it, or 578 00:31:22,880 --> 00:31:26,400 Speaker 1: they have insurance to cover themselves or whatever. You know, 579 00:31:26,440 --> 00:31:28,600 Speaker 1: it's probably spent one hundred million dollars a year on 580 00:31:28,720 --> 00:31:29,680 Speaker 1: lawyers alone to. 581 00:31:29,600 --> 00:31:30,840 Speaker 2: Help them deal with stuff like this. 582 00:31:31,040 --> 00:31:33,560 Speaker 1: But you know, there are lots of small businesses and 583 00:31:33,640 --> 00:31:35,880 Speaker 1: you know all over this country. In fact, that's the 584 00:31:35,920 --> 00:31:39,080 Speaker 1: backbone of our economy is the American small business. And 585 00:31:39,560 --> 00:31:41,200 Speaker 1: you know you're right, a few hundred bucks a month, 586 00:31:41,200 --> 00:31:44,240 Speaker 1: this counterfeit that adds up very very quickly to some 587 00:31:44,280 --> 00:31:46,920 Speaker 1: of these people who especially if you're just starting out 588 00:31:46,960 --> 00:31:48,960 Speaker 1: in the first two or three years of your small business, 589 00:31:49,000 --> 00:31:50,880 Speaker 1: you're not you aren't making a profit, you're not in 590 00:31:50,960 --> 00:31:53,920 Speaker 1: the black yet, So I mean, that could be something 591 00:31:53,960 --> 00:31:57,160 Speaker 1: that make or breaks you. And what's crazy to me 592 00:31:57,280 --> 00:32:00,960 Speaker 1: is that I never, and I mean never hear about 593 00:32:00,960 --> 00:32:02,960 Speaker 1: this stuff on the news. I don't think I've ever 594 00:32:03,080 --> 00:32:08,840 Speaker 1: heard of a counterfeit story, counterfeit money story on any 595 00:32:08,840 --> 00:32:10,720 Speaker 1: of the national media and any of the blocks in 596 00:32:10,760 --> 00:32:12,080 Speaker 1: the last fifteen years. 597 00:32:12,080 --> 00:32:13,680 Speaker 2: Maybe I'm just not paying attention, but. 598 00:32:13,800 --> 00:32:15,920 Speaker 3: Well, if you google it, you'd find it. Probably the 599 00:32:16,000 --> 00:32:19,640 Speaker 3: last big story you'd see was and I'm guessing maybe 600 00:32:20,600 --> 00:32:23,720 Speaker 3: three or four years ago, the Secret Service actually reopened 601 00:32:23,760 --> 00:32:27,400 Speaker 3: its office in Peru because the influx of counterfeit coming 602 00:32:27,400 --> 00:32:30,840 Speaker 3: from Peru was starting to be significant, and they had 603 00:32:30,840 --> 00:32:32,880 Speaker 3: a pretty big seizure down there. I think they seized 604 00:32:32,880 --> 00:32:36,960 Speaker 3: twenty million dollars in counterfeit US currency. So that was 605 00:32:37,000 --> 00:32:39,840 Speaker 3: a big win, not just for the Secret Service but 606 00:32:39,880 --> 00:32:43,560 Speaker 3: for you know, for the United States in all and 607 00:32:43,560 --> 00:32:47,440 Speaker 3: and we're fortunate too that the you know, the government 608 00:32:47,520 --> 00:32:50,400 Speaker 3: down there is cooperative and finding helping us find these people, 609 00:32:50,440 --> 00:32:52,760 Speaker 3: and they're you know, putting them in jail where you 610 00:32:52,760 --> 00:32:56,479 Speaker 3: get some parts of the world where you know, they 611 00:32:56,840 --> 00:32:58,840 Speaker 3: wouldn't let us touch one of their citizens, and even 612 00:32:58,840 --> 00:33:00,320 Speaker 3: if we knew who it was, they were going to 613 00:33:00,360 --> 00:33:03,440 Speaker 3: do anything to them. So wow, So at least at 614 00:33:03,480 --> 00:33:05,560 Speaker 3: least the provins were cooperative with us. 615 00:33:05,960 --> 00:33:09,160 Speaker 1: Well, yeah, it's just something that most Americans aren't even 616 00:33:09,320 --> 00:33:11,640 Speaker 1: I mean, you always hear somebody that might be carrying 617 00:33:11,680 --> 00:33:15,960 Speaker 1: a counterfeit twenty or something. But i've it makes sense 618 00:33:16,000 --> 00:33:18,800 Speaker 1: when you say it. You know that other state sponsored 619 00:33:18,960 --> 00:33:22,960 Speaker 1: bad actors would do something like this to attack our economy, 620 00:33:22,960 --> 00:33:24,800 Speaker 1: and it makes you wonder, you know, of course there 621 00:33:24,880 --> 00:33:27,600 Speaker 1: we're always under threat of cyber attack. Of course, our 622 00:33:27,640 --> 00:33:30,080 Speaker 1: elections are always under threat from foreign entity to try 623 00:33:30,160 --> 00:33:34,720 Speaker 1: to undermine us. It's like this country is under attack 624 00:33:35,400 --> 00:33:39,120 Speaker 1: from our enemies almost every single day, and most Americans 625 00:33:39,160 --> 00:33:40,400 Speaker 1: don't even realize it, Jeff. 626 00:33:40,600 --> 00:33:42,040 Speaker 2: They just go about their daily lives. 627 00:33:42,040 --> 00:33:43,880 Speaker 1: And I think that's a great thing because that's part 628 00:33:43,880 --> 00:33:46,360 Speaker 1: of what it means to live in a free country. 629 00:33:46,480 --> 00:33:49,400 Speaker 1: But there are people out there that like you, who 630 00:33:49,440 --> 00:33:52,120 Speaker 1: for twenty plus years stood on the parapet to guard 631 00:33:52,160 --> 00:33:54,840 Speaker 1: against some of these threats. What do you make of 632 00:33:54,880 --> 00:33:58,480 Speaker 1: all that? Having seen having seen the dark side, so 633 00:33:58,560 --> 00:34:01,560 Speaker 1: to speak? How do you can you can? 634 00:34:01,600 --> 00:34:04,800 Speaker 2: You can you relax? Now? Have you done twenty some years? 635 00:34:05,280 --> 00:34:07,880 Speaker 3: Well? You know, the first thing I want to say is, 636 00:34:08,080 --> 00:34:10,600 Speaker 3: you know, the service I put into our country pales 637 00:34:10,640 --> 00:34:12,520 Speaker 3: in comparison to the service that you put in. So 638 00:34:12,600 --> 00:34:13,160 Speaker 3: let's just. 639 00:34:13,160 --> 00:34:17,840 Speaker 1: Establish that right now from thank you, but thank you 640 00:34:17,880 --> 00:34:21,320 Speaker 1: for saying that. But I don't know, Jeff, there's something 641 00:34:21,360 --> 00:34:25,560 Speaker 1: about secret service agents who are willing to you have 642 00:34:25,640 --> 00:34:28,279 Speaker 1: to be willing to lay down your life or take 643 00:34:28,280 --> 00:34:29,920 Speaker 1: a bullet for the people that you're protecting. 644 00:34:30,120 --> 00:34:31,920 Speaker 2: That's a whole different thing, you know. 645 00:34:32,160 --> 00:34:34,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, I volunteered to serve after nine to eleven and 646 00:34:34,719 --> 00:34:37,040 Speaker 1: went and got blown up a bunch of times in Afghanistan. 647 00:34:37,040 --> 00:34:39,080 Speaker 2: But it's not like it's not like I wanted. It's 648 00:34:39,080 --> 00:34:40,759 Speaker 2: not like I wanted to get blown up. 649 00:34:41,080 --> 00:34:43,360 Speaker 1: Like, if you see a threat like you, you people 650 00:34:43,360 --> 00:34:45,839 Speaker 1: are will you're crazy, You're willing to jump in them 651 00:34:45,920 --> 00:34:50,600 Speaker 1: in front of a bullet to save somebody that you're protecting. 652 00:34:50,640 --> 00:34:53,799 Speaker 2: That's a level of dedication that just is is unbelievab 653 00:34:53,880 --> 00:34:54,200 Speaker 2: or rare. 654 00:34:54,680 --> 00:34:59,720 Speaker 3: Our big thing was if our preparation and our advance 655 00:34:59,760 --> 00:35:04,240 Speaker 3: were and you know, using the assets that we had, 656 00:35:04,680 --> 00:35:07,560 Speaker 3: was if all that was done right, it would never 657 00:35:07,600 --> 00:35:09,160 Speaker 3: get to the point where we had to jump in 658 00:35:09,160 --> 00:35:13,520 Speaker 3: front of a gun. So you know, when I when 659 00:35:13,560 --> 00:35:15,640 Speaker 3: I would do a trip and I got off Air 660 00:35:15,640 --> 00:35:18,719 Speaker 3: Force one with the President, I was confident that the 661 00:35:18,760 --> 00:35:20,640 Speaker 3: men and women who were on the ground already for 662 00:35:20,680 --> 00:35:23,839 Speaker 3: a week setting everything up, are having us walk into 663 00:35:23,880 --> 00:35:30,400 Speaker 3: the most secure environment we could and and you know, 664 00:35:30,440 --> 00:35:32,160 Speaker 3: it's it's been a long time. You know, the last 665 00:35:32,239 --> 00:35:34,640 Speaker 3: legitimate attempt on the life of the president was you know, 666 00:35:34,640 --> 00:35:36,759 Speaker 3: when Ronald Reagan March Story of nineteen eighty one, when 667 00:35:36,800 --> 00:35:41,440 Speaker 3: John Hinkley shot Ronald Reagan. And you know, there's been 668 00:35:41,480 --> 00:35:44,360 Speaker 3: scares and we've stepped in front of plots, and you know, 669 00:35:44,400 --> 00:35:46,720 Speaker 3: again I don't I don't know as much since I've left, 670 00:35:46,760 --> 00:35:50,360 Speaker 3: but you know, there were several significant plots during my 671 00:35:50,440 --> 00:35:56,720 Speaker 3: time that were that our intelligence partners CIA, NSA, FBI, 672 00:35:57,080 --> 00:35:58,640 Speaker 3: you know, fed to us and we were able to 673 00:35:59,160 --> 00:36:02,400 Speaker 3: get in front of. But the biggest thing that I 674 00:36:02,400 --> 00:36:06,400 Speaker 3: always remember and I thought about every day was, you know, 675 00:36:06,400 --> 00:36:09,239 Speaker 3: we haven't had a landslide victory for president since Rom 676 00:36:09,280 --> 00:36:14,520 Speaker 3: mcgregan beat Mondale. And in fact, you know, we've had 677 00:36:14,520 --> 00:36:18,560 Speaker 3: a few where the person who lost the popular vote 678 00:36:18,600 --> 00:36:22,640 Speaker 3: became president. So you know, I made sure that I 679 00:36:22,680 --> 00:36:24,600 Speaker 3: was always cognizant of the fact that every time we 680 00:36:24,640 --> 00:36:26,960 Speaker 3: took the president out of the White House, fifty percent 681 00:36:27,000 --> 00:36:28,799 Speaker 3: of the people who were putting eyes on him didn't 682 00:36:28,800 --> 00:36:32,160 Speaker 3: want him to be president. And and you know when 683 00:36:32,520 --> 00:36:34,279 Speaker 3: I and it doesn't matter if they're holding up a 684 00:36:34,320 --> 00:36:36,320 Speaker 3: sign that says they think he's great. You know, that's 685 00:36:36,640 --> 00:36:40,320 Speaker 3: that's easy to fake, right, So yes, and I would 686 00:36:40,600 --> 00:36:44,160 Speaker 3: you know, anytime I got the chance to be in 687 00:36:44,200 --> 00:36:46,920 Speaker 3: a leadership role, I would I would tell you know, 688 00:36:46,920 --> 00:36:50,239 Speaker 3: we do our briefings before the shift, and I just say, hey, 689 00:36:50,280 --> 00:36:53,480 Speaker 3: let's let's go. Let's start the day assuming today is 690 00:36:53,520 --> 00:36:55,319 Speaker 3: going to be the day we get attacked, so when 691 00:36:55,320 --> 00:36:57,880 Speaker 3: it happens, it doesn't surprise you, Like, let's put ourselves 692 00:36:57,880 --> 00:37:02,440 Speaker 3: in that mental place already, and you know, it's just 693 00:37:03,239 --> 00:37:05,359 Speaker 3: I don't know. I was blessed and fortunate to do it, 694 00:37:06,880 --> 00:37:09,239 Speaker 3: and and it was just a mission. I love the 695 00:37:09,239 --> 00:37:14,439 Speaker 3: mission of of of Protection was like the investigations were okay, 696 00:37:14,480 --> 00:37:16,480 Speaker 3: but I really I love the protection. I'm glad that's 697 00:37:16,680 --> 00:37:19,319 Speaker 3: what the majority of my career was was dedicated to. 698 00:37:21,480 --> 00:37:24,759 Speaker 3: And and you know, even the time I spent at 699 00:37:24,800 --> 00:37:27,480 Speaker 3: the National Center was you know, some of the things 700 00:37:27,520 --> 00:37:30,480 Speaker 3: I got to do there were unique, and they were 701 00:37:30,480 --> 00:37:33,280 Speaker 3: great opportunities for me. And and so you say about 702 00:37:33,640 --> 00:37:35,720 Speaker 3: you know, looking at the dark side, you know that 703 00:37:35,719 --> 00:37:39,239 Speaker 3: that was one of the And and I've been frank 704 00:37:39,280 --> 00:37:43,440 Speaker 3: about this in public before. I heard stories there of 705 00:37:43,520 --> 00:37:47,320 Speaker 3: things that happened to children that I will never repeat 706 00:37:47,800 --> 00:37:51,640 Speaker 3: because and I get a little bit emotional about this 707 00:37:51,719 --> 00:37:54,560 Speaker 3: because very frankly, I don't want it to live in 708 00:37:54,719 --> 00:37:57,360 Speaker 3: anyone else's head. Like I don't want my wife to 709 00:37:57,400 --> 00:37:59,120 Speaker 3: know about it. I don't want my kids know about it. 710 00:37:59,120 --> 00:38:00,360 Speaker 3: I don't want you to know a lot of it. 711 00:38:02,280 --> 00:38:04,359 Speaker 3: And I used to say that people, if you don't 712 00:38:04,360 --> 00:38:07,759 Speaker 3: believe in the death penalty, spend a week over there 713 00:38:08,000 --> 00:38:09,879 Speaker 3: and see what people do to kids, see what people 714 00:38:09,920 --> 00:38:13,479 Speaker 3: do to their own kids, and and you will change 715 00:38:13,480 --> 00:38:15,880 Speaker 3: your mind about what kind of people should have the 716 00:38:15,920 --> 00:38:18,080 Speaker 3: privilege of living on this earth and what kind shouldn't 717 00:38:18,840 --> 00:38:23,080 Speaker 3: because that that mission. And I'll tell you the people 718 00:38:23,080 --> 00:38:24,560 Speaker 3: that work there and the people that have worked there 719 00:38:24,560 --> 00:38:27,840 Speaker 3: for decades, they're they're better, better people than I am 720 00:38:27,880 --> 00:38:30,359 Speaker 3: because their ability to see these things and withstand them. 721 00:38:30,400 --> 00:38:32,319 Speaker 3: And very frankly, there were some people that worked there. 722 00:38:32,360 --> 00:38:35,279 Speaker 3: I remember one girl, she was an analyst. She just 723 00:38:35,320 --> 00:38:38,359 Speaker 3: called one day and said, I'm never coming back. And 724 00:38:39,360 --> 00:38:42,440 Speaker 3: when my time Nick Nick was done, her stuff was 725 00:38:42,480 --> 00:38:44,680 Speaker 3: still sitting on a box and a shelf because she 726 00:38:44,760 --> 00:38:48,719 Speaker 3: never even came back to get her stuff. It's it's 727 00:38:48,800 --> 00:38:51,719 Speaker 3: tough stuff to see every day, and it you know, 728 00:38:51,800 --> 00:38:56,799 Speaker 3: so that you know, people hate for all kinds of reasons, 729 00:38:56,800 --> 00:38:58,120 Speaker 3: like people want to kill the president, they want to 730 00:38:58,200 --> 00:39:00,560 Speaker 3: kill candidates. That almost runs off off my back a 731 00:39:00,560 --> 00:39:03,360 Speaker 3: little bit. But the time I spent, you know, seeing 732 00:39:03,360 --> 00:39:06,200 Speaker 3: how people hurt kids, that's that's really you want to 733 00:39:06,239 --> 00:39:09,880 Speaker 3: talk about a dark it's dark stuff to see. That's 734 00:39:10,360 --> 00:39:11,280 Speaker 3: that's it right there. 735 00:39:12,000 --> 00:39:15,239 Speaker 1: Well, let's let's talk about that and go go where 736 00:39:15,280 --> 00:39:17,479 Speaker 1: the conversation takes us, because I want to hear about 737 00:39:17,480 --> 00:39:20,200 Speaker 1: your time protecting the presidents as well, you know, and 738 00:39:20,239 --> 00:39:23,319 Speaker 1: get a sense of how you go from you know, 739 00:39:23,800 --> 00:39:29,920 Speaker 1: a new agent to a presidential detail. But let's stick 740 00:39:29,960 --> 00:39:33,560 Speaker 1: with this. In your time as liaison for the National 741 00:39:33,600 --> 00:39:35,880 Speaker 1: Center for Missing and Exploited Children, that that would you 742 00:39:35,920 --> 00:39:37,680 Speaker 1: say is Nick Mick. The acronym is Nick Mick. 743 00:39:37,840 --> 00:39:38,120 Speaker 2: Correct. 744 00:39:38,200 --> 00:39:42,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, everything that you see with the Sound of Freedom 745 00:39:42,280 --> 00:39:45,560 Speaker 1: today and the movie with Jim Cavizio came out and 746 00:39:45,760 --> 00:39:47,400 Speaker 1: it's a mega, mega. 747 00:39:47,239 --> 00:39:51,480 Speaker 2: Successful at the box office. So a couple of things. Uh. 748 00:39:51,600 --> 00:39:57,000 Speaker 1: First of all, I think people clearly recognize that that 749 00:39:57,160 --> 00:40:01,319 Speaker 1: child trafficking is a real problem problem, I think, which 750 00:40:01,320 --> 00:40:03,839 Speaker 1: is why you see the movie as successful as it is. 751 00:40:06,000 --> 00:40:07,840 Speaker 1: When you look at everything that's happening at the border. 752 00:40:08,040 --> 00:40:12,640 Speaker 1: Clearly our enemies are using an open southern border to 753 00:40:12,920 --> 00:40:16,440 Speaker 1: traffic children. And the more I read about how horrific 754 00:40:16,560 --> 00:40:22,320 Speaker 1: this stuff is, the cartels, the cartels prefer it almost 755 00:40:22,400 --> 00:40:25,239 Speaker 1: because children can be resold. Whereas you know, you sell 756 00:40:25,280 --> 00:40:27,600 Speaker 1: cocaine or something, it's you sell it and it's gone. 757 00:40:27,680 --> 00:40:34,040 Speaker 1: Children can be resold over and over again, and it's horrifying, 758 00:40:34,600 --> 00:40:38,640 Speaker 1: you know. I read an article the other day saying 759 00:40:38,680 --> 00:40:42,239 Speaker 1: that at the height of slavery in this country, three 760 00:40:42,320 --> 00:40:45,719 Speaker 1: hundred and eighty some thousand African Americans were brought to 761 00:40:46,400 --> 00:40:50,880 Speaker 1: this country, but the numbers are almost just as bad 762 00:40:50,960 --> 00:40:54,520 Speaker 1: today with children and adults being trafficked across the border. 763 00:40:54,560 --> 00:40:57,719 Speaker 1: Although you're not seeing the auctions and the people in shackles, 764 00:40:57,760 --> 00:41:02,440 Speaker 1: it's all happening behind the curtains. Is bad, Jeff, And 765 00:41:02,440 --> 00:41:04,839 Speaker 1: and I mean that it's it's just as bad, and 766 00:41:05,000 --> 00:41:07,920 Speaker 1: maybe maybe maybe it's even worse because no one sees it. 767 00:41:07,920 --> 00:41:10,640 Speaker 2: It's offen people's radar. And I. 768 00:41:12,520 --> 00:41:15,200 Speaker 1: Why I have so many questions for you on this topic, 769 00:41:15,239 --> 00:41:17,640 Speaker 1: But why does the media? Why does it seem like 770 00:41:17,680 --> 00:41:20,359 Speaker 1: the media is working overdrive to make it seem like 771 00:41:20,440 --> 00:41:23,879 Speaker 1: this is just some sort of conspiracy theory. 772 00:41:24,080 --> 00:41:26,759 Speaker 3: So that so that part, that part I don't know, 773 00:41:26,920 --> 00:41:30,120 Speaker 3: but I will tell you the reason you don't see 774 00:41:30,400 --> 00:41:32,719 Speaker 3: the auctions and people in shackles is because it's all 775 00:41:32,719 --> 00:41:38,200 Speaker 3: done online. Now you can go online and rent a 776 00:41:38,320 --> 00:41:43,719 Speaker 3: child for sexual exploitation. It is strikingly easy. Now you 777 00:41:43,760 --> 00:41:46,080 Speaker 3: do it enough times, eventually you're going to get caught. Right, 778 00:41:46,480 --> 00:41:51,640 Speaker 3: But that child is going to be abused hundreds and 779 00:41:51,719 --> 00:41:56,839 Speaker 3: hundreds of times in their lifetime, and then once they 780 00:41:56,960 --> 00:41:59,440 Speaker 3: reach a point where they age out and they're no 781 00:41:59,520 --> 00:42:04,440 Speaker 3: longer just horable to the perversions of a pedophile. Very frankly, 782 00:42:04,440 --> 00:42:08,279 Speaker 3: they're they're murdered like they'll they'll either some of the 783 00:42:08,400 --> 00:42:10,400 Speaker 3: nice ones will send them on their way, but say go, 784 00:42:10,920 --> 00:42:14,000 Speaker 3: you know you're we're done with you now. And they're 785 00:42:14,040 --> 00:42:18,120 Speaker 3: you know, they're damaged permanently mentally and physically. But you 786 00:42:18,160 --> 00:42:19,920 Speaker 3: know some of them, like these these pimps, will just 787 00:42:20,040 --> 00:42:22,680 Speaker 3: kill that kid and you know, go find another one. 788 00:42:22,760 --> 00:42:26,640 Speaker 3: And and look, this isn't if you don't think it's real. 789 00:42:26,719 --> 00:42:29,759 Speaker 3: This isn't hard to find out if anybody listening to 790 00:42:29,840 --> 00:42:35,920 Speaker 3: you has their has their doubts. If you google like 791 00:42:36,880 --> 00:42:41,120 Speaker 3: h underage sex sting, you'll find that in all these 792 00:42:41,120 --> 00:42:43,839 Speaker 3: big events that happen, whether it's a Super Bowl, All 793 00:42:43,880 --> 00:42:48,080 Speaker 3: Star Games, these these guys who are trafficking these kids 794 00:42:48,080 --> 00:42:52,400 Speaker 3: will gravitate to those large events. They'll put advertisements online 795 00:42:52,920 --> 00:42:55,760 Speaker 3: and they'll sell these kids. During like All Star weekend 796 00:42:56,680 --> 00:42:58,719 Speaker 3: like we have coming up for the for the for 797 00:42:58,840 --> 00:43:03,120 Speaker 3: Major League Baseball and the FBI, the Marshall's Secret Service, 798 00:43:03,120 --> 00:43:06,200 Speaker 3: I'll get together. They formed these task forces and they 799 00:43:06,760 --> 00:43:08,120 Speaker 3: they go in and they arrest all these guys and 800 00:43:08,160 --> 00:43:10,480 Speaker 3: you'll see like forty kids will get rescued in a 801 00:43:10,520 --> 00:43:15,840 Speaker 3: weekend and fifteen of the pimps will be will be arrested. 802 00:43:15,920 --> 00:43:18,640 Speaker 3: I mean, it's it's striking. And we were talking in 803 00:43:19,000 --> 00:43:23,160 Speaker 3: the studio prep earlier that you know, I found I 804 00:43:23,239 --> 00:43:25,000 Speaker 3: realized the date I said it wrong earlier it was. 805 00:43:25,040 --> 00:43:28,520 Speaker 3: It was May twenty first of twenty twenty two. Fourteen 806 00:43:28,560 --> 00:43:31,960 Speaker 3: year old girl was at a Denver or a Dallas 807 00:43:32,000 --> 00:43:34,239 Speaker 3: Mavericks game with her dad and she excused herself to 808 00:43:34,239 --> 00:43:36,319 Speaker 3: go to the bathroom and she never came back. And 809 00:43:36,360 --> 00:43:39,640 Speaker 3: here in this arena for twenty thousand people, some guy 810 00:43:39,680 --> 00:43:42,960 Speaker 3: grabbed her by the arm and took her away, and 811 00:43:43,040 --> 00:43:45,600 Speaker 3: she was I think it was a couple weeks later 812 00:43:45,640 --> 00:43:48,040 Speaker 3: she was finally rescued, but he was trafficking her like 813 00:43:48,280 --> 00:43:51,040 Speaker 3: it like took her think of all the security at 814 00:43:51,080 --> 00:43:53,840 Speaker 3: an NBA game, Like took her out of this game. 815 00:43:54,320 --> 00:43:56,680 Speaker 3: So look, if you want to put your head in 816 00:43:56,680 --> 00:43:59,919 Speaker 3: the sand, that's fine, but I'll tell you. You know, Mike 817 00:44:00,160 --> 00:44:04,000 Speaker 3: are sixteen, fourteen and eleven, and we talk a lot 818 00:44:04,120 --> 00:44:07,640 Speaker 3: not to scare them. We talk about precautions. You know, 819 00:44:07,800 --> 00:44:11,080 Speaker 3: I tell people all the time. Take twenty minutes at 820 00:44:11,120 --> 00:44:14,520 Speaker 3: your dinner table once a week and talk about whatever, 821 00:44:14,600 --> 00:44:17,359 Speaker 3: what if we get separated in target, what if we 822 00:44:17,400 --> 00:44:19,920 Speaker 3: get what if the house catches on fire? You know, 823 00:44:20,280 --> 00:44:22,200 Speaker 3: these little touch points that you're going to give your 824 00:44:22,320 --> 00:44:26,840 Speaker 3: kids are going to be life very frankly, could be 825 00:44:26,880 --> 00:44:27,440 Speaker 3: life saving. 826 00:44:28,320 --> 00:44:31,319 Speaker 1: You know, we gotta tell us right now, because first 827 00:44:31,360 --> 00:44:34,480 Speaker 1: of all, I'm like you, I'm getting emotional about this, 828 00:44:34,680 --> 00:44:37,239 Speaker 1: and how the hell does something like this happen in 829 00:44:37,280 --> 00:44:39,279 Speaker 1: the most advanced nation in the world has ever known? 830 00:44:39,800 --> 00:44:42,160 Speaker 2: In the freest I mean it is. 831 00:44:42,600 --> 00:44:46,160 Speaker 1: I watched a podcast with a Navy Sirshan Ryan show. 832 00:44:46,160 --> 00:44:47,920 Speaker 1: He had some guy on there who is a who's 833 00:44:48,400 --> 00:44:51,279 Speaker 1: an ethical what they call an ethical hacker, who would 834 00:44:51,320 --> 00:44:54,239 Speaker 1: go after these online websites that you talked about, hack 835 00:44:54,320 --> 00:44:57,520 Speaker 1: into the to the background of them, and give law 836 00:44:57,600 --> 00:45:01,240 Speaker 1: enforcement all of this, all of this information. People's address 837 00:45:01,280 --> 00:45:04,440 Speaker 1: these pedophiles who pray on these kids. And what struck 838 00:45:04,480 --> 00:45:06,680 Speaker 1: me is, first of all, how local law enforcement, God 839 00:45:06,719 --> 00:45:08,960 Speaker 1: bless him, because their heroes. They go to work every day, 840 00:45:09,000 --> 00:45:12,120 Speaker 1: they don't know if they're ever coming back, Jeff and there. 841 00:45:12,200 --> 00:45:14,360 Speaker 1: They're heroes in our society and they protect us just 842 00:45:14,400 --> 00:45:16,360 Speaker 1: like just like you did. It on the Secret Service. 843 00:45:16,440 --> 00:45:19,759 Speaker 1: But how how just unequipped they are to deal with 844 00:45:19,760 --> 00:45:21,480 Speaker 1: stuff like this and a lot of it. They say, oh, 845 00:45:21,480 --> 00:45:23,640 Speaker 1: this stuff isn't admissible because you hacked it. 846 00:45:24,080 --> 00:45:24,719 Speaker 2: Like what? 847 00:45:25,239 --> 00:45:28,240 Speaker 1: But but like there are he would tell story Sean 848 00:45:28,280 --> 00:45:29,840 Speaker 1: in this in this other guy on his podcast to 849 00:45:29,880 --> 00:45:32,479 Speaker 1: tell stories about how they would know about these people 850 00:45:32,520 --> 00:45:34,920 Speaker 1: would know about these pedophiles. They're watching these pedophiles, but 851 00:45:34,920 --> 00:45:36,719 Speaker 1: they don't have enough to actually do a sting or 852 00:45:36,719 --> 00:45:38,560 Speaker 1: go after hi because they don't have a case built yet. 853 00:45:38,640 --> 00:45:41,400 Speaker 1: So they're just watching over and over again this pedophile 854 00:45:41,480 --> 00:45:43,800 Speaker 1: doing terrible things to kids so they can build a case. 855 00:45:44,120 --> 00:45:46,360 Speaker 1: It's like, well, what about the damn kid who's who's 856 00:45:46,400 --> 00:45:48,600 Speaker 1: been targeted for a year and you know he's being 857 00:45:48,600 --> 00:45:52,120 Speaker 1: targeted for a year. It's almost like, and I'm saying this, 858 00:45:52,280 --> 00:45:54,799 Speaker 1: not you, but it's almost they ever see that movie Untouchables, 859 00:45:54,880 --> 00:45:56,520 Speaker 1: It's almost like we need a unit. 860 00:45:56,360 --> 00:45:58,160 Speaker 2: Like that that that that just. 861 00:45:58,360 --> 00:46:01,920 Speaker 1: Operates behind the scenes with no bureaucratic red tape and 862 00:46:02,000 --> 00:46:06,080 Speaker 1: just goes after these assholes. Because I cannot believe that 863 00:46:06,120 --> 00:46:08,160 Speaker 1: we allow this to happen in America. I just cannot 864 00:46:08,200 --> 00:46:08,600 Speaker 1: believe it. 865 00:46:08,920 --> 00:46:11,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, and you know the message I send to parents. 866 00:46:11,080 --> 00:46:13,239 Speaker 3: And look, I'm not the perfect parent. I tell my 867 00:46:13,360 --> 00:46:15,560 Speaker 3: kids all the time. You know, I get I get 868 00:46:15,560 --> 00:46:19,040 Speaker 3: a lot of stuff wrong. You know I tell them 869 00:46:19,080 --> 00:46:20,799 Speaker 3: I get it wrong. But don't ever question how much 870 00:46:20,840 --> 00:46:24,480 Speaker 3: I love you, like you know that thing. But so 871 00:46:24,560 --> 00:46:26,399 Speaker 3: I will never judge you as a parent. But here's 872 00:46:26,440 --> 00:46:28,600 Speaker 3: how I there's one way I'm going to judge you 873 00:46:28,640 --> 00:46:31,279 Speaker 3: as a parent. If you don't know what your kids 874 00:46:31,280 --> 00:46:34,160 Speaker 3: are doing online, if you don't know where they're going 875 00:46:34,320 --> 00:46:36,719 Speaker 3: and who they're going with, I'm going to judge you 876 00:46:36,719 --> 00:46:39,040 Speaker 3: a little bit because guess what, that's how the bad 877 00:46:39,080 --> 00:46:41,440 Speaker 3: guys are going to get to your kid through the 878 00:46:41,480 --> 00:46:46,719 Speaker 3: gaming systems, through the online chat. You know, they're they're 879 00:46:46,760 --> 00:46:51,320 Speaker 3: gonna you know if you like. Look, kids aren't built 880 00:46:51,320 --> 00:46:54,080 Speaker 3: to make good decisions, like fifteen year olds aren't good 881 00:46:54,480 --> 00:46:56,480 Speaker 3: built twelve year olds. They're not built that way. Their 882 00:46:56,480 --> 00:46:59,440 Speaker 3: mind isn't ready yet. So they need our protection like 883 00:47:00,120 --> 00:47:02,560 Speaker 3: people that say, like I had one case of a 884 00:47:03,080 --> 00:47:07,360 Speaker 3: of a woman her daughter was was trafficked for a 885 00:47:07,480 --> 00:47:09,520 Speaker 3: very short time and we were able to and when 886 00:47:09,520 --> 00:47:12,040 Speaker 3: I say we, I mean federal law enforcement, local LA enforcement. 887 00:47:12,080 --> 00:47:16,520 Speaker 3: We were able to get her recovered, and even after 888 00:47:16,560 --> 00:47:18,480 Speaker 3: she was recovered, I was having a conversation with the 889 00:47:18,560 --> 00:47:21,319 Speaker 3: mother about, hey, you know, make sure you're watching what 890 00:47:21,360 --> 00:47:23,799 Speaker 3: happens on our phone. Look at who's talking to her, 891 00:47:24,239 --> 00:47:26,360 Speaker 3: And she said, well, I don't want to invade her privacy. 892 00:47:26,360 --> 00:47:29,400 Speaker 3: That's her phone. And I'm like, are you are you 893 00:47:29,560 --> 00:47:33,480 Speaker 3: kidding me? Like, you know, the message I said to 894 00:47:33,520 --> 00:47:37,440 Speaker 3: my kids is, you know, you'll get You'll get your 895 00:47:37,480 --> 00:47:40,120 Speaker 3: privacy when you're when you're an adult out of the house. 896 00:47:40,440 --> 00:47:42,000 Speaker 3: You know, if you're in my roof, you know we're 897 00:47:42,040 --> 00:47:44,400 Speaker 3: gonna we're gonna have talks and I'm going to protect you. 898 00:47:44,440 --> 00:47:47,040 Speaker 3: And it's you just really need there's so many negative 899 00:47:47,040 --> 00:47:49,719 Speaker 3: forces trying to get to your kids. And look, you 900 00:47:49,719 --> 00:47:51,600 Speaker 3: know I grew up. I'm the youngest of seven kids. 901 00:47:52,640 --> 00:47:55,160 Speaker 3: My mother's two brothers lived right next door to each other, 902 00:47:55,239 --> 00:47:58,000 Speaker 3: not far from where I grew up, just about three 903 00:47:58,000 --> 00:48:03,160 Speaker 3: miles away. Between the two of them, they had twenty kids. 904 00:48:03,640 --> 00:48:06,520 Speaker 3: You know, I wasn't as close with my dad's side, 905 00:48:06,520 --> 00:48:08,560 Speaker 3: but you know, I had an ant I was closer to, 906 00:48:08,719 --> 00:48:13,120 Speaker 3: and so I had all these people who were you know, 907 00:48:13,239 --> 00:48:16,759 Speaker 3: role models for me. Who were the coaches you know, 908 00:48:16,840 --> 00:48:19,120 Speaker 3: I had great teachers and I was very fore I 909 00:48:19,160 --> 00:48:21,160 Speaker 3: went to a high My high school wasn't great, but 910 00:48:21,520 --> 00:48:24,319 Speaker 3: you know, I had I had some quality of people there. 911 00:48:24,800 --> 00:48:26,960 Speaker 3: You know, we had involvement in sports and stuff like that. 912 00:48:27,040 --> 00:48:30,640 Speaker 3: So it was you know, I guess the old saying 913 00:48:30,640 --> 00:48:34,359 Speaker 3: it takes a village, right, and and very frankly, it 914 00:48:34,400 --> 00:48:35,960 Speaker 3: was a lot of people who were praying for me 915 00:48:36,000 --> 00:48:37,920 Speaker 3: when I wasn't even smart enough to pray for myself. 916 00:48:38,120 --> 00:48:38,319 Speaker 2: You know. 917 00:48:38,800 --> 00:48:42,239 Speaker 3: And again I something like get emotional about. But I 918 00:48:42,480 --> 00:48:45,000 Speaker 3: think that's something else that that's that's missing. You know, 919 00:48:45,040 --> 00:48:46,759 Speaker 3: my wife and I both work full time, but we 920 00:48:46,840 --> 00:48:49,719 Speaker 3: still have that time for our kids. And you look, 921 00:48:49,719 --> 00:48:53,879 Speaker 3: and I know a lot of super single parents, but 922 00:48:53,880 --> 00:48:58,759 Speaker 3: but it is so it's so tough to just keep track. 923 00:48:58,840 --> 00:49:00,759 Speaker 3: But that would be my one piece of advice is 924 00:49:00,800 --> 00:49:02,440 Speaker 3: if you know, you just got to know what your 925 00:49:02,480 --> 00:49:04,279 Speaker 3: kids are doing online. You got to know who they're with. 926 00:49:05,840 --> 00:49:08,320 Speaker 3: And I know it's hard for harder for single parents 927 00:49:08,320 --> 00:49:13,160 Speaker 3: when you're when you're just running that solo, but you know, 928 00:49:13,239 --> 00:49:16,560 Speaker 3: the you know, when when that unit, when that family 929 00:49:16,640 --> 00:49:18,960 Speaker 3: unit dissolves, those kids are going to look for affection 930 00:49:19,080 --> 00:49:21,280 Speaker 3: and from whoever's given it to him, or attention, whoever's 931 00:49:21,280 --> 00:49:23,319 Speaker 3: given it to him. And it's not always people who 932 00:49:23,360 --> 00:49:25,239 Speaker 3: have good intentions. 933 00:49:25,480 --> 00:49:29,160 Speaker 1: Make sure it's And it's so hard today, Jeff, because 934 00:49:29,920 --> 00:49:32,200 Speaker 1: you know, I feel like things are so different for 935 00:49:32,360 --> 00:49:36,520 Speaker 1: kids today because with with the internet now, I mean 936 00:49:36,680 --> 00:49:38,560 Speaker 1: you look back, I mean, the internet was like not 937 00:49:38,680 --> 00:49:41,400 Speaker 1: even a thing when I was. I mean maybe like 938 00:49:41,520 --> 00:49:43,360 Speaker 1: towards the tail end of my high school, it was 939 00:49:43,360 --> 00:49:46,560 Speaker 1: in its infancy and stuff. And like I remember going 940 00:49:46,600 --> 00:49:48,920 Speaker 1: on to Napster and like getting on the queue and 941 00:49:48,960 --> 00:49:52,319 Speaker 1: downloading Metallica songs or something something, you know, like way 942 00:49:52,440 --> 00:49:55,319 Speaker 1: and it would take it would take four days to 943 00:49:55,360 --> 00:49:57,799 Speaker 1: download one czar or something like. It was like it 944 00:49:57,880 --> 00:50:00,560 Speaker 1: was nothing back then. And cell phones were just flip phones. 945 00:50:00,640 --> 00:50:04,640 Speaker 1: Now we got these phones that like they're like a computer, 946 00:50:04,960 --> 00:50:06,920 Speaker 1: all the information in the world right in the palm 947 00:50:06,920 --> 00:50:10,240 Speaker 1: of your hands, and and it you know, most parents, 948 00:50:10,320 --> 00:50:12,080 Speaker 1: I think it's reasonable to say, you know, I want 949 00:50:12,080 --> 00:50:13,960 Speaker 1: my teenagers to have a cell phone. If they're out 950 00:50:14,280 --> 00:50:18,719 Speaker 1: in the event of emergencies, they can call. But these kids, 951 00:50:19,000 --> 00:50:22,279 Speaker 1: you know, bullying takes on a whole different stint in 952 00:50:22,320 --> 00:50:24,640 Speaker 1: today's day and age because it's like back in the day, 953 00:50:25,440 --> 00:50:27,600 Speaker 1: someone wants to someone wants to bully you. It happens 954 00:50:27,640 --> 00:50:29,560 Speaker 1: to school, at least you can you know, you can 955 00:50:29,560 --> 00:50:31,479 Speaker 1: get home and you put it behind you for some time. 956 00:50:31,520 --> 00:50:33,799 Speaker 1: Now you can't because it's on your phone and they've 957 00:50:33,800 --> 00:50:36,000 Speaker 1: got social media and these bullies are posting stuff on 958 00:50:36,040 --> 00:50:41,439 Speaker 1: social media. But by the same token, it's like they're 959 00:50:41,880 --> 00:50:45,000 Speaker 1: our kids are constantly exposed to this stuff, and if 960 00:50:45,040 --> 00:50:49,480 Speaker 1: they have a phone, like there's always the possibility in 961 00:50:49,520 --> 00:50:52,880 Speaker 1: the threat that that that they're talking to something they 962 00:50:52,920 --> 00:50:55,120 Speaker 1: might be a completely innocent thing, you know, where you 963 00:50:55,120 --> 00:50:56,680 Speaker 1: have a kid talking to someone who they think is 964 00:50:56,680 --> 00:50:58,399 Speaker 1: a kid, but it's not a kid, right, you know. 965 00:51:00,040 --> 00:51:01,319 Speaker 3: I mean, you're right all that. 966 00:51:01,680 --> 00:51:04,040 Speaker 1: You just have to be so vigilant, it seems. But 967 00:51:04,080 --> 00:51:07,160 Speaker 1: it's like you talked about the challenge of single parenting. 968 00:51:07,200 --> 00:51:10,239 Speaker 1: It's challenged even if you're even if you're married. It's 969 00:51:10,280 --> 00:51:13,920 Speaker 1: just it's a constant thing. And you were talking about 970 00:51:14,160 --> 00:51:16,600 Speaker 1: if you were how you still walk your daughter to 971 00:51:16,920 --> 00:51:19,440 Speaker 1: the restroom even today. Yeah, because as a parent you 972 00:51:19,520 --> 00:51:21,640 Speaker 1: just always have to be on guard, it seems. 973 00:51:22,040 --> 00:51:24,239 Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean we you know, we went to a 974 00:51:24,280 --> 00:51:28,080 Speaker 3: pirate game not too long ago, and you know, it's 975 00:51:28,120 --> 00:51:32,399 Speaker 3: it's worth it's worth missing a couple outs to make 976 00:51:32,440 --> 00:51:36,120 Speaker 3: sure that you're the one day she's gonna be twenty 977 00:51:36,160 --> 00:51:37,960 Speaker 3: and I'm not gonna do it right. But now that 978 00:51:38,080 --> 00:51:41,240 Speaker 3: she's sixteen and my other one's eleven, my son is fourteen, 979 00:51:41,760 --> 00:51:43,520 Speaker 3: you know, when they're in this phase, it's worth me 980 00:51:43,560 --> 00:51:45,239 Speaker 3: missing a couple outs to make sure I got eyes 981 00:51:45,239 --> 00:51:48,080 Speaker 3: on them going in and see them when they come out. 982 00:51:49,320 --> 00:51:51,960 Speaker 3: And especially, like like I said, that girl at the 983 00:51:52,000 --> 00:51:54,040 Speaker 3: Dallas Members game, her dad probably thought that was one 984 00:51:54,040 --> 00:51:56,400 Speaker 3: of the most secure places he could take her. You know, 985 00:51:56,440 --> 00:51:58,560 Speaker 3: you come in through metal detectors and there's people in 986 00:51:58,640 --> 00:52:02,040 Speaker 3: yellow jackets all over the place, there's police, and she 987 00:52:02,120 --> 00:52:03,400 Speaker 3: got taken from that place. 988 00:52:03,440 --> 00:52:05,960 Speaker 2: And it's how did it happen? Jeff? Can you give 989 00:52:05,960 --> 00:52:07,000 Speaker 2: me a cent? Like what? 990 00:52:07,719 --> 00:52:09,239 Speaker 1: I don't know the ins and outs of it, and 991 00:52:09,400 --> 00:52:11,239 Speaker 1: I don't want to be a Monday morning quarterback. But 992 00:52:11,640 --> 00:52:13,879 Speaker 1: when these kids, when he grabs her by the arm, 993 00:52:14,000 --> 00:52:16,480 Speaker 1: can't she scream? Can't she say something? I mean, how 994 00:52:16,880 --> 00:52:19,160 Speaker 1: how do you how do these traffickers do it? 995 00:52:19,560 --> 00:52:19,759 Speaker 2: Yeah? 996 00:52:19,840 --> 00:52:22,319 Speaker 3: Well that's just so it's the intimidation, right, the guy 997 00:52:22,320 --> 00:52:24,000 Speaker 3: comes up grabs her by the arm and says, you know, 998 00:52:24,040 --> 00:52:26,480 Speaker 3: if you say a word, you know, I'll shoot you 999 00:52:26,560 --> 00:52:27,880 Speaker 3: right now, or I'll kill you or whatever. You know, 1000 00:52:27,920 --> 00:52:31,399 Speaker 3: And you know that part of what he said, I'm 1001 00:52:31,440 --> 00:52:33,319 Speaker 3: not sure, but she was. She was missing for ten 1002 00:52:33,400 --> 00:52:36,279 Speaker 3: days and she was eventually recovered in Oklahoma City. So 1003 00:52:36,400 --> 00:52:38,520 Speaker 3: that's how far she was traffick not just the number 1004 00:52:38,560 --> 00:52:40,879 Speaker 3: of times she was trafficked, but the distance they took 1005 00:52:40,920 --> 00:52:45,840 Speaker 3: her from home. So but but that's how we that's 1006 00:52:46,040 --> 00:52:48,040 Speaker 3: you know, I tell my parents, my kids, like we 1007 00:52:49,480 --> 00:52:51,520 Speaker 3: I think your listeners are gonna think I'm some kind 1008 00:52:51,520 --> 00:52:52,040 Speaker 3: of nutsjob. 1009 00:52:52,040 --> 00:52:54,000 Speaker 2: But you know, I don't think that at all. I 1010 00:52:54,000 --> 00:52:54,839 Speaker 2: don't think that at all. 1011 00:52:54,880 --> 00:52:57,200 Speaker 1: Man, I don't think I think my listeners and they 1012 00:52:57,239 --> 00:52:58,400 Speaker 1: need to They need to hear this. 1013 00:52:58,800 --> 00:52:59,960 Speaker 2: They need to hear these stories. 1014 00:53:00,560 --> 00:53:04,200 Speaker 3: We have drills about different stuff, like the answer if 1015 00:53:04,200 --> 00:53:06,480 Speaker 3: somebody tells you grabs you by the arm and says, 1016 00:53:06,520 --> 00:53:08,719 Speaker 3: don't make a sound, the answer is to scream. Like 1017 00:53:09,120 --> 00:53:10,799 Speaker 3: in my kids to this day, when they walk away 1018 00:53:10,800 --> 00:53:12,920 Speaker 3: from you, they're like, hey, I'm gonna run over here 1019 00:53:12,920 --> 00:53:14,719 Speaker 3: and do this. I'm like, all right, what's the plan. 1020 00:53:14,800 --> 00:53:18,200 Speaker 3: And they're like scream and I'm like, yeah, you know, 1021 00:53:18,280 --> 00:53:20,839 Speaker 3: if someone's in our home, Like the plan if someone 1022 00:53:20,880 --> 00:53:25,200 Speaker 3: gets in our home is they lay flat on the floor, 1023 00:53:25,239 --> 00:53:27,200 Speaker 3: flat on the bed and they scream and I'm like 1024 00:53:27,280 --> 00:53:29,960 Speaker 3: why and they're like, because when dad comes in the room, 1025 00:53:29,960 --> 00:53:31,799 Speaker 3: anybody who's standing up is going to get shot. And 1026 00:53:31,840 --> 00:53:32,920 Speaker 3: I'm like, yeah, that's. 1027 00:53:33,560 --> 00:53:34,200 Speaker 2: Just tell us. 1028 00:53:34,440 --> 00:53:37,439 Speaker 1: I want to hear all of every all of these lessons, yeah, 1029 00:53:37,480 --> 00:53:39,440 Speaker 1: because I mean I want to hear them. I mean 1030 00:53:39,480 --> 00:53:42,400 Speaker 1: because this is this is so so important, it's so. 1031 00:53:42,280 --> 00:53:44,640 Speaker 3: Important, you know, I can I can show you one 1032 00:53:44,680 --> 00:53:47,239 Speaker 3: hundred I want to say hundreds. That's huge exaggeration. I 1033 00:53:47,239 --> 00:53:49,799 Speaker 3: can show you dozens of YouTube videos of kids who 1034 00:53:49,840 --> 00:53:53,800 Speaker 3: get abducted, who somebody comes up and grabs their hand 1035 00:53:54,280 --> 00:53:56,279 Speaker 3: and they quietly walk away with a child. But I 1036 00:53:56,280 --> 00:53:59,680 Speaker 3: can also show you as many that when that child 1037 00:53:59,719 --> 00:54:04,000 Speaker 3: starts kicking and screaming, that pervert drops them and runs. Like. 1038 00:54:04,200 --> 00:54:07,480 Speaker 3: Bad guys don't want they want the path of least 1039 00:54:07,520 --> 00:54:10,640 Speaker 3: resistance and everything right. So it's like when people say, oh, 1040 00:54:10,640 --> 00:54:13,320 Speaker 3: my car was broken into, Now you left your door unlocked, 1041 00:54:13,360 --> 00:54:15,480 Speaker 3: like because bad guys are just trying doors, like, they're 1042 00:54:15,480 --> 00:54:19,719 Speaker 3: not smashing out windows. So when that child starts to fight. 1043 00:54:21,239 --> 00:54:24,000 Speaker 3: And this is for adults too, right, because because the 1044 00:54:24,040 --> 00:54:30,359 Speaker 3: statistics are odd like oddly the same that someone who's 1045 00:54:30,400 --> 00:54:33,240 Speaker 3: abducted by a stranger, like a true stranger production, not 1046 00:54:32,960 --> 00:54:36,600 Speaker 3: a not a non consent, non custodial parent, but like 1047 00:54:36,640 --> 00:54:39,880 Speaker 3: a true stranger abduction. It's pretty much the same in 1048 00:54:39,920 --> 00:54:43,000 Speaker 3: adults and kids that seventy two percent of them are 1049 00:54:43,000 --> 00:54:44,359 Speaker 3: dead within three hours. 1050 00:54:44,800 --> 00:54:47,640 Speaker 2: So you know, I tell people like, wait, why is 1051 00:54:47,680 --> 00:54:48,480 Speaker 2: that why? 1052 00:54:49,280 --> 00:54:53,399 Speaker 3: Well, because yes, because the it's like a fix, right. 1053 00:54:53,440 --> 00:54:58,360 Speaker 3: The perv grabs the kid, they go, they do what 1054 00:54:58,400 --> 00:55:01,239 Speaker 3: they gotta do to get that energy out of them, 1055 00:55:01,280 --> 00:55:03,400 Speaker 3: and now they have this kid, right, and they're like 1056 00:55:03,640 --> 00:55:05,320 Speaker 3: and it's like a guy who kidnaps a woman to 1057 00:55:05,400 --> 00:55:07,040 Speaker 3: rape the woman he rapes her. Now he's like, well, 1058 00:55:07,040 --> 00:55:08,719 Speaker 3: what am I going to do now? And they have 1059 00:55:08,920 --> 00:55:14,720 Speaker 3: they kill her. So so it's so you know, those 1060 00:55:15,040 --> 00:55:17,040 Speaker 3: those first moments and my kids, you know, we talked 1061 00:55:17,040 --> 00:55:18,960 Speaker 3: a little bit about self defense, and it's it's getting 1062 00:55:19,000 --> 00:55:21,040 Speaker 3: better now that they're getting bigger, you know, and they 1063 00:55:21,440 --> 00:55:23,160 Speaker 3: have a little more strength and can do stuff. But 1064 00:55:23,960 --> 00:55:25,680 Speaker 3: you know the big thing is you got to make noise, 1065 00:55:25,680 --> 00:55:28,040 Speaker 3: You got to be loud. You got to fight, because 1066 00:55:28,040 --> 00:55:29,680 Speaker 3: that's not what the bad guys want. You got to 1067 00:55:29,760 --> 00:55:34,040 Speaker 3: draw attention to it, because if not only am I 1068 00:55:34,080 --> 00:55:36,160 Speaker 3: going to hear it, but even if I'm at the 1069 00:55:36,160 --> 00:55:38,200 Speaker 3: other side of the store at that point, there's gonna 1070 00:55:38,200 --> 00:55:40,160 Speaker 3: be probably someone like you there who's going to come 1071 00:55:40,200 --> 00:55:42,440 Speaker 3: up to this dude and say, oh, dude, like, what 1072 00:55:42,480 --> 00:55:45,640 Speaker 3: are you doing. And even if he starts to like, oh, 1073 00:55:45,719 --> 00:55:47,680 Speaker 3: this is my daughter, she's just throwing a tantrum, and 1074 00:55:47,680 --> 00:55:49,040 Speaker 3: by that time, I'm going to be there and I'm 1075 00:55:49,040 --> 00:55:52,000 Speaker 3: going to say the hell she is? And and you 1076 00:55:52,040 --> 00:55:55,680 Speaker 3: know it's but but getting attention is the big thing, 1077 00:55:57,200 --> 00:55:59,440 Speaker 3: you know, fighting it even if the fighting isn't effective, 1078 00:55:59,480 --> 00:56:02,000 Speaker 3: like a five year old isn't going to overpower a man, 1079 00:56:02,640 --> 00:56:05,360 Speaker 3: but that kicking and screaming that, you know, making themselves heavy, 1080 00:56:05,400 --> 00:56:08,000 Speaker 3: all that, you know that that's all important. And when 1081 00:56:08,040 --> 00:56:10,800 Speaker 3: you look at all those videos of of when kids 1082 00:56:11,320 --> 00:56:13,600 Speaker 3: essentially say their own lives, that's what they do. They 1083 00:56:13,800 --> 00:56:16,200 Speaker 3: they fight, they make noise, they kick, they scream, the 1084 00:56:16,320 --> 00:56:20,680 Speaker 3: yell and it gets attention a and it lets that 1085 00:56:20,680 --> 00:56:22,640 Speaker 3: bad guy know this isn't going to be the easy 1086 00:56:22,640 --> 00:56:24,960 Speaker 3: pickings you thought it was. Going to be and they're 1087 00:56:24,960 --> 00:56:26,480 Speaker 3: gonna they're gonna get out of there. 1088 00:56:26,960 --> 00:56:29,359 Speaker 1: When you say make yourself heavy, you're talking about a kid. 1089 00:56:29,480 --> 00:56:31,839 Speaker 1: Just like it's like I can make a joke a 1090 00:56:32,000 --> 00:56:34,040 Speaker 1: very serious scenario, but trying to get a kicking and 1091 00:56:34,080 --> 00:56:35,000 Speaker 1: screaming kid out of. 1092 00:56:34,920 --> 00:56:37,000 Speaker 2: A car seat or in a car seat, you know, 1093 00:56:37,239 --> 00:56:40,600 Speaker 2: just fight like that, like just make it hard for 1094 00:56:40,640 --> 00:56:43,000 Speaker 2: them to carry you. Yeah, and you can. 1095 00:56:42,960 --> 00:56:45,600 Speaker 3: Still you can make yourself heavy and fight at the 1096 00:56:45,600 --> 00:56:50,560 Speaker 3: same time. You know, it's not it's just about you know, 1097 00:56:50,560 --> 00:56:53,239 Speaker 3: when someone wants to be carried, it's easy, but when 1098 00:56:53,280 --> 00:56:56,799 Speaker 3: someone doesn't, it's you know, you know how different. You know, 1099 00:56:56,920 --> 00:56:58,840 Speaker 3: like you said, that three year old that wants to 1100 00:56:58,920 --> 00:57:01,040 Speaker 3: weigh a hundred pounds, there are all a sudden one 1101 00:57:01,080 --> 00:57:05,799 Speaker 3: hundred pounds, but those are and like I said, these 1102 00:57:05,840 --> 00:57:07,880 Speaker 3: are the things that we'll take, you know, twenty minutes 1103 00:57:08,440 --> 00:57:10,160 Speaker 3: every week and talk about, you know, like we have 1104 00:57:10,200 --> 00:57:12,440 Speaker 3: the fire plan in our house that you know, we 1105 00:57:12,480 --> 00:57:16,320 Speaker 3: all meet. The mail boxes for our neighborhood are just 1106 00:57:16,360 --> 00:57:19,800 Speaker 3: coincidentally straight across the street from our house, so you know, 1107 00:57:20,320 --> 00:57:23,040 Speaker 3: no matter how you go out, we meet at the 1108 00:57:24,560 --> 00:57:29,080 Speaker 3: at the mailboxes. So like two of us aren't out back, 1109 00:57:29,080 --> 00:57:31,240 Speaker 3: and three of us out front, and now I think 1110 00:57:31,280 --> 00:57:33,240 Speaker 3: there's you guys are still in there. So I'm running 1111 00:57:33,240 --> 00:57:35,240 Speaker 3: back in a burning house looking for you. You know, 1112 00:57:35,280 --> 00:57:38,400 Speaker 3: we all meet at the same place, and you know 1113 00:57:38,400 --> 00:57:40,840 Speaker 3: we're all out. The house can burn, we can replace everything. 1114 00:57:40,880 --> 00:57:43,000 Speaker 3: So the important thing is getting out and making sure 1115 00:57:43,000 --> 00:57:46,840 Speaker 3: everybody's accounted for. You know, situations like you get separated 1116 00:57:46,880 --> 00:57:51,000 Speaker 3: in target. You know, our plan is, uh, they're going 1117 00:57:51,080 --> 00:57:53,760 Speaker 3: to look for somebody with a name tag, preferably a female. 1118 00:57:53,960 --> 00:57:55,840 Speaker 3: Just I know that sounds biased in a lot of ways, 1119 00:57:55,840 --> 00:57:59,000 Speaker 3: but the number of female offenders is incredibly small compared 1120 00:57:59,000 --> 00:58:02,320 Speaker 3: to male offenders. So they're going to look for someone 1121 00:58:02,360 --> 00:58:04,919 Speaker 3: with a name tag and say, hey, I can't find 1122 00:58:04,960 --> 00:58:08,320 Speaker 3: my dad, or I can't find my mom, or they're 1123 00:58:08,360 --> 00:58:12,720 Speaker 3: just going to make their way to the customer service 1124 00:58:12,760 --> 00:58:16,000 Speaker 3: desk and tell them. And my thing is, if I 1125 00:58:16,000 --> 00:58:17,600 Speaker 3: can't find you for a couple of minutes, I'm going 1126 00:58:17,640 --> 00:58:19,000 Speaker 3: to make my way to the front of the store 1127 00:58:19,000 --> 00:58:21,080 Speaker 3: by the registers and the customer service desk, and hopefully 1128 00:58:21,080 --> 00:58:23,760 Speaker 3: we're going to meet up there. But if you don't 1129 00:58:23,760 --> 00:58:25,960 Speaker 3: tell your kid that little bit, they're just going to 1130 00:58:26,000 --> 00:58:29,520 Speaker 3: wander around that store forever looking for you, and you 1131 00:58:29,560 --> 00:58:31,880 Speaker 3: guys can be doing this the whole time and missing 1132 00:58:31,880 --> 00:58:34,960 Speaker 3: each other instead of saying, all right, when you get 1133 00:58:34,960 --> 00:58:36,320 Speaker 3: that tingle in the back of your head, we've been 1134 00:58:36,320 --> 00:58:38,680 Speaker 3: separated too long, go to the front of the store, 1135 00:58:38,760 --> 00:58:41,120 Speaker 3: to the service desk, and well that's where you're gonna meet. 1136 00:58:42,320 --> 00:58:44,160 Speaker 2: It can happen in a second too. If you've got 1137 00:58:44,160 --> 00:58:44,800 Speaker 2: little kids. 1138 00:58:44,880 --> 00:58:48,240 Speaker 1: It's like, imagine you're at a crowded soccer field or something, 1139 00:58:48,360 --> 00:58:50,520 Speaker 1: and you know, you think that you got kids playing 1140 00:58:50,560 --> 00:58:54,480 Speaker 1: in multiple fields, right, and you know, one game ends 1141 00:58:54,520 --> 00:58:56,800 Speaker 1: the other one in shortly after that, you got you know, 1142 00:58:56,840 --> 00:58:59,600 Speaker 1: parents walking this way and that, like super crowded, like 1143 00:58:59,680 --> 00:59:01,960 Speaker 1: may coming. Maybe your kid thinks yeah, maybe you think 1144 00:59:01,960 --> 00:59:04,160 Speaker 1: your kid's going to the car, maybe they're maybe they're 1145 00:59:04,200 --> 00:59:06,520 Speaker 1: going to the concession stand. All of a sudden you 1146 00:59:06,560 --> 00:59:08,920 Speaker 1: lose them and then you panic and it's like, what 1147 00:59:08,920 --> 00:59:10,200 Speaker 1: what do you do in that situation? 1148 00:59:10,560 --> 00:59:12,280 Speaker 2: If you're a kid. You know. 1149 00:59:13,840 --> 00:59:16,080 Speaker 3: The other thing I would do is whenever we went 1150 00:59:16,120 --> 00:59:18,400 Speaker 3: somewhere big, like you know, our local amusement park here 1151 00:59:18,440 --> 00:59:21,400 Speaker 3: is Kennywood right in Ytsburgh. But even if it was 1152 00:59:21,440 --> 00:59:25,120 Speaker 3: Disney or a concert I would take a picture of them, 1153 00:59:25,880 --> 00:59:28,480 Speaker 3: so if something would happen, they would disappear. What are 1154 00:59:28,480 --> 00:59:30,640 Speaker 3: the police going to naturally ask, is what was he wearing? 1155 00:59:30,800 --> 00:59:33,880 Speaker 3: I could say this and I show them the picture. 1156 00:59:34,320 --> 00:59:36,240 Speaker 3: I could even send them the picture and they could 1157 00:59:36,240 --> 00:59:39,640 Speaker 3: send it out to everybody who's looking for my child. Now, 1158 00:59:40,200 --> 00:59:42,440 Speaker 3: so not that a back. I couldn't throw new clothes 1159 00:59:42,440 --> 00:59:44,640 Speaker 3: on them, but that's a pretty you know, that's a 1160 00:59:44,720 --> 00:59:46,760 Speaker 3: bigger stretch. So now they have a picture of my 1161 00:59:46,760 --> 00:59:48,880 Speaker 3: son exactly what they looked like the last time I 1162 00:59:48,920 --> 00:59:50,280 Speaker 3: saw them, or my daughter. 1163 00:59:51,480 --> 00:59:54,760 Speaker 1: Wow, just that two second, great idea. It's a great idea. 1164 00:59:55,400 --> 00:59:57,720 Speaker 1: So what do you what do you tell your kid? 1165 00:59:57,800 --> 00:59:59,080 Speaker 1: I mean it was going to ask you about the 1166 00:59:59,120 --> 01:00:02,080 Speaker 1: separation thing, but what do you tell your kids about? 1167 01:00:02,080 --> 01:00:04,920 Speaker 1: You know, because you talk about phones and or just 1168 01:00:05,000 --> 01:00:08,080 Speaker 1: electronics or video games are another thing where they've got 1169 01:00:08,120 --> 01:00:11,200 Speaker 1: these open source chats where kids are playing all these 1170 01:00:11,280 --> 01:00:15,000 Speaker 1: video games and they're talking to people who are strangers 1171 01:00:15,040 --> 01:00:18,040 Speaker 1: because they're like on a team together or something. But 1172 01:00:18,080 --> 01:00:20,200 Speaker 1: really the person they're talking to might not be a 1173 01:00:20,440 --> 01:00:22,640 Speaker 1: twelve year old kid. It might be a thirty year 1174 01:00:22,680 --> 01:00:24,600 Speaker 1: old guy pretending to be a twelve year old kid 1175 01:00:25,040 --> 01:00:27,600 Speaker 1: and trying to build a relationship with with them. I mean, 1176 01:00:27,600 --> 01:00:30,000 Speaker 1: how what do you tell your kids about engagements like 1177 01:00:30,040 --> 01:00:33,040 Speaker 1: that or do you have any rules or parameters set. 1178 01:00:33,320 --> 01:00:36,439 Speaker 3: Yeah, or thing like yeah, And it ticks them off, 1179 01:00:36,960 --> 01:00:39,640 Speaker 3: but they don't friend. They're not allowed to friend anybody 1180 01:00:39,680 --> 01:00:41,840 Speaker 3: they don't actually know. And you know what, that's probably 1181 01:00:41,880 --> 01:00:44,200 Speaker 3: a good practice for adults. Like you know, I'll get 1182 01:00:44,240 --> 01:00:45,760 Speaker 3: frame requests and I feel like I sound like a 1183 01:00:45,840 --> 01:00:47,320 Speaker 3: joke when I say it's I'll get frame requests from 1184 01:00:47,320 --> 01:00:48,800 Speaker 3: people who went to the same high school as me, 1185 01:00:48,880 --> 01:00:52,000 Speaker 3: but I didn't really know them, and it's and I 1186 01:00:52,120 --> 01:00:54,920 Speaker 3: just it's a leap for me to make that connection. 1187 01:00:55,040 --> 01:00:59,400 Speaker 3: So I sometimes, I I should say sometimes usually I will. 1188 01:00:59,440 --> 01:01:02,200 Speaker 3: I will always ignored if I don't actually know them. 1189 01:01:02,800 --> 01:01:04,800 Speaker 3: But that's that's the big thing. And my kids will 1190 01:01:04,800 --> 01:01:07,400 Speaker 3: tell me about, oh, they're so and so's friend from 1191 01:01:07,920 --> 01:01:11,800 Speaker 3: and you mentioned soccer, like a soccer team, and I'm like, yeah, no, 1192 01:01:11,960 --> 01:01:15,480 Speaker 3: you're not, You're not doing that because there are a 1193 01:01:15,520 --> 01:01:18,840 Speaker 3: significant amount of cases. And again it's something you could 1194 01:01:18,840 --> 01:01:23,800 Speaker 3: google where it is the the forty five year old 1195 01:01:23,800 --> 01:01:27,640 Speaker 3: guy pretending to be a fourteen year old girl and 1196 01:01:27,680 --> 01:01:31,320 Speaker 3: I had when I was at Nickmick. You know, there 1197 01:01:31,360 --> 01:01:35,360 Speaker 3: were dozens of cases like that where it was just 1198 01:01:35,880 --> 01:01:38,800 Speaker 3: you know, someone pretending to be someone else, gained the 1199 01:01:38,880 --> 01:01:41,920 Speaker 3: child's trust, got them to meet somewhere. In fact, we 1200 01:01:42,480 --> 01:01:46,880 Speaker 3: had one case where it was two guys each pretending 1201 01:01:46,880 --> 01:01:49,040 Speaker 3: to be a fourteen year old girl. When they met up, 1202 01:01:49,320 --> 01:01:53,320 Speaker 3: we arrested both of them. So you know, they arranged 1203 01:01:53,320 --> 01:01:57,520 Speaker 3: this meeting and we just arrested both. So it happens 1204 01:01:57,600 --> 01:01:59,600 Speaker 3: quite a bit, you know, and you see the things 1205 01:01:59,680 --> 01:02:03,960 Speaker 3: like to catch a predator and stuff like that, you know, 1206 01:02:05,240 --> 01:02:07,600 Speaker 3: and I know that's set up in conjunction with law 1207 01:02:07,640 --> 01:02:10,200 Speaker 3: enforcement in the places that do it, but you know, 1208 01:02:10,280 --> 01:02:13,160 Speaker 3: that's just how it happens, Like they start chatting with 1209 01:02:13,720 --> 01:02:19,919 Speaker 3: this person. And I'll tell you one story that happened 1210 01:02:19,960 --> 01:02:23,360 Speaker 3: out of Tyler, Texas. A buddy of mine down there 1211 01:02:23,400 --> 01:02:25,960 Speaker 3: at the time named Todd Hiles was part of this 1212 01:02:26,040 --> 01:02:32,000 Speaker 3: task force. So the Internet service providers have gotten very 1213 01:02:32,040 --> 01:02:35,400 Speaker 3: good about, you know, as much as they can knocking 1214 01:02:35,440 --> 01:02:41,840 Speaker 3: down these these illicit these illicit posts. So they had 1215 01:02:41,840 --> 01:02:45,440 Speaker 3: an undercover who put an ad up that said something 1216 01:02:45,440 --> 01:02:48,640 Speaker 3: to the effect of fourteen year old boy looking to 1217 01:02:48,680 --> 01:02:51,240 Speaker 3: meet adult men for sex. They put it on Craigslist 1218 01:02:52,240 --> 01:02:55,160 Speaker 3: and said meet me at the McDonald's on I don't know, 1219 01:02:55,160 --> 01:02:58,160 Speaker 3: I thirty five or whatever. So it was up for 1220 01:02:58,200 --> 01:03:02,600 Speaker 3: about ninety seconds and Craigslist immediately took it down when 1221 01:03:02,600 --> 01:03:05,440 Speaker 3: they realized what it was. So they set up to 1222 01:03:05,480 --> 01:03:07,720 Speaker 3: see who would come show up there to try to 1223 01:03:07,760 --> 01:03:11,560 Speaker 3: meet with this with this fourteen year old boy, and Sean, 1224 01:03:11,600 --> 01:03:13,560 Speaker 3: I kid you not. He told me. They were coming 1225 01:03:13,600 --> 01:03:18,880 Speaker 3: in at such a rate of regularity that their initial 1226 01:03:18,920 --> 01:03:22,440 Speaker 3: plan was to arrest them right there in the restaurant, 1227 01:03:22,680 --> 01:03:24,880 Speaker 3: take them out front, you know, put them in the 1228 01:03:24,920 --> 01:03:26,960 Speaker 3: cars and go. They said, the guys were coming in 1229 01:03:27,000 --> 01:03:29,000 Speaker 3: the front so fast that they were ended up taking 1230 01:03:29,040 --> 01:03:31,720 Speaker 3: them out the back, so the guys coming in front 1231 01:03:32,040 --> 01:03:34,560 Speaker 3: wouldn't see what it was and run off. 1232 01:03:35,080 --> 01:03:37,720 Speaker 2: You've got to be kidding me. How would add. 1233 01:03:37,600 --> 01:03:40,720 Speaker 3: Up ninety seconds one guy showed. 1234 01:03:40,480 --> 01:03:42,800 Speaker 2: Up and all these people saw that in that time. 1235 01:03:43,520 --> 01:03:47,200 Speaker 3: Yeah, and and look this compulsion that these bad guys have. 1236 01:03:48,040 --> 01:03:51,080 Speaker 3: They can't they can't help themselves, Like how many times 1237 01:03:51,120 --> 01:03:52,760 Speaker 3: do you see on that to catch a predator where 1238 01:03:52,760 --> 01:03:54,120 Speaker 3: they say, oh, I knew it was a scale. I 1239 01:03:54,160 --> 01:03:55,880 Speaker 3: knew it was a sting. I just couldn't help myself. 1240 01:03:55,920 --> 01:03:59,360 Speaker 3: It really is like and I talked to psychologists and 1241 01:03:59,360 --> 01:04:01,760 Speaker 3: psychiatrists who say, we wish there was a pill that 1242 01:04:01,800 --> 01:04:03,960 Speaker 3: we could give them, like we can give to cure 1243 01:04:05,040 --> 01:04:08,280 Speaker 3: you know whatever. But but but this compulsion, like they 1244 01:04:08,320 --> 01:04:10,960 Speaker 3: can't they can't resist themselves. One guy at that sting 1245 01:04:10,960 --> 01:04:15,360 Speaker 3: in Tyler showed up in a refrigerated truck with like 1246 01:04:15,480 --> 01:04:19,160 Speaker 3: five tons of ice cream. So they even called the 1247 01:04:19,160 --> 01:04:20,800 Speaker 3: They called the company and said, hey, you might want 1248 01:04:20,800 --> 01:04:24,160 Speaker 3: to come get your stuff before, like we're we're seizing 1249 01:04:24,200 --> 01:04:28,680 Speaker 3: the we're seizing the the truck and we're arresting him, 1250 01:04:28,680 --> 01:04:30,360 Speaker 3: but the trailers still sitting here, if you want to 1251 01:04:30,360 --> 01:04:33,600 Speaker 3: come get your product. Yeah, it's uh. 1252 01:04:34,280 --> 01:04:36,760 Speaker 2: And these are all these are all men, all all 1253 01:04:36,800 --> 01:04:37,959 Speaker 2: sickos doing this stuff. 1254 01:04:38,080 --> 01:04:41,840 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, the large majority. There's there's there are there 1255 01:04:41,840 --> 01:04:47,320 Speaker 3: are female offenders, but they're they're reasonably rare that that happens. 1256 01:04:48,480 --> 01:04:53,160 Speaker 3: You'll see it more times in conjunction with acting with 1257 01:04:53,280 --> 01:04:55,920 Speaker 3: a male, in concert with a male to lower kids, 1258 01:04:57,720 --> 01:04:59,880 Speaker 3: but the pure female offender is rare. 1259 01:05:00,160 --> 01:05:04,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, why I mean, what what I mean? It sounds 1260 01:05:05,000 --> 01:05:06,160 Speaker 2: like a drug addiction. 1261 01:05:06,560 --> 01:05:08,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's it's very close to that. Yeah, that's like 1262 01:05:08,520 --> 01:05:11,520 Speaker 3: I said, they can't. They can't help themselves even even 1263 01:05:11,560 --> 01:05:15,400 Speaker 3: when they know like that. Like we talked about risk earlier, right, 1264 01:05:15,480 --> 01:05:17,920 Speaker 3: the risk of me coming back from Secret Service, washing 1265 01:05:17,960 --> 01:05:19,720 Speaker 3: out of Secret Service training, coming back to find a 1266 01:05:19,720 --> 01:05:23,440 Speaker 3: new job was a little bit calculated, but would have 1267 01:05:23,440 --> 01:05:25,800 Speaker 3: been worth it and ended up being worth it. Worth 1268 01:05:25,800 --> 01:05:28,439 Speaker 3: the risk. These guys are willing to willing to risk 1269 01:05:28,480 --> 01:05:33,120 Speaker 3: their liberty, their lives, their marriages, their you know everything. 1270 01:05:33,120 --> 01:05:38,560 Speaker 3: They got to very frankly have sex with a child. 1271 01:05:39,200 --> 01:05:42,720 Speaker 2: I mean, an add up on Craigslist, of all places. 1272 01:05:43,400 --> 01:05:47,800 Speaker 2: It's not like I mean, it's Craigslist, you know, it's 1273 01:05:47,800 --> 01:05:48,920 Speaker 2: not like a site. 1274 01:05:48,640 --> 01:05:50,320 Speaker 3: That's it's not the dark web. 1275 01:05:50,640 --> 01:05:52,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, right, that's right. It's not the dark Web. 1276 01:05:53,000 --> 01:05:57,800 Speaker 2: It's Craigslist. So like it was up for ninety seconds, 1277 01:05:57,800 --> 01:05:59,680 Speaker 2: and you had so many people that you didn't even know. 1278 01:06:00,360 --> 01:06:03,680 Speaker 2: That's scary as hell. Yeah, it's scary as well. 1279 01:06:03,800 --> 01:06:06,400 Speaker 1: No, I mean, and again and and so you said, 1280 01:06:06,440 --> 01:06:09,040 Speaker 1: you said, my audience would think that you're crazy talking 1281 01:06:09,040 --> 01:06:11,400 Speaker 1: about all this stuff with your kids based on these stats. 1282 01:06:11,440 --> 01:06:14,040 Speaker 2: How could you not talk about this stuff with your kids? Right? 1283 01:06:14,120 --> 01:06:16,080 Speaker 3: And and and thank you for saying that, because it 1284 01:06:16,080 --> 01:06:17,320 Speaker 3: makes me feel a little less crazy. 1285 01:06:17,400 --> 01:06:20,120 Speaker 2: But I mean the thing, I can't believe this. 1286 01:06:20,560 --> 01:06:23,560 Speaker 3: I talk to groups of parents and I tell them, like, 1287 01:06:23,640 --> 01:06:28,400 Speaker 3: this is how easy it is. So if your child 1288 01:06:28,520 --> 01:06:32,280 Speaker 3: has their their their gaming name, and they have their 1289 01:06:32,320 --> 01:06:35,040 Speaker 3: picture as there, and I tell people all the time, 1290 01:06:35,080 --> 01:06:37,840 Speaker 3: don't make your avatar your picture put up. You know 1291 01:06:37,960 --> 01:06:38,960 Speaker 3: mine's Captain America. 1292 01:06:39,080 --> 01:06:41,640 Speaker 2: Right. So so. 1293 01:06:43,080 --> 01:06:45,320 Speaker 3: If I find a child whose avatar is their picture, 1294 01:06:45,320 --> 01:06:47,320 Speaker 3: I already know what they look like, and I'll get 1295 01:06:47,360 --> 01:06:51,320 Speaker 3: in a chat room with them and I'll just say, oh, hey, 1296 01:06:51,600 --> 01:06:54,760 Speaker 3: you look like one of my cousin's friends. You know, 1297 01:06:54,880 --> 01:06:58,640 Speaker 3: he goes to Franklin Regional. Where do you go to school? 1298 01:06:58,760 --> 01:07:03,480 Speaker 3: And you're very innocent kids, very innocently answer maybe I 1299 01:07:03,600 --> 01:07:07,000 Speaker 3: go to Mars. That's where my kids are. Oh yeah, 1300 01:07:07,040 --> 01:07:10,280 Speaker 3: Oh I have another cousin who lives in Mars. His development. 1301 01:07:10,680 --> 01:07:13,640 Speaker 3: He lives in you know Shady Trees Estates. Where do 1302 01:07:13,720 --> 01:07:14,000 Speaker 3: you live? 1303 01:07:14,080 --> 01:07:14,240 Speaker 1: Oh? 1304 01:07:14,240 --> 01:07:18,800 Speaker 3: I live in you know Smithfield Estates. So now with 1305 01:07:18,920 --> 01:07:22,160 Speaker 3: two questions, I already have the picture. With two questions, 1306 01:07:22,200 --> 01:07:25,480 Speaker 3: I know what school district your kid goes to and 1307 01:07:25,520 --> 01:07:30,000 Speaker 3: what neighborhood you're in. Now, the bad guys do surveillance 1308 01:07:30,200 --> 01:07:33,640 Speaker 3: just like we do. Right, So all it would take, 1309 01:07:34,440 --> 01:07:36,919 Speaker 3: especially for a small school district like Mars, who really 1310 01:07:36,960 --> 01:07:39,320 Speaker 3: only has I think seventeen buses that pick kids up, 1311 01:07:40,040 --> 01:07:43,840 Speaker 3: it would take me probably two days of sitting in 1312 01:07:43,840 --> 01:07:46,320 Speaker 3: that neighborhood that's Smithwood Estates or whatever you want to 1313 01:07:46,360 --> 01:07:50,600 Speaker 3: call it, to do a little surveillance see that kid 1314 01:07:50,640 --> 01:07:52,560 Speaker 3: get off the bus and watch which house he goes to. 1315 01:07:53,400 --> 01:07:56,760 Speaker 3: And as I continue that grooming process, right and now 1316 01:07:56,800 --> 01:07:59,360 Speaker 3: I say, all right, you know, maybe we can meet 1317 01:07:59,440 --> 01:08:04,320 Speaker 3: up sometime. I already know where he lives. So that's 1318 01:08:04,360 --> 01:08:06,520 Speaker 3: how easy it is. It was it was too easy 1319 01:08:06,640 --> 01:08:10,240 Speaker 3: questions to find out you know, where the kid lived, 1320 01:08:10,360 --> 01:08:14,200 Speaker 3: and you know, and eventually, once I build that rapport, 1321 01:08:14,280 --> 01:08:16,120 Speaker 3: I'm going to get their real name, right you're you're, 1322 01:08:17,160 --> 01:08:22,040 Speaker 3: you know, your avatar might say, you know, Captain America. 1323 01:08:22,600 --> 01:08:24,760 Speaker 3: But eventually, you know, I'm going to get the real 1324 01:08:24,840 --> 01:08:26,920 Speaker 3: name out of the kid too. And that's that's just 1325 01:08:26,960 --> 01:08:30,120 Speaker 3: how easy it is. Two or three simple questions that 1326 01:08:30,240 --> 01:08:34,800 Speaker 3: these kids very innocently divulged to someone who they think 1327 01:08:34,920 --> 01:08:37,680 Speaker 3: is a friend online. That's why I tell my kids 1328 01:08:37,720 --> 01:08:40,680 Speaker 3: about if you don't know that person. You're not You're 1329 01:08:40,720 --> 01:08:42,120 Speaker 3: not getting on there and chatting with him. 1330 01:08:42,880 --> 01:08:47,880 Speaker 1: Where, Jeff, where do these predators buying large strike for 1331 01:08:47,960 --> 01:08:50,120 Speaker 1: lack of a better term, where do these interactions with 1332 01:08:50,200 --> 01:08:51,559 Speaker 1: these kids actually happen? 1333 01:08:52,439 --> 01:08:52,839 Speaker 2: Where? 1334 01:08:53,720 --> 01:08:56,960 Speaker 1: I mean, can you give me a sense of how 1335 01:08:57,000 --> 01:09:01,200 Speaker 1: they actually make contact me obviously beyond the craig list stuff. Yeah, 1336 01:09:01,240 --> 01:09:03,759 Speaker 1: you said, so someone surveiling a school and they're watching 1337 01:09:03,840 --> 01:09:06,200 Speaker 1: a kid, and that you talk about the grooming process, 1338 01:09:06,240 --> 01:09:10,000 Speaker 1: like talk can you talk about like what that looks 1339 01:09:10,080 --> 01:09:14,840 Speaker 1: like for people? Where these predators strike and if there 1340 01:09:14,840 --> 01:09:16,479 Speaker 1: are warning signs? What what are they? 1341 01:09:16,840 --> 01:09:18,439 Speaker 2: If you're a parent looking at this stuff. 1342 01:09:18,720 --> 01:09:22,479 Speaker 3: So their initial interaction is going to be through places 1343 01:09:22,520 --> 01:09:26,280 Speaker 3: like discord gaming sites, you know, chat rooms and stuff 1344 01:09:26,280 --> 01:09:29,880 Speaker 3: like that. That's the initial And I had a guy 1345 01:09:29,920 --> 01:09:31,559 Speaker 3: tell me I worked a case where he said, you know, 1346 01:09:31,600 --> 01:09:35,439 Speaker 3: I'll get on these game gaming platforms and I'll send 1347 01:09:35,479 --> 01:09:37,800 Speaker 3: out hundreds of messages to kids a night, hoping I 1348 01:09:37,880 --> 01:09:43,400 Speaker 3: get one or two reactions. And you know the next 1349 01:09:43,400 --> 01:09:46,000 Speaker 3: step is, you know when you propose the meetup, right, 1350 01:09:47,240 --> 01:09:49,960 Speaker 3: you say, you know, like, hey, you know I'm going 1351 01:09:50,000 --> 01:09:52,000 Speaker 3: to be in your area next week. You know, how 1352 01:09:52,040 --> 01:09:56,360 Speaker 3: about we meet face to face and the things to 1353 01:09:56,400 --> 01:09:58,479 Speaker 3: look for, you know, and and that's I know I'm 1354 01:09:58,479 --> 01:10:00,800 Speaker 3: simplifying it, but that is really how simple it is. 1355 01:10:00,840 --> 01:10:04,599 Speaker 3: That's how fast it happens. And that's what comes back 1356 01:10:04,640 --> 01:10:07,280 Speaker 3: to knowing what your kids are doing online and knowing 1357 01:10:07,320 --> 01:10:11,240 Speaker 3: who they're hanging out with, and the things to look for, 1358 01:10:11,439 --> 01:10:15,080 Speaker 3: you know, if if you know, if you're if your 1359 01:10:15,160 --> 01:10:17,920 Speaker 3: child starts to be more distant, if they're breaking curfew 1360 01:10:18,000 --> 01:10:21,240 Speaker 3: of course, things like that, if they're turning off the 1361 01:10:21,280 --> 01:10:24,880 Speaker 3: location on their phone and you're not able to say, like, hey, 1362 01:10:25,280 --> 01:10:27,240 Speaker 3: you know, why why is it turning out, if they don't 1363 01:10:27,240 --> 01:10:29,040 Speaker 3: have a good reason why they're doing that, and if 1364 01:10:29,080 --> 01:10:33,360 Speaker 3: it's happening consistently, and then the other part, so that 1365 01:10:33,439 --> 01:10:36,120 Speaker 3: might indicate they're they're doing something was they're going somewhere 1366 01:10:36,120 --> 01:10:39,080 Speaker 3: you don't want them to go. But the indicators that 1367 01:10:39,120 --> 01:10:41,000 Speaker 3: they're being trafficked are things like, you know, they're going 1368 01:10:41,040 --> 01:10:46,200 Speaker 3: to become more withdrawn the girls, young girls will start 1369 01:10:46,240 --> 01:10:49,760 Speaker 3: to wear like more makeup and dress more provocatively. 1370 01:10:50,400 --> 01:10:50,960 Speaker 2: And this is. 1371 01:10:50,920 --> 01:10:54,639 Speaker 3: Something else that like school SROs are trained to look for. 1372 01:10:54,880 --> 01:10:56,479 Speaker 3: Right if that girl all of a sudden is coming 1373 01:10:56,520 --> 01:10:58,679 Speaker 3: to school tarted up for lack of a better reason. 1374 01:10:59,200 --> 01:11:01,000 Speaker 3: You know, that's something that they're going to pay attention to. 1375 01:11:01,080 --> 01:11:03,800 Speaker 3: So this has gotten you know, more attention from the 1376 01:11:03,840 --> 01:11:06,000 Speaker 3: schools and and you know people who are going to 1377 01:11:06,080 --> 01:11:08,320 Speaker 3: recognize that. There's even training now for police, Like when 1378 01:11:08,360 --> 01:11:10,120 Speaker 3: you pull a car over and there's a miner in 1379 01:11:10,160 --> 01:11:12,960 Speaker 3: the car, what kind of questions you should ask the minor? 1380 01:11:13,080 --> 01:11:15,080 Speaker 3: You know that kind of thing. So, so that's gotten better. 1381 01:11:15,800 --> 01:11:20,000 Speaker 1: You talked, you talked about single parents, Jeff, I mean, uh, 1382 01:11:20,120 --> 01:11:22,920 Speaker 1: what about you know, single parents who work, you know, 1383 01:11:23,040 --> 01:11:25,040 Speaker 1: in schools out for the summer and kids are home 1384 01:11:25,160 --> 01:11:27,599 Speaker 1: during the summer, and and what do you what do 1385 01:11:27,640 --> 01:11:29,360 Speaker 1: you do? I mean, and maybe kids are old enough 1386 01:11:29,360 --> 01:11:31,840 Speaker 1: that they don't need a babysitter, or maybe they have 1387 01:11:31,880 --> 01:11:34,519 Speaker 1: a babysitter, but the babysitter is not away. First of all, 1388 01:11:34,560 --> 01:11:38,000 Speaker 1: it's like as great as a babysitter is there can be, 1389 01:11:38,479 --> 01:11:41,120 Speaker 1: and it's still not their own children. So maybe they 1390 01:11:41,160 --> 01:11:42,759 Speaker 1: don't know to look for some of this stuff. 1391 01:11:43,280 --> 01:11:45,120 Speaker 2: What do you do? What what are single. 1392 01:11:44,840 --> 01:11:47,040 Speaker 1: Parents do in those scenarios when they're at work all 1393 01:11:47,120 --> 01:11:48,479 Speaker 1: day and their kids are at home. 1394 01:11:48,640 --> 01:11:50,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, again, it's so tough you know, you have to 1395 01:11:50,600 --> 01:11:53,960 Speaker 3: look for those signs that you know, again if they're 1396 01:11:54,000 --> 01:11:59,000 Speaker 3: if they're being exploited, you know, those signs of withdraw 1397 01:11:59,640 --> 01:12:02,599 Speaker 3: you know, and you're looking for you know, they're they're 1398 01:12:02,640 --> 01:12:08,040 Speaker 3: pulling away there, you know, they just the idea of sadness. 1399 01:12:08,400 --> 01:12:10,280 Speaker 3: If they're answering calls in the middle of the night, 1400 01:12:10,320 --> 01:12:13,439 Speaker 3: if they're trying to leave at odd hours, you know, 1401 01:12:13,479 --> 01:12:15,360 Speaker 3: all that is going to be like someone's calling them 1402 01:12:15,360 --> 01:12:19,439 Speaker 3: and saying, hey, you got to be here, so it 1403 01:12:19,880 --> 01:12:22,400 Speaker 3: you know, those are all those are all indications. But yeah, 1404 01:12:22,439 --> 01:12:27,479 Speaker 3: it's tough. I mean, like you know, I I'm I 1405 01:12:27,600 --> 01:12:30,040 Speaker 3: see my kids less than a day than I don't 1406 01:12:30,040 --> 01:12:31,760 Speaker 3: see them, right, So I get home from work at 1407 01:12:31,760 --> 01:12:34,519 Speaker 3: four o'clock and you know they go to I go 1408 01:12:34,560 --> 01:12:36,439 Speaker 3: to bed at ten. That's six hours of the day. 1409 01:12:36,479 --> 01:12:39,120 Speaker 3: So I have this six hour window where I see them, 1410 01:12:39,160 --> 01:12:40,920 Speaker 3: but there's more hours in the day that I don't 1411 01:12:40,920 --> 01:12:44,960 Speaker 3: see them, you know, same with my wife. So yeah, 1412 01:12:45,160 --> 01:12:48,960 Speaker 3: like you said, a single parent'sy it's even tougher. And 1413 01:12:49,000 --> 01:12:51,280 Speaker 3: then you're you're trusting, like you said, you're trusting that 1414 01:12:51,320 --> 01:12:54,679 Speaker 3: person who isn't emotionally invested with your child. The way, 1415 01:12:54,720 --> 01:12:58,120 Speaker 3: you are right to to do the right thing. But 1416 01:12:58,200 --> 01:13:01,320 Speaker 3: it's yeah, it's tough, you know, but but the big things, 1417 01:13:01,320 --> 01:13:03,280 Speaker 3: you know, and I think the things we had growing 1418 01:13:03,320 --> 01:13:06,160 Speaker 3: up were you know, open dialogues. You know, don't be 1419 01:13:06,200 --> 01:13:09,360 Speaker 3: afraid to have tough conversations with your kids. You know 1420 01:13:09,360 --> 01:13:12,160 Speaker 3: they'll roll their eyes a lot, but you know, you know, 1421 01:13:12,280 --> 01:13:14,640 Speaker 3: make sure they know that they can come to you 1422 01:13:14,680 --> 01:13:18,639 Speaker 3: and make sure you have plans and you know, stuff 1423 01:13:18,680 --> 01:13:21,760 Speaker 3: like that. It's that that communication pieces is going to 1424 01:13:21,840 --> 01:13:23,599 Speaker 3: be big because, like I said at the very beginning, 1425 01:13:24,040 --> 01:13:26,320 Speaker 3: if they're not getting the attention from us, they're going 1426 01:13:26,400 --> 01:13:29,559 Speaker 3: to find it somewhere else, you know. And we've all 1427 01:13:30,000 --> 01:13:31,920 Speaker 3: seen these stories and we all know the stories that 1428 01:13:32,479 --> 01:13:32,720 Speaker 3: like that. 1429 01:13:32,920 --> 01:13:38,080 Speaker 1: So well, Jeff, if if somebody, you know, if let's 1430 01:13:38,080 --> 01:13:40,200 Speaker 1: say the worst happens and we see some of these 1431 01:13:40,200 --> 01:13:44,240 Speaker 1: stories where kids go missing and you said, seventy two hours, 1432 01:13:44,840 --> 01:13:49,360 Speaker 1: how often did you find a kid after they went missing? 1433 01:13:51,040 --> 01:13:54,519 Speaker 3: Well there's this there's been more of a phenomenon lately 1434 01:13:55,400 --> 01:13:59,960 Speaker 3: of what's called long term missing recoveries. Someone like you know, 1435 01:14:00,160 --> 01:14:02,360 Speaker 3: goes back to like Elizabeth Smart, where she was gone 1436 01:14:02,400 --> 01:14:05,840 Speaker 3: for what nine months? I believe we're actually seeing some 1437 01:14:05,880 --> 01:14:08,080 Speaker 3: of these kids who were gone, the three girls in 1438 01:14:08,120 --> 01:14:13,680 Speaker 3: Cleveland who were gone ten twelve years respectively. You know, 1439 01:14:14,560 --> 01:14:18,760 Speaker 3: this has kind of become a phenomenon that's happening. But 1440 01:14:19,040 --> 01:14:21,479 Speaker 3: for the large majority of kids who are who are 1441 01:14:21,960 --> 01:14:24,559 Speaker 3: in a true stranger abduction, time is of the essence. 1442 01:14:26,240 --> 01:14:29,719 Speaker 3: I tell people all the time, like, you know, don't 1443 01:14:30,600 --> 01:14:33,040 Speaker 3: don't waste an hour looking for your kid. If you 1444 01:14:33,040 --> 01:14:35,479 Speaker 3: can't find them, call the police. Get get boots on 1445 01:14:35,520 --> 01:14:37,960 Speaker 3: the ground, moving and mobilized to look for your child. 1446 01:14:38,560 --> 01:14:40,160 Speaker 3: And people say like, oh, you know, I didn't want 1447 01:14:40,200 --> 01:14:41,920 Speaker 3: to bother the police. Hey, you know what, that's that's 1448 01:14:41,960 --> 01:14:44,599 Speaker 3: why we're here bother us like this, this is our 1449 01:14:44,880 --> 01:14:50,479 Speaker 3: like your child will become our mission. So you get 1450 01:14:50,520 --> 01:14:54,200 Speaker 3: people moving, and you know, if an amber alert is 1451 01:14:54,200 --> 01:14:55,920 Speaker 3: is justified. You know, you really can't have an amber 1452 01:14:55,960 --> 01:14:59,080 Speaker 3: alert unless you have a description of a car. But 1453 01:14:59,160 --> 01:15:01,400 Speaker 3: if that's something that you have, if a witness says, yeah, 1454 01:15:01,439 --> 01:15:05,880 Speaker 3: so I'm getting that silver Corolla and take off, you know, 1455 01:15:06,000 --> 01:15:08,439 Speaker 3: get that, get that put out. The Amber alert system 1456 01:15:08,560 --> 01:15:13,200 Speaker 3: is is wow, just so many kids saved because of 1457 01:15:13,200 --> 01:15:17,920 Speaker 3: an Amber alert. But it's that's the big thing is 1458 01:15:17,920 --> 01:15:23,639 Speaker 3: is you know, a quick response timeliness in that response. 1459 01:15:23,720 --> 01:15:25,800 Speaker 3: But I would also tell parents never to give up hope. 1460 01:15:25,960 --> 01:15:28,880 Speaker 3: You know, if the worst thing happens and your child disappears. 1461 01:15:29,520 --> 01:15:33,479 Speaker 3: We're seeing again this, this pattern of kids being recovered 1462 01:15:33,560 --> 01:15:38,720 Speaker 3: years later, and it's, uh, it's the closest thing to 1463 01:15:38,720 --> 01:15:40,160 Speaker 3: a miracle you ever see. 1464 01:15:40,439 --> 01:15:42,479 Speaker 2: Frankly, Jeff, I don't. 1465 01:15:42,800 --> 01:15:44,200 Speaker 1: I mean, I've been talking to you in that for 1466 01:15:44,280 --> 01:15:47,360 Speaker 1: an hour and fifteen minutes, and I mean I would 1467 01:15:47,400 --> 01:15:50,600 Speaker 1: love to. I mean, I so much I want to 1468 01:15:50,640 --> 01:15:51,800 Speaker 1: talk to you about, but I don't want to keep 1469 01:15:51,840 --> 01:15:53,280 Speaker 1: you for too long. I mean, maybe you can just 1470 01:15:53,280 --> 01:15:55,080 Speaker 1: come back for a part two, would that be okay? 1471 01:15:55,479 --> 01:15:58,240 Speaker 1: I'd love to, Yeah, I mean because there's so much. 1472 01:15:58,240 --> 01:16:00,879 Speaker 1: I mean, I want to talk about your time protecting presidents, 1473 01:16:00,920 --> 01:16:02,519 Speaker 1: I want to talk about what you're up to now, 1474 01:16:03,920 --> 01:16:07,720 Speaker 1: and I just I just feel like an hour and 1475 01:16:07,800 --> 01:16:10,280 Speaker 1: fifteen minutes is on one subject. 1476 01:16:10,280 --> 01:16:12,439 Speaker 2: Man, I want to be respectful of your time, you know. 1477 01:16:13,000 --> 01:16:16,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'd be glad to come back, all right, everybody, 1478 01:16:16,920 --> 01:16:20,400 Speaker 1: Jeff James, I'm talking to him for seventy five minutes 1479 01:16:20,520 --> 01:16:24,160 Speaker 1: on the horrors of child sex trafficking and what parents 1480 01:16:24,200 --> 01:16:27,040 Speaker 1: can do to protect their families and protect their children. 1481 01:16:27,600 --> 01:16:30,240 Speaker 2: Pragmatic things, ladies and gentlemen, And so, as. 1482 01:16:30,120 --> 01:16:34,000 Speaker 1: Always, if you like what you watched or listen to 1483 01:16:34,360 --> 01:16:37,439 Speaker 1: subscribe to this podcast wherever you listen to podcasts, go 1484 01:16:37,520 --> 01:16:40,439 Speaker 1: to my Rumble page subscribe there. We've got this awesome 1485 01:16:40,479 --> 01:16:42,479 Speaker 1: video format and we're going to be rolling out more 1486 01:16:43,000 --> 01:16:45,280 Speaker 1: awesome content for you in the very very near future 1487 01:16:45,280 --> 01:16:49,320 Speaker 1: as we grow this show. Comment on social media, leave reviews, 1488 01:16:49,680 --> 01:16:51,840 Speaker 1: interact with the posts. All that helps with all this 1489 01:16:52,040 --> 01:16:55,719 Speaker 1: algorithm stuff that I don't really understand. But as always, 1490 01:16:55,720 --> 01:16:59,240 Speaker 1: thank you for watching. Never quit, never surrender. God bless 1491 01:16:59,240 --> 01:17:01,519 Speaker 1: you all, and God bless us this amazing country that 1492 01:17:01,560 --> 01:17:03,840 Speaker 1: we live in. Jeff, thanks for being with us. 1493 01:17:03,880 --> 01:17:13,880 Speaker 3: Man hmm