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Speaker 1: The baby also also clearly bore no resemblance to me

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Speaker 2: I'm cut off anyways anyways, op, he says, Still, though

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Speaker 1: Have been my own misunderstanding of genetics, and so I

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Speaker 1: Ah, I didn't want to throw my way on my

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Speaker 2: I think he's been thinking about doing the patnity just

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Speaker 1: Like, okay, he just knows. He just knows.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. The thing is because we talk about is all

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Speaker 1: the time with the DNA test stories when you. Uh,

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Speaker 1: So I wonder could you double check us producer, Sophia,

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Speaker 2: What is what does Riley have to do every time? Yeah,

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Speaker 3: Well, that's your pum.

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Speaker 2: Can you get a paternity test without the mother's consent?

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Speaker 1: Also, do we have is this force? Mike live? It is?

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Speaker 1: We can't. What do you got, Forest Clinton?

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Speaker 4: Because yes, the paternity tests can be performed without the

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Speaker 1: He's he's able, He's able to do that. Yeah, he is.

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Speaker 1: Yes, maybe so. But the paternity test came back negative.

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Speaker 1: Heck producing funny stories?

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Speaker 1: Oh, here's here's to that. So I was talking about

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Speaker 1: If there is any like suspected foul play, because I

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Speaker 2: I wonder how many more kids the grandfather is? Like, like,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, like would he would he ever do that? No?

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Speaker 1: could you grab one for Riley please? Oh? That was

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Speaker 1: and gentlemen, we.

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Speaker 1: You know guys my phone did he just leves me?

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Speaker 1: Moving around? Here we go so Jacob by Dave says,

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Speaker 1: But honestly, it speaks well of your character that you

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Speaker 1: We talked about that, because practically that is what happened.

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Speaker 1: I hope that that's what Opie says in the thing

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Speaker 3: You know, I know it's an excellent there we go.

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Speaker 1: Shot fire if it's Patrick though, oh it's an okay

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Speaker 1: did Sophia actually click that? And she's lying to me?

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Speaker 1: She's lying to me.

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Speaker 3: Look at this.

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, and my guys, I really am not tired.

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Speaker 1: It's my brain sometimes, just like craves so much oxygen,

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Speaker 2: I don't craves oxygen like Graves, that's what the plant's grave.

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Speaker 1: And Live Western thirteen eighty nine says I agree. And also,

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Speaker 1: to be honest, she was born into your family and

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Speaker 1: That's very important to me. And to be honest, anybody

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Speaker 2: A lot of a lot of good things could have happened,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, because isn't because.

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Speaker 2: He's already made the will right the grandpa.

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Speaker 2: Do you Does anyone know anything about wills and how

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Speaker 1: He's on that. I love that. Yeah, I do. I do.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, it's all it's I think it's just because he

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Speaker 1: something else, some donuts. Let's read the real quick before getting

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Speaker 1: into the update. Go down, down, down, down down to Bianca,

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Speaker 1: jade starch chant ten hour stream, ten hour stream, Bianca.

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Speaker 1: Look at me, Look at me, Bianca. That's a lot.

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Speaker 1: That's a lot, Okay, Bianca, your energy a lot. I'm

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Speaker 1: Bob Catrid hashtag in turns our friends not food. That's

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Speaker 1: a good one. That's facts. Clinton on the mic, ladies

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Speaker 1: and gentlemen radish ten hour stream guys, where is this

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Speaker 1: coming from? Ten hour stream? Militia is getting way too strong.

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Speaker 1: You guys need to chill. Mad hat her gal looks

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Speaker 1: for the five bucks. When did this become an auction

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Speaker 1: house for the new Blood? Holy Moly, first Riley, No Clinton, Clinton.

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Speaker 4: This is how they were with you.

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Speaker 3: Yesterday until today.

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Speaker 2: Until today. I'm off the chop block. The wait is

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Speaker 2: it got? Shut out Josephine.

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Speaker 6: She said that I was okay because I got a

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Speaker 2: Oh well, yeah, I mean, what are you trying to say?

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Speaker 3: They're more respectful to me?

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Speaker 2: Oh I see, oh I see okay the girls girl

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Speaker 2: uh a a Alisa Alex news Alia. I'm more treaated

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean we might just for to have him, like,

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Speaker 1: all of these, all of these men are in committed relationships.

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Speaker 1: They are they are okay, so calm down.

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Speaker 1: Literally, every single one, every single one.

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Speaker 1: That one, and Wendy parent celebrating one month membership. Scute,

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Speaker 1: let's go. Anybody can be a parent, blood or no blood.

437
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Speaker 1: My son lost his dad at eight from cancer, and

438
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Speaker 1: I found a great step dad for him, that take him,

439
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Speaker 1: that took him in as his own Wendy parents. That

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Speaker 1: is what I'm freaking talking about. That's what I'm talking about, Jelly.

441
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Speaker 1: But we just feel sorry for all what he has

442
00:23:56,520 --> 00:23:58,800
Speaker 1: to put up with when it comes to guys little

443
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Speaker 1: uh you know what, I feel sorry for it too.

444
00:24:01,040 --> 00:24:05,320
Speaker 1: It's terrible. It's so hard, you know, not great. But

445
00:24:06,960 --> 00:24:09,520
Speaker 1: Riley tried to throw a worm and he totally missed,

446
00:24:10,040 --> 00:24:13,840
Speaker 1: but it was funny. He keeps throwing.

447
00:24:14,480 --> 00:24:20,320
Speaker 3: Let's finish this story. Oh my god.

448
00:24:21,840 --> 00:24:31,119
Speaker 1: Oh no, Hanceled, good job on your story. So update

449
00:24:31,119 --> 00:24:32,960
Speaker 1: five days later, just a small update thanks to the

450
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Speaker 1: comments and wishes. It really put a lot into perspective

451
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Speaker 1: and confirmed to me that I needed.

452
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Speaker 3: To say something.

453
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Speaker 1: Some people are some people are surprised by the way

454
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Speaker 1: I let my daughter's bio parents off the hook, so

455
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Speaker 1: to speak. The main reason I never tried to go

456
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Speaker 1: after my ex or a fair partner for child support

457
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Speaker 1: is that my daughter is more important than money. Dude, dude,

458
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Speaker 1: how many green flags does this guy have? Wow? This

459
00:24:59,000 --> 00:25:03,320
Speaker 1: guy is rich and amazing. Yes, my god, what a guy. Chat.

460
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Speaker 1: Don't get any ideas. Don't get any ideas. He's in

461
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Speaker 1: a committed relationship. Okay, yep, one of these things is

462
00:25:09,640 --> 00:25:13,800
Speaker 1: not like the other. Oh my gosh, should we do bodoo?

463
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Speaker 1: The main reason I am not struggling at all, and

464
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Speaker 1: I have the support I need. He's loaded. Most importantly, though,

465
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Speaker 1: I have my daughter, even though the even though the

466
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Speaker 1: affair partner didn't apparently want anything to do with her,

467
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Speaker 1: my lawyer did mention way back in the day that

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Speaker 1: either he or my wife, being her biological parents, could

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Speaker 1: have a strong case for seeking custody. I know I'm biased,

470
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Speaker 1: but her bio mom seems like a huge ahole. Oh sorry,

471
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Speaker 1: but her bio dad seems like a huge a hole,

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Speaker 1: and I know he doesn't care about her. I wouldn't

473
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Speaker 1: put it past him to just try and get custody

474
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Speaker 1: just to duck out of paying child support. Though, if

475
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Speaker 1: his hand was forced and the idea of her having

476
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Speaker 1: to go stay with him is just something I don't

477
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Speaker 1: even want to think about, kind of go because are

478
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Speaker 1: they saying that? Because like maybe but the other kids

479
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Speaker 1: go visit him. I was thinking, like, uh, because I

480
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Speaker 1: think you can get out of paying child support if

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Speaker 1: they live with you. So if if he if he's like, hey,

482
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Speaker 1: I have a strong case for custody. All right, you

483
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Speaker 1: want to try and charge anybody, Fine, yo, kid, just

484
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Speaker 1: come live with me. I am paying you nothing. Yeah,

485
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Speaker 1: that could be. That could be dicey if that's what

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Speaker 1: he's saying. Kind of the same thing. When mom got

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Speaker 1: out of prison, God, uh, seems like she was very

488
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Speaker 1: quick to go shack up with her new guy and

489
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Speaker 1: she was willing to let the matter lie. So I

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Speaker 1: did the same as in left. It be the fact

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Speaker 1: that neither of them tried to get her, or in

492
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Speaker 1: my ex's case, the way she wasn't even bothered to

493
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Speaker 1: keep with much contact with our son either tells me

494
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Speaker 1: more than everything I need to know about the kind

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Speaker 1: of parents they are slash would be they only seem

496
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Speaker 1: interested in their pre existing slash new families, respect respectively.

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Speaker 1: I wouldn't want to try to get back I wouldn't

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Speaker 1: want to try to get them back into try No, no, no,

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Speaker 1: I wouldn't want to try to back them into trying

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Speaker 1: to take custody with my daughter being thirteen. It's possible

501
00:27:11,960 --> 00:27:13,840
Speaker 1: that we've sort of run the clock on the matter,

502
00:27:14,200 --> 00:27:17,280
Speaker 1: but it's still not drama we need to risk or

503
00:27:17,320 --> 00:27:22,560
Speaker 1: worth taking. Guys, what are you talking about? Guys? Guys,

504
00:27:23,119 --> 00:27:27,800
Speaker 1: ladies and gentlemen. You are making our our esteem producer

505
00:27:27,880 --> 00:27:32,080
Speaker 1: and intern giggle too much. Guys, what are you saying?

506
00:27:34,400 --> 00:27:36,280
Speaker 1: They're they're saying things We.

507
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Speaker 4: Have our own little relationship of It's like you guys

508
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Speaker 4: are talking over them and.

509
00:27:41,640 --> 00:27:44,760
Speaker 3: We're talking and Chad's just talking to you and I

510
00:27:44,760 --> 00:27:45,480
Speaker 3: are best friends.

511
00:27:45,960 --> 00:27:55,359
Speaker 1: Oh nice guys. Jealous guys, guys, let's talk about it

512
00:27:55,359 --> 00:27:55,760
Speaker 1: a little bit?

513
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Speaker 5: Is this?

514
00:27:57,119 --> 00:28:00,640
Speaker 1: And there we go? Mat How don't go mad? Had

515
00:28:00,640 --> 00:28:06,320
Speaker 1: her gal ten gifted memberships? You thought that was insane?

516
00:28:06,640 --> 00:28:09,280
Speaker 1: You thought that was insane? Well, guess who gave us twenty?

517
00:28:09,680 --> 00:28:15,560
Speaker 1: Guess who gave us? Help me? Guess Sophia, what help me? Guess?

518
00:28:16,000 --> 00:28:16,200
Speaker 4: Man?

519
00:28:17,800 --> 00:28:19,679
Speaker 1: The one that's above that, the one that's above it

520
00:28:19,920 --> 00:28:24,440
Speaker 1: to scroll to get there, Roll up, christ foil Hot,

521
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Speaker 1: that's mother freaking right, ladies and gentlemen. That is thirty

522
00:28:28,640 --> 00:28:31,440
Speaker 1: new members in the family. Thirty new members of the family.

523
00:28:31,440 --> 00:28:34,560
Speaker 1: Thirty new members of the family. Wow, guys, welcome one

524
00:28:34,600 --> 00:28:38,320
Speaker 1: another thirty minutes. Thank you Kristin for matter, and another

525
00:28:38,400 --> 00:28:39,880
Speaker 1: freaking thirty minutes. That's crazy.

526
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Speaker 2: Sofia, do you know how to do the thirty minute thing?

527
00:28:41,840 --> 00:28:44,640
Speaker 1: Freaking go? She just got it right, you just got it.

528
00:28:44,640 --> 00:28:44,960
Speaker 1: She's good.

529
00:28:45,080 --> 00:28:48,520
Speaker 2: Rush actually, wow, just let's got that. And then we

530
00:28:48,560 --> 00:28:52,160
Speaker 2: had another dono. We want to learn who help help

531
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Speaker 2: us in cats? Come on, fam, we need more time.

532
00:28:54,200 --> 00:28:57,520
Speaker 2: Ten dollars. You got it. You you ask and you received.

533
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Speaker 1: They delivered, literally Christian Foyle delivered. Wow of madness. Wow,

534
00:29:03,440 --> 00:29:05,600
Speaker 1: this is beautiful. This is this is a beautiful day.

535
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Speaker 1: We're here for another thirty. We hered here for another thirty.

536
00:29:08,320 --> 00:29:10,600
Speaker 1: There's more people in the family. I'm just happy. I'm

537
00:29:10,640 --> 00:29:12,000
Speaker 1: happy to Clinton. How are you feeling.

538
00:29:12,720 --> 00:29:13,760
Speaker 4: I'm ecstatic right now.

539
00:29:13,840 --> 00:29:18,440
Speaker 2: That's what's going That's what I'm talking about, sostatics.

540
00:29:17,840 --> 00:29:20,320
Speaker 4: As watching you know, this first show, being here with

541
00:29:20,360 --> 00:29:22,360
Speaker 4: you guys, I just I didn't think this would happen,

542
00:29:22,400 --> 00:29:22,680
Speaker 4: to be.

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00:29:22,600 --> 00:29:24,800
Speaker 1: Honest, Yeah, what did you copect this would be like

544
00:29:25,760 --> 00:29:31,400
Speaker 1: thirty minutes. No, absolutely not, they would never have you

545
00:29:31,440 --> 00:29:35,400
Speaker 1: been seeing that? All the thousand comments that said ten hours? Yeah,

546
00:29:35,440 --> 00:29:38,960
Speaker 1: and sometimes they they deliver on that. Have you guys,

547
00:29:38,960 --> 00:29:40,880
Speaker 1: have you guys done it? Oh? Yes, we have done

548
00:29:41,000 --> 00:29:45,760
Speaker 1: some a few ten hour streams a few. So when

549
00:29:45,760 --> 00:29:48,120
Speaker 1: they when they start getting riled up, you really never

550
00:29:48,200 --> 00:29:50,880
Speaker 1: know what they're going to do. They love making us

551
00:29:50,960 --> 00:29:53,479
Speaker 1: cancel all of our plans, all our friends.

552
00:29:53,680 --> 00:29:58,880
Speaker 2: I no, you don't. You're producing today. You're producing, right,

553
00:29:59,280 --> 00:30:00,280
Speaker 2: you have to produce.

554
00:30:01,520 --> 00:30:03,840
Speaker 1: Good. Don't tell them when you.

555
00:30:03,880 --> 00:30:07,960
Speaker 2: Don't get it now, but I have to to Wendy parent.

556
00:30:08,040 --> 00:30:10,120
Speaker 2: You just gave such an insightful comment, and then you

557
00:30:10,160 --> 00:30:10,880
Speaker 2: just said, show.

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00:30:10,680 --> 00:30:15,920
Speaker 1: Clinton guys, guys, guys, guys, guys, guys, guys, and get

559
00:30:16,000 --> 00:30:16,280
Speaker 1: some mic.

560
00:30:16,320 --> 00:30:18,200
Speaker 2: That's what I got at first, I just got a mic.

561
00:30:18,720 --> 00:30:21,440
Speaker 1: That's true. Yeah, we gotta we gotta like slowly.

562
00:30:21,320 --> 00:30:24,480
Speaker 4: Winnow, when can I get back in there? It should

563
00:30:24,520 --> 00:30:26,040
Speaker 4: be like a reveal, It should be like some some

564
00:30:26,160 --> 00:30:27,600
Speaker 4: challenge after get that's true.

565
00:30:27,640 --> 00:30:32,280
Speaker 1: It took me a year before I could get kill Yeah, because.

566
00:30:33,560 --> 00:30:35,640
Speaker 2: If you guys get the five hundred likes, we will

567
00:30:35,640 --> 00:30:36,240
Speaker 2: show Clinton.

568
00:30:36,320 --> 00:30:39,400
Speaker 3: No, not even that I put him on the wheel.

569
00:30:39,120 --> 00:30:41,000
Speaker 2: And put him on the wheel right now. You wouldn't

570
00:30:41,000 --> 00:30:42,600
Speaker 2: put it on the wheel right now. Guys, all right,

571
00:30:42,600 --> 00:30:45,080
Speaker 2: here you go. Are you freaking ready? We will do

572
00:30:45,320 --> 00:30:49,680
Speaker 2: We will put Clinton on the wheel, spin and watch

573
00:30:49,720 --> 00:30:51,520
Speaker 2: see Look at these likes, Look at these likes.

574
00:30:51,560 --> 00:30:56,160
Speaker 1: Justus absolutely exploding. It's about to hit five hundred. It

575
00:30:56,200 --> 00:30:57,880
Speaker 1: is about to hit five hundred. Where we on the story?

576
00:30:58,680 --> 00:30:59,320
Speaker 1: You reading it?

577
00:30:59,480 --> 00:31:03,320
Speaker 2: I should Bailey Maker, thanks for the five dollars. Finally

578
00:31:03,440 --> 00:31:05,680
Speaker 2: made it to see a stream first time streamers.

579
00:31:05,680 --> 00:31:09,320
Speaker 1: Give me a wave. Oh yeah, guys, u w or

580
00:31:09,560 --> 00:31:10,280
Speaker 1: wave in the chat.

581
00:31:10,360 --> 00:31:13,560
Speaker 2: Okay, wave if this is your first time, and warm

582
00:31:13,600 --> 00:31:15,080
Speaker 2: emoji if you're lurking right.

583
00:31:14,920 --> 00:31:19,920
Speaker 1: Now, guys, yeah, can't lurk. Can't lurk Clinton, You're you're

584
00:31:19,960 --> 00:31:22,880
Speaker 1: not lurking. You're you're very present with us, very present.

585
00:31:25,000 --> 00:31:25,800
Speaker 1: What are we all af.

586
00:31:26,080 --> 00:31:28,800
Speaker 2: Sorry, I'm laughing at my girlfriend in a new phone

587
00:31:28,800 --> 00:31:32,240
Speaker 2: and she her email just popped up the name of it.

588
00:31:32,400 --> 00:31:35,360
Speaker 2: I'm not about the docs. That's the worst thing anyways.

589
00:31:36,320 --> 00:31:43,320
Speaker 2: Moline coach Melanie Coola, thanks for two bucks. Thanks for

590
00:31:43,360 --> 00:31:46,680
Speaker 2: being so great, Thank you for being so great, Thanks.

591
00:31:46,400 --> 00:31:49,520
Speaker 1: For being the best person ever. How about that. How

592
00:31:49,520 --> 00:31:52,719
Speaker 1: about about them freaking apples? Huh? All right, take them,

593
00:31:53,000 --> 00:31:58,040
Speaker 1: ladies and gentlemen. We have literally positively blown past the

594
00:31:58,200 --> 00:31:59,200
Speaker 1: five hundred likes.

595
00:31:59,240 --> 00:31:59,920
Speaker 2: Whoa.

596
00:32:01,040 --> 00:32:05,080
Speaker 1: However, however, however, we do have some story to read,

597
00:32:05,760 --> 00:32:08,600
Speaker 1: and you all are gonna forget about the story once

598
00:32:08,640 --> 00:32:12,400
Speaker 1: you see Clinton. So I need to keep reading this

599
00:32:12,480 --> 00:32:16,360
Speaker 1: while I barely have any of your attention. Where were

600
00:32:16,360 --> 00:32:19,120
Speaker 1: we at, Producer Sophia.

601
00:32:18,160 --> 00:32:19,479
Speaker 3: In better news?

602
00:32:20,200 --> 00:32:20,680
Speaker 1: In better news?

603
00:32:20,720 --> 00:32:22,960
Speaker 3: Could you be more important news?

604
00:32:24,120 --> 00:32:25,640
Speaker 1: It boom? Thank you.

605
00:32:25,720 --> 00:32:27,200
Speaker 3: I could be wrong about that.

606
00:32:28,040 --> 00:32:33,600
Speaker 1: Ooh, you are actually pretty good. I think close. I

607
00:32:33,600 --> 00:32:35,680
Speaker 1: think you're I think you're right on the money, in

608
00:32:35,720 --> 00:32:38,040
Speaker 1: better and more important news. Though, I talked to my dad.

609
00:32:38,360 --> 00:32:40,640
Speaker 1: This is big, This is big. I met with my

610
00:32:40,720 --> 00:32:43,200
Speaker 1: father for lunch, which was easy enough, and he's around

611
00:32:43,200 --> 00:32:45,160
Speaker 1: most days and we could sync up some time. I

612
00:32:45,280 --> 00:32:47,440
Speaker 1: mentioned that I wanted to talk about my daughter not

613
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Speaker 1: being in his will, and I told him that even

614
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Speaker 1: if it meant dividing what was being left to me

615
00:32:51,880 --> 00:32:54,840
Speaker 1: or my other kids, I felt it was really important

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Speaker 1: for her to be included. I also mentioned, as I felt,

617
00:32:58,360 --> 00:33:00,280
Speaker 1: and as a lot of other people pointed out, that

618
00:33:00,320 --> 00:33:02,520
Speaker 1: it would be devastating for her to find out that

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Speaker 1: she'd been excluded after pass humiliating. You literally are going

620
00:33:07,800 --> 00:33:09,840
Speaker 1: through grief and then you find out that you're not

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Speaker 1: in the will.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you're going through all the names and your name's

623
00:33:12,240 --> 00:33:12,880
Speaker 2: not even You're.

624
00:33:12,760 --> 00:33:16,760
Speaker 1: Literally gonna question your entire relationship with your grandfather. My

625
00:33:16,840 --> 00:33:19,080
Speaker 1: father agreed that that was a really good point, and

626
00:33:19,240 --> 00:33:20,720
Speaker 1: he said that she is a lovely girl and that

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00:33:20,800 --> 00:33:23,400
Speaker 1: he does love her, and that he doesn't want any

628
00:33:23,440 --> 00:33:26,920
Speaker 1: extra pain or bitterness to her life, especially at such

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Speaker 1: a time. Also, it had gotten around to him that

630
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Speaker 1: I'd been sort of polling my siblings a little bit,

631
00:33:34,480 --> 00:33:36,440
Speaker 1: and I think my mom talked to him some and

632
00:33:36,480 --> 00:33:38,840
Speaker 1: he said, this is obviously very important to you. You're

633
00:33:38,920 --> 00:33:44,680
Speaker 1: my son. I can change it. It's it's not so

634
00:33:44,880 --> 00:33:49,200
Speaker 1: much money. It's not so much money anyways. Mm hmm.

635
00:33:50,280 --> 00:33:53,000
Speaker 1: Talk to me, you what are you feeling. I sense

636
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Speaker 1: the stirring.

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00:33:53,520 --> 00:33:56,400
Speaker 2: I want I want their grandpa to want this. Yeah,

638
00:33:56,640 --> 00:33:58,360
Speaker 2: not because oh your massle will do it for you.

639
00:33:58,440 --> 00:34:01,240
Speaker 2: I want you to do it for yourself. Yes, and

640
00:34:01,240 --> 00:34:03,200
Speaker 2: plus and then he added it's not much money, so

641
00:34:03,320 --> 00:34:04,680
Speaker 2: like yeah, he's like, ah.

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00:34:04,520 --> 00:34:08,359
Speaker 1: Whatever, here's here's the few pennies. Here you go, peasant orphan,

643
00:34:08,440 --> 00:34:14,920
Speaker 1: here's a few shekels. What's what, Sophia, what's old coins?

644
00:34:16,280 --> 00:34:17,840
Speaker 3: Uh?

645
00:34:17,960 --> 00:34:18,839
Speaker 1: You know that for sure?

646
00:34:19,320 --> 00:34:22,400
Speaker 3: I feel I should, but because you've asked me, I've completely.

647
00:34:22,080 --> 00:34:25,600
Speaker 2: Forgotten shekels sounds that's wrong.

648
00:34:25,960 --> 00:34:30,920
Speaker 1: But guys, she's gotta be something, right, We'll go with it.

649
00:34:31,560 --> 00:34:39,280
Speaker 1: Shingles kills.

650
00:34:39,600 --> 00:34:41,480
Speaker 3: I know, I should know. I knew that word, and

651
00:34:41,520 --> 00:34:42,560
Speaker 3: I forgot all of the words.

652
00:34:42,760 --> 00:34:45,040
Speaker 1: I literally was like, this is the most like Sophia

653
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Speaker 1: can answer this question. Question all.

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Speaker 6: The problem is that I have so many different currencies

655
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Speaker 6: of all the fantasy worlds that I read, and so there,

656
00:34:52,440 --> 00:34:52,719
Speaker 6: you know.

657
00:34:53,400 --> 00:34:54,480
Speaker 1: There's a lot to keep up with.

658
00:34:54,880 --> 00:34:57,400
Speaker 2: Oh, there's so many like currencies to keep up with.

659
00:34:58,560 --> 00:35:02,080
Speaker 2: Understandable says.

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00:35:02,600 --> 00:35:05,400
Speaker 1: That's a great one. So uh, Opie says, and he

661
00:35:05,440 --> 00:35:07,560
Speaker 1: was right. The amount of money being left to individual

662
00:35:07,560 --> 00:35:10,759
Speaker 1: grandchildren aren't massive, but the gesture and the thought are

663
00:35:10,800 --> 00:35:14,000
Speaker 1: are what's the most meaningful. Mostly everything is going to

664
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Speaker 1: my mom and or us his kids. Anyways, Okay, really,

665
00:35:17,239 --> 00:35:19,080
Speaker 1: there was no reason for me and expect to him,

666
00:35:19,600 --> 00:35:24,080
Speaker 1: expect him to have been stubborn or hard hearted about

667
00:35:24,080 --> 00:35:25,759
Speaker 1: any of this. It's just something that we needed to

668
00:35:25,800 --> 00:35:28,920
Speaker 1: talk about. My father reiterated that everyone loves my daughter

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Speaker 1: and that she'll always be family and always has a home.

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Speaker 1: Oh that's good. That is good. I feel like he's

671
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Speaker 1: While he wasn't like one hundred percent, he seems like

672
00:35:39,600 --> 00:35:43,320
Speaker 1: kind of he's on the path of getting there, on

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Speaker 1: the path of getting Yeah. Yeah. He has a gold

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Speaker 1: bracelet that he has worn somewhat occasionally over the years,

675
00:35:48,680 --> 00:35:51,440
Speaker 1: and he mentioned that my daughter thought it was pretty.

676
00:35:51,719 --> 00:35:53,440
Speaker 1: When she was very little, she noticed it on his

677
00:35:53,440 --> 00:35:57,680
Speaker 1: wrist and said that jewelry was for girls. He laughed

678
00:35:57,680 --> 00:36:02,120
Speaker 1: and explained to her that sometimes we're jewelry too. She

679
00:36:02,200 --> 00:36:04,279
Speaker 1: thought it was nice, and he let her try it on,

680
00:36:04,440 --> 00:36:06,280
Speaker 1: even though it was way too big for her wrist.

681
00:36:06,560 --> 00:36:09,400
Speaker 1: She was a toddler then. I didn't know about that

682
00:36:09,440 --> 00:36:11,760
Speaker 1: moment between them, and I thought it was really sweet

683
00:36:12,000 --> 00:36:15,880
Speaker 1: that he remembered. That is actually freaking adorable. Good. He

684
00:36:16,040 --> 00:36:18,320
Speaker 1: said that he was going to leave her the bracelet

685
00:36:18,600 --> 00:36:21,680
Speaker 1: and a note that as far as any money goes,

686
00:36:22,200 --> 00:36:25,120
Speaker 1: she'd get the same share. Oh, that's the rest of

687
00:36:25,120 --> 00:36:29,320
Speaker 1: my kids, dude, So he did care. I think he's

688
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Speaker 1: I think he's come all the way back around, Oh,

689
00:36:33,280 --> 00:36:35,680
Speaker 1: how much more do we have left? We have? We have?

690
00:36:35,680 --> 00:36:36,680
Speaker 1: We have a bit more, a bit more.

691
00:36:36,680 --> 00:36:39,400
Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, then my question is what, Like, I'm so

692
00:36:39,560 --> 00:36:41,080
Speaker 2: confused why he was so like not.

693
00:36:41,120 --> 00:36:43,320
Speaker 1: About it in the first place. Yeah, that was weird,

694
00:36:43,600 --> 00:36:47,399
Speaker 1: and now he's like seems so loving and stuff. Maybe

695
00:36:47,440 --> 00:36:49,400
Speaker 1: we'll get some additional content. Good, this is good, But

696
00:36:49,440 --> 00:36:50,440
Speaker 1: I'm just like.

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00:36:50,560 --> 00:36:53,640
Speaker 2: Where was this energy in the beginning? Yes, exactly. Yeah.

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00:36:53,680 --> 00:36:55,399
Speaker 1: So we had a nice lunch and we both felt

699
00:36:55,440 --> 00:36:57,520
Speaker 1: a bit better for it. Nothing too dramatic, but really

700
00:36:57,520 --> 00:36:59,800
Speaker 1: the best way things could have gone. Thanks to everyone

701
00:36:59,840 --> 00:37:02,120
Speaker 1: for confirming that I wasn't being crazy and confirming that

702
00:37:02,200 --> 00:37:04,320
Speaker 1: I needed to talk to my father and set things straight.

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00:37:04,800 --> 00:37:07,960
Speaker 1: And some comments Appropriate Area seventeen sixteen says this is

704
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Speaker 1: a happy update. Your father is a good man and

705
00:37:09,840 --> 00:37:12,600
Speaker 1: he raised you to be a wonderful man. And then

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00:37:12,640 --> 00:37:16,280
Speaker 1: Strategy Do sixty seven to sixty five says yeah, glad

707
00:37:16,320 --> 00:37:19,120
Speaker 1: to hear things worked out well with your dad. Sounds

708
00:37:19,160 --> 00:37:20,680
Speaker 1: like he's got a good heart and made the right call.

709
00:37:20,800 --> 00:37:24,799
Speaker 1: Wishing you and your family all the best. Nice. I

710
00:37:24,840 --> 00:37:27,440
Speaker 1: think maybe it's a case of like, look, this is

711
00:37:27,480 --> 00:37:30,000
Speaker 1: Ope's dad. He's probably in his I don't think we

712
00:37:30,040 --> 00:37:34,040
Speaker 1: got an age, but he's probably in his like fifties, sixties, seventies,

713
00:37:34,400 --> 00:37:36,640
Speaker 1: fifties to seventies I want to say.

714
00:37:36,960 --> 00:37:38,920
Speaker 2: I want to say, like sixty to seventies.

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00:37:40,280 --> 00:37:43,440
Speaker 1: Op is forty five. Yeah, yeah, so he's got seventy

716
00:37:43,520 --> 00:37:46,440
Speaker 1: eighties perhaps, Yeah, he could be like sixties to eighties.

717
00:37:47,800 --> 00:37:53,279
Speaker 1: So OPI I think that Opie's dad. It's like, all right,

718
00:37:53,360 --> 00:37:57,400
Speaker 1: in seventy to eighty years, do you get like one

719
00:37:58,160 --> 00:38:02,399
Speaker 1: seemingly pretty bad fa up, especially if you come back

720
00:38:02,400 --> 00:38:06,759
Speaker 1: and like pretty much fully rectify all of the damage done. Yeah,

721
00:38:07,160 --> 00:38:09,279
Speaker 1: I think I think I can. I think I can

722
00:38:09,280 --> 00:38:09,799
Speaker 1: give it to him.

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00:38:09,880 --> 00:38:12,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, I would too. I'm just still confused one where

724
00:38:12,960 --> 00:38:15,400
Speaker 2: the energy comes from. But I'm glad that he listened

725
00:38:15,440 --> 00:38:18,439
Speaker 2: to his son, and it seemed like I was. At first,

726
00:38:18,520 --> 00:38:20,080
Speaker 2: I was like, no, he's just doing it for his kid.

727
00:38:20,120 --> 00:38:23,919
Speaker 2: But then the bracelet thing was so cute. Yeah that, Yeah,

728
00:38:23,960 --> 00:38:25,399
Speaker 2: he came around, he came around.

729
00:38:25,400 --> 00:38:27,759
Speaker 1: It was super durable. Good for them. Uh, but you

730
00:38:27,800 --> 00:38:31,520
Speaker 1: know there's another thing type of thing that comes around Riley.

731
00:38:31,560 --> 00:38:33,160
Speaker 1: You know you know what I'm talking about. Yeah, it's

732
00:38:33,239 --> 00:38:35,399
Speaker 1: like the things on the bus. I think we need

733
00:38:35,440 --> 00:38:36,600
Speaker 1: to do something. You know what that is?

734
00:38:37,160 --> 00:38:45,799
Speaker 2: Tell us spin that wheel extra ten minutes. Let's go,

735
00:38:46,680 --> 00:38:52,640
Speaker 2: let's freaking go. Heck, yeah, and you know what, one

736
00:38:52,640 --> 00:38:55,080
Speaker 2: more Sophia or more minute.

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00:38:55,640 --> 00:38:58,719
Speaker 1: There we go, guys, I'm gonna I'm gonna do something here.

738
00:38:58,960 --> 00:39:05,120
Speaker 1: You're gonna you wanna cross streams? No, I am going

739
00:39:05,160 --> 00:39:12,560
Speaker 1: to say, uh, Clinton, big billy, if you could, uh,

740
00:39:13,080 --> 00:39:15,279
Speaker 1: you could take your chair or actually pull up a

741
00:39:15,360 --> 00:39:19,080
Speaker 1: chair over there and then sit on Sophia's other side.

742
00:39:20,760 --> 00:39:24,720
Speaker 1: There you freaking go, lad Are you happy? Are you happy?

743
00:39:24,800 --> 00:39:27,480
Speaker 1: He will be visible and then you can drag the

744
00:39:27,480 --> 00:39:29,719
Speaker 1: mic over there as well so you can talk to

745
00:39:29,760 --> 00:39:30,160
Speaker 1: the people.

746
00:39:32,560 --> 00:39:33,839
Speaker 2: Yeah, we're we're working it out.

747
00:39:33,840 --> 00:39:34,080
Speaker 1: Guys.

748
00:39:34,120 --> 00:39:36,520
Speaker 2: We're getting it all situated. But you want to see

749
00:39:36,560 --> 00:39:38,520
Speaker 2: the young blood, you get to see him. I've heard

750
00:39:38,760 --> 00:39:39,360
Speaker 2: your request.

751
00:39:39,440 --> 00:39:47,000
Speaker 1: Wait wait, wait, Sophia, you're still producing, but we're getting it. Bethany,

752
00:39:47,080 --> 00:39:50,200
Speaker 1: thanks for the five bucks tip, no matter how many

753
00:39:50,239 --> 00:39:53,400
Speaker 1: interns they add. John's Glorier's hair holds my heart scrolling

754
00:39:53,480 --> 00:39:56,160
Speaker 1: when his hair caught my eye and I want the

755
00:39:56,280 --> 00:40:00,640
Speaker 1: name of his conditioner, Bethany. Listen up, guys. If you

756
00:40:00,719 --> 00:40:07,120
Speaker 1: guys want my my my haircare routine. Go to the

757
00:40:07,120 --> 00:40:09,760
Speaker 1: Discord and I will drop it in the John channel.

758
00:40:10,640 --> 00:40:15,279
Speaker 1: I will drop the brands with the brand names. Shut up,

759
00:40:15,520 --> 00:40:21,400
Speaker 1: because because on the discord we're family, we go there.

760
00:40:21,480 --> 00:40:24,160
Speaker 1: I will, I will do that. But guys, if you're

761
00:40:24,200 --> 00:40:27,640
Speaker 1: not in discord, you can't see where are we at.

762
00:40:27,680 --> 00:40:33,400
Speaker 1: You can't see it. It's like it's like you're dating, right, Yes,

763
00:40:33,920 --> 00:40:36,319
Speaker 1: it's like you're dating and you're like you don't have

764
00:40:36,360 --> 00:40:42,600
Speaker 1: their phone number. That's weird, right, Be a family member,

765
00:40:42,800 --> 00:40:46,080
Speaker 1: Be family, and then join join the discord and I'll

766
00:40:46,080 --> 00:40:47,719
Speaker 1: share it there. I'll share it there right now. You

767
00:40:47,719 --> 00:40:50,800
Speaker 1: know what, guys, are you ready? No one commented in

768
00:40:50,880 --> 00:40:56,120
Speaker 1: the chat, nobody do that talking about the people asked

769
00:40:56,400 --> 00:41:00,840
Speaker 1: for my hair care routine and I said no free sponsors. Obviously, guys, guys,

770
00:41:00,840 --> 00:41:03,879
Speaker 1: that was Clinton's uh first and only lesson he'll ever need.

771
00:41:04,800 --> 00:41:08,640
Speaker 1: I already told him that. And uh but guys, I

772
00:41:08,680 --> 00:41:13,080
Speaker 1: am literally right now, Oh what is it? Uh? Oh yes,

773
00:41:13,120 --> 00:41:16,680
Speaker 1: I got it? Boom boom boom, Yeah, I'm literally typing. Guys.

774
00:41:16,800 --> 00:41:18,239
Speaker 1: I'm literally in John Chat right now. Do you want

775
00:41:18,239 --> 00:41:19,920
Speaker 1: to join me? Go in the discord and hop into

776
00:41:19,960 --> 00:41:27,759
Speaker 1: John Chat. I'm literally typing it right now. Look it's

777
00:41:27,800 --> 00:41:36,200
Speaker 1: literally gonna happen. Boom. It is for blonde hair and

778
00:41:36,320 --> 00:41:41,560
Speaker 1: obviously straight hair types. But there you go there, yeah,

779
00:41:41,680 --> 00:41:46,560
Speaker 1: freaking go has a voo? There you go, has voo?

780
00:41:47,120 --> 00:41:50,399
Speaker 1: See mis killed it's in there. Boom there we freaking boo.

781
00:41:50,760 --> 00:41:53,680
Speaker 2: Is this something about stories anymore or Thursday?

782
00:41:54,239 --> 00:41:56,800
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. All I hear is is Clinton

783
00:41:56,800 --> 00:42:01,880
Speaker 1: and Sophie just like yeah, all here's chuckling, little giggles.

784
00:42:02,640 --> 00:42:07,600
Speaker 2: Bethany, thanks, huh we're doing Uh you are lying?

785
00:42:13,239 --> 00:42:15,640
Speaker 1: There we go? Oh wait, Clinton, do you have your mic?

786
00:42:18,760 --> 00:42:20,560
Speaker 1: There we go? Oh wait here we go, here go

787
00:42:20,600 --> 00:42:37,240
Speaker 1: watch right Are you ready? Yeah? Yeah right, boys and girls,

788
00:42:38,480 --> 00:42:40,520
Speaker 1: we got the ten minutes. You got your Clinton. Oh

789
00:42:40,600 --> 00:42:43,200
Speaker 1: austy girl in an art chop. Clinton needs an emoji?

790
00:42:43,360 --> 00:42:44,520
Speaker 1: What team is he? Guys?

791
00:42:44,840 --> 00:42:46,600
Speaker 2: Let him cook, Let him cook before give him one.

792
00:42:46,880 --> 00:42:50,200
Speaker 1: Uh, you can start throwing in chat. We need some suggestions. Actually,

793
00:42:50,239 --> 00:42:50,799
Speaker 1: I know what.

794
00:42:50,800 --> 00:42:53,759
Speaker 2: Emoji he can be and what emogi is that.

795
00:42:54,480 --> 00:42:58,920
Speaker 1: I don't even a dog. I'm a dog no no, no no,

796
00:42:59,120 --> 00:43:01,800
Speaker 1: but you know why you're the dog one that's Clifford.

797
00:43:02,239 --> 00:43:04,640
Speaker 1: No no, no, I know what he's saying. I know

798
00:43:04,680 --> 00:43:05,080
Speaker 1: what he's saying.

799
00:43:05,120 --> 00:43:07,040
Speaker 2: I know what he's saying. And honestly, ever since I

800
00:43:07,120 --> 00:43:09,480
Speaker 2: knew about his backstory, I don't.

801
00:43:09,239 --> 00:43:10,880
Speaker 1: Know if I want to work with him.

802
00:43:11,239 --> 00:43:14,920
Speaker 2: You really, because he is a child actor from Disney.

803
00:43:15,120 --> 00:43:19,400
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, from Disney. Been revealed.

804
00:43:20,719 --> 00:43:24,000
Speaker 1: They are literally going to now be furiously searching every

805
00:43:24,239 --> 00:43:26,520
Speaker 1: inch of I am. We're not gonna let him know.

806
00:43:26,600 --> 00:43:32,120
Speaker 1: We're gonna let him find this. No free sponsors, John learn,

807
00:43:32,560 --> 00:43:39,000
Speaker 1: she's learned. Listen and gentlemen, But guys, uh, we're not.

808
00:43:39,160 --> 00:43:41,080
Speaker 1: We're not done here. We're not. We are far from

809
00:43:41,120 --> 00:43:44,879
Speaker 1: over from over, big protein. You want to pull up?

810
00:43:45,280 --> 00:43:52,120
Speaker 1: Oh President Clinton likes milk Asian persuasion. Well it is Thursday,

811
00:43:52,200 --> 00:43:56,520
Speaker 1: Thursdays Asian persuasion. Watch out. You know I always have

812
00:43:56,560 --> 00:43:58,520
Speaker 1: to say, your friend user name, what.

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Speaker 2: Is the question on this this one?

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00:44:00,520 --> 00:44:00,640
Speaker 4: Oh?

815
00:44:00,719 --> 00:44:03,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, when should you stand up for your kids?

816
00:44:03,760 --> 00:44:06,120
Speaker 1: Okay? When should you stand up for your kids? All right?

817
00:44:06,880 --> 00:44:09,560
Speaker 2: Am I the aole for refusing to ground my son

818
00:44:09,719 --> 00:44:13,560
Speaker 2: after he pushed his cousin into a pool. That's just

819
00:44:13,640 --> 00:44:16,879
Speaker 2: good humor, right, That's that's just a great brank bro

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Speaker 2: That is a great bank. That's classic, classic, brous in.

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Speaker 1: Activities right there.

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Speaker 2: So Entertainment ninety sixty five says throw away, all names

823
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Speaker 2: are fake. My brother recently turned forty five.

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Speaker 1: He through a.

825
00:44:30,400 --> 00:44:34,200
Speaker 2: Birthday barbecue at his beach house, which I intended with

826
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Speaker 2: my wife and our kids.

827
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Speaker 1: Sam.

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00:44:38,080 --> 00:44:41,520
Speaker 2: But I see you in the chat eight mal and

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Speaker 2: Emily five female we're attending. We lived pretty far away,

830
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Speaker 2: so we stayed in the house for four days. Less

831
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Speaker 2: than a week before the party, we found out Emily

832
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Speaker 2: had an ear infection. Her pedatrition told us that she

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Speaker 2: would have to avoid getting her ears wet. The only

834
00:44:59,640 --> 00:45:02,040
Speaker 2: reason we still went to the party was because the

835
00:45:02,120 --> 00:45:05,239
Speaker 2: kids are still excited about it. We told Emily that

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00:45:05,320 --> 00:45:07,840
Speaker 2: she could still go in the water, but not dive,

837
00:45:08,280 --> 00:45:13,040
Speaker 2: so you can't submerge her head underwater. No submarine activities

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00:45:13,920 --> 00:45:18,399
Speaker 2: less than also in attendance. Where my cousin Greg. This

839
00:45:18,440 --> 00:45:21,239
Speaker 2: is the best name because you have a Greg friend.

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00:45:21,320 --> 00:45:24,160
Speaker 1: Right. We have a friend that I have named Greg,

841
00:45:24,400 --> 00:45:27,239
Speaker 1: but he does Greg thinks he does do Greg things.

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00:45:27,320 --> 00:45:29,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, this is a perfect name for him. Where

843
00:45:29,680 --> 00:45:32,040
Speaker 2: my cousin Greg and his wife Julie and his kids

844
00:45:32,080 --> 00:45:35,520
Speaker 2: Mike and Chloe. So this is Greg's kid so we

845
00:45:35,600 --> 00:45:39,600
Speaker 2: know Mike's up to no good or Chloe, we don't

846
00:45:39,600 --> 00:45:41,960
Speaker 2: know who the suspect is. Here a little bit of

847
00:45:41,960 --> 00:45:44,879
Speaker 2: different stay, and we're also staying at my brother's house.

848
00:45:45,120 --> 00:45:48,319
Speaker 2: I hadn't seen them since Mike was a toddler, but

849
00:45:48,400 --> 00:45:52,520
Speaker 2: it quickly became clear that he had no intention of

850
00:45:52,560 --> 00:45:54,240
Speaker 2: getting along with my kids.

851
00:45:54,920 --> 00:45:55,160
Speaker 1: Mike.

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00:45:56,440 --> 00:45:59,640
Speaker 2: For some reason, Mike decided Emily was faking her ear

853
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Speaker 2: in fact, but nice of you in the chat and

854
00:46:04,320 --> 00:46:07,520
Speaker 2: stuck misbehaving over here. You don't see what's happening.

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00:46:07,719 --> 00:46:11,319
Speaker 1: I don't know. If I do keep breathing, I'll figure

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Speaker 1: it out.

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00:46:11,600 --> 00:46:14,279
Speaker 2: Yeah you will, Okay. During the first two days of

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00:46:14,280 --> 00:46:18,360
Speaker 2: our visit, he tried throwing sand at her, hiding her toys,

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00:46:18,400 --> 00:46:23,080
Speaker 2: and on one occasion, stealing her Madison for her ear infection.

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Speaker 1: I see you.

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00:46:26,680 --> 00:46:31,400
Speaker 2: Whenever me or my wife tried to deiterate him, deiterate

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Speaker 2: where was it he?

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Speaker 4: Or right.

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Speaker 1: Like discipline? Is that a verb?

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Speaker 2: Verb him? Ititerate him? Julie would claim he was just

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00:46:45,680 --> 00:46:50,040
Speaker 2: having fun. Boys will be boys, and we had no

867
00:46:50,239 --> 00:46:53,240
Speaker 2: right to scream at her son. He said he wouldn't

868
00:46:53,280 --> 00:46:56,759
Speaker 2: do it again and that should be enough. During the

869
00:46:56,800 --> 00:46:59,360
Speaker 2: actual party, kids were playing in the pool. Chlobe was

870
00:46:59,360 --> 00:47:03,839
Speaker 2: watching them. Well, we were eating. Sometime later, Emily and

871
00:47:03,920 --> 00:47:09,080
Speaker 2: Mike came to us crying. They both were completely wet

872
00:47:09,920 --> 00:47:13,399
Speaker 2: too toe. Mike told us that Sam had pushed them

873
00:47:13,440 --> 00:47:16,440
Speaker 2: into the pool. We got the full story from the

874
00:47:16,480 --> 00:47:20,640
Speaker 2: seventeen female Chloe. She was playing with Emily in the

875
00:47:20,719 --> 00:47:25,040
Speaker 2: shallowish end chest level from Emily's perspective, when she left

876
00:47:25,040 --> 00:47:27,319
Speaker 2: the pool to get a glass water, Mike showed up

877
00:47:27,560 --> 00:47:32,000
Speaker 2: and pushed Emily's head underwater. Well, we ran back, but

878
00:47:32,239 --> 00:47:35,680
Speaker 2: Sam pushed Mike in the pool before he got there.

879
00:47:35,880 --> 00:47:38,359
Speaker 2: Mike wasn't hurt, okay, So Sam was just protecting his

880
00:47:38,400 --> 00:47:42,200
Speaker 2: little sister. He just pushed Mike into the pool because

881
00:47:42,280 --> 00:47:47,080
Speaker 2: he submerged Emily's head in the water, right, Yeah, Yeah,

882
00:47:47,120 --> 00:47:47,879
Speaker 2: Michael wasn't hurt.

883
00:47:47,920 --> 00:47:50,200
Speaker 1: Mike wasn't Hurt's keep that in mind here.

884
00:47:51,760 --> 00:47:54,760
Speaker 2: My friend, my wife and I gave Sam the violence

885
00:47:54,800 --> 00:47:57,239
Speaker 2: isn't the answer talk, but we didn't punish him in

886
00:47:57,320 --> 00:47:59,480
Speaker 2: any further way because probably the first time he's ever

887
00:47:59,480 --> 00:48:03,359
Speaker 2: done anything like that. Yeah, he was protecting his sister.

888
00:48:03,560 --> 00:48:07,360
Speaker 2: Julie and Greg won us to ground him as he

889
00:48:07,520 --> 00:48:10,680
Speaker 2: had gotten physical with a younger child. They insisted that

890
00:48:10,760 --> 00:48:15,040
Speaker 2: Mike's actions were innocent and he didn't deserve to be

891
00:48:15,200 --> 00:48:19,840
Speaker 2: attacked over them.

892
00:48:19,880 --> 00:48:23,759
Speaker 1: Innocent. He's innocent, dude. He literally like could have like

893
00:48:23,880 --> 00:48:26,879
Speaker 1: because the ear infection, it could be it could get

894
00:48:26,920 --> 00:48:27,400
Speaker 1: much worse.

895
00:48:27,520 --> 00:48:32,440
Speaker 2: Like that's there's there's health concerns there. Yeah, oh my god.

896
00:48:32,360 --> 00:48:35,040
Speaker 1: Parent, you're freaking child. Parent, your freaking child. I have

897
00:48:35,120 --> 00:48:36,719
Speaker 1: some thoughts. Almost done.

898
00:48:37,239 --> 00:48:39,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, they told us either ground Sam, take away his

899
00:48:40,000 --> 00:48:42,640
Speaker 2: electronics he doesn't have any, or forbid him from going

900
00:48:42,680 --> 00:48:45,080
Speaker 2: to the pool. We refuse to do any of these things.

901
00:48:45,360 --> 00:48:48,120
Speaker 2: We returned a couple of weeks ago and are still

902
00:48:48,440 --> 00:48:49,040
Speaker 2: what are you doing?

903
00:48:49,680 --> 00:48:53,560
Speaker 1: She doesn't have to dld R. She's feverishly trying to

904
00:48:53,640 --> 00:48:57,879
Speaker 1: get it up. Oh, I see what about it?

905
00:48:57,880 --> 00:48:59,239
Speaker 3: It's fine, don't worry about it.

906
00:49:00,040 --> 00:49:03,239
Speaker 2: Worried about it, but go ahead, right, it's okay, We're

907
00:49:03,280 --> 00:49:05,320
Speaker 2: almost done with the story, right, we have like one paragraph?

908
00:49:05,440 --> 00:49:06,880
Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, scroll.

909
00:49:07,800 --> 00:49:10,359
Speaker 2: We returned home a couple of weeks ago, and they're

910
00:49:10,440 --> 00:49:14,399
Speaker 2: still messaging us, calling us bad parents. They've gotten some

911
00:49:14,440 --> 00:49:17,600
Speaker 2: of our family members on their side. I usually care

912
00:49:17,640 --> 00:49:20,160
Speaker 2: about these things, but I'm not used to my family

913
00:49:20,239 --> 00:49:24,200
Speaker 2: calling me entitled So, am I wondering whether I'm in

914
00:49:24,280 --> 00:49:25,839
Speaker 2: the wrong here? Am I the a hole?

915
00:49:27,680 --> 00:49:29,960
Speaker 1: John? Yes, sir, your thoughts off the coff.

916
00:49:30,520 --> 00:49:32,239
Speaker 2: What would you do to your son if he were

917
00:49:32,280 --> 00:49:33,440
Speaker 2: to be in this situation?

918
00:49:33,680 --> 00:49:39,080
Speaker 1: Dap him up? That was sick, bro that yeah, hmmm.

919
00:49:39,480 --> 00:49:42,880
Speaker 1: So and and remind me Sam and Sam is how

920
00:49:42,920 --> 00:49:43,920
Speaker 1: oled again? Like Sam is.

921
00:49:43,920 --> 00:49:47,240
Speaker 2: Eight and Mike I think is around the same age.

922
00:49:47,880 --> 00:49:51,799
Speaker 2: Mike is seven. It was just a year younger. They're

923
00:49:51,800 --> 00:49:53,640
Speaker 2: about the same age. They were like, why would he

924
00:49:53,719 --> 00:49:55,160
Speaker 2: push an innocent kid into the pool?

925
00:49:55,160 --> 00:49:58,719
Speaker 1: That's what the Yeah, the kid is not obviously the

926
00:49:58,760 --> 00:50:03,400
Speaker 1: same age. Yeah, and it's like he he did like

927
00:50:04,160 --> 00:50:08,120
Speaker 1: the fact that they're not punishing their kid for uh

928
00:50:09,160 --> 00:50:12,799
Speaker 1: pushing this poor poor girl's head underwater when she has

929
00:50:12,800 --> 00:50:14,920
Speaker 1: an ear infection was told by a doctor not to

930
00:50:14,960 --> 00:50:15,200
Speaker 1: do so?

931
00:50:15,400 --> 00:50:19,680
Speaker 2: Is yes, ruse and he had medicine. And Mike knows this.

932
00:50:20,200 --> 00:50:24,600
Speaker 2: Mike knows this. He is seven things happen. I do

933
00:50:24,680 --> 00:50:27,680
Speaker 2: think Mike should have it talking to Sam got it

934
00:50:27,719 --> 00:50:30,920
Speaker 2: talking to This is probably his first time ever being violent.

935
00:50:31,320 --> 00:50:35,440
Speaker 2: But I do see the only thing I see being

936
00:50:35,480 --> 00:50:37,560
Speaker 2: an issue is if Mike were to get grounded and

937
00:50:37,600 --> 00:50:39,879
Speaker 2: Sam weren't. Mike could be like, well that's not fair,

938
00:50:39,920 --> 00:50:42,440
Speaker 2: and then he could have like a skewed you know,

939
00:50:43,000 --> 00:50:45,319
Speaker 2: you talked to him, you talked like, hey, you knew

940
00:50:45,360 --> 00:50:47,759
Speaker 2: about this, you know better and honestly, to be the

941
00:50:47,760 --> 00:50:50,279
Speaker 2: bigger parent I would if I was Mike, Mike was

942
00:50:50,320 --> 00:50:52,239
Speaker 2: my son, I would ground him and be like you

943
00:50:52,320 --> 00:50:55,520
Speaker 2: know better than this, even though Sam doesn't, and or

944
00:50:55,760 --> 00:50:57,719
Speaker 2: be like you know, you know better than this.

945
00:50:57,880 --> 00:51:01,439
Speaker 1: I hold you to a higher Yeah, Mike absolutely needs

946
00:51:01,480 --> 00:51:04,000
Speaker 1: to have some sort of punishment. Sam. I think you

947
00:51:04,040 --> 00:51:06,440
Speaker 1: sit him down and you're like, hey, I know you

948
00:51:06,480 --> 00:51:08,840
Speaker 1: love your sister and you're protecting her, and you know what,

949
00:51:09,000 --> 00:51:12,759
Speaker 1: I I totally understand. I'm trying to think of it

950
00:51:12,800 --> 00:51:16,120
Speaker 1: and like the right like the right words for I

951
00:51:16,160 --> 00:51:18,000
Speaker 1: see that you want to protect your sister. I want

952
00:51:18,000 --> 00:51:19,120
Speaker 1: to protects.

953
00:51:19,520 --> 00:51:21,919
Speaker 2: But there's other ways to do that. Yes, there's a wow,

954
00:51:22,080 --> 00:51:22,640
Speaker 2: I would have to.

955
00:51:23,160 --> 00:51:24,120
Speaker 1: I'm ready for to be.

956
00:51:24,120 --> 00:51:28,640
Speaker 2: A father, big big daddy protein, big daddy protein, dropping

957
00:51:28,719 --> 00:51:30,000
Speaker 2: them proteins.

958
00:51:32,320 --> 00:51:34,920
Speaker 1: WHOA ready to be a big daddy eddie?

959
00:51:35,000 --> 00:51:39,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, but that's so tough and okay. One other question

960
00:51:39,640 --> 00:51:43,680
Speaker 2: is do you ever think violence is the answer? And uh,

961
00:51:43,719 --> 00:51:47,319
Speaker 2: maybe not in this situation, but like protecting like to

962
00:51:47,360 --> 00:51:49,279
Speaker 2: protect your sister, do you think violence could ever be?

963
00:51:49,360 --> 00:51:51,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, well, if someone's attacking you, then you then yeah,

964
00:51:51,760 --> 00:51:54,120
Speaker 1: like one hundred. Like that's the other thing too, Like

965
00:51:54,160 --> 00:51:56,560
Speaker 1: I think we was saying this in a recent stream

966
00:51:56,600 --> 00:52:00,000
Speaker 1: of like talk about the real world. I'm trying to

967
00:52:00,040 --> 00:52:02,120
Speaker 1: remember what it was in reference to, but what is

968
00:52:02,160 --> 00:52:06,040
Speaker 1: the real worlds like consequences and action stuff?

969
00:52:06,160 --> 00:52:06,279
Speaker 2: Oh?

970
00:52:06,320 --> 00:52:08,319
Speaker 1: Oh, I think it was around like how do you

971
00:52:08,400 --> 00:52:12,120
Speaker 1: talk to your you know, young adult like late teens

972
00:52:12,200 --> 00:52:15,360
Speaker 1: kids about you know, spicy sleep and like what do

973
00:52:15,400 --> 00:52:18,240
Speaker 1: you say? And I was saying it's like for me personally,

974
00:52:18,320 --> 00:52:23,320
Speaker 1: it's like, what's the real world consequences sti's and getting

975
00:52:23,360 --> 00:52:26,960
Speaker 1: pregnant and it's to like avoid those things and not

976
00:52:27,000 --> 00:52:29,080
Speaker 1: to like push shame. And it's like like keep the

977
00:52:29,160 --> 00:52:31,759
Speaker 1: focus on that. It's like, hey, if you don't want

978
00:52:31,800 --> 00:52:33,960
Speaker 1: to have a kid right now, you know, don't get pregnant,

979
00:52:34,160 --> 00:52:37,520
Speaker 1: don't get you know, any sdis be safe, cover up

980
00:52:37,560 --> 00:52:39,360
Speaker 1: all those things that that that to me is like

981
00:52:39,560 --> 00:52:42,920
Speaker 1: yeah versus there's many other I guess round about ways.

982
00:52:42,840 --> 00:52:44,640
Speaker 2: And I guess in this case you'd be like, hey,

983
00:52:45,000 --> 00:52:47,239
Speaker 2: violence is the answer. And then you kill them the

984
00:52:47,239 --> 00:52:50,080
Speaker 2: consequences of like, you know, I could get really hurt.

985
00:52:50,640 --> 00:52:54,000
Speaker 1: Violence is the answer or is the answer? Yeah? Yeah, yeah, exactly. Yeah, yeah,

986
00:52:54,000 --> 00:52:56,600
Speaker 1: you could say, like, hey, you know, thankfully nothing happened,

987
00:52:56,640 --> 00:52:58,920
Speaker 1: but what if what if Mike slipped and bumped his head,

988
00:52:59,320 --> 00:53:01,520
Speaker 1: you know, and it and it really hurt him really bad?

989
00:53:01,600 --> 00:53:03,520
Speaker 1: So yeah, I think I think that is which.

990
00:53:03,400 --> 00:53:05,239
Speaker 2: I think is a good opportunity for Sam to learn.

991
00:53:05,400 --> 00:53:09,520
Speaker 1: Yes, here, dude, when do you so Like let's say,

992
00:53:09,600 --> 00:53:12,799
Speaker 1: let's say it's like, uh, they're in school and like

993
00:53:12,840 --> 00:53:17,480
Speaker 1: someone's bully, like someone's bullying uh his sister like that, Yeah,

994
00:53:17,520 --> 00:53:20,080
Speaker 1: and then he just wallops the bully. What's the age

995
00:53:20,120 --> 00:53:20,759
Speaker 1: where you're like.

996
00:53:22,239 --> 00:53:25,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, dude, my mom always told me if a bully,

997
00:53:25,080 --> 00:53:27,600
Speaker 2: if you've gone to the teacher and she's done nothing,

998
00:53:27,880 --> 00:53:29,759
Speaker 2: you have the right to punch a kid in the face.

999
00:53:29,840 --> 00:53:31,719
Speaker 2: My mom said you would get a happy meal if

1000
00:53:31,760 --> 00:53:32,879
Speaker 2: you ever punch a bully in the face.

1001
00:53:32,960 --> 00:53:33,160
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1002
00:53:33,160 --> 00:53:35,120
Speaker 2: I never had the heart to do it. I couldn't

1003
00:53:35,160 --> 00:53:35,319
Speaker 2: do it.

1004
00:53:35,360 --> 00:53:38,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, I was joking that one's a really tough one.

1005
00:53:38,040 --> 00:53:39,680
Speaker 1: I don't know about punch in the face, but like

1006
00:53:40,400 --> 00:53:41,839
Speaker 1: he also told me not to punch with. I think

1007
00:53:41,880 --> 00:53:43,560
Speaker 1: you know what I think it is. I think it's like, like,

1008
00:53:43,680 --> 00:53:47,640
Speaker 1: let's say, I think it would be if someone keeps, like,

1009
00:53:47,719 --> 00:53:49,680
Speaker 1: you know, beating up your little sibling, and then you

1010
00:53:49,719 --> 00:53:51,680
Speaker 1: go to the teachers, you do parent teacher conferences, you

1011
00:53:51,719 --> 00:53:53,080
Speaker 1: like talk to the parents, you try to do all

1012
00:53:53,120 --> 00:53:55,160
Speaker 1: these things. It's like, oh, oh stop, will stop stop,

1013
00:53:55,200 --> 00:53:57,080
Speaker 1: and then they keep doing it. That's when it's like,

1014
00:53:57,200 --> 00:54:00,720
Speaker 1: all right, buddy, get some time for karate lessons because

1015
00:54:00,760 --> 00:54:02,960
Speaker 1: like if literally nothing else is gonna change. I mean,

1016
00:54:02,960 --> 00:54:05,239
Speaker 1: maybe you could try moving schools or something, but it's like,

1017
00:54:05,440 --> 00:54:07,759
Speaker 1: why should you have to move schools too? I don't know.

1018
00:54:07,880 --> 00:54:11,520
Speaker 1: Like baby Guyzella said, these fists already e for everyone.

1019
00:54:12,360 --> 00:54:14,719
Speaker 1: Everybody could get it. Yeah, I don't know. That's a

1020
00:54:14,760 --> 00:54:16,120
Speaker 1: really tough one.

1021
00:54:16,360 --> 00:54:19,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, baby, my mom also said, don't put them in

1022
00:54:19,640 --> 00:54:21,360
Speaker 2: the face because we'll have to pay for their Dinnis appartment.

1023
00:54:21,400 --> 00:54:24,359
Speaker 1: So like, punch them somewhere else. That's so fu dude,

1024
00:54:24,440 --> 00:54:27,720
Speaker 1: shout out to your mom the goat, the goat Mama.

1025
00:54:28,000 --> 00:54:28,200
Speaker 4: Wow.

1026
00:54:28,560 --> 00:54:30,200
Speaker 2: Did any other crazy kid stories?

1027
00:54:31,520 --> 00:54:34,440
Speaker 1: Oh? Like any Greg stories? Oh? That yeah, I'm in

1028
00:54:34,520 --> 00:54:36,040
Speaker 1: Like any more stories lined up for this?

1029
00:54:37,000 --> 00:54:37,200
Speaker 4: Oh?

1030
00:54:37,239 --> 00:54:39,880
Speaker 1: I did one time. I am not a violent person,

1031
00:54:39,920 --> 00:54:41,799
Speaker 1: but I remember one time and like I was like

1032
00:54:41,880 --> 00:54:45,560
Speaker 1: five in kindergarten or whatever, and I had really it

1033
00:54:45,600 --> 00:54:48,600
Speaker 1: was it was go around the circle and share your

1034
00:54:48,640 --> 00:54:51,520
Speaker 1: like weekend plans or something like that. And I remember

1035
00:54:51,560 --> 00:54:54,880
Speaker 1: I had super fire weekend plans and there was this

1036
00:54:54,960 --> 00:54:57,400
Speaker 1: kid just yapping on and on and on about nothing.

1037
00:54:57,520 --> 00:54:59,520
Speaker 1: I mean, like the whacket. I can't remember what it was,

1038
00:55:00,120 --> 00:55:03,480
Speaker 1: which lines up because of how whack his weekend plans were.

1039
00:55:03,880 --> 00:55:05,279
Speaker 1: And I was just like, yo, this kid needs to

1040
00:55:05,280 --> 00:55:07,759
Speaker 1: get shut up. So I stood up, I walked over,

1041
00:55:07,800 --> 00:55:10,959
Speaker 1: and I just punched him in the face. How old

1042
00:55:11,040 --> 00:55:13,480
Speaker 1: were you? I was five years old. You punched him

1043
00:55:13,480 --> 00:55:23,239
Speaker 1: in the face just to make him like dude?

1044
00:55:23,239 --> 00:55:25,760
Speaker 2: And I literally like never did anything like that before

1045
00:55:25,920 --> 00:55:27,360
Speaker 2: or after, like anything.

1046
00:55:27,640 --> 00:55:30,279
Speaker 1: What were your weekend plans that had? Dude? We were

1047
00:55:30,320 --> 00:55:33,520
Speaker 1: going to a beach house. Like we were going to

1048
00:55:33,600 --> 00:55:36,000
Speaker 1: the beach to a freaking beach house. Okay, can we

1049
00:55:36,000 --> 00:55:38,839
Speaker 1: get a pole real quick? Can we get a pole

1050
00:55:38,880 --> 00:55:45,399
Speaker 1: real quick? Was John? Dude, come on, don't let me down, chat,

1051
00:55:46,200 --> 00:55:47,080
Speaker 1: don't let.

1052
00:55:46,880 --> 00:55:49,200
Speaker 2: Me do This kid probably was like I'm going to

1053
00:55:49,239 --> 00:55:51,400
Speaker 2: see like his dad or something over the weekend.

1054
00:55:51,480 --> 00:55:54,279
Speaker 1: Dude, his freaking lame ass whatever he's got going on

1055
00:55:54,280 --> 00:55:55,000
Speaker 1: in his life, Like.

1056
00:55:55,040 --> 00:55:57,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, come on, John was making moves over here.

1057
00:55:58,080 --> 00:56:00,879
Speaker 1: I was literally I was throwing a each house party

1058
00:56:00,920 --> 00:56:03,760
Speaker 1: at five years old. I was freaking. I was freaking

1059
00:56:03,800 --> 00:56:07,600
Speaker 1: the situation from uh Jersey Shore at five years old.

1060
00:56:07,920 --> 00:56:11,400
Speaker 1: Just like, let's let's freaking party, all right, guys, Orange,

1061
00:56:11,560 --> 00:56:13,120
Speaker 1: Here we go, Here we go, There we go.

1062
00:56:13,520 --> 00:56:16,959
Speaker 2: You see some at as. Let's go to oh first two.

1063
00:56:18,719 --> 00:56:20,160
Speaker 1: I think we're getting some not the a holes in

1064
00:56:20,200 --> 00:56:25,759
Speaker 1: this yep, it's working. Not there yet. We need we

1065
00:56:25,800 --> 00:56:29,200
Speaker 1: need to get getting This is John will grind dude.

1066
00:56:29,239 --> 00:56:31,520
Speaker 1: I've I've never been so like on the edge of

1067
00:56:31,520 --> 00:56:34,600
Speaker 1: my seat for results of who said one? Who said one?

1068
00:56:35,000 --> 00:56:36,440
Speaker 1: Find them? Can we fox?

1069
00:56:37,239 --> 00:56:41,000
Speaker 2: We see you, k we fox Hey tiya tiya, we

1070
00:56:41,080 --> 00:56:44,200
Speaker 2: see you. I'm calling you out right now. I'm going

1071
00:56:44,239 --> 00:56:48,120
Speaker 2: out all the ones right now. Yeah the right, Hannah Rose,

1072
00:56:48,280 --> 00:56:51,800
Speaker 2: I see you? Who else?

1073
00:56:52,320 --> 00:56:55,200
Speaker 1: Dude? Could somebody someone should find that what is brunette?

1074
00:56:55,640 --> 00:56:57,840
Speaker 2: Change it right now? We need to find on this

1075
00:56:57,880 --> 00:56:59,600
Speaker 2: Put a tube right now in the chat. Change your

1076
00:56:59,680 --> 00:57:02,200
Speaker 2: vote right now. We need to find out who is

1077
00:57:02,600 --> 00:57:05,640
Speaker 2: all the literally come to your house and pull up

1078
00:57:05,680 --> 00:57:07,480
Speaker 2: paper it. No, this is what we'll do. This is

1079
00:57:07,520 --> 00:57:09,120
Speaker 2: what we're gon do right now. Okay, Okay, this is

1080
00:57:09,120 --> 00:57:10,680
Speaker 2: what I'm gonna do. I'm gonna go to your house.

1081
00:57:10,719 --> 00:57:12,879
Speaker 2: I'm gonna get the inst the potatoes from your nearest store,

1082
00:57:12,920 --> 00:57:14,400
Speaker 2: and I'm gonna put it all over your house. Whenever

1083
00:57:14,400 --> 00:57:16,120
Speaker 2: your sprinklers you come off, and they're gonna be into

1084
00:57:16,120 --> 00:57:18,040
Speaker 2: potatoes everywhere around your house.

1085
00:57:18,880 --> 00:57:20,120
Speaker 1: Potatoes in the sprinklers.

1086
00:57:20,160 --> 00:57:21,920
Speaker 2: No, I'm gonna put it in the grass and whenever

1087
00:57:21,920 --> 00:57:23,880
Speaker 2: they wake up in the morning and some potatoes are everywhere.

1088
00:57:25,080 --> 00:57:26,640
Speaker 1: That dude, that's a genius.

1089
00:57:27,040 --> 00:57:31,240
Speaker 2: Almost say that to our neighbor. I had a dispute

1090
00:57:31,240 --> 00:57:35,840
Speaker 2: with the neighbor. Okay, story tom our neighbor, which I

1091
00:57:35,880 --> 00:57:38,360
Speaker 2: thought was my friend, I parked in her driveway.

1092
00:57:38,640 --> 00:57:42,200
Speaker 1: Okay, so I gotta freaking picture of this.

1093
00:57:42,880 --> 00:57:47,640
Speaker 2: I got a picture of this, Okay, the pops picture.

1094
00:57:48,360 --> 00:57:51,120
Speaker 2: Oh my godness, who's gonna find us? Our fans wouldn't

1095
00:57:51,120 --> 00:57:53,880
Speaker 2: find us if they wanted to find as they already

1096
00:57:53,880 --> 00:58:00,400
Speaker 2: would have. Okay, I'm gonna my copies this anyways, here, here, here, here, here,

1097
00:58:00,520 --> 00:58:07,840
Speaker 2: just show this. Do the miniman face, the minimal facey, Sophia,

1098
00:58:07,880 --> 00:58:11,120
Speaker 2: what are you doing? I'm just moving the mic normal face?

1099
00:58:11,960 --> 00:58:14,920
Speaker 2: All right, you see this? You see this? Everyone, everyone

1100
00:58:14,960 --> 00:58:17,320
Speaker 2: take a screenshot and zoom on this. That is where

1101
00:58:17,360 --> 00:58:18,960
Speaker 2: my car is lined up to the thing. I'll put

1102
00:58:19,000 --> 00:58:22,200
Speaker 2: it in the notion real quick. Oh my, okay, guys,

1103
00:58:23,800 --> 00:58:27,280
Speaker 2: what Poppy? Which one? Which story I'm gonna put on

1104
00:58:27,280 --> 00:58:27,800
Speaker 2: the story.

1105
00:58:27,560 --> 00:58:29,280
Speaker 1: I just read. Thank you guys, by the way, for

1106
00:58:29,360 --> 00:58:30,680
Speaker 1: voting me not the a hole.

1107
00:58:30,680 --> 00:58:34,120
Speaker 2: Most of you put twenty four of you that you're

1108
00:58:34,160 --> 00:58:36,200
Speaker 2: gonna see instipitators. Okay, I just put them in there

1109
00:58:36,240 --> 00:58:36,880
Speaker 2: in the in the notion.

1110
00:58:36,960 --> 00:58:37,200
Speaker 1: Put it.

1111
00:58:37,240 --> 00:58:39,360
Speaker 2: Pull up the notion. Let just put or which notion

1112
00:58:39,400 --> 00:58:41,360
Speaker 2: do you want me to put it in? I put

1113
00:58:41,400 --> 00:58:43,680
Speaker 2: in the notion which one the one the story I

1114
00:58:43,720 --> 00:58:46,520
Speaker 2: just read? Oh no, put it in the next start Okay,

1115
00:58:47,600 --> 00:58:49,320
Speaker 2: I'll put out the very bottom. There's a very bottom.

1116
00:58:49,360 --> 00:58:49,840
Speaker 3: Pulls for.

1117
00:58:55,000 --> 00:58:55,400
Speaker 1: It's there.

1118
00:58:55,560 --> 00:58:58,200
Speaker 2: It's there, It's in the very bottom. Okay, pull press

1119
00:58:58,240 --> 00:59:01,320
Speaker 2: seven eight eight. I want to ate my bad all right,

1120
00:59:01,360 --> 00:59:04,240
Speaker 2: you see that. You see that that's where my car

1121
00:59:04,360 --> 00:59:07,720
Speaker 2: was parked. She texts us in the freaking group chat Hey,

1122
00:59:07,960 --> 00:59:10,600
Speaker 2: by the way, someone in the ford, uh needs to

1123
00:59:10,640 --> 00:59:13,400
Speaker 2: move their car, they're in our driveway.

1124
00:59:17,720 --> 00:59:20,920
Speaker 1: The only thing this I don't think this quite fits,

1125
00:59:20,920 --> 00:59:25,160
Speaker 1: but like, uh, they can give you a ticket for

1126
00:59:25,680 --> 00:59:30,880
Speaker 1: being like that close. Sometimes that is okay.

1127
00:59:29,880 --> 00:59:33,400
Speaker 2: The problem is late at night. I pulled in late

1128
00:59:33,400 --> 00:59:34,880
Speaker 2: at night and there was a car in front of me.

1129
00:59:34,960 --> 00:59:36,480
Speaker 2: They could have pulled up a little bit, and I

1130
00:59:36,600 --> 00:59:38,600
Speaker 2: just squeezed right in and I checked and I was like, okay,

1131
00:59:38,640 --> 00:59:40,840
Speaker 2: I'm fine. But they text us in there and they

1132
00:59:40,840 --> 00:59:45,080
Speaker 2: were like, I can't.

1133
00:59:45,120 --> 00:59:46,160
Speaker 1: I can't. Okay.

1134
00:59:46,200 --> 00:59:48,840
Speaker 2: Coming from coming from the South, there's a good amount

1135
00:59:48,880 --> 00:59:49,640
Speaker 2: of people calling you.

1136
00:59:49,680 --> 00:59:53,720
Speaker 1: They just want to see me triggered. I don't believe you. Okay,

1137
00:59:53,720 --> 00:59:54,400
Speaker 1: cover the South.

1138
00:59:54,480 --> 00:59:56,560
Speaker 2: I can park anywhere. I can put my trash cans anywhere.

1139
00:59:56,600 --> 00:59:58,480
Speaker 2: Why can't I park anywhere here? Why can't I put

1140
00:59:58,480 --> 01:00:02,120
Speaker 2: my trash cans across the street without mother efan doo

1141
01:00:02,120 --> 01:00:04,000
Speaker 2: dooo dude over there coming out to me in the

1142
01:00:04,000 --> 01:00:05,480
Speaker 2: middle of the night saying, hey, can you please put

1143
01:00:05,480 --> 01:00:06,840
Speaker 2: your trash hands on your side of the street?

1144
01:00:07,240 --> 01:00:09,000
Speaker 1: What is this? What is this?

1145
01:00:09,960 --> 01:00:11,720
Speaker 2: What is freedom in America anymore?

1146
01:00:12,480 --> 01:00:18,320
Speaker 1: Why can't I do this? Sophia has been smashing the

1147
01:00:18,360 --> 01:00:21,400
Speaker 1: red flag button on the n What do you mean,

1148
01:00:23,360 --> 01:00:24,040
Speaker 1: do you okay?

1149
01:00:26,880 --> 01:00:29,560
Speaker 2: I'm one day away, go ahead, day away from going

1150
01:00:29,600 --> 01:00:30,480
Speaker 2: back to North Carolina.

1151
01:00:30,560 --> 01:00:31,840
Speaker 1: What do you what do you got?

1152
01:00:35,200 --> 01:00:35,680
Speaker 3: Conspiracy?

1153
01:00:36,760 --> 01:00:39,880
Speaker 2: Conspiracy because I like them, because I like the way

1154
01:00:39,960 --> 01:00:42,800
Speaker 2: they are and they sound well well.

1155
01:00:43,160 --> 01:00:45,800
Speaker 1: But Riley is a vast majority voted, not the a whole.

1156
01:00:45,960 --> 01:00:48,840
Speaker 1: Thank you, vast majority voted not the ahole. Riley's never wrong.

1157
01:00:49,400 --> 01:00:49,960
Speaker 1: I'm putting that.

1158
01:00:50,120 --> 01:00:55,680
Speaker 2: I'm framing that my wall ladies and gentlemen, Riley aside,

1159
01:00:56,480 --> 01:00:59,360
Speaker 2: we have we have more for you.

1160
01:00:59,440 --> 01:01:02,000
Speaker 1: Let's go, Sophia. Where are we at?

1161
01:01:04,040 --> 01:01:06,919
Speaker 2: Matt Hatter, thanks for the five dollars tip. John will

1162
01:01:06,960 --> 01:01:09,600
Speaker 2: never be the a hole In my book, John is

1163
01:01:09,680 --> 01:01:13,960
Speaker 2: the kind and sweet should get a metal for his kindness.

1164
01:01:14,000 --> 01:01:17,160
Speaker 2: This is true. Also, John around his girlfriend is the

1165
01:01:17,240 --> 01:01:20,000
Speaker 2: sweetest guy I have ever seen. I was with him

1166
01:01:20,000 --> 01:01:25,800
Speaker 2: and his girlfriend one time whenever we're partying, and he

1167
01:01:25,960 --> 01:01:28,000
Speaker 2: was like so sweet to his girlfriend and like making

1168
01:01:28,000 --> 01:01:29,680
Speaker 2: sure that she was all right, getting her water and

1169
01:01:29,680 --> 01:01:31,480
Speaker 2: stuff like that. This man was gonna steal a cup

1170
01:01:31,520 --> 01:01:34,040
Speaker 2: from a club to make sure his girlfriend was hydrated.

1171
01:01:34,040 --> 01:01:36,479
Speaker 1: I walked out of the club with it, but.

1172
01:01:36,400 --> 01:01:38,080
Speaker 2: They they caught him. They caught him, but he was

1173
01:01:38,120 --> 01:01:39,640
Speaker 2: gonna do that. He was gonna go to great lengths.

1174
01:01:39,640 --> 01:01:42,240
Speaker 2: So that's right, this man, any grace. Thanks for the

1175
01:01:42,360 --> 01:01:45,640
Speaker 2: five dollars. I used to punch my brother in the

1176
01:01:45,760 --> 01:01:49,520
Speaker 2: nose to make him sneeze. I thought it was a

1177
01:01:49,560 --> 01:01:53,840
Speaker 2: funny reaction. I was like, six, that's I'm sorry, that's hilarious.

1178
01:01:53,920 --> 01:01:56,360
Speaker 1: If I was a parent, I would die laughing every time.

1179
01:01:56,360 --> 01:01:57,040
Speaker 1: It'd be really bad.

1180
01:01:57,840 --> 01:02:00,800
Speaker 2: Well, Blonda's brunette. Thanks for two dollars, So glad, I

1181
01:02:00,840 --> 01:02:01,960
Speaker 2: have two driveways.

1182
01:02:02,040 --> 01:02:09,520
Speaker 1: Riley, damn good made. And then Uncle Daddy Jesse five dollars.

1183
01:02:09,600 --> 01:02:13,960
Speaker 1: Chat joined the daddies. Riley, Uh oh, daddy gang.

1184
01:02:13,880 --> 01:02:16,400
Speaker 2: Dude Dad coming from Daddy Jesse, Uncle Daddy Jesse.

1185
01:02:16,560 --> 01:02:19,240
Speaker 1: That's right, that's that's big. That's big huge. And then

1186
01:02:19,600 --> 01:02:22,600
Speaker 1: moon Lit Cat Dragon Yes, Moonla Cat drabbing, tell me

1187
01:02:22,760 --> 01:02:26,080
Speaker 1: one other membership. Yay, I'm back, Love you guys, guess

1188
01:02:26,120 --> 01:02:28,960
Speaker 1: what we all have you back? And then sweet Hottie.

1189
01:02:29,000 --> 01:02:33,560
Speaker 1: Thanks John, in reference to me putting our pal Clinton

1190
01:02:34,280 --> 01:02:38,840
Speaker 1: on the producer cam. You're freaking welcome. Okay, you can't

1191
01:02:38,880 --> 01:02:43,520
Speaker 1: say I never did nothing for you, all right, all right,

1192
01:02:43,600 --> 01:02:46,400
Speaker 1: but so ladies and gentlemen, we have uh we're kind

1193
01:02:46,400 --> 01:02:48,560
Speaker 1: of coming to time. Unless something crazy happens. This might

1194
01:02:48,560 --> 01:02:51,280
Speaker 1: be our very very last story of the stream. But

1195
01:02:51,760 --> 01:02:53,280
Speaker 1: why don't we get into it and give you guys

1196
01:02:53,320 --> 01:02:55,800
Speaker 1: what you came here for? So am I they hold

1197
01:02:55,800 --> 01:02:58,320
Speaker 1: for telling my younger siblings I am not their dad.

1198
01:03:01,560 --> 01:03:02,520
Speaker 1: This is too real.

1199
01:03:02,760 --> 01:03:04,840
Speaker 2: I've heard a story like this before, but it turned

1200
01:03:04,840 --> 01:03:07,560
Speaker 2: out great. I don't have high hopes for this one.

1201
01:03:07,680 --> 01:03:10,560
Speaker 1: Well. Future Kiwi fifty three sixty one says my parents

1202
01:03:10,560 --> 01:03:13,200
Speaker 1: had me twenty two male at nineteen years old, and

1203
01:03:13,280 --> 01:03:15,560
Speaker 1: I was an only child for six years. Then they

1204
01:03:15,600 --> 01:03:19,280
Speaker 1: had three kids to back who we are now back

1205
01:03:19,360 --> 01:03:22,960
Speaker 1: to back, who are now sixteen, fifteen, and fourteen. My

1206
01:03:23,160 --> 01:03:26,360
Speaker 1: parents never knew the most. My parents were never the

1207
01:03:26,400 --> 01:03:28,800
Speaker 1: most attentive parents, but did a better job with my

1208
01:03:28,880 --> 01:03:31,959
Speaker 1: younger siblings than they did with me. But at some point,

1209
01:03:32,040 --> 01:03:34,600
Speaker 1: while my siblings were still really young, they started to

1210
01:03:34,640 --> 01:03:37,320
Speaker 1: come to me like I was an adult instead of

1211
01:03:37,440 --> 01:03:39,919
Speaker 1: mom or dad. And mom and dad let it happen.

1212
01:03:40,400 --> 01:03:42,480
Speaker 1: They were still there, but my siblings would ask me

1213
01:03:42,520 --> 01:03:44,720
Speaker 1: to make them food, or they'd ask me for money

1214
01:03:44,840 --> 01:03:46,960
Speaker 1: I had done back then. That's so hilarious. They're like,

1215
01:03:47,440 --> 01:03:49,960
Speaker 1: can we get some money. You're like, I live, I

1216
01:03:50,600 --> 01:03:56,640
Speaker 1: am in ninth grade, I don't work. I don't work, okay,

1217
01:03:58,480 --> 01:04:00,920
Speaker 1: Or they'd want me to help with homework, or they'd

1218
01:04:00,920 --> 01:04:03,120
Speaker 1: come to me if they struggled to do their chores.

1219
01:04:03,440 --> 01:04:06,120
Speaker 1: It got annoying very quickly, and I asked my parents

1220
01:04:06,160 --> 01:04:09,480
Speaker 1: to step in so I wasn't always saying no or

1221
01:04:09,600 --> 01:04:12,280
Speaker 1: having a siblings through a tantrum because I wasn't acting

1222
01:04:12,320 --> 01:04:14,640
Speaker 1: more like an adult in the house who is there

1223
01:04:14,680 --> 01:04:17,200
Speaker 1: to do stuff for them. My parents were there for

1224
01:04:17,240 --> 01:04:19,720
Speaker 1: the basics, and if my siblings didn't come to me,

1225
01:04:20,080 --> 01:04:23,000
Speaker 1: they'd deal with stuff, But otherwise they seemed glad to

1226
01:04:23,080 --> 01:04:27,240
Speaker 1: not deal with all of the parenting. They still weren't

1227
01:04:27,280 --> 01:04:30,280
Speaker 1: as good with me as my siblings either. It was

1228
01:04:30,320 --> 01:04:34,480
Speaker 1: like prioritizing supporting my siblings instead of me, or making

1229
01:04:34,520 --> 01:04:37,640
Speaker 1: a big effort for their birthdays but not mine. That sucks.

1230
01:04:37,720 --> 01:04:40,480
Speaker 1: Sang Christmas was another time it was super obvious because

1231
01:04:40,480 --> 01:04:44,080
Speaker 1: my siblings got gifts they wanted and I got needed

1232
01:04:44,120 --> 01:04:47,760
Speaker 1: stuff like hygiene products, socks and underwear.

1233
01:04:47,840 --> 01:04:50,520
Speaker 2: Bro had like holes in his underwear and like the

1234
01:04:50,560 --> 01:04:55,000
Speaker 2: other kids are getting like a new Xboxes, electric guitars.

1235
01:04:55,040 --> 01:04:59,040
Speaker 1: The electric guitars like like little go karts, and then

1236
01:04:59,120 --> 01:05:01,080
Speaker 1: he's over here, thanks and a song.

1237
01:05:01,280 --> 01:05:04,920
Speaker 2: Thanks for my new toothbresh and underwear because my underwear

1238
01:05:05,040 --> 01:05:08,200
Speaker 2: holes because you wouldn't buy them for me. Oh wait,

1239
01:05:08,200 --> 01:05:09,120
Speaker 2: he didn't even get.

1240
01:05:08,960 --> 01:05:12,960
Speaker 1: Those though, didn't even get what the underwear. He like,

1241
01:05:13,040 --> 01:05:15,120
Speaker 1: they're buying him the underwear because they're like, we did

1242
01:05:15,200 --> 01:05:17,760
Speaker 1: get him underwear. They have to. They bought him underwear

1243
01:05:17,800 --> 01:05:21,520
Speaker 1: for Christmas. That was his Christmas present. They're like, hey,

1244
01:05:21,520 --> 01:05:23,280
Speaker 1: you've been a really good boy. I know we haven't

1245
01:05:23,280 --> 01:05:26,760
Speaker 1: buy any new underwear in six years, but that's what

1246
01:05:26,800 --> 01:05:29,040
Speaker 1: we Sada got your real special surprise.

1247
01:05:29,120 --> 01:05:33,600
Speaker 2: He was like, thank god, finally, dude. He's like changing

1248
01:05:33,640 --> 01:05:37,320
Speaker 2: in the like middle school high school gym. They're like, bro,

1249
01:05:37,880 --> 01:05:40,240
Speaker 2: Bob's underpants look like Swiss cheese.

1250
01:05:41,320 --> 01:05:44,200
Speaker 1: Dude, that's tough. That's tough. Tough. That sounds like that

1251
01:05:44,240 --> 01:05:44,640
Speaker 1: happened to you.

1252
01:05:46,680 --> 01:05:48,880
Speaker 3: That was too very specific, a little too real.

1253
01:05:48,920 --> 01:05:51,280
Speaker 1: There. I've never heard that before. Ah, that did not

1254
01:05:51,360 --> 01:05:54,440
Speaker 1: happen to me, but I did. I did narrowly avoid

1255
01:05:54,680 --> 01:05:55,360
Speaker 1: an incident.

1256
01:05:55,600 --> 01:05:57,200
Speaker 3: And did it happened to someone else?

1257
01:05:58,160 --> 01:06:00,160
Speaker 1: No, it didn't happen to anyone else. Oh wow, but

1258
01:06:00,360 --> 01:06:04,320
Speaker 1: I had. I had an incident that I narrowly avoided. Okay,

1259
01:06:04,520 --> 01:06:06,960
Speaker 1: I can tell you, Okay, storytime later. I brought it

1260
01:06:07,040 --> 01:06:08,800
Speaker 1: up to my parents when I was fifteen, and they

1261
01:06:08,960 --> 01:06:11,120
Speaker 1: used the excuse that they had me at nineteen, so

1262
01:06:11,160 --> 01:06:13,000
Speaker 1: they just don't know how to connect with me the

1263
01:06:13,040 --> 01:06:15,400
Speaker 1: same and didn't have the means to provide me for

1264
01:06:15,440 --> 01:06:17,840
Speaker 1: me like they did with my siblings. When I learned

1265
01:06:17,840 --> 01:06:20,840
Speaker 1: how to drive and started working, my siblings relying on

1266
01:06:20,920 --> 01:06:23,720
Speaker 1: me got worse. They wanted me to drive them places,

1267
01:06:23,800 --> 01:06:26,040
Speaker 1: give them money. They wanted me to take them to

1268
01:06:26,080 --> 01:06:28,800
Speaker 1: school and pick them up. They wanted me to buy

1269
01:06:29,040 --> 01:06:32,280
Speaker 1: birthday gift for their friends and take them shopping for

1270
01:06:32,320 --> 01:06:39,600
Speaker 1: that stuff. Guys, Oo, cool it down what this guy

1271
01:06:39,720 --> 01:06:43,520
Speaker 1: is like in high school? And call like, what are

1272
01:06:43,560 --> 01:06:46,840
Speaker 1: we talking about? My youngest sibling even asked me to

1273
01:06:46,880 --> 01:06:50,080
Speaker 1: be a parent chaperad on a field trip when I

1274
01:06:50,160 --> 01:06:55,960
Speaker 1: was sixteen. He's not even an adult yet. Oh my god.

1275
01:06:57,160 --> 01:07:00,600
Speaker 1: It was suffocating, and my siblings could not be spoken

1276
01:07:00,680 --> 01:07:03,560
Speaker 1: to about it. They just wanted me to be the dad.

1277
01:07:03,840 --> 01:07:08,960
Speaker 1: They even called me dad sometimes. Dude. What the heck this?

1278
01:07:10,520 --> 01:07:16,800
Speaker 1: I wonder? Oh, what is happening here? I am just

1279
01:07:16,920 --> 01:07:20,720
Speaker 1: flabberg asked. I was desperate to get out, and COVID

1280
01:07:20,840 --> 01:07:25,240
Speaker 1: almost eft it up. But I was lucky my girlfriend's

1281
01:07:25,280 --> 01:07:28,120
Speaker 1: family let me move in with them. Wow, that was

1282
01:07:28,160 --> 01:07:31,160
Speaker 1: a stroke of luck. Once I left, I tried to

1283
01:07:31,280 --> 01:07:34,040
Speaker 1: better enforce my boundaries and create a distance, but they

1284
01:07:34,080 --> 01:07:36,880
Speaker 1: still wanted me there, and they'd cry down the phone

1285
01:07:37,040 --> 01:07:40,560
Speaker 1: about about me leaving and not being there for stuff.

1286
01:07:40,960 --> 01:07:42,960
Speaker 1: Now that my siblings are teens, I tried to talk

1287
01:07:43,040 --> 01:07:46,280
Speaker 1: to them about it again, but my sister sixteen, said,

1288
01:07:46,560 --> 01:07:49,120
Speaker 1: I had to do these things because I am supposed to.

1289
01:07:49,960 --> 01:07:54,520
Speaker 2: You're supposed to interesting how to do it?

1290
01:07:55,080 --> 01:07:57,680
Speaker 1: You got he's been doing it so much? I mean,

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Speaker 1: why that that cond of tracks stepping up? I asked

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01:08:02,320 --> 01:08:06,120
Speaker 1: her why I was supposed to do it, and she said, well,

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Speaker 1: you're basically your dad. My brothers agreed. What about your

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Speaker 1: actual father? What about that? Did you ever never cry?

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Speaker 5: Oh?

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01:08:15,720 --> 01:08:16,559
Speaker 3: Oh huh.

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01:08:16,600 --> 01:08:21,559
Speaker 1: Maybe I should go to my literal father and ask

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01:08:21,640 --> 01:08:24,320
Speaker 1: him for these things. Did you ever even even try

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Speaker 1: that first? Bro? Give this poor kid a break? Oh

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Speaker 1: my god. I admitted it pissed me off, and I

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Speaker 1: told them in a firm and angry tone that I

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01:08:36,040 --> 01:08:39,920
Speaker 1: am not their dad. I am not your father, and

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Speaker 1: they need to stop acting like I'm their parent because

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Speaker 1: I'm their sibling, the oldest. Sure, but I am not

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01:08:45,360 --> 01:08:48,599
Speaker 1: their parent and I am not responsible for them. They

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01:08:48,600 --> 01:08:51,800
Speaker 1: said I was a butt and I should be taking

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Speaker 1: care of them. So am I the a hole? No dog?

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Speaker 2: You're trying to get through life and your siblings are

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01:08:59,280 --> 01:09:03,920
Speaker 2: weighing you down. They're like a way you cut them off. Facts,

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Speaker 2: that's real.

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Speaker 1: Real talk. I was like facts to my own right

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Speaker 1: Rightley just liked his own comment. That's what that was. Yeah, dude,

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Speaker 1: I mean honestly, move out and be like, hey, I

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Speaker 1: love you guys, and I'm like down to hang out

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Speaker 1: and do fun stuff. As soon as you start being

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Speaker 1: like asking me for stuff and start trying to treat

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01:09:24,680 --> 01:09:27,240
Speaker 1: me like your dad to pay for things, and I'm

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Speaker 1: just gonna walk away.

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Speaker 2: That's so much to put it on a nineteen year

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01:09:30,600 --> 01:09:32,840
Speaker 2: old dude. Yeah, age, you're growing up.

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Speaker 1: That's crazy crazy and like and to be clear, also

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Speaker 1: not I didn't suggest walk away from like go no contact,

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01:09:39,720 --> 01:09:41,200
Speaker 1: but just like let's say like they're hanging out of

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Speaker 1: the pool and like, oh Pete do this do that

1325
01:09:43,360 --> 01:09:45,040
Speaker 1: is like chew you guys, I'm going to time and

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Speaker 1: playing Xbox. Yeah. So yeah, there you go. And ladies

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Speaker 1: we didn't have to cancel our plans. We didn't. There

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Speaker 1: you go, Thank goodness, there we freaking go. But if

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