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Speaker 2: You tell me.

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Speaker 1: These are the radio blogs on the Fread Show. A right,

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Speaker 1: thanks for running in our diaries, except we say them

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Speaker 3: Away, man, Oh my goodness.

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Speaker 4: All right, So this whole wedding planning thing is tough,

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Speaker 4: and I know every bride has been through this. I'm

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Speaker 4: not unique to this experience, but I am a certified

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Speaker 4: people pleaser and being a people pleaser is not going

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Speaker 4: well with this whole rhytal process. So Caitlin had to

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Speaker 4: have a little come to you know, the Lord talk

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Speaker 4: with me the other day about Keety, You're gonna have

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Speaker 4: to just make a decision and stop worrying about how

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Speaker 4: far you know, Fred is gonna have to drive, or

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Speaker 4: how you know if Ryan doesn't like chicken and Jason

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Speaker 4: doesn't want to be She was like, you have to

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Speaker 4: just pick like lady, you know, And so I took

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Speaker 4: that into consideration.

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Speaker 3: I think I'm getting closer with the venue.

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Speaker 4: However, it is now time to select the bridal party

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Speaker 4: and I can't do this. I really just want to

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Speaker 4: put a filler out there. Actually, right now, this is

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Speaker 4: a message. If you think that you should be in

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Speaker 4: my bridal party, hit me up and let me know.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I know, I mean it. So then who else,

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Speaker 1: who else has a problem with it? That's for me.

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Speaker 3: So you feel that you should be in Big Tim's

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Speaker 3: bridal party?

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Speaker 1: Oh no, no, I should be in your I don't

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Speaker 1: know Big Tim because you've never introduced me, jum, so

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Speaker 1: I know. No.

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Speaker 3: So you want to be a bride's maid?

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Speaker 1: I do, got you. Yeah, No, that's obvious though, but

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Speaker 1: I don't even know what we're talking about. That. So

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Speaker 1: let's move on to other people who are disgruntled.

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Speaker 4: Well, it can't just be you, So like I need

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Speaker 4: to know who else wants to be in this bridal

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Speaker 4: party so that I can make sure that I don't

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Speaker 4: exclude anyone because you know, I.

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Speaker 1: Was your sister, Ryan, you're you're a photographer and personal assistant.

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Speaker 3: Me, I'm actually his personal assistant.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, and then I don't know who else. I mean,

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Speaker 1: that's it right. I'm sure you know some other people.

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Speaker 4: I don't know, but I don't understand how brides narrow

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Speaker 4: this whole thing down. And probably and I know you've

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Speaker 4: been through this, yeh At your girls in their power suits,

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Speaker 4: I sure did. Was anyone left out or mad that

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Speaker 4: they didn't get a pink power suit?

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Speaker 3: Or like, how did you make how did you make

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Speaker 3: the decision?

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Speaker 1: Girl?

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Speaker 4: Because I can't make a decision to save my life,

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Speaker 4: I feel like they should tell me if they want

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Speaker 4: to rock with me.

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Speaker 1: Yes, I hear that.

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Speaker 3: I don't think anybody was mad.

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Speaker 2: Nobody vocalized they were mad, and like to be honest,

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Speaker 2: like at this big age, like it's probably lowki a

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Speaker 2: bigger blessing not to be earls because I see how

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Speaker 2: much Klein has spent in that credit card.

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Speaker 1: Billy being a guest. It's very expensive and That's.

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Speaker 2: Why I was very I was like, Hey, we're gonna

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Speaker 2: go to sheen dot com. We're gonna get twenty nine

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Speaker 2: dollars power suits and we're gonna wear that. And I

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Speaker 2: bought them like vans, like matching fans is a gift

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Speaker 2: or whatever. That's all I wanted, right because I was like,

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Speaker 2: I know this is very expensive, But I did have

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Speaker 2: a big bridal party that I look at it. I

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Speaker 2: had like what six friends and three family members. Okay,

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Speaker 2: so it's nine people on my side. Yeah, so's the

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Speaker 2: girls in the gays with me and then haave I

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Speaker 2: had it. We had a poll cousins and stuff just

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Speaker 2: so we can like match him, you know.

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Speaker 1: What I mean. So we have enough people.

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Speaker 3: Oh so he had to match your number? Yeah exactly,

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Speaker 3: only has like two friends.

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Speaker 1: I mean, so do I.

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Speaker 3: But and then he's like a lot of cousins, so we.

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Speaker 1: Made it work.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, you need to do whatever you This is

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Speaker 1: your day, what you want, Like, it doesn't matter who who,

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Speaker 1: how far away it is, or who gets their feelings hurt.

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Speaker 1: You get one shot at this, maybe two they'll get it,

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Speaker 1: so you don't. It doesn't matter what anyone else thinks.

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Speaker 4: About this, and everyone is saying that, but it really

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Speaker 4: a wedding is really for your guests. You want them

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Speaker 4: to enjoy the experience. Not okay, no, it's not.

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Speaker 1: It's for you. It's your one day to be selfish.

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Speaker 1: This is the best day of your life.

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Speaker 3: Hopefully it happens once.

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Speaker 1: Right, It's not about your guests at all.

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Speaker 3: Zero. I want you all to have a good time.

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Speaker 1: I want you to enjoy yourself well, and you're happy,

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Speaker 1: then we should have a good time. And that's I

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Speaker 1: think people miss that. Yeah, and they spend money on

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Speaker 1: a bunch of crap. I've said this a thousand times.

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Speaker 1: They spend money on a bunch of crap that they

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Speaker 1: think will make their guests happy, when no one remembers

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Speaker 1: any of it. Because it just needs to reflect you

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Speaker 1: and make you happy and be within your budget and

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Speaker 1: not stretch you out. And it will anyway. Yeah. And

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Speaker 1: there's no way to choose a group of people five

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Speaker 1: or six or seven or ten or whatever. There's no

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Speaker 1: way to choose that group and not alienate someone. It's impossible.

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Speaker 1: So while that's very difficult, I'm sure there's just no

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Speaker 1: way around it. So I think you just have to

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Speaker 1: accept the fact that someone's going to be angry. We're

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Speaker 1: old enough now that we have enough friends and acquaintances

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Speaker 1: and people who think that they play a certain role

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Speaker 1: in our lives, and they may be important. But unfortunately

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Speaker 1: there's only so many slots for so many things, and

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Speaker 1: so there are people who won't get invited, and there

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Speaker 1: are people who won't it won't be convenient for them.

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Speaker 1: And there are people who won't be in the wedding

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Speaker 1: party next to me, you know, who will be very

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Speaker 1: upset about it. And uh, and I'm sorry, but you

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Speaker 1: can only make the best decisions for you. This is true.

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Speaker 3: This is true. But if you feel in your heart

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Speaker 3: that you should be in my bridle party, just tell me.

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Speaker 1: Now, I just do love you existing on.

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Speaker 3: You are on the list.

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Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. You're right, you are on

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Speaker 1: the long side of that.

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Speaker 3: I just don't I.

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Speaker 4: I could just imagine if somebody feels like like they

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Speaker 4: should absolutely stand next to me on my day and I.

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Speaker 3: Don't pick them. Oh, I don't want that smoke.

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Speaker 1: So actually, as a guy who wants to be invited

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Speaker 1: but then doesn't want to have to go, I'm going

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Speaker 1: to your wedding thank you for including me and your

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Speaker 1: bridal party. I respectfully declared with me, we can do it.

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Speaker 1: I can walk around the wedding go yes, she asked.

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Speaker 3: Me, Do we even know we're going?

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Speaker 1: We have not been invited by that's you too. I've

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Speaker 1: known you for eight years and something or something and

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Speaker 1: I have never met Big Tim. So so you're right.

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Speaker 1: You're a very good point.

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Speaker 3: I invited.

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Speaker 1: Are you even going to tell us where it is?

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Speaker 2: Yes?

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Speaker 3: You guys do whatever you want

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Speaker 1: When in that case, yes, just don't make me be

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Speaker 1: the mcw