WEBVTT - In Less Than 48 Hours Her Son Will Be Executed Unless The Governor Intervenes, Our Interview With Linda Wood And Her Granddaughters 

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, folks, it is Tuesday, November the eleventh, and as

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<v Speaker 1>of this recording, we are forty eight hours away, less

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<v Speaker 1>than forty eight hours away from the execution of inmate

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<v Speaker 1>Tremaine Wood in Oklahoma. His family, in particular his mother

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<v Speaker 1>and his two young nieces, hugged him for the last

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<v Speaker 1>time months ago. They just had no idea that was

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<v Speaker 1>possibly going to be the last hug. Welcome everybody to

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<v Speaker 1>this episode of Amy and TJ. In Robes, I'm speaking

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<v Speaker 1>in particular about Linda Wood, Andreana Wood, and Brooklyn Wood,

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<v Speaker 1>the mother and two nieces of Tremaine, who are right

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<v Speaker 1>now Robes, holding out hope that Thursday.

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<v Speaker 2>Won't be the end, and they aren't sleeping, they aren't eating,

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<v Speaker 2>and they have experienced every emotion imaginable anticipating what could

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<v Speaker 2>possibly happen. No one knows what the governor is going

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<v Speaker 2>to decide, and he has until literally the eleventh hour,

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<v Speaker 2>moments before the scheduled execution, to make a decision whether

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<v Speaker 2>or not to grant Tremaine would clemency.

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<v Speaker 1>So you can only imagine, folks, what it's like for

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<v Speaker 1>that family right now. But we have covered this story.

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<v Speaker 1>Robock and I have been following this story for weeks.

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<v Speaker 1>We have a whole episode on the case itself. What

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<v Speaker 1>we're talking about a man, Tremain Wood, who is forty

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<v Speaker 1>six years old now, who was in his twenties when

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<v Speaker 1>he was a part of a robbery that took place

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<v Speaker 1>on New Year's Day back in two thousand and two,

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<v Speaker 1>a robbery in which a man ended up dead, stabbed

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<v Speaker 1>to death. Tremain Would and his brother were the two

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<v Speaker 1>who took part in this robbery. There was a back

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<v Speaker 1>and forth about who actually was the one who killed

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<v Speaker 1>the man, but Tremaine Wood's brother also convicted in this crime.

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<v Speaker 1>Robes he got life in prison. Tremaine ends up with

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<v Speaker 1>here we are on death row. There's all kinds of

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<v Speaker 1>questions and legal questions about the representation that Tremaine Would got,

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<v Speaker 1>which by all accounts, I think everybody agrees he did

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<v Speaker 1>not get adequate representation. This has led us now to

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<v Speaker 1>a clemency hearing that we just heard matter of about

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<v Speaker 1>a week ago, in which the clemency Board recommended yes,

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<v Speaker 1>in a vote of three to two, his life should

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<v Speaker 1>be spared. But that doesn't spare his life Robes. It

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<v Speaker 1>means then now the governor and that catches everybody up,

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<v Speaker 1>and that leads us to these three women, these three

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<v Speaker 1>young ladies that we had a chance to talk to.

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<v Speaker 1>We've talked to a lot of people over the years

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<v Speaker 1>and covered a lot of cases. I actually count remember

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<v Speaker 1>talking to someone this intimately who was this close to

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<v Speaker 1>having their loved one killed.

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<v Speaker 2>I have never had a conversation like we just had

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<v Speaker 2>with these three women who are going through something that

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<v Speaker 2>no mother and no family member would ever want to imagine.

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<v Speaker 2>And yet to sit down with them and to have

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<v Speaker 2>the time with them that we had with them, it

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<v Speaker 2>is impossible to not feel for these women to not

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<v Speaker 2>feel something for what is state sanctioned murder in this.

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<v Speaker 1>So, folks, we want you to hear from them now.

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<v Speaker 1>And look, Robot and I we covered this case. We

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<v Speaker 1>pointed out we're not going through all the legalities in

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<v Speaker 1>the back and forth and the nuances and the legalities

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<v Speaker 1>of this case. This was a matter of talking to

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<v Speaker 1>three women who are days away from losing someone who

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<v Speaker 1>was possibly the most important person in their lives and

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<v Speaker 1>one of the most influential. So here now we want

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<v Speaker 1>you to listen to our conversation with Linda Wood, mother

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<v Speaker 1>of Tremaine Wood and Andrea and Brooklyn would his.

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<v Speaker 3>Nieces, and I imagine you all have in the past

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<v Speaker 3>at least week, been non stop. In fact, you were

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<v Speaker 3>just at an event for Trumont. Tell me how you're feeling,

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<v Speaker 3>what you've been doing, and what life is like right now.

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<v Speaker 4>Life for me right now is Tremaine's mother is stress

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<v Speaker 4>level one thousand. It is. My heart is so heavy

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<v Speaker 4>with the thought that my son could die in less

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<v Speaker 4>than two days. So that's kind of how my life

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<v Speaker 4>has been for these last few months. He has been

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<v Speaker 4>treated so badly at the penitentiary that and you know,

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<v Speaker 4>as a mother, the only thing you want to do

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<v Speaker 4>when your child is hurting is make it better, and

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<v Speaker 4>you can't. So it's been very stressful, very.

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<v Speaker 5>Stressful, madam.

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<v Speaker 6>You say stressful, How does one prepare for the death

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<v Speaker 6>of their child.

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<v Speaker 4>You don't. You don't prepare. I have tried to play

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<v Speaker 4>that scenario over in my mind a million times in

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<v Speaker 4>the last twenty one years, because we knew from the

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<v Speaker 4>day he was sentenced to death that that was very

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<v Speaker 4>real possibility. But my mind won't allow me to even

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<v Speaker 4>fathom him not being here any longer. I always go

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<v Speaker 4>back to the same thing. This cannot be the end

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<v Speaker 4>of my son's story.

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<v Speaker 2>You have been sitting with this, living with this for

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<v Speaker 2>more than two decades. But as we're speaking to you,

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<v Speaker 2>it is Tuesday afternoon, and in forty eight hours or so,

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<v Speaker 2>give or take, your sun may be there on death row,

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<v Speaker 2>his life about to end in these final forty eight hours.

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<v Speaker 2>How do you exist? Do you sleep? Do you rest? No?

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<v Speaker 4>No, I don't sleep.

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<v Speaker 6>I am.

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<v Speaker 7>Mentally, emotionally and physically drained. I'm drained. I'm so tired,

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<v Speaker 7>but I can't sleep. It's hard for me to eat.

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<v Speaker 7>It's just it's torturous. It's torturous.

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah, I'll definitely agree with Grandma and that one. It's

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<v Speaker 8>definitely it's hard to sleep. It's definitely hard. It's hard

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<v Speaker 8>to eat that have an appetite when you're sitting there

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<v Speaker 8>thinking that the person that you love the most and

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<v Speaker 8>you care about the most is going to be gone

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<v Speaker 8>in under forty eight hours.

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<v Speaker 4>If this doesn't go the right way.

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<v Speaker 5>Brooklyn, why do you.

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<v Speaker 4>There is?

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<v Speaker 6>You just mentioned him as the most important person and

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<v Speaker 6>the closest person in your life.

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<v Speaker 5>For folks who aren't aware of.

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<v Speaker 6>That, you as a seventeen year oldly speaking on it,

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<v Speaker 6>Why is he that much to you?

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<v Speaker 8>My uncle has made an amazing impact in my life.

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<v Speaker 8>He's helped me through multiple mental health crisis that I've

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<v Speaker 8>had within myself, and just multiple I used to get

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<v Speaker 8>bullied all the time in school and he's always helped

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<v Speaker 8>me through that and taught me that my worth isn't

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<v Speaker 8>measured by what other people say about me. It's measured

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<v Speaker 8>by what I think about myself and what I see

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<v Speaker 8>inside myself. And just because people put in bad and

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<v Speaker 8>you have to put good out.

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<v Speaker 4>In the world just to receive it back, just because.

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<v Speaker 8>You're not getting it in that moment doesn't mean that

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<v Speaker 8>you're never gonna get it.

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<v Speaker 4>Brooklyn.

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<v Speaker 2>You have only known your uncle at seventeen as a

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<v Speaker 2>man behind bars, a convicted murderer on death row. And

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of people would look at your uncle's story,

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<v Speaker 2>his name and think they know and may think he's

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<v Speaker 2>a monster, may think he's evil, may think all sorts

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<v Speaker 2>of things. How would you describe the uncle you know?

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<v Speaker 8>I would describe my uncle as a loving, caring person.

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<v Speaker 8>He pretty much puts you before he will put himself.

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<v Speaker 8>He'll give you what he has off his back like

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<v Speaker 8>the last shirt he has off his back and give

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<v Speaker 8>it to you because you needed it more than he

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<v Speaker 8>needed it in that moment. He's such a giving person,

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<v Speaker 8>and he'll put anybody before he puts himself, just to

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<v Speaker 8>make sure they're okay, or they feel right, or they're

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<v Speaker 8>mentally okay, they're doing good.

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<v Speaker 4>Out in the world.

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<v Speaker 8>He will always put somebody before him.

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<v Speaker 5>Have you and Andreana the other?

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<v Speaker 6>How old are you? Tell me twenty three? Right, yes,

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<v Speaker 6>this is your uncle as well. Now tell me what

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<v Speaker 6>year were you born?

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<v Speaker 8>Two thousand and two?

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<v Speaker 6>That was the year this crime took place, is it not?

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<v Speaker 9>Yep, I was born a few months after.

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<v Speaker 6>It's wild that that's the case. But how do you

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<v Speaker 6>explain to people, Explain to us how you go about

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<v Speaker 6>having a relationship, much less a loving and supportive one

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<v Speaker 6>with an uncle that you have never gotten a chance

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<v Speaker 6>to spend time with outside of a prison.

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<v Speaker 9>I mean it was mostly just through telephone calls and visits.

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<v Speaker 9>I mean I've been going to visit him since he'd

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<v Speaker 9>been in like the actual county jail, before he before

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<v Speaker 9>the trial, before everything. I was she was taking me

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<v Speaker 9>as a baby to go visit, and so I've I

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<v Speaker 9>always knew about him, and I always got I always

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<v Speaker 9>got to talk to him growing up on calls and

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<v Speaker 9>everything like that, visits, and he just he's never been

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<v Speaker 9>a bad person in my eyes ever. And I mean

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<v Speaker 9>even when I got old enough, I I knew, you know,

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<v Speaker 9>of course I knew that he was in prison, but

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<v Speaker 9>I didn't I didn't really know what for until I

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<v Speaker 9>was in middle school. And that's when I really started

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<v Speaker 9>doing research on the case and and I really saw

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<v Speaker 9>how how badly everything was handled, and I was like,

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<v Speaker 9>my uncle doesn't deserve to be here. But it's it's

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<v Speaker 9>been very easy to have a good relationship with him.

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<v Speaker 8>I love my uncle to who.

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<v Speaker 5>Linda tell me? Why why was that important? She was

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<v Speaker 5>a baby, she was edny bitty? Why was it important?

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<v Speaker 5>Will be visiting Carl.

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<v Speaker 4>I've had Andreana since she was one day old. I

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<v Speaker 4>brought her home from the hospital and I raised her.

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<v Speaker 4>It's it's funny you should ask that, you know, when

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<v Speaker 4>before Andrewa was born and before this crime was committed.

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<v Speaker 4>And I feel like I have a good personal relationship

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<v Speaker 4>with God. But I felt like God talked to me

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<v Speaker 4>and said, you know, there's a baby that will need you,

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<v Speaker 4>and you will need this baby, and people were like, no,

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<v Speaker 4>you're crazy. You know you didn't have all the kids

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<v Speaker 4>you're having, And I said, I'm telling you. God told

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<v Speaker 4>me that. And when she was born, well while her

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<v Speaker 4>mom was still pregnant, she decided she didn't want her.

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<v Speaker 4>She was going to give her to my son, and

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<v Speaker 4>my son gave her to me, and Andreana became the

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<v Speaker 4>reason for me being able to make it through the

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<v Speaker 4>trial and the whole horror of them being accused of

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<v Speaker 4>a murder. This is before they were convicted.

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<v Speaker 2>And.

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<v Speaker 4>So when they were in the county jail, I would

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<v Speaker 4>go twice a week. I would because they wouldn't let

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<v Speaker 4>me see Jake and Tremaine on the same day. I

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<v Speaker 4>would take Andreana. She grew up the first three or

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<v Speaker 4>four years of her life going twice a week to

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<v Speaker 4>the Oklahoma County jail. And I thought it was important

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<v Speaker 4>because she needed to know them, and they needed to

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<v Speaker 4>know her. This was their niece, and almost everybody, given

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<v Speaker 4>the severity of the crime at hand, had cut Jake

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<v Speaker 4>off from seeing his kids. Tremaine wasn't allowed to see

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<v Speaker 4>his kids, and they needed, they needed some hope. I

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<v Speaker 4>just felt like Andreana was was hope, you know, it

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<v Speaker 4>was just hope that that we would make it through this.

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<v Speaker 4>And but by the grace of God, we have this bar.

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<v Speaker 4>But I thought it was important because every kid has

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<v Speaker 4>a right to know who their family is.

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<v Speaker 2>Linda, you mentioned Jake, your other son. You are mom

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<v Speaker 2>to three sons, but I cannot imagine as a mother.

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<v Speaker 2>Tremaine and Jake both tried and convicted of murder, and

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<v Speaker 2>there was a headline I read that said one brother

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<v Speaker 2>confessed to murder and got life without parole. Tremaine would

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<v Speaker 2>got death.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, I don't even know.

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<v Speaker 2>If you can put into words what that is like

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<v Speaker 2>to live with, what that was like to experience.

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<v Speaker 4>I tell you, you know, And when you make choices in

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<v Speaker 4>your life, you know, your choice is your consequences, whether

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<v Speaker 4>consequences are good or bad. But when your life is

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<v Speaker 4>forever changed and you don't get a choice, it makes

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<v Speaker 4>it hard, It makes it difficult, and it's very hurtful.

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<v Speaker 4>My son Andre and I didn't get a choice in this.

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<v Speaker 4>You know, nobody said, hey, are you okay if we

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<v Speaker 4>go out and somebody gets murdered tonight and we go

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<v Speaker 4>to jail, are you okay? If we get the death penalty,

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<v Speaker 4>or are you okay if I commit suicide or you okay

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<v Speaker 4>if the state executes me. We didn't get a choice

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<v Speaker 4>in any of that, and so those choices were made

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<v Speaker 4>for us. And it's been really, really difficult when you

0:13:45.280 --> 0:13:48.640
<v Speaker 4>lose not one son, but two sons to the system,

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<v Speaker 4>and then the system is so bad, especially for people

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<v Speaker 4>who have mental health issues like Jake had serious, serious

0:13:59.480 --> 0:14:03.280
<v Speaker 4>mental health issues, and it just got to the point.

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<v Speaker 4>He was one of the strongest individuals. I thought that

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<v Speaker 4>I ever knew, you know, he could do time standing

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<v Speaker 4>on his head. But when I got the call in

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<v Speaker 4>the middle of the night that he had committed suicide,

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<v Speaker 4>it was devastating to lose one child, and now at

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<v Speaker 4>the thought that within forty eight hours I could lose

0:14:26.840 --> 0:14:29.360
<v Speaker 4>a second child. You know, one third of my heart

0:14:29.440 --> 0:14:32.080
<v Speaker 4>is already gone. If Tremaine dies, that's two thirds, and

0:14:32.120 --> 0:14:34.000
<v Speaker 4>it's hard to live with one third of a heart.

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<v Speaker 4>That's kind of.

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<v Speaker 6>Maybe all of you right now, what your last I

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<v Speaker 6>guess most recent interaction with Tremaine was what more interaction

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<v Speaker 6>you expect to have between now in the next forty

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<v Speaker 6>eight hours and all of you all's kind of assessment

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<v Speaker 6>how do you all think he's doing.

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<v Speaker 4>My biggest fear has always been that if they executed Tremaine, he.

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<v Speaker 7>Would be there scared and alone. Now Tremaine tells me

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<v Speaker 7>he's not scared to die. I don't know if I

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<v Speaker 7>believe that.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know that he's scared to die, but I

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<v Speaker 4>feel like he's scared of the fallout afterwards for the

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<v Speaker 4>rest of us that are left here without him. Our

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<v Speaker 4>last interaction before we saw him on camera or on

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<v Speaker 4>the TV screen at the clinic's hearing, we had went

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<v Speaker 4>the weekend before that and saw and visited him. They

0:15:35.920 --> 0:15:41.040
<v Speaker 4>gave us one hour, and well, I think we at

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<v Speaker 4>an hour and thirty. Actually, no, we only stayed an

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<v Speaker 4>hour because we had to go oh yeah to the rally.

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<v Speaker 4>But you know, we never talked about him dying over

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<v Speaker 4>this whole twenty one years. He just didn't. We didn't

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<v Speaker 4>talk about me dying, We didn't talk about him dying,

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<v Speaker 4>And we probably should have had those hard conversations a

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<v Speaker 4>long time before we had him. And we only had

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<v Speaker 4>him when his number finally came up and we were

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<v Speaker 4>forced to have to have him because as the person

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<v Speaker 4>responsible as his next of ken. You know, I have

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<v Speaker 4>to know what do you want me to do? What

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<v Speaker 4>are your final wishes? Just tell me so I can

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<v Speaker 4>do it. And it's real difficult. And we all get

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<v Speaker 4>to go see him tomorrow as a family for what

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<v Speaker 4>if they execute him, will be the final visit that

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<v Speaker 4>we have. And I don't know how I feel about that.

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<v Speaker 4>I know that I can't ever tell him goodbye. I

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<v Speaker 4>cannot leave that visit and tell him goodbye in case

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<v Speaker 4>he dies. I just can't.

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<v Speaker 2>Brooklyn, do you know what you're going to say to

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<v Speaker 2>your uncle? What you're not going to say.

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<v Speaker 4>To your uncle?

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<v Speaker 8>I don't really know, because it's crazy to think that

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<v Speaker 8>it's his last visit before you could potentially be executed.

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<v Speaker 4>Like what what do you say?

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<v Speaker 8>Like like they're like, I don't even know what I

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<v Speaker 8>would say, actually, But one thing I do know I

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<v Speaker 8>don't want to say is by to my uncle.

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<v Speaker 4>I do want to sit there and have to tell

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<v Speaker 4>my uncle.

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<v Speaker 8>By and think that's the last memory I'm ever going

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<v Speaker 8>to have of him, seeing him just sitting there.

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<v Speaker 6>Andreana, what about you? And also how long Andreana do

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<v Speaker 6>you all know you all are going to get? And

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<v Speaker 6>how big of a.

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<v Speaker 5>Group are.

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<v Speaker 7>People?

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<v Speaker 4>And two people get too out hours. Then we switch

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<v Speaker 4>out with the next two and then the next two,

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<v Speaker 4>so everybody's gotten to see him for two hours.

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<v Speaker 6>And Andreana, what about you? How do you also same questions?

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<v Speaker 6>How do you think your uncle is doing right now?

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<v Speaker 9>I mean he yeah, I will say. Throughout all of

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<v Speaker 9>this recently, you know, you can this has like aged

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<v Speaker 9>him a lot, you know, and he still he still

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<v Speaker 9>stays positive, you know. He whenever we get to whenever

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<v Speaker 9>he gets to call us for the little fifteen minute

0:18:46.560 --> 0:18:50.000
<v Speaker 9>call we get, he he always tells us to keep

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<v Speaker 9>our head up and keep the faith and keep fighting

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<v Speaker 9>because it's not over till it's over. But I mean,

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<v Speaker 9>it's hard to think that this is this might be

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<v Speaker 9>the last visit we get. I mean, I I didn't

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<v Speaker 9>get to hug my uncle until I was twenty I'm

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<v Speaker 9>twenty three now, and when when was our last June?

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<v Speaker 4>Was our last contact visit?

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<v Speaker 5>Wow?

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<v Speaker 9>And I hate that that was the last hug that

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<v Speaker 9>I got to give my uncle because now we just

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<v Speaker 9>get to see him through the glass like it started

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<v Speaker 9>out with.

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<v Speaker 4>I think it's the last one. We'd probably hug him

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<v Speaker 4>a little bit tighter and held him a little bit longer.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, wait, I'm gonna make sure I got that right.

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<v Speaker 6>So when you all do this, this plan planned visit

0:19:53.480 --> 0:19:54.000
<v Speaker 6>is going.

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<v Speaker 9>To be through yeah, through.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, a piece of it will be a contact visit.

0:19:59.240 --> 0:20:01.840
<v Speaker 9>Yeah, we won't get to And I'm.

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<v Speaker 6>Making sure I'll understood you right there, Linda, Is that

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<v Speaker 6>the last time you had a contact visit you didn't

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<v Speaker 6>know the execution was coming up?

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<v Speaker 4>Now, we knew the exit. We didn't have a date

0:20:11.880 --> 0:20:16.359
<v Speaker 4>at that time, but we didn't know that all of

0:20:16.600 --> 0:20:19.600
<v Speaker 4>this stuff that's been going on. We didn't know they

0:20:19.640 --> 0:20:22.520
<v Speaker 4>were going to snatch him up and throw him back

0:20:23.119 --> 0:20:26.879
<v Speaker 4>in H dungeon on H unit and isolate him and

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<v Speaker 4>take everything from him. No, we didn't know that. Had

0:20:31.119 --> 0:20:35.359
<v Speaker 4>we known, we probably, like I said, would have hugged

0:20:35.400 --> 0:20:37.679
<v Speaker 4>him a little longer, held him a little tighter.

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<v Speaker 5>Forgive me.

0:20:39.920 --> 0:20:42.520
<v Speaker 6>I didn't know this, but you will have given and

0:20:42.640 --> 0:20:45.040
<v Speaker 6>you didn't know it. You possibly have given your loved

0:20:45.040 --> 0:20:46.000
<v Speaker 6>one his last hug.

0:20:46.040 --> 0:20:48.359
<v Speaker 5>You just didn't know it was going to be the

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<v Speaker 5>last stuff. I'm sorry I did not realize.

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<v Speaker 9>I didn't.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I didn't know that there was a specific amount

0:20:55.800 --> 0:20:58.800
<v Speaker 2>of contact visits you could or couldn't have how does

0:20:58.800 --> 0:21:01.679
<v Speaker 2>that work? How often have you able to hold or

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<v Speaker 2>touch your son, Linda, over the years.

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<v Speaker 4>You know he was in he was on h unit

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<v Speaker 4>behind glass, and we didn't get to have contact visits

0:21:12.280 --> 0:21:16.360
<v Speaker 4>for sixteen of the twenty one years. And then when

0:21:16.359 --> 0:21:20.199
<v Speaker 4>the ACLU got involved and said these living conditions are

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<v Speaker 4>not it, and so then the prison I guess, to

0:21:26.160 --> 0:21:30.920
<v Speaker 4>avoid any problems with the ACLU, decided to move death

0:21:31.000 --> 0:21:36.040
<v Speaker 4>row inmates to a unit and decided to let him

0:21:36.080 --> 0:21:45.439
<v Speaker 4>have contact visits. So for more years than not, I

0:21:45.520 --> 0:21:49.480
<v Speaker 4>didn't get to hug my son. And then the first

0:21:49.520 --> 0:21:51.840
<v Speaker 4>time it was amazing. It had been the first time

0:21:52.480 --> 0:21:56.399
<v Speaker 4>in probably eighteen years, because he spent two years in

0:21:56.440 --> 0:21:59.200
<v Speaker 4>the county jail where we couldn't have contact visits either.

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<v Speaker 4>The first time in eighteen years that I had got

0:22:04.400 --> 0:22:09.640
<v Speaker 4>to hug my son and it was I can't even

0:22:09.680 --> 0:22:15.080
<v Speaker 4>describe how it felt. I cried. And now to know

0:22:15.280 --> 0:22:17.880
<v Speaker 4>that he could possibly die, you know, death is forever

0:22:20.040 --> 0:22:22.400
<v Speaker 4>and we not get to hug him. That the next

0:22:22.400 --> 0:22:24.119
<v Speaker 4>time I may get to hug my sons in a

0:22:24.119 --> 0:22:28.320
<v Speaker 4>body bag is very very heart wrenching to me.

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<v Speaker 2>Linda, do you all have plans if this does go

0:22:34.320 --> 0:22:38.679
<v Speaker 2>through to be there when he is executed.

0:22:39.400 --> 0:22:42.640
<v Speaker 4>Now, I we will be here as a family. Tremaine

0:22:42.720 --> 0:22:45.479
<v Speaker 4>had to decide he wanted to be there. First of all,

0:22:45.560 --> 0:22:50.280
<v Speaker 4>he didn't want any of us to be there. I

0:22:50.280 --> 0:22:53.720
<v Speaker 4>told Tremaine it was his choice because he asked me

0:22:53.760 --> 0:22:57.960
<v Speaker 4>about a couple of people that he was going to

0:22:58.000 --> 0:23:02.280
<v Speaker 4>put on the list. When it's thirty five days before

0:23:02.359 --> 0:23:05.480
<v Speaker 4>the execution, they fill out what's called an execution packet,

0:23:06.480 --> 0:23:11.280
<v Speaker 4>and they have that on his birthday. Yeah, thirty five

0:23:11.400 --> 0:23:14.600
<v Speaker 4>days was on his birthday. And you know, he had

0:23:14.600 --> 0:23:16.800
<v Speaker 4>to put down the people who the people who would

0:23:16.840 --> 0:23:20.679
<v Speaker 4>witness his execution. You know, who he wants to be

0:23:20.720 --> 0:23:23.920
<v Speaker 4>in charge of where his body goes. He has to

0:23:23.920 --> 0:23:25.960
<v Speaker 4>put down what he wants for his last meal, and

0:23:26.040 --> 0:23:28.359
<v Speaker 4>who'll pick up his property, all that kind of stuff.

0:23:28.400 --> 0:23:34.600
<v Speaker 8>Well, on his birthday, on his birthday, yeah.

0:23:33.600 --> 0:23:36.120
<v Speaker 2>And so who will be there in the room.

0:23:37.400 --> 0:23:41.280
<v Speaker 4>Well, the only person that'll be in the actual execution

0:23:41.440 --> 0:23:43.760
<v Speaker 4>chamber with him should he be executed, would be his

0:23:43.840 --> 0:23:51.280
<v Speaker 4>spiritual advisor and whoever's administering the drugs. The other people

0:23:51.359 --> 0:23:56.480
<v Speaker 4>sit outside. There's a glass window that's open and people

0:23:56.520 --> 0:23:59.240
<v Speaker 4>sit there and witness it. I think the state gets

0:23:59.400 --> 0:24:04.919
<v Speaker 4>so many witnesses and Tremaine is allowed I think five witnesses.

0:24:05.000 --> 0:24:08.000
<v Speaker 4>I'm not sure five or six or something like that.

0:24:08.359 --> 0:24:12.520
<v Speaker 4>I told him that I would respect whoever he wanted

0:24:12.520 --> 0:24:14.880
<v Speaker 4>there or just know it couldn't be me. I don't

0:24:14.920 --> 0:24:17.280
<v Speaker 4>know that I can even be conscious when ten o'clock

0:24:17.320 --> 0:24:18.840
<v Speaker 4>Thursday comes.

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<v Speaker 6>Did he specifically ask, though, that you that certain people

0:24:24.240 --> 0:24:24.800
<v Speaker 6>not be there.

0:24:25.240 --> 0:24:28.760
<v Speaker 4>Yes, he didn't want any of us to be, especially me,

0:24:28.960 --> 0:24:33.480
<v Speaker 4>you know he Tremaine is worried, as are all of

0:24:33.560 --> 0:24:37.040
<v Speaker 4>us that you know, if you've never lost a child,

0:24:37.040 --> 0:24:39.240
<v Speaker 4>it is the most heart wrenching thing and you never

0:24:40.200 --> 0:24:42.399
<v Speaker 4>recover from it. You learn how to deal with it,

0:24:42.440 --> 0:24:48.280
<v Speaker 4>but you never recover. When my son Jake died, that

0:24:48.440 --> 0:24:51.400
<v Speaker 4>was just something spontaneous. It's not something that was planned

0:24:51.400 --> 0:24:55.240
<v Speaker 4>out like this. This has been the most tortuous thing,

0:24:55.440 --> 0:25:00.600
<v Speaker 4>counting days till you know your son could die. It's

0:25:00.680 --> 0:25:03.440
<v Speaker 4>just mentally torturous for all of us, so I can

0:25:03.480 --> 0:25:06.000
<v Speaker 4>only imagine what it is for him.

0:25:07.520 --> 0:25:10.560
<v Speaker 6>But it was in a good day in the midst

0:25:10.560 --> 0:25:14.199
<v Speaker 6>of all the torture to hear the clemency board at

0:25:14.280 --> 0:25:20.680
<v Speaker 6>least recommend clemency for him was that a good day.

0:25:21.720 --> 0:25:23.960
<v Speaker 4>It was a wonderful day. It was a miracle that

0:25:24.040 --> 0:25:29.160
<v Speaker 4>my son was far overdue for twenty one years. They

0:25:29.200 --> 0:25:32.280
<v Speaker 4>gave a break before they decided to vote, and we

0:25:32.359 --> 0:25:35.399
<v Speaker 4>all went outside. I could not go back in because

0:25:35.480 --> 0:25:38.159
<v Speaker 4>I could not stand to hear one more shred of

0:25:38.200 --> 0:25:42.720
<v Speaker 4>bad news for my son. So all of the rest

0:25:42.760 --> 0:25:44.640
<v Speaker 4>of my family went back in there, and I said,

0:25:45.119 --> 0:25:47.240
<v Speaker 4>I'm going to stay out here because I can't if

0:25:47.240 --> 0:25:50.720
<v Speaker 4>they deny him clemency, they'll have taken me out here

0:25:50.720 --> 0:25:51.440
<v Speaker 4>on a stretcher.

0:25:51.840 --> 0:25:57.080
<v Speaker 9>And after I at least after I heard that third yes,

0:25:57.680 --> 0:26:03.120
<v Speaker 9>and the room kind of, you know us at least

0:26:03.119 --> 0:26:06.240
<v Speaker 9>we kind of just gasped, and some people started clapping,

0:26:06.240 --> 0:26:09.840
<v Speaker 9>and they told us to quiet down. And then me

0:26:10.240 --> 0:26:15.840
<v Speaker 9>and my uncle Tremaine's girlfriend jumped up and sprinted out

0:26:15.840 --> 0:26:18.239
<v Speaker 9>of the out of the building and I straight ran

0:26:18.320 --> 0:26:21.080
<v Speaker 9>straight to her car. Said they said yes, And then

0:26:21.119 --> 0:26:23.320
<v Speaker 9>I broke down in the parking lot like it was.

0:26:24.320 --> 0:26:27.360
<v Speaker 4>I broke down. It was a great day.

0:26:27.400 --> 0:26:27.639
<v Speaker 7>It was.

0:26:28.400 --> 0:26:33.120
<v Speaker 4>It was the what we had been waiting for, that

0:26:34.800 --> 0:26:37.680
<v Speaker 4>the person they had painted him to be through the

0:26:37.720 --> 0:26:44.440
<v Speaker 4>Attorney General's office. It uh, they finally saw through all

0:26:44.520 --> 0:26:48.160
<v Speaker 4>that and and saw that this guy got a raw deal.

0:26:48.440 --> 0:26:52.040
<v Speaker 4>You know, he didn't he wasn't adequately represented, none of that.

0:26:53.000 --> 0:26:56.480
<v Speaker 4>So yeah, it was a good your reaction.

0:26:56.640 --> 0:27:01.000
<v Speaker 2>So you have Andreana running out telling you, they said, yes,

0:27:01.920 --> 0:27:04.200
<v Speaker 2>can you tell me what you did, what you thought,

0:27:04.240 --> 0:27:07.040
<v Speaker 2>what you felt. I mean, I can't imagine the rush

0:27:07.040 --> 0:27:07.960
<v Speaker 2>of emotions.

0:27:08.359 --> 0:27:12.240
<v Speaker 4>I felt like for the first time in twenty one years,

0:27:12.240 --> 0:27:15.639
<v Speaker 4>I could breathe, if just for that moment, And it

0:27:15.760 --> 0:27:23.520
<v Speaker 4>was just for that moment, because it you know, there

0:27:23.560 --> 0:27:25.159
<v Speaker 4>was a lot of work to be done after that

0:27:25.320 --> 0:27:31.240
<v Speaker 4>to convince the governor to stay his execution to community sentence.

0:27:31.680 --> 0:27:34.240
<v Speaker 6>Well in the husit, How has it gone on that front?

0:27:34.800 --> 0:27:36.439
<v Speaker 6>What do you think your chances are now that the

0:27:36.440 --> 0:27:38.320
<v Speaker 6>governor will decide in your favor.

0:27:42.680 --> 0:27:47.200
<v Speaker 4>I can say that I hope that. You know, this

0:27:47.240 --> 0:27:49.240
<v Speaker 4>is his last year as governor, and all I can

0:27:49.280 --> 0:27:53.160
<v Speaker 4>say is that I hope that as a last act

0:27:53.280 --> 0:27:58.800
<v Speaker 4>of human compassion for a man who didn't kill anyone,

0:28:00.080 --> 0:28:02.639
<v Speaker 4>for a man who sat in that clemency hearing and

0:28:02.760 --> 0:28:07.720
<v Speaker 4>admitted I'm a broken person. I've made mistakes. I'm broken.

0:28:08.240 --> 0:28:11.280
<v Speaker 4>You know, if I could give this mother her child back,

0:28:11.400 --> 0:28:13.920
<v Speaker 4>I would, If I could have been strong enough to

0:28:13.960 --> 0:28:17.240
<v Speaker 4>stop my brother that night, I would, but I can't

0:28:17.240 --> 0:28:25.440
<v Speaker 4>go back it. I just I just pray that as

0:28:25.480 --> 0:28:29.159
<v Speaker 4>the last act of human compassion for someone that he

0:28:29.240 --> 0:28:31.560
<v Speaker 4>will he will do the right thing and stand up

0:28:31.600 --> 0:28:33.919
<v Speaker 4>and grant my son clemency.

0:28:35.040 --> 0:28:35.480
<v Speaker 7>And Linda.

0:28:35.600 --> 0:28:41.120
<v Speaker 2>Much has been made about this law in the state

0:28:41.160 --> 0:28:45.920
<v Speaker 2>of Oklahoma that if you're a part of an act,

0:28:46.000 --> 0:28:48.680
<v Speaker 2>a criminal act that results in the death of someone,

0:28:49.080 --> 0:28:51.680
<v Speaker 2>you are just as culpable as the person who either

0:28:51.760 --> 0:28:57.240
<v Speaker 2>pulled the trigger or actually wielded that weapon that ended

0:28:57.240 --> 0:29:04.760
<v Speaker 2>that person's life. Feelings about that law, Well.

0:29:05.120 --> 0:29:07.560
<v Speaker 4>First of all, I think it's the stupidest law that

0:29:07.640 --> 0:29:12.080
<v Speaker 4>was ever written in the history of the world. I mean,

0:29:12.360 --> 0:29:14.560
<v Speaker 4>if there are ten of us sitting here and we've

0:29:14.600 --> 0:29:17.400
<v Speaker 4>all got a gun and we all start shooting, only

0:29:17.400 --> 0:29:21.720
<v Speaker 4>one of ours bullets can kill somebody. So are we

0:29:21.840 --> 0:29:26.680
<v Speaker 4>all culpable by being at the scene. Probably? Yes. But

0:29:27.720 --> 0:29:30.080
<v Speaker 4>if I didn't kill this person, then I don't deserve

0:29:30.120 --> 0:29:31.560
<v Speaker 4>to die.

0:29:32.560 --> 0:29:34.880
<v Speaker 2>Do you think your son deserves to be behind bars

0:29:34.920 --> 0:29:35.880
<v Speaker 2>for the rest of his life.

0:29:36.360 --> 0:29:41.200
<v Speaker 4>No. I think my son he was the least culpable

0:29:41.480 --> 0:29:48.480
<v Speaker 4>of everybody that anticipated in this crime, and I don't

0:29:48.520 --> 0:29:51.440
<v Speaker 4>just say that because he was my son, because Jake,

0:29:51.520 --> 0:29:56.360
<v Speaker 4>who did the actual killing, was my son too. I

0:29:56.400 --> 0:29:59.160
<v Speaker 4>think Tremaine was with the wrong people, in the wrong place,

0:29:59.200 --> 0:30:07.400
<v Speaker 4>at the wrong time. And I know he has shown

0:30:07.480 --> 0:30:12.160
<v Speaker 4>great remorse, great sadness, and has just about lost his

0:30:12.360 --> 0:30:15.520
<v Speaker 4>mind over it at certain times in the last twenty

0:30:15.560 --> 0:30:18.520
<v Speaker 4>one years. You know, I have always said that my

0:30:18.640 --> 0:30:20.880
<v Speaker 4>heart goes as a mother, and my heart goes out

0:30:20.920 --> 0:30:25.560
<v Speaker 4>to Ronnie With's mother, because I know that pain of

0:30:25.600 --> 0:30:27.800
<v Speaker 4>losing a child, whether you lose him to murder or

0:30:27.840 --> 0:30:31.360
<v Speaker 4>suicide or car wreck or whatever it is, it doesn't

0:30:31.360 --> 0:30:36.400
<v Speaker 4>make it any easier. And I just feel like he

0:30:36.640 --> 0:30:46.320
<v Speaker 4>is so remorseful, And you know, I'm also hopeful that

0:30:46.360 --> 0:30:50.640
<v Speaker 4>the governor will take into consideration that the victim's family

0:30:50.720 --> 0:30:53.800
<v Speaker 4>and the living victim they do not want to remain executed.

0:30:56.560 --> 0:30:58.479
<v Speaker 2>Have you been able to speak to the with family

0:30:58.600 --> 0:31:01.960
<v Speaker 2>at all over these decades a few decades.

0:31:02.640 --> 0:31:06.600
<v Speaker 4>I haven't, and I you know we have. We have

0:31:06.720 --> 0:31:10.480
<v Speaker 4>tread real lightly as a family because there was so

0:31:10.680 --> 0:31:16.640
<v Speaker 4>many improprieties in Tremayne's case, you know, ineffective counsel and

0:31:18.000 --> 0:31:22.200
<v Speaker 4>prosecutorial misconduct, just a lot of things. So we've had

0:31:22.200 --> 0:31:24.479
<v Speaker 4>to tread lightly on what we could say and what

0:31:24.520 --> 0:31:27.440
<v Speaker 4>we could do, who we could speak to, because we

0:31:27.480 --> 0:31:31.480
<v Speaker 4>didn't want to take the chance of messing up any

0:31:31.600 --> 0:31:35.480
<v Speaker 4>chance that he had for any type of relief. It

0:31:35.560 --> 0:31:40.720
<v Speaker 4>hasn't been only in the last probably months that we

0:31:40.840 --> 0:31:45.440
<v Speaker 4>have really as a family gotten to speak out about

0:31:45.480 --> 0:31:50.320
<v Speaker 4>all of this, because he had so many things still

0:31:50.400 --> 0:31:58.560
<v Speaker 4>pending in different courts and things like that. I don't know,

0:31:59.720 --> 0:32:03.880
<v Speaker 4>i'd I don't even know what words I could say

0:32:06.240 --> 0:32:12.120
<v Speaker 4>to Barbara Withff to even to make it easier, because

0:32:12.160 --> 0:32:15.479
<v Speaker 4>I know when my son died, there was nothing anyone

0:32:15.520 --> 0:32:20.240
<v Speaker 4>could say that made it less painful. This situation with Tremaine.

0:32:21.120 --> 0:32:23.240
<v Speaker 4>People tell me all the time, you know, I am

0:32:23.280 --> 0:32:27.720
<v Speaker 4>so sorry. I feel bad for you, you know, But

0:32:27.840 --> 0:32:30.520
<v Speaker 4>those words, and I know people truly mean it, but

0:32:31.080 --> 0:32:33.680
<v Speaker 4>it doesn't make it any easier. So I don't think

0:32:33.720 --> 0:32:37.000
<v Speaker 4>there's anything I could say to her. But if there

0:32:37.080 --> 0:32:39.560
<v Speaker 4>was anything, is that my heart has always gone out

0:32:39.600 --> 0:32:42.880
<v Speaker 4>to her and I am so sorry for the loss

0:32:42.920 --> 0:32:43.560
<v Speaker 4>of her son.

0:32:47.240 --> 0:32:50.560
<v Speaker 6>An opportunity to speak to the governor or anybody from

0:32:50.600 --> 0:32:51.640
<v Speaker 6>his office.

0:32:52.240 --> 0:32:57.360
<v Speaker 4>No, not us as a family, Tremaine's attorneys have. We

0:32:57.560 --> 0:32:59.720
<v Speaker 4>haven't gotten to speak to the governor. I wish I

0:32:59.720 --> 0:33:02.920
<v Speaker 4>could speak to the governor because what I would say is,

0:33:04.600 --> 0:33:08.040
<v Speaker 4>if this was your son or your father, your brother,

0:33:08.160 --> 0:33:12.360
<v Speaker 4>your uncle, would you want someone to show them mercy

0:33:12.480 --> 0:33:15.480
<v Speaker 4>and grace or would you be so quick to execute them?

0:33:16.240 --> 0:33:16.360
<v Speaker 9>So?

0:33:16.560 --> 0:33:21.040
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, what have What have Tremaine's lawyers told you? Have

0:33:21.160 --> 0:33:24.200
<v Speaker 2>they given you any reason to feel hope? Have they

0:33:24.320 --> 0:33:26.400
<v Speaker 2>cautioned you not to get your hopes up?

0:33:27.080 --> 0:33:31.560
<v Speaker 4>I haven't really talked to Amanda since they saw the

0:33:31.600 --> 0:33:36.920
<v Speaker 4>governor yesterday. I know she's very busy filing stuff and

0:33:36.960 --> 0:33:39.600
<v Speaker 4>doing this and doing that, and and you know, on

0:33:39.680 --> 0:33:44.040
<v Speaker 4>Tremaine's behalf and it's a really busy time for all

0:33:44.080 --> 0:33:47.440
<v Speaker 4>of us. So I haven't really spoken to her. I

0:33:47.480 --> 0:33:51.080
<v Speaker 4>don't know. Have y'all spoken to you? Heard from uncle yesterday?

0:33:51.160 --> 0:33:54.520
<v Speaker 8>He called us last night and he said that they

0:33:54.600 --> 0:33:56.720
<v Speaker 8>had called him and told him that the meeting was

0:33:56.840 --> 0:33:58.120
<v Speaker 8>that went really well.

0:34:00.320 --> 0:34:02.880
<v Speaker 6>That sounded good, right, If the meeting went well, is

0:34:02.920 --> 0:34:04.120
<v Speaker 6>that a good thing?

0:34:04.240 --> 0:34:05.360
<v Speaker 5>Right? That sounds good.

0:34:05.760 --> 0:34:08.239
<v Speaker 9>It's but we.

0:34:08.239 --> 0:34:09.480
<v Speaker 5>Don't know what that means exactly.

0:34:09.880 --> 0:34:12.640
<v Speaker 2>It went well, Yeah, you don't know what that Yeah,

0:34:13.520 --> 0:34:16.399
<v Speaker 2>it's pretty remarkable even hearing you say that. I can

0:34:16.520 --> 0:34:18.799
<v Speaker 2>we can still we're looking at your faces and we

0:34:18.840 --> 0:34:23.040
<v Speaker 2>can still see your reservations. You're unwilling, excited.

0:34:23.480 --> 0:34:26.120
<v Speaker 6>I only had two more things here. I'll start with actually,

0:34:26.160 --> 0:34:28.880
<v Speaker 6>because what's going on. When we first started this interview,

0:34:29.200 --> 0:34:31.840
<v Speaker 6>I'm not sure what happened, but there was something between

0:34:31.880 --> 0:34:33.440
<v Speaker 6>all of us and you, all three of you all

0:34:33.520 --> 0:34:36.560
<v Speaker 6>laughed about something, and I was like, wow, I didn't

0:34:36.560 --> 0:34:39.880
<v Speaker 6>expect laughter this entire interview. My question is, have you

0:34:40.000 --> 0:34:43.479
<v Speaker 6>found a little moments to be happy or to crack

0:34:43.560 --> 0:34:43.919
<v Speaker 6>a joke?

0:34:45.000 --> 0:34:49.680
<v Speaker 8>I feel like and not like with anything like going

0:34:49.680 --> 0:34:51.480
<v Speaker 8>on with the case. I don't feel like we cracked

0:34:51.560 --> 0:34:53.840
<v Speaker 8>jokes with anything with that, but you do try to

0:34:53.880 --> 0:34:55.760
<v Speaker 8>find like little things.

0:34:55.360 --> 0:34:57.920
<v Speaker 4>Like in the day that do kind of try to.

0:34:58.239 --> 0:35:02.080
<v Speaker 4>We do joke with uncle Yeah a lot. Yeah, with

0:35:02.080 --> 0:35:03.840
<v Speaker 4>our uncle Al, and they try to.

0:35:03.880 --> 0:35:06.279
<v Speaker 8>Joke with our dad as much as possible, just to

0:35:06.320 --> 0:35:10.239
<v Speaker 8>try to keep him in good spirits because he does

0:35:10.880 --> 0:35:15.040
<v Speaker 8>hide his most. We even joke with Mama, so we

0:35:15.440 --> 0:35:17.920
<v Speaker 8>try to. We me and Arona do try to keep

0:35:17.960 --> 0:35:24.759
<v Speaker 8>the mood very light when it comes just Momma, don't make.

0:35:27.640 --> 0:35:27.960
<v Speaker 4>Linda.

0:35:27.960 --> 0:35:30.879
<v Speaker 2>I want to ask you your son was twenty two

0:35:31.320 --> 0:35:35.880
<v Speaker 2>years old when this crime was committed. He's now forty

0:35:35.920 --> 0:35:40.520
<v Speaker 2>six years old. How have you seen him change over

0:35:40.600 --> 0:35:44.759
<v Speaker 2>these past twenty plus years? How has his life experience

0:35:44.840 --> 0:35:47.920
<v Speaker 2>changed him, prison changed him? And perhaps even his faith?

0:35:51.000 --> 0:35:58.440
<v Speaker 4>You know, before Jake died in twenty nineteen, Tremaine was

0:36:00.080 --> 0:36:06.200
<v Speaker 4>I would probably say, I'm still always in Jake's shadow

0:36:06.280 --> 0:36:09.879
<v Speaker 4>as Jake's little brother. It wasn't until Jake died that

0:36:09.920 --> 0:36:14.120
<v Speaker 4>Tremaine came into his own and realized a lot of

0:36:14.160 --> 0:36:17.080
<v Speaker 4>things that I think he had been allowing his brother

0:36:17.160 --> 0:36:20.759
<v Speaker 4>to block his way of thinking. He had to come

0:36:20.760 --> 0:36:26.480
<v Speaker 4>into his own and realize, man, I had the ability,

0:36:26.520 --> 0:36:30.320
<v Speaker 4>and it bothers him every day that he says, if

0:36:30.360 --> 0:36:33.960
<v Speaker 4>I had just been strong enough to tell my brother no,

0:36:33.960 --> 0:36:38.759
<v Speaker 4>none of this would have happened. But I wasn't. And

0:36:38.800 --> 0:36:41.000
<v Speaker 4>you know, I mean he was a kid, He was

0:36:41.040 --> 0:36:45.880
<v Speaker 4>barely an adult when all this happened. And you know,

0:36:47.320 --> 0:36:51.000
<v Speaker 4>I don't think as we grow up and we grow older,

0:36:51.040 --> 0:36:53.160
<v Speaker 4>and some of us we never never learned. But I

0:36:53.880 --> 0:36:58.520
<v Speaker 4>think we don't think about long term consequences, Like now,

0:36:58.520 --> 0:37:01.120
<v Speaker 4>when you get my age, you think about long term

0:37:01.160 --> 0:37:07.080
<v Speaker 4>consequences because long term becomes short term, you know, and

0:37:08.920 --> 0:37:15.120
<v Speaker 4>I just I have seen Tremaine become a remarkable man.

0:37:16.560 --> 0:37:20.480
<v Speaker 4>He's always thinking of other people, he told me the

0:37:20.560 --> 0:37:26.960
<v Speaker 4>last time I saw him. He said, Mom, I just

0:37:27.000 --> 0:37:30.120
<v Speaker 4>want to say that, whether I live or whether I die,

0:37:31.000 --> 0:37:34.600
<v Speaker 4>I just want this everything I've been through to precipitate

0:37:34.640 --> 0:37:38.440
<v Speaker 4>a change for the other inmates who they'll try to

0:37:38.480 --> 0:37:41.840
<v Speaker 4>execute after me, he said, I just want there to

0:37:41.880 --> 0:37:48.319
<v Speaker 4>be a change in this broken system. And so even

0:37:48.360 --> 0:37:51.359
<v Speaker 4>in the final moments, when he's death is knocking at

0:37:51.360 --> 0:37:55.640
<v Speaker 4>his door, possibly he's still thinking about I want my

0:37:55.719 --> 0:37:59.600
<v Speaker 4>life to make a difference in people that still have

0:37:59.640 --> 0:38:04.760
<v Speaker 4>to come where I'm at now. And I'm very proud

0:38:04.760 --> 0:38:08.000
<v Speaker 4>of him As his mother, I'm proud for him to

0:38:08.040 --> 0:38:10.240
<v Speaker 4>be my son. He's amazing.

0:38:12.120 --> 0:38:12.359
<v Speaker 5>Wow.

0:38:12.680 --> 0:38:16.160
<v Speaker 2>Uh And to jump on that point, you know there

0:38:16.160 --> 0:38:19.680
<v Speaker 2>are obviously the death penalty is a controversial issue in

0:38:19.680 --> 0:38:23.279
<v Speaker 2>this country, and people have very strong feelings on both

0:38:23.320 --> 0:38:26.120
<v Speaker 2>sides of the fence. I would love to have each

0:38:26.160 --> 0:38:30.680
<v Speaker 2>of you talk about the value of Tremayne's life and

0:38:30.760 --> 0:38:34.000
<v Speaker 2>what he can give back to this world, to your

0:38:34.040 --> 0:38:35.680
<v Speaker 2>family if he's allowed to live.

0:38:37.040 --> 0:38:43.120
<v Speaker 4>Tremaine is amazing. I think that what a waste it

0:38:43.160 --> 0:38:49.279
<v Speaker 4>would be for everyone in his world, the people that

0:38:49.400 --> 0:38:51.600
<v Speaker 4>know and love him, what a waste it would be

0:38:51.680 --> 0:38:57.600
<v Speaker 4>for him to die. He is always trying to give back,

0:38:57.719 --> 0:39:01.399
<v Speaker 4>and that's the sigh of him that people don't know.

0:39:01.440 --> 0:39:05.719
<v Speaker 4>They don't know, the part of you know him that

0:39:05.840 --> 0:39:09.480
<v Speaker 4>while in prison inmates that had no shoes, he would

0:39:09.520 --> 0:39:11.319
<v Speaker 4>take shoes off of his own feet and give him

0:39:11.320 --> 0:39:14.239
<v Speaker 4>to somebody that didn't have any or couldn't didn't have

0:39:14.280 --> 0:39:18.680
<v Speaker 4>money on their books to buy some before he got

0:39:18.719 --> 0:39:22.040
<v Speaker 4>sent back over to H unit. He would cook meals

0:39:22.080 --> 0:39:25.839
<v Speaker 4>and feed hungry inmates who had no commissary. You know,

0:39:25.960 --> 0:39:31.520
<v Speaker 4>that's the kind of man he is. And despite what

0:39:31.719 --> 0:39:34.360
<v Speaker 4>he has been going through for the last two decades,

0:39:35.200 --> 0:39:39.360
<v Speaker 4>he still finds time to encourage these kids, to encourage

0:39:39.400 --> 0:39:44.400
<v Speaker 4>my two great grandkids that I'm raising, to just be

0:39:44.560 --> 0:39:49.959
<v Speaker 4>an inspiration to everybody and try to mentor to young

0:39:50.040 --> 0:39:52.640
<v Speaker 4>people that this is not what you want to do,

0:39:52.680 --> 0:39:55.120
<v Speaker 4>This is not how you want to end up. You

0:39:55.200 --> 0:39:59.279
<v Speaker 4>don't you know. I have a little great grandson in

0:39:59.320 --> 0:40:01.800
<v Speaker 4>here who's not and he's been going through some things.

0:40:02.640 --> 0:40:07.359
<v Speaker 4>And when I took my great grandkids to see him

0:40:07.560 --> 0:40:11.080
<v Speaker 4>and he talked to him, he said, he said, you

0:40:11.120 --> 0:40:13.600
<v Speaker 4>don't want to end up in here. You don't, this

0:40:13.719 --> 0:40:16.120
<v Speaker 4>is not what you want. You know, you need to

0:40:16.160 --> 0:40:19.120
<v Speaker 4>stay in school and do good and you know, straighten

0:40:19.200 --> 0:40:24.799
<v Speaker 4>up your attitude. And it's just that's why I say,

0:40:24.840 --> 0:40:28.239
<v Speaker 4>this just cannot be the end of Tremayne's story. He

0:40:28.360 --> 0:40:31.759
<v Speaker 4>has so much left that he wants to give to

0:40:31.880 --> 0:40:34.239
<v Speaker 4>the world and the people that are in the world

0:40:34.400 --> 0:40:35.080
<v Speaker 4>around him.

0:40:36.160 --> 0:40:42.080
<v Speaker 8>So yeah, like like Grandma said, he's definitely a mentory

0:40:42.480 --> 0:40:47.840
<v Speaker 8>an inspiration for us. He's definitely guided us through a

0:40:47.880 --> 0:40:52.200
<v Speaker 8>lot of things, whether that'd be like school, like arguments

0:40:52.280 --> 0:40:54.720
<v Speaker 8>with people, like he wants to get both sides.

0:40:54.760 --> 0:40:56.160
<v Speaker 4>He doesn't want to hear just one.

0:40:56.080 --> 0:40:59.040
<v Speaker 8>Side and say, oh, well, Brooklyn, you're in the wrong

0:40:59.160 --> 0:41:02.440
<v Speaker 8>because of this, and there's no even both sides, and

0:41:02.520 --> 0:41:06.040
<v Speaker 8>then he'll give you his honest, unbiased opinion on it.

0:41:06.520 --> 0:41:10.239
<v Speaker 8>And just for giving his situation, you wouldn't see, you

0:41:10.280 --> 0:41:13.200
<v Speaker 8>wouldn't feel somebody would have such a positive attitude and

0:41:13.280 --> 0:41:16.799
<v Speaker 8>such a positive outlook on how you should be in

0:41:16.880 --> 0:41:20.040
<v Speaker 8>life and just try to be such like a positive

0:41:20.040 --> 0:41:24.120
<v Speaker 8>influence on people, like stay stay in school, like don't

0:41:24.160 --> 0:41:26.160
<v Speaker 8>don't argue with your parents all the time, Like make

0:41:26.200 --> 0:41:28.799
<v Speaker 8>sure you clean your room up, make sure your your

0:41:28.800 --> 0:41:31.520
<v Speaker 8>grades are good because you have He will always tell

0:41:31.560 --> 0:41:35.000
<v Speaker 8>you that you have the you have the possibility to

0:41:35.080 --> 0:41:37.439
<v Speaker 8>make a change, so do it.

0:41:37.800 --> 0:41:38.560
<v Speaker 4>And you can't do.

0:41:38.520 --> 0:41:41.000
<v Speaker 8>It if you're falling behind, if you're slacking, if you're

0:41:41.000 --> 0:41:42.920
<v Speaker 8>getting in trouble all the time, you can't do that.

0:41:45.160 --> 0:41:49.880
<v Speaker 8>So my uncle is definitely just a big part of

0:41:49.920 --> 0:41:52.520
<v Speaker 8>my life, a big person that keeps me going and

0:41:52.719 --> 0:41:55.280
<v Speaker 8>just like keeps me up in the morning and keeps

0:41:55.280 --> 0:41:59.839
<v Speaker 8>me keeps from I don't know, going in sane practically,

0:42:00.880 --> 0:42:01.319
<v Speaker 8>and he.

0:42:01.280 --> 0:42:09.000
<v Speaker 4>Has, uh, he has. Both of his kids were grown

0:42:09.120 --> 0:42:12.560
<v Speaker 4>before he got to see them. They were three and

0:42:12.960 --> 0:42:18.600
<v Speaker 4>ten months old when when he went to prison, and

0:42:18.640 --> 0:42:21.759
<v Speaker 4>so by the time he got to have a relationship

0:42:21.800 --> 0:42:28.399
<v Speaker 4>with his two boys, they were grown. And I made

0:42:28.440 --> 0:42:34.200
<v Speaker 4>sure that Brendan got to go see him. I took

0:42:34.280 --> 0:42:38.000
<v Speaker 4>him to the prison to see him several times. And

0:42:38.840 --> 0:42:41.640
<v Speaker 4>you know, I'm not real close. Of course, this has

0:42:41.760 --> 0:42:45.759
<v Speaker 4>brought us closer. I wasn't really close to those two

0:42:45.760 --> 0:42:48.920
<v Speaker 4>of my grandchildren because growing up they weren't allowed to

0:42:48.920 --> 0:42:51.359
<v Speaker 4>be around us. Their families. You know, they punished all

0:42:51.400 --> 0:42:54.080
<v Speaker 4>of us for what Tremaine did and what Jake did,

0:42:54.600 --> 0:43:00.359
<v Speaker 4>and but I didn't care about that. I just wanted

0:43:00.440 --> 0:43:03.799
<v Speaker 4>him to be able to have a relationship, and now

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<v Speaker 4>he does. He has a great relationship with both of

0:43:06.200 --> 0:43:11.560
<v Speaker 4>his kids, and he is just so positive with them

0:43:11.640 --> 0:43:14.160
<v Speaker 4>and encourages his son. He has a son in the military,

0:43:14.239 --> 0:43:17.640
<v Speaker 4>and he just encourages him and his other son who's

0:43:18.200 --> 0:43:22.120
<v Speaker 4>who lives here in Oklahoma City. He encourages him to

0:43:22.200 --> 0:43:25.439
<v Speaker 4>be the best you can be. And even then he goes, Mom,

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<v Speaker 4>maybe me coming to prison was a good thing because

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<v Speaker 4>it stopped this cycle of criminal activity, of violence of

0:43:35.600 --> 0:43:39.560
<v Speaker 4>you know, all of this. It's stopped because my kids

0:43:39.600 --> 0:43:43.600
<v Speaker 4>now have you know, they've done good. And you know,

0:43:44.680 --> 0:43:49.920
<v Speaker 4>he's just he's just an amazing, amazing, amazing guy.

0:43:50.280 --> 0:43:50.600
<v Speaker 9>He is.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, we are thinking of all of you, your family.

0:43:57.280 --> 0:43:59.799
<v Speaker 2>We know how what we don't know. We can only

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<v Speaker 2>how difficult these next few hours will be for you all.

0:44:04.719 --> 0:44:09.760
<v Speaker 2>But everyone will be waiting to see what Governor Stit decides,

0:44:10.640 --> 0:44:15.640
<v Speaker 2>And we are thinking of you, and we are hoping

0:44:15.680 --> 0:44:18.359
<v Speaker 2>for the best for your family, and we appreciate you

0:44:18.520 --> 0:44:22.640
<v Speaker 2>opening up and being vulnerable and talking about something so

0:44:22.719 --> 0:44:26.399
<v Speaker 2>incredibly painful. But I know that the hope is that

0:44:26.640 --> 0:44:30.880
<v Speaker 2>there will be changes in the system, and certainly we

0:44:30.960 --> 0:44:35.719
<v Speaker 2>know that you hope your loved one, that Trumaine will

0:44:35.719 --> 0:44:38.600
<v Speaker 2>be able to continue this beautiful relationship he has with

0:44:38.640 --> 0:44:39.000
<v Speaker 2>all of you.

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<v Speaker 9>So thank you, thank you so much for having us.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, thank you. This is if there's one thing I

0:44:45.400 --> 0:44:48.680
<v Speaker 4>could end this one, it would be our family, his

0:44:48.840 --> 0:44:53.399
<v Speaker 4>legal team. They've all been amazing and we are all

0:44:53.440 --> 0:44:55.520
<v Speaker 4>stronger than the storm we are going through.

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<v Speaker 9>And there is one thing out, one more thing I

0:44:59.160 --> 0:45:01.680
<v Speaker 9>would like to put out there, just for everyone to know.

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<v Speaker 9>They have currently moved my uncle to death watch, and

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<v Speaker 9>that's they put him in a cell that's right next

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<v Speaker 9>to the execution the execution chamber chamber, and he's under

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<v Speaker 9>they took they've taken everything from him except a book

0:45:22.800 --> 0:45:24.600
<v Speaker 9>and his tablet to be able.

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<v Speaker 4>To call us, to call you, well me.

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<v Speaker 9>They've blocked everybody else's number but mine, and he's under

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<v Speaker 9>twenty four hour surveillance. I mean, he doesn't get good meals.

0:45:40.080 --> 0:45:42.520
<v Speaker 9>I'll tell you that right now. We've seen that firsthand

0:45:42.560 --> 0:45:45.719
<v Speaker 9>in visits with what they what they are feeding him,

0:45:45.719 --> 0:45:46.279
<v Speaker 9>and it's not.

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<v Speaker 6>It's what are you the only one that's getting uh,

0:45:52.320 --> 0:45:53.040
<v Speaker 6>that's not blocked.

0:45:53.080 --> 0:45:53.920
<v Speaker 5>He's only calling you.

0:45:54.400 --> 0:45:58.120
<v Speaker 4>We have no idea, it just you know. One of

0:45:58.160 --> 0:46:01.239
<v Speaker 4>the rules for once they're to death watch, which is

0:46:01.280 --> 0:46:05.359
<v Speaker 4>seven days prior to the execution date, is that they

0:46:05.440 --> 0:46:09.840
<v Speaker 4>are the the inmate is supposed to have unlimited access

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<v Speaker 4>to the phone to stay in touch with the mediate family.

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<v Speaker 4>Yet right after the clemency hearing, everybody's numbers blocked. They

0:46:20.480 --> 0:46:22.399
<v Speaker 4>won't let us talk to him. And that is very,

0:46:23.840 --> 0:46:28.360
<v Speaker 4>very tortuous because as his mother, you think i'd be

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<v Speaker 4>the last person they would block.

0:46:30.200 --> 0:46:33.319
<v Speaker 9>But you know, I'm I'm at the point because I'm

0:46:33.360 --> 0:46:36.560
<v Speaker 9>the only person you can call, and I'm having to

0:46:36.960 --> 0:46:42.040
<v Speaker 9>you know, drive around and come here, you know, to

0:46:42.440 --> 0:46:46.560
<v Speaker 9>go to edmind just so we can get a chance.

0:46:46.320 --> 0:46:47.080
<v Speaker 4>To talk to him.

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<v Speaker 6>That seems like that should have been corrected. That's like

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<v Speaker 6>that was a mistake that should have or could have

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<v Speaker 6>been corrected.

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<v Speaker 4>Journey's attempted to try to but they say, the prison

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<v Speaker 4>say it's above them.

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah, they keep saying that it's above their ward and

0:47:01.600 --> 0:47:03.879
<v Speaker 8>the their highest person there, it's above her.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 6>Well no, thank you for actually that's a good no

0:47:10.120 --> 0:47:12.200
<v Speaker 6>getting to look a good detail to know.

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<v Speaker 5>Thank you for that. And again for I want you.

0:47:14.640 --> 0:47:15.960
<v Speaker 6>All to know, if you'll get a chance, if you'll

0:47:16.000 --> 0:47:18.680
<v Speaker 6>listen to podcasts, go back and listen to our Amy

0:47:18.680 --> 0:47:21.560
<v Speaker 6>and t We did a full podcast on this case

0:47:21.600 --> 0:47:24.600
<v Speaker 6>and following this story before we ever decided we wanted

0:47:24.640 --> 0:47:28.080
<v Speaker 6>to reach out. We watch that entire live stream of

0:47:28.120 --> 0:47:31.719
<v Speaker 6>that clement'sy hearing every second of it. So we have

0:47:31.800 --> 0:47:33.480
<v Speaker 6>been We just want to know where we're coming from.

0:47:33.480 --> 0:47:36.440
<v Speaker 6>This is a story and a lot of frankly executions

0:47:36.440 --> 0:47:38.560
<v Speaker 6>we've been following this year because the country has been

0:47:38.600 --> 0:47:41.520
<v Speaker 6>executing folk left and rank, but it was a case

0:47:41.560 --> 0:47:44.680
<v Speaker 6>we were interested in, passionate about, and quite frankly, we

0:47:44.719 --> 0:47:47.640
<v Speaker 6>can say out loud we're on your side about on

0:47:47.680 --> 0:47:49.239
<v Speaker 6>this one in a lot of ways. So really we

0:47:49.280 --> 0:47:51.879
<v Speaker 6>wish you all the best with what you're going through

0:47:51.920 --> 0:47:54.960
<v Speaker 6>and hopefully we talk to you again in better circumstances.

0:47:55.520 --> 0:47:56.440
<v Speaker 4>We appreciate it.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you so much, Thank you, Thank you guys, And

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<v Speaker 2>as of this recording, Tremainwood is set to be executed

0:48:06.239 --> 0:48:09.440
<v Speaker 2>by lethal injection. It's set to take place in the

0:48:09.440 --> 0:48:12.839
<v Speaker 2>state of Oklahoma at ten am Local time eleven am

0:48:12.920 --> 0:48:15.920
<v Speaker 2>Eastern time here and again the governor Governor Kevin Stidt

0:48:15.920 --> 0:48:20.160
<v Speaker 2>has until that ten am deadline to intervene if he

0:48:20.360 --> 0:48:23.600
<v Speaker 2>so chooses, But it should be noted during his tenure

0:48:23.600 --> 0:48:27.160
<v Speaker 2>as governor, the Pardons and Parole Board has recommended clemency

0:48:27.200 --> 0:48:31.840
<v Speaker 2>in four cases. He has only granted it in one case,

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<v Speaker 2>and that was back in twenty twenty one.

0:48:34.600 --> 0:48:36.240
<v Speaker 4>And since he took office as.

0:48:36.080 --> 0:48:41.440
<v Speaker 2>Governor in twenty nineteen, sixteen people have been executed in

0:48:41.480 --> 0:48:45.200
<v Speaker 2>that state. So this is certainly a familiar situation that

0:48:45.280 --> 0:48:47.360
<v Speaker 2>his office says he takes very seriously.

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<v Speaker 5>But we wait.

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<v Speaker 1>I learned so much from these ladies about the process.

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<v Speaker 1>Many of these cases we covered. I didn't I didn't know,

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<v Speaker 1>And I think that was the most gut wrenching part

0:48:59.600 --> 0:49:01.640
<v Speaker 1>that the hug they gave him, they didn't realize it

0:49:01.680 --> 0:49:03.160
<v Speaker 1>was going to be the last. They will get to

0:49:03.160 --> 0:49:06.799
<v Speaker 1>see him one more time, but through a glass. This

0:49:06.960 --> 0:49:09.759
<v Speaker 1>is just again we follow these cases. We always say

0:49:09.840 --> 0:49:13.720
<v Speaker 1>ropes are ever any little bit the question of any kind.

0:49:13.840 --> 0:49:16.399
<v Speaker 1>Let's err on the side of not killing somebody because

0:49:16.400 --> 0:49:18.880
<v Speaker 1>you can't correct that mistake. This is certainly one of

0:49:18.880 --> 0:49:22.239
<v Speaker 1>those that rises to the level of something not quite right.

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<v Speaker 5>So no rush.

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<v Speaker 1>And also we should note the family of the victims

0:49:27.120 --> 0:49:30.280
<v Speaker 1>don't want the execution to go forward. So I always

0:49:30.320 --> 0:49:32.560
<v Speaker 1>say I will I will be on board with any

0:49:32.640 --> 0:49:35.279
<v Speaker 1>law if they say, we'll let the victims family.

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<v Speaker 2>Decide, you know, and we have covered so many of

0:49:37.320 --> 0:49:41.040
<v Speaker 2>these cases at this point that it is something that yes,

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, there's a lot of things we'd love to

0:49:42.640 --> 0:49:46.440
<v Speaker 2>change about our legal system, but certainly that's one of

0:49:46.480 --> 0:49:49.520
<v Speaker 2>the glaring issues. If the family of the victims do

0:49:49.719 --> 0:49:53.840
<v Speaker 2>not want the convicted killer of their loved one to

0:49:54.880 --> 0:50:00.080
<v Speaker 2>be executed, that should be the final, say period period A.

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