1
00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:02,639
Speaker 1: Up a team six Happy Spootober. I hope the trash

2
00:00:02,720 --> 00:00:04,920
Speaker 1: is out. I hope the flannels are out. Your boys

3
00:00:04,920 --> 00:00:08,000
Speaker 1: on his fifth flannel of the week, you're killing it

4
00:00:08,039 --> 00:00:10,080
Speaker 1: with the flannels. I have five. When I was there

5
00:00:10,080 --> 00:00:11,399
Speaker 1: on Monday and I was looking at what am I

6
00:00:11,440 --> 00:00:13,360
Speaker 1: gonna wear? It's a little the weather's breaking a little bit.

7
00:00:13,360 --> 00:00:15,520
Speaker 1: I feel like I can put some pants on. I

8
00:00:15,560 --> 00:00:17,680
Speaker 1: look down on the bottom row, the bottom rack, and

9
00:00:17,680 --> 00:00:21,560
Speaker 1: I'm like, it is flannel season. It is Spooptober. Like,

10
00:00:21,680 --> 00:00:23,720
Speaker 1: let's start getting out the flannels. And if you're not looking,

11
00:00:23,760 --> 00:00:25,799
Speaker 1: I got the for the Dad's merch. Oh, you're rocking

12
00:00:25,840 --> 00:00:28,160
Speaker 1: all the merch, the hats, the shirts. You look over

13
00:00:28,200 --> 00:00:30,280
Speaker 1: at Shermy, he's got the Spootobra hat on bus with

14
00:00:30,320 --> 00:00:32,520
Speaker 1: the boys. He's got the four of the Dad's Spootober

15
00:00:32,560 --> 00:00:35,280
Speaker 1: shirt on Those are at bwtv dot com. Support and

16
00:00:35,320 --> 00:00:38,839
Speaker 1: represent the represent the boys, guys. This show, as you know,

17
00:00:38,880 --> 00:00:41,120
Speaker 1: we could have new listeners, we could have new viewers

18
00:00:41,520 --> 00:00:45,199
Speaker 1: on YouTube right now, but this show, look, this is

19
00:00:45,240 --> 00:00:48,360
Speaker 1: a show for dads who truly want to get better.

20
00:00:48,560 --> 00:00:50,680
Speaker 1: But at the same time, you know the phrase like

21
00:00:50,760 --> 00:00:53,800
Speaker 1: that's a guys, guy that's a boys boy, that's a

22
00:00:53,920 --> 00:00:56,760
Speaker 1: dad's dad. This is what this show is. We enjoy

23
00:00:56,800 --> 00:00:59,720
Speaker 1: having fun, whether you're in it, where you're preparing, whether

24
00:00:59,760 --> 00:01:03,520
Speaker 1: you're preparing to be in it. We love fatherhood. We

25
00:01:03,520 --> 00:01:05,720
Speaker 1: talked about our hugs and lows of fatherhood. We tell stories,

26
00:01:05,760 --> 00:01:07,760
Speaker 1: but we also don't take ourselves too seriously. We are

27
00:01:07,760 --> 00:01:10,479
Speaker 1: not experts. We just love having a good o silly

28
00:01:10,520 --> 00:01:14,720
Speaker 1: goose time being dads, being husbands. We'll get into some

29
00:01:14,720 --> 00:01:17,320
Speaker 1: conversations with the wife. He had a couple and I'm

30
00:01:17,319 --> 00:01:19,440
Speaker 1: gonna have to I'll have to get corrected on the show.

31
00:01:19,640 --> 00:01:21,800
Speaker 1: I'll have to get corrected on the show. But the

32
00:01:21,800 --> 00:01:24,759
Speaker 1: feedback has always just been incredible, guys, the engagement. There

33
00:01:24,800 --> 00:01:26,640
Speaker 1: was a hater in the comment the other day Sharam

34
00:01:26,640 --> 00:01:29,399
Speaker 1: that I think I was promoting for the dads or

35
00:01:29,400 --> 00:01:30,119
Speaker 1: I was doing something.

36
00:01:30,160 --> 00:01:31,039
Speaker 2: Maybe he was one of the clips.

37
00:01:31,040 --> 00:01:35,000
Speaker 1: And by the way, Chef Derek, you guys absolutely crush it, Shuram,

38
00:01:35,000 --> 00:01:36,680
Speaker 1: I know you make clips as well. You guys crush

39
00:01:36,720 --> 00:01:40,360
Speaker 1: it with making clips. But I had a comment or

40
00:01:40,480 --> 00:01:42,840
Speaker 1: the other day that was talking like, well, you guys

41
00:01:42,840 --> 00:01:45,840
Speaker 1: only get ten thousand viewers or something like he thought

42
00:01:45,840 --> 00:01:49,360
Speaker 1: he was taking a shot and you know, like wear

43
00:01:49,400 --> 00:01:52,760
Speaker 1: we're on what this is episode eighteen seventeen eight, this

44
00:01:52,800 --> 00:01:55,880
Speaker 1: will be nineteen. As you're listening to AA is good.

45
00:01:57,600 --> 00:02:00,000
Speaker 1: TVA for a new brand, a new pod is good.

46
00:02:00,000 --> 00:02:03,280
Speaker 1: But also when you look at it the entire universe

47
00:02:03,920 --> 00:02:05,840
Speaker 1: of Busting with the boys, like when you look at

48
00:02:06,000 --> 00:02:10,239
Speaker 1: viewer viewership and then comment like the ratio of viewership

49
00:02:10,280 --> 00:02:13,080
Speaker 1: and engagement for the dads is popping off, like the

50
00:02:13,120 --> 00:02:15,280
Speaker 1: community of Papa Team six. And again, if you're a

51
00:02:15,320 --> 00:02:18,519
Speaker 1: new dad, welcome to the Papa Team six PT six community. Yeah,

52
00:02:18,520 --> 00:02:20,520
Speaker 1: you love to have fun on social media, we talk

53
00:02:20,560 --> 00:02:22,880
Speaker 1: about Papa Team six being a PT Siko being a

54
00:02:22,880 --> 00:02:25,680
Speaker 1: PT sixer. We also have the Semen Team sixers which

55
00:02:26,120 --> 00:02:28,240
Speaker 1: Chef Chef Jack are guy in the back. He's the

56
00:02:28,280 --> 00:02:30,320
Speaker 1: head of Semen Team six. Seeman Team six is you're

57
00:02:30,360 --> 00:02:32,480
Speaker 1: not a dad yet, you're shooting for the love of

58
00:02:32,520 --> 00:02:34,840
Speaker 1: the game. Right now, you're spraying let across the yard.

59
00:02:35,120 --> 00:02:38,720
Speaker 1: He's the commander of a Seaman Team six. You could

60
00:02:38,760 --> 00:02:40,880
Speaker 1: also be a dad and maybe you're in buds training.

61
00:02:40,880 --> 00:02:44,200
Speaker 1: That's breeding until dad status. So again, if you're joining

62
00:02:44,200 --> 00:02:46,040
Speaker 1: the show, if you're in tune with the show to

63
00:02:46,120 --> 00:02:48,560
Speaker 1: be a better father, be a better husband. You'll get

64
00:02:48,560 --> 00:02:52,080
Speaker 1: some of those tidbits and advice and conversations, but we

65
00:02:52,160 --> 00:02:55,520
Speaker 1: also love to just have a good time and fun uncles.

66
00:02:55,760 --> 00:02:57,920
Speaker 1: We got the fun uncles, We got the funcals, We

67
00:02:58,000 --> 00:03:00,960
Speaker 1: got the funkals. With Derek back there. But yeah, he

68
00:03:00,960 --> 00:03:03,120
Speaker 1: thought he was taking a shot at the at the

69
00:03:03,200 --> 00:03:06,280
Speaker 1: viewer show. Buddy, I like, listen. Oh well, your new

70
00:03:06,320 --> 00:03:09,280
Speaker 1: podcast only gets ten thousand views on YouTube. Yeah, matter

71
00:03:09,280 --> 00:03:11,560
Speaker 1: of fact, it was on Instagram. And then I replied

72
00:03:11,560 --> 00:03:13,080
Speaker 1: to him and I said, buddy, if I if I

73
00:03:13,120 --> 00:03:15,760
Speaker 1: took your advice, I'd be working at the crematorium next door.

74
00:03:18,360 --> 00:03:20,040
Speaker 1: You stay, you stay on that say you want to

75
00:03:20,080 --> 00:03:22,360
Speaker 1: be angry fined. Don't let PT six, don't let the

76
00:03:22,360 --> 00:03:25,200
Speaker 1: pt SICO see this comic, because they'll come after you. Hey,

77
00:03:25,240 --> 00:03:27,440
Speaker 1: we love the crematorium, by the way, we love we

78
00:03:27,680 --> 00:03:31,120
Speaker 1: love the nice pep very nice people with some coun

79
00:03:31,280 --> 00:03:35,360
Speaker 1: come out, you know, dust body dust all over him,

80
00:03:35,400 --> 00:03:37,560
Speaker 1: being like, hey, I love the episode this week. Is

81
00:03:37,960 --> 00:03:40,400
Speaker 1: they got a pretty good sense of humor. They have

82
00:03:40,480 --> 00:03:41,600
Speaker 1: to if you're gonna work at a couch.

83
00:03:41,720 --> 00:03:43,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, they came up to me, they said, hey, uh,

84
00:03:44,120 --> 00:03:45,680
Speaker 3: I heard you got a new weight room in there,

85
00:03:45,880 --> 00:03:47,880
Speaker 3: said yeah, we do, and they go, well, yeah, we

86
00:03:47,960 --> 00:03:51,080
Speaker 3: lift a lot too. So really they go, yeah, we

87
00:03:51,120 --> 00:03:55,480
Speaker 3: do a lot of deadlifting, and idd chuckled. That's a

88
00:03:55,640 --> 00:03:58,240
Speaker 3: phenomenal dad joke and phenomenal dad joke.

89
00:04:00,040 --> 00:04:00,240
Speaker 2: Yeah.

90
00:04:00,240 --> 00:04:03,120
Speaker 1: Man, This show, as you guys know, free for you

91
00:04:03,160 --> 00:04:07,080
Speaker 1: on all platforms YouTube, Spotify, Apple. We would truly appreciate

92
00:04:07,120 --> 00:04:10,400
Speaker 1: if you just considered being a real sicco and following

93
00:04:10,400 --> 00:04:13,280
Speaker 1: and subscribing on all of those platforms for the voice

94
00:04:13,480 --> 00:04:19,039
Speaker 1: truly helps us out. Podcast Zone, Podcast Zone, Galaxy Pod,

95
00:04:19,720 --> 00:04:22,919
Speaker 1: all those ads, all the half anywhere you find a

96
00:04:22,920 --> 00:04:24,840
Speaker 1: podcast you see for the dads out there, Oh a

97
00:04:24,839 --> 00:04:28,520
Speaker 1: way to hit the following the subscribe button if you

98
00:04:28,560 --> 00:04:30,560
Speaker 1: were And then I say it every week you want

99
00:04:30,560 --> 00:04:33,480
Speaker 1: to etch yourself into the PT six community for real.

100
00:04:33,920 --> 00:04:35,520
Speaker 1: We shout it out at the beginning of the pod.

101
00:04:35,600 --> 00:04:37,240
Speaker 1: By the merch we have a lot of cool stuff.

102
00:04:37,400 --> 00:04:39,960
Speaker 1: Papa Team six. We do have the second iteration, the

103
00:04:40,000 --> 00:04:43,080
Speaker 1: second version of Papa Team six hand up accountability. I

104
00:04:43,160 --> 00:04:46,200
Speaker 1: need to I need to be running that on my socials.

105
00:04:46,360 --> 00:04:47,520
Speaker 1: I need to run the new.

106
00:04:47,400 --> 00:04:48,240
Speaker 2: PT six shirt.

107
00:04:48,440 --> 00:04:51,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, because we did the first Papa Team six drop

108
00:04:51,560 --> 00:04:54,040
Speaker 1: we did. Everybody loved it. We sold a shitload, one

109
00:04:54,080 --> 00:04:57,120
Speaker 1: of our best sellers throughout the year. Yeah, now we have.

110
00:04:57,279 --> 00:04:58,800
Speaker 1: We said we were going to get better. We were

111
00:04:58,800 --> 00:05:01,039
Speaker 1: going to add the young pup to it because again

112
00:05:01,120 --> 00:05:02,680
Speaker 1: the dad in the first one, he was kind of

113
00:05:02,960 --> 00:05:07,000
Speaker 1: solo doulla almost preparing Yeah yeah, yeah for war uh.

114
00:05:07,000 --> 00:05:09,920
Speaker 1: But now we have a different iteration pop a team six.

115
00:05:10,000 --> 00:05:14,520
Speaker 1: We write at Dawn David's a issue three. You got

116
00:05:14,520 --> 00:05:17,320
Speaker 1: the dad, you got the cub, you got the right

117
00:05:17,360 --> 00:05:19,920
Speaker 1: and lawnmower, a backyard, got swing set behind a little

118
00:05:19,920 --> 00:05:23,440
Speaker 1: soccer ball in the backyard with it. Just just a dad,

119
00:05:24,000 --> 00:05:25,599
Speaker 1: just a bear in his cub. A wolf and this

120
00:05:25,640 --> 00:05:27,480
Speaker 1: guy is that a wolf? Yeah, it's a Wolf's that's

121
00:05:27,480 --> 00:05:31,000
Speaker 1: a wolf. That's a wolf and is pup. Just it's

122
00:05:31,040 --> 00:05:33,800
Speaker 1: really seeing old Scott Zilla in old Scott Zilla. By

123
00:05:33,800 --> 00:05:35,320
Speaker 1: the way, I have some good I have some fun

124
00:05:35,400 --> 00:05:39,520
Speaker 1: updates with Scott Zillah. But yeah, for the Dad's channel

125
00:05:39,600 --> 00:05:42,680
Speaker 1: BTWTV dot com. That's how you do that. Continue to

126
00:05:42,720 --> 00:05:45,440
Speaker 1: engage in that phone with the boys. We appreciate. We

127
00:05:45,520 --> 00:05:48,839
Speaker 1: got comments. I mean I'm holding I'm holding about nine

128
00:05:48,880 --> 00:05:50,960
Speaker 1: to ten comments. I'm sure I'm sure Surehan has a

129
00:05:51,000 --> 00:05:51,480
Speaker 1: lot as well.

130
00:05:51,600 --> 00:05:52,200
Speaker 2: I have nine.

131
00:05:52,360 --> 00:05:54,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, we have a lot of comments to get through.

132
00:05:54,320 --> 00:05:56,520
Speaker 1: We have our voicemails. You can call into six O

133
00:05:56,600 --> 00:05:58,280
Speaker 1: one the dads. You want to be featured on the show.

134
00:05:58,279 --> 00:06:00,960
Speaker 1: You'll get free merch. We have two call ins later.

135
00:06:01,000 --> 00:06:03,400
Speaker 1: We also have a quote lesson or topic that we

136
00:06:03,560 --> 00:06:05,680
Speaker 1: love to dive in on at the end of the episodes.

137
00:06:05,720 --> 00:06:08,200
Speaker 1: And then in between the meat of it all, outside

138
00:06:08,200 --> 00:06:10,200
Speaker 1: of the engagement that comments and everything else, we talk

139
00:06:10,200 --> 00:06:11,960
Speaker 1: about our wins, we talk about our losses. What we

140
00:06:12,080 --> 00:06:15,640
Speaker 1: crack a cold one two survival kit, Dad hacks the

141
00:06:15,720 --> 00:06:18,560
Speaker 1: whole kit and kaboodle. So let's dive in.

142
00:06:18,600 --> 00:06:20,640
Speaker 2: You want to hit some comments, bro, hit some comments

143
00:06:20,880 --> 00:06:22,840
Speaker 2: before we start. Can I give a shout out? I

144
00:06:22,880 --> 00:06:24,880
Speaker 2: want to do this before we get into comments. Yes,

145
00:06:24,960 --> 00:06:28,919
Speaker 2: we've been talking about it. Shout out to the guy

146
00:06:29,279 --> 00:06:32,279
Speaker 2: in the Chipotle line at eleven thirty on Monday, wearing

147
00:06:32,279 --> 00:06:35,400
Speaker 2: a PT six shirt, blonde hair glasses. I saw you

148
00:06:36,400 --> 00:06:38,120
Speaker 2: and you were in the middle of ordering line. It

149
00:06:38,200 --> 00:06:41,160
Speaker 2: was packed, and I bitched out. I didn't say I

150
00:06:41,160 --> 00:06:44,359
Speaker 2: I walked a chef. I know, but I wanted you

151
00:06:44,400 --> 00:06:45,200
Speaker 2: to know that I saw it.

152
00:06:45,320 --> 00:06:46,800
Speaker 1: Did he did he look old? Did he look like

153
00:06:46,839 --> 00:06:47,200
Speaker 1: a dad?

154
00:06:47,320 --> 00:06:47,480
Speaker 4: Yeah?

155
00:06:47,520 --> 00:06:50,240
Speaker 2: I looked young dad, young Folka. He'll know who he is.

156
00:06:50,240 --> 00:06:52,200
Speaker 2: If he's listening, just know I saw you.

157
00:06:52,760 --> 00:06:54,800
Speaker 1: And if he's rocking a PT six short to pop

158
00:06:54,839 --> 00:06:56,520
Speaker 1: a team six, you know he's tuned in weekly.

159
00:06:56,800 --> 00:06:59,880
Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, yeah, he had the first iteration, the first drop.

160
00:07:00,200 --> 00:07:02,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, so shout out.

161
00:07:01,800 --> 00:07:02,359
Speaker 5: From the middle.

162
00:07:03,080 --> 00:07:04,080
Speaker 2: He was loading up a ball.

163
00:07:04,160 --> 00:07:06,400
Speaker 1: He's somebody who he's listening to me talking about this

164
00:07:06,440 --> 00:07:08,560
Speaker 1: hater in the comments on Instagram. He's like, what, let

165
00:07:08,640 --> 00:07:13,080
Speaker 1: me go find this? What fun? Hey, you gotta do better, bro,

166
00:07:14,600 --> 00:07:16,760
Speaker 1: you are the captain of He was six.

167
00:07:16,880 --> 00:07:19,239
Speaker 2: He was in the middle of putting something on his bowl,

168
00:07:19,360 --> 00:07:21,640
Speaker 2: like he's in the middle of the line. I was like, ah,

169
00:07:21,800 --> 00:07:23,960
Speaker 2: like I should say something, but I just it was

170
00:07:24,000 --> 00:07:25,480
Speaker 2: packed and I don't want to be that guy. Were

171
00:07:25,520 --> 00:07:27,880
Speaker 2: you picking up an order? I was picking up an order,

172
00:07:27,960 --> 00:07:29,240
Speaker 2: so I wasn't okay.

173
00:07:28,960 --> 00:07:32,520
Speaker 1: Okay either way. And then he looks over just give

174
00:07:32,560 --> 00:07:35,520
Speaker 1: him a little and that's that's noted. Everything is said

175
00:07:35,680 --> 00:07:36,640
Speaker 1: just in that interaction.

176
00:07:37,200 --> 00:07:41,000
Speaker 2: Everything is said, Yeah, I agree, I was disappointing myself.

177
00:07:41,080 --> 00:07:46,640
Speaker 2: So whoever you were, I saw you, and hell yeah,

178
00:07:45,640 --> 00:07:47,200
Speaker 2: I saw you.

179
00:07:47,480 --> 00:07:51,920
Speaker 1: I love you. My masculine insecurity got in the way.

180
00:07:51,960 --> 00:07:55,559
Speaker 2: I was like, he knows it doesn't matter.

181
00:07:55,760 --> 00:08:00,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, he knows. That's whatever. Man eight dollars on YouTube.

182
00:08:00,680 --> 00:08:02,760
Speaker 1: Boys love This. Got married two weeks ago and I'm

183
00:08:02,800 --> 00:08:05,160
Speaker 1: looking forward to fatherhood. Can't wait to be pop a

184
00:08:05,200 --> 00:08:07,120
Speaker 1: Team six in the coming years. The boys about to

185
00:08:07,160 --> 00:08:10,360
Speaker 1: hit Buds training. I also got only the Junior on YouTube.

186
00:08:11,040 --> 00:08:13,160
Speaker 1: I've got my group of friends that I've had for

187
00:08:13,200 --> 00:08:16,119
Speaker 1: two decades hooked on this pod. The amount of good

188
00:08:16,280 --> 00:08:18,640
Speaker 1: texts I get now is amazing. You guys have brought

189
00:08:18,720 --> 00:08:21,920
Speaker 1: us closer together as Dad's not just buds. I just

190
00:08:21,960 --> 00:08:24,760
Speaker 1: had my third kid, right about when the Erminader had

191
00:08:24,760 --> 00:08:30,640
Speaker 1: his first two girls and one boy. Outnumbered good nick

192
00:08:31,240 --> 00:08:35,560
Speaker 1: nick measle, nick measle on YouTube, measle to weasel. You

193
00:08:35,600 --> 00:08:38,199
Speaker 1: know that's his nickname too. I'm sorry. And if I'm

194
00:08:38,200 --> 00:08:44,160
Speaker 1: mispronouncing it, God that sucks. Riding home, writing home, listening

195
00:08:44,200 --> 00:08:46,120
Speaker 1: to my favorite podcast when my wife sends me a

196
00:08:46,200 --> 00:08:49,120
Speaker 1: video of my son leading his middle school football team

197
00:08:49,200 --> 00:08:52,040
Speaker 1: out in front of the school for their pep rally,

198
00:08:52,280 --> 00:08:53,240
Speaker 1: and I'm tearing up.

199
00:08:53,640 --> 00:08:54,000
Speaker 2: Damn it.

200
00:08:54,040 --> 00:08:57,160
Speaker 1: I have to remind myself that crying is good, crying

201
00:08:57,280 --> 00:08:57,760
Speaker 1: is cool.

202
00:08:57,840 --> 00:08:58,200
Speaker 2: Boys.

203
00:08:58,880 --> 00:09:02,120
Speaker 1: I have a twelve, ten and three year old, all boys,

204
00:09:02,400 --> 00:09:04,600
Speaker 1: and damn our kids, break us and make us proud.

205
00:09:04,720 --> 00:09:06,960
Speaker 2: Keep crying, boys, Keep crying.

206
00:09:06,960 --> 00:09:10,200
Speaker 1: PTCI. He had a twelve year old leading the high

207
00:09:10,240 --> 00:09:13,920
Speaker 1: school and the middle school middle school, middle school and

208
00:09:14,000 --> 00:09:15,439
Speaker 1: leading the team out in front of the school in

209
00:09:15,480 --> 00:09:17,480
Speaker 1: the pep row leading them.

210
00:09:17,960 --> 00:09:19,480
Speaker 2: That's juicy, juicy.

211
00:09:19,520 --> 00:09:22,120
Speaker 1: You know, ain't nothing like in middle school and it's

212
00:09:22,400 --> 00:09:25,040
Speaker 1: pep rally day or or game day and you just

213
00:09:25,080 --> 00:09:27,600
Speaker 1: got the jersey on because you know the varsity rocks

214
00:09:27,600 --> 00:09:30,040
Speaker 1: that you know you're about to get initiated in the

215
00:09:30,120 --> 00:09:32,920
Speaker 1: high school world one day down the road and you're

216
00:09:33,000 --> 00:09:35,720
Speaker 1: kind of playing that cool sceenior on pep rally day.

217
00:09:36,000 --> 00:09:39,319
Speaker 2: Yo, the young man's horny. You talking about eighty, We

218
00:09:39,400 --> 00:09:40,640
Speaker 2: talk about eighth grade.

219
00:09:43,320 --> 00:09:44,120
Speaker 5: Middle schooler.

220
00:09:45,679 --> 00:09:48,080
Speaker 2: That's like, I think that's like sixth grade.

221
00:09:49,000 --> 00:09:50,720
Speaker 1: Middle school's eight, seventh to eight, right you.

222
00:09:50,760 --> 00:09:55,360
Speaker 2: Have but twelve, Yeah, let's sea, we'll go. We have fun.

223
00:09:57,480 --> 00:10:00,400
Speaker 1: We had to find out that was maybe little bit

224
00:10:00,400 --> 00:10:03,480
Speaker 1: over the line. That's some garage. There's some there's some

225
00:10:03,520 --> 00:10:05,960
Speaker 1: garage talk with your boys. I'm talking over it. I'm

226
00:10:06,000 --> 00:10:08,559
Speaker 1: talking about myself when I was like when I I'm

227
00:10:08,559 --> 00:10:15,120
Speaker 1: thinking old Lily c back then, I already know, man,

228
00:10:15,160 --> 00:10:15,640
Speaker 1: I gotta.

229
00:10:15,440 --> 00:10:24,400
Speaker 2: Get home for the friendly Oh my god, but we

230
00:10:24,480 --> 00:10:30,079
Speaker 2: love your you kids. Yeah, oh man, it's a good thing.

231
00:10:30,120 --> 00:10:31,520
Speaker 1: This segment ain't on ESPN.

232
00:10:34,520 --> 00:10:37,679
Speaker 3: I got a comment from Yogi Bear eleven twenty seven

233
00:10:37,760 --> 00:10:40,760
Speaker 3: on YouTube. I was never close with my parents and

234
00:10:40,800 --> 00:10:44,840
Speaker 3: seeing y'all be great dads, it really heals my kid heart.

235
00:10:44,920 --> 00:10:49,280
Speaker 3: Hashtag GBR ge GBR. And then we got another one,

236
00:10:49,880 --> 00:10:53,320
Speaker 3: Kevin Living Good. And Kevin says, hey, sure, my name

237
00:10:53,360 --> 00:10:55,600
Speaker 3: is Kevin, last name pronounced living Good.

238
00:10:55,880 --> 00:10:58,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, because he is living Good.

239
00:10:58,360 --> 00:10:59,960
Speaker 2: I discovered for the dad.

240
00:11:00,000 --> 00:11:02,040
Speaker 3: It's pretty late in the game, so I started at

241
00:11:02,040 --> 00:11:05,200
Speaker 3: the beginning. Just got to the episode where you are

242
00:11:05,240 --> 00:11:08,400
Speaker 3: getting blasted for the couch situation in the hospital.

243
00:11:08,920 --> 00:11:10,679
Speaker 2: Just wanted to give you support from.

244
00:11:10,480 --> 00:11:13,480
Speaker 3: The privileged dads. When my now two year old son

245
00:11:13,600 --> 00:11:17,000
Speaker 3: was born, I had a pluther couch in the delivery

246
00:11:17,080 --> 00:11:20,560
Speaker 3: room that had a built him recliner. In our post

247
00:11:20,600 --> 00:11:23,360
Speaker 3: delivery room, I got a freakin' hospital bed.

248
00:11:24,640 --> 00:11:26,120
Speaker 2: Kevin, you are living Good.

249
00:11:26,240 --> 00:11:31,760
Speaker 1: So he gets on the hostle Ben He's like they

250
00:11:31,800 --> 00:11:35,680
Speaker 1: come up to they come up to his wife.

251
00:11:35,840 --> 00:11:40,439
Speaker 3: So everything okay, contractions have started.

252
00:11:41,320 --> 00:11:44,720
Speaker 1: Hey, the TV remote rent aboutteries. By the way, he said,

253
00:11:44,800 --> 00:11:48,000
Speaker 1: stay strong, King, and I know that you are. Just

254
00:11:48,120 --> 00:11:50,600
Speaker 1: know that you aren't alone. Kevin living good. Thank you

255
00:11:50,640 --> 00:11:58,200
Speaker 1: so much, dude. And then I am jaysuck Uh.

256
00:11:59,080 --> 00:12:01,960
Speaker 3: I'm a pet sick. I've been watching since the first episode.

257
00:12:02,000 --> 00:12:04,200
Speaker 3: I just wanted to say to the twenty one year old,

258
00:12:04,600 --> 00:12:07,120
Speaker 3: I have my first daughter at twenty eight. I still

259
00:12:07,120 --> 00:12:11,560
Speaker 3: felt too young, maybe not ready maturity wise, financially wise.

260
00:12:11,760 --> 00:12:15,240
Speaker 3: But when your baby comes, that is your world. You

261
00:12:15,280 --> 00:12:17,840
Speaker 3: just simply figure it out. That is your priority.

262
00:12:18,200 --> 00:12:18,960
Speaker 2: That is your.

263
00:12:18,880 --> 00:12:21,839
Speaker 3: Nuclear freaking bomb that you protect with all your might.

264
00:12:22,360 --> 00:12:24,360
Speaker 3: But everything comes, you figure it out.

265
00:12:24,800 --> 00:12:26,960
Speaker 1: It's going to be great, the best feeling in the

266
00:12:26,960 --> 00:12:31,040
Speaker 1: world when it's their first day out. Just keep it

267
00:12:31,120 --> 00:12:32,560
Speaker 1: moving with all obstacles.

268
00:12:32,600 --> 00:12:38,960
Speaker 3: Brother hashtag PT six, hashtag pt siko, hashtag baby Daddy

269
00:12:39,000 --> 00:12:43,400
Speaker 3: Team six, hashtag BDT six, hashtag baby dad Siica.

270
00:12:45,000 --> 00:12:45,320
Speaker 2: Thank you.

271
00:12:45,360 --> 00:12:49,160
Speaker 1: I am jasock. I just had a come to while

272
00:12:49,200 --> 00:12:51,280
Speaker 1: you were reading because you had a laugh and it

273
00:12:51,320 --> 00:12:53,560
Speaker 1: made me chuckle, just because your laugh makes me chuckle,

274
00:12:53,720 --> 00:12:55,320
Speaker 1: and just hearing you tell stories.

275
00:12:55,640 --> 00:12:56,640
Speaker 2: The comment was.

276
00:12:57,240 --> 00:13:01,000
Speaker 1: Coming after you on Instagram, did you guys, I'm going back.

277
00:13:01,040 --> 00:13:04,720
Speaker 1: I'm going back in the archives now. It was like

278
00:13:04,840 --> 00:13:07,120
Speaker 1: removing Sharan from the show and it'll be much better.

279
00:13:07,280 --> 00:13:10,160
Speaker 1: I wish I could have just grabbed that motherfucker by that.

280
00:13:10,160 --> 00:13:13,520
Speaker 6: Through better And Will said, if I did that, I'd

281
00:13:13,520 --> 00:13:14,160
Speaker 6: be working at the Cream.

282
00:13:14,520 --> 00:13:15,520
Speaker 1: Yes, that's what it was.

283
00:13:17,360 --> 00:13:18,360
Speaker 2: Described otherwise.

284
00:13:19,280 --> 00:13:22,160
Speaker 1: Yes, that's what it was. That's what it was, and

285
00:13:22,200 --> 00:13:23,080
Speaker 1: I'm sorry for the curse.

286
00:13:23,120 --> 00:13:23,600
Speaker 2: And I know this.

287
00:13:23,840 --> 00:13:25,960
Speaker 1: I know this a family friendly show. Maybe bleed me

288
00:13:26,000 --> 00:13:29,360
Speaker 1: out chef when I dropped the MF like that, but that's.

289
00:13:29,120 --> 00:13:29,560
Speaker 2: What it was.

290
00:13:29,600 --> 00:13:32,319
Speaker 1: They came after Fat, they came after Fat. Well, they

291
00:13:32,360 --> 00:13:36,680
Speaker 1: just came after Fat Stafford just randomly in totality, just randomly.

292
00:13:36,720 --> 00:13:38,480
Speaker 1: I don't even know if you were. I forget what

293
00:13:38,480 --> 00:13:40,120
Speaker 1: the clip was, but I don't even think Sherman was

294
00:13:40,120 --> 00:13:40,680
Speaker 1: in the clip.

295
00:13:41,360 --> 00:13:44,600
Speaker 2: Damn. That was the craziest part. He wasn't in the clips.

296
00:13:44,720 --> 00:13:48,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, and listen, we talked about the hundreds that DM

297
00:13:48,840 --> 00:13:50,680
Speaker 1: you now and I love how you engage and go

298
00:13:50,720 --> 00:13:52,840
Speaker 1: back and forth with everybody on a personal level. So

299
00:13:53,120 --> 00:13:55,800
Speaker 1: just all the people that fight for Fat Stafford just

300
00:13:55,920 --> 00:13:59,000
Speaker 1: know there was somebody in the comments on my Instagram

301
00:13:59,040 --> 00:14:02,080
Speaker 1: one of the clips that I host going after the Boy,

302
00:14:02,480 --> 00:14:05,719
Speaker 1: do we mobum? There's gonna be new moments where we

303
00:14:05,800 --> 00:14:07,480
Speaker 1: have to get PT six mobile.

304
00:14:07,600 --> 00:14:09,360
Speaker 2: We haven't called upon the goombrats.

305
00:14:09,480 --> 00:14:11,719
Speaker 1: Yeah minute, because I know dad's probably a lot of

306
00:14:11,760 --> 00:14:13,800
Speaker 1: the dads that listen to the show probably aren't the

307
00:14:13,880 --> 00:14:16,560
Speaker 1: most active on social media. I'm not saying that boomers

308
00:14:16,600 --> 00:14:18,800
Speaker 1: anything else. I'm just saying the majority of people who

309
00:14:18,880 --> 00:14:21,520
Speaker 1: root for you, they're not in the comments. They'll give

310
00:14:21,560 --> 00:14:23,440
Speaker 1: praise every now and then, are when a big moment

311
00:14:23,520 --> 00:14:25,680
Speaker 1: happens and talk about eyefil, or they'll DM you on

312
00:14:25,720 --> 00:14:28,160
Speaker 1: the side or SG because they actually care and they

313
00:14:28,200 --> 00:14:30,920
Speaker 1: are rooting for you. It's the haters that are loudest

314
00:14:31,000 --> 00:14:34,040
Speaker 1: in any comment section. So it's we got to get

315
00:14:34,040 --> 00:14:36,440
Speaker 1: the boy. We gotta get PT six focused at times

316
00:14:36,520 --> 00:14:38,800
Speaker 1: because we love having fun on the internet as much

317
00:14:38,800 --> 00:14:42,800
Speaker 1: as anybody, and we get them, mobilize and get them.

318
00:14:42,600 --> 00:14:44,880
Speaker 3: The good The good news is we're recording this on

319
00:14:44,960 --> 00:14:50,040
Speaker 3: a Friday. This episode won't drop until Wednesday of next week.

320
00:14:51,200 --> 00:14:53,760
Speaker 1: I'll find this, I'll find the I'll find the comment.

321
00:14:53,800 --> 00:14:55,200
Speaker 1: We get that way, we can put it on the

322
00:14:55,200 --> 00:14:57,240
Speaker 1: screen and people know exactly where to get do I

323
00:14:57,240 --> 00:15:00,680
Speaker 1: give them the full meme treatment? I think so so

324
00:15:00,840 --> 00:15:05,760
Speaker 1: when memes memes. So when shirm former name on Twitter

325
00:15:05,960 --> 00:15:07,880
Speaker 1: was see if be memes Zone, Oh yeah, it's a

326
00:15:07,880 --> 00:15:11,800
Speaker 1: massive He made his name in the game making memes

327
00:15:11,800 --> 00:15:14,520
Speaker 1: and meme videos and trolling and doing all this stuff.

328
00:15:14,560 --> 00:15:17,800
Speaker 1: So if you're if you're wondering what is mem him

329
00:15:17,840 --> 00:15:22,200
Speaker 1: to death mean, you'll have to follow scherm on x

330
00:15:22,440 --> 00:15:25,280
Speaker 1: on Twitter and this is where you will see all

331
00:15:25,360 --> 00:15:27,760
Speaker 1: this stuff go down. He'll start meming them. This where

332
00:15:27,800 --> 00:15:29,680
Speaker 1: you flood, This where you get in the comments. We're

333
00:15:29,720 --> 00:15:32,440
Speaker 1: looking to delete people, We're looking to get profiles the lete.

334
00:15:32,840 --> 00:15:33,160
Speaker 5: You know.

335
00:15:33,400 --> 00:15:35,160
Speaker 2: Now this is all coming back to me because when

336
00:15:35,160 --> 00:15:38,040
Speaker 2: I saw that comment, I said, ah, I will put

337
00:15:38,080 --> 00:15:40,160
Speaker 2: it aside because we know we love Sherman.

338
00:15:40,160 --> 00:15:42,680
Speaker 1: I gues yes, but I usually I am good enough

339
00:15:42,720 --> 00:15:44,760
Speaker 1: to do it. But for whatever reason, when they attack

340
00:15:44,840 --> 00:15:47,640
Speaker 1: my boy, when I see just something just directed at

341
00:15:48,000 --> 00:15:49,960
Speaker 1: one of the boys, you know, that's where it gets

342
00:15:49,960 --> 00:15:50,480
Speaker 1: me sideways.

343
00:15:50,520 --> 00:15:52,560
Speaker 2: You know what made me fucking laugh about that dude?

344
00:15:52,680 --> 00:15:57,320
Speaker 2: I clicked on his profile and his bio was say

345
00:15:57,400 --> 00:16:00,400
Speaker 2: something nice to someone. I swear to god, it was

346
00:16:00,400 --> 00:16:04,160
Speaker 2: something along those lines. I chuckled. I said, wow, the

347
00:16:04,200 --> 00:16:05,680
Speaker 2: irony must be lost on him.

348
00:16:05,760 --> 00:16:08,400
Speaker 1: Bro. It was funny too. With a lot of those

349
00:16:08,440 --> 00:16:10,720
Speaker 1: people who hate on the internet, you will click on

350
00:16:10,760 --> 00:16:13,200
Speaker 1: their profile and it'll be something. Their bio will be

351
00:16:13,280 --> 00:16:17,280
Speaker 1: something like that, like you know, positivity and wolf in

352
00:16:17,320 --> 00:16:20,320
Speaker 1: sheep's clothing. Yeah, a wolf in sheep's clothing. Yeah, absolutely right.

353
00:16:20,360 --> 00:16:23,360
Speaker 1: Let's get back to the comments. Yes, I kind of

354
00:16:23,360 --> 00:16:25,560
Speaker 1: came to while I was looking while I was listening

355
00:16:25,600 --> 00:16:27,080
Speaker 1: to you, and your laugh made me chuck on. I'm like,

356
00:16:27,120 --> 00:16:29,840
Speaker 1: you know what, that's what that was? Well?

357
00:16:29,880 --> 00:16:32,440
Speaker 3: I held I held back because his name was I

358
00:16:32,480 --> 00:16:34,840
Speaker 3: am Jaysock. And I was going to say, speaking of

359
00:16:34,880 --> 00:16:39,360
Speaker 3: forny middle schoolers with the J sock, we know about this,

360
00:16:40,040 --> 00:16:44,640
Speaker 3: Will Jackson going yeah, if I held it in, and

361
00:16:44,720 --> 00:16:47,280
Speaker 3: that's what made me laugh, And I was like, maybe not.

362
00:16:47,800 --> 00:16:50,120
Speaker 1: All the people sixers used to have that baseball sock

363
00:16:50,200 --> 00:16:53,920
Speaker 1: that you know? Hey, come on, uh, Joey Estrada thirty

364
00:16:53,960 --> 00:16:56,440
Speaker 1: eight eighty seven on YouTube, you boys really know how

365
00:16:56,480 --> 00:16:57,280
Speaker 1: to run a podcast.

366
00:16:57,320 --> 00:16:59,320
Speaker 2: Out there we go shout out Joey Estrada as.

367
00:16:59,200 --> 00:17:02,000
Speaker 1: Someone who listens to podcast ten plus hours a day

368
00:17:02,040 --> 00:17:05,440
Speaker 1: while at work. Obviously top podcast being for the Dad's

369
00:17:05,480 --> 00:17:08,280
Speaker 1: Bust with the Boys and Inside the Bus. You guys

370
00:17:08,320 --> 00:17:10,280
Speaker 1: just really know how to give it a good family feeling.

371
00:17:10,320 --> 00:17:12,720
Speaker 1: Some of the most best, best and realistic advice I've

372
00:17:12,720 --> 00:17:15,280
Speaker 1: heard and stuff will carry on four years and pass

373
00:17:15,320 --> 00:17:18,120
Speaker 1: on to my children whenever that day comes. I appreciate

374
00:17:18,160 --> 00:17:20,240
Speaker 1: all the good laughs and cries. It feels so good

375
00:17:20,280 --> 00:17:23,160
Speaker 1: just to let the emotions out, sometimes buying some merch

376
00:17:23,280 --> 00:17:25,639
Speaker 1: next week when the paycheck kits. You guys continue the

377
00:17:25,680 --> 00:17:29,119
Speaker 1: good work and manting blessings to all and to all

378
00:17:29,240 --> 00:17:32,199
Speaker 1: of y'all and your families. Joey, thank you, bro.

379
00:17:32,359 --> 00:17:34,160
Speaker 2: What last name of Joey? What was it?

380
00:17:34,520 --> 00:17:38,040
Speaker 3: Estrada astrada That is, he is a fan that we

381
00:17:38,200 --> 00:17:41,080
Speaker 3: like to call around here a Tier one sick o. Yeah,

382
00:17:41,160 --> 00:17:44,000
Speaker 3: he just named every single platform, every single show that

383
00:17:44,080 --> 00:17:45,240
Speaker 3: Bust with the Boys and when.

384
00:17:45,160 --> 00:17:48,000
Speaker 1: You are in the Inside the Bus world, which again

385
00:17:48,119 --> 00:17:50,720
Speaker 1: Inside the Bus podcast is a show by all the

386
00:17:50,720 --> 00:17:52,679
Speaker 1: guys on the back of the bus, the guys behind

387
00:17:52,680 --> 00:17:55,560
Speaker 1: the camera back in the production area doing the work.

388
00:17:55,640 --> 00:17:58,120
Speaker 1: They also have a podcast of their own, So when

389
00:17:58,119 --> 00:18:00,720
Speaker 1: you are covering it top to bottom that way. That

390
00:18:00,840 --> 00:18:03,000
Speaker 1: is what we call a Tier one s That's a

391
00:18:03,040 --> 00:18:06,280
Speaker 1: Tier one sick. Thank you, Joey Estrada. I can't wait

392
00:18:06,320 --> 00:18:07,760
Speaker 1: to tell the guys at the back of the bus.

393
00:18:07,960 --> 00:18:08,320
Speaker 2: Yeah.

394
00:18:08,400 --> 00:18:11,439
Speaker 1: And for the dads they're talking about inside the bus. Yeah,

395
00:18:11,680 --> 00:18:14,000
Speaker 1: And first and foremost, this pot is for the boys

396
00:18:14,000 --> 00:18:15,680
Speaker 1: out there. For the dads, I know, we get a

397
00:18:15,720 --> 00:18:17,920
Speaker 1: lot of moms and a lot of wives and women

398
00:18:18,040 --> 00:18:20,760
Speaker 1: kind of listening with their significant other. I love that

399
00:18:20,800 --> 00:18:23,040
Speaker 1: the dads and the men are so tapped in that

400
00:18:23,359 --> 00:18:25,479
Speaker 1: all these nicknames they kind of make sense or they

401
00:18:25,520 --> 00:18:26,040
Speaker 1: might chuckle on.

402
00:18:26,080 --> 00:18:27,720
Speaker 2: The wives are like, man, they just have so.

403
00:18:27,720 --> 00:18:32,600
Speaker 1: Many, so many code names, so many nicknames, Like is

404
00:18:32,600 --> 00:18:35,199
Speaker 1: this just what guys do? It is it's what the

405
00:18:35,240 --> 00:18:37,639
Speaker 1: boys do when we need nicknames for everything. When I'm

406
00:18:37,680 --> 00:18:41,000
Speaker 1: cutting clips, Speaking of cutting clips, I'm like some of

407
00:18:41,040 --> 00:18:44,040
Speaker 1: the clips, when I look through the lens of somebody

408
00:18:44,080 --> 00:18:46,760
Speaker 1: that doesn't listen to this podcast, I'm like, they think

409
00:18:46,880 --> 00:18:50,200
Speaker 1: we're speaking another language. Oh yeah, if you got boomers

410
00:18:50,200 --> 00:18:52,200
Speaker 1: out there to listen, which I'm sure some older dads

411
00:18:52,240 --> 00:18:53,919
Speaker 1: out there listen, they're like, you know, there might be

412
00:18:54,000 --> 00:18:57,040
Speaker 1: fascinated or curious in everything that we're talking about. We're

413
00:18:57,080 --> 00:18:59,240
Speaker 1: also putting them on game. But all the young dads

414
00:18:59,280 --> 00:19:03,560
Speaker 1: out there, the young the st sixers listening, even the

415
00:19:03,600 --> 00:19:06,359
Speaker 1: goon gooner berets that are out the goom berets that

416
00:19:06,400 --> 00:19:08,800
Speaker 1: are out there, like this is a this is the

417
00:19:08,880 --> 00:19:12,600
Speaker 1: language in our world. I will very quickly, very quickly,

418
00:19:12,640 --> 00:19:13,840
Speaker 1: got to keep it under an hour. And we do

419
00:19:13,920 --> 00:19:14,800
Speaker 1: have comments to get through.

420
00:19:15,040 --> 00:19:18,120
Speaker 3: We do have comments to get through. I got this

421
00:19:18,240 --> 00:19:22,800
Speaker 3: video sent to me from a PT sixer. Uh, speaking

422
00:19:22,840 --> 00:19:24,760
Speaker 3: of an older kind of boomer crowd.

423
00:19:25,119 --> 00:19:25,399
Speaker 1: Uh.

424
00:19:25,520 --> 00:19:28,320
Speaker 3: He went up to his coworker h and asked him

425
00:19:28,359 --> 00:19:31,199
Speaker 3: if he caught the latest episode PT six and this

426
00:19:31,240 --> 00:19:31,800
Speaker 3: is what he said.

427
00:19:31,840 --> 00:19:33,320
Speaker 2: Have you seen this? No?

428
00:19:33,400 --> 00:19:33,800
Speaker 1: I haven't.

429
00:19:33,840 --> 00:19:37,840
Speaker 2: Okay, Yo, Carl, you catch for the Dad's podcast yesterday?

430
00:19:37,960 --> 00:19:40,119
Speaker 2: What do you think I am a goon beret? Of

431
00:19:40,240 --> 00:19:42,800
Speaker 2: course I did Will's lesson of the Week with straight gas.

432
00:19:42,840 --> 00:19:48,320
Speaker 2: Homie knew you'd be on. Is that not crazy? That's crazy?

433
00:19:48,359 --> 00:19:50,720
Speaker 1: Even the boomers, even the boomers.

434
00:19:50,880 --> 00:19:52,439
Speaker 2: Wait, you think I am a goom beret.

435
00:19:52,680 --> 00:19:55,040
Speaker 1: I thought you were gonna tell me too. Uh. He

436
00:19:55,119 --> 00:19:56,800
Speaker 1: went up. We have an older gentleman who listens to

437
00:19:56,840 --> 00:19:58,240
Speaker 1: the pod. He went up to his buddy and asked

438
00:19:58,320 --> 00:19:59,879
Speaker 1: him if he could like teach him how to make

439
00:19:59,920 --> 00:20:03,920
Speaker 1: a video so he can make a video for us. Incredible,

440
00:20:04,119 --> 00:20:07,480
Speaker 1: Oh incredible, All right, let's die back in. Yes, Adrian

441
00:20:07,560 --> 00:20:12,320
Speaker 1: Hernandez the second junior here, what's up? Boys? This on Instagram.

442
00:20:12,320 --> 00:20:15,720
Speaker 1: My name's Adrian, new to Pt. Six. I'm a father

443
00:20:15,800 --> 00:20:17,080
Speaker 1: to a three year old boy and a two year

444
00:20:17,080 --> 00:20:19,119
Speaker 1: old girl. My wife just broke some horrible news to me.

445
00:20:19,480 --> 00:20:21,760
Speaker 1: She said she's packing her bags and taking away the

446
00:20:21,840 --> 00:20:28,800
Speaker 1: kids from me for the weekend. Wait, not the kid.

447
00:20:29,080 --> 00:20:33,760
Speaker 3: Adrian's gonna have to be home, basically home by himself,

448
00:20:33,960 --> 00:20:36,879
Speaker 3: having to just like take care of the house by himself.

449
00:20:37,200 --> 00:20:39,840
Speaker 1: Wife's leaving, She's taking the kids for a weekend, and

450
00:20:39,920 --> 00:20:44,760
Speaker 1: she won't be there to help him. Derek, it's here

451
00:20:44,800 --> 00:20:46,800
Speaker 1: we go. He's got more, He's got more.

452
00:20:46,920 --> 00:20:51,040
Speaker 2: Derek'sclus in his mind back there. It's all right, Derek.

453
00:20:52,080 --> 00:20:55,200
Speaker 1: I was at a loss for words. I couldn't speak.

454
00:20:56,160 --> 00:20:59,440
Speaker 1: How do I survive a weekend without them? We feel

455
00:20:59,480 --> 00:21:02,520
Speaker 1: that been there? Am I just supposed to grab my

456
00:21:02,520 --> 00:21:05,440
Speaker 1: favorite bottle whiskey and just play video games. I hate

457
00:21:05,440 --> 00:21:09,960
Speaker 1: so much all weekend? Am I just supposed to enjoy

458
00:21:10,000 --> 00:21:14,240
Speaker 1: the games now without interruptions. Football games. Oh god, it's

459
00:21:14,320 --> 00:21:17,560
Speaker 1: football season. Any helper guidance would be much appreciated through

460
00:21:17,600 --> 00:21:22,920
Speaker 1: this hard time. Anyways, cheers of the boys for the

461
00:21:23,000 --> 00:21:25,920
Speaker 1: last and cries. I love how much emotion you open

462
00:21:25,960 --> 00:21:32,119
Speaker 1: into these episodes. I'm gonna sincerely miss my wife and

463
00:21:32,240 --> 00:21:35,880
Speaker 1: children as they leave for a weekend, and she basically

464
00:21:35,960 --> 00:21:37,439
Speaker 1: rips the heart out of my chest and I have

465
00:21:37,480 --> 00:21:39,880
Speaker 1: to hang out along for a weekend. I did we

466
00:21:39,960 --> 00:21:41,959
Speaker 1: do joke around? We have a lot of fun on

467
00:21:42,000 --> 00:21:48,840
Speaker 1: this podcast. Yeah, just give it a give No, that's

468
00:21:48,880 --> 00:21:50,800
Speaker 1: all right, It's okay, chef, that's all right, chef.

469
00:21:50,840 --> 00:21:53,679
Speaker 2: We don't blame you, but go on. We like to

470
00:21:53,720 --> 00:21:55,960
Speaker 2: have a lot of fun. We like that. We like

471
00:21:56,000 --> 00:21:57,440
Speaker 2: to have a lot of fun on this podcast. We

472
00:21:57,560 --> 00:21:58,680
Speaker 2: like to joke around.

473
00:21:59,080 --> 00:22:03,240
Speaker 3: One thing I do want to say, moms, First off,

474
00:22:03,400 --> 00:22:06,000
Speaker 3: don't go out of town and don't take the kids

475
00:22:06,440 --> 00:22:06,920
Speaker 3: with you.

476
00:22:07,800 --> 00:22:12,320
Speaker 1: If there's one thing a dad needs and wants most,

477
00:22:12,600 --> 00:22:14,560
Speaker 1: it's for their wife and kids to be in town

478
00:22:14,600 --> 00:22:16,560
Speaker 1: on the weekend while football is on the TV.

479
00:22:16,800 --> 00:22:19,399
Speaker 3: But you know what the that was what the kicker

480
00:22:19,480 --> 00:22:21,440
Speaker 3: was because I was like, Hey, you know what, Adrian,

481
00:22:21,520 --> 00:22:22,480
Speaker 3: you can make it through.

482
00:22:23,000 --> 00:22:23,879
Speaker 2: It will be okay.

483
00:22:24,800 --> 00:22:27,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, you might have to get that favorite bottle of whiskey,

484
00:22:27,040 --> 00:22:28,680
Speaker 3: you might have to play that video game you hate

485
00:22:28,720 --> 00:22:31,919
Speaker 3: so much. But then when I realized that she so

486
00:22:32,040 --> 00:22:36,479
Speaker 3: selfishly chose a weekend in the fall, during football season

487
00:22:37,000 --> 00:22:41,240
Speaker 3: to leave, Yeah, that's the part that hit home, Adrian.

488
00:22:41,320 --> 00:22:48,160
Speaker 1: Man, tough times don't last. Tough people do. This isn't

489
00:22:48,200 --> 00:22:50,000
Speaker 1: the right way to go about it, but it's a

490
00:22:50,000 --> 00:22:52,880
Speaker 1: way that works for me at times, and it is.

491
00:22:52,960 --> 00:22:56,679
Speaker 1: It's it's grab an ice cold butt, let out of

492
00:22:56,680 --> 00:23:00,640
Speaker 1: the fridge. Yeah, crack it open. Yeah, kick your feet

493
00:23:00,720 --> 00:23:06,680
Speaker 1: up in whatever couch, recliner, whatever you have. Man, Oh,

494
00:23:07,760 --> 00:23:10,680
Speaker 1: watch that football because as much as you don't want

495
00:23:10,720 --> 00:23:12,560
Speaker 1: to do it and don't like to do it while

496
00:23:12,560 --> 00:23:15,560
Speaker 1: your wife and kids are out of town, that'll help

497
00:23:15,680 --> 00:23:21,400
Speaker 1: keep you together and keep and keep the pain at bay. Yeah. Well,

498
00:23:21,680 --> 00:23:24,439
Speaker 1: maybe get a full twelve hours, ten hours of sleep,

499
00:23:24,720 --> 00:23:26,959
Speaker 1: Maybe stay up and play video games with your boys.

500
00:23:27,000 --> 00:23:31,119
Speaker 1: There's not a wrong there's not a wrong decision to

501
00:23:31,160 --> 00:23:34,080
Speaker 1: make in it during a time like that. Just know

502
00:23:34,160 --> 00:23:35,960
Speaker 1: that we are all with you, and we are all

503
00:23:36,000 --> 00:23:41,679
Speaker 1: thinking about you, and man, dads hate when their wife

504
00:23:41,680 --> 00:23:43,520
Speaker 1: and kids go out of town for the weekend.

505
00:23:44,680 --> 00:23:46,080
Speaker 2: Hey, Dree, I'm so sorry, dude.

506
00:23:46,080 --> 00:23:48,080
Speaker 3: And I know that staying up late like that, that's

507
00:23:48,080 --> 00:23:51,120
Speaker 3: gonna cause him probably to sleep in, so then he's

508
00:23:51,119 --> 00:23:53,480
Speaker 3: gonna be behind on meals when he wakes up in

509
00:23:53,480 --> 00:23:56,159
Speaker 3: the morning, he's probably gonna have to order takeout for breakfast.

510
00:23:57,320 --> 00:23:59,639
Speaker 1: He's gonna have to order takeout for break Takeouts not

511
00:23:59,720 --> 00:24:03,080
Speaker 1: the end answer, but sometimes takeout is the answer. It

512
00:24:03,160 --> 00:24:08,600
Speaker 1: might be his only option right now. Maybe it's pizza.

513
00:24:08,880 --> 00:24:13,400
Speaker 1: Nothing gets shittier than having a weekend solo watching football,

514
00:24:13,440 --> 00:24:17,240
Speaker 1: playing video video games, staying up late, sleeping in, and

515
00:24:17,280 --> 00:24:20,480
Speaker 1: eating with icy cold bud light and wings and pizza.

516
00:24:21,160 --> 00:24:23,679
Speaker 6: Can I tell you, guys why we're like a circle

517
00:24:23,720 --> 00:24:25,399
Speaker 6: of trust? You guys are my three best friends on

518
00:24:25,400 --> 00:24:25,760
Speaker 6: the planet.

519
00:24:25,800 --> 00:24:27,639
Speaker 2: Yeah. Can I tell you why this hits home so

520
00:24:27,720 --> 00:24:28,960
Speaker 2: hard to me? Yeah?

521
00:24:29,040 --> 00:24:32,840
Speaker 6: I don't have a kid, but my fiance is going

522
00:24:32,840 --> 00:24:35,639
Speaker 6: to Cincinnati for the weekend a wedding dress shop. No,

523
00:24:36,040 --> 00:24:39,080
Speaker 6: and my mom's meeting her there, and she's taking the

524
00:24:39,160 --> 00:24:43,120
Speaker 6: niece and nephew from their dad, and they're all going

525
00:24:43,119 --> 00:24:44,199
Speaker 6: to Cincinnati together.

526
00:24:44,680 --> 00:24:45,800
Speaker 2: So he's home alone. Too.

527
00:24:45,920 --> 00:24:49,080
Speaker 6: He's home alone too. Man, I'm holdlone all weekend and

528
00:24:49,240 --> 00:24:51,879
Speaker 6: I have ten guys coming over. It's a little support

529
00:24:51,880 --> 00:24:55,120
Speaker 6: group to play poker. They're they're just they're showing up. Yeah,

530
00:24:55,160 --> 00:25:00,880
Speaker 6: And I guess I'll just drink beer tomorrow and hang out.

531
00:25:01,040 --> 00:25:01,760
Speaker 2: Yeah.

532
00:25:01,800 --> 00:25:05,080
Speaker 1: So whenever, ad but it hits home when everybody leaves town.

533
00:25:05,119 --> 00:25:06,360
Speaker 1: Get your boys over man.

534
00:25:07,720 --> 00:25:09,240
Speaker 2: And shout out that group of guys.

535
00:25:09,280 --> 00:25:11,679
Speaker 1: Man, that's what this podcast is built on, is that

536
00:25:11,680 --> 00:25:14,960
Speaker 1: that kind of community shout out.

537
00:25:15,440 --> 00:25:17,680
Speaker 2: I got a On a lighter side.

538
00:25:18,280 --> 00:25:22,080
Speaker 1: A comment from Kyle pt six for Life from from

539
00:25:22,400 --> 00:25:24,640
Speaker 1: x dot com. That's his user name, by the way,

540
00:25:24,960 --> 00:25:28,399
Speaker 1: that just read Kyle pt six for life. Let's a

541
00:25:28,560 --> 00:25:31,880
Speaker 1: sink in. Yeah, I love it. He starts it off

542
00:25:31,880 --> 00:25:35,119
Speaker 1: with fuck boys. That last episode got me good.

543
00:25:35,720 --> 00:25:38,200
Speaker 3: You guys got the mailman out here crying on ring

544
00:25:38,320 --> 00:25:41,639
Speaker 3: cameras not cool. Will thank you for sharing such a

545
00:25:41,640 --> 00:25:44,800
Speaker 3: personal moment. This show has helped me in many ways

546
00:25:44,840 --> 00:25:48,399
Speaker 3: as a new dad of six month old Aria. Thanks

547
00:25:48,400 --> 00:25:51,159
Speaker 3: for everything. Been listening from the beginning. Get the trash

548
00:25:51,240 --> 00:25:55,640
Speaker 3: to the curb boys, wolf emoji. I got another one

549
00:25:55,880 --> 00:26:00,040
Speaker 3: that's one that gets that will get your Yeah. I

550
00:26:00,680 --> 00:26:02,400
Speaker 3: hit you your electricity bill.

551
00:26:03,040 --> 00:26:03,920
Speaker 1: Running from the Dog.

552
00:26:05,520 --> 00:26:08,680
Speaker 3: Mark Gonzalez two six nine eight on YouTube says, as

553
00:26:08,680 --> 00:26:11,480
Speaker 3: a twenty five year old dad, I had my first

554
00:26:11,520 --> 00:26:14,440
Speaker 3: when I was eighteen. I can say one hundred percent

555
00:26:14,440 --> 00:26:17,240
Speaker 3: agree embrace the fatherhood. Of course, I've come a long

556
00:26:17,320 --> 00:26:20,160
Speaker 3: way and got ways to go, but I've always tried

557
00:26:20,200 --> 00:26:23,680
Speaker 3: my best, which is all you can do, and also learn,

558
00:26:24,160 --> 00:26:26,919
Speaker 3: learned to want to learn. I wish I had this

559
00:26:26,960 --> 00:26:30,760
Speaker 3: podcast years ago because this podcast gets me absolutely pumped

560
00:26:31,000 --> 00:26:34,640
Speaker 3: to go home to my kids. And last but not least,

561
00:26:34,680 --> 00:26:38,439
Speaker 3: we have Ray Maddix on Instagram. He says, love the

562
00:26:38,520 --> 00:26:40,840
Speaker 3: pod and have a question for the boys, how do

563
00:26:40,920 --> 00:26:44,040
Speaker 3: you get your kid to eat what's for dinner? My

564
00:26:44,160 --> 00:26:45,720
Speaker 3: daughter's a one and a half year old, and a

565
00:26:45,720 --> 00:26:51,640
Speaker 3: few months ago she would munch on anything from ribbone, steak, chicken, anything.

566
00:26:52,000 --> 00:26:54,879
Speaker 3: Now she won't to eat a thing but bullshit fried

567
00:26:54,920 --> 00:26:58,639
Speaker 3: food from restaurants for fast food chains. I appreciate the

568
00:26:58,640 --> 00:26:59,919
Speaker 3: help fellas that came from Ray.

569
00:27:00,680 --> 00:27:04,040
Speaker 1: I love the Ray Maddox because I have I have

570
00:27:04,119 --> 00:27:05,760
Speaker 1: some One of my updates that I was going to

571
00:27:05,800 --> 00:27:08,280
Speaker 1: talk about is the dinner time routine and the expectation

572
00:27:08,480 --> 00:27:11,000
Speaker 1: that we've kind of set at home where you kind

573
00:27:11,000 --> 00:27:12,720
Speaker 1: of motivate her a little bit with the cookie. And

574
00:27:12,720 --> 00:27:14,840
Speaker 1: when I say cookie, it's like a it's like these

575
00:27:14,840 --> 00:27:17,600
Speaker 1: little cookies and then you break a when she gets

576
00:27:17,600 --> 00:27:19,879
Speaker 1: a cookie, it's they're that big, Yeah, and they're broken

577
00:27:19,920 --> 00:27:21,800
Speaker 1: in half. And then that's her one cookie for the night.

578
00:27:21,840 --> 00:27:22,040
Speaker 5: Yeah.

579
00:27:22,080 --> 00:27:27,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, but that question right there. One and a half.

580
00:27:27,800 --> 00:27:31,640
Speaker 1: This is a good phase where hey, eat your food

581
00:27:31,720 --> 00:27:33,080
Speaker 1: or the tickle monster is going to get you, and

582
00:27:33,119 --> 00:27:34,480
Speaker 1: you get out the you know, you get at the

583
00:27:34,520 --> 00:27:36,760
Speaker 1: little spider hand and you crawl close and they start giggling.

584
00:27:36,800 --> 00:27:38,720
Speaker 1: Hurry up and eat your food. If it's like a

585
00:27:38,840 --> 00:27:41,439
Speaker 1: broccoli or chicken, whatever you're having for dinner, whatever you're

586
00:27:41,440 --> 00:27:43,000
Speaker 1: wanting to get them to eat for the main entre.

587
00:27:43,960 --> 00:27:47,760
Speaker 1: That's worked for me getting up out of my seated

588
00:27:47,800 --> 00:27:49,879
Speaker 1: dinner time and kind of like giving her a moment

589
00:27:49,920 --> 00:27:51,960
Speaker 1: to chew, and I go around the table and I

590
00:27:52,040 --> 00:27:54,680
Speaker 1: slowly start to approach her as the tickle monster is

591
00:27:54,720 --> 00:27:57,120
Speaker 1: going to get her. But if she eats the food quick,

592
00:27:57,359 --> 00:28:01,320
Speaker 1: tickle monster falls down, goes away, takes the power away,

593
00:28:01,320 --> 00:28:03,240
Speaker 1: takes the power away. But then at the end of

594
00:28:03,240 --> 00:28:05,400
Speaker 1: the chewing, the tickle monster starts to get power again.

595
00:28:05,520 --> 00:28:08,800
Speaker 1: Come back, come back to the one and a half. Yu, Yeah,

596
00:28:09,200 --> 00:28:12,919
Speaker 1: that could be a method. It is tough, dude. It

597
00:28:13,000 --> 00:28:15,760
Speaker 1: is like negotiating with the terrorists. Man, Yes, you're trying

598
00:28:15,800 --> 00:28:18,040
Speaker 1: to get your kids to eat. But my update on

599
00:28:18,160 --> 00:28:20,760
Speaker 1: Rue is now it's got you know, you know how

600
00:28:20,800 --> 00:28:24,199
Speaker 1: I said, like, we had those moments where I just

601
00:28:24,240 --> 00:28:26,159
Speaker 1: tell her, I'm like, Okay, yeah, you don't sweetheart, you

602
00:28:26,160 --> 00:28:26,720
Speaker 1: don't have to eat.

603
00:28:26,760 --> 00:28:27,640
Speaker 2: You can be all done eating.

604
00:28:27,800 --> 00:28:30,920
Speaker 1: But then she's like she kind of feels that we're

605
00:28:30,960 --> 00:28:33,680
Speaker 1: not giving her anything that she's wanting. In that moment,

606
00:28:33,720 --> 00:28:36,560
Speaker 1: which is maybe some pushback or resistance or kind of

607
00:28:36,560 --> 00:28:39,680
Speaker 1: fighting with her about it or negotiating with her about it,

608
00:28:40,360 --> 00:28:42,000
Speaker 1: she kind of just pauses and looks at me and

609
00:28:42,000 --> 00:28:46,440
Speaker 1: she's like, do I get a cookie? And in the beginning,

610
00:28:46,480 --> 00:28:48,440
Speaker 1: it was like, no, sweetheart, you won't get a cookie

611
00:28:48,480 --> 00:28:50,600
Speaker 1: unless you're part of the CPC, the Clean Plate Club.

612
00:28:51,440 --> 00:28:55,080
Speaker 1: Now fast forward a couple of weeks, the standard is

613
00:28:55,120 --> 00:28:58,520
Speaker 1: the standard. Now I just simply, you know, mom or Dad,

614
00:28:58,560 --> 00:29:01,080
Speaker 1: we simply all we have to do is like, you know,

615
00:29:01,160 --> 00:29:04,040
Speaker 1: if I'm about to tell Rude to eat something, Charles,

616
00:29:04,080 --> 00:29:05,800
Speaker 1: stop me. Or Charles's about to tell it to eat something.

617
00:29:05,840 --> 00:29:08,000
Speaker 1: I'll stop charing. We'll just say, hey, they don't have

618
00:29:08,040 --> 00:29:09,280
Speaker 1: to eat. They don't have to eat their food.

619
00:29:09,280 --> 00:29:09,600
Speaker 2: Sweet ar.

620
00:29:09,680 --> 00:29:11,000
Speaker 1: You can be done eating. You can go to sell

621
00:29:11,040 --> 00:29:12,600
Speaker 1: on the couch, you can play, you can do whatever

622
00:29:12,640 --> 00:29:14,640
Speaker 1: you want. You don't have to eat anymore. If you

623
00:29:14,640 --> 00:29:17,000
Speaker 1: want to be done, you can be done. But you

624
00:29:17,040 --> 00:29:20,160
Speaker 1: know there's no cookie, so and that is what usually

625
00:29:20,200 --> 00:29:21,960
Speaker 1: gets rude to kind of think about it for a moment.

626
00:29:22,040 --> 00:29:23,720
Speaker 1: She might take a minute, but she comes back around,

627
00:29:23,720 --> 00:29:26,200
Speaker 1: she eats her food, and now we don't even have

628
00:29:26,240 --> 00:29:29,400
Speaker 1: to say the cookie part. Sweet Ar, you don't listen,

629
00:29:29,400 --> 00:29:31,360
Speaker 1: you know, be part of the clean plate club. That's fine,

630
00:29:31,360 --> 00:29:33,400
Speaker 1: but you know what the cost is. As long as

631
00:29:33,400 --> 00:29:35,640
Speaker 1: you know and understand that, you can be done if

632
00:29:35,680 --> 00:29:38,240
Speaker 1: your belly's full, but you won't get snacks, you won't like.

633
00:29:38,280 --> 00:29:39,640
Speaker 1: You can go play, you can go hang out. But

634
00:29:39,640 --> 00:29:40,960
Speaker 1: if you want to be done eating, you can be

635
00:29:41,000 --> 00:29:44,240
Speaker 1: done eating. And that's working. It's working. It's working. Rue

636
00:29:44,320 --> 00:29:45,840
Speaker 1: is three. I have a three year old and a

637
00:29:45,880 --> 00:29:50,200
Speaker 1: ten month old. For new listeners out there, yeah, that's huge,

638
00:29:50,440 --> 00:29:52,960
Speaker 1: big time. We feel really good about it. She's always

639
00:29:52,960 --> 00:29:55,680
Speaker 1: fired up when she eats her lunch too, like when

640
00:29:55,720 --> 00:29:57,640
Speaker 1: she comes home from school and she's like, oh, clean

641
00:29:57,680 --> 00:30:01,160
Speaker 1: plate club, or like yesterday she's like, I'm like, sweetheart,

642
00:30:01,160 --> 00:30:03,960
Speaker 1: how you know we were able? We lay in from

643
00:30:04,080 --> 00:30:06,479
Speaker 1: New York early afternoon. So I got to pick her

644
00:30:06,520 --> 00:30:08,800
Speaker 1: up yesterday from school. Yeah, so one picked her up

645
00:30:08,840 --> 00:30:11,880
Speaker 1: and surprise her, surprised her. I was gonna surprise her

646
00:30:11,920 --> 00:30:14,720
Speaker 1: with a flower. But I went to Walgreens thinking that

647
00:30:14,720 --> 00:30:16,800
Speaker 1: there would be flowers there, you know, like a time

648
00:30:16,840 --> 00:30:17,040
Speaker 1: to day.

649
00:30:17,080 --> 00:30:17,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, there's usually.

650
00:30:17,760 --> 00:30:19,640
Speaker 1: Flowers, like get her cheap little flower, bring it to her,

651
00:30:19,720 --> 00:30:23,320
Speaker 1: any sweetheart, give her a flower. There wasn't any flowers there,

652
00:30:23,320 --> 00:30:25,920
Speaker 1: So I got her like the small little snack, like

653
00:30:25,960 --> 00:30:28,400
Speaker 1: a little snack piece of candy, just to like fire

654
00:30:28,400 --> 00:30:28,640
Speaker 1: her up.

655
00:30:29,160 --> 00:30:29,640
Speaker 2: She'd be pump.

656
00:30:29,760 --> 00:30:31,680
Speaker 1: Dad was coming to pick her up. And then we

657
00:30:31,680 --> 00:30:33,720
Speaker 1: were kind of talking on the way home. I was like,

658
00:30:33,760 --> 00:30:34,800
Speaker 1: were you part of the clean play club?

659
00:30:34,880 --> 00:30:35,200
Speaker 2: She's like no.

660
00:30:35,400 --> 00:30:37,000
Speaker 1: I was like, you weren't part of the clean play club?

661
00:30:37,040 --> 00:30:39,960
Speaker 1: What happened? She's like, I didn't need the cucumbers. You

662
00:30:39,960 --> 00:30:42,240
Speaker 1: didn't need the cucumbers. We kind of slice them up

663
00:30:42,720 --> 00:30:45,840
Speaker 1: cucumbers because she usually enjoys them. She's like, no, I

664
00:30:45,880 --> 00:30:47,800
Speaker 1: was like, did you eat did you at least eat

665
00:30:47,800 --> 00:30:49,800
Speaker 1: a few cucumbers? She's like, no, I said, you didn't

666
00:30:49,840 --> 00:30:54,160
Speaker 1: eat one cucumber. No, sweetheart, you got to eat your cucumbers. Hey, listen,

667
00:30:54,240 --> 00:30:56,280
Speaker 1: Dad is not there when you're doing lunchtime. But just know,

668
00:30:56,320 --> 00:30:58,120
Speaker 1: if you got cucumbers in your lunch box, you don't

669
00:30:58,160 --> 00:31:00,440
Speaker 1: have to eat all of them, but it is. It

670
00:31:00,520 --> 00:31:02,480
Speaker 1: is good for your muscles, it's good for your brain

671
00:31:02,600 --> 00:31:05,600
Speaker 1: if you eat some cucumbers. Yeah, it's just food for thought.

672
00:31:06,040 --> 00:31:07,920
Speaker 1: Can just drive it home. But yeah, So that's an

673
00:31:08,000 --> 00:31:10,920
Speaker 1: update on some great question. By the way, great comment

674
00:31:11,000 --> 00:31:12,920
Speaker 1: that we got to hit there. Great question, but that

675
00:31:12,960 --> 00:31:14,680
Speaker 1: would be my advice for one and a half one

676
00:31:14,680 --> 00:31:16,840
Speaker 1: and a half year old around that time. You can

677
00:31:16,880 --> 00:31:20,720
Speaker 1: really tickle monsters alive and well in that stage of life.

678
00:31:20,760 --> 00:31:23,480
Speaker 1: So it's like utilizing that leveraging that power to get

679
00:31:23,520 --> 00:31:25,320
Speaker 1: them to that ad is gonna come.

680
00:31:27,080 --> 00:31:30,760
Speaker 2: Quick question for the boss man here as she gets older,

681
00:31:30,840 --> 00:31:33,640
Speaker 2: will you implement the you're not leaving the table when

682
00:31:33,680 --> 00:31:35,800
Speaker 2: I'm not leaving either until you take a couple of bites?

683
00:31:36,200 --> 00:31:38,479
Speaker 2: Uh plan. I don't know if anyone had to deal

684
00:31:38,520 --> 00:31:40,560
Speaker 2: with that as a kid. But that's a that's a

685
00:31:40,600 --> 00:31:45,560
Speaker 2: war for fucking attrition. I'll sit here until you move.

686
00:31:45,680 --> 00:31:46,920
Speaker 2: We're not leaving anywhere.

687
00:31:47,480 --> 00:31:50,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean we don't like Rue's always the last

688
00:31:50,800 --> 00:31:53,360
Speaker 1: one to finish eating right, Like Taro and I, we

689
00:31:53,360 --> 00:31:55,920
Speaker 1: were like, food's down, we're hungry, we're ready to go.

690
00:31:55,920 --> 00:31:58,520
Speaker 1: And scott Zilla she's an absolute menace with the food.

691
00:31:59,120 --> 00:32:01,200
Speaker 1: And when she's done, it's she's just she just she

692
00:32:01,600 --> 00:32:04,520
Speaker 1: knocks it off. Just you know she's done. You know

693
00:32:04,600 --> 00:32:07,680
Speaker 1: she's done. Oh yeah, but Roue always takes a moment.

694
00:32:07,680 --> 00:32:10,040
Speaker 1: But yeah, we sit there until she gets done, and

695
00:32:10,120 --> 00:32:12,480
Speaker 1: I'm like, sweetheart, we want cookies too. I get that

696
00:32:12,560 --> 00:32:14,680
Speaker 1: it can't have a cookie until you eat your food.

697
00:32:14,920 --> 00:32:17,600
Speaker 1: And we don't like we don't leave until until she's done,

698
00:32:17,680 --> 00:32:20,080
Speaker 1: unless it's like, you know, something pressing is happening, or

699
00:32:20,120 --> 00:32:22,960
Speaker 1: say we haven't eat dinner around six thirty instead of

700
00:32:23,000 --> 00:32:25,640
Speaker 1: six or five forty five, and we got to get

701
00:32:25,640 --> 00:32:28,120
Speaker 1: Scottie to bedtime, start doing the dishes and everything else.

702
00:32:28,120 --> 00:32:32,120
Speaker 1: But usually one parent's there until she gets rolling. Yeah,

703
00:32:32,160 --> 00:32:34,520
Speaker 1: but if she's like I'm too tired or having a

704
00:32:34,560 --> 00:32:37,600
Speaker 1: fit and she starts, you know, she knows when she

705
00:32:37,800 --> 00:32:40,480
Speaker 1: is getting tired or she's usually it as an excuse.

706
00:32:40,520 --> 00:32:43,080
Speaker 1: We'll say, okay, we can be done eating, but we're not.

707
00:32:43,200 --> 00:32:46,320
Speaker 1: There's no TV coupons tonight. There's no you know, you

708
00:32:46,400 --> 00:32:48,600
Speaker 1: name all the things where she might get you. There's

709
00:32:48,640 --> 00:32:52,200
Speaker 1: no juice, there's no snacks, there's no cookie like, there's

710
00:32:52,200 --> 00:32:56,120
Speaker 1: no playtime if you're tired and you're being this crazy

711
00:32:56,760 --> 00:32:58,960
Speaker 1: like let's go upstairs right now and get ready for bed.

712
00:32:59,400 --> 00:33:01,640
Speaker 1: That might a couple of times that's happened, or she

713
00:33:01,720 --> 00:33:03,000
Speaker 1: takes us up on it. She goes to bed and

714
00:33:03,000 --> 00:33:04,840
Speaker 1: then she sleeps. You know, she's like thirteen hours of

715
00:33:04,880 --> 00:33:08,200
Speaker 1: sleep and she was tired. But you'll kind of stop

716
00:33:08,320 --> 00:33:10,040
Speaker 1: on her tracks like hey, I thought you want to

717
00:33:10,040 --> 00:33:11,440
Speaker 1: go to bed. Come on, we got your milk, let's

718
00:33:11,480 --> 00:33:13,520
Speaker 1: go upstairs. And she's like I'm hungry. It's like, well,

719
00:33:13,560 --> 00:33:16,160
Speaker 1: you have your dinner, so she'll eat her dinner. So

720
00:33:16,200 --> 00:33:18,640
Speaker 1: there is like that. Yeah, there's a lot of patient

721
00:33:18,720 --> 00:33:19,600
Speaker 1: sitting in the pocket.

722
00:33:19,720 --> 00:33:21,760
Speaker 2: Five year old in me has had some battles and

723
00:33:21,920 --> 00:33:23,600
Speaker 2: she I don't know, maybe when I was younger, I

724
00:33:23,600 --> 00:33:25,160
Speaker 2: can't tell you when I was like six or seven,

725
00:33:26,440 --> 00:33:30,040
Speaker 2: when I was like seven or eight. Old John used

726
00:33:30,040 --> 00:33:31,520
Speaker 2: to sit there and just stare me down and goes,

727
00:33:31,800 --> 00:33:34,040
Speaker 2: I'll sit here all night, and it would just be

728
00:33:34,080 --> 00:33:36,040
Speaker 2: we would sit there in dead silence, and he was like,

729
00:33:36,080 --> 00:33:38,360
Speaker 2: all you got to do is take five bites and

730
00:33:38,360 --> 00:33:40,760
Speaker 2: it'd be something I hated, and I'd be like no,

731
00:33:41,240 --> 00:33:43,760
Speaker 2: and I all right, I'll sit right here, and it's

732
00:33:43,800 --> 00:33:46,960
Speaker 2: like that's it and he knows that. It's like it's

733
00:33:47,000 --> 00:33:50,800
Speaker 2: a what's the Wolf of Wall Street? Whoever talks first loses. Yeah.

734
00:33:50,840 --> 00:33:54,520
Speaker 2: He would sit there and I mean we for a

735
00:33:54,640 --> 00:33:57,200
Speaker 2: long time, and eventually I would get maybe I would

736
00:33:57,200 --> 00:33:58,720
Speaker 2: give in, or I would go up to bet. My

737
00:33:58,800 --> 00:34:01,320
Speaker 2: dad would finally be like nine o'clock, kids, my Dad's like,

738
00:34:01,440 --> 00:34:02,360
Speaker 2: just go to bed.

739
00:34:02,520 --> 00:34:03,280
Speaker 1: Yeah.

740
00:34:03,560 --> 00:34:05,280
Speaker 2: There's only gonna be two options from it.

741
00:34:06,160 --> 00:34:08,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, and uh it s as a parent, you're thinking

742
00:34:08,719 --> 00:34:10,840
Speaker 1: of all the things like that they won't do in

743
00:34:10,920 --> 00:34:14,000
Speaker 1: between dinner time and bedtime, and it's like, all right,

744
00:34:14,239 --> 00:34:16,520
Speaker 1: march your little ass upstairs, or march your little ass

745
00:34:16,520 --> 00:34:17,240
Speaker 1: in that room.

746
00:34:17,640 --> 00:34:18,160
Speaker 2: Yeah.

747
00:34:18,200 --> 00:34:21,759
Speaker 1: But yeah, you're sitting there and we're we're parents, like

748
00:34:21,800 --> 00:34:25,360
Speaker 1: we're I'll break like the parents leverage just bites of food,

749
00:34:26,080 --> 00:34:29,359
Speaker 1: say hey, three, give me three, Yeah, give me four,

750
00:34:29,719 --> 00:34:31,799
Speaker 1: and whenever his one and a half year old when

751
00:34:31,800 --> 00:34:34,000
Speaker 1: she's able to start kind of counting and they kind

752
00:34:34,040 --> 00:34:35,480
Speaker 1: of don't know then to go. Just like when you

753
00:34:35,520 --> 00:34:38,480
Speaker 1: witness Charro doing the jumping in the water or something

754
00:34:38,480 --> 00:34:39,960
Speaker 1: that Taylor's like, how many of the times do you

755
00:34:39,960 --> 00:34:41,640
Speaker 1: want to jump in? They can't count very high, So

756
00:34:41,719 --> 00:34:43,920
Speaker 1: we'll say, listen, you don't have to eat a lot,

757
00:34:43,960 --> 00:34:45,920
Speaker 1: but how many bites would you be willing to eat? Like,

758
00:34:45,960 --> 00:34:47,600
Speaker 1: you tell me how many bites, and that's what we'll do.

759
00:34:47,680 --> 00:34:50,000
Speaker 1: And they'll just randomly say like three or four and

760
00:34:50,040 --> 00:34:52,520
Speaker 1: they're like, You're like, all right, we can do that.

761
00:34:52,640 --> 00:34:54,719
Speaker 1: So that's a good tactic. You just gotta have You

762
00:34:54,760 --> 00:34:55,640
Speaker 1: gotta have a deep bag.

763
00:34:55,680 --> 00:34:57,960
Speaker 2: You gotta be creative when you're in that, when you're

764
00:34:58,000 --> 00:34:59,560
Speaker 2: in that faces.

765
00:34:59,840 --> 00:35:02,920
Speaker 3: We interrupt this episode to bring you one of our

766
00:35:03,000 --> 00:35:08,279
Speaker 3: favorite sponsors, True Classic. When it's to day at night,

767
00:35:09,000 --> 00:35:11,120
Speaker 3: Jilly Bean says, and you can all say it back

768
00:35:11,160 --> 00:35:15,200
Speaker 3: with me. She says, Sherman, go put on that T

769
00:35:15,320 --> 00:35:18,240
Speaker 3: shirt that you always get at Busting with the boys.

770
00:35:18,280 --> 00:35:20,240
Speaker 3: You got them all over the office. I say, honey,

771
00:35:20,239 --> 00:35:24,840
Speaker 3: that's my True Classic shirt. If it's me nice and snug,

772
00:35:25,080 --> 00:35:28,319
Speaker 3: it looks great. It's casual, yet has this really nice

773
00:35:28,360 --> 00:35:31,279
Speaker 3: appeal to it where you can throw some slacks on

774
00:35:31,320 --> 00:35:33,200
Speaker 3: with it, and you're walking into a nice restaurant. You

775
00:35:33,239 --> 00:35:37,600
Speaker 3: feel like you're dressed to impress. However, it is cold outside.

776
00:35:37,719 --> 00:35:39,399
Speaker 3: I get that. You're like, I don't want to wear

777
00:35:39,719 --> 00:35:42,719
Speaker 3: a shirt when it's freezing cold temperatures here in Nashville, Tennessee.

778
00:35:43,360 --> 00:35:47,760
Speaker 3: As winner quickly approaches. They also have hoodies. I'm rocking

779
00:35:47,800 --> 00:35:50,839
Speaker 3: one right now. They have pants, they have all kinds

780
00:35:50,840 --> 00:35:56,160
Speaker 3: of stuff, guys. True Classic has just launched a boy

781
00:35:56,280 --> 00:35:59,240
Speaker 3: line for the boy dad's out there you can match,

782
00:35:59,280 --> 00:36:02,240
Speaker 3: and honestly, it's way better than those awkward family photo

783
00:36:02,480 --> 00:36:05,920
Speaker 3: outfits or cheesy pajamas. You get to show up together,

784
00:36:06,040 --> 00:36:08,960
Speaker 3: feel comfortable, and actually look good doing it. The crazy

785
00:36:09,040 --> 00:36:12,719
Speaker 3: thing is True Classic has already sold over twenty five

786
00:36:13,040 --> 00:36:16,960
Speaker 3: million shirts to more than five million customers with over

787
00:36:16,960 --> 00:36:20,640
Speaker 3: two hundred thousand five star reviews, so I'm definitely not

788
00:36:20,800 --> 00:36:23,640
Speaker 3: the only dad who has figured this out. You can

789
00:36:23,680 --> 00:36:26,960
Speaker 3: find them at Amazon, Target, or even select Costco and

790
00:36:27,000 --> 00:36:31,440
Speaker 3: Sam's Club locations, or just head to True Classic dot com.

791
00:36:31,560 --> 00:36:37,080
Speaker 3: Forward slash for the dads. That's true, classic dot com

792
00:36:37,120 --> 00:36:41,680
Speaker 3: forward slash for the dads. Trust me, grab one and

793
00:36:41,719 --> 00:36:42,480
Speaker 3: you'll think me later.

794
00:36:43,719 --> 00:36:47,520
Speaker 1: I have a couple more djpac One on YouTube. Djpac

795
00:36:47,600 --> 00:36:50,400
Speaker 1: one will absolutely loot up. When he was telling us

796
00:36:50,400 --> 00:36:52,239
Speaker 1: about that twenty eight sweep counter, he needs to be

797
00:36:52,320 --> 00:36:55,040
Speaker 1: a coach later in life. We need an update. I

798
00:36:55,040 --> 00:36:57,080
Speaker 1: saw my man. He's like, hey, I got you. Yeah,

799
00:36:57,160 --> 00:37:00,200
Speaker 1: he sent a message in right talking about I don't

800
00:37:00,200 --> 00:37:01,279
Speaker 1: think where the game was.

801
00:37:01,320 --> 00:37:02,719
Speaker 2: He was talking about where the game was.

802
00:37:02,840 --> 00:37:05,520
Speaker 1: They played the day before the Red River shoot as

803
00:37:05,560 --> 00:37:10,960
Speaker 1: we're shooting. They play today as podcast. They play today now.

804
00:37:11,000 --> 00:37:13,480
Speaker 1: If you had an interest, take four our trip go

805
00:37:13,560 --> 00:37:18,640
Speaker 1: watching powder puff football third graders and fourth graders in Ardmore, Oklahoma. Yeah,

806
00:37:18,680 --> 00:37:20,040
Speaker 1: I think so. And he said he's going to give

807
00:37:20,120 --> 00:37:20,680
Speaker 1: that speech.

808
00:37:20,840 --> 00:37:25,319
Speaker 6: Sayatu, Oklahoma. Oh it's at the high school field. So

809
00:37:25,400 --> 00:37:28,319
Speaker 6: he said their flag football game is in Sayatuk, Oklahoma.

810
00:37:29,160 --> 00:37:33,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, shout out DJ pack One, come on, DJ Katie

811
00:37:34,200 --> 00:37:36,920
Speaker 1: Jo's and Hans from YouTube. I'm so happy to see

812
00:37:37,000 --> 00:37:40,239
Speaker 1: Jill's instructions while she is away. I am this mom

813
00:37:40,320 --> 00:37:43,239
Speaker 1: because it makes me feel better to leave lists and information.

814
00:37:43,800 --> 00:37:45,440
Speaker 1: I don't do it because I don't think my husband

815
00:37:45,480 --> 00:37:47,319
Speaker 1: can handle it. I do it for me and I

816
00:37:47,480 --> 00:37:50,040
Speaker 1: know it's crazy. I want to put a I want

817
00:37:50,040 --> 00:37:52,319
Speaker 1: to just put a pause on that one, because that's

818
00:37:52,360 --> 00:37:55,320
Speaker 1: a great one to talk about. Recap your weekend. Yes

819
00:37:55,640 --> 00:37:58,960
Speaker 1: as a as a solo parent. Yes, this one's from

820
00:37:59,000 --> 00:38:03,000
Speaker 1: Black Parsons g one E on YouTube. Love the podcast. Boys.

821
00:38:03,040 --> 00:38:05,000
Speaker 1: Just want to say the wife and I have been

822
00:38:05,040 --> 00:38:06,719
Speaker 1: trying to have a baby for the past year and

823
00:38:06,760 --> 00:38:09,320
Speaker 1: a half. It's had its ups and downs in definitely

824
00:38:09,360 --> 00:38:11,520
Speaker 1: a stressful time. I'll listen to Busting all the time.

825
00:38:11,560 --> 00:38:13,960
Speaker 1: I'll deliver my ups truck. But my first four the

826
00:38:14,000 --> 00:38:18,320
Speaker 1: Dets podcast was episode seventeen. Y'all got me crying and laughing,

827
00:38:18,400 --> 00:38:21,479
Speaker 1: looking goofy on everyone's ring cameras. Second little ring camera

828
00:38:21,520 --> 00:38:25,240
Speaker 1: shout out today. But more importantly, after listening to episode seventeen,

829
00:38:25,320 --> 00:38:27,640
Speaker 1: I found out twenty four hours later, I'm going to

830
00:38:27,880 --> 00:38:32,640
Speaker 1: be a no, no, yes, super pumped and just want

831
00:38:32,680 --> 00:38:34,440
Speaker 1: to say thank you for keeping me entertained throughout the

832
00:38:34,480 --> 00:38:37,440
Speaker 1: week at work and for all the advice. Any advice

833
00:38:37,480 --> 00:38:40,640
Speaker 1: to handling a pregnant, hormonal wife would be greatly appreciated.

834
00:38:40,719 --> 00:38:43,960
Speaker 1: Laugh out loud ps y'all know about our news before

835
00:38:44,000 --> 00:38:47,240
Speaker 1: any of our family and even our parents. Love y'all.

836
00:38:47,440 --> 00:38:50,240
Speaker 6: Well, just real quick, yes, so sorry, that is Blake Parsons.

837
00:38:50,320 --> 00:38:51,000
Speaker 6: I put a typo.

838
00:38:51,520 --> 00:38:52,799
Speaker 2: Oh, I'm so sorry. Okay.

839
00:38:52,800 --> 00:38:54,000
Speaker 6: I even told chef. I was like, I don't think

840
00:38:54,239 --> 00:38:55,640
Speaker 6: I fixed. That's a Blake Parson.

841
00:38:55,760 --> 00:38:58,160
Speaker 1: Blake. Just again, I read the prompter. I read the

842
00:38:58,200 --> 00:39:05,960
Speaker 1: tell prompter here that's yeah, yeah, oh the Black Parsons

843
00:39:06,040 --> 00:39:08,040
Speaker 1: aka Blake, Yeah, Blake Parsons.

844
00:39:08,080 --> 00:39:08,200
Speaker 5: Bro.

845
00:39:08,440 --> 00:39:10,799
Speaker 1: Thank you for tuning in. Thank you for hopefully being

846
00:39:10,800 --> 00:39:13,319
Speaker 1: a new listener who sticks around. I think you get

847
00:39:13,320 --> 00:39:15,719
Speaker 1: a lot of have a lot of fun with this podcast,

848
00:39:15,719 --> 00:39:17,680
Speaker 1: and then get a lot of stories and tips and

849
00:39:17,719 --> 00:39:21,240
Speaker 1: realize that you are part of a sick community. My advice,

850
00:39:21,280 --> 00:39:23,960
Speaker 1: we can give a couple couple easy ones, but you

851
00:39:24,000 --> 00:39:26,560
Speaker 1: can go back. I would say it would be very

852
00:39:26,560 --> 00:39:28,880
Speaker 1: fun for you to catch up on the podcast because

853
00:39:28,880 --> 00:39:32,120
Speaker 1: again we're only what eighteen nineteen deep now as you're

854
00:39:32,160 --> 00:39:34,759
Speaker 1: listening to this podcast, But there's a lot of good

855
00:39:34,800 --> 00:39:39,319
Speaker 1: info coming up. Cause Shurm, he was he wasn't a

856
00:39:39,400 --> 00:39:43,040
Speaker 1: dad yet when we started this podcast. Correct, Are you

857
00:39:43,280 --> 00:39:46,839
Speaker 1: just six weeks out from Scarlett Spurth. Yeah, six weeks

858
00:39:46,880 --> 00:39:48,960
Speaker 1: out from Scarlett spur So there's a lot of things

859
00:39:49,040 --> 00:39:52,560
Speaker 1: before that. We're I'm telling Shiram stuff. He's kind of

860
00:39:52,560 --> 00:39:54,799
Speaker 1: telling me what he's going through or dealing with with

861
00:39:54,840 --> 00:39:56,600
Speaker 1: the pregnant wife, not in like a negative way, but

862
00:39:56,680 --> 00:39:58,839
Speaker 1: just as we're sitting here talking about supporting your wife

863
00:39:58,880 --> 00:40:02,600
Speaker 1: and everything else. Obviously right when he has Scarlett, we've

864
00:40:02,600 --> 00:40:05,720
Speaker 1: been getting to go through Shrham's journey in real time.

865
00:40:06,320 --> 00:40:07,680
Speaker 1: It's scar scar is now.

866
00:40:08,000 --> 00:40:10,759
Speaker 2: Three months old, three months and some change, three months.

867
00:40:10,480 --> 00:40:13,440
Speaker 1: And some change almost three and a half. Three good,

868
00:40:13,960 --> 00:40:15,279
Speaker 1: and you can say three and a half, yeah, three

869
00:40:15,280 --> 00:40:17,719
Speaker 1: and a half she is.

870
00:40:19,280 --> 00:40:23,960
Speaker 3: It's been fourteen weeks, yeah, July third, so and then

871
00:40:24,080 --> 00:40:27,399
Speaker 3: we're October tenth, so yeah, yeah or something three months

872
00:40:27,400 --> 00:40:27,839
Speaker 3: in a week.

873
00:40:28,040 --> 00:40:29,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, but she.

874
00:40:31,640 --> 00:40:34,800
Speaker 3: It is fun thinking about when we started this podcast

875
00:40:34,840 --> 00:40:36,480
Speaker 3: and all the questions that I did have.

876
00:40:36,880 --> 00:40:38,880
Speaker 1: And it does help me still.

877
00:40:39,480 --> 00:40:43,120
Speaker 3: Some of the lessons that I learned from either comments

878
00:40:43,160 --> 00:40:47,880
Speaker 3: yourself are lessons of the week. So I would highly

879
00:40:47,920 --> 00:40:51,399
Speaker 3: advise going to the beginning of this podcast because there

880
00:40:51,440 --> 00:40:53,560
Speaker 3: are like a lot of good nuggets in there that

881
00:40:53,600 --> 00:40:57,920
Speaker 3: I still to this day, Like this is such a

882
00:40:57,960 --> 00:41:00,719
Speaker 3: fun show because we do how fun on here and

883
00:41:00,800 --> 00:41:03,399
Speaker 3: we joke around a lot, But there are a lot

884
00:41:03,440 --> 00:41:06,959
Speaker 3: of lessons that still to say, I'm like, damn, I'm

885
00:41:07,000 --> 00:41:10,720
Speaker 3: so lucky that I've kind of found my way into

886
00:41:10,800 --> 00:41:14,080
Speaker 3: this little community and that all these little lessons are

887
00:41:14,120 --> 00:41:15,280
Speaker 3: kind of floating in my brain.

888
00:41:15,320 --> 00:41:15,560
Speaker 2: Now.

889
00:41:15,680 --> 00:41:18,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, there's and we are not professionals. That's about no, no, no,

890
00:41:19,120 --> 00:41:22,279
Speaker 3: not experts, not experts, but we.

891
00:41:23,920 --> 00:41:25,759
Speaker 1: He has some nuggets every now and then, maybe a

892
00:41:25,800 --> 00:41:29,760
Speaker 1: little hack, little dad hack for finding some of this advice.

893
00:41:30,239 --> 00:41:32,239
Speaker 1: I would advise, if you don't want to listen to

894
00:41:32,280 --> 00:41:34,759
Speaker 1: all of them, go through each one and scroll the

895
00:41:34,800 --> 00:41:37,440
Speaker 1: comments section on YouTube. All ones are sticking out with

896
00:41:37,560 --> 00:41:40,480
Speaker 1: dad tips, whether it's like if they're alluding to us

897
00:41:40,520 --> 00:41:43,160
Speaker 1: talking about your pregnant wife or anything else, maybe it's

898
00:41:43,200 --> 00:41:46,080
Speaker 1: like okay, in this episode that seems like they're covering

899
00:41:46,120 --> 00:41:49,040
Speaker 1: these topics. Another one I would recommend, My wife just

900
00:41:49,040 --> 00:41:51,840
Speaker 1: actually got a DM yesterday, like a long DM of

901
00:41:52,800 --> 00:41:56,920
Speaker 1: somebody who found our IVF podcast. We did an IVF podcast,

902
00:41:57,239 --> 00:41:59,600
Speaker 1: a Mother's Day pod on the Bust and with the

903
00:41:59,640 --> 00:42:02,400
Speaker 1: Boys channel where my wife and I go through IVF

904
00:42:02,400 --> 00:42:05,360
Speaker 1: and we talk a lot about supporting during pregnancy and

905
00:42:05,400 --> 00:42:08,160
Speaker 1: a lot of those ups and downs during a process

906
00:42:08,239 --> 00:42:10,480
Speaker 1: like that. So i'd recommend something like that, but that

907
00:42:10,520 --> 00:42:12,000
Speaker 1: could be an easy way if you don't have time

908
00:42:12,080 --> 00:42:13,759
Speaker 1: or you don't want to go through back, go through

909
00:42:13,800 --> 00:42:17,880
Speaker 1: the entire catalog before that's would recommend, but just skim

910
00:42:17,920 --> 00:42:19,600
Speaker 1: through the comments and see some of the topics that

911
00:42:19,640 --> 00:42:21,319
Speaker 1: I talked about. When one kind of hits home, then

912
00:42:21,400 --> 00:42:23,160
Speaker 1: assume that it's probably going to be in that episode.

913
00:42:24,000 --> 00:42:27,480
Speaker 1: I love that, and uh, be there, be there for

914
00:42:27,520 --> 00:42:30,440
Speaker 1: your wife, have fun. It's gonna be a crazy journey.

915
00:42:30,480 --> 00:42:34,320
Speaker 1: You're gonna absolutely kill it. It's about connection, not strength. Yes, connection,

916
00:42:34,560 --> 00:42:36,840
Speaker 1: that's the biggest takeaway if you can have one mantrace,

917
00:42:36,920 --> 00:42:39,239
Speaker 1: but not about staying strong, being strong, kind of being

918
00:42:39,280 --> 00:42:43,200
Speaker 1: that male monotone, keeping everything suppressed inside. It's no talk

919
00:42:43,280 --> 00:42:46,359
Speaker 1: about talk through your emotions, talk about her. She wants

920
00:42:46,400 --> 00:42:49,879
Speaker 1: to be scene, felt and heard. And it's not about

921
00:42:49,880 --> 00:42:52,440
Speaker 1: staying strong. It's about reconnecting with your with your gal.

922
00:42:52,600 --> 00:42:56,480
Speaker 2: That was great. Where was that you? It's about connection,

923
00:42:56,600 --> 00:42:57,120
Speaker 2: not strength.

924
00:42:57,320 --> 00:42:58,640
Speaker 1: Well, yeah, I think we had Yeah, we had a

925
00:42:58,680 --> 00:43:00,840
Speaker 1: lesson we did at that one.

926
00:43:01,239 --> 00:43:03,719
Speaker 2: That's great.

927
00:43:04,920 --> 00:43:08,200
Speaker 1: Damn, that's really good. Going back to uh Katie, Jos

928
00:43:08,280 --> 00:43:11,239
Speaker 1: and Hans. She loved the instructions while Jewel's away she's

929
00:43:11,280 --> 00:43:14,520
Speaker 1: a mom makes her feel basically, I feel seen when

930
00:43:14,560 --> 00:43:16,920
Speaker 1: that gets said on the podcast. I don't do it

931
00:43:16,960 --> 00:43:19,160
Speaker 1: because I don't do it because I don't think my

932
00:43:19,239 --> 00:43:21,520
Speaker 1: husband can handle it. I do it for me, and

933
00:43:21,560 --> 00:43:24,919
Speaker 1: I know that's crazy. Give us a recap, bro break

934
00:43:25,000 --> 00:43:26,320
Speaker 1: us down last weekend.

935
00:43:26,800 --> 00:43:30,240
Speaker 3: Well, first off, is that the same Josen Hans from

936
00:43:30,440 --> 00:43:31,000
Speaker 3: last week?

937
00:43:32,560 --> 00:43:35,680
Speaker 2: We had a didn't we have a Josahans last week? Maybe?

938
00:43:35,880 --> 00:43:41,520
Speaker 1: So repeat offender, repeat missus Joshan, miss missus Jo's and Hans.

939
00:43:42,400 --> 00:43:45,400
Speaker 2: I love it. Yes, I labors.

940
00:43:44,960 --> 00:43:47,400
Speaker 1: Come out like Leonardo DiCaprio and a what was it

941
00:43:47,440 --> 00:43:48,800
Speaker 1: Once upon a Time in Hollywood?

942
00:43:49,000 --> 00:43:51,759
Speaker 2: Just coming up out of the chair. I do that.

943
00:43:52,120 --> 00:43:53,279
Speaker 1: That's exactly what I do.

944
00:43:53,400 --> 00:43:55,160
Speaker 3: Because we were I was reading it and then we

945
00:43:55,320 --> 00:43:57,719
Speaker 3: decided it was Josen Hans and then we went back

946
00:43:57,719 --> 00:44:00,880
Speaker 3: to Jo's and Hans. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, probably,

947
00:44:02,480 --> 00:44:05,200
Speaker 3: but yes, I uh to dive into that.

948
00:44:06,840 --> 00:44:11,000
Speaker 1: My crack cold one was the weekend with Scarscar.

949
00:44:12,200 --> 00:44:17,560
Speaker 3: It was Jill coming home to me, absolutely obliterating the

950
00:44:17,600 --> 00:44:22,919
Speaker 3: weekend alone with Scarscar the stories in the videos from

951
00:44:22,960 --> 00:44:26,040
Speaker 3: hanging out with Will at the Pumpkin Houses and Jill.

952
00:44:26,000 --> 00:44:30,680
Speaker 1: Calling me you have a great time. That was very fun.

953
00:44:30,760 --> 00:44:32,960
Speaker 1: It was kind of surreal. It was like a weird.

954
00:44:32,760 --> 00:44:36,960
Speaker 3: Moment of being out in public with a friend, but

955
00:44:37,239 --> 00:44:40,080
Speaker 3: like it's all about your kid, you know what I mean. Yeah,

956
00:44:40,239 --> 00:44:42,480
Speaker 3: like that was my first time really kind of being

957
00:44:42,560 --> 00:44:46,080
Speaker 3: out there in the wild. But like my I don't

958
00:44:46,080 --> 00:44:47,799
Speaker 3: know if you could tell, but my brain was on

959
00:44:48,120 --> 00:44:49,600
Speaker 3: Scarlet the entire time.

960
00:44:49,920 --> 00:44:52,439
Speaker 1: From a standpoint of allow, Yes, that's when I started

961
00:44:52,440 --> 00:44:54,920
Speaker 1: to rip the backpack. Yes, remember when I put the

962
00:44:55,000 --> 00:44:56,680
Speaker 1: through the backpack punt. You're like, buddy, you don't have

963
00:44:56,680 --> 00:44:58,560
Speaker 1: to put the bag. I'll put the backpack on for you.

964
00:44:58,960 --> 00:45:01,120
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh. I mean I was so sure, can

965
00:45:01,120 --> 00:45:02,440
Speaker 1: you turn around? I need to get this other bag?

966
00:45:02,480 --> 00:45:04,120
Speaker 1: And I'm like, you know, I turned around for him,

967
00:45:04,120 --> 00:45:06,439
Speaker 1: and he's on zipping getting stuff out of the bag.

968
00:45:06,640 --> 00:45:09,200
Speaker 1: I was like, no, wonder, Jill loves this. Yeah, that

969
00:45:09,360 --> 00:45:12,200
Speaker 1: was the most convenient thing in the entire world. And

970
00:45:12,239 --> 00:45:15,440
Speaker 1: shout out you for throwing the backpack on. But I

971
00:45:15,560 --> 00:45:19,400
Speaker 1: was so in my head, dude, because Jill wasn't there of.

972
00:45:19,360 --> 00:45:22,880
Speaker 3: Like I just kind of had her like voice in

973
00:45:22,920 --> 00:45:26,560
Speaker 3: my ear, just like what would would Jill be okay

974
00:45:26,600 --> 00:45:28,279
Speaker 3: if I was doing that? Like would she want me

975
00:45:28,360 --> 00:45:31,200
Speaker 3: to do that? She probably want me to turn the

976
00:45:31,239 --> 00:45:34,040
Speaker 3: stroller so the sun's not in Scarlet's face. And I'll

977
00:45:34,040 --> 00:45:36,680
Speaker 3: say it with Scarlet while Will is, you know, dancing

978
00:45:36,760 --> 00:45:42,000
Speaker 3: with Rue and Scottie and Charro was killing it as well.

979
00:45:43,200 --> 00:45:44,040
Speaker 2: But it was fun.

980
00:45:44,120 --> 00:45:46,400
Speaker 1: I did enjoy it, but the entire time I was

981
00:45:46,440 --> 00:45:49,680
Speaker 1: just kind of like, oh, you're operating, yeah, solo that.

982
00:45:49,880 --> 00:45:52,799
Speaker 1: I was like weirdly nervous with Scarlet, like out in

983
00:45:52,840 --> 00:45:53,360
Speaker 1: the wild.

984
00:45:54,200 --> 00:45:56,879
Speaker 2: But she crushed it. She did a really good joke.

985
00:45:57,000 --> 00:45:58,000
Speaker 1: She murdered it.

986
00:45:58,160 --> 00:46:01,160
Speaker 3: And I was overthinking the her falling asleep in the

987
00:46:01,160 --> 00:46:03,759
Speaker 3: car on the way there, and then I'm rolling up

988
00:46:03,800 --> 00:46:05,920
Speaker 3: and char was like, oh, she taking a nap, and

989
00:46:05,920 --> 00:46:08,400
Speaker 3: I'm like, oh fuck, she's not supposed to be taking

990
00:46:08,400 --> 00:46:10,600
Speaker 3: a nap, sherman, what are you doing.

991
00:46:10,719 --> 00:46:13,080
Speaker 1: It's like on the list she sleeps at these times. Yes,

992
00:46:13,480 --> 00:46:15,960
Speaker 1: I'm picking up Scarlet and I'm like, please stay awake,

993
00:46:16,000 --> 00:46:19,120
Speaker 1: please stay awake. But I mean I was overthinking it,

994
00:46:19,480 --> 00:46:21,200
Speaker 1: you know, because they all ended up great.

995
00:46:21,320 --> 00:46:23,279
Speaker 2: She slept every single day.

996
00:46:23,280 --> 00:46:26,040
Speaker 3: It was only two nights I was by myself, but

997
00:46:26,160 --> 00:46:28,640
Speaker 3: she slept all the way through the night both nights,

998
00:46:29,080 --> 00:46:29,920
Speaker 3: which is crazy.

999
00:46:30,000 --> 00:46:30,960
Speaker 2: Shout out to Merlin.

1000
00:46:31,360 --> 00:46:34,680
Speaker 1: We put a graphic out for Will Howard and his parents.

1001
00:46:35,760 --> 00:46:36,560
Speaker 2: Hey, shout out.

1002
00:46:36,480 --> 00:46:41,520
Speaker 1: The Steelers pets, Big Steelers, future Hall of Famer Will Howard.

1003
00:46:42,640 --> 00:46:47,560
Speaker 1: But uh, dude, the Merlin rips. Scarlett's sleeping like a

1004
00:46:47,680 --> 00:46:48,279
Speaker 1: champ in it.

1005
00:46:48,560 --> 00:46:52,080
Speaker 3: And I'm not gonna lie that first morning when I

1006
00:46:52,120 --> 00:46:55,360
Speaker 3: woke up, I legitimately was in a panic because I

1007
00:46:55,440 --> 00:46:55,759
Speaker 3: was like.

1008
00:46:56,400 --> 00:47:00,719
Speaker 1: I slept through Olliver crying. Yeah, she had to have

1009
00:47:00,760 --> 00:47:02,920
Speaker 1: cried last night. And I have the monitor up. Oh

1010
00:47:03,200 --> 00:47:04,680
Speaker 1: that's happened to me a couple of times when I'm

1011
00:47:04,680 --> 00:47:05,359
Speaker 1: so low, And.

1012
00:47:05,280 --> 00:47:07,760
Speaker 3: I know that Jill has that app even though she's

1013
00:47:08,000 --> 00:47:12,080
Speaker 3: in Miami. She can get on the nanat app and

1014
00:47:12,160 --> 00:47:15,439
Speaker 3: you can go through the highlights of the night on

1015
00:47:15,480 --> 00:47:20,080
Speaker 3: the Nano app. That's a dad hacking itself. Yeah, so

1016
00:47:20,320 --> 00:47:24,799
Speaker 3: sick survival kit. But I went through the highlights, did

1017
00:47:24,840 --> 00:47:29,160
Speaker 3: not stir, didn't stir. So I had the monitor on,

1018
00:47:29,239 --> 00:47:30,080
Speaker 3: I had the volume up.

1019
00:47:30,239 --> 00:47:33,000
Speaker 1: Which is big time for parents out there that kind

1020
00:47:33,000 --> 00:47:35,759
Speaker 1: of either remember those days or kind of just got

1021
00:47:35,800 --> 00:47:38,719
Speaker 1: out of them or in them right now. Scar scars around,

1022
00:47:38,880 --> 00:47:40,880
Speaker 1: you know, three months and some change, you're kind of

1023
00:47:40,880 --> 00:47:43,400
Speaker 1: around that moment to where they could potentially start sleeping

1024
00:47:43,440 --> 00:47:45,680
Speaker 1: through the night. Sure, met a couple of big dubs

1025
00:47:45,719 --> 00:47:47,440
Speaker 1: over the weekend, which fires me up for you.

1026
00:47:47,600 --> 00:47:50,160
Speaker 3: Jill's calling me, She's like, you haven't really told me

1027
00:47:50,200 --> 00:47:53,560
Speaker 3: about like the park with Will, Like how was it?

1028
00:47:53,640 --> 00:47:56,719
Speaker 1: Like, how was saying with the check out, have some

1029
00:47:56,800 --> 00:47:59,480
Speaker 1: fun in me? And yeah's met CALLI.

1030
00:47:59,320 --> 00:48:04,759
Speaker 2: He's god, get some heat those I was like, yo,

1031
00:48:04,920 --> 00:48:05,439
Speaker 2: chill out.

1032
00:48:05,480 --> 00:48:07,839
Speaker 1: He's all good, like we have fun type shit.

1033
00:48:10,000 --> 00:48:10,960
Speaker 2: You don't need to worry.

1034
00:48:11,600 --> 00:48:14,000
Speaker 3: We crushed it. And then obviously when she got I

1035
00:48:14,040 --> 00:48:15,560
Speaker 3: told her all about it, because too, when.

1036
00:48:15,480 --> 00:48:17,200
Speaker 1: You're when you're so like when you're going out and

1037
00:48:17,239 --> 00:48:20,160
Speaker 1: hanging out with us, it's uh, you know, it's spooktober.

1038
00:48:20,800 --> 00:48:23,880
Speaker 1: We're at the we're at cheek Wood, sick little setup

1039
00:48:23,920 --> 00:48:26,920
Speaker 1: with the pumpkins everywhere, the food trucks, the live music.

1040
00:48:27,320 --> 00:48:29,000
Speaker 1: There's a part of you too that's like, ah, man,

1041
00:48:29,120 --> 00:48:31,239
Speaker 1: like I know my wife would love to be here

1042
00:48:31,320 --> 00:48:33,239
Speaker 1: right now, and I'm getting out and this is like

1043
00:48:33,280 --> 00:48:35,200
Speaker 1: my first time going to this park where it would

1044
00:48:35,200 --> 00:48:37,040
Speaker 1: have been a great first family time to go to

1045
00:48:37,080 --> 00:48:39,279
Speaker 1: this park. Yeah, so I feel. And then when you're

1046
00:48:39,320 --> 00:48:41,759
Speaker 1: on the phone, you're like, we had fun. You're not

1047
00:48:41,800 --> 00:48:44,560
Speaker 1: trying to dude it was awesome because you don't want

1048
00:48:44,560 --> 00:48:46,960
Speaker 1: to bum them out. It's more like, hey, this is

1049
00:48:47,000 --> 00:48:48,000
Speaker 1: a place we gotta go.

1050
00:48:48,280 --> 00:48:51,520
Speaker 3: Yes, And I did have a different dad loss which

1051
00:48:51,560 --> 00:48:53,440
Speaker 3: I can go into when we get there. By a

1052
00:48:53,520 --> 00:48:57,480
Speaker 3: small dad loss I learned very quickly was after I

1053
00:48:57,600 --> 00:49:00,560
Speaker 3: dropped off Jill at the airport on Friday and recorded

1054
00:49:00,600 --> 00:49:04,480
Speaker 3: with y'all. And y'all remember how I was bragging of, like, Yo,

1055
00:49:04,640 --> 00:49:08,400
Speaker 3: Scarlet killed the morning nap and like killed it with

1056
00:49:08,400 --> 00:49:14,880
Speaker 3: the babysitter. Scarlet went into a two hour scream session,

1057
00:49:15,719 --> 00:49:20,400
Speaker 3: full on, like starting to turn purple scream session. I'm

1058
00:49:20,440 --> 00:49:22,400
Speaker 3: just sitting there, you know, holding her so close to

1059
00:49:22,440 --> 00:49:24,960
Speaker 3: my chest and rocking up and down, trying the walking

1060
00:49:25,000 --> 00:49:30,160
Speaker 3: in the neighborhood. That's not working. Jill gets on FaceTime

1061
00:49:30,200 --> 00:49:33,640
Speaker 3: as soon as she lands, is everything okay, blah blah blah. Well,

1062
00:49:33,840 --> 00:49:36,600
Speaker 3: you know, she she gave me hell for two hours there,

1063
00:49:36,640 --> 00:49:38,719
Speaker 3: but she's good. Now, what does that mean?

1064
00:49:39,080 --> 00:49:40,480
Speaker 2: What do you mean? She gave you help.

1065
00:49:41,160 --> 00:49:44,120
Speaker 3: I lied to her so fast and she knows when

1066
00:49:44,280 --> 00:49:47,480
Speaker 3: I lie. Yeah, I'm a bad liar. But yeah, I

1067
00:49:47,520 --> 00:49:49,960
Speaker 3: was like, I'm kidding, I can't. I'm sorry. That was

1068
00:49:50,040 --> 00:49:52,040
Speaker 3: not funny joke. And she did not give me.

1069
00:49:52,120 --> 00:49:55,160
Speaker 1: Hell. She's been great, she's been great, but.

1070
00:49:55,040 --> 00:49:56,800
Speaker 2: That was a dad loss that layer.

1071
00:49:56,840 --> 00:49:58,759
Speaker 1: Now. I was like, yeah, she was screaming real bad,

1072
00:49:58,760 --> 00:50:02,080
Speaker 1: and I switched up quick. How was your mental throughout

1073
00:50:02,080 --> 00:50:04,960
Speaker 1: the screenfest? Because I have a screamfest. I have a screamfest.

1074
00:50:05,040 --> 00:50:09,600
Speaker 1: Story mentals were good as far as the only thing

1075
00:50:09,600 --> 00:50:12,239
Speaker 1: that I hate about it is when Scarlet screams so

1076
00:50:12,440 --> 00:50:14,560
Speaker 1: much that it, uh and this is gonna be really

1077
00:50:14,600 --> 00:50:18,000
Speaker 1: bad radio, but it like literally turns into like a.

1078
00:50:20,400 --> 00:50:21,319
Speaker 2: And then the face just.

1079
00:50:21,719 --> 00:50:24,800
Speaker 3: Turns purple because she's not breathing, like because her scream

1080
00:50:24,880 --> 00:50:27,799
Speaker 3: that has gone so long that she didn't just sit there.

1081
00:50:27,520 --> 00:50:32,800
Speaker 1: Like and I'm like, breathe please, oh my god.

1082
00:50:33,600 --> 00:50:34,800
Speaker 2: And then she'll finally go.

1083
00:50:36,560 --> 00:50:39,160
Speaker 3: Do like a big free then and then scream war

1084
00:50:39,400 --> 00:50:42,640
Speaker 3: And that was the only part that really freaked me out.

1085
00:50:42,719 --> 00:50:47,640
Speaker 3: But well, we'll get into it with the Survival Kid.

1086
00:50:47,840 --> 00:50:50,120
Speaker 3: I found out that Scarlett is a sick of for

1087
00:50:50,160 --> 00:50:54,200
Speaker 3: the baby flash cards. That's what got me through the weekend.

1088
00:50:54,400 --> 00:50:56,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, the little kid, they love the flash cards, love

1089
00:50:56,800 --> 00:51:00,680
Speaker 1: the flash cards, And so it all figured itself out.

1090
00:51:00,760 --> 00:51:03,320
Speaker 3: And I was trying like some of the stuff that

1091
00:51:03,360 --> 00:51:05,160
Speaker 3: I used to do when she was younger and not

1092
00:51:05,360 --> 00:51:08,480
Speaker 3: as attentive of just like, hey, let's go outside, that

1093
00:51:08,600 --> 00:51:10,680
Speaker 3: kind of gets her happier. Let's put her in the

1094
00:51:10,680 --> 00:51:13,239
Speaker 3: stroller that kind of gets her happy, or put her

1095
00:51:13,280 --> 00:51:15,240
Speaker 3: in the baby bajorn that kind of gets her happy,

1096
00:51:15,280 --> 00:51:16,000
Speaker 3: and bounce her.

1097
00:51:16,880 --> 00:51:20,120
Speaker 1: But she wanted like interaction. She wanted to play.

1098
00:51:21,160 --> 00:51:24,160
Speaker 3: And once I got her in that playpen and started

1099
00:51:24,239 --> 00:51:27,880
Speaker 3: doing her little foot to hands stretches and pushing her

1100
00:51:27,880 --> 00:51:31,240
Speaker 3: in and doing the rotisserie chicken rolls, and then started

1101
00:51:31,280 --> 00:51:38,640
Speaker 3: going apple Moon, Yeah, Apple Moon, and she's like sitting

1102
00:51:38,640 --> 00:51:41,400
Speaker 3: there like each time I'd flip over the car and

1103
00:51:41,440 --> 00:51:44,439
Speaker 3: she was loving it. So I did, like mentals were

1104
00:51:44,760 --> 00:51:48,280
Speaker 3: eh during the screaming, but it was a quick fix

1105
00:51:48,680 --> 00:51:50,440
Speaker 3: and then she didn't give me any trouble for the

1106
00:51:50,440 --> 00:51:51,040
Speaker 3: rest of the weekend.

1107
00:51:51,120 --> 00:51:52,319
Speaker 2: Whyfe come home to a clean house?

1108
00:51:53,160 --> 00:51:55,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, But like she also said that, it was like

1109
00:51:57,160 --> 00:52:00,799
Speaker 3: she was like, you did a good job. I just

1110
00:52:00,840 --> 00:52:02,799
Speaker 3: want you to know you did a great job, and

1111
00:52:02,880 --> 00:52:06,080
Speaker 3: I see where the effort was made in the house.

1112
00:52:07,480 --> 00:52:07,799
Speaker 1: Yeah, I.

1113
00:52:09,600 --> 00:52:11,960
Speaker 2: Yes, sir, Yes, sir, you're I like the picture.

1114
00:52:12,040 --> 00:52:14,160
Speaker 1: You're like sitting in the chair and leaned up on

1115
00:52:14,200 --> 00:52:17,120
Speaker 1: your elbows on knees, and she's like standing like I

1116
00:52:17,160 --> 00:52:17,440
Speaker 1: want you.

1117
00:52:17,520 --> 00:52:21,240
Speaker 2: I see she's walking, she's walking back and forth.

1118
00:52:21,320 --> 00:52:24,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, I see where all the effort was. You did

1119
00:52:24,160 --> 00:52:26,680
Speaker 1: a great job. Yeah, that delivers the butt.

1120
00:52:26,800 --> 00:52:29,880
Speaker 3: And when I but when I come home and I

1121
00:52:29,920 --> 00:52:32,840
Speaker 3: see that the bottles are still in the washer and

1122
00:52:32,880 --> 00:52:36,120
Speaker 3: the washer hasn't been started yet, that's the kind of

1123
00:52:36,160 --> 00:52:37,880
Speaker 3: things that we need to be perfect.

1124
00:52:39,000 --> 00:52:42,239
Speaker 1: When I see that the you did the laundry. You

1125
00:52:42,280 --> 00:52:44,960
Speaker 1: did the laundry, but it's still in the dryer. Why

1126
00:52:45,000 --> 00:52:49,000
Speaker 1: is it not folded? Why is it not put up? Yeah,

1127
00:52:49,320 --> 00:52:51,800
Speaker 1: I'm looking around. I say, okay, he did our laundry.

1128
00:52:52,200 --> 00:52:55,560
Speaker 1: Let's go check Scarlet's laundry. And I look in Scarlet's

1129
00:52:55,560 --> 00:52:59,560
Speaker 1: hamper and man, it's full of clothes. That's the ship

1130
00:52:59,600 --> 00:53:00,839
Speaker 1: that will gate you beat.

1131
00:53:01,080 --> 00:53:03,440
Speaker 2: Yeah. I'm saying, yes, sir, yes, sir.

1132
00:53:03,640 --> 00:53:06,200
Speaker 1: But sweetheart, no, no, no, you're not hearing me. We're gonna

1133
00:53:06,200 --> 00:53:08,600
Speaker 1: build on the good you did a great job. I

1134
00:53:08,680 --> 00:53:11,680
Speaker 1: see the effort. We're gonna build on those patchy on

1135
00:53:11,719 --> 00:53:15,880
Speaker 1: the ass. Yeah, yeah, we gotta eliminate the bad bottles

1136
00:53:15,880 --> 00:53:18,719
Speaker 1: aren't all the way clean. Yeah, laundry is not all

1137
00:53:18,719 --> 00:53:21,160
Speaker 1: the way folded. It's in the dryer. That's bad. That

1138
00:53:21,239 --> 00:53:24,279
Speaker 1: we got to correct. Yes, sir, those are fixable, yes, sir.

1139
00:53:24,560 --> 00:53:27,799
Speaker 1: But the clothes in the hamper, that's the ship that

1140
00:53:27,920 --> 00:53:31,160
Speaker 1: gets you beat. And I will not hesitate, yes, sir,

1141
00:53:31,320 --> 00:53:37,319
Speaker 1: to send I was gonna say something, really and I

1142
00:53:37,360 --> 00:53:40,120
Speaker 1: will not hesitate to send your fat ass packing down

1143
00:53:40,160 --> 00:53:49,399
Speaker 1: to Texas and you can live with oh your old man. Sure, yes, sir, I.

1144
00:53:49,360 --> 00:53:50,759
Speaker 2: Thought I was really gonna take a turn.

1145
00:53:50,800 --> 00:53:54,680
Speaker 1: You're gonna say, you like, send a little tip to

1146
00:53:54,760 --> 00:53:57,920
Speaker 1: the tip line to CPS, put your name on.

1147
00:54:01,280 --> 00:54:05,040
Speaker 2: Oh Jill, WHOA So all good? It was good.

1148
00:54:05,120 --> 00:54:08,080
Speaker 3: Things are correct, Yeah, I mean like the pillows were fluffed,

1149
00:54:08,120 --> 00:54:11,080
Speaker 3: they were chopped, blankets are folded there, but you know,

1150
00:54:11,120 --> 00:54:15,359
Speaker 3: on the top of the sofa tight tight play pin,

1151
00:54:15,800 --> 00:54:18,200
Speaker 3: the cards are put up. Everything's kind of in order.

1152
00:54:18,360 --> 00:54:20,759
Speaker 3: Like I hit all the big stuff. I hit all

1153
00:54:20,760 --> 00:54:22,600
Speaker 3: the stuff. That coach is gonna sit there pat you

1154
00:54:22,680 --> 00:54:25,880
Speaker 3: on the butt. But little details here and there. I did, miss,

1155
00:54:26,120 --> 00:54:28,840
Speaker 3: I did, miss. I wasn't upset with did you receive

1156
00:54:28,920 --> 00:54:29,440
Speaker 3: the coaching?

1157
00:54:29,520 --> 00:54:31,000
Speaker 1: I love how we both touched our hats at the

1158
00:54:31,040 --> 00:54:34,080
Speaker 1: same time too, getting did you receive the coaching well?

1159
00:54:34,640 --> 00:54:38,120
Speaker 1: Or you handle it like I've been making plays all season.

1160
00:54:38,480 --> 00:54:40,040
Speaker 1: Coach missed me with that story.

1161
00:54:40,200 --> 00:54:42,839
Speaker 3: She was coming at me like saban where like we're

1162
00:54:42,920 --> 00:54:45,160
Speaker 3: up thirty in the nattie and like we had a

1163
00:54:45,200 --> 00:54:47,799
Speaker 3: false start, and hell, yeah, I had a false start,

1164
00:54:48,040 --> 00:54:50,880
Speaker 3: which hey, hey, coded that just means he loved me.

1165
00:54:51,080 --> 00:54:52,759
Speaker 3: When he yelled me, like, yeah, that just means he

1166
00:54:52,840 --> 00:54:53,160
Speaker 3: loved me.

1167
00:54:53,320 --> 00:54:53,560
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1168
00:54:53,640 --> 00:54:57,319
Speaker 3: He doesn't yell at the guys on the bench. He

1169
00:54:57,400 --> 00:55:00,480
Speaker 3: yells at the starters. Like That's how it felt. Yeah,

1170
00:55:00,560 --> 00:55:01,440
Speaker 3: And so I felt great.

1171
00:55:01,880 --> 00:55:02,759
Speaker 2: I did.

1172
00:55:02,840 --> 00:55:04,920
Speaker 3: I took no offense to it, and I got like

1173
00:55:05,040 --> 00:55:07,560
Speaker 3: all a's on my report card and I was, I

1174
00:55:07,600 --> 00:55:08,560
Speaker 3: was on cloud nine.

1175
00:55:08,640 --> 00:55:11,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel you on the eliminated You gotta eliminate

1176
00:55:11,840 --> 00:55:13,360
Speaker 1: the ship to get your beat mine? Was that a

1177
00:55:13,400 --> 00:55:16,600
Speaker 1: couple of weeks ago when that oil that what was

1178
00:55:16,640 --> 00:55:19,920
Speaker 1: the oil called the oils that sit on the central

1179
00:55:20,000 --> 00:55:23,480
Speaker 1: essential oil? Yes, the essential oil spilt and I miss it.

1180
00:55:23,640 --> 00:55:25,560
Speaker 1: Remember when roue knocked over the lamp, but I fixed

1181
00:55:25,560 --> 00:55:28,200
Speaker 1: the lamp. I'm like, I forgot about that and kind.

1182
00:55:28,040 --> 00:55:31,640
Speaker 2: Of left the oils in there. Yeah, that was It's

1183
00:55:31,640 --> 00:55:32,160
Speaker 2: a tough one.

1184
00:55:32,680 --> 00:55:35,320
Speaker 1: Whme, coach, my coach sleeve been at home, love you

1185
00:55:35,400 --> 00:55:38,640
Speaker 1: sweet eyes. Yeah that's all me, coach. That one wasn't

1186
00:55:38,680 --> 00:55:41,960
Speaker 1: on me. Wait what was your screaming story? You said, screaming?

1187
00:55:42,320 --> 00:55:46,080
Speaker 1: So yeah, this is, this is, this is I have

1188
00:55:46,160 --> 00:55:50,800
Speaker 1: a few dad losses. Oh no, screaming story, scott Zilla.

1189
00:55:51,600 --> 00:55:55,120
Speaker 1: So it was Sunday. We had a great little family weekend. Obviously,

1190
00:55:55,200 --> 00:55:58,279
Speaker 1: on Saturday we went to the cheek Wood met you there.

1191
00:55:58,840 --> 00:56:02,080
Speaker 1: Great weekend, great weekend. Sunday we had the Titans watch party.

1192
00:56:02,080 --> 00:56:03,920
Speaker 1: We had to go to down the Brook, that's right.

1193
00:56:04,160 --> 00:56:06,839
Speaker 1: And that was around what one thirty. Yeah, that kicked off.

1194
00:56:06,880 --> 00:56:09,040
Speaker 1: So in the morning time, we're juice in the morning

1195
00:56:09,040 --> 00:56:11,759
Speaker 1: time for family time. What an opportunity to get better

1196
00:56:11,800 --> 00:56:14,400
Speaker 1: as a family. So we go down to Franklin. Hit

1197
00:56:14,440 --> 00:56:16,919
Speaker 1: one of our I think it's called Hanks. Oh great,

1198
00:56:17,080 --> 00:56:21,319
Speaker 1: got some lot, had some great vibes. Believe I saw

1199
00:56:21,360 --> 00:56:23,799
Speaker 1: a PT sixer in there or no, no, no, no.

1200
00:56:23,840 --> 00:56:27,520
Speaker 1: When I came up and ordered at Hanks. You know,

1201
00:56:27,560 --> 00:56:30,480
Speaker 1: I was like, I'll take the yogurt. I'm gonna get two.

1202
00:56:30,760 --> 00:56:32,640
Speaker 1: I want I want a seasonal lat and I also

1203
00:56:32,640 --> 00:56:36,279
Speaker 1: want a nice Americano two drinks for myself. Wife got

1204
00:56:36,320 --> 00:56:38,799
Speaker 1: something and then we're talking about ru or something like

1205
00:56:39,360 --> 00:56:41,160
Speaker 1: which one of these you want? Like, let's we got

1206
00:56:41,200 --> 00:56:45,040
Speaker 1: a line behind us, and she's like, uh, do you

1207
00:56:45,040 --> 00:56:48,399
Speaker 1: do a podcast like Bust with the Boys. Like yeah,

1208
00:56:48,480 --> 00:56:51,800
Speaker 1: She's like, Oh, my husband or boyfriend whoever was, It's like,

1209
00:56:51,840 --> 00:56:54,640
Speaker 1: he loves you guys. Oh shout out. So caught a

1210
00:56:54,640 --> 00:56:58,719
Speaker 1: Tier one okay six moment possibly in the wild. But

1211
00:56:58,840 --> 00:57:01,359
Speaker 1: after Hanks, we want to go on a nature walk.

1212
00:57:01,400 --> 00:57:03,799
Speaker 1: Wife loves nature walks. She's like, if I have a

1213
00:57:03,800 --> 00:57:06,719
Speaker 1: core value for my wife or something that I love

1214
00:57:06,800 --> 00:57:10,080
Speaker 1: about her that goes This is like an opposite of

1215
00:57:10,120 --> 00:57:13,360
Speaker 1: what Willy sees about. But it's being adventurous. Yeah, you know,

1216
00:57:13,400 --> 00:57:16,280
Speaker 1: your boy, I can, I can, I can wal. I

1217
00:57:16,280 --> 00:57:19,439
Speaker 1: can sit at home all day long. Hey that's okay, man,

1218
00:57:19,680 --> 00:57:22,440
Speaker 1: But my guy loves nature walks. Yeah yeah, yeah, so

1219
00:57:22,520 --> 00:57:23,640
Speaker 1: we love nature walks.

1220
00:57:23,840 --> 00:57:24,120
Speaker 2: Yes.

1221
00:57:24,720 --> 00:57:26,480
Speaker 1: And when I'm saying yeah, we can go do this

1222
00:57:26,600 --> 00:57:28,760
Speaker 1: nature walk, I'm assuming we're gonna go to a nearby

1223
00:57:28,800 --> 00:57:29,479
Speaker 1: park or something.

1224
00:57:29,520 --> 00:57:32,560
Speaker 2: I haven't heard about it, and we're gonna we're gonna.

1225
00:57:32,320 --> 00:57:36,440
Speaker 1: Skip around the pond, take a few family photos, enjoy

1226
00:57:36,520 --> 00:57:40,080
Speaker 1: the fresh air and sunshine before NFL Sunday kicks off.

1227
00:57:41,080 --> 00:57:43,160
Speaker 1: This day, what time is this, by the way, we're

1228
00:57:43,160 --> 00:57:46,800
Speaker 1: probably probably ten o'clock when we leave Hanks. Oh wow,

1229
00:57:47,400 --> 00:57:50,160
Speaker 1: leave Hanks. So we're pushing it a bit. This nature

1230
00:57:50,200 --> 00:57:56,280
Speaker 1: walks forty five minutes outside of Franklin. This drive forty

1231
00:57:56,320 --> 00:57:59,760
Speaker 1: forty five minutes. I don't really say nothing. I stay composed, honestly,

1232
00:57:59,800 --> 00:58:01,520
Speaker 1: never bring it up. This is probably the first time,

1233
00:58:01,800 --> 00:58:03,680
Speaker 1: so I know my wife trust me, and my wife.

1234
00:58:03,480 --> 00:58:05,320
Speaker 2: Listens to these episodes. As a matter of fact, it's

1235
00:58:05,320 --> 00:58:05,600
Speaker 2: a couple.

1236
00:58:05,640 --> 00:58:10,880
Speaker 1: It's a couple of my dad losses in here we're

1237
00:58:10,960 --> 00:58:16,480
Speaker 1: driving and Scott he's pissed off, like during throughout the

1238
00:58:16,680 --> 00:58:20,040
Speaker 1: entire drive. Rue's doing a great job being a big sister,

1239
00:58:20,120 --> 00:58:23,640
Speaker 1: staying composed. Sweetheart. We we can't listen to the Claw

1240
00:58:23,720 --> 00:58:26,040
Speaker 1: song anymore. The Claw Song is the Halloween theme music

1241
00:58:26,080 --> 00:58:28,280
Speaker 1: song with Michael Myers. She just want some spooky music

1242
00:58:28,320 --> 00:58:32,000
Speaker 1: on my sweetart. We gotta put on the sleep time song,

1243
00:58:32,200 --> 00:58:37,680
Speaker 1: the good Night song that uh corner. We gotta play

1244
00:58:37,680 --> 00:58:39,440
Speaker 1: that song for Scott's will so she can calm down.

1245
00:58:39,480 --> 00:58:42,920
Speaker 1: She doesn't calm down the entire drive. She's she's sideways,

1246
00:58:42,960 --> 00:58:46,760
Speaker 1: bro sideways. Can't get her calm down on the drive.

1247
00:58:46,800 --> 00:58:48,560
Speaker 1: I'm trying back there. I'm trying to like hole and

1248
00:58:48,600 --> 00:58:50,960
Speaker 1: I'm trying to like rattle the goddamn car seat.

1249
00:58:52,120 --> 00:58:55,080
Speaker 2: And I got it.

1250
00:58:57,320 --> 00:59:01,160
Speaker 1: And we get to this to the Parker for the

1251
00:59:01,240 --> 00:59:06,000
Speaker 1: nature walk and stuff in an awesome spot, and she's

1252
00:59:06,000 --> 00:59:11,680
Speaker 1: still screaming the pretty much the entire nature walk. Oh

1253
00:59:11,800 --> 00:59:14,480
Speaker 1: Charo had her shrap to her body and Chroo want

1254
00:59:14,520 --> 00:59:16,240
Speaker 1: to go me and ru. It's kind of like a story.

1255
00:59:16,440 --> 00:59:18,360
Speaker 1: It's kind of like a storybook trail walk toward they

1256
00:59:18,360 --> 00:59:20,520
Speaker 1: have stuff for kids at like, you know, every twenty

1257
00:59:20,640 --> 00:59:23,480
Speaker 1: yards there's like a little story as reading about nature

1258
00:59:23,520 --> 00:59:25,880
Speaker 1: and stuff going on. It's a I'm enjoying that for

1259
00:59:25,880 --> 00:59:28,520
Speaker 1: a few moments with Rude, but we're like, Scotty, won't

1260
00:59:28,520 --> 00:59:31,880
Speaker 1: calm down, won't calm down. This ain't the Scottie we

1261
00:59:32,000 --> 00:59:36,439
Speaker 1: know and love and appreciate and respect and admire. This

1262
00:59:36,560 --> 00:59:39,880
Speaker 1: is a one to eighty. Her heart's black and there's

1263
00:59:39,960 --> 00:59:41,600
Speaker 1: no there. It seems like there's no light at the

1264
00:59:41,680 --> 00:59:43,320
Speaker 1: end of the tunnel. With her, it's like a year

1265
00:59:43,360 --> 00:59:47,560
Speaker 1: three Max Square, Yeah, the year three Max Crosby, relentless

1266
00:59:47,600 --> 00:59:50,520
Speaker 1: effort to be pissed off. And we're trying to feed

1267
00:59:50,520 --> 00:59:52,840
Speaker 1: her the bottle and she's drinking the bottle a little bit,

1268
00:59:52,880 --> 00:59:55,320
Speaker 1: but then she starts, like starts screaming again. It's like, man,

1269
00:59:55,320 --> 00:59:58,120
Speaker 1: what is going on with her? You can tell she's tired.

1270
00:59:58,160 --> 01:00:00,680
Speaker 1: She's like trying to fall asleep. She needs a nap

1271
01:00:00,680 --> 01:00:03,640
Speaker 1: and she just won't. She's either overtired. She's going batshit

1272
01:00:03,760 --> 01:00:06,600
Speaker 1: bro and Charles. She's like Charle gets a point where

1273
01:00:06,600 --> 01:00:08,840
Speaker 1: she's stop and she's like jumping to kind of like

1274
01:00:08,880 --> 01:00:11,479
Speaker 1: homeber down the rocker. We look like crazy people. People

1275
01:00:11,480 --> 01:00:14,400
Speaker 1: are walking by. Now you doing You guys are gonna

1276
01:00:14,400 --> 01:00:16,200
Speaker 1: figure it out. You love these times and I'm thinking

1277
01:00:16,240 --> 01:00:21,000
Speaker 1: we want to get jo. They're saying that to you

1278
01:00:21,160 --> 01:00:23,680
Speaker 1: as they're like, say, somebody's running yea yeah, the other

1279
01:00:23,800 --> 01:00:26,120
Speaker 1: come by they might chuckle, or there's a family walking

1280
01:00:26,160 --> 01:00:26,680
Speaker 1: by us.

1281
01:00:26,920 --> 01:00:27,720
Speaker 2: I missed with mine.

1282
01:00:27,760 --> 01:00:30,520
Speaker 1: We're now yeah, I'm missy missed with the I miss

1283
01:00:30,600 --> 01:00:35,560
Speaker 1: those agents tough when you guys will figure it out.

1284
01:00:35,600 --> 01:00:38,000
Speaker 1: And I'm thinking we have not figured this one out yet.

1285
01:00:40,080 --> 01:00:43,480
Speaker 1: And so I'm like, sweetheart, let me. I'm getting I'm

1286
01:00:43,480 --> 01:00:46,360
Speaker 1: getting frazzled. I'm like, let me, let me take her, like,

1287
01:00:46,440 --> 01:00:49,520
Speaker 1: I'll strap her. I'm thinking in my head, I'll get

1288
01:00:49,560 --> 01:00:53,600
Speaker 1: her to sleep. I'll put this child down. And she's like,

1289
01:00:53,760 --> 01:00:56,120
Speaker 1: she's screaming. I'm like, sweetheart, just I think I can

1290
01:00:56,120 --> 01:00:59,000
Speaker 1: get her down. And you wanted to do the nature walk.

1291
01:00:59,040 --> 01:01:02,080
Speaker 1: You should enjoy the nature walk aspect as much as

1292
01:01:02,080 --> 01:01:03,880
Speaker 1: you can't, even though she's crying, bat you right now, like,

1293
01:01:03,960 --> 01:01:06,880
Speaker 1: let me deal with like, let me deal with all

1294
01:01:06,880 --> 01:01:08,800
Speaker 1: this so I get her. I can't calm her down.

1295
01:01:08,920 --> 01:01:11,320
Speaker 1: I'm getting bro, I'm telling you, I'm doing my I'm

1296
01:01:11,320 --> 01:01:14,800
Speaker 1: doing some zone two cardio like I'm getting frustrated to

1297
01:01:14,880 --> 01:01:16,800
Speaker 1: the point where I'm doing the same things as Charles

1298
01:01:16,800 --> 01:01:19,320
Speaker 1: because I'm thinking, all right, Charles getting a little you know,

1299
01:01:19,880 --> 01:01:22,360
Speaker 1: Charles starts jumping and I'm like, hey, let's let's hang

1300
01:01:22,440 --> 01:01:24,360
Speaker 1: on now. She's ten months old. I get her and

1301
01:01:24,360 --> 01:01:26,000
Speaker 1: I'm dealing with her. I get to that point I'm like, yo,

1302
01:01:26,080 --> 01:01:29,880
Speaker 1: you got to relax, bro, Just fall asleep. And go

1303
01:01:29,920 --> 01:01:31,800
Speaker 1: to like, just go to sleep, you drink all the milk,

1304
01:01:31,840 --> 01:01:33,520
Speaker 1: you should be good. Yeah, and she's not.

1305
01:01:33,640 --> 01:01:34,680
Speaker 2: I'm like, you know, I'm pattner.

1306
01:01:34,720 --> 01:01:35,880
Speaker 1: And then it gets a little too loud, so I

1307
01:01:35,920 --> 01:01:39,000
Speaker 1: patter a little horder. I'm get your little to sleep,

1308
01:01:39,760 --> 01:01:43,160
Speaker 1: and I'm getting to her. I'm basically I'm basically running

1309
01:01:43,200 --> 01:01:45,840
Speaker 1: the whole time trying to get her calmed down. I realize,

1310
01:01:46,600 --> 01:01:49,640
Speaker 1: And here's the dad hack comes out of it. A

1311
01:01:49,720 --> 01:01:52,320
Speaker 1: dad hat comes out of it, because we love to

1312
01:01:52,400 --> 01:01:55,560
Speaker 1: dress up our little Kiddosy Scotty's ten eleven months old.

1313
01:01:55,600 --> 01:01:58,080
Speaker 1: Here's what I think it was. We won't know until

1314
01:01:58,240 --> 01:02:02,720
Speaker 1: I guess it happens again. But she's got shoes on,

1315
01:02:04,480 --> 01:02:05,960
Speaker 1: so we got it in her little outfit. But she's

1316
01:02:05,960 --> 01:02:08,960
Speaker 1: wearing these little nikes. Yeah, and you know, when they're

1317
01:02:08,960 --> 01:02:11,000
Speaker 1: that young, they're not used to having shoes on. So

1318
01:02:11,040 --> 01:02:13,480
Speaker 1: imthinking in my head, like what if she just doesn't

1319
01:02:13,640 --> 01:02:16,440
Speaker 1: like shoes and stuff on her feet right now, Like

1320
01:02:16,480 --> 01:02:18,880
Speaker 1: as she's trying to fall asleep, take off her shoes,

1321
01:02:18,880 --> 01:02:21,720
Speaker 1: take off her socks, put them in the backpack. She's

1322
01:02:21,720 --> 01:02:25,720
Speaker 1: out within five minutes. So a dub comes out of it.

1323
01:02:25,760 --> 01:02:27,920
Speaker 1: A little dad hacked her. I'm thinking I go to Charo.

1324
01:02:28,240 --> 01:02:30,000
Speaker 1: I'm like, she's like is she sleeping? And you know

1325
01:02:30,040 --> 01:02:32,400
Speaker 1: I'm covering the sun any angle so nothing can wake

1326
01:02:32,440 --> 01:02:35,040
Speaker 1: her up because I'm like, yo, this has been an hour,

1327
01:02:35,320 --> 01:02:39,919
Speaker 1: legitimately an hour of hell with her. I'm like, hey,

1328
01:02:39,960 --> 01:02:41,920
Speaker 1: I think it was the shoes. She's like you think, so,

1329
01:02:41,920 --> 01:02:43,400
Speaker 1: I'm like, I don't know if she's asleep now. I

1330
01:02:43,440 --> 01:02:45,760
Speaker 1: did take them off, and when she was getting a

1331
01:02:45,800 --> 01:02:47,920
Speaker 1: little frazzled, like I just when she was like starting

1332
01:02:47,920 --> 01:02:50,440
Speaker 1: to fall asleep, but I just like constantly feel her

1333
01:02:50,440 --> 01:02:52,360
Speaker 1: like kicking her feet. I'm just like, sweetheart, just go

1334
01:02:52,440 --> 01:02:55,280
Speaker 1: to sleep. But whenever I took her shoes off, she

1335
01:02:55,440 --> 01:02:57,560
Speaker 1: was out. So I'm thinking it was the shoes. The

1336
01:02:57,680 --> 01:03:00,800
Speaker 1: toes were just a little yeah yeah, Like you know, again,

1337
01:03:00,800 --> 01:03:01,280
Speaker 1: they're babies.

1338
01:03:01,320 --> 01:03:02,440
Speaker 2: They're not used to having.

1339
01:03:02,800 --> 01:03:04,240
Speaker 1: You might dress them up and stuff like that and

1340
01:03:04,280 --> 01:03:05,640
Speaker 1: they're good, but once you get them in the car

1341
01:03:05,640 --> 01:03:08,280
Speaker 1: seat and everything, God just say, if you're wanting to

1342
01:03:08,320 --> 01:03:10,640
Speaker 1: fall asleep, just make sure the shoes are off. That

1343
01:03:10,800 --> 01:03:13,560
Speaker 1: was my like takeaway from it. But he got got

1344
01:03:13,600 --> 01:03:15,560
Speaker 1: dicey for a minute, and I'm wearing the good hat.

1345
01:03:15,680 --> 01:03:19,560
Speaker 1: So fortunately, I'm like, I am trying to constantly remind

1346
01:03:19,560 --> 01:03:21,760
Speaker 1: myself because I'm starting to get pissed off about it.

1347
01:03:21,760 --> 01:03:24,400
Speaker 1: I'm like, Yo, what is what is happening right now?

1348
01:03:24,440 --> 01:03:27,080
Speaker 1: We can't even enjoy We can't even be there that

1349
01:03:27,120 --> 01:03:28,640
Speaker 1: long because we got to drive all the way back

1350
01:03:28,680 --> 01:03:30,760
Speaker 1: so that way I can get to the watch party. Yeah,

1351
01:03:30,920 --> 01:03:34,280
Speaker 1: but got her to sleep shoes, knocked out the rest

1352
01:03:34,360 --> 01:03:37,280
Speaker 1: of the little nature walk whatever we had left, and

1353
01:03:37,520 --> 01:03:38,800
Speaker 1: I was knocked out the entire.

1354
01:03:38,600 --> 01:03:39,280
Speaker 2: Car right home.

1355
01:03:41,440 --> 01:03:48,040
Speaker 1: But praise praise a couple other dad losses my wife, Yeah,

1356
01:03:48,080 --> 01:03:51,440
Speaker 1: you got a list going, Yeah, what's going on? I

1357
01:03:51,480 --> 01:03:54,720
Speaker 1: forget exactly what we were talking about last week, but

1358
01:03:54,880 --> 01:03:58,240
Speaker 1: it was where one of them was like maybe one

1359
01:03:58,280 --> 01:04:01,360
Speaker 1: of the kids were struggling. I'm thinking, oh daughter, oh

1360
01:04:01,440 --> 01:04:05,240
Speaker 1: dad guilty being away and the kids being all being tough,

1361
01:04:05,360 --> 01:04:06,280
Speaker 1: and I'm feeling bad.

1362
01:04:06,120 --> 01:04:06,440
Speaker 2: For the game.

1363
01:04:06,440 --> 01:04:09,120
Speaker 1: I'm all, poor Scottie or poor this because we got

1364
01:04:09,120 --> 01:04:12,520
Speaker 1: over it like hand mouth foot sweet. I hear you

1365
01:04:12,520 --> 01:04:16,040
Speaker 1: talking about like, oh, poor the girls, but what about

1366
01:04:16,040 --> 01:04:16,680
Speaker 1: poor wifey?

1367
01:04:18,160 --> 01:04:21,800
Speaker 2: I go, you're right. You listen to that episode. I

1368
01:04:21,800 --> 01:04:23,960
Speaker 2: didn't mention you at all. I could have sworn you

1369
01:04:23,960 --> 01:04:24,439
Speaker 2: didn't listen.

1370
01:04:24,640 --> 01:04:27,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, but she's right times when we're thinking about the

1371
01:04:27,960 --> 01:04:30,240
Speaker 1: dad guilt and everything else and like, oh, poor little kidd,

1372
01:04:30,240 --> 01:04:33,240
Speaker 1: Oh dad guilt. I feel guilty, hate it for the kid. Yeah,

1373
01:04:33,400 --> 01:04:35,840
Speaker 1: wife's going through it at home. So I want to

1374
01:04:35,880 --> 01:04:39,120
Speaker 1: shout out, sweetheart, Charo. I know you're listening right now,

1375
01:04:39,240 --> 01:04:42,680
Speaker 1: probably in the car, because anytime we get into a

1376
01:04:42,680 --> 01:04:45,240
Speaker 1: family trip and we turn the car on this these

1377
01:04:45,280 --> 01:04:47,680
Speaker 1: episodes kind of pop on first from what you recently

1378
01:04:47,720 --> 01:04:49,520
Speaker 1: listened to. I'm like, oh, you're checking out for the dad,

1379
01:04:49,600 --> 01:04:52,280
Speaker 1: So I know you're listening right now. I love you,

1380
01:04:52,360 --> 01:04:56,080
Speaker 1: I do appreciate you. I see you, And it is

1381
01:04:56,160 --> 01:04:59,840
Speaker 1: always empathy with wifey. I just want to say that

1382
01:05:00,040 --> 01:05:01,800
Speaker 1: and not shutting out. My wife was a dad loss.

1383
01:05:03,480 --> 01:05:07,280
Speaker 1: Shout out Chara, shout out char another. Just dad losses

1384
01:05:07,320 --> 01:05:12,480
Speaker 1: in general for the dads out there not getting home

1385
01:05:12,480 --> 01:05:16,280
Speaker 1: when you say you're getting home, it's a dad loss.

1386
01:05:16,360 --> 01:05:16,960
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1387
01:05:17,000 --> 01:05:18,880
Speaker 1: Like my wife might hit me up, hey when you

1388
01:05:18,880 --> 01:05:20,600
Speaker 1: think you're going to be home today from the shop,

1389
01:05:20,960 --> 01:05:22,520
Speaker 1: and I might just throw her a number, like if

1390
01:05:22,520 --> 01:05:24,440
Speaker 1: we're doing this pod right now and it's eleven fifty

1391
01:05:24,440 --> 01:05:25,760
Speaker 1: two and she's like, hey, when do you think you'll

1392
01:05:25,760 --> 01:05:28,920
Speaker 1: get home, My dumbass would probably say like twelve thirty.

1393
01:05:29,200 --> 01:05:30,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, twelve forty.

1394
01:05:30,440 --> 01:05:33,080
Speaker 1: Five, then come rolling in a one thirty or something

1395
01:05:33,120 --> 01:05:34,720
Speaker 1: like that. Or you get a text after the time

1396
01:05:34,760 --> 01:05:36,280
Speaker 1: you're supposed to be home, like, hey, was you know

1397
01:05:36,360 --> 01:05:37,520
Speaker 1: everything good? How far out?

1398
01:05:37,600 --> 01:05:37,800
Speaker 2: Yeah?

1399
01:05:37,880 --> 01:05:39,040
Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah, everything all right?

1400
01:05:39,080 --> 01:05:40,640
Speaker 2: Over it? What are you up to? I know what

1401
01:05:40,680 --> 01:05:40,880
Speaker 2: you know?

1402
01:05:40,880 --> 01:05:42,680
Speaker 1: And you're kind of checking in? Am I almost home?

1403
01:05:43,640 --> 01:05:46,040
Speaker 1: But uh, that's a dad loss, because a dad hack.

1404
01:05:47,960 --> 01:05:50,280
Speaker 1: Don't ever tell your wife when you're coming home. Yeah,

1405
01:05:50,600 --> 01:05:53,400
Speaker 1: don't ever give her a time. Yeah, you know, we

1406
01:05:53,480 --> 01:05:57,200
Speaker 1: got a couple of things to do here, be home underpromise,

1407
01:05:57,240 --> 01:06:01,320
Speaker 1: over delivered. I'll be home at eight pm. I'm missing dinner.

1408
01:06:01,880 --> 01:06:04,160
Speaker 1: Then you get to show up like a superhero when

1409
01:06:04,200 --> 01:06:05,760
Speaker 1: you're walking through the door around four threw.

1410
01:06:05,680 --> 01:06:09,880
Speaker 2: You ain't gonna see me for a week. I'm gonna

1411
01:06:09,880 --> 01:06:10,880
Speaker 2: be gone for a week.

1412
01:06:11,080 --> 01:06:15,200
Speaker 1: Yeah. I cannot agree with you more on that.

1413
01:06:15,880 --> 01:06:18,680
Speaker 3: And I need to start because and shout out to

1414
01:06:18,760 --> 01:06:20,920
Speaker 3: my loving wife, Jilly Bean, shout.

1415
01:06:20,640 --> 01:06:24,720
Speaker 1: Out to him and full accountability, accountabilities because I do

1416
01:06:24,960 --> 01:06:27,920
Speaker 1: the old Hey, honey, that party we gotta go to

1417
01:06:28,240 --> 01:06:31,240
Speaker 1: It starts at three o'clock. Yeah, we gotta be there

1418
01:06:31,280 --> 01:06:33,760
Speaker 1: by three because I know we ain't gonna be ready

1419
01:06:33,800 --> 01:06:35,520
Speaker 1: and out the door till three forty five.

1420
01:06:35,960 --> 01:06:41,240
Speaker 3: Sometimes because it jilly Bean, love you, jilly Bean, I

1421
01:06:41,280 --> 01:06:43,520
Speaker 3: need to do the same for when I'm coming home.

1422
01:06:44,000 --> 01:06:48,600
Speaker 3: I need to put the Shurm time on it. Yeah,

1423
01:06:48,960 --> 01:06:50,640
Speaker 3: because I put the jilly Bean time on it.

1424
01:06:50,720 --> 01:06:53,520
Speaker 1: Sometime, either put the Shirm time on it or again,

1425
01:06:53,560 --> 01:06:56,240
Speaker 1: because we're not gonna tell our wives when we're coming home.

1426
01:06:56,320 --> 01:06:58,800
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah yeah, or just hold yourself true

1427
01:06:58,800 --> 01:07:01,800
Speaker 1: to when you're gonna be home. Also, like last week

1428
01:07:01,840 --> 01:07:04,720
Speaker 1: when we were talking about going to the Little Pumpkin Deal, Yeah,

1429
01:07:04,800 --> 01:07:07,800
Speaker 1: I said, what eleven twelve, we're gonna be there at eleven,

1430
01:07:08,040 --> 01:07:12,040
Speaker 1: come through eleven, eleven thirty. He don't show up till twelve, fifteen, twelve, fifteen,

1431
01:07:12,080 --> 01:07:16,480
Speaker 1: twelve twenty, but we wouldn't get there until eleven forty five. Yeah,

1432
01:07:16,760 --> 01:07:18,080
Speaker 1: we're trying after our little thing.

1433
01:07:18,160 --> 01:07:18,640
Speaker 2: Well, and I.

1434
01:07:19,440 --> 01:07:22,200
Speaker 3: Will say I should have done a better job of

1435
01:07:22,240 --> 01:07:24,800
Speaker 3: reaching out to you that morning.

1436
01:07:26,280 --> 01:07:27,160
Speaker 2: That was on me.

1437
01:07:27,400 --> 01:07:30,520
Speaker 1: This is exactly where the dudes mess up. Yeah, like

1438
01:07:30,560 --> 01:07:33,880
Speaker 1: you're saying that, I fully empathy. I understand what's going

1439
01:07:33,920 --> 01:07:36,160
Speaker 1: on inside your brain and your body, your mind, the heart.

1440
01:07:36,000 --> 01:07:38,479
Speaker 3: And soul, because I don't want to pressure y'all into

1441
01:07:38,520 --> 01:07:39,680
Speaker 3: going if stuff is, you.

1442
01:07:39,640 --> 01:07:41,920
Speaker 1: Don't want to pressure, you don't want to let down.

1443
01:07:42,080 --> 01:07:44,040
Speaker 1: You're like, I'm gonna say this, I'm going to say

1444
01:07:44,040 --> 01:07:48,040
Speaker 1: this time, and then it happens like traffic, it's been

1445
01:07:48,080 --> 01:07:49,520
Speaker 1: forty five minutes, Well kind of traffic.

1446
01:07:49,600 --> 01:07:50,400
Speaker 2: You didn't see that wreck?

1447
01:07:51,440 --> 01:07:54,560
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, Well no, I should have called you guys

1448
01:07:54,640 --> 01:07:57,360
Speaker 3: and been like, hey, are we still on for the

1449
01:07:57,400 --> 01:08:00,840
Speaker 3: pumpkin patch? Because when it was like rolling to the time,

1450
01:08:02,200 --> 01:08:04,240
Speaker 3: I was like, oh, I haven't heard anything because we

1451
01:08:04,640 --> 01:08:06,120
Speaker 3: hadn't talked after the text.

1452
01:08:06,320 --> 01:08:07,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, because there's no pressure.

1453
01:08:07,680 --> 01:08:10,960
Speaker 1: There was no privigious like we're talking in the in

1454
01:08:11,000 --> 01:08:12,560
Speaker 1: the theories of these examples.

1455
01:08:12,640 --> 01:08:15,640
Speaker 3: Yes, and so I needed to do a better job

1456
01:08:15,720 --> 01:08:17,960
Speaker 3: because I was excited to go. I should have texted

1457
01:08:18,000 --> 01:08:20,840
Speaker 3: you have been like bro stoked for the pumpkin patch,

1458
01:08:20,880 --> 01:08:24,639
Speaker 3: stoked for cheek wood. You guys still thinking eleven thirty twelve,

1459
01:08:25,680 --> 01:08:26,479
Speaker 3: blah blah blah.

1460
01:08:26,520 --> 01:08:29,800
Speaker 1: I had one just this week, you know, we had

1461
01:08:29,800 --> 01:08:32,680
Speaker 1: to do George Kittle's podcast. Yes, I was supposed to

1462
01:08:32,680 --> 01:08:35,760
Speaker 1: go at three, all heart out at four podcasts on

1463
01:08:35,880 --> 01:08:38,280
Speaker 1: stuntil three thirty four, is there? I know you guys

1464
01:08:38,280 --> 01:08:40,200
Speaker 1: have a heart out. We're like, oh, we can keep going.

1465
01:08:42,160 --> 01:08:45,880
Speaker 1: Rue had a swim lesson, so I had to be

1466
01:08:46,000 --> 01:08:48,880
Speaker 1: home for the nanny at four thirty to take over

1467
01:08:48,920 --> 01:08:49,519
Speaker 1: for Scotty.

1468
01:08:49,680 --> 01:08:49,880
Speaker 7: Oh.

1469
01:08:50,120 --> 01:08:55,519
Speaker 1: I don't leave the shop until for thirty. Oh no,

1470
01:08:56,080 --> 01:08:58,160
Speaker 1: I get off the podcast, which we got done with

1471
01:08:58,160 --> 01:08:59,639
Speaker 1: the pod around four twenty.

1472
01:08:59,760 --> 01:09:00,800
Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah.

1473
01:09:00,800 --> 01:09:03,200
Speaker 1: I had a text for my wife around like, let's

1474
01:09:03,200 --> 01:09:04,719
Speaker 1: just call it four oh seven, four.

1475
01:09:04,680 --> 01:09:07,080
Speaker 2: Ten on your way.

1476
01:09:07,360 --> 01:09:09,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, hey, you you're.

1477
01:09:08,840 --> 01:09:10,400
Speaker 2: Gonna be on a four thirty right, Like I'm at

1478
01:09:10,400 --> 01:09:11,479
Speaker 2: to swim lesson with Rue.

1479
01:09:11,960 --> 01:09:13,800
Speaker 1: I just text my wife because I get off the bus,

1480
01:09:13,880 --> 01:09:15,960
Speaker 1: run to my truck boys, I gotta go leave my

1481
01:09:16,000 --> 01:09:20,080
Speaker 1: iPad here. I just text my wife. Oh no, then

1482
01:09:20,120 --> 01:09:21,920
Speaker 1: I'm driving. I'm driving on the highway. I get on

1483
01:09:22,040 --> 01:09:27,400
Speaker 1: my phone. Just slip one hundred dollars venmo. I know

1484
01:09:27,560 --> 01:09:32,080
Speaker 1: my nanny Nanny, textan nanny Texan Danny, and I don't

1485
01:09:32,080 --> 01:09:34,519
Speaker 1: say anything. I just under U because I've done it,

1486
01:09:35,160 --> 01:09:36,639
Speaker 1: not like a couple of times, but say, I gotta

1487
01:09:36,640 --> 01:09:38,840
Speaker 1: be on four thirty. I'm like, hey, ETA's four thirty

1488
01:09:38,880 --> 01:09:40,800
Speaker 1: four or something like that you might get backed up.

1489
01:09:40,680 --> 01:09:42,000
Speaker 2: On one of those main roads.

1490
01:09:43,400 --> 01:09:46,120
Speaker 1: So knowing that I've had, it's a mystery of letting

1491
01:09:46,120 --> 01:09:49,000
Speaker 1: her know run a late I'm so sorry. I just

1492
01:09:49,120 --> 01:09:51,280
Speaker 1: I skipped the sorry stuff and I just sent her

1493
01:09:51,320 --> 01:09:55,400
Speaker 1: a Venmo and the subject line was running late, I'm

1494
01:09:55,439 --> 01:09:57,200
Speaker 1: sorry and just one hundred dollars venmo.

1495
01:09:57,320 --> 01:09:59,639
Speaker 2: I bet she hopes you run late every Friday.

1496
01:10:00,200 --> 01:10:02,240
Speaker 1: She just laughed, you don't have to send me this

1497
01:10:02,360 --> 01:10:03,120
Speaker 1: is totally okay.

1498
01:10:03,360 --> 01:10:04,080
Speaker 2: I'm like, I do.

1499
01:10:04,560 --> 01:10:08,960
Speaker 1: I truly it pains me when I It gives me

1500
01:10:09,000 --> 01:10:11,679
Speaker 1: anxiety when I know I'm letting people down or feel

1501
01:10:11,720 --> 01:10:14,719
Speaker 1: like I'm disrespecting their time by not being on time.

1502
01:10:15,680 --> 01:10:17,760
Speaker 2: But another dad lass, I was late.

1503
01:10:20,240 --> 01:10:24,160
Speaker 1: But yeah, those are some good dad loss We got

1504
01:10:24,160 --> 01:10:24,960
Speaker 1: good dad losses.

1505
01:10:25,160 --> 01:10:25,680
Speaker 2: Uh.

1506
01:10:25,960 --> 01:10:28,880
Speaker 1: This episode is also brought to us by Kiwiko. You

1507
01:10:28,920 --> 01:10:33,400
Speaker 1: remember a couple of weeks back, Kiweko sent some awesome

1508
01:10:33,680 --> 01:10:37,320
Speaker 1: packages to Will and I. This is a subscription based

1509
01:10:37,320 --> 01:10:43,400
Speaker 1: company that sends some great projects toys, kind of hands

1510
01:10:43,400 --> 01:10:46,920
Speaker 1: on engineering projects for you and your kiddos to play with.

1511
01:10:47,600 --> 01:10:51,360
Speaker 1: Kiweko sent us and Scarlet a fun little play Matt

1512
01:10:51,880 --> 01:10:54,280
Speaker 1: that she is obsessed with that has like a little

1513
01:10:54,320 --> 01:10:58,439
Speaker 1: fold out deal that has a mirror and little like

1514
01:10:58,560 --> 01:11:01,920
Speaker 1: different fabrics for her to feel with their hands. Scarlet's

1515
01:11:01,920 --> 01:11:04,880
Speaker 1: a three month old and she has been obsessed with

1516
01:11:04,920 --> 01:11:07,920
Speaker 1: her Kiwi co playmat. So thank you for that Kiwi

1517
01:11:08,040 --> 01:11:09,360
Speaker 1: Coo and for the listeners.

1518
01:11:09,400 --> 01:11:09,720
Speaker 2: At home.

1519
01:11:09,760 --> 01:11:13,600
Speaker 3: With Kiwiko, kids learned the fundamentals or hands on projects

1520
01:11:13,680 --> 01:11:17,040
Speaker 3: and progressively build their skills with each new project they

1521
01:11:17,080 --> 01:11:22,240
Speaker 3: work on. So these subscription based projects are coming in

1522
01:11:22,920 --> 01:11:25,479
Speaker 3: every month. You're going to have one every month show

1523
01:11:25,560 --> 01:11:29,200
Speaker 3: up at your door. Watch your kids grow go from

1524
01:11:29,560 --> 01:11:33,080
Speaker 3: learning to build bows and arrows to engineering their own robots.

1525
01:11:33,600 --> 01:11:37,480
Speaker 3: Kiwi co creates encourage kids to be creative, bold, curious,

1526
01:11:37,920 --> 01:11:42,799
Speaker 3: and persistent. Through hands on play Kiwi Coo. With Kiwiko,

1527
01:11:43,040 --> 01:11:46,200
Speaker 3: kids can discover they have what it takes to build

1528
01:11:46,320 --> 01:11:51,200
Speaker 3: and innovate. Kids build skills over time with robotics, engineering,

1529
01:11:51,479 --> 01:11:54,800
Speaker 3: art techniques and more. It can be hard to find

1530
01:11:54,800 --> 01:11:59,720
Speaker 3: a creative gift to keep your child engage, challenge and

1531
01:12:00,080 --> 01:12:03,040
Speaker 3: off of their screens. Kew Coode does the legwork for

1532
01:12:03,200 --> 01:12:06,839
Speaker 3: you so you can spend quality time tackling projects together.

1533
01:12:07,240 --> 01:12:11,080
Speaker 3: There's no commitment, so you can pause or cancel your subscription.

1534
01:12:11,320 --> 01:12:16,040
Speaker 3: Anytime tinker, create and innovate with Kiwi Coo. Get up

1535
01:12:16,040 --> 01:12:21,040
Speaker 3: to fifty percent off your first crate at kwecode dot com.

1536
01:12:21,240 --> 01:12:23,320
Speaker 3: Promo code for the Dads.

1537
01:12:23,840 --> 01:12:27,800
Speaker 1: That's up to fifty percent off your first crate at

1538
01:12:27,920 --> 01:12:34,439
Speaker 1: kiwico dot com promo code for the Dads. Let's get

1539
01:12:34,439 --> 01:12:37,000
Speaker 1: back to this episode, Crack a Cold one.

1540
01:12:37,040 --> 01:12:39,439
Speaker 3: Crack a col I. I had a quick dad loss.

1541
01:12:39,560 --> 01:12:43,719
Speaker 3: It's the scarscar is just in between diaper sizes right now, Okay,

1542
01:12:43,800 --> 01:12:49,160
Speaker 3: size one too small, Size two is too big, and

1543
01:12:49,200 --> 01:12:52,679
Speaker 3: so it's like we're overflow the poopy and size one.

1544
01:12:52,560 --> 01:12:55,000
Speaker 1: Dips combs out because it's so compressed.

1545
01:12:55,000 --> 01:12:57,559
Speaker 3: Because it's so compressed, and then size two it's leaking

1546
01:12:57,600 --> 01:12:59,080
Speaker 3: out the legs with the pp.

1547
01:12:59,360 --> 01:13:02,920
Speaker 2: And you got the right, yes, dude, just strap that motherfucker.

1548
01:13:03,040 --> 01:13:07,640
Speaker 1: How long we we are I'm talking, oh.

1549
01:13:07,520 --> 01:13:12,840
Speaker 2: Besides too we I mean that thing is you know, yeah, and.

1550
01:13:12,720 --> 01:13:15,960
Speaker 1: We're folded folding the leg parts out.

1551
01:13:16,040 --> 01:13:16,479
Speaker 2: I mean.

1552
01:13:17,920 --> 01:13:22,280
Speaker 3: It's crazy, Yeah, it's tough, it's tough, but yeah that's

1553
01:13:22,280 --> 01:13:23,519
Speaker 3: my that's my dad loss.

1554
01:13:23,880 --> 01:13:29,719
Speaker 1: So uh, crack of Cold one already went on. Looks

1555
01:13:30,120 --> 01:13:32,600
Speaker 1: you get in the story, like the entire story of

1556
01:13:32,640 --> 01:13:36,200
Speaker 1: the nature walk had some dad hacks, some losses, some

1557
01:13:36,280 --> 01:13:39,360
Speaker 1: way a w FO trenches. You just tell the story.

1558
01:13:39,400 --> 01:13:41,160
Speaker 1: If you got a loss or a hack within that.

1559
01:13:41,240 --> 01:13:41,800
Speaker 1: There it is.

1560
01:13:43,040 --> 01:13:43,880
Speaker 2: I'm done. I did.

1561
01:13:44,000 --> 01:13:45,840
Speaker 1: I didn't like a cold one, but I have a

1562
01:13:45,880 --> 01:13:48,320
Speaker 1: real crack of cold one. What happened?

1563
01:13:49,720 --> 01:13:52,960
Speaker 2: Scotty started to taking a couple of steps? Wait really?

1564
01:13:53,200 --> 01:13:53,800
Speaker 1: Yeah?

1565
01:13:54,160 --> 01:13:54,479
Speaker 2: Yeah?

1566
01:13:55,680 --> 01:13:59,720
Speaker 1: Got a text on uh on Wednesday from Charro like

1567
01:14:00,439 --> 01:14:03,320
Speaker 1: Scotty took Scottie took her first step or something like that.

1568
01:14:03,400 --> 01:14:06,280
Speaker 1: What And you know, I'm thinking of my push her down,

1569
01:14:06,320 --> 01:14:08,640
Speaker 1: don't let her like dad has got to do.

1570
01:14:08,800 --> 01:14:09,879
Speaker 2: Let her take some steps.

1571
01:14:10,280 --> 01:14:13,479
Speaker 1: But yeah, bro, she's like taking She's like very they're

1572
01:14:13,520 --> 01:14:16,320
Speaker 1: like very small, but she's figuring it out. You know,

1573
01:14:16,400 --> 01:14:19,400
Speaker 1: I thought she was gonna walk early. I saw this, dude.

1574
01:14:19,760 --> 01:14:22,080
Speaker 3: I could see it in the five minutes that we

1575
01:14:22,080 --> 01:14:24,720
Speaker 3: were at cheek Wood. The way she's pulling herself up

1576
01:14:24,760 --> 01:14:29,400
Speaker 3: on our stroller, your stroller, just crawling, crawl, leaves all

1577
01:14:29,439 --> 01:14:32,080
Speaker 3: over the wait, crawled over to another family, saying and

1578
01:14:32,080 --> 01:14:34,760
Speaker 3: starts climbing up on their looks, letting them know, hey,

1579
01:14:34,760 --> 01:14:35,639
Speaker 3: scott Zilla's here.

1580
01:14:35,760 --> 01:14:38,400
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, shout out, shut up.

1581
01:14:38,560 --> 01:14:39,160
Speaker 2: He shout out.

1582
01:14:39,200 --> 01:14:41,040
Speaker 1: But yeah, so crag cole one Scott, he's kind of

1583
01:14:41,040 --> 01:14:42,880
Speaker 1: taking her first step. She loves to hold like these

1584
01:14:42,920 --> 01:14:45,360
Speaker 1: little like, you know, I might take objects she's playing with,

1585
01:14:45,400 --> 01:14:47,400
Speaker 1: because of course she doesn't want to try and walk

1586
01:14:48,000 --> 01:14:50,000
Speaker 1: when we're trying to get her to walk, she wants

1587
01:14:50,000 --> 01:14:53,639
Speaker 1: to just fall down on her button crawl and but uh,

1588
01:14:53,680 --> 01:14:55,639
Speaker 1: like taking a little objects she plays with, I'm kind

1589
01:14:55,640 --> 01:14:57,080
Speaker 1: of like holding them. If it's something small enough, I

1590
01:14:57,160 --> 01:14:58,720
Speaker 1: kind of holding my teeth and I'm like holding her

1591
01:14:58,760 --> 01:15:00,720
Speaker 1: up and I'm like, scotty him, come get it. And

1592
01:15:00,760 --> 01:15:03,160
Speaker 1: she's like standing there and she like, you know, hands up,

1593
01:15:03,280 --> 01:15:06,120
Speaker 1: and she like takes like two little ones and falls down.

1594
01:15:06,240 --> 01:15:07,840
Speaker 2: But Bro, she's getting there.

1595
01:15:08,280 --> 01:15:10,120
Speaker 1: She's getting there for first steps, and by the time

1596
01:15:10,120 --> 01:15:11,960
Speaker 1: this pod comes out, maybe she will have taken her

1597
01:15:12,000 --> 01:15:14,640
Speaker 1: first steps. So try to get some video so we

1598
01:15:14,640 --> 01:15:17,960
Speaker 1: can loop it in here. But bro, get a crack

1599
01:15:18,080 --> 01:15:18,719
Speaker 1: a cold one.

1600
01:15:18,720 --> 01:15:21,120
Speaker 3: Crack a cold one, and also I cracked a cold

1601
01:15:21,160 --> 01:15:25,720
Speaker 3: little form energy into one of our PT six whiskey glasses.

1602
01:15:25,840 --> 01:15:28,400
Speaker 1: Yes, so my man who's talking about wife's out of town,

1603
01:15:28,439 --> 01:15:30,679
Speaker 1: he hates it. She crack open the whiskey and poured

1604
01:15:30,720 --> 01:15:33,400
Speaker 1: into a nice glass. There are some nice glasses for

1605
01:15:33,520 --> 01:15:36,479
Speaker 1: the PT six sick goes out there. Holiday season is

1606
01:15:36,520 --> 01:15:42,840
Speaker 1: coming up. BT six Whiskey Glasses at btwtv dot com.

1607
01:15:43,479 --> 01:15:45,360
Speaker 3: I also have to give a shout out a crack

1608
01:15:45,360 --> 01:15:49,200
Speaker 3: a cold one to Scott Zilla's dance moves. I don't

1609
01:15:49,240 --> 01:15:52,839
Speaker 3: think I've ever been inspired by a infants dance moves

1610
01:15:52,880 --> 01:15:55,960
Speaker 3: like that before. The sheer energy that's coming off of

1611
01:15:56,040 --> 01:16:01,320
Speaker 3: Scott Zilla. It's palpable, the one hand on whatever she's

1612
01:16:01,320 --> 01:16:04,840
Speaker 3: holding to bounce herself, and then this hand is doing

1613
01:16:04,920 --> 01:16:07,080
Speaker 3: almost like a booty slap but not quite.

1614
01:16:07,320 --> 01:16:07,599
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1615
01:16:07,640 --> 01:16:11,840
Speaker 1: And then also the hey, she'll look up at you

1616
01:16:12,000 --> 01:16:12,599
Speaker 1: at charos.

1617
01:16:12,640 --> 01:16:15,720
Speaker 3: She even looked at me. She she'll stop while she's

1618
01:16:15,800 --> 01:16:18,800
Speaker 3: dancing and go, yo, you seeing the ship. Once you

1619
01:16:18,840 --> 01:16:20,080
Speaker 3: lock eyes with her, then.

1620
01:16:19,960 --> 01:16:25,160
Speaker 1: She yeah, yeah, it's crazy's out there riding the horse man.

1621
01:16:25,520 --> 01:16:29,240
Speaker 3: Riding the horse. She's letting people know Scott Zilla is

1622
01:16:29,280 --> 01:16:30,040
Speaker 3: here to stay.

1623
01:16:30,080 --> 01:16:31,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, here to stay. Yeah.

1624
01:16:31,920 --> 01:16:35,200
Speaker 1: It's the new draft class. Yeah, yeah, it's the first

1625
01:16:35,240 --> 01:16:37,200
Speaker 1: round pick. You see those rookies coming up. You say

1626
01:16:37,439 --> 01:16:39,280
Speaker 1: he's starting for the long man. You gotta keep the

1627
01:16:39,280 --> 01:16:41,519
Speaker 1: shoes off of her. Yeah, yeah, yeah, but yeah she's

1628
01:16:41,560 --> 01:16:46,800
Speaker 1: a stud Man survival kit. Mind, simply survival kit. What

1629
01:16:46,920 --> 01:16:48,240
Speaker 1: a time of the year and a shouting out to

1630
01:16:48,320 --> 01:16:51,800
Speaker 1: October just a Halloween costume. No better time as a

1631
01:16:51,840 --> 01:16:53,800
Speaker 1: new parent or as a parent and getting your little

1632
01:16:53,800 --> 01:16:56,559
Speaker 1: one in a costume that they love. I was trying

1633
01:16:56,560 --> 01:17:03,920
Speaker 1: to talk Rue into Deadpool. Be a Deadpool, Oh to

1634
01:17:04,120 --> 01:17:06,599
Speaker 1: be Deadpool. For trying to talk her into some cool

1635
01:17:06,640 --> 01:17:09,320
Speaker 1: costumes that I think would be funny or cool. Yeah,

1636
01:17:09,360 --> 01:17:12,280
Speaker 1: we ended up on a fairy dress, ordering a fairy

1637
01:17:12,400 --> 01:17:16,880
Speaker 1: dress off to post it. But she loves princess. You

1638
01:17:16,880 --> 01:17:21,879
Speaker 1: don't want to be Shrek? Yeah, Rue, Rue, it wouldn't

1639
01:17:21,880 --> 01:17:25,000
Speaker 1: be Batman? Yes, hey, Rue, you want to shave your

1640
01:17:25,040 --> 01:17:26,559
Speaker 1: head like your dad. We put you in a wheelchair.

1641
01:17:26,600 --> 01:17:29,040
Speaker 1: You'd be Professor x Yo Dad at gonna be Bane?

1642
01:17:29,160 --> 01:17:31,479
Speaker 1: You could be Batman. You want to be a joker.

1643
01:17:31,800 --> 01:17:35,720
Speaker 1: You want to be the beast. Paint your blue? Why

1644
01:17:35,720 --> 01:17:37,280
Speaker 1: are you trying to dress up as the beauty when

1645
01:17:37,320 --> 01:17:38,720
Speaker 1: you could be the beef? My wife and I were

1646
01:17:38,760 --> 01:17:40,680
Speaker 1: looking right now, we're trying to find a little wolverine

1647
01:17:40,720 --> 01:17:41,719
Speaker 1: costume for Scottie.

1648
01:17:43,760 --> 01:17:46,879
Speaker 2: That would be unreal, that'd be unreal.

1649
01:17:47,160 --> 01:17:50,120
Speaker 1: Might just on fund her a Godzilla costume. Yeah, you

1650
01:17:50,439 --> 01:17:54,240
Speaker 1: just put a dinosaur costume. Yeah, I mean literally would

1651
01:17:54,280 --> 01:17:58,240
Speaker 1: be perfect. She would crush. But Halloween costumes for Survival Kid,

1652
01:17:58,280 --> 01:18:01,839
Speaker 1: she's an absolute mustering Halloween parents know this, like there's

1653
01:18:02,120 --> 01:18:04,000
Speaker 1: it's so fun to dress a little one up in

1654
01:18:04,000 --> 01:18:04,519
Speaker 1: a costume.

1655
01:18:04,600 --> 01:18:06,840
Speaker 3: We got a good one for I think I told

1656
01:18:06,880 --> 01:18:09,160
Speaker 3: you on the phone, but we got to going for

1657
01:18:09,240 --> 01:18:11,240
Speaker 3: Scarlett Jill found on Etsy.

1658
01:18:11,360 --> 01:18:13,160
Speaker 1: It's creative, it's fun. It's easy.

1659
01:18:13,720 --> 01:18:15,479
Speaker 2: Throw a little white onesie on him.

1660
01:18:15,560 --> 01:18:19,639
Speaker 3: Get some cotton balls, you dip them in some pink spray,

1661
01:18:19,640 --> 01:18:22,559
Speaker 3: pam and pink so she looks like cotton candy. And

1662
01:18:22,560 --> 01:18:24,840
Speaker 3: then you put a little cotton candy cone on her head.

1663
01:18:25,120 --> 01:18:27,520
Speaker 1: Gosh, you guys are going to be obsessed.

1664
01:18:27,640 --> 01:18:30,599
Speaker 3: And then you put aprons on the parents with cotton

1665
01:18:30,640 --> 01:18:33,799
Speaker 3: candy all over our aprons because we made the cotton candy.

1666
01:18:34,800 --> 01:18:35,799
Speaker 2: That's kind of funny.

1667
01:18:36,040 --> 01:18:40,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's awesome. When rush her first, like round one

1668
01:18:40,880 --> 01:18:42,240
Speaker 1: or whatever I want to say.

1669
01:18:42,240 --> 01:18:46,040
Speaker 2: We had her as like the Michelin Man. That's genius.

1670
01:18:46,160 --> 01:18:49,880
Speaker 1: That's something where she just you know, arms out, just

1671
01:18:50,120 --> 01:18:52,840
Speaker 1: puff all around her and she was adorable.

1672
01:18:52,880 --> 01:18:58,240
Speaker 2: Bro throw the like Ralphie from Christmas story. Yeah, oh yes,

1673
01:18:58,840 --> 01:18:59,800
Speaker 2: and he's got all the.

1674
01:18:59,840 --> 01:19:05,679
Speaker 1: La Christmas story bro so on Christmas every year growing

1675
01:19:05,760 --> 01:19:08,640
Speaker 1: up my mom, it was mandatory that Christmas story was

1676
01:19:08,680 --> 01:19:10,639
Speaker 1: just on loop throughout the entire day.

1677
01:19:10,840 --> 01:19:13,240
Speaker 2: That's o clo. That's how you must have every Christmas.

1678
01:19:13,240 --> 01:19:16,200
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah, you'll shoot your eye out.

1679
01:19:15,840 --> 01:19:18,679
Speaker 1: You have nothing more adorable than some costumes. But because

1680
01:19:18,720 --> 01:19:20,679
Speaker 1: you know, you just got you love kissing your little

1681
01:19:20,720 --> 01:19:23,000
Speaker 1: one so much, like so much, you just tell them

1682
01:19:23,000 --> 01:19:25,240
Speaker 1: like I could take out a steak knife and eat

1683
01:19:25,360 --> 01:19:27,720
Speaker 1: you up. I could put your cheek, I could put

1684
01:19:27,760 --> 01:19:29,800
Speaker 1: your cheeks in the oven at three seventy five for

1685
01:19:29,920 --> 01:19:33,439
Speaker 1: ten minutes and eat your little cheeks up, consume you. Yeah,

1686
01:19:33,760 --> 01:19:37,360
Speaker 1: you just love too much. You know when they're a

1687
01:19:37,360 --> 01:19:40,360
Speaker 1: little like it's gonna sound weird, but when you're just

1688
01:19:40,400 --> 01:19:42,920
Speaker 1: giving them kisses and smooches and they're like, cheek kind

1689
01:19:42,960 --> 01:19:45,320
Speaker 1: of gets in your lips a little bit. That sounds wild.

1690
01:19:45,479 --> 01:19:48,519
Speaker 1: But that sounds wild, It sounds wild, but you just

1691
01:19:48,600 --> 01:19:52,559
Speaker 1: you're you love it. I will say Scarlett has now begun.

1692
01:19:52,800 --> 01:19:56,799
Speaker 1: This is breaking, this is breaking. We've been doing kisses

1693
01:19:56,800 --> 01:19:59,040
Speaker 1: for a while now and she is just now starting

1694
01:19:59,080 --> 01:20:02,080
Speaker 1: to realize what kisses are. Jill and I will give

1695
01:20:02,200 --> 01:20:05,479
Speaker 1: kisses to each other in front of skillet and she

1696
01:20:05,920 --> 01:20:08,200
Speaker 1: like kind of lights up and it's like, Yo, what.

1697
01:20:08,320 --> 01:20:09,639
Speaker 2: Hey, what's going on?

1698
01:20:10,680 --> 01:20:12,719
Speaker 3: And now when we go in to give her kisses

1699
01:20:12,760 --> 01:20:16,040
Speaker 3: and go go in to give her kisses, she doesn't

1700
01:20:16,040 --> 01:20:18,760
Speaker 3: know how to do like right, a true kissy thing,

1701
01:20:18,800 --> 01:20:20,760
Speaker 3: but she goes like this with their lips.

1702
01:20:23,439 --> 01:20:27,439
Speaker 2: She's trying. Yeah, she's trying. It's the cutest singing the world, dude.

1703
01:20:27,520 --> 01:20:27,720
Speaker 5: Bro.

1704
01:20:28,240 --> 01:20:32,040
Speaker 1: The the the arc of kisses are is the best

1705
01:20:32,920 --> 01:20:34,840
Speaker 1: because you and your wife you'll be showing like you know,

1706
01:20:34,880 --> 01:20:37,120
Speaker 1: whether it's hugs, like anytime Tarn and I was doing

1707
01:20:37,439 --> 01:20:40,200
Speaker 1: a good like eight second hug at home just in

1708
01:20:40,240 --> 01:20:42,479
Speaker 1: the afternoon when we're both home we see each other,

1709
01:20:42,960 --> 01:20:44,880
Speaker 1: or if somebody's doing the dish or something, and you're

1710
01:20:44,880 --> 01:20:47,120
Speaker 1: just like, hey, it's hug time. You just give a

1711
01:20:47,160 --> 01:20:50,559
Speaker 1: long hug. Roos sies. And she's always like family hug.

1712
01:20:51,000 --> 01:20:53,160
Speaker 1: Everyone runs over and it's just me and charl hugging,

1713
01:20:53,200 --> 01:20:55,160
Speaker 1: and Rue's got her arms around both of our legs.

1714
01:20:55,160 --> 01:20:58,200
Speaker 1: We do family hugs all yeah, but kind of showing them.

1715
01:20:58,240 --> 01:21:00,960
Speaker 1: It's like, you know, the affection in front of them. Rue.

1716
01:21:00,960 --> 01:21:02,840
Speaker 1: Now she knows how, she knows how to kiss, and

1717
01:21:02,840 --> 01:21:04,640
Speaker 1: you'll be like hug and kiss and she knows how

1718
01:21:04,680 --> 01:21:06,960
Speaker 1: to aim and she just give you a kiss. Bro.

1719
01:21:07,080 --> 01:21:08,960
Speaker 2: It's I will say.

1720
01:21:09,040 --> 01:21:12,800
Speaker 3: That's the other like huge win from the weekend with

1721
01:21:12,840 --> 01:21:17,360
Speaker 3: Scarlett is Scarlet and I are way closer, way closer.

1722
01:21:17,560 --> 01:21:22,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, Like truly she is like, yo, he fucks. Like

1723
01:21:23,880 --> 01:21:26,280
Speaker 1: we're kind of sitting there like or whenever you need.

1724
01:21:26,600 --> 01:21:29,000
Speaker 1: She's kind of becoming a daddy's girl. Yes, you do

1725
01:21:29,040 --> 01:21:33,000
Speaker 1: feel like there's like the gap is closing. Yes, you

1726
01:21:33,000 --> 01:21:35,679
Speaker 1: better recognize it because it's closing fast. Jill got upset.

1727
01:21:35,760 --> 01:21:39,280
Speaker 3: She was like holding Scarlet right when she got back

1728
01:21:39,280 --> 01:21:42,840
Speaker 3: from the airport. And as she's holding Scarlet, Scarlett is

1729
01:21:42,920 --> 01:21:47,679
Speaker 3: tracking me everywhere throughout the wherever Dad goes. Her eyes

1730
01:21:47,720 --> 01:21:49,760
Speaker 3: are going and Jill's like, oh, okay, so I just

1731
01:21:49,760 --> 01:21:53,720
Speaker 3: don't exist anymore. Yeah, I'm like, sorry, our guys, let

1732
01:21:53,800 --> 01:21:56,320
Speaker 3: her know. Let her know that has always kind of

1733
01:21:56,320 --> 01:22:00,880
Speaker 3: been written. She just on game now that's coming. But uh,

1734
01:22:00,920 --> 01:22:03,800
Speaker 3: more ways than one, man, Hey, come on, I got

1735
01:22:03,840 --> 01:22:08,160
Speaker 3: a crack a cold one. We did Dad losses. Oh

1736
01:22:08,240 --> 01:22:12,040
Speaker 3: the survival kit, my survival kid officially is the MRCU

1737
01:22:12,400 --> 01:22:13,839
Speaker 3: Baby flash Cards.

1738
01:22:13,960 --> 01:22:15,880
Speaker 1: You can find them at Target. They're very cheap. They're

1739
01:22:15,920 --> 01:22:16,599
Speaker 1: like ten bucks.

1740
01:22:17,520 --> 01:22:20,040
Speaker 3: And dude, I'm telling you, like, if you're a new

1741
01:22:20,080 --> 01:22:24,679
Speaker 3: parent and you need that little something where like you're

1742
01:22:24,720 --> 01:22:28,679
Speaker 3: interacting with your kid, Yeah, it's not distracting your kid.

1743
01:22:28,720 --> 01:22:32,759
Speaker 3: It's like, truly, my kid needs something going on because

1744
01:22:32,760 --> 01:22:37,400
Speaker 3: they are bored. They're crying because they need something to

1745
01:22:37,520 --> 01:22:41,400
Speaker 3: play with, to interact with these flashcards, dude, and you

1746
01:22:41,439 --> 01:22:44,280
Speaker 3: feel like you're teaching them even though I'm like, there's

1747
01:22:44,320 --> 01:22:47,000
Speaker 3: probably no way that this is being retained right now.

1748
01:22:47,200 --> 01:22:49,320
Speaker 2: It will though at some point, Yeah, Scotti.

1749
01:22:49,520 --> 01:22:51,080
Speaker 1: You know, when she's sitting there and we do the

1750
01:22:51,120 --> 01:22:54,559
Speaker 1: flash cards, whether it's balloon and shoot, it's like you lay.

1751
01:22:54,439 --> 01:22:56,559
Speaker 2: Them in front of you and and we'll be like.

1752
01:22:57,160 --> 01:22:59,840
Speaker 1: Where's the balloon, and she's just like she like lean

1753
01:22:59,880 --> 01:23:02,280
Speaker 1: in hitting. Whether or not she's actually knowing, I guess

1754
01:23:02,320 --> 01:23:05,040
Speaker 1: you don't know. We like to think because she'll hit

1755
01:23:05,080 --> 01:23:07,960
Speaker 1: a few in a row. Yeah, and like that now

1756
01:23:08,000 --> 01:23:11,160
Speaker 1: she's again ten eleven months. You know, go get the

1757
01:23:11,320 --> 01:23:13,280
Speaker 1: go get the ball, Like the ball be sitting somewhere,

1758
01:23:13,280 --> 01:23:14,800
Speaker 1: buy my back, Go get the ball, and she'll crawl

1759
01:23:14,800 --> 01:23:16,360
Speaker 1: over and get the ball, so she kind of knows

1760
01:23:16,360 --> 01:23:18,519
Speaker 1: what things are. Yeah, you'll see it.

1761
01:23:18,120 --> 01:23:19,519
Speaker 2: It's fun, man.

1762
01:23:19,800 --> 01:23:22,679
Speaker 1: It's been it's been a blast. She loves shout out

1763
01:23:22,680 --> 01:23:25,080
Speaker 1: the lightning flash guard.

1764
01:23:25,160 --> 01:23:27,639
Speaker 3: There's one with the lightning bolt, and dude, I'm telling you,

1765
01:23:27,720 --> 01:23:30,920
Speaker 3: every single flashguard she's kind of like ooh reacts to it.

1766
01:23:31,040 --> 01:23:34,240
Speaker 3: When the lightning one comes up, she truly does a

1767
01:23:35,320 --> 01:23:40,040
Speaker 3: like blinks and kind of is like, yeah, I'm like,

1768
01:23:40,560 --> 01:23:42,000
Speaker 3: you're gonna love the movie Cars.

1769
01:23:42,160 --> 01:23:42,800
Speaker 2: Let me tell you.

1770
01:23:42,880 --> 01:23:46,720
Speaker 3: Yeah, but yeah, shout out that. And then also you

1771
01:23:46,760 --> 01:23:50,800
Speaker 3: shouted out Chara. Want to shout out Jill of when

1772
01:23:50,880 --> 01:23:55,439
Speaker 3: she came back in town, I was still doing the

1773
01:23:55,479 --> 01:23:59,760
Speaker 3: morning like wake up, feed and stuff. But she was like, hey,

1774
01:23:59,800 --> 01:24:03,280
Speaker 3: I'll I'll do the morning wake up since you had

1775
01:24:03,320 --> 01:24:06,320
Speaker 3: her all weekend. And she did the morning wake up

1776
01:24:06,760 --> 01:24:11,360
Speaker 3: three mornings in a row and cooked breakfasts during the

1777
01:24:11,400 --> 01:24:16,880
Speaker 3: morning wake ups. Was bringing me breakfast likely as I

1778
01:24:17,000 --> 01:24:18,759
Speaker 3: was waking up out of bed, I have a plate

1779
01:24:18,800 --> 01:24:21,880
Speaker 3: of eggs and toast in my lap. I'm like, what

1780
01:24:22,000 --> 01:24:25,799
Speaker 3: is going on? This is incredible. Shout out Jill, Shout

1781
01:24:25,800 --> 01:24:29,040
Speaker 3: out the wifey.

1782
01:24:29,160 --> 01:24:30,880
Speaker 1: I'm trying to think of what her angle is here,

1783
01:24:31,080 --> 01:24:34,200
Speaker 1: I know, because the game's always being place is like

1784
01:24:34,240 --> 01:24:38,839
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, like, yeah, did I do something?

1785
01:24:39,600 --> 01:24:39,960
Speaker 2: Yeah?

1786
01:24:40,000 --> 01:24:42,559
Speaker 1: Like is it really if she takes the three wake

1787
01:24:42,640 --> 01:24:43,280
Speaker 1: ups in a row?

1788
01:24:43,439 --> 01:24:43,799
Speaker 2: Yeah?

1789
01:24:43,960 --> 01:24:46,320
Speaker 1: To me, that screams I'm trying to get back up

1790
01:24:46,360 --> 01:24:49,800
Speaker 1: on the scoreboard and this is a mommy's girl. But

1791
01:24:49,880 --> 01:24:53,360
Speaker 1: the breakfast move that's where the antennas go.

1792
01:24:53,400 --> 01:24:57,120
Speaker 3: Up, that's like, oh, keep him at bay like, oh here,

1793
01:24:57,200 --> 01:24:59,760
Speaker 3: oh I got food yay, And he's not thinking what

1794
01:24:59,880 --> 01:25:02,800
Speaker 3: I I'm really trying to do become the favorite paring again.

1795
01:25:03,000 --> 01:25:06,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, Yeah, she's gonna hit you over at the top

1796
01:25:06,200 --> 01:25:06,679
Speaker 1: of something.

1797
01:25:06,760 --> 01:25:07,960
Speaker 2: You gotta be ready.

1798
01:25:08,560 --> 01:25:12,599
Speaker 1: I should bring her lunch after we're done recording. Yeah,

1799
01:25:12,800 --> 01:25:16,519
Speaker 1: which I tried to shoot her Venmo right now too, Okay,

1800
01:25:18,400 --> 01:25:25,120
Speaker 1: latte on Daddy, Yeah that is you got me kind

1801
01:25:25,120 --> 01:25:25,720
Speaker 1: of worried now.

1802
01:25:27,400 --> 01:25:32,360
Speaker 2: And also say say, I say, how's Miami again? How's Miami?

1803
01:25:32,479 --> 01:25:35,320
Speaker 2: Anything I need to know? Yeah, what'd y'all do? You'll

1804
01:25:35,360 --> 01:25:37,200
Speaker 2: go to one of those magic mic shows?

1805
01:25:38,320 --> 01:25:39,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, you get a lot of names.

1806
01:25:39,880 --> 01:25:44,280
Speaker 2: I don't know what you do. Who went?

1807
01:25:45,280 --> 01:25:46,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, who's who's you with?

1808
01:25:47,240 --> 01:25:48,080
Speaker 2: Who's bachelorette.

1809
01:25:48,080 --> 01:25:50,360
Speaker 1: Oh nothing, just you know, breakfast and you know, eggs

1810
01:25:50,360 --> 01:25:51,200
Speaker 1: and toast three days.

1811
01:25:51,080 --> 01:25:51,400
Speaker 2: In a row.

1812
01:25:51,439 --> 01:25:53,280
Speaker 1: How many girls are crazy?

1813
01:25:53,680 --> 01:25:54,800
Speaker 2: I didn't go out with them?

1814
01:25:55,280 --> 01:25:55,799
Speaker 1: Oh really?

1815
01:25:56,600 --> 01:26:02,760
Speaker 2: So by texta right now? Yeah, oh my gosh.

1816
01:26:03,200 --> 01:26:06,040
Speaker 1: Or she's she's leveraging up for the first moment that

1817
01:26:06,120 --> 01:26:11,400
Speaker 1: you you you know, you hit below the mark. I got, well,

1818
01:26:11,640 --> 01:26:13,559
Speaker 1: not anymore, because I just sent her a twenty five

1819
01:26:13,600 --> 01:26:16,120
Speaker 1: dollars Venma that said latte on Daddy, and that's a

1820
01:26:16,240 --> 01:26:18,960
Speaker 1: nice Lotte. That's a nice Latu. That's go hey, put

1821
01:26:19,200 --> 01:26:20,759
Speaker 1: the extra in your pocket, get.

1822
01:26:20,680 --> 01:26:28,160
Speaker 3: You something nice, gets scarscard that Halloween costumes stay on it, man, Okay,

1823
01:26:28,280 --> 01:26:30,760
Speaker 3: I also have a or sorry you go ahead with

1824
01:26:30,800 --> 01:26:31,800
Speaker 3: your survival kit.

1825
01:26:31,840 --> 01:26:34,000
Speaker 1: I cut you off the Halloween costume. Already said it,

1826
01:26:34,280 --> 01:26:36,439
Speaker 1: already said it. I will say last weekend I was

1827
01:26:36,520 --> 01:26:40,200
Speaker 1: kind of covering in real time a little bit to

1828
01:26:40,240 --> 01:26:40,719
Speaker 1: an extent.

1829
01:26:41,080 --> 01:26:42,280
Speaker 2: Staycation was unreal.

1830
01:26:43,120 --> 01:26:45,520
Speaker 1: Go yeah, go through. Uh the staycation.

1831
01:26:45,880 --> 01:26:47,320
Speaker 2: I was more of just.

1832
01:26:49,400 --> 01:26:52,840
Speaker 1: Highly recommend just a couples like if your mom and

1833
01:26:52,920 --> 01:26:56,920
Speaker 1: dad it legitimately like I was texting Charro we were

1834
01:26:56,920 --> 01:27:01,400
Speaker 1: talking about because we left here around two last week Yeah,

1835
01:27:01,640 --> 01:27:06,479
Speaker 1: got home like two thirty forty, got the overnight bag.

1836
01:27:06,520 --> 01:27:07,840
Speaker 1: We were in the car, and we got down to

1837
01:27:07,880 --> 01:27:10,479
Speaker 1: the hotel the Four Seasons at like probably a little

1838
01:27:10,479 --> 01:27:11,520
Speaker 1: after three.

1839
01:27:11,680 --> 01:27:12,240
Speaker 2: We were at four.

1840
01:27:12,360 --> 01:27:14,519
Speaker 1: We were at the hotel from that time all the

1841
01:27:14,560 --> 01:27:16,439
Speaker 1: way until the next morning at eleven, when we left

1842
01:27:16,479 --> 01:27:18,719
Speaker 1: and went to go meet you at a meet everybody

1843
01:27:18,720 --> 01:27:22,040
Speaker 1: at cheek Wood. That's why I wasn't texting you. I remember,

1844
01:27:22,080 --> 01:27:25,719
Speaker 1: now there you go. But I was like, he's on staycation, yeah,

1845
01:27:25,760 --> 01:27:28,559
Speaker 1: which I do appreciate. It was a fun to check out,

1846
01:27:28,840 --> 01:27:31,880
Speaker 1: and like the feeling I had driving home, I'm texting,

1847
01:27:32,000 --> 01:27:33,840
Speaker 1: I'm like texting my wife and I'm just like, yo,

1848
01:27:33,960 --> 01:27:38,400
Speaker 1: I feel like excitement, kind of like like butterflies excitement,

1849
01:27:38,439 --> 01:27:41,400
Speaker 1: Like I'm just fired up that we're having a night together.

1850
01:27:41,600 --> 01:27:43,960
Speaker 1: Like I feel like back in the day when you

1851
01:27:44,040 --> 01:27:45,760
Speaker 1: come stay with your boy, whether we were at a

1852
01:27:45,800 --> 01:27:49,080
Speaker 1: hotel or we'd get you know, back in our dating days. Yeah,

1853
01:27:49,160 --> 01:27:51,920
Speaker 1: I like had that excitement. Hey, hey, back when I

1854
01:27:51,960 --> 01:27:57,080
Speaker 1: was with what uh was that Washington, Washington? Yeah, when

1855
01:27:57,120 --> 01:27:59,639
Speaker 1: y'all started dating. I text her, you know a moment

1856
01:27:59,640 --> 01:28:02,519
Speaker 1: time she came when she got back from Japan, she

1857
01:28:02,640 --> 01:28:04,160
Speaker 1: came to visit me down in training camp.

1858
01:28:04,160 --> 01:28:07,920
Speaker 2: But we're at a hotel. Oh yeah, you know, you

1859
01:28:07,920 --> 01:28:09,480
Speaker 2: guys can read between the lines.

1860
01:28:09,240 --> 01:28:17,040
Speaker 1: Then that there was gonna be like story.

1861
01:28:17,600 --> 01:28:19,640
Speaker 2: There was a story, but for another.

1862
01:28:19,360 --> 01:28:22,479
Speaker 1: Top sweetheart shout out Cheetos shot he shout out to

1863
01:28:22,520 --> 01:28:27,639
Speaker 1: Little Easter Egg Cheetos. Okay, but it was a highly

1864
01:28:27,680 --> 01:28:30,000
Speaker 1: recommend It felt like we went from mom and dad,

1865
01:28:30,360 --> 01:28:32,080
Speaker 1: mom and dad to boyfriend and girlfriend.

1866
01:28:32,280 --> 01:28:32,479
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1867
01:28:32,520 --> 01:28:34,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, and it was a great like we had a

1868
01:28:34,160 --> 01:28:36,599
Speaker 1: little spot ay like I had. It wasn't a couple's

1869
01:28:36,640 --> 01:28:39,440
Speaker 1: massage or nothing like that. Like my time was set

1870
01:28:39,479 --> 01:28:42,439
Speaker 1: like four hers was four thirty. You got access to

1871
01:28:42,479 --> 01:28:47,000
Speaker 1: the spa like steam room, relaxation lounge, and knowing that

1872
01:28:47,040 --> 01:28:49,000
Speaker 1: we were checked out from the kids, we're right down

1873
01:28:49,040 --> 01:28:52,080
Speaker 1: the road obviously. Yeah, but it was fun. It was

1874
01:28:52,120 --> 01:28:54,880
Speaker 1: a really good time. Got you know, got Trey, got

1875
01:28:54,960 --> 01:28:58,000
Speaker 1: dressed up for dinner, went down, had dinner in the

1876
01:28:58,200 --> 01:29:01,360
Speaker 1: in the restaurant at the hotel. We had dinner for

1877
01:29:01,760 --> 01:29:05,600
Speaker 1: probably two and a half, maybe pushing three hours. We

1878
01:29:05,680 --> 01:29:08,280
Speaker 1: got real parent mode, like you went up, we had

1879
01:29:08,320 --> 01:29:10,599
Speaker 1: a little bit of fun and like we're gonna watch

1880
01:29:10,600 --> 01:29:13,240
Speaker 1: a movie. Yeah, then you kind of the parent, the

1881
01:29:13,280 --> 01:29:15,519
Speaker 1: adult kicks inside, you're like, let's just go to sleep.

1882
01:29:15,920 --> 01:29:16,240
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1883
01:29:16,439 --> 01:29:19,840
Speaker 1: Got we watched about eleven previews, eleven trailers. We're like,

1884
01:29:19,880 --> 01:29:22,160
Speaker 1: do we really want to spend twenty five bucks on

1885
01:29:22,200 --> 01:29:23,960
Speaker 1: a movie in the hotel room? None of them seem

1886
01:29:24,000 --> 01:29:25,320
Speaker 1: like they're going to be that good. Let you know what,

1887
01:29:25,439 --> 01:29:26,400
Speaker 1: let's get some shut eye.

1888
01:29:26,840 --> 01:29:31,240
Speaker 2: Did you did you have leftovers from the restaurant?

1889
01:29:31,640 --> 01:29:34,160
Speaker 1: No? We were so full, bro, Yeah, because it was

1890
01:29:34,200 --> 01:29:37,800
Speaker 1: like the staycation. When my wife was like, Hey, what

1891
01:29:37,840 --> 01:29:39,559
Speaker 1: do you want for your birthday? My birthday was on

1892
01:29:39,560 --> 01:29:41,519
Speaker 1: September nineteenth, She's like, what do you want for your birthday?

1893
01:29:41,520 --> 01:29:43,160
Speaker 1: I was like, honestly, bro, it would be sick if

1894
01:29:43,160 --> 01:29:45,320
Speaker 1: we just do a staycation. Like me and you like,

1895
01:29:45,400 --> 01:29:47,600
Speaker 1: we'll do a staycation. So we got the staycation set up.

1896
01:29:47,640 --> 01:29:49,360
Speaker 1: It was kind of like a birthday gift. So when

1897
01:29:49,360 --> 01:29:51,160
Speaker 1: it got put in, it was like in the computer

1898
01:29:51,200 --> 01:29:54,240
Speaker 1: as a birthday. So I'm getting like birthday stuff from

1899
01:29:54,400 --> 01:29:56,839
Speaker 1: the host set four seasons.

1900
01:29:56,920 --> 01:29:57,360
Speaker 2: That's sick.

1901
01:29:57,520 --> 01:29:59,840
Speaker 1: So we're getting extra appetizers. They had a little birthday

1902
01:29:59,840 --> 01:30:02,320
Speaker 1: car signed by everybody. When we were sitting there, we

1903
01:30:02,360 --> 01:30:04,880
Speaker 1: didn't want dessert. They're bringing over all the dessert so

1904
01:30:05,960 --> 01:30:10,240
Speaker 1: this is the Khila some wine.

1905
01:30:10,439 --> 01:30:11,599
Speaker 2: But it was a great time.

1906
01:30:11,720 --> 01:30:14,960
Speaker 1: Dude, slept in Yeah, FaceTime with the root when you

1907
01:30:14,960 --> 01:30:16,800
Speaker 1: wake up in the morning. We slept until about eight

1908
01:30:16,800 --> 01:30:21,360
Speaker 1: o'clock when we woke up and it was we went downstairs,

1909
01:30:21,439 --> 01:30:24,120
Speaker 1: got some breakfast, went laid out by the pool, Red

1910
01:30:24,920 --> 01:30:28,559
Speaker 1: had a couple of books. But it was incredible. It

1911
01:30:28,600 --> 01:30:32,640
Speaker 1: was a plus. I cannot recommend enough for mom and

1912
01:30:32,720 --> 01:30:36,120
Speaker 1: dad to just be intentional about where they could have

1913
01:30:36,200 --> 01:30:38,840
Speaker 1: a moment in their schedule to just go down the

1914
01:30:38,920 --> 01:30:42,200
Speaker 1: road and do a staycation, get childcare, get rid of

1915
01:30:42,240 --> 01:30:45,600
Speaker 1: them for a night and connect with old wifey and

1916
01:30:45,680 --> 01:30:46,559
Speaker 1: feel young again.

1917
01:30:47,600 --> 01:30:47,800
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1918
01:30:47,840 --> 01:30:50,360
Speaker 1: Jill was even one to go to waffle House this

1919
01:30:50,479 --> 01:30:53,000
Speaker 1: morning as a family, and I wish we could have

1920
01:30:53,080 --> 01:30:55,599
Speaker 1: swung it. But I was in the back of my mind,

1921
01:30:55,640 --> 01:30:57,479
Speaker 1: I was like, we do need to do stuff like

1922
01:30:57,520 --> 01:31:00,559
Speaker 1: that more. Yeah, now that Scarlett is and as stage

1923
01:31:00,600 --> 01:31:04,040
Speaker 1: where we really have her down to like a beat

1924
01:31:04,120 --> 01:31:07,719
Speaker 1: on the schedule where it's like, hey, after that first

1925
01:31:07,920 --> 01:31:11,040
Speaker 1: morning wake up feed, we could go to waffle House

1926
01:31:11,160 --> 01:31:15,559
Speaker 1: very easily. Dude, we go get a family breakfast. Man,

1927
01:31:15,640 --> 01:31:18,080
Speaker 1: we were at We have been to Ethan Roast as

1928
01:31:18,120 --> 01:31:19,720
Speaker 1: a family. It feels like in a while because we're

1929
01:31:19,720 --> 01:31:21,760
Speaker 1: actually talking about the other day. But Rube basically grew

1930
01:31:21,840 --> 01:31:22,679
Speaker 1: up at eighth and Roast.

1931
01:31:22,680 --> 01:31:23,719
Speaker 2: Like we'd have the morning routine.

1932
01:31:23,760 --> 01:31:25,360
Speaker 1: We'd go down the road, hit eight and Roast as

1933
01:31:25,400 --> 01:31:26,840
Speaker 1: a fan like she's got the little they got the

1934
01:31:26,840 --> 01:31:29,120
Speaker 1: little duckies in there. Yeah, yeah, But we would do

1935
01:31:29,160 --> 01:31:32,479
Speaker 1: that all the time, and like even yesterday we had

1936
01:31:32,520 --> 01:31:36,559
Speaker 1: that pocket whe we fly in, drove home, Uh you

1937
01:31:36,560 --> 01:31:39,320
Speaker 1: picked her up, yeah, drove home, had the afternoon at home,

1938
01:31:39,520 --> 01:31:42,240
Speaker 1: Charles like Charles home, everybody's home, and we kind of

1939
01:31:42,280 --> 01:31:44,760
Speaker 1: have it's like four thirty, don't have to be at

1940
01:31:44,760 --> 01:31:47,320
Speaker 1: the shop until six thirty for the stream and everything else.

1941
01:31:47,360 --> 01:31:49,080
Speaker 1: And she's like, what do we want to do yesterdays?

1942
01:31:49,120 --> 01:31:52,160
Speaker 1: It's been beautiful around Nashville. Weather's been beautiful when it's sunny.

1943
01:31:52,280 --> 01:31:55,320
Speaker 1: The fall weather's kind of kicked in and she's like,

1944
01:31:55,640 --> 01:31:57,280
Speaker 1: do we want to like go out to eat for dinner?

1945
01:31:57,360 --> 01:31:59,439
Speaker 1: So we went out to have you guys been to Fonda.

1946
01:32:00,439 --> 01:32:03,639
Speaker 1: It's a Mexican spot down in twelve South, great spot.

1947
01:32:04,040 --> 01:32:06,200
Speaker 1: But we just went off a whim like, hey, four

1948
01:32:06,200 --> 01:32:07,519
Speaker 1: point thirty, do we want to get out of the house,

1949
01:32:07,560 --> 01:32:08,840
Speaker 1: we want to go to the playground. We want to

1950
01:32:08,880 --> 01:32:09,960
Speaker 1: do X, Y and Z, or do we want to

1951
01:32:10,000 --> 01:32:13,360
Speaker 1: melt inside the house when it's beautiful outside. Just on

1952
01:32:13,439 --> 01:32:16,280
Speaker 1: a whim, got the family. We were out out at

1953
01:32:16,280 --> 01:32:19,200
Speaker 1: fond of having a little family dinner. But yeah, bro

1954
01:32:20,960 --> 01:32:24,800
Speaker 1: stickation was great. Highly recommend you and Jail family's doing that,

1955
01:32:24,880 --> 01:32:26,960
Speaker 1: like once the routine is down, because again, when they're little,

1956
01:32:26,960 --> 01:32:29,960
Speaker 1: when they're like Scarlet's age, like Row is at an

1957
01:32:30,000 --> 01:32:32,519
Speaker 1: age where it's like, you'll have pockets in the afternoon,

1958
01:32:32,560 --> 01:32:34,519
Speaker 1: let's go to the park, get outside, go to the park,

1959
01:32:34,560 --> 01:32:37,080
Speaker 1: whether it's in the afternoon, after work is over and

1960
01:32:37,120 --> 01:32:39,320
Speaker 1: everything else. But when they're that young, you kind of

1961
01:32:39,320 --> 01:32:41,800
Speaker 1: feel glue, like you're glued inside the routine. Kind of

1962
01:32:41,840 --> 01:32:43,800
Speaker 1: you want to stay on such a routine. But now

1963
01:32:43,800 --> 01:32:46,120
Speaker 1: that you're identifying pockets, like, hey, we have the routine down,

1964
01:32:46,160 --> 01:32:48,800
Speaker 1: there are these moments throughout the day, whether it's on

1965
01:32:48,840 --> 01:32:50,800
Speaker 1: the weekend or anything else where you can get out,

1966
01:32:50,800 --> 01:32:53,360
Speaker 1: go have breakfast, like you just just get out and

1967
01:32:53,360 --> 01:32:55,000
Speaker 1: about do the family stuff.

1968
01:32:55,240 --> 01:32:57,320
Speaker 3: We need to do way more of that, and that

1969
01:32:57,560 --> 01:33:01,440
Speaker 3: is Jill's love language. We did for our one year anniversary,

1970
01:33:01,560 --> 01:33:05,800
Speaker 3: we did a staycation. That's such a cheet code like

1971
01:33:06,400 --> 01:33:08,479
Speaker 3: it at the end of the day is really fine.

1972
01:33:08,560 --> 01:33:13,080
Speaker 3: Jill like personally loves hotels, and I was I was

1973
01:33:13,080 --> 01:33:15,920
Speaker 3: going to say, dude, the move is when you eat

1974
01:33:15,920 --> 01:33:18,400
Speaker 3: at the fancy restaurant the hotel, you get him to

1975
01:33:18,439 --> 01:33:21,120
Speaker 3: box up whatever, you take that up to the room,

1976
01:33:21,200 --> 01:33:24,040
Speaker 3: din and then right when like you're just about to

1977
01:33:24,080 --> 01:33:26,320
Speaker 3: fall asleep, you go, oh wait, I do have.

1978
01:33:26,320 --> 01:33:29,160
Speaker 2: A little bit of that short rate of love. What's

1979
01:33:29,200 --> 01:33:29,679
Speaker 2: that doing?

1980
01:33:31,040 --> 01:33:35,479
Speaker 1: What's that all about? I feel you? I'm thinking. By

1981
01:33:35,479 --> 01:33:37,880
Speaker 1: the time we fell asleep, it was probably around eleven

1982
01:33:37,920 --> 01:33:41,200
Speaker 1: eleven thirty. We came up from dinner around nine thirty,

1983
01:33:41,240 --> 01:33:44,000
Speaker 1: so of yourself after a stuff. Yeah, we are Our

1984
01:33:44,120 --> 01:33:46,040
Speaker 1: reservation was at seven. We were at We were there

1985
01:33:46,120 --> 01:33:48,559
Speaker 1: from right before seven because like we'll go sit at

1986
01:33:48,600 --> 01:33:51,160
Speaker 1: the bar. If to the reservation is not ready, they're

1987
01:33:51,200 --> 01:33:53,599
Speaker 1: from seven till about nine thirty. Yeah, yeah, there worst

1988
01:33:53,600 --> 01:33:56,960
Speaker 1: stuff going up to the room.

1989
01:33:57,560 --> 01:34:01,720
Speaker 2: Different strokes, different folks. Man had that short I know

1990
01:34:01,800 --> 01:34:02,200
Speaker 2: you would.

1991
01:34:02,320 --> 01:34:06,400
Speaker 1: That's why I'm laughingstabs in that shore room kind of

1992
01:34:06,400 --> 01:34:07,599
Speaker 1: sitting over there, like.

1993
01:34:07,640 --> 01:34:09,559
Speaker 2: How can you be hungry right now?

1994
01:34:09,640 --> 01:34:12,680
Speaker 1: Well, Jilly means the number one culprit on that that

1995
01:34:12,840 --> 01:34:15,640
Speaker 1: was her bit, and I was like, yo, I'm going

1996
01:34:15,720 --> 01:34:16,360
Speaker 1: to adopt that.

1997
01:34:16,840 --> 01:34:17,720
Speaker 2: I love that.

1998
01:34:19,280 --> 01:34:27,000
Speaker 3: We always hit the leftovers in the hotel, beat tummy fast.

1999
01:34:28,800 --> 01:34:34,479
Speaker 1: And we ain't Mom and Daddy tonight, Oh my god.

2000
01:34:35,040 --> 01:34:37,360
Speaker 1: But highly recommend man. I'm talking about that. We were

2001
01:34:37,360 --> 01:34:39,559
Speaker 1: talking about the anchor and sales stuff last week, which

2002
01:34:39,560 --> 01:34:43,720
Speaker 1: again I think that philosophy is all time. Yeah, and

2003
01:34:43,880 --> 01:34:46,280
Speaker 1: the whole wife thing being one of them. And you're

2004
01:34:46,320 --> 01:34:49,040
Speaker 1: right on the love language part. It's like, I feel

2005
01:34:49,040 --> 01:34:50,800
Speaker 1: like his dudees like, we'll get caught up in the

2006
01:34:50,800 --> 01:34:53,439
Speaker 1: work stuff. We have sports to look forward to everything else.

2007
01:34:53,479 --> 01:34:55,960
Speaker 1: But Mom does love when you guys all get out

2008
01:34:55,960 --> 01:34:57,920
Speaker 1: of the house together, when you're doing stuff, when you're

2009
01:34:57,920 --> 01:34:59,439
Speaker 1: having fun, you're taking photos.

2010
01:34:59,439 --> 01:35:01,440
Speaker 2: Take photo a Mom, I'll always.

2011
01:35:01,120 --> 01:35:02,400
Speaker 1: Call to you. I was like, I know you want

2012
01:35:02,400 --> 01:35:05,439
Speaker 1: to why you look at so nice today? You want

2013
01:35:05,439 --> 01:35:06,800
Speaker 1: to dress up? You know I don't dress up. All

2014
01:35:06,880 --> 01:35:08,439
Speaker 1: A lot of them think, ah, you dress up enough

2015
01:35:08,479 --> 01:35:10,000
Speaker 1: by way, you want a photo, don't you?

2016
01:35:12,160 --> 01:35:12,519
Speaker 2: All right?

2017
01:35:14,680 --> 01:35:15,280
Speaker 1: Let me get you.

2018
01:35:16,439 --> 01:35:18,559
Speaker 3: Let's do it mere selfie real quick. Yeah, we go

2019
01:35:18,600 --> 01:35:22,040
Speaker 3: down to the restaurant. Yeah, should we get to the phone.

2020
01:35:22,080 --> 01:35:24,519
Speaker 3: Calls we should my what are the odds? Or is

2021
01:35:24,640 --> 01:35:27,880
Speaker 3: very shout out FanDuel is very quick. This week, I

2022
01:35:27,920 --> 01:35:31,800
Speaker 3: wanted to tease something that's in the pipeline. We're gonna

2023
01:35:31,800 --> 01:35:35,200
Speaker 3: be doing a little story time for Halloween this year,

2024
01:35:36,040 --> 01:35:38,320
Speaker 3: and we're gonna see how it goes. We may implement

2025
01:35:38,400 --> 01:35:41,840
Speaker 3: this for all the holidays throughout the year, okay, but

2026
01:35:41,880 --> 01:35:45,040
Speaker 3: we're trying to think of a way to incorporate something

2027
01:35:45,200 --> 01:35:47,880
Speaker 3: that is for the dads, but it's also for the

2028
01:35:47,920 --> 01:35:52,439
Speaker 3: little ones. And maybe on Halloween night you're like, oh man,

2029
01:35:52,479 --> 01:35:55,800
Speaker 3: we've watched this Halloween movie a couple times. Whatever, you're

2030
01:35:55,800 --> 01:35:58,559
Speaker 3: trying to put the little one to bed, maybe if

2031
01:35:58,600 --> 01:36:01,920
Speaker 3: you had Willie c. Dary, chef Shern Fat.

2032
01:36:01,600 --> 01:36:05,919
Speaker 1: Stafford, Willie one shelf, Willie one shelf, if you will, Yeah,

2033
01:36:06,600 --> 01:36:11,479
Speaker 1: reading a little bedtime Halloween story for the kiddos. I

2034
01:36:11,560 --> 01:36:14,040
Speaker 1: love that, And so we're gonna get We're gonna give

2035
01:36:14,040 --> 01:36:17,200
Speaker 1: it us shot this Halloween. We're gonna see how it goes.

2036
01:36:18,120 --> 01:36:20,080
Speaker 1: I love it. I got a little story. So we

2037
01:36:20,320 --> 01:36:23,200
Speaker 1: basically for the dads on our channel, on our chain,

2038
01:36:23,240 --> 01:36:26,559
Speaker 1: we'll have a story time coming out YEP, Halloween themed

2039
01:36:26,680 --> 01:36:29,000
Speaker 1: YEP for when you're in the week of Halloween, you're

2040
01:36:29,000 --> 01:36:31,400
Speaker 1: gonna pop something on the oh YouTube for the little

2041
01:36:31,400 --> 01:36:33,920
Speaker 1: one and you can hear our voices and they'll be

2042
01:36:34,479 --> 01:36:37,320
Speaker 1: I'm sure you're gonna crush it. Yeah. Sure, you guys

2043
01:36:37,320 --> 01:36:39,680
Speaker 1: are gonna crush it with the storytelling, whatever the script is.

2044
01:36:39,680 --> 01:36:42,080
Speaker 1: But we will have a story time. We're gonna watch

2045
01:36:42,080 --> 01:36:46,519
Speaker 1: our language. Oh of course, because this one's for the

2046
01:36:46,560 --> 01:36:50,040
Speaker 1: little ones. Yeah, this is this is pre bedtime. This

2047
01:36:50,080 --> 01:36:51,760
Speaker 1: is when the kiddos are up and you're watching this

2048
01:36:51,840 --> 01:36:54,599
Speaker 1: shy yeah. Yeah, and you pop on for the dad's

2049
01:36:54,640 --> 01:36:58,400
Speaker 1: episodes after bedtime. We're gonna sneak some references in there.

2050
01:36:58,439 --> 01:37:00,919
Speaker 1: They're gonna go over the kiddo's heads, but parents gonna.

2051
01:37:00,680 --> 01:37:01,599
Speaker 2: Know what we talk about.

2052
01:37:02,200 --> 01:37:06,400
Speaker 1: Fun voices, fun voices. Yeah, Chef, I'm really excited. Chef

2053
01:37:06,439 --> 01:37:08,479
Speaker 1: has IMDb. He's got some v O.

2054
01:37:08,560 --> 01:37:14,320
Speaker 2: Work I do. Yeah, uh, fourth grade, fourth grade, you're

2055
01:37:14,320 --> 01:37:15,120
Speaker 2: on IMDb.

2056
01:37:15,479 --> 01:37:19,160
Speaker 1: No, No, I'll make him hockey you can't. Just that's

2057
01:37:19,200 --> 01:37:21,920
Speaker 1: on me. What that's on me? But I will make

2058
01:37:21,960 --> 01:37:25,679
Speaker 1: an IMDb for Jack Cane where we had time wise Jack.

2059
01:37:26,160 --> 01:37:31,920
Speaker 2: We're at fifteen minutes. I'm just kidding, hour thirty all.

2060
01:37:31,880 --> 01:37:35,800
Speaker 1: Right, all right to the phone call Voicema boys six

2061
01:37:35,840 --> 01:37:36,920
Speaker 1: on one of the dance.

2062
01:37:37,000 --> 01:37:40,240
Speaker 3: Six on What the Dads Uh? This one is titled

2063
01:37:40,280 --> 01:37:41,560
Speaker 3: to get the Dub.

2064
01:37:48,000 --> 01:37:52,160
Speaker 5: Willie see big Sure, Chef Jack? What's up? Guys? Is

2065
01:37:52,240 --> 01:37:53,360
Speaker 5: Dustin from Placa.

2066
01:37:53,960 --> 01:37:56,680
Speaker 4: We always talk about the Papa Team six Sicos, but

2067
01:37:56,760 --> 01:37:59,360
Speaker 4: I gotta get to the number one Milk team sixico,

2068
01:37:59,400 --> 01:38:00,559
Speaker 4: which is my wife.

2069
01:38:01,400 --> 01:38:04,280
Speaker 5: So I'm a high school football coach and we have

2070
01:38:04,360 --> 01:38:06,880
Speaker 5: two boys. Youngest is a year old.

2071
01:38:07,200 --> 01:38:11,080
Speaker 4: Last year, we scheduled a c section for my bye week,

2072
01:38:11,160 --> 01:38:14,200
Speaker 4: of course, because you know, priorities, but.

2073
01:38:15,920 --> 01:38:18,320
Speaker 5: My boy decided to come a little bit early.

2074
01:38:18,640 --> 01:38:23,200
Speaker 4: Come on, and wife goes into labor Thursday, not the

2075
01:38:23,240 --> 01:38:28,360
Speaker 4: bye week, has our youngest Friday morning around ten thirty.

2076
01:38:28,600 --> 01:38:31,160
Speaker 4: So you know, I'm not thinking anything of it. This

2077
01:38:31,439 --> 01:38:35,439
Speaker 4: absolute sicko looks me right into my eyes, the windows

2078
01:38:35,479 --> 01:38:39,439
Speaker 4: of my soul, and says, hey, babe, what time.

2079
01:38:39,240 --> 01:38:40,559
Speaker 5: Are you leaving for the game tonight.

2080
01:38:42,240 --> 01:38:45,160
Speaker 4: It is at that moment I knew my wife was

2081
01:38:45,920 --> 01:38:47,559
Speaker 4: infinitely suffered than.

2082
01:38:47,439 --> 01:38:49,960
Speaker 5: Me, and that I had married the right one.

2083
01:38:50,920 --> 01:38:53,559
Speaker 4: So my in laws and my parents stayed at the

2084
01:38:53,560 --> 01:38:58,040
Speaker 4: hospital with Wifey. Me and my dad go to my game,

2085
01:38:58,600 --> 01:38:59,639
Speaker 4: We get the dove.

2086
01:39:00,320 --> 01:39:02,960
Speaker 5: Come back to the hospital, share the news.

2087
01:39:03,120 --> 01:39:06,719
Speaker 4: And now we have a team full of football sikos

2088
01:39:06,760 --> 01:39:07,800
Speaker 4: in my household.

2089
01:39:08,360 --> 01:39:12,000
Speaker 5: We're always ryding for the ball. I guess uh appreciate

2090
01:39:12,040 --> 01:39:13,320
Speaker 5: what you guys are doing to love how all the

2091
01:39:13,360 --> 01:39:15,600
Speaker 5: emotions in the show Man. It really shows guys that

2092
01:39:15,800 --> 01:39:18,200
Speaker 5: you know it's okay to be emotional. Love you boys,

2093
01:39:18,360 --> 01:39:20,320
Speaker 5: take care, Love.

2094
01:39:20,120 --> 01:39:22,720
Speaker 1: You too, dos' that's an awesome story. Shout out the

2095
01:39:22,760 --> 01:39:27,880
Speaker 1: wife and again, coming and coming early. You can't leave.

2096
01:39:27,960 --> 01:39:29,960
Speaker 1: You got Michael Parson's on the sideline. You can't just

2097
01:39:30,000 --> 01:39:33,040
Speaker 1: let him be patient. Yeah, you can't expect patients. Yeah,

2098
01:39:33,120 --> 01:39:34,160
Speaker 1: he's coming.

2099
01:39:35,080 --> 01:39:35,880
Speaker 2: God Lee.

2100
01:39:35,880 --> 01:39:38,960
Speaker 3: It reminds me of the the Rocky Sex exactly what

2101
01:39:39,000 --> 01:39:41,519
Speaker 3: I was about to say. Adrian tells Rocky, you know,

2102
01:39:41,600 --> 01:39:43,160
Speaker 3: lean'say and goes Rocky one more.

2103
01:39:43,080 --> 01:39:53,800
Speaker 2: Thing, Well is anything? When indeed, what are we waiting for?

2104
01:40:00,000 --> 01:40:02,000
Speaker 1: He's chasing the chicken. He's catching the chicken.

2105
01:40:02,080 --> 01:40:04,040
Speaker 2: That best sports montage.

2106
01:40:03,800 --> 01:40:08,040
Speaker 1: Dustin just puts on his coaching at he's just walking

2107
01:40:08,080 --> 01:40:10,439
Speaker 1: down the hospital. That's how you need to cut off

2108
01:40:10,439 --> 01:40:13,519
Speaker 1: that video too. Oh yeah, wife looks at me dead

2109
01:40:13,520 --> 01:40:15,519
Speaker 1: in my soul. What time you're going to the game

2110
01:40:15,560 --> 01:40:18,200
Speaker 1: to night time, You're going, that's him being nervous. What

2111
01:40:18,240 --> 01:40:21,519
Speaker 1: do I do here? Like, oh man, this didn't go

2112
01:40:21,560 --> 01:40:24,960
Speaker 1: according to play. Yeah, yeah, he's kind of not bought in.

2113
01:40:25,040 --> 01:40:27,200
Speaker 1: He's kind of getting pulled different directions, and the wife

2114
01:40:27,280 --> 01:40:28,000
Speaker 1: just looks at him.

2115
01:40:28,000 --> 01:40:30,200
Speaker 2: What time you go into the game to night What

2116
01:40:30,280 --> 01:40:35,400
Speaker 2: are we waiting for with that? Man said Dustin. If

2117
01:40:35,479 --> 01:40:38,240
Speaker 2: you could d m us the huddle game tape from that,

2118
01:40:38,479 --> 01:40:41,360
Speaker 2: oh yeah, from that game, we'll make something special.

2119
01:40:41,439 --> 01:40:46,599
Speaker 1: Yeah, certainly, Dustin, please send us that. Now the game

2120
01:40:46,640 --> 01:40:50,240
Speaker 1: would be reaching out to him before we could reach

2121
01:40:50,240 --> 01:40:52,760
Speaker 1: out to him, if he could get it over like, hey,

2122
01:40:52,760 --> 01:40:55,760
Speaker 1: we we did your call on this week's episode.

2123
01:40:57,439 --> 01:41:00,280
Speaker 2: Which would be fun to put the actual fun hurt,

2124
01:41:00,360 --> 01:41:04,280
Speaker 2: the actual highlights of that football game. And I don't

2125
01:41:04,280 --> 01:41:05,599
Speaker 2: know where Dustin's code. Where did he say?

2126
01:41:05,720 --> 01:41:05,840
Speaker 1: Was that?

2127
01:41:06,000 --> 01:41:10,040
Speaker 2: Was? He say? Pulaski? You know a little bit about.

2128
01:41:11,200 --> 01:41:13,639
Speaker 5: Make sure Jeff Jack, what's up? Guys?

2129
01:41:13,720 --> 01:41:21,200
Speaker 1: Is Dustin from Polaga Plataca elaps Polacca Placca. It's gotta

2130
01:41:21,240 --> 01:41:27,080
Speaker 1: be down south somewhere, he said, Polatus. Where's Dustin?

2131
01:41:27,280 --> 01:41:27,559
Speaker 2: Friend?

2132
01:41:27,960 --> 01:41:30,479
Speaker 1: That's awesome though, Yeah, I guess that taped Dustin Yeah,

2133
01:41:30,560 --> 01:41:33,320
Speaker 1: that'd be sick. Shout out hey, congratulations on the new

2134
01:41:33,520 --> 01:41:34,880
Speaker 1: the new baby boy as well.

2135
01:41:35,160 --> 01:41:39,800
Speaker 2: Also that also getting initiated on a game weekend. Uh,

2136
01:41:40,040 --> 01:41:42,960
Speaker 2: we have a new name for farting with this one

2137
01:41:43,080 --> 01:41:44,040
Speaker 2: new name for farting.

2138
01:41:46,200 --> 01:41:47,839
Speaker 5: Hey boys, this is mister James.

2139
01:41:48,760 --> 01:41:51,960
Speaker 7: I've got a funny story because I assume that somebody's

2140
01:41:52,000 --> 01:41:54,400
Speaker 7: probably cried already somewhere earlier in the pod.

2141
01:41:55,080 --> 01:41:56,280
Speaker 5: But my two year old.

2142
01:41:56,240 --> 01:42:00,559
Speaker 7: Son is starting to talk. He's starting to really words

2143
01:42:00,640 --> 01:42:03,720
Speaker 7: together and say some things. The other night, he was

2144
01:42:03,760 --> 01:42:06,479
Speaker 7: watching me brush my teeth. Right, I'm sitting there and

2145
01:42:06,560 --> 01:42:09,360
Speaker 7: brushing my teeth. Your boy got a little gassy and

2146
01:42:09,520 --> 01:42:12,439
Speaker 7: I farted and he pointed at my butt. So he

2147
01:42:12,600 --> 01:42:17,000
Speaker 7: tried to say you farted, but it came out you fucked.

2148
01:42:18,640 --> 01:42:22,080
Speaker 7: So now you gotta figure out what word to change to.

2149
01:42:22,720 --> 01:42:25,599
Speaker 7: My wife wants to go with toots. I'm not quite sure.

2150
01:42:25,680 --> 01:42:28,880
Speaker 5: What do you guys think. Appreciate you, love you all,

2151
01:42:29,360 --> 01:42:30,240
Speaker 5: Take out the trash.

2152
01:42:32,040 --> 01:42:37,200
Speaker 2: Did you say you've you fucked? Yeah, you fucked, you fucked.

2153
01:42:37,920 --> 01:42:40,839
Speaker 5: Oh, you fucked, you fucked.

2154
01:42:41,520 --> 01:42:43,000
Speaker 2: I almost hear like an l in there.

2155
01:42:43,080 --> 01:42:49,960
Speaker 1: Yeah you fucking over there, dog? Yeah, I guess you

2156
01:42:50,040 --> 01:42:51,880
Speaker 1: go with what two? If you really want to tone

2157
01:42:51,960 --> 01:42:55,680
Speaker 1: it down, like, here's what my sickle brain would do.

2158
01:42:57,280 --> 01:43:01,200
Speaker 1: I would fart. Fucked comes out the little one's mouth.

2159
01:43:01,360 --> 01:43:03,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, what that edges? Do you fucked?

2160
01:43:04,120 --> 01:43:04,320
Speaker 5: Oh?

2161
01:43:04,680 --> 01:43:05,640
Speaker 2: Yeah that did.

2162
01:43:05,880 --> 01:43:08,360
Speaker 1: But we remember we want to call it toot. Then,

2163
01:43:08,680 --> 01:43:10,360
Speaker 1: just in their brain, they never catch up to it,

2164
01:43:10,960 --> 01:43:13,200
Speaker 1: just keeps going you, oh what that? Or what?

2165
01:43:13,400 --> 01:43:13,639
Speaker 2: Mama?

2166
01:43:13,800 --> 01:43:14,600
Speaker 5: Just do it.

2167
01:43:15,280 --> 01:43:16,680
Speaker 1: I thought we were trying to give him to say too.

2168
01:43:16,760 --> 01:43:18,960
Speaker 1: I've been trying to get him to say two. But

2169
01:43:19,120 --> 01:43:20,679
Speaker 1: you let him say you know what do he wants

2170
01:43:20,720 --> 01:43:21,240
Speaker 1: to say first?

2171
01:43:21,439 --> 01:43:23,760
Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah, just have a little fun, have a little fun,

2172
01:43:23,800 --> 01:43:25,639
Speaker 2: mix it up. I'm dropping bombs.

2173
01:43:25,960 --> 01:43:30,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, bombs, there you go. Bomb's a good one, dudes,

2174
01:43:30,520 --> 01:43:34,639
Speaker 1: bombs away, rip the heater, big old stang.

2175
01:43:35,000 --> 01:43:38,200
Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, give him a couple options to choose Stram.

2176
01:43:38,240 --> 01:43:40,120
Speaker 3: I don't think you can really go wrong with your name. Yeah,

2177
01:43:40,160 --> 01:43:43,320
Speaker 3: far Bus barking, Yeah, the barking spider. I've heard you

2178
01:43:43,640 --> 01:43:45,719
Speaker 3: reference that. My dad called him barking spiders.

2179
01:43:45,840 --> 01:43:48,439
Speaker 1: Yeah, but you get the little one to say barking yeah, yeah,

2180
01:43:48,640 --> 01:43:51,000
Speaker 1: barking spiders might be going too much in his brain.

2181
01:43:51,240 --> 01:43:52,000
Speaker 2: You keep it simple.

2182
01:43:52,320 --> 01:43:55,080
Speaker 1: Bomb barking heater dute.

2183
01:43:55,439 --> 01:43:58,840
Speaker 3: We had a yellow lab sugar growing up, and we

2184
01:43:58,960 --> 01:44:01,400
Speaker 3: had always just you know, you had a loud one, Sugar.

2185
01:44:02,479 --> 01:44:04,960
Speaker 1: Oh my, you got a little sugar coming up the keys.

2186
01:44:05,560 --> 01:44:05,920
Speaker 5: Is that you?

2187
01:44:06,240 --> 01:44:09,280
Speaker 3: Oh my god, that was a good one, Dad. Now

2188
01:44:09,280 --> 01:44:12,080
Speaker 3: that I look back at my dad, I'm like, Dad

2189
01:44:12,160 --> 01:44:14,800
Speaker 3: had some good ones. Yeah, he had some funny ones.

2190
01:44:14,880 --> 01:44:16,600
Speaker 2: They usually do. They usually do.

2191
01:44:19,320 --> 01:44:23,439
Speaker 1: All right, listen quote or uh topic of the week.

2192
01:44:25,600 --> 01:44:27,040
Speaker 1: I have a fun one.

2193
01:44:27,200 --> 01:44:28,479
Speaker 2: That go ahead, Derek.

2194
01:44:28,520 --> 01:44:30,479
Speaker 6: I was gonna say there was the comment that I

2195
01:44:30,560 --> 01:44:32,000
Speaker 6: had shown you. If you want to read that while

2196
01:44:32,120 --> 01:44:34,080
Speaker 6: the lesson is pulled on, yes, I just don't want

2197
01:44:34,120 --> 01:44:35,599
Speaker 6: you to forget. It is a shout out for something

2198
01:44:35,640 --> 01:44:37,519
Speaker 6: that is coming up. Nothing crazy, but just wanted to

2199
01:44:37,560 --> 01:44:43,400
Speaker 6: throw that out there. The j Paul Instagram I believe

2200
01:44:43,560 --> 01:44:46,080
Speaker 6: so is a birthday in that one. And that's just

2201
01:44:46,160 --> 01:44:47,360
Speaker 6: the only reason I asked.

2202
01:44:47,360 --> 01:44:48,000
Speaker 2: Yes, okay.

2203
01:44:50,280 --> 01:44:54,200
Speaker 3: This comes from Jpaul on Instagram. Hey, Will and Sherman.

2204
01:44:54,240 --> 01:44:57,200
Speaker 3: I'm reaching out to crack a cold one for my husband.

2205
01:44:57,280 --> 01:44:59,599
Speaker 3: He is a huge fan of for the Dad's podcast,

2206
01:45:00,000 --> 01:45:02,120
Speaker 3: and he got me hooked on it as well. Since

2207
01:45:02,160 --> 01:45:04,600
Speaker 3: we wrote trip a lot and love to listen to

2208
01:45:04,680 --> 01:45:08,040
Speaker 3: you guys along with our nine month old son. My

2209
01:45:08,200 --> 01:45:11,519
Speaker 3: husband John has called in before and he also recently

2210
01:45:11,600 --> 01:45:14,439
Speaker 3: sent you guys a letter with a few gifts inside,

2211
01:45:14,680 --> 01:45:16,479
Speaker 3: which I believe is the one that we got with

2212
01:45:16,560 --> 01:45:19,720
Speaker 3: the patches and John, if that was you, thank you

2213
01:45:19,800 --> 01:45:23,080
Speaker 3: so much for your letter, Bubba Buh.

2214
01:45:23,120 --> 01:45:25,880
Speaker 1: I sent a letter inside to show's appreciation for the

2215
01:45:25,920 --> 01:45:28,320
Speaker 1: community that you all have built for dads.

2216
01:45:28,479 --> 01:45:29,840
Speaker 2: It truly is something special.

2217
01:45:29,920 --> 01:45:34,400
Speaker 3: My husband John's birthday is coming up on October eighteenth,

2218
01:45:34,479 --> 01:45:36,479
Speaker 3: and I know it would mean the world to him

2219
01:45:37,040 --> 01:45:39,720
Speaker 3: to be featured on your podcast or even just a

2220
01:45:39,880 --> 01:45:42,400
Speaker 3: shout out. John is a first time dad and I

2221
01:45:42,479 --> 01:45:45,679
Speaker 3: could be more thankful for such a hands on partner

2222
01:45:45,720 --> 01:45:48,759
Speaker 3: and role model for our son to have. I already

2223
01:45:48,880 --> 01:45:52,840
Speaker 3: ordered a for the dad's pennant for him for his

2224
01:45:53,040 --> 01:45:56,760
Speaker 3: birthday shout out for our son to have.

2225
01:45:58,840 --> 01:46:01,680
Speaker 1: Or sorry for uh for his birthday so he can

2226
01:46:01,760 --> 01:46:05,320
Speaker 1: proudly hang it up in his man cave aka our garage.

2227
01:46:05,920 --> 01:46:08,200
Speaker 3: But I know it would be so special for him.

2228
01:46:08,400 --> 01:46:11,680
Speaker 3: If you wantn't mind shouting him out, Thanks for your

2229
01:46:11,760 --> 01:46:13,120
Speaker 3: time and all that you do.

2230
01:46:13,479 --> 01:46:14,200
Speaker 2: For the dads.

2231
01:46:14,800 --> 01:46:19,200
Speaker 1: John, Happy birthday, bro, Happy birth Happy birthday. Thank you

2232
01:46:19,280 --> 01:46:21,360
Speaker 1: for supporting the pod, Thank you for being a big fan,

2233
01:46:21,479 --> 01:46:23,080
Speaker 1: Thank you for getting your wife on board.

2234
01:46:23,160 --> 01:46:24,880
Speaker 2: And what a sweetheart your wife is.

2235
01:46:25,080 --> 01:46:27,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, what empty six sick?

2236
01:46:27,800 --> 01:46:27,920
Speaker 2: Oh?

2237
01:46:28,080 --> 01:46:32,280
Speaker 1: Yeah forgetting them. You know he's sitting there embarrassed right now, Honey, why.

2238
01:46:34,280 --> 01:46:38,400
Speaker 2: Come on, Hey, what are you doing? John? We love you, dude.

2239
01:46:38,479 --> 01:46:41,400
Speaker 3: And honestly, if that was John's letter that I'm thinking

2240
01:46:41,439 --> 01:46:44,400
Speaker 3: of with the patches in it, wrote such a heartfelt letter.

2241
01:46:44,520 --> 01:46:47,479
Speaker 3: I still have the envelope on my desk because I

2242
01:46:47,560 --> 01:46:52,799
Speaker 3: want to write back, so I do have your return address.

2243
01:46:52,840 --> 01:46:55,080
Speaker 3: If that's you John, h I can't wait to send

2244
01:46:55,080 --> 01:46:55,680
Speaker 3: you a letter back.

2245
01:46:55,760 --> 01:46:57,320
Speaker 1: If mom and wife, you could just take out the

2246
01:46:57,400 --> 01:47:00,320
Speaker 1: phone right now and give us his reaction. You put

2247
01:47:00,320 --> 01:47:01,320
Speaker 1: it at end of the day. We can put it

2248
01:47:01,320 --> 01:47:02,519
Speaker 1: at the end of next week's episode.

2249
01:47:03,160 --> 01:47:04,479
Speaker 3: We can put it at the end of the next

2250
01:47:04,479 --> 01:47:11,000
Speaker 3: week's episode. Yeah, we can play it right now. And

2251
01:47:11,080 --> 01:47:13,840
Speaker 3: then we just got done watching that video of John's reaction.

2252
01:47:14,040 --> 01:47:15,519
Speaker 1: Yeah, how would she know?

2253
01:47:15,840 --> 01:47:18,800
Speaker 6: That's that's next week and she's gonna see it and

2254
01:47:18,880 --> 01:47:21,400
Speaker 6: be excited, So the right now thing really plays.

2255
01:47:21,680 --> 01:47:24,760
Speaker 1: Yes, I'm sorry I was saying, like we clipped us

2256
01:47:25,040 --> 01:47:27,800
Speaker 1: referencing that and then played it in the credits of

2257
01:47:27,920 --> 01:47:32,200
Speaker 1: that future Oh yeah, yeah, meta you are meta brain

2258
01:47:32,680 --> 01:47:35,439
Speaker 1: meta clip that I'm thinking we can let her know. Yo,

2259
01:47:35,560 --> 01:47:38,040
Speaker 1: we're covering this moment on the pod. They can be

2260
01:47:38,120 --> 01:47:39,320
Speaker 1: tuned into the pod.

2261
01:47:39,320 --> 01:47:42,080
Speaker 3: Because this pod will come out on the fifteenth, his

2262
01:47:42,240 --> 01:47:43,439
Speaker 3: birthdays on the eighteenth.

2263
01:47:43,920 --> 01:47:47,320
Speaker 1: It's gonna work out kind of perfect. And meta brain

2264
01:47:47,960 --> 01:47:51,280
Speaker 1: clip that meta brain PT six clip that you got

2265
01:47:51,320 --> 01:47:53,479
Speaker 1: a quote top of girl lesson my friend. Yeah, I

2266
01:47:53,520 --> 01:47:57,000
Speaker 1: have a really quick one. This one actually accompanies a video. Uh,

2267
01:47:57,479 --> 01:48:00,120
Speaker 1: and we can make this into a clip. It's like

2268
01:48:00,320 --> 01:48:05,240
Speaker 1: very cool video. Basically this dad breaking down being a

2269
01:48:05,360 --> 01:48:09,759
Speaker 1: dad out in the wild with your girl, your daughter

2270
01:48:10,360 --> 01:48:13,360
Speaker 1: who needs to go to the bathroom, And basically to

2271
01:48:14,439 --> 01:48:17,400
Speaker 1: how do us as men go about our daughter needed

2272
01:48:17,520 --> 01:48:19,160
Speaker 1: to go to the bathroom in the wild. Do they

2273
01:48:19,200 --> 01:48:20,920
Speaker 1: go to the men's room? Do they go to the

2274
01:48:20,960 --> 01:48:24,320
Speaker 1: women's room? This guy breaks it down beautifully.

2275
01:48:24,920 --> 01:48:25,840
Speaker 2: So I was a girl dad.

2276
01:48:25,880 --> 01:48:27,600
Speaker 8: I'd like to answer this one because I've been there

2277
01:48:27,640 --> 01:48:31,240
Speaker 8: a thousand times myself before now, over the years when

2278
01:48:31,240 --> 01:48:32,960
Speaker 8: my daughter was little, before she was too young to

2279
01:48:33,040 --> 01:48:35,000
Speaker 8: use the restroom herself. Anytime we were out in a

2280
01:48:35,040 --> 01:48:37,160
Speaker 8: public setting and my daughter needed to use the restroom,

2281
01:48:37,439 --> 01:48:40,599
Speaker 8: I would always take her to the women's restroom. Now,

2282
01:48:40,840 --> 01:48:44,240
Speaker 8: in doing so, I also understood that not every woman

2283
01:48:44,360 --> 01:48:47,040
Speaker 8: wants to open up the women's restroom to find a big, old,

2284
01:48:47,080 --> 01:48:50,040
Speaker 8: scary man like myself staring back at them. So here's

2285
01:48:50,040 --> 01:48:51,760
Speaker 8: a couple things I did to make sure that that

2286
01:48:51,920 --> 01:48:54,400
Speaker 8: didn't happen, and also that my daughter got to use

2287
01:48:54,439 --> 01:48:57,400
Speaker 8: the restroom. So what I would do, if possible, is

2288
01:48:57,400 --> 01:48:59,799
Speaker 8: I would try and find a woman near the women's

2289
01:48:59,840 --> 01:49:03,599
Speaker 8: right and politely say, excuse me, my little daughter needs

2290
01:49:03,600 --> 01:49:05,439
Speaker 8: to use the restroom. I need to go in with her.

2291
01:49:05,680 --> 01:49:08,240
Speaker 8: Would you be kind enough to watch the door so

2292
01:49:08,360 --> 01:49:10,560
Speaker 8: another woman doesn't open up the door to find me

2293
01:49:10,640 --> 01:49:15,120
Speaker 8: and get scared or nervous or uncomfortable. I never, never,

2294
01:49:15,400 --> 01:49:18,080
Speaker 8: and the thousands of times I did that, never had

2295
01:49:18,120 --> 01:49:20,920
Speaker 8: a woman say no to that request. It was always

2296
01:49:21,000 --> 01:49:24,200
Speaker 8: met with oh, yes, of course, absolutely no problem. Yes,

2297
01:49:24,280 --> 01:49:25,880
Speaker 8: I'd be happy to watch the door for you and

2298
01:49:25,960 --> 01:49:28,960
Speaker 8: your daughter to go in. Always got met with a yes.

2299
01:49:29,200 --> 01:49:31,439
Speaker 8: I always ask politely, never had a.

2300
01:49:31,439 --> 01:49:32,000
Speaker 2: Problem with it.

2301
01:49:32,880 --> 01:49:34,720
Speaker 8: If there were no women around that I could ask.

2302
01:49:34,840 --> 01:49:36,479
Speaker 8: What I do is as I take my daughter in,

2303
01:49:36,680 --> 01:49:38,679
Speaker 8: I'd prop the door open with my foot, and while

2304
01:49:38,760 --> 01:49:40,839
Speaker 8: she was using the restroom, I'd stand in the doorway,

2305
01:49:41,000 --> 01:49:43,240
Speaker 8: blocking so that nobody could see in. But also at

2306
01:49:43,240 --> 01:49:45,639
Speaker 8: the same time, if a woman happened to approach the restroom,

2307
01:49:45,640 --> 01:49:48,120
Speaker 8: I'd say, I'm so sorry, I've got my little daughter

2308
01:49:48,320 --> 01:49:51,639
Speaker 8: in here. Could you give us just a moment once again,

2309
01:49:51,920 --> 01:49:54,920
Speaker 8: always greeted with a yes, no problem, happy to do that.

2310
01:49:55,280 --> 01:49:57,840
Speaker 8: Thank you for letting me know. I never got told

2311
01:49:57,960 --> 01:50:00,639
Speaker 8: note of these requests because and this is just my opinion,

2312
01:50:00,800 --> 01:50:04,200
Speaker 8: but I'm guessing every single woman out there understood that

2313
01:50:04,439 --> 01:50:07,200
Speaker 8: I was just trying to be a good dad, getting

2314
01:50:07,280 --> 01:50:09,360
Speaker 8: my daughter and to use the restroom that she needed,

2315
01:50:09,439 --> 01:50:11,920
Speaker 8: and I wanted her to use the women's restroom because

2316
01:50:12,000 --> 01:50:14,920
Speaker 8: it is safer and cleaner. Gentlemen, if you were out

2317
01:50:15,000 --> 01:50:18,000
Speaker 8: and you have young daughters, take them into the wooden's restroom.

2318
01:50:18,120 --> 01:50:20,439
Speaker 8: We all know it's cleaner, and you're probably never going

2319
01:50:20,520 --> 01:50:22,320
Speaker 8: to find a woman that has a problem with you

2320
01:50:22,520 --> 01:50:24,599
Speaker 8: being in there if you do one of the things

2321
01:50:24,640 --> 01:50:26,640
Speaker 8: that I told you, and if you're polite and respectful

2322
01:50:27,240 --> 01:50:29,439
Speaker 8: from one girl dad to another, just trying to help

2323
01:50:29,479 --> 01:50:32,240
Speaker 8: you guys out, I hope this might help somebody Anyways,

2324
01:50:32,280 --> 01:50:33,680
Speaker 8: you guys, let me know what you think about this

2325
01:50:33,800 --> 01:50:35,880
Speaker 8: in the comment section, Like can share this video, I'd

2326
01:50:35,880 --> 01:50:37,920
Speaker 8: appreciate it. Dedicated after that out for the.

2327
01:50:38,000 --> 01:50:42,680
Speaker 1: Daughter, Oh, I think he said like five, like four

2328
01:50:42,760 --> 01:50:43,240
Speaker 1: or five.

2329
01:50:43,120 --> 01:50:45,439
Speaker 2: Because rude just goes in the men's room with me.

2330
01:50:45,920 --> 01:50:49,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, I take her in a stall, which that's another

2331
01:50:49,960 --> 01:50:51,200
Speaker 1: option that he talks about.

2332
01:50:51,320 --> 01:50:53,840
Speaker 2: I keeps his eyes down. Yeah, yeah, I was just

2333
01:50:53,880 --> 01:50:54,320
Speaker 2: kidding out.

2334
01:50:54,560 --> 01:50:59,360
Speaker 1: She's three eighty there, don't talk to nobody, Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah,

2335
01:50:59,439 --> 01:51:01,920
Speaker 1: we're doing our business. Yeah, which I did. I wanted

2336
01:51:01,960 --> 01:51:04,800
Speaker 1: to ask you, like what your approach was too. It's yeah,

2337
01:51:04,840 --> 01:51:06,120
Speaker 1: it's more of like, hey, if she's got to go

2338
01:51:06,120 --> 01:51:07,599
Speaker 1: to the bathroom and I got to go botty too,

2339
01:51:08,479 --> 01:51:10,360
Speaker 1: she just goes with me, just go in a stall,

2340
01:51:11,360 --> 01:51:13,639
Speaker 1: get her all hooked up. I feel like she's young

2341
01:51:13,760 --> 01:51:16,679
Speaker 1: enough to where she literally does not know the difference.

2342
01:51:17,000 --> 01:51:19,519
Speaker 1: I'm assume, yeah, well she'll know that. You know, why

2343
01:51:19,600 --> 01:51:23,000
Speaker 1: could you go in, uh, in the mommy's restroom dad

2344
01:51:23,120 --> 01:51:24,920
Speaker 1: as a boy? Yeah yeah, that's a boy.

2345
01:51:24,960 --> 01:51:25,800
Speaker 2: You got boys'.

2346
01:51:25,520 --> 01:51:29,719
Speaker 1: Restrooms, you got girls restrooms, and Dad, I can only.

2347
01:51:29,640 --> 01:51:30,160
Speaker 2: Go in this one.

2348
01:51:30,720 --> 01:51:33,640
Speaker 1: You gotta come with daut That's it. That's just how

2349
01:51:33,720 --> 01:51:36,960
Speaker 1: we go. Yeah, but a question that I've asked myself

2350
01:51:37,160 --> 01:51:39,280
Speaker 1: plenty of times. I was like, what do you do

2351
01:51:39,400 --> 01:51:43,280
Speaker 1: in that situation? That's uh, that's interesting. It's like an

2352
01:51:43,439 --> 01:51:45,640
Speaker 1: initial thought, I guess when it first happens, but then

2353
01:51:45,720 --> 01:51:48,040
Speaker 1: you just don't really once it happens the first time,

2354
01:51:48,080 --> 01:51:49,800
Speaker 1: you don't really think about it because you're just thinking, like,

2355
01:51:49,880 --> 01:51:53,960
Speaker 1: you know, it's your it's your little one. Any Like, Well,

2356
01:51:53,960 --> 01:51:55,880
Speaker 1: we haven't been in like I guess where if we're

2357
01:51:55,920 --> 01:51:58,320
Speaker 1: at like a game or something like that and it's

2358
01:51:58,400 --> 01:52:01,280
Speaker 1: very public and crowded. We've been a situation like that.

2359
01:52:01,400 --> 01:52:04,080
Speaker 1: So every bathroom we've kind of went into, it's you know,

2360
01:52:04,120 --> 01:52:06,320
Speaker 1: whether adults are in there or whatever. It is like

2361
01:52:06,400 --> 01:52:08,479
Speaker 1: you you know how you're used to seeing kiddos come

2362
01:52:08,560 --> 01:52:12,680
Speaker 1: in with their parents. Oh for sure, So just go in,

2363
01:52:13,200 --> 01:52:17,559
Speaker 1: hit the stall, rip it ri you need you need

2364
01:52:17,640 --> 01:52:20,400
Speaker 1: you pooper bee bpr poop poop.

2365
01:52:20,520 --> 01:52:24,240
Speaker 2: Yeah. But yeah, that was that was my lesson of

2366
01:52:24,280 --> 01:52:24,559
Speaker 2: the week.

2367
01:52:24,680 --> 01:52:27,280
Speaker 1: I love that because a lot of young dads are

2368
01:52:28,200 --> 01:52:29,880
Speaker 1: That made me think about they don't have their kids yet,

2369
01:52:29,920 --> 01:52:31,599
Speaker 1: they could be wondering that that could be a question

2370
01:52:31,680 --> 01:52:34,960
Speaker 1: on their mind. Yeah, yeah, yeah, I love that mine is.

2371
01:52:36,880 --> 01:52:39,160
Speaker 1: So we had the one last week with the anchors

2372
01:52:39,200 --> 01:52:43,719
Speaker 1: and sales, and I think one thing that just people, parents, whatever.

2373
01:52:43,800 --> 01:52:46,120
Speaker 1: In general, there's always a lot of pressures in the world.

2374
01:52:46,600 --> 01:52:49,479
Speaker 1: And something that I learned I was very grateful to

2375
01:52:49,600 --> 01:52:52,040
Speaker 1: learn that I felt like stuck with me when I

2376
01:52:52,160 --> 01:52:55,160
Speaker 1: was in college, like are you good, bro? My contact

2377
01:52:55,240 --> 01:52:59,200
Speaker 1: came out. I thought that was tears that came out.

2378
01:53:04,320 --> 01:53:05,320
Speaker 2: Popping bag game.

2379
01:53:06,160 --> 01:53:07,840
Speaker 1: When you came down and I saw that, I felt

2380
01:53:07,840 --> 01:53:08,680
Speaker 1: like it was tears in my.

2381
01:53:11,360 --> 01:53:12,439
Speaker 2: Oh you go.

2382
01:53:14,920 --> 01:53:18,080
Speaker 1: But something I learned as I was on the football team,

2383
01:53:18,880 --> 01:53:22,200
Speaker 1: we have my favorite one of one of my favorite

2384
01:53:22,200 --> 01:53:24,519
Speaker 1: because there's a couple out there, but my guy, he's

2385
01:53:24,560 --> 01:53:26,880
Speaker 1: like he ended up. He's he still were very close

2386
01:53:26,920 --> 01:53:29,120
Speaker 1: to this day. But James Dobson, he was our strength coach.

2387
01:53:30,160 --> 01:53:32,760
Speaker 1: It's something he always said that resonated with with me.

2388
01:53:33,000 --> 01:53:34,479
Speaker 1: I'm sure a lot of guys on the team, but

2389
01:53:34,600 --> 01:53:37,040
Speaker 1: it's like, no matter what is happening, you can always

2390
01:53:37,120 --> 01:53:40,719
Speaker 1: control two things in life, and it's your attitude and effort.

2391
01:53:40,800 --> 01:53:43,080
Speaker 1: And this was a mantra his at all times. I

2392
01:53:43,120 --> 01:53:45,200
Speaker 1: felt like it's something that really stuck with me. And

2393
01:53:45,280 --> 01:53:48,040
Speaker 1: after it's like the the anchors and sales and having

2394
01:53:48,120 --> 01:53:50,800
Speaker 1: some of these philosophies, like getting back to the getting

2395
01:53:50,840 --> 01:53:53,880
Speaker 1: to the foundational thing that it's like you feel like

2396
01:53:53,960 --> 01:53:56,120
Speaker 1: you get pulled in all these different directions and a

2397
01:53:56,160 --> 01:53:59,240
Speaker 1: lot of things affect you throughout the day, whether you're

2398
01:53:59,280 --> 01:54:01,479
Speaker 1: running late to something, you have a bad day at work,

2399
01:54:01,920 --> 01:54:04,080
Speaker 1: you have a lot of whatever your stressors are in

2400
01:54:04,160 --> 01:54:06,439
Speaker 1: the world, the two things that you can always control

2401
01:54:06,560 --> 01:54:08,519
Speaker 1: is your attitude and effort. And how can we relate

2402
01:54:08,600 --> 01:54:11,840
Speaker 1: this to a family atmosphere or parenthood, fatherhood, whatever the

2403
01:54:11,920 --> 01:54:15,919
Speaker 1: case may be. An attitude attitude set your emotional temperature

2404
01:54:16,400 --> 01:54:18,800
Speaker 1: of your home. So just like again when you think

2405
01:54:18,800 --> 01:54:21,240
Speaker 1: about attitude and effort, your attitude, no matter what, you

2406
01:54:21,320 --> 01:54:23,680
Speaker 1: can always choose what kind of attitude you're gonna have,

2407
01:54:24,240 --> 01:54:27,120
Speaker 1: whether it's a pissy one, any negative attitude you ever had.

2408
01:54:27,320 --> 01:54:29,559
Speaker 1: I bet you can go back to that moment if

2409
01:54:29,600 --> 01:54:32,200
Speaker 1: you could have anticipated that moment, you think to yourself,

2410
01:54:32,240 --> 01:54:34,680
Speaker 1: I could have handled this situation or had a better

2411
01:54:34,720 --> 01:54:38,000
Speaker 1: attitude walking through the door at home. Yeah, your attitude

2412
01:54:38,040 --> 01:54:40,120
Speaker 1: set your emotional temperature of your home. If you walk

2413
01:54:40,160 --> 01:54:43,080
Speaker 1: through the door frustrated, distracted, or short tempered. It is

2414
01:54:43,200 --> 01:54:46,320
Speaker 1: felt in the home without any words being said. Think

2415
01:54:46,440 --> 01:54:48,800
Speaker 1: back when we're all young kiddos, or when we're all

2416
01:54:48,840 --> 01:54:50,920
Speaker 1: growing up, if mom or dad or somebody's got a

2417
01:54:50,920 --> 01:54:53,480
Speaker 1: bad attitude, or even a buddy, if you feel that

2418
01:54:53,600 --> 01:54:56,360
Speaker 1: bad attitude without anything being said. A lot of the times,

2419
01:54:56,440 --> 01:54:57,600
Speaker 1: it's like, oh, Dad's coming home.

2420
01:54:57,680 --> 01:54:58,120
Speaker 2: He's kind of.

2421
01:54:58,320 --> 01:55:00,360
Speaker 1: Seems like he had a bad day at work. Yeah,

2422
01:55:00,480 --> 01:55:03,120
Speaker 1: Like we all know that feeling as kids growing up.

2423
01:55:04,040 --> 01:55:07,959
Speaker 1: If you walk in grounded and present people, it feels safe.

2424
01:55:07,760 --> 01:55:08,320
Speaker 2: When you walk in.

2425
01:55:08,400 --> 01:55:10,240
Speaker 1: It's like SHRM's a great example. I feel like when

2426
01:55:10,560 --> 01:55:13,160
Speaker 1: Shurm always comes to the door, no matter what's going

2427
01:55:13,240 --> 01:55:16,520
Speaker 1: on with our boy, it always you always just feel

2428
01:55:16,600 --> 01:55:18,840
Speaker 1: like you're in a fun environment because I feel SUREM

2429
01:55:18,880 --> 01:55:20,880
Speaker 1: always walks in with the right attitude. You could have

2430
01:55:20,960 --> 01:55:22,360
Speaker 1: a lot of stuff going on, but I feel like

2431
01:55:22,400 --> 01:55:25,560
Speaker 1: your attitude. Always enjoy being around you because you're Like

2432
01:55:26,120 --> 01:55:27,880
Speaker 1: I've told you before, I always feel like.

2433
01:55:27,840 --> 01:55:29,360
Speaker 2: I'm in a good mood when I'm around you.

2434
01:55:29,480 --> 01:55:32,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I appreciate that, by the way, thank you.

2435
01:55:32,920 --> 01:55:33,120
Speaker 2: Yeah.

2436
01:55:33,520 --> 01:55:36,600
Speaker 1: Attitude isn't about pretending everything's great. It's about choosing how

2437
01:55:36,680 --> 01:55:40,520
Speaker 1: you respond when it's not great. So when work is heavy,

2438
01:55:40,640 --> 01:55:43,200
Speaker 1: attitude decides whether you bring that weight home or leave

2439
01:55:43,240 --> 01:55:45,440
Speaker 1: it at the door. When your kid spills their drink

2440
01:55:45,480 --> 01:55:47,240
Speaker 1: for the third time and you get a little frustrated,

2441
01:55:47,240 --> 01:55:48,840
Speaker 1: you get a little piste off kid it won't go

2442
01:55:48,920 --> 01:55:51,280
Speaker 1: to sleep. When you're trying to rock her to sleep

2443
01:55:51,360 --> 01:55:52,880
Speaker 1: for a nap and she's got her shoes on and

2444
01:55:52,920 --> 01:55:55,920
Speaker 1: you're starting to get really flustered, Attitude decides if you

2445
01:55:56,000 --> 01:55:59,920
Speaker 1: correct them or connect with them. When life tests your patience,

2446
01:56:00,200 --> 01:56:03,240
Speaker 1: attitude decides whether you react or you lead. And as

2447
01:56:03,320 --> 01:56:06,040
Speaker 1: a dad, your attitude becomes the model your kids copy

2448
01:56:06,160 --> 01:56:08,920
Speaker 1: before they ever listen to what you say. The second

2449
01:56:08,960 --> 01:56:11,080
Speaker 1: one being effort. So again, the two things you can

2450
01:56:11,200 --> 01:56:14,480
Speaker 1: always control at all times, especially if you're conscious of this,

2451
01:56:14,960 --> 01:56:18,600
Speaker 1: is your attitude and effort. Effort is intention in motion.

2452
01:56:18,760 --> 01:56:20,760
Speaker 1: It's not about how hard you work for your family,

2453
01:56:21,000 --> 01:56:23,320
Speaker 1: It's about how intentionally you show up with them. So

2454
01:56:23,520 --> 01:56:25,880
Speaker 1: effort as a dad looks like, you know, choosing to

2455
01:56:25,920 --> 01:56:27,960
Speaker 1: get down on the floor and play even when you're tired.

2456
01:56:28,080 --> 01:56:31,160
Speaker 1: I'm guilty of this. I'll be sitting there like it's

2457
01:56:31,200 --> 01:56:32,960
Speaker 1: like I want to take a load off. Long day,

2458
01:56:33,080 --> 01:56:36,640
Speaker 1: whatever it is yeah, and I might feel mom in

2459
01:56:36,720 --> 01:56:38,640
Speaker 1: the kitchen or upstairs with the roo and I got

2460
01:56:38,720 --> 01:56:40,880
Speaker 1: Scottie and it looks like she's wanted to play a

2461
01:56:40,920 --> 01:56:42,480
Speaker 1: little bit. I just think to myself, I just need

2462
01:56:42,560 --> 01:56:44,320
Speaker 1: to roll off the couch and get on the ground

2463
01:56:44,360 --> 01:56:46,720
Speaker 1: and start doing the crawl with her. Whatever it is,

2464
01:56:46,760 --> 01:56:50,920
Speaker 1: whatever gets her excited or choosing to play, like again,

2465
01:56:50,960 --> 01:56:53,240
Speaker 1: if I'm wanting to watch the game, or if it's

2466
01:56:53,920 --> 01:56:55,720
Speaker 1: after dinner, and again I'm just like, oh, I just

2467
01:56:55,760 --> 01:56:57,480
Speaker 1: want to like lay on the couch, and Rue hits

2468
01:56:57,560 --> 01:56:59,040
Speaker 1: me with, hey, you want to play Chase, And I

2469
01:56:59,240 --> 01:57:02,280
Speaker 1: just thinking, Okay, I need to get my ass up

2470
01:57:02,280 --> 01:57:04,160
Speaker 1: and I need to play Chase unless the back and

2471
01:57:04,280 --> 01:57:06,760
Speaker 1: less the back's in a bad spot. Hey, sweetheart, daddy's

2472
01:57:06,800 --> 01:57:09,080
Speaker 1: backs in a bad spot. But again, this we're talking

2473
01:57:09,120 --> 01:57:11,880
Speaker 1: about effort listening when your wife fully talks to you,

2474
01:57:12,040 --> 01:57:16,560
Speaker 1: not just hearing them. Guilty, guilty, sweetheart, I know you're listening.

2475
01:57:16,640 --> 01:57:19,800
Speaker 1: Guilty as charged. The comment of I don't know why

2476
01:57:19,840 --> 01:57:22,880
Speaker 1: I waste my breast sometimes because you never hear me

2477
01:57:23,040 --> 01:57:27,120
Speaker 1: because I'm the what guy was that, sweetheart? Or I'm

2478
01:57:27,200 --> 01:57:29,600
Speaker 1: just not paying attention. And then I finally just hear

2479
01:57:29,680 --> 01:57:31,480
Speaker 1: the comment, I don't even know why I try talking

2480
01:57:31,480 --> 01:57:34,400
Speaker 1: to you sometimes I got just you know, I'm making

2481
01:57:34,440 --> 01:57:36,080
Speaker 1: up whatever excuse it is, sweetheart.

2482
01:57:37,440 --> 01:57:39,840
Speaker 3: When you hear the juicy part of the story, you go, wait, wait,

2483
01:57:39,920 --> 01:57:41,120
Speaker 3: who's saying.

2484
01:57:41,960 --> 01:57:45,200
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah yeah? I am enemy number one with that.

2485
01:57:46,160 --> 01:57:48,320
Speaker 1: But fully listen when your wife talks, not just hearing,

2486
01:57:48,400 --> 01:57:51,760
Speaker 1: taking the time to explain instead of snapping in frustration.

2487
01:57:52,280 --> 01:57:54,800
Speaker 1: We've all been in those moments where something gets said

2488
01:57:54,800 --> 01:57:57,320
Speaker 1: and we're just we want them to feel our frustration

2489
01:57:57,440 --> 01:57:59,320
Speaker 1: that we might not want to get into a conversation

2490
01:57:59,480 --> 01:58:01,080
Speaker 1: or might not want to get into a moment when

2491
01:58:01,120 --> 01:58:04,800
Speaker 1: it's like sit there, be present. Not about being strong.

2492
01:58:04,920 --> 01:58:08,440
Speaker 1: It's about reconnecting, finding that connection, getting back in the pocket,

2493
01:58:08,600 --> 01:58:11,160
Speaker 1: showing that effort that you're not just wanting to push

2494
01:58:11,200 --> 01:58:14,000
Speaker 1: it off with frustration or whatever you might be projecting

2495
01:58:14,320 --> 01:58:18,240
Speaker 1: from whatever attitude you had, making the space for making

2496
01:58:18,280 --> 01:58:21,280
Speaker 1: space for family moments even when the schedule is packed.

2497
01:58:21,680 --> 01:58:25,600
Speaker 1: You were talking about the routine stuff earlier, like yesterday

2498
01:58:25,840 --> 01:58:27,640
Speaker 1: we're sitting there, I'm like, okay, gotta go do a stream,

2499
01:58:27,680 --> 01:58:29,360
Speaker 1: gotta do stuff. But if you find the space and

2500
01:58:29,400 --> 01:58:32,120
Speaker 1: you find the time, like making the effort to, yeah,

2501
01:58:32,360 --> 01:58:34,440
Speaker 1: let's get out of the house, let's go to the park,

2502
01:58:34,560 --> 01:58:36,600
Speaker 1: let's go have a family meal, like let's go do

2503
01:58:36,760 --> 01:58:39,680
Speaker 1: something as a family, or maybe it's you and your wife, whatever,

2504
01:58:39,720 --> 01:58:42,000
Speaker 1: it is like when that space happens and you know

2505
01:58:42,120 --> 01:58:45,880
Speaker 1: that space is there, being like prioritizing it and doing

2506
01:58:45,960 --> 01:58:49,080
Speaker 1: it even though you might feel this packed schedule or

2507
01:58:49,160 --> 01:58:51,200
Speaker 1: stress circulating around you, it's like, how can you pull

2508
01:58:51,240 --> 01:58:53,480
Speaker 1: yourself out of that? How can you check your attitude

2509
01:58:53,680 --> 01:58:57,120
Speaker 1: and how can you put forth effort? Effort doesn't mean perfection,

2510
01:58:57,600 --> 01:59:01,040
Speaker 1: it means presence. That's something we've loved on this episode

2511
01:59:01,040 --> 01:59:04,280
Speaker 1: since the beginning, that it's presence not perfection in fatherhood

2512
01:59:04,280 --> 01:59:06,160
Speaker 1: because we fuck up all the time all they want

2513
01:59:06,240 --> 01:59:08,160
Speaker 1: to continue to mess up all the time. But it's

2514
01:59:08,160 --> 01:59:09,520
Speaker 1: how you show up in the next moment, how you

2515
01:59:09,560 --> 01:59:11,720
Speaker 1: show up in the next day. Because again, your kids

2516
01:59:11,760 --> 01:59:13,760
Speaker 1: won't remember a word you say. They'll they'll they will

2517
01:59:13,840 --> 01:59:18,040
Speaker 1: understand what you model to them before you say anything

2518
01:59:18,080 --> 01:59:21,760
Speaker 1: to them, and the lesson and all of that. You

2519
01:59:21,840 --> 01:59:24,160
Speaker 1: can't control everything in your family's life, but you can

2520
01:59:24,280 --> 01:59:26,560
Speaker 1: control the spirit you bring in, the consistency that you

2521
01:59:26,640 --> 01:59:28,960
Speaker 1: show up with. If you keep a strong attitude, you

2522
01:59:29,080 --> 01:59:31,560
Speaker 1: teach your kids how to handle it when life is unfair.

2523
01:59:32,000 --> 01:59:34,640
Speaker 1: If you keep steady effort, you teach them that love

2524
01:59:34,760 --> 01:59:36,960
Speaker 1: is built through showing up, not just talking about it.

2525
01:59:37,200 --> 01:59:39,560
Speaker 1: And Indian your legacy as a dad won't be defined

2526
01:59:39,840 --> 01:59:42,080
Speaker 1: by what you achieved. It'll be defined by how you

2527
01:59:42,160 --> 01:59:46,000
Speaker 1: carried yourself and how you made your family feel. Yeah, dude,

2528
01:59:46,440 --> 01:59:49,440
Speaker 1: So there we go. That's that's the lesson, that's the

2529
01:59:49,480 --> 01:59:50,160
Speaker 1: topic of the week.

2530
01:59:50,880 --> 01:59:52,280
Speaker 2: That's a really really good one.

2531
01:59:52,760 --> 01:59:55,120
Speaker 1: The attitude and effort one, like a few in the

2532
01:59:55,200 --> 01:59:58,560
Speaker 1: world of that I've just like learned or gravitated towards.

2533
01:59:58,560 --> 02:00:00,400
Speaker 1: Are things that have always stuck with me, and sports

2534
02:00:00,520 --> 02:00:07,320
Speaker 1: is attitude and effort. There's this four quadrant like belief, potential, action, results.

2535
02:00:07,360 --> 02:00:12,360
Speaker 1: Thing that's always stuck with me. There is that nobody cares,

2536
02:00:12,440 --> 02:00:14,160
Speaker 1: work harder, and nobody's coming to save you.

2537
02:00:14,400 --> 02:00:14,600
Speaker 2: Yep.

2538
02:00:15,600 --> 02:00:18,720
Speaker 1: And so the challenge that I've had with myself, especially

2539
02:00:18,840 --> 02:00:21,880
Speaker 1: in fatherhood or parenthood and even for this brand wanting

2540
02:00:21,960 --> 02:00:23,720
Speaker 1: to come with like a lesson or topic or something

2541
02:00:23,800 --> 02:00:26,560
Speaker 1: like that, is I'm trying to pull from the football

2542
02:00:26,760 --> 02:00:29,240
Speaker 1: isms that I've learned, and it's like all right, how

2543
02:00:29,280 --> 02:00:32,560
Speaker 1: do we gear this towards like paranoids? So that's kind

2544
02:00:32,600 --> 02:00:35,480
Speaker 1: of been my It's been like my homeworker challenge, like

2545
02:00:35,560 --> 02:00:38,360
Speaker 1: when trying to come with with lessons or topics, because

2546
02:00:38,360 --> 02:00:39,960
Speaker 1: I feel like all of it is carry over. All

2547
02:00:39,960 --> 02:00:42,440
Speaker 1: of it's crossover, right, Like everything they tell you what

2548
02:00:42,560 --> 02:00:45,240
Speaker 1: you learn, like when you're growing up playing sports. Sports

2549
02:00:45,280 --> 02:00:47,080
Speaker 1: are the best teacher for life. So it's like, how

2550
02:00:47,120 --> 02:00:50,600
Speaker 1: do you bring all the sports methods that is what

2551
02:00:50,800 --> 02:00:53,320
Speaker 1: I know? And how am I carrying it? You know?

2552
02:00:53,400 --> 02:00:56,240
Speaker 1: When I went from football to the branding and podcasting,

2553
02:00:56,280 --> 02:00:57,880
Speaker 1: the business side of everything. How do I bring that

2554
02:00:57,960 --> 02:01:00,400
Speaker 1: into whether it's the locker room on the bus. How

2555
02:01:00,400 --> 02:01:02,400
Speaker 1: do I bring that into my personality? How do I

2556
02:01:02,480 --> 02:01:05,760
Speaker 1: bring that into being a leader and manager for the squad?

2557
02:01:06,000 --> 02:01:06,200
Speaker 2: Yeah?

2558
02:01:06,640 --> 02:01:08,440
Speaker 1: How do I bring that into fatherhood? How do I

2559
02:01:08,480 --> 02:01:11,000
Speaker 1: bring that into being a husband? Because it all everything

2560
02:01:11,120 --> 02:01:12,760
Speaker 1: tests you along the way.

2561
02:01:14,120 --> 02:01:19,080
Speaker 3: Any organized team, uh, And that could be like academic

2562
02:01:20,040 --> 02:01:22,920
Speaker 3: to cathalon type stuff or like doing a school play,

2563
02:01:23,040 --> 02:01:25,400
Speaker 3: anything where like a group of people are coming together

2564
02:01:25,880 --> 02:01:29,400
Speaker 3: for a common goal. You have to hold up your responsibilities.

2565
02:01:29,440 --> 02:01:33,320
Speaker 3: If you don't, it's going to cause others to misfire

2566
02:01:33,360 --> 02:01:37,400
Speaker 3: and misstep, and I couldn't agree more. It's all applicable

2567
02:01:37,520 --> 02:01:41,720
Speaker 3: to work performance, family performance, friend performance, Like how are

2568
02:01:41,760 --> 02:01:43,000
Speaker 3: you performing in your life?

2569
02:01:43,240 --> 02:01:45,480
Speaker 2: Yeah? Are you showing up for all these things?

2570
02:01:46,200 --> 02:01:49,320
Speaker 1: Especially when you're an ambitious an ambitious person as well,

2571
02:01:49,800 --> 02:01:55,800
Speaker 1: like you, really you're a ambitious career minded person and

2572
02:01:55,920 --> 02:01:59,440
Speaker 1: you want to do really good work. We a lot

2573
02:01:59,480 --> 02:02:01,440
Speaker 1: of us will do anything pop. We try to figure

2574
02:02:01,440 --> 02:02:03,720
Speaker 1: out everything possible to be a really good teammate. If

2575
02:02:03,720 --> 02:02:05,960
Speaker 1: you're in a leadership role, be a really good leader.

2576
02:02:06,480 --> 02:02:08,280
Speaker 1: And a lot of the stuff in the back end

2577
02:02:08,320 --> 02:02:10,480
Speaker 1: that's kind of in the back seat can be the

2578
02:02:10,560 --> 02:02:13,880
Speaker 1: family stuff at times and where I've like you know,

2579
02:02:14,040 --> 02:02:16,520
Speaker 1: had a couple like aha, or think, okay, how can

2580
02:02:16,560 --> 02:02:17,000
Speaker 1: I marry it?

2581
02:02:17,080 --> 02:02:17,280
Speaker 2: To this?

2582
02:02:17,560 --> 02:02:20,160
Speaker 1: Like the family time and everything else is operating the

2583
02:02:20,200 --> 02:02:23,000
Speaker 1: same way at home. Like am I being like the

2584
02:02:23,040 --> 02:02:25,080
Speaker 1: way I am around my team, the way I am

2585
02:02:25,200 --> 02:02:27,720
Speaker 1: at work, the way I am in my career, I

2586
02:02:27,880 --> 02:02:30,160
Speaker 1: am in my ambitions, every philosophy or thing that I

2587
02:02:30,280 --> 02:02:32,520
Speaker 1: kind of tied to that motivates me or keeps me disciplined.

2588
02:02:33,000 --> 02:02:35,080
Speaker 1: Am I doing those same things at home in the

2589
02:02:35,240 --> 02:02:37,040
Speaker 1: role that I have at home? If I'm in a

2590
02:02:37,120 --> 02:02:39,200
Speaker 1: leadership role everything that I feel like I'm doing, whether

2591
02:02:39,240 --> 02:02:42,320
Speaker 1: it's for a team, for the shop.

2592
02:02:42,640 --> 02:02:44,680
Speaker 2: Am I being the same guy? Am I being that

2593
02:02:44,880 --> 02:02:45,720
Speaker 2: dad at home?

2594
02:02:47,720 --> 02:02:51,640
Speaker 1: So yeah, I was kind of I was kind of

2595
02:02:51,720 --> 02:02:53,480
Speaker 1: going to where I was like, oh, that would be

2596
02:02:53,520 --> 02:02:55,120
Speaker 1: a where's the bow tie on that one?

2597
02:02:55,200 --> 02:02:55,320
Speaker 2: Man?

2598
02:02:55,480 --> 02:02:57,400
Speaker 1: My brain kind of just stopped. But it's like to

2599
02:02:57,520 --> 02:02:59,640
Speaker 1: throw a bow tie. I guess on how I applied

2600
02:02:59,640 --> 02:03:03,560
Speaker 1: to buy Life. We always talk about like Charlio being like, Yo,

2601
02:03:03,640 --> 02:03:05,640
Speaker 1: you have this dad podcast. You can't even put up

2602
02:03:05,680 --> 02:03:09,040
Speaker 1: a shelf. Yeah, I ask myself that a lot.

2603
02:03:09,440 --> 02:03:11,720
Speaker 3: There are a lot of times around the house where

2604
02:03:11,760 --> 02:03:15,520
Speaker 3: I'm like, dude, you got this podcast where you're like,

2605
02:03:16,200 --> 02:03:19,959
Speaker 3: you got people writing in the comments these life stories

2606
02:03:20,120 --> 02:03:23,440
Speaker 3: and about how great this podcast is blah blah blah,

2607
02:03:23,480 --> 02:03:25,920
Speaker 3: and you can't get up. I know you hear Scarlet

2608
02:03:26,040 --> 02:03:28,280
Speaker 3: crying and Jill's having to do that by yourself.

2609
02:03:28,440 --> 02:03:31,760
Speaker 1: In those examples the Willie one shelf where that came about,

2610
02:03:31,960 --> 02:03:34,440
Speaker 1: and in the Scarlet when you're talking about too, it's like,

2611
02:03:35,080 --> 02:03:37,840
Speaker 1: if I just think of the two things that you

2612
02:03:37,920 --> 02:03:40,040
Speaker 1: can sit there and talk about controlling, because you can't

2613
02:03:40,040 --> 02:03:42,520
Speaker 1: control outcomes, you can't control a lot of things external

2614
02:03:42,600 --> 02:03:45,120
Speaker 1: that other people have control on. But if I think

2615
02:03:45,120 --> 02:03:48,120
Speaker 1: about attitude and effort, it's like such a poor piss,

2616
02:03:48,320 --> 02:03:51,000
Speaker 1: such a piss, poor attitude and effort in that moment.

2617
02:03:51,080 --> 02:03:52,920
Speaker 1: If I think of it in a team environment, it's

2618
02:03:52,960 --> 02:03:55,080
Speaker 1: like if I have these big goals of like hitting

2619
02:03:55,120 --> 02:03:57,520
Speaker 1: prs in the weight room or doing X, Y and

2620
02:03:57,640 --> 02:03:59,920
Speaker 1: Z on the football field, that's essentially a teammate coming up.

2621
02:04:00,120 --> 02:04:01,680
Speaker 1: You have these goals, and you're not living up to

2622
02:04:01,720 --> 02:04:02,480
Speaker 1: these goals right now.

2623
02:04:05,640 --> 02:04:09,560
Speaker 2: It did. The brain's doing it again, and bow tie,

2624
02:04:09,720 --> 02:04:11,240
Speaker 2: bow tie. There you go.

2625
02:04:11,920 --> 02:04:15,400
Speaker 1: That was a good point. Yeah, hey, you're not living

2626
02:04:15,480 --> 02:04:17,640
Speaker 1: up to these goals right now. Bow tie.

2627
02:04:17,800 --> 02:04:20,600
Speaker 3: No, but you you did paint a good picture. I

2628
02:04:20,680 --> 02:04:22,800
Speaker 3: don't know what kind of bookend or bookmark you're looking

2629
02:04:22,880 --> 02:04:23,240
Speaker 3: forward to.

2630
02:04:24,040 --> 02:04:25,480
Speaker 2: Sum it all up. I think you summed it up.

2631
02:04:25,560 --> 02:04:27,080
Speaker 1: Or it might just be the moment where I stop

2632
02:04:27,160 --> 02:04:29,240
Speaker 1: and then there's just a second or two of silence

2633
02:04:29,280 --> 02:04:31,840
Speaker 1: where it's like some tough somebody else might come in

2634
02:04:31,960 --> 02:04:34,760
Speaker 1: and go off that and I'm like, okay, finish it up.

2635
02:04:35,200 --> 02:04:41,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, get the walk off music for like an award show,

2636
02:04:42,520 --> 02:04:45,400
Speaker 2: the wrap up music. No, no, no, you know, Yeah,

2637
02:04:45,400 --> 02:04:47,720
Speaker 2: they're playing me off. They're playing me off you just

2638
02:04:48,200 --> 02:04:49,560
Speaker 2: like you wrapped up pretty well. I don't even know

2639
02:04:49,560 --> 02:04:51,080
Speaker 2: if you need to put a bow tie on it. Well,

2640
02:04:51,080 --> 02:04:51,680
Speaker 2: it's more of like the.

2641
02:04:51,880 --> 02:04:54,120
Speaker 1: Pocket of space comes in and maybe that's when just

2642
02:04:54,200 --> 02:04:55,520
Speaker 1: the John Cena music drops.

2643
02:04:57,400 --> 02:05:00,560
Speaker 2: Oh my god. I feel like if we' does all that,

2644
02:05:00,720 --> 02:05:02,840
Speaker 2: he's a be great at home because you're a good boss.

2645
02:05:03,080 --> 02:05:05,560
Speaker 2: And I mean that I'm not hey, you know, he

2646
02:05:05,680 --> 02:05:07,920
Speaker 2: signs my checks, but I really do mean that you're

2647
02:05:07,960 --> 02:05:10,760
Speaker 2: a badass boss. And like the way that you operate

2648
02:05:10,840 --> 02:05:15,040
Speaker 2: and stuff, it's like the most fair, just genuine like

2649
02:05:15,240 --> 02:05:18,360
Speaker 2: once you succeed kind of you know, feeling like working

2650
02:05:18,400 --> 02:05:21,000
Speaker 2: for Will and Taylor too. So if you apply it

2651
02:05:21,040 --> 02:05:23,560
Speaker 2: at to home, like I feel like that's a hell

2652
02:05:23,560 --> 02:05:26,080
Speaker 2: of a way to approach it. Yeah. It's the attentionality

2653
02:05:26,160 --> 02:05:27,640
Speaker 2: too that you bring.

2654
02:05:28,760 --> 02:05:32,080
Speaker 3: I've said that before to you of like you come

2655
02:05:32,120 --> 02:05:34,880
Speaker 3: into this office with intention every single day.

2656
02:05:36,720 --> 02:05:39,000
Speaker 1: And just seeing that.

2657
02:05:39,840 --> 02:05:42,280
Speaker 3: I've always been an employee that wants to like do

2658
02:05:42,400 --> 02:05:44,200
Speaker 3: a good job in press and press and press.

2659
02:05:44,240 --> 02:05:45,840
Speaker 2: But it really is fun when you.

2660
02:05:45,920 --> 02:05:47,640
Speaker 3: Come in and it's like, oh, the guy that's the

2661
02:05:47,720 --> 02:05:50,800
Speaker 3: shot caller is also kind of.

2662
02:05:51,240 --> 02:05:53,120
Speaker 2: You know, in the weeds, moan in the yard too,

2663
02:05:53,440 --> 02:05:56,480
Speaker 2: Like that never feels above yeah, never, like you don't

2664
02:05:56,480 --> 02:05:58,720
Speaker 2: feel your I've never felt like I'm talked down to

2665
02:05:59,160 --> 02:06:01,680
Speaker 2: on which is like at the end of the day,

2666
02:06:01,720 --> 02:06:04,200
Speaker 2: like you make the decisions. But I will say from

2667
02:06:04,240 --> 02:06:06,680
Speaker 2: an employee side that you want to like, you want

2668
02:06:06,720 --> 02:06:08,680
Speaker 2: to do good. That kind of stuff motivates you, like, hey,

2669
02:06:08,760 --> 02:06:11,680
Speaker 2: this guy has your back at all times, wants you

2670
02:06:11,800 --> 02:06:14,280
Speaker 2: to do good, and you want to fight for that too.

2671
02:06:14,640 --> 02:06:17,880
Speaker 1: Like, so it's a great agreed, you know, and with

2672
02:06:18,040 --> 02:06:22,280
Speaker 1: that intentionality applying it to the home life, like the

2673
02:06:22,360 --> 02:06:25,160
Speaker 1: kids are gonna see that as far as me. Thanks, boys,

2674
02:06:25,360 --> 02:06:30,320
Speaker 1: They're like, honestly, it's like that's rat poison. That's rat poison.

2675
02:06:30,560 --> 02:06:32,200
Speaker 1: You live for the cheers, you die by the booze.

2676
02:06:32,240 --> 02:06:35,600
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah. But I feel I feel like in this

2677
02:06:35,880 --> 02:06:37,640
Speaker 1: with the platform that we have to like getting to

2678
02:06:37,720 --> 02:06:40,400
Speaker 1: go through topics, lessons, call it advice, whatever you want

2679
02:06:40,440 --> 02:06:41,800
Speaker 1: to call it, I feel like this is a fun

2680
02:06:41,880 --> 02:06:44,800
Speaker 1: platform to kind of get thoughts that I've had kind

2681
02:06:44,840 --> 02:06:47,560
Speaker 1: of jotted down and journaled her on paper because I

2682
02:06:48,400 --> 02:06:51,800
Speaker 1: I genuinely feel like I've gotten to learn from so

2683
02:06:51,960 --> 02:06:55,920
Speaker 1: many great people that were stuff that they say, like

2684
02:06:56,240 --> 02:06:58,280
Speaker 1: I'll be the kid when we are if you're the

2685
02:06:58,320 --> 02:07:01,000
Speaker 1: person up there trying to give lessons or trying to

2686
02:07:01,040 --> 02:07:02,480
Speaker 1: do things, and say you're in a leadership role and

2687
02:07:02,520 --> 02:07:05,240
Speaker 1: you're just wondering if people out there are like taking it,

2688
02:07:05,400 --> 02:07:07,000
Speaker 1: you know what I mean? Or hey, is this sticking?

2689
02:07:08,840 --> 02:07:11,280
Speaker 1: And I just know, like I was a young I

2690
02:07:11,440 --> 02:07:14,160
Speaker 1: was a young cat or a young athlete. In every

2691
02:07:14,240 --> 02:07:17,160
Speaker 1: room that I was in, if if there was a

2692
02:07:17,200 --> 02:07:18,840
Speaker 1: coach that I m are like getting to listen to

2693
02:07:19,760 --> 02:07:22,960
Speaker 1: get taught from coach Bo Polini, James Dobson, like my

2694
02:07:23,120 --> 02:07:25,440
Speaker 1: mom and dad, Like I've been around so many great

2695
02:07:25,480 --> 02:07:28,200
Speaker 1: people to wear that stuff really resonates with me. And

2696
02:07:28,240 --> 02:07:30,720
Speaker 1: when I thought about being ambitious and successful, I think

2697
02:07:30,760 --> 02:07:32,680
Speaker 1: to myself, like when I listened to whether it was

2698
02:07:32,720 --> 02:07:36,440
Speaker 1: Tony Robbins videos or any of those videos on motivation

2699
02:07:36,760 --> 02:07:38,920
Speaker 1: or success or ambition, Like I was a guy who

2700
02:07:39,000 --> 02:07:40,680
Speaker 1: consumed a lot of that stuff when I was young,

2701
02:07:41,120 --> 02:07:43,160
Speaker 1: and I would try and put stuff into practice, and

2702
02:07:43,200 --> 02:07:45,080
Speaker 1: when things like worked or paid off, It's like I'm

2703
02:07:45,080 --> 02:07:46,840
Speaker 1: trying to remember these things like when I get to

2704
02:07:46,920 --> 02:07:52,240
Speaker 1: the next level or the next thing especially in football. Again,

2705
02:07:52,360 --> 02:07:55,960
Speaker 1: it's like being undrafted, like you're very salty and slided

2706
02:07:56,000 --> 02:07:57,560
Speaker 1: about it. But if you take a lot of these

2707
02:07:57,600 --> 02:07:58,920
Speaker 1: things that have been taught to you, and I can

2708
02:07:59,040 --> 02:08:02,240
Speaker 1: just you can just remove the noise and try to

2709
02:08:02,280 --> 02:08:04,760
Speaker 1: focus on the day to day stuff or the habits

2710
02:08:04,840 --> 02:08:06,880
Speaker 1: or the things that I'm going to still challenge myself too,

2711
02:08:06,960 --> 02:08:08,960
Speaker 1: versus getting down on myself and think like, oh man,

2712
02:08:09,360 --> 02:08:10,200
Speaker 1: they don't think I'm.

2713
02:08:10,040 --> 02:08:11,520
Speaker 2: Good or that I belong in the league.

2714
02:08:11,600 --> 02:08:13,760
Speaker 1: Maybe they're right, or I get a little the whole

2715
02:08:13,840 --> 02:08:15,880
Speaker 1: attitude and effort thing, or if I take a lot

2716
02:08:15,920 --> 02:08:17,760
Speaker 1: of these philosophies and it's like, okay, how can I

2717
02:08:17,880 --> 02:08:20,440
Speaker 1: pull myself out of my own emotion because you're just

2718
02:08:21,200 --> 02:08:24,160
Speaker 1: we're all emotional just constantly if a result doesn't go

2719
02:08:24,240 --> 02:08:26,840
Speaker 1: our way, and when those things start to work out

2720
02:08:27,000 --> 02:08:28,520
Speaker 1: or pay off, and it's like, man, I need to

2721
02:08:28,640 --> 02:08:31,720
Speaker 1: remember this stuff somehow for whenever I become a starter

2722
02:08:32,160 --> 02:08:34,200
Speaker 1: or when I'm gonna be starting, whenever I'm a starter,

2723
02:08:34,320 --> 02:08:36,080
Speaker 1: how do I become a pro bowler? It's never that.

2724
02:08:36,240 --> 02:08:38,000
Speaker 1: But then, okay, you don't get the result that you want.

2725
02:08:38,040 --> 02:08:40,000
Speaker 1: But how do you take the same things that have

2726
02:08:40,080 --> 02:08:42,320
Speaker 1: always helped me get there through listening to these people

2727
02:08:42,400 --> 02:08:44,680
Speaker 1: and being like, man, they're right about this shit, Like

2728
02:08:44,760 --> 02:08:47,160
Speaker 1: I need to how do I box this in or

2729
02:08:47,200 --> 02:08:49,919
Speaker 1: hone it in? And no matter what happens after football,

2730
02:08:50,720 --> 02:08:52,640
Speaker 1: how do I carry the same approach over to X,

2731
02:08:52,760 --> 02:08:54,880
Speaker 1: Y and Z, to things that you guys are talking

2732
02:08:54,920 --> 02:08:57,480
Speaker 1: about and stuff at home. It's it's a constant. I

2733
02:08:57,480 --> 02:09:00,440
Speaker 1: feel like I'm constantly trying to learn and think about

2734
02:09:00,440 --> 02:09:04,000
Speaker 1: those things. So I've been very I've been just fortunate

2735
02:09:04,120 --> 02:09:07,160
Speaker 1: being around a lot of people that you know, I

2736
02:09:07,240 --> 02:09:08,880
Speaker 1: guess that's all to me for being a sponge, But

2737
02:09:09,080 --> 02:09:12,440
Speaker 1: I was always I've always been a very curious individual.

2738
02:09:13,120 --> 02:09:14,880
Speaker 1: And how is it like, man, I want to be

2739
02:09:15,000 --> 02:09:17,960
Speaker 1: where that person is. How do I even if my

2740
02:09:18,040 --> 02:09:20,120
Speaker 1: boys might be doing inside jokes on while we're doing

2741
02:09:20,160 --> 02:09:22,280
Speaker 1: this dumb meeting or this dumb shit. You know, all

2742
02:09:22,360 --> 02:09:25,280
Speaker 1: those you know, all those groups that have this seems

2743
02:09:25,400 --> 02:09:29,040
Speaker 1: uncool to want to listen and you know, take something

2744
02:09:29,080 --> 02:09:35,080
Speaker 1: away from it. You will cares about this sh try idiot, Well,

2745
02:09:35,120 --> 02:09:37,000
Speaker 1: you're trying way too hard, man, Like that ain't the

2746
02:09:37,080 --> 02:09:40,160
Speaker 1: cool thing to do. But I was always like kind

2747
02:09:40,200 --> 02:09:43,120
Speaker 1: of I guess like that kid like again, if bo

2748
02:09:43,240 --> 02:09:45,960
Speaker 1: Plainey was telling you something, I'm thinking, Man, I want

2749
02:09:45,960 --> 02:09:48,400
Speaker 1: to be a head coach one day in college football

2750
02:09:48,480 --> 02:09:51,280
Speaker 1: or the NFL. Like I need to listen to everything

2751
02:09:51,320 --> 02:09:56,240
Speaker 1: all these coaches say to one day hopefully be where

2752
02:09:56,280 --> 02:10:01,520
Speaker 1: they are. So again, very uh, trying to receive the compliment.

2753
02:10:01,600 --> 02:10:03,600
Speaker 1: Also very grateful, been around a lot of great people.

2754
02:10:03,840 --> 02:10:05,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, yes, and shout out uh.

2755
02:10:05,920 --> 02:10:07,960
Speaker 3: I do have one extra thought, but also shout out

2756
02:10:07,960 --> 02:10:11,560
Speaker 3: your boy James Dobson. He's the ad at Oklahoma for

2757
02:10:12,320 --> 02:10:13,280
Speaker 3: player performance.

2758
02:10:13,720 --> 02:10:14,520
Speaker 2: That's kind of cool.

2759
02:10:15,000 --> 02:10:18,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, Dobson is the fucking man bro. Legitimately another father

2760
02:10:18,480 --> 02:10:20,160
Speaker 1: figure in my life. I busted his balls. He was

2761
02:10:20,200 --> 02:10:23,120
Speaker 1: at Vandy. He was like the head athletic guy, like

2762
02:10:23,240 --> 02:10:25,840
Speaker 1: over all of athletic performance. Left to go take a

2763
02:10:25,920 --> 02:10:28,280
Speaker 1: two job on the strength training for Oklahoma because he's

2764
02:10:28,320 --> 02:10:30,880
Speaker 1: kind of The thought was he'd be the successor at

2765
02:10:30,920 --> 02:10:32,160
Speaker 1: Oklahoma because he was a one.

2766
02:10:32,240 --> 02:10:32,800
Speaker 2: He's been the guy.

2767
02:10:32,880 --> 02:10:34,520
Speaker 1: He's been the heads strength coach. He was my head

2768
02:10:34,560 --> 02:10:38,720
Speaker 1: strength coach at Nebraska. Very hard like, tough guy, very

2769
02:10:38,760 --> 02:10:41,120
Speaker 1: hard on. He loves you. Hard the guy's guy. But

2770
02:10:41,280 --> 02:10:45,240
Speaker 1: taught you a lot of good analogies and theories about life.

2771
02:10:45,280 --> 02:10:47,280
Speaker 1: That kind of got you showing up even when times

2772
02:10:47,320 --> 02:10:50,200
Speaker 1: are very hard, like a being in a world to

2773
02:10:50,240 --> 02:10:53,080
Speaker 1: where you know, this is fucking football. Yeah, like it's

2774
02:10:53,160 --> 02:10:55,520
Speaker 1: gonna be fucking hard. It's the whole point. Nobody feels

2775
02:10:55,560 --> 02:10:57,360
Speaker 1: good at this point in the season. He would always

2776
02:10:57,360 --> 02:11:01,360
Speaker 1: have great storytelling ways, but it was always attitude and effort.

2777
02:11:01,840 --> 02:11:04,920
Speaker 1: And he was the head guy Vandy after Nebraska to

2778
02:11:05,000 --> 02:11:06,600
Speaker 1: when I was on the when I was on Tennessee,

2779
02:11:06,720 --> 02:11:09,040
Speaker 1: I got to train over at Vandy and still be

2780
02:11:09,160 --> 02:11:11,560
Speaker 1: in life around him. He's actually the one of the

2781
02:11:11,640 --> 02:11:13,720
Speaker 1: first guys where I'm like sitting you know, I'd work

2782
02:11:13,760 --> 02:11:15,320
Speaker 1: out and then I go bus balls. We'd be in

2783
02:11:15,360 --> 02:11:17,240
Speaker 1: the office hanging out and everything else, talking about the

2784
02:11:17,280 --> 02:11:20,240
Speaker 1: old days and what's going on in Vandy. And he

2785
02:11:20,360 --> 02:11:21,720
Speaker 1: was one of the first guys world was like, hey,

2786
02:11:21,720 --> 02:11:24,680
Speaker 1: I'm sort of podcast like it's a bus So he

2787
02:11:24,840 --> 02:11:26,760
Speaker 1: was there when I'd have to print out documents to

2788
02:11:26,800 --> 02:11:30,120
Speaker 1: get signed use his printer. But Dobson is like a

2789
02:11:30,560 --> 02:11:33,400
Speaker 1: shout out, James Dobson. He's a he's a legend.

2790
02:11:33,600 --> 02:11:34,160
Speaker 2: Shout out.

2791
02:11:34,320 --> 02:11:37,320
Speaker 3: And to put a bow on your lesson, you said

2792
02:11:37,360 --> 02:11:39,880
Speaker 3: something that I really loved about the saltiness of being

2793
02:11:39,920 --> 02:11:44,080
Speaker 3: a walk on or not a walk on, an undrafted

2794
02:11:44,680 --> 02:11:47,720
Speaker 3: free agent. I love what you said of like pulling

2795
02:11:47,760 --> 02:11:51,160
Speaker 3: yourself out of the emotion of like wanting to prove

2796
02:11:51,240 --> 02:11:54,520
Speaker 3: people wrong, like pulling yourself out of like whatever kind

2797
02:11:54,520 --> 02:11:58,440
Speaker 3: of angst or anger or sadness that maybe that causes.

2798
02:11:58,880 --> 02:12:03,080
Speaker 3: Because that was huge for me of like going the

2799
02:12:03,160 --> 02:12:05,600
Speaker 3: way that I did career wise, and kind of a

2800
02:12:05,680 --> 02:12:07,760
Speaker 3: lot of people being like, why the heck is he

2801
02:12:07,840 --> 02:12:11,000
Speaker 3: going into video production? Why, and me kind of getting

2802
02:12:11,040 --> 02:12:14,760
Speaker 3: this like jaded spirit of Oh, I'm gonna show them,

2803
02:12:14,800 --> 02:12:15,880
Speaker 3: I'm gonna prove them wrong.

2804
02:12:15,920 --> 02:12:18,280
Speaker 2: I'm gonna do that. And once I pulled myself.

2805
02:12:18,000 --> 02:12:21,920
Speaker 1: Out of that, it was just able to enjoy fully

2806
02:12:22,800 --> 02:12:27,960
Speaker 1: gratiate and gratiate into like video production and chase after

2807
02:12:28,080 --> 02:12:31,640
Speaker 1: it and work hard and put forth the effort, have

2808
02:12:31,760 --> 02:12:32,960
Speaker 1: a good attitude.

2809
02:12:32,800 --> 02:12:36,480
Speaker 3: But enjoy what I was doing as well. That's when

2810
02:12:36,600 --> 02:12:39,360
Speaker 3: I started like really finding success.

2811
02:12:39,720 --> 02:12:40,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, because you're.

2812
02:12:40,840 --> 02:12:42,880
Speaker 1: Right, it is tough, man, Like when I didn't get

2813
02:12:42,920 --> 02:12:46,960
Speaker 1: invited to the combine, that was a hard moment, like again,

2814
02:12:47,000 --> 02:12:48,720
Speaker 1: because then you like you're searching your name on the

2815
02:12:48,800 --> 02:12:51,720
Speaker 1: internet and you see rankings and it's like man, I'm

2816
02:12:51,800 --> 02:12:55,880
Speaker 1: just feeding into this thing that's honestly not good for me. Yeah,

2817
02:12:56,440 --> 02:12:58,920
Speaker 1: And no matter what, the sun is going to rise

2818
02:12:59,000 --> 02:13:01,080
Speaker 1: tomorrow and you put your feet on the ground, and

2819
02:13:01,160 --> 02:13:03,600
Speaker 1: it's like, what attitude and effort are you going to

2820
02:13:03,800 --> 02:13:05,120
Speaker 1: have about the day? And are you going to be

2821
02:13:05,200 --> 02:13:07,000
Speaker 1: glued to your vision? And are you going to be

2822
02:13:07,080 --> 02:13:10,040
Speaker 1: glued to the disciplines and the routine and what you're

2823
02:13:10,080 --> 02:13:12,240
Speaker 1: eating and all these things you're gonna do or you're

2824
02:13:12,320 --> 02:13:16,120
Speaker 1: just gonna kind of feel sorry for yourself kind of

2825
02:13:16,200 --> 02:13:18,640
Speaker 1: shy away, come back, man, Maybe.

2826
02:13:18,480 --> 02:13:23,120
Speaker 2: They are right, yeah, bro, because I'll do that. Even

2827
02:13:23,200 --> 02:13:23,760
Speaker 2: with parenting.

2828
02:13:24,120 --> 02:13:28,800
Speaker 1: Sometimes I'll be like, god, I fucking did so bad

2829
02:13:29,520 --> 02:13:33,480
Speaker 1: that last morning, like whatever I didn't do, or like yeah,

2830
02:13:33,520 --> 02:13:35,560
Speaker 1: I was being lazier blah blah blah, and I'm like

2831
02:13:35,680 --> 02:13:36,840
Speaker 1: in my head, I was.

2832
02:13:36,840 --> 02:13:39,120
Speaker 3: Being such a bad dad. And it's like, well, here's

2833
02:13:39,160 --> 02:13:42,160
Speaker 3: the opportunity where I won't be a bad dad, where

2834
02:13:42,160 --> 02:13:47,000
Speaker 3: I'll you know, I'll change my attitude. And what was

2835
02:13:47,080 --> 02:13:50,040
Speaker 3: it called the memory have a short memory, goldfish memory,

2836
02:13:50,040 --> 02:13:50,800
Speaker 3: goldfish memory.

2837
02:13:51,440 --> 02:13:55,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think that's important as well. With the attitude and.

2838
02:13:55,360 --> 02:13:58,240
Speaker 3: Effort, it's like you will mess up, you will not

2839
02:13:58,360 --> 02:14:01,840
Speaker 3: be perfect, but it's just being able to learn from

2840
02:14:01,880 --> 02:14:04,600
Speaker 3: that loss. Hey, let's move forward and let's have a

2841
02:14:04,640 --> 02:14:07,920
Speaker 3: good attitude to attack whatever this next thing is.

2842
02:14:08,200 --> 02:14:10,600
Speaker 1: And no, yeah, that's a great point. And knowing too,

2843
02:14:10,840 --> 02:14:13,280
Speaker 1: Like let's just say in this hypothetical you have a

2844
02:14:14,040 --> 02:14:19,240
Speaker 1: laundry list of a bad residence, oh as I do.

2845
02:14:19,600 --> 02:14:24,040
Speaker 1: And knowing but yeah, yeah, yeah, but let's say like

2846
02:14:24,800 --> 02:14:28,120
Speaker 1: something to where you don't feel you don't feel like

2847
02:14:28,160 --> 02:14:30,680
Speaker 1: a whole lot of self worth because you know it

2848
02:14:30,760 --> 02:14:32,080
Speaker 1: in the back of your mind, Like, man, I've been

2849
02:14:32,120 --> 02:14:36,640
Speaker 1: a shit x for a good amount of time. The

2850
02:14:37,200 --> 02:14:41,120
Speaker 1: power you you truly have to tomorrow there's going to

2851
02:14:41,160 --> 02:14:43,320
Speaker 1: be another opportunity and it can change.

2852
02:14:43,320 --> 02:14:44,440
Speaker 2: You can change it like that.

2853
02:14:44,960 --> 02:14:48,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, if you're truly sick and tired of being sick

2854
02:14:48,160 --> 02:14:50,920
Speaker 1: and tired, Yeah, that to me is power, bro.

2855
02:14:51,080 --> 02:14:53,120
Speaker 2: That's yeah.

2856
02:14:53,280 --> 02:14:56,080
Speaker 3: It is as easy as when I was like going

2857
02:14:56,160 --> 02:14:58,960
Speaker 3: through a really uh tough period in my life, that

2858
02:14:59,080 --> 02:15:02,800
Speaker 3: therapist that I would see and fort Worth, it's the man, dude,

2859
02:15:03,000 --> 02:15:05,320
Speaker 3: he felt more like a dad than like a therapist.

2860
02:15:05,480 --> 02:15:08,320
Speaker 2: He may there was a point in my life.

2861
02:15:08,400 --> 02:15:10,120
Speaker 3: I don't know if I shared this with you where

2862
02:15:10,240 --> 02:15:12,640
Speaker 3: I didn't get out of bed for like a stretch

2863
02:15:12,720 --> 02:15:14,960
Speaker 3: of like two weeks. I didn't get out of bed,

2864
02:15:15,840 --> 02:15:17,920
Speaker 3: and my mom had to like come over to the

2865
02:15:17,960 --> 02:15:20,120
Speaker 3: house I was living at, and like basically it was like,

2866
02:15:20,200 --> 02:15:22,160
Speaker 3: you need to go to therapy, blah blah blah. And

2867
02:15:23,360 --> 02:15:25,680
Speaker 3: the therapist very first thing he said is he was like,

2868
02:15:25,760 --> 02:15:29,400
Speaker 3: when you wake up, shower and put a nice outfit on,

2869
02:15:31,200 --> 02:15:33,760
Speaker 3: and what else can't it? Can't you do if you

2870
02:15:34,080 --> 02:15:36,920
Speaker 3: go clean yourself up and put some nice clothes on.

2871
02:15:37,520 --> 02:15:39,920
Speaker 1: Why not get out of the house. Why not go

2872
02:15:40,080 --> 02:15:40,680
Speaker 1: have a good day?

2873
02:15:40,800 --> 02:15:44,400
Speaker 3: Why not go do like you you get that small

2874
02:15:44,520 --> 02:15:47,800
Speaker 3: victory whatever that is, and you can change it, dude.

2875
02:15:47,880 --> 02:15:49,680
Speaker 3: And it's like, I'm a loser. I've been laying in

2876
02:15:49,760 --> 02:15:52,520
Speaker 3: bed for two weeks straight and you know, I don't

2877
02:15:52,520 --> 02:15:53,800
Speaker 3: know what I want to do with my life and

2878
02:15:53,840 --> 02:15:56,120
Speaker 3: blah blah blah, And well, hey, I showered and I

2879
02:15:56,240 --> 02:15:59,000
Speaker 3: put clothes on today, So I guess I'm not gonna

2880
02:15:59,080 --> 02:15:59,800
Speaker 3: get back in bed with.

2881
02:15:59,800 --> 02:16:00,560
Speaker 2: All these clothes on.

2882
02:16:00,640 --> 02:16:02,520
Speaker 1: I guess I'm gonna have to go, you know, do this.

2883
02:16:03,720 --> 02:16:07,880
Speaker 2: So I like that mentality, Yeah, make your bed, make

2884
02:16:07,960 --> 02:16:09,120
Speaker 2: your bad small wins.

2885
02:16:09,160 --> 02:16:11,400
Speaker 1: Bro Jill sitting there going, tell them, tell them, will

2886
02:16:12,280 --> 02:16:15,120
Speaker 1: try on my ass at the bed. Hey, I thought

2887
02:16:15,160 --> 02:16:16,520
Speaker 1: we said the rule is the last one to get

2888
02:16:16,560 --> 02:16:17,440
Speaker 1: out of the bed makes the bed.

2889
02:16:17,480 --> 02:16:21,160
Speaker 2: Sweet, you know I had to. You're right, Hey, you right.

2890
02:16:21,240 --> 02:16:24,240
Speaker 1: Babe grew up here making the bed, grew up there

2891
02:16:24,320 --> 02:16:27,320
Speaker 1: making her own bed. Bro making us look bad, making

2892
02:16:27,360 --> 02:16:30,200
Speaker 1: us look bad that day. Come upstairs, sweet, I got

2893
02:16:30,280 --> 02:16:34,640
Speaker 1: a fish bread. Come upstairs, all right, close your eyes,

2894
02:16:34,720 --> 02:16:38,080
Speaker 1: I'm walking in. Okay, look and I open. She got

2895
02:16:38,160 --> 02:16:41,280
Speaker 1: a perfectly made bed, stuffed animals in place, massive smile

2896
02:16:41,320 --> 02:16:45,480
Speaker 1: on her face. I'm like, gor, let's go downstairs. You

2897
02:16:45,520 --> 02:16:49,040
Speaker 1: better get your chicken sauce and sit well looking at

2898
02:16:49,040 --> 02:16:51,720
Speaker 1: you know, put my hand out for a high five.

2899
02:16:51,600 --> 02:16:54,440
Speaker 2: And like, yo, I love your effort. Love your effort, kid,

2900
02:16:55,160 --> 02:16:55,480
Speaker 2: But all.

2901
02:16:55,400 --> 02:16:58,039
Speaker 1: Right, gotta roll, gotta roll, take out your trash. Love

2902
02:16:58,080 --> 02:17:01,840
Speaker 1: you guys, pop a team six, leave comments, subscribe, love you.

2903
02:17:11,720 --> 02:17:16,880
Speaker 2: I've been my wife, I've been I rode away. Why renny,

2904
02:17:17,680 --> 02:17:24,400
Speaker 2: mm hmmm, why get back? Get back, come back,