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Speaker 1: Hey, everyone, welcome back to bed for a happy Hour.

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Speaker 1: I'm Joe and we are back for part two with

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Speaker 1: Brandon and Christina. They are both in love in a

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Speaker 1: relationship at this point. Brandon just survived a very near

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Speaker 1: death experience and here we are, so what is what's

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Speaker 1: the next move?

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Speaker 2: So after the boat incident, that next day, Christiana actually

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Speaker 2: went and she bought a plane ticket and that actually

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Speaker 2: come out, Yeah, I bought a ticket to come.

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Speaker 3: Out to see me.

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Speaker 4: It wasn't take a note for an answer.

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Speaker 2: Just because it was like she was like I want

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Speaker 2: to be here for you. She's like, I know that

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Speaker 2: you're going through a lot, and originally, like I was

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Speaker 2: going to try to go like I went to work

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Speaker 2: the next day, like I was like I was, I

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Speaker 2: was determined to just go back to life as normal.

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Speaker 2: And then I ended up going back to work and

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Speaker 2: it was just like too much, and so I ended

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Speaker 2: up calling off that whole that rest of the weekend,

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Speaker 2: and she had like she had been like she had

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Speaker 2: come out and like she was like originally she said,

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Speaker 2: She's like even if you're working, She's like I'm gonna

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Speaker 2: be there when you get off and be coming to

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Speaker 2: spend time with you when you like when you get off,

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Speaker 2: and so I ended up calling off because it was

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Speaker 2: just too much.

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Speaker 3: And then we just spent the whole.

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Speaker 2: Weekend together and it was like that was the weekend

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Speaker 2: that she actually got to meet my family too, because

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Speaker 2: my family was wanting to be around me a lot

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Speaker 2: too that weekend just because they were like I just

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Speaker 2: almost lost to you, and you know.

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Speaker 5: Very emotional week very emotional because his dad and his

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Speaker 5: uncle were also on.

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Speaker 2: Theh so it was like my dad, my uncle, and me,

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Speaker 2: we were all on the boat and it was just like,

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Speaker 2: I don't know, it was like all the like the

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Speaker 2: the older men in our family were all going to

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Speaker 2: be gone, and so it was kind of like just

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Speaker 2: like a big deal. So she ended up coming out

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Speaker 2: there that weekend, and then it ended up being amazing,

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Speaker 2: like she met my mom that weekend and my aunt

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Speaker 2: and who's like a second mom, and like, uh, it

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Speaker 2: was the first time my mom was like come up

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Speaker 2: to me and grabbed me and like cried and said

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Speaker 2: like Brandon, like I actually absolutely love this girl.

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Speaker 3: Like she's like she lets you be you.

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Speaker 2: She's like I don't feel like you're acting like somebody

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Speaker 2: else when you're like around her and this is like

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Speaker 2: I love this, and so it was a really amazing

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Speaker 2: thing for me. And it was just like and then

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Speaker 2: she started getting along with my family better than I did,

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Speaker 2: and I was like, well, okay, like.

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Speaker 3: Let's let's let's pump the's a little bit here, okay.

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Speaker 4: But yeah, you can see I'm hanging out with your family.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: My mom literally like told me, She's like, yeah, can

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Speaker 3: I just trade you for my son?

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Speaker 2: And I was like, well, I just almost died and

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Speaker 2: now you're already trying to get me off your hands,

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Speaker 2: Like what's going on here?

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Speaker 3: I thought you loved me, you know.

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Speaker 2: But it was actually, it was really cool, and so

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Speaker 2: that weekend was actually probably like it was one of

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Speaker 2: the most special weekends for me, just because it was

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Speaker 2: like I really needed it. And sometimes it's so hard

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Speaker 2: to ask for that help, like or ask for like

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Speaker 2: someone to like rely on when you're feeling down, like

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Speaker 2: you want to be like strong and strong like bull,

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Speaker 2: you know. But it was really cool that she just

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Speaker 5: Tell even by going to work the next day. I

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Speaker 5: was just like, cut that out. Stop being tough, like

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Speaker 5: you don't need that. I'm really tough. Let me be tough.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and she is tough, and so it was like

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Speaker 2: it was really cool that she did that, and so that.

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Speaker 3: Was really special.

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Speaker 2: And then it was crazy because like the week following

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Speaker 2: that was actually when Paradise aired, and then it just

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Speaker 2: like that adds a whole new thing for us to

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Speaker 2: Now we're a new relationship, and now we're like we

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Speaker 2: just got done through through a near death experience, and

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Speaker 2: now we got to go through Paradise, which is a

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Speaker 1: Were you were you, did you guys have the Paradise conversation?

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Speaker 1: Like Christina, were you prepped on what you were about

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Speaker 4: Okay, yeah, I knew everything.

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Speaker 5: And then also, you know a lot of the girls

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Speaker 5: that were on there are also my friends, so I

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Speaker 5: kind of knew before even knowing Braydon a lot of

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Speaker 5: the things, and so everything was adding up and not

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Speaker 5: that it mattered to me, but it was something that

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Speaker 5: I was like, Okay, well I need to at least

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Speaker 5: nothing comes up and later that you know, was something

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Speaker 5: someone forgot about or whatever, just to know not because

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Speaker 5: it mattered, but just to know what's out there if

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Speaker 5: you're going to be publicly on things like we're doing

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Speaker 5: interviews now, Like I just stuff that I think for

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Speaker 5: me personally, I wanted to know, and so that I

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Speaker 5: kind of grounded ourselves on. We didn't know each other

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Speaker 5: at all. We had not met each other, talked or

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Speaker 5: anything like we whatever. So not saying it was easy,

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Speaker 5: but it was. Yeah, No, it was well. The boat

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Speaker 5: being made it just so much a walk in the park.

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Speaker 3: Honestly, I don't know. Yes, it was still a lot

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Speaker 3: he felt.

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Speaker 4: I think he felt really guilty.

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Speaker 2: It's just it's weird because it's like, I know, it

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Speaker 2: wasn't cheating, but it's like when you're in a relationship

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Speaker 2: with someone you're seeing yourself make out with other people

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Speaker 2: while you're with someone else, it just does like you

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Speaker 2: feel so bad because you feel like you're you're putting

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Speaker 2: your partner through that.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, it's like, do I understood it absolutely and never

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Speaker 4: He Yeah, I think he was struggling with that a

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Speaker 2: It was just it was a it was a weird

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Speaker 2: but I feel like we did pretty like she was

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Speaker 2: just she was really graceful and gave me a lot

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Speaker 3: Thing and was like, uh, it was there for me again.

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Speaker 3: It was just great.

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Speaker 2: It's like the story of our relationship is Christina just

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Speaker 2: being there for me. But I'm just saying, but it's

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Speaker 2: just I appreciate it a lot. And so and then

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Speaker 2: out again for her birthday in October nineteen.

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Speaker 6: I got to say eighteen because nine eighteen is our

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Speaker 6: our when we were officially wait to say it, Okay, anyways,

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Speaker 6: so she comes out, Well, you came out, you came

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Speaker 6: out there anyways. You no, I came out on my

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Speaker 6: birthday with Blakely, So this was like the moment. So

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Speaker 6: they've met on FaceTime and stuff.

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Speaker 1: So my daughter, like, that's a big decision.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it's a.

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Speaker 5: Huge decision, But at the same time, it's like, so

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Speaker 5: I actually haven't had a boyfriend, like an official boyfriend

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Speaker 5: since you know, Blakely's father when I was seventeen, So like,

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Speaker 5: at the same time, it's a big decision. It's a

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Speaker 5: huge decision, yes, but at the same time, me deciding

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Speaker 5: to be boyfriend and girlfriend. Was that kind of makes

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Speaker 5: it to whear, Okay, we're gonna meet her. So so

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Speaker 5: that was already decided. That's not something I take take

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Speaker 7: How do you explain it to her? Like, Okay, we're

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Speaker 7: going to San Diego well out.

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Speaker 4: And she's, oh my gosh, she is all about him.

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Speaker 5: Oh, he's so handsome, and she you know, she was

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Speaker 5: six at the time, she's seven now, but she's going

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Speaker 5: on fifteen twenty five of it.

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Speaker 5: I mean, she's ridiculous, and so she like really appreciates him.

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Speaker 5: She's really emotionally mature. I would say, although they've been talking,

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Speaker 5: that's a later time.

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Speaker 4: We'll talk about that later. But it's funny we'll listen

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Speaker 5: But so so I'm like, okay, making the decision, and

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Speaker 5: I think let's make it super fun because he's got

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Speaker 5: my now new sun River, his dog, his huge dog,

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Speaker 5: and my daughter is obsessed with all animals.

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Speaker 4: Especially dogs.

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Speaker 5: And she's also been to the beach one time that

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Speaker 5: she can't really remember. She was three, and so I'm like, okay,

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Speaker 5: a dog beach like we go to the dog Beach.

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Speaker 4: I'm like, she's going to be sold no matter what.

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Speaker 5: So I'm thinking, Okay, October nineteenth, we go out there

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Speaker 5: my birthday and he was actually working, So Aaronest picks

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Speaker 2: And yeah, so I got off work that day and

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Speaker 1: Yeah were you were you worried at all to meet

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Speaker 1: her because it's a it's a big responsibility for you

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean I knew, Like the biggest thing is

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Speaker 2: that is very impressionable, and it's like you have to

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Speaker 2: And so I think it's like it's been kind of

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Speaker 2: And so it's like it's made me be a lot

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Speaker 2: want to do that. And I was like I love

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Speaker 2: do that. And so getting to meet her, though, it

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Speaker 2: was just like it was surprisingly like way easier.

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Speaker 3: Than what I thought in my head like it was

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Speaker 2: Like she is such a cool kid, Like she is

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Speaker 2: so much fun, and it's like it's so amazing because

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Speaker 2: it's like as an adult, it's like you go on

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Speaker 2: new experience things and like you feel like you've seen

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Speaker 3: And she's like no, she's like, if you're gonna do this,

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Speaker 2: Like I applied for my nursing license, I got it,

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Speaker 1: Like, I'm months, how many months are we in at

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Speaker 4: August to the three.

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Speaker 2: You're asking, so we're going into December? December was month

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Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, this is a bachelor. This is bachelor timeline.

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Speaker 8: So I find people that come off the show too, like,

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Speaker 2: No, I mean I think like it's it's felt weird though,

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Speaker 2: you're like, wow, like this is going wrong really smoothly

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Speaker 5: Like also like knowing like to not the pressure, but

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Speaker 4: Serious about it?

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Speaker 5: So if we're going to be public anyways, like that's

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Speaker 2: And honestly, I think I think the show changed like

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, so gohad no you go, I've been talking

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Speaker 1: So I was gonna I was gonna throw it to Christina.

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Speaker 1: So you guys now released publicly, you know, via Instagram

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Speaker 5: Well, whether people like us or not as people, as

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Speaker 5: but I didn't know like in what scheme of things

441
00:17:04,000 --> 00:17:06,159
Speaker 5: I said in some videos and photos, but it was

442
00:17:06,200 --> 00:17:08,200
Speaker 5: just you know, a few seconds. But those few seconds

443
00:17:08,240 --> 00:17:10,719
Speaker 5: really just kind of took off and my phone starts

444
00:17:11,200 --> 00:17:14,879
Speaker 5: blowing up, and it was a lot of positive things.

445
00:17:14,880 --> 00:17:17,200
Speaker 5: So that was really cool and nice to see, and

446
00:17:17,359 --> 00:17:19,399
Speaker 5: that does help. It does help a lot. And we

447
00:17:19,480 --> 00:17:22,040
Speaker 5: met up and it's like finally I can we met up.

448
00:17:22,200 --> 00:17:24,600
Speaker 5: I was flying back from that work trip. He flew

449
00:17:24,640 --> 00:17:26,920
Speaker 5: into Nashville, and he just kind of didn't even leave

450
00:17:27,040 --> 00:17:29,920
Speaker 5: the concourse, he just kind of fell asleep on the

451
00:17:29,960 --> 00:17:30,480
Speaker 5: floor and.

452
00:17:30,400 --> 00:17:31,000
Speaker 4: We see each other.

453
00:17:31,040 --> 00:17:33,840
Speaker 5: We're just like finally and the people are around, they're like, hey,

454
00:17:33,880 --> 00:17:35,760
Speaker 5: you guys, We're like, yeah, we're in public.

455
00:17:35,800 --> 00:17:36,520
Speaker 4: It's amazing.

456
00:17:36,960 --> 00:17:38,679
Speaker 5: So it's been nice, like just being able to not

457
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Speaker 5: go in my really uh obvious disguise out in places,

458
00:17:43,280 --> 00:17:44,720
Speaker 5: and so that's been cool.

459
00:17:45,359 --> 00:17:48,240
Speaker 1: Brandon, you're the only here, the only success story from

460
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Speaker 1: your paradise.

461
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Speaker 4: So what'd you guys? Count it?

462
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Speaker 2: You know what?

463
00:17:56,720 --> 00:17:56,960
Speaker 3: Yeah?

464
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Speaker 8: It literally the episode and I feel like you like

465
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Speaker 8: we're a recent season. Christina Brandon was on it. They

466
00:18:04,200 --> 00:18:07,760
Speaker 8: included your love story at the finale. I mean you

467
00:18:07,920 --> 00:18:10,440
Speaker 8: had an on screen engagement. Definitely counts.

468
00:18:10,680 --> 00:18:12,919
Speaker 4: I think it counts as well. Yep, it counts, So

469
00:18:13,160 --> 00:18:14,000
Speaker 4: I say it counts.

470
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Speaker 1: I mean we're counting it.

471
00:18:15,640 --> 00:18:16,679
Speaker 7: We need we need a success.

472
00:18:18,240 --> 00:18:21,880
Speaker 3: That season was tough, like that was a tough season.

473
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Speaker 3: It was wild, but it ended off for me.

474
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Speaker 4: So yes, thank so.

475
00:18:29,040 --> 00:18:33,159
Speaker 7: Then you announce it to the world, you're have you

476
00:18:33,320 --> 00:18:34,640
Speaker 7: moved in? When did you move in?

477
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Speaker 3: No?

478
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Speaker 2: So I actually moved in just now okay right now today.

479
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Speaker 4: No, Basically we were just folding his clothes into the club.

480
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Speaker 3: I'm almost fully Actually.

481
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Speaker 4: That's a lot. We were putting the ear rings on

482
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Speaker 4: the display.

483
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Speaker 1: But do you like national?

484
00:18:50,840 --> 00:18:51,080
Speaker 3: I do?

485
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Speaker 2: I mean it's hard, like I definitely like, I definitely

486
00:18:54,000 --> 00:18:56,800
Speaker 2: love the beach, like I'm a beach beach guy.

487
00:18:56,880 --> 00:18:58,320
Speaker 4: And I was like, we have beach access.

488
00:18:58,359 --> 00:19:00,520
Speaker 5: And I take him like three minutes down the road.

489
00:19:00,520 --> 00:19:02,679
Speaker 5: There's this speech if if there's a couch and the sand,

490
00:19:02,960 --> 00:19:05,800
Speaker 5: and it's like saying that they've like brought with a bulldozer.

491
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Speaker 2: It's going to be negative one degrees next week many

492
00:19:08,760 --> 00:19:10,080
Speaker 2: I will leave the.

493
00:19:10,000 --> 00:19:11,280
Speaker 4: Florida on a work trip again.

494
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Speaker 3: Yeah, I was like, I was like, Dade.

495
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Speaker 2: I was like, I was like, tell me how like

496
00:19:14,960 --> 00:19:17,520
Speaker 2: the one week in Nashville, it's me negative one degrees.

497
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Speaker 3: I'm going to be home and you're going to.

498
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Speaker 7: Florida would just be you and Blakely at home.

499
00:19:23,040 --> 00:19:25,160
Speaker 3: Well, so Blakely is going to be going with her mom.

500
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Speaker 2: I just like with like you know, me moving in

501
00:19:28,040 --> 00:19:29,800
Speaker 2: so quickly and stuff like that, we're going to be

502
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Speaker 2: like kind of like you know, easing into like that

503
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Speaker 2: kind of.

504
00:19:32,119 --> 00:19:34,320
Speaker 5: Aspect of like I was telling Blakely that last time.

505
00:19:34,400 --> 00:19:37,080
Speaker 5: She's like, but why and so you know she does

506
00:19:37,119 --> 00:19:38,080
Speaker 5: want to see.

507
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Speaker 2: Also I'm starting, well I'm gonna be going over there

508
00:19:40,359 --> 00:19:41,880
Speaker 2: quite a bit, but I also start my new job

509
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Speaker 2: next week.

510
00:19:42,440 --> 00:19:46,600
Speaker 8: So just balancing a lot of like things happening, a

511
00:19:46,640 --> 00:19:47,360
Speaker 8: lot of moving.

512
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Speaker 5: Party structure, and like you know, really kind of be consistent.

513
00:19:53,800 --> 00:19:56,560
Speaker 2: But it's just like it's it's been wild because it

514
00:19:56,640 --> 00:19:58,280
Speaker 2: was like this week's been nice because I haven't had

515
00:19:58,280 --> 00:20:00,920
Speaker 2: to start work yet, and so it's like it's been like, Okay,

516
00:20:01,000 --> 00:20:03,520
Speaker 2: we make breakfast in the morning, we get it ready

517
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Speaker 2: for school, and she.

518
00:20:04,359 --> 00:20:05,200
Speaker 4: Loves she loves that.

519
00:20:05,280 --> 00:20:07,080
Speaker 5: She's like, well, well she said, she said, well, one

520
00:20:07,080 --> 00:20:09,359
Speaker 5: thing's for sure, we won't have to make breakfast because

521
00:20:09,359 --> 00:20:11,560
Speaker 5: we know that the chef's in town.

522
00:20:11,960 --> 00:20:13,040
Speaker 4: Like this is how she talks.

523
00:20:13,640 --> 00:20:16,520
Speaker 5: And it's because like on her birthday he's like had

524
00:20:16,560 --> 00:20:19,240
Speaker 5: like pink pancakes and all this, and so yeah, now

525
00:20:19,320 --> 00:20:21,040
Speaker 5: you've kind of just taken on. He's been making her

526
00:20:21,040 --> 00:20:23,760
Speaker 5: school lunches every day and I'm.

527
00:20:23,560 --> 00:20:26,879
Speaker 4: Just sitting back and with her. This is nice. Let

528
00:20:27,000 --> 00:20:27,600
Speaker 4: that happened.

529
00:20:30,920 --> 00:20:31,600
Speaker 3: Are you a good cook?

530
00:20:31,960 --> 00:20:34,040
Speaker 5: I made dinner for him the first time when he

531
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Speaker 5: came here, and.

532
00:20:36,560 --> 00:20:39,360
Speaker 1: And you bottom shoes bottom cowboy.

533
00:20:40,920 --> 00:20:42,600
Speaker 3: I gotta take back this meal that she cooked me.

534
00:20:42,760 --> 00:20:44,560
Speaker 3: She cooked me a steak right when I came out.

535
00:20:44,960 --> 00:20:47,960
Speaker 4: Okay, did you know gar things? Because I didn't.

536
00:20:48,000 --> 00:20:50,639
Speaker 5: So I'm baking, I'm marinating the steak and I'm thinking

537
00:20:50,680 --> 00:20:52,679
Speaker 5: so i'd actually practiced, Like with one of my friends

538
00:20:52,720 --> 00:20:54,840
Speaker 5: earlier in the week. I'm like, we've made a steak

539
00:20:54,880 --> 00:20:56,800
Speaker 5: and I'm like, we're making it and then like he

540
00:20:56,960 --> 00:20:57,600
Speaker 5: ate it and he's.

541
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Speaker 3: Like, oh my gosh, he's gonna love this.

542
00:20:59,400 --> 00:21:01,480
Speaker 5: And we're like five and we're like, oh my gosh,

543
00:21:01,560 --> 00:21:02,960
Speaker 5: this is it. He's gonna love you.

544
00:21:03,160 --> 00:21:05,480
Speaker 4: And I had it down and I'm like I was

545
00:21:05,560 --> 00:21:06,000
Speaker 4: doing it.

546
00:21:06,040 --> 00:21:07,960
Speaker 5: And then he comes down the stairs after a shower

547
00:21:08,000 --> 00:21:09,840
Speaker 5: and he like has he picked up my guitar from

548
00:21:09,920 --> 00:21:10,480
Speaker 5: upstairs and.

549
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Speaker 4: He's just sinking and plating. I'm like, I didn't know

550
00:21:12,280 --> 00:21:12,920
Speaker 4: you could do that.

551
00:21:13,480 --> 00:21:16,200
Speaker 5: And I'm just like being like mes brized and I'm

552
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Speaker 5: just I put way too much salt.

553
00:21:18,600 --> 00:21:20,000
Speaker 4: Put way too much salt.

554
00:21:20,280 --> 00:21:21,840
Speaker 3: You never heard it too much salt on.

555
00:21:21,800 --> 00:21:26,080
Speaker 5: A steak either, And I tell you, I'd be like whatever, no, no, no, there,

556
00:21:26,200 --> 00:21:27,359
Speaker 5: it didn't taste like steak.

557
00:21:27,359 --> 00:21:30,639
Speaker 4: It tasted like salt. And so then I and then.

558
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Speaker 1: She pulls out she had and your defense, steak is

559
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Speaker 1: easy to funk up, like I just cooked. I just

560
00:21:35,760 --> 00:21:40,960
Speaker 1: cooked a bison the other day and I cooked it

561
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Speaker 1: well done, and it was a.

562
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Speaker 3: Lot of pressure.

563
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Speaker 7: It's a lot of pressure.

564
00:21:44,640 --> 00:21:45,359
Speaker 3: It's a lot of pressure.

565
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Speaker 5: So I'm trying to be like fancy and like, you know,

566
00:21:47,560 --> 00:21:50,439
Speaker 5: I do this my house live and I'm not. And

567
00:21:50,480 --> 00:21:54,280
Speaker 5: so then I like, I bought some oil and vinegar

568
00:21:54,320 --> 00:21:57,480
Speaker 5: at the store and some bread. I'm like, oh, I'm fancy.

569
00:21:58,000 --> 00:22:01,679
Speaker 5: And so he was actually Texas pete toasted. But so

570
00:22:01,800 --> 00:22:03,720
Speaker 5: he's sitting down like eat the steak now, like I know,

571
00:22:03,800 --> 00:22:05,040
Speaker 5: like you want to wait on me, but it's hot.

572
00:22:05,080 --> 00:22:07,240
Speaker 5: You know, you know it'd be rude to the chef

573
00:22:07,240 --> 00:22:09,119
Speaker 5: you didn't start eating. So he's over here like I

574
00:22:09,119 --> 00:22:10,680
Speaker 5: don't know that the steak tastes like this, So he's

575
00:22:10,680 --> 00:22:11,280
Speaker 5: trying to eat it.

576
00:22:11,680 --> 00:22:14,399
Speaker 4: Hey, I come over there, and I realized that it

577
00:22:14,440 --> 00:22:15,480
Speaker 4: tastes like, oh my gosh.

578
00:22:15,680 --> 00:22:17,760
Speaker 5: He's liked, wait, I'm gonna make a sandwich with the

579
00:22:17,800 --> 00:22:20,000
Speaker 5: bread he made with just Texas peat once again, and

580
00:22:20,000 --> 00:22:22,040
Speaker 5: I'm like, no, no, no, that's for my fancy oil

581
00:22:22,080 --> 00:22:24,400
Speaker 5: and vinegar. So I get it out and he starts

582
00:22:24,480 --> 00:22:25,800
Speaker 5: laughing and I'm I'm.

583
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Speaker 9: Pouring Crisco cooking oil into the oil and vinegar, and

584
00:22:30,359 --> 00:22:36,119
Speaker 9: I was just like, I just started funny.

585
00:22:36,400 --> 00:22:40,040
Speaker 3: I'm just like, I'm like, you are so so cute.

586
00:22:39,720 --> 00:22:41,080
Speaker 3: And she's like, what do you mean.

587
00:22:41,240 --> 00:22:46,280
Speaker 6: I'm like, you don't eat Crisco like it says old,

588
00:22:46,520 --> 00:22:48,080
Speaker 6: Like I know you shouldn't.

589
00:22:48,119 --> 00:22:51,280
Speaker 1: You should like honestly, like you really shouldn't cook with

590
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Speaker 1: any oils. At this point, that's a whole.

591
00:22:53,520 --> 00:22:57,520
Speaker 8: Nice Let let bred and cook or you can, you

592
00:22:57,520 --> 00:22:58,520
Speaker 8: could order dr Dash.

593
00:22:59,040 --> 00:23:00,080
Speaker 4: I do so good at that.

594
00:23:00,320 --> 00:23:02,320
Speaker 7: Yeah, so you go, that's your thing. That's your thing.

595
00:23:02,400 --> 00:23:12,440
Speaker 1: But at that, let's let's cut to the golden wedding.

596
00:23:14,240 --> 00:23:18,280
Speaker 1: Big decision. Power move, Brandon. You get down on one

597
00:23:18,359 --> 00:23:21,600
Speaker 1: knee real quick. Let's just talk about that. You know

598
00:23:22,200 --> 00:23:22,880
Speaker 1: that decision?

599
00:23:22,920 --> 00:23:23,760
Speaker 3: What made you do it?

600
00:23:23,880 --> 00:23:24,160
Speaker 5: Why?

601
00:23:24,560 --> 00:23:26,760
Speaker 7: How did that decision come to be?

602
00:23:27,560 --> 00:23:27,840
Speaker 3: Question?

603
00:23:28,080 --> 00:23:30,320
Speaker 2: So I had actually been I mean I talked to

604
00:23:30,320 --> 00:23:32,359
Speaker 2: her sister literally like a couple of days prior, and

605
00:23:32,400 --> 00:23:35,360
Speaker 2: I was telling her how like my goal was like, oh, Joseph.

606
00:23:35,119 --> 00:23:35,920
Speaker 4: I hate this.

607
00:23:39,119 --> 00:23:42,880
Speaker 1: He doesn't, I mean, I don't, I don't, I don't

608
00:23:42,880 --> 00:23:46,919
Speaker 1: hate it though I respect it, Okay, but I respect it.

609
00:23:47,160 --> 00:23:51,119
Speaker 3: I respect that. I was saving up money because I

610
00:23:51,160 --> 00:23:51,640
Speaker 3: wanted to go.

611
00:23:51,840 --> 00:23:53,840
Speaker 2: And the way I originally was thinking about proposing to

612
00:23:53,920 --> 00:23:58,080
Speaker 2: her was I wanted to she had this dream. On

613
00:23:58,080 --> 00:23:59,720
Speaker 2: one of our first FaceTime callege, she was talking about

614
00:23:59,720 --> 00:24:02,679
Speaker 2: winning the put pineapple on pizza in Italy and like

615
00:24:02,760 --> 00:24:04,960
Speaker 2: see people's reactions, and she brought a can of pineapples

616
00:24:05,000 --> 00:24:06,000
Speaker 2: out and put it on pizza.

617
00:24:06,600 --> 00:24:09,040
Speaker 3: And so my plant was is to take pineapples of

618
00:24:09,040 --> 00:24:10,280
Speaker 3: a can of pineapples and put a.

619
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Speaker 2: Ring in there, and then like I figured, like we

620
00:24:13,200 --> 00:24:14,760
Speaker 2: record it and then like you know, That's how I

621
00:24:14,760 --> 00:24:15,760
Speaker 2: was originally gonna propose.

622
00:24:16,000 --> 00:24:18,720
Speaker 5: I heard on their podcast that you like and so

623
00:24:19,000 --> 00:24:20,760
Speaker 5: and so yeah pizza. I'm like, we are so much

624
00:24:20,760 --> 00:24:21,800
Speaker 5: of comment, but.

625
00:24:21,800 --> 00:24:24,520
Speaker 1: It's actually my favorite. It's actually my favorite fruit. Pineapple.

626
00:24:24,640 --> 00:24:26,560
Speaker 1: You do, I love pineapple.

627
00:24:26,880 --> 00:24:28,280
Speaker 3: You need to give it another shot, man.

628
00:24:29,359 --> 00:24:32,399
Speaker 4: So we're gonna curaoke. We have a party with pineapple pizza.

629
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Speaker 1: I mean, if I'm gonna have pineapple on pizza, there

630
00:24:35,359 --> 00:24:39,120
Speaker 1: needs there needs to be jalapeno and ham as well.

631
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Speaker 3: Yeah.

632
00:24:41,359 --> 00:24:43,200
Speaker 1: I'm not just gonna have I'm not just gonna.

633
00:24:42,960 --> 00:24:47,879
Speaker 3: Have cheese, no that red sauce and pineapple. But yeah, anyway,

634
00:24:48,000 --> 00:24:50,120
Speaker 3: so so originally, like I had been talking to.

635
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Speaker 2: Her sister like two days prior, and then I was

636
00:24:51,720 --> 00:24:53,960
Speaker 2: like I was talking to my sister like literally the date,

637
00:24:54,080 --> 00:24:55,760
Speaker 2: like on the drive out there, and I was like, yeah,

638
00:24:55,840 --> 00:24:57,240
Speaker 2: like you know, I'm wanting to save my money and

639
00:24:57,280 --> 00:24:58,480
Speaker 2: like you know, be able to do this and do

640
00:24:58,560 --> 00:25:00,280
Speaker 2: this the right way. But it's like it's also hard

641
00:25:00,280 --> 00:25:02,600
Speaker 2: because it's like I know that I'm ready to do this,

642
00:25:02,800 --> 00:25:05,719
Speaker 2: and it's like you know, but like right now with

643
00:25:05,760 --> 00:25:07,480
Speaker 2: the way, like you know, making this move out, I

644
00:25:07,520 --> 00:25:08,480
Speaker 2: just had to buy a new truck.

645
00:25:08,520 --> 00:25:09,800
Speaker 3: I was like buying a ring right now.

646
00:25:09,840 --> 00:25:11,960
Speaker 2: On top of all that is like not like I

647
00:25:11,960 --> 00:25:14,080
Speaker 2: would propose her right now if I could, but like it's.

648
00:25:13,960 --> 00:25:17,719
Speaker 5: Not and you could proposed with a pebble, we get

649
00:25:17,760 --> 00:25:19,399
Speaker 5: on a hike and find a rock, but you know

650
00:25:19,560 --> 00:25:21,120
Speaker 5: he's had bear.

651
00:25:21,040 --> 00:25:22,720
Speaker 2: And so anyway, so like and it was it was

652
00:25:22,800 --> 00:25:24,680
Speaker 2: kind of a crazy situation because I was literally just

653
00:25:24,720 --> 00:25:26,600
Speaker 2: talking to my sister about it on the road on

654
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Speaker 2: the right up.

655
00:25:27,280 --> 00:25:28,880
Speaker 3: So I get to the I get to the.

656
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Speaker 2: Hotel and I'm in there and like, uh, everyone comes

657
00:25:31,520 --> 00:25:34,680
Speaker 2: and visits and we come and chat and uh as

658
00:25:34,720 --> 00:25:37,040
Speaker 2: we're chatting, like they like I get told like, Okay,

659
00:25:37,119 --> 00:25:38,960
Speaker 2: me and Christina are gonna have this six minute long

660
00:25:39,040 --> 00:25:41,119
Speaker 2: segment where we just get to talk and tell everybody

661
00:25:41,160 --> 00:25:43,280
Speaker 2: about how we met. And so I'm like, okay, that's awesome.

662
00:25:43,720 --> 00:25:45,880
Speaker 2: So Christina's flight ended up getting delayed and they ended

663
00:25:45,920 --> 00:25:47,200
Speaker 2: up just staying and we are hanging out and they're

664
00:25:47,240 --> 00:25:48,760
Speaker 2: talking to like, you know, hey, like are you excited

665
00:25:48,800 --> 00:25:50,720
Speaker 2: about making this move to Nashville and stuff? And I'm

666
00:25:50,760 --> 00:25:53,040
Speaker 2: like I'm still like, you know, I I was like honestly,

667
00:25:53,119 --> 00:25:54,760
Speaker 2: like you know, I wish that I could go out

668
00:25:54,760 --> 00:25:56,200
Speaker 2: there and like be in a place where I could

669
00:25:56,200 --> 00:25:58,199
Speaker 2: be you know, already engaged and proposed to her and

670
00:25:58,240 --> 00:25:59,240
Speaker 2: like I've done.

671
00:25:59,040 --> 00:26:01,880
Speaker 3: All that, but like you know, right now, like I'm needing.

672
00:26:01,720 --> 00:26:03,879
Speaker 2: Like you know, yeah, especially with Blakely, like wanting to

673
00:26:03,880 --> 00:26:05,600
Speaker 2: make sure that I set an example to her daughter

674
00:26:05,600 --> 00:26:07,720
Speaker 2: because it's like I mean, in my head, it's like

675
00:26:07,720 --> 00:26:09,800
Speaker 2: Blakely's going to be my daughter, and it's like with

676
00:26:09,800 --> 00:26:12,000
Speaker 2: my kid of mine, like I want them to be

677
00:26:12,080 --> 00:26:14,439
Speaker 2: treated by somebody the way like that way, and if

678
00:26:14,480 --> 00:26:16,080
Speaker 2: I want some if I want my daughter to be

679
00:26:16,119 --> 00:26:18,360
Speaker 2: treated by a man that way, then I would want

680
00:26:18,400 --> 00:26:20,399
Speaker 2: to treat their mom that same man in that same manner,

681
00:26:20,440 --> 00:26:22,399
Speaker 2: you know. And so it was like so for me,

682
00:26:22,440 --> 00:26:23,959
Speaker 2: I was like, you know, I wish I could do this,

683
00:26:24,000 --> 00:26:25,760
Speaker 2: and I wish it was like something that was feasible

684
00:26:25,800 --> 00:26:26,560
Speaker 2: for me at this time.

685
00:26:26,680 --> 00:26:28,440
Speaker 3: I was like, and you know, if it was, I

686
00:26:28,440 --> 00:26:29,960
Speaker 3: would love to do that. And I was like, but

687
00:26:30,080 --> 00:26:30,760
Speaker 3: right now, like this.

688
00:26:30,800 --> 00:26:34,359
Speaker 2: Is my plan, and and I started talking and like,

689
00:26:34,720 --> 00:26:36,480
Speaker 2: as I started talking to producers and telling them like

690
00:26:36,520 --> 00:26:37,800
Speaker 2: you know, where I was at and like what I

691
00:26:37,800 --> 00:26:41,240
Speaker 2: was wanting to do, we actually started figuring some things out.

692
00:26:41,359 --> 00:26:42,560
Speaker 3: And they had.

693
00:26:42,400 --> 00:26:44,359
Speaker 2: Actually said that like you know, we could talk to

694
00:26:44,400 --> 00:26:46,280
Speaker 2: Neil Lane and like, you know, see what we could do,

695
00:26:47,280 --> 00:26:49,480
Speaker 2: and we ended up like making it all like kind

696
00:26:49,480 --> 00:26:53,080
Speaker 2: of come together, and I had you know, they were like, yeah,

697
00:26:53,119 --> 00:26:54,679
Speaker 2: like you know, Neil Lane said he would love to

698
00:26:54,680 --> 00:26:56,840
Speaker 2: support this and like, you know, love to make this happen,

699
00:26:57,320 --> 00:26:59,959
Speaker 2: and so you know, we called him and we got

700
00:27:00,119 --> 00:27:02,560
Speaker 2: permission on that end. And then they said, you know

701
00:27:02,880 --> 00:27:04,240
Speaker 2: and I was like, well, let me call. I need

702
00:27:04,280 --> 00:27:05,720
Speaker 2: to make sure I talk to her mom and dad

703
00:27:05,760 --> 00:27:07,240
Speaker 2: and make sure I get permission there, and I want

704
00:27:07,240 --> 00:27:09,439
Speaker 2: to talk to Gary and Teresa before I go and propose,

705
00:27:09,480 --> 00:27:10,760
Speaker 2: because I want to make sure that I have their

706
00:27:10,800 --> 00:27:11,760
Speaker 2: permission because.

707
00:27:11,720 --> 00:27:14,400
Speaker 3: You know, I'm although like, although I know.

708
00:27:14,480 --> 00:27:16,520
Speaker 2: Like you know, it's a Bachelor franchise and it's like,

709
00:27:16,560 --> 00:27:19,080
Speaker 2: you know, it's a you know, produced wedding, it's still wedding,

710
00:27:19,119 --> 00:27:21,000
Speaker 2: and I never, like, you know, my intention is not

711
00:27:21,040 --> 00:27:23,000
Speaker 2: to like steal the attention from them at all, because

712
00:27:23,000 --> 00:27:26,440
Speaker 2: I mean, what they've done with their with their relationship

713
00:27:26,480 --> 00:27:29,720
Speaker 2: and like they're like their whole story has been absolutely amazing,

714
00:27:29,720 --> 00:27:31,200
Speaker 2: and I don't want to take any light away from

715
00:27:31,240 --> 00:27:33,320
Speaker 2: how amazing that's been and how inspirational that's been. And

716
00:27:33,359 --> 00:27:35,639
Speaker 2: so I reached out to Gary and I'm like, hey, Gary,

717
00:27:35,720 --> 00:27:37,480
Speaker 2: like you know, I know, you know, I don't want

718
00:27:37,520 --> 00:27:39,000
Speaker 2: to I don't want to do this. I was like,

719
00:27:39,040 --> 00:27:40,760
Speaker 2: you know, we're doing a I don't want to do

720
00:27:40,800 --> 00:27:42,800
Speaker 2: this in a way that's going to be disrespectful or

721
00:27:42,800 --> 00:27:43,320
Speaker 2: take away from you.

722
00:27:43,359 --> 00:27:44,880
Speaker 3: And I wouldn't want to do it without your blessing.

723
00:27:45,160 --> 00:27:47,320
Speaker 2: I was like, you know, I I really love Christina

724
00:27:47,320 --> 00:27:49,360
Speaker 2: and I'm going to do this eventually regardless of whether

725
00:27:49,359 --> 00:27:50,680
Speaker 2: I do today.

726
00:27:50,760 --> 00:27:51,520
Speaker 3: Yeah. Me, and Gary.

727
00:27:51,560 --> 00:27:53,000
Speaker 2: Like Gary was actually one of the first people in

728
00:27:53,040 --> 00:27:55,159
Speaker 2: Bachelor Nation to know that I had like been that

729
00:27:55,240 --> 00:27:59,920
Speaker 2: Christina was my girlfriend, because like, actually, yeah.

730
00:27:58,960 --> 00:28:00,879
Speaker 1: He did say he did say he's good friends with you.

731
00:28:01,240 --> 00:28:06,399
Speaker 5: Yeah text even like at thet Blakely's birthday party party,

732
00:28:06,480 --> 00:28:07,960
Speaker 5: we called him and they were talking.

733
00:28:08,480 --> 00:28:10,600
Speaker 4: He's awesome And I met him briefly as well.

734
00:28:10,800 --> 00:28:13,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, and his family's all awesome too, Like we're actually

735
00:28:13,200 --> 00:28:15,679
Speaker 2: going to uh, we're gonna be going to his granddaughter's

736
00:28:15,720 --> 00:28:18,560
Speaker 2: volleyball game up and they're having a volleyball tournament in Louisville,

737
00:28:18,560 --> 00:28:20,600
Speaker 2: So we'll be going to that this year too. I

738
00:28:20,640 --> 00:28:23,480
Speaker 2: mean I actually like me and Gary. Yeah, Me and Garry,

739
00:28:23,520 --> 00:28:26,119
Speaker 2: Me and Gary. He's just such a great guy. Like

740
00:28:26,200 --> 00:28:28,040
Speaker 2: I really I really do like love him a lot.

741
00:28:28,040 --> 00:28:29,760
Speaker 2: He's a cool guy. He's a really cool guy. And

742
00:28:29,840 --> 00:28:33,440
Speaker 2: so I'd reach out to him though, and and he said, well, yeah,

743
00:28:33,480 --> 00:28:35,159
Speaker 2: he's like you know, I He's like I know.

744
00:28:35,400 --> 00:28:36,960
Speaker 3: And it was all kind of late.

745
00:28:37,000 --> 00:28:39,040
Speaker 2: I mean, it was like a kind of a last

746
00:28:39,040 --> 00:28:40,920
Speaker 2: minute thing, and he was like, let me talk to

747
00:28:40,960 --> 00:28:43,000
Speaker 2: Teresa and see how she feels about this, and I

748
00:28:43,040 --> 00:28:45,240
Speaker 2: was like okay, And so you talked to Teresa and

749
00:28:45,240 --> 00:28:47,120
Speaker 2: he said, I'm okay with it, and Teresa thinks that

750
00:28:47,160 --> 00:28:49,160
Speaker 2: this is an absolutely wonderful idea and she loves it.

751
00:28:49,200 --> 00:28:50,920
Speaker 7: And so yeah, when she was on a weird talking

752
00:28:50,920 --> 00:28:51,720
Speaker 7: about she was like.

753
00:28:51,840 --> 00:28:55,720
Speaker 8: Yes, yes, like I'm excited, Like she really is like

754
00:28:55,760 --> 00:28:58,000
Speaker 8: a more the merrier kind of person.

755
00:28:58,360 --> 00:29:00,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, And so I had I had both their blessing,

756
00:29:01,160 --> 00:29:03,160
Speaker 2: and then I was like okay. So once I had

757
00:29:03,160 --> 00:29:05,560
Speaker 2: their blessing, I ended up going and I called her mom.

758
00:29:05,840 --> 00:29:10,640
Speaker 2: And it was funny. This is funny because when I

759
00:29:10,640 --> 00:29:13,360
Speaker 2: went to go call her mom, her mom's name is Arlene,

760
00:29:13,840 --> 00:29:16,120
Speaker 2: and I have a contact in my phone and it's Irene.

761
00:29:16,800 --> 00:29:19,800
Speaker 2: And so here I go and I call Irene. And

762
00:29:20,000 --> 00:29:22,640
Speaker 2: as I'm calling Irene, I am going and I am

763
00:29:22,840 --> 00:29:26,120
Speaker 2: expressing my absolute love for her daughter that is not

764
00:29:26,160 --> 00:29:28,880
Speaker 2: actually her daughter for about three minutes and asking and

765
00:29:28,920 --> 00:29:30,680
Speaker 2: I go and I asked her for a permission to

766
00:29:30,680 --> 00:29:31,240
Speaker 2: marry your daughter.

767
00:29:32,280 --> 00:29:32,920
Speaker 3: Point yeah.

768
00:29:32,960 --> 00:29:35,480
Speaker 2: And so there's like there's a big long pause, and

769
00:29:35,560 --> 00:29:38,360
Speaker 2: I'm sitting there for that big long pause, and she's like, hey, Brady, like,

770
00:29:38,480 --> 00:29:39,640
Speaker 2: you know, I think you might.

771
00:29:39,440 --> 00:29:42,040
Speaker 3: Have called the wrong person. And my heart just goes

772
00:29:42,040 --> 00:29:44,280
Speaker 3: and it drops and I'm like, this is like it

773
00:29:44,320 --> 00:29:47,040
Speaker 3: was the worst. It was like worst, I mean, or

774
00:29:47,160 --> 00:29:47,880
Speaker 3: you like was.

775
00:29:47,840 --> 00:29:49,600
Speaker 7: Your first that? Like, Oh my god, who am I

776
00:29:49,640 --> 00:29:50,360
Speaker 7: on the phone with?

777
00:29:50,880 --> 00:29:52,520
Speaker 2: That was literally I looked at my phone and I

778
00:29:52,560 --> 00:29:54,600
Speaker 2: was like, I was just like, I'm such an idiot,

779
00:29:54,640 --> 00:29:56,440
Speaker 2: Like I can't believe that I just did that.

780
00:29:56,680 --> 00:29:59,280
Speaker 3: And so, yeah, it was definitely who am I on

781
00:29:59,320 --> 00:29:59,680
Speaker 3: the phone with?

782
00:29:59,760 --> 00:30:00,000
Speaker 9: Moment?

783
00:30:00,120 --> 00:30:01,480
Speaker 3: But it was funny. I mean, he.

784
00:30:01,520 --> 00:30:05,120
Speaker 4: Wasted a good surprise on you.

785
00:30:05,640 --> 00:30:07,560
Speaker 2: So I called her mom after that, and then the

786
00:30:07,600 --> 00:30:09,520
Speaker 2: comrado with her mom ended up going a lot better.

787
00:30:11,080 --> 00:30:13,120
Speaker 3: So I mean, I guess I'm grateful for that one.

788
00:30:13,160 --> 00:30:15,080
Speaker 8: Like, you know, you had a good like practice run,

789
00:30:15,320 --> 00:30:17,640
Speaker 8: you know, you ironed out the kanks, you got out

790
00:30:17,640 --> 00:30:20,880
Speaker 8: the nerves, and then you did the official asking exactly.

791
00:30:21,120 --> 00:30:23,120
Speaker 2: And so I called her mom and then her mom

792
00:30:23,400 --> 00:30:25,680
Speaker 2: loved it and like I was super excited, and then

793
00:30:26,080 --> 00:30:28,000
Speaker 2: called her dad and her dad loved it and he

794
00:30:28,080 --> 00:30:30,240
Speaker 2: was excited, and so all.

795
00:30:30,080 --> 00:30:31,880
Speaker 3: Things were in place. I called my mom and dad

796
00:30:31,920 --> 00:30:32,480
Speaker 3: and then told.

797
00:30:32,360 --> 00:30:34,240
Speaker 7: Me it kind of worked out that your flight was delayed.

798
00:30:34,880 --> 00:30:37,040
Speaker 4: Really, I know, how did you pull that off?

799
00:30:37,120 --> 00:30:37,320
Speaker 9: Yeah?

800
00:30:37,320 --> 00:30:38,080
Speaker 3: You know, I called some.

801
00:30:39,920 --> 00:30:41,680
Speaker 7: Airlines. Hey, don't take off.

802
00:30:41,800 --> 00:30:42,840
Speaker 4: I'm busy people.

803
00:30:43,120 --> 00:30:46,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, Christina, when were you expecting? When were you expecting

804
00:30:46,880 --> 00:30:50,240
Speaker 1: an engagement or what were you even thinking about one?

805
00:30:50,960 --> 00:30:52,960
Speaker 5: I knew so like whenever he said that, he talked

806
00:30:52,960 --> 00:30:54,880
Speaker 5: to my sister, so we were on FaceTime, and like

807
00:30:55,000 --> 00:30:58,400
Speaker 5: I was surprised then that he had like even an

808
00:30:58,480 --> 00:31:00,880
Speaker 5: idea of how to do it in play, but he

809
00:31:01,000 --> 00:31:02,680
Speaker 5: was very much like, all right, go away, go away,

810
00:31:02,760 --> 00:31:05,080
Speaker 5: let me talk to your sister. And I respected that.

811
00:31:05,120 --> 00:31:07,160
Speaker 5: I actually did walk away. I didn't easdrop or anything.

812
00:31:07,440 --> 00:31:09,480
Speaker 5: And so I knew that, like it was in the works,

813
00:31:09,480 --> 00:31:11,240
Speaker 5: and we've talked about it, and we've talked about marriage,

814
00:31:11,240 --> 00:31:13,680
Speaker 5: and I knew that it's kind of in the same

815
00:31:13,800 --> 00:31:16,800
Speaker 5: respect of like me being a RS being boyfriend and

816
00:31:16,800 --> 00:31:19,040
Speaker 5: girlfriend and meeting Blakely in the same respect him moving

817
00:31:19,080 --> 00:31:21,360
Speaker 5: here and moving in, Like we knew that that's in

818
00:31:21,400 --> 00:31:24,239
Speaker 5: the cards, and it's just a matter of logistics and

819
00:31:24,280 --> 00:31:26,320
Speaker 5: making it happen and how you know, the ins and

820
00:31:26,360 --> 00:31:30,240
Speaker 5: outs of it of making it happen, to make it happen,

821
00:31:30,400 --> 00:31:33,800
Speaker 5: not because of us holding that up. So I really

822
00:31:33,800 --> 00:31:37,000
Speaker 5: had no clue, and I am hard to surprise. I

823
00:31:37,080 --> 00:31:41,000
Speaker 5: really am. I ruined surprises, and so I didn't want

824
00:31:41,040 --> 00:31:43,080
Speaker 5: to know that. So I didn't want to know. I

825
00:31:43,080 --> 00:31:45,640
Speaker 5: didn't want to like because I'll figure it out, and

826
00:31:45,640 --> 00:31:46,440
Speaker 5: that's what I don't.

827
00:31:46,240 --> 00:31:47,240
Speaker 4: Want to do. And I was like, I want to

828
00:31:47,280 --> 00:31:48,920
Speaker 4: be surprised.

829
00:31:48,600 --> 00:31:53,320
Speaker 5: And yeah, so so I did almost ruin it on accident.

830
00:31:53,640 --> 00:31:56,960
Speaker 5: So we get to the party before okay, so I no, no,

831
00:31:57,000 --> 00:31:59,480
Speaker 5: you go for You're such a better storyteller. But we

832
00:31:59,600 --> 00:32:02,760
Speaker 5: get to the before even we're what would you call it,

833
00:32:02,800 --> 00:32:06,440
Speaker 5: like the cocktail party before the ceremony, and it's even

834
00:32:06,520 --> 00:32:09,160
Speaker 5: before the proposal happened, and we're all hanging out and

835
00:32:09,160 --> 00:32:14,240
Speaker 5: I'm excited, and you know, I see Neil Lane and

836
00:32:14,320 --> 00:32:15,880
Speaker 5: I've I've been a fan of this show for a

837
00:32:15,920 --> 00:32:16,240
Speaker 5: long time.

838
00:32:16,280 --> 00:32:16,840
Speaker 4: I know Neil Ling.

839
00:32:16,920 --> 00:32:21,120
Speaker 5: So I see him, I'm like, babe, Neil Lane, I'm

840
00:32:21,120 --> 00:32:24,160
Speaker 5: getting ill. I'm getting Nail Lane drunk tonight. And we're

841
00:32:24,160 --> 00:32:27,840
Speaker 5: getting so like over there, and I start making friends

842
00:32:27,840 --> 00:32:32,160
Speaker 5: with him and he's the best. He's actually like amazing.

843
00:32:32,280 --> 00:32:34,000
Speaker 5: I feel like we're hitting off, we're being best friends,

844
00:32:34,000 --> 00:32:35,640
Speaker 5: and I could see that he's getting stressed.

845
00:32:35,760 --> 00:32:36,680
Speaker 4: Oh wait, the nails.

846
00:32:37,240 --> 00:32:38,880
Speaker 3: It's fine, okay, the nails.

847
00:32:39,800 --> 00:32:43,520
Speaker 5: So so we're like, I could see that he's getting stressed,

848
00:32:43,520 --> 00:32:45,000
Speaker 5: and I'm like, babe, And I go over to the

849
00:32:45,040 --> 00:32:47,760
Speaker 5: side and I'm like, do you think I'm being annoying

850
00:32:47,840 --> 00:32:49,760
Speaker 5: or something? Because I feel like me and Neil are

851
00:32:49,800 --> 00:32:51,680
Speaker 5: being best friends? Do you not feel like And I

852
00:32:51,720 --> 00:32:54,000
Speaker 5: strayed up back said am I being annoying? And so

853
00:32:54,120 --> 00:32:56,520
Speaker 5: he was like no, because you know that's kind of

854
00:32:56,520 --> 00:32:58,000
Speaker 5: a setup. If he said yes, I would have been

855
00:32:58,000 --> 00:33:00,600
Speaker 5: really upset. And so he's like no, I'm like, well,

856
00:33:00,640 --> 00:33:03,480
Speaker 5: then leave me alone. I'm talking to Neil, and so

857
00:33:03,560 --> 00:33:06,080
Speaker 5: then I'm talking to him. I'm like, no, let's do

858
00:33:06,240 --> 00:33:08,640
Speaker 5: something crazy. Would you make a pair of ear rings

859
00:33:08,680 --> 00:33:11,520
Speaker 5: so I could propose to Braiden? And so I'm trying

860
00:33:11,520 --> 00:33:13,880
Speaker 5: to chat him up about this, and we're talking about

861
00:33:13,880 --> 00:33:15,800
Speaker 5: these ear rings, and we're talking about this and this

862
00:33:15,880 --> 00:33:17,680
Speaker 5: and that, and I could just see he's just like

863
00:33:17,800 --> 00:33:19,920
Speaker 5: visibly stressed in the corner.

864
00:33:20,040 --> 00:33:22,200
Speaker 4: But he knows that he knows, and.

865
00:33:22,160 --> 00:33:24,800
Speaker 8: He is such a home though he did not give

866
00:33:24,800 --> 00:33:27,920
Speaker 8: it away at all.

867
00:33:26,960 --> 00:33:28,280
Speaker 3: At all, he really is.

868
00:33:28,320 --> 00:33:30,520
Speaker 2: But I was so worried, like I just I didn't

869
00:33:30,520 --> 00:33:32,440
Speaker 2: want to be around because I knew that I was

870
00:33:32,440 --> 00:33:34,680
Speaker 2: either going to slip or like and I didn't know

871
00:33:35,280 --> 00:33:36,520
Speaker 2: slip and I was like.

872
00:33:36,880 --> 00:33:38,400
Speaker 3: So I'm just trying to be there and like be

873
00:33:38,480 --> 00:33:40,240
Speaker 3: quiet because like I don't want to be a.

874
00:33:40,200 --> 00:33:43,000
Speaker 5: Tis just talking and we're best friends and I'm like,

875
00:33:43,200 --> 00:33:44,840
Speaker 5: go what I'm talking to me?

876
00:33:45,400 --> 00:33:47,280
Speaker 3: And I'm not a good liar. So it's like if

877
00:33:47,320 --> 00:33:48,720
Speaker 3: I was in the situation where I would have had

878
00:33:48,760 --> 00:33:50,800
Speaker 3: to lie, like, oh, like a.

879
00:33:50,680 --> 00:33:53,080
Speaker 4: Reading ring, see that you're stressed, So I mean, yeah,

880
00:33:53,160 --> 00:33:53,720
Speaker 4: you can't.

881
00:33:54,600 --> 00:33:56,240
Speaker 2: Pocket and I was like I had one in my

882
00:33:56,280 --> 00:33:58,960
Speaker 2: breast pocket and I was like, you're just happy to

883
00:33:58,960 --> 00:33:59,280
Speaker 2: see me.

884
00:34:00,520 --> 00:34:02,160
Speaker 3: No, No, I have in my breast pocket.

885
00:34:02,240 --> 00:34:04,880
Speaker 8: And I was like, I'm literally holding a the La

886
00:34:04,920 --> 00:34:07,080
Speaker 8: and diamond my chest right out.

887
00:34:07,520 --> 00:34:11,400
Speaker 5: But I'm would have gone along with a lot of things,

888
00:34:12,320 --> 00:34:13,640
Speaker 5: like he had to drag me to the nail song,

889
00:34:13,680 --> 00:34:15,799
Speaker 5: so I'm like, I'm not getting my nails done. No, no, no,

890
00:34:15,880 --> 00:34:17,520
Speaker 5: And he had like all these things.

891
00:34:17,560 --> 00:34:19,440
Speaker 4: I absolutely zerous.

892
00:34:19,880 --> 00:34:21,879
Speaker 2: So she shows up to the wedding missing like three

893
00:34:22,000 --> 00:34:25,520
Speaker 2: nails and it was like yeah, and like she's like

894
00:34:25,640 --> 00:34:28,799
Speaker 2: she's like I'll just I'll just color led light and

895
00:34:28,800 --> 00:34:30,680
Speaker 2: I'm like no, like, let's go get your nails.

896
00:34:30,680 --> 00:34:31,759
Speaker 3: Then it'll be some cute couples.

897
00:34:31,960 --> 00:34:33,720
Speaker 4: I'm not bougie. I'm just gonna violent.

898
00:34:34,080 --> 00:34:36,080
Speaker 8: Did you say that, Durantha proposes. I feel like you

899
00:34:36,120 --> 00:34:38,799
Speaker 8: said something. We're like, oh my god, is that like that?

900
00:34:38,840 --> 00:34:38,960
Speaker 5: Ony?

901
00:34:39,000 --> 00:34:40,000
Speaker 7: We had to get our nailshot.

902
00:34:40,680 --> 00:34:43,839
Speaker 5: No, because like this thing it was really like now

903
00:34:43,880 --> 00:34:47,880
Speaker 5: in hindsight, oh my gosh, like I'm so annoying. I yes,

904
00:34:49,040 --> 00:34:51,719
Speaker 5: the way that he was like how did like be like,

905
00:34:52,000 --> 00:34:54,319
Speaker 5: I'm You're gonna go to the wedding like that?

906
00:34:54,480 --> 00:34:57,840
Speaker 4: And I'm like, what, like so confused because he doesn't

907
00:34:57,840 --> 00:34:59,719
Speaker 4: talk to me like that. I'm like, but you love that.

908
00:34:59,760 --> 00:35:01,840
Speaker 4: I'm bougie, Like I'm just gonna file it out. I

909
00:35:01,840 --> 00:35:02,239
Speaker 4: can do it.

910
00:35:02,239 --> 00:35:04,839
Speaker 5: He's like, you don't know how to do nails, and

911
00:35:04,880 --> 00:35:06,360
Speaker 5: so like I go there and I still have the

912
00:35:06,400 --> 00:35:08,640
Speaker 5: same nails on now and they're long. I'd never get

913
00:35:08,719 --> 00:35:10,480
Speaker 5: nails like longer than my nails. I'm just like, you

914
00:35:10,480 --> 00:35:11,719
Speaker 5: pick it out, baby, like this is.

915
00:35:11,680 --> 00:35:12,399
Speaker 4: Important to you.

916
00:35:12,760 --> 00:35:13,960
Speaker 3: And I had to get my nails done.

917
00:35:15,000 --> 00:35:17,640
Speaker 5: I wanted to get He wanted to really get his

918
00:35:17,719 --> 00:35:19,359
Speaker 5: nails done. I'm like, I need to support that. He's

919
00:35:19,400 --> 00:35:22,000
Speaker 5: moving in Tennessee. He's like trying to test me make sure,

920
00:35:22,040 --> 00:35:24,880
Speaker 5: a Cali boy can hang, you know, like if I'm gonna.

921
00:35:24,760 --> 00:35:26,239
Speaker 4: Judge them for it. And I'm like, no, no, no,

922
00:35:27,200 --> 00:35:29,160
Speaker 4: we can go, we can go. We'll do this for you.

923
00:35:29,160 --> 00:35:31,279
Speaker 7: You're like, fine, I'll get my nails out for you.

924
00:35:31,520 --> 00:35:32,880
Speaker 4: For you exactly.

925
00:35:32,960 --> 00:35:34,719
Speaker 2: Although I might seem like a guy who likes to

926
00:35:34,719 --> 00:35:38,000
Speaker 2: go get my nails done, he was like, it's not

927
00:35:38,080 --> 00:35:41,440
Speaker 2: really my thing, like and so I was like, I

928
00:35:41,520 --> 00:35:42,919
Speaker 2: ended up having to go and pay for my nails

929
00:35:42,960 --> 00:35:43,920
Speaker 2: to get done too, which.

930
00:35:43,760 --> 00:35:46,360
Speaker 5: Was it was it would have been it would have

931
00:35:46,360 --> 00:35:48,640
Speaker 5: given dead giveaway, so you had to So then yeah,

932
00:35:48,680 --> 00:35:50,920
Speaker 5: with the proposal, I did say this is what I'm

933
00:35:50,920 --> 00:35:52,720
Speaker 5: going on a nails on because I had no idea.

934
00:35:53,000 --> 00:35:53,960
Speaker 4: And then he goes.

935
00:35:55,280 --> 00:35:56,920
Speaker 2: I said the most romantic thing ever. Was like, you're

936
00:35:56,920 --> 00:35:58,200
Speaker 2: such a pain in my butt. I was like, and

937
00:35:58,280 --> 00:36:00,439
Speaker 2: I think that. I was just like when I saw

938
00:36:00,480 --> 00:36:04,200
Speaker 2: that back, I was like, Wow, that's an interesting thing.

939
00:36:03,480 --> 00:36:06,759
Speaker 4: For people with no context, which is fine, it's very us.

940
00:36:06,640 --> 00:36:09,920
Speaker 8: But I feel like watching it, I was like, she

941
00:36:10,080 --> 00:36:13,839
Speaker 8: definitely had to drag grass the Neil Swan the way

942
00:36:13,920 --> 00:36:16,000
Speaker 8: you got you said it, I was like, he definitely.

943
00:36:15,719 --> 00:36:18,640
Speaker 5: He was putting my shoes on in the hotel and

944
00:36:18,680 --> 00:36:20,600
Speaker 5: I like kicked him off. I'm like, I'm not gonna

945
00:36:20,600 --> 00:36:22,640
Speaker 5: get my neils done. I was being a little I

946
00:36:22,680 --> 00:36:23,840
Speaker 5: was being a little broad about that.

947
00:36:23,960 --> 00:36:26,080
Speaker 8: Souff one of my best friends got engaged a year

948
00:36:26,080 --> 00:36:27,480
Speaker 8: and a half ago, and she was like, guys, do

949
00:36:27,520 --> 00:36:29,360
Speaker 8: I get like neutral or should I go finding it

950
00:36:29,400 --> 00:36:31,799
Speaker 8: like a green color? And we knew she was getting

951
00:36:31,880 --> 00:36:34,160
Speaker 8: engaged that week, and I was like, I think neutrals.

952
00:36:34,239 --> 00:36:36,279
Speaker 8: And the green ended up being like it was really cute,

953
00:36:36,320 --> 00:36:37,520
Speaker 8: it was like a kind of color.

954
00:36:37,600 --> 00:36:40,120
Speaker 7: She loved it. But I was like we were text

955
00:36:40,200 --> 00:36:42,160
Speaker 7: on the side. I was like, tell her neutral, tell

956
00:36:42,160 --> 00:36:44,239
Speaker 7: her neutral. She always gets sutral. She's gonna go for

957
00:36:44,280 --> 00:36:46,799
Speaker 7: some crazy color this time and she's not gonna like it.

958
00:36:47,280 --> 00:36:50,040
Speaker 5: But if you go there and you take the time,

959
00:36:50,080 --> 00:36:51,319
Speaker 5: you spend the money to do it, and you do

960
00:36:51,360 --> 00:36:53,239
Speaker 5: something you don't like, it's emotion, it's a lot. It

961
00:36:53,320 --> 00:37:01,760
Speaker 5: is just the boy gonna go get them nels done.

962
00:37:02,000 --> 00:37:02,520
Speaker 3: I'll go get it.

963
00:37:02,520 --> 00:37:04,560
Speaker 1: I'll go get a manicure with you. All right, we

964
00:37:04,600 --> 00:37:07,840
Speaker 1: are we are out of time before we let you

965
00:37:07,920 --> 00:37:13,000
Speaker 1: guys go wedding plans this year, next year, three years anything.

966
00:37:14,360 --> 00:37:16,480
Speaker 2: We were talking like we were looking at within this year,

967
00:37:16,640 --> 00:37:20,320
Speaker 2: sooner than later, but with them either this year.

968
00:37:20,239 --> 00:37:21,960
Speaker 3: Or the beginning of next year, I think is what

969
00:37:21,960 --> 00:37:22,640
Speaker 3: we're going with.

970
00:37:22,840 --> 00:37:24,800
Speaker 5: I've planned a lot of weddings. I can do it fast.

971
00:37:25,440 --> 00:37:28,880
Speaker 5: We want it to be in San Diego. And yeah,

972
00:37:28,920 --> 00:37:30,920
Speaker 5: so I've got to figure out I don't know, that's

973
00:37:30,960 --> 00:37:32,520
Speaker 5: not my terf. So I've got to figure out what's

974
00:37:32,520 --> 00:37:35,359
Speaker 5: going on over there. But sooner rather than later, for sure.

975
00:37:35,520 --> 00:37:37,799
Speaker 2: We already like it was cool, Like I talked to

976
00:37:37,800 --> 00:37:40,279
Speaker 2: my pastor from church and it was actually really cool.

977
00:37:40,320 --> 00:37:43,760
Speaker 2: He we're starting premarital counseling hopefully within this next week.

978
00:37:44,640 --> 00:37:46,640
Speaker 2: And then he said he also him and his wife

979
00:37:46,680 --> 00:37:48,480
Speaker 2: said that they kind of help also, like with like

980
00:37:48,640 --> 00:37:50,520
Speaker 2: you know, come together on like how to plan and

981
00:37:50,520 --> 00:37:52,040
Speaker 2: how to go about the dates and stuff like that,

982
00:37:52,080 --> 00:37:53,799
Speaker 2: because it's like it can all be really stressful and

983
00:37:53,880 --> 00:37:55,920
Speaker 2: like the stuff like that. There's just been a lot

984
00:37:55,960 --> 00:37:57,759
Speaker 2: that we've had to like talk about and go over

985
00:37:57,840 --> 00:38:00,520
Speaker 2: and so we definitely want to do it. We don't

986
00:38:00,520 --> 00:38:03,120
Speaker 2: want a really long engagement, like we didn't get engaged

987
00:38:03,160 --> 00:38:05,840
Speaker 2: just to get engaged. And it's like I am, I

988
00:38:05,880 --> 00:38:07,320
Speaker 2: don't know, I love this girl and it's like I

989
00:38:07,360 --> 00:38:08,959
Speaker 2: want to make her my wife, and so.

990
00:38:09,200 --> 00:38:11,680
Speaker 3: I'm a joiner as my fiance now, but I can't

991
00:38:11,680 --> 00:38:16,160
Speaker 3: wait for the day that excuse me my wife.

992
00:38:16,200 --> 00:38:17,600
Speaker 7: That's all right.

993
00:38:17,600 --> 00:38:20,040
Speaker 1: Well, thank you guys so much for coming on Bachelor

994
00:38:20,080 --> 00:38:24,200
Speaker 1: Happy Hour, and to all of our listeners, thank you

995
00:38:24,239 --> 00:38:26,440
Speaker 1: guys for tuning in and make sure you stay tuned

996
00:38:26,480 --> 00:38:29,239
Speaker 1: because we have new episodes coming out every week and

997
00:38:29,280 --> 00:38:31,760
Speaker 1: we have a whole new season to break down Joey's season,

998
00:38:31,800 --> 00:38:33,040
Speaker 1: other Bachelor's coming out.

999
00:38:33,280 --> 00:38:37,480
Speaker 8: Yeah, thanks for listening, Thanks Brandon, Christina, and we'll see

1000
00:38:37,480 --> 00:38:39,120
Speaker 8: you guys next week.

1001
00:38:39,320 --> 00:38:40,680
Speaker 4: See you by River