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Speaker 1: you so much. I going Hey, we're doing great, doing

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Speaker 1: great over here. Let's hear about Carly on waiting by

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Speaker 2: Yeah, well, I mean we met on bumbled it was

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Speaker 3: Uh, honestly hit it off so well, just a beautiful connection.

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Speaker 2: It's like a spiritual level. It just the weirdest thing

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Speaker 2: happened though after day three that I just didn't get

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Speaker 1: And that's a lot of dates. Christian on three dates,

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Speaker 2: I know three is a lot for me too.

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Speaker 1: We hear a lot about one date, you know, we

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Speaker 1: But you went out three times. You're talking about a

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah, just a connection that goes deeper than than

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Speaker 2: and so it felt like a very spiritual, a very

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Speaker 1: Yeah, deep core level of our beings. Okay, I can

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Speaker 3: Nothing, no response to texts, no calls, no face times,

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Speaker 3: Like didn't even have the one sap on, you know,

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Speaker 2: Deep leveler And so it feels it feels like a

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Speaker 1: You know, yes, regulate. Okay, yeah that was rhetorical, but

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Speaker 1: then set you guys up on another date that we

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Speaker 2: Okay, I'm eternally grateful.

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Speaker 1: Appreciate you man, deeply grateful. I figured you'd be deeply grateful.

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Speaker 1: But we're gonna play one song, come back and do it. Okay,

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Speaker 1: thank you much. We're gonna find out what's up. It

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Speaker 1: two minutes on The Friend Show at OMU, It's the

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Speaker 1: Friend Show. Good morning on the radio, the iHeart app

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Speaker 1: anytime Seart's put a freend show on demand, the Entertainment Reports.

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Speaker 1: Next on one hundred Bucks with Shelby Shelley in a

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Speaker 1: tie breaker that's coming up to Hey, Christian, Hey, Hey,

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Speaker 1: welcome back. Let's call Carly. You guys met on Bumble.

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Speaker 1: You went on three dates, which is kind of a

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Speaker 1: Thank you. Hello. Hi, isu is Carly. Yeah, Hi Carly,

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Speaker 1: good morning. It's Fred from the Fred Show. Everybody's here.

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Speaker 1: I'm start to bother, but I do have to tell

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Speaker 5: Yes, yes, that's true.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So to get right into it, you know, he

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Speaker 6: Well, I don't.

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Speaker 1: And I mean, not surprising. The short conversation that we

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Speaker 2: Oh no, I'm so sorry.

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Speaker 2: I'm very I'm very grateful for your honesty, Carly. It's

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry to laugh at you. It's just it's very

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Speaker 2: It's it's I'm a very vulnerable soul and I and

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Speaker 1: Okay, so Christian, you you love Carly then after three days,

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Speaker 1: I'm not saying that's impossible, but you love her. I

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Speaker 2: Like I love uh my my my beautiful uh shitsu.

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Speaker 2: I love the essence of energy and life. Charlie is

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Speaker 7: So this is so like when you say that line,

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Speaker 7: Is it the same moneto voice you have like right now,

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Speaker 2: With is no longer should connect with me. I am,

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Speaker 1: I can see the Christian Christian let me stop you here,

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Speaker 6: I mean, hey, hey, being a homeowner with the lawn

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Speaker 6: thank you for your vulnerability.

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Speaker 1: I think off, thank you for sacrificing an inch of

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Speaker 1: your blades. Yes, yes, gratitude. Okay, Look, it's really intense.

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Speaker 1: I'm sure there's somebody out there who would appreciate this approach,

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Speaker 2: That's a very kind thing, very kind, Thank you friend.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry. I'm sorry. Vulnerable, So he is, and it's

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Speaker 1: enough gratefulness so much I said, hit up Kiky on

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Speaker 1: the south Side. We could get uc in the beauty

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Speaker 1: in all kinds of things. Fred, Yeah, it's possible. Carly, Listen,

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Speaker 1: you haven't had a lot to say. I mean, is

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Speaker 1: this It's just it's too much, it's too intense for you.

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Speaker 4: You know, he's such an awesome guy, and I really

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Speaker 5: And the one thing is it's like.

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Speaker 4: You get it a couple of times in the beginning,

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Speaker 4: but can we just do it and knock anything?

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Speaker 1: Well, thank you for your vulnerability today. See I'm going

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Speaker 1: on this guy's path now. Look at starting to rub

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Speaker 1: off with you, Carl. Thank you for your vulnerability. Christian.

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Speaker 1: Thank you for your vulnerability. Man, I'm laughing, but I

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Speaker 1: think I'm not laughing at you. I think I'm laughing

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Speaker 2: That's beautiful and I really appreciate you being open with

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Speaker 1: That's that's something that I wish to know my experience.

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Speaker 7: When you started.

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Speaker 1: All right, that's beautiful, this is wild. All right, Hey,

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Speaker 1: good luck to you, Christian, Carly, thank you for your time.

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Speaker 1: Good luck to you as well.

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Speaker 1: The Entertainment Report and Show b Shelley both next back

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Speaker 1: at two minutes after Shipboozie on The Fred Show