WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: The Wink

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<v Speaker 1>and Jewels Second dto Days and Welcome back to Brook

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<v Speaker 1>and Jewels expose on the history of the wink. The

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<v Speaker 1>wink really started catching fire in the twenties, when it

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<v Speaker 1>was the best time to let your gal know that

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<v Speaker 1>you knew of the closest speakeasy and throw her a

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<v Speaker 1>wink and then you guys could go drink all night

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<v Speaker 1>long at some CD bar. But it was really the

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<v Speaker 1>seventies where the wink really caught its stride, and ruby

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<v Speaker 1>cats were winking at all the foxy ladies taking them

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<v Speaker 1>down to the disco to do the hustle and the wink.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like I've just in school. But sadly, after

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<v Speaker 1>the seventies, the wink fell on hard times and it's

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<v Speaker 1>sort of been dead since the nineties. But now it's

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<v Speaker 1>been revived by one man named Ryan, who's on the

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<v Speaker 1>phone for a second at update right now. And Ryan

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<v Speaker 1>apparently met the girl he wants to call today because

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<v Speaker 1>of a wink. Yep, you're reviving the wink Ryan. Interesting,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't know winking still happened. Girl, Yeah, I wink

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<v Speaker 1>at everyone. Oh you wink at everyone. You're just throwing

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<v Speaker 1>them out there, willy nilly, like, doesn't matter what they are, like,

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<v Speaker 1>you just wink it away. It's bold, moved. Oh no,

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<v Speaker 1>she winked at me. Oh wow. Okay, yeah, I've winked before,

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<v Speaker 1>but now she winked at me. Oh wow, a lady

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<v Speaker 1>bringing the wink back. That's weird, man, I've not hurt

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<v Speaker 1>of anybody meeting through a wink. So tell us about

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<v Speaker 1>the girl you want to call today. What's her name?

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<v Speaker 1>Her name is Page. So we were at a house party, right,

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<v Speaker 1>and I saw across the room she was smiling, laughing

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<v Speaker 1>with her friends. Okay, So then I just casually walked

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<v Speaker 1>over and I said to her, Hey, I'm I saw

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<v Speaker 1>you winking at me from across the room, which she didn't,

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<v Speaker 1>but I said it anyway. Okay, she didn't really, I see.

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<v Speaker 1>Did she think that was cute? Obviously? Well? No, At

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<v Speaker 1>first she was kind of weirded out and said no,

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<v Speaker 1>I did not wink at you. But then I said, no,

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<v Speaker 1>let me double check, let me, let me let me

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<v Speaker 1>take a moment and let's reenact this. So I went

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<v Speaker 1>back across the room and I waited for her to

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<v Speaker 1>wink again, although she didn't, but I walked across the

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<v Speaker 1>room again and I said, I'm pretty sure you winked.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm almost positive. She started laughing. Okay, okay, I mean basically,

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<v Speaker 1>when you went across the room, you gave her an

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<v Speaker 1>out to leave, so she was interested. Well at least

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<v Speaker 1>it worked. Yeah, So did you guys just hang out

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<v Speaker 1>that night or did you go out at a date?

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<v Speaker 1>So we hung out for about an hour. We just

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<v Speaker 1>talked about life and our goals and what inspires us

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<v Speaker 1>and wow, it was really really cool. Yeah, you guys

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<v Speaker 1>got deep quick. Yeah. I was kind of surprising. Actually,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't expect that, considering how Corny might pickup line. So,

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<v Speaker 1>did you guys go out on an actual date? Well? No,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean that was technically I guess the first day

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<v Speaker 1>of hanging out in the party. Okay, so you've been

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<v Speaker 1>trying to get her to go out with you again

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<v Speaker 1>after meeting her at this party and she is not

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<v Speaker 1>calling you back or what. Well, so it kind of

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<v Speaker 1>ended a little weird. I asked to call her and

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<v Speaker 1>she said yes. But then instead of you know, like

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<v Speaker 1>me giving her kiss on a check or you know,

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<v Speaker 1>like a hug or some kind of embrace, she just

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<v Speaker 1>reached out with her hand basically was signifying a handshake,

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<v Speaker 1>and you didn't slap her hand away and be like no,

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<v Speaker 1>we kiss over here. And then well I didn't quite

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<v Speaker 1>know what to do with that. She just kind of

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<v Speaker 1>reached out and I was like, what is she doing?

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<v Speaker 1>And then I realized it was a handshake, so I

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<v Speaker 1>kind of just slowly went in and shook her hand.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, that is a setting her boundary move right, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>that's her letting you know this is where I'm at

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<v Speaker 1>right now. Yeah, I guess. So, I mean it was

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<v Speaker 1>a first for me. I've never had a connection with

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<v Speaker 1>a girl. And then she wants me to shake her hand.

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<v Speaker 1>Otherwise she seemed interested. Well, okay, So there was this

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<v Speaker 1>point in the night where we were conversing. We actually

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<v Speaker 1>moved rooms because it was really loud in the room

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<v Speaker 1>we were in, so we had our time to hear

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<v Speaker 1>each other, and we went up there just to find

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<v Speaker 1>the quiet spot as to chat, and we accidentally walked

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<v Speaker 1>in on some people. Oh it sounds like they weren't

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<v Speaker 1>just people sitting in the room, like, and how many

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<v Speaker 1>people are we talking about? Did you walked in? Look,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not going to go into details about that, but

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<v Speaker 1>let me just say we basically walked in and immediately

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<v Speaker 1>it was one of those movie moments where we slowly

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<v Speaker 1>walked out and closed the door slowly. Yeah. I had

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<v Speaker 1>no idea that Chad could twist in those ways. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Did her demeanor change after that? Did she go from

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<v Speaker 1>friendly to maybe a little colder or anything? She definitely

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<v Speaker 1>felt awkward, And I mean I didn't at first. Of

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<v Speaker 1>course that changed once I kind of put two to together,

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<v Speaker 1>and she might have thought I was bringing her up

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<v Speaker 1>there to join that. That's what I would have thought.

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<v Speaker 1>That's exactly the first thing I thought of when you

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<v Speaker 1>said that. A little coincidental. I don't know who the

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<v Speaker 1>people that were in. I didn't know the people in

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<v Speaker 1>the room at all. Right, sure, let's go tell you

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<v Speaker 1>loud in here. I know a nice quiet room upstairs.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh whoa, look at what we just walked into. It

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<v Speaker 1>did not go down like that, I assure you guys.

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<v Speaker 1>It was not my intention. Yeah, just was an accident.

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<v Speaker 1>It doesn't matter. I mean that's why you got a handshake.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm certain of it at this point. Absolutely great, man,

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<v Speaker 1>I really liked the scroll. I just I thought, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>all the reason to call her again and make this

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<v Speaker 1>right and clear the air. All right, well we'll play

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<v Speaker 1>a song, come back, and then call her and get

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<v Speaker 1>your second date update. Okay, thanks, All right, looking jubil

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<v Speaker 1>in the morning if you're just tuning in for today's

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<v Speaker 1>second date update. Ryan is on the phone with us

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<v Speaker 1>and he wants to call a girl named Page. Ryan,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't care so much that she's not calling you back.

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<v Speaker 1>That's not what I'm really focusing on. You met this

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<v Speaker 1>girl at a party. You said everything was going cool,

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<v Speaker 1>and then there was a moment where you went to

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<v Speaker 1>switch rooms because where you were at was too loud,

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<v Speaker 1>and then you opened the door to this room and

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<v Speaker 1>there was a bunch of people and they're getting freaky.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's the part that's got me kind of twisted up, Ryan, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>I need more details on that specific moment, because I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just wondering how many people was already focusing on one

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<v Speaker 1>person or was there Like I've drawn a picture. I've

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<v Speaker 1>got a picture, I just drew, and I want to

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<v Speaker 1>make sure that it's correct. So if you'd give me

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<v Speaker 1>any more details, Ryan, I appreciate it. On that part

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<v Speaker 1>of your date, please hook me up. I'm not going

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<v Speaker 1>to details. We're not going to go down that road.

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<v Speaker 1>I already told you, okay, any sounds you can remember,

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<v Speaker 1>a sound, maybe a sound you can remember. That is

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<v Speaker 1>what the internet is for for you, dude, I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>going down that road, don't see. Which makes it even

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<v Speaker 1>more believable that you didn't on purpose bring the girl

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<v Speaker 1>to that room. I did not bring her to that

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<v Speaker 1>room on purpose. Yeah, I don't care. I just want

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<v Speaker 1>to know what was happening in there. All right, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll continue on, I guess, and we'll call Page, even

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<v Speaker 1>though that's not the really important part of the story.

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<v Speaker 1>You're a weird dude, man, or did you say that

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<v Speaker 1>was a weird dude in there? No talking about you?

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<v Speaker 1>You were there, sir? All right, Well, I'm gonna dial

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<v Speaker 1>Page's phone number and see if well, first see if

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<v Speaker 1>she'll give me the details and then find out why

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<v Speaker 1>she's not calling your back. You do not ask her

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<v Speaker 1>about the details. That's gonna make his situation worries. Here

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<v Speaker 1>we go, Hello, all r is this page? Yes? Who's

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<v Speaker 1>this hey page? This is Jewel from Brook and Jewel

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<v Speaker 1>in the morning get out page. I don't want to

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<v Speaker 1>get out right now. I want to talk to you more.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think she meant literally, what are you doing? Good? Question?

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<v Speaker 1>In front of a microphone? Talking to you on the

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<v Speaker 1>phone right now? What are you doing? I was surprised

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<v Speaker 1>that you guys are calling me? What's up? Much? Hey?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you sound so cool? I want to hang out

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<v Speaker 1>with you already? You're just chill. I am cool. We'd

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<v Speaker 1>have fun. You sound cool. And the dude that went

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<v Speaker 1>on a date with you and wants to call you

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<v Speaker 1>for a second day update thought you were cool too. Ah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's why you're calling me. Okay, do you know who

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<v Speaker 1>would want to do a second day update with you? Not? Really? No,

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<v Speaker 1>I think this one would be confusing because I wouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>even consider your first hangout at an actual date. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>his name is Ryan. Do you remember meeting a dude

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<v Speaker 1>named Ryan at a party? Oh? He said that he

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<v Speaker 1>met you at this party and he's been texting you

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<v Speaker 1>to hang out, but you have not gotten back to him.

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<v Speaker 1>That's true. Why is that true? Is there a particular

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<v Speaker 1>reason that you don't like Ryan, I don't like it's

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<v Speaker 1>a harsh way of saying it. I just didn't feel

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<v Speaker 1>the need to talk to him again. He has. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>we've kind of worked out a theory on why you're

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<v Speaker 1>not calling him back. Why do you think because he

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<v Speaker 1>led you to a room where there was a bunch

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<v Speaker 1>of people doing stuff with each other? Oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>he told you that. Yeah, how many people was it

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<v Speaker 1>in there? Just curious? It was? It was, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>more than a few. Oh my god, did you What

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<v Speaker 1>did you think when you open that door and saw that.

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<v Speaker 1>I was surprised, Yes, usually surprising when you opened a

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<v Speaker 1>door and something like that's going on. Pleasant surprise or

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<v Speaker 1>a bad surprise, that's the question. I guess. I was

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<v Speaker 1>plus surprised. Oh what hold on? Yeah, I thought it

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<v Speaker 1>was kind of bowled of him to do something like that,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, kind of taking me to this room, seeing like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh my god, this guy kind of on another level,

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<v Speaker 1>kind of cool. I liked it, And so that was game.

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<v Speaker 1>You were, you were down to hang out in that room. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I was until first he kind of pulled me a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit and I kind of help, you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>still kind of strung trying to let him know what's cool,

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<v Speaker 1>but then he kind of pulled me a little harder

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<v Speaker 1>and he shut the door, and I thought, what's that about? Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>so you're actually disappointed that you guys left the room. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I was kind of exciting, you know, okay, And why

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<v Speaker 1>didn't you tell him that? Well? I kind of wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to see his reaction too, But then he just seemed

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<v Speaker 1>to turn into a big truth this is not the

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<v Speaker 1>direction we thought. No, Ryan, I actually thought that maybe

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<v Speaker 1>you thought he took you to that room on purpose

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<v Speaker 1>and it turned you off. But apparently it did the opposite.

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<v Speaker 1>Why would it turn me off because you gave up.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean it's a shock. It's a lot when you

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<v Speaker 1>literally have only said hi to someone basically, and then

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<v Speaker 1>you gave him a handshake at the end. Yeah, because

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<v Speaker 1>after he shut the door and then we started having

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<v Speaker 1>these long, drawn out, boring conversations. Sounds like he did

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<v Speaker 1>it on an accident, I guess, And he just seemed

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<v Speaker 1>like he was going to be a bore man. Ryan

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<v Speaker 1>got totally mixed signals from you. I don't think that

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<v Speaker 1>it was I think Ryan doesn't get it exactly. Yeah, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's definitely not gonna get it. It sounds like, but Page,

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<v Speaker 1>Ryan is on the phone and wants to talk to

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<v Speaker 1>you right now, unless he got scared and left Ryan

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<v Speaker 1>either Page, I didn't. I had no idea that that

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<v Speaker 1>you were into that kind of thing. That was totally

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<v Speaker 1>on accident that I took you into that room. Did

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<v Speaker 1>you hear how we just said it? Yeah? I heard everything.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, you guys are crazy. So wait, Brian,

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<v Speaker 1>are you feeling What are you feeling? I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>what I'm feeling right now. I'm so confused, like sad

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<v Speaker 1>that you missed an opportunity, intimidated, but I'm kind of confused.

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<v Speaker 1>But I'm also like turned on a little bit. And

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<v Speaker 1>I'm also I don't quite understand, like, Okay, I assure

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<v Speaker 1>you I'm not approved, but I didn't want to like, Oh, Brian,

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<v Speaker 1>you wanted to get out of that room pretty fast. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>because I was worried about what you were gonna think. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>you could have just asked me what I thought. Oh well,

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<v Speaker 1>you got so quiet and a little awkward afterwards, so

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<v Speaker 1>I wasn't sure. I wasn't sure how you felt. I

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<v Speaker 1>was quiet because I was hoping that you were going

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<v Speaker 1>to invite me, but you never did. Page. I was

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<v Speaker 1>hoping to know, like win you over kind of thing,

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<v Speaker 1>but I didn't really exactly want to win you over

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<v Speaker 1>with a bunch of other people in the same room,

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<v Speaker 1>Like like what I mean, I don't want a bunch

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<v Speaker 1>of other people winning you over at the exact same

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<v Speaker 1>time time trying to look you over. I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>but I think, Ryan, are you looking for the same

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<v Speaker 1>thing Page is looking for? At this point? Absolutely? Really

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<v Speaker 1>you are. I don't think you even know what Page

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<v Speaker 1>is looking for. I don't either, but I want to

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<v Speaker 1>go down that road. Okay, you're ready to try it out? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>in that case, Page, would you like to go out

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<v Speaker 1>on a second date with Ryan and maybe many others?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, but we will pay for you two

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<v Speaker 1>to go out at least you know it was it

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<v Speaker 1>was spontaneous, right, that moment was so brand new and spontaneous,

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<v Speaker 1>and he didn't seem down at the time. Ryan, you

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<v Speaker 1>just didn't pick up the signals, and I just, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think it would be right to go on

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<v Speaker 1>the second date and not feel like you can be spontaneous.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you serious? We can't go back and relive that moment.

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<v Speaker 1>So yes we can. I'm all about living in the moment. Page,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, I know a bunch of parties where all

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<v Speaker 1>of that's going on constantly. Oh you do. Yes, my

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<v Speaker 1>friends are a freakidilic, you know, they're like, I'm like

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<v Speaker 1>seeing a crazy Yeah, but now I don't know. Now

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna go and you're gonna be expecting me to

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<v Speaker 1>want to do something like that, and then what if

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<v Speaker 1>I want to do something different? Yeah, you want to

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<v Speaker 1>do Ryan, He brings up a good point. Page. If

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<v Speaker 1>you're asking me to watch, I can watch. I've done

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<v Speaker 1>it before. I'm I'm a pro, I'm a cro What

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<v Speaker 1>do you think it is this attractive to you? I

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<v Speaker 1>just think you know our time is over, Ryan, and

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<v Speaker 1>you know you missed it. The boat has sailed damn it.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, Well, Ryan, I'm sorry you didn't get a

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<v Speaker 1>second date. And Page, I'm sorry that Ryan didn't seize

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<v Speaker 1>the moment. And I'm sure you'll find other opportunities though,

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<v Speaker 1>if you just keep your eyes open. There's no way

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<v Speaker 1>that this could be my life. You know what, Ryan is,

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<v Speaker 1>why don't you text me when you're at one of

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<v Speaker 1>those parties and if I see you around, I see

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<v Speaker 1>you around? Done all right? Well in the morning text

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<v Speaker 1>in at seven, eight, five to nine to two says, wow,

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<v Speaker 1>I need a page. A lot of people are filling

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<v Speaker 1>that way. It's broken Jewel in the morning, talking about

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<v Speaker 1>today's second date update if you missed it, stude, Ryan

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to call page. They went to a party together.

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<v Speaker 1>That's where they met. Actually didn't go together, but they

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<v Speaker 1>met there and she wasn't hanging back. He thought she

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't calling back because there was an awkward moment where

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<v Speaker 1>they walked in on some people having fun. Yeah, in

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<v Speaker 1>a room. I think you know what I mean by

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<v Speaker 1>having fun and more than one person, lots of people.

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<v Speaker 1>Sorry for the conversation you just had to have with

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<v Speaker 1>your kids in the car. He thought, maybe she thought

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<v Speaker 1>he planned that was trying to get her to do it,

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<v Speaker 1>and that's why she wasn't calling back. But in reality,

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<v Speaker 1>she wasn't calling back because he didn't invite her into

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<v Speaker 1>the room. Yeah, and that he was super awkward about it. Afterwards,

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<v Speaker 1>she's so chill. She thought he was approved. Yeah, and

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<v Speaker 1>she's like, you know what, if we run into each

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<v Speaker 1>other at a party, it's going to be cool. But

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<v Speaker 1>other than that, we can't go out again. Sorry, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't have that much coolness at all. Maybe you can

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<v Speaker 1>hang out with Page and learn a thing or two,

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<v Speaker 1>or three, or four or five. You could teach me

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<v Speaker 1>a lot. Remember, if you want to do a second

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<v Speaker 1>day update, all you have to do is email the

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<v Speaker 1>show and we will call the person who didn't call

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<v Speaker 1>you back