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Speaker 1: and Jewels Second dto Days and Welcome back to Brook
Speaker 1: and Jewels expose on the history of the wink. The
Speaker 1: wink really started catching fire in the twenties, when it
Speaker 1: was the best time to let your gal know that
Speaker 1: you knew of the closest speakeasy and throw her a
Speaker 1: wink and then you guys could go drink all night
Speaker 1: long at some CD bar. But it was really the
Speaker 1: seventies where the wink really caught its stride, and ruby
Speaker 1: cats were winking at all the foxy ladies taking them
Speaker 1: down to the disco to do the hustle and the wink.
Speaker 1: I feel like I've just in school. But sadly, after
Speaker 1: the seventies, the wink fell on hard times and it's
Speaker 1: sort of been dead since the nineties. But now it's
Speaker 1: been revived by one man named Ryan, who's on the
Speaker 1: phone for a second at update right now. And Ryan
Speaker 1: apparently met the girl he wants to call today because
Speaker 1: of a wink. Yep, you're reviving the wink Ryan. Interesting,
Speaker 1: I didn't know winking still happened. Girl, Yeah, I wink
Speaker 1: at everyone. Oh you wink at everyone. You're just throwing
Speaker 1: them out there, willy nilly, like, doesn't matter what they are, like,
Speaker 1: you just wink it away. It's bold, moved. Oh no,
Speaker 1: she winked at me. Oh wow. Okay, yeah, I've winked before,
Speaker 1: but now she winked at me. Oh wow, a lady
Speaker 1: bringing the wink back. That's weird, man, I've not hurt
Speaker 1: of anybody meeting through a wink. So tell us about
Speaker 1: the girl you want to call today. What's her name?
Speaker 1: Her name is Page. So we were at a house party, right,
Speaker 1: and I saw across the room she was smiling, laughing
Speaker 1: with her friends. Okay, So then I just casually walked
Speaker 1: over and I said to her, Hey, I'm I saw
Speaker 1: you winking at me from across the room, which she didn't,
Speaker 1: but I said it anyway. Okay, she didn't really, I see.
Speaker 1: Did she think that was cute? Obviously? Well? No, At
Speaker 1: first she was kind of weirded out and said no,
Speaker 1: I did not wink at you. But then I said, no,
Speaker 1: let me double check, let me, let me let me
Speaker 1: take a moment and let's reenact this. So I went
Speaker 1: back across the room and I waited for her to
Speaker 1: wink again, although she didn't, but I walked across the
Speaker 1: room again and I said, I'm pretty sure you winked.
Speaker 1: I'm almost positive. She started laughing. Okay, okay, I mean basically,
Speaker 1: when you went across the room, you gave her an
Speaker 1: out to leave, so she was interested. Well at least
Speaker 1: it worked. Yeah, So did you guys just hang out
Speaker 1: that night or did you go out at a date?
Speaker 1: So we hung out for about an hour. We just
Speaker 1: talked about life and our goals and what inspires us
Speaker 1: and wow, it was really really cool. Yeah, you guys
Speaker 1: got deep quick. Yeah. I was kind of surprising. Actually,
Speaker 1: I didn't expect that, considering how Corny might pickup line. So,
Speaker 1: did you guys go out on an actual date? Well? No,
Speaker 1: I mean that was technically I guess the first day
Speaker 1: of hanging out in the party. Okay, so you've been
Speaker 1: trying to get her to go out with you again
Speaker 1: after meeting her at this party and she is not
Speaker 1: calling you back or what. Well, so it kind of
Speaker 1: ended a little weird. I asked to call her and
Speaker 1: she said yes. But then instead of you know, like
Speaker 1: me giving her kiss on a check or you know,
Speaker 1: like a hug or some kind of embrace, she just
Speaker 1: reached out with her hand basically was signifying a handshake,
Speaker 1: and you didn't slap her hand away and be like no,
Speaker 1: we kiss over here. And then well I didn't quite
Speaker 1: know what to do with that. She just kind of
Speaker 1: reached out and I was like, what is she doing?
Speaker 1: And then I realized it was a handshake, so I
Speaker 1: kind of just slowly went in and shook her hand.
Speaker 1: I mean, that is a setting her boundary move right, Like,
Speaker 1: that's her letting you know this is where I'm at
Speaker 1: right now. Yeah, I guess. So, I mean it was
Speaker 1: a first for me. I've never had a connection with
Speaker 1: a girl. And then she wants me to shake her hand.
Speaker 1: Otherwise she seemed interested. Well, okay, So there was this
Speaker 1: point in the night where we were conversing. We actually
Speaker 1: moved rooms because it was really loud in the room
Speaker 1: we were in, so we had our time to hear
Speaker 1: each other, and we went up there just to find
Speaker 1: the quiet spot as to chat, and we accidentally walked
Speaker 1: in on some people. Oh it sounds like they weren't
Speaker 1: just people sitting in the room, like, and how many
Speaker 1: people are we talking about? Did you walked in? Look,
Speaker 1: I'm not going to go into details about that, but
Speaker 1: let me just say we basically walked in and immediately
Speaker 1: it was one of those movie moments where we slowly
Speaker 1: walked out and closed the door slowly. Yeah. I had
Speaker 1: no idea that Chad could twist in those ways. Yeah.
Speaker 1: Did her demeanor change after that? Did she go from
Speaker 1: friendly to maybe a little colder or anything? She definitely
Speaker 1: felt awkward, And I mean I didn't at first. Of
Speaker 1: course that changed once I kind of put two to together,
Speaker 1: and she might have thought I was bringing her up
Speaker 1: there to join that. That's what I would have thought.
Speaker 1: That's exactly the first thing I thought of when you
Speaker 1: said that. A little coincidental. I don't know who the
Speaker 1: people that were in. I didn't know the people in
Speaker 1: the room at all. Right, sure, let's go tell you
Speaker 1: loud in here. I know a nice quiet room upstairs.
Speaker 1: Oh whoa, look at what we just walked into. It
Speaker 1: did not go down like that, I assure you guys.
Speaker 1: It was not my intention. Yeah, just was an accident.
Speaker 1: It doesn't matter. I mean that's why you got a handshake.
Speaker 1: I'm certain of it at this point. Absolutely great, man,
Speaker 1: I really liked the scroll. I just I thought, you know,
Speaker 1: all the reason to call her again and make this
Speaker 1: right and clear the air. All right, well we'll play
Speaker 1: a song, come back, and then call her and get
Speaker 1: your second date update. Okay, thanks, All right, looking jubil
Speaker 1: in the morning if you're just tuning in for today's
Speaker 1: second date update. Ryan is on the phone with us
Speaker 1: and he wants to call a girl named Page. Ryan,
Speaker 1: I don't care so much that she's not calling you back.
Speaker 1: That's not what I'm really focusing on. You met this
Speaker 1: girl at a party. You said everything was going cool,
Speaker 1: and then there was a moment where you went to
Speaker 1: switch rooms because where you were at was too loud,
Speaker 1: and then you opened the door to this room and
Speaker 1: there was a bunch of people and they're getting freaky.
Speaker 1: And that's the part that's got me kind of twisted up, Ryan, Like,
Speaker 1: I need more details on that specific moment, because I'm
Speaker 1: just wondering how many people was already focusing on one
Speaker 1: person or was there Like I've drawn a picture. I've
Speaker 1: got a picture, I just drew, and I want to
Speaker 1: make sure that it's correct. So if you'd give me
Speaker 1: any more details, Ryan, I appreciate it. On that part
Speaker 1: of your date, please hook me up. I'm not going
Speaker 1: to details. We're not going to go down that road.
Speaker 1: I already told you, okay, any sounds you can remember,
Speaker 1: a sound, maybe a sound you can remember. That is
Speaker 1: what the internet is for for you, dude, I'm not
Speaker 1: going down that road, don't see. Which makes it even
Speaker 1: more believable that you didn't on purpose bring the girl
Speaker 1: to that room. I did not bring her to that
Speaker 1: room on purpose. Yeah, I don't care. I just want
Speaker 1: to know what was happening in there. All right, Well,
Speaker 1: we'll continue on, I guess, and we'll call Page, even
Speaker 1: though that's not the really important part of the story.
Speaker 1: You're a weird dude, man, or did you say that
Speaker 1: was a weird dude in there? No talking about you?
Speaker 1: You were there, sir? All right, Well, I'm gonna dial
Speaker 1: Page's phone number and see if well, first see if
Speaker 1: she'll give me the details and then find out why
Speaker 1: she's not calling your back. You do not ask her
Speaker 1: about the details. That's gonna make his situation worries. Here
Speaker 1: we go, Hello, all r is this page? Yes? Who's
Speaker 1: this hey page? This is Jewel from Brook and Jewel
Speaker 1: in the morning get out page. I don't want to
Speaker 1: get out right now. I want to talk to you more.
Speaker 1: I don't think she meant literally, what are you doing? Good? Question?
Speaker 1: In front of a microphone? Talking to you on the
Speaker 1: phone right now? What are you doing? I was surprised
Speaker 1: that you guys are calling me? What's up? Much? Hey?
Speaker 1: Do you sound so cool? I want to hang out
Speaker 1: with you already? You're just chill. I am cool. We'd
Speaker 1: have fun. You sound cool. And the dude that went
Speaker 1: on a date with you and wants to call you
Speaker 1: for a second day update thought you were cool too. Ah,
Speaker 1: that's why you're calling me. Okay, do you know who
Speaker 1: would want to do a second day update with you? Not? Really? No,
Speaker 1: I think this one would be confusing because I wouldn't
Speaker 1: even consider your first hangout at an actual date. Okay,
Speaker 1: his name is Ryan. Do you remember meeting a dude
Speaker 1: named Ryan at a party? Oh? He said that he
Speaker 1: met you at this party and he's been texting you
Speaker 1: to hang out, but you have not gotten back to him.
Speaker 1: That's true. Why is that true? Is there a particular
Speaker 1: reason that you don't like Ryan, I don't like it's
Speaker 1: a harsh way of saying it. I just didn't feel
Speaker 1: the need to talk to him again. He has. I mean,
Speaker 1: we've kind of worked out a theory on why you're
Speaker 1: not calling him back. Why do you think because he
Speaker 1: led you to a room where there was a bunch
Speaker 1: of people doing stuff with each other? Oh my god,
Speaker 1: he told you that. Yeah, how many people was it
Speaker 1: in there? Just curious? It was? It was, you know,
Speaker 1: more than a few. Oh my god, did you What
Speaker 1: did you think when you open that door and saw that.
Speaker 1: I was surprised, Yes, usually surprising when you opened a
Speaker 1: door and something like that's going on. Pleasant surprise or
Speaker 1: a bad surprise, that's the question. I guess. I was
Speaker 1: plus surprised. Oh what hold on? Yeah, I thought it
Speaker 1: was kind of bowled of him to do something like that,
Speaker 1: you know, kind of taking me to this room, seeing like,
Speaker 1: oh my god, this guy kind of on another level,
Speaker 1: kind of cool. I liked it, And so that was game.
Speaker 1: You were, you were down to hang out in that room. Well,
Speaker 1: I was until first he kind of pulled me a
Speaker 1: little bit and I kind of help, you know, I
Speaker 1: still kind of strung trying to let him know what's cool,
Speaker 1: but then he kind of pulled me a little harder
Speaker 1: and he shut the door, and I thought, what's that about? Oh,
Speaker 1: so you're actually disappointed that you guys left the room. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I was kind of exciting, you know, okay, And why
Speaker 1: didn't you tell him that? Well? I kind of wanted
Speaker 1: to see his reaction too, But then he just seemed
Speaker 1: to turn into a big truth this is not the
Speaker 1: direction we thought. No, Ryan, I actually thought that maybe
Speaker 1: you thought he took you to that room on purpose
Speaker 1: and it turned you off. But apparently it did the opposite.
Speaker 1: Why would it turn me off because you gave up.
Speaker 1: I mean it's a shock. It's a lot when you
Speaker 1: literally have only said hi to someone basically, and then
Speaker 1: you gave him a handshake at the end. Yeah, because
Speaker 1: after he shut the door and then we started having
Speaker 1: these long, drawn out, boring conversations. Sounds like he did
Speaker 1: it on an accident, I guess, And he just seemed
Speaker 1: like he was going to be a bore man. Ryan
Speaker 1: got totally mixed signals from you. I don't think that
Speaker 1: it was I think Ryan doesn't get it exactly. Yeah, Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's definitely not gonna get it. It sounds like, but Page,
Speaker 1: Ryan is on the phone and wants to talk to
Speaker 1: you right now, unless he got scared and left Ryan
Speaker 1: either Page, I didn't. I had no idea that that
Speaker 1: you were into that kind of thing. That was totally
Speaker 1: on accident that I took you into that room. Did
Speaker 1: you hear how we just said it? Yeah? I heard everything.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, you guys are crazy. So wait, Brian,
Speaker 1: are you feeling What are you feeling? I don't know
Speaker 1: what I'm feeling right now. I'm so confused, like sad
Speaker 1: that you missed an opportunity, intimidated, but I'm kind of confused.
Speaker 1: But I'm also like turned on a little bit. And
Speaker 1: I'm also I don't quite understand, like, Okay, I assure
Speaker 1: you I'm not approved, but I didn't want to like, Oh, Brian,
Speaker 1: you wanted to get out of that room pretty fast. Yes,
Speaker 1: because I was worried about what you were gonna think. Well,
Speaker 1: you could have just asked me what I thought. Oh well,
Speaker 1: you got so quiet and a little awkward afterwards, so
Speaker 1: I wasn't sure. I wasn't sure how you felt. I
Speaker 1: was quiet because I was hoping that you were going
Speaker 1: to invite me, but you never did. Page. I was
Speaker 1: hoping to know, like win you over kind of thing,
Speaker 1: but I didn't really exactly want to win you over
Speaker 1: with a bunch of other people in the same room,
Speaker 1: Like like what I mean, I don't want a bunch
Speaker 1: of other people winning you over at the exact same
Speaker 1: time time trying to look you over. I don't know,
Speaker 1: but I think, Ryan, are you looking for the same
Speaker 1: thing Page is looking for? At this point? Absolutely? Really
Speaker 1: you are. I don't think you even know what Page
Speaker 1: is looking for. I don't either, but I want to
Speaker 1: go down that road. Okay, you're ready to try it out? Well,
Speaker 1: in that case, Page, would you like to go out
Speaker 1: on a second date with Ryan and maybe many others?
Speaker 1: I don't know, but we will pay for you two
Speaker 1: to go out at least you know it was it
Speaker 1: was spontaneous, right, that moment was so brand new and spontaneous,
Speaker 1: and he didn't seem down at the time. Ryan, you
Speaker 1: just didn't pick up the signals, and I just, you know,
Speaker 1: I don't think it would be right to go on
Speaker 1: the second date and not feel like you can be spontaneous.
Speaker 1: Are you serious? We can't go back and relive that moment.
Speaker 1: So yes we can. I'm all about living in the moment. Page,
Speaker 1: all right, I know a bunch of parties where all
Speaker 1: of that's going on constantly. Oh you do. Yes, my
Speaker 1: friends are a freakidilic, you know, they're like, I'm like
Speaker 1: seeing a crazy Yeah, but now I don't know. Now
Speaker 1: I'm gonna go and you're gonna be expecting me to
Speaker 1: want to do something like that, and then what if
Speaker 1: I want to do something different? Yeah, you want to
Speaker 1: do Ryan, He brings up a good point. Page. If
Speaker 1: you're asking me to watch, I can watch. I've done
Speaker 1: it before. I'm I'm a pro, I'm a cro What
Speaker 1: do you think it is this attractive to you? I
Speaker 1: just think you know our time is over, Ryan, and
Speaker 1: you know you missed it. The boat has sailed damn it.
Speaker 1: All right, Well, Ryan, I'm sorry you didn't get a
Speaker 1: second date. And Page, I'm sorry that Ryan didn't seize
Speaker 1: the moment. And I'm sure you'll find other opportunities though,
Speaker 1: if you just keep your eyes open. There's no way
Speaker 1: that this could be my life. You know what, Ryan is,
Speaker 1: why don't you text me when you're at one of
Speaker 1: those parties and if I see you around, I see
Speaker 1: you around? Done all right? Well in the morning text
Speaker 1: in at seven, eight, five to nine to two says, wow,
Speaker 1: I need a page. A lot of people are filling
Speaker 1: that way. It's broken Jewel in the morning, talking about
Speaker 1: today's second date update if you missed it, stude, Ryan
Speaker 1: wanted to call page. They went to a party together.
Speaker 1: That's where they met. Actually didn't go together, but they
Speaker 1: met there and she wasn't hanging back. He thought she
Speaker 1: wasn't calling back because there was an awkward moment where
Speaker 1: they walked in on some people having fun. Yeah, in
Speaker 1: a room. I think you know what I mean by
Speaker 1: having fun and more than one person, lots of people.
Speaker 1: Sorry for the conversation you just had to have with
Speaker 1: your kids in the car. He thought, maybe she thought
Speaker 1: he planned that was trying to get her to do it,
Speaker 1: and that's why she wasn't calling back. But in reality,
Speaker 1: she wasn't calling back because he didn't invite her into
Speaker 1: the room. Yeah, and that he was super awkward about it. Afterwards,
Speaker 1: she's so chill. She thought he was approved. Yeah, and
Speaker 1: she's like, you know what, if we run into each
Speaker 1: other at a party, it's going to be cool. But
Speaker 1: other than that, we can't go out again. Sorry, I
Speaker 1: don't have that much coolness at all. Maybe you can
Speaker 1: hang out with Page and learn a thing or two,
Speaker 1: or three, or four or five. You could teach me
Speaker 1: a lot. Remember, if you want to do a second
Speaker 1: day update, all you have to do is email the
Speaker 1: show and we will call the person who didn't call
Speaker 1: you back