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Speaker 1: Alright, lady and gentlemen, it's time for the Strawberry Little Well,

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Speaker 1: my friends, Shirley straw thank you, my friend. All right, subject,

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Speaker 1: I want the car, but not the ring, Dear Stephen, Shirley.

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Speaker 1: Last year I moved to a new city and I

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Speaker 1: for love, only a friend. Yeah, I have always been

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Speaker 1: if you had just waited one more line. Okay, okay,

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Speaker 1: but listen to this. You're gonna like this. I have

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Speaker 1: always been into older men, so I found a club

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Speaker 1: where older people go. I was the youngest woman in

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Speaker 1: were going good between us. After we met, things in

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Speaker 1: my personal life weren't working out, so I moved back

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Speaker 1: to my hometown. The older guy and I stayed in touch,

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Speaker 1: and before I moved, he asked me to marry him.

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Speaker 1: As four kids and they're all older than me. His

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Speaker 1: to meet his kids because he's pressuring me to marry him.

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Speaker 1: We have only been together six months and we have

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Speaker 1: not been intimate. Yet I'm comfortable where I am in

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Speaker 1: my life, and I'm glad to be back home. I'm

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Speaker 1: keeps pushing me to get myself prepared for a wedding

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Speaker 1: in January. He wants to buy me a car, but

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Speaker 1: I really need a new car, but I don't want

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Speaker 1: to get married yet. I'm only twenty four years old.

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Speaker 1: He's a great man, and I might want to marry

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Speaker 1: him one day. I don't want to lose him. Should

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Speaker 1: I just keep working hard and buy my own car?

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Speaker 1: Or marry the older guy? Please help? Yes, you answered

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Speaker 1: your own question. Keep working hard and buy your own car.

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Speaker 1: You're only twenty four years old. His oldest, you said,

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Speaker 1: But if his oldest is thirty four, I'm sure he's

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Speaker 1: a lot older than you. Um. Yeah, the pressure. Why

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Speaker 1: like this? Uh, you're twenty four. You've got a lot

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Speaker 1: more of life experience to get to before you take

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Speaker 1: such a big commitment. Okay, you began dating, things were good,

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Speaker 1: they weren't that good because you moved back home. All right,

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Speaker 1: so you moved away from this guy. You like what

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Speaker 1: the things that sugar Daddy buys you and get you,

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Speaker 1: but you don't want to be tied down to him

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Speaker 1: like that. So I suggest you, like I said, you've

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Speaker 1: answered your own question. Just keep working hard and buy

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Speaker 1: your own car. Okay, Steve, Well, well, ain't this a

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Speaker 1: little bit different? Oh? First of all, I won't a car,

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Speaker 1: but not to read. What we're getting down to is

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Speaker 1: you don't want the man. I want the car, but

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Speaker 1: I don't want to read. All right. Well, let's take

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Speaker 1: a look at this letter, right all right, this little girl,

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Speaker 1: she twenty four years old. She moved to a new city.

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Speaker 1: She ain't looking for love, only a friend. But she's

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Speaker 1: always been into older men. Yeah, so I found a

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Speaker 1: vf W Club, the Elks Club, the Mooses Law, the

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Speaker 1: Vets Center. All that's down. That's be wild, be all

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Speaker 1: that you had. You had, you had a Mason in

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Speaker 1: the Eastern Stop. You're just pulled up and you here

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Speaker 1: you I want you to walk in there. Girl, look

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Speaker 1: between after we met this some stuff in your life

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Speaker 1: Now the only guy has stayed in touch before I moved.

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Speaker 1: He asked me to marry him. M hm. He got

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Speaker 1: four kids, they all older than me. His youngest is

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Speaker 1: thirty four. Now, I want you to understand something. And

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Speaker 1: because they're gonna figure this old dumbass daddy, This old

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Speaker 1: dumbass daddy of mine. Where is our mama? We want

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Speaker 1: This is what this letter really about. You're damn right

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Speaker 1: don't know what the ring is tied to. But you

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Speaker 1: can just drive off in the car. But he this

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Speaker 1: y'all ain't had six what's wrong with this picture right here?

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Speaker 1: Who you know don't want six after six months but

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Speaker 1: Someone with a pre existing condition really stick? Let me

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Speaker 1: some help. You twenty four, you feel to be a

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Speaker 1: I'm going to tell her what's her life is finning

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Speaker 1: to be like now? She twenty four? The youngest child

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Speaker 1: is thirty four. His age ain't even on here. I'm

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Speaker 1: going to tell you what's wrong. Alright, alright, hold that thought, Steve.

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Speaker 1: We're coming back. We'll have part two of Steve's response.

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Speaker 1: I want the car, but not the ring. This little

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Speaker 1: and she happens to be crazy about older men. They

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Speaker 1: that's the part in her letter. He had four kids

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Speaker 1: and they are all older than me. His youngest is

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Speaker 1: thirty four. I've been dying to meet his kids. Look

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Speaker 1: met his kids. Is the kids. You're the baby. They're

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Speaker 1: probably dying to meet you too. They're gonna hate your girl.

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Speaker 1: You fitting to feel some venom, especially if any one

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Speaker 1: But the daughter though, oh no, oh no, they fit

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Speaker 1: to hate you. Call her mama. We've only been together

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Speaker 1: six months and we have not been intimate yet. This

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Speaker 1: man got a pre existing condition. I'm telling you right now,

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Speaker 1: he can't get in shooing some nothing. If it wasn't

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Speaker 1: for Obamacare, be just in trouble. But Obamacare didn let

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Speaker 1: him get something for this problem. He got it. Now

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Speaker 1: part of his problem is e d okay, He asked

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Speaker 1: Get that fix. But he don't know nothing about it?

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Speaker 1: Is he just sitting up there being cloth. You made

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Speaker 1: to work out of life, Dan, He said, Now I'm

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Speaker 1: a wheening in January. That's another thing. He telling you

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Speaker 1: this to you, that's a sign that he ain't got

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Speaker 1: thank you to get married by January. He got something.

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Speaker 1: He had, got some disturbing new He gotta move it up.

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Speaker 1: I don't know what, but he gotta get the date

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Speaker 1: moved up. He didn't got some doctor. Yeah that damn physical.

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Speaker 1: Now nothing news. He wants to buy me a car,

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Speaker 1: a great man, and I want to marry him one day.

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Speaker 1: now I want to marry him one day. Do you

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Speaker 1: thinking he about minimum. I'm thinking he probably sixty something.

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Speaker 1: You feel to be locking wheelchairs, putting blankets on his legs.

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