1 00:00:00,160 --> 00:00:02,880 Speaker 1: The Fred Show is on. Is stay or Go? 2 00:00:03,000 --> 00:00:03,280 Speaker 2: All right? 3 00:00:03,360 --> 00:00:07,520 Speaker 1: Dylan is see here? Welcome Dylan. How you doing? Good morning? Hey, 4 00:00:07,520 --> 00:00:07,920 Speaker 1: good morning? 5 00:00:07,920 --> 00:00:08,319 Speaker 3: How are you? 6 00:00:08,440 --> 00:00:08,799 Speaker 1: Dylan? 7 00:00:09,200 --> 00:00:09,400 Speaker 4: Do it? 8 00:00:09,400 --> 00:00:09,640 Speaker 1: Okay? 9 00:00:09,680 --> 00:00:12,319 Speaker 4: Freendschiwradio dot com, French Shaw Radio on Instagram. You can 10 00:00:12,400 --> 00:00:14,400 Speaker 4: hit us up there. What's going on with your girlfriend 11 00:00:14,400 --> 00:00:16,920 Speaker 4: of two years? Let's do some group therapy right now, 12 00:00:16,920 --> 00:00:17,279 Speaker 4: shall we? 13 00:00:18,560 --> 00:00:18,919 Speaker 2: Yeah? 14 00:00:18,920 --> 00:00:21,360 Speaker 3: Well, okay, So we've been together two years and she 15 00:00:21,520 --> 00:00:23,400 Speaker 3: wants to move in together and I did two and that. 16 00:00:23,960 --> 00:00:26,480 Speaker 3: You know, I was excited about it, but everything was 17 00:00:26,520 --> 00:00:29,680 Speaker 3: going really well, and you know, I care about her 18 00:00:29,720 --> 00:00:30,000 Speaker 3: a lot. 19 00:00:30,320 --> 00:00:32,040 Speaker 2: But the thing. 20 00:00:31,960 --> 00:00:35,559 Speaker 3: Is, when we sent in the application, she was denied 21 00:00:35,720 --> 00:00:40,000 Speaker 3: because she has bad credit and a passive fiction. Now 22 00:00:40,200 --> 00:00:42,519 Speaker 3: I knew about the evictions, so she didn't lie, but 23 00:00:42,640 --> 00:00:43,680 Speaker 3: she didn't realize her. 24 00:00:44,000 --> 00:00:45,199 Speaker 2: Credit is is? 25 00:00:45,640 --> 00:00:47,200 Speaker 3: I mean, I guess I don't know if she realized 26 00:00:47,280 --> 00:00:48,640 Speaker 3: or not, but none of us knew that her credit 27 00:00:48,680 --> 00:00:49,160 Speaker 3: was that bad. 28 00:00:49,240 --> 00:00:52,400 Speaker 2: And now I don't know. Man, I'm I'm kind of 29 00:00:52,400 --> 00:00:55,480 Speaker 2: freaking out because I've always been really good with. 30 00:00:55,400 --> 00:00:58,280 Speaker 3: Money, and I just you know, when you get together, 31 00:00:58,360 --> 00:01:01,240 Speaker 3: things get mixed up, and I'm kind of worried about 32 00:01:01,280 --> 00:01:02,160 Speaker 3: my future. 33 00:01:01,840 --> 00:01:05,040 Speaker 2: Because she's got this credit iss. She was like, I 34 00:01:05,080 --> 00:01:06,920 Speaker 2: don't know, is that a red flag for the way 35 00:01:06,959 --> 00:01:09,880 Speaker 2: she spends? Like? Am I looking too deep into this? 36 00:01:10,000 --> 00:01:12,560 Speaker 2: Or is this something I really need to watch out for? 37 00:01:12,760 --> 00:01:14,360 Speaker 4: So she you went to get like a condo or 38 00:01:14,360 --> 00:01:17,120 Speaker 4: an apartment or whatever, and obviously they look at all 39 00:01:17,160 --> 00:01:20,360 Speaker 4: that stuff, and you went in together, and it turns 40 00:01:20,360 --> 00:01:22,440 Speaker 4: out that she I don't know doesn't pay her bills. 41 00:01:22,440 --> 00:01:24,920 Speaker 1: And I don't know what, I don't know what I mean. 42 00:01:25,040 --> 00:01:27,000 Speaker 4: I mean, ultimately, I think that's how you get back 43 00:01:27,040 --> 00:01:29,000 Speaker 4: right right as you you you don't pay your bills 44 00:01:29,720 --> 00:01:32,120 Speaker 4: right and if you got she had evicted. So why 45 00:01:32,120 --> 00:01:35,120 Speaker 4: did she get evicted? You know the story she just 46 00:01:35,120 --> 00:01:35,640 Speaker 4: didn't pay that? 47 00:01:35,760 --> 00:01:37,959 Speaker 2: Yeah, well she had. 48 00:01:38,680 --> 00:01:41,560 Speaker 1: I mean I know that, Kiki. 49 00:01:41,600 --> 00:01:43,120 Speaker 4: If she were here, she'd say, a bill is an 50 00:01:43,120 --> 00:01:46,960 Speaker 4: invitation to pay, not necessarily a request, but it was 51 00:01:47,000 --> 00:01:49,000 Speaker 4: actually a demand to pay as a matter of fact. 52 00:01:49,040 --> 00:01:50,440 Speaker 4: But anyway, I'm sorry you were saying why did she 53 00:01:50,440 --> 00:01:51,040 Speaker 4: get evicted? 54 00:01:52,760 --> 00:01:53,960 Speaker 2: She said she had kind. 55 00:01:53,800 --> 00:01:56,960 Speaker 5: Of a shady landlord and he I don't know, he 56 00:01:57,120 --> 00:02:00,120 Speaker 5: wasn't like fixing a water heater, and there was some 57 00:02:00,160 --> 00:02:02,559 Speaker 5: stuff wrong if they never addressed. She was like, Okay, 58 00:02:02,560 --> 00:02:04,040 Speaker 5: I'm not going to pay the bill until he fixed 59 00:02:04,160 --> 00:02:06,080 Speaker 5: this stuff, and then it became a whole thing. So 60 00:02:06,160 --> 00:02:07,480 Speaker 5: I mean, I don't really know if that was her 61 00:02:07,520 --> 00:02:08,560 Speaker 5: fault or I. 62 00:02:08,560 --> 00:02:11,120 Speaker 4: Mean, I suppose that that's feasible, but then then the 63 00:02:11,160 --> 00:02:13,200 Speaker 4: bad credit is it. I mean, those two things combined 64 00:02:13,240 --> 00:02:15,040 Speaker 4: would make me think she doesn't like to pay bills. 65 00:02:15,639 --> 00:02:18,560 Speaker 4: I mean, unless the whole credit issue surround is surrounding 66 00:02:18,560 --> 00:02:20,600 Speaker 4: the eviction. I mean, like, have you been able to 67 00:02:20,600 --> 00:02:23,760 Speaker 4: see the credit report? Like can you see how bad 68 00:02:23,800 --> 00:02:24,080 Speaker 4: it is? 69 00:02:25,720 --> 00:02:25,800 Speaker 5: Well? 70 00:02:25,800 --> 00:02:26,240 Speaker 1: I might. 71 00:02:26,639 --> 00:02:28,360 Speaker 4: I might be like, look, we can't get a condo 72 00:02:28,800 --> 00:02:31,560 Speaker 4: because together, because you have bad credits. So we need 73 00:02:31,600 --> 00:02:32,760 Speaker 4: to look at this thing and figure out how we're 74 00:02:32,760 --> 00:02:34,799 Speaker 4: going to resolve it. I feel like that's a conversation 75 00:02:34,840 --> 00:02:36,080 Speaker 4: you need to have if you think you're going to 76 00:02:36,080 --> 00:02:37,959 Speaker 4: marry this person, be like, let's look at this thing. 77 00:02:39,200 --> 00:02:41,239 Speaker 2: Yeah, so you think that's the way to go about it. 78 00:02:41,280 --> 00:02:43,440 Speaker 2: It's kind of just ask for specifics and see if 79 00:02:43,480 --> 00:02:44,120 Speaker 2: like you know that. 80 00:02:44,200 --> 00:02:46,440 Speaker 1: Well, I think it's important to know why. I mean, like, 81 00:02:46,560 --> 00:02:47,200 Speaker 1: is it okay? 82 00:02:47,240 --> 00:02:49,799 Speaker 4: So she got evictim she claims because her landlord was 83 00:02:49,840 --> 00:02:52,799 Speaker 4: mistreating her or violating the lease. So she didn't pay that, 84 00:02:53,000 --> 00:02:55,760 Speaker 4: And if the entire credit issue is related to that, well, 85 00:02:55,760 --> 00:02:57,160 Speaker 4: then I don't know, You've got to try and resolve 86 00:02:57,160 --> 00:02:58,799 Speaker 4: that somehow. But if you look at the credit and 87 00:02:59,160 --> 00:03:01,320 Speaker 4: find that like, yeah, there was that, and then she's 88 00:03:01,320 --> 00:03:03,360 Speaker 4: got a gazillion dollars in credit card that she doesn't 89 00:03:03,360 --> 00:03:05,840 Speaker 4: pay and this and that and whatever, then I think 90 00:03:05,880 --> 00:03:08,120 Speaker 4: you're beginning to see a pattern about somebody who isn't 91 00:03:08,200 --> 00:03:10,360 Speaker 4: very responsible with money. And then I think you have 92 00:03:10,440 --> 00:03:12,760 Speaker 4: to think about, you know, whether you want to take 93 00:03:12,800 --> 00:03:15,760 Speaker 4: that on or not, because ultimately it clearly it's going 94 00:03:15,800 --> 00:03:18,440 Speaker 4: to affect your ability to do things as a couple 95 00:03:18,440 --> 00:03:19,880 Speaker 4: because you can't even get a place to live together. 96 00:03:19,919 --> 00:03:23,080 Speaker 6: Yes, Paulina, well you know, maybe maybe Patty is her 97 00:03:23,160 --> 00:03:23,640 Speaker 6: name is Patty? 98 00:03:23,720 --> 00:03:23,840 Speaker 2: Right? 99 00:03:25,320 --> 00:03:31,919 Speaker 1: Is her name Patty? I don't know, no credit everybody. 100 00:03:32,080 --> 00:03:34,400 Speaker 4: Yeah, the lady who's attacking Jason on Instagram has a 101 00:03:34,400 --> 00:03:37,680 Speaker 4: bad credit we heard, and she's dating Dylan. His name 102 00:03:37,760 --> 00:03:40,280 Speaker 4: is Dylan so, and we don't know the girlfriend's name. 103 00:03:40,640 --> 00:03:46,240 Speaker 4: We'll call her bad credit babe. 104 00:03:44,120 --> 00:03:45,880 Speaker 1: Bad credit babe. You know listen. 105 00:03:46,600 --> 00:03:52,440 Speaker 6: Credit is like wait, right, it fluctuates, yes, yes, it can't. 106 00:03:52,760 --> 00:03:54,920 Speaker 1: Maybe his girlfriend was pursuing her. 107 00:03:54,840 --> 00:03:56,680 Speaker 6: Dreams and radio kind of like I did, and like 108 00:03:56,760 --> 00:03:58,360 Speaker 6: what happens is, you know, you have to live on 109 00:03:58,400 --> 00:04:00,120 Speaker 6: credit cards for a little bit, right, you know what 110 00:04:00,120 --> 00:04:02,520 Speaker 6: I mean? Like sometimes bills are not paid on time 111 00:04:02,760 --> 00:04:04,200 Speaker 6: and all of that stuff. But then you know, you're 112 00:04:04,240 --> 00:04:05,960 Speaker 6: just a certain age. You want you do want to 113 00:04:06,000 --> 00:04:08,480 Speaker 6: do better in life, and there's places and people that 114 00:04:08,480 --> 00:04:10,360 Speaker 6: can help you fix your credit. And I really do 115 00:04:10,440 --> 00:04:13,000 Speaker 6: believe that as long as she's trying, and she's very 116 00:04:13,000 --> 00:04:15,560 Speaker 6: aware of this and she's actually making that effort, I 117 00:04:15,600 --> 00:04:16,440 Speaker 6: think they'll be all right. 118 00:04:16,480 --> 00:04:18,120 Speaker 4: Well, that's why I'm saying, sit down, they're gonna have 119 00:04:18,160 --> 00:04:19,920 Speaker 4: to have like a real conversation about this and look 120 00:04:19,960 --> 00:04:22,160 Speaker 4: at what you're really on the table. And again, if 121 00:04:22,200 --> 00:04:24,679 Speaker 4: it's all related to one matter, or if she's working 122 00:04:24,720 --> 00:04:26,560 Speaker 4: to resolve it, that's one thing. But if she's not 123 00:04:26,600 --> 00:04:28,400 Speaker 4: doing anything about it and she's like, oh yeah, I yes, 124 00:04:28,520 --> 00:04:31,000 Speaker 4: I don't know, well, then that is probably indicative of 125 00:04:31,320 --> 00:04:33,159 Speaker 4: her philosophy on money. 126 00:04:33,200 --> 00:04:33,760 Speaker 1: Yes, rufio. 127 00:04:34,080 --> 00:04:36,640 Speaker 7: The problem is, you guys should have had this conversation 128 00:04:36,760 --> 00:04:39,440 Speaker 7: before you filled out this credit report, because now that's 129 00:04:39,440 --> 00:04:40,440 Speaker 7: a hit for both of you. 130 00:04:41,000 --> 00:04:43,320 Speaker 1: Not getting this this this apartment. 131 00:04:43,720 --> 00:04:46,040 Speaker 7: Like, if you know your credits at bad and you're 132 00:04:46,080 --> 00:04:47,680 Speaker 7: gonna fill out a credit like you you know you're 133 00:04:47,680 --> 00:04:49,799 Speaker 7: gonna get denied, that's not a that's a red flag 134 00:04:49,839 --> 00:04:51,560 Speaker 7: to me. Like you, you're just gonna fill out this 135 00:04:51,600 --> 00:04:52,520 Speaker 7: credit application to be l. 136 00:04:52,720 --> 00:04:53,920 Speaker 1: She had to know that there was going to be 137 00:04:53,920 --> 00:04:56,160 Speaker 1: a problem, exactly. Yeah, she was erased. 138 00:04:56,279 --> 00:04:58,880 Speaker 2: She told me about the eviction, so I didn't know that. 139 00:04:58,960 --> 00:05:01,520 Speaker 1: But that wasn't her fault, you know. 140 00:05:01,640 --> 00:05:03,720 Speaker 4: And again, if it's that bad, you hire an attorney, 141 00:05:03,839 --> 00:05:05,760 Speaker 4: and you know, then it never it never goes that 142 00:05:05,839 --> 00:05:08,080 Speaker 4: far or you're able to rectify it. I would imagine 143 00:05:08,160 --> 00:05:09,200 Speaker 4: if it's that bad. 144 00:05:09,320 --> 00:05:10,880 Speaker 2: Do you think if we're not paying bills we can 145 00:05:10,880 --> 00:05:11,560 Speaker 2: get an attorney. 146 00:05:12,080 --> 00:05:14,119 Speaker 1: Well, there's that too. I guess. 147 00:05:14,320 --> 00:05:16,200 Speaker 4: Let me take some phone calls on this, dude. This 148 00:05:16,279 --> 00:05:17,719 Speaker 4: is interesting. I see both. 149 00:05:17,600 --> 00:05:19,360 Speaker 2: Sides that I'm just stressed out. 150 00:05:19,440 --> 00:05:21,720 Speaker 4: No, it's all right, man, Dylan. I appreciate you, and 151 00:05:21,880 --> 00:05:23,400 Speaker 4: have the radio on. Well we're gonna talk about you 152 00:05:23,440 --> 00:05:26,599 Speaker 4: behind your back now. Good luck, Patty. Yeah, tell Patty, 153 00:05:27,320 --> 00:05:30,279 Speaker 4: tell a bad credit babe, and she needs to pay 154 00:05:30,279 --> 00:05:34,360 Speaker 4: her bills eight five five five three five. I mean, 155 00:05:34,400 --> 00:05:37,600 Speaker 4: I do think it matters why her credit is so bad. 156 00:05:37,920 --> 00:05:40,080 Speaker 4: You know, if it's if it's truly like because of 157 00:05:40,120 --> 00:05:42,640 Speaker 4: this issue she went through, or if she's got student loans, 158 00:05:43,240 --> 00:05:45,719 Speaker 4: or if she went through a hard time and she's 159 00:05:46,160 --> 00:05:48,640 Speaker 4: to Paulina's point and she's looking to fix it, then 160 00:05:48,680 --> 00:05:50,880 Speaker 4: that's one thing. But if it's like, I don't know, 161 00:05:51,000 --> 00:05:52,640 Speaker 4: I just bought a bunch of crap on my credit 162 00:05:52,640 --> 00:05:54,599 Speaker 4: card and don't feel like paying for it, you know 163 00:05:54,680 --> 00:05:57,960 Speaker 4: that that's probably a larger issue, you know, and I 164 00:05:58,000 --> 00:05:59,440 Speaker 4: don't think anybody wants to be with someone they had 165 00:05:59,440 --> 00:06:00,880 Speaker 4: to put on an all or whatever. 166 00:06:02,760 --> 00:06:03,720 Speaker 1: Nick, how you doing? 167 00:06:05,600 --> 00:06:05,760 Speaker 2: Hey? 168 00:06:05,839 --> 00:06:08,080 Speaker 1: Nick? What do you think? Man? So this woman, this. 169 00:06:07,960 --> 00:06:09,599 Speaker 4: Guy you found out that his girlfriend of two years 170 00:06:09,640 --> 00:06:11,400 Speaker 4: has really really bad credit. He only kind of knew 171 00:06:11,400 --> 00:06:12,279 Speaker 4: about part of the story. 172 00:06:12,320 --> 00:06:16,880 Speaker 1: What do you think I think he should say? 173 00:06:17,040 --> 00:06:21,760 Speaker 3: You know, people make bad decisions when they're younger and 174 00:06:22,520 --> 00:06:23,360 Speaker 3: ruin their credit. 175 00:06:23,400 --> 00:06:25,560 Speaker 2: That doesn't mean they don't deserve a sect a chance 176 00:06:26,400 --> 00:06:28,200 Speaker 2: to make their life better. 177 00:06:29,760 --> 00:06:31,159 Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean I get that. I think he just 178 00:06:31,320 --> 00:06:33,080 Speaker 4: he needs in all the details. He needs to know 179 00:06:33,080 --> 00:06:35,680 Speaker 4: what she's doing about it, because so they're going to 180 00:06:35,760 --> 00:06:37,440 Speaker 4: have to sit down and have an awkward conversation where 181 00:06:37,440 --> 00:06:39,000 Speaker 4: he's like, let me see this thing, yeah, you know, 182 00:06:39,000 --> 00:06:40,359 Speaker 4: and let's talk about how we got here and how 183 00:06:40,400 --> 00:06:41,600 Speaker 4: we're going to get out of it, and we're gonna 184 00:06:41,600 --> 00:06:43,680 Speaker 4: be together because you know, his credit his credit and 185 00:06:43,720 --> 00:06:46,240 Speaker 4: hers is hers. But yet if they can't get you know, 186 00:06:47,200 --> 00:06:48,719 Speaker 4: if they can't get a lease, then they're not going 187 00:06:48,800 --> 00:06:52,120 Speaker 4: to get a mortgage. More than likely it's going to 188 00:06:52,240 --> 00:06:54,640 Speaker 4: follow her forever. So I feel like if if he 189 00:06:54,640 --> 00:06:55,920 Speaker 4: wants to be with her, then he has to help 190 00:06:55,960 --> 00:06:58,679 Speaker 4: her fix it. Thank you, Nick, have a good day, 191 00:06:59,000 --> 00:07:00,880 Speaker 4: as you call it. But I mean, this is what 192 00:07:00,920 --> 00:07:03,960 Speaker 4: I will say. If it's simply a matter of irresponsible 193 00:07:04,000 --> 00:07:06,280 Speaker 4: spending for years and years and she just doesn't care 194 00:07:06,440 --> 00:07:09,120 Speaker 4: and doesn't that is like indifferent about it now, that 195 00:07:09,240 --> 00:07:11,240 Speaker 4: to me would be something you really have to think about, right. 196 00:07:11,800 --> 00:07:14,520 Speaker 4: But if it's just a series of bad luck, you know, 197 00:07:14,960 --> 00:07:16,720 Speaker 4: the incidentstant that might be different. 198 00:07:16,760 --> 00:07:20,040 Speaker 1: Hey Austin, Hey, how's there going? Hey man, what do 199 00:07:20,080 --> 00:07:20,640 Speaker 1: you think is there go? 200 00:07:22,200 --> 00:07:27,760 Speaker 8: I think he should say why, Well, I mean when 201 00:07:27,760 --> 00:07:30,120 Speaker 8: I was and I had that same problem with my credit, 202 00:07:30,160 --> 00:07:32,280 Speaker 8: you know, then they never really taught us in school 203 00:07:32,280 --> 00:07:37,360 Speaker 8: how to maintain good credit. She said, kind of like, wait, 204 00:07:37,800 --> 00:07:38,120 Speaker 8: I mean I. 205 00:07:38,120 --> 00:07:39,840 Speaker 2: Don't really agree about that, but it does. 206 00:07:39,920 --> 00:07:42,760 Speaker 8: It does fluctuate, you know, But as long as you 207 00:07:42,760 --> 00:07:43,640 Speaker 8: guys sit down. 208 00:07:43,440 --> 00:07:44,520 Speaker 1: And work it out together. 209 00:07:45,040 --> 00:07:48,840 Speaker 8: My girlfriend put me on her credit card which's called diiggybacking, 210 00:07:48,840 --> 00:07:50,640 Speaker 8: and then actually bumped my credit up. So I mean, 211 00:07:50,680 --> 00:07:53,280 Speaker 8: as long as you got that partner that's willing to 212 00:07:53,320 --> 00:07:56,160 Speaker 8: sit there and help you build your credit back up, 213 00:07:56,360 --> 00:07:59,600 Speaker 8: you know, as long as you see efforts. 214 00:08:00,360 --> 00:08:02,360 Speaker 4: Yeah, you know, it makes sense. Austin, thank you man, 215 00:08:02,440 --> 00:08:03,720 Speaker 4: have a good day. 216 00:08:04,480 --> 00:08:04,640 Speaker 1: Yeah. 217 00:08:04,680 --> 00:08:07,200 Speaker 4: I agree with Ruvio though, Like she knew this was coming, right, 218 00:08:07,280 --> 00:08:09,280 Speaker 4: so why didn't they have this conversation ahead of time? 219 00:08:09,320 --> 00:08:12,080 Speaker 2: Hey, Brittany, Hey, how's it going? 220 00:08:12,160 --> 00:08:12,360 Speaker 6: Hey? 221 00:08:12,400 --> 00:08:14,280 Speaker 1: How are you good? Mornings? There? Go? 222 00:08:14,280 --> 00:08:15,640 Speaker 5: Good SKay? 223 00:08:16,840 --> 00:08:20,200 Speaker 9: Okay, as long as well, I don't know, I have 224 00:08:20,600 --> 00:08:24,280 Speaker 9: bad credit due to student loans and medical bills and stuff. 225 00:08:24,760 --> 00:08:30,440 Speaker 9: And I've been with my boyfriend of almost sixteen years now, 226 00:08:30,840 --> 00:08:34,040 Speaker 9: and we just decided to we don't we decide not 227 00:08:34,080 --> 00:08:38,480 Speaker 9: to get married legally, and I don't. He's got good credit, 228 00:08:39,120 --> 00:08:44,920 Speaker 9: he owns the house that we live in, and we're happy, okay, so. 229 00:08:44,880 --> 00:08:46,960 Speaker 4: He doesn't eemn have I mean because he's aware of 230 00:08:47,000 --> 00:08:51,079 Speaker 4: the situation, he knows the reason why, and you're working 231 00:08:51,080 --> 00:08:51,320 Speaker 4: on it. 232 00:08:51,360 --> 00:08:51,840 Speaker 1: I assume. 233 00:08:53,520 --> 00:08:55,920 Speaker 9: Yeah, well, I've been a stay at home mom for 234 00:08:56,040 --> 00:09:02,720 Speaker 9: the past six years now, and well I would have 235 00:09:02,760 --> 00:09:06,560 Speaker 9: to file bankruptcy. It's ah, you know, you know, like 236 00:09:07,520 --> 00:09:09,839 Speaker 9: he's helping me work on it because he's really good with. 237 00:09:09,880 --> 00:09:10,680 Speaker 1: Money, and I'm not. 238 00:09:11,400 --> 00:09:15,640 Speaker 9: No, he's been helping me over the years improve myself 239 00:09:15,840 --> 00:09:16,920 Speaker 9: as far as money goes. 240 00:09:16,960 --> 00:09:20,119 Speaker 2: But I'm okay with not getting married. 241 00:09:19,880 --> 00:09:21,240 Speaker 5: Because I know that. 242 00:09:21,520 --> 00:09:23,400 Speaker 1: You know, the credit is. 243 00:09:23,360 --> 00:09:25,080 Speaker 5: A big thing when you can bind all that. 244 00:09:25,440 --> 00:09:27,640 Speaker 9: When you've got good credit and I have bad credit, 245 00:09:28,160 --> 00:09:28,839 Speaker 9: we wouldn't be. 246 00:09:28,880 --> 00:09:30,800 Speaker 5: Where we are right now we got married. 247 00:09:31,040 --> 00:09:34,760 Speaker 1: I see, okay, before I fixed my credit. Well, Brittany, 248 00:09:34,800 --> 00:09:36,119 Speaker 1: good luck. Thanks for calling. 249 00:09:37,440 --> 00:09:37,800 Speaker 5: A good one. 250 00:09:38,280 --> 00:09:39,920 Speaker 1: I mean, I mean, it's all on the table. I 251 00:09:39,920 --> 00:09:41,160 Speaker 1: guess you know. 252 00:09:41,720 --> 00:09:44,600 Speaker 4: Her partner knows what he's right, he knows what he's 253 00:09:44,640 --> 00:09:45,440 Speaker 4: dealing exactly. 254 00:09:45,520 --> 00:09:45,720 Speaker 1: Yeah. 255 00:09:45,800 --> 00:09:50,760 Speaker 4: Hey, Lindsay, Hi, Lindsay, Hey, good morning. So this dude, 256 00:09:50,800 --> 00:09:52,760 Speaker 4: Dylan called. He's been dating a woman for two years. 257 00:09:52,760 --> 00:09:54,840 Speaker 4: They tried to get an apartment together, only to find 258 00:09:54,840 --> 00:09:57,000 Speaker 4: out that they can't because her credit is so bad. 259 00:09:57,080 --> 00:10:00,040 Speaker 4: She says, well, I had and she was evicted. He 260 00:10:00,080 --> 00:10:02,040 Speaker 4: says that wasn't her fault, it was a landlord dispute. 261 00:10:02,120 --> 00:10:04,360 Speaker 4: But the credit is really bad, and now he's wondering, like, 262 00:10:04,400 --> 00:10:05,880 Speaker 4: can I be in a relationship with this woman? 263 00:10:05,920 --> 00:10:06,400 Speaker 1: What do you think? 264 00:10:07,720 --> 00:10:10,760 Speaker 10: Okay, so I think one he should stay. But I'm 265 00:10:10,800 --> 00:10:15,000 Speaker 10: actually a leasing consultant in Schomberg, so I go through 266 00:10:15,000 --> 00:10:18,800 Speaker 10: this on the daily with applications. So when they came 267 00:10:18,840 --> 00:10:22,160 Speaker 10: to the apartment complex, the leasing consultant should have explained 268 00:10:22,200 --> 00:10:27,200 Speaker 10: to them how deep the credit screening was, because if 269 00:10:27,240 --> 00:10:30,920 Speaker 10: they would have, she simply could have been like, Okay, 270 00:10:30,960 --> 00:10:33,720 Speaker 10: you know what, there's a new fiction on my record. 271 00:10:33,760 --> 00:10:38,360 Speaker 10: Because let me tell you, everything shows up. We see everything. 272 00:10:38,400 --> 00:10:42,040 Speaker 10: I'm that credit report. So she should have known right 273 00:10:42,040 --> 00:10:44,880 Speaker 10: off the bat, Hey, just so you know, my credit's 274 00:10:44,880 --> 00:10:49,120 Speaker 10: really bad, like it's probably going to get denied. So 275 00:10:49,160 --> 00:10:51,840 Speaker 10: then maybe they could have taken a step back and 276 00:10:51,920 --> 00:10:53,480 Speaker 10: been like, you know what, we're going to think about it. 277 00:10:53,600 --> 00:10:56,160 Speaker 10: Let's come back to this, and then they should have 278 00:10:56,200 --> 00:10:57,560 Speaker 10: had a conversation. 279 00:10:57,520 --> 00:11:00,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, can he rent a place on his own, but 280 00:11:00,160 --> 00:11:01,000 Speaker 1: he could repair it. 281 00:11:01,120 --> 00:11:02,480 Speaker 4: Could he have just said I'm going to be on 282 00:11:02,520 --> 00:11:04,160 Speaker 4: the lease and she's going to live there too, and 283 00:11:04,200 --> 00:11:05,800 Speaker 4: then it never would have come into question. 284 00:11:07,280 --> 00:11:11,080 Speaker 10: Well, technically no, because anyone that's over the age of 285 00:11:11,120 --> 00:11:14,000 Speaker 10: eighteen that's going to be occupying in the unit has 286 00:11:14,080 --> 00:11:15,560 Speaker 10: to be on the lease and they. 287 00:11:15,559 --> 00:11:18,400 Speaker 1: Have the credit going through a landing, though they didn't 288 00:11:18,400 --> 00:11:19,520 Speaker 1: have to go through like a leasing agent. 289 00:11:19,559 --> 00:11:22,000 Speaker 7: You, landlord, I can do the same thing, right, He's 290 00:11:22,000 --> 00:11:23,840 Speaker 7: going to see the same creditor point, but he's not 291 00:11:23,840 --> 00:11:25,720 Speaker 7: going to warn you. I'm going to see it. 292 00:11:25,720 --> 00:11:29,520 Speaker 4: Oh that's true. That's true. Yeah, that's possible. Yeah maybe 293 00:11:29,559 --> 00:11:31,640 Speaker 4: so yeah, interesting, you could say. 294 00:11:31,559 --> 00:11:33,719 Speaker 10: She could repair It's not that. I mean, I don't 295 00:11:33,720 --> 00:11:34,360 Speaker 10: think it's the end. 296 00:11:34,320 --> 00:11:34,680 Speaker 2: Of the world. 297 00:11:35,200 --> 00:11:36,959 Speaker 1: Fair enough, Thank you, lind I appreciate that. Have a 298 00:11:36,960 --> 00:11:37,800 Speaker 1: good day. All depends. 299 00:11:38,240 --> 00:11:41,440 Speaker 7: It all depends, like Fred says, like if she cares, 300 00:11:41,480 --> 00:11:43,320 Speaker 7: you know what I'm saying, Like, is she just racking 301 00:11:43,360 --> 00:11:45,800 Speaker 7: up debt and without caring or does she want to 302 00:11:45,800 --> 00:11:46,120 Speaker 7: fix it? 303 00:11:46,240 --> 00:11:48,000 Speaker 4: Yeah, if you had bad spending habitage as a kid, 304 00:11:48,080 --> 00:11:50,560 Speaker 4: or you made poor decisions or bad stuff happened, that's 305 00:11:50,559 --> 00:11:53,320 Speaker 4: one thing. Or medical bills like this one woman, and 306 00:11:53,400 --> 00:11:55,960 Speaker 4: if you're if you've got a plan and there's something 307 00:11:56,040 --> 00:11:57,680 Speaker 4: in place, to try and fix it and make it better, 308 00:11:57,720 --> 00:11:59,559 Speaker 4: that's one thing. But again, if she's oh, yeah, I 309 00:11:59,600 --> 00:12:01,199 Speaker 4: guess I do have big credit, and then it's like, 310 00:12:01,200 --> 00:12:02,840 Speaker 4: what do you mean, Oh yeah, I got a gazillion 311 00:12:02,880 --> 00:12:05,240 Speaker 4: dollars in credit card dead and I'm still spending, I'd 312 00:12:05,240 --> 00:12:09,080 Speaker 4: be like, yo card right, Like this is this is 313 00:12:09,120 --> 00:12:11,200 Speaker 4: a problem? Is this something I want to take on? 314 00:12:11,240 --> 00:12:14,760 Speaker 4: I think that's very different, hey, Naomi question? Yeah, Naomi, 315 00:12:14,800 --> 00:12:17,720 Speaker 4: the first go the first one and maybe the only one. 316 00:12:17,800 --> 00:12:18,240 Speaker 1: Why go? 317 00:12:19,520 --> 00:12:19,880 Speaker 2: Okay? 318 00:12:19,960 --> 00:12:23,680 Speaker 11: So I think if he really loved her, this wouldn't 319 00:12:23,679 --> 00:12:26,160 Speaker 11: you even to be a factor. He would help her. 320 00:12:26,559 --> 00:12:29,079 Speaker 11: But I don't think this is real luck here because 321 00:12:29,200 --> 00:12:31,800 Speaker 11: if you sitting here calling you guys, asking me if 322 00:12:31,800 --> 00:12:34,720 Speaker 11: you should stay or go, like, I don't think there's 323 00:12:35,160 --> 00:12:37,400 Speaker 11: he doesn't truly love her, so maybe he should just 324 00:12:37,480 --> 00:12:39,280 Speaker 11: end it now before it goes on any further. 325 00:12:40,000 --> 00:12:42,359 Speaker 4: You're saying if he has to call strangers for reinforcement, 326 00:12:42,840 --> 00:12:44,720 Speaker 4: that maybe it's not a real thing much. 327 00:12:45,400 --> 00:12:48,080 Speaker 11: I think so, because if I really love somebody and 328 00:12:48,160 --> 00:12:50,480 Speaker 11: I feel like, okay, they need to help with their credit, 329 00:12:50,559 --> 00:12:52,920 Speaker 11: let's fix here, because we're gonna have a feature together, 330 00:12:53,800 --> 00:12:56,520 Speaker 11: let's do it. But he seems really unsure and I 331 00:12:56,720 --> 00:12:57,240 Speaker 11: just don't know. 332 00:12:57,720 --> 00:12:59,560 Speaker 4: It is interesting. I always love it when people, I mean, 333 00:12:59,880 --> 00:13:02,360 Speaker 4: this is our job, you know, to feel calls. So please, 334 00:13:02,400 --> 00:13:04,000 Speaker 4: by all means call a bunch of strangers and ask 335 00:13:04,080 --> 00:13:05,960 Speaker 4: us what we think about everything. Let's open it up 336 00:13:06,000 --> 00:13:06,880 Speaker 4: to the whole city too. 337 00:13:07,000 --> 00:13:08,679 Speaker 1: Let's do it. Also, I would feel. 338 00:13:08,559 --> 00:13:10,840 Speaker 7: Jaded that, like, you know, we fill out this credit 339 00:13:10,880 --> 00:13:13,280 Speaker 7: application together, you don't say you got bad credit. 340 00:13:13,520 --> 00:13:15,079 Speaker 1: That's a hit on my credit. Now you know what 341 00:13:15,080 --> 00:13:18,360 Speaker 1: I'm saying. That is anytime you apply, it's a it's 342 00:13:18,400 --> 00:13:21,240 Speaker 1: a hit for your credit. Clearly bad credit and having 343 00:13:21,280 --> 00:13:26,280 Speaker 1: has a good credit because right personal year married. 344 00:13:26,800 --> 00:13:31,480 Speaker 4: Thank you, Naiolmi have a good day. Well, Jeans, I 345 00:13:31,559 --> 00:13:37,280 Speaker 4: know his promise was very powerful. You secured the bag 346 00:13:37,320 --> 00:13:41,400 Speaker 4: and he secured It's making a lot of sense to 347 00:13:41,400 --> 00:13:43,600 Speaker 4: me now. The Entertainer Report is next with Cantlin two 348 00:13:43,600 --> 00:13:45,760 Speaker 4: minutes away. Fred's show is on and commercial free.