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Speaker 1: Looking Jebils second dat up date, we'll finally get an

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Speaker 1: email for a second date update that I can appreciate.

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Speaker 1: Jake emailed us about his second date, said he didn't

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Speaker 1: want to do anything fancy, just keep it casual. Like

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Speaker 1: I keep telling guys, you're trying way too hard message

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Speaker 1: most of the second day updates we get these guys

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Speaker 1: never works out for him. Jake, that was your plan, right,

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Speaker 1: keep it low key and casual. Yeah, exactly. I guess

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Speaker 1: I just wanted to keep it casual because I'm a

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Speaker 1: go out to fancy places. Just keep it casual and

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Speaker 1: usually everyone has a good time. Okay, did you actually

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Speaker 1: and then start making out with her. No, I took

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Speaker 1: start off the relationship like that, then anything you do

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Speaker 1: after that that's mildly impressive is way better. To set

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Speaker 1: is nice to have, you know, a laid back atmosphere

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Speaker 1: that I to get to know someone. I guess I

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Speaker 1: You know, she was like a looking like a young

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Speaker 1: Susan Surrandon, So I go, I mean, but a young Susan.

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Speaker 1: Haven't heard that one before. I have a mental picture,

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Speaker 1: So what did you do? I tried to kiss her

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Speaker 1: kiss on the first day, okay, and I played at casual.

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Speaker 1: take a shot. Every time you said casual, Yeah, how'd

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Speaker 1: she knew you were going for the kiss, obviously. She

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Speaker 1: I was looking forward to seeing her again. But did

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Speaker 1: when you were done? She like alluded to it. She said, yeah,

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Speaker 1: So how many times have you try to get hold

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Speaker 1: on brooking cubile in the morning date. All right, Jake,

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Speaker 1: Jake wants us to call Christine. They went out on

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Speaker 1: there we go. Hi is this Christine? Yeah, hey Christine,

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Speaker 1: it's an awesome response. It's a radio station. We do

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Speaker 1: a morning show on Moving ninety two point five. We're

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Speaker 1: calling you because you recently went out on a date

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Speaker 1: with one of our listeners. His name is Jake, and

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Speaker 1: he emailed us to get a hold of you because

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Speaker 1: or anything. Oh, okay, that guy, he's um, he's very unique. Okay,

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Speaker 1: so it's not necessarily a bad way. Yeah, unique could

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Speaker 1: be good. Did you like Jake? Um? You know he

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Speaker 1: is special? Okay, Okay. Then then it went negative. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I don't know. He's just different. Mind telling us exactly

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Speaker 1: sarcastic awesome. Yeah, I think that's it. Yeah, the two dudes.

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Speaker 1: what if I told you I had herpes? With quotes?

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Speaker 1: What did you say? When he said that? I just

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Speaker 1: jokes though. Was there other jokes about STDs or did it? Oh? No?

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Speaker 1: I would say something, Oh yeah, Christine, Christine, Jake is

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Speaker 1: actually on the other line, nerd. Everything you just said, Jake,

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Speaker 1: It was not so they were so you were joking

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Speaker 1: a great energy, Christine. I don't like I'm kind of

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Speaker 1: like this is like surreal now, this is like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: you know, I'm sorry, Christine. I'm sorry. It's just I

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Speaker 1: You know. I didn't want to put on any false

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Speaker 1: like I'm a guy, I like to make jokes. I would,

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Speaker 1: you know, be myself around you, just like I be

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Speaker 1: my up from my buddies. Oh no, you know friends

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Speaker 1: of mine. It's like they're two different people when they're

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Speaker 1: other one you said? Was oh oh oh? You said, um, whoops?

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Speaker 1: How did that get out of my parents? Jake? No,

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Speaker 1: I didn't take it made her look? Which is I mean, Jake,

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Speaker 1: did you ever feel like you were on a date

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Speaker 1: with one of your buddies as opposed to like you

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Speaker 1: you have to treat them differently. You know. I didn't

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Speaker 1: toss around like me to touch booby or hey, look

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Speaker 1: did you find him funny at all? Christine? I mean

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Speaker 1: is this all he is? You know? Like, is he

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Speaker 1: finger like every day? No, I don't need the finger

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Speaker 1: bits ever. But is that you? Is that you are?

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Speaker 1: Are you going to be making jokes like that constantly

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Speaker 1: I'm casual, but I can also be serious. I've got

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Speaker 1: a wide range of emotion. It's like he's onditioning right now.

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Speaker 1: I'm a comedic talent, but I can also do drama.

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Speaker 1: I can run bits on you, but I can also

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Speaker 1: don't don't know what you guys are listening to and

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Speaker 1: how he was nervous and how he may have gone

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Speaker 1: too far. I feel like any dude could land a

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Speaker 1: I feel like he's in love with you, all right,

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Speaker 1: I think he's read sincere Christine. Would you like to

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Speaker 1: We will pay for a second date. Jake, do you

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Speaker 1: will be on my best behavior. I'm gonna take it

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Speaker 1: to business casual, step it up one nch I like it.

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Speaker 1: Put on a tie, doctors in a button up Christine?

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Speaker 1: Would you like to go out with him again? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'll go, but I just you know, maybe I'll bring

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Speaker 1: some valtracks. Just no, all right, congratulations Jake. He's got

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Speaker 1: a sense of humors. I like it. I don't have

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Speaker 1: a joke thought, Jake, does ye broken jubil in the morning,