WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Snacks and Secrets

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<v Speaker 1>Second. D you know there's something that I learned in

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<v Speaker 1>boy Scouts that I've applied into my dating life. Interesting, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>it's not what you're probably thinking, which as I can

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<v Speaker 1>tie a slip knot with my tongue, it's ABP. Always

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<v Speaker 1>be prepared, all right, And I really think people can

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<v Speaker 1>take that motto into their regular lives too. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>think it's a it's a good thing to know, like,

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<v Speaker 1>if you're pregnant, bring a hospital bag everywhere you go

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<v Speaker 1>because you never know when that baby's going to come

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<v Speaker 1>shooting out of the typically how it works. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's a good idea. Or when you're at work, you

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<v Speaker 1>never know when you're going to be fired. Now is

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<v Speaker 1>happening now? Oh no, we're at I'm just saying. But

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<v Speaker 1>that goes for dating too. And one of our listeners, Ben,

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<v Speaker 1>was extra prepared for his He didn't even realize that

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<v Speaker 1>he was strapped. So Ben, welcome to the show. Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>how's it going, guys man. We'll get into what you

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<v Speaker 1>were packing in just a second, but first, what do

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<v Speaker 1>you want the deets on the girl that you met?

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<v Speaker 1>Tell us about her? Yeah? Yeah, so I met this

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<v Speaker 1>girl named Terry. We actually met online sorry, did you

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<v Speaker 1>say Terry or carry Harry? Now I heard Harry. I

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<v Speaker 1>heard Harry. I think Terry, Terry. You spell it for us,

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<v Speaker 1>p r R Harry, Okayrry oh Ry, he said Terry. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So where did you meet Terry? We met online? I

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<v Speaker 1>thought her profile and I just thought she was really cute,

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<v Speaker 1>and she also had this joke and her bio that

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<v Speaker 1>was really cute and funny. So that's sure. You can't

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<v Speaker 1>just tell us that without telling us a joke. It

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<v Speaker 1>already sold me. I don't care what it is. Y'all

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<v Speaker 1>probably think it's stupid. I thought it was hilarious. All

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<v Speaker 1>her bio was was I'm intelligent, but she spelled intelligent

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<v Speaker 1>row that's funny. And then you put in like fantasies

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<v Speaker 1>like ha ha okay, yeah right, so that wasn't just

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<v Speaker 1>an accident. Isn't it funny that you have to put

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<v Speaker 1>the haha because they know there's gonna be just so

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<v Speaker 1>you know that wrong. So you reached out to her then, yeah? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>So we chatted a little bit and then we actually

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<v Speaker 1>agreed to like meet up on a date, and we

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<v Speaker 1>actually both knew this restaurant. It was a really fancy

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<v Speaker 1>restaurant that we had never been to, but we both

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<v Speaker 1>independently kind of always wanted to go there. I have

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<v Speaker 1>it like a foody spot, ye person, I mean, but

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<v Speaker 1>a fancy restaurant for a first date. Yeah, super fancy

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<v Speaker 1>and also super hard to get a table that makes

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<v Speaker 1>you look good though, if you're able to slide in

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<v Speaker 1>actually get a reservation, how did you do it? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>they actually don't take reservation. That's the problem those places.

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<v Speaker 1>They're the ones that loved to watch you wait for

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<v Speaker 1>three hours side? How bad do you want to mock you?

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<v Speaker 1>So did you show up early then or what did

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<v Speaker 1>you do to get your you guys a table? We

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<v Speaker 1>showed up kind of like on the early side, and

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<v Speaker 1>they were like, well, they're at the table, but it's

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<v Speaker 1>gonna be a fifty minute wait for a table, like

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<v Speaker 1>an hour, I mean, I feel like that's to be

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<v Speaker 1>expected on one of those like super popular places. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>like on our first day, what do you do? Just

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<v Speaker 1>sit on the bench and like that's not enough time

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<v Speaker 1>to like do something else. I can get a child's

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<v Speaker 1>menu and color that inway. What did you decide to

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<v Speaker 1>do there? Ben, Well, we talked about it and we

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<v Speaker 1>were both like, not that long. It was a nice day.

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<v Speaker 1>So we hung out outside and we we suck it out.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh that was a good idea. That's awesome. How did

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<v Speaker 1>that go? It went well. The only issue was that

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<v Speaker 1>since we're both so excited to eat at this restaurant,

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<v Speaker 1>that we didn't really have a lot of food that day. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you want to say space, you're like hungry before they

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<v Speaker 1>call your name, and like, we've already gone through the menu,

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<v Speaker 1>we know exactly what we wanted. But luckily I stuck

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<v Speaker 1>my hands in my pocket and I realized I had

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<v Speaker 1>two granola bars. Oh is that where you were strapped

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<v Speaker 1>with the Yeah, he always be prepared. Yeah, that was perfect.

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<v Speaker 1>And then when I brought out I was like, oh

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<v Speaker 1>my gosh, look what I have. And you should have

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<v Speaker 1>even look in her eyes. He looked at me like

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<v Speaker 1>I was a savior because we were so starving. Yea perfect.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like a prince charming night and shining armor moment.

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<v Speaker 1>Come into the rescue. You gotta starting on this guy seriously.

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<v Speaker 1>So at that point, what do you not even need

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<v Speaker 1>to go into the dinner anymore? Or do you actually

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<v Speaker 1>go into Well, we ate the granola bars and then

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<v Speaker 1>time flew by and next thing we knew and they

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<v Speaker 1>call their names, so we got great. So how did

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<v Speaker 1>dinner go? Dinner went great? The food was literally incredible.

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<v Speaker 1>You'll have to go to play. I'm so happy. And

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<v Speaker 1>the conversation was also good. Everything was just going really well.

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<v Speaker 1>It was a little expensive, but we both knew it

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<v Speaker 1>was gonna be expensive. Did you did you cover the

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<v Speaker 1>bill or did you agree to split it since it

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<v Speaker 1>was a place you both wanted to go? I actually

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<v Speaker 1>covered the bill, which I'm kind of regretting, but you know,

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<v Speaker 1>now he's back, everything sounds really good. How did everything end?

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<v Speaker 1>So we got our check and you know, I think

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<v Speaker 1>we're going well. So we ended up actually just walking

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<v Speaker 1>around this really nice park that was in the area,

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<v Speaker 1>and we walked in. I was like, hey, do you

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<v Speaker 1>want to go to my place? So? Are you going

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<v Speaker 1>a drink or something? And he was like, yeah, sure,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm down a lot of time together, she said yes, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and you were feeling the vibe correctly, yeah, which good

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<v Speaker 1>on you. Yes. So is this a situation where she

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<v Speaker 1>ended up staying the night? No, but there was a

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<v Speaker 1>kid that okay, why is she not calling you back?

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<v Speaker 1>That's what I'm calling you, guys. I don't know. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>it's true. I guess we have more work to do,

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<v Speaker 1>so we'll try and get prepared. Oh yeah, if you

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<v Speaker 1>have granola bars, Jeffrey, please share. Let's all reach into

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<v Speaker 1>each other's pockets and see what. Then when we come back,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll call Terry for you and get your second date

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<v Speaker 1>up date. Okay, all right, thank guys. All right, hold

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<v Speaker 1>on second. One of our listeners, Ben went into his

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<v Speaker 1>first date with a secret weapon in his pants. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>he did, not just one, but two of them, and

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<v Speaker 1>his date, Terry was thrilled about it, talking about granola

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<v Speaker 1>bars left over from the last time that Ben wore

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<v Speaker 1>those clothes. Good thing, they never aspire, I mean, and

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<v Speaker 1>they're kind of nice when they're a little warm. Yeah. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it did save them while they were waiting fifteen minutes

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<v Speaker 1>to get a table at a very popular restaurant. So

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<v Speaker 1>that helped kicked off a really fun date night that

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<v Speaker 1>ultimately ended back at Ben's place. Now, Terry did not

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<v Speaker 1>stay the night, but Ben did anything more happen now

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<v Speaker 1>just to cans and then we said good night pretty much, Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Was there any talk of future plans while you were

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<v Speaker 1>on the date. I mean, it just seems like you

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<v Speaker 1>guys were vibing so much. She'd be like, Oh, I

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<v Speaker 1>have this you know, musical artist I want to go see.

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<v Speaker 1>You should come with me another food place. Yeah yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I was just like, let's meet up again, and she

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<v Speaker 1>was just like, yeah, yeah, yeah, definitely definitely, And then

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<v Speaker 1>next grand knew she was gone. I feel like, definitely

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<v Speaker 1>definitely should be a confirmation, but I guess it's not. Yeah, yeah, yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's just call Terry and we'll see what she has

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<v Speaker 1>to say. It's weird that she's not calling you back

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<v Speaker 1>after everything, so let's just give it a shot. Here

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<v Speaker 1>we go. Okay, oh all right, Oh yeah, is this

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<v Speaker 1>Terry She Hey, Harry, My name is Jeff from the

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<v Speaker 1>radio show Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. Um, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>we're calling because we're wondering were you recently at a

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<v Speaker 1>fancy restaurant stealing silverware? Um? Yeah, okay, so oh we

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<v Speaker 1>got you. Please. Yes, I was at a fancy restaurant,

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<v Speaker 1>but no, I did not steal any silverware, Jeff. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so we may have the right girl for something else,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe because there is somebody that I think you may

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<v Speaker 1>have gone out with named Ben who's been trying to

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<v Speaker 1>get a hold of you. Huh remember that? Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>do remember that. Okay, Okay, So we spoke to Ben

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<v Speaker 1>about your date, and on our end, things sounded really great. Wow, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>this is interesting. Yeah, and that's kind of what we're

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<v Speaker 1>doing right now. It's called a second date update. We're

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<v Speaker 1>trying to help Ben out, to figure out the reason

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<v Speaker 1>why he's not getting a call back and maybe help

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<v Speaker 1>fix whatever. If there is a problem with Ben. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know, maybe there's not, Maybe you just haven't had time. Okay, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>this is just a little weird for me because I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know what his situation is. But whatever it is,

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<v Speaker 1>if you could just please tell him I'm out, you're out. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't mean that rude. I just that's where I'm

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<v Speaker 1>at with this. Okay, that's fair. You're allowed to say that.

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<v Speaker 1>But is there a reason why? Because he told us

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<v Speaker 1>about the date to night, about you know, going out

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<v Speaker 1>to dinner with you and waiting outside with a granola

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<v Speaker 1>bar surprise, and his last impression was a really nice

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<v Speaker 1>kiss and then you left. Look, everything leading up to

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<v Speaker 1>dinner it went really really well, it was just back

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<v Speaker 1>at his house. That was the issue for me. So

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<v Speaker 1>really we didn't get a lot of details from that point.

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<v Speaker 1>Is is it like really gross and messy or something. No,

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<v Speaker 1>it's just not too clean, I mean, basically odd. I

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<v Speaker 1>went to the restroom and I noticed that the shower

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<v Speaker 1>curtain was completely closed. And I wasn't snooping or anything,

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<v Speaker 1>but I just pink to see if it was clean

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<v Speaker 1>or you know, behind the shower, because I want to

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<v Speaker 1>make sure no one's in there. Yeah. Right, Yeah, she

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<v Speaker 1>was judging to see if he'd clean out the drain. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, yeah, was it really gross? It was not

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<v Speaker 1>gross at all. Oh, it was there were the bathtub

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<v Speaker 1>was packed. It was covered in kids' toys, like I'm talking,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, alligator things that spit stuff out of their mouth,

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<v Speaker 1>and rubber duckies and and little mermaid dolls and just

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<v Speaker 1>every bath story that you could think of from when

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<v Speaker 1>you were like three. Wait, does he have kids? Does

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<v Speaker 1>he not tell you that? Or something? That's exactly my point.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, to me, that only means one of two scenarios. A,

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<v Speaker 1>you have kids and you just weren't honest with me

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<v Speaker 1>about it. Did you ask him no, but we spoke

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<v Speaker 1>about our feelings. Weird, what's option number two? Number two?

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<v Speaker 1>You play with that toy? Like? What adult does that?

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<v Speaker 1>Is that an option? I was afraid if you're going

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<v Speaker 1>to find like another like female shampoon stuff. But this

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<v Speaker 1>is worse. I don't know I could see, like, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>let's say, let's say he is a single dad, Like

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<v Speaker 1>maybe that's just hard to start with, or maybe you

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to bring your kids into your dating life.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. There was no other kids stuff in

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<v Speaker 1>the house. Well, I want to know which one it

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<v Speaker 1>is one or two or maybe a secret option three?

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<v Speaker 1>And we can actually ask him right now because Ben's

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<v Speaker 1>been on the other line listening and wants to talk

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<v Speaker 1>to you. Are you serious? Yeah, Hi, Terry, it's Ben. Okay, Ben,

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<v Speaker 1>did you hear what she said? Yeah? Yeah, Terry, I

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<v Speaker 1>just gotta tell you you got it all wrong. Those

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<v Speaker 1>were not by toys O two cross that one off

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<v Speaker 1>the list. Is that what you're saying? You don't play

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<v Speaker 1>with the rubber ducky? No? No, I don't have the

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<v Speaker 1>rubber duckies. My neighbor's kids do they come over and

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<v Speaker 1>use my bathroom all the time? What guy, that's creepy.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh no, sorry, I should explain my neighbor's uh, their

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<v Speaker 1>their bathroom is broken. So yeah, they use my bathroom.

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<v Speaker 1>All A lot of people use my bathroom. Why wait, now,

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of people use your bathroom, Ben, like so

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<v Speaker 1>often that they would bring all their children. It sounds

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<v Speaker 1>a little fishy, honestly, Ben, All right, I yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know what I'm even saying right now. You don't

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<v Speaker 1>know what you're saying. Ah boy, Yeah, Terry, I gotta

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<v Speaker 1>come clean. I I have four kids. You have four kids? Oh? Ben?

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<v Speaker 1>Is that why you had a bunch of snacks in

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<v Speaker 1>your pockets? Because I know it was so weird. Did

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<v Speaker 1>you say that, Jeffrey, Because I'm the only one here

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<v Speaker 1>that randomly finds food in my pockets children. I could

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<v Speaker 1>pull out four bags of goldfish, probably out of my

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<v Speaker 1>coat right now. You're hiding goldfish from well. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>want her cocket, dude. Then why wouldn't you just tell

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<v Speaker 1>her that? Because I know that she would have said

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<v Speaker 1>no to the date if I told her I had

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<v Speaker 1>the kids, so I wanted to you know, wait, that's

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<v Speaker 1>absolutely not true. There are all kinds of people in

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<v Speaker 1>this world. If you are a single, eligible bachelor who

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<v Speaker 1>has four children and you put yourself out there, you're

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<v Speaker 1>going to find a lot of girls that want to

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<v Speaker 1>date you. What do they have children or not? This

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<v Speaker 1>is a good we could do a test ride here. Alexis,

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<v Speaker 1>would you date a guy with four kids? No? I

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<v Speaker 1>mean you kind of think too. That's a different age

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<v Speaker 1>then Alexis like, she's not going to find someone her

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<v Speaker 1>age that has four children. I mean, the thing is, Ben,

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<v Speaker 1>why would you want to date a woman who wouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>want kids around? That feels like, I don't know, kind

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<v Speaker 1>of a bad dad choice, not calling you a bad dad,

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<v Speaker 1>just like just people like you, Yeah, just like the choice.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, like you would want to be with someone

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<v Speaker 1>who is excited about your children. You know, Dinge, she

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<v Speaker 1>does have a point, bro, were you going to meet

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<v Speaker 1>one by one? There's another that's another neighbor. I mean, Ben, uh, Look,

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<v Speaker 1>I think that the biggest deal here is just a surprise.

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<v Speaker 1>She didn't know about it. I mean, looking back on it,

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<v Speaker 1>I understand why that would be a bit of a shocker.

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<v Speaker 1>You understand that was so count you could be like

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<v Speaker 1>a hot dad. But you know, if you look on

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<v Speaker 1>the bright side here, Terry, at least you didn't have

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<v Speaker 1>five kids. That didn't tell you what I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know my girlfriend who has a lot, she

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<v Speaker 1>says after three, you don't even know the difference. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't count. That makes this the perfect time to add

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<v Speaker 1>asked Terry, would you like to go out on a

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<v Speaker 1>date with father of the Year Ben? We will pay

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<v Speaker 1>for it. No, no kid, we will pay for it.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I have a single friend. She's a single,

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<v Speaker 1>panent mom of three. Maybe you guys would have more

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<v Speaker 1>in comment. Okay, we still have an opportunity for another day.

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<v Speaker 1>Then would you like to go out on a date

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<v Speaker 1>with Terry's female friend who has three other kids? It's

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<v Speaker 1>just one date? Is it? It's one date? I mean

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<v Speaker 1>you never know, like maybe this is the kids met

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<v Speaker 1>stuff that happens in the universe. Maybe use your bath, Ben,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't really date people with kids. Actually, it's kind

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<v Speaker 1>of a red flag for me. What's a red flag? Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>Is that what you hid? You know? Date people with kids?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you? I have enough for my own I don't

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<v Speaker 1>need more on top of it. But that is not

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<v Speaker 1>broke and Jeffrey in the morning. Well, I think we

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<v Speaker 1>all know who's going to be winning Father of the Year. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I'm gonna say he doesn't have my boat. Shocking, shocking.

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<v Speaker 1>What was it about him? And that just can't pinpointed.

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<v Speaker 1>But I think I'm gonna start with hiding your children. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you wouldn't show up to accept the award? How is

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<v Speaker 1>saying that he is not dating people that have kids?

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<v Speaker 1>I get it, though, once you have four children, it's like,

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<v Speaker 1>do I really want to add more on the list

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<v Speaker 1>of responsibilities that I have here? So I don't necessarily

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<v Speaker 1>blame him for turning down the date with the random

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<v Speaker 1>girl he's never met before with three kids, But be

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<v Speaker 1>upfront about your children. Yeah, and it is a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit of a strange double standard. Oh my god, and

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<v Speaker 1>his lie his life that he was trying to pull

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<v Speaker 1>off that it was the neighbor's children coming over to

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<v Speaker 1>use his bathtub? How is that a better line? That

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<v Speaker 1>was actually the most disturbing. Yeah, I'm going to check

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<v Speaker 1>showers from now on, every man top sech good rule,

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<v Speaker 1>And remember, if you ever want to get a second

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<v Speaker 1>date update, you can always email the show. We'll call

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<v Speaker 1>the person who wasn't calling you back.