WEBVTT - Fear of the Nut Feat. Sexual Essentials

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<v Speaker 1>On today's episode, we're joined by hands on sexual educator Somaya,

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<v Speaker 1>founder of Sexual Essentials.

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<v Speaker 2>Today, you can expect to hear.

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<v Speaker 3>How your introduction to masturbation shapes your sexual experiences in adulthood.

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<v Speaker 1>How to talk to your partner about incorporating sex toys

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<v Speaker 1>in play.

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<v Speaker 2>Whether or not sex toys desensitize you.

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<v Speaker 1>Erica converting from buy fun into full on buy shut

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<v Speaker 1>the fuck.

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<v Speaker 3>How to fix broken pussy after pregnancy.

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<v Speaker 1>Mutual masturbation, and a double horror story.

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<v Speaker 2>Y'all do not want to.

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<v Speaker 4>Miss enjoy.

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<v Speaker 3>Welcome back to Good Mom, Bad Choices. I'm Erica and

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<v Speaker 3>I'm Meela.

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<v Speaker 2>Annie's Wednesday. Hey, Happy hump day. I want to hump

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<v Speaker 2>to night. I'm trying to hump to night. Where's my

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<v Speaker 2>humping partner? I have no humping partner.

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<v Speaker 1>There's no humping partners in a fifty mile radius.

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<v Speaker 2>And it's some bullshit. I mean, if you go on tender,

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<v Speaker 2>there's there on the radius. Is my tender is not

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<v Speaker 2>humping like?

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<v Speaker 5>Oh?

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<v Speaker 3>Speaking of tender, I'm on tender right now and I'm

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<v Speaker 3>just on with girls.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh and I'm I'm gonna be lesbian.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't I don't know.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm not.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not feeling very lesbian lately.

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<v Speaker 3>You always say that until they're pretty bitch rolls up like, huh,

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<v Speaker 3>this is true.

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<v Speaker 1>I haven't seen any pretty bitches on Tender and I

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<v Speaker 1>just feel so disappointed in my lack of hole list,

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<v Speaker 1>like I usually, I just feel like I'm too mature

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<v Speaker 1>now because now there's there was a time where I

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<v Speaker 1>could just like, huh, you're cute, let's have sex, And

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<v Speaker 1>now I'm like, I want to talk to you, cuddle me.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't want to cuddle you. So it's just like, no,

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<v Speaker 2>it's good, it's good. I'm glad. I'm this is growth.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not. I'm the same way.

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<v Speaker 3>I just I'm just exploring my my my womanness, my woman,

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<v Speaker 3>my inner. Okay, because Jamila calls me buy fun, but

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<v Speaker 3>I think I'm like transitioning out of buy fun into

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<v Speaker 3>like just buy.

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<v Speaker 2>So I don't know. I'll give you an update in

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<v Speaker 2>like two months and let you know, but either way,

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<v Speaker 2>either way, yeah, please update.

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<v Speaker 1>Is my journey, your transition from buy fun to just

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<v Speaker 1>a regular buy.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm also like lazy.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm so lazy to like I was Erica, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I was driving past the airport for anal and it's

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<v Speaker 1>just too far.

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<v Speaker 2>I was just fucking dying.

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<v Speaker 3>She's like, I've been driving past l e X for anal,

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<v Speaker 3>A one anal.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like specifically anal, Like there's a niggat.

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<v Speaker 3>Past LAX that's giving you a one anal And she

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<v Speaker 3>was like yep. I was like, bitch, I hope, I

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<v Speaker 3>hope your miles are Is he paying a car insurance?

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<v Speaker 1>At point, I was like getting feeling really sexy and

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<v Speaker 1>I like had these crotchless rhymestone pantyhose and I sent

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<v Speaker 1>him a picture like should I wear these? He was like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so in at like four o'clock. So if you're from LA,

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<v Speaker 1>you know nobody's driving on the four or five at four.

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<v Speaker 1>Me I drove all at the four oh five past

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<v Speaker 1>the airport at four in crotchless ryanstone pantyhose and a

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<v Speaker 1>chrench coat to be sexy and to get anal. And

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<v Speaker 1>I at that point I was like, Wow, this is

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<v Speaker 1>this is outrageous. So yeah, I don't know if I'm

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<v Speaker 1>feeling that eager anymore, but I'm just taking this time

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<v Speaker 1>to just I'm gonna take our guests masturbation class and

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<v Speaker 1>work on my masturbation.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, before we get into masturbation anal and everything above,

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<v Speaker 3>I would love to start our episode by oh my god.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, let's let's it's a new everyone's calling. Everyone's calling,

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<v Speaker 1>you know why because we said we don't have any

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<v Speaker 1>dick and they're like, what what was that?

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<v Speaker 2>That's what happens. As soon as you don't want niggas

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<v Speaker 2>bother you, here they come. They hear the radar.

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<v Speaker 4>B baby.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, let's get into our our cards. Okay, here we go.

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<v Speaker 3>Like that like that sound love it all right? Page

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<v Speaker 3>of swords, Page of swords. So in this image there

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<v Speaker 3>is a woman here. I'm gonna show it on the

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<v Speaker 3>video because if you're on Patreon you can you can

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<v Speaker 3>watch this video.

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<v Speaker 2>All of our patrons get to watch us weekly.

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<v Speaker 3>But it is a looks like a woman, right, a

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<v Speaker 3>woman looks like a young man with long hair the

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<v Speaker 3>old time, holding a sword up into the sky. There's

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<v Speaker 3>clouds and he's on a little I don't know, but

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<v Speaker 3>can I see it so I can describe it. Sorry,

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<v Speaker 3>she's he's on like a little like a mound of greenery.

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<v Speaker 2>Let me tell you what it is.

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<v Speaker 1>Tell me the page of Swords shows a young man

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<v Speaker 1>standing with his sword pointing upwards to the two point

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<v Speaker 1>upwards to the sky. His body and the sword lean

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<v Speaker 1>in one direction, but he looks the other way, as

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<v Speaker 1>if to see what else is happening around him. A

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<v Speaker 1>breeze blows through the young man's hair, and the clouds

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<v Speaker 1>behind him appear to dash through the sky, bringing dynamic

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<v Speaker 1>energy to the card. The ground on which the page

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<v Speaker 1>stands is green and fertile, suggesting that the page's ideas

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<v Speaker 1>are likely to bring positive change and forward movement. We

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<v Speaker 1>pulled this card upright, and the meaning of this card

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<v Speaker 1>is by the way, we're getting these answers from biddy Taro.

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<v Speaker 1>We didn't just wake up one morning and no Taro.

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<v Speaker 1>We're still working on it. We like Taro, we don't

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<v Speaker 1>know it. We google the shit Biddi Taro dot com.

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<v Speaker 2>No one gonna sue us. Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>The page of Swords is full of energy, passion, and enthusiasm.

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<v Speaker 1>When this card shows up in a tarot reading, you

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<v Speaker 1>are bursting with new ideas and plans for the future.

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<v Speaker 2>That is us.

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<v Speaker 1>You may be excited about starting a new project, pursuing

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<v Speaker 1>a new approach, or learning something new you have so

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<v Speaker 1>much energy that you feel as though you could do

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<v Speaker 1>almost anything, and you can. The challenge, however, is whether

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<v Speaker 1>you can keep it up.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, we can.

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<v Speaker 1>As with all pages, the beginning always looks promising, but

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<v Speaker 1>you need something else to follow through and keep up

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<v Speaker 1>the pace.

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<v Speaker 2>The page of.

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<v Speaker 1>Swords often emerges when you're exploring a new way of thinking,

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<v Speaker 1>a new idea, a new perspective, new knowledge, or a

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<v Speaker 1>new technique. You have a curious mind and it's thirst

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<v Speaker 1>for knowledge. As you explore this fresh way of thinking,

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<v Speaker 1>you were asking lots of questions and gathering as much

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<v Speaker 1>information as possible. You are also very much in the

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<v Speaker 1>exploratory phase and not mastery. You may be prone to

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<v Speaker 1>making mistakes along the way, but your curiosity means that

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<v Speaker 1>you are eager to learn from your slip ups. I

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<v Speaker 1>like that, I like that, I like that waterme. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>here to grow out.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm capable. I will not I'm relentless, i will not

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<v Speaker 2>give up.

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<v Speaker 1>And today's affirmation is you are more than motherfucking enough.

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<v Speaker 2>You are more than mother enough.

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<v Speaker 1>If you're questioning it, here is your sign. If you

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<v Speaker 1>were suffering from imposter syndrome, here is your motherfucking sign you.

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<v Speaker 2>Is the ship?

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<v Speaker 1>Say a loud, stay abroud say allowed to say it, proud,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm the motherfucking ship.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, on that.

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<v Speaker 3>Note, I would love to introduce Samaya, the owner of

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<v Speaker 3>Sexual Essentials and hands on sexual educator.

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<v Speaker 2>Welcome to the show, Samaya.

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<v Speaker 5>Hey you guys.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm so happy to have you girl. How you doing?

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<v Speaker 5>I am doing good. I'm having a good day, A

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<v Speaker 5>busy day, but a good day. Where started this week?

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<v Speaker 5>Where are you at?

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<v Speaker 2>Where are you at the in the USA?

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<v Speaker 5>I am in Florida?

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<v Speaker 2>Nice? Are you from? Are you from there?

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<v Speaker 5>Absolutely not? Louis, so said Saint Louis.

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<v Speaker 2>Yep. Okay, well how'd you get Okay, I'm on your business?

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<v Speaker 5>I went to the goddamn you Okay, yes, all that

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<v Speaker 5>tell us about your business?

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<v Speaker 1>How did you get into sexual Essentials? How did you

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<v Speaker 1>become a hands on sexual educator?

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<v Speaker 5>So I probably should have thought about that before. I

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<v Speaker 5>was like, hey, let's do this. After I had my son,

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<v Speaker 5>I really needed an outlet. And I have always been

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<v Speaker 5>that friend that you call about sex and will try

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<v Speaker 5>anything three times, that person, And ultimately I just realized

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<v Speaker 5>that you could have a baby and not have an orgasm,

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<v Speaker 5>and I felt like that was a lot to put

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<v Speaker 5>on yourself without even getting a nut off.

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<v Speaker 1>Man, God, imagine getting the baby but no orgasm.

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<v Speaker 2>It's true.

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<v Speaker 4>Damn.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean I can't, but I know that a lot

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<v Speaker 2>of it now.

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<v Speaker 5>So I know, you guys have like probably like thousands

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<v Speaker 5>of listeners that are like ooho, And so I was like,

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<v Speaker 5>you know, I'm gonna teach people how to have better sex,

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<v Speaker 5>make relationships better, right, this is gonna be my part

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<v Speaker 5>to save the rainforest. So first I started with this

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<v Speaker 5>blog and stuff like that. But then I was like, wait,

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<v Speaker 5>I need to tell them about sex toys, because every

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<v Speaker 5>sex store is just trying to sell you, sell you

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<v Speaker 5>everything that has ever been made, and all of that

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<v Speaker 5>stuff ain't good. So I was like, Okay, I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 5>offer some sex toys. But I was like, well, if

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<v Speaker 5>I'm trying to teach them how to have better sex,

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<v Speaker 5>then I actually have to teach them how to have

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<v Speaker 5>better sex. They could rease Cosmo for some tips, and

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<v Speaker 5>you know, watch YouTube to learn about a grapefruit. You know,

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<v Speaker 5>I have to do something different. We gotta start with

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<v Speaker 5>the essentials first before you learn how to you know,

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<v Speaker 5>dangle from the ceiling and shit. So yeah, I was like,

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<v Speaker 5>fuck it, i'n'ta teach people how to suck big because

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<v Speaker 5>I bet relationships would get a little better, you know,

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<v Speaker 5>and I know women would not be as bitchy if

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<v Speaker 5>we got some nuts off, and you know, I'm just like,

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<v Speaker 5>you know, this is just help everybody.

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<v Speaker 4>Fuck it.

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<v Speaker 5>I'ma I'm gonna teach classes. And I was like, well,

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<v Speaker 5>if I'm gonna teach dicksucking class, they gonna need a

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<v Speaker 5>dick to practice on. So they come to the classes,

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<v Speaker 5>I give them a dildo and they go to work.

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<v Speaker 5>So yeah, I teach hands on classes where you legit

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<v Speaker 5>leave class knowing how to ride, knowing how to sug dig.

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<v Speaker 5>I teach how to masturbate, I teach how to squirt,

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<v Speaker 5>I teach how to have threesomes. I teach everything. Because

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<v Speaker 5>who were you gonna ask?

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<v Speaker 3>Ghostbusters is not the answer, So okay, So question I

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<v Speaker 3>need I need more. I need more clarity on your

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<v Speaker 3>on your classes. So when you are doing dick sucking classes,

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<v Speaker 3>like are you there side by side like teaching them, Like, yeah, don't.

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<v Speaker 2>Do that too much.

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<v Speaker 5>Relax.

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<v Speaker 3>But because and also because dick sucking is also such

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<v Speaker 3>a personal I mean, I think for a man, it's

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<v Speaker 3>a personal experience, and you know, you kind of have

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<v Speaker 3>to know your partner and what their needs and wants

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<v Speaker 3>are and be able to read body language and how

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<v Speaker 3>do you how do you how do you leave them?

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<v Speaker 3>I guess I guess they're probably just essential like that.

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<v Speaker 3>The main things that kind of help guide.

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<v Speaker 1>Them are you basically asking her how she does it

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<v Speaker 1>without an actual man there.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, no, she's because everybody's different too. I totally get

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<v Speaker 5>what you're saying. That's a great question. So I teach

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<v Speaker 5>you how to actually do it. That means that even

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<v Speaker 5>if you get a different dick tomorrow, you still know

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<v Speaker 5>how to do it, because that means I've taught you

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<v Speaker 5>how to adjust. I've taught you. Okay, understand there are

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<v Speaker 5>two spectrums to everything. Some people may like head really fast,

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<v Speaker 5>but don't, just because we may practice that you are

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<v Speaker 5>a living, breathing individual. Use your senses to watch their

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<v Speaker 5>body to say, okay, this person may like it slow

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<v Speaker 5>or at least try it. I don't enable people to

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<v Speaker 5>rely on me. I teach you how to become a

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<v Speaker 5>dick suck, not just how to do a class that

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<v Speaker 5>you learned. I teach you how to be you know,

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<v Speaker 5>a throat baby for baby, and.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm trying to give them to shout out to Orlando

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<v Speaker 1>who put me on that song.

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<v Speaker 2>I know that's on our Spotify playlist because.

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<v Speaker 5>Of definitely, but teach I don't. I don't enable people

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<v Speaker 5>to rely on me, you know how Like you have

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<v Speaker 5>that person that you call about everything. You're like, girl,

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<v Speaker 5>what are next?

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<v Speaker 6>Like?

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<v Speaker 2>No, I don't.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't do that. I reaffirm everybody and let them know, hey,

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<v Speaker 5>you took the class, you know how to suck it?

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<v Speaker 5>Just calm down, talk, you know, because I could teach you.

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<v Speaker 5>I could teach you how to deep throat, and you

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<v Speaker 5>may get with somebody who's like, I don't like it.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't like deep like it's.

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<v Speaker 2>Rare that I was like, oh no that person.

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<v Speaker 5>Think about it, though. I teach men how to eat pussy,

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<v Speaker 5>and there are women that's like, oh I don't care

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<v Speaker 5>for head, and so it's always somebody out there that

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<v Speaker 5>won't like what we consider a quote unquote norm.

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<v Speaker 3>I think the women who don't like head are just

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<v Speaker 3>insecure about their like their vagina. And I'm not not

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<v Speaker 3>shaming because there's people on here that truly have our

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<v Speaker 3>confident in their pussies and like whatever, I'm just curious

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<v Speaker 3>because it's such a it's such a pleasurable experience for

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<v Speaker 3>me at least, that I sometimes wonder, like what is

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<v Speaker 3>that about? Because I've met women that say they don't

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<v Speaker 3>like they're.

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<v Speaker 2>Not into it, and my experience.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I'm sure everyone's different, but in my experience,

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<v Speaker 1>either there's a trauma and there's been abuse, or there's

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<v Speaker 1>a control factor. Women don't like to feel out of control.

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<v Speaker 1>They don't want to be like But those are just

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<v Speaker 1>my two experiences.

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<v Speaker 5>I think that it's a couple of things. Sometimes. I

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<v Speaker 5>think that because we have not really felt our pussy

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<v Speaker 5>when it first touches it, like when anything touches it,

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<v Speaker 5>sometimes we don't have patience to see where it's going

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<v Speaker 5>to go. And so it's when you get dig you

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<v Speaker 5>feel the pleasure instantly, as soon as it goes inside

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<v Speaker 5>of you, right. And then sometimes some women are just

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<v Speaker 5>frustrated where it's like you get hit from somebody and

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<v Speaker 5>it feels really great. It feels like you're gonna come,

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<v Speaker 5>and then they stop or you don't, and then it

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<v Speaker 5>all it does is give you an attitude, so it's like,

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<v Speaker 5>fuck it, just skip it, give me to did I'll

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<v Speaker 5>pass right, you know, And then yeah, some people just

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<v Speaker 5>I don't. And also I just think everybody has not

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<v Speaker 5>gotten really good hit. I did not realize anything in

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<v Speaker 5>college and under wasn't good hit. I didn't realize that

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<v Speaker 5>until I got good hit and I was like, oh.

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<v Speaker 2>Dang, So.

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<v Speaker 5>You know, it's it's usually one of those.

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<v Speaker 3>I have another question about your your teachings. So you

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<v Speaker 3>said that you also teach people how to like ride deck,

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<v Speaker 3>So are they are women in your chorus like actually

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<v Speaker 3>masturbating and writing and like, yeah, like actually performing the

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<v Speaker 3>act with you? I mean, and I only want I

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<v Speaker 3>only wonder because I know some people's comfortability ranges from

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<v Speaker 3>you know, comfortable to not until totally uncomfortable. And I

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<v Speaker 3>just obviously if they're taking your course, they're trying to

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<v Speaker 3>be open. So I'm just curious, like what does that

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<v Speaker 3>look like.

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<v Speaker 5>No, that's a great question. So when I go on tour,

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<v Speaker 5>So before the world closed down and locked us in

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<v Speaker 5>the house, I used to go on tour and do

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<v Speaker 5>my classes and so if you can't get to class,

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<v Speaker 5>it was ladies only, doors locked, No cameras none of that, right,

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<v Speaker 5>and you would get a deal though, so you could

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<v Speaker 5>practice the oral sex part and you would partner up

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<v Speaker 5>and practice the writing part.

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<v Speaker 7>Right.

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<v Speaker 5>And since COVID, we do everything on zoom. So for

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<v Speaker 5>the masturbation class, I actually have vaginal props and things

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<v Speaker 5>that are like blown up huge that I can hold,

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<v Speaker 5>and so I can show you exactly where this should be.

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<v Speaker 5>And I show you exactly how to use toys, and

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<v Speaker 5>I show you how to have stronger orgasms, how to

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<v Speaker 5>have longer orgasms, and how to make yourself square. So

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<v Speaker 5>I show you not by pulling out my pussy, because

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<v Speaker 5>my pussy on camera is only like this.

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<v Speaker 8>Baby out, get around, gether around.

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<v Speaker 5>So I blow everything up super big, so I have

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<v Speaker 5>life size stuff. Well actually just way bigger than life size, right,

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<v Speaker 5>so really big. Show you how to do everything like

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<v Speaker 5>the where are right now?

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<v Speaker 2>I want to see one?

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<v Speaker 5>Don't look at my booty when I get up, but

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<v Speaker 5>I'm we're looking at don't look at your booy now.

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<v Speaker 2>Now now you're gonn look at your boots Damn. I

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<v Speaker 2>didn't see the little pussy or the big booty.

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<v Speaker 5>Damn.

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<v Speaker 2>It is that what it is? If you get one,

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<v Speaker 2>you don't get the other.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, I'll say.

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<v Speaker 5>So my pussy that I practiced on, you know, it

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<v Speaker 5>even has a jeep spot. So I teach all of

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<v Speaker 5>these things, right, and you make this absolutely not girl,

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<v Speaker 5>I don't have that's as far as my art skills go.

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<v Speaker 5>I have a life you know, life size clit here,

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<v Speaker 5>you know, and then it looks like, yes, absolutely, your

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<v Speaker 5>clit is huge.

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<v Speaker 2>What's the top? What's the little gold hook at the top.

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<v Speaker 5>That's so this is the part that you see visually,

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<v Speaker 5>like from the outside of your body. So this part

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<v Speaker 5>right here, this little tip actually.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, okay, okay, now I see it.

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<v Speaker 4>I get it.

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<v Speaker 5>So that's why, like these classes, they get so in depth.

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<v Speaker 5>Like I literally make demon dick. I create demon dick

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<v Speaker 5>in some of my classes.

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<v Speaker 2>What's a demon dick?

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<v Speaker 1>Like digmatized by that devil deck that devil by some

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<v Speaker 1>devil dick?

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<v Speaker 5>And yes, so I teach a class called for play

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<v Speaker 5>and Vaginal Orgasms for men and women, and it teaches

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<v Speaker 5>you from the start to finish out of you know.

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<v Speaker 5>So anyway, this is Stella. It only came in this color.

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<v Speaker 5>But Stella only came in this color. But yeah, like

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<v Speaker 5>she has, you know, a vagina and a clid and

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<v Speaker 5>all of that. So you know, I got my ring

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<v Speaker 5>light on so we can't see as well.

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<v Speaker 2>But yeah, I'm super excited about this class.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah wait, it's February fourth. So what's crazy is I

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<v Speaker 5>just had classes last week and you know how people

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<v Speaker 5>go to something they like, bitch you guys to hear

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<v Speaker 5>about this. So then my dms just like, Okay, when

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<v Speaker 5>is class Valentine's they coming up and I said, I

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<v Speaker 5>told you so, long story short, we added more classes,

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<v Speaker 5>so I'm doing a masturbation of sporting class. That's when

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<v Speaker 5>you guys are going to.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, absolutely, I'll be there. Yeah, we're talking. I've been,

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<v Speaker 3>Jamila has been. Basically we did an episode with this

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<v Speaker 3>this podcast called clip Talk and they were talking about

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<v Speaker 3>squirting and like one of the girls was saying, how

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<v Speaker 3>like you know she believes that it's it's the part

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<v Speaker 3>of the community's job is to make sure like your

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<v Speaker 3>friends through your friends can squirt, and Jimmy I was like, well, Eric, like, Erica,

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<v Speaker 3>are you gonna teach me to score?

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<v Speaker 2>You have yet to coach me through. I'm sorry, we

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<v Speaker 2>can do it after this.

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<v Speaker 5>To help you as a resource.

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<v Speaker 3>Well you know, I okay, So like I've been scorting

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<v Speaker 3>since I was like nineteen, Like that's when I really

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<v Speaker 3>that's me.

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<v Speaker 2>That's why I'm locked to squirt.

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<v Speaker 3>But I don't like in my in my exploration of

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<v Speaker 3>women and having sex with women, like I always try

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<v Speaker 3>to like do what I do to myself and it

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<v Speaker 3>doesn't work, And.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, why can't they squirret? This works for me?

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<v Speaker 2>Like what the fuck you should? Where's the water? Sholl

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<v Speaker 2>you do?

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<v Speaker 1>Like it's like a platoral formulation or like it I

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<v Speaker 1>can do, but I can squirt from internal sex and

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<v Speaker 1>platoral ever even friend.

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<v Speaker 5>These fingers and yeah, y'all know how I feel about that,

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<v Speaker 5>this nineteen seventies fingers self.

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<v Speaker 3>Sex action Like no, no, no, I know I have sported

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<v Speaker 3>from my fingers, but I'm obviously like it's crazy when

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<v Speaker 3>it's actual toy, it's like out of control.

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<v Speaker 9>Y'all.

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<v Speaker 5>Look at my fingers. Look how big they are. That's

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<v Speaker 5>cramping arthritis and and well I've also.

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<v Speaker 3>Because I'm on my journey of exploring women more, I've

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<v Speaker 3>like really considered like I think I need to like

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<v Speaker 3>not have nails.

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<v Speaker 2>Because that's the perfect shape for it is.

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<v Speaker 1>So I need to ask the lesbian like is this

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<v Speaker 1>Mandy said, this is for the booty holes, and I

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<v Speaker 1>assume that's also for vat giinas it is this is

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<v Speaker 1>the oval? Yeah, she said, this is this, and I

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<v Speaker 1>sent her a picture of my nails. When she posted it,

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<v Speaker 1>I said, like this ominous for I was.

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<v Speaker 3>Just worried because like bacteria can get trapped under nails

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<v Speaker 3>and like all those things.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, I don't know if this is safe.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know how.

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<v Speaker 5>We're just kind a really good cleaning protocol, you know,

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<v Speaker 5>like a cleaning protocols, get.

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<v Speaker 2>A brush in the shower, you gotta you gotta clean

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<v Speaker 2>those nails. And this is for men to please God.

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<v Speaker 1>If you're listening, men, clean your fucking nails and cut them.

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<v Speaker 1>I hate a nigga with dirty long nails. Discuss this

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<v Speaker 1>grosses me out.

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<v Speaker 4>With your fingers.

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<v Speaker 3>That's so your so in your chorus, I mean, I'm

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<v Speaker 3>not to give too much away, but because obviously we

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<v Speaker 3>want to go. We want to ever, we want everyone

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<v Speaker 3>to go, because I think so many people are interested

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<v Speaker 3>in want to know how to unlock that part of

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<v Speaker 3>their you know, their sexual pleasure. But like is it is?

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<v Speaker 3>Is it based in learning how to do it with

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<v Speaker 3>the actual like the toys? But also there's like is

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<v Speaker 3>there like a like a break a breakaway moment where

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<v Speaker 3>you go when you try to, like, you know, make

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<v Speaker 3>it happen for yourself, Like.

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<v Speaker 2>Take an intermission.

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<v Speaker 1>Everybody trying Eric, You're kinking Erica wants to go on

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<v Speaker 1>virtual and masturbating a room full of people.

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<v Speaker 2>We can do. We can arrange it.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay. So, speaking of Orlando from Harder Stuff and Tahoe

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<v Speaker 5>actually had me do the class on a volunteer for this.

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<v Speaker 2>I saw that, I saw it.

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<v Speaker 5>I was like, oh my god, and I gave her

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<v Speaker 5>three to four orgasms. Right, So during my class, I

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<v Speaker 5>teach everything that I did to her. But no, we

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<v Speaker 5>don't break away and pop out our pussies and hold

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<v Speaker 5>them together or anything. We just do I teach, and

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<v Speaker 5>then I tell y'all to go charge up, y'all shit

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<v Speaker 5>while y'all in this class. And then the next day

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<v Speaker 5>my DMS are.

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<v Speaker 1>Like, yo, was that your first time doing it like

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<v Speaker 1>demonstrating on a live person?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I mean like, are.

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<v Speaker 1>You do you do do fuck with women?

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<v Speaker 5>Yes?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, So like it was the first time as a demonstrative,

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<v Speaker 1>like a demonstration, but not in your first time around

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<v Speaker 1>the rodeo show.

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<v Speaker 5>No, but it was still the first time that I

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<v Speaker 5>did that because I have not had that much time,

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<v Speaker 5>like a long period of time and women. It's been

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<v Speaker 5>like threesomes or orgies or it was not one on

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<v Speaker 5>one very intimate like I don't think since I started

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<v Speaker 5>Sexual Essentials, you know, so some of the stuff that

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<v Speaker 5>I used I didn't even have in my back pocket

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<v Speaker 5>back in the day.

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<v Speaker 9>You know.

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<v Speaker 5>So everything that I've been doing lately has had a

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<v Speaker 5>guy involved in some sort and so you know, that

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<v Speaker 5>kind of changes things. You want to make sure everybody,

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<v Speaker 5>you know, gets to have their fun. But this was

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<v Speaker 5>even though it was a room full of people, it

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<v Speaker 5>was me and her, and so this was totally different.

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<v Speaker 5>I got to actually get my ship off, and because

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<v Speaker 5>Orlando was really trying me me look like she was

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<v Speaker 5>saying to.

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<v Speaker 2>Be I know, she definitely was nodding to some other ship.

0:23:22.680 --> 0:23:29.200
<v Speaker 3>It was Ego, the actual head it was about.

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<v Speaker 7>I was talking about it.

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<v Speaker 5>Orlando is a sweetheart though, but no, he was like, well,

0:23:34.800 --> 0:23:36.960
<v Speaker 5>you know they say that's what you do, right, you know,

0:23:37.000 --> 0:23:38.919
<v Speaker 5>how to make people squared I mean, can't you do it?

0:23:38.960 --> 0:23:40.120
<v Speaker 5>And it was like, can you give her a three

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<v Speaker 5>or four? And I was like, well, if that's what

0:23:42.600 --> 0:23:44.040
<v Speaker 5>her body wants to do. They was like, nah, I

0:23:44.080 --> 0:23:45.560
<v Speaker 5>don't want to hear that. We want to see it.

0:23:45.800 --> 0:23:47.600
<v Speaker 5>This is what we want to and look here he

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<v Speaker 5>needed a new chair by the time I was done.

0:23:54.720 --> 0:23:57.240
<v Speaker 5>He's supposed to record an episode in his draws because

0:23:57.280 --> 0:23:58.120
<v Speaker 5>we made a bed.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh you hear that. We're holding you to that motherfucking

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<v Speaker 2>that dear.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you need to get back on Tender like Erica

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<v Speaker 1>and get your lesbian up.

0:24:08.080 --> 0:24:09.600
<v Speaker 2>You need to get to get your practices up. You

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<v Speaker 2>can start selling sexual essential packages on Tender. I'm telling you,

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<v Speaker 2>be a hit.

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<v Speaker 7>I would feel so nervous.

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<v Speaker 5>Do you know that? After I did that? I got

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<v Speaker 5>so many dms and they were like, okay, how do

0:24:19.600 --> 0:24:21.640
<v Speaker 5>I volunteer as tribute?

0:24:22.680 --> 0:24:26.440
<v Speaker 2>I would have been like, that'll be one thousand dollars, okay.

0:24:26.480 --> 0:24:28.600
<v Speaker 5>I was like, Yo, some of y'all don't even want

0:24:28.600 --> 0:24:30.679
<v Speaker 5>to pay for my little twenty dollar classes. And you

0:24:30.760 --> 0:24:36.600
<v Speaker 5>talking about me touching your in a panoramic in a

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<v Speaker 5>panera bread.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my god, as long as you wear the mask, baby,

0:24:45.400 --> 0:24:46.240
<v Speaker 3>I was so honored that.

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<v Speaker 5>I know, because you know, if you please a woman

0:24:48.440 --> 0:24:51.040
<v Speaker 5>that's really saying, especially.

0:24:50.640 --> 0:24:52.040
<v Speaker 2>On camera, how much pressure.

0:24:52.119 --> 0:24:53.919
<v Speaker 1>One time, this girl tried to make me squirt in

0:24:53.960 --> 0:24:56.359
<v Speaker 1>a dracuzzi with like five other people, and literally the

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<v Speaker 1>next thing of vagina heard so bad.

0:24:57.960 --> 0:24:59.320
<v Speaker 2>I was like, this was not.

0:24:59.320 --> 0:25:01.440
<v Speaker 1>A good idea because it's just I just feel like

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<v Speaker 1>it's too much pressure.

0:25:02.200 --> 0:25:03.960
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, girl, you gotta stop. It's not going to happen.

0:25:04.000 --> 0:25:05.080
<v Speaker 2>Everyone's looking at me.

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<v Speaker 5>Into it, And honestly, I brought some of my best stuff,

0:25:09.400 --> 0:25:12.760
<v Speaker 5>the stuff that really just changes lives. I did, I did?

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<v Speaker 4>Are they?

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<v Speaker 2>Are they tools? Are actually just like tricks of the trade.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh no, they're actulutely tools and tricks. Also, it's about

0:25:21.760 --> 0:25:24.959
<v Speaker 5>like reading. I'm really good at reading body language when

0:25:24.960 --> 0:25:30.120
<v Speaker 5>I'm not drunk. When I'm not drunk, all that shit

0:25:30.119 --> 0:25:32.400
<v Speaker 5>goes out the window if I'm sucked up. But when

0:25:32.400 --> 0:25:36.680
<v Speaker 5>I'm in the zone, I don't know, for a goofball,

0:25:36.760 --> 0:25:39.000
<v Speaker 5>I have some sensualness to me.

0:25:39.800 --> 0:25:41.480
<v Speaker 2>You know, when's your birthday?

0:25:42.040 --> 0:25:43.560
<v Speaker 5>April fourteenth? I'm an aries?

0:25:43.560 --> 0:25:50.320
<v Speaker 2>What do you guys? Our manager is going crazy? Is

0:25:50.440 --> 0:25:53.359
<v Speaker 2>are you an aries? But I didn't know I like dairies.

0:25:53.359 --> 0:25:53.919
<v Speaker 2>I guess I do.

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<v Speaker 4>I do.

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<v Speaker 5>I love you, But when it's you all's birthdays, what

0:25:57.760 --> 0:25:58.680
<v Speaker 5>are your signs?

0:25:59.800 --> 0:26:02.919
<v Speaker 1>I'm a scorpio, I'm June twenty second, I'm a cancer.

0:26:02.960 --> 0:26:04.359
<v Speaker 2>We're both cuss Cuspy's.

0:26:04.920 --> 0:26:06.879
<v Speaker 1>I'm a cancer Gemini, but I'm mostly a cancer. I

0:26:06.880 --> 0:26:13.000
<v Speaker 1>don't fuck with Gemini's like that. But speaking of changing lives,

0:26:13.160 --> 0:26:15.919
<v Speaker 1>I know a lot of moms listen to our show,

0:26:16.160 --> 0:26:21.119
<v Speaker 1>and what we really haven't touched on is sex or

0:26:21.440 --> 0:26:25.119
<v Speaker 1>pregnancy and after birth, because first of all, your body

0:26:25.200 --> 0:26:30.000
<v Speaker 1>change is tremendously during pregnancy, and nobody fucking talks about it,

0:26:30.440 --> 0:26:33.800
<v Speaker 1>and then you change tremendously, and your body changes after

0:26:33.840 --> 0:26:36.240
<v Speaker 1>you drop the baby, and nobody fucking talks about it.

0:26:36.280 --> 0:26:39.560
<v Speaker 1>And then like for me, when I was pregnant, I

0:26:39.760 --> 0:26:41.800
<v Speaker 1>was under the impression that I was just gonna do

0:26:41.920 --> 0:26:44.679
<v Speaker 1>so fucking horny, but apparently God punished me because I'm

0:26:44.720 --> 0:26:47.760
<v Speaker 1>so fucking horny naturally, so I wasn't in I wasn't

0:26:47.760 --> 0:26:51.000
<v Speaker 1>really horny during pregnancy, like maybe like two times I

0:26:51.080 --> 0:26:53.879
<v Speaker 1>initiated sex. I was also very yeasty, because if you

0:26:53.880 --> 0:26:57.200
<v Speaker 1>don't know, like sometimes you get super fucking yeasty when you're.

0:26:57.040 --> 0:26:58.240
<v Speaker 2>Pregnant, which is the devil.

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<v Speaker 1>But anyway, just like what are some like what are

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<v Speaker 1>what are your perspectives on just hormones and getting back

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<v Speaker 1>into yourself and getting back into sex after having a baby.

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<v Speaker 5>My pussy was broke after I had my child. Dry.

0:27:15.040 --> 0:27:16.520
<v Speaker 5>It was baby powder pussy.

0:27:16.520 --> 0:27:19.120
<v Speaker 3>It was like, wait, what's that phone that you broke?

0:27:19.600 --> 0:27:20.760
<v Speaker 2>Broken pussy?

0:27:21.320 --> 0:27:24.800
<v Speaker 5>I definitely had that. It wasn't it wasn't talking back.

0:27:25.080 --> 0:27:29.040
<v Speaker 5>We we had to apply lube multiple times in a

0:27:29.160 --> 0:27:31.840
<v Speaker 5>very short period of time. I had wine. I even

0:27:31.880 --> 0:27:35.639
<v Speaker 5>tried the wine thing. Wine wine, you know when we

0:27:35.800 --> 0:27:38.600
<v Speaker 5>drink it worked to get pregnant, right, drink right.

0:27:38.960 --> 0:27:39.640
<v Speaker 2>Like trying to get dry.

0:27:39.720 --> 0:27:57.439
<v Speaker 1>I was like, I mean that sounds like a fine.

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<v Speaker 5>White wine girl to me. Okay, No, So I didn't

0:27:55.040 --> 0:27:57.000
<v Speaker 5>have a sex drive. I wanted to have sex because

0:27:57.000 --> 0:27:58.760
<v Speaker 5>I just wanted my pussy back. I wanted what was

0:27:58.800 --> 0:28:04.240
<v Speaker 5>mine right And then yeah, it was just dry. Even

0:28:04.240 --> 0:28:06.679
<v Speaker 5>when I came. When I finally did catch a nut,

0:28:06.840 --> 0:28:09.239
<v Speaker 5>the first one took forever. The first nut after I

0:28:09.280 --> 0:28:13.080
<v Speaker 5>had the baby took forever, and it was weakest fuck, Like,

0:28:13.600 --> 0:28:15.320
<v Speaker 5>that's not the stuff that they're talking about in them

0:28:15.440 --> 0:28:17.080
<v Speaker 5>R and B songs from the eighties. It was not

0:28:17.119 --> 0:28:21.120
<v Speaker 5>none of that strong beat tingling. It was like ema,

0:28:23.760 --> 0:28:28.160
<v Speaker 5>it was it was unnecessary. So I feel like after

0:28:28.200 --> 0:28:31.840
<v Speaker 5>having a baby, like especially if you're still in a relationship,

0:28:31.880 --> 0:28:33.320
<v Speaker 5>a lot of people feel like, oh, the sex goes

0:28:33.359 --> 0:28:35.720
<v Speaker 5>down after having a baby, But it's because they don't

0:28:35.760 --> 0:28:39.480
<v Speaker 5>know how to sell for lack of betic words medicate

0:28:39.960 --> 0:28:42.160
<v Speaker 5>what's going on. They just think that this is just

0:28:42.200 --> 0:28:45.720
<v Speaker 5>the new norm and they leave it. And so that's

0:28:45.760 --> 0:28:47.680
<v Speaker 5>why people you know, are waiting so long to have kids.

0:28:47.680 --> 0:28:49.600
<v Speaker 5>They just assume they'll never be able to undo all

0:28:49.640 --> 0:28:54.360
<v Speaker 5>this long so short because I've talked for forever. Is

0:28:54.400 --> 0:28:59.000
<v Speaker 5>that the masturbation and squirting class that I teach is truthfully,

0:28:59.080 --> 0:29:01.600
<v Speaker 5>it's everything that I did to bring my pussy back

0:29:01.600 --> 0:29:04.440
<v Speaker 5>to life. And I didn't think anybody was gonna buy

0:29:04.440 --> 0:29:08.680
<v Speaker 5>a class called pussy after Postpartum, Like, I didn't think

0:29:08.720 --> 0:29:11.640
<v Speaker 5>anybody would buy that. So I was like, everybody is

0:29:11.680 --> 0:29:14.360
<v Speaker 5>obsessed with squirting. I can legit do all three. I

0:29:14.400 --> 0:29:17.160
<v Speaker 5>can fix your pussy after postpartum. I will teach you

0:29:17.200 --> 0:29:19.760
<v Speaker 5>how to masturbate, and I will teach you how to

0:29:19.760 --> 0:29:22.280
<v Speaker 5>square and so in this class, a lot of people

0:29:22.320 --> 0:29:25.360
<v Speaker 5>not only get their first orgasm just like in their

0:29:25.480 --> 0:29:29.400
<v Speaker 5>entire life, but they also learn how to bring their

0:29:29.400 --> 0:29:32.000
<v Speaker 5>pussy back to a higher standard than it was before

0:29:32.040 --> 0:29:35.080
<v Speaker 5>they even had the baby. So I will teach you

0:29:35.120 --> 0:29:37.840
<v Speaker 5>how to crack nuts with your pussy would be so funny.

0:29:38.000 --> 0:29:39.840
<v Speaker 2>Can can you give a few tips?

0:29:39.880 --> 0:29:42.440
<v Speaker 3>Like, can you just give the audience a few tips,

0:29:42.480 --> 0:29:44.239
<v Speaker 3>just a little teaser so that we had so they

0:29:44.240 --> 0:29:45.920
<v Speaker 3>can understand for sure.

0:29:46.560 --> 0:29:50.480
<v Speaker 5>So I'm gonna give the simplest teaser of awe, because

0:29:50.480 --> 0:29:57.280
<v Speaker 5>it's going to be. It's going to be. It's gonna

0:29:57.760 --> 0:30:02.720
<v Speaker 5>look at yourself and be like, damn, she's right, so breathe.

0:30:03.240 --> 0:30:12.320
<v Speaker 5>Nobody breathes. Everybody is like and then they let out

0:30:12.320 --> 0:30:17.760
<v Speaker 5>this little two second nut. My orgasms last easily thirty seconds, right,

0:30:18.240 --> 0:30:21.400
<v Speaker 5>and people are like, thirty seconds ain't that long? So

0:30:21.440 --> 0:30:23.560
<v Speaker 5>I think that we should take like ten seconds right now,

0:30:23.640 --> 0:30:26.200
<v Speaker 5>just to a moment of silence for them basic nuts

0:30:26.240 --> 0:30:41.880
<v Speaker 5>that people are having. Okay, so that was ten seconds.

0:30:41.960 --> 0:30:44.040
<v Speaker 2>How was your basic as nut? That's my nut?

0:30:47.440 --> 0:30:51.160
<v Speaker 3>Basic in the street, driving over the across the airport

0:30:51.240 --> 0:30:53.400
<v Speaker 3>for a basic as the anal nuts.

0:30:54.040 --> 0:30:57.920
<v Speaker 5>Maybe aintal feels so good though, if you find somebody

0:30:57.920 --> 0:30:59.880
<v Speaker 5>you can actually do it with. I told you would drive.

0:31:00.040 --> 0:31:01.920
<v Speaker 2>That's the airport too. I haven't done a lot of

0:31:01.960 --> 0:31:04.960
<v Speaker 2>anal in my life. That's shocked that you were driving

0:31:04.960 --> 0:31:05.640
<v Speaker 2>about the airport.

0:31:08.400 --> 0:31:10.200
<v Speaker 5>You got to bring her with you, Like, come on, Erica,

0:31:10.280 --> 0:31:11.840
<v Speaker 5>let let's let we're gonna have you test down.

0:31:11.840 --> 0:31:16.280
<v Speaker 7>I'm show you there.

0:31:16.880 --> 0:31:20.960
<v Speaker 5>So long story short. Your blood your your well, you're

0:31:22.400 --> 0:31:25.000
<v Speaker 5>an orgasm and erection arousal all that. It's just blood

0:31:25.040 --> 0:31:28.120
<v Speaker 5>going to your genitals, right, but your blood needs oxygen.

0:31:28.280 --> 0:31:31.120
<v Speaker 5>If you hold your breath because you're scared that if

0:31:31.120 --> 0:31:33.400
<v Speaker 5>the air condition come on, or if he change up

0:31:33.560 --> 0:31:36.760
<v Speaker 5>his tongue or so down, or if you don't hurry up,

0:31:37.120 --> 0:31:39.120
<v Speaker 5>that you're gonna lose your net. A lot of us start,

0:31:39.360 --> 0:31:43.080
<v Speaker 5>you know, doing all that overthinking, you know, and you

0:31:43.120 --> 0:31:46.120
<v Speaker 5>stop yourself from nutting because you're trying to come right,

0:31:46.480 --> 0:31:49.080
<v Speaker 5>and so you're holding your breath, and so your body

0:31:49.520 --> 0:31:53.360
<v Speaker 5>is greedy, right, it wants an orgasm, but it also

0:31:53.400 --> 0:31:56.080
<v Speaker 5>wants to breathe, so it holds you hold your breath.

0:31:56.520 --> 0:32:00.719
<v Speaker 5>You come really quick, and then you start afterwards, and

0:32:01.200 --> 0:32:03.479
<v Speaker 5>so your body has not even finished. You cut your

0:32:03.560 --> 0:32:07.520
<v Speaker 5>nut short. You cut your nut short by holding your breath.

0:32:08.560 --> 0:32:11.560
<v Speaker 5>A lot of people are gonna listen. Okay, you're like,

0:32:11.600 --> 0:32:13.120
<v Speaker 5>I'm about to come, then I'm gonna make sure I

0:32:13.120 --> 0:32:14.760
<v Speaker 5>take deep breasts. No, you have to do it from

0:32:14.800 --> 0:32:15.280
<v Speaker 5>the jump.

0:32:16.280 --> 0:32:17.320
<v Speaker 2>I try that one too.

0:32:17.400 --> 0:32:20.320
<v Speaker 5>Yes, from the beginning. If you try to remember when

0:32:20.360 --> 0:32:23.400
<v Speaker 5>you're about to come, you're you're crazy. It's not possible.

0:32:24.160 --> 0:32:26.600
<v Speaker 5>Start from the beginning. So if you take three deep

0:32:26.600 --> 0:32:29.640
<v Speaker 5>breasts in three or four deep breasts in you I

0:32:29.760 --> 0:32:31.720
<v Speaker 5>like those the most, the breathe in ones, because it

0:32:31.720 --> 0:32:34.640
<v Speaker 5>feels like you're propelling towards your orgasm super fast. But

0:32:34.680 --> 0:32:37.120
<v Speaker 5>when you breathe out, it's scary because it feels like

0:32:37.160 --> 0:32:40.000
<v Speaker 5>you're about to lose your nut, but you're not. It's

0:32:40.040 --> 0:32:42.200
<v Speaker 5>like when you breathe in, you take three steps forward,

0:32:42.240 --> 0:32:44.160
<v Speaker 5>but when you breathe out, you take one step back.

0:32:44.160 --> 0:32:47.080
<v Speaker 5>But it's okay because you still were we two steps forward.

0:32:47.440 --> 0:32:50.240
<v Speaker 1>Does that make sense, Yeah, it's actually totally You're dragging

0:32:50.280 --> 0:32:50.720
<v Speaker 1>the tendon.

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<v Speaker 3>Makes total sense, actually, because I think lately I've been

0:32:54.200 --> 0:32:58.480
<v Speaker 3>because I I've i've been I'm massperating since I was

0:32:58.520 --> 0:33:01.480
<v Speaker 3>a teenager and then be able to like squore it

0:33:01.480 --> 0:33:05.480
<v Speaker 3>when I was eighteen or nineteen, and I don't know,

0:33:05.720 --> 0:33:07.560
<v Speaker 3>like I felt like, okay, I got I got the

0:33:07.600 --> 0:33:12.680
<v Speaker 3>hang of it right. But then in my thirties, late twenties, thirties,

0:33:12.680 --> 0:33:15.480
<v Speaker 3>I really started being cognizant of like how much I

0:33:15.520 --> 0:33:18.000
<v Speaker 3>hold my breath when I orgasm and when I come,

0:33:18.080 --> 0:33:20.280
<v Speaker 3>and that like I will hold my breath for like

0:33:21.720 --> 0:33:24.360
<v Speaker 3>the orgasm is building for at least a minute. I'm

0:33:24.400 --> 0:33:27.280
<v Speaker 3>holding my breath for almost a minute. It's crazy, like

0:33:27.840 --> 0:33:33.480
<v Speaker 3>and then I like at the end, and so if

0:33:33.560 --> 0:33:34.000
<v Speaker 3>we have the.

0:33:34.200 --> 0:33:38.240
<v Speaker 5>Power, that should have been your pussy like.

0:33:38.480 --> 0:33:40.160
<v Speaker 2>And so right.

0:33:40.320 --> 0:33:43.840
<v Speaker 3>And so I have been really over the last I guess,

0:33:43.880 --> 0:33:45.760
<v Speaker 3>like maybe two or three years, been trying to like

0:33:45.840 --> 0:33:48.280
<v Speaker 3>instead of being so much more conscious about because it's

0:33:48.280 --> 0:33:50.560
<v Speaker 3>almost like instinctually the what you want to do, that's

0:33:50.600 --> 0:33:52.560
<v Speaker 3>what your body wants to do, is hold your breath.

0:33:52.960 --> 0:33:56.600
<v Speaker 3>It's harder to like remember to breathe and like let

0:33:56.680 --> 0:33:59.320
<v Speaker 3>your body experience the pleasure. You're supposed to breathe through

0:33:59.320 --> 0:33:59.720
<v Speaker 3>the pleasure.

0:33:59.720 --> 0:34:01.480
<v Speaker 2>Why you want to heart? Why do you not want

0:34:01.480 --> 0:34:02.920
<v Speaker 2>to breathe through it? Why would you want to like

0:34:03.160 --> 0:34:06.680
<v Speaker 2>ten hens up, like relax and let it flow like

0:34:06.760 --> 0:34:08.800
<v Speaker 2>expand every present moment.

0:34:08.920 --> 0:34:11.120
<v Speaker 3>I feel like I really explored that a lot in

0:34:11.120 --> 0:34:13.960
<v Speaker 3>in my last relationship because I had so many orgasms

0:34:14.000 --> 0:34:17.239
<v Speaker 3>in that relationship that I was like, let me try

0:34:17.280 --> 0:34:19.440
<v Speaker 3>and explore this with a partner and let us breathe

0:34:19.480 --> 0:34:23.320
<v Speaker 3>together and do it. And it was amazing. It was amazing,

0:34:23.400 --> 0:34:25.839
<v Speaker 3>and I'm still working. I'm still I'm still need more

0:34:25.840 --> 0:34:27.680
<v Speaker 3>work at it because I still hold my brother. I

0:34:27.680 --> 0:34:30.560
<v Speaker 3>still catch myself holding my breath sometimes I have to say, like,

0:34:30.680 --> 0:34:31.080
<v Speaker 3>sometimes it.

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<v Speaker 2>Feels good to hold your brother.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know, it's like it's a we know that

0:34:35.640 --> 0:34:37.560
<v Speaker 5>it'll work if we hold our breath, and I think

0:34:37.560 --> 0:34:40.000
<v Speaker 5>that sometimes it's the unfamiliar that's on the other side

0:34:40.040 --> 0:34:42.960
<v Speaker 5>of maybe because it's taking longer. And I think women

0:34:43.040 --> 0:34:47.680
<v Speaker 5>have been had blue pussy for so long, you know,

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<v Speaker 5>like blue balls, for so long of us feeling aroused

0:34:51.520 --> 0:34:53.319
<v Speaker 5>and not getting off that we're like, yo, if I

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<v Speaker 5>feel this net, I'm going after it now. We really

0:34:55.840 --> 0:34:59.600
<v Speaker 5>don't trust our own bodies because a lot of us

0:34:59.600 --> 0:35:03.120
<v Speaker 5>stumble upon how to make ourselves orgasm. We don't know

0:35:03.920 --> 0:35:06.200
<v Speaker 5>how to make our selves orgasm. We stumbled upon what

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<v Speaker 5>works for us, and so in this class, I'm teaching

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<v Speaker 5>you how to work the pussy, not your pussy. I'm

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<v Speaker 5>teaching you how to work pussy. You know what I'm saying. So,

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<v Speaker 5>and I did see the question about mental versus physical.

0:35:22.000 --> 0:35:26.040
<v Speaker 5>The mental does matter, but those are two separate things.

0:35:26.080 --> 0:35:29.840
<v Speaker 5>And most people like can do everything right, but mentally,

0:35:29.880 --> 0:35:33.359
<v Speaker 5>if you're not there, especially in motherhood, it's not going

0:35:33.400 --> 0:35:36.560
<v Speaker 5>to be possible. You have to make space for your sexuality,

0:35:36.600 --> 0:35:38.759
<v Speaker 5>you have to make space for your relationship, and you

0:35:38.800 --> 0:35:40.839
<v Speaker 5>have to speak up when you need help because your

0:35:40.880 --> 0:35:43.480
<v Speaker 5>partner is not a mind reader. And so hell, I've

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<v Speaker 5>taught a class on the perfect orgasm and it has

0:35:45.800 --> 0:35:49.000
<v Speaker 5>five components. That first part, the whole video is about

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<v Speaker 5>mental and the mental blockages we have because really, you're overworked,

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<v Speaker 5>you're tired, you didn't been a slave all damn day

0:35:56.960 --> 0:35:58.600
<v Speaker 5>and now you can got in bed and you're trying

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<v Speaker 5>to rub my booty stop like stop.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, exactly, you know.

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<v Speaker 5>We Parenthood is really a journey, and trying to find

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<v Speaker 3>when you have a rebirth of your sexuality, I think

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<v Speaker 2>Like rarely have I found that anyone.

0:37:53.360 --> 0:37:56.000
<v Speaker 3>After having a baby their sex life hasn't changed in

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<v Speaker 3>some way, like whether what their needs are, what they want,

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<v Speaker 3>like how their body feels.

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<v Speaker 1>But I feel like it's only if you give your

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<v Speaker 1>your body and yourself the opportunity to go there, because

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<v Speaker 1>it could go It could go terribly.

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<v Speaker 2>But that's what I mean too.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't mean positively only, I mean like it can

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<v Speaker 3>go badly too, Like it either is like going great

0:38:18.760 --> 0:38:22.080
<v Speaker 3>or like you're open to exploring more and wanting to

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<v Speaker 3>figure some shit out, or it's like you go deeper

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<v Speaker 3>into like this recluse of your sexuality.

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<v Speaker 2>I remember, like being postpartum. I don't know, maybe it's

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<v Speaker 2>a couple of weeks.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not maybe it's a couple of weeks because I

0:38:37.360 --> 0:38:39.799
<v Speaker 1>don't think I could have sex out And I.

0:38:39.760 --> 0:38:40.760
<v Speaker 2>Remember my baby.

0:38:40.840 --> 0:38:44.360
<v Speaker 1>Daddy was holding the baby and he had like nudged

0:38:44.719 --> 0:38:46.560
<v Speaker 1>like for me to give him a head, and I

0:38:46.680 --> 0:38:52.080
<v Speaker 1>was just like fucking perplexed, like partially like he was

0:38:52.120 --> 0:38:54.680
<v Speaker 1>holding her she was asleep, and I was just like, how.

0:38:54.640 --> 0:38:55.840
<v Speaker 2>Fucking dare you?

0:38:55.840 --> 0:38:57.880
<v Speaker 5>Who are you to?

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<v Speaker 1>I was just like there was this time like my

0:39:02.280 --> 0:39:06.839
<v Speaker 1>boobs are so huge and leaking, Like I was just like,

0:39:07.400 --> 0:39:11.200
<v Speaker 1>I'm never gonna feel sexual again. I'm a motherfucking cow.

0:39:11.440 --> 0:39:15.480
<v Speaker 1>I'm literally feeding someone. Ah fucking day you want me

0:39:15.520 --> 0:39:18.439
<v Speaker 1>to do something for you. At that moment, I felt

0:39:18.480 --> 0:39:21.440
<v Speaker 1>like a machine. I was like, this is what womanhood

0:39:21.560 --> 0:39:23.960
<v Speaker 1>is like, having a baby and a nigga is giving

0:39:24.160 --> 0:39:27.400
<v Speaker 1>everything inside of you away, including this milk that I

0:39:27.400 --> 0:39:30.200
<v Speaker 1>didn't all this milk in my titties. Now you're asking

0:39:30.400 --> 0:39:34.800
<v Speaker 1>for some I was like, hell no, I was pissed

0:39:35.840 --> 0:39:39.759
<v Speaker 1>and I am a sexual person and I just I

0:39:39.840 --> 0:39:42.240
<v Speaker 1>really remember that I could never forget at that moment,

0:39:42.280 --> 0:39:44.960
<v Speaker 1>thinking this is not life.

0:39:45.120 --> 0:39:48.319
<v Speaker 2>This is the most terriblest decisions. This is not me.

0:39:48.520 --> 0:39:51.920
<v Speaker 1>Who am I like feeling like not only like I

0:39:51.920 --> 0:39:53.919
<v Speaker 1>feel like it's also like feeling you'd be a certain

0:39:53.960 --> 0:39:56.640
<v Speaker 1>type of like wife and a mother, and like the

0:39:56.680 --> 0:39:58.879
<v Speaker 1>freakiness goes out the window, but it was just like

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<v Speaker 1>I just didn't understand.

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<v Speaker 2>And and you know another thing you said it made me think.

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<v Speaker 1>Erica, You're like, I've been masturbating since I was in

0:40:06.640 --> 0:40:10.160
<v Speaker 1>my teenager, so you've been, like, obviously have a much

0:40:10.200 --> 0:40:13.920
<v Speaker 1>more comfortable, healthy relationship with masturbation than I do. Because

0:40:13.960 --> 0:40:16.920
<v Speaker 1>I was thinking, oh my god, you're right, Samaya, like

0:40:17.040 --> 0:40:19.920
<v Speaker 1>I do masturbate. Prefer to masturbate in the way I

0:40:19.960 --> 0:40:22.480
<v Speaker 1>did when I was like a little girl, like hump stuff.

0:40:22.640 --> 0:40:24.360
<v Speaker 1>I will come easy humping stuff.

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<v Speaker 2>I can have a.

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<v Speaker 1>Pillow, I can just hump stuff. I've had a guy

0:40:28.400 --> 0:40:30.280
<v Speaker 1>turnover on his butt, like I'll.

0:40:30.120 --> 0:40:30.640
<v Speaker 2>Hump your bet.

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<v Speaker 7>I'm like, I don't know what I'm gonna come.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, So I really do masturbate very much like I

0:40:40.080 --> 0:40:42.640
<v Speaker 1>did as a child. And I also I realized that

0:40:42.840 --> 0:40:47.160
<v Speaker 1>I think another kid showed me like humping each other.

0:40:47.280 --> 0:40:50.480
<v Speaker 1>I was humping other girls and like doing weird shit

0:40:50.600 --> 0:40:52.960
<v Speaker 1>very young, and I probably I think maybe I was touched,

0:40:52.960 --> 0:40:56.040
<v Speaker 1>but definitely someone else was touched in the circle of

0:40:56.239 --> 0:40:59.480
<v Speaker 1>kids we were in because I was humping other people

0:41:00.200 --> 0:41:02.959
<v Speaker 1>and at a very young age, and now as an adult,

0:41:03.000 --> 0:41:06.000
<v Speaker 1>I can reflect and understand that there was some unhealthy

0:41:06.480 --> 0:41:08.080
<v Speaker 1>things introduced to movies.

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<v Speaker 5>Girls, could you Like, we used to watch love and

0:41:10.360 --> 0:41:13.040
<v Speaker 5>Basketball when we were with right.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, and you feel this little feeling and then you're

0:41:15.320 --> 0:41:18.719
<v Speaker 1>familiar with this feeling and like nobody talks about that enough.

0:41:18.760 --> 0:41:24.160
<v Speaker 1>But I feel like, because my quote unquote masturbation started

0:41:24.200 --> 0:41:26.680
<v Speaker 1>with like pillows, I do, I'll do that, but also

0:41:26.760 --> 0:41:31.439
<v Speaker 1>with other people prematurely, even I realized when she said

0:41:31.440 --> 0:41:34.440
<v Speaker 1>that this very moment, I've spent a lot of my

0:41:34.440 --> 0:41:39.279
<v Speaker 1>my adulthood masturbating with people. Yeah, not giving and like

0:41:39.480 --> 0:41:41.839
<v Speaker 1>not giving a fuck, like not giving a.

0:41:41.760 --> 0:41:45.120
<v Speaker 2>Fuck who it is. But really I don't really have

0:41:45.160 --> 0:41:46.360
<v Speaker 2>to love you, but no.

0:41:46.440 --> 0:41:50.960
<v Speaker 3>But honestly though, like masturbation will save you like not

0:41:51.120 --> 0:41:54.680
<v Speaker 3>fucking people, because sometimes I'll feel the need, I'll feel

0:41:54.680 --> 0:41:57.880
<v Speaker 3>the urge to have sex, and I'll be like, you

0:41:57.920 --> 0:41:59.840
<v Speaker 3>know what, let me just masturbate and then i'm a

0:42:00.320 --> 0:42:02.440
<v Speaker 3>and I'm like I'm good. I don't even really not

0:42:02.520 --> 0:42:04.600
<v Speaker 3>one person that I was gonna fuck, because just because

0:42:04.960 --> 0:42:06.880
<v Speaker 3>I didn't have to give my energy, I didn't have

0:42:06.920 --> 0:42:08.440
<v Speaker 3>to fucking you didn't have to come over here and

0:42:08.560 --> 0:42:09.879
<v Speaker 3>have figure out how the fuck you're gonna get.

0:42:09.760 --> 0:42:13.120
<v Speaker 1>Out, Like well, and I'm realizing that in this conversation

0:42:13.239 --> 0:42:16.040
<v Speaker 1>that like, because I was introduced to masturbations so early,

0:42:16.120 --> 0:42:19.120
<v Speaker 1>or the feeling or this this sexual like the feeling

0:42:19.160 --> 0:42:22.919
<v Speaker 1>of even what that feels like with other people, I've

0:42:22.920 --> 0:42:27.600
<v Speaker 1>spent my entire life mimicking that behavior without questioning it.

0:42:27.680 --> 0:42:29.080
<v Speaker 2>And just like, man, I don't.

0:42:28.880 --> 0:42:31.040
<v Speaker 1>Really you know, And I think, wow, you know, we

0:42:31.120 --> 0:42:33.600
<v Speaker 1>do have to really as as adults a part of

0:42:33.640 --> 0:42:34.760
<v Speaker 1>like you know.

0:42:34.840 --> 0:42:36.920
<v Speaker 2>When you when we're.

0:42:36.280 --> 0:42:39.200
<v Speaker 1>Growing and examining ourselves and examining a childhood and examining

0:42:39.239 --> 0:42:41.160
<v Speaker 1>our trauma and how it comes out in our relationships

0:42:41.200 --> 0:42:43.760
<v Speaker 1>and our friendships and all these other things.

0:42:43.160 --> 0:42:44.239
<v Speaker 2>Like even shit like that.

0:42:44.320 --> 0:42:46.640
<v Speaker 1>It's just like you have to even examine that. Do

0:42:46.719 --> 0:42:49.920
<v Speaker 1>I have a healthy relationship with masturbation and with pleasure

0:42:50.120 --> 0:42:52.960
<v Speaker 1>and with myself and like, and that reflects a lot

0:42:53.000 --> 0:42:55.160
<v Speaker 1>and how we get in relationships with niggas we don't

0:42:55.160 --> 0:42:57.600
<v Speaker 1>need to get in relationships with because we confuse this

0:42:57.680 --> 0:43:02.640
<v Speaker 1>good feeling with a good relationship and it ain't right.

0:43:02.840 --> 0:43:06.800
<v Speaker 5>I feel what you're saying, Erica. On the after you masturbate,

0:43:06.880 --> 0:43:08.920
<v Speaker 5>you're like, Hm, I don't need to fuck you. Do

0:43:08.960 --> 0:43:12.080
<v Speaker 5>you know how much pussy men get because women are horny,

0:43:12.160 --> 0:43:15.640
<v Speaker 5>not because they actually earned it deserve it, or.

0:43:16.600 --> 0:43:20.560
<v Speaker 3>Between horny and wanting to fuck someone, like like, sometimes.

0:43:20.200 --> 0:43:22.320
<v Speaker 5>You want a person, sometimes you just want a person.

0:43:22.360 --> 0:43:25.040
<v Speaker 5>And honestly, I feel like women go back to people

0:43:25.040 --> 0:43:27.120
<v Speaker 5>that don't even give them orgasms, or go back to

0:43:27.160 --> 0:43:29.920
<v Speaker 5>people who just not even a good fuck in all actuality,

0:43:29.920 --> 0:43:31.080
<v Speaker 5>but in the moment.

0:43:30.880 --> 0:43:34.040
<v Speaker 2>Your day, all the time, constantly.

0:43:33.800 --> 0:43:34.640
<v Speaker 5>It's what you need.

0:43:34.680 --> 0:43:37.359
<v Speaker 10>But I took something from what Melis said, which is

0:43:37.640 --> 0:43:40.759
<v Speaker 10>she basically was talking about mutual masturbation, being able to

0:43:40.800 --> 0:43:42.680
<v Speaker 10>do it with the partner, and I feel like she's

0:43:42.680 --> 0:43:45.680
<v Speaker 10>going to have She's going to flourish in this class.

0:43:45.600 --> 0:43:52.640
<v Speaker 9>Because I'm so excited for my friends too, because she's

0:43:52.680 --> 0:43:55.520
<v Speaker 9>already mastered the part that peoplehood that have been married

0:43:55.520 --> 0:43:59.440
<v Speaker 9>for years cannot master, which is joining your masturbation.

0:44:00.800 --> 0:44:03.960
<v Speaker 5>With your partner. And I think that if we could

0:44:03.960 --> 0:44:08.360
<v Speaker 5>all be honest for a second of your relationship and say, hey, okay,

0:44:08.440 --> 0:44:13.560
<v Speaker 5>let's play this out. Say a lady, say you, Erica,

0:44:13.640 --> 0:44:15.799
<v Speaker 5>are talking to your man and you're like, hey, I

0:44:15.840 --> 0:44:17.840
<v Speaker 5>want to you making the moves for sex to happen.

0:44:18.800 --> 0:44:21.480
<v Speaker 5>If he could actually say to you, I'm not gonna

0:44:21.480 --> 0:44:24.000
<v Speaker 5>lie to you. You sexy as fuck. I would love to,

0:44:24.080 --> 0:44:26.719
<v Speaker 5>but I am not in the mood. But take off

0:44:26.760 --> 0:44:28.959
<v Speaker 5>your panties, take off your clothes. I'm about to still

0:44:29.000 --> 0:44:32.120
<v Speaker 5>pleasure you by masturbating on you instead of giving you

0:44:32.160 --> 0:44:34.600
<v Speaker 5>some basic dig I feel like the world would be

0:44:34.640 --> 0:44:36.520
<v Speaker 5>a better place. I feel like the world would be

0:44:36.560 --> 0:44:38.720
<v Speaker 5>a better place if we didn't do things we actually

0:44:38.760 --> 0:44:40.600
<v Speaker 5>didn't have the energy to do, so we could have

0:44:40.640 --> 0:44:43.320
<v Speaker 5>thorough sex every time. Stop acting like you have to

0:44:43.360 --> 0:44:46.280
<v Speaker 5>be able to do it all. Like there are toys

0:44:46.320 --> 0:44:48.239
<v Speaker 5>out there to help you when you don't feel like it,

0:44:48.280 --> 0:44:51.200
<v Speaker 5>when you are tired, when your body is aching because

0:44:51.239 --> 0:44:53.440
<v Speaker 5>you didn't turn thirty five, you know, she'd just be

0:44:53.440 --> 0:44:57.000
<v Speaker 5>popping up. Oh do we get? But whatever? It is like,

0:44:57.040 --> 0:44:59.800
<v Speaker 5>if we could use masturbation and use toys when we

0:45:00.120 --> 0:45:03.880
<v Speaker 5>fall a little short, I think relationships would be better. So, Mila,

0:45:04.000 --> 0:45:07.880
<v Speaker 5>already having a healthy relationship with mutual masturbation is gone.

0:45:08.040 --> 0:45:10.000
<v Speaker 5>You've already got the hard part out the way. People

0:45:10.000 --> 0:45:14.839
<v Speaker 5>that have been together for years cannot fathom laying down

0:45:14.920 --> 0:45:17.480
<v Speaker 5>and masturbating, even in front of someone. They feel like

0:45:17.480 --> 0:45:19.600
<v Speaker 5>they're in that chakuzie with five other people and it's

0:45:19.640 --> 0:45:21.680
<v Speaker 5>the person that they're with for the rest of their life.

0:45:25.040 --> 0:45:26.399
<v Speaker 2>So many people feel that way.

0:45:27.080 --> 0:45:28.799
<v Speaker 5>You know, here's one more you want to know. Another

0:45:28.800 --> 0:45:31.279
<v Speaker 5>reason they can't do it because they've been faking nuts

0:45:31.280 --> 0:45:33.399
<v Speaker 5>and as soon as they catch the nut, whoever they're

0:45:33.400 --> 0:45:34.359
<v Speaker 5>fucking is going to.

0:45:34.280 --> 0:45:41.440
<v Speaker 10>Know no like, oh that's deep, that's so deep.

0:45:41.719 --> 0:45:44.640
<v Speaker 5>Fuck, thanks for coming to my ted top.

0:45:44.719 --> 0:45:45.960
<v Speaker 7>Let's ride on.

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<v Speaker 5>But seriously, they don't want to masturbate in front of

0:45:51.239 --> 0:45:52.880
<v Speaker 5>somebody else because it's going to be very clear when

0:45:52.880 --> 0:45:55.440
<v Speaker 5>they see everything that your body lets go when you

0:45:55.480 --> 0:45:57.880
<v Speaker 5>do it by yourself, and then when they realize what

0:45:58.000 --> 0:46:01.840
<v Speaker 5>y'all have been doing together. And I feel like we

0:46:01.880 --> 0:46:03.600
<v Speaker 5>need to get to a point where in a relationship,

0:46:04.040 --> 0:46:06.440
<v Speaker 5>in whoever you're fucking, if you're giving somebody head or

0:46:06.440 --> 0:46:08.800
<v Speaker 5>you're having sex and sex and she doesn't come, it

0:46:08.840 --> 0:46:11.000
<v Speaker 5>should be natural reaction for you to pull a toy

0:46:11.080 --> 0:46:13.800
<v Speaker 5>out of the drawer or should already be sitting out

0:46:13.880 --> 0:46:16.160
<v Speaker 5>And so you've already warned, if you've already set the

0:46:16.160 --> 0:46:19.120
<v Speaker 5>mood for whatever can happen, can happen. So she feels

0:46:19.160 --> 0:46:21.600
<v Speaker 5>like her orgasm matters, You know damn well that you

0:46:21.640 --> 0:46:23.440
<v Speaker 5>didn't make her come, and you legit got up and

0:46:23.480 --> 0:46:27.400
<v Speaker 5>got her a rag for what since your ass back down.

0:46:28.200 --> 0:46:32.120
<v Speaker 7>You got the rap for yourself, becau, Yeah, because.

0:46:33.360 --> 0:46:36.200
<v Speaker 5>What do I need that for? Like, I just I

0:46:36.280 --> 0:46:38.200
<v Speaker 5>just really feel like we've gotten to a point where

0:46:38.200 --> 0:46:41.880
<v Speaker 5>everybody is embarrassed to pull out sex toys and like,

0:46:41.920 --> 0:46:45.040
<v Speaker 5>if you didn't make me, he who gives the nut

0:46:45.160 --> 0:46:46.960
<v Speaker 5>can claim the nuts. So if you gave me a

0:46:47.040 --> 0:46:49.680
<v Speaker 5>nut with a toy, it's your nut. You made me come,

0:46:50.440 --> 0:46:50.839
<v Speaker 5>you know what?

0:46:50.920 --> 0:46:53.560
<v Speaker 3>Though, I will say, thinking about like how people feel

0:46:53.560 --> 0:46:56.719
<v Speaker 3>ashamed about pulling out sex toys, like a lot of

0:46:56.719 --> 0:46:59.520
<v Speaker 3>that too, Like I feel for me because I am

0:46:59.560 --> 0:47:04.279
<v Speaker 3>a sex toy user and but really only solo. I've

0:47:04.280 --> 0:47:06.560
<v Speaker 3>done it with partners, but they've made me feel weird

0:47:06.560 --> 0:47:08.680
<v Speaker 3>about it because I think sex toys make men feel

0:47:08.680 --> 0:47:11.960
<v Speaker 3>inadequate or like feel like their dick isn't Yeah, their

0:47:12.000 --> 0:47:14.440
<v Speaker 3>dick isn't enough, their dick doesn't vibrate. It's not gonna

0:47:14.440 --> 0:47:18.000
<v Speaker 3>make you come that way, like, but it doesn't.

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<v Speaker 1>So I don't know everybody, that's one of the situations.

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<v Speaker 5>I feel like there are so many different ways for

0:47:25.920 --> 0:47:29.160
<v Speaker 5>women to come though, and because men can't it stops

0:47:29.160 --> 0:47:32.160
<v Speaker 5>our pleasure. Like women, you can have a clitical orgasm

0:47:32.200 --> 0:47:34.680
<v Speaker 5>and it can feel four different ways just from one

0:47:34.680 --> 0:47:38.920
<v Speaker 5>clitical orgasm. We can have nipple orgasms, anal orgasms, vaginal orgasms.

0:47:39.040 --> 0:47:43.719
<v Speaker 2>A vaginal orgasms are an orgasmic being. We are orgasmal.

0:47:44.400 --> 0:47:47.520
<v Speaker 5>I feel like men low key are insecure because they

0:47:47.520 --> 0:47:52.279
<v Speaker 5>feel like, Oh, I'll love you, okay, hi key, you

0:47:52.280 --> 0:47:54.000
<v Speaker 5>should be able to give me everything. You know, I

0:47:54.040 --> 0:47:55.640
<v Speaker 5>should be able to give you everything. But if you

0:47:55.680 --> 0:47:57.799
<v Speaker 5>really want to give me everything, it has to come

0:47:57.800 --> 0:48:00.719
<v Speaker 5>with just accepting the truth. It is not possible for

0:48:00.840 --> 0:48:05.080
<v Speaker 5>you to help. They don't. They don't even be DJing

0:48:05.120 --> 0:48:07.200
<v Speaker 5>to click correctly when they got their dick in. They

0:48:07.280 --> 0:48:10.359
<v Speaker 5>be all up there on your belly button like you

0:48:10.440 --> 0:48:12.839
<v Speaker 5>can do both all the time. You need to get

0:48:12.880 --> 0:48:16.000
<v Speaker 5>you a cute glass deal though, to fuck her with

0:48:16.040 --> 0:48:19.160
<v Speaker 5>while you eat her pussy, because you cannot give top

0:48:19.200 --> 0:48:21.520
<v Speaker 5>notch dick and top not top notch head at.

0:48:21.400 --> 0:48:21.799
<v Speaker 4>The same time.

0:48:21.840 --> 0:48:24.680
<v Speaker 5>Why you think women won't three someomes in their dreams

0:48:24.680 --> 0:48:26.680
<v Speaker 5>with two men because they really want to be pleasured

0:48:26.719 --> 0:48:32.040
<v Speaker 5>correctly in more than one way. A number of time

0:48:32.840 --> 0:48:34.879
<v Speaker 5>they don't want to give us that you don't want

0:48:34.920 --> 0:48:36.640
<v Speaker 5>to use no toys. You just want to give us

0:48:36.640 --> 0:48:41.360
<v Speaker 5>the same dick that you give us, intimidated by what

0:48:41.400 --> 0:48:44.359
<v Speaker 5>I'm able to do. So you know what. We know

0:48:44.440 --> 0:48:47.439
<v Speaker 5>this as women in our space, but it does matter

0:48:47.440 --> 0:48:49.680
<v Speaker 5>in making your partner feel good. I will say that

0:48:49.840 --> 0:48:52.040
<v Speaker 5>they reciprocate the energy you usually give.

0:48:52.360 --> 0:48:52.719
<v Speaker 4>How do you?

0:48:53.400 --> 0:48:54.719
<v Speaker 3>How do you? How do you can talk to your

0:48:54.719 --> 0:48:57.560
<v Speaker 3>partner about wanting to introduce toys into your sex life?

0:48:58.120 --> 0:49:02.120
<v Speaker 5>So I say just about sex period. If you're not

0:49:02.160 --> 0:49:04.040
<v Speaker 5>talking about sex at all, it's going to sound crazy

0:49:04.040 --> 0:49:07.919
<v Speaker 5>when you ask to basically say that you need.

0:49:11.920 --> 0:49:13.080
<v Speaker 2>Aout sex ever.

0:49:13.320 --> 0:49:14.839
<v Speaker 5>And the first thing you say is like, oh, can

0:49:14.840 --> 0:49:17.120
<v Speaker 5>we add this because I ain't never came. Like the

0:49:17.160 --> 0:49:19.120
<v Speaker 5>reason that people can't talk about sex is because they've

0:49:19.160 --> 0:49:20.880
<v Speaker 5>never been honest. So they really kind of have to

0:49:20.920 --> 0:49:23.000
<v Speaker 5>go back and fix a lot of shit they haven't

0:49:23.040 --> 0:49:23.799
<v Speaker 5>said or said.

0:49:24.120 --> 0:49:26.279
<v Speaker 1>It's not if you if you come to the gate

0:49:26.360 --> 0:49:30.160
<v Speaker 1>talking about sex, asking questions what's your fantasy where.

0:49:30.000 --> 0:49:31.960
<v Speaker 5>You like this is what I like that?

0:49:32.480 --> 0:49:35.080
<v Speaker 1>Those are things that will be fluid and nowncal relationship.

0:49:35.120 --> 0:49:37.960
<v Speaker 1>It is hard if you've gone and never discussed in depth,

0:49:38.320 --> 0:49:40.080
<v Speaker 1>you don't asking questions on a regular basis.

0:49:40.120 --> 0:49:42.719
<v Speaker 2>They're going to be definitely, but it's not too late.

0:49:42.880 --> 0:49:43.840
<v Speaker 2>You can still.

0:49:45.360 --> 0:49:47.080
<v Speaker 5>Say this. This is what you have to do, and

0:49:47.120 --> 0:49:48.640
<v Speaker 5>you have to say the thing that you think you're

0:49:48.640 --> 0:49:52.400
<v Speaker 5>not supposed to say. Right, So, in all honesty, how

0:49:52.400 --> 0:49:55.360
<v Speaker 5>do you feel that's what you need to say politely? Okay?

0:49:55.560 --> 0:49:59.040
<v Speaker 5>So in all honesty, most people are like, Hey, I

0:49:59.080 --> 0:50:00.880
<v Speaker 5>just want you to know I love you, and I

0:50:01.000 --> 0:50:03.280
<v Speaker 5>realize that maybe I have not put as much effort

0:50:03.320 --> 0:50:05.960
<v Speaker 5>into our sex life as I should have, and I

0:50:06.040 --> 0:50:09.600
<v Speaker 5>know that I need to do better. But I just

0:50:09.640 --> 0:50:12.360
<v Speaker 5>want to know. Would you be interested in, like learning

0:50:12.360 --> 0:50:15.640
<v Speaker 5>more about sex with me? Because I've started following this

0:50:15.680 --> 0:50:17.719
<v Speaker 5>page and I heard this and I didn't realize some

0:50:17.760 --> 0:50:20.520
<v Speaker 5>of these things were even possible. I really want to

0:50:20.640 --> 0:50:22.719
<v Speaker 5>try this, but I don't want you to judge me,

0:50:22.800 --> 0:50:24.480
<v Speaker 5>and I don't want you to think I'm not satisfied

0:50:24.480 --> 0:50:26.680
<v Speaker 5>with you. I just want to explore as much as

0:50:26.680 --> 0:50:29.440
<v Speaker 5>I can with you while I can or can we

0:50:29.480 --> 0:50:32.200
<v Speaker 5>do that? Like, are you open to that? Would you

0:50:32.239 --> 0:50:35.919
<v Speaker 5>watch this video with me? I really love the way

0:50:35.920 --> 0:50:38.480
<v Speaker 5>you give me Dick. I heard on this podcast that

0:50:38.600 --> 0:50:41.759
<v Speaker 5>actually if we add this while you're doing that that

0:50:42.160 --> 0:50:45.920
<v Speaker 5>it would probably even get even bigger. And I know

0:50:47.719 --> 0:50:50.080
<v Speaker 5>the fact that we get even and I just I

0:50:50.120 --> 0:50:53.279
<v Speaker 5>feel like, you know, like you got the sad shit.

0:50:53.880 --> 0:50:58.120
<v Speaker 3>You have to finess the ego while you know you

0:50:58.120 --> 0:51:00.880
<v Speaker 3>you though it's my I can say you're a finessina,

0:51:01.160 --> 0:51:01.760
<v Speaker 3>I can tell.

0:51:02.920 --> 0:51:10.000
<v Speaker 5>I can we cut that part out? Yeah?

0:51:10.040 --> 0:51:10.560
<v Speaker 2>I was like.

0:51:12.000 --> 0:51:18.600
<v Speaker 3>Here, I was like, huh, yeah, yeah, whatever you want.

0:51:19.680 --> 0:51:22.080
<v Speaker 2>Watched them the links, let's talk to it together.

0:51:22.480 --> 0:51:28.040
<v Speaker 5>Let I was like, I was like.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, But as I'm listening to I'm thinking of all

0:51:31.160 --> 0:51:32.560
<v Speaker 3>the people that don't have this finesse.

0:51:32.600 --> 0:51:32.880
<v Speaker 2>I'm like.

0:51:34.360 --> 0:51:36.480
<v Speaker 3>To write, we need to write it down and rehearse

0:51:36.520 --> 0:51:38.359
<v Speaker 3>in the mirror, rewind.

0:51:38.520 --> 0:51:41.960
<v Speaker 5>But it's not coming from an honest place. You have

0:51:42.040 --> 0:51:43.399
<v Speaker 5>to be honest with yourself.

0:51:43.120 --> 0:51:47.239
<v Speaker 2>First, and you absolutely that's me. Huh.

0:51:47.280 --> 0:51:49.239
<v Speaker 5>Everybody wants to know. How do you tell somebody that

0:51:49.280 --> 0:51:52.400
<v Speaker 5>you've actually never come like or that you've been faking it?

0:51:53.040 --> 0:51:55.319
<v Speaker 5>You have to be honest. Yet again, I didn't lie

0:51:55.480 --> 0:51:57.359
<v Speaker 5>with anything I said. I didn't lie, but I also

0:51:57.400 --> 0:51:59.520
<v Speaker 5>did not hope the bear.

0:52:00.400 --> 0:52:04.000
<v Speaker 3>The honesty also comes with I think admitting to yourself

0:52:04.080 --> 0:52:06.799
<v Speaker 3>that like it's not you, because I think as women too,

0:52:06.840 --> 0:52:09.759
<v Speaker 3>we will convince ourselves that, like he maybe maybe it's

0:52:09.800 --> 0:52:13.000
<v Speaker 3>just I'm tripping, like maybe it's like you know, you

0:52:13.040 --> 0:52:15.320
<v Speaker 3>start thinking like maybe my pussy's broken.

0:52:15.480 --> 0:52:17.600
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, maybe my pussy's.

0:52:17.200 --> 0:52:20.000
<v Speaker 3>Broken, and you have to come to the place where

0:52:20.000 --> 0:52:21.400
<v Speaker 3>you're like, Nope, she's not broken.

0:52:21.480 --> 0:52:25.440
<v Speaker 2>Niggad, we're just not communicating our day, can put it?

0:52:27.360 --> 0:52:29.359
<v Speaker 5>I feel like we don't read the instructions on this

0:52:29.400 --> 0:52:32.240
<v Speaker 5>pussy because guess what, there are no instructions anywhere. Nobody

0:52:32.320 --> 0:52:34.799
<v Speaker 5>has given us pussy instructions. They just teach you how

0:52:34.800 --> 0:52:36.640
<v Speaker 5>to not get an STD and not to get pregnant

0:52:37.080 --> 0:52:42.720
<v Speaker 5>and complex pussies and ask for grand kids. That's all people,

0:52:42.760 --> 0:52:46.680
<v Speaker 5>do you know what? Right? That's there are no instructions,

0:52:46.680 --> 0:52:49.480
<v Speaker 5>So guess what. Some of it is our fault. The

0:52:49.600 --> 0:52:51.680
<v Speaker 5>fault is that we don't know how to work our pussy.

0:52:51.800 --> 0:52:55.120
<v Speaker 5>Is that your fault? No, yes, the fault is that

0:52:55.160 --> 0:52:56.759
<v Speaker 5>you don't know how to work your pussy, But that.

0:52:56.840 --> 0:52:58.560
<v Speaker 2>Alone not your fault.

0:52:58.719 --> 0:53:01.800
<v Speaker 5>Right right now that you've heard this, I am charging

0:53:01.880 --> 0:53:06.520
<v Speaker 5>up everybody to say, you know what, do I really know? Like, Okay,

0:53:06.840 --> 0:53:09.040
<v Speaker 5>y'all ever had sex and then you think about like

0:53:09.120 --> 0:53:11.480
<v Speaker 5>loving basketball, or think about them sex scenes you want

0:53:11.520 --> 0:53:13.840
<v Speaker 5>suppost be watching and like, is this the type of

0:53:13.880 --> 0:53:15.279
<v Speaker 5>sex they was having? Because I don't think.

0:53:16.920 --> 0:53:19.279
<v Speaker 3>I don't think I've had that sex, though I've had

0:53:19.280 --> 0:53:21.280
<v Speaker 3>some loving basketball ass sex for sure.

0:53:22.360 --> 0:53:23.239
<v Speaker 5>Different, Yeah, I do.

0:53:23.440 --> 0:53:23.720
<v Speaker 2>Different.

0:53:24.040 --> 0:53:25.879
<v Speaker 5>It takes for you to get that, to even realize, oh,

0:53:25.880 --> 0:53:28.280
<v Speaker 5>I haven't had it. And if you if some women

0:53:28.400 --> 0:53:30.759
<v Speaker 5>have only been with people that were not satisfying and

0:53:30.800 --> 0:53:33.840
<v Speaker 5>they don't know that this isn't it? How could you

0:53:34.000 --> 0:53:37.840
<v Speaker 5>even know that anything else exists if you've never experienced it. So,

0:53:38.000 --> 0:53:41.319
<v Speaker 5>whoever is listening today, let's give a handclap for good

0:53:41.360 --> 0:53:46.759
<v Speaker 5>mom's bad choices because you're giving they're giving you something

0:53:46.800 --> 0:53:48.759
<v Speaker 5>right now, they're showing you the life. Do not be

0:53:48.800 --> 0:53:50.960
<v Speaker 5>one of those people that are like, I don't need that,

0:53:51.000 --> 0:53:53.760
<v Speaker 5>I don't need this, Okay, that's why I'm bibity boppity

0:53:53.800 --> 0:53:59.440
<v Speaker 5>hopping around, happiest shit. This is why. This is why you're.

0:54:01.640 --> 0:54:03.600
<v Speaker 7>This is why you're upset.

0:54:03.680 --> 0:54:05.920
<v Speaker 5>This is what and I know everybody like says that

0:54:06.000 --> 0:54:08.040
<v Speaker 5>relationships lives longer with better sex, And this is this.

0:54:08.160 --> 0:54:10.040
<v Speaker 5>I promise you, if you can be honest about sex,

0:54:10.520 --> 0:54:13.759
<v Speaker 5>every other conversation will get better. I'm not saying that

0:54:13.800 --> 0:54:15.759
<v Speaker 5>you can have good sex in a bad relationship. I'm

0:54:15.800 --> 0:54:16.839
<v Speaker 5>not telling you to do.

0:54:16.800 --> 0:54:19.399
<v Speaker 1>That, but it runs out the good sex. You can

0:54:19.480 --> 0:54:21.919
<v Speaker 1>have great sex in a trailb of relationship. But guess

0:54:21.920 --> 0:54:24.520
<v Speaker 1>what will happen, Honey, That sex won't even feel good

0:54:24.560 --> 0:54:27.640
<v Speaker 1>because the misery overcomes the pleasure. Every time I have

0:54:27.760 --> 0:54:29.880
<v Speaker 1>been there, I have sat there, and I have like, fuck,

0:54:30.280 --> 0:54:33.840
<v Speaker 1>this is not even good anymore. Your body will stop responding,

0:54:34.560 --> 0:54:36.400
<v Speaker 1>and every time, every.

0:54:36.160 --> 0:54:38.279
<v Speaker 5>Time, it will stop. But I will say this, the

0:54:38.320 --> 0:54:41.880
<v Speaker 5>more that you can talk about sexuality, everything else doesn't

0:54:41.880 --> 0:54:44.239
<v Speaker 5>seem as bad because I promise you talking about sex

0:54:44.239 --> 0:54:45.920
<v Speaker 5>and the taboo this world has put on it to

0:54:45.960 --> 0:54:48.520
<v Speaker 5>make us feel nasty. Nothing else in the world is

0:54:48.560 --> 0:54:51.040
<v Speaker 5>like that. If you want to learn how to you know,

0:54:51.200 --> 0:54:53.600
<v Speaker 5>pay taxes, if you want to learn how to I

0:54:53.600 --> 0:54:56.000
<v Speaker 5>don't start a business. All of that is hard, But

0:54:56.040 --> 0:54:58.640
<v Speaker 5>guess what you could talk about it Anywhere? Where are

0:54:58.680 --> 0:55:00.360
<v Speaker 5>you gonna talk about sex where it's not gonna be

0:55:00.400 --> 0:55:04.880
<v Speaker 5>misconstrued as you nasty or you married? You shouldn't be

0:55:04.960 --> 0:55:08.160
<v Speaker 5>doing it. Hell, we watch what happened when WAP came out.

0:55:08.440 --> 0:55:10.440
<v Speaker 5>Everybody was talking bad about them, and I'm like, shit,

0:55:10.520 --> 0:55:12.279
<v Speaker 5>I got a nasty side too, like.

0:55:12.520 --> 0:55:14.520
<v Speaker 2>And everybody likes it. All the niggas like it until

0:55:14.520 --> 0:55:14.960
<v Speaker 2>you talk.

0:55:14.840 --> 0:55:16.800
<v Speaker 1>About it, and then all of a sudden you're unworthy.

0:55:17.080 --> 0:55:20.440
<v Speaker 1>You have to advocate for your pleasure. You have to

0:55:20.480 --> 0:55:22.719
<v Speaker 1>advocate for your pleasure and for your fucking self. And

0:55:22.760 --> 0:55:24.879
<v Speaker 1>the only way you could do that is by being

0:55:25.040 --> 0:55:26.320
<v Speaker 1>super completely honest.

0:55:26.480 --> 0:55:27.919
<v Speaker 2>And you know what I've learned, because I'm a whole

0:55:27.920 --> 0:55:28.480
<v Speaker 2>lot of women.

0:55:28.960 --> 0:55:30.799
<v Speaker 1>If they can't handle it, you ain't for me.

0:55:31.080 --> 0:55:33.400
<v Speaker 2>It's fine, You're just not my nigga.

0:55:33.960 --> 0:55:35.279
<v Speaker 5>If this is true, like I can't.

0:55:35.320 --> 0:55:37.840
<v Speaker 1>I've had friends tell me, relaxed, don't be so honest,

0:55:37.840 --> 0:55:40.960
<v Speaker 1>so early, calm down. Why so in three months they

0:55:41.040 --> 0:55:42.680
<v Speaker 1>be like, this is crazy.

0:55:43.480 --> 0:55:45.880
<v Speaker 5>If it's the truth, it's not going anywhere. You know

0:55:45.960 --> 0:55:47.520
<v Speaker 5>what I'm saying, Like, if it's the truth, why not

0:55:47.600 --> 0:55:50.960
<v Speaker 5>get it out the way now? And then also, the

0:55:51.040 --> 0:55:53.319
<v Speaker 5>fact is a lot of people that are intimidated by

0:55:53.440 --> 0:55:56.040
<v Speaker 5>nasty ass women are the men that can't get you.

0:55:56.120 --> 0:55:58.080
<v Speaker 5>So now you're nasty because when you was, when you

0:55:58.160 --> 0:56:00.560
<v Speaker 5>was in my DM asking for it, it was nasty.

0:56:00.719 --> 0:56:03.200
<v Speaker 5>When I said no, then I was a nasty bitch.

0:56:03.320 --> 0:56:05.080
<v Speaker 5>You know what, I take my nasty bitch ass on

0:56:05.120 --> 0:56:09.640
<v Speaker 5>over there and suck somebody else did good bye? Like, look,

0:56:09.680 --> 0:56:11.560
<v Speaker 5>I give myself more nuts you will ever be able

0:56:11.600 --> 0:56:13.120
<v Speaker 5>to give me. So you can't talk to me like that,

0:56:13.320 --> 0:56:15.759
<v Speaker 5>Like you can't. You can't even talk to me if

0:56:15.800 --> 0:56:18.520
<v Speaker 5>you ain't made me come. You fucked did you? It

0:56:18.520 --> 0:56:19.880
<v Speaker 5>don't count If I didn't come.

0:56:20.680 --> 0:56:21.520
<v Speaker 7>I fucked you.

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<v Speaker 2>I fucked you, so you believe that doesn't count if

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<v Speaker 2>you didn't.

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<v Speaker 5>Come, absolutely, I'm like, I don't fight. How many for

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<v Speaker 5>I haven't even counted. But I will say this though,

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<v Speaker 5>when having sex, I can always catch my net.

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<v Speaker 7>But but I'm very.

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<v Speaker 5>Clear who gave me the nut? It was me because

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<v Speaker 5>I knew what to.

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<v Speaker 2>Do, But because you knew that this wasn't gonna work,

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<v Speaker 2>it wasn't gonna happen.

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<v Speaker 3>I think that's where I've gotten it fucked up, is

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<v Speaker 3>that I sometimes I don't I'm not clear, and that'll

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<v Speaker 3>make me stay around for longer because I'm like, no.

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<v Speaker 2>Like he made me come, right, like eventually it was

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<v Speaker 2>eventually it was him?

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<v Speaker 5>Right asked, how do you know if you never had

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<v Speaker 5>an orgasm? If you had to ask you've never had one,

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<v Speaker 5>and if I said, have you ever shipped yourself? You

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<v Speaker 5>would know the answer.

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<v Speaker 7>No, you just you know that's.

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<v Speaker 3>How okay, Oh my gosh, okay, well we have some

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<v Speaker 3>we have some people that wrote in and had some

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<v Speaker 3>questions for you, So all right.

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<v Speaker 2>That someone wants to know if you have any dick

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<v Speaker 2>sucking tricks.

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, I do.

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<v Speaker 2>My bag of tricks and pull them out. In fact,

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<v Speaker 2>I do so.

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<v Speaker 5>I teach a class called dick writing one on one

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<v Speaker 5>and one of the main questions I always get her

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<v Speaker 5>what are your dick writings or what are your dick

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<v Speaker 5>sucking tips? And I just want to clarify this. It's

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<v Speaker 5>gonna make me sound like a bitch, but I'm okay

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<v Speaker 5>with that. I've already accepted it. I teach a one

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<v Speaker 5>hour class on the topic because that's how long I need.

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<v Speaker 5>If I gave you some tips, you would be sucking

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<v Speaker 5>dick the same way you're doing now. It's half ass

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<v Speaker 5>or piss poor. Need to take the entire class because

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<v Speaker 5>I'm going to go so in depth about why what

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<v Speaker 5>feels good, so that way you can always adjust depending

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<v Speaker 5>on whatever type of dick you're sucking, whether it's curved

0:58:34.480 --> 0:58:37.720
<v Speaker 5>or straight or short or long or whatever. If I

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<v Speaker 5>don't teach you about why what feels good, you will

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<v Speaker 5>only know how to suck one dick. And that's the

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<v Speaker 5>deal though, that I keep you in class.

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<v Speaker 7>And that's not thorough that's though.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm a thorough ass bitch, and I will never try

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<v Speaker 5>to put one hour of content into a five minute class.

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<v Speaker 5>And I'm not going to do it. So I have

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<v Speaker 5>a question.

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<v Speaker 2>About dick sucking.

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<v Speaker 3>It's not a test, but I'm just curious now that

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<v Speaker 3>because I'm thinking about thoroughness.

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<v Speaker 2>So is licking ass a part of the dick second

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<v Speaker 2>class or is that not? Is that or is this

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<v Speaker 2>specific to the dick, like only dick second.

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<v Speaker 5>You need to dig seting. But I leave ass as

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<v Speaker 5>an option. I let them know, Hey, if you foxed

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<v Speaker 5>with it. Yeah, so I don't put an ass eating

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<v Speaker 5>class on my Patreon, Like that was a fifteen minute class.

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<v Speaker 7>You know what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, that's that's a short class.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't mind.

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<v Speaker 7>I can hear that.

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<v Speaker 5>That's short. I can get it.

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<v Speaker 2>Drop the patreon.

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<v Speaker 5>What the fuck is it? Oh, it's sexual essential. My

0:59:41.200 --> 0:59:43.040
<v Speaker 5>patreon has all kind of shit on there, but it's

0:59:43.040 --> 0:59:44.680
<v Speaker 5>on my Instagram page sexual.

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<v Speaker 2>So we'll tag your Patreon in our details of this episode. People.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, yeah, Instagram, it's in the link in the bio.

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<v Speaker 5>All that stuff is there. But because I know how

0:59:54.280 --> 0:59:57.440
<v Speaker 5>much kickback I get about it, I discuss it. But

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<v Speaker 5>what I actually do in the class is teach you

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<v Speaker 5>how to pleasure the area if you're not okay with

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<v Speaker 5>eating ass, which I found is more popular because it's

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<v Speaker 5>more people that I've met that are not.

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<v Speaker 7>Willing to go down that carry ass road.

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<v Speaker 5>So I'm like, okay, let me still give them this. Wow.

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<v Speaker 5>So I actually do teach you how pleasure the prostate

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<v Speaker 5>without actually having to put your tongue in this man's.

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<v Speaker 3>Man boy, we need to have you on our after

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<v Speaker 3>dark on Patreon. On Patreon Close Friend, we have a

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<v Speaker 3>segment on Patreon called Close Friends after Dark where we

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<v Speaker 3>have you know, our we have our very interesting introspective

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<v Speaker 3>freaky guest song.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh we should throat on there.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm down.

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<v Speaker 5>I would teach you. Oh that sounds fun? All right?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, look after that, I'm just.

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<v Speaker 5>Like, yo, y'all gotta come to the classic. I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 5>teach you why you should be doing what I'm teaching.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm not just gonna tell you to do it.

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<v Speaker 3>I want to right right, you know, I'm excited. No,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm excited for your class on the fourth. Okay, we

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<v Speaker 3>have this question, which I think actually is a really

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<v Speaker 3>good question because I was this is something we were

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<v Speaker 3>talking about before we started recording, and I have.

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<v Speaker 2>I is she okay, she's still here, I'm here. Oh

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<v Speaker 2>her video went out? Your video went out?

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<v Speaker 5>Oh?

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<v Speaker 7>Oh, okay?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, how do you know or is it possible? How

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<v Speaker 3>do you know or is it possible to be overstimulated

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<v Speaker 3>from masturbation?

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, So a toy will not desensitize you. I think

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<v Speaker 5>that's the word that has been thrown around right, like, well,

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<v Speaker 5>masturbating will masturbating with the toy desensitize you. It will

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<v Speaker 5>not be sensitizing. But you can develop a preference. Okay.

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<v Speaker 5>You ever seen a kid like when you give them everything,

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<v Speaker 5>like all types of foods. Originally they're fine with it,

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<v Speaker 5>but if you start only giving them one thing, that's

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<v Speaker 5>all they're gonna want. So, you know how we were

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<v Speaker 5>talking about, when you learn how to make yourself come,

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<v Speaker 5>you just want to come in that way and that

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<v Speaker 5>way only, and so mentally, that's where your mind is

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<v Speaker 5>going to go. So was your pussy de sensitized. No,

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<v Speaker 5>but you are developing a preference mentally on how you want,

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<v Speaker 5>you know, on what you want your sexuality to be like.

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<v Speaker 5>So if you use a toy that is jackhammer strong,

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<v Speaker 5>you can't go up from there. And so this is

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<v Speaker 5>about learning how to properly masturbate. I'm not even telling

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<v Speaker 5>you can't use your jackhammer deal though, I'm not telling

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<v Speaker 5>you that. I'm just thinking God, but I'm gonna say God,

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<v Speaker 5>I'm gonna teach you how to do other things you

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<v Speaker 5>cannot start Okay, Do I drink wine? Yeah, you don't

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<v Speaker 5>start off with an eighty bottle of wine if you've

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<v Speaker 5>never had wine before. You start with a twenty thirty

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<v Speaker 5>dollars So you can appreciate the eighty dollars, right, And

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<v Speaker 5>you have to know how to pair things up. If

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<v Speaker 5>it's gonna be you and someone else that night, why

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<v Speaker 5>would you use a toy that absolutely can nowhere near

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<v Speaker 5>do anything that he can do. That's just not good matchup.

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<v Speaker 5>If I have eighty dollars wine, I don't want grilled

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<v Speaker 5>cheese tonight, Well sometimes I might, So that's not a

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<v Speaker 5>good check. But you get what I'm saying. I don't

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<v Speaker 5>want McDonald's with my eighty dollars one. It doesn't match.

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<v Speaker 5>If it's a Chick fil a night, Let it be

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<v Speaker 5>a Chick fil a night. But if we talking about

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<v Speaker 5>steak and aud you cannot mix and match. So you

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<v Speaker 5>need to pair your toys up properly so that way

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<v Speaker 5>you get the reaction that you want. If you don't

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<v Speaker 5>pair them up properly, your body is going to want

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<v Speaker 5>something specific. It's not desensitized. You just don't want to

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<v Speaker 5>overstimulate it one time and then try to go backwards.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, I guess, I know, I don't know. I

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<v Speaker 3>do use pretty strong toys. I'm like, I'm the jackhammer girl.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm gonna teach you how to have such a strong

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<v Speaker 5>neut Oh, I'm going to work wonders.

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<v Speaker 3>So maybe I need to go I need to scale back.

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<v Speaker 3>I need to go back to level one, because I'd

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<v Speaker 3>be just going straight to level time. Be like, let's

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<v Speaker 3>just get, let's just go, let's just get. We don't

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<v Speaker 3>want to just get it over with no, no, no,

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<v Speaker 3>no reason, no, no, I don't I don't master I

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<v Speaker 3>trust it does take.

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<v Speaker 2>I do take my time, but like it's a teasing thing.

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<v Speaker 3>It's like, Okay, maybe I don't go straight to ten,

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<v Speaker 3>but get there quickly, don't.

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<v Speaker 7>I can't. I'm definitely shit.

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<v Speaker 4>I came.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm gonna show I'm gonna show you how to do

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<v Speaker 5>that in the class. But one thing that everybody can

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<v Speaker 5>do before that is take a pussy pause, give your

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<v Speaker 5>pussy a second to breathe. If you feel like you've

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<v Speaker 5>been using toys that are just hella hella strong, how

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<v Speaker 5>do you know it's hell hella strong If your booty

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<v Speaker 5>cheeks still vibraating when you turned it off, it was strong,

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<v Speaker 5>the vibrations still go.

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<v Speaker 3>Still feel My only concern is that I feel like

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<v Speaker 3>I was able to reach like coming and squirting with

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<v Speaker 3>my fingers before and now I can't. And that's where

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<v Speaker 3>my concern comes from. Like with using toys, is that,

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<v Speaker 3>like I recently tried, I didn't have it. I was

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<v Speaker 3>I was traveling, I didn't have a toy, I didn't

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<v Speaker 3>have ship, but I wanted to I wanted to come

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<v Speaker 3>and so I didn't have my toys. So I was

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<v Speaker 3>using my hands and I was like, this is not

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<v Speaker 3>the fucking same.

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<v Speaker 2>How the fuck? What the fuck?

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<v Speaker 3>I need a dick or I need the And then

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<v Speaker 3>I was like, oh no, we got to go back

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<v Speaker 3>to basics, baby, we gotta go back face.

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<v Speaker 5>By washing dishes by hand and using a dishwasher, both

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<v Speaker 5>will get it done. But it depends on how much

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<v Speaker 5>time you have in patience, because.

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<v Speaker 2>I wasn't being patient, I wasn't being paid.

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<v Speaker 5>And it's scary. Honestly, our sexuality and us catching an

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<v Speaker 5>orgasm is so scarce and rare in this world. After

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<v Speaker 5>you figure out how to do it, you are so scared,

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<v Speaker 5>and you treat it so gentle because you're like, yo,

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<v Speaker 5>I know that orgasms are hard to come by. Most

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<v Speaker 5>women don't get it. I need to make sure I

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<v Speaker 5>can always do this right. But it's just anxiety because

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<v Speaker 5>we have not learned how to properly always make the

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<v Speaker 5>pussy come. After you know about your pussy and what

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<v Speaker 5>to do with it and all that stuff, you won't

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<v Speaker 5>be as nervous because if you know you have five minutes,

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<v Speaker 5>you'll know, okay, I need to use my toy because.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't have time.

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<v Speaker 5>Versus, if you have five minutes and you try to

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<v Speaker 5>use your fingers, you're going to be in your head

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<v Speaker 5>the whole time because that it just may not have

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<v Speaker 5>been enough time. We are not like you have to

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<v Speaker 5>know when to do what, how to mix it together.

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<v Speaker 5>But honestly, we have a lot of trauma around orgasms

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<v Speaker 5>as women because we've never been able to have them,

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<v Speaker 5>or it's always been our fault. Oh that worked on

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<v Speaker 5>everybody else, I don't know what's wrong with you, Or

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<v Speaker 5>we had so many failed attempts by ourselves trying to

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<v Speaker 5>make ourselves come that anytime it doesn't go the way

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<v Speaker 5>we are used to it come it happening, we get scared.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, think about it. Most people masturbate the exact

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<v Speaker 5>same way all the time. They lay on their back,

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<v Speaker 5>starfishing it, put their hand down the exact same way

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<v Speaker 5>every time, every single time. Why because we are scared

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<v Speaker 5>that if we do something different, what if we don't

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<v Speaker 5>catch our nut? And frustrated we don't have.

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<v Speaker 7>Living fear of the nut the nut, fear.

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<v Speaker 2>Of the nut. Oh man, that's the episode tittle of

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<v Speaker 2>the nut.

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<v Speaker 3>May write that jown that down, here's the nut.

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<v Speaker 5>You have a question in the chat oh it do.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh oh?

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<v Speaker 3>Are certain decks more compatible to certainaginas.

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<v Speaker 5>I think that dicks that can take criticism.

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<v Speaker 2>Our most compatible man. Absolutely.

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<v Speaker 3>You know it's true because I've had sex with all

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<v Speaker 3>different size dicks, and you could have told me that

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<v Speaker 3>was the best sex of my life then like he was.

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<v Speaker 3>It wasn't that big, it was, but he it was

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<v Speaker 3>he was to do with it. Then I have another

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<v Speaker 3>man who has a curved penis, and that's that that

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<v Speaker 3>hits me in a way that I'm like, damn, like

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<v Speaker 3>you can't, like, I don't know how you you can't.

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<v Speaker 2>You can't my lip over here you said curved, salivating.

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<v Speaker 3>And then I've had sex with, you know, a guy

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<v Speaker 3>who doesn't have that, and I've had the most incredible

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<v Speaker 3>sex of you know.

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<v Speaker 2>So it's just I don't know. I think compatibility is

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<v Speaker 2>it comes with factors.

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<v Speaker 5>It definitely has factors. I also feel like people are

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<v Speaker 5>always wondering how to make a dick work, and I

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<v Speaker 5>will say, never push your body because some people can

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<v Speaker 5>take the biggest dick in the world and it could

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<v Speaker 5>be enjoyable and somebody else would be like, it really hurts,

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<v Speaker 5>and they're trying to figure out how do I make

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<v Speaker 5>it more comfortable. You can always gauge yourself, you know,

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<v Speaker 5>just like your ear rings, like gauged, you know your

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<v Speaker 5>whole and start and work up. But if it is uncomfortable,

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<v Speaker 5>there are no magic pills for something that doesn't work

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<v Speaker 5>for you, right right, You know that part. So that's

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<v Speaker 5>the other side to the compatibility part. If it doesn't work,

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<v Speaker 5>it doesn't work.

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<v Speaker 2>Right.

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<v Speaker 5>But Dick said, take credits.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I learned so much, so much, I can't wait

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<v Speaker 1>for the fourth I'm like, Mark.

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<v Speaker 5>Make sure that you guys remember to log in and

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<v Speaker 5>make sure y'all don't have nothing scheduled that night, because.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh no, we know the baby. Get your babysitters for sure,

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<v Speaker 2>because I'm getting this done. Get the babysitters.

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<v Speaker 3>And then when you log off, go practice, Okay, to

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<v Speaker 3>break out, room to break out, to take the class. Here,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm gonna be in my bedroom. She'll be in the

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<v Speaker 3>living room.

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<v Speaker 2>We'll be like, be right back, okay, Well be back

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<v Speaker 2>in twenty five minutes.

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<v Speaker 5>I feel like riding class, I'm gonna wears out. I'm like,

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<v Speaker 5>we're on different sides of the country, but I could

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<v Speaker 5>still put in work anywhere where I am.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh you know what, because I do get tired on

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<v Speaker 1>top sometimes I'm like, I do have a couple of

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<v Speaker 1>my tricks, you know, you know one foot.

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<v Speaker 2>You know what in my last relationship.

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<v Speaker 3>In my last relationship, I did so much top that

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<v Speaker 3>I'm like, more than ever I've ever done. And like

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<v Speaker 3>I think it really matters who it's with because it

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<v Speaker 3>was like I could go forever.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know why I'm tired.

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<v Speaker 3>I just figured out different positions that where I could

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<v Speaker 3>rest but still be on. We're like, yeah, my legs

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<v Speaker 3>were relaxed and I could still ride, and like I

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<v Speaker 3>were so bad.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, if you can be comfortable, you can do it

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<v Speaker 5>all day.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, your head and lean forward, the sitting up, even

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<v Speaker 3>like laying across the body and just like just doing

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<v Speaker 3>a little science and just literally you're laying there.

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<v Speaker 2>Leg I get such a position one on one I

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<v Speaker 2>need to bring up. I'm gonna show with.

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<v Speaker 1>All my my, my my, you're on top of sting

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<v Speaker 1>positions on topic. Paton, you need to join asap because

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<v Speaker 1>we're doing a sex position series called rest writing.

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<v Speaker 2>Eric will show you how to ride.

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<v Speaker 3>It'll be I'll you know, you know what Samaya can

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<v Speaker 3>do her class. Actually we need to team up. Okay,

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<v Speaker 3>we're gonna do a workshop, somaya, I'm gonna we're gonna

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<v Speaker 3>do sex position.

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<v Speaker 2>Dick writing. I'm gonna do rest writing.

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<v Speaker 5>To finis, to really finis. So I think I need something.

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<v Speaker 5>I think that you guys should do a sex positions

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<v Speaker 5>Patreon and use you guys like get an open space,

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<v Speaker 5>pulling camera back and show.

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<v Speaker 2>That's what we do. That's what we do, sex position.

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<v Speaker 2>We have a segment called sex Positions.

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<v Speaker 3>One on one re enact sex positions. And actually Orlando

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<v Speaker 3>was one of was our first threesome.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, here's our first third person in our sex position segment.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm sorry, okay, threesome is Yeah, was fucking fucking was

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<v Speaker 5>it good?

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<v Speaker 2>No?

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<v Speaker 1>No, no, we're fully so, we're fully closed.

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<v Speaker 2>It's instructional. It's literally to teach people how to do

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<v Speaker 2>the position. One time we were launder, right.

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<v Speaker 7>We didn't bring that back.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, we probably need to get sexier. We usually this

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<v Speaker 2>were a regular sweat. We're gonna try harder.

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<v Speaker 5>Just kind of made my nipples hard. That's nice.

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<v Speaker 2>We'll send you a little link. We'll send you a

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<v Speaker 2>little link. We'll show you the threesomes.

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<v Speaker 5>Orlando's I'm in Orlando's close friends and I was like, yes,

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<v Speaker 5>yes my reactions. I was like, but oh.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah it was I'm telling you guys friends.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, if that was his close friends, I was like, yo,

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<v Speaker 5>I wish I saw the other side of this.

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<v Speaker 3>You guys, If you guys haven't joined our close friends,

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<v Speaker 3>you got to join our what is it?

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<v Speaker 9>Our?

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<v Speaker 4>What's that?

1:11:54.120 --> 1:11:56.639
<v Speaker 3>The five dollars tier, our five dollars year on Patreon

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<v Speaker 3>gets you access to our close friends.

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<v Speaker 2>And you will have to be disappointed. I'm really I

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<v Speaker 2>don't y'all have joined. Y'all who have not joined Patreon

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<v Speaker 2>are sleeping. Yeah, we don't do a lot of shit.

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<v Speaker 1>We're over they're pranking, We're doing our close friends. There's

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<v Speaker 1>lots of it's like everything but nudity.

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<v Speaker 2>It's like, I don't know how we milk it so hard.

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<v Speaker 2>It was just like there might have been nude.

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<v Speaker 1>To be honestly, it was just every like so much.

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<v Speaker 5>So people are not even getting the same content they

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<v Speaker 5>were getting from creators because Instagram is like this.

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<v Speaker 3>And especially now, I'm so off fucking Instagram. I'm so

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<v Speaker 3>off of fucking Instagram.

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<v Speaker 5>Look, I'm telling you.

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<v Speaker 3>Right now, mark my words, people, listeners, listen up. One

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<v Speaker 3>day when I can get off Instagram. I'm getting the

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<v Speaker 3>funk off and you're gonna have to pay for all

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<v Speaker 3>the content because I'm done trying to censor myself. Instagram

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<v Speaker 3>wants to censor all my ship and I'm an uncensored

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<v Speaker 3>ass bitch and I can't.

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<v Speaker 2>I can't live my life like that. We needed were

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<v Speaker 2>their only fans. What the fuck?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, Patreon is basically our only fans.

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<v Speaker 5>I feel I love only fans, But I feel like

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<v Speaker 5>because I know I'm not gonna pop no pussy unclothed,

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<v Speaker 5>I don't really want to get if I can only fans,

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<v Speaker 5>I'm showing pussy. I just know that it's gonna be

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<v Speaker 5>pussy power. But until until I'm able to do that,

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<v Speaker 5>I feel like I could just do like you said,

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<v Speaker 5>do everything except for that.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, how about this, we have the best thing, the

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<v Speaker 3>next best thing. Well, I think this is the perfect

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<v Speaker 3>way to get into a little segment on our show

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<v Speaker 3>that we call horries.

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<v Speaker 4>Who Stories.

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<v Speaker 2>By the way, that was our moanings. We recorded that personally.

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<v Speaker 2>We probably need to read it. We probably need to

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<v Speaker 2>do a crisper version of it. Little ghettos.

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<v Speaker 5>Need to listen to them to test, you know, to

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<v Speaker 5>make sure they're you know, giving the people what they want.

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<v Speaker 5>You got to have my numbers, so they do it.

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<v Speaker 8>Now.

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<v Speaker 5>I like to say, I love my job.

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<v Speaker 2>You're so dramatic.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay. So I was told about horis. Can I can

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<v Speaker 5>I share two?

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<v Speaker 8>Yes?

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<v Speaker 2>For sure, thank god, more than one.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay. So the first one is funny. So y'all know

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<v Speaker 5>I do love to masturbate. So, because it's COVID, I've

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<v Speaker 5>been taking staycations and stuff. So I went on a

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<v Speaker 5>staycation at this beautiful hotel and I was having a

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<v Speaker 5>fuck fest with myself. So I brought this toy. So

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<v Speaker 5>this is the toy that I used, and it does this,

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<v Speaker 5>so it fucks you. Okay, all right, So this is

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<v Speaker 5>like called a Monroe thrusting something machine or some shit,

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<v Speaker 5>and it sticks to like the wall and it fucks you.

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<v Speaker 5>I thought I was going to be able to use

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<v Speaker 5>this in the shower, but it wouldn't stick. So long

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<v Speaker 5>story short, I ended up on the floor at the

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<v Speaker 5>mini fridge and I stuck it to the mini fridge

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<v Speaker 5>and I sucked myself on the floor on pillows and

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<v Speaker 5>it was the quickest, biggest squirt of my life. And

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<v Speaker 5>then I did it again, just to make sure it

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<v Speaker 5>wasn't a fluke, and it.

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<v Speaker 2>Was wait, you put this on the mini fridge? Yes,

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<v Speaker 2>oh wait, I didn't even hear that.

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<v Speaker 1>I waited on the mini free I had stick to

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<v Speaker 1>the floor. Oh you were on the floor and she

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<v Speaker 1>the mini fridge. I can't just see her now on.

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<v Speaker 5>So I had to scoop my ass. So I tried

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<v Speaker 5>so many positions to get it to work another way,

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<v Speaker 5>but I'm so sure. I had to scoop my ass

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<v Speaker 5>to the mini fridge and then I turned it on

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<v Speaker 5>and I was so close I couldn't even run from it.

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<v Speaker 5>It was drilling my ass. I was like, whoa. I

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<v Speaker 5>felt so bad. I had to wipe off the mini

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<v Speaker 5>fridge fridge? What is that?

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<v Speaker 2>Boy? First of all, what is that called? I?

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<v Speaker 5>I need to get that off the monro thrusting something

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<v Speaker 5>toys something thrusting machine or whatever?

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<v Speaker 2>What do you stick it to you at home?

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<v Speaker 5>Actually? I changed. I upgraded so because I love this like,

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<v Speaker 5>I was so like, I girl, I felt like I

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<v Speaker 5>didn't even need a man no more.

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<v Speaker 2>I ain't gonna know.

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<v Speaker 5>That says a lot, because you can't you can't replace

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<v Speaker 5>no fine ass man, you know. I upgraded and now

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<v Speaker 5>I have the big machine so over there, hold on,

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<v Speaker 5>uh see it?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah, so it's like it's like a fun machine,

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<v Speaker 3>like that's the issues that.

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<v Speaker 2>Is a Doc Johnson machine.

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, so I loved that one that much that I

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<v Speaker 5>invested in one of the fucking porn fuck machines. Girl.

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<v Speaker 5>That was my kind of funny story about myself, right.

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<v Speaker 5>But then I have a story about like my first orgy.

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<v Speaker 5>So I went to Hito. I went to Moca Fest. Actually,

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<v Speaker 5>Mocafest is at Heito, Jamaica. It's a clothing optional resort.

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<v Speaker 5>And the first time was really dope. So the person

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<v Speaker 5>that I was with was my partner at the time,

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<v Speaker 5>and a woman asked me. She was like, are you

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<v Speaker 5>guys here to play or you know what's up? And

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<v Speaker 5>I was the one who was into it, and he

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<v Speaker 5>was trying get out for the first time. So I

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<v Speaker 5>knew I had to hook him up with someone first

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<v Speaker 5>for me to be able to frolic and you know time. Yes,

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<v Speaker 5>So she walked up to him and was cressing him

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<v Speaker 5>and it's like you're you know, you're gorgeous. This is this

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<v Speaker 5>She's like, you want to come up to the room

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<v Speaker 5>and fuck me? And I was like, go ahead. So

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<v Speaker 5>all of us, the people that we were with, were like, Okay,

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<v Speaker 5>well we're gonna go. Like I didn't know everybody in

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<v Speaker 5>the group, but all of us decided to go together.

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<v Speaker 5>I knew some people. They invited some people, you know,

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<v Speaker 5>so then to be a group of us, and we

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<v Speaker 5>were like, we're gonna watch them have sex. So we

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<v Speaker 5>went upstairs to watch them, and you know, we're all

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<v Speaker 5>just kind of turned on. Next thing, you know, another

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<v Speaker 5>couple jumps in, another person jumps in. Then there's a

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<v Speaker 5>guy and he likes he has a fetish of like watching.

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<v Speaker 5>He's a voyeur and he actually makes videos and edits

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<v Speaker 5>them and gives them to the people who participate in whatever,

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<v Speaker 5>and then he deletes it for himself. Oh wow, Like

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<v Speaker 5>he deletes it, but he gives you your content. He

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<v Speaker 5>records you and edits it, edit edits it, like in

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<v Speaker 5>the same thirty minutes or so, you know, after everything

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<v Speaker 5>is done, gives you a copy of your work.

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<v Speaker 2>So you am fucking efficiency right.

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<v Speaker 5>It was, but it was just it was sexy as shit.

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<v Speaker 5>So all I know is at one set because I'm

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<v Speaker 5>definitely a voyeur as well. But next thing, I know,

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<v Speaker 5>I saw my guy like drilling this girl down and

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<v Speaker 5>I'm like really filling her up, like she was a

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<v Speaker 5>very petite woman. And then I was watching another couple

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<v Speaker 5>have sex the next thing, you know, like I felt

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<v Speaker 5>like she was like on the brink of orgasm. So

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<v Speaker 5>I started sucking her toes. I was just like.

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<v Speaker 2>Amazing.

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<v Speaker 5>So I'm sucking this woman's toes. I'm just like, yo,

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<v Speaker 5>we gotta like really get her off. So she's sucking

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<v Speaker 5>his dick, so I'm like, okay, I'm gonna have to

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<v Speaker 5>like eat her pussy from the back, like this pussy's

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<v Speaker 5>this lady's pussy is like drizzling on my forehead. Like

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<v Speaker 5>and then by the time everybody was tired out, I

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<v Speaker 5>had not got a chance to fuck the guy that

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<v Speaker 5>I had went there with. So when everybody was kind

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<v Speaker 5>of winding down, like, I saw his dick was still hard,

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<v Speaker 5>and so I sat on it and you know, did

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<v Speaker 5>the dick riding class and.

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<v Speaker 4>It was good.

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<v Speaker 2>It was amazing. That is a wonderful, beautiful story.

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<v Speaker 1>So what was his takeaway after his first experience in

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<v Speaker 1>the type of environment, Since you said that was his

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<v Speaker 1>first time.

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<v Speaker 5>He didn't stay with it, but he did enjoy it.

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<v Speaker 5>He definitely had a great time.

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<v Speaker 1>He'll never forget you.

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<v Speaker 3>Open niggas up, like, yeah, it's gonna be hard to

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<v Speaker 3>to the top five.

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<v Speaker 5>It was. It was really amazing and I cannot wait

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<v Speaker 5>to go back to heato.

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<v Speaker 2>So when is it? Let me wreate this down.

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<v Speaker 5>What did he Oh? I'll actually be teaching there this

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<v Speaker 5>summer if we can get the world to.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, I would love to come. Honestly, when you said

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<v Speaker 2>that part about he was feeling.

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<v Speaker 1>Her when she was a very petite woman, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I just wanted on the record to say, you know.

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<v Speaker 2>What they say about petiitue women? Okay, what did they

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<v Speaker 2>can take that? Sorry?

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<v Speaker 5>Look here, small women love really big dicks. I feel

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<v Speaker 5>I feel they like they do that.

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<v Speaker 2>How tall are you?

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<v Speaker 5>I'm five to three, Okay, I'm really tall.

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<v Speaker 2>Same same, I keep telling bitches, look I'm taller.

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<v Speaker 5>Ship.

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<v Speaker 2>But yeah, it was, it was.

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<v Speaker 5>It was good. It was just really good to watch,

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<v Speaker 5>and it was just like even watching like I felt

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<v Speaker 5>like an orgasm building up, like you know, how like

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<v Speaker 5>you feel that you know, how like you feel hornish

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<v Speaker 5>and you like, you know, if you touch your click

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<v Speaker 5>you're gonna come like That's how I was feeling watching them.

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<v Speaker 5>It was it was good, and by the end of

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<v Speaker 5>it, it just it turned me on. I was like, Okay,

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<v Speaker 5>you sucked her really great. You definitely deserve some pussy

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<v Speaker 5>like I was proud.

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<v Speaker 2>I was crazy with me.

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<v Speaker 1>With me, there's something about honesty and transparency and like

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<v Speaker 1>the exploration and the freedom and the non ownership that's

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<v Speaker 1>like really gets a pussy weed.

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<v Speaker 2>I think, well that and also you seem like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>like I got a good one.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah yeah, like of course it didn't last, but moments

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<v Speaker 5>or for moments.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it was the moment and he never needed it

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<v Speaker 1>more than you did.

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<v Speaker 5>Enjoy the moment, so those are mine.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, thank you so much for coming on. This was

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<v Speaker 3>so fun, this was great. I'm so happy we did this.

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like I have a lot to learn from you.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm excited for your classes.

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<v Speaker 5>You guys have definitely coming to class, and we're going

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<v Speaker 5>to link up and give all of our subscribers on

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<v Speaker 5>Patreon something special.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, yes, exclusive resting while writing.

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<v Speaker 5>Next week, like I thought you, I said I was

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<v Speaker 5>gonna be teaching us how to dep throw.

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<v Speaker 1>You already know you said it on records, so to

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<v Speaker 1>tell tell.

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<v Speaker 2>Our listeners where they can find you.

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<v Speaker 5>All right, So you can find meet on Instagram at

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<v Speaker 5>sexual Essentials, or you can find me on my website

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<v Speaker 5>www dot sexual essentials one dot com. But if you

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<v Speaker 5>go on Instagram, it'll kind of give you a overview

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<v Speaker 5>of everything that I do if you watch the highlights,

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<v Speaker 5>watch my stories. I posted my stories the most. But

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<v Speaker 5>I have a link in my bio that has all

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<v Speaker 5>my links there where you can find my Patreon register

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<v Speaker 5>for the next set of classes. Classes are definitely coming.

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<v Speaker 5>This is on the February fourth and fifth, right before

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<v Speaker 5>Valentine's Day, and you can order a dildo from my

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<v Speaker 5>store online, so that way you have something to practice

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<v Speaker 5>on so we can be what thor row as fuck?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah I have. I'm gonna change your life, So come

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<v Speaker 5>to class, you know.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, make sure you check her out.

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<v Speaker 3>And you know, speaking of Valentine's Day, we have our

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<v Speaker 3>live show on February thirteenth. You guys, it's Ladies' Night.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm so excited to give you to finally meet all

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<v Speaker 3>of you guys, I guess virtually unfortunately because you know COVID.

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<v Speaker 3>But this show is about to be lit lit lit.

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<v Speaker 3>It's not your regular zoom call. And I know we

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<v Speaker 3>keep saying that, but I'm just I'm trying to really

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<v Speaker 3>let y'all know, like this is a real last shot.

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<v Speaker 2>This is a production. It's a production, and you don't

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<v Speaker 2>want to miss it. We'll be dreaming live from a

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<v Speaker 2>studio in Los Angeles. Get dressed, put that put your

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<v Speaker 2>fucking clothes on.

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<v Speaker 3>Put that little hoochi ass dress you bought in twenty nineteen.

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<v Speaker 3>They didn't get no shine in twenty twenty.

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<v Speaker 2>Put that shit on. Put that heels on.

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<v Speaker 3>Call your homies, get the bottle book, the babysitter, because

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<v Speaker 3>we're about to turn up.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, and we need you there too.

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<v Speaker 7>We need you there tomorrow.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, I'm in there. What do I need you? The Patreon?

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<v Speaker 5>I need to go. You tell us where to get tickets.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, you guys can get tickets on our Instagram. It's

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<v Speaker 3>on evet bright, but just click the link in our

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<v Speaker 3>bio on Instagram and you can buy tickets. Make sure

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<v Speaker 3>you I think there's a few vip bags left if

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<v Speaker 3>you guys want a vip bag.

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<v Speaker 2>We have some cool brands that we're going to ship

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<v Speaker 2>out to you. But yeah, let's see you on February thirteen.

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<v Speaker 2>Here's a little sneak peek.

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<v Speaker 5>So yeah, like there are specific ins, like we went

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<v Speaker 5>to Palm Springs with a bunch of people who are

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<v Speaker 5>quote unquote in the lifestyle, but there wasn't a single

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<v Speaker 5>orgy that happened all weekend.

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<v Speaker 2>It's just not what.

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<v Speaker 5>It wasn't the vibe of the weekend. It could have happened,

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<v Speaker 5>but it didn't.

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<v Speaker 6>You know, I have a corn team, and we're just

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<v Speaker 6>a bunch of couples that are you know more are

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<v Speaker 6>kind of open and somewhat non monogamous. But we're just friends.

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<v Speaker 6>You know, like very rarely will there be like a

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<v Speaker 6>hookup situation. You know, maybe it's like cool that the

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<v Speaker 6>girls make out like for like a minute.

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<v Speaker 4>You know.

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<v Speaker 6>If anything, it's just a really deep level of intimacy

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<v Speaker 6>and trust with a group of people who are going

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<v Speaker 6>through a similar life path. Where they're they're in the

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<v Speaker 6>conversation about non monogamy as a lifestyle and