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Speaker 1: On today's episode, we're joined by hands on sexual educator Somaya,

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Speaker 1: founder of Sexual Essentials.

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Speaker 2: Today, you can expect to hear.

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Speaker 3: How your introduction to masturbation shapes your sexual experiences in adulthood.

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Speaker 1: How to talk to your partner about incorporating sex toys

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Speaker 1: in play.

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Speaker 2: Whether or not sex toys desensitize you.

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Speaker 1: Erica converting from buy fun into full on buy shut

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Speaker 1: the fuck.

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Speaker 3: How to fix broken pussy after pregnancy.

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Speaker 1: Mutual masturbation, and a double horror story.

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Speaker 2: Y'all do not want to.

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Speaker 4: Miss enjoy.

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Speaker 3: Welcome back to Good Mom, Bad Choices. I'm Erica and

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Speaker 3: I'm Meela.

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Speaker 2: Annie's Wednesday. Hey, Happy hump day. I want to hump

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Speaker 2: to night. I'm trying to hump to night. Where's my

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Speaker 2: humping partner? I have no humping partner.

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Speaker 1: There's no humping partners in a fifty mile radius.

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Speaker 2: And it's some bullshit. I mean, if you go on tender,

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Speaker 2: there's there on the radius. Is my tender is not

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Speaker 2: humping like?

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Speaker 5: Oh?

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Speaker 3: Speaking of tender, I'm on tender right now and I'm

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Speaker 3: just on with girls.

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Speaker 2: Oh and I'm I'm gonna be lesbian.

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Speaker 5: I don't I don't know.

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Speaker 4: I'm not.

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Speaker 2: I'm not feeling very lesbian lately.

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Speaker 3: You always say that until they're pretty bitch rolls up like, huh,

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Speaker 3: this is true.

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Speaker 1: I haven't seen any pretty bitches on Tender and I

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Speaker 1: just feel so disappointed in my lack of hole list,

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Speaker 1: like I usually, I just feel like I'm too mature

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Speaker 1: now because now there's there was a time where I

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Speaker 1: could just like, huh, you're cute, let's have sex, And

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Speaker 1: now I'm like, I want to talk to you, cuddle me.

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Speaker 2: I don't want to cuddle you. So it's just like, no,

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Speaker 2: it's good, it's good. I'm glad. I'm this is growth.

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Speaker 2: I'm not. I'm the same way.

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Speaker 3: I just I'm just exploring my my my womanness, my woman,

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Speaker 3: my inner. Okay, because Jamila calls me buy fun, but

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Speaker 3: I think I'm like transitioning out of buy fun into

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Speaker 3: like just buy.

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Speaker 2: So I don't know. I'll give you an update in

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Speaker 2: like two months and let you know, but either way,

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Speaker 2: either way, yeah, please update.

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Speaker 1: Is my journey, your transition from buy fun to just

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Speaker 1: a regular buy.

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Speaker 2: I'm also like lazy.

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Speaker 1: I'm so lazy to like I was Erica, you know,

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Speaker 1: I was driving past the airport for anal and it's

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Speaker 1: just too far.

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Speaker 2: I was just fucking dying.

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Speaker 3: She's like, I've been driving past l e X for anal,

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Speaker 3: A one anal.

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Speaker 2: I'm like specifically anal, Like there's a niggat.

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Speaker 3: Past LAX that's giving you a one anal And she

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Speaker 3: was like yep. I was like, bitch, I hope, I

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Speaker 3: hope your miles are Is he paying a car insurance?

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Speaker 1: At point, I was like getting feeling really sexy and

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Speaker 1: I like had these crotchless rhymestone pantyhose and I sent

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Speaker 1: him a picture like should I wear these? He was like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: so in at like four o'clock. So if you're from LA,

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Speaker 1: you know nobody's driving on the four or five at four.

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Speaker 1: Me I drove all at the four oh five past

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Speaker 1: the airport at four in crotchless ryanstone pantyhose and a

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Speaker 1: I at that point I was like, Wow, this is

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Speaker 1: this is outrageous. So yeah, I don't know if I'm

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Speaker 1: feeling that eager anymore, but I'm just taking this time

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Speaker 1: to just I'm gonna take our guests masturbation class and

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Speaker 1: work on my masturbation.

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Speaker 3: Well, before we get into masturbation anal and everything above,

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Speaker 3: I would love to start our episode by oh my god.

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Speaker 1: Okay, let's let's it's a new everyone's calling. Everyone's calling,

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Speaker 1: you know why because we said we don't have any

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Speaker 1: dick and they're like, what what was that?

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Speaker 2: That's what happens. As soon as you don't want niggas

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Speaker 2: bother you, here they come. They hear the radar.

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Speaker 4: B baby.

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Speaker 2: Okay, let's get into our our cards. Okay, here we go.

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Speaker 3: Like that like that sound love it all right? Page

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Speaker 3: of swords, Page of swords. So in this image there

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Speaker 3: is a woman here. I'm gonna show it on the

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Speaker 3: video because if you're on Patreon you can you can

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Speaker 3: watch this video.

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Speaker 2: All of our patrons get to watch us weekly.

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Speaker 3: But it is a looks like a woman, right, a

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Speaker 3: woman looks like a young man with long hair the

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Speaker 3: old time, holding a sword up into the sky. There's

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Speaker 3: she's he's on like a little like a mound of greenery.

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Speaker 2: Let me tell you what it is.

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Speaker 1: Tell me the page of Swords shows a young man

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Speaker 1: standing with his sword pointing upwards to the two point

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Speaker 1: upwards to the sky. His body and the sword lean

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Speaker 1: if to see what else is happening around him. A

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Speaker 1: breeze blows through the young man's hair, and the clouds

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Speaker 1: behind him appear to dash through the sky, bringing dynamic

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Speaker 1: energy to the card. The ground on which the page

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Speaker 1: stands is green and fertile, suggesting that the page's ideas

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Speaker 1: are likely to bring positive change and forward movement. We

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Speaker 1: pulled this card upright, and the meaning of this card

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Speaker 1: is by the way, we're getting these answers from biddy Taro.

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Speaker 1: We didn't just wake up one morning and no Taro.

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Speaker 1: We're still working on it. We like Taro, we don't

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Speaker 1: know it. We google the shit Biddi Taro dot com.

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Speaker 2: No one gonna sue us. Okay.

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Speaker 1: The page of Swords is full of energy, passion, and enthusiasm.

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Speaker 1: When this card shows up in a tarot reading, you

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Speaker 1: are bursting with new ideas and plans for the future.

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Speaker 2: That is us.

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Speaker 1: You may be excited about starting a new project, pursuing

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Speaker 1: a new approach, or learning something new you have so

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Speaker 1: much energy that you feel as though you could do

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Speaker 1: almost anything, and you can. The challenge, however, is whether

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Speaker 1: you can keep it up.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we can.

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Speaker 1: As with all pages, the beginning always looks promising, but

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Speaker 1: you need something else to follow through and keep up

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Speaker 1: the pace.

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Speaker 2: The page of.

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Speaker 1: Swords often emerges when you're exploring a new way of thinking,

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Speaker 1: a new idea, a new perspective, new knowledge, or a

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Speaker 1: new technique. You have a curious mind and it's thirst

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Speaker 1: for knowledge. As you explore this fresh way of thinking,

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Speaker 1: you were asking lots of questions and gathering as much

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Speaker 1: information as possible. You are also very much in the

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Speaker 1: exploratory phase and not mastery. You may be prone to

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Speaker 1: making mistakes along the way, but your curiosity means that

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Speaker 1: you are eager to learn from your slip ups. I

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Speaker 1: like that, I like that, I like that waterme. I'm

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Speaker 1: here to grow out.

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Speaker 2: I'm capable. I will not I'm relentless, i will not

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Speaker 2: give up.

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Speaker 1: And today's affirmation is you are more than motherfucking enough.

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Speaker 2: You are more than mother enough.

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Speaker 1: If you're questioning it, here is your sign. If you

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Speaker 1: were suffering from imposter syndrome, here is your motherfucking sign you.

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Speaker 2: Is the ship?

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Speaker 1: Say a loud, stay abroud say allowed to say it, proud,

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Speaker 1: I'm the motherfucking ship.

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Speaker 2: Well, on that.

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Speaker 3: Note, I would love to introduce Samaya, the owner of

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Speaker 3: Sexual Essentials and hands on sexual educator.

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Speaker 2: Welcome to the show, Samaya.

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Speaker 5: Hey you guys.

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Speaker 2: I'm so happy to have you girl. How you doing?

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Speaker 5: I am doing good. I'm having a good day, A

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Speaker 5: busy day, but a good day. Where started this week?

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Speaker 5: Where are you at?

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Speaker 2: Where are you at the in the USA?

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Speaker 5: I am in Florida?

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Speaker 2: Nice? Are you from? Are you from there?

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Speaker 5: Absolutely not? Louis, so said Saint Louis.

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Speaker 2: Yep. Okay, well how'd you get Okay, I'm on your business?

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Speaker 5: I went to the goddamn you Okay, yes, all that

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Speaker 5: tell us about your business?

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Speaker 1: How did you get into sexual Essentials? How did you

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Speaker 1: become a hands on sexual educator?

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Speaker 5: So I probably should have thought about that before. I

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Speaker 5: was like, hey, let's do this. After I had my son,

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Speaker 5: I really needed an outlet. And I have always been

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Speaker 5: that friend that you call about sex and will try

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Speaker 5: anything three times, that person, And ultimately I just realized

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Speaker 5: that you could have a baby and not have an orgasm,

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Speaker 5: and I felt like that was a lot to put

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Speaker 5: on yourself without even getting a nut off.

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Speaker 1: Man, God, imagine getting the baby but no orgasm.

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Speaker 2: It's true.

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Speaker 4: Damn.

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Speaker 2: I mean I can't, but I know that a lot

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Speaker 5: So I know, you guys have like probably like thousands

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Speaker 5: to save the rainforest. So first I started with this

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Speaker 5: stuff ain't good. So I was like, Okay, I'm gonna

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Speaker 5: you know, watch YouTube to learn about a grapefruit. You know,

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Speaker 5: I have to do something different. We gotta start with

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Speaker 5: dangle from the ceiling and shit. So yeah, I was like,

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Speaker 5: fuck it, i'n'ta teach people how to suck big because

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Speaker 5: I bet relationships would get a little better, you know,

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Speaker 4: Fuck it.

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Speaker 5: I'ma I'm gonna teach classes. And I was like, well,

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Speaker 5: if I'm gonna teach dicksucking class, they gonna need a

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Speaker 5: I give them a dildo and they go to work.

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Speaker 5: So yeah, I teach hands on classes where you legit

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Speaker 5: leave class knowing how to ride, knowing how to sug dig.

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Speaker 5: I teach how to masturbate, I teach how to squirt,

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Speaker 5: I teach how to have threesomes. I teach everything. Because

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Speaker 5: who were you gonna ask?

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Speaker 3: Ghostbusters is not the answer, So okay, So question I

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Speaker 3: need I need more. I need more clarity on your

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Speaker 3: on your classes. So when you are doing dick sucking classes,

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Speaker 3: like are you there side by side like teaching them, Like, yeah, don't.

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Speaker 2: Do that too much.

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Speaker 5: Relax.

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Speaker 3: But because and also because dick sucking is also such

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Speaker 3: a personal I mean, I think for a man, it's

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Speaker 5: Of definitely, but teach I don't. I don't enable people

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Speaker 5: I think that it's a couple of things. Sometimes. I

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Speaker 5: I don't. And also I just think everybody has not

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Speaker 5: You know, it's it's usually one of those.

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Speaker 3: I have another question about your your teachings. So you

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Speaker 3: So are they are women in your chorus like actually

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Speaker 5: No, that's a great question. So when I go on tour,

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Speaker 5: it was ladies only, doors locked, No cameras none of that, right,

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Speaker 5: and you would get a deal though, so you could

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Speaker 5: and practice the writing part.

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Speaker 7: Right.

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Speaker 5: And since COVID, we do everything on zoom. So for

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Speaker 5: that are like blown up huge that I can hold,

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Speaker 5: And I show you exactly how to use toys, and

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Speaker 5: I show you not by pulling out my pussy, because

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Speaker 8: Baby out, get around, gether around.

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Speaker 5: So I blow everything up super big, so I have

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Speaker 5: so really big. Show you how to do everything like

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Speaker 5: the where are right now?

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Speaker 2: I want to see one?

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Speaker 5: Don't look at my booty when I get up, but

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Speaker 2: Now now you're gonn look at your boots Damn. I

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Speaker 5: Damn.

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Speaker 2: It is that what it is? If you get one,

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Speaker 5: So my pussy that I practiced on, you know, it

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Speaker 5: even has a jeep spot. So I teach all of

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Speaker 5: these things, right, and you make this absolutely not girl,

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Speaker 5: I don't have that's as far as my art skills go.

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Speaker 5: I have a life you know, life size clit here,

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Speaker 5: you know, and then it looks like, yes, absolutely, your

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Speaker 2: What's the top? What's the little gold hook at the top.

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Speaker 5: That's so this is the part that you see visually,

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Speaker 2: Okay, okay, okay, now I see it.

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Speaker 4: I get it.

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Speaker 5: So that's why, like these classes, they get so in depth.

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Speaker 5: Like I literally make demon dick. I create demon dick

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Speaker 2: What's a demon dick?

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Speaker 1: Like digmatized by that devil deck that devil by some

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Speaker 5: And yes, so I teach a class called for play

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Speaker 5: and Vaginal Orgasms for men and women, and it teaches

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Speaker 5: So anyway, this is Stella. It only came in this color.

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Speaker 5: But Stella only came in this color. But yeah, like

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Speaker 5: all of that. So you know, I got my ring

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Speaker 2: But yeah, I'm super excited about this class.

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Speaker 5: Yeah wait, it's February fourth. So what's crazy is I

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Speaker 5: about this. So then my dms just like, Okay, when

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Speaker 5: is class Valentine's they coming up and I said, I

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Speaker 3: Yes, absolutely, I'll be there. Yeah, we're talking. I've been,

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Speaker 3: Jamila has been. Basically we did an episode with this

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Speaker 3: are you gonna teach me to score?

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Speaker 2: You have yet to coach me through. I'm sorry, we

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Speaker 5: To help you as a resource.

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Speaker 3: Well you know, I okay, So like I've been scorting

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Speaker 2: That's why I'm locked to squirt.

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Speaker 3: But I don't like in my in my exploration of

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Speaker 2: I'm like, why can't they squirret? This works for me?

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Speaker 2: Like what the fuck you should? Where's the water? Sholl

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Speaker 1: Like it's like a platoral formulation or like it I

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Speaker 5: These fingers and yeah, y'all know how I feel about that,

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Speaker 3: Sex action Like no, no, no, I know I have sported

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Speaker 9: Y'all.

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Speaker 5: Look at my fingers. Look how big they are. That's

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Speaker 3: Because I'm on my journey of exploring women more, I've

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Speaker 2: Because that's the perfect shape for it is.

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Speaker 1: So I need to ask the lesbian like is this

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Speaker 3: Just worried because like bacteria can get trapped under nails

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Speaker 2: I don't know how.

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Speaker 5: We're just kind a really good cleaning protocol, you know,

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Speaker 2: A brush in the shower, you gotta you gotta clean

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Speaker 1: If you're listening, men, clean your fucking nails and cut them.

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Speaker 1: I hate a nigga with dirty long nails. Discuss this

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Speaker 4: With your fingers.

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Speaker 3: That's so your so in your chorus, I mean, I'm

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Speaker 3: in want to know how to unlock that part of

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Speaker 3: Is it based in learning how to do it with

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Speaker 3: you go when you try to, like, you know, make

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Speaker 3: it happen for yourself, Like.

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Speaker 2: Take an intermission.

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Speaker 1: Everybody trying Eric, You're kinking Erica wants to go on

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Speaker 2: We can do. We can arrange it.

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Speaker 5: Okay. So, speaking of Orlando from Harder Stuff and Tahoe

443
00:21:43,640 --> 00:21:50,240
Speaker 5: actually had me do the class on a volunteer for this.

444
00:21:50,400 --> 00:21:51,600
Speaker 2: I saw that, I saw it.

445
00:21:51,920 --> 00:21:54,080
Speaker 5: I was like, oh my god, and I gave her

446
00:21:54,160 --> 00:21:57,479
Speaker 5: three to four orgasms. Right, So during my class, I

447
00:21:57,560 --> 00:22:01,080
Speaker 5: teach everything that I did to her. But no, we

448
00:22:01,160 --> 00:22:03,600
Speaker 5: don't break away and pop out our pussies and hold

449
00:22:03,680 --> 00:22:08,359
Speaker 5: them together or anything. We just do I teach, and

450
00:22:08,400 --> 00:22:10,760
Speaker 5: then I tell y'all to go charge up, y'all shit

451
00:22:10,760 --> 00:22:13,879
Speaker 5: while y'all in this class. And then the next day

452
00:22:13,960 --> 00:22:14,800
Speaker 5: my DMS are.

453
00:22:14,680 --> 00:22:18,080
Speaker 1: Like, yo, was that your first time doing it like

454
00:22:18,400 --> 00:22:19,840
Speaker 1: demonstrating on a live person?

455
00:22:20,359 --> 00:22:21,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean like, are.

456
00:22:21,040 --> 00:22:24,359
Speaker 1: You do you do do fuck with women?

457
00:22:25,160 --> 00:22:25,480
Speaker 5: Yes?

458
00:22:25,880 --> 00:22:28,399
Speaker 1: Okay, So like it was the first time as a demonstrative,

459
00:22:28,640 --> 00:22:31,760
Speaker 1: like a demonstration, but not in your first time around

460
00:22:31,800 --> 00:22:32,520
Speaker 1: the rodeo show.

461
00:22:33,160 --> 00:22:35,080
Speaker 5: No, but it was still the first time that I

462
00:22:35,119 --> 00:22:40,119
Speaker 5: did that because I have not had that much time,

463
00:22:40,280 --> 00:22:42,560
Speaker 5: like a long period of time and women. It's been

464
00:22:42,680 --> 00:22:45,840
Speaker 5: like threesomes or orgies or it was not one on

465
00:22:45,840 --> 00:22:49,800
Speaker 5: one very intimate like I don't think since I started

466
00:22:50,320 --> 00:22:53,119
Speaker 5: Sexual Essentials, you know, so some of the stuff that

467
00:22:53,200 --> 00:22:55,840
Speaker 5: I used I didn't even have in my back pocket

468
00:22:56,040 --> 00:22:56,720
Speaker 5: back in the day.

469
00:22:56,920 --> 00:22:57,119
Speaker 9: You know.

470
00:22:57,680 --> 00:23:00,919
Speaker 5: So everything that I've been doing lately has had a

471
00:23:00,960 --> 00:23:03,159
Speaker 5: guy involved in some sort and so you know, that

472
00:23:03,240 --> 00:23:05,120
Speaker 5: kind of changes things. You want to make sure everybody,

473
00:23:05,640 --> 00:23:08,119
Speaker 5: you know, gets to have their fun. But this was

474
00:23:08,200 --> 00:23:10,040
Speaker 5: even though it was a room full of people, it

475
00:23:10,080 --> 00:23:11,960
Speaker 5: was me and her, and so this was totally different.

476
00:23:12,000 --> 00:23:14,760
Speaker 5: I got to actually get my ship off, and because

477
00:23:14,960 --> 00:23:18,159
Speaker 5: Orlando was really trying me me look like she was

478
00:23:18,160 --> 00:23:18,560
Speaker 5: saying to.

479
00:23:18,480 --> 00:23:22,120
Speaker 2: Be I know, she definitely was nodding to some other ship.

480
00:23:22,680 --> 00:23:29,200
Speaker 3: It was Ego, the actual head it was about.

481
00:23:30,040 --> 00:23:31,080
Speaker 7: I was talking about it.

482
00:23:32,359 --> 00:23:34,760
Speaker 5: Orlando is a sweetheart though, but no, he was like, well,

483
00:23:34,800 --> 00:23:36,960
Speaker 5: you know they say that's what you do, right, you know,

484
00:23:37,000 --> 00:23:38,919
Speaker 5: how to make people squared I mean, can't you do it?

485
00:23:38,960 --> 00:23:40,120
Speaker 5: And it was like, can you give her a three

486
00:23:40,200 --> 00:23:42,560
Speaker 5: or four? And I was like, well, if that's what

487
00:23:42,600 --> 00:23:44,040
Speaker 5: her body wants to do. They was like, nah, I

488
00:23:44,080 --> 00:23:45,560
Speaker 5: don't want to hear that. We want to see it.

489
00:23:45,800 --> 00:23:47,600
Speaker 5: This is what we want to and look here he

490
00:23:47,640 --> 00:23:53,440
Speaker 5: needed a new chair by the time I was done.

491
00:23:54,720 --> 00:23:57,240
Speaker 5: He's supposed to record an episode in his draws because

492
00:23:57,280 --> 00:23:58,120
Speaker 5: we made a bed.

493
00:23:58,320 --> 00:24:00,600
Speaker 2: Oh you hear that. We're holding you to that motherfucking

494
00:24:01,400 --> 00:24:02,000
Speaker 2: that dear.

495
00:24:02,800 --> 00:24:04,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, you need to get back on Tender like Erica

496
00:24:04,880 --> 00:24:07,159
Speaker 1: and get your lesbian up.

497
00:24:08,080 --> 00:24:09,600
Speaker 2: You need to get to get your practices up. You

498
00:24:09,600 --> 00:24:12,639
Speaker 2: can start selling sexual essential packages on Tender. I'm telling you,

499
00:24:12,760 --> 00:24:13,120
Speaker 2: be a hit.

500
00:24:13,600 --> 00:24:15,119
Speaker 7: I would feel so nervous.

501
00:24:15,680 --> 00:24:17,640
Speaker 5: Do you know that? After I did that? I got

502
00:24:17,640 --> 00:24:19,439
Speaker 5: so many dms and they were like, okay, how do

503
00:24:19,600 --> 00:24:21,640
Speaker 5: I volunteer as tribute?

504
00:24:22,680 --> 00:24:26,440
Speaker 2: I would have been like, that'll be one thousand dollars, okay.

505
00:24:26,480 --> 00:24:28,600
Speaker 5: I was like, Yo, some of y'all don't even want

506
00:24:28,600 --> 00:24:30,679
Speaker 5: to pay for my little twenty dollar classes. And you

507
00:24:30,760 --> 00:24:36,600
Speaker 5: talking about me touching your in a panoramic in a

508
00:24:36,680 --> 00:24:37,760
Speaker 5: panera bread.

509
00:24:40,800 --> 00:24:44,720
Speaker 3: Oh my god, as long as you wear the mask, baby,

510
00:24:45,400 --> 00:24:46,240
Speaker 3: I was so honored that.

511
00:24:46,320 --> 00:24:48,320
Speaker 5: I know, because you know, if you please a woman

512
00:24:48,440 --> 00:24:51,040
Speaker 5: that's really saying, especially.

513
00:24:50,640 --> 00:24:52,040
Speaker 2: On camera, how much pressure.

514
00:24:52,119 --> 00:24:53,919
Speaker 1: One time, this girl tried to make me squirt in

515
00:24:53,960 --> 00:24:56,359
Speaker 1: a dracuzzi with like five other people, and literally the

516
00:24:56,400 --> 00:24:57,880
Speaker 1: next thing of vagina heard so bad.

517
00:24:57,960 --> 00:24:59,320
Speaker 2: I was like, this was not.

518
00:24:59,320 --> 00:25:01,440
Speaker 1: A good idea because it's just I just feel like

519
00:25:01,440 --> 00:25:02,200
Speaker 1: it's too much pressure.

520
00:25:02,200 --> 00:25:03,960
Speaker 2: I'm like, girl, you gotta stop. It's not going to happen.

521
00:25:04,000 --> 00:25:05,080
Speaker 2: Everyone's looking at me.

522
00:25:06,920 --> 00:25:09,359
Speaker 5: Into it, And honestly, I brought some of my best stuff,

523
00:25:09,400 --> 00:25:12,760
Speaker 5: the stuff that really just changes lives. I did, I did?

524
00:25:13,440 --> 00:25:13,679
Speaker 4: Are they?

525
00:25:13,720 --> 00:25:17,199
Speaker 2: Are they tools? Are actually just like tricks of the trade.

526
00:25:17,560 --> 00:25:21,720
Speaker 5: Oh no, they're actulutely tools and tricks. Also, it's about

527
00:25:21,760 --> 00:25:24,959
Speaker 5: like reading. I'm really good at reading body language when

528
00:25:24,960 --> 00:25:30,120
Speaker 5: I'm not drunk. When I'm not drunk, all that shit

529
00:25:30,119 --> 00:25:32,400
Speaker 5: goes out the window if I'm sucked up. But when

530
00:25:32,400 --> 00:25:36,680
Speaker 5: I'm in the zone, I don't know, for a goofball,

531
00:25:36,760 --> 00:25:39,000
Speaker 5: I have some sensualness to me.

532
00:25:39,800 --> 00:25:41,480
Speaker 2: You know, when's your birthday?

533
00:25:42,040 --> 00:25:43,560
Speaker 5: April fourteenth? I'm an aries?

534
00:25:43,560 --> 00:25:50,320
Speaker 2: What do you guys? Our manager is going crazy? Is

535
00:25:50,440 --> 00:25:53,359
Speaker 2: are you an aries? But I didn't know I like dairies.

536
00:25:53,359 --> 00:25:53,919
Speaker 2: I guess I do.

537
00:25:54,960 --> 00:25:55,159
Speaker 4: I do.

538
00:25:55,320 --> 00:25:57,760
Speaker 5: I love you, But when it's you all's birthdays, what

539
00:25:57,760 --> 00:25:58,680
Speaker 5: are your signs?

540
00:25:59,800 --> 00:26:02,919
Speaker 1: I'm a scorpio, I'm June twenty second, I'm a cancer.

541
00:26:02,960 --> 00:26:04,359
Speaker 2: We're both cuss Cuspy's.

542
00:26:04,920 --> 00:26:06,879
Speaker 1: I'm a cancer Gemini, but I'm mostly a cancer. I

543
00:26:06,880 --> 00:26:13,000
Speaker 1: don't fuck with Gemini's like that. But speaking of changing lives,

544
00:26:13,160 --> 00:26:15,919
Speaker 1: I know a lot of moms listen to our show,

545
00:26:16,160 --> 00:26:21,119
Speaker 1: and what we really haven't touched on is sex or

546
00:26:21,440 --> 00:26:25,119
Speaker 1: pregnancy and after birth, because first of all, your body

547
00:26:25,200 --> 00:26:30,000
Speaker 1: change is tremendously during pregnancy, and nobody fucking talks about it,

548
00:26:30,440 --> 00:26:33,800
Speaker 1: and then you change tremendously, and your body changes after

549
00:26:33,840 --> 00:26:36,240
Speaker 1: you drop the baby, and nobody fucking talks about it.

550
00:26:36,280 --> 00:26:39,560
Speaker 1: And then like for me, when I was pregnant, I

551
00:26:39,760 --> 00:26:41,800
Speaker 1: was under the impression that I was just gonna do

552
00:26:41,920 --> 00:26:44,679
Speaker 1: so fucking horny, but apparently God punished me because I'm

553
00:26:44,720 --> 00:26:47,760
Speaker 1: so fucking horny naturally, so I wasn't in I wasn't

554
00:26:47,760 --> 00:26:51,000
Speaker 1: really horny during pregnancy, like maybe like two times I

555
00:26:51,080 --> 00:26:53,879
Speaker 1: initiated sex. I was also very yeasty, because if you

556
00:26:53,880 --> 00:26:57,200
Speaker 1: don't know, like sometimes you get super fucking yeasty when you're.

557
00:26:57,040 --> 00:26:58,240
Speaker 2: Pregnant, which is the devil.

558
00:26:58,840 --> 00:27:02,919
Speaker 1: But anyway, just like what are some like what are

559
00:27:03,119 --> 00:27:07,320
Speaker 1: what are your perspectives on just hormones and getting back

560
00:27:07,359 --> 00:27:10,480
Speaker 1: into yourself and getting back into sex after having a baby.

561
00:27:11,080 --> 00:27:14,720
Speaker 5: My pussy was broke after I had my child. Dry.

562
00:27:15,040 --> 00:27:16,520
Speaker 5: It was baby powder pussy.

563
00:27:16,520 --> 00:27:19,120
Speaker 3: It was like, wait, what's that phone that you broke?

564
00:27:19,600 --> 00:27:20,760
Speaker 2: Broken pussy?

565
00:27:21,320 --> 00:27:24,800
Speaker 5: I definitely had that. It wasn't it wasn't talking back.

566
00:27:25,080 --> 00:27:29,040
Speaker 5: We we had to apply lube multiple times in a

567
00:27:29,160 --> 00:27:31,840
Speaker 5: very short period of time. I had wine. I even

568
00:27:31,880 --> 00:27:35,639
Speaker 5: tried the wine thing. Wine wine, you know when we

569
00:27:35,800 --> 00:27:38,600
Speaker 5: drink it worked to get pregnant, right, drink right.

570
00:27:38,960 --> 00:27:39,640
Speaker 2: Like trying to get dry.

571
00:27:39,720 --> 00:27:57,439
Speaker 1: I was like, I mean that sounds like a fine.

572
00:27:49,920 --> 00:27:55,040
Speaker 5: White wine girl to me. Okay, No, So I didn't

573
00:27:55,040 --> 00:27:57,000
Speaker 5: have a sex drive. I wanted to have sex because

574
00:27:57,000 --> 00:27:58,760
Speaker 5: I just wanted my pussy back. I wanted what was

575
00:27:58,800 --> 00:28:04,240
Speaker 5: mine right And then yeah, it was just dry. Even

576
00:28:04,240 --> 00:28:06,679
Speaker 5: when I came. When I finally did catch a nut,

577
00:28:06,840 --> 00:28:09,239
Speaker 5: the first one took forever. The first nut after I

578
00:28:09,280 --> 00:28:13,080
Speaker 5: had the baby took forever, and it was weakest fuck, Like,

579
00:28:13,600 --> 00:28:15,320
Speaker 5: that's not the stuff that they're talking about in them

580
00:28:15,440 --> 00:28:17,080
Speaker 5: R and B songs from the eighties. It was not

581
00:28:17,119 --> 00:28:21,120
Speaker 5: none of that strong beat tingling. It was like ema,

582
00:28:23,760 --> 00:28:28,160
Speaker 5: it was it was unnecessary. So I feel like after

583
00:28:28,200 --> 00:28:31,840
Speaker 5: having a baby, like especially if you're still in a relationship,

584
00:28:31,880 --> 00:28:33,320
Speaker 5: a lot of people feel like, oh, the sex goes

585
00:28:33,359 --> 00:28:35,720
Speaker 5: down after having a baby, But it's because they don't

586
00:28:35,760 --> 00:28:39,480
Speaker 5: know how to sell for lack of betic words medicate

587
00:28:39,960 --> 00:28:42,160
Speaker 5: what's going on. They just think that this is just

588
00:28:42,200 --> 00:28:45,720
Speaker 5: the new norm and they leave it. And so that's

589
00:28:45,760 --> 00:28:47,680
Speaker 5: why people you know, are waiting so long to have kids.

590
00:28:47,680 --> 00:28:49,600
Speaker 5: They just assume they'll never be able to undo all

591
00:28:49,640 --> 00:28:54,360
Speaker 5: this long so short because I've talked for forever. Is

592
00:28:54,400 --> 00:28:59,000
Speaker 5: that the masturbation and squirting class that I teach is truthfully,

593
00:28:59,080 --> 00:29:01,600
Speaker 5: it's everything that I did to bring my pussy back

594
00:29:01,600 --> 00:29:04,440
Speaker 5: to life. And I didn't think anybody was gonna buy

595
00:29:04,440 --> 00:29:08,680
Speaker 5: a class called pussy after Postpartum, Like, I didn't think

596
00:29:08,720 --> 00:29:11,640
Speaker 5: anybody would buy that. So I was like, everybody is

597
00:29:11,680 --> 00:29:14,360
Speaker 5: obsessed with squirting. I can legit do all three. I

598
00:29:14,400 --> 00:29:17,160
Speaker 5: can fix your pussy after postpartum. I will teach you

599
00:29:17,200 --> 00:29:19,760
Speaker 5: how to masturbate, and I will teach you how to

600
00:29:19,760 --> 00:29:22,280
Speaker 5: square and so in this class, a lot of people

601
00:29:22,320 --> 00:29:25,360
Speaker 5: not only get their first orgasm just like in their

602
00:29:25,480 --> 00:29:29,400
Speaker 5: entire life, but they also learn how to bring their

603
00:29:29,400 --> 00:29:32,000
Speaker 5: pussy back to a higher standard than it was before

604
00:29:32,040 --> 00:29:35,080
Speaker 5: they even had the baby. So I will teach you

605
00:29:35,120 --> 00:29:37,840
Speaker 5: how to crack nuts with your pussy would be so funny.

606
00:29:38,000 --> 00:29:39,840
Speaker 2: Can can you give a few tips?

607
00:29:39,880 --> 00:29:42,440
Speaker 3: Like, can you just give the audience a few tips,

608
00:29:42,480 --> 00:29:44,239
Speaker 3: just a little teaser so that we had so they

609
00:29:44,240 --> 00:29:45,920
Speaker 3: can understand for sure.

610
00:29:46,560 --> 00:29:50,480
Speaker 5: So I'm gonna give the simplest teaser of awe, because

611
00:29:50,480 --> 00:29:57,280
Speaker 5: it's going to be. It's going to be. It's gonna

612
00:29:57,760 --> 00:30:02,720
Speaker 5: look at yourself and be like, damn, she's right, so breathe.

613
00:30:03,240 --> 00:30:12,320
Speaker 5: Nobody breathes. Everybody is like and then they let out

614
00:30:12,320 --> 00:30:17,760
Speaker 5: this little two second nut. My orgasms last easily thirty seconds, right,

615
00:30:18,240 --> 00:30:21,400
Speaker 5: and people are like, thirty seconds ain't that long? So

616
00:30:21,440 --> 00:30:23,560
Speaker 5: I think that we should take like ten seconds right now,

617
00:30:23,640 --> 00:30:26,200
Speaker 5: just to a moment of silence for them basic nuts

618
00:30:26,240 --> 00:30:41,880
Speaker 5: that people are having. Okay, so that was ten seconds.

619
00:30:41,960 --> 00:30:44,040
Speaker 2: How was your basic as nut? That's my nut?

620
00:30:47,440 --> 00:30:51,160
Speaker 3: Basic in the street, driving over the across the airport

621
00:30:51,240 --> 00:30:53,400
Speaker 3: for a basic as the anal nuts.

622
00:30:54,040 --> 00:30:57,920
Speaker 5: Maybe aintal feels so good though, if you find somebody

623
00:30:57,920 --> 00:30:59,880
Speaker 5: you can actually do it with. I told you would drive.

624
00:31:00,040 --> 00:31:01,920
Speaker 2: That's the airport too. I haven't done a lot of

625
00:31:01,960 --> 00:31:04,960
Speaker 2: anal in my life. That's shocked that you were driving

626
00:31:04,960 --> 00:31:05,640
Speaker 2: about the airport.

627
00:31:08,400 --> 00:31:10,200
Speaker 5: You got to bring her with you, Like, come on, Erica,

628
00:31:10,280 --> 00:31:11,840
Speaker 5: let let's let we're gonna have you test down.

629
00:31:11,840 --> 00:31:16,280
Speaker 7: I'm show you there.

630
00:31:16,880 --> 00:31:20,960
Speaker 5: So long story short. Your blood your your well, you're

631
00:31:22,400 --> 00:31:25,000
Speaker 5: an orgasm and erection arousal all that. It's just blood

632
00:31:25,040 --> 00:31:28,120
Speaker 5: going to your genitals, right, but your blood needs oxygen.

633
00:31:28,280 --> 00:31:31,120
Speaker 5: If you hold your breath because you're scared that if

634
00:31:31,120 --> 00:31:33,400
Speaker 5: the air condition come on, or if he change up

635
00:31:33,560 --> 00:31:36,760
Speaker 5: his tongue or so down, or if you don't hurry up,

636
00:31:37,120 --> 00:31:39,120
Speaker 5: that you're gonna lose your net. A lot of us start,

637
00:31:39,360 --> 00:31:43,080
Speaker 5: you know, doing all that overthinking, you know, and you

638
00:31:43,120 --> 00:31:46,120
Speaker 5: stop yourself from nutting because you're trying to come right,

639
00:31:46,480 --> 00:31:49,080
Speaker 5: and so you're holding your breath, and so your body

640
00:31:49,520 --> 00:31:53,360
Speaker 5: is greedy, right, it wants an orgasm, but it also

641
00:31:53,400 --> 00:31:56,080
Speaker 5: wants to breathe, so it holds you hold your breath.

642
00:31:56,520 --> 00:32:00,719
Speaker 5: You come really quick, and then you start afterwards, and

643
00:32:01,200 --> 00:32:03,479
Speaker 5: so your body has not even finished. You cut your

644
00:32:03,560 --> 00:32:07,520
Speaker 5: nut short. You cut your nut short by holding your breath.

645
00:32:08,560 --> 00:32:11,560
Speaker 5: A lot of people are gonna listen. Okay, you're like,

646
00:32:11,600 --> 00:32:13,120
Speaker 5: I'm about to come, then I'm gonna make sure I

647
00:32:13,120 --> 00:32:14,760
Speaker 5: take deep breasts. No, you have to do it from

648
00:32:14,800 --> 00:32:15,280
Speaker 5: the jump.

649
00:32:16,280 --> 00:32:17,320
Speaker 2: I try that one too.

650
00:32:17,400 --> 00:32:20,320
Speaker 5: Yes, from the beginning. If you try to remember when

651
00:32:20,360 --> 00:32:23,400
Speaker 5: you're about to come, you're you're crazy. It's not possible.

652
00:32:24,160 --> 00:32:26,600
Speaker 5: Start from the beginning. So if you take three deep

653
00:32:26,600 --> 00:32:29,640
Speaker 5: breasts in three or four deep breasts in you I

654
00:32:29,760 --> 00:32:31,720
Speaker 5: like those the most, the breathe in ones, because it

655
00:32:31,720 --> 00:32:34,640
Speaker 5: feels like you're propelling towards your orgasm super fast. But

656
00:32:34,680 --> 00:32:37,120
Speaker 5: when you breathe out, it's scary because it feels like

657
00:32:37,160 --> 00:32:40,000
Speaker 5: you're about to lose your nut, but you're not. It's

658
00:32:40,040 --> 00:32:42,200
Speaker 5: like when you breathe in, you take three steps forward,

659
00:32:42,240 --> 00:32:44,160
Speaker 5: but when you breathe out, you take one step back.

660
00:32:44,160 --> 00:32:47,080
Speaker 5: But it's okay because you still were we two steps forward.

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Speaker 1: Does that make sense, Yeah, it's actually totally You're dragging

662
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Speaker 1: the tendon.

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Speaker 3: Makes total sense, actually, because I think lately I've been

664
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Speaker 3: because I I've i've been I'm massperating since I was

665
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Speaker 3: a teenager and then be able to like squore it

666
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Speaker 3: when I was eighteen or nineteen, and I don't know,

667
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Speaker 3: like I felt like, okay, I got I got the

668
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Speaker 3: hang of it right. But then in my thirties, late twenties, thirties,

669
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Speaker 3: I really started being cognizant of like how much I

670
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Speaker 3: hold my breath when I orgasm and when I come,

671
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Speaker 3: and that like I will hold my breath for like

672
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Speaker 3: the orgasm is building for at least a minute. I'm

673
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Speaker 3: holding my breath for almost a minute. It's crazy, like

674
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Speaker 3: and then I like at the end, and so if

675
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Speaker 3: we have the.

676
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Speaker 5: Power, that should have been your pussy like.

677
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Speaker 2: And so right.

678
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Speaker 3: And so I have been really over the last I guess,

679
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Speaker 3: like maybe two or three years, been trying to like

680
00:33:45,840 --> 00:33:48,280
Speaker 3: instead of being so much more conscious about because it's

681
00:33:48,280 --> 00:33:50,560
Speaker 3: almost like instinctually the what you want to do, that's

682
00:33:50,600 --> 00:33:52,560
Speaker 3: what your body wants to do, is hold your breath.

683
00:33:52,960 --> 00:33:56,600
Speaker 3: It's harder to like remember to breathe and like let

684
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Speaker 3: your body experience the pleasure. You're supposed to breathe through

685
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Speaker 3: the pleasure.

686
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Speaker 2: Why you want to heart? Why do you not want

687
00:34:01,480 --> 00:34:02,920
Speaker 2: to breathe through it? Why would you want to like

688
00:34:03,160 --> 00:34:06,680
Speaker 2: ten hens up, like relax and let it flow like

689
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Speaker 2: expand every present moment.

690
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Speaker 3: I feel like I really explored that a lot in

691
00:34:11,120 --> 00:34:13,960
Speaker 3: in my last relationship because I had so many orgasms

692
00:34:14,000 --> 00:34:17,239
Speaker 3: in that relationship that I was like, let me try

693
00:34:17,280 --> 00:34:19,440
Speaker 3: and explore this with a partner and let us breathe

694
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Speaker 3: together and do it. And it was amazing. It was amazing,

695
00:34:23,400 --> 00:34:25,839
Speaker 3: and I'm still working. I'm still I'm still need more

696
00:34:25,840 --> 00:34:27,680
Speaker 3: work at it because I still hold my brother. I

697
00:34:27,680 --> 00:34:30,560
Speaker 3: still catch myself holding my breath sometimes I have to say, like,

698
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Speaker 3: sometimes it.

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Speaker 2: Feels good to hold your brother.

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Speaker 5: I don't know, it's like it's a we know that

701
00:34:35,640 --> 00:34:37,560
Speaker 5: it'll work if we hold our breath, and I think

702
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Speaker 5: that sometimes it's the unfamiliar that's on the other side

703
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Speaker 5: of maybe because it's taking longer. And I think women

704
00:34:43,040 --> 00:34:47,680
Speaker 5: have been had blue pussy for so long, you know,

705
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Speaker 5: like blue balls, for so long of us feeling aroused

706
00:34:51,520 --> 00:34:53,319
Speaker 5: and not getting off that we're like, yo, if I

707
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Speaker 5: feel this net, I'm going after it now. We really

708
00:34:55,840 --> 00:34:59,600
Speaker 5: don't trust our own bodies because a lot of us

709
00:34:59,600 --> 00:35:03,120
Speaker 5: stumble upon how to make ourselves orgasm. We don't know

710
00:35:03,920 --> 00:35:06,200
Speaker 5: how to make our selves orgasm. We stumbled upon what

711
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Speaker 5: works for us, and so in this class, I'm teaching

712
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Speaker 5: you how to work the pussy, not your pussy. I'm

713
00:35:13,000 --> 00:35:17,520
Speaker 5: teaching you how to work pussy. You know what I'm saying. So,

714
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Speaker 5: and I did see the question about mental versus physical.

715
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Speaker 5: The mental does matter, but those are two separate things.

716
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Speaker 5: And most people like can do everything right, but mentally,

717
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Speaker 5: if you're not there, especially in motherhood, it's not going

718
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Speaker 5: to be possible. You have to make space for your sexuality,

719
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Speaker 5: you have to make space for your relationship, and you

720
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Speaker 5: have to speak up when you need help because your

721
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Speaker 5: partner is not a mind reader. And so hell, I've

722
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Speaker 5: taught a class on the perfect orgasm and it has

723
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Speaker 5: five components. That first part, the whole video is about

724
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Speaker 5: mental and the mental blockages we have because really, you're overworked,

725
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Speaker 5: to rub my booty stop like stop.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly, you know.

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764
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Speaker 2: Like rarely have I found that anyone.

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Speaker 3: After having a baby their sex life hasn't changed in

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Speaker 3: some way, like whether what their needs are, what they want,

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Speaker 1: But I feel like it's only if you give your

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Speaker 1: your body and yourself the opportunity to go there, because

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Speaker 1: it could go It could go terribly.

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Speaker 2: But that's what I mean too.

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Speaker 3: I don't mean positively only, I mean like it can

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Speaker 3: go badly too, Like it either is like going great

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Speaker 3: or like you're open to exploring more and wanting to

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Speaker 3: figure some shit out, or it's like you go deeper

776
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Speaker 3: into like this recluse of your sexuality.

777
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Speaker 2: I remember, like being postpartum. I don't know, maybe it's

778
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Speaker 2: a couple of weeks.

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Speaker 1: I'm not maybe it's a couple of weeks because I

780
00:38:37,360 --> 00:38:39,799
Speaker 1: don't think I could have sex out And I.

781
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Speaker 2: Remember my baby.

782
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Speaker 1: Daddy was holding the baby and he had like nudged

783
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Speaker 1: like for me to give him a head, and I

784
00:38:46,680 --> 00:38:52,080
Speaker 1: was just like fucking perplexed, like partially like he was

785
00:38:52,120 --> 00:38:54,680
Speaker 1: holding her she was asleep, and I was just like, how.

786
00:38:54,640 --> 00:38:55,840
Speaker 2: Fucking dare you?

787
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Speaker 5: Who are you to?

788
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Speaker 1: I was just like there was this time like my

789
00:39:02,280 --> 00:39:06,839
Speaker 1: boobs are so huge and leaking, Like I was just like,

790
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Speaker 1: I'm never gonna feel sexual again. I'm a motherfucking cow.

791
00:39:11,440 --> 00:39:15,480
Speaker 1: I'm literally feeding someone. Ah fucking day you want me

792
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Speaker 1: to do something for you. At that moment, I felt

793
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Speaker 1: like a machine. I was like, this is what womanhood

794
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Speaker 1: is like, having a baby and a nigga is giving

795
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Speaker 1: everything inside of you away, including this milk that I

796
00:39:27,400 --> 00:39:30,200
Speaker 1: didn't all this milk in my titties. Now you're asking

797
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Speaker 1: for some I was like, hell no, I was pissed

798
00:39:35,840 --> 00:39:39,759
Speaker 1: and I am a sexual person and I just I

799
00:39:39,840 --> 00:39:42,240
Speaker 1: really remember that I could never forget at that moment,

800
00:39:42,280 --> 00:39:44,960
Speaker 1: thinking this is not life.

801
00:39:45,120 --> 00:39:48,319
Speaker 2: This is the most terriblest decisions. This is not me.

802
00:39:48,520 --> 00:39:51,920
Speaker 1: Who am I like feeling like not only like I

803
00:39:51,920 --> 00:39:53,919
Speaker 1: feel like it's also like feeling you'd be a certain

804
00:39:53,960 --> 00:39:56,640
Speaker 1: type of like wife and a mother, and like the

805
00:39:56,680 --> 00:39:58,879
Speaker 1: freakiness goes out the window, but it was just like

806
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Speaker 1: I just didn't understand.

807
00:40:00,719 --> 00:40:03,680
Speaker 2: And and you know another thing you said it made me think.

808
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Speaker 1: Erica, You're like, I've been masturbating since I was in

809
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Speaker 1: my teenager, so you've been, like, obviously have a much

810
00:40:10,200 --> 00:40:13,920
Speaker 1: more comfortable, healthy relationship with masturbation than I do. Because

811
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Speaker 1: I was thinking, oh my god, you're right, Samaya, like

812
00:40:17,040 --> 00:40:19,920
Speaker 1: I do masturbate. Prefer to masturbate in the way I

813
00:40:19,960 --> 00:40:22,480
Speaker 1: did when I was like a little girl, like hump stuff.

814
00:40:22,640 --> 00:40:24,360
Speaker 1: I will come easy humping stuff.

815
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Speaker 2: I can have a.

816
00:40:25,040 --> 00:40:28,279
Speaker 1: Pillow, I can just hump stuff. I've had a guy

817
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Speaker 1: turnover on his butt, like I'll.

818
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Speaker 2: Hump your bet.

819
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Speaker 7: I'm like, I don't know what I'm gonna come.

820
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Speaker 1: Oh, So I really do masturbate very much like I

821
00:40:40,080 --> 00:40:42,640
Speaker 1: did as a child. And I also I realized that

822
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Speaker 1: I think another kid showed me like humping each other.

823
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Speaker 1: I was humping other girls and like doing weird shit

824
00:40:50,600 --> 00:40:52,960
Speaker 1: very young, and I probably I think maybe I was touched,

825
00:40:52,960 --> 00:40:56,040
Speaker 1: but definitely someone else was touched in the circle of

826
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Speaker 1: kids we were in because I was humping other people

827
00:41:00,200 --> 00:41:02,959
Speaker 1: and at a very young age, and now as an adult,

828
00:41:03,000 --> 00:41:06,000
Speaker 1: I can reflect and understand that there was some unhealthy

829
00:41:06,480 --> 00:41:08,080
Speaker 1: things introduced to movies.

830
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Speaker 5: Girls, could you Like, we used to watch love and

831
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Speaker 5: Basketball when we were with right.

832
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Speaker 1: Right, and you feel this little feeling and then you're

833
00:41:15,320 --> 00:41:18,719
Speaker 1: familiar with this feeling and like nobody talks about that enough.

834
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Speaker 1: But I feel like, because my quote unquote masturbation started

835
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Speaker 1: with like pillows, I do, I'll do that, but also

836
00:41:26,760 --> 00:41:31,439
Speaker 1: with other people prematurely, even I realized when she said

837
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Speaker 1: that this very moment, I've spent a lot of my

838
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Speaker 1: my adulthood masturbating with people. Yeah, not giving and like

839
00:41:39,480 --> 00:41:41,839
Speaker 1: not giving a fuck, like not giving a.

840
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Speaker 2: Fuck who it is. But really I don't really have

841
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Speaker 2: to love you, but no.

842
00:41:46,440 --> 00:41:50,960
Speaker 3: But honestly though, like masturbation will save you like not

843
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Speaker 3: fucking people, because sometimes I'll feel the need, I'll feel

844
00:41:54,680 --> 00:41:57,880
Speaker 3: the urge to have sex, and I'll be like, you

845
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Speaker 3: know what, let me just masturbate and then i'm a

846
00:42:00,320 --> 00:42:02,440
Speaker 3: and I'm like I'm good. I don't even really not

847
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Speaker 3: one person that I was gonna fuck, because just because

848
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Speaker 3: I didn't have to give my energy, I didn't have

849
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Speaker 3: to fucking you didn't have to come over here and

850
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Speaker 3: have figure out how the fuck you're gonna get.

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Speaker 1: Out, Like well, and I'm realizing that in this conversation

852
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Speaker 1: that like, because I was introduced to masturbations so early,

853
00:42:16,120 --> 00:42:19,120
Speaker 1: or the feeling or this this sexual like the feeling

854
00:42:19,160 --> 00:42:22,919
Speaker 1: of even what that feels like with other people, I've

855
00:42:22,920 --> 00:42:27,600
Speaker 1: spent my entire life mimicking that behavior without questioning it.

856
00:42:27,680 --> 00:42:29,080
Speaker 2: And just like, man, I don't.

857
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Speaker 1: Really you know, And I think, wow, you know, we

858
00:42:31,120 --> 00:42:33,600
Speaker 1: do have to really as as adults a part of

859
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Speaker 1: like you know.

860
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Speaker 2: When you when we're.

861
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Speaker 1: Growing and examining ourselves and examining a childhood and examining

862
00:42:39,239 --> 00:42:41,160
Speaker 1: our trauma and how it comes out in our relationships

863
00:42:41,200 --> 00:42:43,760
Speaker 1: and our friendships and all these other things.

864
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Speaker 2: Like even shit like that.

865
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Speaker 1: It's just like you have to even examine that. Do

866
00:42:46,719 --> 00:42:49,920
Speaker 1: I have a healthy relationship with masturbation and with pleasure

867
00:42:50,120 --> 00:42:52,960
Speaker 1: and with myself and like, and that reflects a lot

868
00:42:53,000 --> 00:42:55,160
Speaker 1: and how we get in relationships with niggas we don't

869
00:42:55,160 --> 00:42:57,600
Speaker 1: need to get in relationships with because we confuse this

870
00:42:57,680 --> 00:43:02,640
Speaker 1: good feeling with a good relationship and it ain't right.

871
00:43:02,840 --> 00:43:06,800
Speaker 5: I feel what you're saying, Erica. On the after you masturbate,

872
00:43:06,880 --> 00:43:08,920
Speaker 5: you're like, Hm, I don't need to fuck you. Do

873
00:43:08,960 --> 00:43:12,080
Speaker 5: you know how much pussy men get because women are horny,

874
00:43:12,160 --> 00:43:15,640
Speaker 5: not because they actually earned it deserve it, or.

875
00:43:16,600 --> 00:43:20,560
Speaker 3: Between horny and wanting to fuck someone, like like, sometimes.

876
00:43:20,200 --> 00:43:22,320
Speaker 5: You want a person, sometimes you just want a person.

877
00:43:22,360 --> 00:43:25,040
Speaker 5: And honestly, I feel like women go back to people

878
00:43:25,040 --> 00:43:27,120
Speaker 5: that don't even give them orgasms, or go back to

879
00:43:27,160 --> 00:43:29,920
Speaker 5: people who just not even a good fuck in all actuality,

880
00:43:29,920 --> 00:43:31,080
Speaker 5: but in the moment.

881
00:43:30,880 --> 00:43:34,040
Speaker 2: Your day, all the time, constantly.

882
00:43:33,800 --> 00:43:34,640
Speaker 5: It's what you need.

883
00:43:34,680 --> 00:43:37,359
Speaker 10: But I took something from what Melis said, which is

884
00:43:37,640 --> 00:43:40,759
Speaker 10: she basically was talking about mutual masturbation, being able to

885
00:43:40,800 --> 00:43:42,680
Speaker 10: do it with the partner, and I feel like she's

886
00:43:42,680 --> 00:43:45,680
Speaker 10: going to have She's going to flourish in this class.

887
00:43:45,600 --> 00:43:52,640
Speaker 9: Because I'm so excited for my friends too, because she's

888
00:43:52,680 --> 00:43:55,520
Speaker 9: already mastered the part that peoplehood that have been married

889
00:43:55,520 --> 00:43:59,440
Speaker 9: for years cannot master, which is joining your masturbation.

890
00:44:00,800 --> 00:44:03,960
Speaker 5: With your partner. And I think that if we could

891
00:44:03,960 --> 00:44:08,360
Speaker 5: all be honest for a second of your relationship and say, hey, okay,

892
00:44:08,440 --> 00:44:13,560
Speaker 5: let's play this out. Say a lady, say you, Erica,

893
00:44:13,640 --> 00:44:15,799
Speaker 5: are talking to your man and you're like, hey, I

894
00:44:15,840 --> 00:44:17,840
Speaker 5: want to you making the moves for sex to happen.

895
00:44:18,800 --> 00:44:21,480
Speaker 5: If he could actually say to you, I'm not gonna

896
00:44:21,480 --> 00:44:24,000
Speaker 5: lie to you. You sexy as fuck. I would love to,

897
00:44:24,080 --> 00:44:26,719
Speaker 5: but I am not in the mood. But take off

898
00:44:26,760 --> 00:44:28,959
Speaker 5: your panties, take off your clothes. I'm about to still

899
00:44:29,000 --> 00:44:32,120
Speaker 5: pleasure you by masturbating on you instead of giving you

900
00:44:32,160 --> 00:44:34,600
Speaker 5: some basic dig I feel like the world would be

901
00:44:34,640 --> 00:44:36,520
Speaker 5: a better place. I feel like the world would be

902
00:44:36,560 --> 00:44:38,720
Speaker 5: a better place if we didn't do things we actually

903
00:44:38,760 --> 00:44:40,600
Speaker 5: didn't have the energy to do, so we could have

904
00:44:40,640 --> 00:44:43,320
Speaker 5: thorough sex every time. Stop acting like you have to

905
00:44:43,360 --> 00:44:46,280
Speaker 5: be able to do it all. Like there are toys

906
00:44:46,320 --> 00:44:48,239
Speaker 5: out there to help you when you don't feel like it,

907
00:44:48,280 --> 00:44:51,200
Speaker 5: when you are tired, when your body is aching because

908
00:44:51,239 --> 00:44:53,440
Speaker 5: you didn't turn thirty five, you know, she'd just be

909
00:44:53,440 --> 00:44:57,000
Speaker 5: popping up. Oh do we get? But whatever? It is like,

910
00:44:57,040 --> 00:44:59,800
Speaker 5: if we could use masturbation and use toys when we

911
00:45:00,120 --> 00:45:03,880
Speaker 5: fall a little short, I think relationships would be better. So, Mila,

912
00:45:04,000 --> 00:45:07,880
Speaker 5: already having a healthy relationship with mutual masturbation is gone.

913
00:45:08,040 --> 00:45:10,000
Speaker 5: You've already got the hard part out the way. People

914
00:45:10,000 --> 00:45:14,839
Speaker 5: that have been together for years cannot fathom laying down

915
00:45:14,920 --> 00:45:17,480
Speaker 5: and masturbating, even in front of someone. They feel like

916
00:45:17,480 --> 00:45:19,600
Speaker 5: they're in that chakuzie with five other people and it's

917
00:45:19,640 --> 00:45:21,680
Speaker 5: the person that they're with for the rest of their life.

918
00:45:25,040 --> 00:45:26,399
Speaker 2: So many people feel that way.

919
00:45:27,080 --> 00:45:28,799
Speaker 5: You know, here's one more you want to know. Another

920
00:45:28,800 --> 00:45:31,279
Speaker 5: reason they can't do it because they've been faking nuts

921
00:45:31,280 --> 00:45:33,399
Speaker 5: and as soon as they catch the nut, whoever they're

922
00:45:33,400 --> 00:45:34,359
Speaker 5: fucking is going to.

923
00:45:34,280 --> 00:45:41,440
Speaker 10: Know no like, oh that's deep, that's so deep.

924
00:45:41,719 --> 00:45:44,640
Speaker 5: Fuck, thanks for coming to my ted top.

925
00:45:44,719 --> 00:45:45,960
Speaker 7: Let's ride on.

926
00:45:49,160 --> 00:45:51,200
Speaker 5: But seriously, they don't want to masturbate in front of

927
00:45:51,239 --> 00:45:52,880
Speaker 5: somebody else because it's going to be very clear when

928
00:45:52,880 --> 00:45:55,440
Speaker 5: they see everything that your body lets go when you

929
00:45:55,480 --> 00:45:57,880
Speaker 5: do it by yourself, and then when they realize what

930
00:45:58,000 --> 00:46:01,840
Speaker 5: y'all have been doing together. And I feel like we

931
00:46:01,880 --> 00:46:03,600
Speaker 5: need to get to a point where in a relationship,

932
00:46:04,040 --> 00:46:06,440
Speaker 5: in whoever you're fucking, if you're giving somebody head or

933
00:46:06,440 --> 00:46:08,800
Speaker 5: you're having sex and sex and she doesn't come, it

934
00:46:08,840 --> 00:46:11,000
Speaker 5: should be natural reaction for you to pull a toy

935
00:46:11,080 --> 00:46:13,800
Speaker 5: out of the drawer or should already be sitting out

936
00:46:13,880 --> 00:46:16,160
Speaker 5: And so you've already warned, if you've already set the

937
00:46:16,160 --> 00:46:19,120
Speaker 5: mood for whatever can happen, can happen. So she feels

938
00:46:19,160 --> 00:46:21,600
Speaker 5: like her orgasm matters, You know damn well that you

939
00:46:21,640 --> 00:46:23,440
Speaker 5: didn't make her come, and you legit got up and

940
00:46:23,480 --> 00:46:27,400
Speaker 5: got her a rag for what since your ass back down.

941
00:46:28,200 --> 00:46:32,120
Speaker 7: You got the rap for yourself, becau, Yeah, because.

942
00:46:33,360 --> 00:46:36,200
Speaker 5: What do I need that for? Like, I just I

943
00:46:36,280 --> 00:46:38,200
Speaker 5: just really feel like we've gotten to a point where

944
00:46:38,200 --> 00:46:41,880
Speaker 5: everybody is embarrassed to pull out sex toys and like,

945
00:46:41,920 --> 00:46:45,040
Speaker 5: if you didn't make me, he who gives the nut

946
00:46:45,160 --> 00:46:46,960
Speaker 5: can claim the nuts. So if you gave me a

947
00:46:47,040 --> 00:46:49,680
Speaker 5: nut with a toy, it's your nut. You made me come,

948
00:46:50,440 --> 00:46:50,839
Speaker 5: you know what?

949
00:46:50,920 --> 00:46:53,560
Speaker 3: Though, I will say, thinking about like how people feel

950
00:46:53,560 --> 00:46:56,719
Speaker 3: ashamed about pulling out sex toys, like a lot of

951
00:46:56,719 --> 00:46:59,520
Speaker 3: that too, Like I feel for me because I am

952
00:46:59,560 --> 00:47:04,279
Speaker 3: a sex toy user and but really only solo. I've

953
00:47:04,280 --> 00:47:06,560
Speaker 3: done it with partners, but they've made me feel weird

954
00:47:06,560 --> 00:47:08,680
Speaker 3: about it because I think sex toys make men feel

955
00:47:08,680 --> 00:47:11,960
Speaker 3: inadequate or like feel like their dick isn't Yeah, their

956
00:47:12,000 --> 00:47:14,440
Speaker 3: dick isn't enough, their dick doesn't vibrate. It's not gonna

957
00:47:14,440 --> 00:47:18,000
Speaker 3: make you come that way, like, but it doesn't.

958
00:47:18,440 --> 00:47:23,040
Speaker 1: So I don't know everybody, that's one of the situations.

959
00:47:23,760 --> 00:47:25,880
Speaker 5: I feel like there are so many different ways for

960
00:47:25,920 --> 00:47:29,160
Speaker 5: women to come though, and because men can't it stops

961
00:47:29,160 --> 00:47:32,160
Speaker 5: our pleasure. Like women, you can have a clitical orgasm

962
00:47:32,200 --> 00:47:34,680
Speaker 5: and it can feel four different ways just from one

963
00:47:34,680 --> 00:47:38,920
Speaker 5: clitical orgasm. We can have nipple orgasms, anal orgasms, vaginal orgasms.

964
00:47:39,040 --> 00:47:43,719
Speaker 2: A vaginal orgasms are an orgasmic being. We are orgasmal.

965
00:47:44,400 --> 00:47:47,520
Speaker 5: I feel like men low key are insecure because they

966
00:47:47,520 --> 00:47:52,279
Speaker 5: feel like, Oh, I'll love you, okay, hi key, you

967
00:47:52,280 --> 00:47:54,000
Speaker 5: should be able to give me everything. You know, I

968
00:47:54,040 --> 00:47:55,640
Speaker 5: should be able to give you everything. But if you

969
00:47:55,680 --> 00:47:57,799
Speaker 5: really want to give me everything, it has to come

970
00:47:57,800 --> 00:48:00,719
Speaker 5: with just accepting the truth. It is not possible for

971
00:48:00,840 --> 00:48:05,080
Speaker 5: you to help. They don't. They don't even be DJing

972
00:48:05,120 --> 00:48:07,200
Speaker 5: to click correctly when they got their dick in. They

973
00:48:07,280 --> 00:48:10,359
Speaker 5: be all up there on your belly button like you

974
00:48:10,440 --> 00:48:12,839
Speaker 5: can do both all the time. You need to get

975
00:48:12,880 --> 00:48:16,000
Speaker 5: you a cute glass deal though, to fuck her with

976
00:48:16,040 --> 00:48:19,160
Speaker 5: while you eat her pussy, because you cannot give top

977
00:48:19,200 --> 00:48:21,520
Speaker 5: notch dick and top not top notch head at.

978
00:48:21,400 --> 00:48:21,799
Speaker 4: The same time.

979
00:48:21,840 --> 00:48:24,680
Speaker 5: Why you think women won't three someomes in their dreams

980
00:48:24,680 --> 00:48:26,680
Speaker 5: with two men because they really want to be pleasured

981
00:48:26,719 --> 00:48:32,040
Speaker 5: correctly in more than one way. A number of time

982
00:48:32,840 --> 00:48:34,879
Speaker 5: they don't want to give us that you don't want

983
00:48:34,920 --> 00:48:36,640
Speaker 5: to use no toys. You just want to give us

984
00:48:36,640 --> 00:48:41,360
Speaker 5: the same dick that you give us, intimidated by what

985
00:48:41,400 --> 00:48:44,359
Speaker 5: I'm able to do. So you know what. We know

986
00:48:44,440 --> 00:48:47,439
Speaker 5: this as women in our space, but it does matter

987
00:48:47,440 --> 00:48:49,680
Speaker 5: in making your partner feel good. I will say that

988
00:48:49,840 --> 00:48:52,040
Speaker 5: they reciprocate the energy you usually give.

989
00:48:52,360 --> 00:48:52,719
Speaker 4: How do you?

990
00:48:53,400 --> 00:48:54,719
Speaker 3: How do you? How do you can talk to your

991
00:48:54,719 --> 00:48:57,560
Speaker 3: partner about wanting to introduce toys into your sex life?

992
00:48:58,120 --> 00:49:02,120
Speaker 5: So I say just about sex period. If you're not

993
00:49:02,160 --> 00:49:04,040
Speaker 5: talking about sex at all, it's going to sound crazy

994
00:49:04,040 --> 00:49:07,919
Speaker 5: when you ask to basically say that you need.

995
00:49:11,920 --> 00:49:13,080
Speaker 2: Aout sex ever.

996
00:49:13,320 --> 00:49:14,839
Speaker 5: And the first thing you say is like, oh, can

997
00:49:14,840 --> 00:49:17,120
Speaker 5: we add this because I ain't never came. Like the

998
00:49:17,160 --> 00:49:19,120
Speaker 5: reason that people can't talk about sex is because they've

999
00:49:19,160 --> 00:49:20,880
Speaker 5: never been honest. So they really kind of have to

1000
00:49:20,920 --> 00:49:23,000
Speaker 5: go back and fix a lot of shit they haven't

1001
00:49:23,040 --> 00:49:23,799
Speaker 5: said or said.

1002
00:49:24,120 --> 00:49:26,279
Speaker 1: It's not if you if you come to the gate

1003
00:49:26,360 --> 00:49:30,160
Speaker 1: talking about sex, asking questions what's your fantasy where.

1004
00:49:30,000 --> 00:49:31,960
Speaker 5: You like this is what I like that?

1005
00:49:32,480 --> 00:49:35,080
Speaker 1: Those are things that will be fluid and nowncal relationship.

1006
00:49:35,120 --> 00:49:37,960
Speaker 1: It is hard if you've gone and never discussed in depth,

1007
00:49:38,320 --> 00:49:40,080
Speaker 1: you don't asking questions on a regular basis.

1008
00:49:40,120 --> 00:49:42,719
Speaker 2: They're going to be definitely, but it's not too late.

1009
00:49:42,880 --> 00:49:43,840
Speaker 2: You can still.

1010
00:49:45,360 --> 00:49:47,080
Speaker 5: Say this. This is what you have to do, and

1011
00:49:47,120 --> 00:49:48,640
Speaker 5: you have to say the thing that you think you're

1012
00:49:48,640 --> 00:49:52,400
Speaker 5: not supposed to say. Right, So, in all honesty, how

1013
00:49:52,400 --> 00:49:55,360
Speaker 5: do you feel that's what you need to say politely? Okay?

1014
00:49:55,560 --> 00:49:59,040
Speaker 5: So in all honesty, most people are like, Hey, I

1015
00:49:59,080 --> 00:50:00,880
Speaker 5: just want you to know I love you, and I

1016
00:50:01,000 --> 00:50:03,280
Speaker 5: realize that maybe I have not put as much effort

1017
00:50:03,320 --> 00:50:05,960
Speaker 5: into our sex life as I should have, and I

1018
00:50:06,040 --> 00:50:09,600
Speaker 5: know that I need to do better. But I just

1019
00:50:09,640 --> 00:50:12,360
Speaker 5: want to know. Would you be interested in, like learning

1020
00:50:12,360 --> 00:50:15,640
Speaker 5: more about sex with me? Because I've started following this

1021
00:50:15,680 --> 00:50:17,719
Speaker 5: page and I heard this and I didn't realize some

1022
00:50:17,760 --> 00:50:20,520
Speaker 5: of these things were even possible. I really want to

1023
00:50:20,640 --> 00:50:22,719
Speaker 5: try this, but I don't want you to judge me,

1024
00:50:22,800 --> 00:50:24,480
Speaker 5: and I don't want you to think I'm not satisfied

1025
00:50:24,480 --> 00:50:26,680
Speaker 5: with you. I just want to explore as much as

1026
00:50:26,680 --> 00:50:29,440
Speaker 5: I can with you while I can or can we

1027
00:50:29,480 --> 00:50:32,200
Speaker 5: do that? Like, are you open to that? Would you

1028
00:50:32,239 --> 00:50:35,919
Speaker 5: watch this video with me? I really love the way

1029
00:50:35,920 --> 00:50:38,480
Speaker 5: you give me Dick. I heard on this podcast that

1030
00:50:38,600 --> 00:50:41,759
Speaker 5: actually if we add this while you're doing that that

1031
00:50:42,160 --> 00:50:45,920
Speaker 5: it would probably even get even bigger. And I know

1032
00:50:47,719 --> 00:50:50,080
Speaker 5: the fact that we get even and I just I

1033
00:50:50,120 --> 00:50:53,279
Speaker 5: feel like, you know, like you got the sad shit.

1034
00:50:53,880 --> 00:50:58,120
Speaker 3: You have to finess the ego while you know you

1035
00:50:58,120 --> 00:51:00,880
Speaker 3: you though it's my I can say you're a finessina,

1036
00:51:01,160 --> 00:51:01,760
Speaker 3: I can tell.

1037
00:51:02,920 --> 00:51:10,000
Speaker 5: I can we cut that part out? Yeah?

1038
00:51:10,040 --> 00:51:10,560
Speaker 2: I was like.

1039
00:51:12,000 --> 00:51:18,600
Speaker 3: Here, I was like, huh, yeah, yeah, whatever you want.

1040
00:51:19,680 --> 00:51:22,080
Speaker 2: Watched them the links, let's talk to it together.

1041
00:51:22,480 --> 00:51:28,040
Speaker 5: Let I was like, I was like.

1042
00:51:28,000 --> 00:51:31,120
Speaker 3: Okay, But as I'm listening to I'm thinking of all

1043
00:51:31,160 --> 00:51:32,560
Speaker 3: the people that don't have this finesse.

1044
00:51:32,600 --> 00:51:32,880
Speaker 2: I'm like.

1045
00:51:34,360 --> 00:51:36,480
Speaker 3: To write, we need to write it down and rehearse

1046
00:51:36,520 --> 00:51:38,359
Speaker 3: in the mirror, rewind.

1047
00:51:38,520 --> 00:51:41,960
Speaker 5: But it's not coming from an honest place. You have

1048
00:51:42,040 --> 00:51:43,399
Speaker 5: to be honest with yourself.

1049
00:51:43,120 --> 00:51:47,239
Speaker 2: First, and you absolutely that's me. Huh.

1050
00:51:47,280 --> 00:51:49,239
Speaker 5: Everybody wants to know. How do you tell somebody that

1051
00:51:49,280 --> 00:51:52,400
Speaker 5: you've actually never come like or that you've been faking it?

1052
00:51:53,040 --> 00:51:55,319
Speaker 5: You have to be honest. Yet again, I didn't lie

1053
00:51:55,480 --> 00:51:57,359
Speaker 5: with anything I said. I didn't lie, but I also

1054
00:51:57,400 --> 00:51:59,520
Speaker 5: did not hope the bear.

1055
00:52:00,400 --> 00:52:04,000
Speaker 3: The honesty also comes with I think admitting to yourself

1056
00:52:04,080 --> 00:52:06,799
Speaker 3: that like it's not you, because I think as women too,

1057
00:52:06,840 --> 00:52:09,759
Speaker 3: we will convince ourselves that, like he maybe maybe it's

1058
00:52:09,800 --> 00:52:13,000
Speaker 3: just I'm tripping, like maybe it's like you know, you

1059
00:52:13,040 --> 00:52:15,320
Speaker 3: start thinking like maybe my pussy's broken.

1060
00:52:15,480 --> 00:52:17,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, maybe my pussy's.

1061
00:52:17,200 --> 00:52:20,000
Speaker 3: Broken, and you have to come to the place where

1062
00:52:20,000 --> 00:52:21,400
Speaker 3: you're like, Nope, she's not broken.

1063
00:52:21,480 --> 00:52:25,440
Speaker 2: Niggad, we're just not communicating our day, can put it?

1064
00:52:27,360 --> 00:52:29,359
Speaker 5: I feel like we don't read the instructions on this

1065
00:52:29,400 --> 00:52:32,240
Speaker 5: pussy because guess what, there are no instructions anywhere. Nobody

1066
00:52:32,320 --> 00:52:34,799
Speaker 5: has given us pussy instructions. They just teach you how

1067
00:52:34,800 --> 00:52:36,640
Speaker 5: to not get an STD and not to get pregnant

1068
00:52:37,080 --> 00:52:42,720
Speaker 5: and complex pussies and ask for grand kids. That's all people,

1069
00:52:42,760 --> 00:52:46,680
Speaker 5: do you know what? Right? That's there are no instructions,

1070
00:52:46,680 --> 00:52:49,480
Speaker 5: So guess what. Some of it is our fault. The

1071
00:52:49,600 --> 00:52:51,680
Speaker 5: fault is that we don't know how to work our pussy.

1072
00:52:51,800 --> 00:52:55,120
Speaker 5: Is that your fault? No, yes, the fault is that

1073
00:52:55,160 --> 00:52:56,759
Speaker 5: you don't know how to work your pussy, But that.

1074
00:52:56,840 --> 00:52:58,560
Speaker 2: Alone not your fault.

1075
00:52:58,719 --> 00:53:01,800
Speaker 5: Right right now that you've heard this, I am charging

1076
00:53:01,880 --> 00:53:06,520
Speaker 5: up everybody to say, you know what, do I really know? Like, Okay,

1077
00:53:06,840 --> 00:53:09,040
Speaker 5: y'all ever had sex and then you think about like

1078
00:53:09,120 --> 00:53:11,480
Speaker 5: loving basketball, or think about them sex scenes you want

1079
00:53:11,520 --> 00:53:13,840
Speaker 5: suppost be watching and like, is this the type of

1080
00:53:13,880 --> 00:53:15,279
Speaker 5: sex they was having? Because I don't think.

1081
00:53:16,920 --> 00:53:19,279
Speaker 3: I don't think I've had that sex, though I've had

1082
00:53:19,280 --> 00:53:21,280
Speaker 3: some loving basketball ass sex for sure.

1083
00:53:22,360 --> 00:53:23,239
Speaker 5: Different, Yeah, I do.

1084
00:53:23,440 --> 00:53:23,720
Speaker 2: Different.

1085
00:53:24,040 --> 00:53:25,879
Speaker 5: It takes for you to get that, to even realize, oh,

1086
00:53:25,880 --> 00:53:28,280
Speaker 5: I haven't had it. And if you if some women

1087
00:53:28,400 --> 00:53:30,759
Speaker 5: have only been with people that were not satisfying and

1088
00:53:30,800 --> 00:53:33,840
Speaker 5: they don't know that this isn't it? How could you

1089
00:53:34,000 --> 00:53:37,840
Speaker 5: even know that anything else exists if you've never experienced it. So,

1090
00:53:38,000 --> 00:53:41,319
Speaker 5: whoever is listening today, let's give a handclap for good

1091
00:53:41,360 --> 00:53:46,759
Speaker 5: mom's bad choices because you're giving they're giving you something

1092
00:53:46,800 --> 00:53:48,759
Speaker 5: right now, they're showing you the life. Do not be

1093
00:53:48,800 --> 00:53:50,960
Speaker 5: one of those people that are like, I don't need that,

1094
00:53:51,000 --> 00:53:53,760
Speaker 5: I don't need this, Okay, that's why I'm bibity boppity

1095
00:53:53,800 --> 00:53:59,440
Speaker 5: hopping around, happiest shit. This is why. This is why you're.

1096
00:54:01,640 --> 00:54:03,600
Speaker 7: This is why you're upset.

1097
00:54:03,680 --> 00:54:05,920
Speaker 5: This is what and I know everybody like says that

1098
00:54:06,000 --> 00:54:08,040
Speaker 5: relationships lives longer with better sex, And this is this.

1099
00:54:08,160 --> 00:54:10,040
Speaker 5: I promise you, if you can be honest about sex,

1100
00:54:10,520 --> 00:54:13,759
Speaker 5: every other conversation will get better. I'm not saying that

1101
00:54:13,800 --> 00:54:15,759
Speaker 5: you can have good sex in a bad relationship. I'm

1102
00:54:15,800 --> 00:54:16,839
Speaker 5: not telling you to do.

1103
00:54:16,800 --> 00:54:19,399
Speaker 1: That, but it runs out the good sex. You can

1104
00:54:19,480 --> 00:54:21,919
Speaker 1: have great sex in a trailb of relationship. But guess

1105
00:54:21,920 --> 00:54:24,520
Speaker 1: what will happen, Honey, That sex won't even feel good

1106
00:54:24,560 --> 00:54:27,640
Speaker 1: because the misery overcomes the pleasure. Every time I have

1107
00:54:27,760 --> 00:54:29,880
Speaker 1: been there, I have sat there, and I have like, fuck,

1108
00:54:30,280 --> 00:54:33,840
Speaker 1: this is not even good anymore. Your body will stop responding,

1109
00:54:34,560 --> 00:54:36,400
Speaker 1: and every time, every.

1110
00:54:36,160 --> 00:54:38,279
Speaker 5: Time, it will stop. But I will say this, the

1111
00:54:38,320 --> 00:54:41,880
Speaker 5: more that you can talk about sexuality, everything else doesn't

1112
00:54:41,880 --> 00:54:44,239
Speaker 5: seem as bad because I promise you talking about sex

1113
00:54:44,239 --> 00:54:45,920
Speaker 5: and the taboo this world has put on it to

1114
00:54:45,960 --> 00:54:48,520
Speaker 5: make us feel nasty. Nothing else in the world is

1115
00:54:48,560 --> 00:54:51,040
Speaker 5: like that. If you want to learn how to you know,

1116
00:54:51,200 --> 00:54:53,600
Speaker 5: pay taxes, if you want to learn how to I

1117
00:54:53,600 --> 00:54:56,000
Speaker 5: don't start a business. All of that is hard, But

1118
00:54:56,040 --> 00:54:58,640
Speaker 5: guess what you could talk about it Anywhere? Where are

1119
00:54:58,680 --> 00:55:00,360
Speaker 5: you gonna talk about sex where it's not gonna be

1120
00:55:00,400 --> 00:55:04,880
Speaker 5: misconstrued as you nasty or you married? You shouldn't be

1121
00:55:04,960 --> 00:55:08,160
Speaker 5: doing it. Hell, we watch what happened when WAP came out.

1122
00:55:08,440 --> 00:55:10,440
Speaker 5: Everybody was talking bad about them, and I'm like, shit,

1123
00:55:10,520 --> 00:55:12,279
Speaker 5: I got a nasty side too, like.

1124
00:55:12,520 --> 00:55:14,520
Speaker 2: And everybody likes it. All the niggas like it until

1125
00:55:14,520 --> 00:55:14,960
Speaker 2: you talk.

1126
00:55:14,840 --> 00:55:16,800
Speaker 1: About it, and then all of a sudden you're unworthy.

1127
00:55:17,080 --> 00:55:20,440
Speaker 1: You have to advocate for your pleasure. You have to

1128
00:55:20,480 --> 00:55:22,719
Speaker 1: advocate for your pleasure and for your fucking self. And

1129
00:55:22,760 --> 00:55:24,879
Speaker 1: the only way you could do that is by being

1130
00:55:25,040 --> 00:55:26,320
Speaker 1: super completely honest.

1131
00:55:26,480 --> 00:55:27,919
Speaker 2: And you know what I've learned, because I'm a whole

1132
00:55:27,920 --> 00:55:28,480
Speaker 2: lot of women.

1133
00:55:28,960 --> 00:55:30,799
Speaker 1: If they can't handle it, you ain't for me.

1134
00:55:31,080 --> 00:55:33,400
Speaker 2: It's fine, You're just not my nigga.

1135
00:55:33,960 --> 00:55:35,279
Speaker 5: If this is true, like I can't.

1136
00:55:35,320 --> 00:55:37,840
Speaker 1: I've had friends tell me, relaxed, don't be so honest,

1137
00:55:37,840 --> 00:55:40,960
Speaker 1: so early, calm down. Why so in three months they

1138
00:55:41,040 --> 00:55:42,680
Speaker 1: be like, this is crazy.

1139
00:55:43,480 --> 00:55:45,880
Speaker 5: If it's the truth, it's not going anywhere. You know

1140
00:55:45,960 --> 00:55:47,520
Speaker 5: what I'm saying, Like, if it's the truth, why not

1141
00:55:47,600 --> 00:55:50,960
Speaker 5: get it out the way now? And then also, the

1142
00:55:51,040 --> 00:55:53,319
Speaker 5: fact is a lot of people that are intimidated by

1143
00:55:53,440 --> 00:55:56,040
Speaker 5: nasty ass women are the men that can't get you.

1144
00:55:56,120 --> 00:55:58,080
Speaker 5: So now you're nasty because when you was, when you

1145
00:55:58,160 --> 00:56:00,560
Speaker 5: was in my DM asking for it, it was nasty.

1146
00:56:00,719 --> 00:56:03,200
Speaker 5: When I said no, then I was a nasty bitch.

1147
00:56:03,320 --> 00:56:05,080
Speaker 5: You know what, I take my nasty bitch ass on

1148
00:56:05,120 --> 00:56:09,640
Speaker 5: over there and suck somebody else did good bye? Like, look,

1149
00:56:09,680 --> 00:56:11,560
Speaker 5: I give myself more nuts you will ever be able

1150
00:56:11,600 --> 00:56:13,120
Speaker 5: to give me. So you can't talk to me like that,

1151
00:56:13,320 --> 00:56:15,759
Speaker 5: Like you can't. You can't even talk to me if

1152
00:56:15,800 --> 00:56:18,520
Speaker 5: you ain't made me come. You fucked did you? It

1153
00:56:18,520 --> 00:56:19,880
Speaker 5: don't count If I didn't come.

1154
00:56:20,680 --> 00:56:21,520
Speaker 7: I fucked you.

1155
00:56:21,800 --> 00:56:24,239
Speaker 2: I fucked you, so you believe that doesn't count if

1156
00:56:24,239 --> 00:56:24,800
Speaker 2: you didn't.

1157
00:56:24,560 --> 00:56:32,400
Speaker 5: Come, absolutely, I'm like, I don't fight. How many for

1158
00:56:33,320 --> 00:56:35,680
Speaker 5: I haven't even counted. But I will say this though,

1159
00:56:36,160 --> 00:56:38,279
Speaker 5: when having sex, I can always catch my net.

1160
00:56:38,560 --> 00:56:40,840
Speaker 7: But but I'm very.

1161
00:56:40,680 --> 00:56:42,560
Speaker 5: Clear who gave me the nut? It was me because

1162
00:56:42,560 --> 00:56:43,399
Speaker 5: I knew what to.

1163
00:56:43,360 --> 00:56:45,279
Speaker 2: Do, But because you knew that this wasn't gonna work,

1164
00:56:45,320 --> 00:56:46,040
Speaker 2: it wasn't gonna happen.

1165
00:56:46,080 --> 00:56:47,640
Speaker 3: I think that's where I've gotten it fucked up, is

1166
00:56:47,640 --> 00:56:51,200
Speaker 3: that I sometimes I don't I'm not clear, and that'll

1167
00:56:51,200 --> 00:56:53,920
Speaker 3: make me stay around for longer because I'm like, no.

1168
00:56:53,920 --> 00:56:57,279
Speaker 2: Like he made me come, right, like eventually it was

1169
00:56:57,320 --> 00:56:58,160
Speaker 2: eventually it was him?

1170
00:56:58,239 --> 00:57:04,000
Speaker 5: Right asked, how do you know if you never had

1171
00:57:04,040 --> 00:57:06,600
Speaker 5: an orgasm? If you had to ask you've never had one,

1172
00:57:07,000 --> 00:57:10,040
Speaker 5: and if I said, have you ever shipped yourself? You

1173
00:57:10,080 --> 00:57:10,840
Speaker 5: would know the answer.

1174
00:57:11,680 --> 00:57:15,960
Speaker 7: No, you just you know that's.

1175
00:57:15,800 --> 00:57:27,280
Speaker 3: How okay, Oh my gosh, okay, well we have some

1176
00:57:27,440 --> 00:57:29,800
Speaker 3: we have some people that wrote in and had some

1177
00:57:29,920 --> 00:57:33,320
Speaker 3: questions for you, So all right.

1178
00:57:36,400 --> 00:57:38,360
Speaker 2: That someone wants to know if you have any dick

1179
00:57:38,440 --> 00:57:39,240
Speaker 2: sucking tricks.

1180
00:57:40,840 --> 00:57:41,640
Speaker 5: Yes, I do.

1181
00:57:47,640 --> 00:57:49,840
Speaker 2: My bag of tricks and pull them out. In fact,

1182
00:57:49,920 --> 00:57:51,840
Speaker 2: I do so.

1183
00:57:53,200 --> 00:57:55,760
Speaker 5: I teach a class called dick writing one on one

1184
00:57:56,560 --> 00:57:59,120
Speaker 5: and one of the main questions I always get her

1185
00:57:59,200 --> 00:58:00,960
Speaker 5: what are your dick writings or what are your dick

1186
00:58:01,040 --> 00:58:03,280
Speaker 5: sucking tips? And I just want to clarify this. It's

1187
00:58:03,320 --> 00:58:04,800
Speaker 5: gonna make me sound like a bitch, but I'm okay

1188
00:58:04,800 --> 00:58:08,000
Speaker 5: with that. I've already accepted it. I teach a one

1189
00:58:08,040 --> 00:58:11,400
Speaker 5: hour class on the topic because that's how long I need.

1190
00:58:11,680 --> 00:58:14,320
Speaker 5: If I gave you some tips, you would be sucking

1191
00:58:14,360 --> 00:58:19,320
Speaker 5: dick the same way you're doing now. It's half ass

1192
00:58:19,480 --> 00:58:25,000
Speaker 5: or piss poor. Need to take the entire class because

1193
00:58:25,160 --> 00:58:28,480
Speaker 5: I'm going to go so in depth about why what

1194
00:58:28,640 --> 00:58:31,440
Speaker 5: feels good, so that way you can always adjust depending

1195
00:58:31,440 --> 00:58:34,360
Speaker 5: on whatever type of dick you're sucking, whether it's curved

1196
00:58:34,480 --> 00:58:37,720
Speaker 5: or straight or short or long or whatever. If I

1197
00:58:37,720 --> 00:58:41,320
Speaker 5: don't teach you about why what feels good, you will

1198
00:58:41,320 --> 00:58:43,160
Speaker 5: only know how to suck one dick. And that's the

1199
00:58:43,200 --> 00:58:44,480
Speaker 5: deal though, that I keep you in class.

1200
00:58:44,520 --> 00:58:47,200
Speaker 7: And that's not thorough that's though.

1201
00:58:48,320 --> 00:58:50,680
Speaker 5: I'm a thorough ass bitch, and I will never try

1202
00:58:50,720 --> 00:58:53,440
Speaker 5: to put one hour of content into a five minute class.

1203
00:58:53,760 --> 00:58:57,480
Speaker 5: And I'm not going to do it. So I have

1204
00:58:57,560 --> 00:58:58,200
Speaker 5: a question.

1205
00:58:57,920 --> 00:58:58,760
Speaker 2: About dick sucking.

1206
00:58:59,240 --> 00:59:01,680
Speaker 3: It's not a test, but I'm just curious now that

1207
00:59:01,760 --> 00:59:03,280
Speaker 3: because I'm thinking about thoroughness.

1208
00:59:03,320 --> 00:59:06,520
Speaker 2: So is licking ass a part of the dick second

1209
00:59:06,600 --> 00:59:09,320
Speaker 2: class or is that not? Is that or is this

1210
00:59:09,440 --> 00:59:12,800
Speaker 2: specific to the dick, like only dick second.

1211
00:59:12,640 --> 00:59:17,480
Speaker 5: You need to dig seting. But I leave ass as

1212
00:59:17,520 --> 00:59:19,680
Speaker 5: an option. I let them know, Hey, if you foxed

1213
00:59:19,720 --> 00:59:23,320
Speaker 5: with it. Yeah, so I don't put an ass eating

1214
00:59:23,480 --> 00:59:26,960
Speaker 5: class on my Patreon, Like that was a fifteen minute class.

1215
00:59:26,560 --> 00:59:28,320
Speaker 7: You know what I'm saying.

1216
00:59:29,320 --> 00:59:30,600
Speaker 5: Yeah, that's that's a short class.

1217
00:59:30,600 --> 00:59:31,000
Speaker 2: I don't mind.

1218
00:59:31,040 --> 00:59:32,360
Speaker 7: I can hear that.

1219
00:59:32,360 --> 00:59:33,880
Speaker 5: That's short. I can get it.

1220
00:59:34,960 --> 00:59:35,640
Speaker 2: Drop the patreon.

1221
00:59:36,800 --> 00:59:41,200
Speaker 5: What the fuck is it? Oh, it's sexual essential. My

1222
00:59:41,200 --> 00:59:43,040
Speaker 5: patreon has all kind of shit on there, but it's

1223
00:59:43,040 --> 00:59:44,680
Speaker 5: on my Instagram page sexual.

1224
00:59:44,440 --> 00:59:47,800
Speaker 2: So we'll tag your Patreon in our details of this episode. People.

1225
00:59:47,880 --> 00:59:50,840
Speaker 5: Okay, yeah, Instagram, it's in the link in the bio.

1226
00:59:50,920 --> 00:59:54,240
Speaker 5: All that stuff is there. But because I know how

1227
00:59:54,280 --> 00:59:57,440
Speaker 5: much kickback I get about it, I discuss it. But

1228
00:59:57,680 --> 00:59:59,560
Speaker 5: what I actually do in the class is teach you

1229
00:59:59,600 --> 01:00:03,160
Speaker 5: how to pleasure the area if you're not okay with

1230
01:00:03,280 --> 01:00:06,440
Speaker 5: eating ass, which I found is more popular because it's

1231
01:00:06,480 --> 01:00:08,480
Speaker 5: more people that I've met that are not.

1232
01:00:08,400 --> 01:00:11,360
Speaker 7: Willing to go down that carry ass road.

1233
01:00:12,760 --> 01:00:16,080
Speaker 5: So I'm like, okay, let me still give them this. Wow.

1234
01:00:16,280 --> 01:00:19,680
Speaker 5: So I actually do teach you how pleasure the prostate

1235
01:00:19,720 --> 01:00:23,000
Speaker 5: without actually having to put your tongue in this man's.

1236
01:00:22,680 --> 01:00:24,760
Speaker 3: Man boy, we need to have you on our after

1237
01:00:24,880 --> 01:00:31,400
Speaker 3: dark on Patreon. On Patreon Close Friend, we have a

1238
01:00:31,440 --> 01:00:33,960
Speaker 3: segment on Patreon called Close Friends after Dark where we

1239
01:00:34,040 --> 01:00:38,320
Speaker 3: have you know, our we have our very interesting introspective

1240
01:00:38,440 --> 01:00:39,439
Speaker 3: freaky guest song.

1241
01:00:39,560 --> 01:00:41,320
Speaker 5: Oh we should throat on there.

1242
01:00:43,200 --> 01:00:43,680
Speaker 2: I'm down.

1243
01:00:44,400 --> 01:00:49,000
Speaker 5: I would teach you. Oh that sounds fun? All right?

1244
01:00:49,080 --> 01:00:53,600
Speaker 2: Well, look after that, I'm just.

1245
01:00:53,520 --> 01:00:55,160
Speaker 5: Like, yo, y'all gotta come to the classic. I'm gonna

1246
01:00:55,160 --> 01:00:56,640
Speaker 5: teach you why you should be doing what I'm teaching.

1247
01:00:56,680 --> 01:00:57,800
Speaker 5: I'm not just gonna tell you to do it.

1248
01:00:57,840 --> 01:01:00,440
Speaker 3: I want to right right, you know, I'm excited. No,

1249
01:01:00,440 --> 01:01:02,840
Speaker 3: I'm excited for your class on the fourth. Okay, we

1250
01:01:02,880 --> 01:01:04,760
Speaker 3: have this question, which I think actually is a really

1251
01:01:04,760 --> 01:01:06,520
Speaker 3: good question because I was this is something we were

1252
01:01:06,560 --> 01:01:09,760
Speaker 3: talking about before we started recording, and I have.

1253
01:01:10,640 --> 01:01:15,000
Speaker 2: I is she okay, she's still here, I'm here. Oh

1254
01:01:15,040 --> 01:01:16,560
Speaker 2: her video went out? Your video went out?

1255
01:01:16,720 --> 01:01:17,080
Speaker 5: Oh?

1256
01:01:17,880 --> 01:01:18,760
Speaker 7: Oh, okay?

1257
01:01:18,760 --> 01:01:24,160
Speaker 3: Okay, how do you know or is it possible? How

1258
01:01:24,160 --> 01:01:26,680
Speaker 3: do you know or is it possible to be overstimulated

1259
01:01:26,720 --> 01:01:27,400
Speaker 3: from masturbation?

1260
01:01:28,320 --> 01:01:32,400
Speaker 5: Okay, So a toy will not desensitize you. I think

1261
01:01:32,400 --> 01:01:36,240
Speaker 5: that's the word that has been thrown around right, like, well,

1262
01:01:36,440 --> 01:01:40,560
Speaker 5: masturbating will masturbating with the toy desensitize you. It will

1263
01:01:40,560 --> 01:01:44,480
Speaker 5: not be sensitizing. But you can develop a preference. Okay.

1264
01:01:46,280 --> 01:01:49,320
Speaker 5: You ever seen a kid like when you give them everything,

1265
01:01:49,400 --> 01:01:51,600
Speaker 5: like all types of foods. Originally they're fine with it,

1266
01:01:51,640 --> 01:01:53,720
Speaker 5: but if you start only giving them one thing, that's

1267
01:01:53,720 --> 01:01:56,320
Speaker 5: all they're gonna want. So, you know how we were

1268
01:01:56,320 --> 01:01:58,240
Speaker 5: talking about, when you learn how to make yourself come,

1269
01:01:58,360 --> 01:02:00,120
Speaker 5: you just want to come in that way and that

1270
01:02:00,160 --> 01:02:03,440
Speaker 5: way only, and so mentally, that's where your mind is

1271
01:02:03,480 --> 01:02:06,160
Speaker 5: going to go. So was your pussy de sensitized. No,

1272
01:02:06,560 --> 01:02:11,160
Speaker 5: but you are developing a preference mentally on how you want,

1273
01:02:11,680 --> 01:02:13,720
Speaker 5: you know, on what you want your sexuality to be like.

1274
01:02:14,160 --> 01:02:18,240
Speaker 5: So if you use a toy that is jackhammer strong,

1275
01:02:19,560 --> 01:02:22,720
Speaker 5: you can't go up from there. And so this is

1276
01:02:22,760 --> 01:02:26,080
Speaker 5: about learning how to properly masturbate. I'm not even telling

1277
01:02:26,120 --> 01:02:28,680
Speaker 5: you can't use your jackhammer deal though, I'm not telling

1278
01:02:28,680 --> 01:02:33,120
Speaker 5: you that. I'm just thinking God, but I'm gonna say God,

1279
01:02:34,080 --> 01:02:35,800
Speaker 5: I'm gonna teach you how to do other things you

1280
01:02:35,840 --> 01:02:40,000
Speaker 5: cannot start Okay, Do I drink wine? Yeah, you don't

1281
01:02:40,040 --> 01:02:41,760
Speaker 5: start off with an eighty bottle of wine if you've

1282
01:02:41,760 --> 01:02:44,040
Speaker 5: never had wine before. You start with a twenty thirty

1283
01:02:44,080 --> 01:02:47,600
Speaker 5: dollars So you can appreciate the eighty dollars, right, And

1284
01:02:47,680 --> 01:02:49,480
Speaker 5: you have to know how to pair things up. If

1285
01:02:49,520 --> 01:02:52,400
Speaker 5: it's gonna be you and someone else that night, why

1286
01:02:52,400 --> 01:02:55,000
Speaker 5: would you use a toy that absolutely can nowhere near

1287
01:02:55,080 --> 01:02:57,440
Speaker 5: do anything that he can do. That's just not good matchup.

1288
01:02:58,280 --> 01:03:01,320
Speaker 5: If I have eighty dollars wine, I don't want grilled

1289
01:03:01,360 --> 01:03:03,480
Speaker 5: cheese tonight, Well sometimes I might, So that's not a

1290
01:03:03,520 --> 01:03:05,040
Speaker 5: good check. But you get what I'm saying. I don't

1291
01:03:05,040 --> 01:03:07,800
Speaker 5: want McDonald's with my eighty dollars one. It doesn't match.

1292
01:03:08,120 --> 01:03:09,600
Speaker 5: If it's a Chick fil a night, Let it be

1293
01:03:09,600 --> 01:03:11,240
Speaker 5: a Chick fil a night. But if we talking about

1294
01:03:11,320 --> 01:03:13,680
Speaker 5: steak and aud you cannot mix and match. So you

1295
01:03:13,720 --> 01:03:16,120
Speaker 5: need to pair your toys up properly so that way

1296
01:03:16,160 --> 01:03:17,760
Speaker 5: you get the reaction that you want. If you don't

1297
01:03:17,760 --> 01:03:21,440
Speaker 5: pair them up properly, your body is going to want

1298
01:03:21,520 --> 01:03:25,520
Speaker 5: something specific. It's not desensitized. You just don't want to

1299
01:03:25,520 --> 01:03:28,000
Speaker 5: overstimulate it one time and then try to go backwards.

1300
01:03:28,720 --> 01:03:30,640
Speaker 3: You know, I guess, I know, I don't know. I

1301
01:03:30,680 --> 01:03:33,960
Speaker 3: do use pretty strong toys. I'm like, I'm the jackhammer girl.

1302
01:03:34,280 --> 01:03:36,520
Speaker 5: I'm gonna teach you how to have such a strong

1303
01:03:36,600 --> 01:03:39,360
Speaker 5: neut Oh, I'm going to work wonders.

1304
01:03:40,040 --> 01:03:41,880
Speaker 3: So maybe I need to go I need to scale back.

1305
01:03:41,920 --> 01:03:43,440
Speaker 3: I need to go back to level one, because I'd

1306
01:03:43,440 --> 01:03:45,080
Speaker 3: be just going straight to level time. Be like, let's

1307
01:03:45,080 --> 01:03:47,120
Speaker 3: just get, let's just go, let's just get. We don't

1308
01:03:47,120 --> 01:03:49,200
Speaker 3: want to just get it over with no, no, no,

1309
01:03:49,040 --> 01:03:52,200
Speaker 3: no reason, no, no, I don't I don't master I

1310
01:03:52,360 --> 01:03:53,120
Speaker 3: trust it does take.

1311
01:03:53,200 --> 01:03:55,320
Speaker 2: I do take my time, but like it's a teasing thing.

1312
01:03:55,440 --> 01:03:58,440
Speaker 3: It's like, Okay, maybe I don't go straight to ten,

1313
01:03:58,520 --> 01:04:00,640
Speaker 3: but get there quickly, don't.

1314
01:04:02,240 --> 01:04:06,960
Speaker 7: I can't. I'm definitely shit.

1315
01:04:07,040 --> 01:04:07,360
Speaker 4: I came.

1316
01:04:08,080 --> 01:04:09,800
Speaker 5: I'm gonna show I'm gonna show you how to do

1317
01:04:09,840 --> 01:04:12,120
Speaker 5: that in the class. But one thing that everybody can

1318
01:04:12,160 --> 01:04:15,760
Speaker 5: do before that is take a pussy pause, give your

1319
01:04:15,800 --> 01:04:18,520
Speaker 5: pussy a second to breathe. If you feel like you've

1320
01:04:18,520 --> 01:04:21,560
Speaker 5: been using toys that are just hella hella strong, how

1321
01:04:21,600 --> 01:04:23,200
Speaker 5: do you know it's hell hella strong If your booty

1322
01:04:23,240 --> 01:04:25,320
Speaker 5: cheeks still vibraating when you turned it off, it was strong,

1323
01:04:27,000 --> 01:04:28,200
Speaker 5: the vibrations still go.

1324
01:04:28,520 --> 01:04:31,840
Speaker 3: Still feel My only concern is that I feel like

1325
01:04:31,960 --> 01:04:36,840
Speaker 3: I was able to reach like coming and squirting with

1326
01:04:36,880 --> 01:04:42,200
Speaker 3: my fingers before and now I can't. And that's where

1327
01:04:42,200 --> 01:04:44,680
Speaker 3: my concern comes from. Like with using toys, is that,

1328
01:04:44,760 --> 01:04:46,960
Speaker 3: like I recently tried, I didn't have it. I was

1329
01:04:47,040 --> 01:04:49,439
Speaker 3: I was traveling, I didn't have a toy, I didn't

1330
01:04:49,440 --> 01:04:51,400
Speaker 3: have ship, but I wanted to I wanted to come

1331
01:04:51,440 --> 01:04:52,720
Speaker 3: and so I didn't have my toys. So I was

1332
01:04:52,800 --> 01:04:55,080
Speaker 3: using my hands and I was like, this is not

1333
01:04:55,240 --> 01:04:56,440
Speaker 3: the fucking same.

1334
01:04:56,440 --> 01:04:58,080
Speaker 2: How the fuck? What the fuck?

1335
01:04:58,200 --> 01:05:01,280
Speaker 3: I need a dick or I need the And then

1336
01:05:01,280 --> 01:05:02,560
Speaker 3: I was like, oh no, we got to go back

1337
01:05:02,560 --> 01:05:04,440
Speaker 3: to basics, baby, we gotta go back face.

1338
01:05:04,280 --> 01:05:07,720
Speaker 5: By washing dishes by hand and using a dishwasher, both

1339
01:05:07,760 --> 01:05:09,840
Speaker 5: will get it done. But it depends on how much

1340
01:05:09,880 --> 01:05:11,880
Speaker 5: time you have in patience, because.

1341
01:05:12,320 --> 01:05:13,919
Speaker 2: I wasn't being patient, I wasn't being paid.

1342
01:05:15,280 --> 01:05:18,520
Speaker 5: And it's scary. Honestly, our sexuality and us catching an

1343
01:05:18,560 --> 01:05:20,800
Speaker 5: orgasm is so scarce and rare in this world. After

1344
01:05:20,800 --> 01:05:23,960
Speaker 5: you figure out how to do it, you are so scared,

1345
01:05:23,960 --> 01:05:26,200
Speaker 5: and you treat it so gentle because you're like, yo,

1346
01:05:26,320 --> 01:05:28,480
Speaker 5: I know that orgasms are hard to come by. Most

1347
01:05:28,560 --> 01:05:30,480
Speaker 5: women don't get it. I need to make sure I

1348
01:05:30,480 --> 01:05:34,840
Speaker 5: can always do this right. But it's just anxiety because

1349
01:05:34,840 --> 01:05:37,000
Speaker 5: we have not learned how to properly always make the

1350
01:05:37,000 --> 01:05:39,440
Speaker 5: pussy come. After you know about your pussy and what

1351
01:05:39,480 --> 01:05:41,600
Speaker 5: to do with it and all that stuff, you won't

1352
01:05:41,600 --> 01:05:44,600
Speaker 5: be as nervous because if you know you have five minutes,

1353
01:05:44,960 --> 01:05:47,000
Speaker 5: you'll know, okay, I need to use my toy because.

1354
01:05:46,800 --> 01:05:47,479
Speaker 2: I don't have time.

1355
01:05:47,760 --> 01:05:49,440
Speaker 5: Versus, if you have five minutes and you try to

1356
01:05:49,520 --> 01:05:51,760
Speaker 5: use your fingers, you're going to be in your head

1357
01:05:51,800 --> 01:05:53,760
Speaker 5: the whole time because that it just may not have

1358
01:05:53,760 --> 01:05:56,640
Speaker 5: been enough time. We are not like you have to

1359
01:05:56,720 --> 01:05:59,240
Speaker 5: know when to do what, how to mix it together.

1360
01:05:59,800 --> 01:06:03,000
Speaker 5: But honestly, we have a lot of trauma around orgasms

1361
01:06:03,040 --> 01:06:05,360
Speaker 5: as women because we've never been able to have them,

1362
01:06:05,880 --> 01:06:08,640
Speaker 5: or it's always been our fault. Oh that worked on

1363
01:06:08,680 --> 01:06:11,240
Speaker 5: everybody else, I don't know what's wrong with you, Or

1364
01:06:11,840 --> 01:06:14,320
Speaker 5: we had so many failed attempts by ourselves trying to

1365
01:06:14,360 --> 01:06:17,360
Speaker 5: make ourselves come that anytime it doesn't go the way

1366
01:06:17,400 --> 01:06:20,880
Speaker 5: we are used to it come it happening, we get scared.

1367
01:06:21,120 --> 01:06:23,760
Speaker 5: I mean, think about it. Most people masturbate the exact

1368
01:06:23,760 --> 01:06:25,520
Speaker 5: same way all the time. They lay on their back,

1369
01:06:26,080 --> 01:06:28,880
Speaker 5: starfishing it, put their hand down the exact same way

1370
01:06:28,920 --> 01:06:31,640
Speaker 5: every time, every single time. Why because we are scared

1371
01:06:31,640 --> 01:06:33,439
Speaker 5: that if we do something different, what if we don't

1372
01:06:33,440 --> 01:06:36,160
Speaker 5: catch our nut? And frustrated we don't have.

1373
01:06:36,320 --> 01:06:39,920
Speaker 7: Living fear of the nut the nut, fear.

1374
01:06:39,760 --> 01:06:43,080
Speaker 2: Of the nut. Oh man, that's the episode tittle of

1375
01:06:43,120 --> 01:06:43,439
Speaker 2: the nut.

1376
01:06:44,080 --> 01:06:50,360
Speaker 3: May write that jown that down, here's the nut.

1377
01:06:51,040 --> 01:06:54,080
Speaker 5: You have a question in the chat oh it do.

1378
01:06:55,800 --> 01:06:56,720
Speaker 2: Oh oh?

1379
01:06:56,800 --> 01:07:01,600
Speaker 3: Are certain decks more compatible to certainaginas.

1380
01:07:02,200 --> 01:07:07,200
Speaker 5: I think that dicks that can take criticism.

1381
01:07:08,840 --> 01:07:12,680
Speaker 2: Our most compatible man. Absolutely.

1382
01:07:12,920 --> 01:07:14,760
Speaker 3: You know it's true because I've had sex with all

1383
01:07:14,760 --> 01:07:17,000
Speaker 3: different size dicks, and you could have told me that

1384
01:07:17,080 --> 01:07:19,440
Speaker 3: was the best sex of my life then like he was.

1385
01:07:19,480 --> 01:07:21,360
Speaker 3: It wasn't that big, it was, but he it was

1386
01:07:21,400 --> 01:07:22,920
Speaker 3: he was to do with it. Then I have another

1387
01:07:22,960 --> 01:07:25,800
Speaker 3: man who has a curved penis, and that's that that

1388
01:07:25,960 --> 01:07:28,240
Speaker 3: hits me in a way that I'm like, damn, like

1389
01:07:28,640 --> 01:07:31,680
Speaker 3: you can't, like, I don't know how you you can't.

1390
01:07:31,840 --> 01:07:36,520
Speaker 2: You can't my lip over here you said curved, salivating.

1391
01:07:37,520 --> 01:07:39,240
Speaker 3: And then I've had sex with, you know, a guy

1392
01:07:39,240 --> 01:07:41,680
Speaker 3: who doesn't have that, and I've had the most incredible

1393
01:07:41,680 --> 01:07:42,400
Speaker 3: sex of you know.

1394
01:07:42,600 --> 01:07:46,920
Speaker 2: So it's just I don't know. I think compatibility is

1395
01:07:47,040 --> 01:07:48,520
Speaker 2: it comes with factors.

1396
01:07:49,800 --> 01:07:54,160
Speaker 5: It definitely has factors. I also feel like people are

1397
01:07:54,160 --> 01:07:56,360
Speaker 5: always wondering how to make a dick work, and I

1398
01:07:56,360 --> 01:07:59,240
Speaker 5: will say, never push your body because some people can

1399
01:07:59,280 --> 01:08:01,680
Speaker 5: take the biggest dick in the world and it could

1400
01:08:01,720 --> 01:08:04,000
Speaker 5: be enjoyable and somebody else would be like, it really hurts,

1401
01:08:04,000 --> 01:08:06,320
Speaker 5: and they're trying to figure out how do I make

1402
01:08:06,360 --> 01:08:09,160
Speaker 5: it more comfortable. You can always gauge yourself, you know,

1403
01:08:09,240 --> 01:08:11,160
Speaker 5: just like your ear rings, like gauged, you know your

1404
01:08:11,200 --> 01:08:14,480
Speaker 5: whole and start and work up. But if it is uncomfortable,

1405
01:08:14,520 --> 01:08:17,000
Speaker 5: there are no magic pills for something that doesn't work

1406
01:08:17,040 --> 01:08:21,240
Speaker 5: for you, right right, You know that part. So that's

1407
01:08:21,240 --> 01:08:23,880
Speaker 5: the other side to the compatibility part. If it doesn't work,

1408
01:08:24,520 --> 01:08:25,360
Speaker 5: it doesn't work.

1409
01:08:25,880 --> 01:08:26,160
Speaker 2: Right.

1410
01:08:27,200 --> 01:08:28,920
Speaker 5: But Dick said, take credits.

1411
01:08:29,640 --> 01:08:33,040
Speaker 1: Well, I learned so much, so much, I can't wait

1412
01:08:33,080 --> 01:08:34,639
Speaker 1: for the fourth I'm like, Mark.

1413
01:08:36,680 --> 01:08:39,519
Speaker 5: Make sure that you guys remember to log in and

1414
01:08:39,600 --> 01:08:42,200
Speaker 5: make sure y'all don't have nothing scheduled that night, because.

1415
01:08:42,040 --> 01:08:44,400
Speaker 2: Oh no, we know the baby. Get your babysitters for sure,

1416
01:08:44,439 --> 01:08:46,520
Speaker 2: because I'm getting this done. Get the babysitters.

1417
01:08:46,520 --> 01:08:49,120
Speaker 3: And then when you log off, go practice, Okay, to

1418
01:08:49,200 --> 01:08:53,400
Speaker 3: break out, room to break out, to take the class. Here,

1419
01:08:53,520 --> 01:08:55,519
Speaker 3: I'm gonna be in my bedroom. She'll be in the

1420
01:08:55,560 --> 01:08:56,040
Speaker 3: living room.

1421
01:08:56,040 --> 01:08:57,920
Speaker 2: We'll be like, be right back, okay, Well be back

1422
01:08:57,960 --> 01:08:58,880
Speaker 2: in twenty five minutes.

1423
01:08:59,200 --> 01:09:02,880
Speaker 5: I feel like riding class, I'm gonna wears out. I'm like,

1424
01:09:03,000 --> 01:09:05,000
Speaker 5: we're on different sides of the country, but I could

1425
01:09:05,040 --> 01:09:06,519
Speaker 5: still put in work anywhere where I am.

1426
01:09:06,920 --> 01:09:09,160
Speaker 1: Oh you know what, because I do get tired on

1427
01:09:09,200 --> 01:09:10,760
Speaker 1: top sometimes I'm like, I do have a couple of

1428
01:09:10,760 --> 01:09:14,120
Speaker 1: my tricks, you know, you know one foot.

1429
01:09:13,960 --> 01:09:15,840
Speaker 2: You know what in my last relationship.

1430
01:09:16,400 --> 01:09:18,800
Speaker 3: In my last relationship, I did so much top that

1431
01:09:18,920 --> 01:09:21,519
Speaker 3: I'm like, more than ever I've ever done. And like

1432
01:09:21,680 --> 01:09:23,800
Speaker 3: I think it really matters who it's with because it

1433
01:09:23,920 --> 01:09:25,120
Speaker 3: was like I could go forever.

1434
01:09:25,200 --> 01:09:26,519
Speaker 5: I don't know why I'm tired.

1435
01:09:26,960 --> 01:09:29,280
Speaker 3: I just figured out different positions that where I could

1436
01:09:29,360 --> 01:09:32,960
Speaker 3: rest but still be on. We're like, yeah, my legs

1437
01:09:32,960 --> 01:09:35,040
Speaker 3: were relaxed and I could still ride, and like I

1438
01:09:35,120 --> 01:09:35,599
Speaker 3: were so bad.

1439
01:09:36,720 --> 01:09:39,880
Speaker 5: Yeah, if you can be comfortable, you can do it

1440
01:09:39,920 --> 01:09:40,360
Speaker 5: all day.

1441
01:09:40,600 --> 01:09:43,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, your head and lean forward, the sitting up, even

1442
01:09:44,000 --> 01:09:46,280
Speaker 3: like laying across the body and just like just doing

1443
01:09:46,320 --> 01:09:49,479
Speaker 3: a little science and just literally you're laying there.

1444
01:09:50,120 --> 01:09:54,720
Speaker 2: Leg I get such a position one on one I

1445
01:09:54,760 --> 01:09:56,680
Speaker 2: need to bring up. I'm gonna show with.

1446
01:09:56,760 --> 01:10:00,280
Speaker 1: All my my, my my, you're on top of sting

1447
01:10:00,320 --> 01:10:09,080
Speaker 1: positions on topic. Paton, you need to join asap because

1448
01:10:09,080 --> 01:10:11,400
Speaker 1: we're doing a sex position series called rest writing.

1449
01:10:11,760 --> 01:10:13,160
Speaker 2: Eric will show you how to ride.

1450
01:10:14,200 --> 01:10:17,080
Speaker 3: It'll be I'll you know, you know what Samaya can

1451
01:10:17,120 --> 01:10:18,960
Speaker 3: do her class. Actually we need to team up. Okay,

1452
01:10:18,960 --> 01:10:22,320
Speaker 3: we're gonna do a workshop, somaya, I'm gonna we're gonna

1453
01:10:22,320 --> 01:10:23,240
Speaker 3: do sex position.

1454
01:10:23,439 --> 01:10:26,240
Speaker 2: Dick writing. I'm gonna do rest writing.

1455
01:10:28,680 --> 01:10:34,439
Speaker 5: To finis, to really finis. So I think I need something.

1456
01:10:34,680 --> 01:10:37,480
Speaker 5: I think that you guys should do a sex positions

1457
01:10:37,560 --> 01:10:40,000
Speaker 5: Patreon and use you guys like get an open space,

1458
01:10:40,320 --> 01:10:41,879
Speaker 5: pulling camera back and show.

1459
01:10:43,080 --> 01:10:46,080
Speaker 2: That's what we do. That's what we do, sex position.

1460
01:10:47,640 --> 01:10:49,080
Speaker 2: We have a segment called sex Positions.

1461
01:10:49,080 --> 01:10:52,080
Speaker 3: One on one re enact sex positions. And actually Orlando

1462
01:10:52,439 --> 01:10:54,000
Speaker 3: was one of was our first threesome.

1463
01:10:54,080 --> 01:10:56,559
Speaker 1: Yeah, here's our first third person in our sex position segment.

1464
01:10:57,120 --> 01:11:01,280
Speaker 5: I'm sorry, okay, threesome is Yeah, was fucking fucking was

1465
01:11:01,280 --> 01:11:01,599
Speaker 5: it good?

1466
01:11:01,640 --> 01:11:02,040
Speaker 2: No?

1467
01:11:02,040 --> 01:11:04,000
Speaker 1: No, no, we're fully so, we're fully closed.

1468
01:11:04,040 --> 01:11:07,320
Speaker 2: It's instructional. It's literally to teach people how to do

1469
01:11:07,400 --> 01:11:09,640
Speaker 2: the position. One time we were launder, right.

1470
01:11:09,680 --> 01:11:10,559
Speaker 7: We didn't bring that back.

1471
01:11:10,800 --> 01:11:12,479
Speaker 2: Yeah, we probably need to get sexier. We usually this

1472
01:11:12,520 --> 01:11:15,960
Speaker 2: were a regular sweat. We're gonna try harder.

1473
01:11:16,720 --> 01:11:19,280
Speaker 5: Just kind of made my nipples hard. That's nice.

1474
01:11:19,880 --> 01:11:21,200
Speaker 2: We'll send you a little link. We'll send you a

1475
01:11:21,240 --> 01:11:23,559
Speaker 2: little link. We'll show you the threesomes.

1476
01:11:24,200 --> 01:11:31,160
Speaker 5: Orlando's I'm in Orlando's close friends and I was like, yes,

1477
01:11:32,280 --> 01:11:40,040
Speaker 5: yes my reactions. I was like, but oh.

1478
01:11:38,200 --> 01:11:41,679
Speaker 2: Yeah it was I'm telling you guys friends.

1479
01:11:43,400 --> 01:11:46,840
Speaker 5: Yeah, if that was his close friends, I was like, yo,

1480
01:11:46,960 --> 01:11:49,160
Speaker 5: I wish I saw the other side of this.

1481
01:11:49,840 --> 01:11:51,679
Speaker 3: You guys, If you guys haven't joined our close friends,

1482
01:11:51,680 --> 01:11:53,120
Speaker 3: you got to join our what is it?

1483
01:11:53,160 --> 01:11:53,320
Speaker 9: Our?

1484
01:11:53,520 --> 01:11:53,840
Speaker 4: What's that?

1485
01:11:54,120 --> 01:11:56,639
Speaker 3: The five dollars tier, our five dollars year on Patreon

1486
01:11:56,720 --> 01:11:58,360
Speaker 3: gets you access to our close friends.

1487
01:11:58,080 --> 01:12:00,400
Speaker 2: And you will have to be disappointed. I'm really I

1488
01:12:00,400 --> 01:12:03,320
Speaker 2: don't y'all have joined. Y'all who have not joined Patreon

1489
01:12:03,439 --> 01:12:05,439
Speaker 2: are sleeping. Yeah, we don't do a lot of shit.

1490
01:12:05,439 --> 01:12:09,479
Speaker 1: We're over they're pranking, We're doing our close friends. There's

1491
01:12:09,600 --> 01:12:12,320
Speaker 1: lots of it's like everything but nudity.

1492
01:12:12,360 --> 01:12:14,360
Speaker 2: It's like, I don't know how we milk it so hard.

1493
01:12:14,360 --> 01:12:15,960
Speaker 2: It was just like there might have been nude.

1494
01:12:15,920 --> 01:12:19,520
Speaker 1: To be honestly, it was just every like so much.

1495
01:12:19,280 --> 01:12:21,599
Speaker 5: So people are not even getting the same content they

1496
01:12:21,600 --> 01:12:25,479
Speaker 5: were getting from creators because Instagram is like this.

1497
01:12:25,080 --> 01:12:28,280
Speaker 3: And especially now, I'm so off fucking Instagram. I'm so

1498
01:12:28,880 --> 01:12:30,520
Speaker 3: off of fucking Instagram.

1499
01:12:30,760 --> 01:12:32,000
Speaker 5: Look, I'm telling you.

1500
01:12:32,000 --> 01:12:35,200
Speaker 3: Right now, mark my words, people, listeners, listen up. One

1501
01:12:35,280 --> 01:12:37,040
Speaker 3: day when I can get off Instagram. I'm getting the

1502
01:12:37,040 --> 01:12:38,479
Speaker 3: funk off and you're gonna have to pay for all

1503
01:12:38,479 --> 01:12:41,759
Speaker 3: the content because I'm done trying to censor myself. Instagram

1504
01:12:41,760 --> 01:12:44,160
Speaker 3: wants to censor all my ship and I'm an uncensored

1505
01:12:44,160 --> 01:12:45,400
Speaker 3: ass bitch and I can't.

1506
01:12:45,880 --> 01:12:48,160
Speaker 2: I can't live my life like that. We needed were

1507
01:12:48,160 --> 01:12:49,519
Speaker 2: their only fans. What the fuck?

1508
01:12:49,960 --> 01:12:53,000
Speaker 3: Well, Patreon is basically our only fans.

1509
01:12:53,320 --> 01:12:55,960
Speaker 5: I feel I love only fans, But I feel like

1510
01:12:56,000 --> 01:12:58,880
Speaker 5: because I know I'm not gonna pop no pussy unclothed,

1511
01:12:59,080 --> 01:13:01,519
Speaker 5: I don't really want to get if I can only fans,

1512
01:13:01,600 --> 01:13:04,720
Speaker 5: I'm showing pussy. I just know that it's gonna be

1513
01:13:04,760 --> 01:13:09,599
Speaker 5: pussy power. But until until I'm able to do that,

1514
01:13:09,680 --> 01:13:11,559
Speaker 5: I feel like I could just do like you said,

1515
01:13:11,600 --> 01:13:13,120
Speaker 5: do everything except for that.

1516
01:13:13,560 --> 01:13:16,439
Speaker 3: Well, how about this, we have the best thing, the

1517
01:13:16,479 --> 01:13:20,040
Speaker 3: next best thing. Well, I think this is the perfect

1518
01:13:20,080 --> 01:13:22,400
Speaker 3: way to get into a little segment on our show

1519
01:13:22,439 --> 01:13:24,439
Speaker 3: that we call horries.

1520
01:13:29,439 --> 01:13:30,760
Speaker 4: Who Stories.

1521
01:13:36,280 --> 01:13:40,680
Speaker 2: By the way, that was our moanings. We recorded that personally.

1522
01:13:40,960 --> 01:13:42,479
Speaker 2: We probably need to read it. We probably need to

1523
01:13:42,479 --> 01:13:45,040
Speaker 2: do a crisper version of it. Little ghettos.

1524
01:13:47,080 --> 01:13:49,519
Speaker 5: Need to listen to them to test, you know, to

1525
01:13:49,560 --> 01:13:51,760
Speaker 5: make sure they're you know, giving the people what they want.

1526
01:13:52,520 --> 01:13:55,320
Speaker 5: You got to have my numbers, so they do it.

1527
01:13:55,320 --> 01:13:55,519
Speaker 8: Now.

1528
01:14:02,640 --> 01:14:04,559
Speaker 5: I like to say, I love my job.

1529
01:14:05,960 --> 01:14:06,839
Speaker 2: You're so dramatic.

1530
01:14:11,600 --> 01:14:14,880
Speaker 5: Okay. So I was told about horis. Can I can

1531
01:14:14,880 --> 01:14:15,519
Speaker 5: I share two?

1532
01:14:16,080 --> 01:14:16,320
Speaker 8: Yes?

1533
01:14:16,520 --> 01:14:19,120
Speaker 2: For sure, thank god, more than one.

1534
01:14:19,720 --> 01:14:23,760
Speaker 5: Okay. So the first one is funny. So y'all know

1535
01:14:23,800 --> 01:14:27,720
Speaker 5: I do love to masturbate. So, because it's COVID, I've

1536
01:14:27,720 --> 01:14:31,000
Speaker 5: been taking staycations and stuff. So I went on a

1537
01:14:31,000 --> 01:14:35,599
Speaker 5: staycation at this beautiful hotel and I was having a

1538
01:14:35,640 --> 01:14:41,080
Speaker 5: fuck fest with myself. So I brought this toy. So

1539
01:14:42,360 --> 01:14:45,840
Speaker 5: this is the toy that I used, and it does this,

1540
01:14:47,240 --> 01:14:51,640
Speaker 5: so it fucks you. Okay, all right, So this is

1541
01:14:51,680 --> 01:14:55,280
Speaker 5: like called a Monroe thrusting something machine or some shit,

1542
01:14:56,760 --> 01:15:00,640
Speaker 5: and it sticks to like the wall and it fucks you.

1543
01:15:01,240 --> 01:15:03,160
Speaker 5: I thought I was going to be able to use

1544
01:15:03,200 --> 01:15:08,080
Speaker 5: this in the shower, but it wouldn't stick. So long

1545
01:15:08,120 --> 01:15:11,439
Speaker 5: story short, I ended up on the floor at the

1546
01:15:11,479 --> 01:15:15,719
Speaker 5: mini fridge and I stuck it to the mini fridge

1547
01:15:16,000 --> 01:15:22,040
Speaker 5: and I sucked myself on the floor on pillows and

1548
01:15:22,080 --> 01:15:27,120
Speaker 5: it was the quickest, biggest squirt of my life. And

1549
01:15:27,160 --> 01:15:28,760
Speaker 5: then I did it again, just to make sure it

1550
01:15:28,800 --> 01:15:32,040
Speaker 5: wasn't a fluke, and it.

1551
01:15:32,040 --> 01:15:35,400
Speaker 2: Was wait, you put this on the mini fridge? Yes,

1552
01:15:35,840 --> 01:15:37,120
Speaker 2: oh wait, I didn't even hear that.

1553
01:15:37,200 --> 01:15:40,360
Speaker 1: I waited on the mini free I had stick to

1554
01:15:40,400 --> 01:15:42,960
Speaker 1: the floor. Oh you were on the floor and she

1555
01:15:43,479 --> 01:15:49,880
Speaker 1: the mini fridge. I can't just see her now on.

1556
01:15:54,479 --> 01:15:58,759
Speaker 5: So I had to scoop my ass. So I tried

1557
01:15:58,880 --> 01:16:01,240
Speaker 5: so many positions to get it to work another way,

1558
01:16:01,240 --> 01:16:04,600
Speaker 5: but I'm so sure. I had to scoop my ass

1559
01:16:04,640 --> 01:16:06,840
Speaker 5: to the mini fridge and then I turned it on

1560
01:16:07,920 --> 01:16:11,720
Speaker 5: and I was so close I couldn't even run from it.

1561
01:16:11,720 --> 01:16:16,920
Speaker 5: It was drilling my ass. I was like, whoa. I

1562
01:16:16,960 --> 01:16:18,679
Speaker 5: felt so bad. I had to wipe off the mini

1563
01:16:18,680 --> 01:16:23,439
Speaker 5: fridge fridge? What is that?

1564
01:16:23,560 --> 01:16:24,840
Speaker 2: Boy? First of all, what is that called? I?

1565
01:16:24,760 --> 01:16:28,080
Speaker 5: I need to get that off the monro thrusting something

1566
01:16:28,160 --> 01:16:30,240
Speaker 5: toys something thrusting machine or whatever?

1567
01:16:30,439 --> 01:16:31,679
Speaker 2: What do you stick it to you at home?

1568
01:16:33,000 --> 01:16:37,439
Speaker 5: Actually? I changed. I upgraded so because I love this like,

1569
01:16:37,520 --> 01:16:41,720
Speaker 5: I was so like, I girl, I felt like I

1570
01:16:41,720 --> 01:16:42,840
Speaker 5: didn't even need a man no more.

1571
01:16:42,840 --> 01:16:43,760
Speaker 2: I ain't gonna know.

1572
01:16:45,040 --> 01:16:47,759
Speaker 5: That says a lot, because you can't you can't replace

1573
01:16:47,840 --> 01:16:51,360
Speaker 5: no fine ass man, you know. I upgraded and now

1574
01:16:51,400 --> 01:16:55,400
Speaker 5: I have the big machine so over there, hold on,

1575
01:16:55,760 --> 01:16:57,600
Speaker 5: uh see it?

1576
01:16:58,439 --> 01:17:03,000
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, so it's like it's like a fun machine,

1577
01:17:03,000 --> 01:17:03,880
Speaker 3: like that's the issues that.

1578
01:17:03,960 --> 01:17:05,400
Speaker 2: Is a Doc Johnson machine.

1579
01:17:05,600 --> 01:17:10,200
Speaker 5: Yes, so I loved that one that much that I

1580
01:17:10,240 --> 01:17:15,960
Speaker 5: invested in one of the fucking porn fuck machines. Girl.

1581
01:17:17,280 --> 01:17:20,800
Speaker 5: That was my kind of funny story about myself, right.

1582
01:17:23,280 --> 01:17:26,639
Speaker 5: But then I have a story about like my first orgy.

1583
01:17:27,880 --> 01:17:31,519
Speaker 5: So I went to Hito. I went to Moca Fest. Actually,

1584
01:17:32,360 --> 01:17:37,519
Speaker 5: Mocafest is at Heito, Jamaica. It's a clothing optional resort.

1585
01:17:38,280 --> 01:17:41,759
Speaker 5: And the first time was really dope. So the person

1586
01:17:41,760 --> 01:17:43,840
Speaker 5: that I was with was my partner at the time,

1587
01:17:44,040 --> 01:17:46,760
Speaker 5: and a woman asked me. She was like, are you

1588
01:17:46,760 --> 01:17:50,400
Speaker 5: guys here to play or you know what's up? And

1589
01:17:50,560 --> 01:17:52,639
Speaker 5: I was the one who was into it, and he

1590
01:17:52,720 --> 01:17:54,600
Speaker 5: was trying get out for the first time. So I

1591
01:17:54,680 --> 01:17:58,040
Speaker 5: knew I had to hook him up with someone first

1592
01:17:58,080 --> 01:18:02,200
Speaker 5: for me to be able to frolic and you know time. Yes,

1593
01:18:02,960 --> 01:18:07,840
Speaker 5: So she walked up to him and was cressing him

1594
01:18:07,880 --> 01:18:10,160
Speaker 5: and it's like you're you know, you're gorgeous. This is this

1595
01:18:10,720 --> 01:18:11,960
Speaker 5: She's like, you want to come up to the room

1596
01:18:12,000 --> 01:18:19,160
Speaker 5: and fuck me? And I was like, go ahead. So

1597
01:18:19,640 --> 01:18:22,240
Speaker 5: all of us, the people that we were with, were like, Okay,

1598
01:18:22,280 --> 01:18:25,240
Speaker 5: well we're gonna go. Like I didn't know everybody in

1599
01:18:25,240 --> 01:18:27,639
Speaker 5: the group, but all of us decided to go together.

1600
01:18:27,760 --> 01:18:29,840
Speaker 5: I knew some people. They invited some people, you know,

1601
01:18:30,040 --> 01:18:31,800
Speaker 5: so then to be a group of us, and we

1602
01:18:31,800 --> 01:18:33,880
Speaker 5: were like, we're gonna watch them have sex. So we

1603
01:18:33,920 --> 01:18:36,240
Speaker 5: went upstairs to watch them, and you know, we're all

1604
01:18:36,320 --> 01:18:37,880
Speaker 5: just kind of turned on. Next thing, you know, another

1605
01:18:37,920 --> 01:18:41,560
Speaker 5: couple jumps in, another person jumps in. Then there's a

1606
01:18:41,600 --> 01:18:44,839
Speaker 5: guy and he likes he has a fetish of like watching.

1607
01:18:44,880 --> 01:18:48,000
Speaker 5: He's a voyeur and he actually makes videos and edits

1608
01:18:48,000 --> 01:18:51,200
Speaker 5: them and gives them to the people who participate in whatever,

1609
01:18:51,439 --> 01:18:54,760
Speaker 5: and then he deletes it for himself. Oh wow, Like

1610
01:18:54,760 --> 01:18:56,880
Speaker 5: he deletes it, but he gives you your content. He

1611
01:18:56,960 --> 01:19:00,479
Speaker 5: records you and edits it, edit edits it, like in

1612
01:19:00,520 --> 01:19:04,160
Speaker 5: the same thirty minutes or so, you know, after everything

1613
01:19:04,240 --> 01:19:06,760
Speaker 5: is done, gives you a copy of your work.

1614
01:19:06,880 --> 01:19:09,839
Speaker 2: So you am fucking efficiency right.

1615
01:19:10,120 --> 01:19:13,559
Speaker 5: It was, but it was just it was sexy as shit.

1616
01:19:13,720 --> 01:19:16,000
Speaker 5: So all I know is at one set because I'm

1617
01:19:16,000 --> 01:19:18,240
Speaker 5: definitely a voyeur as well. But next thing, I know,

1618
01:19:18,560 --> 01:19:21,120
Speaker 5: I saw my guy like drilling this girl down and

1619
01:19:21,160 --> 01:19:24,000
Speaker 5: I'm like really filling her up, like she was a

1620
01:19:24,160 --> 01:19:27,679
Speaker 5: very petite woman. And then I was watching another couple

1621
01:19:27,720 --> 01:19:29,479
Speaker 5: have sex the next thing, you know, like I felt

1622
01:19:29,479 --> 01:19:31,160
Speaker 5: like she was like on the brink of orgasm. So

1623
01:19:31,240 --> 01:19:33,439
Speaker 5: I started sucking her toes. I was just like.

1624
01:19:35,800 --> 01:19:36,320
Speaker 2: Amazing.

1625
01:19:37,160 --> 01:19:41,559
Speaker 5: So I'm sucking this woman's toes. I'm just like, yo,

1626
01:19:41,680 --> 01:19:45,160
Speaker 5: we gotta like really get her off. So she's sucking

1627
01:19:45,160 --> 01:19:46,840
Speaker 5: his dick, so I'm like, okay, I'm gonna have to

1628
01:19:47,080 --> 01:19:49,240
Speaker 5: like eat her pussy from the back, like this pussy's

1629
01:19:49,640 --> 01:19:52,080
Speaker 5: this lady's pussy is like drizzling on my forehead. Like

1630
01:19:53,320 --> 01:19:55,960
Speaker 5: and then by the time everybody was tired out, I

1631
01:19:56,000 --> 01:19:58,080
Speaker 5: had not got a chance to fuck the guy that

1632
01:19:58,120 --> 01:20:01,559
Speaker 5: I had went there with. So when everybody was kind

1633
01:20:01,560 --> 01:20:04,479
Speaker 5: of winding down, like, I saw his dick was still hard,

1634
01:20:04,520 --> 01:20:07,559
Speaker 5: and so I sat on it and you know, did

1635
01:20:07,560 --> 01:20:09,240
Speaker 5: the dick riding class and.

1636
01:20:11,960 --> 01:20:13,040
Speaker 4: It was good.

1637
01:20:13,600 --> 01:20:17,639
Speaker 2: It was amazing. That is a wonderful, beautiful story.

1638
01:20:18,000 --> 01:20:21,040
Speaker 1: So what was his takeaway after his first experience in

1639
01:20:21,080 --> 01:20:24,160
Speaker 1: the type of environment, Since you said that was his

1640
01:20:24,200 --> 01:20:24,959
Speaker 1: first time.

1641
01:20:25,920 --> 01:20:29,240
Speaker 5: He didn't stay with it, but he did enjoy it.

1642
01:20:29,360 --> 01:20:30,800
Speaker 5: He definitely had a great time.

1643
01:20:30,920 --> 01:20:39,440
Speaker 1: He'll never forget you.

1644
01:20:35,880 --> 01:20:39,040
Speaker 3: Open niggas up, like, yeah, it's gonna be hard to

1645
01:20:39,439 --> 01:20:40,639
Speaker 3: to the top five.

1646
01:20:41,479 --> 01:20:45,080
Speaker 5: It was. It was really amazing and I cannot wait

1647
01:20:45,120 --> 01:20:45,920
Speaker 5: to go back to heato.

1648
01:20:46,160 --> 01:20:47,840
Speaker 2: So when is it? Let me wreate this down.

1649
01:20:48,400 --> 01:20:50,880
Speaker 5: What did he Oh? I'll actually be teaching there this

1650
01:20:50,920 --> 01:20:52,439
Speaker 5: summer if we can get the world to.

1651
01:20:53,000 --> 01:20:56,040
Speaker 2: Oh, I would love to come. Honestly, when you said

1652
01:20:56,040 --> 01:20:57,400
Speaker 2: that part about he was feeling.

1653
01:20:57,200 --> 01:20:59,160
Speaker 1: Her when she was a very petite woman, you know,

1654
01:20:59,200 --> 01:21:01,400
Speaker 1: I just wanted on the record to say, you know.

1655
01:21:01,360 --> 01:21:07,200
Speaker 2: What they say about petiitue women? Okay, what did they

1656
01:21:07,200 --> 01:21:09,160
Speaker 2: can take that? Sorry?

1657
01:21:10,200 --> 01:21:13,200
Speaker 5: Look here, small women love really big dicks. I feel

1658
01:21:13,280 --> 01:21:14,439
Speaker 5: I feel they like they do that.

1659
01:21:15,720 --> 01:21:16,920
Speaker 2: How tall are you?

1660
01:21:17,160 --> 01:21:20,880
Speaker 5: I'm five to three, Okay, I'm really tall.

1661
01:21:21,840 --> 01:21:25,719
Speaker 2: Same same, I keep telling bitches, look I'm taller.

1662
01:21:25,760 --> 01:21:26,040
Speaker 5: Ship.

1663
01:21:26,080 --> 01:21:27,880
Speaker 2: But yeah, it was, it was.

1664
01:21:28,600 --> 01:21:31,280
Speaker 5: It was good. It was just really good to watch,

1665
01:21:31,320 --> 01:21:34,839
Speaker 5: and it was just like even watching like I felt

1666
01:21:34,880 --> 01:21:38,000
Speaker 5: like an orgasm building up, like you know, how like

1667
01:21:38,040 --> 01:21:39,799
Speaker 5: you feel that you know, how like you feel hornish

1668
01:21:39,800 --> 01:21:41,320
Speaker 5: and you like, you know, if you touch your click

1669
01:21:41,360 --> 01:21:44,280
Speaker 5: you're gonna come like That's how I was feeling watching them.

1670
01:21:44,360 --> 01:21:46,640
Speaker 5: It was it was good, and by the end of

1671
01:21:46,680 --> 01:21:48,200
Speaker 5: it, it just it turned me on. I was like, Okay,

1672
01:21:48,200 --> 01:21:50,680
Speaker 5: you sucked her really great. You definitely deserve some pussy

1673
01:21:51,360 --> 01:21:54,360
Speaker 5: like I was proud.

1674
01:21:54,560 --> 01:21:56,479
Speaker 2: I was crazy with me.

1675
01:21:57,240 --> 01:22:02,720
Speaker 1: With me, there's something about honesty and transparency and like

1676
01:22:02,760 --> 01:22:06,120
Speaker 1: the exploration and the freedom and the non ownership that's

1677
01:22:06,200 --> 01:22:07,479
Speaker 1: like really gets a pussy weed.

1678
01:22:07,520 --> 01:22:10,960
Speaker 2: I think, well that and also you seem like, yeah,

1679
01:22:11,080 --> 01:22:12,960
Speaker 2: like I got a good one.

1680
01:22:13,800 --> 01:22:16,599
Speaker 5: Yeah yeah, like of course it didn't last, but moments

1681
01:22:16,680 --> 01:22:17,200
Speaker 5: or for moments.

1682
01:22:17,240 --> 01:22:20,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, it was the moment and he never needed it

1683
01:22:20,760 --> 01:22:22,400
Speaker 1: more than you did.

1684
01:22:23,400 --> 01:22:27,320
Speaker 5: Enjoy the moment, so those are mine.

1685
01:22:28,160 --> 01:22:30,400
Speaker 3: Well, thank you so much for coming on. This was

1686
01:22:30,439 --> 01:22:32,920
Speaker 3: so fun, this was great. I'm so happy we did this.

1687
01:22:33,040 --> 01:22:34,479
Speaker 3: I feel like I have a lot to learn from you.

1688
01:22:34,520 --> 01:22:35,799
Speaker 3: I'm excited for your classes.

1689
01:22:35,960 --> 01:22:37,720
Speaker 5: You guys have definitely coming to class, and we're going

1690
01:22:37,800 --> 01:22:40,479
Speaker 5: to link up and give all of our subscribers on

1691
01:22:40,560 --> 01:22:42,280
Speaker 5: Patreon something special.

1692
01:22:42,160 --> 01:22:46,720
Speaker 2: Yes, yes, exclusive resting while writing.

1693
01:22:48,680 --> 01:22:50,320
Speaker 5: Next week, like I thought you, I said I was

1694
01:22:50,320 --> 01:22:51,879
Speaker 5: gonna be teaching us how to dep throw.

1695
01:22:52,720 --> 01:22:56,120
Speaker 1: You already know you said it on records, so to

1696
01:22:56,240 --> 01:22:56,960
Speaker 1: tell tell.

1697
01:22:56,760 --> 01:22:58,559
Speaker 2: Our listeners where they can find you.

1698
01:22:59,040 --> 01:23:01,760
Speaker 5: All right, So you can find meet on Instagram at

1699
01:23:02,000 --> 01:23:05,760
Speaker 5: sexual Essentials, or you can find me on my website

1700
01:23:05,800 --> 01:23:11,080
Speaker 5: www dot sexual essentials one dot com. But if you

1701
01:23:11,120 --> 01:23:14,519
Speaker 5: go on Instagram, it'll kind of give you a overview

1702
01:23:14,520 --> 01:23:16,920
Speaker 5: of everything that I do if you watch the highlights,

1703
01:23:17,000 --> 01:23:19,720
Speaker 5: watch my stories. I posted my stories the most. But

1704
01:23:20,200 --> 01:23:21,840
Speaker 5: I have a link in my bio that has all

1705
01:23:21,840 --> 01:23:24,200
Speaker 5: my links there where you can find my Patreon register

1706
01:23:24,280 --> 01:23:28,280
Speaker 5: for the next set of classes. Classes are definitely coming.

1707
01:23:28,320 --> 01:23:31,400
Speaker 5: This is on the February fourth and fifth, right before

1708
01:23:31,560 --> 01:23:35,360
Speaker 5: Valentine's Day, and you can order a dildo from my

1709
01:23:35,520 --> 01:23:38,960
Speaker 5: store online, so that way you have something to practice

1710
01:23:38,960 --> 01:23:41,439
Speaker 5: on so we can be what thor row as fuck?

1711
01:23:43,360 --> 01:23:45,559
Speaker 5: Yeah I have. I'm gonna change your life, So come

1712
01:23:45,600 --> 01:23:46,720
Speaker 5: to class, you know.

1713
01:23:48,120 --> 01:23:49,519
Speaker 2: Yes, make sure you check her out.

1714
01:23:49,720 --> 01:23:52,960
Speaker 3: And you know, speaking of Valentine's Day, we have our

1715
01:23:53,000 --> 01:23:57,120
Speaker 3: live show on February thirteenth. You guys, it's Ladies' Night.

1716
01:23:57,360 --> 01:24:00,680
Speaker 3: I'm so excited to give you to finally meet all

1717
01:24:00,760 --> 01:24:04,000
Speaker 3: of you guys, I guess virtually unfortunately because you know COVID.

1718
01:24:04,240 --> 01:24:06,839
Speaker 3: But this show is about to be lit lit lit.

1719
01:24:07,680 --> 01:24:09,600
Speaker 3: It's not your regular zoom call. And I know we

1720
01:24:09,720 --> 01:24:11,559
Speaker 3: keep saying that, but I'm just I'm trying to really

1721
01:24:11,640 --> 01:24:13,759
Speaker 3: let y'all know, like this is a real last shot.

1722
01:24:13,800 --> 01:24:16,599
Speaker 2: This is a production. It's a production, and you don't

1723
01:24:16,600 --> 01:24:18,479
Speaker 2: want to miss it. We'll be dreaming live from a

1724
01:24:18,479 --> 01:24:22,000
Speaker 2: studio in Los Angeles. Get dressed, put that put your

1725
01:24:22,040 --> 01:24:22,800
Speaker 2: fucking clothes on.

1726
01:24:22,920 --> 01:24:25,920
Speaker 3: Put that little hoochi ass dress you bought in twenty nineteen.

1727
01:24:25,920 --> 01:24:27,559
Speaker 3: They didn't get no shine in twenty twenty.

1728
01:24:27,800 --> 01:24:30,120
Speaker 2: Put that shit on. Put that heels on.

1729
01:24:30,600 --> 01:24:33,920
Speaker 3: Call your homies, get the bottle book, the babysitter, because

1730
01:24:33,960 --> 01:24:34,840
Speaker 3: we're about to turn up.

1731
01:24:34,920 --> 01:24:36,280
Speaker 2: Yes, and we need you there too.

1732
01:24:36,920 --> 01:24:38,040
Speaker 7: We need you there tomorrow.

1733
01:24:38,920 --> 01:24:42,160
Speaker 5: Okay, I'm in there. What do I need you? The Patreon?

1734
01:24:42,240 --> 01:24:44,680
Speaker 5: I need to go. You tell us where to get tickets.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you guys can get tickets on our Instagram. It's

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Speaker 3: on evet bright, but just click the link in our

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Speaker 3: bio on Instagram and you can buy tickets. Make sure

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Speaker 3: you I think there's a few vip bags left if

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Speaker 3: you guys want a vip bag.

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Speaker 2: We have some cool brands that we're going to ship

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Speaker 2: out to you. But yeah, let's see you on February thirteen.

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Speaker 1: Have you joined Patreon, where we offer even more juicy content.

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Speaker 2: Yes, y'all.

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Speaker 3: We have secret episodes, secret segments, and some very personal

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Speaker 3: blog posts that we don't share on the interwebs.

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Speaker 2: So make sure you go check out our Patreon.

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Speaker 3: That's patreon dot com, backslash, Good Moms, Bad Choices.

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Speaker 2: Here's a little sneak peek.

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Speaker 5: So yeah, like there are specific ins, like we went

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Speaker 5: to Palm Springs with a bunch of people who are

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Speaker 5: quote unquote in the lifestyle, but there wasn't a single

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Speaker 5: orgy that happened all weekend.

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Speaker 2: It's just not what.

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Speaker 5: It wasn't the vibe of the weekend. It could have happened,

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Speaker 5: but it didn't.

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Speaker 6: You know, I have a corn team, and we're just

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Speaker 6: a bunch of couples that are you know more are

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Speaker 6: kind of open and somewhat non monogamous. But we're just friends.

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Speaker 6: You know, like very rarely will there be like a

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Speaker 6: hookup situation. You know, maybe it's like cool that the

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Speaker 6: girls make out like for like a minute.

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Speaker 4: You know.

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Speaker 6: If anything, it's just a really deep level of intimacy

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Speaker 6: and trust with a group of people who are going

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Speaker 6: through a similar life path. Where they're they're in the

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Speaker 6: conversation about non monogamy as a lifestyle and