1 00:00:00,840 --> 00:00:04,160 Speaker 1: I'm Elia Connie, and this is Family Therapy. 2 00:00:04,320 --> 00:00:07,840 Speaker 2: And my best hopes, I guess identify the life that 3 00:00:07,880 --> 00:00:11,440 Speaker 2: I want and work towards it, because sometimes I feel 4 00:00:11,440 --> 00:00:13,400 Speaker 2: like I know, and then sometimes I feel like I 5 00:00:13,440 --> 00:00:13,840 Speaker 2: don't know. 6 00:00:14,720 --> 00:00:21,000 Speaker 3: I've never seen a man take care of my mother 7 00:00:21,120 --> 00:00:23,159 Speaker 3: the way she needed to be taken care of. 8 00:00:23,560 --> 00:00:26,000 Speaker 4: I'm just I'm a real issue with my son though, 9 00:00:26,160 --> 00:00:28,680 Speaker 4: like you're going yours. 10 00:00:29,160 --> 00:00:30,920 Speaker 5: Is that really the care that I need? 11 00:00:31,080 --> 00:00:34,720 Speaker 6: Do I need to light a candle and take a bath? 12 00:00:34,960 --> 00:00:36,559 Speaker 6: Like I don't know, Like I don't know if that 13 00:00:36,720 --> 00:00:38,800 Speaker 6: is what self care needs to look like for me. 14 00:00:39,320 --> 00:00:41,840 Speaker 1: I get the impression that you don't feel like you've 15 00:00:41,880 --> 00:00:44,159 Speaker 1: done everything right as a father. Is that true? 16 00:00:44,680 --> 00:00:46,640 Speaker 4: That's true, and I'm not a cent about it. 17 00:00:46,960 --> 00:00:49,400 Speaker 5: Thank you for going through those things and thank you 18 00:00:49,440 --> 00:00:50,400 Speaker 5: for overcoming them. 19 00:00:51,400 --> 00:00:52,559 Speaker 7: Thank God for the livings. 20 00:00:53,280 --> 00:00:55,560 Speaker 3: Every time I have one of our sessions, our sessions 21 00:00:55,560 --> 00:00:57,640 Speaker 3: be positive. It just keeps me going. 22 00:00:58,400 --> 00:01:01,520 Speaker 7: I feel like my focus is directed in a different 23 00:01:01,600 --> 00:01:02,880 Speaker 7: aspect of my life now. 24 00:01:03,320 --> 00:01:06,319 Speaker 1: So how do we do today? We did that? Don't 25 00:01:06,360 --> 00:01:09,399 Speaker 1: miss an episode of Family Therapy. Listen on the Black 26 00:01:09,440 --> 00:01:14,240 Speaker 1: Effect podcast Network, iHeartRadio, app Apple Podcasts, or wherever you 27 00:01:14,319 --> 00:01:15,400 Speaker 1: get your podcasts,