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Speaker 1: Am I wrong for not giving my cheating wife another chance?

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Speaker 1: This one comes from Hippo Okay nine to one one one,

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Speaker 1: who says, uh, me thirty nine male and my wife

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Speaker 1: thirty three female have been together for thirteen years. Shout

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Speaker 1: out to Brienna for the five dollars donation.

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Speaker 2: You're awesome.

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Speaker 1: She recently went away on a girl's trip. I was

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Speaker 1: not worried at all. I have never had a reason

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Speaker 1: to distrust her, and she has never done anything to

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Speaker 1: give me cause for concern. And it's not like she

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Speaker 1: was even going abroad. She was going to a buttlns

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Speaker 1: half an hour away. For God's sake. Of a buttln's.

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Speaker 1: What is that butler? Yeah, producer Riley, what's a buttler?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Someone to the chat tell us about butler.

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Speaker 1: Let us know what that is. I'm very curious. Is

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Speaker 1: that like a swamp?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Wow?

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Speaker 2: Buttlan is Three of the original camps remain into the buttlans. Oh.

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Speaker 2: I guess it's like a area buttlers see buttons and

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Speaker 2: does it create a place of color and happiness? We're

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Speaker 2: quality anyway. It's it's somewhere, it's a place.

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Speaker 1: It's the Buttlon's in Scotland, it's like a camp. It's

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Speaker 1: a holiday camp located near Scotland. Maybe we're gonna find

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Speaker 1: out more. She went with her sister and a few

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Speaker 1: other girls. She called me up this morning and I

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Speaker 1: didn't expect anything other than her checking in. She had

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Speaker 1: only been away one night of a three night trip.

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Speaker 1: When I answered, she was crying and incoherence. Guys put

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Speaker 1: ic U in the comments. If you see what's.

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Speaker 2: About to go down? Do you see it? Do you

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Speaker 2: there's and co here and crying in this scenario? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Not good? Not good.

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Speaker 1: When I finally came to calm her down, she told

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Speaker 1: me she had slept with someone else the night before. Ah, yep,

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Speaker 1: the night before, the night before, the first night, first

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Speaker 1: night of what first night of the trip?

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Speaker 4: And the buttons in the but she puts the button buttons.

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Speaker 4: This is like a family thing park.

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Speaker 1: It's a fun camp get away maybe in Scotland.

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Speaker 4: Nobody said. Someone said it was like a family.

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Speaker 1: Camp theme Oh someone said it was a family theme park.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, damn. Anyway, getting first, keep going.

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Speaker 1: Supposedly, she met a guy who she approached. They flirted

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Speaker 1: a little, danced together, and she thought that was as

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Speaker 1: far as it would go. But he supposedly just charmed

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Speaker 1: her into a kiss, which turned into making out, which

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Speaker 1: turned to her asking him to walk her back to

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Speaker 1: her hotel, which turned into them doing the dirty deed.

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Speaker 5: Oh wait, where's he's not there?

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Speaker 1: She's going back to uh to walk back to her hotel.

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Speaker 1: So she took him back to her hotel.

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Speaker 2: Wait? Wait, so that that's o p's white. Okay, Oh,

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Speaker 2: he's traveling with her sister and girlfriends.

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Speaker 1: But maybe she had her own own hotel in this place.

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Speaker 4: Yikes.

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Speaker 1: She says nothing was a miss. He wasn't pushy or weird,

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Speaker 1: and they actually did it multiple times. Are these details, Sarah?

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Speaker 1: The details stabbing the guy in the heart.

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Speaker 4: She's like, he was super hot and super buff.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and I came instantly. I've never been able to,

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Speaker 2: but he was.

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Speaker 1: He was you know, it was just so great.

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Speaker 2: Don't tell me that, please.

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Speaker 1: Because she would say they need to stop, and he

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Speaker 1: would stop immediately, and then after a few minutes she'd

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Speaker 1: want to carry on. She would as well, So she

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Speaker 1: was like, babe, she.

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Speaker 2: Was like, stop't do this, so I can't go for

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Speaker 2: a third time husband and then and.

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Speaker 4: Then he immediately stopped.

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Speaker 1: Which got on him and then and then he's off,

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Speaker 1: why don't we do it again?

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Speaker 5: And then she's like, you know what, No, she's saying this, okay,

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Speaker 5: I want you do anything you're not comfortable with.

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Speaker 1: And she's like, actually, oh yeah, you're right. Why bro,

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Speaker 1: this woman she is so because also this is the

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Speaker 1: same way she's like relaying this information. She's like, it

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Speaker 1: was so innocent and everything, but then it was so

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Speaker 1: raunchy and amazing and narsty.

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Speaker 2: Okay, w's in the chat for honesty because.

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Speaker 1: Opie goes on to say, and he supposedly quote unquote

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Speaker 1: never even finished because of the stopping and starting. Why

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Speaker 1: it was the best sex I've ever had. We went

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Speaker 1: multiple dives. This is unnass.

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Speaker 2: Endurance of a race horse.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, freaking Kentucky Derby over here putting in

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Speaker 1: the work.

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Speaker 2: Why why does she?

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Speaker 1: Oh, she keeps spare him, She keeps going. This supposedly

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Speaker 1: went on for three hours, and she eventually said stop,

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Speaker 1: finds count.

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Speaker 4: It doesn't count if you say it three hours.

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Speaker 2: Later, Babe, babe, it's okay. We only went for three hours.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, hours.

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Speaker 2: I swear we.

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Speaker 1: Were together for like forty eight hours, so we were

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Speaker 1: only together, we were only doing it for like ten percent.

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Speaker 2: Does it even count if he didn't even finish?

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Speaker 1: Is that a golden rule?

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Speaker 2: It's not sexific?

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, have you really done it? If you

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Speaker 3: have a condom on? That's another one too.

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Speaker 2: What let's see?

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Speaker 1: What else is o? Lord? Opie's wife just doesn't stop. Okay,

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Speaker 1: this guy is supposedly ten years younger than her. Yet

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Speaker 1: another detail.

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Speaker 2: What are we doing about?

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Speaker 1: He's young, he's hot, and she said that she lied

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Speaker 1: and told him that she was going through a divorce.

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Speaker 4: Oh my god.

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Speaker 2: Oh so he's like like morally even he's he's like

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Speaker 2: a g oh dude, she didn't do anything wrong.

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Speaker 6: So she's thirty three and he's thirty nine. So that

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Speaker 6: guy was like twenty three.

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Speaker 2: You're right, dude, he was great, twenty three, great catch.

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Speaker 2: I could not imagine hooking up with he's much older.

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Speaker 4: Twenty three?

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Speaker 3: Is that young?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? No, going to someone over ten years older than you? Wow,

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Speaker 1: I can't imagine going in a day anyone.

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Speaker 3: We don't know.

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Speaker 6: Any Yeah, I can't imagine hooking up with someone like

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Speaker 6: twelve years older than you?

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Speaker 3: Was crazy? Oh tenures? Sorry, tears.

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Speaker 4: I want to hear more about this story.

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Speaker 1: Okay, story time, Sophia, all right, we have we have

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Speaker 1: a stacked Okay, story time acted. But back to this story.

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Speaker 1: She says she doesn't know what came over her and

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Speaker 1: that she just wanted to quote unquote, I know that, dude.

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Speaker 1: See if she still had it but.

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Speaker 4: Got carried away. Wait what she.

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Speaker 1: Would say if she still had it. I just got

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Speaker 4: If she still had still.

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Speaker 2: Had right, I guess she still had it.

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Speaker 4: Apparently that's how you needed to find out.

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Speaker 2: I had to at least she told OPI who came

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Speaker 2: over her?

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Speaker 4: Okay, okay, okay, okay.

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Speaker 1: Fourteen years married for ten, fourteen years of relationship and

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Speaker 1: we have a seven year old together. Oh my god, Ah,

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Speaker 1: I want the kids. I want to leave her. Divorce

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Speaker 1: or not divorce are not put in the common Opie says,

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Speaker 1: I want to leave her. She is begging me not to,

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Speaker 1: offering marriage counseling, never going out again, never drinking again,

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Speaker 1: et cetera, et cetera. I've always been a one chance

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Speaker 1: sort of guy. I just told her to go herself,

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Speaker 1: unlike the last time, oh man, and have been ignoring

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Speaker 1: her since ten am this morning. Yeah. Now her friends

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Speaker 1: and sister are calling me too. They apparently had no

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Speaker 1: idea she'd even gone home with them. They just saw

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Speaker 1: them talking but thought nothing of it. I just want

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Speaker 1: them all to leave me alone.

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Speaker 2: Oh.

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Speaker 1: I told my mom about it all, and she said

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Speaker 1: I should.

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Speaker 2: Quote unquote think of the family.

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Speaker 1: That my wife seems genuinely remorseful and didn't try and

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Speaker 1: hide anything and came clean straight away.

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Speaker 2: She definitely did not try hiding anything.

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Speaker 4: Oh, she almost.

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Speaker 2: How many years have been together in something?

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Speaker 1: Fourteen fourteen four team.

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Speaker 4: I think that's too much. I think three hours. It

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Speaker 4: was one instance, a three hour instance. That's too much.

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Speaker 4: That is full on breaking. I think the mom is incorrect.

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Speaker 1: If we reference the Samuel Donner Golden Rule Book.

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Speaker 5: No, no, no, that's only saying that there's a higher likelihood.

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Speaker 5: But this person is already like I don't, I'm not.

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Speaker 5: I don't give second chances chances for this kind of thing.

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Speaker 4: Nor should they. Yeah done, yeah, no, absolutely.

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Speaker 1: Gone that it's not like she had an affair. Whoa, whoa, mama,

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Speaker 1: that's what the mom is saying.

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Speaker 2: Gop all right, I will I will say a single

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Speaker 2: instance is like like way less worse than a like

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Speaker 2: consistent affair. Still both terrible, but a consistent affair is

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Speaker 2: like many instances, Is it not right? Is it not

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Speaker 2: worse to cheat like one hundred times and the cheat once?

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Speaker 1: Like, come on, I think I think people are saying, like,

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Speaker 1: it's so bad is the what's the value of comparing them?

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Speaker 3: In a way?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I agree, I don't think there is a point

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Speaker 2: I would rather be cheated on once than be cheated

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Speaker 5: Yes, yes, right, yeah, But the thing is that if

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Speaker 5: I knew that it happened once, I would be like, no,

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Speaker 5: I think the relationship, don't know what happens.

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Speaker 2: I would still end the relationship for me, But I

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Speaker 2: also like, like I would feel better about the relationship

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Speaker 2: it was only once.

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Speaker 4: That's because you're like you knew about it right way, Yeah, would.

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Speaker 3: You still want to leave though?

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Speaker 2: I would still want to leave the relationship?

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Speaker 1: Ye, that's what people are saying, like it's like the

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Speaker 1: what is the point of comparing them? Way?

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Speaker 2: Because I would feel way more devastated was consistent because

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Speaker 2: then it's like like, right, if someone if someone in

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Speaker 2: this instance, someone like like like cheats and then immediately

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Speaker 2: says everything and then like the relationship's over and it

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Speaker 2: sucks like it's terrible, but at least it's like the

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Speaker 2: rest the relationship is integrity, you know, like like like

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Speaker 2: like before that instance. But if it's like consistently throughout

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Speaker 2: years you were living alive for like years and years

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Speaker 2: and years, you know you will.

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Speaker 1: Yes, you are, you are correct, bro.

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Speaker 2: Don't can to cheat on your partner one hundred times

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Speaker 2: than just once. It is true.

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Speaker 1: It is true, it is true. Anyways, the mom says,

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Speaker 1: it's not like she had an uh. The mom says,

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Speaker 1: it's not like she had an affair quote unquote, and

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Speaker 1: that is is uh and that is bad as this

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Speaker 1: is the best case scenario. After that conversation, I feel

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Speaker 1: like I'm insane.

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Speaker 2: This is the best case scenario. You're lucky to cheat

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Speaker 4: She's gonna have kept going for another couple of hours.

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Speaker 1: I feel like the way Op feels with his mom

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Speaker 1: talking to you is how our audience feels.

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Speaker 1: That is correct, So diving in Beneficial Syrup eight sixty

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Speaker 2: Is it it's on? It's one each time. I think

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Speaker 1: Don't know, that was the one single, the the one detail.

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Speaker 1: Go new Golden rule turn your phone off and take

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Speaker 2: So it's like once she cheated, that version of her

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Speaker 1: Yeah, this one comes from no Association ninety nine sixty eight,

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Speaker 1: Three hours of deception is a long time, and she

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Speaker 1: one hundred emoji and the final relevant comment usual Ostrich

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Speaker 2: Leave.

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Speaker 1: All those times she was stopping the other guy to continue,

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Speaker 1: what she did multiple.

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Speaker 2: Times for Yeah, it works.

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Speaker 4: Godfather, Zilla godfather.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so many great nicknames. But you know what else

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Speaker 1: So my wife came home tonight, just like she did before,

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Speaker 2: Guy, why are you doing this to yourself? Over?

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Speaker 6: I feel like the reason why she got he got

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Speaker 3: That's what it sounds like.

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Speaker 1: Oh, that might be, And maybe he was because again

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so I think it could be he maybe was

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Speaker 2: like asking for details because now he's asking for more details,

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Speaker 2: Like why would you ask what he looks like?

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Speaker 6: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Because either way if he's like if he's like hot,

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Speaker 2: it's bad. If he's ugly, it's bad. If he looks

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Speaker 1: Literally, there is zero winning.

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Speaker 2: There's zero winning.

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Speaker 1: Pick tell us which one you would pick them?

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Speaker 6: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Would you rather hear your partner cheat on you

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Speaker 2: with someone who's ugly, looks like you, or is super hot.

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Speaker 2: Let us know, f Mary kills.

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Speaker 1: That's all right. I don't know why. Maybe I'm a

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Speaker 1: so that's great.

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Speaker 2: It looks like Riley guy.

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Speaker 1: I meant. Guy looks like Anthony Joshua or something, which Riley,

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Speaker 1: Joshua is a gorgeous boxer, a just like chiseled god

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Speaker 2: All right, well we'll keep reading.

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Speaker 1: For the record, my wife is beautiful, like perfect, teeth,

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Speaker 4: Like a pasty englishman or something.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what I'm like, a beard. I'm picturing John Oliver.

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Speaker 3: Yeah English.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god. I'm not overweight, but I could probably

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Speaker 1: which is nice. I've always felt so that is good.

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Speaker 1: I've always felt so lucky to be with her. She

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Speaker 4: Oh my god, So okay, he's doing.

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Speaker 2: This, Opie. Why do you want more detail?

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Speaker 4: I think we want Op's wife.

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Speaker 2: But yeah, yeah, well we should still blame her doing it.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, but I thought she was rubbing salts in the

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Speaker 1: So Op says, I wanted to catch any lie slash

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Speaker 4: But break up with her anyway.

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Speaker 1: She basically says she was at the bar and the

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Speaker 1: I'm just kidding. They glanced at each other and she said,

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Speaker 1: She said, over and overall it was the vibe was

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Speaker 1: It was like, all right, it's a bike delivery.

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Speaker 1: Everything in England is charming, even their coke. Yeah, here

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Speaker 1: we go, ladies and gentlemen. A few of you seem

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Speaker 1: to be American, so let me explain exactly what a

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Speaker 1: Buttlan's is. We finally get there.

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Speaker 2: But and Brittany Lynn, we can do rochy stories, just

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Speaker 2: not like overly traumatic stories.

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Speaker 1: Or like too insanely detailed.

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Speaker 1: but not the you know, exact what she told. Didn't

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Speaker 1: her sister, but she was in the other friends room

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Speaker 1: So I guess the sister hadn't returned back yet, and

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Speaker 4: Because they were in there. She was in her shirt.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, they were sharing a room with.

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Speaker 1: Oh wow, these girls go hard.

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Speaker 2: My god, And why are we asking so many details?

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Speaker 2: Why does this guy need more details? I feel like

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Speaker 2: just like break up for.

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Speaker 3: The reddest story man.

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Speaker 1: Come on, Oh my gosh, I asked her how many

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Speaker 1: four or five, lasting between five to ten minutes each time.

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Speaker 1: Why do we need such specificity?

444
00:21:36,040 --> 00:21:36,359
Speaker 2: Truly?

445
00:21:36,400 --> 00:21:40,760
Speaker 1: Why? Apparently even after cheating, she never thought she'd sleep

446
00:21:40,840 --> 00:21:44,280
Speaker 1: with the guy. Okay, She says she wanted to give

447
00:21:44,359 --> 00:21:47,560
Speaker 1: him oral so she did that, but the guy said

448
00:21:47,600 --> 00:21:54,280
Speaker 1: he can only finish through. She didn't believe him. I

449
00:21:54,320 --> 00:21:59,080
Speaker 1: don't believe you. Until twenty minutes later, he still wasn't done,

450
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Speaker 1: so she gave up and climbed on top of him

451
00:22:01,960 --> 00:22:05,080
Speaker 1: pro But then after about five minutes she thought what

452
00:22:05,119 --> 00:22:07,280
Speaker 1: the f am I doing and got off him, then

453
00:22:07,359 --> 00:22:10,239
Speaker 1: laid there and cuddled him and drank more, and then

454
00:22:10,320 --> 00:22:13,160
Speaker 1: ten minutes later they would be touching each other again.

455
00:22:13,600 --> 00:22:17,240
Speaker 1: This repeated four or five times. She says that she

456
00:22:17,359 --> 00:22:20,520
Speaker 1: kept thinking it was wrong, but then she would think

457
00:22:20,800 --> 00:22:23,360
Speaker 1: it's too late now anyways, might as well carry you on.

458
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Speaker 2: Okay, right, all right, conspiracy theory really quick.

459
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Speaker 1: Let's go got shout out Sydney for the two.

460
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Speaker 2: Sydney without kidneys. Thanks. Oh all right, conspiracy theory, go ahead.

461
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Speaker 2: I think he's getting like off on this shit. I

462
00:22:39,760 --> 00:22:42,679
Speaker 2: think like there's no way like I think he's I

463
00:22:42,680 --> 00:22:44,440
Speaker 2: think it's like a cuckhold kind of thing.

464
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Speaker 4: Oh, I don't want to know that.

465
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Speaker 2: Keep that to yourself, right, I think at this point,

466
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Speaker 2: like is that like, come on, yeah, why is he

467
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Speaker 2: asking for so many details?

468
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Speaker 1: If he's he like doesn't want to be in the relationship,

469
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Speaker 1: but he's like while we're here, yeah, last final off,

470
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Speaker 1: one final little spank in a booty.

471
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Speaker 2: Yeah dude, Yeah, I.

472
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Speaker 4: Don't understand why he's asking so many.

473
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Speaker 2: Questions because he's into it. It's a cuckhold anyway. That

474
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Speaker 2: radio depon says, I agree with Sam Video Greffo says,

475
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Speaker 2: cuck hoold Cassandra peis is how can he stand to

476
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Speaker 2: listen to this? I'd be heartbroken in so many ways

477
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Speaker 2: because he's into it.

478
00:23:22,880 --> 00:23:25,639
Speaker 1: So back to the story. I asked her why she

479
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Speaker 1: felt the need to see if she still had it.

480
00:23:29,600 --> 00:23:32,600
Speaker 1: She says, since she hit thirty, she's been self conscious

481
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Speaker 1: of her aging that when she spots a new wrinkle

482
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Speaker 1: or something, it drives her to tears. She said that

483
00:23:38,960 --> 00:23:41,040
Speaker 1: chatting to that guy made her feel young again, and

484
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Speaker 1: she lashed onto that. Apparently the guy was there with

485
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Speaker 1: a girl who my wife said looks like a younger

486
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Speaker 1: version of herself. Why and the guy pointed her out

487
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Speaker 1: to the wife and said, that girl over there watching

488
00:23:56,080 --> 00:23:58,360
Speaker 1: us has a crush on me, and just laughed about it.

489
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Speaker 1: This guy is evil. After he had been talking to

490
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Speaker 1: my wife for like thirty minutes, the girl had enough,

491
00:24:04,720 --> 00:24:08,600
Speaker 1: walked over, kicked the table, spilling the guy's drinks off,

492
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Speaker 1: and then stormed off.

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Speaker 2: Dude, what are they together?

494
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Speaker 4: Yeah?

495
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Speaker 1: I oh, if they're like in a full relationship, but

496
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Speaker 1: I think they're like they're they're they were digging each

497
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Speaker 1: other there, whether it's was that night or maybe they're

498
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Speaker 1: in a situationship.

499
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Speaker 2: Yeah, because he's like, yo, she likes me over there. Yeah,

500
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Speaker 2: and then she came over and was like, flip the table.

501
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Speaker 1: She says that a guy. She says that the guy

502
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Speaker 1: picking her over a younger woman drove her ego crazy

503
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Speaker 1: and that was when she decided to kiss him. So

504
00:24:38,920 --> 00:24:42,040
Speaker 1: not an excuse. It's insane. Thank you eating for the

505
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Speaker 1: two dollars helping me spam.

506
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Speaker 2: The chat everyone, Sam, I have a cutcold in the chat.

507
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Speaker 2: This guy is cooking him.

508
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Speaker 1: I asked her why she even told me, and she

509
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Speaker 1: said that when she woke up she saw I'd sent

510
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Speaker 1: a selfie of me and our daughter eating pizza together

511
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Speaker 1: and sent her into a nervous breakdown. That was that

512
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Speaker 1: she was wailing and sobbing so loud that it woke

513
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Speaker 1: up her sister, and that's when she confessed. Her sister

514
00:25:09,480 --> 00:25:11,720
Speaker 1: told her she was insane for what she did and

515
00:25:11,840 --> 00:25:14,560
Speaker 1: wasn't very comforting and left the room mad at her,

516
00:25:14,600 --> 00:25:17,840
Speaker 1: which made it worse, and that's when she called me,

517
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Speaker 1: I have I have asked her to leave the house

518
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Speaker 1: for a few days, as she is staying at her

519
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Speaker 1: mother's house while I decided what I want to do.

520
00:25:25,720 --> 00:25:28,480
Speaker 1: She begged me not to leave her, but she did,

521
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Speaker 1: But she did when I said it was the least

522
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Speaker 1: she could do after blowing up our entire lives over wrinkles,

523
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Speaker 1: making her sad. Yeah, her her sob story is like's.

524
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Speaker 4: Not it's not the opposite.

525
00:25:42,560 --> 00:25:44,840
Speaker 1: I had a wrinkle so I needed to feel young

526
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Speaker 1: again and then I felt like good.

527
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Speaker 2: Workout or something, you know.

528
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Speaker 4: Yeah, like that would be like you being like.

529
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Speaker 2: Shut up, I'm not.

530
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Speaker 1: Welcome. Welcome to the pit of tyranny they put you through.

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Speaker 1: Her twenty seven years old.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, away, friendly, Sam, I'm just glad you're like dating

533
00:26:07,200 --> 00:26:08,000
Speaker 6: within your age range.

534
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Speaker 2: Now.

535
00:26:08,840 --> 00:26:10,760
Speaker 3: It makes me feel happy.

536
00:26:11,119 --> 00:26:13,480
Speaker 5: It really makes me happy when I see like people

537
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Speaker 5: your age, you know getting up.

538
00:26:15,160 --> 00:26:18,159
Speaker 1: Yeah, really just you know, continuing to live our lives.

539
00:26:18,240 --> 00:26:20,480
Speaker 2: John is so happy. I've been here.

540
00:26:20,520 --> 00:26:23,919
Speaker 1: I've been I have been here for the seven months

541
00:26:23,960 --> 00:26:27,479
Speaker 1: that I am older than Sam. Somehow that evaded us

542
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Speaker 1: for this entire time. AnyWho, Okay, it's like.

543
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Speaker 5: You still got it is not at all old all jokes.

544
00:26:34,760 --> 00:26:36,560
Speaker 1: It's not old. It's older than it's ancient.

545
00:26:37,440 --> 00:26:38,200
Speaker 4: It's older than me.

546
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Speaker 1: There we go. As for my mother, remember if we

547
00:26:42,280 --> 00:26:44,240
Speaker 1: haven't heard from the mom and a little bit, she

548
00:26:44,440 --> 00:26:47,679
Speaker 1: thinks that I should just forgive her. For context, my

549
00:26:47,760 --> 00:26:49,960
Speaker 1: dad passed away about a year ago, and my wife

550
00:26:50,000 --> 00:26:52,560
Speaker 1: has really been a rock for my mom. I cannot

551
00:26:52,560 --> 00:26:55,320
Speaker 1: see her much as I would like to due to

552
00:26:55,320 --> 00:26:59,280
Speaker 1: my work. But my wife is self employed eyelash slash

553
00:26:59,359 --> 00:27:01,800
Speaker 1: nail tech and has a lot of free time which

554
00:27:01,840 --> 00:27:04,080
Speaker 1: she uses to spin with my mom to keep her company,

555
00:27:04,160 --> 00:27:07,000
Speaker 1: to her hair and have girly days to try and

556
00:27:07,040 --> 00:27:10,399
Speaker 1: make sure that she doesn't get lonely greedy. Like I said,

557
00:27:10,480 --> 00:27:14,359
Speaker 1: she was such a perfect partner. Was No, I didn't

558
00:27:14,359 --> 00:27:16,199
Speaker 1: think my mom is a cheater or whatever, and she

559
00:27:16,320 --> 00:27:18,480
Speaker 1: is very angry at my wife, but she just loves

560
00:27:18,480 --> 00:27:20,440
Speaker 1: her and she wants everything to be okay. I feel

561
00:27:20,440 --> 00:27:22,760
Speaker 1: like maybe the mom's just kind of like clinging.

562
00:27:22,520 --> 00:27:25,240
Speaker 2: To what the family was, to what it was, and

563
00:27:25,280 --> 00:27:26,919
Speaker 2: she just doesn't want to lose that.

564
00:27:27,240 --> 00:27:30,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, my daughter has no idea what's happening again, she's

565
00:27:30,840 --> 00:27:33,439
Speaker 1: a seven years old. I believe she was already asleep

566
00:27:33,440 --> 00:27:36,720
Speaker 1: when my wife came and went again. She just thinks

567
00:27:36,720 --> 00:27:38,760
Speaker 1: that mommy is still on holiday. I still have no

568
00:27:38,880 --> 00:27:41,960
Speaker 1: idea what I'm going to do. Honestly, I'm still reading,

569
00:27:42,359 --> 00:27:45,320
Speaker 1: but that is basically everything.

570
00:27:45,560 --> 00:27:48,639
Speaker 2: I can't believe that he's not. Is there an update?

571
00:27:48,800 --> 00:27:51,560
Speaker 1: There's some few relevant comments, but I can't.

572
00:27:51,359 --> 00:27:55,120
Speaker 2: Believe he's still staying. Yeah. No, all right, let's get

573
00:27:55,200 --> 00:27:56,080
Speaker 2: these relevant comments.

574
00:27:56,119 --> 00:27:58,960
Speaker 1: So to finish things off here, Forever Broke twelve says

575
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Speaker 1: what happens when she turned it's forty fifty, when she

576
00:28:02,040 --> 00:28:05,840
Speaker 1: gets her first gray hair menopause. She cheated because she's

577
00:28:05,880 --> 00:28:08,920
Speaker 1: got scared of getting older, but she is still going

578
00:28:08,960 --> 00:28:13,080
Speaker 1: to keep getting older, and not to mention from the story,

579
00:28:13,160 --> 00:28:15,639
Speaker 1: While the guy seems like a dick, she seems like

580
00:28:16,119 --> 00:28:19,000
Speaker 1: not a great role model, a role model either if

581
00:28:19,000 --> 00:28:22,080
Speaker 1: she was truly okay with sleeping with him. Yeah, that

582
00:28:22,160 --> 00:28:25,400
Speaker 1: hurt the other girl's feelings. Phaser s c. Says her

583
00:28:25,440 --> 00:28:27,920
Speaker 1: sister told her wife she was insane for what she did.

584
00:28:28,200 --> 00:28:31,120
Speaker 1: Your wife's sister is absolutely on point. This was rough

585
00:28:31,160 --> 00:28:34,000
Speaker 1: to read, though, as an outsider can't imagine how shitty

586
00:28:34,040 --> 00:28:37,240
Speaker 1: it is to experience firsthand. Internactional box eight or nine

587
00:28:37,240 --> 00:28:39,800
Speaker 1: closes things out with if she knows she can get

588
00:28:39,840 --> 00:28:42,400
Speaker 1: away with it, she will do it.

589
00:28:42,520 --> 00:28:47,440
Speaker 2: Yeah again, Yeah, yeah, exactly all she wrote. I think, like, well,

590
00:28:47,440 --> 00:28:49,800
Speaker 2: it sounds like the wife has a self confidence issue

591
00:28:49,880 --> 00:28:51,760
Speaker 2: and like she has to work on that before getting

592
00:28:51,960 --> 00:28:54,520
Speaker 2: back into lation. Joh at the very least thing.

593
00:28:54,600 --> 00:28:57,080
Speaker 4: Yeah, if this is what happens at thirty yeah.

594
00:28:56,960 --> 00:29:00,520
Speaker 7: With a wrinkle, Yeah, with a wrinkle, this is in.

595
00:29:00,600 --> 00:29:05,280
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah dude, uh whack whack. I really do think

596
00:29:05,320 --> 00:29:07,440
Speaker 2: there's some like cookiness going on here, though.

597
00:29:07,920 --> 00:29:09,239
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think I think there is.

598
00:29:09,280 --> 00:29:11,040
Speaker 2: There's a little out of cuss, a little.

599
00:29:10,800 --> 00:29:12,880
Speaker 1: Bit of cook Why would you ask for so many deers.

600
00:29:12,600 --> 00:29:15,800
Speaker 2: So many details, so many unnecessary details? Yeah?

601
00:29:16,000 --> 00:29:18,440
Speaker 5: Am I the ale for not telling my boyfriend? I'm

602
00:29:18,560 --> 00:29:23,480
Speaker 5: ninety percent sure I'm moving countries next year, and this

603
00:29:23,680 --> 00:29:25,600
Speaker 5: is okay oh piece submittedge.

604
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Speaker 2: If you want to sit about your own story, go

605
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Speaker 2: to our slash okay opu show on Reddit or call

606
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Speaker 2: us at four four zero five year eight six five

607
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Speaker 2: six seven year.

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Speaker 5: This is from Navigation Problems, who says, I'm not sure

609
00:29:39,520 --> 00:29:43,000
Speaker 5: this post is sensational enough or long enough for this community,

610
00:29:43,080 --> 00:29:45,200
Speaker 5: but I thought typing it out might help me make

611
00:29:45,200 --> 00:29:48,080
Speaker 5: a decision. So here it goes nothing. We will give

612
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Speaker 5: you all the answers you need. I, twenty five female,

613
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Speaker 5: have been living and working in a foreign country for

614
00:29:53,760 --> 00:29:56,040
Speaker 5: more than a year and a half. Now I accept

615
00:29:56,080 --> 00:29:58,640
Speaker 5: that I accepted the job straight out of university and

616
00:29:58,720 --> 00:30:01,080
Speaker 5: moved clear across the globe with nothing but two K

617
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Speaker 5: my bank account and two over stuff suitcases. And it's

618
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Speaker 5: been the best decision I've made in the twenty five

619
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Speaker 5: years of my life. I feel at home here and

620
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Speaker 5: I've built a life that I love. I enjoyed my job,

621
00:30:12,240 --> 00:30:15,400
Speaker 5: found a favorite cafe, started a gym membership, go to

622
00:30:15,480 --> 00:30:17,760
Speaker 5: a traditional music club once a week, get to go

623
00:30:17,800 --> 00:30:20,320
Speaker 5: on trips on long weekends, and my language skills are

624
00:30:20,360 --> 00:30:23,360
Speaker 5: steadily improving. Although I don't get paid a ton. I

625
00:30:23,440 --> 00:30:25,920
Speaker 5: love my life here. That does sound like a great life.

626
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Speaker 2: Yeah, that sounds great.

627
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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Oh pe.

629
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Speaker 1: Yeah, holler at us. Oh yeah.

630
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Speaker 5: I have also started dating someone. We've been dating about

631
00:30:36,200 --> 00:30:39,160
Speaker 5: four months and have been girlfriend boyfriend for around one

632
00:30:39,720 --> 00:30:41,600
Speaker 5: We met through a dating app. Since I live in

633
00:30:41,640 --> 00:30:44,680
Speaker 5: a pretty rural area, dating apps in the occasional language

634
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Speaker 5: exchange events are pretty much the only ways for foreigners

635
00:30:47,480 --> 00:30:50,880
Speaker 5: to find someone who can speak their native language. Originally,

636
00:30:50,960 --> 00:30:53,720
Speaker 5: I was looking for a fellow native English speaker, but

637
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Speaker 5: most of them were only in the country for a

638
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Speaker 5: month or two tops. I wasn't really looking for a

639
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Speaker 5: fling with a tourist, so I just did to widen

640
00:31:00,800 --> 00:31:01,480
Speaker 5: my dating pool.

641
00:31:02,040 --> 00:31:04,320
Speaker 2: Okay, this is a dating story where I get some

642
00:31:04,680 --> 00:31:07,400
Speaker 2: all right dating story to dating story.

643
00:31:07,520 --> 00:31:10,560
Speaker 1: I was in Bali, Indonesia.

644
00:31:11,120 --> 00:31:14,040
Speaker 5: That's when I met my current boyfriend. He's a citizen

645
00:31:14,080 --> 00:31:16,520
Speaker 5: of this country and English is his second language, but

646
00:31:16,600 --> 00:31:19,960
Speaker 5: he's pretty fluent in it. He's mischievous and sometimes a

647
00:31:19,960 --> 00:31:22,040
Speaker 5: bit cheesy in the way he flirts with me, but

648
00:31:22,120 --> 00:31:25,000
Speaker 5: he's really sweet and attentive too. We're the type of

649
00:31:25,040 --> 00:31:26,840
Speaker 5: people who like to try new things, and we have

650
00:31:26,880 --> 00:31:29,440
Speaker 5: a lot of fun together. We've been on rock climbing dates,

651
00:31:29,560 --> 00:31:34,680
Speaker 5: karaoke dates, aquarium dates, arcade dates, theme park dates, stargazing dates.

652
00:31:34,880 --> 00:31:34,960
Speaker 6: And.

653
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Speaker 2: Great dates stargazing I need you want to take a

654
00:31:40,880 --> 00:31:43,920
Speaker 2: girl to the desert with a telescope? You know that

655
00:31:44,040 --> 00:31:44,480
Speaker 2: sounds like.

656
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Speaker 1: You're gonna have murder that goes hard?

657
00:31:47,600 --> 00:31:48,400
Speaker 2: Doesn't that go hard?

658
00:31:48,680 --> 00:31:51,560
Speaker 1: Honestly, driving out like the same road you take to

659
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Speaker 1: go to uh Las Vegas and Nevada.

660
00:31:54,320 --> 00:31:56,920
Speaker 2: Oh, and then stopping.

661
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Speaker 1: Like Joshua Tree Area.

662
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Speaker 2: That's a great idea.

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Speaker 5: Okay, but I feel like you gotta this is not

664
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Speaker 5: a first day thing. You can't tell a girl on

665
00:32:04,800 --> 00:32:05,520
Speaker 5: a first date that.

666
00:32:05,440 --> 00:32:07,280
Speaker 2: You're going We're gonna give me. I took a girl

667
00:32:07,320 --> 00:32:08,800
Speaker 2: to North Carolina on a second date.

668
00:32:09,280 --> 00:32:11,320
Speaker 5: I know, but there's a difference between being like, Hey,

669
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Speaker 5: I want to drive you out to the desert.

670
00:32:13,800 --> 00:32:16,080
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, at night?

671
00:32:17,320 --> 00:32:18,080
Speaker 1: A great plan.

672
00:32:19,840 --> 00:32:22,040
Speaker 3: Do you have to meet their parents first before that happens?

673
00:32:22,160 --> 00:32:24,760
Speaker 4: Or Rally's obsessed with the parents meeting?

674
00:32:25,200 --> 00:32:26,480
Speaker 2: Are you trying to meet her your.

675
00:32:29,960 --> 00:32:30,880
Speaker 1: Put it on the list.

676
00:32:31,240 --> 00:32:33,600
Speaker 5: Both of us have favorite foods that the other dislikes,

677
00:32:33,680 --> 00:32:36,520
Speaker 5: and recently we've been going on plain old restaurant dates.

678
00:32:36,560 --> 00:32:38,560
Speaker 5: To condition ourselves into liking.

679
00:32:38,320 --> 00:32:39,920
Speaker 4: Each other's favorite food. That's cute.

680
00:32:40,840 --> 00:32:43,480
Speaker 5: These dates have led to some pretty hilarious memories. We

681
00:32:43,560 --> 00:32:46,080
Speaker 5: plan to go bungee jumping and camping together when the

682
00:32:46,080 --> 00:32:49,520
Speaker 5: weather warms up, and plan and have plans to travel too.

683
00:32:50,360 --> 00:32:53,680
Speaker 5: Although there have been some cultural differences we've had to navigate,

684
00:32:53,760 --> 00:32:57,800
Speaker 5: as well as some personal challenges, our relationship is going well.

685
00:32:58,040 --> 00:33:00,680
Speaker 5: It's my first time in a long distance forlationship. We

686
00:33:00,720 --> 00:33:05,440
Speaker 5: live almost three hours apart, but we're making it work anyway. Yeah,

687
00:33:05,480 --> 00:33:07,480
Speaker 5: I guess they're going on those long trips together.

688
00:33:07,720 --> 00:33:10,440
Speaker 2: I think something that's kind of cool. I remember when

689
00:33:10,480 --> 00:33:12,920
Speaker 2: I was in a long distance relationship, like you wouldn't

690
00:33:12,920 --> 00:33:14,960
Speaker 2: see your partner all the time, but when you did,

691
00:33:15,400 --> 00:33:18,280
Speaker 2: it was like crazy. You would always do something. Go

692
00:33:18,360 --> 00:33:20,120
Speaker 2: back to the story, go Katoki.

693
00:33:20,360 --> 00:33:23,200
Speaker 5: Anyway, because I've been enjoying my life in this country

694
00:33:23,760 --> 00:33:26,600
Speaker 5: so much, I have decided to sign the yearly work

695
00:33:26,640 --> 00:33:29,320
Speaker 5: contract for the third time. I've already made the decision

696
00:33:29,320 --> 00:33:32,720
Speaker 5: to recontract before I started dating my boyfriend, but I'm

697
00:33:32,840 --> 00:33:35,400
Speaker 5: especially glad I made that decision because it means we're

698
00:33:35,400 --> 00:33:38,720
Speaker 5: going to have more time together in the same country. However,

699
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Speaker 5: I always plan to return to my home country within

700
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Speaker 5: three years.

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Speaker 4: Due to my career.

702
00:33:44,520 --> 00:33:47,000
Speaker 5: I'm a teacher and I graduated with a four year

703
00:33:47,040 --> 00:33:49,920
Speaker 5: teaching license. I have to complete a two year renewal

704
00:33:51,040 --> 00:33:55,280
Speaker 5: and and evaluation process within four years to receive the

705
00:33:55,320 --> 00:33:58,080
Speaker 5: next level of teaching license, or I have to apply

706
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Speaker 5: for a temporary extension to keep my current license.

707
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Speaker 4: It's a confusing process.

708
00:34:02,520 --> 00:34:04,880
Speaker 5: And it gets messier the longer I defer it, so

709
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Speaker 5: I'm not a big fan of that option, at least

710
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Speaker 5: not for more than a year. Also, I don't want

711
00:34:09,760 --> 00:34:11,759
Speaker 5: the skills I worked so hard to develop to go

712
00:34:11,840 --> 00:34:15,040
Speaker 5: to waste. My current job doesn't require a teaching license,

713
00:34:15,120 --> 00:34:18,239
Speaker 5: but I'm unwilling to let my teaching credentials expire. You know,

714
00:34:18,880 --> 00:34:21,160
Speaker 5: I earn them a paying a pretty penny for them.

715
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Speaker 5: And although I don't plan on entering the classroom as

716
00:34:23,600 --> 00:34:25,920
Speaker 5: a teacher in my home country at the moment, that

717
00:34:26,000 --> 00:34:28,560
Speaker 5: may change in the future. I don't want to close

718
00:34:28,760 --> 00:34:31,719
Speaker 5: up life path and narrow my future career choices for

719
00:34:31,840 --> 00:34:34,799
Speaker 5: a relationship. It's just not smart, no matter how good

720
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Speaker 5: the relationship is.

721
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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean will question for all of you in

722
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Speaker 2: the chat, what like would you change your career to

723
00:34:45,120 --> 00:34:46,719
Speaker 2: for love? What do you change your career for love?

724
00:34:47,520 --> 00:34:48,200
Speaker 1: Do you have to?

725
00:34:48,360 --> 00:34:48,600
Speaker 2: Though?

726
00:34:48,680 --> 00:34:50,279
Speaker 1: I feel like changing your job, but you have to

727
00:34:50,360 --> 00:34:51,200
Speaker 1: change your career?

728
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Speaker 5: Well, it seems in this case, yes it teaching credentials.

729
00:34:55,600 --> 00:34:59,080
Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, so fair enough, I will dude, I definitely

730
00:34:59,120 --> 00:35:02,080
Speaker 2: wouldn't give up doing the stream for anyone.

731
00:35:02,200 --> 00:35:05,040
Speaker 1: Imagine someone said you cannot do okap anymore?

732
00:35:05,520 --> 00:35:08,200
Speaker 2: Dude. Well, all right, Taba, thanks for the two bucks. Y'all.

733
00:35:08,239 --> 00:35:12,920
Speaker 2: My comfort YouTube got dumped today. Oh I'm sorry, it's

734
00:35:12,960 --> 00:35:13,239
Speaker 2: a thing.

735
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Speaker 1: Let's put them on a blast.

736
00:35:14,680 --> 00:35:17,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, dude, we've all been We've all. I feel like

737
00:35:17,520 --> 00:35:22,640
Speaker 2: like I won't say sorry. I won't say anything. I've

738
00:35:22,680 --> 00:35:31,360
Speaker 2: been dumped this week. It is true. Okay, okay, anyway.

739
00:35:34,280 --> 00:35:35,720
Speaker 1: We were back to the start.

740
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Speaker 5: I don't want to close a life path and narrow

741
00:35:38,080 --> 00:35:41,040
Speaker 5: my future choices for relationship. It's just not smart, no

742
00:35:41,080 --> 00:35:44,520
Speaker 5: matter how good the relationship is. I know this, but honestly,

743
00:35:44,600 --> 00:35:46,720
Speaker 5: the thought of returning home to go through the renewal

744
00:35:46,760 --> 00:35:49,680
Speaker 5: process isn't appealing at all. So what I want to

745
00:35:49,719 --> 00:35:52,160
Speaker 5: ask is how should I tell my boyfriend? And when

746
00:35:52,680 --> 00:35:54,759
Speaker 5: would I be the a hole if I waited six

747
00:35:54,800 --> 00:35:57,000
Speaker 5: months or so. I'm about a year out from the

748
00:35:57,000 --> 00:35:59,360
Speaker 5: big move, but our relationship is still pretty new, so

749
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Speaker 5: I don't even know if it's appropriate to bring something

750
00:36:01,680 --> 00:36:04,040
Speaker 5: like this up at the stage. On the other hand,

751
00:36:04,120 --> 00:36:06,160
Speaker 5: if I don't say anything, I feel like I'm lying

752
00:36:06,160 --> 00:36:07,719
Speaker 5: to him. I just don't know how to approach it

753
00:36:07,719 --> 00:36:08,240
Speaker 5: at this point.

754
00:36:08,760 --> 00:36:11,920
Speaker 2: So, Oh, he's asking, when do I tell tell him

755
00:36:11,960 --> 00:36:13,600
Speaker 2: that I'm going to give up the job for him?

756
00:36:14,040 --> 00:36:18,320
Speaker 4: No? No, I'm going to leave the country. I'm moving

757
00:36:19,239 --> 00:36:21,279
Speaker 4: for wait for him for no.

758
00:36:21,400 --> 00:36:24,279
Speaker 5: For so they have to re up their teaching credentials

759
00:36:24,760 --> 00:36:26,640
Speaker 5: and so to do that, they have to go back

760
00:36:26,719 --> 00:36:27,520
Speaker 5: to the US.

761
00:36:27,760 --> 00:36:29,800
Speaker 4: I think I think that is their birthos.

762
00:36:30,239 --> 00:36:32,799
Speaker 5: So basically what they're saying is, when do I tell

763
00:36:32,880 --> 00:36:33,840
Speaker 5: him that I'm leaving?

764
00:36:35,160 --> 00:36:38,560
Speaker 2: Is it? Wait? Is she But she's not leaving the relationship,

765
00:36:38,719 --> 00:36:41,120
Speaker 2: she's leaving the country. But is she leaving the relationship?

766
00:36:41,640 --> 00:36:46,520
Speaker 1: Well, she's telling physically, so yeah, maybe we do.

767
00:36:46,880 --> 00:36:49,839
Speaker 2: So she's not giving up her career, she's not. She's not.

768
00:36:49,880 --> 00:36:52,719
Speaker 1: Okay, So, but I guess to your point, maybe it's

769
00:36:52,760 --> 00:36:55,200
Speaker 1: not one hundred percent clear whether she's like, Hey, I

770
00:36:55,280 --> 00:36:58,080
Speaker 1: want to like end this relationship or just like hey,

771
00:36:58,160 --> 00:37:01,040
Speaker 1: I will be very very far away from you.

772
00:37:01,440 --> 00:37:04,279
Speaker 2: Oh, I think say as soon as you you know. Yeah,

773
00:37:04,960 --> 00:37:07,600
Speaker 2: I actually have an okay story time about saying things.

774
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Speaker 1: No another one another one into the list.

775
00:37:11,920 --> 00:37:14,640
Speaker 2: But yeah, I feel like I feel like say, I

776
00:37:14,640 --> 00:37:18,040
Speaker 2: think as soon as you feel something, if you want

777
00:37:18,080 --> 00:37:20,000
Speaker 2: to be like super communicated with your partner, I think

778
00:37:20,000 --> 00:37:20,400
Speaker 2: you say it.

779
00:37:20,480 --> 00:37:22,480
Speaker 1: And I think you can say that too, and it like, hey,

780
00:37:22,600 --> 00:37:24,640
Speaker 1: I I don't know what I want to do. I

781
00:37:24,760 --> 00:37:27,239
Speaker 1: very recently found this out and I wanted to come

782
00:37:27,280 --> 00:37:30,000
Speaker 1: to you. Yeah, I think it's a great idea to

783
00:37:30,320 --> 00:37:33,279
Speaker 1: tell them as soon as you feasibly can't do you? Uh,

784
00:37:33,840 --> 00:37:35,520
Speaker 1: is this something you could do over the phone or

785
00:37:35,560 --> 00:37:36,760
Speaker 1: does this have to be in person?

786
00:37:37,280 --> 00:37:38,520
Speaker 4: I think that's an in person thing.

787
00:37:39,120 --> 00:37:41,960
Speaker 2: I think it is an in person thing. But what

788
00:37:42,000 --> 00:37:43,200
Speaker 2: if they don't are not going to see each other

789
00:37:43,200 --> 00:37:44,040
Speaker 2: for like a month or something.

790
00:37:45,960 --> 00:37:48,480
Speaker 3: You can do what one of our other okop members did.

791
00:37:48,480 --> 00:37:50,359
Speaker 6: He like waited three months to break up with his

792
00:37:50,400 --> 00:37:53,040
Speaker 6: girlfriend as he was as she was cheating on him.

793
00:37:53,320 --> 00:37:56,319
Speaker 2: Yeah, you don't probably don't do that. I mean, yeah,

794
00:37:56,480 --> 00:37:59,200
Speaker 2: it's still I think as soon as you can. But

795
00:37:59,239 --> 00:38:01,359
Speaker 2: if it's like if they're but if you're not going

796
00:38:01,440 --> 00:38:03,480
Speaker 2: to if you're not going to see them for a

797
00:38:03,480 --> 00:38:05,640
Speaker 2: couple of months, I think like probably just sell them

798
00:38:05,640 --> 00:38:06,240
Speaker 2: over the phone.

799
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Speaker 5: Yes, yes, if you're thin, but I think regardless, tell

800
00:38:09,560 --> 00:38:10,239
Speaker 5: them immediately.

801
00:38:10,280 --> 00:38:11,960
Speaker 4: If you can tell them in person.

802
00:38:11,719 --> 00:38:13,440
Speaker 1: Do that if reasonably, if you can tell them in

803
00:38:13,480 --> 00:38:17,160
Speaker 1: person reasonably soon, definitely do it in person. And if

804
00:38:17,160 --> 00:38:19,920
Speaker 1: you can't see them soon, then give them a call,

805
00:38:20,160 --> 00:38:21,040
Speaker 1: give him a FaceTime.

806
00:38:21,200 --> 00:38:24,160
Speaker 5: Samantha jo wait, Riley, were you talking about an Okay

807
00:38:24,239 --> 00:38:26,239
Speaker 5: store like another person or.

808
00:38:26,120 --> 00:38:27,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, somebody submitted to okay?

809
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Speaker 5: I think I think yeah, the way that you said it,

810
00:38:29,520 --> 00:38:31,000
Speaker 5: I thought you were talking about like sam or John.

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Speaker 2: I was like what Yeah. So first Last says, what

812
00:38:34,719 --> 00:38:37,880
Speaker 2: exactly are they worried about? They're they're worried about like

813
00:38:37,880 --> 00:38:40,279
Speaker 2: like leaving the country and they will. I think it

814
00:38:40,320 --> 00:38:42,839
Speaker 2: seems like they want to preserve the relationship. I can't really.

815
00:38:42,960 --> 00:38:45,440
Speaker 2: I think they're like, do I do I tell my

816
00:38:45,840 --> 00:38:47,160
Speaker 2: when do I tell my boyfriend? Yeah?

817
00:38:47,440 --> 00:38:50,080
Speaker 5: I think they want to continue this relationship at least

818
00:38:50,160 --> 00:38:51,120
Speaker 5: until they leave.

819
00:38:51,600 --> 00:38:53,840
Speaker 2: Jesse says it would be really messed up to say nothing.

820
00:38:53,880 --> 00:38:54,120
Speaker 1: Now.

821
00:38:54,400 --> 00:38:56,520
Speaker 2: He should know now so that he can decide how

822
00:38:56,560 --> 00:38:58,759
Speaker 2: he wants to play out his own life. It isn't

823
00:38:58,800 --> 00:39:01,160
Speaker 2: just about her. I think with that, yeah, I think

824
00:39:01,280 --> 00:39:06,480
Speaker 2: like one hundred percent, Dana Arnette says he still deserves

825
00:39:06,520 --> 00:39:10,600
Speaker 2: to know and know soon. Yeah, I've been like playing

826
00:39:10,640 --> 00:39:13,840
Speaker 2: with this idea of just like radical authenticity recently, and

827
00:39:13,920 --> 00:39:17,080
Speaker 2: I think it's like I think it's actually it only helps.

828
00:39:17,320 --> 00:39:20,080
Speaker 2: But I think like being as authentic as possible in

829
00:39:20,120 --> 00:39:23,200
Speaker 2: as many moments as possible is going to be the

830
00:39:23,239 --> 00:39:26,800
Speaker 2: best thing possible for you. It's going to allow people

831
00:39:26,840 --> 00:39:30,399
Speaker 2: around you to know where you're at. And I think

832
00:39:30,480 --> 00:39:34,840
Speaker 2: like as long as you're if you're really like authentic

833
00:39:34,880 --> 00:39:39,080
Speaker 2: with your feelings, I think you're like like the people

834
00:39:39,120 --> 00:39:41,960
Speaker 2: around you can I don't know, I don't know, you

835
00:39:42,000 --> 00:39:42,760
Speaker 2: can't be mad.

836
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Speaker 1: Like yeah, like when you're so honest, it.

837
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Speaker 2: Okay. So I actually, I actually I saw this meme

838
00:39:55,560 --> 00:39:57,840
Speaker 2: or something. It was like a cartoon where it's like,

839
00:39:58,480 --> 00:40:01,160
Speaker 2: all right, when a character in a in a show

840
00:40:01,440 --> 00:40:05,440
Speaker 2: or movie is bad and shows that they're bad like that,

841
00:40:05,480 --> 00:40:07,960
Speaker 2: it's just like authentically bad. We kind of love them.

842
00:40:08,080 --> 00:40:10,319
Speaker 2: When a character is good and shows that they're good

843
00:40:10,360 --> 00:40:12,640
Speaker 2: and authentically love them like we love them. But when

844
00:40:12,640 --> 00:40:15,399
Speaker 2: a character is bad and is like a little bit

845
00:40:15,440 --> 00:40:20,560
Speaker 2: mischievous or kind of obfuscates what their intentions are. We

846
00:40:20,640 --> 00:40:25,560
Speaker 2: hate them, and so like people actually will like when

847
00:40:25,880 --> 00:40:28,799
Speaker 2: like a bad person is bad obviously more than when

848
00:40:29,239 --> 00:40:32,480
Speaker 2: a like bad person is like trying to be like

849
00:40:33,640 --> 00:40:37,200
Speaker 2: yeah yeah yeah. So basically yeah, people like authenticity more

850
00:40:37,239 --> 00:40:41,719
Speaker 2: than falseness. Authentically bad exactly because he's like bad and

851
00:40:41,880 --> 00:40:42,839
Speaker 2: like he shows that it's bad.

852
00:40:42,880 --> 00:40:44,120
Speaker 1: He's bad and he knows it.

853
00:40:44,760 --> 00:40:46,960
Speaker 2: This is an episode from Deep within the Archives.

854
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Speaker 1: Time for okop re wam today by calling my mommy

855
00:40:53,719 --> 00:40:56,960
Speaker 1: a money grubbing whore at her brother's engagement party.

856
00:40:57,120 --> 00:40:59,040
Speaker 2: Yo, Opie's not holds him back.

857
00:40:59,239 --> 00:41:03,279
Speaker 1: You know that's a bit a bit strong, my.

858
00:41:03,320 --> 00:41:05,040
Speaker 2: Dude, but maybe it's a serve. Let's see.

859
00:41:05,160 --> 00:41:06,600
Speaker 1: I don't know if I'd go that far, but we

860
00:41:06,600 --> 00:41:07,080
Speaker 1: shall see.

861
00:41:07,360 --> 00:41:13,279
Speaker 2: Give me this opportunity. I'm just a kid and life

862
00:41:13,440 --> 00:41:16,279
Speaker 2: is a nightmare. You don't you know that's that? That

863
00:41:16,360 --> 00:41:16,759
Speaker 2: was a song.

864
00:41:16,800 --> 00:41:18,959
Speaker 1: See, I was thinking I'm just a poor boy. That

865
00:41:19,000 --> 00:41:20,040
Speaker 1: first line had me.

866
00:41:20,320 --> 00:41:24,760
Speaker 2: Hey, Siri, play I'm just a kid, good bit with seven.

867
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Speaker 2: I waited till eleven just to figure out that no

868
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Speaker 2: one would come. Nothing else I've got a lot of friends,

869
00:41:33,640 --> 00:41:34,479
Speaker 2: but I.

870
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Speaker 4: Don't hear from them.

871
00:41:36,320 --> 00:41:37,719
Speaker 2: What's another.

872
00:41:40,160 --> 00:41:41,920
Speaker 1: When you spending.

873
00:41:41,360 --> 00:41:47,000
Speaker 7: Every Yes, who is that simple plan?

874
00:41:47,520 --> 00:41:50,080
Speaker 1: I'm just a kid, got you? Well, there you go.

875
00:41:50,200 --> 00:41:53,480
Speaker 1: I don't know songs. I'm just a kid, but I

876
00:41:53,520 --> 00:41:57,680
Speaker 1: do know the story. Night Man, first line coming out strong.

877
00:41:58,080 --> 00:42:00,799
Speaker 1: I hate my parents, and my parents hate me.

878
00:42:01,400 --> 00:42:02,200
Speaker 2: Nice. Nice.

879
00:42:02,800 --> 00:42:05,160
Speaker 1: They do not want me at all.

880
00:42:05,280 --> 00:42:05,880
Speaker 2: They don't want me.

881
00:42:07,239 --> 00:42:11,080
Speaker 1: They they do not want me to be there. Neither

882
00:42:11,120 --> 00:42:16,120
Speaker 1: did I. Also, because being around people suffocates me. Oh oh,

883
00:42:16,200 --> 00:42:20,200
Speaker 1: dear Opo, I hope you're hope. In general, I think so.

884
00:42:21,120 --> 00:42:23,879
Speaker 1: My brother won't budge from trying to get me there.

885
00:42:24,000 --> 00:42:27,720
Speaker 1: He's the only person that cares for me in this world,

886
00:42:27,800 --> 00:42:30,600
Speaker 1: and I couldn't say no to him. My mom's a

887
00:42:30,760 --> 00:42:35,520
Speaker 1: sucker for money, and she wasn't happy with the gift

888
00:42:35,760 --> 00:42:38,760
Speaker 1: that the brideside had bought for her. There's an Indian

889
00:42:38,800 --> 00:42:42,279
Speaker 1: tradition where the families would exchange gifts with each other,

890
00:42:42,480 --> 00:42:44,960
Speaker 1: and they were on the verge of throwing a visible

891
00:42:45,040 --> 00:42:48,920
Speaker 1: tantrum to make the other family realized that my mom

892
00:42:49,280 --> 00:42:54,239
Speaker 1: needed something fancier. My goodness, my brother put me. My

893
00:42:54,280 --> 00:42:55,280
Speaker 1: brother puts some sense.

894
00:42:55,080 --> 00:42:58,360
Speaker 2: To it's like secret Santa, but but for like the marriage.

895
00:42:58,360 --> 00:43:00,560
Speaker 1: So like they go and they exchange, well they're just

896
00:43:00,600 --> 00:43:01,920
Speaker 1: like exchanging gifts to each other.

897
00:43:01,960 --> 00:43:05,280
Speaker 7: And she's like, excuse me, it is not up to pop.

898
00:43:05,840 --> 00:43:06,680
Speaker 7: Is this Gucci?

899
00:43:07,200 --> 00:43:08,120
Speaker 2: Is this Louis Vuitton?

900
00:43:08,480 --> 00:43:09,040
Speaker 1: Oh it's not.

901
00:43:09,520 --> 00:43:10,480
Speaker 2: It's from the gap.

902
00:43:10,840 --> 00:43:14,880
Speaker 7: Well, you have a gap in your fucking brain, because

903
00:43:15,160 --> 00:43:20,640
Speaker 7: I need something that adheres to my caliber. You human,

904
00:43:20,800 --> 00:43:24,680
Speaker 7: You the bottomized piece of meat. Get smart.

905
00:43:25,600 --> 00:43:28,439
Speaker 1: My brother puts some sense into her and she had

906
00:43:28,480 --> 00:43:32,120
Speaker 1: to drop her mischievous plan of getting something nicer. Now,

907
00:43:32,160 --> 00:43:34,759
Speaker 1: the music is generally loud in this party, and I

908
00:43:34,760 --> 00:43:39,520
Speaker 1: think I overestimated its loudness while I was saying money

909
00:43:39,560 --> 00:43:40,640
Speaker 1: grubbing whore.

910
00:43:41,440 --> 00:43:44,320
Speaker 2: Wait, she called the mother in law a money grubbing whore.

911
00:43:44,440 --> 00:43:47,360
Speaker 2: Not the mother in law, oh their mother. Wait, she

912
00:43:47,560 --> 00:43:51,080
Speaker 2: called her own mother a money grubbing whore.

913
00:43:51,320 --> 00:43:54,400
Speaker 1: Yes, yes, yes, which, by the way, I don't know

914
00:43:54,840 --> 00:43:59,799
Speaker 1: the gender of Opie. Umm, it is undetermined, but we

915
00:43:59,800 --> 00:44:03,600
Speaker 1: will see if it is revealed. These were exactly the

916
00:44:03,640 --> 00:44:06,560
Speaker 1: words I used, and I could have said that inside

917
00:44:06,560 --> 00:44:10,440
Speaker 1: my head, but I didn't, because sometimes you make horrible

918
00:44:10,480 --> 00:44:14,680
Speaker 1: decisions in life to later regret them. Forever, you know

919
00:44:14,760 --> 00:44:18,399
Speaker 1: how it goes. Somebody overheard me, and somehow word got

920
00:44:18,440 --> 00:44:21,000
Speaker 1: out that I called my mom a randy, which is

921
00:44:21,160 --> 00:44:25,120
Speaker 1: Hindi for a whore. You do not use that word

922
00:44:25,160 --> 00:44:27,680
Speaker 1: here if you come from a good family, or if

923
00:44:27,719 --> 00:44:30,120
Speaker 1: you want to pretend that you come from a good family,

924
00:44:30,520 --> 00:44:35,040
Speaker 1: and certainly not when family's around, and definitely not saying

925
00:44:35,080 --> 00:44:38,680
Speaker 1: that to your mom. Some relatives have tried to have

926
00:44:38,719 --> 00:44:40,840
Speaker 1: a word with me, but I was taken into another

927
00:44:40,920 --> 00:44:44,040
Speaker 1: room by my brother. My parents were already inside, and

928
00:44:44,080 --> 00:44:48,720
Speaker 1: my mom was sobbing good gravy. This time, I knew

929
00:44:48,920 --> 00:44:52,680
Speaker 1: she wasn't faking it. Okay, I guess she regularly fakes

930
00:44:52,760 --> 00:44:53,640
Speaker 1: crying by this time.

931
00:44:53,960 --> 00:44:56,359
Speaker 2: Yeah, it was no respect for their mother.

932
00:44:56,480 --> 00:44:59,200
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh. My parents didn't say a word to me.

933
00:44:59,400 --> 00:45:02,440
Speaker 1: My brother asked me to apologize. I did, but I

934
00:45:02,480 --> 00:45:05,120
Speaker 1: don't know why I felt the need to clarify that

935
00:45:05,200 --> 00:45:07,560
Speaker 1: I didn't use the word randy exactly.

936
00:45:08,800 --> 00:45:11,200
Speaker 2: That's not that's the word horror. I called you a whore.

937
00:45:11,400 --> 00:45:14,399
Speaker 1: Good good gravy. Op, we know what you're saying here.

938
00:45:15,239 --> 00:45:17,719
Speaker 1: After this, my brother asked me to leave early. This

939
00:45:17,760 --> 00:45:20,120
Speaker 1: happened four days ago, and I haven't found the courage

940
00:45:20,120 --> 00:45:22,480
Speaker 1: to call my brother, and neither has he. He did

941
00:45:22,520 --> 00:45:25,319
Speaker 1: not deserve all this unnecessary drama on his day, and

942
00:45:25,440 --> 00:45:27,319
Speaker 1: all of this could have been prevented if I had

943
00:45:27,360 --> 00:45:29,960
Speaker 1: been a little more responsible. I also fear for the

944
00:45:30,000 --> 00:45:32,840
Speaker 1: woman being married into our family.

945
00:45:33,239 --> 00:45:36,000
Speaker 2: Yikes, dude, I think you messed up, op Op, just

946
00:45:36,080 --> 00:45:37,160
Speaker 2: keep that shit in your head.

947
00:45:37,280 --> 00:45:40,920
Speaker 1: I think you you know your mom maybe is not great,

948
00:45:41,080 --> 00:45:46,759
Speaker 1: but that's at a bare minimum, at least not in

949
00:45:46,800 --> 00:45:50,560
Speaker 1: a public setting, at a barest barest barest of class,

950
00:45:50,600 --> 00:45:53,279
Speaker 1: and not have a little class like come on,