WEBVTT - Are You My Favorite?

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to Reasonably Shady, a production of The Black Effect

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<v Speaker 1>Podcast Network and I Heart Radio. Welcome to another episode

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<v Speaker 1>of Reasonably Shady. I am Gazelle Bryant. What's up? What's up?

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<v Speaker 1>What's up? What's up? What's up? That'd be Robin's Robbing Dixon. Y'all. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry, thank you for being here with us again.

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<v Speaker 1>I know, I mean, this is like really exciting. It's

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<v Speaker 1>the end of the year. It's like actually like my

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<v Speaker 1>favorite time. It's like there's like a little coldness in

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<v Speaker 1>the air. Uh No, this is really your favorite time,

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<v Speaker 1>only when I listen to Christmas music on the radio. Like, Okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>keep going. No, I'm not gonna she's I'm moving on. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>we're gonna talk about our reasonably Shady moment of the week. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>because you popping on this Christmas. So I have three daughters, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>two of them like to get their hair braided. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>that would be the twins angel in the door. So

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<v Speaker 1>I said, cool, let's let's get it. Let's get a crowned.

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<v Speaker 1>So I have clearly like learned my lesson, and I

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<v Speaker 1>used to take them to one person, so they like

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<v Speaker 1>one one of the twins we get their hair braided,

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<v Speaker 1>and we would wait and the other one, Okay, we're

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<v Speaker 1>not doing that. So we found some people the other

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<v Speaker 1>night that you know, clearly two of them can be

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<v Speaker 1>getting it done at the same time. I found them

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<v Speaker 1>the other night. The other night I found no. I

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<v Speaker 1>found them a little while ago. I made an appointment, right.

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<v Speaker 1>I had never been to this place before. They recommendation,

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<v Speaker 1>They were not recommendations. I went on my own and

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<v Speaker 1>I found these people on Google. I did. I googled.

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<v Speaker 1>This was is a Google search. Okay, and let me

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<v Speaker 1>just say this. It was the k hair braiding place

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<v Speaker 1>I've ever been to. When I say yankie, there was

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<v Speaker 1>like duct tape on the windows. It was a disaster. Listen,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to say the town. Okay, find Silver Spring, Maryland.

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<v Speaker 1>And they they didn't even have a sign on the door.

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<v Speaker 1>They just had like this little neon light that said braiding.

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<v Speaker 1>That was splashing. Okay, So we go up in there

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<v Speaker 1>and at this point you're stuck, like you you can't

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<v Speaker 1>abort the you can't abort and go somewhere else because

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<v Speaker 1>it's two of them and they got a bunch of

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<v Speaker 1>hairs did you read the reviews? I didn't read any reviews. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so they're they're talking to each other as in the

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<v Speaker 1>braiding people, they're talking to each other in a language

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<v Speaker 1>I don't understand. And so guess what. We sat there

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<v Speaker 1>and we sat there and we sat there and they

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<v Speaker 1>got their hair braided. And I just want to say

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<v Speaker 1>that hair braiding and shady because it requires too many hours.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes it does. What kind of braids did they get?

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<v Speaker 1>So they got I don't even know. Box is not box?

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<v Speaker 1>What is it? What is individuals? They got individual braids

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<v Speaker 1>with the knot at the town with the knot. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>this braden thing, it's kill not take. Okay, we got

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<v Speaker 1>there at three thirty. We left at eight thirty nine.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh that's not that bad. Shady for complaining, I'm shady black. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>it's five hours, five hours that bad. Let me just

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<v Speaker 1>say this, I share them the shady moment of the week.

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<v Speaker 1>I left my kids. I took Grace home. Okay, I live,

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<v Speaker 1>I lived damn near forty five minutes away. Took Grace home,

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<v Speaker 1>came back and like only a fourth of their hair

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<v Speaker 1>were done. Okay, miss Burgo, this is your this is

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<v Speaker 1>your your impatient. Um, you are what bossy? Yes? What

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<v Speaker 1>else we got? I just I just don't want this

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<v Speaker 1>to take five, six, seven hours. I mean it was

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<v Speaker 1>just the whole hair braiding thing. I'm here for the

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<v Speaker 1>end result. I'm just not here for the process. You

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<v Speaker 1>should have expected that that. Actually I thought you were

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<v Speaker 1>going to say you were there till midnight. Oh hell no, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I've done that before. Okay, okay, well, okay, let's move on.

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<v Speaker 1>What is what is your shady moment? Hair braiding is mine? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>hair braiding is yours, and I get that. I get it.

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<v Speaker 1>It's fine, but mine goes to people who don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to take my money. I mean, I'm trying to throw

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<v Speaker 1>a dinner party for my college girlfriend and I reached

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<v Speaker 1>out to the chef and I said, you know, this

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<v Speaker 1>is the menu. I want a full course menu. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>I want to you know, seafood and surf and turf

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<v Speaker 1>and you know, get me to work turf, hook it

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<v Speaker 1>up for a sister. And yeah, the dude he won't

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<v Speaker 1>even give me the damn price. He won't tell me

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<v Speaker 1>how much, he won't send me the menu. Like I'm

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<v Speaker 1>supposed to be hosting these people on Saturday, and I

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<v Speaker 1>have to text him multiple times and he responds back.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's not that he's gone ghosts. And we had

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<v Speaker 1>a phone conversation. We talked through the menu. Now I

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<v Speaker 1>got my friends talking about, well, what are we confirmed?

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<v Speaker 1>And I want we can't be pressing to I might be,

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<v Speaker 1>I might be. And and this is like, um, um

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<v Speaker 1>got a potlot, we all we all pay, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>so you know, we get the bill, we all split

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<v Speaker 1>it whatever. You know. So you're not You're not really

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<v Speaker 1>you're hosting your home. I'm hosting arranging, yes, but people

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<v Speaker 1>want to know how much they need to budget, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>they need to know. Can I need to set aside

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<v Speaker 1>this amount of money for my dinner party? Right? And

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<v Speaker 1>I can't even tell them. They want to know if

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<v Speaker 1>it's a surf and turf or exactly. I can't tell

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<v Speaker 1>them anything. So I'm just at this point, I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh my gosh, like it's gonna happen. So yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>mean I have communicated with this man multiple times and

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<v Speaker 1>I still have no information. All right, Well, listen, this

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<v Speaker 1>is a lot of us talk about it here in

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<v Speaker 1>the streets, and we're gonna start with the most pressing

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<v Speaker 1>Kardashian news. O. Yes, and that is that damn Tristan. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>and that's what he will be called now and forever more.

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<v Speaker 1>That damn Tristan. What is wrong with him? He is dumb,

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<v Speaker 1>like dumb, dumb, dumb. It's so okay. I mean, it's

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<v Speaker 1>one thing you're dating a Kardashian, you know your every

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<v Speaker 1>move is getting clocked. Yes, okay, okay, So let's back

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<v Speaker 1>us from the don't know. Okay. Tristan Thompson is Chloe

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<v Speaker 1>Kardashian's baby daddy. They have a daughter together. Her name

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<v Speaker 1>is true She's a cute little girl. And I think

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<v Speaker 1>they were kind of back together, but not really, but

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. It sounded like they were getting back together, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>And so all of a sudden, out of nowhere comes

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<v Speaker 1>this woman who is has given birth, she has she

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<v Speaker 1>has had the baby. She had the baby the other day,

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<v Speaker 1>and Tristan said, I ain't giving you a dime, says

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna give you seventy k and walk away and

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<v Speaker 1>enjoy your life. And I don't want to have nothing

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<v Speaker 1>to do with that baby. Right. That's horrible. No, first

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<v Speaker 1>of all, he's he's that is horrible. Um. Second of all,

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<v Speaker 1>when the when the alert came, like when I saw

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<v Speaker 1>it on Instagram, at first, I was like, this can't

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<v Speaker 1>be true. He can't be this, he can't be this stupid,

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<v Speaker 1>but I just can't because stupid, I mean, and and

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<v Speaker 1>so Okay, Once People Magazine reported, I'm like, Okay, it's true.

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<v Speaker 1>People is the Bible, y'all. People Magazine is the Bible.

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<v Speaker 1>It's true. But then we see like private text messages

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<v Speaker 1>where he's pretty much saying, you know, okay, you can

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<v Speaker 1>try to get child support from me, but I'm going

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<v Speaker 1>to be retired next year, and that means I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>gonna have any income and Texas is not going to

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<v Speaker 1>award you any child support, so good luck with your baby.

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<v Speaker 1>But what does what does that mean? Though? Like if

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<v Speaker 1>you're I get that he would be unemployed, but doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>he's clearly got money in the bank, Like does that

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<v Speaker 1>does that? I guess he's saying that Texas based will

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<v Speaker 1>will award child support based on your income. Oh, and

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<v Speaker 1>he won't have any income. He won't have any income,

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<v Speaker 1>and and and good luck with your baby. There there

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<v Speaker 1>is a there is a nice seat in hell for

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<v Speaker 1>this one, okay, because that's horrible. That is it's so horrible,

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<v Speaker 1>it's so, it's sad, it's so And then I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>that's not for kids. He got with Chloe when he

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<v Speaker 1>had with did the did the woman before have a baby? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>she was pregnant, she was pregnant, she was pregnant. Believe

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<v Speaker 1>he got with Chloe while while the last girl was

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<v Speaker 1>pregnant with his child. So listen, how you get him

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<v Speaker 1>as how you lose him? That's what they say in dress.

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<v Speaker 1>So but guess what, I don't think. I don't think

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<v Speaker 1>Chloe want to have anything to do with this dude anymore. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I would think that would be it. Yeah, at least

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<v Speaker 1>what Chris Jenner has put the kabash on it. Chris

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<v Speaker 1>Jenner said, Okay, Trustan, you're not You're not for us.

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<v Speaker 1>But you know what the thing is, like, Chloe has

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<v Speaker 1>dated multiple NBA players, and so you know, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>do you think she's shocked, No, she's not shocked. She

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<v Speaker 1>probably held out hope that like, Okay, I'm gonna give

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<v Speaker 1>you another chance. You write God like you know you

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<v Speaker 1>clearly can't beat that stupid, but clearly he was. She

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<v Speaker 1>had hoped that he would wear a condom. Well, right,

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<v Speaker 1>that too. Then it makes me wonder. It's like maybe

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<v Speaker 1>it's Chloe not giving it up like Chloe. Yes, I don't, don't, please,

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<v Speaker 1>don't blame Chloe. I'm not. But it's like for him

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<v Speaker 1>to be that stupid, like you're dating a Kardashian. So

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<v Speaker 1>you're like, you can't get away with ship like that. No, no,

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<v Speaker 1>you cannot. But listen, Tristan, I'm not here for you.

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<v Speaker 1>I used to be a fan, but guess what not

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<v Speaker 1>any now, I was never a fan. I'm just being nice,

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<v Speaker 1>never again. Okay, but we do have to talk about

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<v Speaker 1>somebody I am a fan of and her name is Adele. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>and I know that last time, maybe two episodes ago

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<v Speaker 1>or so, I don't know, I went on this whole thing.

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<v Speaker 1>I love Adele. Oh my gosh Adele. Adele Adele. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>Adele has come out and said that she would never

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<v Speaker 1>watch a Real Housewives show because it would give her

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<v Speaker 1>brain damage or it would make her brain turn to

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<v Speaker 1>mush or we just sucked. I don't know. She said

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<v Speaker 1>kill her brain, it would kill her brains. Okay, Adele, Adele, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>let me just say that, Adele, how did you feel

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<v Speaker 1>about that. Well, I kind of agree with her. I

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<v Speaker 1>mean because some of these Real House five shows I

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<v Speaker 1>watched them too, and I'm like, God, damn, this is

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<v Speaker 1>a mess. But I mean, you know, maybe she should

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<v Speaker 1>have kept that to herself because maybe she didn't know

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<v Speaker 1>that a Real Housewife over here named Giselle is one

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<v Speaker 1>of her biggest fans and so and so I think

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<v Speaker 1>I feel her biggest. Yeah, I'm still gonna go to

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<v Speaker 1>Vegas and see her show. I forgive her because she

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<v Speaker 1>she wasn't trying to hurt my feeling. No, that's like

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<v Speaker 1>if she didn't like true crime stories or something, right,

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<v Speaker 1>that's just not her thing. Yes, but I feel you

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<v Speaker 1>on that, Adele. I mean no, Okay, so her brains,

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<v Speaker 1>she might kill a few brain cells, but then she

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<v Speaker 1>might get like an endorphin rush. Yeah, say she should

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<v Speaker 1>try it, like you know how they say the kids

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<v Speaker 1>with like food they don't want to eat, Like, try it,

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<v Speaker 1>you might like it. Right, And I'm going to put

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<v Speaker 1>out there in the universe, Adele, just watch the Real

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<v Speaker 1>Housewives of Potomac. You don't have to watch the rest

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<v Speaker 1>of them because the rest of them might actually kill

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<v Speaker 1>your brain cells. But just Watch the Potomac, Yeah, Green

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<v Speaker 1>Watch the Green advandis we we we're gonna help you

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<v Speaker 1>in your life. Yeah, And it's actually just like we're

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<v Speaker 1>here for entertainment. We're here to just like let you

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<v Speaker 1>breathe women, We're here to let you be easy on you. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's why we're here, right, we're like carefree, y sewing there.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't have to really think. No, no, no, let

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<v Speaker 1>me tell you what I have been thinking about because

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<v Speaker 1>he's been I've said it many times. He's my boyfriend.

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<v Speaker 1>His name is Chris Cuomo. I know he's married and everything,

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<v Speaker 1>but he is my blue on the side. And Dr Fauci. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you like Dr Fauci's. Dr Fauci does it for you? Hey? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>he was looking real good. It's like leading us every day,

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<v Speaker 1>and he was telling us, you know, what we needed

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<v Speaker 1>to do. One part of that eighty year old man

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<v Speaker 1>looked good to he looks good. Okay, all right, we

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<v Speaker 1>love Fauci too. Okay, but let's get back to Chris,

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<v Speaker 1>because Chris right now is unemployed. Now, CNN say we're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna do an investigation, and CNN said, you are fired,

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<v Speaker 1>get your ship and go. I'm wherever Chris goes, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna go that's what I say it, that's what I said.

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<v Speaker 1>So okay, but this is the thing I've seen where

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<v Speaker 1>people from New York, and I think because we're not

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<v Speaker 1>in New York, we're a little more um what objective.

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<v Speaker 1>But I feel like people in New York know a

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<v Speaker 1>lot more than what we do, and they're kind of

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<v Speaker 1>like that family shady and yeah, they crooks, and that's

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<v Speaker 1>what they deserve. They you know, their father did this, this,

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<v Speaker 1>this and so. Yeah, but the sins of the father,

0:12:37.040 --> 0:12:38.760
<v Speaker 1>not the sins of the son. Not. But you know,

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<v Speaker 1>sometimes you can't escape that. But so, I I was

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<v Speaker 1>very disappointed to see that Chris was was fired. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>I enjoyed watching him. I heard Don Lemon was very upset.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh cygnum. But you know, I feel and I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>it's like a weird I feel like it's one of

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<v Speaker 1>those It's like there's something deeper going on that people

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<v Speaker 1>like us on the outside don't really know. Um, even

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<v Speaker 1>with the whole governor being you know what, when what

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<v Speaker 1>went down with him, I think it's just something deeper

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<v Speaker 1>where people I want to call it a witch hunt,

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<v Speaker 1>but it was somebody had it out for them, spearheaded

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<v Speaker 1>by Donald Donald Trump, but I don't. I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>because it's crazy. The Republicans can do all types of

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<v Speaker 1>dirt and they still you know, in office, in power

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<v Speaker 1>on TV, Like, why is it that I feel like, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>let me just say this. I feel like, excuse, what

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<v Speaker 1>Chris was doing was helping his brother out right, which

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<v Speaker 1>anybody would do or you would feel inclined to help

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<v Speaker 1>your brother out. That's cool. I'm not here for the

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<v Speaker 1>whoever is alleging sexual woman's conduct. I mean, like, now,

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<v Speaker 1>now you're gonna come out with that, okay, but whatever,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm not your Yeah, I don't want to say

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<v Speaker 1>any woman is lying. I'm not saying that at all.

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<v Speaker 1>What I'm saying is, Chris, you can do a YouTube channel,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm a why whatever you want to do, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>here for okay, just let us know when the YouTube channel,

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<v Speaker 1>when when that starts? I am gonna watch because apparently

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<v Speaker 1>he stopped his exit and radio show. Yes, and I

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<v Speaker 1>wonder what's that on him or was that that could

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<v Speaker 1>have maybe tied to his contract or whatever. I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>but whenever he's ready to grace us with his cute

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<v Speaker 1>face and his nice personality. I am here for it. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>in his black suits and his black tie. Yeah, wherever

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<v Speaker 1>you going? Okay, okay, so um, we are now in

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<v Speaker 1>the throws of the just smole trial. Do so for

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<v Speaker 1>for those of you who forgot Jesse Schmolette faked allegedly

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<v Speaker 1>people attacking him and hitting him with all kinds of

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<v Speaker 1>hate crimes whatever, put a noose around his neck allegedly.

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<v Speaker 1>So now you know, because because the city of Chicago

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<v Speaker 1>was like, boy, you lying. So now they have taken him.

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<v Speaker 1>He's on trial for these false reports. Yes, it looks

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<v Speaker 1>like because there's somebody that is reporting about it like

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<v Speaker 1>every eight seconds. Well well yeah, because it's going on.

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<v Speaker 1>So yeah yeah. So first of all, before we go

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<v Speaker 1>deep into this, um, who do you believe? What do

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<v Speaker 1>you believe happened? Okay? Okay, So when Jessie told the

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<v Speaker 1>world had just happened to him, I think collectively all

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<v Speaker 1>black people said, this boy is lying, like we all

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<v Speaker 1>no black person comments, no, no, that's wrong. When that

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<v Speaker 1>everybody when that happened, I remember he was posted on

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<v Speaker 1>everybody's page. Oh my brother, how long did that happen?

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<v Speaker 1>How long did they post it. I mean, okay, what

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<v Speaker 1>was it like a couple of days later, but no,

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<v Speaker 1>when it first happened was first reported, so many people

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<v Speaker 1>were posting about how horrible it is, I can't believe

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<v Speaker 1>this happened to you, and showing love and support blah

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<v Speaker 1>blah blah blah. And then like two days later it

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<v Speaker 1>started people starting to be like, we started getting more

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<v Speaker 1>infant nation about the said crime, and then we realized

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<v Speaker 1>black people did he's lying, right, something that's not right,

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<v Speaker 1>something's not right. So this is what's funny to me,

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<v Speaker 1>So like he's he got on the stand and said,

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<v Speaker 1>Lee Daniels told me to lose weight for Empire. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>he did? Why? And what does that? What they had

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<v Speaker 1>to do with anything? I don't know what it has

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<v Speaker 1>to do with the price tea in China, but oh,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what, that probably you know why because apparently

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<v Speaker 1>the two the attackers quotes one of them like a

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<v Speaker 1>fitness trainer, and so that's why he hired us to

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<v Speaker 1>be his fitness trainer. And he was in the check

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<v Speaker 1>that he wrote, which I think them, you know, Chicago

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<v Speaker 1>alleges that was his payment for his his fake attack

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<v Speaker 1>was written out to personal training sessions. Oh okay. He

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<v Speaker 1>also said he had sex with them and they guy

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<v Speaker 1>had did did drugs together, and he said yes, he

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<v Speaker 1>said they went to a bath house. Yes, Now what

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<v Speaker 1>in the bath houses were illegal at this point because

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<v Speaker 1>it's it bath houses for me in my mind when

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<v Speaker 1>I somebody says bath house, I think germs. I just

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<v Speaker 1>think nasty. I think what are y'all doing? Everybody's just

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<v Speaker 1>jerking off in the bath house? I just bath house

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<v Speaker 1>is weird to me. Yeah, I mean I wouldn't know

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<v Speaker 1>anything about a bath house. But but but um, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>So they were in the bath house and they made

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<v Speaker 1>out with each other and they masturbated with each other.

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<v Speaker 1>Did they say that? Yes? And so wait it's okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So yes, they said they masturbated together. Okay, it's so

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<v Speaker 1>somebody's comments said he really did get beat something like that, Oh,

0:17:37.440 --> 0:17:41.800
<v Speaker 1>because he was doing the you know what, let me

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<v Speaker 1>tell you he really did get beat? Okay. Can we

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<v Speaker 1>talk about Instagram comments. Instagram comments are the funniest things,

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<v Speaker 1>so funny, so entertaining. It's so funny. It's like I'll

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<v Speaker 1>see a post and immediately just go to the comments

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<v Speaker 1>and crack up because a lot of times I'll go

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<v Speaker 1>because I'm like, I hope they hope, I hope are

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<v Speaker 1>thinking the same thing I'm thinking, Like I go to

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<v Speaker 1>make sure I'm not the only one thinking crazy. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's going to comments and I'm like, okay, good right,

0:18:07.800 --> 0:18:09.879
<v Speaker 1>But long story short, I think Jesse might do some

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<v Speaker 1>jail time, Okay, but you know you still got to

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<v Speaker 1>be proven guilty. We want to see it's gonna be

0:18:15.600 --> 0:18:17.760
<v Speaker 1>it's like literally like their word against his and then

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<v Speaker 1>I think, you know, he's trying to discredit the credibility

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<v Speaker 1>of of his masturbating partner. Okay, crazy Alright. So Cardi

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<v Speaker 1>B was in Miami, and you know this is like

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<v Speaker 1>near and dear to my heart, because not near and

0:18:29.440 --> 0:18:30.639
<v Speaker 1>dear to my heart, but I just want to say

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<v Speaker 1>this because you know, the plight of the black woman

0:18:33.359 --> 0:18:35.560
<v Speaker 1>is the plight of the black woman, right. So Cardi

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<v Speaker 1>B is in is in UM is in Miami, and

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<v Speaker 1>she is UM, I guess, celebrating her new product, which

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<v Speaker 1>is UM some sort of alcohol infused whipped cream, which

0:18:50.280 --> 0:18:55.840
<v Speaker 1>for me, it's genius, like I just want to like sugar. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>it's just Jesus. Anyway, long story short, So she's walking

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<v Speaker 1>in the club in the black girls around outside the club,

0:19:01.240 --> 0:19:03.040
<v Speaker 1>and they're like Cardi, Cardi, they won't let us in.

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<v Speaker 1>They won't let us in. They won't let the black

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<v Speaker 1>girls in. Now one percent believe that a there was

0:19:09.720 --> 0:19:13.800
<v Speaker 1>a video be Miami is a little tricky. Miami is

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<v Speaker 1>kind of horrible sometimes when it comes to the clubs.

0:19:15.920 --> 0:19:19.440
<v Speaker 1>No Miami. I've always said this, Miami is is, in

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<v Speaker 1>my opinion, based on my experience, not a place for

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<v Speaker 1>black women at all. Like I just I feel like

0:19:25.440 --> 0:19:30.600
<v Speaker 1>we're so overlooked um and and it's just by everybody,

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<v Speaker 1>and and I've I've felt it multiple times. So when

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<v Speaker 1>I go to Miami, I'm literally going to lay at

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<v Speaker 1>the pool and go to the beach. I Am not

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<v Speaker 1>going to hang out at the club and to be

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<v Speaker 1>you know, meeting people and having fun. No, because they're

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<v Speaker 1>totally overlooked. So I absolutely, well, I saw the video too,

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<v Speaker 1>it's right. Absolutely, Notice Cardi went in this This is

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<v Speaker 1>when the story gets a little weird for me. Cardi

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<v Speaker 1>went in and proceeded to enjoy herself at her party.

0:19:57.720 --> 0:19:59.879
<v Speaker 1>Now that was her prerogative and that's what she should do.

0:20:00.480 --> 0:20:03.720
<v Speaker 1>But Cardi, as a woman who's a little older and black.

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<v Speaker 1>It would have been great had you stopped at the

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<v Speaker 1>door and made sure that those girls got and took

0:20:09.440 --> 0:20:11.280
<v Speaker 1>them in and took them in with you. Because what

0:20:11.400 --> 0:20:13.720
<v Speaker 1>she did was so the girls were saying Cardi, Cardi,

0:20:13.760 --> 0:20:15.359
<v Speaker 1>they won't let us in. And so when Cardi was

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<v Speaker 1>going in, which she was like, let the black wore

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<v Speaker 1>my name, she did say that like the black women,

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<v Speaker 1>which we appreciate, but no, you make sure they get

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<v Speaker 1>in and they come in with you, right right, Yes, yeah, definitely.

0:20:26.960 --> 0:20:29.960
<v Speaker 1>And I think but but maybe in Cardi's defense, I

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<v Speaker 1>think the people were like I heard the man say,

0:20:31.840 --> 0:20:34.240
<v Speaker 1>we're gonna let them, and we're gonna let them in. Yes, yeah, yeah,

0:20:34.280 --> 0:20:36.280
<v Speaker 1>I'm not This is not a slight DICRDI I know,

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<v Speaker 1>I know, but I'm just saying I think in hindsight,

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<v Speaker 1>like just knowing how Miami is, it's like, okay, let

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<v Speaker 1>me know, I'm gonna make sure I want to see

0:20:44.800 --> 0:20:47.920
<v Speaker 1>them get in, right and your Cardi, you got you're

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<v Speaker 1>rolling with security. You're rolling with people that can make

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<v Speaker 1>sure that these girls get in. Only because it's like

0:20:54.280 --> 0:20:56.720
<v Speaker 1>we as black women, every day is a struggle. So

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<v Speaker 1>when it's time for us the party and let loose

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<v Speaker 1>and have fun, let us be able to Yeah, and

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<v Speaker 1>apparently I think I heard the woman saying, like my

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<v Speaker 1>husband's in the NFL. We're buying the table. We're buying

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<v Speaker 1>like they were, and they still want sending money. So

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<v Speaker 1>it's not like they were just gonna be, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>in the middle of the club taking up space. No,

0:21:12.400 --> 0:21:14.800
<v Speaker 1>they trying to spend money in there. Right, But even

0:21:14.840 --> 0:21:16.919
<v Speaker 1>if they weren't taking up space, just let them in, right,

0:21:17.200 --> 0:21:19.120
<v Speaker 1>don't treat us like that, don't leave us outside the club.

0:21:19.160 --> 0:21:22.000
<v Speaker 1>And Chris Brown said, you can't complain, you can't even

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<v Speaker 1>get get up. Well, I ain't gonna help Miami with y'all.

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<v Speaker 1>Y'all right, Okay, So so Robin, there was this thing

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<v Speaker 1>on the Instagram that I want to read to you. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>by the way, before we get into that, we we

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<v Speaker 1>do want to say that you guys, we asked you

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<v Speaker 1>did and they are amazing, and you guys please continue

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<v Speaker 1>should what I read? Can we read one? Sure? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>let's see. This is from Maryan. The title is JEB

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<v Speaker 1>that stands for g E B stands for Green eight

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<v Speaker 1>bands coming in hots. Hi, ladies, I'm marrying and I'm

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<v Speaker 1>absolutely hooked on your podcast. I have a really boring

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<v Speaker 1>job as an assistant, but I have my earphones on

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<v Speaker 1>me and listen to your podcast and it gets me

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<v Speaker 1>through my job. The show doesn't do your personalities justice.

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<v Speaker 1>You're my favorites on the show, and I wonder do

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<v Speaker 1>the other ladies listen to your podcast? Because I think

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<v Speaker 1>everyone should. It helps us understand you guys better, wish

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<v Speaker 1>you luck, love you and Mary, I appreciate that because

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I feel like. Um yeah, the other

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<v Speaker 1>ladies on the show don't realize that Robbing andall don't

0:22:49.320 --> 0:22:52.280
<v Speaker 1>take their themselves or life too serious. Now we do

0:22:52.359 --> 0:22:54.399
<v Speaker 1>not know they might want to take stick out of

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<v Speaker 1>the ass and come on today the side where you

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<v Speaker 1>know you're just care freeze you okay, you just want

0:23:00.760 --> 0:23:03.600
<v Speaker 1>to last Yes, yes, and y'all know who we're talking about. Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>So on on Instagram, there was this thing okay, and

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<v Speaker 1>it's like the African American urge. That's a quote African

0:23:10.680 --> 0:23:13.359
<v Speaker 1>American urge. Okay, so we're just gonna say the black urge,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's on Twitter and it's trending, and it shows

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<v Speaker 1>us that we've we black people have all been living

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<v Speaker 1>the same life. Okay, Okay, So I'm gonna read you

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<v Speaker 1>a couple and see whether or not you agree. Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>For our white listeners, we're just having a black moment

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<v Speaker 1>right now, and we love y'all. We're gonna come back.

0:23:29.800 --> 0:23:32.359
<v Speaker 1>We're gonna pick y'all up in about seven minutes. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>but we might help them understand. So they're a black coworker,

0:23:36.200 --> 0:23:39.920
<v Speaker 1>that's that's true, that's true, all right, Okay. The black

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<v Speaker 1>urge to say I'm ready when you are wait wait, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry, let me start over, let me start over,

0:23:49.280 --> 0:23:51.480
<v Speaker 1>black people, okay. The black urge to say I'm ready

0:23:51.520 --> 0:23:53.680
<v Speaker 1>when you are, when you're ready to go, y'all. We

0:23:53.760 --> 0:23:55.680
<v Speaker 1>always say I'm ready when you are, yes, and that

0:23:55.760 --> 0:23:59.200
<v Speaker 1>means let's go. Yes, That means I'm ready now, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>not another minute, right, And I said that's ribbing often

0:24:03.240 --> 0:24:05.320
<v Speaker 1>because she's never ready to go. All right. So the

0:24:05.400 --> 0:24:09.520
<v Speaker 1>black urge to scream representative instead of talking to the

0:24:09.560 --> 0:24:12.560
<v Speaker 1>automated system. Okay, how many times have we all been

0:24:12.560 --> 0:24:18.080
<v Speaker 1>automated and we're like, yes, I'll cuss them out, yes, yes,

0:24:18.480 --> 0:24:23.320
<v Speaker 1>And when we're screaming representative, it's still to the automated system. Yes, absolutely,

0:24:23.520 --> 0:24:25.240
<v Speaker 1>and we and we're like, who's going to hear that?

0:24:25.320 --> 0:24:27.399
<v Speaker 1>But no, I do? I absolutely do that, yes, or

0:24:27.400 --> 0:24:31.600
<v Speaker 1>I'll say custumer cyrus CRUs yes. Okay, So black people

0:24:31.640 --> 0:24:33.320
<v Speaker 1>we all the same, because we're all doing this alright.

0:24:33.520 --> 0:24:35.520
<v Speaker 1>White people probably do that too. Nobody wants to talk

0:24:35.560 --> 0:24:38.480
<v Speaker 1>to the damn automated system, and they make you go

0:24:38.640 --> 0:24:41.000
<v Speaker 1>through hoops in order to get to the place where

0:24:41.040 --> 0:24:43.760
<v Speaker 1>you can even be set up to click the thing

0:24:43.840 --> 0:24:45.840
<v Speaker 1>to talk to the representing Oh my gosh. And then

0:24:46.040 --> 0:24:48.440
<v Speaker 1>isn't it the worst? I'm sorry to get side track.

0:24:48.480 --> 0:24:50.520
<v Speaker 1>Isn't the worst when you finally get there and you

0:24:50.600 --> 0:24:52.560
<v Speaker 1>get disconnected? Oh my god, it happened to me the

0:24:52.640 --> 0:24:57.359
<v Speaker 1>other day. I wanted to cuss, right I did cuss? Yeah, okay,

0:24:57.480 --> 0:25:00.639
<v Speaker 1>all right, the black urge to say, that's why your

0:25:00.680 --> 0:25:03.080
<v Speaker 1>ship is fucked up? Now when you see a car

0:25:03.200 --> 0:25:06.440
<v Speaker 1>with with that's damage, driving crazy, Okay, So when you

0:25:06.520 --> 0:25:09.200
<v Speaker 1>see a damage car driving crazy and then you say,

0:25:09.680 --> 0:25:13.480
<v Speaker 1>that's why your ship is sucked up. Now, don't y'all

0:25:13.520 --> 0:25:16.760
<v Speaker 1>say that you see a car drop? Um? Core Corey

0:25:16.880 --> 0:25:19.320
<v Speaker 1>is in the room with us, Coryus, Robbin's um son,

0:25:19.440 --> 0:25:20.920
<v Speaker 1>and I just want to say I'm sorry for such

0:25:21.080 --> 0:25:25.159
<v Speaker 1>um bad um, you know, words coming out of now. Okay,

0:25:25.560 --> 0:25:28.840
<v Speaker 1>this this is child's place. Yes, but anytime you see

0:25:28.840 --> 0:25:30.960
<v Speaker 1>a car swerving and you're like, and it's all dented up,

0:25:31.000 --> 0:25:34.720
<v Speaker 1>You're like, that's why it's just already sucked up. Absolutely, yes,

0:25:34.800 --> 0:25:37.920
<v Speaker 1>we all say that. Okay, oh, this is what I say.

0:25:38.000 --> 0:25:40.320
<v Speaker 1>This all the time. The black earths to say, I've

0:25:40.359 --> 0:25:43.720
<v Speaker 1>been ripping and running all day after completing various tasks,

0:25:43.920 --> 0:25:46.640
<v Speaker 1>ripping and running that require you to leave the home.

0:25:47.000 --> 0:25:48.719
<v Speaker 1>How many times do we say we said ripping and run,

0:25:48.880 --> 0:25:50.960
<v Speaker 1>ripping and running. Where did that come from? I don't

0:25:50.960 --> 0:25:54.159
<v Speaker 1>know that. Literally, yes, our parents said ripping and running.

0:25:54.480 --> 0:25:59.480
<v Speaker 1>Their parents said ripping and running, ripping, ripping, ripping, ripping

0:25:59.520 --> 0:26:02.359
<v Speaker 1>and run? Are we ripping? What are we ripping? Well,

0:26:02.400 --> 0:26:04.399
<v Speaker 1>I don't know what we were ripping. Okay, this is

0:26:04.480 --> 0:26:06.200
<v Speaker 1>this is one for me because I do this hard time.

0:26:06.560 --> 0:26:11.000
<v Speaker 1>The urge to say child when you want to communicate

0:26:11.400 --> 0:26:17.360
<v Speaker 1>a whole bunch of emotions and all one word, you can't. Yes,

0:26:17.440 --> 0:26:20.400
<v Speaker 1>you just be like child like ship, it's good, it's

0:26:20.400 --> 0:26:22.960
<v Speaker 1>gonna be good. But when she has a story to

0:26:23.000 --> 0:26:26.800
<v Speaker 1>tell and she starts up with child, it's gonna be

0:26:26.840 --> 0:26:29.439
<v Speaker 1>a good story. All right. We got a couple more, um,

0:26:30.280 --> 0:26:34.320
<v Speaker 1>the urge to turn off unnecessary lights in other people's houses.

0:26:34.680 --> 0:26:36.320
<v Speaker 1>Like you walk in somebody's house and you see all

0:26:36.359 --> 0:26:38.440
<v Speaker 1>these lights on all over the place, you just go

0:26:38.560 --> 0:26:40.840
<v Speaker 1>around turn them off. I do that. I do that too.

0:26:42.160 --> 0:26:44.080
<v Speaker 1>Why are we all why all black people live in

0:26:44.119 --> 0:26:46.639
<v Speaker 1>the same life because we don't want to get our

0:26:46.720 --> 0:26:51.440
<v Speaker 1>ass race on electricity? Okay, when we have the urge

0:26:51.480 --> 0:26:54.119
<v Speaker 1>to want to know whose baby is doing all that

0:26:54.359 --> 0:26:58.600
<v Speaker 1>hollering in the store, So you hear a baby or

0:26:58.640 --> 0:27:01.159
<v Speaker 1>in Robin's house, a whole another if you listen to

0:27:01.200 --> 0:27:04.000
<v Speaker 1>another podcast, okay, but like you hear a baby and

0:27:04.119 --> 0:27:06.840
<v Speaker 1>you're going off in the story, You're like, whose baby

0:27:06.960 --> 0:27:10.480
<v Speaker 1>is that? And what I ain't doing? And then what

0:27:10.560 --> 0:27:12.320
<v Speaker 1>do you do when you see the person? You just

0:27:12.440 --> 0:27:14.679
<v Speaker 1>look at him up and down, like get your baby?

0:27:16.240 --> 0:27:18.280
<v Speaker 1>And next you have a baby, you just know like,

0:27:18.400 --> 0:27:21.680
<v Speaker 1>oh my god, everybody in here is complaining about me.

0:27:21.800 --> 0:27:23.800
<v Speaker 1>Oh my god. Right, okay, this, this is the last one.

0:27:23.840 --> 0:27:27.160
<v Speaker 1>That's a good one. Okay. The earth is saying, these

0:27:27.240 --> 0:27:30.160
<v Speaker 1>kids gonna sleep good tonight when you watch him playing

0:27:30.160 --> 0:27:32.280
<v Speaker 1>at a birthday party and then you look at you

0:27:32.359 --> 0:27:35.520
<v Speaker 1>like they're gonna sleep good tonight. Don't even get in

0:27:35.560 --> 0:27:39.200
<v Speaker 1>the shower and go straight to bed, go straight to bed. Okay, wait, wait, wait, wait,

0:27:39.200 --> 0:27:43.880
<v Speaker 1>wait one more. Okay, anytime something costs forty dollars, it's

0:27:43.920 --> 0:27:49.320
<v Speaker 1>always forty dollars. Forty dollars. We all say that forty dollars, like,

0:27:49.520 --> 0:27:53.440
<v Speaker 1>forty dollars is just over the threshold for allars, is

0:27:53.520 --> 0:27:56.760
<v Speaker 1>way too much more than thirty nine, way too much.

0:27:56.800 --> 0:28:00.639
<v Speaker 1>We we went broke after boy it dollars gonna make

0:28:00.720 --> 0:28:05.679
<v Speaker 1>us broke. Y'all were always like forty dollars a glass

0:28:05.720 --> 0:28:11.080
<v Speaker 1>of a glass of um, not a glass for at Okay,

0:28:11.320 --> 0:28:14.000
<v Speaker 1>do we miss any Okay that was on Twitter. Yeah,

0:28:14.040 --> 0:28:15.680
<v Speaker 1>I'm sure there's so much more. I mean, we could

0:28:15.680 --> 0:28:18.320
<v Speaker 1>go on for days, We could go on for day. Yes, okay,

0:28:18.359 --> 0:28:20.800
<v Speaker 1>so we're gonna actually I want you all to send

0:28:20.920 --> 0:28:23.480
<v Speaker 1>us some Okay, this this is for this is for

0:28:23.560 --> 0:28:25.359
<v Speaker 1>our black folks. Oh no, no, in the white world.

0:28:25.640 --> 0:28:29.040
<v Speaker 1>There's gotta be some in the white world. Yes, they

0:28:29.080 --> 0:28:31.280
<v Speaker 1>have you guys in the white world, are there is

0:28:31.480 --> 0:28:36.400
<v Speaker 1>ms are things that all white people say that y'all

0:28:36.440 --> 0:28:40.480
<v Speaker 1>all understand. Okay, if so, send us that to what's

0:28:40.560 --> 0:28:43.720
<v Speaker 1>up at reasonably shady dot Com? Send us that, okay.

0:28:43.800 --> 0:28:46.200
<v Speaker 1>And if there's some black ones that I forgot, send

0:28:46.280 --> 0:28:55.640
<v Speaker 1>us that. By the way, today we're at Robin's house.

0:28:55.760 --> 0:28:59.040
<v Speaker 1>And I walked into Robbin's house and it is full

0:28:59.080 --> 0:29:04.080
<v Speaker 1>blown decorating of Christmas decorations. I mean, there's a tree there,

0:29:04.080 --> 0:29:10.800
<v Speaker 1>about eighteen reefs, reefs, reefs on reefs with lights on

0:29:10.880 --> 0:29:12.760
<v Speaker 1>them all over the house. And I'm, yeah, I'm a

0:29:12.800 --> 0:29:15.560
<v Speaker 1>little jealous. I don't know how I feel about that.

0:29:15.600 --> 0:29:20.160
<v Speaker 1>I didn't know I was domesticated and what Okay, you're domesticated.

0:29:20.280 --> 0:29:22.880
<v Speaker 1>And I don't have not one piece of decoration for

0:29:23.000 --> 0:29:26.320
<v Speaker 1>Christmas up in my house. Okay. So it's so funny

0:29:26.320 --> 0:29:29.720
<v Speaker 1>because like every year, it varies from like when I

0:29:29.800 --> 0:29:32.800
<v Speaker 1>put my decorations up to even if I do so,

0:29:33.040 --> 0:29:36.800
<v Speaker 1>like last year, I didn't put a single decoration up Okay,

0:29:37.600 --> 0:29:42.080
<v Speaker 1>this year, I put mine up on Thanksgiving on Thanksgiving.

0:29:42.160 --> 0:29:44.120
<v Speaker 1>On Thanksgiving. Then I've had other years where I literally

0:29:44.120 --> 0:29:46.880
<v Speaker 1>put them up on like December three. So I'm like

0:29:47.040 --> 0:29:48.680
<v Speaker 1>all over the place, and I think it's just I

0:29:48.720 --> 0:29:50.760
<v Speaker 1>don't know what it is. It's like there's no rhyme

0:29:50.800 --> 0:29:53.720
<v Speaker 1>or reason to it. But this year I put my

0:29:53.840 --> 0:29:58.320
<v Speaker 1>decorations up on Thanksgiving. So you had a turkey or

0:29:58.360 --> 0:30:00.240
<v Speaker 1>you had some food or whatever you ate Thanksgive down

0:30:00.280 --> 0:30:02.720
<v Speaker 1>and then you were like, hmmm, it's time for Christmas.

0:30:03.120 --> 0:30:04.880
<v Speaker 1>I mean, I kind of so I wanted to have

0:30:05.160 --> 0:30:07.160
<v Speaker 1>I actually I think I started the day before because

0:30:07.200 --> 0:30:08.960
<v Speaker 1>I wanted to like have my tree up. Oh I

0:30:09.080 --> 0:30:11.200
<v Speaker 1>have I put the tree up. But then on Thanksgiving,

0:30:11.280 --> 0:30:13.320
<v Speaker 1>like my father was helping me like put my ribbon

0:30:13.360 --> 0:30:17.560
<v Speaker 1>around my tree. So so my my parents were able

0:30:17.640 --> 0:30:21.200
<v Speaker 1>to watch us put up trees and reaths and all

0:30:21.240 --> 0:30:29.760
<v Speaker 1>that type of stuff. Okay, okay, I'm extremely impressed. The

0:30:30.240 --> 0:30:32.600
<v Speaker 1>I have a confession. The only reason why my stuff

0:30:32.720 --> 0:30:36.800
<v Speaker 1>is put up so early is because I recently emptied

0:30:36.800 --> 0:30:39.040
<v Speaker 1>out my storage unit that I had for the past

0:30:39.920 --> 0:30:41.440
<v Speaker 1>four or five years when we were in the town

0:30:41.480 --> 0:30:44.880
<v Speaker 1>house and in my storage unit was was my Christmas decorations.

0:30:45.120 --> 0:30:48.040
<v Speaker 1>Oh and so when we emptied the storage unit out,

0:30:48.120 --> 0:30:51.360
<v Speaker 1>I said, well, instead of putting the Christmas decorations in

0:30:51.440 --> 0:30:54.440
<v Speaker 1>the basement in the storage room, yeah, let's just put

0:30:54.520 --> 0:30:57.680
<v Speaker 1>him in the dining room because that because you put

0:30:57.720 --> 0:30:59.680
<v Speaker 1>it in the basement, you have to walk them downstairs, exactly.

0:30:59.760 --> 0:31:01.280
<v Speaker 1>It was it's easier for you to just set it

0:31:01.440 --> 0:31:04.440
<v Speaker 1>up when you walk in the house exactly, so instead

0:31:04.480 --> 0:31:05.880
<v Speaker 1>of like putting them in the storage room and you

0:31:05.960 --> 0:31:08.800
<v Speaker 1>gotta bring them back up. They were like, smack Dad

0:31:08.920 --> 0:31:12.600
<v Speaker 1>in my face. So he I just said, that's a

0:31:12.640 --> 0:31:16.520
<v Speaker 1>little confession. I'm really not that good. Okay, Well, I

0:31:16.560 --> 0:31:19.640
<v Speaker 1>mean I'm I'm highly impressed. Thank you. I appreciate. I mean,

0:31:19.720 --> 0:31:23.240
<v Speaker 1>my tree is pretty, It's very pretty. And and now okay,

0:31:23.280 --> 0:31:25.600
<v Speaker 1>so you know I have a shopping problem. Yes, So

0:31:25.840 --> 0:31:29.320
<v Speaker 1>now I have been shopping on like Christmas decoration sites

0:31:29.840 --> 0:31:32.240
<v Speaker 1>and I'm like, but all the decorations are oh no,

0:31:32.320 --> 0:31:35.160
<v Speaker 1>they're not finished. Oh okay, this is gonna be a

0:31:35.160 --> 0:31:38.200
<v Speaker 1>winter wonderland over here. Yes, okay, I have I have

0:31:38.400 --> 0:31:41.480
<v Speaker 1>more stuff coming for my tree. I have a couple

0:31:41.560 --> 0:31:46.920
<v Speaker 1>more like little lip trees that are arriving soon. So

0:31:47.040 --> 0:31:53.320
<v Speaker 1>now my shopping problem has transitioned into Christmas decorations. Oh wow, wow,

0:31:53.560 --> 0:31:57.400
<v Speaker 1>poor one. Okay, So I, um, every year, I don't

0:31:57.440 --> 0:31:59.040
<v Speaker 1>know if I've said this to the people. Every year

0:31:59.160 --> 0:32:01.440
<v Speaker 1>my dad comes into town and he and my daughters

0:32:01.520 --> 0:32:04.400
<v Speaker 1>get the Christmas tree together. Right, this is always a

0:32:04.440 --> 0:32:07.600
<v Speaker 1>live tree. They somehow always pick like a Charlie brown

0:32:07.680 --> 0:32:10.240
<v Speaker 1>looking one. I'm not quite sure why that's coming in

0:32:10.360 --> 0:32:12.400
<v Speaker 1>my house, but it does and I don't mind. And

0:32:12.440 --> 0:32:16.280
<v Speaker 1>then they decorated, so it's always Charlie brown Ish looking

0:32:16.560 --> 0:32:19.120
<v Speaker 1>and decorated crazy. Yeah that's not cute and not cute,

0:32:19.320 --> 0:32:22.560
<v Speaker 1>but they do it and it's sentimental. I like that. Yes, okay,

0:32:22.840 --> 0:32:24.640
<v Speaker 1>So my dad hasn't come in town yet, so I

0:32:24.760 --> 0:32:28.440
<v Speaker 1>have not one piece of decoration. He's coming up a

0:32:28.480 --> 0:32:31.480
<v Speaker 1>flight Yes, yes, it's a flight book t is definitely coming.

0:32:31.920 --> 0:32:33.640
<v Speaker 1>So we will get that done, can we? All right?

0:32:33.680 --> 0:32:35.360
<v Speaker 1>So your girls are getting a little bit older now,

0:32:36.360 --> 0:32:38.400
<v Speaker 1>can we? Can we not make it Charlie brown Ish?

0:32:38.440 --> 0:32:40.720
<v Speaker 1>Can you buy some new ornaments? Can I send you

0:32:40.840 --> 0:32:46.320
<v Speaker 1>some links? Okay, and send me some damblings, some beautiful ornaments? Okay, fine,

0:32:46.360 --> 0:32:49.560
<v Speaker 1>send me some links okay. Um, my trees are not

0:32:49.680 --> 0:32:52.960
<v Speaker 1>Charlie Brownish, and I use the artificial tree, and I

0:32:53.080 --> 0:32:55.720
<v Speaker 1>actually think this year, I'm gonna bubble wrap. I'm gonna

0:32:55.800 --> 0:32:58.320
<v Speaker 1>leave my tree as is, and I'm gonna bubble wrap

0:32:58.440 --> 0:33:01.960
<v Speaker 1>the whole thing right and store it that way, with

0:33:02.160 --> 0:33:04.640
<v Speaker 1>the ornaments on it, with everything on it. Robin, that

0:33:04.720 --> 0:33:09.320
<v Speaker 1>sounds absurd. That sounds genius. So does that people who

0:33:09.400 --> 0:33:11.640
<v Speaker 1>don't feel like breaking down a tree and putting it

0:33:11.720 --> 0:33:14.640
<v Speaker 1>back up every year. This is like lazy personified. This

0:33:14.760 --> 0:33:19.920
<v Speaker 1>is lazy times ten. This is genius. Okay, I'm somebody

0:33:20.000 --> 0:33:22.880
<v Speaker 1>listening to this is like, that is an amazing idea.

0:33:22.960 --> 0:33:25.800
<v Speaker 1>Where do you get bubble wrap from you line? I

0:33:25.840 --> 0:33:29.640
<v Speaker 1>can order it, that's easy, more ordering offline. Yeah, that's

0:33:29.760 --> 0:33:31.680
<v Speaker 1>that's piece of cake. I mean the moving companies, I

0:33:31.720 --> 0:33:34.000
<v Speaker 1>don't know, like I mean, I'm telling you that's a

0:33:34.040 --> 0:33:36.880
<v Speaker 1>trick y'all to do it because because the thing is

0:33:36.920 --> 0:33:38.760
<v Speaker 1>like with the artificial trees, and you don't know this,

0:33:38.880 --> 0:33:41.320
<v Speaker 1>because you get a live one. When you break them down,

0:33:41.680 --> 0:33:43.720
<v Speaker 1>you kind of have to like smush them back into

0:33:44.760 --> 0:33:47.040
<v Speaker 1>to store them. So then when you take them out

0:33:47.120 --> 0:33:50.560
<v Speaker 1>the next year, you gotta gotta open them all up.

0:33:50.600 --> 0:33:53.800
<v Speaker 1>That's the worst part to me about decorating an artificial tree.

0:33:53.880 --> 0:33:56.200
<v Speaker 1>It's like opening the branches back up and making the

0:33:56.240 --> 0:33:59.080
<v Speaker 1>tree full again. Got it, I got it? Okay, So

0:33:59.280 --> 0:34:02.240
<v Speaker 1>if you bubble rapp it, you know it's not gonna

0:34:02.240 --> 0:34:04.800
<v Speaker 1>get some mushed No, it's just it's just gonna stand

0:34:04.920 --> 0:34:08.000
<v Speaker 1>up in a corner in my storage room. I got

0:34:08.040 --> 0:34:11.040
<v Speaker 1>a nice, little big storage room. All right, we're moving on. Okay.

0:34:11.080 --> 0:34:14.120
<v Speaker 1>So Robin told me earlier that, um, she wants to

0:34:14.120 --> 0:34:17.799
<v Speaker 1>talk about like the fact that she has in her phone, right,

0:34:18.760 --> 0:34:23.960
<v Speaker 1>she has favorites. Okay, So I asked her because she

0:34:24.040 --> 0:34:25.759
<v Speaker 1>asked me if I have any favorites, and I don't

0:34:25.760 --> 0:34:28.000
<v Speaker 1>have any favorites. You didn't set any favorites. I don't

0:34:28.040 --> 0:34:31.080
<v Speaker 1>have not one favorite. So the favorites is for like

0:34:31.200 --> 0:34:33.920
<v Speaker 1>people that you call frequently, right, So it's like, so

0:34:34.000 --> 0:34:36.279
<v Speaker 1>you can like easily you just pressed the little first

0:34:36.280 --> 0:34:38.239
<v Speaker 1>of all, show you. You probably don't even know where

0:34:38.239 --> 0:34:40.040
<v Speaker 1>to find that. I do know where to find it,

0:34:40.080 --> 0:34:41.440
<v Speaker 1>so wait a minute, so wait, wait, wait before you

0:34:41.480 --> 0:34:43.799
<v Speaker 1>can show me. So I asked rob and I was like, Robin,

0:34:43.840 --> 0:34:45.880
<v Speaker 1>am I one of your favorites? And she was like,

0:34:46.120 --> 0:34:48.279
<v Speaker 1>when we get to the podcast. I'll show you. We'll see.

0:34:49.000 --> 0:34:50.880
<v Speaker 1>So this is kind of like the moment of truth

0:34:51.040 --> 0:34:54.680
<v Speaker 1>is to find out whether or not I hurt my

0:34:54.880 --> 0:34:58.000
<v Speaker 1>fellow Green Eye bandit has favorited me in her phone.

0:34:58.680 --> 0:35:02.360
<v Speaker 1>What do you think? I hope. So I'm starting to

0:35:02.400 --> 0:35:08.200
<v Speaker 1>get nervous. I don't know, Carly, what do you think? Yes, Carly,

0:35:08.360 --> 0:35:11.319
<v Speaker 1>I direct your operations, says yes, I said, I will.

0:35:11.360 --> 0:35:13.919
<v Speaker 1>I will go down my list of favorites, Okay, in order.

0:35:15.280 --> 0:35:22.120
<v Speaker 1>Juan Corey Carter, Carter FaceTime, Mom, Mom, work, dad, Mark.

0:35:22.280 --> 0:35:25.960
<v Speaker 1>That's my brother, Mom and dad. That's their house phone. Nadia.

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<v Speaker 1>That's my college friend, one of my besties, Julie. That's

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<v Speaker 1>my cousin, Brandon. That's Jane's cousin because he used to

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<v Speaker 1>live with us. Giselle. Right, guys, I made the cuts. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm so excited. I was started like, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not really a friend, I'm not a favorite. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>almost done. Okay. Jermaine, which is Jan's brother who has

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<v Speaker 1>lived with us and is now in our house. And

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<v Speaker 1>Carly and Carly is a mavorite. He's made it too,

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<v Speaker 1>our d o oh made it. Yes, Carley, Carl, we

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<v Speaker 1>made the cut. Who I was getting nervous over here. Really,

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<v Speaker 1>Carly said, I'm on her favorites and I better be

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<v Speaker 1>on her and she better be on mine. Okay, So

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<v Speaker 1>this is this is a question for the people. If

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<v Speaker 1>you're not in your man's favorites, m but he's in yours.

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<v Speaker 1>But does he have favorites? True? Because I don't have favorites,

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<v Speaker 1>so it's not a thing. But if he has favorites

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<v Speaker 1>and you're not in it, should you look at the

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<v Speaker 1>relationship a little differently? Yeah? I mean I think that's

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<v Speaker 1>that's a that's something to ask, something to address. It

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<v Speaker 1>might be that you all call each other so frequently

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<v Speaker 1>that you're like right there on his callog and he

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<v Speaker 1>can just hit your name. You know what I mean?

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<v Speaker 1>You're true so like in it's crazy, Like so, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll be honest. I just added you the other day. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm so mad at Robin right now. Now. My feelings

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<v Speaker 1>are really hurt. Robin just added me the other day.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought I was like in like Flynn like years ago,

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<v Speaker 1>but I just got at it. But it's because I

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<v Speaker 1>realized how often we talked, and I was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I just need to add a right here. Carly. I realized,

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<v Speaker 1>like how often we talk text communicate, right that I

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<v Speaker 1>just add her the other day? You do? Okay? Did

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<v Speaker 1>you add Carly before after me? This was this would

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<v Speaker 1>really be like key. It was like it was like

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<v Speaker 1>all on the same most shoe minutes ban Oh okay, Carly,

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<v Speaker 1>we just got added seven seconds ago longer. Car Actually

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<v Speaker 1>this is really sad, guys. I just want to tell

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<v Speaker 1>you out here in this podcast world. I thought I

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<v Speaker 1>would have been added to Robert's favorites. Maybe I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>it's a season one, season one. Could I have gotten

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<v Speaker 1>at it? Then I had to wait your season six

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<v Speaker 1>s at it? Yeah, I mean it was it's way overdue.

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<v Speaker 1>It's way overdue. And I just realized. I was like

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<v Speaker 1>just looking at it, and I said, I think it

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<v Speaker 1>was just you know, it just it was a time

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<v Speaker 1>when I had to reach out. I had to call you,

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<v Speaker 1>and I had to go in my context to fine,

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<v Speaker 1>you know. I was like m hmm, like okay, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not adding you untill season ten if we make it that. Yeah, listen,

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<v Speaker 1>listen now I do have in my I have UM.

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<v Speaker 1>It was so weird because Robin and I on our

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<v Speaker 1>text messages Robin and I are in a group text

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<v Speaker 1>a million times with a million differ people like it's

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<v Speaker 1>like me Robin and Ashley, me Robbin and me Robin

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<v Speaker 1>and so so like it's like rob and I a

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<v Speaker 1>million group text me Robin and Carly like too many people. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So I have named some of my group text so

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<v Speaker 1>for my kids their favorite people. Oh that's cute. And

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<v Speaker 1>it's just the four of us. Yeah, that's all the

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<v Speaker 1>favorites that I got in my phone people. That's it.

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<v Speaker 1>And we have a recently be shady group chat with Carly,

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<v Speaker 1>Giselle and Carly. It's called reasonably Shady Genius Genius. All right, eyes,

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<v Speaker 1>we are out of here, but we definitely want to

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<v Speaker 1>once again encourage you to leave the reviews. We really

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<v Speaker 1>appreciate it. It makes Black Effect, which, by the way,

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<v Speaker 1>the platform that we're on, it makes them happy, so

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<v Speaker 1>you know, we want to make Black Effect happy. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>and then lets us know that we're doing something good. Yes, yes, yes, yes, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>And put your tree up or your decorations, whatever you celebrate,

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<v Speaker 1>put them up. Oh is this the last day of Hanaka?

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<v Speaker 1>I think that past already Hanka has done. Okay, so

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<v Speaker 1>what is it the yarn? What's the thing with the cancels? Stude? Okay, Manora,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess you'd keep it there? Do you put it away?

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<v Speaker 1>Never mind? Anyway, yes, anyway, do what you do for

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<v Speaker 1>the holiday season, and remember, live your life. Either reasonable

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