WEBVTT - Who Is She? (Pt. 2)

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to Can'tflee Reckless, the production of iHeart Radio and

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<v Speaker 1>The Black Effect. And just like that, we're back with

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<v Speaker 1>yet another carefully reckless episode with your girl. Just hilarious.

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<v Speaker 1>What I be doing, I'll be fixed the mess, and

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<v Speaker 1>that's what I'm about to do right now. Look, so

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<v Speaker 1>we're gonna pick back up where we left off. Remember

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<v Speaker 1>last week we had the girl. She had a voice note,

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<v Speaker 1>a long ass voice note. Matter of fact, it was

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<v Speaker 1>a whole podcast, right, and we couldn't finish because it

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<v Speaker 1>was too long. And y'all know, I'd like to keep

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<v Speaker 1>y'all interested and leave y'all with the cliffhangers to make

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<v Speaker 1>y'all keep coming back for more. So I stopped the

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<v Speaker 1>episode and I said I was gonna make it this

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<v Speaker 1>to two parts. So part one was last week. If

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<v Speaker 1>you did not hear, I encourage you to go back

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<v Speaker 1>and listen to that one before you listen to this one,

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<v Speaker 1>because this is a part too. So I'll just give

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<v Speaker 1>you all a quick backstory about what happened, a quick

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<v Speaker 1>summary of last week's So, she was dealing with this

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<v Speaker 1>guy right now. She was doing her thing and he

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<v Speaker 1>was doing his thing, and they really weren't trying to

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<v Speaker 1>be together at first, but she was swept off her

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<v Speaker 1>feet by this guy, right, you know, she ain't care

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<v Speaker 1>about her roster After a while and they started becoming exclusive.

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<v Speaker 1>He started moving in pretty much she bought the game over.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what happened when you got your game system

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<v Speaker 1>at a girl house. She basically lived there, right, So

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<v Speaker 1>he had moved in or whatever, but he wasn't paying

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<v Speaker 1>bills and she started having to foot the bills on

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<v Speaker 1>her own. That was red flag that she should have

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<v Speaker 1>fucking saw in the first place. But either way, months

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<v Speaker 1>and months go past. Now the communication slows down, the

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<v Speaker 1>affection slows down. She's beginning to see how inconsistent he is,

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<v Speaker 1>and then everything the communication slows down everything, right, So

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<v Speaker 1>now she go through his Facebook and she finds out

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<v Speaker 1>that he has a best friend, a female best friend

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<v Speaker 1>that he kind of was like flirting with a little bit.

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<v Speaker 1>But that wasn't even a problem. The problem was she

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<v Speaker 1>never even knew nothing about the best friend. Right, he

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<v Speaker 1>never even told her, oh, I got a female best friend,

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<v Speaker 1>so he kept that away from her. So she's like,

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<v Speaker 1>what else are you lying about? So she go through

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<v Speaker 1>his phone. She see another bitch in there and he's

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<v Speaker 1>trying to that he's been trying to go out with

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<v Speaker 1>for months or whatever. So fast forward, they break up

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<v Speaker 1>because he was just toxic if he started lying to her,

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<v Speaker 1>definitely cheating on her, talking shit to her every argument

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<v Speaker 1>they got, and he was always telling her how many

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<v Speaker 1>other bitches he could get with and how many other

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<v Speaker 1>bitches wanted him and all of that. That's another red flag, shorty,

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<v Speaker 1>you crazy? So she that would have I would have

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<v Speaker 1>grew another pair of legs around the fuck up out

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<v Speaker 1>of there so fast. But either way, it is what

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<v Speaker 1>it is. My bad tailor here, y'all say, what's up? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>So now she leaves the nigga that she started dealing

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<v Speaker 1>with after she broke up with this guy to go

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<v Speaker 1>back with this guy crazy. I don't know what he

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<v Speaker 1>could have told her to make her come back, but

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<v Speaker 1>she went back to him and everything that led to

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<v Speaker 1>their breakup that he was doing before he started doing again,

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<v Speaker 1>So I don't understand why the fuck she felt like

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<v Speaker 1>it was cool to go back, But she asked me

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<v Speaker 1>for advice on what she should do. But then she

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<v Speaker 1>said then some more shit, some more information that she

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<v Speaker 1>said that she forgot, so we're gonna get right into its.

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<v Speaker 2>I kind of left some important she out because I

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<v Speaker 2>was moving fast. So I'm my way home from work

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<v Speaker 2>and I kind of her kite. But okay, So like

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<v Speaker 2>one situation, we were at the beach, me him and

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<v Speaker 2>my son. We were on a ride at the little

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<v Speaker 2>amusement park thing, so literally like he disappeared when we

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<v Speaker 2>got off the ride. So I stood there for a minute.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm looking for him, Like he literally was sitting on

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<v Speaker 2>the bench when we got on the ride. He wasn't

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<v Speaker 2>there anymore. He wasn't anywhere to be found. So I

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<v Speaker 2>called him. He didn't answer. I call again, he didn't answer.

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<v Speaker 2>My son saw something that grabbed his attention and started running,

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<v Speaker 2>so I just started walking forward like, well fuck it,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't look all around the back. He can't be

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<v Speaker 2>back here. So we ended up walking up and he

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<v Speaker 2>came from the back where I was looking, and he

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<v Speaker 2>just went off, like went off, like, how are you

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<v Speaker 2>gonna leave me? I know you saw me right there.

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<v Speaker 2>I was watching you out a whole home. How you

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<v Speaker 2>ain't seen me? Like, nigga, I literally fucking cause your

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<v Speaker 2>phone multiple times couldn't find you. We're not just gonna

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<v Speaker 2>stand here and fucking wait. This nigga literally sped walk off,

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<v Speaker 2>left us at the amusement park right across from the beach.

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<v Speaker 2>So I was really trying to get my mind together

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<v Speaker 2>because I'm trying to comprehend what the fuck just happened,

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<v Speaker 2>and where was this nigga and what the fuck was

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<v Speaker 2>he doing where he couldn't answer my call or something.

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<v Speaker 2>So I don't know if he was on the phone

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<v Speaker 2>or trying to talk to a beach. I just don't know,

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<v Speaker 2>because he was literally nowhere in sight. And I looked

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<v Speaker 2>hard around the whole back area, which was the end

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<v Speaker 2>of the amusement park.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not that big.

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<v Speaker 2>Literally left us there, so we walk across to the beach.

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<v Speaker 2>I blocked him at this point, I'm about to cause

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<v Speaker 2>somebody to come pick me the fuck up and just

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<v Speaker 2>book a room for me and my son for the

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<v Speaker 2>night until we could get a ride out in the

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<v Speaker 2>morning or whatever. And so how people get here. So

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<v Speaker 2>and then a few months later, maybe really about a

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<v Speaker 2>month and a half later, we went to the beach

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<v Speaker 2>again solo, and he thought that he saw me trying

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<v Speaker 2>to secretly take somebody in the gift shop so he

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<v Speaker 2>walked out. The whole time I literally was in front

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<v Speaker 2>of him, texting phone up brightness on. He could literally

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<v Speaker 2>see it if he wanted to look. And I was like, hey, babe,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna be right back outside something I want to

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<v Speaker 2>go by. Literally I check out and I had got

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<v Speaker 2>something for him that he was looking at. This nigga

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<v Speaker 2>is nowhere in the store. So I'm looking around. I

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<v Speaker 2>call him, no answer, call him two more times. He

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<v Speaker 2>answers on this third call, and he was like, I'm like, babe, like,

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<v Speaker 2>why the fuck would you leave to start without telling me? Like,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm looking for you, I'm looking stupid. You got me

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<v Speaker 2>out here solo, just looking fucking stupid, Like the lady

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<v Speaker 2>in the store sees me looking for you, Like, just

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<v Speaker 2>got me looking fucking stupid. The nigga literally said, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>he was trying to hide your phone and take somebody

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<v Speaker 2>in private. I ain't with that funny shit. I left

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<v Speaker 2>you there, And the whole time I'm thinking back, this

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<v Speaker 2>nigga is telling me what the fuck he was doing.

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<v Speaker 1>Girl, I'm gonna let you finished change the goddamn batteries

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<v Speaker 1>in that smoke detector, but I'm gonna let you finish

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<v Speaker 1>because I'm so mad at you that you let this

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<v Speaker 1>nigga play with you like this. This is crazy because

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<v Speaker 1>this is your fault. I'm just letting you know right,

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<v Speaker 1>this is your fault before I get in your ass

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<v Speaker 1>some more. I'm gonna let you finish, and I know

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<v Speaker 1>you're probably dicking. They don't even to stand some good dick.

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<v Speaker 1>But he didn't. That shit was some motherfucking par bitch.

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<v Speaker 1>Now I'm really mad here. Now I don't even want

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<v Speaker 1>to listen to the rest of the story. You made

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<v Speaker 1>me make this shit out of two parts. For the

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<v Speaker 1>dick to be trash is SIT's serious, tailor very It's something,

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<v Speaker 1>always something. How the fuck did this nigga get picked

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<v Speaker 1>over the nigga paying your bills and his dick trash?

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<v Speaker 1>What a kisser like yet not a good kisser.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not planning.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's let her finish because I'm about to get our

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<v Speaker 1>ass up. Hold up, I know this shit getting good,

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<v Speaker 1>but listen to just a couple seconds of a commercial.

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<v Speaker 1>If you love me, you'll listen.

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<v Speaker 2>What I was really lating on was the him that

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<v Speaker 2>I first meant in the beginning to come back, and

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<v Speaker 2>it never did. And he would eat me a little

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<v Speaker 2>bit of myse hope, and then back to his fuckery.

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<v Speaker 2>So he kept me stuck, just knowing my heart and

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<v Speaker 2>kindness and understanding that he was just keeping egging me

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<v Speaker 2>on so he couldn't anymore, probably thinking I would really

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<v Speaker 2>not to leave.

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<v Speaker 1>But this time I'm like done done.

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<v Speaker 2>I just need advice or how to stay done, because

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<v Speaker 2>like I ain't gonna lie my ego, my pride, myself

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<v Speaker 2>wearing all of that shit, took the hate fucking with

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<v Speaker 2>him continuously after he kept giving me every reason not

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<v Speaker 2>to them, ruling me back in with fake shit. So

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<v Speaker 2>the other girl, I hit her up, like, hey, boo,

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<v Speaker 2>you know I just went through so and so phone

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<v Speaker 2>and we've been together for twenty a half years.

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<v Speaker 1>I see y'all got.

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<v Speaker 2>Message and messages in here from like basically before the relationship,

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<v Speaker 2>with the whole relationship. I didn't see him send you

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<v Speaker 2>his address several times trying to get you to pull

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<v Speaker 2>up when you in town. She lives out of state,

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<v Speaker 2>so she basically gave me the tea. But I still

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<v Speaker 2>don't believe that she was telling the whole truth. I

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<v Speaker 2>believe that they've been intimate at some point but probably

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<v Speaker 2>a long time ago, way before me.

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<v Speaker 1>But still you have.

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<v Speaker 2>Buses saving in your phone in nigga's names. So my

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<v Speaker 2>lease is about to be up. I'm finally at the

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<v Speaker 2>point where I'm over all of this shit. I'm over

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<v Speaker 2>the lies, the lack of accountability. We never even really

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<v Speaker 2>had a real conversation about this shit because he's, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>it's dead, this old situation, why we gotta talk about it.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not talking about that, Like, he literally is not

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<v Speaker 2>opening to reassuring me or talking about it at all.

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<v Speaker 2>And recently we had a fallen out because I go

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<v Speaker 2>to his friends list going Facebook and shotty stealing a

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<v Speaker 2>friends list. I'm like, bro, like I literally came to

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<v Speaker 2>this bitch as a woman, you know, and why the

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<v Speaker 2>fuck is she still on your friends list?

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<v Speaker 1>So you know, I study sweet.

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<v Speaker 2>I ain't say it all aggressive and shit, but I'm like, hey, babe,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, like I just want you to know that

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<v Speaker 2>I kind of feel a type of way about you

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<v Speaker 2>still having so and so on your friends list.

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<v Speaker 1>First of all, I listen, I would say I can't

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<v Speaker 1>hear no more, but I don't want to undermine your

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<v Speaker 1>whole story. So I'm gonna I'm gonna stop it for

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<v Speaker 1>a second, but I'm gonna continue it before listen, How

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<v Speaker 1>can you still even address a nigga as baby? Like,

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<v Speaker 1>how can you somebody who has blatantly disrespected you, somebody

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<v Speaker 1>who has lied to you from the fucking jump. You

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<v Speaker 1>just went to somebody as the other woman, somebody who

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<v Speaker 1>should have been coming to you, but you had to

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<v Speaker 1>just go to them. And you're sitting here dancing and

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<v Speaker 1>prancing around the fucking elephant in the room, walking on eggshells.

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<v Speaker 1>So cause this nigga gonna what blow up on you?

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<v Speaker 1>What the fuck is that the game beating on you

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<v Speaker 1>or anything like that or not, like a detrimental threat

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<v Speaker 1>to your life? Go trying to fuck up boss up

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<v Speaker 1>and leave that nigga like, and that's not how you

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<v Speaker 1>need to talk. So that's why he walks over your ass.

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<v Speaker 1>You're calling them a narcissist. No, it's very easy for

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<v Speaker 1>somebody to get over on you girl, Like what you mean, babe?

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<v Speaker 1>I just feel like, why would you? No, no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>that's why. Sure he's still in the friend's list. And

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<v Speaker 1>if you gotta play private fucking e to be with

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<v Speaker 1>somebody that ain't the relationship for you. If you can't

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<v Speaker 1>go to sleep peacefully at night without a wonder in

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<v Speaker 1>the world which your man is doing, or who might

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<v Speaker 1>be in the phone, or how you can get into

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<v Speaker 1>his fucking Facebook the next day, that is not a

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<v Speaker 1>good relationship for you. I'm so mad at you right now,

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<v Speaker 1>and I don't even know you. I just feel like,

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<v Speaker 1>come on, like we worth more than that, right what

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<v Speaker 1>we doing. And then even last week when you said, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>he wasted two years of my life, now you wasted that.

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<v Speaker 1>He can't live your life for you, you could waste

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<v Speaker 1>your own life. You are in charge of your own

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<v Speaker 1>fucking life. You feel me. You ain't waste none of

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<v Speaker 1>his time. Shit, you wasted your own time. You can't

0:11:25.960 --> 0:11:29.439
<v Speaker 1>waste his time because he's in charge of his own time,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean. So what he choose to

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<v Speaker 1>do with his time what he wants to And I

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<v Speaker 1>bet you he's sleeping peacefully with a whole roster of y'all.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what I'm saying, get yourself together. I'm definitely

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<v Speaker 1>gonna listen to the rest of the shit.

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<v Speaker 2>Thom you know, we whole lot of fell out over her,

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<v Speaker 2>like you had her saved as a nigga like.

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<v Speaker 1>We felt out fully in.

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<v Speaker 2>A snowstorm because of like her and old girl and

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<v Speaker 2>he got the fucking wandering eyes on Facebook like to

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<v Speaker 2>inbox bitches. Off of the story is bitches will never

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<v Speaker 2>reply to him, and the ones who do reply are

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<v Speaker 2>broke and ugly and I don't know cocky shit, just

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<v Speaker 2>being honest, Like I'm a girl's girl, So if the

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<v Speaker 2>bitch is pretty, like that's what pissed.

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<v Speaker 1>Me off the most, Like, nigga.

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<v Speaker 2>Show me you could pull another bad bitch?

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<v Speaker 1>You know what are you like fucking oh my gosh,

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<v Speaker 1>show me you can pull a bad bitch? Are you

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<v Speaker 1>not a bad bitch? Or like like like what is that?

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<v Speaker 1>What the fuck are you talking about now? Like what

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<v Speaker 1>you're saying girls, like why could you like at least

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<v Speaker 1>put a cute girl, any girl other than you? It's

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<v Speaker 1>supposed to intimidate you. Is it supposed to be a problem?

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<v Speaker 1>Like what are you talking about? Like at least pull

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<v Speaker 1>a bad bitch. That makes it even worse for you

0:12:45.800 --> 0:12:48.360
<v Speaker 1>to be there, exact cause this nigga can't pull a

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<v Speaker 1>bad bitch now. If you do, then you're gonna be

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<v Speaker 1>looking car fucking dumb again because it ain't you. It's

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<v Speaker 1>the bad bitch. This shit is weird.

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<v Speaker 3>Girl.

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<v Speaker 1>I ain't when y'all fucking talk like that. And I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna say, I hate when we well, I ain't ever

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<v Speaker 1>talking like that. But I'm a black girl too, so

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a you know, I'm a part of you. I

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<v Speaker 1>hate when we talk like that. Goofy shit, right, and

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<v Speaker 1>then I would. I would have left the nigga a long,

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<v Speaker 1>a long time ago. But after he left you and

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<v Speaker 1>your fucking son at the beach, dummy, do you wasn't

0:13:16.679 --> 0:13:19.520
<v Speaker 1>supposed to go back. That's your son, that ain't his son.

0:13:19.520 --> 0:13:22.880
<v Speaker 1>That's your son that ain't his son. That's why he left.

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<v Speaker 1>Y'all ass whole time you watch you while he on

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<v Speaker 1>the phone with another bitch, acting like he's somewhere else.

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<v Speaker 1>I know these games all too well, and so to

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<v Speaker 1>you because you've been chasing behind the nigga. I've been

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<v Speaker 1>playing these games for what three years now? That's on

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<v Speaker 1>you the five. How the fuck he left you and

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<v Speaker 1>your son and you had to get a hotel? Finished

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<v Speaker 1>with you?

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<v Speaker 2>Gonna be proud of you. My nigga showed me that

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<v Speaker 2>another bad beach was some real life shit going on

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<v Speaker 2>for her, so real life goes accomplished without a man

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<v Speaker 2>behind it. Show me you to get that, and then

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<v Speaker 2>you know I felt better. But you know, these is

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<v Speaker 2>bitches like nowhere near my.

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<v Speaker 3>Grader level, like just it's embarrassing.

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<v Speaker 2>So my question is how do I.

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<v Speaker 1>Leave him in the past.

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<v Speaker 2>It was difficult because you know, after so many motherfucking

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<v Speaker 2>weeks of knocking on my door, leaving flowers, leaving heartfelt notes,

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<v Speaker 2>I kids, I feel it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, my dumb ass deep.

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<v Speaker 2>So I'm got to move. I'm gonna change my number.

0:14:32.920 --> 0:14:35.920
<v Speaker 2>I've already blocked him on my social media. I've been

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<v Speaker 2>making my final attempts to like place my boundaries up

0:14:40.000 --> 0:14:44.520
<v Speaker 2>once a fucking game, and he's just not respecting them,

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<v Speaker 2>still not communicating, still not taking accountability. We can't even

0:14:47.880 --> 0:14:51.440
<v Speaker 2>literally get past shit because he will not communicate and

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<v Speaker 2>talk about it. So we never got past anything, and

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<v Speaker 2>then he just gets more sneakier, which of course I

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<v Speaker 2>fuck unexpected.

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<v Speaker 1>But I had to put a little bit of faith

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<v Speaker 1>in bruh.

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<v Speaker 2>Because you gotta do that. If you say, if you'll

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<v Speaker 2>agree to forgive somebody and.

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<v Speaker 1>Get back together.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm literally on my shit, like I have more than

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<v Speaker 2>him and I don't know, cocky shits, just on something

0:15:15.240 --> 0:15:18.440
<v Speaker 2>like showing you where our mentals are at. Like Ris

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<v Speaker 2>Hoveyan is apart. He's just got a place last year.

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<v Speaker 2>It's not even in your name, no license, like literally

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<v Speaker 2>shit that I've tried to help him do these whole

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<v Speaker 2>two and a half years and he just hasn't taken

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<v Speaker 2>a steps, which you.

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<v Speaker 1>Mean to fucking tell me? You doing all this over

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<v Speaker 1>a nigga who is twelve years older than you and

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<v Speaker 1>twelve years behind you. Are you fucking crazy? He ain't

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<v Speaker 1>got no license, He just getting his first place and

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<v Speaker 1>you letting him dog walk your ass around the town. Girl? Please?

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<v Speaker 1>What the fuck talking about? I got my shit all together, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>except for in that department. Now, we got a commercial

0:15:51.800 --> 0:15:53.640
<v Speaker 1>and if you click off of this podcast, I swear

0:15:53.680 --> 0:15:57.240
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna beat your ass. Listen, do you know there

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<v Speaker 1>is somebody that will love you and take care of

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<v Speaker 1>you and you take care of them, And that's somebody

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<v Speaker 1>that will be your fucking partner and you will go

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<v Speaker 1>without wondering whether a motherfucker gonna be there or not, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>do you know it's somebody that's out there for you?

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<v Speaker 1>I wish I could beat that shit in your head? Girl?

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<v Speaker 1>What is that with you? How I'd be so mad

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<v Speaker 1>with my girls tell me stories that is like evidently

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<v Speaker 1>and obviously you get what I'm saying, Like it's so

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<v Speaker 1>obvious what you should do, you.

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<v Speaker 3>Know what I mean?

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<v Speaker 1>And I'll be thinking, like sometimes maybe if they hear

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<v Speaker 1>themselves telling their own story, they would be like, Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm fucking tripping, because sometimes when you're so far in it,

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<v Speaker 1>you really don't see, you are blinded because you're in it.

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<v Speaker 1>You feel me. I'm telling you, I've been there with

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<v Speaker 1>a older nigga before you know well, he had a

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<v Speaker 1>license and a couple of cars, and he was in

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<v Speaker 1>the streets very much. But I'm saying, you was giving

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<v Speaker 1>all of you to a motherfucker who wasn't even giving

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<v Speaker 1>you that much. That much and take me to have

0:16:56.160 --> 0:17:01.040
<v Speaker 1>shit to show for nothing that he was doing. God damn,

0:17:01.760 --> 0:17:05.360
<v Speaker 1>that's crazy. But hmm, let me let you finish.

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<v Speaker 2>I can't fucking do everything for you.

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<v Speaker 1>How do I leave this man alone?

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<v Speaker 2>Like, I don't even know what the fuck I'm really

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<v Speaker 2>going back to missing. I don't know. It's not the

0:17:19.400 --> 0:17:23.080
<v Speaker 2>being lonely part. I think it's just the affection and

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<v Speaker 2>the dumbness in me that thinks the little piece of

0:17:27.400 --> 0:17:30.360
<v Speaker 2>me that he feeds that I'll get the hit my head.

0:17:30.400 --> 0:17:34.480
<v Speaker 2>At the beginning, back the sweet loving Kryn, where I

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<v Speaker 2>could talk to about real life problems and we had

0:17:37.760 --> 0:17:41.399
<v Speaker 2>like a best friend type of bond. I've come to

0:17:41.400 --> 0:17:44.400
<v Speaker 2>the realization that that will never fucking happen. But I'm

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<v Speaker 2>still struggling to like just completely leave him alone. And

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<v Speaker 2>it's more probably childhood trauma and daddy issues, like I

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<v Speaker 2>need advice, girl, like advice Like the deck an't an either,

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<v Speaker 2>So I don't think that, Like it's like I've had better.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what's crazy. That's exactly that last episode I

0:18:09.800 --> 0:18:12.080
<v Speaker 1>had said, yoa dick can't be that crazy, you know what.

0:18:12.119 --> 0:18:15.040
<v Speaker 1>But I'm I'm happy that it's not the dick, to

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<v Speaker 1>be honest with you, I'm happy of that. I actually

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<v Speaker 1>loved that you pointed that out, because the dick ain't

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<v Speaker 1>got you right. So, Loneliness, I think I think it's

0:18:25.320 --> 0:18:29.879
<v Speaker 1>her her dad jobbed her her people. Yeah, that's like

0:18:29.920 --> 0:18:32.840
<v Speaker 1>she has to hold on to him in a sense.

0:18:33.400 --> 0:18:35.520
<v Speaker 1>But he treated her the worst. He was the one

0:18:35.560 --> 0:18:37.320
<v Speaker 1>that's treating out of all the niggas that she had

0:18:37.320 --> 0:18:38.919
<v Speaker 1>on the roster before, including the one of those fan

0:18:38.960 --> 0:18:40.560
<v Speaker 1>of bills. I'm gonna get that alone, you know what

0:18:40.560 --> 0:18:43.760
<v Speaker 1>I mean, Like she chose to throw away with all

0:18:43.800 --> 0:18:47.000
<v Speaker 1>of them except for him. You chose this, nigga. Is

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<v Speaker 1>that the type of guy her dad was? You know

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<v Speaker 1>what I'm saying, Is that the type of man that

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<v Speaker 1>she's seeing her mom with? Do you have brothers? Like,

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<v Speaker 1>how were you? Like you said childhood trauma, daddy issues

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<v Speaker 1>and shit. As soon as you said it wasn't a dick,

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<v Speaker 1>my mom went there. Okay, Well, this is deeply rooted.

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<v Speaker 1>This is something way before she even started dealing with guys.

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<v Speaker 3>Then.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what I mean? This is this is deeply rooted.

0:19:08.080 --> 0:19:10.680
<v Speaker 1>This goes back to your childhood. You know that that's

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<v Speaker 1>therapy You're gonna have to go and seek out for

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<v Speaker 1>yourself because it ain't even about this dude no more.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what I mean, It's about you and you

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<v Speaker 1>have to learn how to love yourself so you don't

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<v Speaker 1>ever have to depend on somebody to drag you to

0:19:25.400 --> 0:19:28.240
<v Speaker 1>feel like like that, because that that's not love, you

0:19:28.240 --> 0:19:30.840
<v Speaker 1>know what I mean, Like, that's not love. I don't

0:19:30.880 --> 0:19:33.840
<v Speaker 1>think he's ever loved you, you allowed him to drag

0:19:33.920 --> 0:19:37.800
<v Speaker 1>them nuts cross your four here, you know, excuse me,

0:19:38.560 --> 0:19:41.760
<v Speaker 1>you excuse me? What the hell? Because that's how that's

0:19:41.760 --> 0:19:45.680
<v Speaker 1>that's how we're talking Baltimore, and that's serious because niggas

0:19:45.720 --> 0:19:47.399
<v Speaker 1>drag they not scars, but just for hits all this

0:19:47.520 --> 0:19:51.800
<v Speaker 1>time in Baltimore. But I'm just thinking, literally, that's no not.

0:19:53.080 --> 0:19:56.200
<v Speaker 1>This place has fucked you up so bad. Band Charlemagne's

0:19:56.280 --> 0:19:59.080
<v Speaker 1>niece fucked you up so bad. Now soon as somebody

0:19:59.040 --> 0:20:01.920
<v Speaker 1>says Si san Mi, say something like i'mna drag my nuts,

0:20:01.920 --> 0:20:05.240
<v Speaker 1>crusher for it, now you're automatically thinking about the demonstration.

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<v Speaker 1>Huh okay, all right, it's very graphic.

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<v Speaker 3>Girl.

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<v Speaker 1>You gotta seek therapy and you have to learn how

0:20:19.480 --> 0:20:22.960
<v Speaker 1>to love yourself. Do not depend on nobody. I know

0:20:23.000 --> 0:20:24.880
<v Speaker 1>this sounds very cliche because it's something that your mom

0:20:24.960 --> 0:20:27.439
<v Speaker 1>should have told you. Don't let no man treat you

0:20:27.560 --> 0:20:31.000
<v Speaker 1>like shit. You know, if you're in a relationship, right

0:20:31.920 --> 0:20:35.360
<v Speaker 1>and you call it a relationship and you're putting out

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<v Speaker 1>way more than what you're getting back, and you're actually

0:20:38.480 --> 0:20:41.640
<v Speaker 1>chasing for that little bit, that is not the right

0:20:41.680 --> 0:20:44.480
<v Speaker 1>relationship for you. You do not deserve to have to

0:20:44.560 --> 0:20:46.639
<v Speaker 1>deal with that, you know, But if you put yourself

0:20:46.640 --> 0:20:49.240
<v Speaker 1>through that, then that is your fault. I don't even

0:20:49.240 --> 0:20:50.880
<v Speaker 1>blame this nigga, you know what I mean, because he's

0:20:50.880 --> 0:20:52.800
<v Speaker 1>only doing what you allowed him to do. I bet

0:20:52.800 --> 0:20:55.280
<v Speaker 1>you he can't play with that best friend like that

0:20:55.600 --> 0:20:57.240
<v Speaker 1>because you know how he is. You know what I mean,

0:20:57.440 --> 0:20:59.800
<v Speaker 1>And I guarantee you it's other women on his roster.

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<v Speaker 1>We can't play with like that because everybody ain't going

0:21:02.680 --> 0:21:05.439
<v Speaker 1>for that shit. But see, he takes advantage of a

0:21:05.480 --> 0:21:08.640
<v Speaker 1>person like you because you're not strong enough. You don't

0:21:08.680 --> 0:21:11.080
<v Speaker 1>have that strength to get the fuck up and leave

0:21:11.160 --> 0:21:12.960
<v Speaker 1>or even boss up. If you're gonna, if you're gonna

0:21:12.960 --> 0:21:15.160
<v Speaker 1>play around with him, have the ball in your court,

0:21:15.320 --> 0:21:17.720
<v Speaker 1>you call the shots. I'm only fucking him because I

0:21:17.720 --> 0:21:19.960
<v Speaker 1>want to fuck him period. If you can't leave Malone,

0:21:19.960 --> 0:21:21.479
<v Speaker 1>you need to change the way you deal with him,

0:21:22.000 --> 0:21:25.000
<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean. But if you really are

0:21:25.119 --> 0:21:29.600
<v Speaker 1>tired of being treated like ten current shit, go and

0:21:29.640 --> 0:21:32.960
<v Speaker 1>seek therapy. It's not gonna happen overnight. Trust me, you're

0:21:32.960 --> 0:21:35.600
<v Speaker 1>gonna have to really really put yourself on a hiatus

0:21:35.640 --> 0:21:37.800
<v Speaker 1>from this nigga. You feel me as hard as it

0:21:37.880 --> 0:21:40.160
<v Speaker 1>will be because he's so used to you being there.

0:21:40.200 --> 0:21:45.040
<v Speaker 1>You're his doormat. Baby, that's what you've made yourself his doormat.

0:21:45.400 --> 0:21:48.080
<v Speaker 1>You know, you let him walk all over you, and

0:21:48.119 --> 0:21:51.320
<v Speaker 1>he bringing you notes and breating your phone down and

0:21:51.359 --> 0:21:54.360
<v Speaker 1>breaking down your door when you block him, and you

0:21:54.480 --> 0:21:56.280
<v Speaker 1>like that shit that's a form of love to you. No,

0:21:56.400 --> 0:21:59.080
<v Speaker 1>that's that's toxicity, what you already identified. You know what

0:21:59.119 --> 0:22:02.119
<v Speaker 1>I mean. So you're not completely goddamn dumb because you

0:22:02.160 --> 0:22:05.280
<v Speaker 1>know what that is now that that makes you feel good.

0:22:05.280 --> 0:22:07.840
<v Speaker 1>They hear break down your door when you block him.

0:22:08.280 --> 0:22:12.840
<v Speaker 1>But right after he breaks down your door, you got

0:22:12.840 --> 0:22:15.320
<v Speaker 1>to fix that shit because he ain't got no fucking

0:22:15.320 --> 0:22:17.439
<v Speaker 1>money to fix it, and he ain't gonna fix it.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what I'm saying. He backing your good graces

0:22:20.080 --> 0:22:22.120
<v Speaker 1>and now he going to go beat down another bitch door.

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<v Speaker 1>So now you still still there looking stupid. I just

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<v Speaker 1>I really really want you to love on yourself, seek therapy,

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<v Speaker 1>and then meet me back here in about three months

0:22:32.960 --> 0:22:35.480
<v Speaker 1>and let me know how you have grown. If you

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<v Speaker 1>hit me back in three months and I find out

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<v Speaker 1>this nigga is still a part of your life, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna find you. I swear to your ass because I

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<v Speaker 1>do not like the way that she let this nigga

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<v Speaker 1>treat her. But it's deeper than this God though, you

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<v Speaker 1>know what I mean. She need to get some internal

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<v Speaker 1>help and then get that internal healing. So what you think,

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<v Speaker 1>because I think that's the cherry on top of this.

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<v Speaker 1>We done drag this shit out so long after all

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<v Speaker 1>of this, Yeah, this is a two parter. I look,

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<v Speaker 1>you're not gonna find a hairline like Muther. No, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>sorry because that was that was definitely one point. You're

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<v Speaker 1>not gonna find someone like a true love until you,

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<v Speaker 1>like just said, love yourself. Yeah, most definitely. And she's

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<v Speaker 1>not gonna know what to do with nobody else's love.

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<v Speaker 1>She never exposed herself to loving herself, you know what

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, Like she always feeling like she she can't

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<v Speaker 1>be alone, or she she thinks that's not it, that's it.

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<v Speaker 1>That's yeah, baby a baby. But I do strongly and

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<v Speaker 1>Carriage try to do that though definitely, And just like that,

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<v Speaker 1>we've come to the end of yet another can'tfully reckless

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<v Speaker 1>episode with your girl. Just hilarious. What I'd be doing,

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<v Speaker 1>I'd be fixing mess say by to Taylor. Y'all and

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<v Speaker 1>Tay let's say bye to them, see y'all. Love yourself, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>definitely love yourself and catch you next week.

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<v Speaker 3>Peace An.

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