Speaker 1: Welcome to Can'tflee Reckless, the production of iHeart Radio and
Speaker 1: The Black Effect. And just like that, we're back with
Speaker 1: yet another carefully reckless episode with your girl. Just hilarious.
Speaker 1: What I be doing, I'll be fixed the mess, and
Speaker 1: that's what I'm about to do right now. Look, so
Speaker 1: we're gonna pick back up where we left off. Remember
Speaker 1: last week we had the girl. She had a voice note,
Speaker 1: a long ass voice note. Matter of fact, it was
Speaker 1: a whole podcast, right, and we couldn't finish because it
Speaker 1: was too long. And y'all know, I'd like to keep
Speaker 1: y'all interested and leave y'all with the cliffhangers to make
Speaker 1: y'all keep coming back for more. So I stopped the
Speaker 1: episode and I said I was gonna make it this
Speaker 1: to two parts. So part one was last week. If
Speaker 1: you did not hear, I encourage you to go back
Speaker 1: and listen to that one before you listen to this one,
Speaker 1: because this is a part too. So I'll just give
Speaker 1: you all a quick backstory about what happened, a quick
Speaker 1: summary of last week's So, she was dealing with this
Speaker 1: guy right now. She was doing her thing and he
Speaker 1: was doing his thing, and they really weren't trying to
Speaker 1: be together at first, but she was swept off her
Speaker 1: feet by this guy, right, you know, she ain't care
Speaker 1: about her roster After a while and they started becoming exclusive.
Speaker 1: He started moving in pretty much she bought the game over.
Speaker 1: You know what happened when you got your game system
Speaker 1: at a girl house. She basically lived there, right, So
Speaker 1: he had moved in or whatever, but he wasn't paying
Speaker 1: bills and she started having to foot the bills on
Speaker 1: her own. That was red flag that she should have
Speaker 1: fucking saw in the first place. But either way, months
Speaker 1: and months go past. Now the communication slows down, the
Speaker 1: affection slows down. She's beginning to see how inconsistent he is,
Speaker 1: and then everything the communication slows down everything, right, So
Speaker 1: now she go through his Facebook and she finds out
Speaker 1: that he has a best friend, a female best friend
Speaker 1: that he kind of was like flirting with a little bit.
Speaker 1: But that wasn't even a problem. The problem was she
Speaker 1: never even knew nothing about the best friend. Right, he
Speaker 1: never even told her, oh, I got a female best friend,
Speaker 1: so he kept that away from her. So she's like,
Speaker 1: what else are you lying about? So she go through
Speaker 1: his phone. She see another bitch in there and he's
Speaker 1: trying to that he's been trying to go out with
Speaker 1: for months or whatever. So fast forward, they break up
Speaker 1: because he was just toxic if he started lying to her,
Speaker 1: definitely cheating on her, talking shit to her every argument
Speaker 1: they got, and he was always telling her how many
Speaker 1: other bitches he could get with and how many other
Speaker 1: bitches wanted him and all of that. That's another red flag, shorty,
Speaker 1: you crazy? So she that would have I would have
Speaker 1: grew another pair of legs around the fuck up out
Speaker 1: of there so fast. But either way, it is what
Speaker 1: it is. My bad tailor here, y'all say, what's up? Yeah,
Speaker 1: So now she leaves the nigga that she started dealing
Speaker 1: with after she broke up with this guy to go
Speaker 1: back with this guy crazy. I don't know what he
Speaker 1: could have told her to make her come back, but
Speaker 1: she went back to him and everything that led to
Speaker 1: their breakup that he was doing before he started doing again,
Speaker 1: So I don't understand why the fuck she felt like
Speaker 1: it was cool to go back, But she asked me
Speaker 1: for advice on what she should do. But then she
Speaker 1: said then some more shit, some more information that she
Speaker 1: said that she forgot, so we're gonna get right into its.
Speaker 2: I kind of left some important she out because I
Speaker 2: was moving fast. So I'm my way home from work
Speaker 2: and I kind of her kite. But okay, So like
Speaker 2: one situation, we were at the beach, me him and
Speaker 2: my son. We were on a ride at the little
Speaker 2: amusement park thing, so literally like he disappeared when we
Speaker 2: got off the ride. So I stood there for a minute.
Speaker 2: I'm looking for him, Like he literally was sitting on
Speaker 2: the bench when we got on the ride. He wasn't
Speaker 2: there anymore. He wasn't anywhere to be found. So I
Speaker 2: called him. He didn't answer. I call again, he didn't answer.
Speaker 2: My son saw something that grabbed his attention and started running,
Speaker 2: so I just started walking forward like, well fuck it,
Speaker 2: I don't look all around the back. He can't be
Speaker 2: back here. So we ended up walking up and he
Speaker 2: came from the back where I was looking, and he
Speaker 2: just went off, like went off, like, how are you
Speaker 2: gonna leave me? I know you saw me right there.
Speaker 2: I was watching you out a whole home. How you
Speaker 2: ain't seen me? Like, nigga, I literally fucking cause your
Speaker 2: phone multiple times couldn't find you. We're not just gonna
Speaker 2: stand here and fucking wait. This nigga literally sped walk off,
Speaker 2: left us at the amusement park right across from the beach.
Speaker 2: So I was really trying to get my mind together
Speaker 2: because I'm trying to comprehend what the fuck just happened,
Speaker 2: and where was this nigga and what the fuck was
Speaker 2: he doing where he couldn't answer my call or something.
Speaker 2: So I don't know if he was on the phone
Speaker 2: or trying to talk to a beach. I just don't know,
Speaker 2: because he was literally nowhere in sight. And I looked
Speaker 2: hard around the whole back area, which was the end
Speaker 2: of the amusement park.
Speaker 1: It's not that big.
Speaker 2: Literally left us there, so we walk across to the beach.
Speaker 2: I blocked him at this point, I'm about to cause
Speaker 2: somebody to come pick me the fuck up and just
Speaker 2: book a room for me and my son for the
Speaker 2: night until we could get a ride out in the
Speaker 2: morning or whatever. And so how people get here. So
Speaker 2: and then a few months later, maybe really about a
Speaker 2: month and a half later, we went to the beach
Speaker 2: again solo, and he thought that he saw me trying
Speaker 2: to secretly take somebody in the gift shop so he
Speaker 2: walked out. The whole time I literally was in front
Speaker 2: of him, texting phone up brightness on. He could literally
Speaker 2: see it if he wanted to look. And I was like, hey, babe,
Speaker 2: I'm gonna be right back outside something I want to
Speaker 2: go by. Literally I check out and I had got
Speaker 2: something for him that he was looking at. This nigga
Speaker 2: is nowhere in the store. So I'm looking around. I
Speaker 2: call him, no answer, call him two more times. He
Speaker 2: answers on this third call, and he was like, I'm like, babe, like,
Speaker 2: why the fuck would you leave to start without telling me? Like,
Speaker 2: I'm looking for you, I'm looking stupid. You got me
Speaker 2: out here solo, just looking fucking stupid, Like the lady
Speaker 2: in the store sees me looking for you, Like, just
Speaker 2: got me looking fucking stupid. The nigga literally said, oh,
Speaker 2: he was trying to hide your phone and take somebody
Speaker 2: in private. I ain't with that funny shit. I left
Speaker 2: you there, And the whole time I'm thinking back, this
Speaker 2: nigga is telling me what the fuck he was doing.
Speaker 1: Girl, I'm gonna let you finished change the goddamn batteries
Speaker 1: in that smoke detector, but I'm gonna let you finish
Speaker 1: because I'm so mad at you that you let this
Speaker 1: nigga play with you like this. This is crazy because
Speaker 1: this is your fault. I'm just letting you know right,
Speaker 1: this is your fault before I get in your ass
Speaker 1: some more. I'm gonna let you finish, and I know
Speaker 1: you're probably dicking. They don't even to stand some good dick.
Speaker 1: But he didn't. That shit was some motherfucking par bitch.
Speaker 1: Now I'm really mad here. Now I don't even want
Speaker 1: to listen to the rest of the story. You made
Speaker 1: me make this shit out of two parts. For the
Speaker 1: dick to be trash is SIT's serious, tailor very It's something,
Speaker 1: always something. How the fuck did this nigga get picked
Speaker 1: over the nigga paying your bills and his dick trash?
Speaker 1: What a kisser like yet not a good kisser.
Speaker 3: I'm not planning.
Speaker 1: Let's let her finish because I'm about to get our
Speaker 1: ass up. Hold up, I know this shit getting good,
Speaker 1: but listen to just a couple seconds of a commercial.
Speaker 1: If you love me, you'll listen.
Speaker 2: What I was really lating on was the him that
Speaker 2: I first meant in the beginning to come back, and
Speaker 2: it never did. And he would eat me a little
Speaker 2: bit of myse hope, and then back to his fuckery.
Speaker 2: So he kept me stuck, just knowing my heart and
Speaker 2: kindness and understanding that he was just keeping egging me
Speaker 2: on so he couldn't anymore, probably thinking I would really
Speaker 2: not to leave.
Speaker 1: But this time I'm like done done.
Speaker 2: I just need advice or how to stay done, because
Speaker 2: like I ain't gonna lie my ego, my pride, myself
Speaker 2: wearing all of that shit, took the hate fucking with
Speaker 2: him continuously after he kept giving me every reason not
Speaker 2: to them, ruling me back in with fake shit. So
Speaker 2: the other girl, I hit her up, like, hey, boo,
Speaker 2: you know I just went through so and so phone
Speaker 2: and we've been together for twenty a half years.
Speaker 1: I see y'all got.
Speaker 2: Message and messages in here from like basically before the relationship,
Speaker 2: with the whole relationship. I didn't see him send you
Speaker 2: his address several times trying to get you to pull
Speaker 2: up when you in town. She lives out of state,
Speaker 2: so she basically gave me the tea. But I still
Speaker 2: don't believe that she was telling the whole truth. I
Speaker 2: believe that they've been intimate at some point but probably
Speaker 2: a long time ago, way before me.
Speaker 1: But still you have.
Speaker 2: Buses saving in your phone in nigga's names. So my
Speaker 2: lease is about to be up. I'm finally at the
Speaker 2: point where I'm over all of this shit. I'm over
Speaker 2: the lies, the lack of accountability. We never even really
Speaker 2: had a real conversation about this shit because he's, oh,
Speaker 2: it's dead, this old situation, why we gotta talk about it.
Speaker 2: I'm not talking about that, Like, he literally is not
Speaker 2: opening to reassuring me or talking about it at all.
Speaker 2: And recently we had a fallen out because I go
Speaker 2: to his friends list going Facebook and shotty stealing a
Speaker 2: friends list. I'm like, bro, like I literally came to
Speaker 2: this bitch as a woman, you know, and why the
Speaker 2: fuck is she still on your friends list?
Speaker 1: So you know, I study sweet.
Speaker 2: I ain't say it all aggressive and shit, but I'm like, hey, babe,
Speaker 2: you know, like I just want you to know that
Speaker 2: I kind of feel a type of way about you
Speaker 2: still having so and so on your friends list.
Speaker 1: First of all, I listen, I would say I can't
Speaker 1: hear no more, but I don't want to undermine your
Speaker 1: whole story. So I'm gonna I'm gonna stop it for
Speaker 1: a second, but I'm gonna continue it before listen, How
Speaker 1: can you still even address a nigga as baby? Like,
Speaker 1: how can you somebody who has blatantly disrespected you, somebody
Speaker 1: who has lied to you from the fucking jump. You
Speaker 1: just went to somebody as the other woman, somebody who
Speaker 1: should have been coming to you, but you had to
Speaker 1: just go to them. And you're sitting here dancing and
Speaker 1: prancing around the fucking elephant in the room, walking on eggshells.
Speaker 1: So cause this nigga gonna what blow up on you?
Speaker 1: What the fuck is that the game beating on you
Speaker 1: or anything like that or not, like a detrimental threat
Speaker 1: to your life? Go trying to fuck up boss up
Speaker 1: and leave that nigga like, and that's not how you
Speaker 1: need to talk. So that's why he walks over your ass.
Speaker 1: You're calling them a narcissist. No, it's very easy for
Speaker 1: somebody to get over on you girl, Like what you mean, babe?
Speaker 1: I just feel like, why would you? No, no, no,
Speaker 1: that's why. Sure he's still in the friend's list. And
Speaker 1: if you gotta play private fucking e to be with
Speaker 1: somebody that ain't the relationship for you. If you can't
Speaker 1: go to sleep peacefully at night without a wonder in
Speaker 1: the world which your man is doing, or who might
Speaker 1: be in the phone, or how you can get into
Speaker 1: his fucking Facebook the next day, that is not a
Speaker 1: good relationship for you. I'm so mad at you right now,
Speaker 1: and I don't even know you. I just feel like,
Speaker 1: come on, like we worth more than that, right what
Speaker 1: we doing. And then even last week when you said, oh,
Speaker 1: he wasted two years of my life, now you wasted that.
Speaker 1: He can't live your life for you, you could waste
Speaker 1: your own life. You are in charge of your own
Speaker 1: fucking life. You feel me. You ain't waste none of
Speaker 1: his time. Shit, you wasted your own time. You can't
Speaker 1: waste his time because he's in charge of his own time,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. So what he choose to
Speaker 1: do with his time what he wants to And I
Speaker 1: bet you he's sleeping peacefully with a whole roster of y'all.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, get yourself together. I'm definitely
Speaker 1: gonna listen to the rest of the shit.
Speaker 2: Thom you know, we whole lot of fell out over her,
Speaker 2: like you had her saved as a nigga like.
Speaker 1: We felt out fully in.
Speaker 2: A snowstorm because of like her and old girl and
Speaker 2: he got the fucking wandering eyes on Facebook like to
Speaker 2: inbox bitches. Off of the story is bitches will never
Speaker 2: reply to him, and the ones who do reply are
Speaker 2: broke and ugly and I don't know cocky shit, just
Speaker 2: being honest, Like I'm a girl's girl, So if the
Speaker 2: bitch is pretty, like that's what pissed.
Speaker 1: Me off the most, Like, nigga.
Speaker 2: Show me you could pull another bad bitch?
Speaker 1: You know what are you like fucking oh my gosh,
Speaker 1: show me you can pull a bad bitch? Are you
Speaker 1: not a bad bitch? Or like like like what is that?
Speaker 1: What the fuck are you talking about now? Like what
Speaker 1: you're saying girls, like why could you like at least
Speaker 1: put a cute girl, any girl other than you? It's
Speaker 1: supposed to intimidate you. Is it supposed to be a problem?
Speaker 1: Like what are you talking about? Like at least pull
Speaker 1: a bad bitch. That makes it even worse for you
Speaker 1: to be there, exact cause this nigga can't pull a
Speaker 1: bad bitch now. If you do, then you're gonna be
Speaker 1: looking car fucking dumb again because it ain't you. It's
Speaker 1: the bad bitch. This shit is weird.
Speaker 3: Girl.
Speaker 1: I ain't when y'all fucking talk like that. And I'm
Speaker 1: gonna say, I hate when we well, I ain't ever
Speaker 1: talking like that. But I'm a black girl too, so
Speaker 1: I'm a you know, I'm a part of you. I
Speaker 1: hate when we talk like that. Goofy shit, right, and
Speaker 1: then I would. I would have left the nigga a long,
Speaker 1: a long time ago. But after he left you and
Speaker 1: your fucking son at the beach, dummy, do you wasn't
Speaker 1: supposed to go back. That's your son, that ain't his son.
Speaker 1: That's your son that ain't his son. That's why he left.
Speaker 1: Y'all ass whole time you watch you while he on
Speaker 1: the phone with another bitch, acting like he's somewhere else.
Speaker 1: I know these games all too well, and so to
Speaker 1: you because you've been chasing behind the nigga. I've been
Speaker 1: playing these games for what three years now? That's on
Speaker 1: you the five. How the fuck he left you and
Speaker 1: your son and you had to get a hotel? Finished
Speaker 1: with you?
Speaker 2: Gonna be proud of you. My nigga showed me that
Speaker 2: another bad beach was some real life shit going on
Speaker 2: for her, so real life goes accomplished without a man
Speaker 2: behind it. Show me you to get that, and then
Speaker 2: you know I felt better. But you know, these is
Speaker 2: bitches like nowhere near my.
Speaker 3: Grader level, like just it's embarrassing.
Speaker 2: So my question is how do I.
Speaker 1: Leave him in the past.
Speaker 2: It was difficult because you know, after so many motherfucking
Speaker 2: weeks of knocking on my door, leaving flowers, leaving heartfelt notes,
Speaker 2: I kids, I feel it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, my dumb ass deep.
Speaker 2: So I'm got to move. I'm gonna change my number.
Speaker 2: I've already blocked him on my social media. I've been
Speaker 2: making my final attempts to like place my boundaries up
Speaker 2: once a fucking game, and he's just not respecting them,
Speaker 2: still not communicating, still not taking accountability. We can't even
Speaker 2: literally get past shit because he will not communicate and
Speaker 2: talk about it. So we never got past anything, and
Speaker 2: then he just gets more sneakier, which of course I
Speaker 2: fuck unexpected.
Speaker 1: But I had to put a little bit of faith
Speaker 1: in bruh.
Speaker 2: Because you gotta do that. If you say, if you'll
Speaker 2: agree to forgive somebody and.
Speaker 1: Get back together.
Speaker 2: I'm literally on my shit, like I have more than
Speaker 2: him and I don't know, cocky shits, just on something
Speaker 2: like showing you where our mentals are at. Like Ris
Speaker 2: Hoveyan is apart. He's just got a place last year.
Speaker 2: It's not even in your name, no license, like literally
Speaker 2: shit that I've tried to help him do these whole
Speaker 2: two and a half years and he just hasn't taken
Speaker 2: a steps, which you.
Speaker 1: Mean to fucking tell me? You doing all this over
Speaker 1: a nigga who is twelve years older than you and
Speaker 1: twelve years behind you. Are you fucking crazy? He ain't
Speaker 1: got no license, He just getting his first place and
Speaker 1: you letting him dog walk your ass around the town. Girl? Please?
Speaker 1: What the fuck talking about? I got my shit all together, Yeah,
Speaker 1: except for in that department. Now, we got a commercial
Speaker 1: and if you click off of this podcast, I swear
Speaker 1: I'm gonna beat your ass. Listen, do you know there
Speaker 1: is somebody that will love you and take care of
Speaker 1: you and you take care of them, And that's somebody
Speaker 1: that will be your fucking partner and you will go
Speaker 1: without wondering whether a motherfucker gonna be there or not, Like,
Speaker 1: do you know it's somebody that's out there for you?
Speaker 1: I wish I could beat that shit in your head? Girl?
Speaker 1: What is that with you? How I'd be so mad
Speaker 1: with my girls tell me stories that is like evidently
Speaker 1: and obviously you get what I'm saying, Like it's so
Speaker 1: obvious what you should do, you.
Speaker 3: Know what I mean?
Speaker 1: And I'll be thinking, like sometimes maybe if they hear
Speaker 1: themselves telling their own story, they would be like, Oh,
Speaker 1: I'm fucking tripping, because sometimes when you're so far in it,
Speaker 1: you really don't see, you are blinded because you're in it.
Speaker 1: You feel me. I'm telling you, I've been there with
Speaker 1: a older nigga before you know well, he had a
Speaker 1: license and a couple of cars, and he was in
Speaker 1: the streets very much. But I'm saying, you was giving
Speaker 1: all of you to a motherfucker who wasn't even giving
Speaker 1: you that much. That much and take me to have
Speaker 1: shit to show for nothing that he was doing. God damn,
Speaker 1: that's crazy. But hmm, let me let you finish.
Speaker 2: I can't fucking do everything for you.
Speaker 1: How do I leave this man alone?
Speaker 2: Like, I don't even know what the fuck I'm really
Speaker 2: going back to missing. I don't know. It's not the
Speaker 2: being lonely part. I think it's just the affection and
Speaker 2: the dumbness in me that thinks the little piece of
Speaker 2: me that he feeds that I'll get the hit my head.
Speaker 2: At the beginning, back the sweet loving Kryn, where I
Speaker 2: could talk to about real life problems and we had
Speaker 2: like a best friend type of bond. I've come to
Speaker 2: the realization that that will never fucking happen. But I'm
Speaker 2: still struggling to like just completely leave him alone. And
Speaker 2: it's more probably childhood trauma and daddy issues, like I
Speaker 2: need advice, girl, like advice Like the deck an't an either,
Speaker 2: So I don't think that, Like it's like I've had better.
Speaker 1: You know what's crazy. That's exactly that last episode I
Speaker 1: had said, yoa dick can't be that crazy, you know what.
Speaker 1: But I'm I'm happy that it's not the dick, to
Speaker 1: be honest with you, I'm happy of that. I actually
Speaker 1: loved that you pointed that out, because the dick ain't
Speaker 1: got you right. So, Loneliness, I think I think it's
Speaker 1: her her dad jobbed her her people. Yeah, that's like
Speaker 1: she has to hold on to him in a sense.
Speaker 1: But he treated her the worst. He was the one
Speaker 1: that's treating out of all the niggas that she had
Speaker 1: on the roster before, including the one of those fan
Speaker 1: of bills. I'm gonna get that alone, you know what
Speaker 1: I mean, Like she chose to throw away with all
Speaker 1: of them except for him. You chose this, nigga. Is
Speaker 1: that the type of guy her dad was? You know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, Is that the type of man that
Speaker 1: she's seeing her mom with? Do you have brothers? Like,
Speaker 1: how were you? Like you said childhood trauma, daddy issues
Speaker 1: and shit. As soon as you said it wasn't a dick,
Speaker 1: my mom went there. Okay, Well, this is deeply rooted.
Speaker 1: This is something way before she even started dealing with guys.
Speaker 3: Then.
Speaker 1: You know what I mean? This is this is deeply rooted.
Speaker 1: This goes back to your childhood. You know that that's
Speaker 1: therapy You're gonna have to go and seek out for
Speaker 1: yourself because it ain't even about this dude no more.
Speaker 1: You know what I mean, It's about you and you
Speaker 1: have to learn how to love yourself so you don't
Speaker 1: ever have to depend on somebody to drag you to
Speaker 1: feel like like that, because that that's not love, you
Speaker 1: know what I mean, Like, that's not love. I don't
Speaker 1: think he's ever loved you, you allowed him to drag
Speaker 1: them nuts cross your four here, you know, excuse me,
Speaker 1: you excuse me? What the hell? Because that's how that's
Speaker 1: that's how we're talking Baltimore, and that's serious because niggas
Speaker 1: drag they not scars, but just for hits all this
Speaker 1: time in Baltimore. But I'm just thinking, literally, that's no not.
Speaker 1: This place has fucked you up so bad. Band Charlemagne's
Speaker 1: niece fucked you up so bad. Now soon as somebody
Speaker 1: says Si san Mi, say something like i'mna drag my nuts,
Speaker 1: crusher for it, now you're automatically thinking about the demonstration.
Speaker 1: Huh okay, all right, it's very graphic.
Speaker 3: Girl.
Speaker 1: You gotta seek therapy and you have to learn how
Speaker 1: to love yourself. Do not depend on nobody. I know
Speaker 1: this sounds very cliche because it's something that your mom
Speaker 1: should have told you. Don't let no man treat you
Speaker 1: like shit. You know, if you're in a relationship, right
Speaker 1: and you call it a relationship and you're putting out
Speaker 1: way more than what you're getting back, and you're actually
Speaker 1: chasing for that little bit, that is not the right
Speaker 1: relationship for you. You do not deserve to have to
Speaker 1: deal with that, you know, But if you put yourself
Speaker 1: through that, then that is your fault. I don't even
Speaker 1: blame this nigga, you know what I mean, because he's
Speaker 1: only doing what you allowed him to do. I bet
Speaker 1: you he can't play with that best friend like that
Speaker 1: because you know how he is. You know what I mean,
Speaker 1: And I guarantee you it's other women on his roster.
Speaker 1: We can't play with like that because everybody ain't going
Speaker 1: for that shit. But see, he takes advantage of a
Speaker 1: person like you because you're not strong enough. You don't
Speaker 1: have that strength to get the fuck up and leave
Speaker 1: or even boss up. If you're gonna, if you're gonna
Speaker 1: play around with him, have the ball in your court,
Speaker 1: you call the shots. I'm only fucking him because I
Speaker 1: want to fuck him period. If you can't leave Malone,
Speaker 1: you need to change the way you deal with him,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. But if you really are
Speaker 1: tired of being treated like ten current shit, go and
Speaker 1: seek therapy. It's not gonna happen overnight. Trust me, you're
Speaker 1: gonna have to really really put yourself on a hiatus
Speaker 1: from this nigga. You feel me as hard as it
Speaker 1: will be because he's so used to you being there.
Speaker 1: You're his doormat. Baby, that's what you've made yourself his doormat.
Speaker 1: You know, you let him walk all over you, and
Speaker 1: he bringing you notes and breating your phone down and
Speaker 1: breaking down your door when you block him, and you
Speaker 1: like that shit that's a form of love to you. No,
Speaker 1: that's that's toxicity, what you already identified. You know what
Speaker 1: I mean. So you're not completely goddamn dumb because you
Speaker 1: know what that is now that that makes you feel good.
Speaker 1: They hear break down your door when you block him.
Speaker 1: But right after he breaks down your door, you got
Speaker 1: to fix that shit because he ain't got no fucking
Speaker 1: money to fix it, and he ain't gonna fix it.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. He backing your good graces
Speaker 1: and now he going to go beat down another bitch door.
Speaker 1: So now you still still there looking stupid. I just
Speaker 1: I really really want you to love on yourself, seek therapy,
Speaker 1: and then meet me back here in about three months
Speaker 1: and let me know how you have grown. If you
Speaker 1: hit me back in three months and I find out
Speaker 1: this nigga is still a part of your life, I'm
Speaker 1: gonna find you. I swear to your ass because I
Speaker 1: do not like the way that she let this nigga
Speaker 1: treat her. But it's deeper than this God though, you
Speaker 1: know what I mean. She need to get some internal
Speaker 1: help and then get that internal healing. So what you think,
Speaker 1: because I think that's the cherry on top of this.
Speaker 1: We done drag this shit out so long after all
Speaker 1: of this, Yeah, this is a two parter. I look,
Speaker 1: you're not gonna find a hairline like Muther. No, I'm
Speaker 1: sorry because that was that was definitely one point. You're
Speaker 1: not gonna find someone like a true love until you,
Speaker 1: like just said, love yourself. Yeah, most definitely. And she's
Speaker 1: not gonna know what to do with nobody else's love.
Speaker 1: She never exposed herself to loving herself, you know what
Speaker 1: I mean, Like she always feeling like she she can't
Speaker 1: be alone, or she she thinks that's not it, that's it.
Speaker 1: That's yeah, baby a baby. But I do strongly and
Speaker 1: Carriage try to do that though definitely, And just like that,
Speaker 1: we've come to the end of yet another can'tfully reckless
Speaker 1: episode with your girl. Just hilarious. What I'd be doing,
Speaker 1: I'd be fixing mess say by to Taylor. Y'all and
Speaker 1: Tay let's say bye to them, see y'all. Love yourself, yes,
Speaker 1: definitely love yourself and catch you next week.
Speaker 3: Peace An.
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