1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:03,320 Speaker 1: Welcome to Can'tflee Reckless, the production of iHeart Radio and 2 00:00:03,360 --> 00:00:16,479 Speaker 1: The Black Effect. And just like that, we're back with 3 00:00:16,640 --> 00:00:19,640 Speaker 1: yet another carefully reckless episode with your girl. Just hilarious. 4 00:00:19,720 --> 00:00:21,439 Speaker 1: What I be doing, I'll be fixed the mess, and 5 00:00:21,440 --> 00:00:24,279 Speaker 1: that's what I'm about to do right now. Look, so 6 00:00:24,440 --> 00:00:26,880 Speaker 1: we're gonna pick back up where we left off. Remember 7 00:00:27,000 --> 00:00:30,440 Speaker 1: last week we had the girl. She had a voice note, 8 00:00:30,520 --> 00:00:32,640 Speaker 1: a long ass voice note. Matter of fact, it was 9 00:00:32,640 --> 00:00:36,400 Speaker 1: a whole podcast, right, and we couldn't finish because it 10 00:00:36,440 --> 00:00:38,240 Speaker 1: was too long. And y'all know, I'd like to keep 11 00:00:38,320 --> 00:00:40,800 Speaker 1: y'all interested and leave y'all with the cliffhangers to make 12 00:00:40,880 --> 00:00:43,000 Speaker 1: y'all keep coming back for more. So I stopped the 13 00:00:43,040 --> 00:00:44,920 Speaker 1: episode and I said I was gonna make it this 14 00:00:45,000 --> 00:00:48,159 Speaker 1: to two parts. So part one was last week. If 15 00:00:48,159 --> 00:00:50,200 Speaker 1: you did not hear, I encourage you to go back 16 00:00:50,240 --> 00:00:53,680 Speaker 1: and listen to that one before you listen to this one, 17 00:00:53,760 --> 00:00:55,680 Speaker 1: because this is a part too. So I'll just give 18 00:00:55,720 --> 00:00:57,800 Speaker 1: you all a quick backstory about what happened, a quick 19 00:00:57,800 --> 00:01:00,240 Speaker 1: summary of last week's So, she was dealing with this 20 00:01:00,280 --> 00:01:03,760 Speaker 1: guy right now. She was doing her thing and he 21 00:01:03,800 --> 00:01:05,560 Speaker 1: was doing his thing, and they really weren't trying to 22 00:01:05,560 --> 00:01:09,320 Speaker 1: be together at first, but she was swept off her 23 00:01:09,319 --> 00:01:11,800 Speaker 1: feet by this guy, right, you know, she ain't care 24 00:01:11,840 --> 00:01:17,080 Speaker 1: about her roster After a while and they started becoming exclusive. 25 00:01:17,120 --> 00:01:20,039 Speaker 1: He started moving in pretty much she bought the game over. 26 00:01:20,080 --> 00:01:22,399 Speaker 1: You know what happened when you got your game system 27 00:01:22,400 --> 00:01:24,800 Speaker 1: at a girl house. She basically lived there, right, So 28 00:01:25,240 --> 00:01:27,240 Speaker 1: he had moved in or whatever, but he wasn't paying 29 00:01:27,240 --> 00:01:29,640 Speaker 1: bills and she started having to foot the bills on 30 00:01:29,680 --> 00:01:31,600 Speaker 1: her own. That was red flag that she should have 31 00:01:31,640 --> 00:01:34,960 Speaker 1: fucking saw in the first place. But either way, months 32 00:01:34,959 --> 00:01:38,240 Speaker 1: and months go past. Now the communication slows down, the 33 00:01:38,480 --> 00:01:42,320 Speaker 1: affection slows down. She's beginning to see how inconsistent he is, 34 00:01:42,440 --> 00:01:46,480 Speaker 1: and then everything the communication slows down everything, right, So 35 00:01:46,520 --> 00:01:49,200 Speaker 1: now she go through his Facebook and she finds out 36 00:01:49,200 --> 00:01:51,160 Speaker 1: that he has a best friend, a female best friend 37 00:01:51,360 --> 00:01:55,720 Speaker 1: that he kind of was like flirting with a little bit. 38 00:01:56,320 --> 00:01:58,200 Speaker 1: But that wasn't even a problem. The problem was she 39 00:01:58,280 --> 00:02:00,800 Speaker 1: never even knew nothing about the best friend. Right, he 40 00:02:00,880 --> 00:02:03,080 Speaker 1: never even told her, oh, I got a female best friend, 41 00:02:03,360 --> 00:02:04,960 Speaker 1: so he kept that away from her. So she's like, 42 00:02:05,000 --> 00:02:06,520 Speaker 1: what else are you lying about? So she go through 43 00:02:06,520 --> 00:02:08,919 Speaker 1: his phone. She see another bitch in there and he's 44 00:02:08,960 --> 00:02:11,160 Speaker 1: trying to that he's been trying to go out with 45 00:02:11,440 --> 00:02:14,440 Speaker 1: for months or whatever. So fast forward, they break up 46 00:02:14,919 --> 00:02:17,720 Speaker 1: because he was just toxic if he started lying to her, 47 00:02:17,760 --> 00:02:20,480 Speaker 1: definitely cheating on her, talking shit to her every argument 48 00:02:20,520 --> 00:02:22,680 Speaker 1: they got, and he was always telling her how many 49 00:02:22,680 --> 00:02:24,720 Speaker 1: other bitches he could get with and how many other 50 00:02:24,760 --> 00:02:27,560 Speaker 1: bitches wanted him and all of that. That's another red flag, shorty, 51 00:02:27,600 --> 00:02:30,440 Speaker 1: you crazy? So she that would have I would have 52 00:02:30,680 --> 00:02:32,600 Speaker 1: grew another pair of legs around the fuck up out 53 00:02:32,600 --> 00:02:34,560 Speaker 1: of there so fast. But either way, it is what 54 00:02:34,600 --> 00:02:37,440 Speaker 1: it is. My bad tailor here, y'all say, what's up? Yeah, 55 00:02:37,520 --> 00:02:42,359 Speaker 1: So now she leaves the nigga that she started dealing 56 00:02:42,360 --> 00:02:44,280 Speaker 1: with after she broke up with this guy to go 57 00:02:44,400 --> 00:02:46,560 Speaker 1: back with this guy crazy. I don't know what he 58 00:02:46,560 --> 00:02:49,120 Speaker 1: could have told her to make her come back, but 59 00:02:49,320 --> 00:02:52,440 Speaker 1: she went back to him and everything that led to 60 00:02:52,480 --> 00:02:56,320 Speaker 1: their breakup that he was doing before he started doing again, 61 00:02:56,919 --> 00:02:59,560 Speaker 1: So I don't understand why the fuck she felt like 62 00:02:59,600 --> 00:03:02,280 Speaker 1: it was cool to go back, But she asked me 63 00:03:02,639 --> 00:03:06,360 Speaker 1: for advice on what she should do. But then she 64 00:03:06,440 --> 00:03:08,480 Speaker 1: said then some more shit, some more information that she 65 00:03:08,520 --> 00:03:11,400 Speaker 1: said that she forgot, so we're gonna get right into its. 66 00:03:11,760 --> 00:03:14,360 Speaker 2: I kind of left some important she out because I 67 00:03:14,440 --> 00:03:16,440 Speaker 2: was moving fast. So I'm my way home from work 68 00:03:16,520 --> 00:03:20,200 Speaker 2: and I kind of her kite. But okay, So like 69 00:03:20,360 --> 00:03:24,000 Speaker 2: one situation, we were at the beach, me him and 70 00:03:24,080 --> 00:03:27,480 Speaker 2: my son. We were on a ride at the little 71 00:03:27,480 --> 00:03:31,560 Speaker 2: amusement park thing, so literally like he disappeared when we 72 00:03:31,600 --> 00:03:35,000 Speaker 2: got off the ride. So I stood there for a minute. 73 00:03:35,000 --> 00:03:37,960 Speaker 2: I'm looking for him, Like he literally was sitting on 74 00:03:38,000 --> 00:03:39,960 Speaker 2: the bench when we got on the ride. He wasn't 75 00:03:40,000 --> 00:03:43,160 Speaker 2: there anymore. He wasn't anywhere to be found. So I 76 00:03:43,320 --> 00:03:46,240 Speaker 2: called him. He didn't answer. I call again, he didn't answer. 77 00:03:46,320 --> 00:03:49,240 Speaker 2: My son saw something that grabbed his attention and started running, 78 00:03:49,720 --> 00:03:51,800 Speaker 2: so I just started walking forward like, well fuck it, 79 00:03:51,800 --> 00:03:53,720 Speaker 2: I don't look all around the back. He can't be 80 00:03:53,800 --> 00:03:58,920 Speaker 2: back here. So we ended up walking up and he 81 00:03:59,040 --> 00:04:02,600 Speaker 2: came from the back where I was looking, and he 82 00:04:02,880 --> 00:04:06,200 Speaker 2: just went off, like went off, like, how are you 83 00:04:06,200 --> 00:04:08,400 Speaker 2: gonna leave me? I know you saw me right there. 84 00:04:08,440 --> 00:04:10,240 Speaker 2: I was watching you out a whole home. How you 85 00:04:10,280 --> 00:04:13,480 Speaker 2: ain't seen me? Like, nigga, I literally fucking cause your 86 00:04:13,600 --> 00:04:17,080 Speaker 2: phone multiple times couldn't find you. We're not just gonna 87 00:04:17,120 --> 00:04:21,520 Speaker 2: stand here and fucking wait. This nigga literally sped walk off, 88 00:04:22,000 --> 00:04:25,039 Speaker 2: left us at the amusement park right across from the beach. 89 00:04:25,880 --> 00:04:28,840 Speaker 2: So I was really trying to get my mind together 90 00:04:28,920 --> 00:04:31,800 Speaker 2: because I'm trying to comprehend what the fuck just happened, 91 00:04:31,960 --> 00:04:33,760 Speaker 2: and where was this nigga and what the fuck was 92 00:04:33,800 --> 00:04:36,120 Speaker 2: he doing where he couldn't answer my call or something. 93 00:04:37,120 --> 00:04:38,800 Speaker 2: So I don't know if he was on the phone 94 00:04:38,920 --> 00:04:41,440 Speaker 2: or trying to talk to a beach. I just don't know, 95 00:04:41,920 --> 00:04:45,680 Speaker 2: because he was literally nowhere in sight. And I looked 96 00:04:45,960 --> 00:04:48,840 Speaker 2: hard around the whole back area, which was the end 97 00:04:48,880 --> 00:04:49,760 Speaker 2: of the amusement park. 98 00:04:49,800 --> 00:04:50,719 Speaker 1: It's not that big. 99 00:04:52,080 --> 00:04:55,200 Speaker 2: Literally left us there, so we walk across to the beach. 100 00:04:55,640 --> 00:04:58,640 Speaker 2: I blocked him at this point, I'm about to cause 101 00:04:58,680 --> 00:05:01,479 Speaker 2: somebody to come pick me the fuck up and just 102 00:05:01,520 --> 00:05:03,240 Speaker 2: book a room for me and my son for the 103 00:05:03,440 --> 00:05:05,359 Speaker 2: night until we could get a ride out in the 104 00:05:05,400 --> 00:05:08,840 Speaker 2: morning or whatever. And so how people get here. So 105 00:05:09,520 --> 00:05:12,479 Speaker 2: and then a few months later, maybe really about a 106 00:05:12,520 --> 00:05:14,720 Speaker 2: month and a half later, we went to the beach 107 00:05:14,800 --> 00:05:19,560 Speaker 2: again solo, and he thought that he saw me trying 108 00:05:19,560 --> 00:05:22,400 Speaker 2: to secretly take somebody in the gift shop so he 109 00:05:22,480 --> 00:05:26,200 Speaker 2: walked out. The whole time I literally was in front 110 00:05:26,200 --> 00:05:29,039 Speaker 2: of him, texting phone up brightness on. He could literally 111 00:05:29,120 --> 00:05:33,360 Speaker 2: see it if he wanted to look. And I was like, hey, babe, 112 00:05:33,360 --> 00:05:35,040 Speaker 2: I'm gonna be right back outside something I want to 113 00:05:35,080 --> 00:05:38,719 Speaker 2: go by. Literally I check out and I had got 114 00:05:38,760 --> 00:05:42,080 Speaker 2: something for him that he was looking at. This nigga 115 00:05:42,240 --> 00:05:46,520 Speaker 2: is nowhere in the store. So I'm looking around. I 116 00:05:46,640 --> 00:05:49,279 Speaker 2: call him, no answer, call him two more times. He 117 00:05:49,440 --> 00:05:55,080 Speaker 2: answers on this third call, and he was like, I'm like, babe, like, 118 00:05:55,360 --> 00:05:57,760 Speaker 2: why the fuck would you leave to start without telling me? Like, 119 00:05:57,839 --> 00:06:01,359 Speaker 2: I'm looking for you, I'm looking stupid. You got me 120 00:06:01,440 --> 00:06:04,240 Speaker 2: out here solo, just looking fucking stupid, Like the lady 121 00:06:04,279 --> 00:06:07,000 Speaker 2: in the store sees me looking for you, Like, just 122 00:06:07,040 --> 00:06:11,279 Speaker 2: got me looking fucking stupid. The nigga literally said, oh, 123 00:06:11,440 --> 00:06:13,200 Speaker 2: he was trying to hide your phone and take somebody 124 00:06:13,200 --> 00:06:15,159 Speaker 2: in private. I ain't with that funny shit. I left 125 00:06:15,200 --> 00:06:17,560 Speaker 2: you there, And the whole time I'm thinking back, this 126 00:06:17,640 --> 00:06:19,479 Speaker 2: nigga is telling me what the fuck he was doing. 127 00:06:21,120 --> 00:06:23,920 Speaker 1: Girl, I'm gonna let you finished change the goddamn batteries 128 00:06:23,920 --> 00:06:26,119 Speaker 1: in that smoke detector, but I'm gonna let you finish 129 00:06:26,160 --> 00:06:27,800 Speaker 1: because I'm so mad at you that you let this 130 00:06:27,880 --> 00:06:30,599 Speaker 1: nigga play with you like this. This is crazy because 131 00:06:30,600 --> 00:06:32,440 Speaker 1: this is your fault. I'm just letting you know right, 132 00:06:32,480 --> 00:06:34,080 Speaker 1: this is your fault before I get in your ass 133 00:06:34,080 --> 00:06:37,279 Speaker 1: some more. I'm gonna let you finish, and I know 134 00:06:37,320 --> 00:06:39,680 Speaker 1: you're probably dicking. They don't even to stand some good dick. 135 00:06:39,760 --> 00:06:44,320 Speaker 1: But he didn't. That shit was some motherfucking par bitch. 136 00:06:44,440 --> 00:06:46,920 Speaker 1: Now I'm really mad here. Now I don't even want 137 00:06:46,960 --> 00:06:49,640 Speaker 1: to listen to the rest of the story. You made 138 00:06:49,680 --> 00:06:54,680 Speaker 1: me make this shit out of two parts. For the 139 00:06:54,760 --> 00:07:01,799 Speaker 1: dick to be trash is SIT's serious, tailor very It's something, 140 00:07:02,080 --> 00:07:04,479 Speaker 1: always something. How the fuck did this nigga get picked 141 00:07:04,480 --> 00:07:07,200 Speaker 1: over the nigga paying your bills and his dick trash? 142 00:07:07,680 --> 00:07:10,720 Speaker 1: What a kisser like yet not a good kisser. 143 00:07:10,880 --> 00:07:11,760 Speaker 3: I'm not planning. 144 00:07:12,120 --> 00:07:13,960 Speaker 1: Let's let her finish because I'm about to get our 145 00:07:14,040 --> 00:07:17,160 Speaker 1: ass up. Hold up, I know this shit getting good, 146 00:07:17,200 --> 00:07:19,520 Speaker 1: but listen to just a couple seconds of a commercial. 147 00:07:19,520 --> 00:07:20,680 Speaker 1: If you love me, you'll listen. 148 00:07:22,360 --> 00:07:24,400 Speaker 2: What I was really lating on was the him that 149 00:07:24,440 --> 00:07:26,680 Speaker 2: I first meant in the beginning to come back, and 150 00:07:26,760 --> 00:07:28,480 Speaker 2: it never did. And he would eat me a little 151 00:07:28,520 --> 00:07:31,560 Speaker 2: bit of myse hope, and then back to his fuckery. 152 00:07:32,680 --> 00:07:36,480 Speaker 2: So he kept me stuck, just knowing my heart and 153 00:07:36,560 --> 00:07:40,680 Speaker 2: kindness and understanding that he was just keeping egging me 154 00:07:40,720 --> 00:07:43,360 Speaker 2: on so he couldn't anymore, probably thinking I would really 155 00:07:43,480 --> 00:07:44,000 Speaker 2: not to leave. 156 00:07:44,520 --> 00:07:46,240 Speaker 1: But this time I'm like done done. 157 00:07:46,280 --> 00:07:50,240 Speaker 2: I just need advice or how to stay done, because 158 00:07:50,320 --> 00:07:54,920 Speaker 2: like I ain't gonna lie my ego, my pride, myself 159 00:07:55,160 --> 00:07:57,560 Speaker 2: wearing all of that shit, took the hate fucking with 160 00:07:57,680 --> 00:08:01,640 Speaker 2: him continuously after he kept giving me every reason not 161 00:08:01,680 --> 00:08:04,600 Speaker 2: to them, ruling me back in with fake shit. So 162 00:08:04,680 --> 00:08:07,600 Speaker 2: the other girl, I hit her up, like, hey, boo, 163 00:08:08,400 --> 00:08:10,320 Speaker 2: you know I just went through so and so phone 164 00:08:10,400 --> 00:08:12,560 Speaker 2: and we've been together for twenty a half years. 165 00:08:13,320 --> 00:08:14,360 Speaker 1: I see y'all got. 166 00:08:14,200 --> 00:08:19,280 Speaker 2: Message and messages in here from like basically before the relationship, 167 00:08:19,280 --> 00:08:22,160 Speaker 2: with the whole relationship. I didn't see him send you 168 00:08:22,320 --> 00:08:24,520 Speaker 2: his address several times trying to get you to pull 169 00:08:24,560 --> 00:08:26,360 Speaker 2: up when you in town. She lives out of state, 170 00:08:26,560 --> 00:08:28,880 Speaker 2: so she basically gave me the tea. But I still 171 00:08:28,920 --> 00:08:30,960 Speaker 2: don't believe that she was telling the whole truth. I 172 00:08:31,000 --> 00:08:34,760 Speaker 2: believe that they've been intimate at some point but probably 173 00:08:34,800 --> 00:08:36,680 Speaker 2: a long time ago, way before me. 174 00:08:37,160 --> 00:08:38,400 Speaker 1: But still you have. 175 00:08:38,400 --> 00:08:41,640 Speaker 2: Buses saving in your phone in nigga's names. So my 176 00:08:41,760 --> 00:08:43,360 Speaker 2: lease is about to be up. I'm finally at the 177 00:08:43,360 --> 00:08:45,040 Speaker 2: point where I'm over all of this shit. I'm over 178 00:08:45,080 --> 00:08:48,160 Speaker 2: the lies, the lack of accountability. We never even really 179 00:08:48,200 --> 00:08:53,120 Speaker 2: had a real conversation about this shit because he's, oh, 180 00:08:53,760 --> 00:08:56,880 Speaker 2: it's dead, this old situation, why we gotta talk about it. 181 00:08:56,920 --> 00:08:59,760 Speaker 2: I'm not talking about that, Like, he literally is not 182 00:09:00,080 --> 00:09:03,319 Speaker 2: opening to reassuring me or talking about it at all. 183 00:09:03,360 --> 00:09:07,640 Speaker 2: And recently we had a fallen out because I go 184 00:09:07,720 --> 00:09:13,240 Speaker 2: to his friends list going Facebook and shotty stealing a 185 00:09:13,400 --> 00:09:17,760 Speaker 2: friends list. I'm like, bro, like I literally came to 186 00:09:17,800 --> 00:09:20,760 Speaker 2: this bitch as a woman, you know, and why the 187 00:09:20,760 --> 00:09:22,920 Speaker 2: fuck is she still on your friends list? 188 00:09:23,280 --> 00:09:24,439 Speaker 1: So you know, I study sweet. 189 00:09:24,480 --> 00:09:27,800 Speaker 2: I ain't say it all aggressive and shit, but I'm like, hey, babe, 190 00:09:27,840 --> 00:09:30,280 Speaker 2: you know, like I just want you to know that 191 00:09:30,800 --> 00:09:32,720 Speaker 2: I kind of feel a type of way about you 192 00:09:32,760 --> 00:09:34,800 Speaker 2: still having so and so on your friends list. 193 00:09:35,720 --> 00:09:38,360 Speaker 1: First of all, I listen, I would say I can't 194 00:09:38,360 --> 00:09:40,320 Speaker 1: hear no more, but I don't want to undermine your 195 00:09:40,360 --> 00:09:42,520 Speaker 1: whole story. So I'm gonna I'm gonna stop it for 196 00:09:42,559 --> 00:09:46,040 Speaker 1: a second, but I'm gonna continue it before listen, How 197 00:09:46,040 --> 00:09:48,600 Speaker 1: can you still even address a nigga as baby? Like, 198 00:09:48,679 --> 00:09:52,200 Speaker 1: how can you somebody who has blatantly disrespected you, somebody 199 00:09:52,280 --> 00:09:54,480 Speaker 1: who has lied to you from the fucking jump. You 200 00:09:54,679 --> 00:09:57,840 Speaker 1: just went to somebody as the other woman, somebody who 201 00:09:57,840 --> 00:09:59,800 Speaker 1: should have been coming to you, but you had to 202 00:09:59,840 --> 00:10:03,720 Speaker 1: just go to them. And you're sitting here dancing and 203 00:10:03,800 --> 00:10:07,520 Speaker 1: prancing around the fucking elephant in the room, walking on eggshells. 204 00:10:07,720 --> 00:10:09,640 Speaker 1: So cause this nigga gonna what blow up on you? 205 00:10:10,120 --> 00:10:12,440 Speaker 1: What the fuck is that the game beating on you 206 00:10:12,559 --> 00:10:16,080 Speaker 1: or anything like that or not, like a detrimental threat 207 00:10:16,120 --> 00:10:19,280 Speaker 1: to your life? Go trying to fuck up boss up 208 00:10:19,280 --> 00:10:21,320 Speaker 1: and leave that nigga like, and that's not how you 209 00:10:21,360 --> 00:10:23,840 Speaker 1: need to talk. So that's why he walks over your ass. 210 00:10:23,840 --> 00:10:26,880 Speaker 1: You're calling them a narcissist. No, it's very easy for 211 00:10:26,960 --> 00:10:30,400 Speaker 1: somebody to get over on you girl, Like what you mean, babe? 212 00:10:30,520 --> 00:10:34,959 Speaker 1: I just feel like, why would you? No, no, no, 213 00:10:35,320 --> 00:10:37,400 Speaker 1: that's why. Sure he's still in the friend's list. And 214 00:10:37,440 --> 00:10:40,800 Speaker 1: if you gotta play private fucking e to be with 215 00:10:40,920 --> 00:10:44,440 Speaker 1: somebody that ain't the relationship for you. If you can't 216 00:10:44,440 --> 00:10:48,880 Speaker 1: go to sleep peacefully at night without a wonder in 217 00:10:48,920 --> 00:10:50,679 Speaker 1: the world which your man is doing, or who might 218 00:10:50,720 --> 00:10:53,280 Speaker 1: be in the phone, or how you can get into 219 00:10:53,320 --> 00:10:55,680 Speaker 1: his fucking Facebook the next day, that is not a 220 00:10:55,679 --> 00:10:58,800 Speaker 1: good relationship for you. I'm so mad at you right now, 221 00:10:58,840 --> 00:11:00,400 Speaker 1: and I don't even know you. I just feel like, 222 00:11:00,400 --> 00:11:03,880 Speaker 1: come on, like we worth more than that, right what 223 00:11:04,000 --> 00:11:08,360 Speaker 1: we doing. And then even last week when you said, oh, 224 00:11:08,520 --> 00:11:11,079 Speaker 1: he wasted two years of my life, now you wasted that. 225 00:11:11,559 --> 00:11:14,160 Speaker 1: He can't live your life for you, you could waste 226 00:11:14,160 --> 00:11:17,000 Speaker 1: your own life. You are in charge of your own 227 00:11:17,080 --> 00:11:20,600 Speaker 1: fucking life. You feel me. You ain't waste none of 228 00:11:20,640 --> 00:11:25,880 Speaker 1: his time. Shit, you wasted your own time. You can't 229 00:11:25,960 --> 00:11:29,439 Speaker 1: waste his time because he's in charge of his own time, 230 00:11:29,600 --> 00:11:32,160 Speaker 1: you know what I mean. So what he choose to 231 00:11:32,240 --> 00:11:34,520 Speaker 1: do with his time what he wants to And I 232 00:11:34,559 --> 00:11:37,720 Speaker 1: bet you he's sleeping peacefully with a whole roster of y'all. 233 00:11:38,280 --> 00:11:40,920 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, get yourself together. I'm definitely 234 00:11:40,960 --> 00:11:42,400 Speaker 1: gonna listen to the rest of the shit. 235 00:11:42,360 --> 00:11:44,680 Speaker 2: Thom you know, we whole lot of fell out over her, 236 00:11:44,720 --> 00:11:46,800 Speaker 2: like you had her saved as a nigga like. 237 00:11:47,120 --> 00:11:50,240 Speaker 1: We felt out fully in. 238 00:11:50,200 --> 00:11:53,520 Speaker 2: A snowstorm because of like her and old girl and 239 00:11:54,760 --> 00:11:57,920 Speaker 2: he got the fucking wandering eyes on Facebook like to 240 00:11:58,480 --> 00:12:00,920 Speaker 2: inbox bitches. Off of the story is bitches will never 241 00:12:00,960 --> 00:12:02,680 Speaker 2: reply to him, and the ones who do reply are 242 00:12:02,720 --> 00:12:05,560 Speaker 2: broke and ugly and I don't know cocky shit, just 243 00:12:05,600 --> 00:12:08,400 Speaker 2: being honest, Like I'm a girl's girl, So if the 244 00:12:08,480 --> 00:12:10,600 Speaker 2: bitch is pretty, like that's what pissed. 245 00:12:10,280 --> 00:12:12,959 Speaker 1: Me off the most, Like, nigga. 246 00:12:12,920 --> 00:12:14,720 Speaker 2: Show me you could pull another bad bitch? 247 00:12:15,360 --> 00:12:19,440 Speaker 1: You know what are you like fucking oh my gosh, 248 00:12:19,679 --> 00:12:22,880 Speaker 1: show me you can pull a bad bitch? Are you 249 00:12:23,000 --> 00:12:26,040 Speaker 1: not a bad bitch? Or like like like what is that? 250 00:12:26,160 --> 00:12:29,679 Speaker 1: What the fuck are you talking about now? Like what 251 00:12:29,920 --> 00:12:33,240 Speaker 1: you're saying girls, like why could you like at least 252 00:12:33,280 --> 00:12:37,079 Speaker 1: put a cute girl, any girl other than you? It's 253 00:12:37,080 --> 00:12:40,240 Speaker 1: supposed to intimidate you. Is it supposed to be a problem? 254 00:12:40,760 --> 00:12:43,640 Speaker 1: Like what are you talking about? Like at least pull 255 00:12:43,640 --> 00:12:45,720 Speaker 1: a bad bitch. That makes it even worse for you 256 00:12:45,800 --> 00:12:48,360 Speaker 1: to be there, exact cause this nigga can't pull a 257 00:12:48,400 --> 00:12:49,920 Speaker 1: bad bitch now. If you do, then you're gonna be 258 00:12:49,920 --> 00:12:53,480 Speaker 1: looking car fucking dumb again because it ain't you. It's 259 00:12:53,520 --> 00:12:56,280 Speaker 1: the bad bitch. This shit is weird. 260 00:12:56,920 --> 00:12:57,240 Speaker 3: Girl. 261 00:12:57,520 --> 00:12:59,400 Speaker 1: I ain't when y'all fucking talk like that. And I'm 262 00:12:59,440 --> 00:13:01,240 Speaker 1: gonna say, I hate when we well, I ain't ever 263 00:13:01,280 --> 00:13:02,920 Speaker 1: talking like that. But I'm a black girl too, so 264 00:13:02,920 --> 00:13:04,840 Speaker 1: I'm a you know, I'm a part of you. I 265 00:13:04,880 --> 00:13:08,640 Speaker 1: hate when we talk like that. Goofy shit, right, and 266 00:13:08,679 --> 00:13:10,800 Speaker 1: then I would. I would have left the nigga a long, 267 00:13:10,880 --> 00:13:13,439 Speaker 1: a long time ago. But after he left you and 268 00:13:13,520 --> 00:13:16,679 Speaker 1: your fucking son at the beach, dummy, do you wasn't 269 00:13:16,679 --> 00:13:19,520 Speaker 1: supposed to go back. That's your son, that ain't his son. 270 00:13:19,520 --> 00:13:22,880 Speaker 1: That's your son that ain't his son. That's why he left. 271 00:13:22,920 --> 00:13:27,400 Speaker 1: Y'all ass whole time you watch you while he on 272 00:13:27,440 --> 00:13:29,679 Speaker 1: the phone with another bitch, acting like he's somewhere else. 273 00:13:29,760 --> 00:13:31,760 Speaker 1: I know these games all too well, and so to 274 00:13:31,800 --> 00:13:33,520 Speaker 1: you because you've been chasing behind the nigga. I've been 275 00:13:33,559 --> 00:13:36,920 Speaker 1: playing these games for what three years now? That's on 276 00:13:37,040 --> 00:13:41,199 Speaker 1: you the five. How the fuck he left you and 277 00:13:41,280 --> 00:13:46,760 Speaker 1: your son and you had to get a hotel? Finished 278 00:13:46,840 --> 00:13:47,080 Speaker 1: with you? 279 00:13:48,640 --> 00:13:50,959 Speaker 2: Gonna be proud of you. My nigga showed me that 280 00:13:51,280 --> 00:13:53,680 Speaker 2: another bad beach was some real life shit going on 281 00:13:53,840 --> 00:13:56,560 Speaker 2: for her, so real life goes accomplished without a man 282 00:13:56,600 --> 00:13:59,520 Speaker 2: behind it. Show me you to get that, and then 283 00:13:59,559 --> 00:14:03,000 Speaker 2: you know I felt better. But you know, these is 284 00:14:03,160 --> 00:14:05,760 Speaker 2: bitches like nowhere near my. 285 00:14:05,760 --> 00:14:09,400 Speaker 3: Grader level, like just it's embarrassing. 286 00:14:11,360 --> 00:14:14,200 Speaker 2: So my question is how do I. 287 00:14:14,240 --> 00:14:15,760 Speaker 1: Leave him in the past. 288 00:14:15,800 --> 00:14:19,320 Speaker 2: It was difficult because you know, after so many motherfucking 289 00:14:19,320 --> 00:14:23,840 Speaker 2: weeks of knocking on my door, leaving flowers, leaving heartfelt notes, 290 00:14:24,160 --> 00:14:25,880 Speaker 2: I kids, I feel it. 291 00:14:25,960 --> 00:14:27,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, my dumb ass deep. 292 00:14:28,920 --> 00:14:31,680 Speaker 2: So I'm got to move. I'm gonna change my number. 293 00:14:32,920 --> 00:14:35,920 Speaker 2: I've already blocked him on my social media. I've been 294 00:14:35,920 --> 00:14:39,960 Speaker 2: making my final attempts to like place my boundaries up 295 00:14:40,000 --> 00:14:44,520 Speaker 2: once a fucking game, and he's just not respecting them, 296 00:14:44,600 --> 00:14:47,800 Speaker 2: still not communicating, still not taking accountability. We can't even 297 00:14:47,880 --> 00:14:51,440 Speaker 2: literally get past shit because he will not communicate and 298 00:14:51,520 --> 00:14:57,280 Speaker 2: talk about it. So we never got past anything, and 299 00:14:57,320 --> 00:14:59,640 Speaker 2: then he just gets more sneakier, which of course I 300 00:14:59,680 --> 00:15:00,720 Speaker 2: fuck unexpected. 301 00:15:00,960 --> 00:15:02,600 Speaker 1: But I had to put a little bit of faith 302 00:15:02,680 --> 00:15:03,320 Speaker 1: in bruh. 303 00:15:03,040 --> 00:15:05,800 Speaker 2: Because you gotta do that. If you say, if you'll 304 00:15:05,800 --> 00:15:07,600 Speaker 2: agree to forgive somebody and. 305 00:15:07,400 --> 00:15:08,280 Speaker 1: Get back together. 306 00:15:09,320 --> 00:15:13,040 Speaker 2: I'm literally on my shit, like I have more than 307 00:15:13,080 --> 00:15:15,120 Speaker 2: him and I don't know, cocky shits, just on something 308 00:15:15,240 --> 00:15:18,440 Speaker 2: like showing you where our mentals are at. Like Ris 309 00:15:18,520 --> 00:15:21,040 Speaker 2: Hoveyan is apart. He's just got a place last year. 310 00:15:21,200 --> 00:15:25,440 Speaker 2: It's not even in your name, no license, like literally 311 00:15:25,600 --> 00:15:27,600 Speaker 2: shit that I've tried to help him do these whole 312 00:15:27,640 --> 00:15:30,440 Speaker 2: two and a half years and he just hasn't taken 313 00:15:30,440 --> 00:15:31,600 Speaker 2: a steps, which you. 314 00:15:31,600 --> 00:15:34,200 Speaker 1: Mean to fucking tell me? You doing all this over 315 00:15:34,240 --> 00:15:36,360 Speaker 1: a nigga who is twelve years older than you and 316 00:15:36,480 --> 00:15:40,280 Speaker 1: twelve years behind you. Are you fucking crazy? He ain't 317 00:15:40,280 --> 00:15:42,440 Speaker 1: got no license, He just getting his first place and 318 00:15:42,440 --> 00:15:45,720 Speaker 1: you letting him dog walk your ass around the town. Girl? Please? 319 00:15:46,240 --> 00:15:48,920 Speaker 1: What the fuck talking about? I got my shit all together, Yeah, 320 00:15:49,040 --> 00:15:51,760 Speaker 1: except for in that department. Now, we got a commercial 321 00:15:51,800 --> 00:15:53,640 Speaker 1: and if you click off of this podcast, I swear 322 00:15:53,680 --> 00:15:57,240 Speaker 1: I'm gonna beat your ass. Listen, do you know there 323 00:15:57,280 --> 00:15:59,120 Speaker 1: is somebody that will love you and take care of 324 00:15:59,160 --> 00:16:00,840 Speaker 1: you and you take care of them, And that's somebody 325 00:16:00,840 --> 00:16:02,760 Speaker 1: that will be your fucking partner and you will go 326 00:16:02,800 --> 00:16:06,120 Speaker 1: without wondering whether a motherfucker gonna be there or not, Like, 327 00:16:06,200 --> 00:16:08,680 Speaker 1: do you know it's somebody that's out there for you? 328 00:16:09,080 --> 00:16:11,080 Speaker 1: I wish I could beat that shit in your head? Girl? 329 00:16:11,080 --> 00:16:14,320 Speaker 1: What is that with you? How I'd be so mad 330 00:16:14,840 --> 00:16:21,360 Speaker 1: with my girls tell me stories that is like evidently 331 00:16:21,480 --> 00:16:24,360 Speaker 1: and obviously you get what I'm saying, Like it's so 332 00:16:24,440 --> 00:16:26,680 Speaker 1: obvious what you should do, you. 333 00:16:26,640 --> 00:16:27,120 Speaker 3: Know what I mean? 334 00:16:27,760 --> 00:16:30,440 Speaker 1: And I'll be thinking, like sometimes maybe if they hear 335 00:16:30,480 --> 00:16:33,080 Speaker 1: themselves telling their own story, they would be like, Oh, 336 00:16:33,160 --> 00:16:35,800 Speaker 1: I'm fucking tripping, because sometimes when you're so far in it, 337 00:16:36,200 --> 00:16:40,200 Speaker 1: you really don't see, you are blinded because you're in it. 338 00:16:40,240 --> 00:16:41,840 Speaker 1: You feel me. I'm telling you, I've been there with 339 00:16:41,880 --> 00:16:44,240 Speaker 1: a older nigga before you know well, he had a 340 00:16:44,280 --> 00:16:45,720 Speaker 1: license and a couple of cars, and he was in 341 00:16:45,760 --> 00:16:49,760 Speaker 1: the streets very much. But I'm saying, you was giving 342 00:16:50,080 --> 00:16:52,800 Speaker 1: all of you to a motherfucker who wasn't even giving 343 00:16:52,840 --> 00:16:55,960 Speaker 1: you that much. That much and take me to have 344 00:16:56,160 --> 00:17:01,040 Speaker 1: shit to show for nothing that he was doing. God damn, 345 00:17:01,760 --> 00:17:05,360 Speaker 1: that's crazy. But hmm, let me let you finish. 346 00:17:05,480 --> 00:17:07,359 Speaker 2: I can't fucking do everything for you. 347 00:17:09,359 --> 00:17:10,760 Speaker 1: How do I leave this man alone? 348 00:17:12,800 --> 00:17:14,840 Speaker 2: Like, I don't even know what the fuck I'm really 349 00:17:14,880 --> 00:17:19,240 Speaker 2: going back to missing. I don't know. It's not the 350 00:17:19,400 --> 00:17:23,080 Speaker 2: being lonely part. I think it's just the affection and 351 00:17:23,119 --> 00:17:27,280 Speaker 2: the dumbness in me that thinks the little piece of 352 00:17:27,400 --> 00:17:30,360 Speaker 2: me that he feeds that I'll get the hit my head. 353 00:17:30,400 --> 00:17:34,480 Speaker 2: At the beginning, back the sweet loving Kryn, where I 354 00:17:34,480 --> 00:17:37,720 Speaker 2: could talk to about real life problems and we had 355 00:17:37,760 --> 00:17:41,399 Speaker 2: like a best friend type of bond. I've come to 356 00:17:41,400 --> 00:17:44,400 Speaker 2: the realization that that will never fucking happen. But I'm 357 00:17:44,440 --> 00:17:49,320 Speaker 2: still struggling to like just completely leave him alone. And 358 00:17:49,359 --> 00:17:53,520 Speaker 2: it's more probably childhood trauma and daddy issues, like I 359 00:17:53,560 --> 00:17:58,200 Speaker 2: need advice, girl, like advice Like the deck an't an either, 360 00:17:58,320 --> 00:18:01,680 Speaker 2: So I don't think that, Like it's like I've had better. 361 00:18:02,840 --> 00:18:09,520 Speaker 1: You know what's crazy. That's exactly that last episode I 362 00:18:09,800 --> 00:18:12,080 Speaker 1: had said, yoa dick can't be that crazy, you know what. 363 00:18:12,119 --> 00:18:15,040 Speaker 1: But I'm I'm happy that it's not the dick, to 364 00:18:15,080 --> 00:18:18,000 Speaker 1: be honest with you, I'm happy of that. I actually 365 00:18:18,080 --> 00:18:20,880 Speaker 1: loved that you pointed that out, because the dick ain't 366 00:18:20,920 --> 00:18:25,240 Speaker 1: got you right. So, Loneliness, I think I think it's 367 00:18:25,320 --> 00:18:29,879 Speaker 1: her her dad jobbed her her people. Yeah, that's like 368 00:18:29,920 --> 00:18:32,840 Speaker 1: she has to hold on to him in a sense. 369 00:18:33,400 --> 00:18:35,520 Speaker 1: But he treated her the worst. He was the one 370 00:18:35,560 --> 00:18:37,320 Speaker 1: that's treating out of all the niggas that she had 371 00:18:37,320 --> 00:18:38,919 Speaker 1: on the roster before, including the one of those fan 372 00:18:38,960 --> 00:18:40,560 Speaker 1: of bills. I'm gonna get that alone, you know what 373 00:18:40,560 --> 00:18:43,760 Speaker 1: I mean, Like she chose to throw away with all 374 00:18:43,800 --> 00:18:47,000 Speaker 1: of them except for him. You chose this, nigga. Is 375 00:18:47,040 --> 00:18:49,600 Speaker 1: that the type of guy her dad was? You know 376 00:18:49,680 --> 00:18:51,040 Speaker 1: what I'm saying, Is that the type of man that 377 00:18:51,119 --> 00:18:53,520 Speaker 1: she's seeing her mom with? Do you have brothers? Like, 378 00:18:53,560 --> 00:18:56,080 Speaker 1: how were you? Like you said childhood trauma, daddy issues 379 00:18:56,119 --> 00:18:58,240 Speaker 1: and shit. As soon as you said it wasn't a dick, 380 00:18:58,600 --> 00:19:01,159 Speaker 1: my mom went there. Okay, Well, this is deeply rooted. 381 00:19:01,240 --> 00:19:05,240 Speaker 1: This is something way before she even started dealing with guys. 382 00:19:05,280 --> 00:19:05,480 Speaker 3: Then. 383 00:19:05,840 --> 00:19:08,080 Speaker 1: You know what I mean? This is this is deeply rooted. 384 00:19:08,080 --> 00:19:10,680 Speaker 1: This goes back to your childhood. You know that that's 385 00:19:10,720 --> 00:19:13,679 Speaker 1: therapy You're gonna have to go and seek out for 386 00:19:13,720 --> 00:19:16,600 Speaker 1: yourself because it ain't even about this dude no more. 387 00:19:16,680 --> 00:19:18,320 Speaker 1: You know what I mean, It's about you and you 388 00:19:18,400 --> 00:19:22,000 Speaker 1: have to learn how to love yourself so you don't 389 00:19:22,200 --> 00:19:25,280 Speaker 1: ever have to depend on somebody to drag you to 390 00:19:25,400 --> 00:19:28,240 Speaker 1: feel like like that, because that that's not love, you 391 00:19:28,240 --> 00:19:30,840 Speaker 1: know what I mean, Like, that's not love. I don't 392 00:19:30,880 --> 00:19:33,840 Speaker 1: think he's ever loved you, you allowed him to drag 393 00:19:33,920 --> 00:19:37,800 Speaker 1: them nuts cross your four here, you know, excuse me, 394 00:19:38,560 --> 00:19:41,760 Speaker 1: you excuse me? What the hell? Because that's how that's 395 00:19:41,760 --> 00:19:45,680 Speaker 1: that's how we're talking Baltimore, and that's serious because niggas 396 00:19:45,720 --> 00:19:47,399 Speaker 1: drag they not scars, but just for hits all this 397 00:19:47,520 --> 00:19:51,800 Speaker 1: time in Baltimore. But I'm just thinking, literally, that's no not. 398 00:19:53,080 --> 00:19:56,200 Speaker 1: This place has fucked you up so bad. Band Charlemagne's 399 00:19:56,280 --> 00:19:59,080 Speaker 1: niece fucked you up so bad. Now soon as somebody 400 00:19:59,040 --> 00:20:01,920 Speaker 1: says Si san Mi, say something like i'mna drag my nuts, 401 00:20:01,920 --> 00:20:05,240 Speaker 1: crusher for it, now you're automatically thinking about the demonstration. 402 00:20:06,680 --> 00:20:11,560 Speaker 1: Huh okay, all right, it's very graphic. 403 00:20:14,800 --> 00:20:15,159 Speaker 3: Girl. 404 00:20:15,320 --> 00:20:19,480 Speaker 1: You gotta seek therapy and you have to learn how 405 00:20:19,480 --> 00:20:22,960 Speaker 1: to love yourself. Do not depend on nobody. I know 406 00:20:23,000 --> 00:20:24,880 Speaker 1: this sounds very cliche because it's something that your mom 407 00:20:24,960 --> 00:20:27,439 Speaker 1: should have told you. Don't let no man treat you 408 00:20:27,560 --> 00:20:31,000 Speaker 1: like shit. You know, if you're in a relationship, right 409 00:20:31,920 --> 00:20:35,360 Speaker 1: and you call it a relationship and you're putting out 410 00:20:35,400 --> 00:20:38,360 Speaker 1: way more than what you're getting back, and you're actually 411 00:20:38,480 --> 00:20:41,640 Speaker 1: chasing for that little bit, that is not the right 412 00:20:41,680 --> 00:20:44,480 Speaker 1: relationship for you. You do not deserve to have to 413 00:20:44,560 --> 00:20:46,639 Speaker 1: deal with that, you know, But if you put yourself 414 00:20:46,640 --> 00:20:49,240 Speaker 1: through that, then that is your fault. I don't even 415 00:20:49,240 --> 00:20:50,880 Speaker 1: blame this nigga, you know what I mean, because he's 416 00:20:50,880 --> 00:20:52,800 Speaker 1: only doing what you allowed him to do. I bet 417 00:20:52,800 --> 00:20:55,280 Speaker 1: you he can't play with that best friend like that 418 00:20:55,600 --> 00:20:57,240 Speaker 1: because you know how he is. You know what I mean, 419 00:20:57,440 --> 00:20:59,800 Speaker 1: And I guarantee you it's other women on his roster. 420 00:21:00,119 --> 00:21:02,600 Speaker 1: We can't play with like that because everybody ain't going 421 00:21:02,680 --> 00:21:05,439 Speaker 1: for that shit. But see, he takes advantage of a 422 00:21:05,480 --> 00:21:08,640 Speaker 1: person like you because you're not strong enough. You don't 423 00:21:08,680 --> 00:21:11,080 Speaker 1: have that strength to get the fuck up and leave 424 00:21:11,160 --> 00:21:12,960 Speaker 1: or even boss up. If you're gonna, if you're gonna 425 00:21:12,960 --> 00:21:15,160 Speaker 1: play around with him, have the ball in your court, 426 00:21:15,320 --> 00:21:17,720 Speaker 1: you call the shots. I'm only fucking him because I 427 00:21:17,720 --> 00:21:19,960 Speaker 1: want to fuck him period. If you can't leave Malone, 428 00:21:19,960 --> 00:21:21,479 Speaker 1: you need to change the way you deal with him, 429 00:21:22,000 --> 00:21:25,000 Speaker 1: you know what I mean. But if you really are 430 00:21:25,119 --> 00:21:29,600 Speaker 1: tired of being treated like ten current shit, go and 431 00:21:29,640 --> 00:21:32,960 Speaker 1: seek therapy. It's not gonna happen overnight. Trust me, you're 432 00:21:32,960 --> 00:21:35,600 Speaker 1: gonna have to really really put yourself on a hiatus 433 00:21:35,640 --> 00:21:37,800 Speaker 1: from this nigga. You feel me as hard as it 434 00:21:37,880 --> 00:21:40,160 Speaker 1: will be because he's so used to you being there. 435 00:21:40,200 --> 00:21:45,040 Speaker 1: You're his doormat. Baby, that's what you've made yourself his doormat. 436 00:21:45,400 --> 00:21:48,080 Speaker 1: You know, you let him walk all over you, and 437 00:21:48,119 --> 00:21:51,320 Speaker 1: he bringing you notes and breating your phone down and 438 00:21:51,359 --> 00:21:54,360 Speaker 1: breaking down your door when you block him, and you 439 00:21:54,480 --> 00:21:56,280 Speaker 1: like that shit that's a form of love to you. No, 440 00:21:56,400 --> 00:21:59,080 Speaker 1: that's that's toxicity, what you already identified. You know what 441 00:21:59,119 --> 00:22:02,119 Speaker 1: I mean. So you're not completely goddamn dumb because you 442 00:22:02,160 --> 00:22:05,280 Speaker 1: know what that is now that that makes you feel good. 443 00:22:05,280 --> 00:22:07,840 Speaker 1: They hear break down your door when you block him. 444 00:22:08,280 --> 00:22:12,840 Speaker 1: But right after he breaks down your door, you got 445 00:22:12,840 --> 00:22:15,320 Speaker 1: to fix that shit because he ain't got no fucking 446 00:22:15,320 --> 00:22:17,439 Speaker 1: money to fix it, and he ain't gonna fix it. 447 00:22:17,800 --> 00:22:20,000 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. He backing your good graces 448 00:22:20,080 --> 00:22:22,120 Speaker 1: and now he going to go beat down another bitch door. 449 00:22:23,119 --> 00:22:26,800 Speaker 1: So now you still still there looking stupid. I just 450 00:22:26,880 --> 00:22:30,280 Speaker 1: I really really want you to love on yourself, seek therapy, 451 00:22:30,359 --> 00:22:32,960 Speaker 1: and then meet me back here in about three months 452 00:22:32,960 --> 00:22:35,480 Speaker 1: and let me know how you have grown. If you 453 00:22:35,560 --> 00:22:37,080 Speaker 1: hit me back in three months and I find out 454 00:22:37,119 --> 00:22:39,760 Speaker 1: this nigga is still a part of your life, I'm 455 00:22:39,760 --> 00:22:44,800 Speaker 1: gonna find you. I swear to your ass because I 456 00:22:44,840 --> 00:22:46,600 Speaker 1: do not like the way that she let this nigga 457 00:22:46,640 --> 00:22:49,800 Speaker 1: treat her. But it's deeper than this God though, you 458 00:22:49,840 --> 00:22:51,400 Speaker 1: know what I mean. She need to get some internal 459 00:22:51,400 --> 00:22:55,280 Speaker 1: help and then get that internal healing. So what you think, 460 00:22:55,320 --> 00:22:57,399 Speaker 1: because I think that's the cherry on top of this. 461 00:22:57,520 --> 00:22:59,840 Speaker 1: We done drag this shit out so long after all 462 00:22:59,840 --> 00:23:04,640 Speaker 1: of this, Yeah, this is a two parter. I look, 463 00:23:04,680 --> 00:23:09,439 Speaker 1: you're not gonna find a hairline like Muther. No, I'm 464 00:23:09,440 --> 00:23:11,640 Speaker 1: sorry because that was that was definitely one point. You're 465 00:23:11,760 --> 00:23:18,320 Speaker 1: not gonna find someone like a true love until you, 466 00:23:18,520 --> 00:23:22,200 Speaker 1: like just said, love yourself. Yeah, most definitely. And she's 467 00:23:22,200 --> 00:23:24,240 Speaker 1: not gonna know what to do with nobody else's love. 468 00:23:24,400 --> 00:23:29,280 Speaker 1: She never exposed herself to loving herself, you know what 469 00:23:29,320 --> 00:23:31,520 Speaker 1: I mean, Like she always feeling like she she can't 470 00:23:31,520 --> 00:23:33,920 Speaker 1: be alone, or she she thinks that's not it, that's it. 471 00:23:34,320 --> 00:23:43,000 Speaker 1: That's yeah, baby a baby. But I do strongly and 472 00:23:43,080 --> 00:23:46,399 Speaker 1: Carriage try to do that though definitely, And just like that, 473 00:23:46,440 --> 00:23:49,159 Speaker 1: we've come to the end of yet another can'tfully reckless 474 00:23:49,160 --> 00:23:51,440 Speaker 1: episode with your girl. Just hilarious. What I'd be doing, 475 00:23:51,440 --> 00:23:54,119 Speaker 1: I'd be fixing mess say by to Taylor. Y'all and 476 00:23:54,160 --> 00:23:57,840 Speaker 1: Tay let's say bye to them, see y'all. Love yourself, yes, 477 00:23:58,000 --> 00:23:59,960 Speaker 1: definitely love yourself and catch you next week. 478 00:24:00,040 --> 00:25:27,680 Speaker 3: Peace An. 479 00:25:11,280 --> 00:25:14,399 Speaker 1: Can't Fully Reckless is a production of iHeartRadio and The 480 00:25:14,440 --> 00:25:18,920 Speaker 1: Black Effect. For more podcasts from iHeartRadio, visit the iHeartRadio app, 481 00:25:19,200 --> 00:25:22,320 Speaker 1: Apple Podcasts, or wherever you listen to your favorite shows.