Speaker 1: Second date update.
Speaker 2: Sometimes you can plan the perfect date, but then some
Speaker 2: outside force that you can't control comes into play and
Speaker 2: changes everything, like a hurricane. Okay, yeah, I shouldn't be
Speaker 2: going on a date if there's an eminent hurricane about
Speaker 2: to bear.
Speaker 1: Down on you.
Speaker 3: Sometimes you just need love.
Speaker 1: I guess I.
Speaker 2: Was thinking more like when Brooke was on a date
Speaker 2: eating her potato salad and a bird pooped on it,
Speaker 2: but it didn't stop her though. Brooke kept on eating,
Speaker 2: holding eye contact with that dude the entire time.
Speaker 4: Okay, I can usually go along with these, but that
Speaker 4: one is too far eat the potato salad.
Speaker 3: I would then steal his food and eat whatever.
Speaker 2: I'm not sure if our listener, Marshall has quite the
Speaker 2: same resilience as Brooke does. Let's find out, though, Marshall,
Speaker 2: Welcome to the show man.
Speaker 5: Hey, how go one doing?
Speaker 3: It sounds like better than you.
Speaker 4: It sounds like you had something terrible happened on your date.
Speaker 1: We don't know how terrible. Before before we get to them,
Speaker 1: you're set up.
Speaker 3: Maybe it feel awful.
Speaker 2: Bird poop doesn't sound that horrible on your food.
Speaker 1: I don't know.
Speaker 2: But before we get to the crazy whateverthing that happened
Speaker 2: that derailed the date.
Speaker 1: Let's start with the girl that you met. Who's she?
Speaker 5: Yes, so, her name is Julia. We met online. She's
Speaker 5: super cute, okay.
Speaker 4: Was there something about her that stood out from everybody else?
Speaker 5: Well, other than her beautiful smile and beautiful hair. Of course,
Speaker 5: she had this beautiful dragon tattoo on her shoulder, and like,
Speaker 5: you know, I'm really into like tattoos, and it was
Speaker 5: it was super hot and just it was it was
Speaker 5: just beautiful. It was beautiful.
Speaker 3: That's awesome.
Speaker 1: That's a good like conversation point to come up on it.
Speaker 4: I mean, people are so proud of their tattoos. I
Speaker 4: bet she would love to have a compliment about it.
Speaker 2: Some girls get annoyed because guys always say the same thing, I.
Speaker 1: Like your tattoo, Did it hurt? You know?
Speaker 4: I don't think that's when you ask what the meaning is?
Speaker 4: That should? Alexis hates meanings. I was drunk, Okay, it's
Speaker 4: a lot of Yeah.
Speaker 2: Okay, Well, at least the initial attraction was there for you.
Speaker 2: What did you and Julia do for your date?
Speaker 5: Well? I wanted to do something different, right, So I
Speaker 5: didn't want to be like every other guy. That was
Speaker 5: hitting her up online. So I was like, well, let's
Speaker 5: do something somewhat romantic and get the city scooters and
Speaker 5: right around the city. I love. That are some of
Speaker 5: my favorite spots.
Speaker 4: Yeah, like you know, like the scooters that are you
Speaker 4: can like use your app on and yeah, my husband
Speaker 4: and I do that.
Speaker 1: Sometimes that doesn't bode well for you.
Speaker 3: Oh no, we bring helmets though, because there.
Speaker 4: Are a lot of people you don't not worried helmets
Speaker 4: and I've never seen someone wear helmet on. Oh I
Speaker 4: definitely do you go twenty twenty five miles an hour.
Speaker 1: Alexis y did you? Did you go helmets or no helmets?
Speaker 5: Marshall, No helmets, No, all right, But you know it's
Speaker 5: funny that you say that because everything was going well.
Speaker 5: We got ice cream, we got coffee and everything. But
Speaker 5: then we're at a crosswalk and this woman comes up.
Speaker 5: She says, like, you know, she's an r doctor, and
Speaker 5: she's like, listen, I've been doing this for over twenty
Speaker 5: years and most of the injuries I've seen have come
Speaker 5: from those scooters right there.
Speaker 1: Oh, oh my god, was right.
Speaker 2: That sucks though, well, like what a mood killer to
Speaker 2: happen in the middle of you.
Speaker 1: Yeah, did you walk off and walk the scooter?
Speaker 5: So you're saying, well, you know, I'm sitting there and
Speaker 5: I'm like, come on, lady, I'm obviously on a date here,
Speaker 5: so you know, I kind of laugh at off. Okay,
Speaker 5: and so I'm like, let me get out of this
Speaker 5: situation as quick as possible.
Speaker 3: So great injuries.
Speaker 5: As I was pulling away, you wouldn't believe it. I
Speaker 5: ran over this lady's foot.
Speaker 1: The irony.
Speaker 5: I felt horrible, and she's yelling even louder.
Speaker 1: You got a gun it and get away from the screens.
Speaker 5: After that point, I was like, I just want to
Speaker 5: be as far away from this lady as possible. She
Speaker 5: was okay. I took the tongue lashing, and I'm like,
Speaker 5: all right, let's just go. And Julie's not really wanting
Speaker 5: to ride these scooters anymore.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, weird.
Speaker 3: Time to park up?
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean, did you guys just find a bar
Speaker 4: or something or a restaurant to go to?
Speaker 5: Yeah? Actually we did. I was like, let's just go
Speaker 5: over here. This is a nice spot. We got a
Speaker 5: couple of drinks and it's good everything.
Speaker 3: Yeah, you read what she wanted right like that, I
Speaker 3: mean it's good.
Speaker 1: Like some people will be like, let's.
Speaker 4: Just keep going and ignore the other person's feelings.
Speaker 3: Why are you laughing every time?
Speaker 1: It's like any drink comes into playbooks.
Speaker 2: Like Okay, good god, thank god, I means dangerous heavy drinking, thumbs.
Speaker 3: Up, a good helmet. Yeah, I wear a helmet to
Speaker 3: whine night.
Speaker 5: No.
Speaker 4: I mean it's good that you read what she you
Speaker 4: wanted and needed and.
Speaker 1: Salvage I mean, did you salvage it from that point?
Speaker 1: Did it feel good from that point on?
Speaker 5: Well? I thought so. I mean we had a great time.
Speaker 5: Did we shared it, laughed, we got a couple of
Speaker 5: drinks and everything was fine. But well, I've been trying
Speaker 5: to get in contact with her and have another date
Speaker 5: for the last two weeks and she's just always had
Speaker 5: some other excuse, you know. And she even told me
Speaker 5: that she's been going out on dates, which is cool,
Speaker 5: don't get me wrong. Like I get it.
Speaker 4: She's say that, do you say that to each other?
Speaker 3: Don't want to go out with them.
Speaker 1: She's telling you, I'm seeing other guys. I can't meet
Speaker 1: up with you.
Speaker 4: I got a date Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday, Friday, Saturday.
Speaker 5: Well she did say, let's pick another night, but it
Speaker 5: just seems like every night I picked, there's always something Okay, yeah.
Speaker 4: Okay, she was just saying that because she felt bad
Speaker 4: about that whole being real honest, you know it is not, though.
Speaker 2: But it might be a good sign that she's being
Speaker 2: totally transparent on you what's going.
Speaker 1: On in her life.
Speaker 2: But also it's hard to reject people, so maybe she's
Speaker 2: hoping he figures it out.
Speaker 3: Like, how about we just find out we need to
Speaker 3: figure it out.
Speaker 2: Yeah, we're all gonna have helmets before we make the calls,
Speaker 2: just because we don't know what disaster might be waiting
Speaker 2: on the other end.
Speaker 1: Always has five in her car.
Speaker 4: Seriously, you should wear a helmet on those.
Speaker 3: Things, all right.
Speaker 2: Second Dates an extra safe edition of your second Date update.
Speaker 1: Right after this Second Date Update. Oh, can you guys
Speaker 1: picture it right now?
Speaker 3: Picture what?
Speaker 2: This is the background music I have in my head
Speaker 2: as Marshall navigates through the busy city sidewalks, cruising three
Speaker 2: miles per hour without a helmet on.
Speaker 1: Well, it's like Frogger, Oh.
Speaker 2: Dodge the fire hydrant, Marshall, jump the manhole.
Speaker 4: It's all funny games until somebody gets hurt.
Speaker 2: That's right, because he's an adrenaline junkie riding without a
Speaker 2: helmet on. That's probably why he called into the show
Speaker 2: this morning, just for the high of being on the.
Speaker 1: Radio coming up, Isn't that John Marshall?
Speaker 2: You got your adrenaline fixed just talking to us, didn't you?
Speaker 5: Yeah?
Speaker 1: I did, yeah, right through you.
Speaker 4: This sounds like the theme song of an eighties like
Speaker 4: video game.
Speaker 1: But we've all been there, the dangerous streets.
Speaker 2: But the worst part of the date was when Marshall
Speaker 2: accidentally ran over a lady's foot who warned him that
Speaker 2: scooters are very dangerous. Ended up causing a lot of
Speaker 2: er visits, and of course it ended up happening during
Speaker 2: his date.
Speaker 1: Brooke is upset he wasn't wearing a helmet.
Speaker 4: Well, that's not about me, I mean, it's about his date.
Speaker 4: Like he was able to rescue the night they went out,
Speaker 4: got some drinks, calm down.
Speaker 1: At least we thought he rescued it.
Speaker 2: But it's been two weeks and she still hasn't agreed
Speaker 2: to another date. Even told him that she's seeing another
Speaker 2: guy on one of the nights. Kind Of harsh, but
Speaker 2: but honest, brutally honest.
Speaker 1: And maybe that's a good sign. Marsh You ready to
Speaker 1: call her here?
Speaker 5: Yeah? Yeah, hopefully we can get to the bottom of this.
Speaker 4: I mean, you don't sound like a dangerous guy, so
Speaker 4: I think that it's probably not the scooter mishap.
Speaker 1: That's what they say about all the most dangerous people
Speaker 1: in the world.
Speaker 2: I never would have suspected you to be the killer nice.
Speaker 5: Killer.
Speaker 1: All right, mars let's just do this. I'm gonna call
Speaker 1: Julia for you. Here we go. Hello, Hey, is this Julia? Yes,
Speaker 1: you may have we are question.
Speaker 6: We're a radio number.
Speaker 2: Yeah, we have to protect our number because we're a
Speaker 2: radio show.
Speaker 6: Okay, what is this about?
Speaker 2: This is about a segment we do on Brooke and
Speaker 2: Jam Free in the morning. That's what this show is.
Speaker 2: It's called second Date Update.
Speaker 1: Okay.
Speaker 5: And who is it you're looking.
Speaker 1: For for you?
Speaker 3: Yes, will start me.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 1: We heard about you through one of our listeners named
Speaker 1: Marshall that apparently you went on a date with a
Speaker 1: couple of weeks ago.
Speaker 6: Oh Marshall, yeap, Oh.
Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, I think that sounded good.
Speaker 1: There was a smile on her face when she said
Speaker 1: his name.
Speaker 6: Sure, Why would he have the radio calling me?
Speaker 5: Though?
Speaker 6: It's just a little confusing because he has my numbers. Yeah, well,
Speaker 6: pilling up.
Speaker 2: He's been using that number to try and ask you out,
Speaker 2: but you keep brushing him off or being busy.
Speaker 3: Or maybe you're not brushing him off. He doesn't know.
Speaker 3: He felt like, maybe.
Speaker 1: That's why, maybe you don't like him that much.
Speaker 2: That's why he's going through us. He's trying to get
Speaker 2: some clarity, you know.
Speaker 6: It just how do I explain this? And there's nothing
Speaker 6: wrong with him per se, But I'm looking for a
Speaker 6: partner in life. I want my ride or.
Speaker 2: Die because we heard you get road city scooters.
Speaker 6: Oh my goodness, teachers.
Speaker 2: Yeah, apparently this is the background music that was playing
Speaker 2: the entire time because you two are rebels who ride
Speaker 2: without helmets off.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 4: I mean it's it's really honestly, ride or die in
Speaker 4: that situation, because you should be protecting your head.
Speaker 6: No, absolutely, Honestly, it didn't occur to me until after
Speaker 6: that woman, like she's sort of a cost to us,
Speaker 6: but I didn't really think about it.
Speaker 2: Yeah, we heard there was an old lady that like
Speaker 2: approached you and said riding scooters causes a lot of
Speaker 2: er business.
Speaker 3: I think she's an er doctor.
Speaker 6: She could have maybe been like a little more pleasant
Speaker 6: about it. She's sort of just like started shouting at us.
Speaker 6: And I think Marshall handle it all right. He got
Speaker 6: a little panicky.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it sounds fun.
Speaker 2: Though, and I think Marshall even admitted that it was
Speaker 2: kind of an awkward moment in the date. But overall,
Speaker 2: when you look at Marshall as a person, we're not
Speaker 2: sure why you wouldn't want to see him one more time.
Speaker 6: It's not that I don't want to see him. He's
Speaker 6: not like giving me like that wow factor at least,
Speaker 6: you know, not in a good way. Like I mean, yeah,
Speaker 6: he's texted me, but has he called me, you know,
Speaker 6: voiced the voice and asked.
Speaker 5: Me out again?
Speaker 3: A lot of people don't like that these days.
Speaker 6: You're looking for hasn't like called me or like texted
Speaker 6: been like let's do this at this time on this date.
Speaker 6: He's just like, Hey, I had a good time, and
Speaker 6: I'm like that's nice, But a lot.
Speaker 5: Of guys have had a good time with me.
Speaker 6: I'm looking for the guy that's going to put that
Speaker 6: extra effort into it and make me feel like I'm
Speaker 6: one in a million.
Speaker 2: What if he's not trying to come off like super though,
Speaker 2: Like what if he just wants to have a conversation
Speaker 2: throughout the day and then naturally bring up a date.
Speaker 1: You know, Yeah, I think he's trying to be respectful
Speaker 1: of you.
Speaker 4: It is, That's what I was trying to sound really
Speaker 4: good to me.
Speaker 6: A text is nothing. I want flowers. I want gestures.
Speaker 4: So you're no, No, she's saying that she needs more.
Speaker 3: She knows that he likes.
Speaker 4: Her, but.
Speaker 3: Gesture in life.
Speaker 4: She's looking for somebody who's going to put the work in.
Speaker 5: Absolutely So.
Speaker 6: I mean, if you guys could actually just let him
Speaker 6: know that I'm not interested, that would be okay.
Speaker 4: So you know what you want and you don't think it's.
Speaker 2: Marshall, Yeah, if you want us to tell him no,
Speaker 2: we could, or honestly, you could just do it yourself.
Speaker 1: Because he's actually on the phone right now.
Speaker 6: What I didn't want to do.
Speaker 1: You're laughing and smiling.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but he's finally on the phone. Remember that's what
Speaker 3: you wanted.
Speaker 5: Marcia there, man, hey, Julia, Sorry, this is a little awkward.
Speaker 5: I apologized about that.
Speaker 2: Marsh I don't know if you heard all that, but
Speaker 2: she's trying to tell you that she's not that interested
Speaker 2: and it's probably not going to happen.
Speaker 5: You know what. That's okay, I got the clarity that
Speaker 5: I needed.
Speaker 3: Just gonna give up.
Speaker 5: I appreciate you being honest. Wait seriously, well, I mean
Speaker 5: I texted you and.
Speaker 6: Oh everybody texted me? Are you kidding me? I'm not
Speaker 6: should be a jerk here, but like you went through
Speaker 6: all this trouble and you like you have me on
Speaker 6: the radio and everything, and I'm like, oh, no thing,
Speaker 6: and you're just like, hey bye, Like, where's the gesture.
Speaker 1: He's listening to what you're saying.
Speaker 6: He's listening to me saying he's a great guy. He's
Speaker 6: not showing up enthusiast. I'm like, what's it's fine?
Speaker 2: Situations we don't take no for an answer. Is not
Speaker 2: an acceptable thing anymore. I guess yeah, that's not allowed.
Speaker 2: Girls like never call me again. You go, okay, I'll
Speaker 2: respect that, And she's like, oh.
Speaker 3: Sometimes, I mean it, sometimes we need it.
Speaker 6: I didn't say never call me again. I said, oh,
Speaker 6: he's really really sweet, but I'm not that interested. That's
Speaker 6: like a far cry from never call me again.
Speaker 1: I say, Marshall, I want him to call you even
Speaker 1: though you're not interested.
Speaker 4: Marshall, I'm just kind of surprised that you're not putting
Speaker 4: up more of a fight either.
Speaker 5: Okay, well, you know what. I'm sorry. I guess I
Speaker 5: was just trying to fill out the situation. I didn't
Speaker 5: want to bother you, but I really wanted to see
Speaker 5: you again. So do you want to go out with me?
Speaker 5: I would love to take you out again.
Speaker 6: Oh man, I appreciate the offer, but I'm really I'm
Speaker 6: not interested.
Speaker 4: You just set him off to turn him down? Are
Speaker 4: you kidding?
Speaker 3: Mom?
Speaker 4: Give him a chance like he was the extra miles,
Speaker 4: He planned a unique date.
Speaker 1: You don't want a chance with this girl, bro, Julie.
Speaker 5: I'm sorry about the scooters. We can wear helmet, you
Speaker 5: can do whatever you want. We can go to a bar.
Speaker 6: Marshall, Oh my god, just stop seriously, I've already said no,
Speaker 6: you're embarrassing yourself.
Speaker 1: Oh that's what you want?
Speaker 6: Oh God, you probably don't understand how any of this
Speaker 6: It's only like eight notes.
Speaker 1: Yeah, how many notes does it take?
Speaker 6: I said no to a guy like fifteen to twenty
Speaker 6: times before?
Speaker 5: I yet like, this guy's still got a way to go.
Speaker 1: Oh god, I.
Speaker 4: Think you're just gonna end up attracting red flag men
Speaker 4: that man.
Speaker 1: From here on out, Guys, do we just forever ask
Speaker 1: girls out take?
Speaker 2: Well, we have to at least ask one more time.
Speaker 2: I'm officially for the rules. Julia, would you like to
Speaker 2: go out with Marshall again? One more time? We would
Speaker 2: pay for it.
Speaker 1: We have to. We have to get the no.
Speaker 6: I think he's so sweet, but I know.
Speaker 1: You like to go out with Marshall one more time?
Speaker 4: You pay?
Speaker 2: Okay up, all right, that's too much.
Speaker 6: Just knock that into him.
Speaker 4: Okay, that's that's what could have said that.
Speaker 3: We could have just ended it as soon as we
Speaker 3: got Marshall.
Speaker 4: Sorry, Marshall, Marshall.
Speaker 5: It's okay. I guess I wish I would have know
Speaker 5: him sooner. But I mean I wish you the best.
Speaker 1: Text word that would like your number. Just so, I
Speaker 1: have a feeling that we're not done with Marshall yet.
Speaker 2: We're gonna have to do seven more second data.
Speaker 1: We'll eventually get her to say yes. One of these days, Bro,
Speaker 1: you'll teach him.
Speaker 2: Roller on the city by himself, fading off into the
Speaker 2: sunset at a brisk four miles per hour.
Speaker 1: One day you'll come back get that date, buddy. All right,
Speaker 1: all right, I.
Speaker 5: Appreciate you guys rooking Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 1: Man.
Speaker 2: That really was just like an old school arcade game
Speaker 2: Sidewalk Scooter X, and we tried to help Marshall beat
Speaker 2: that final boss level and get him a second date.
Speaker 4: Wait, you're making her the big monster at the end
Speaker 4: of the video. Is that what you're doing?
Speaker 1: She's like the gorilla, that's like. But we tried and
Speaker 1: tried until he ran out of live.
Speaker 2: He muses he can always pop in another quarter and
Speaker 2: try again eventually beat that game. I guess I would
Speaker 2: ask people to text in to seven eighty five nine two.
Speaker 1: Should Marshall keep trying to get another date?
Speaker 2: But I know ninety nine percent are gonna say no, No.
Speaker 4: It's like she was saying what she wants it, and
Speaker 4: then when he gave it to her, then she didn't
Speaker 4: want it anymore. I think she I think she just
Speaker 4: didn't want him, you know what I mean?
Speaker 3: Like, I think I think she could have had him.
Speaker 2: I think in general, I'm just gonna speak for all
Speaker 2: of the people out there, for all the women listening,
Speaker 2: and Brooke would agree.
Speaker 1: With me on this.
Speaker 4: We wouldn't continue whatever you're about.
Speaker 2: Ladies, if you have certain rules and expectations about dating you,
Speaker 2: please let us know what they are.
Speaker 5: All.
Speaker 1: Okay, guess what it is you want and don't want.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm sure if you guess right, you move up
Speaker 4: in the rain.
Speaker 3: It's I'm actually with jeff on that one.
Speaker 4: I mean, like a little handbook for everyone men and
Speaker 4: women would be really nice.
Speaker 2: But even if you don't know what you want, you
Speaker 2: can always email us. We'll call that person who wasn't
Speaker 2: calling you back. Go check out all of our second
Speaker 2: day podcast wherever you get yours at Brook and
Speaker 4: Jeffrey Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning