WEBVTT - SUNDAY SAMPLER - The Nashville Podcast Network (9-8-24)

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<v Speaker 1>Hey guys, Sunday Sampler time.

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<v Speaker 2>We're giving you some highlights from some of the Nashville

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<v Speaker 2>Podcast Network podcasts, and also there are really no new

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<v Speaker 2>podcast today anyway, because it's Sunday. You're gonna like the Bobbycast.

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<v Speaker 2>I sat down with a really prolific, very famous he's

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<v Speaker 2>killing her right now songwriter and producer who did the

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<v Speaker 2>Morgan wall and stuff a bunch of that the post

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<v Speaker 2>Malone record in the vet's office with doctor Josie. She

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<v Speaker 2>talked to an er vet, which is crazy. On Take

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<v Speaker 2>This Personally, which is Morgan's podcast, Morgan's good friend and

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<v Speaker 2>country artist Julia Cole came by and they talked about heartbreak.

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<v Speaker 2>Julia lets people in under broken off engagement. For the

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<v Speaker 2>first time, Morgan talked about her breakup, so let's start

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<v Speaker 2>with that. Here's a clip of this week's episode of

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<v Speaker 2>Take This Personally.

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<v Speaker 3>Personal Jewels.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm dubbing this the heartbreak episode because I have known

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<v Speaker 4>Julia my entire Nashville life. She was one of my

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<v Speaker 4>very first friends here. You guys may know miss Julia

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<v Speaker 4>Cole as a very famous artist in Nashville, has lots

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<v Speaker 4>of followings on TikTok and Instagram and viral videos and

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<v Speaker 4>she's just a giant star. But she's my good friend

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<v Speaker 4>and all I know her as is Julia. And the

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<v Speaker 4>crazy thing though for Julian and I is we've both

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<v Speaker 4>seen each other through some really really tough relationships.

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, we've had to milk some some heartbreaks and have

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<v Speaker 5>some girls' nights out to solve art problems. So I've

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<v Speaker 5>had a lot of conversations with people after this in

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<v Speaker 5>this past year, and I've had people telling me that

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<v Speaker 5>you're you're supposed to date multiple people. Obviously you're not

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<v Speaker 5>going to a certain level here. This is like going

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<v Speaker 5>to dinners, going to coffees like you're supposed to, you know,

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<v Speaker 5>meet different people until you've decided that you really really

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<v Speaker 5>like someone.

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<v Speaker 6>I've never in my.

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<v Speaker 5>Life felt like I could do that because it felt

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<v Speaker 5>like like loyalty is something so important to me and

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<v Speaker 5>so so special that it was like, oh, well, if

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<v Speaker 5>I'm even texting this person, I should probably not be

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<v Speaker 5>texting anybody else.

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<v Speaker 1>And that is like, I.

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<v Speaker 5>Mean, I honestly like to know people's opinions on that

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<v Speaker 5>and your opinion on that, because I really don't know,

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<v Speaker 5>like what's the standard this is not. This isn't courting

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<v Speaker 5>like it was back in our grandparents' day and age,

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<v Speaker 5>where you date you know ten different people at once

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<v Speaker 5>and then like all of a sudden, one would just

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<v Speaker 5>like propose and you get married.

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<v Speaker 4>I have multiple things on this one. I don't think

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<v Speaker 4>it's a bad thing that you want to be fiercely loyal.

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<v Speaker 7>I have that in me.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm going to date somebody and I'm going to do

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<v Speaker 4>everything in my power to make sure that that person

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<v Speaker 4>feels all of that loyalty all the time. Yeah, and

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<v Speaker 4>I've never cheated on anybody. I don't have that capability

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<v Speaker 4>in my bone.

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<v Speaker 5>It doesn't make much sense, does it.

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<v Speaker 8>No, Like just breaking it will never I don't understand it.

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<v Speaker 1>I just literally just break up the person on the date.

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<v Speaker 1>Just call me and say hate it's over. I'd be like, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna crime about.

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<v Speaker 7>Like math like whatever.

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<v Speaker 9>Stupid.

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<v Speaker 4>But I do think dating people is important. I have

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<v Speaker 4>gone on so many dates in my life, and I'm

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<v Speaker 4>not talking like even third, fourth, fifth dates. I'm talking

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<v Speaker 4>about first, second, third, dates. I've been on so many

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<v Speaker 4>because I wanted to learn what I wanted. And this

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<v Speaker 4>is a really interesting thing that got like brought up

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<v Speaker 4>that will that will spiral into this. I learned so

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<v Speaker 4>much about myself by dating other people of different cultures,

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<v Speaker 4>of different religions, of different backgrounds, of different upbrings.

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<v Speaker 7>I learned so many.

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<v Speaker 4>Things of what I wanted, what I didn't want, and

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<v Speaker 4>I could narrow that down so heavily that that's why

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<v Speaker 4>it's so hard for me now to date, because I

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<v Speaker 4>know fiercely what I want. All of those multiple dates

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<v Speaker 4>of saying my favorite color, and walking through the small

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<v Speaker 4>talk and saying yes.

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<v Speaker 7>I'm very where'd you go to college?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, let's go through them a million times over, and

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<v Speaker 4>as much as they sucked, and I hated getting dressed

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<v Speaker 4>up and I hated getting ready just to have something fail.

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<v Speaker 5>Maybe again, maybe be nice, maybe be a waste of

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<v Speaker 5>your two hours.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah I did.

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<v Speaker 4>I did kind of change my mentality when I was dating,

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<v Speaker 4>probably my mid twenties, where I was like, I'm doing everything.

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<v Speaker 8>For the plot.

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<v Speaker 4>My whole life became I'm doing it for the plot.

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<v Speaker 4>Because I genuinely could not go on dates and like

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<v Speaker 4>not think I was getting punked by Ashton Kutcher. There

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<v Speaker 4>were moments where I was like, this isn't real there's

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<v Speaker 4>no way. But it was so when I would leave

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<v Speaker 4>those I'd be like, I did it for the plot.

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<v Speaker 4>Great story, great story.

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<v Speaker 10>Never again.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, but I learned so much about who I was.

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<v Speaker 4>And it's funny because I had this conversation with.

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<v Speaker 8>My sister on the phone.

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<v Speaker 4>I said, I'm so tired of being these men lessons

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<v Speaker 4>and I'm the heartbreak. Yeah, Like, why am I the

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<v Speaker 4>one who I took all the time. I didn't hurt anybody,

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<v Speaker 4>and I took all the time to figure out stuff

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<v Speaker 4>about myself. But these men come in relationships with me

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<v Speaker 4>and I have to be the one how they get

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<v Speaker 4>their lesson. I'm this emotional punching bag for them to just.

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<v Speaker 7>Figure things out.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>I think we go into relationships this day and age

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<v Speaker 4>so carelessly.

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<v Speaker 7>I think dating stops that.

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<v Speaker 4>I think going on dates casually stops you from going

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<v Speaker 4>in half hearted or not knowing what you want. Like

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<v Speaker 4>when all those people were saying you should love yourself

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<v Speaker 4>before you're in a relationship, I think we almost had

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<v Speaker 4>it right because I think you can love yourself in

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<v Speaker 4>a relationship. I think you can learn self love with

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<v Speaker 4>friends with a partner. I don't know that you nessa

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<v Speaker 4>I need to be completed in self love to be

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<v Speaker 4>in a relationship.

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<v Speaker 7>I think you need to know yourself.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh yeah, fundamentally, yes, your non negotiables, your boundaries, what

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<v Speaker 4>you stand for, who you are as a human being, because.

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<v Speaker 9>So many people don't.

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<v Speaker 5>I think you have to grow up a little bit

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<v Speaker 5>to know all of that. Yeah, And I'm seeing a

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<v Speaker 5>lot of people, you know, dive in super young. I'm

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<v Speaker 5>from the South, I'm from Texas. Like, I know a

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<v Speaker 5>lot of people who got married super young, and it's

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<v Speaker 5>like I am not the same person that I was

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<v Speaker 5>even two years ago.

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<v Speaker 1>You're listening to in the VETS office with doctor Josie Hrschak.

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<v Speaker 6>Now, I figured we can really dive into all things wellness.

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<v Speaker 6>I want to keep it simple but still feel like

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<v Speaker 6>people get informed. And so I thought we would be

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<v Speaker 6>good to like break it down into two sections. So

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<v Speaker 6>I figure the first section, we can just talk about vaccines, Like,

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<v Speaker 6>what in the heck are these vaccines that are being

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<v Speaker 6>recommended to me? I feel like we just come in

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<v Speaker 6>and we're like they're due for X, Y and Z,

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<v Speaker 6>and people are just like okay, yeah, like you say,

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<v Speaker 6>so let's do it. But I feel like it's good

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<v Speaker 6>to understand why your pet is getting these vaccinations. So

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<v Speaker 6>the first, the big one, the big shebang, the like

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<v Speaker 6>non negotiable for me, is the raby's vaccine.

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<v Speaker 10>Definitely. I think most of our clients, if they're going

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<v Speaker 10>to know any vaccine, it's going to be the rabies vaccine.

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<v Speaker 8>Yes.

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<v Speaker 6>And the thing for me is that I didn't realize

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<v Speaker 6>really until I got to VET school. Was like, rabies

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<v Speaker 6>is real. You hear about it and you're like, we

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<v Speaker 6>don't see that anymore, Like that's from like old Yeller,

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<v Speaker 6>like a decade ago, but like it's real. We just

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<v Speaker 6>had a case here in Tennessee. And if you contract

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<v Speaker 6>rabies as a human and you don't get treated right away,

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<v Speaker 6>like you will die. There is not a cure, and

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<v Speaker 6>we see it.

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<v Speaker 10>Yeah, I saw a case of rabies in the er

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<v Speaker 10>when I was working there.

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<v Speaker 6>That's terrifying.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, terrifying.

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<v Speaker 10>And I also think I guess I didn't really understand

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<v Speaker 10>this until I was like practicing in general practice too.

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<v Speaker 10>But like, this vaccine is required by the state. Yes,

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<v Speaker 10>I don't think it's required by all states, but in Tennessee,

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<v Speaker 10>it is required for you to vaccinate your dog or

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<v Speaker 10>your cat by six months of age. Yeah, and if

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<v Speaker 10>you don't and they find out it's a class cy misdemeanor,

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<v Speaker 10>I don't know that either.

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<v Speaker 7>So yeah, it's the law.

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<v Speaker 6>It's the law. It's really important. It's a public health risk.

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<v Speaker 6>And if you don't do it, like we kind of

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<v Speaker 6>have to look like the bad guys. We were like, Okay,

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<v Speaker 6>you don't have to. We can't force you into it,

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<v Speaker 6>but you have to understand the ramifications of it, and

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<v Speaker 6>you have to like sign a document. So it's a

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<v Speaker 6>big deal. What was the case that you saw in

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<v Speaker 6>the er that had rabies? It was actually rabies.

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<v Speaker 10>Was not at the top of anyone's list thinking this

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<v Speaker 10>dog had rabies because again, no one actually understands that

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<v Speaker 10>it's real.

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<v Speaker 7>This dog came in for.

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<v Speaker 10>Seizures and it was just neurological and in the er,

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<v Speaker 10>like we saw seizures once a day. Yeah, so having

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<v Speaker 10>a dog come in for seizures is not abnormal. So

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<v Speaker 10>we kind of just went through the normal protocol of

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<v Speaker 10>getting the dog hospitalized, getting them started on seizure meds,

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<v Speaker 10>and along the line, a lot of people came in

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<v Speaker 10>contact with this dog and the dog just wasn't responding

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<v Speaker 10>to any of the seizure meds, which is unusual, especially

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<v Speaker 10>for a dog presenting for seizures right the first time.

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<v Speaker 10>So the neurology service ended up getting involved, and the

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<v Speaker 10>only way to test for rabies, unfortunately in dogs, is

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<v Speaker 10>by testing a piece of their brain tissue, and so

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<v Speaker 10>oftentimes we don't get a diagnosis until they're already deceased.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, just for all of you out there, like, I know,

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<v Speaker 6>this is gruesome, but the reality is, like we have

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<v Speaker 6>to cut their head off and send it into the lab.

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<v Speaker 6>That's how we test for it. So it's not an

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<v Speaker 6>easy test. And if there is any suspicion that your

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<v Speaker 6>pet has rabies, like that's the way we test for it,

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<v Speaker 6>So even more reason to get them vaccinated.

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<v Speaker 11>Right.

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<v Speaker 10>So this dog ended up being hospitalized for a while,

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<v Speaker 10>coming into contact with a lot of different staff members,

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<v Speaker 10>and then it ended up I think being euthanized because

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<v Speaker 10>it wasn't responding. And then we found out later that

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<v Speaker 10>she wasn't up to date on her rabies vaccine and

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<v Speaker 10>so she was sent for testing, came back positive, and

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<v Speaker 10>anyone who was in contact with her had to get

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<v Speaker 10>the rabies prophylaxis vaccine treatment, which is intense and expensive,

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<v Speaker 10>very expensive.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, I don't think your insurance covers that.

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<v Speaker 10>So very scary, very scary, because I mean, just coming

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<v Speaker 10>into contact with the saliva of a dog who's seizing

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<v Speaker 10>is very easy, very easy. And Rabi's is transmitted most

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<v Speaker 10>commonly through bites but through body leaf fluids.

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<v Speaker 6>So very very scary, very real. Another thing I hear

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<v Speaker 6>owners say is, oh, well, my dog doesn't really go outside,

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<v Speaker 6>and you just had a case or someone in the

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<v Speaker 6>hospital had a case last week of a cat having

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<v Speaker 6>a bat in its mouth. Yep, that got in the house.

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<v Speaker 10>It wasn't my case, but yeah, indoor only cat. So

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<v Speaker 10>most people would be like, why do I need a

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<v Speaker 10>vaccine my indoor only cat for rabies? But the family

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<v Speaker 10>I guess saw the cat with a live bat in

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<v Speaker 10>its mouth.

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<v Speaker 6>He's like running by, like hey, guys, like what I got?

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<v Speaker 10>And bats are the number one having.

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<v Speaker 6>Carrier of rabies.

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<v Speaker 10>So that cat had to come into the hospital and

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<v Speaker 10>get boosted for its Raby's vaccine, even though it was

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<v Speaker 10>up to date. We boosted them early and then yeah,

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<v Speaker 10>not only for the safety of the pets, but like

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<v Speaker 10>if you have kids in your home, and your cat

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<v Speaker 10>gets raby.

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<v Speaker 6>He's like, you know, it's trouble.

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<v Speaker 10>Yeah, you got to vaccinate them so that we can

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<v Speaker 10>be protected as well, because vaccination against rabies and people

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<v Speaker 10>is not common.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I found them to be very sweet. I think

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<v Speaker 2>that's a great word. Like I think I've had three

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<v Speaker 2>occasions where I've spent more than three minutes with them. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>and very like sweet and kind feeling. And he felt

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<v Speaker 2>like he was sensitive to what I wanted to talk

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<v Speaker 2>about or And I did not expect that from somebody

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<v Speaker 2>who was it didn't matter who it was, but somebody

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<v Speaker 2>was just so wildly famous.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, having been around other people that are famous,

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<v Speaker 2>it's usually not that way. A lot of times you'll

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<v Speaker 2>know this better than anyone. People that are wildly famous

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<v Speaker 2>are they're that way because they demand all the attention.

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<v Speaker 2>It's very much a me centric world in the world

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<v Speaker 2>of entertainment. But I did not that any time that

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<v Speaker 2>I was with him, I did not find that at all. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>which was extremely different than what I was used to do.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I would say he kind of stuck with that too.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean he's the same and he, you know, is

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<v Speaker 3>just like conscious of the people around him and you know,

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<v Speaker 3>obviously a big yes ma'am, yes sair to everybody, making

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<v Speaker 3>sure you know. He'll also sign more autographs than most people,

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<v Speaker 3>Like he'll sit there and do it for everybody, Whereas

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<v Speaker 3>it's like, you know, I've been with a lot of

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<v Speaker 3>artists who you know, you got to leave, you gotta

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<v Speaker 3>go to the next thing, which is not even anything

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<v Speaker 3>bad on them, they're actually busy.

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<v Speaker 2>He came and played the Rhyman Show with me. Was

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<v Speaker 2>super cool, and he stayed longer than any other artist.

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<v Speaker 2>He took pictures with every person, and I posted about

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<v Speaker 2>it and I was like, and a little bit it

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<v Speaker 2>was to some of these guys that won't do anything.

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<v Speaker 2>It's like, you got a guy that's twenty x famous

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<v Speaker 2>than you. Yeah, and he spent time with every single

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<v Speaker 2>person that has stayed back to say hello and again

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<v Speaker 2>I found that to be super cool. I'm assuming you

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<v Speaker 2>guys still work well together. I mean, you're doing the

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<v Speaker 2>record as we talk. It's not out yet, but by

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<v Speaker 2>the time this is hurt, it is out. And so

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<v Speaker 2>how long how many years have you guys worked together?

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<v Speaker 10>Now?

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<v Speaker 2>A long time?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, technically a long time. We definitely spend some time

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<v Speaker 3>not working together as well, got it, but that'd being

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<v Speaker 3>the case.

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<v Speaker 2>How long have you been known?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, we started working. We probably did our first song

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<v Speaker 3>either late twenty fourteen or early twenty fifteen.

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<v Speaker 1>Ten years. Yeah, that's crazy.

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<v Speaker 3>So twenty fifteen, we were like locked in really doing

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<v Speaker 3>a lot of stuff. You know, technically, I don't know

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<v Speaker 3>where it says it. I guess you got to buy

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<v Speaker 3>the physical copy of his first album. Technically I'm an

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<v Speaker 3>executive producer on that album. I don't really do all

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<v Speaker 3>the work necessary necessary, like toy executive producer. But that

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<v Speaker 3>was kind of where we were locked in on his

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<v Speaker 3>first album. And then you know, kind of went separate

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<v Speaker 3>ways for a little bit, and then you know, I

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<v Speaker 3>caught I think I put a song on his album

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<v Speaker 3>two albums ago. It was a random song that I

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<v Speaker 3>sent them, you know, But we weren't you know, we

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<v Speaker 3>weren't actually working as much. I was living in Nashville

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<v Speaker 3>doing my thing. He was doing his thing. And then

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<v Speaker 3>we had talked about doing the country album back in

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<v Speaker 3>twenty fifteen, and you know, I go back and forth

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<v Speaker 3>on Power Manifestation Ship, but we did say album six.

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<v Speaker 3>That was the conversation where like your sixth album could

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<v Speaker 3>be country and you could do a pull a reverse

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<v Speaker 3>Taylor Swift and like be the biggest pop star and

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<v Speaker 3>then do a country album. So when he asked me

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<v Speaker 3>to do this album, it was cool because I was

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<v Speaker 3>just like, wait a minute, how many albums have you had?

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<v Speaker 3>He's like five. I was like, shit, you know, so.

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<v Speaker 2>What do you mean you go back and forth on

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<v Speaker 2>the manifestation? Oh, what are your two areas you live in?

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<v Speaker 3>No, just some of it doesn't really make sense. I

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<v Speaker 3>understand that if you're saying something thinking about it, you'll

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<v Speaker 3>actively start making moves towards it, But some of it's

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<v Speaker 3>just kind of ridiculous, like it and it feels like

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<v Speaker 3>it shouldn't be real.

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<v Speaker 2>But it might be.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, but it might be. And that's why I don't like.

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<v Speaker 3>Then I get into these weird who's got stronger manifestation?

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<v Speaker 3>If we're both manifesting the opposite. I started looking at that.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and I think that too, like if two people

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<v Speaker 2>are praying opposite things, yeah, even in that way, like

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<v Speaker 2>who wins?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah. It's like so sometimes like someone will say something

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<v Speaker 3>to me and I'll be like, yo, like you know,

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<v Speaker 3>take that back. You don't say that you know, yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>or like I'll be like, oh, your manifestation powers weeks.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not worried because like people will say some shit,

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<v Speaker 3>you know.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I think about too, And again this is just

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<v Speaker 2>my weird brain going down places that I probably spend

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<v Speaker 2>way too much time that actually makes nothing good for me.

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<v Speaker 2>But I'll think about either if it's manifestation or prayer

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<v Speaker 2>or however you want to even describe that, that that

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<v Speaker 2>communication within yourself or to others. But I'll see somethody

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<v Speaker 2>on Facebook, like, hey, we could use all these prayers,

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<v Speaker 2>but all these what's the number that it becomes? Is

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<v Speaker 2>all these more than one? One? If it's just one,

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<v Speaker 2>does one count as equal as all these?

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<v Speaker 3>Interesting?

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<v Speaker 2>I think about that a lot, because you know, if

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<v Speaker 2>you get ten thousand people to pray for something, does

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<v Speaker 2>that mean it's more powerful than if you just prayed

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<v Speaker 2>for it by yourself. And if so, we need to

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<v Speaker 2>get a prayer, go fund me just for the bigger

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<v Speaker 2>causes then and get more people. So, yeah, I get

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<v Speaker 2>tired thinking about stuff.

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<v Speaker 3>Like that's interesting. And it's also that you bring up

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<v Speaker 3>prayer because it's a separate thing, because I'll pray too,

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<v Speaker 3>But I don't almost exclusively. I don't ask for anything

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<v Speaker 3>in prayer like you. I'll pray more for a situation.

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<v Speaker 3>Uh okay, rephrase. I'll ask for something for somebody who

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<v Speaker 3>maybe is hurt, or somebody who maybe is going through

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<v Speaker 3>some shit but you know, or a safety thing but

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<v Speaker 3>it's not. It's never like, Man, can I get a

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<v Speaker 3>number one song I about asking for shit like that.

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<v Speaker 9>Little food for yourself life?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh it's pretty, but it's pretty beautiful, man, beautiful that for.

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<v Speaker 9>A little mouth's.

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<v Speaker 2>Said.

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<v Speaker 9>He you're kicking it with full with Amy Brown.

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<v Speaker 12>I think that everyone's been through different seasons of life

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<v Speaker 12>where they get stuck, maybe in a pattern or cycle

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<v Speaker 12>where they can realize there's a lot of negativity happening.

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<v Speaker 12>But once you can make that shift, you can really

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<v Speaker 12>see the difference. Even just believing that what does this

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<v Speaker 12>circumstance make possible? Believing that something can come from this,

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<v Speaker 12>some sort of growth, some sort of change that is

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<v Speaker 12>going to be positive. Of course, I didn't want my

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<v Speaker 12>mother to have cancer. I didn't want to lose her,

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<v Speaker 12>but a lot of amazing things came from that. I

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<v Speaker 12>can't even think back to my childhood. I didn't want

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<v Speaker 12>my parents to get divorced, but a lot of amazing

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<v Speaker 12>things happened from that. My mom's life was completely transformed

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<v Speaker 12>because of the divorce. That's when we finally started going

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<v Speaker 12>to church. We didn't go before that, and then she

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<v Speaker 12>became a completely different person not being able to get pregnant.

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<v Speaker 12>Now I've got two beautiful adopted children now seventeen and fourteen.

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<v Speaker 12>And things that seemed negative and hard, but what did

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<v Speaker 12>they make possible? And I think just maintaining that faith,

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<v Speaker 12>that hope that there's a bigger picture here that's.

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<v Speaker 11>Right, and if you can find a way to put

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<v Speaker 11>yourself at a different point in the story when you're suffering,

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<v Speaker 11>like what you just said, is it turns out to

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<v Speaker 11>be true that all the research that looks at suffering

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<v Speaker 11>and cancer patients are a great example, has been well

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<v Speaker 11>studied where a huge majority, like way more than you

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<v Speaker 11>can imagine, of people who are going through cancer, even

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<v Speaker 11>that ultimately succumbed to it, say things like what you

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<v Speaker 11>just described with your mother, that they actually find that

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<v Speaker 11>they've grown through it, they've found purpose through it, that

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<v Speaker 11>their lives had become enriched by it. So it's almost

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<v Speaker 11>like suffering is not optional. If you want to be

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<v Speaker 11>a really well rounded and fully developed human, it's almost necessary.

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<v Speaker 11>I have to go through hard things if you want

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<v Speaker 11>to become a really fully developed person. And so we

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<v Speaker 11>find gratitude through those hard moments because we recognize that

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<v Speaker 11>they've given us experiences and opportunities to change and grow

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<v Speaker 11>and learn and connect with other people in ways that

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<v Speaker 11>we wouldn't have been able to do if we hadn't

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<v Speaker 11>gone through suffering. And it's interesting because, just like we

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<v Speaker 11>talked about while ago with quantum physics, like this idea

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<v Speaker 11>that two things can be true at the same time,

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<v Speaker 11>Like it's never going to be okay that I lost

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<v Speaker 11>my son, Like I'm just as sad and broken about

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<v Speaker 11>that eleven years after it happened than I was the

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<v Speaker 11>day it happened. You're not okay with you losing your mom,

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<v Speaker 11>and you never will be. But at the same time,

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<v Speaker 11>it is true that I've grown, I've written books, I've

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<v Speaker 11>connected with people all over the world, like a lot

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<v Speaker 11>of the things that I am. I'm a much more

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<v Speaker 11>compassionate physician and husband and father and grandfather now than

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<v Speaker 11>I was before I lost my son. All of that

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<v Speaker 11>because of having suffered so doesn't make it good, doesn't

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<v Speaker 11>make it right. You would trade it all for having

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<v Speaker 11>your mom back, or I'd trade it all for having

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<v Speaker 11>my son back. That sort of secret sauce of life,

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<v Speaker 11>it turns out to be this meaning that we find

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<v Speaker 11>because we navigated through something hard. And on the brain

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<v Speaker 11>science side, it's true too, Like you look at what

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<v Speaker 11>makes resilience in the brain's this area called the mid

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<v Speaker 11>anterior singula, and what they find is when you do

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<v Speaker 11>hard things, it becomes easier for you to do hard

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<v Speaker 11>things in the future, like all across the board. So

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<v Speaker 11>you do something that's hard, even if you don't want to,

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<v Speaker 11>your brain gets more resilient and you develop more willpower

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<v Speaker 11>and you find more sort of joy in engaging in

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<v Speaker 11>hard things the next time. So it's almost like you

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<v Speaker 11>start saying, I'm ready for the next thing that's hurt,

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<v Speaker 11>that it's going to hurt because I know I can

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<v Speaker 11>get through it because I've done it before.

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<v Speaker 12>Is there a magic number of how many times we

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<v Speaker 12>have to do something for that new neural pathway to

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<v Speaker 12>be built or is it different for everybody?

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<v Speaker 1>Well, it's different for everybody.

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<v Speaker 11>But on the basic physiology side, there's a structure in

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<v Speaker 11>your brain called microtubules, and that's the stuff that makes

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<v Speaker 11>new synapses, the little building blocks of new synapses, and

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<v Speaker 11>they start happening within minutes of you trying something new

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<v Speaker 11>or doing something new. So that's why we always say

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<v Speaker 11>on my show, like thoughts become things, because when you

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<v Speaker 11>think about something, you actually make something in your brain structurally,

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<v Speaker 11>make changes in your brain. And what happens is within

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<v Speaker 11>minutes you start laying down what's going to become ultimately

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<v Speaker 11>the high way towards making a new habit or making

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<v Speaker 11>a new process. But if you don't use it, continue

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<v Speaker 11>to use that new thing, it disappears within about three weeks,

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<v Speaker 11>and so in order to ingrain it and make it permanent,

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<v Speaker 11>you have to engage in that thing over and over

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<v Speaker 11>and over for a while. Some people say twenty one days.

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<v Speaker 11>That's probably true for things that aren't sort of life

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<v Speaker 11>or death. That's probably longer. For things that are really hard,

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<v Speaker 11>like giving up smoking or something, probably takes longer than

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<v Speaker 11>twenty one days. But in terms of what's happening in

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<v Speaker 11>your brain, it starts almost instantly in the first hour

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<v Speaker 11>of you trying to make a change, a positive change

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<v Speaker 11>in your life. You're making it structurally in your brain.

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<v Speaker 11>So that's encouraging. It gives us hope because we feel

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<v Speaker 11>like we can't change, we feel like we're stuck. We

0:22:57.119 --> 0:22:59.920
<v Speaker 11>inherited the genes. We inherited, We went through the tryal

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<v Speaker 11>that we went through, and that means that we can

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<v Speaker 11>ever change what the truth is. As soon as you

0:23:03.840 --> 0:23:06.000
<v Speaker 11>start trying to change, your brain's right there with you.

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<v Speaker 12>Well, so then that's epigenetics. We have the ability to

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<v Speaker 12>change certain parts. You're probably the better person to describe this,

0:23:14.600 --> 0:23:17.399
<v Speaker 12>but I think I have a fear inside of me

0:23:17.480 --> 0:23:20.119
<v Speaker 12>because both my parents had cancer that I'm going to

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<v Speaker 12>get cancer. And sometimes that is a thought that will

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<v Speaker 12>take over and I immediately have to squash it and

0:23:25.720 --> 0:23:28.159
<v Speaker 12>back up because just because they had it does not

0:23:28.320 --> 0:23:30.960
<v Speaker 12>mean I will. But if I keep having those thoughts,

0:23:31.680 --> 0:23:35.040
<v Speaker 12>then I'm increasing the likelihood of something negative happening.

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<v Speaker 11>That's right, because so if you think about the big picture,

0:23:37.680 --> 0:23:41.159
<v Speaker 11>so epigenetics, if somebody is not familiar, is that the

0:23:41.320 --> 0:23:44.080
<v Speaker 11>things that we think about and certain things that we

0:23:44.119 --> 0:23:47.840
<v Speaker 11>go through and lifestyle choices can turn on or off genes.

0:23:47.880 --> 0:23:50.439
<v Speaker 11>So to speak up or down regulate genes is the

0:23:50.440 --> 0:23:52.639
<v Speaker 11>way the bio chemists call it. And what that means

0:23:52.720 --> 0:23:55.280
<v Speaker 11>is that the genetic material the inher for mom and

0:23:55.359 --> 0:23:59.000
<v Speaker 11>dad is not guaranteed to be expressed or turned true

0:23:59.000 --> 0:24:01.879
<v Speaker 11>in your life. So we know that from identical twin studies.

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<v Speaker 11>For example, identical twins often have very different length of

0:24:04.800 --> 0:24:07.960
<v Speaker 11>life and very different disease profiles that they get. And

0:24:08.000 --> 0:24:10.400
<v Speaker 11>it's because even though they have the same genetic starting point,

0:24:10.440 --> 0:24:12.479
<v Speaker 11>they don't have the same lives. And so what that

0:24:12.520 --> 0:24:14.240
<v Speaker 11>means is that your life has a lot of impact

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<v Speaker 11>and what genes get turned on and off. So if

0:24:16.240 --> 0:24:19.359
<v Speaker 11>both your parents have cancer, for example, and you spend

0:24:19.359 --> 0:24:21.920
<v Speaker 11>a lot of time worrying about that and stressing about it,

0:24:22.119 --> 0:24:25.639
<v Speaker 11>your cortisol level is going to rise, and the systems

0:24:25.680 --> 0:24:28.320
<v Speaker 11>in your body that fight cancer and do things on

0:24:28.359 --> 0:24:31.000
<v Speaker 11>your behalf to try to avoid cancer are going to

0:24:31.040 --> 0:24:33.520
<v Speaker 11>be depleted because you're spending so much time in a

0:24:33.560 --> 0:24:36.760
<v Speaker 11>negative biochemical state, and your thoughts are becoming those things

0:24:36.760 --> 0:24:40.320
<v Speaker 11>that are fighting against you and beating those cancer cells.

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<v Speaker 11>So it's true that you can spend time in your

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<v Speaker 11>brain thinking healthier thoughts and that will promote an environment

0:24:47.000 --> 0:24:50.680
<v Speaker 11>that's going to produce a better chemical environment to optimize

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<v Speaker 11>the epigenetic opportunities that you have to turn things on

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<v Speaker 11>and off and make your life as good as it

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<v Speaker 11>can be.

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<v Speaker 9>We're going to do it live the one shoot three

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<v Speaker 9>Sore Losers. What up, everybody. I am lunchbox. I know

0:25:06.760 --> 0:25:09.440
<v Speaker 9>the most about sports, so I'll give you the sports facts,

0:25:09.480 --> 0:25:13.880
<v Speaker 9>my sports opinions, because I'm pretty much a sports genius, y'all.

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<v Speaker 13>It's Sison. I'm from the North. I'm an alpha male.

0:25:16.280 --> 0:25:18.520
<v Speaker 13>I live on the North side of Nashville with Bayser,

0:25:18.560 --> 0:25:20.520
<v Speaker 13>my wife. We do have a farm. It's beautiful, a

0:25:20.560 --> 0:25:24.400
<v Speaker 13>lot of acreage, no animals, a lot of crops. Hopefully

0:25:24.440 --> 0:25:30.399
<v Speaker 13>soon corn pumpkins, rye. I believe maybe a little fescue

0:25:30.760 --> 0:25:31.720
<v Speaker 13>to be determined.

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<v Speaker 9>Over to you, coach. And here's a clip from this

0:25:35.760 --> 0:25:39.840
<v Speaker 9>week's episode of The Sore Losers. Now they're going to

0:25:39.920 --> 0:25:42.879
<v Speaker 9>remodel it and make it the hard rock forgot Tropicana.

0:25:42.920 --> 0:25:46.480
<v Speaker 9>They're knocking, they're knocking down, They're a stadium is going there? Sorry, go.

0:25:46.800 --> 0:25:50.040
<v Speaker 9>So we go to this lava show, forty five minute

0:25:50.119 --> 0:25:54.399
<v Speaker 9>lava show, and I'm my hell yeah, hell yeah. And

0:25:54.440 --> 0:25:55.840
<v Speaker 9>we just happened to see it because it was in

0:25:55.880 --> 0:25:57.480
<v Speaker 9>the same parking lot as where we're eating at the

0:25:57.960 --> 0:26:00.320
<v Speaker 9>soup kitchen or whatever. At the soup kitchen. I mean

0:26:00.320 --> 0:26:03.040
<v Speaker 9>it sounds like such a party. What are you guys doing,

0:26:03.080 --> 0:26:03.960
<v Speaker 9>like pregame drinks?

0:26:04.200 --> 0:26:04.400
<v Speaker 5>What?

0:26:04.600 --> 0:26:08.600
<v Speaker 9>I had some beers and had some soup. What on

0:26:08.720 --> 0:26:11.720
<v Speaker 9>the soup kitchen sign enticed you guys have dinner. My

0:26:11.800 --> 0:26:14.360
<v Speaker 9>wife was doing research and someone on Reddit said, nine

0:26:14.359 --> 0:26:16.720
<v Speaker 9>months later, I'm still thinking about the soup. I had

0:26:16.880 --> 0:26:23.280
<v Speaker 9>the soup what a fucking was and I'm like, oh man,

0:26:23.359 --> 0:26:27.919
<v Speaker 9>this must be amazing freaking soup. I'll do crab. But

0:26:28.000 --> 0:26:30.439
<v Speaker 9>my wife is a she loves soup. Bin loves it.

0:26:30.560 --> 0:26:35.320
<v Speaker 9>Lobster bisk ah. Now they had lamb soup. They had

0:26:35.359 --> 0:26:37.000
<v Speaker 9>they eat a lot of lamb there because they have lamb.

0:26:37.000 --> 0:26:40.600
<v Speaker 9>They have more lambs sheep than they do humans in Iceland.

0:26:40.760 --> 0:26:43.520
<v Speaker 9>Where's my flock? I tied it up here. Hopefully parking

0:26:43.600 --> 0:26:45.320
<v Speaker 9>is good. That's kind of like what they saund me.

0:26:45.320 --> 0:26:47.119
<v Speaker 9>But that's Canadian a little bit. So we go to

0:26:47.119 --> 0:26:48.439
<v Speaker 9>the Lava show and I'm like, all right, and the

0:26:48.480 --> 0:26:50.879
<v Speaker 9>soup was okay, but it wasn't amazing. And I had

0:26:50.880 --> 0:26:53.680
<v Speaker 9>three different kinds and I had the corn and spinach.

0:26:53.760 --> 0:26:57.800
<v Speaker 9>I had the the fish curry one and some other one.

0:26:58.400 --> 0:27:00.480
<v Speaker 9>And then we go to the Lava Show and it's

0:27:00.680 --> 0:27:03.200
<v Speaker 9>in a room and they give you protective glasses you

0:27:03.200 --> 0:27:05.600
<v Speaker 9>know what I mean, because it's gonna get so freaking hot. Right,

0:27:05.640 --> 0:27:07.880
<v Speaker 9>we took off our clothes, so I'm like, forty five

0:27:07.920 --> 0:27:09.120
<v Speaker 9>minutes of lava here we go.

0:27:09.200 --> 0:27:09.560
<v Speaker 11>All right.

0:27:10.480 --> 0:27:13.239
<v Speaker 9>The lady closes the door, comes in. She starts talking, Hi,

0:27:13.440 --> 0:27:16.320
<v Speaker 9>my name is Rock Gel and I'm like, well, this

0:27:16.400 --> 0:27:18.879
<v Speaker 9>is about to be awesome. Nice to meet you. I'm Lunchbox.

0:27:18.920 --> 0:27:21.679
<v Speaker 9>She's like, welcome to the Lava Show, the only place

0:27:21.720 --> 0:27:24.359
<v Speaker 9>in the world where you can see real lava from

0:27:24.400 --> 0:27:26.680
<v Speaker 9>a volcano up close. And I'm like, she goes, it's

0:27:26.680 --> 0:27:28.840
<v Speaker 9>gonna get so hot tho, You're gonna need those goggles

0:27:28.840 --> 0:27:32.919
<v Speaker 9>to protect your eyes that and I'm like, hell yeah, honey,

0:27:32.960 --> 0:27:36.200
<v Speaker 9>take off your bra. So then she proceeded to stand

0:27:36.240 --> 0:27:38.920
<v Speaker 9>up there for fifteen minutes and give us a history

0:27:38.960 --> 0:27:41.040
<v Speaker 9>of the town and the volcanoes that have erupted in

0:27:41.040 --> 0:27:44.720
<v Speaker 9>that town. What the cleef? And I'm like, Okay, that's

0:27:44.760 --> 0:27:47.120
<v Speaker 9>fifteen minutes of my forty five. When are we gonna

0:27:47.119 --> 0:27:48.919
<v Speaker 9>get to the damn lava. Not bad. You still have

0:27:49.000 --> 0:27:51.320
<v Speaker 9>thirty minutes of lava. Then we have thirty minutes of lava.

0:27:51.359 --> 0:27:53.960
<v Speaker 9>She's like, honey, get ready to feel the l rumble

0:27:54.080 --> 0:27:56.600
<v Speaker 9>of the lava, and she goes, now, so before we

0:27:56.640 --> 0:28:00.159
<v Speaker 9>get to the lava, let me show you a video. No,

0:28:00.240 --> 0:28:02.280
<v Speaker 9>I'm not doing the tours with the damn video. Show

0:28:02.359 --> 0:28:06.920
<v Speaker 9>me three d bitch. Sorry, I'll delete that, and I'm like, okay,

0:28:07.000 --> 0:28:09.080
<v Speaker 9>So now we're gonna watch a video. So what was

0:28:09.119 --> 0:28:12.480
<v Speaker 9>the video rate? It was a fifteen minute video. We're

0:28:12.480 --> 0:28:15.960
<v Speaker 9>at thirty minutes now. It was a fifteen minute video

0:28:16.920 --> 0:28:21.040
<v Speaker 9>showing exactly what she just talked about. That's bulghit. So

0:28:21.080 --> 0:28:22.959
<v Speaker 9>she talked about the history of the town. Then they

0:28:22.960 --> 0:28:25.719
<v Speaker 9>made a little cartoon video for you to enjoy of

0:28:25.760 --> 0:28:26.920
<v Speaker 9>what she just told you about.

0:28:27.080 --> 0:28:30.600
<v Speaker 14>Nice learning about your town. Like either way, just either pa,

0:28:30.720 --> 0:28:33.680
<v Speaker 14>show us the lava. Where's the I wanted to get

0:28:33.720 --> 0:28:38.480
<v Speaker 14>hot in here, hought in you sheeper boring maw.

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<v Speaker 9>But I did learn if the volcano is going to

0:28:42.280 --> 0:28:44.520
<v Speaker 9>erupt all the tourists you meet at the church on

0:28:44.560 --> 0:28:47.239
<v Speaker 9>top of the hill, that's the evacuation plan, all right,

0:28:47.240 --> 0:28:50.040
<v Speaker 9>So where's the lava? Show exactly where is the lava show?

0:28:50.120 --> 0:28:50.280
<v Speaker 3>Raight?

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<v Speaker 9>Oh? That was it? Fifteen minute video? All right? She goes,

0:28:54.040 --> 0:28:56.920
<v Speaker 9>all right, now should we get to the lava? And

0:28:56.960 --> 0:29:01.320
<v Speaker 9>so she does. It comes rolling out of this like

0:29:01.480 --> 0:29:04.040
<v Speaker 9>tube in the wall, and there's lava and she starts

0:29:04.040 --> 0:29:06.800
<v Speaker 9>picking it up with this stick. Now we're talking and

0:29:06.880 --> 0:29:10.000
<v Speaker 9>she's making little things and then it freezes and she's

0:29:10.000 --> 0:29:13.000
<v Speaker 9>cracking it and she's picking it up. The lava's touching me.

0:29:13.640 --> 0:29:16.160
<v Speaker 9>Then she brings out a big old ice thing piece

0:29:16.200 --> 0:29:17.720
<v Speaker 9>of ice and puts it in the lava and makes

0:29:17.760 --> 0:29:20.760
<v Speaker 9>it blow up like a big balloon. A science project

0:29:21.080 --> 0:29:25.520
<v Speaker 9>exactly what it was bro baking soda and food Colory, dude, No,

0:29:25.600 --> 0:29:28.600
<v Speaker 9>it was real lava. Saw this in second grade. It

0:29:28.640 --> 0:29:33.560
<v Speaker 9>was real lava. And she got your ass. Did you

0:29:33.600 --> 0:29:34.320
<v Speaker 9>feel the hot?

0:29:34.360 --> 0:29:34.520
<v Speaker 10>Oh?

0:29:34.520 --> 0:29:35.360
<v Speaker 9>I could feel the heat.

0:29:35.360 --> 0:29:35.560
<v Speaker 3>Man.

0:29:35.600 --> 0:29:38.160
<v Speaker 9>So they must have just pumped the obviously the heater on. No, no,

0:29:38.160 --> 0:29:40.000
<v Speaker 9>they have the they have to warm up. So what

0:29:40.040 --> 0:29:42.000
<v Speaker 9>they do is they go get the right They actually

0:29:42.040 --> 0:29:43.600
<v Speaker 9>turned the heater like one hundred and ten. They pretty

0:29:43.640 --> 0:29:45.959
<v Speaker 9>much fucked us. No, No, they go get the rocks,

0:29:46.120 --> 0:29:49.440
<v Speaker 9>like the ash from like the actual volcanoes in the mountains.

0:29:50.040 --> 0:29:51.920
<v Speaker 9>And they bring it in and they reheat it up

0:29:52.160 --> 0:29:55.880
<v Speaker 9>and make it into lava. That's making it better. Awesome, Okay,

0:29:56.520 --> 0:29:58.360
<v Speaker 9>she played with the lava for ten minutes. Then the

0:29:58.360 --> 0:30:00.440
<v Speaker 9>show is over. See when you need it a little

0:30:00.440 --> 0:30:03.520
<v Speaker 9>bit more of that. Oh you think it is advertised

0:30:03.520 --> 0:30:06.520
<v Speaker 9>as a forty five minute lava show. Was it ever

0:30:06.680 --> 0:30:09.040
<v Speaker 9>lavaing or No? It was lava? No, no, it is lava.

0:30:09.120 --> 0:30:11.000
<v Speaker 9>It came out like lava, like it does out of

0:30:11.000 --> 0:30:13.320
<v Speaker 9>a volcano. Okay, that's pretty cool. I shouldn't have acted

0:30:13.320 --> 0:30:16.120
<v Speaker 9>it. It was pretty badass for ten minutes, but advertise it

0:30:16.160 --> 0:30:18.080
<v Speaker 9>as ten minutes. And then I get out. I don't

0:30:18.120 --> 0:30:20.600
<v Speaker 9>need to watch the damn video. She had the lava

0:30:20.640 --> 0:30:22.360
<v Speaker 9>like she's like having a rub on her. No, no,

0:30:22.400 --> 0:30:23.880
<v Speaker 9>she had a metal pool because it was so hot.

0:30:24.040 --> 0:30:26.040
<v Speaker 9>All right, she was fully naked. It was actually a

0:30:26.160 --> 0:30:37.040
<v Speaker 9>lava tit show. No no, And I'm like, wow, this

0:30:37.120 --> 0:30:41.320
<v Speaker 9>is amazing, dude, amazing. And we then we're leaving. We

0:30:41.320 --> 0:30:42.719
<v Speaker 9>got to drive to the hotel. We still got an

0:30:42.720 --> 0:30:45.040
<v Speaker 9>hour to drive to the hotel. And we get to

0:30:45.080 --> 0:30:48.640
<v Speaker 9>the hotel and I guess what, They're already closed. You

0:30:48.640 --> 0:30:51.800
<v Speaker 9>can't check in. Wait, it's here's a hotel. Oh yeah yeah,

0:30:51.800 --> 0:30:54.160
<v Speaker 9>but in Iceland nothing. It was only ten o'clock, but

0:30:54.160 --> 0:30:56.880
<v Speaker 9>they only stay on duty till eight. That's my biggest

0:30:56.880 --> 0:30:59.360
<v Speaker 9>fear of other countries. You never know when places closed,

0:30:59.400 --> 0:31:02.480
<v Speaker 9>and I'm like and everything, the lights are off, everything,

0:31:02.480 --> 0:31:03.720
<v Speaker 9>and we're like, how the hell do we get in

0:31:03.760 --> 0:31:06.920
<v Speaker 9>our room back in? How do we do this? We

0:31:07.160 --> 0:31:11.240
<v Speaker 9>already paid online? What do we do? Sleep under the volcano?

0:31:11.240 --> 0:31:13.400
<v Speaker 9>It's warm, So we bust out our flashlights and we're

0:31:13.400 --> 0:31:15.960
<v Speaker 9>looking under matt. We're looking. I mean we're looking. They're

0:31:15.960 --> 0:31:20.120
<v Speaker 9>gonna take the place. I know. That's what I was

0:31:20.160 --> 0:31:23.480
<v Speaker 9>worried about. Well no, shit, Like I'm going around the back,

0:31:23.560 --> 0:31:26.600
<v Speaker 9>like maybe there's a hidden door or something. You Americans

0:31:26.640 --> 0:31:29.520
<v Speaker 9>in your crime rates freeze. And then no, they don't

0:31:29.520 --> 0:31:29.960
<v Speaker 9>have police.

0:31:30.000 --> 0:31:30.120
<v Speaker 4>Man.

0:31:30.160 --> 0:31:32.239
<v Speaker 9>I don't think they have guns. I don't think they

0:31:32.240 --> 0:31:33.680
<v Speaker 9>have anything. Over a nice one. It was it was

0:31:34.000 --> 0:31:37.560
<v Speaker 9>like there's no one there. It is empty. And so

0:31:37.640 --> 0:31:39.880
<v Speaker 9>then I, oh, wait, wait, what's that sign over there?

0:31:40.200 --> 0:31:43.360
<v Speaker 9>It's on one of the windows that says, oh, sorry,

0:31:43.360 --> 0:31:45.560
<v Speaker 9>we're not here to greet you, but we close at

0:31:45.560 --> 0:31:49.760
<v Speaker 9>eight pm. Just so you know, your cabin five D,

0:31:50.240 --> 0:31:54.560
<v Speaker 9>your key is in the door. Excuse me, anybody a

0:31:54.640 --> 0:31:57.280
<v Speaker 9>polar bear sleeping in there right now? Dude? So you

0:31:57.400 --> 0:31:59.000
<v Speaker 9>just go up and the key is in the door.

0:32:00.240 --> 0:32:02.840
<v Speaker 9>Quite The security says, no, that's how nice it is

0:32:02.880 --> 0:32:05.080
<v Speaker 9>in Iceland. They don't have any crime. They got nothing

0:32:05.160 --> 0:32:07.920
<v Speaker 9>on nest. They have no problem. They just left the

0:32:08.000 --> 0:32:09.440
<v Speaker 9>key in the door for us. What do you mean

0:32:09.480 --> 0:32:12.080
<v Speaker 9>you were robbed? I don't know. The door was open.

0:32:12.760 --> 0:32:16.560
<v Speaker 9>It was awesome. I was like, how cool is this Americans?

0:32:16.600 --> 0:32:18.560
<v Speaker 9>Of course we tried to break in a back door.

0:32:18.600 --> 0:32:20.120
<v Speaker 9>We're trying to break in a back door and they're like,

0:32:20.400 --> 0:32:21.840
<v Speaker 9>just go to your cabin, man. We left the key

0:32:21.840 --> 0:32:24.080
<v Speaker 9>in the door, and you look, and there was other

0:32:24.160 --> 0:32:25.760
<v Speaker 9>cabins that just had the key in the door. So

0:32:25.760 --> 0:32:28.040
<v Speaker 9>there was other families that hadn't arrived. Jet Honey, I'm

0:32:28.040 --> 0:32:30.200
<v Speaker 9>gonna go sleep in five A if you don't mind.

0:32:44.080 --> 0:32:46.440
<v Speaker 1>Hey, it's Mike d And this week a movie Mike's

0:32:46.440 --> 0:32:49.120
<v Speaker 1>Movie Podcast. My wife Kelsey and I did our Movies

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<v Speaker 1>of the Months where we go through all the movies

0:32:51.400 --> 0:32:53.640
<v Speaker 1>we watched in August and talked about the ones we

0:32:53.720 --> 0:32:56.720
<v Speaker 1>recommend best of the month and the ones we don't recommend,

0:32:56.840 --> 0:32:58.400
<v Speaker 1>the worst of the Month. I want to play you

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<v Speaker 1>this of us talking about our favorite movie as the

0:33:00.640 --> 0:33:03.160
<v Speaker 1>summer blockbuster season comes to it end. So be sure

0:33:03.160 --> 0:33:05.440
<v Speaker 1>to check out this full episode. But right now, here's

0:33:05.480 --> 0:33:09.680
<v Speaker 1>just a little bit of movie Mike's movie podcast Movies

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<v Speaker 1>of the Month for August. I feel like it's been

0:33:11.960 --> 0:33:14.680
<v Speaker 1>one of the best months of the summer. Interesting, you

0:33:14.720 --> 0:33:15.960
<v Speaker 1>don't what was your favorite month?

0:33:16.200 --> 0:33:16.440
<v Speaker 8>July?

0:33:16.880 --> 0:33:18.760
<v Speaker 1>Oh, July, I think was my least favorite.

0:33:19.080 --> 0:33:20.720
<v Speaker 8>July had Twisters and Deadpool.

0:33:21.040 --> 0:33:23.400
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but that was two and Fly Me to the Moon.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like there are so many more in August.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm looking at my list here and there's like eight movies.

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<v Speaker 8>Interesting, that's a hot take.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought August was way stronger, which August is usually

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<v Speaker 1>the decline of the summer blockbuster season. But I felt

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<v Speaker 1>like there were more hidden gems. I have more flours

0:33:38.040 --> 0:33:39.600
<v Speaker 1>in August than I did for July.

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<v Speaker 8>I don't agree with that.

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<v Speaker 15>But the last time I told you that your take

0:33:42.200 --> 0:33:44.000
<v Speaker 15>was stupid, someone on the internet called me a not

0:33:44.160 --> 0:33:44.640
<v Speaker 15>nice name.

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<v Speaker 1>Is because you love Twisters so much that we've now

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<v Speaker 1>seen twice, possibly we'll see first third time in theaters.

0:33:51.200 --> 0:33:53.080
<v Speaker 1>We have a code now to watch it at home.

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<v Speaker 1>Thanks to everybody at Universal who send us awesome box

0:33:55.680 --> 0:33:57.560
<v Speaker 1>if you didn't watch that on TikTok.

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<v Speaker 8>The greatest package we've ever received.

0:33:59.560 --> 0:34:02.080
<v Speaker 1>But is it because you loved that movie so much?

0:34:02.320 --> 0:34:02.400
<v Speaker 10>Now?

0:34:02.480 --> 0:34:03.920
<v Speaker 8>There was just always something to see.

0:34:03.960 --> 0:34:06.000
<v Speaker 15>It was like the first weekend we saw just pick

0:34:06.040 --> 0:34:07.920
<v Speaker 15>on Me for and there was fly Me to the Moon,

0:34:08.200 --> 0:34:11.080
<v Speaker 15>and there's Twisters. Then there was Deadpool and Twisters again,

0:34:11.280 --> 0:34:13.879
<v Speaker 15>Like there was great stuff in July, there was always something.

0:34:13.880 --> 0:34:15.279
<v Speaker 15>I feel like this month we kind of had to

0:34:15.320 --> 0:34:16.960
<v Speaker 15>be like, Okay, what's coming out this week?

0:34:17.040 --> 0:34:18.160
<v Speaker 8>What are we going to see?

0:34:18.239 --> 0:34:20.480
<v Speaker 1>And I think it's because we had lower expectations going

0:34:20.520 --> 0:34:22.600
<v Speaker 1>into the movies this month that I felt like, oh,

0:34:22.800 --> 0:34:25.400
<v Speaker 1>this is a really solid month and more. Before we

0:34:25.480 --> 0:34:28.719
<v Speaker 1>get into our favorite and our least favorite, I'll go

0:34:28.800 --> 0:34:30.960
<v Speaker 1>through all the movies we saw, and we did see

0:34:30.960 --> 0:34:33.399
<v Speaker 1>some movies apart. You saw one without me, I saw

0:34:33.440 --> 0:34:34.120
<v Speaker 1>one without you.

0:34:34.400 --> 0:34:35.800
<v Speaker 8>This is correct, suis factual.

0:34:35.920 --> 0:34:38.040
<v Speaker 1>So going through the list, Trap which you didn't see

0:34:38.040 --> 0:34:40.520
<v Speaker 1>with me, The Instigator, which was an at home one,

0:34:40.920 --> 0:34:43.680
<v Speaker 1>Dedie Gunner, which was also I watched that one at home.

0:34:43.719 --> 0:34:46.319
<v Speaker 1>I had a screener for that alien Romulus, which you

0:34:46.320 --> 0:34:48.920
<v Speaker 1>didn't see with me Sing Sing, and then we closed

0:34:48.920 --> 0:34:51.279
<v Speaker 1>it out with Blink twice. I feel like those all

0:34:51.280 --> 0:34:53.160
<v Speaker 1>together is a solid month.

0:34:53.239 --> 0:34:55.520
<v Speaker 8>And then I saw it ends with us true.

0:34:55.920 --> 0:34:56.920
<v Speaker 1>I think that's better for me.

0:34:57.320 --> 0:34:59.120
<v Speaker 8>Okay, I still disagree, but.

0:34:59.200 --> 0:35:01.040
<v Speaker 1>We'll get into our bed and the worst you kick

0:35:01.080 --> 0:35:03.120
<v Speaker 1>it off. What was the best thing out of all these?

0:35:03.239 --> 0:35:05.840
<v Speaker 8>For August, I'm gonna gome on that surprise paint Blink twice.

0:35:06.040 --> 0:35:07.560
<v Speaker 1>I was saying that I feel like this is a

0:35:07.600 --> 0:35:10.320
<v Speaker 1>movie people are either going to love or hate.

0:35:10.960 --> 0:35:12.120
<v Speaker 8>TikTok is a buzz.

0:35:12.400 --> 0:35:14.320
<v Speaker 1>It's right, it's kind of pull our opposites.

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<v Speaker 15>I think any movie, if you are concerned that you're

0:35:19.760 --> 0:35:21.720
<v Speaker 15>not gonna like it, you need to watch the trailer.

0:35:22.200 --> 0:35:25.840
<v Speaker 15>There were trigger warnings even the trailer, Like I didn't

0:35:25.880 --> 0:35:29.200
<v Speaker 15>watch the trailer thinking this is gonna be funny, Like

0:35:29.280 --> 0:35:31.120
<v Speaker 15>you know that it's gonna be kind of like a

0:35:31.160 --> 0:35:35.320
<v Speaker 15>creepy psychological thriller. Reviews compared it to Get Out Before

0:35:35.960 --> 0:35:38.160
<v Speaker 15>and people are like, what did I just watch?

0:35:38.320 --> 0:35:39.120
<v Speaker 8>This was terrible?

0:35:39.160 --> 0:35:41.520
<v Speaker 15>There were no warnings like no, there was a literal

0:35:41.600 --> 0:35:43.320
<v Speaker 15>full screen warning before the movie.

0:35:43.440 --> 0:35:46.240
<v Speaker 1>That leads me to believe there is still a select

0:35:46.239 --> 0:35:48.920
<v Speaker 1>group of people that would just go watch a movie

0:35:48.960 --> 0:35:51.280
<v Speaker 1>based on the A list are based on the lead.

0:35:51.120 --> 0:35:52.960
<v Speaker 15>Yeah, the lady and the TikTok was like, I just

0:35:53.040 --> 0:35:54.400
<v Speaker 15>wanted to watch Channing Tatum.

0:35:54.640 --> 0:35:56.759
<v Speaker 1>It's like okay, which is a bizarre way to go

0:35:56.840 --> 0:35:59.280
<v Speaker 1>into a movie just because Channing Tatum, who you probably

0:35:59.320 --> 0:36:01.720
<v Speaker 1>know from Magic and maybe haven't seen a Chanting Tative

0:36:01.719 --> 0:36:03.840
<v Speaker 1>movie since, or like twenty two Jump Street, twenty one,

0:36:03.920 --> 0:36:07.480
<v Speaker 1>Jump Street, Step Up and you think, oh, yeah, that movie, you.

0:36:07.440 --> 0:36:08.839
<v Speaker 8>Forgot my favorite movie all the time.

0:36:08.880 --> 0:36:11.280
<v Speaker 1>I feel like he's had such an evolution as an actor,

0:36:11.800 --> 0:36:14.960
<v Speaker 1>primarily being in the rom coms. Then he kind of

0:36:15.000 --> 0:36:17.719
<v Speaker 1>shifted into being like the action star, which never really

0:36:17.800 --> 0:36:21.200
<v Speaker 1>kicked off. He kind of transitioned into being the comedic star,

0:36:21.280 --> 0:36:23.680
<v Speaker 1>which I think was kind of a juxtaposition of you

0:36:23.719 --> 0:36:25.759
<v Speaker 1>see him and you don't think comedy, but then he's

0:36:25.800 --> 0:36:27.719
<v Speaker 1>really good at comedy right at comedy, And now I

0:36:27.719 --> 0:36:30.279
<v Speaker 1>feel like he's just making really good movies, having one

0:36:30.280 --> 0:36:31.840
<v Speaker 1>of the best years out of any actor.

0:36:32.000 --> 0:36:32.840
<v Speaker 8>He's having a summer.

0:36:33.280 --> 0:36:36.080
<v Speaker 1>So it's weird for me to see somebody go into

0:36:36.120 --> 0:36:39.360
<v Speaker 1>just watching a movie and thinking it's gonna be everything.

0:36:39.400 --> 0:36:42.600
<v Speaker 1>He's done maybe ten fifteen years ago. Yeah, I agree.

0:36:42.719 --> 0:36:47.320
<v Speaker 15>I think that, Yeah, you just need to watch the trailer,

0:36:47.440 --> 0:36:49.359
<v Speaker 15>like if you're concerned at all about the movie.

0:36:49.400 --> 0:36:50.759
<v Speaker 8>I also think it was righted R. Wasn't it?

0:36:50.680 --> 0:36:51.400
<v Speaker 1>It was righted R.

0:36:51.440 --> 0:36:52.840
<v Speaker 15>Okay, that tells you all you need. That tells you

0:36:52.880 --> 0:36:55.040
<v Speaker 15>all you need to know. And yeah, it was disturbing.

0:36:55.200 --> 0:36:57.360
<v Speaker 15>That's why there were trigger warnings.

0:36:57.360 --> 0:36:58.920
<v Speaker 1>And if you go into the movie you see the

0:36:58.960 --> 0:37:00.960
<v Speaker 1>trigger warning and think, I don't know if this is

0:37:01.000 --> 0:37:02.920
<v Speaker 1>for me, you can go get a refund. I think

0:37:02.920 --> 0:37:04.879
<v Speaker 1>a lot of people don't know that. I think it's

0:37:04.920 --> 0:37:08.440
<v Speaker 1>within the first twenty to thirty minutes, probably different based

0:37:08.480 --> 0:37:10.839
<v Speaker 1>on the theater you go to, you can still get

0:37:10.880 --> 0:37:11.560
<v Speaker 1>a refund.

0:37:11.640 --> 0:37:13.239
<v Speaker 8>Should have done that when I took my grandma to

0:37:13.320 --> 0:37:14.160
<v Speaker 8>Talladey Nights.

0:37:14.480 --> 0:37:17.120
<v Speaker 1>So if you see that at the beginning and thining, huh,

0:37:17.320 --> 0:37:18.839
<v Speaker 1>I don't know if I'm in for that. I also

0:37:18.920 --> 0:37:21.040
<v Speaker 1>feel like that was a little bit rage bait. My

0:37:21.200 --> 0:37:24.520
<v Speaker 1>best of the month comes down to two movies, Alien

0:37:24.640 --> 0:37:28.200
<v Speaker 1>Romulus and d D which Alien Romulus was the most

0:37:28.239 --> 0:37:31.080
<v Speaker 1>surprising to me because, like we've been talking about in

0:37:31.080 --> 0:37:34.040
<v Speaker 1>this month, I went in with pretty low expectations and

0:37:34.120 --> 0:37:36.440
<v Speaker 1>ended up really enjoying it, even though I'm not the

0:37:36.480 --> 0:37:38.880
<v Speaker 1>biggest fan of the Alien franchise as a whole. But

0:37:38.960 --> 0:37:40.880
<v Speaker 1>I think when it comes down to my favorite of

0:37:40.880 --> 0:37:44.040
<v Speaker 1>the month, it goes to DDI just because I haven't

0:37:44.080 --> 0:37:47.560
<v Speaker 1>seen a movie take place in that time period done

0:37:47.640 --> 0:37:50.080
<v Speaker 1>that well too, so good, like two thousand and nine.

0:37:50.400 --> 0:37:52.120
<v Speaker 1>Two thousand and eight to two thousand and nine is

0:37:52.719 --> 0:37:55.520
<v Speaker 1>like a golden year for me and seeing all those

0:37:55.560 --> 0:37:58.840
<v Speaker 1>things that Dedie went through and realizing that also the

0:37:58.920 --> 0:38:01.680
<v Speaker 1>director is like my ab So I feel like that

0:38:01.760 --> 0:38:06.680
<v Speaker 1>movie was made for somebody exactly my age, also somebody

0:38:06.719 --> 0:38:10.480
<v Speaker 1>who their parents migrated from another country. And it was

0:38:10.520 --> 0:38:13.280
<v Speaker 1>also just I won't call it a straight on comedy.

0:38:13.280 --> 0:38:14.799
<v Speaker 1>There were some funny parts, but it was kind of

0:38:14.800 --> 0:38:17.520
<v Speaker 1>a dramedy. Yeah, where I wouldn't tell somebody go watch

0:38:17.560 --> 0:38:20.120
<v Speaker 1>this movie because it's hilarious, but there are funny parts

0:38:20.160 --> 0:38:22.680
<v Speaker 1>in it. And I feel like that movie is relatable

0:38:23.160 --> 0:38:25.480
<v Speaker 1>to anybody who's ever been a teenager. That's really the

0:38:25.480 --> 0:38:26.440
<v Speaker 1>prerequisite for it.

0:38:26.520 --> 0:38:28.600
<v Speaker 15>I mean it captured similar to what we talked about,

0:38:28.600 --> 0:38:31.520
<v Speaker 15>like eighth grade, it captured which you probably related to

0:38:31.560 --> 0:38:33.120
<v Speaker 15>this one more because it was a teenage boy where

0:38:33.160 --> 0:38:33.359
<v Speaker 15>was I.

0:38:33.320 --> 0:38:34.320
<v Speaker 1>Read did a tighth grade?

0:38:34.880 --> 0:38:37.360
<v Speaker 15>But it was like it captures the essence of that

0:38:38.000 --> 0:38:43.720
<v Speaker 15>awkward time of being like thirteen fourteen, eighth grade into

0:38:43.840 --> 0:38:46.800
<v Speaker 15>ninth grade. And my trauma that I still haven't forgiven

0:38:46.880 --> 0:38:48.680
<v Speaker 15>my parents for is that they moved me in the middle.

0:38:48.440 --> 0:38:48.959
<v Speaker 8>Of eighth grade.

0:38:49.280 --> 0:38:50.799
<v Speaker 1>Eighth grade was my worst year ever.

0:38:51.000 --> 0:38:53.320
<v Speaker 15>The movie in the middle of it, which was incredibly

0:38:53.360 --> 0:38:55.680
<v Speaker 15>rude and difficult. But I did meet my best friend

0:38:56.000 --> 0:38:58.840
<v Speaker 15>who was still my best friend this day on the

0:38:58.880 --> 0:39:00.680
<v Speaker 15>bus and we were like the two weird kids and

0:39:00.719 --> 0:39:02.359
<v Speaker 15>we've been best friends ever since, so that was the

0:39:02.360 --> 0:39:04.560
<v Speaker 15>only good thing. But that was some trauma.

0:39:04.640 --> 0:39:08.279
<v Speaker 1>I think I lost any friend I made from six

0:39:08.360 --> 0:39:11.080
<v Speaker 1>to seventh grade. In eighth grade, it's great, is brutal,

0:39:11.160 --> 0:39:13.440
<v Speaker 1>it is so and I don't even know why. It

0:39:13.600 --> 0:39:15.720
<v Speaker 1>just got to a point where I just stopped talking

0:39:15.719 --> 0:39:17.360
<v Speaker 1>to people because they stopped talking to me.

0:39:17.920 --> 0:39:20.279
<v Speaker 15>Everyone thinks that they're better, and then you get to

0:39:20.360 --> 0:39:21.960
<v Speaker 15>ninth grade and it's like everyone who was terrible to

0:39:22.000 --> 0:39:23.840
<v Speaker 15>you in eighth grade is like, hey, happy.

0:39:23.640 --> 0:39:25.719
<v Speaker 1>First day of school, and you're like me, I still

0:39:25.719 --> 0:39:27.520
<v Speaker 1>have the blade in my back from last year.

0:39:27.719 --> 0:39:30.719
<v Speaker 15>You're like you've literally spit on me, like, why are

0:39:30.760 --> 0:39:31.520
<v Speaker 15>you being nice to me?

0:39:32.200 --> 0:39:32.399
<v Speaker 9>Yeah?

0:39:32.440 --> 0:39:36.320
<v Speaker 1>I remember eating lunch alone a lot in eighth grade,

0:39:36.480 --> 0:39:38.759
<v Speaker 1>making friends with people I did not want to be

0:39:38.800 --> 0:39:41.040
<v Speaker 1>associated with, just because they'd be the only ones who

0:39:41.080 --> 0:39:43.960
<v Speaker 1>would sit around me at lunch, and I just remember

0:39:43.960 --> 0:39:45.240
<v Speaker 1>that time being awful.

0:39:45.840 --> 0:39:47.560
<v Speaker 15>I also apparently got a lot of hate because I

0:39:47.560 --> 0:39:48.960
<v Speaker 15>came in and I was really smart, and I would

0:39:49.000 --> 0:39:52.080
<v Speaker 15>like raise my hand and answer questions and I didn't know,

0:39:52.239 --> 0:39:54.359
<v Speaker 15>I didn't really fully realize that being smart would put

0:39:54.360 --> 0:39:56.000
<v Speaker 15>a target on your back. But sucks to be all

0:39:56.040 --> 0:39:57.759
<v Speaker 15>of them because I was smarter than all of them,

0:39:57.760 --> 0:39:59.960
<v Speaker 15>and I did graduate third in my class in high school.

0:39:59.719 --> 0:40:01.359
<v Speaker 1>So that's a fun thing to talk about. What were

0:40:01.400 --> 0:40:03.680
<v Speaker 1>the things that put a target on your back in

0:40:04.200 --> 0:40:06.839
<v Speaker 1>let's just say seventh and eighth grade. You said that

0:40:06.880 --> 0:40:08.719
<v Speaker 1>one for me, one of the big ones with just

0:40:08.760 --> 0:40:11.440
<v Speaker 1>me wearing all black all the time, which people associated

0:40:11.440 --> 0:40:14.200
<v Speaker 1>me with being emo goth, and I would get made

0:40:14.280 --> 0:40:16.600
<v Speaker 1>fun of that all the time because I wore all black.

0:40:16.800 --> 0:40:19.480
<v Speaker 8>Having a hard to pronounce last name. Oh yeah, I

0:40:19.520 --> 0:40:21.839
<v Speaker 8>don't know why that just makes you a target.

0:40:22.360 --> 0:40:23.879
<v Speaker 1>Because would they make fun of it?

0:40:24.200 --> 0:40:26.400
<v Speaker 15>Yeah, I was telling my younger brother the story the

0:40:26.480 --> 0:40:29.160
<v Speaker 15>other day. And one time somebody made fun of my

0:40:29.239 --> 0:40:31.480
<v Speaker 15>last name and I was like, sorry, take it up

0:40:31.520 --> 0:40:31.879
<v Speaker 15>with my dad.

0:40:31.960 --> 0:40:34.359
<v Speaker 8>Dad not shut them up. Ooh, that was a good coming.

0:40:34.640 --> 0:40:37.000
<v Speaker 1>That's always like the una reverse card.

0:40:37.760 --> 0:40:41.120
<v Speaker 15>Yeah, that like being smart, having a hard to pronounce

0:40:41.200 --> 0:40:45.239
<v Speaker 15>last name, and then weirdly like I had a hot mom,

0:40:45.280 --> 0:40:47.879
<v Speaker 15>which makes it really difficult to be a teenage.

0:40:47.560 --> 0:40:51.200
<v Speaker 1>Girl from the teenage boy or the teenage girl.

0:40:51.360 --> 0:40:52.040
<v Speaker 8>The teenage boy.

0:40:52.080 --> 0:40:53.640
<v Speaker 15>Like my mom would come have lunch with me at

0:40:53.640 --> 0:40:55.520
<v Speaker 15>school and everyone be like, oh man, who's that, And

0:40:55.520 --> 0:40:57.880
<v Speaker 15>I mean, it's my mom. I could tell they found

0:40:58.000 --> 0:40:59.560
<v Speaker 15>my mom more attractive than they found me.

0:40:59.680 --> 0:41:03.239
<v Speaker 1>So that was all so difficult. That's quite the top

0:41:03.280 --> 0:41:03.759
<v Speaker 1>three there.

0:41:04.200 --> 0:41:05.160
<v Speaker 8>It was pretty rough for me.

0:41:05.239 --> 0:41:07.520
<v Speaker 1>It was the all black clothing goes hand in hands

0:41:07.520 --> 0:41:10.040
<v Speaker 1>being into punk rock. Number two was being chunky. That's

0:41:10.080 --> 0:41:13.720
<v Speaker 1>just an easy target. Number three, I guess being Mexican,

0:41:13.960 --> 0:41:16.680
<v Speaker 1>just because people expect things out of me or assume

0:41:16.760 --> 0:41:19.120
<v Speaker 1>stereotypes about me. All right, now, they were through all

0:41:19.160 --> 0:41:19.920
<v Speaker 1>of our traumas.

0:41:20.080 --> 0:41:21.799
<v Speaker 8>Now that we are through Kelsey's childhood trauma.

0:41:21.840 --> 0:41:24.040
<v Speaker 15>Thank you for joining. If anyone is a psychologist, listening.

0:41:24.120 --> 0:41:25.279
<v Speaker 15>Please let me know what's wrong with me.

0:41:25.360 --> 0:41:29.399
<v Speaker 1>But there you go. DD was my best.

0:41:36.920 --> 0:41:40.640
<v Speaker 9>Caral. She's a queen and talking.

0:41:40.960 --> 0:41:41.720
<v Speaker 13>It was a song.

0:41:43.560 --> 0:41:47.279
<v Speaker 2>She's getting not afraid to face, so so just let

0:41:47.280 --> 0:41:47.720
<v Speaker 2>it float.

0:41:48.200 --> 0:41:53.520
<v Speaker 1>No one can do we quiet, Calne, It is time

0:41:53.600 --> 0:41:54.520
<v Speaker 1>for Caroline.

0:41:56.520 --> 0:41:57.319
<v Speaker 7>Were any pard too?

0:41:57.360 --> 0:41:58.200
<v Speaker 1>Are you ready? I'm ready?

0:41:58.280 --> 0:41:59.960
<v Speaker 16>This microphone is rolling way, so I'm just gonna hold

0:42:00.120 --> 0:42:00.680
<v Speaker 16>it to my face.

0:42:01.280 --> 0:42:05.120
<v Speaker 17>I loved part one where we talked about the front

0:42:05.440 --> 0:42:07.880
<v Speaker 17>the front half of Hannah. Yeah, but we can't stop now.

0:42:07.920 --> 0:42:09.760
<v Speaker 17>We can't because now we're getting to like the juicy

0:42:09.800 --> 0:42:12.120
<v Speaker 17>as bits. Yeah, so can we keep going?

0:42:12.120 --> 0:42:12.719
<v Speaker 6>Can we dive in?

0:42:12.840 --> 0:42:14.279
<v Speaker 7>I hope we do part two? Here we can be

0:42:14.320 --> 0:42:15.080
<v Speaker 7>sad if we didn't.

0:42:15.200 --> 0:42:17.880
<v Speaker 16>I know, this is like, oh my god, the main attraction.

0:42:18.000 --> 0:42:19.000
<v Speaker 7>Buckle up here we come.

0:42:19.400 --> 0:42:23.360
<v Speaker 18>We did a marriage intensive at on site, no okay,

0:42:23.560 --> 0:42:26.680
<v Speaker 18>and but we did it with another couple. It was

0:42:26.800 --> 0:42:30.560
<v Speaker 18>a two Christian like husband and wife like counselor peers,

0:42:30.640 --> 0:42:32.319
<v Speaker 18>and so we would come in with them every day.

0:42:32.680 --> 0:42:35.160
<v Speaker 18>And I was so excited about it because I was like,

0:42:35.239 --> 0:42:37.040
<v Speaker 18>we're going to fix all of Shay's problems.

0:42:38.920 --> 0:42:39.360
<v Speaker 4>How to go?

0:42:40.719 --> 0:42:42.680
<v Speaker 18>We came out of it and I was just like

0:42:42.960 --> 0:42:46.960
<v Speaker 18>shell shocked because we had storyboarded have you ever heard

0:42:46.960 --> 0:42:47.239
<v Speaker 18>of this?

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<v Speaker 10>Oh?

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<v Speaker 7>Tell me, this is good?

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<v Speaker 9>I love this.

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<v Speaker 18>We storyboarded out. This was one of our exercises. We

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<v Speaker 18>each were given a poster board and we wrote out

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<v Speaker 18>in thumbnail pictures our lives beautiful. It was like moments

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<v Speaker 18>of our lives.

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<v Speaker 16>A great way to know yourself and your partner.

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<v Speaker 18>Gosh, when I tell you, it was emotionally exhausting because.

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<v Speaker 7>I imagine to thirty years. I was thirty. This was

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<v Speaker 7>three years ago. I went through thirty years of like

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<v Speaker 7>trying to think.

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<v Speaker 18>Of the things that like impacted my life and like

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<v Speaker 18>that were pretty important to who I've become.

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<v Speaker 7>So shared a lot.

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<v Speaker 18>We spent hours just like doodling. Like it's funny because

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<v Speaker 18>on our storyboards, we both start out and it's like

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<v Speaker 18>so beautiful and like detailed, and by the end it's

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<v Speaker 18>just like stick figures and we're just like dead. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 18>and nothing else happened in the last ten years because

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<v Speaker 18>I'm tired and my brain hurts.

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<v Speaker 17>Why do way to clear the pipe cell? Well, so

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<v Speaker 17>we did that, and the actual like realizations you probably

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<v Speaker 17>learned of yourself.

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<v Speaker 18>Well, no, the shocking part was that she then went

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<v Speaker 18>through and she was like, I'm going to go through.

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<v Speaker 18>I want I want each of you, one at a time,

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<v Speaker 18>to go through your life and explain each of these

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<v Speaker 18>and then I'm gonna come back through with my sticky

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<v Speaker 18>notes and I'm gonna I'm gonna put on the board

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<v Speaker 18>what I hear.

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<v Speaker 17>You saying, WHOA, This is intense, intense, exhausting.

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<v Speaker 18>It was like when I tell you, like emotionally.

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<v Speaker 16>It's like an exorcism almost.

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<v Speaker 7>It was, so she ran out of sticky notes.

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<v Speaker 6>Was laughing over there.

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<v Speaker 16>It's not like an exorcism kind.

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<v Speaker 18>I feel like we went through Shaise and basically they

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<v Speaker 18>were like, oh, you can turn lemons into lemonade, but

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<v Speaker 18>she can't. Like that was like the thesis for his life.

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<v Speaker 18>And she ran out of sticky notes through me You're like.

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<v Speaker 17>We're gonna come vic se, I got this all figured out.

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<v Speaker 18>So she literally ended with like chronic trauma and I

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<v Speaker 18>was like what.

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<v Speaker 12>I was like what?

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<v Speaker 18>So anyway, all that to say, we both spent that

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<v Speaker 18>week and I think the.

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<v Speaker 16>What a moment in your marriage?

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<v Speaker 18>I think the important part was that we were we

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<v Speaker 18>were opening this up in front of each other and

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<v Speaker 18>so we literally and then we had to like talk

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<v Speaker 18>to our younger selves, this is.

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<v Speaker 16>So beautiful and vulnerable each other.

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<v Speaker 17>But just to be able to get that vulnerable, not

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<v Speaker 17>that you're not already vulnerable, but like to go all

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<v Speaker 17>the way into the demons and the dark of it all,

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<v Speaker 17>that was a door that's so beautiful.

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<v Speaker 18>Literally had to let go and like talk to my

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<v Speaker 18>little girl self and tell her, like and talk to her.

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<v Speaker 6>What did you tell her?

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<v Speaker 7>It was something really sad and.

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<v Speaker 18>It was just like it was so sad, and SHA's

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<v Speaker 18>just seeing this, you know what I mean? And like

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<v Speaker 18>he did the same thing.

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<v Speaker 16>What was your coping mechanism for your little girl? How

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<v Speaker 16>did you cope?

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<v Speaker 9>Well?

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<v Speaker 16>What did you do to protect her so she didn't

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<v Speaker 16>have to feel Well?

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<v Speaker 18>It's funny because like I went back and because she

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<v Speaker 18>was like, you need to probably do some solo therapy for.

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<v Speaker 7>Like your five years.

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<v Speaker 18>She's like, you probably need to like go do some

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<v Speaker 18>work on your own. And we did, we've both done that.

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<v Speaker 18>But but it was I actually said, I was like,

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<v Speaker 18>you're because I was bullied a lot, like a lot

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<v Speaker 18>of bullying. And again I'm a doormat and so I've

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<v Speaker 18>always been like quiet and reserved or ways.

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<v Speaker 7>I feel like I've like sorry, I feel like i've.

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<v Speaker 18>I've something about having kids really make you step into like.

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<v Speaker 16>Who mama, Lian, Yeah, you're like, I.

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<v Speaker 18>Really give a rats, but tuity what anyone thinks of me,

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<v Speaker 18>because now I'm a mom and there's more important things

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<v Speaker 18>in life than someone's opinion, so other than God's.

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<v Speaker 7>Like, yeah, as long as God's telling me I'm doing.

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<v Speaker 16>Good and you and your husband are on the same page,

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<v Speaker 16>that's exactly it.

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<v Speaker 18>Like I sat the other day and I was like,

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<v Speaker 18>I feel like I haven't talked to you in a

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<v Speaker 18>long time. God, and I just felt him say you're

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<v Speaker 18>a good mom, and I just started bowling you. Sometimes

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<v Speaker 18>you just like need need to hear it, you know.

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<v Speaker 16>Okay, So what did you tell your little girl there's

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<v Speaker 16>music to your personal share?

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<v Speaker 18>No, I just said the reason that I was bullied

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<v Speaker 18>a lot was because I was. They called me miss

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<v Speaker 18>goody two shoes, like I didn't break the rules and

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<v Speaker 18>like I was just like a rule follower and and

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<v Speaker 18>I and my mom told me my whole life, you're

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<v Speaker 18>a good girl, and like she'd always say, make good choices.

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<v Speaker 7>And I literally told her.

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<v Speaker 18>I was like, you're a good girl, and you are,

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<v Speaker 18>you are.

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<v Speaker 7>You did a good job, and you did a good job,

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<v Speaker 7>and you tried. You've been trying so hard, and.

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<v Speaker 18>Like the thing that came out of it was the

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<v Speaker 18>therapist actually said she was like do you know what?

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<v Speaker 18>She was like, I'm looking at your whole life, and

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<v Speaker 18>she was like, and you never followed. And I was like, like,

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<v Speaker 18>I'd never thought of that. But like as much as

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<v Speaker 18>I was picked on her, bullied or like all this

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<v Speaker 18>for for like being good, she was like, you never

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<v Speaker 18>followed them, like I never.

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<v Speaker 16>Like you just kind of raced it, raced for it.

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<v Speaker 18>I like I mom told me I was good and

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<v Speaker 18>I wanted to be good, and like, thank goodness for

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<v Speaker 18>that foundation because Shane and I were both like raised

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<v Speaker 18>to know and love the Lord, and I'm so thankful

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<v Speaker 18>for that. But I'd never heard that before in my

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<v Speaker 18>whole life. She looked at me and she was like,

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<v Speaker 18>you were never a follower, So proud of you. And

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<v Speaker 18>there was something about that that was like, oh, all

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<v Speaker 18>that hard work really did pay off and it is

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<v Speaker 18>a harder road it is.

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