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Speaker 1: listening to the voice, come on dig me now. One

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Speaker 1: and only is Steve Harvey. Man got a radio show.

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey got a radio show because God in the

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Speaker 1: blessing business. Yeah, that's all. I'm just a recipient. Steve

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Speaker 1: Harvey got a radio show because God is in the

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Speaker 1: show you favor business. He showed me some favor. Steve

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Speaker 1: Harvey got a radio show because God is in the

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Speaker 1: forgiving business. God and forgave me thousands and thousands of times,

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Speaker 1: you know. And I say that as a big number

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Speaker 1: like that, because it's probably true. God is a forgiving God.

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Speaker 1: That's how I exist today, and that's how you exist today.

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Speaker 1: And one of the things I want to remind you about,

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Speaker 1: even in existing today, you know, Joel Oldstein had a

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Speaker 1: has a book out call It's Your Time. I love

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Speaker 1: this book. It's called It's Your Time. And that's kind

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Speaker 1: I want to remind you all that it's still your time. See,

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Speaker 1: you know there's look, you know, they've got unsuccessful people

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Speaker 1: So to justify it, here comes this great, seemingly very

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Speaker 1: here's another one. I guess if God wanted it for me,

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Speaker 1: You're actually gonna use that one to to to justify

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Speaker 1: so not the case. I want to remind everybody today

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Speaker 1: that it's still your time. That you know your ship

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Speaker 1: hasn't sailed, you didn't miss all of your opportunities. There's others.

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Speaker 1: It's still your time. You know you still got a chance,

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Speaker 1: You still have a shot. Here's a good one. You

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Speaker 1: still have hope, you do all of you. As long

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Speaker 1: You can never lose sight of that. You can never

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Speaker 1: I'm just gonna cash in the chips. I'm gonna take

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Speaker 1: not coming from him. It's still your time, you still

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Speaker 1: You got to move and you got to move on it.

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Speaker 1: always under construction. You ain't gonna go out there and

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Speaker 1: I got, man, this is a perfect time to do

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Speaker 1: You have got to move and you've got to move

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. Welcome everybody, Welcome one, Welcome all,

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Speaker 1: we are here. Hold on y'all one second. Man, I'm

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Speaker 1: and gentlemen, this is the Steve Harvey Morning Show, and

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Speaker 1: this is how we chose to do it this morning.

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Speaker 1: The creator of reality radio. And it don't get no more. Really,

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Speaker 1: what hold on? Not get off his damn radio? You're

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Speaker 1: just wait. Welcome to the Steve Harvey Morning Sean Shirley Strawberry, Hey,

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Speaker 1: good morning, steal going on over there? I ain't nothing

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Speaker 1: happening right here. We're just being real with it, you know.

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Speaker 1: going on, Steven? Going on as you Mama, nephew Tommy.

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Speaker 1: Yet I'm in the building top top, Jathany Brown, what up,

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Speaker 1: mister Harvey? What's going on? Man? What is happening? Ain't nothing? Man?

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Speaker 1: Everybody goody Oh, I'm I'm in good shape, man, real

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Speaker 1: but if you listened real closely, is real stupid? Yeah yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: we're gonna talk to the cello. We're gonna ask the

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Speaker 1: chief love Officer, Steve Harvey. Right after this, you're listening

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Speaker 1: This one is from Harold and Newark, New Jersey. Harold writes,

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Speaker 1: I'm a thirty nine year old divorced man dating a

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Speaker 1: thirty three year old single mother. We started being intimate

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Speaker 1: so can I set the boundaries? Well, you're gonna have

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Speaker 1: appreciate you offering for a babysitter, but because of COVID,

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Speaker 1: build it. Well, woman, you were dating with kids, brought

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Speaker 1: It's time for church complaints with Reverend Motown and Deacon

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Speaker 1: deaf jamachin to zi. That was an a selection from

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Speaker 1: Pastor no, I speak to late, which you should be. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I don't know. Question in my sexuality has never been

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Speaker 1: the opiculation. The critificus would be in a manifestation of cholography.

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Speaker 1: Were here now for church complaint only, Yeah, come, come, come,

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Speaker 1: no complaint complain. That's I tell you. I didn't never

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Speaker 1: a nice little No, it wasn't big enough for me.

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Speaker 1: Eastern Ni. Huh, We're gonna We're gonna leave alone. Yeah, alright, alright,

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Speaker 1: The side Peace Ministry is asking for money to send

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Speaker 1: Booted blessings, Um, all right, booted blessings, I who used

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Speaker 1: Pass well, I don't, okay, father, If you will, knowing

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Speaker 1: up them state farm commercial. Mind is the white girl.

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Speaker 1: Let's him love lift him up so he can be

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Speaker 1: after this, you're listening to the Stave Harvey Morning Show. Well, guys,

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Speaker 1: we have to say congratulations to Lebron James and Don

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Speaker 1: brought in thirty one point sixty five million dollars. Yeah. Yes,

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Speaker 1: when the last time you heard that, right? Yeah? Since

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Speaker 1: thirty one for a movie that costs that. Yeah, but

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Speaker 1: Thirty one million is low. Man, that's a low number, y'all.

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Speaker 1: To be a lone time? Right, Yeah? How much it calls?

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Speaker 1: How much? Hundred and fifty million, I think to make it. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you can't do thirty on your first week, and thank

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Speaker 1: you for to get that back. Well, it's the number

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Speaker 1: one movie in the country though, so we gotta say

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Speaker 1: that was a scarlet Johns. I don't a lot of

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Speaker 1: you ain't talking black pants, all right, they did better

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Speaker 1: do enough. It's okay, I don't. I don't. I don't.

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Speaker 1: apologize this because I don't get damn about no black widow. Well,

421
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Speaker 1: I think Space Jam needs a shout out because I

422
00:31:29,760 --> 00:31:32,280
Speaker 1: saw a lot of black boys there, Steven. When the

423
00:31:32,320 --> 00:31:34,360
Speaker 1: movie was over, they were there with their dads and

424
00:31:34,400 --> 00:31:36,680
Speaker 1: they were like, oh cool, see it again. I love

425
00:31:36,840 --> 00:31:42,400
Speaker 1: Lebron dadd Okay, that's the point. Yeah. All I just

426
00:31:42,480 --> 00:31:45,120
Speaker 1: said was I don't care about no black widow. Okay,

427
00:31:45,200 --> 00:31:50,840
Speaker 1: moving on. You didn't have to say that I want

428
00:31:50,920 --> 00:31:55,000
Speaker 1: steel Water to come out. I want to see steel Water, Okay,

429
00:31:55,160 --> 00:31:57,760
Speaker 1: all right, but that's in the movies. And I went, man,

430
00:31:57,920 --> 00:32:00,600
Speaker 1: they ain't gonna be going out there that Matt Damon

431
00:32:00,920 --> 00:32:04,960
Speaker 1: all right, yeah. And other entertainment news, some sad news

432
00:32:04,960 --> 00:32:08,400
Speaker 1: to report case you haven't heard. Hip hop legend Bismarck

433
00:32:08,440 --> 00:32:12,120
Speaker 1: Key passed away Friday night at the age of fifty seven,

434
00:32:12,440 --> 00:32:15,720
Speaker 1: with his wife Tara Hall by his side. This was

435
00:32:15,800 --> 00:32:19,720
Speaker 1: after a long fight with complications from diabetes. He was

436
00:32:19,800 --> 00:32:22,920
Speaker 1: born in Harlem, of course, raised in Long Island, and

437
00:32:22,960 --> 00:32:25,160
Speaker 1: he got to start as a DJ before he came

438
00:32:25,240 --> 00:32:27,960
Speaker 1: on the scene in the mid eighties by bringing humor

439
00:32:28,320 --> 00:32:31,480
Speaker 1: to the rap game. His presence added some much needed

440
00:32:31,520 --> 00:32:35,160
Speaker 1: comic relief to the genre at the time that prioritized

441
00:32:35,240 --> 00:32:39,440
Speaker 1: gritty raps about street life. Including his biggest hit, Just

442
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Speaker 1: a Friend. BISMARKI Yeah was known as a human beatbox,

443
00:32:44,800 --> 00:32:47,480
Speaker 1: and in addition to his career as an artist, he

444
00:32:47,600 --> 00:32:51,120
Speaker 1: had a notable stint on children's shows and TV sitcoms.

445
00:32:51,200 --> 00:32:54,320
Speaker 1: Biz suffered from health problems in his final years. In

446
00:32:54,440 --> 00:32:58,080
Speaker 1: April of last year, he was hospitalized due to complications

447
00:32:58,120 --> 00:33:02,760
Speaker 1: from type two diabetes. We rest in peace, Bis Marquis.

448
00:33:04,320 --> 00:33:06,680
Speaker 1: I worked with him a bunch here, really really nice

449
00:33:06,720 --> 00:33:09,640
Speaker 1: gay man. He worked with him a few times. Great brother.

450
00:33:10,520 --> 00:33:12,920
Speaker 1: But you know what, he did not want to play

451
00:33:12,960 --> 00:33:15,600
Speaker 1: that damn song. He didn't want to sing it just

452
00:33:15,840 --> 00:33:18,880
Speaker 1: a friendly really you want to hit? He hitting him?

453
00:33:18,880 --> 00:33:22,200
Speaker 1: He played it enough. He wouldn't play it like they're

454
00:33:22,240 --> 00:33:24,040
Speaker 1: just a friendly, Like, yeah, IM gonna get them to it. Yeah,

455
00:33:24,040 --> 00:33:31,480
Speaker 1: I'm gonna playing. Yeah. So many tributes to him over

456
00:33:31,520 --> 00:33:35,280
Speaker 1: the weekend on social media. You know, everybody talked about

457
00:33:35,320 --> 00:33:40,160
Speaker 1: what a big teddy bear love of a guy. Yeah, yeah,

458
00:33:40,200 --> 00:33:44,880
Speaker 1: that's all. Yeah. I saw El cool Ja talk about him.

459
00:33:44,960 --> 00:33:48,280
Speaker 1: He was tearing up about the spend. Oh yeah yeah

460
00:33:48,760 --> 00:33:51,720
Speaker 1: yeah really really kid Free was talking about him. Man,

461
00:33:52,240 --> 00:33:56,120
Speaker 1: hey man. He was at at Magic Johnson's twenty fifth

462
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Speaker 1: way in the anniversary party that he threw all. Bis

463
00:34:00,480 --> 00:34:05,840
Speaker 1: Markey was the DJ, and he DJ for Dougie Fresh

464
00:34:06,240 --> 00:34:10,320
Speaker 1: and then l L came up impromptu and did the

465
00:34:10,480 --> 00:34:14,439
Speaker 1: coldest thing impromptu I've ever seen, just I've ever seen

466
00:34:16,640 --> 00:34:20,640
Speaker 1: on the dock in Santro pay. Yes, the coldest thing

467
00:34:20,760 --> 00:34:28,000
Speaker 1: I've ever seen. I said, Wow, this dude is talented man. Yeah, yeah,

468
00:34:28,360 --> 00:34:31,399
Speaker 1: very good guy. And Biz was the DJ. That's last

469
00:34:31,480 --> 00:34:35,279
Speaker 1: time I saw Biz and Biz did DJ when you

470
00:34:35,400 --> 00:34:38,560
Speaker 1: had the crates with them, the albums the whole you know,

471
00:34:38,920 --> 00:34:42,799
Speaker 1: waving for from the you know what I mean, yeah,

472
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Speaker 1: the final Yeah, he opened for Chris Rock during Chris

473
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Speaker 1: Rock's tour. You know, I mean he did some some

474
00:34:52,920 --> 00:34:56,880
Speaker 1: much different stuff, you know, and just was so in

475
00:34:57,080 --> 00:35:01,239
Speaker 1: demand as that DJ. All the stars wanted him for

476
00:35:01,320 --> 00:35:07,720
Speaker 1: their parties and stuff. You know. Yeah, yeah, nobody beats

477
00:35:07,760 --> 00:35:13,240
Speaker 1: the bizm And like you said, Shirley bought the humor

478
00:35:13,440 --> 00:35:16,239
Speaker 1: you know to hip hop. And even though Jay we

479
00:35:16,440 --> 00:35:19,160
Speaker 1: love just a friend, it just that that's a feel

480
00:35:19,239 --> 00:35:26,280
Speaker 1: good song. You know, you you can be off singing

481
00:35:26,400 --> 00:35:31,040
Speaker 1: in it all loud laugh, Just just a good song,

482
00:35:31,200 --> 00:35:36,200
Speaker 1: feel good song. Yeah. Even Bootsy Collins, another legend. Bootsy

483
00:35:36,320 --> 00:35:41,040
Speaker 1: Collins tweeted about Bismarkis losing Biz Marquis as you know,

484
00:35:41,280 --> 00:35:44,400
Speaker 1: being a legend and everything. So you got old school,

485
00:35:44,880 --> 00:35:47,440
Speaker 1: you know, talking about the new school. It's just you know,

486
00:35:47,600 --> 00:35:51,719
Speaker 1: he was he touched everyone. Bizmarquis did he touched everyone

487
00:35:52,239 --> 00:35:58,600
Speaker 1: he did. Yep again, rest in peace, Bismarquis. All right, Um,

488
00:35:59,000 --> 00:36:01,479
Speaker 1: we'll be back with more of the Steve Harvey Morning

489
00:36:01,520 --> 00:36:07,360
Speaker 1: Show right after this. You're listening show. All right, Steve,

490
00:36:07,480 --> 00:36:09,879
Speaker 1: introduce your friend. We got to look into his mind,

491
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Speaker 1: dark as it is. He's a bon demented mind of

492
00:36:17,040 --> 00:36:20,520
Speaker 1: Jeff and the Brown and it's really dark today. It's

493
00:36:20,920 --> 00:36:24,279
Speaker 1: probably I'm not surprised. No. First of all, I like

494
00:36:24,400 --> 00:36:26,279
Speaker 1: to think jess Amy and old people who came up

495
00:36:26,280 --> 00:36:28,400
Speaker 1: to the art show we did in Columbia, South Carolina,

496
00:36:28,680 --> 00:36:31,120
Speaker 1: had a great time, Thank you very much. Now, with

497
00:36:31,360 --> 00:36:34,400
Speaker 1: that being said, I am the darkest one on the

498
00:36:34,480 --> 00:36:39,920
Speaker 1: show by complexion and just attitude. I really am. But

499
00:36:40,280 --> 00:36:42,680
Speaker 1: it's because of the things I like, the things that

500
00:36:42,840 --> 00:36:46,360
Speaker 1: bring me joy. That Like if I see a balloon

501
00:36:47,080 --> 00:36:49,759
Speaker 1: held by a baby and it float up in the air,

502
00:36:50,600 --> 00:36:54,320
Speaker 1: the joy I get from that it's just unbelievable. Just

503
00:36:56,680 --> 00:36:59,200
Speaker 1: you can't you can't get the balloon. The balloon is

504
00:36:59,280 --> 00:37:02,840
Speaker 1: unretrievable and it just flies up and just so happy,

505
00:37:03,120 --> 00:37:06,800
Speaker 1: so happy with that. Oh my god. If I'm driving

506
00:37:06,880 --> 00:37:10,440
Speaker 1: on the highway and somebody passes me real fast and

507
00:37:10,560 --> 00:37:12,600
Speaker 1: then I get up a little further and I see

508
00:37:12,680 --> 00:37:17,680
Speaker 1: that their ass has pulled over. The joy that, the

509
00:37:17,960 --> 00:37:22,360
Speaker 1: joy that feels my body from that, Oh my god.

510
00:37:24,320 --> 00:37:26,520
Speaker 1: Oh just a little thing, this little thing, Just a

511
00:37:26,520 --> 00:37:30,040
Speaker 1: little things, you know, like if the door closes in

512
00:37:30,239 --> 00:37:35,239
Speaker 1: somebody's face when I'm on the elevator, Oh, I'm done.

513
00:37:35,560 --> 00:37:40,440
Speaker 1: I'm so. You gotta act like you pushing buttons, and

514
00:37:40,520 --> 00:37:42,840
Speaker 1: you gotta say it, I'm trying to. I'm trying. You

515
00:37:42,920 --> 00:37:45,480
Speaker 1: gotta do all that, you know, but you gotta say

516
00:37:45,520 --> 00:37:49,840
Speaker 1: that you're not trying at all. Oh, the joy I

517
00:37:49,960 --> 00:37:55,440
Speaker 1: get from your falling seeing somebody fall, there's no age anybody.

518
00:37:56,160 --> 00:38:01,120
Speaker 1: I don't give a damn. Oh my god. When you fall, now,

519
00:38:01,440 --> 00:38:06,480
Speaker 1: I will help you up, but I will help you up.

520
00:38:06,560 --> 00:38:11,279
Speaker 1: But when you fall, oh my god, I'm kill It

521
00:38:11,480 --> 00:38:16,360
Speaker 1: just fills my spirit. It feels you know what I like,

522
00:38:16,600 --> 00:38:18,799
Speaker 1: you know, like if we're in the rainy season, now,

523
00:38:19,320 --> 00:38:21,400
Speaker 1: this is so much fun. You see a lot of this.

524
00:38:21,560 --> 00:38:25,279
Speaker 1: You gotta drive around and see the bus splash water

525
00:38:25,440 --> 00:38:32,919
Speaker 1: on people. Just see that little look on the face like, yeah, yeah,

526
00:38:32,960 --> 00:38:41,200
Speaker 1: they got you, they got you. Oh. Oh, and last,

527
00:38:41,360 --> 00:38:44,680
Speaker 1: but not least, you're in the airport, you wet your

528
00:38:44,760 --> 00:38:48,319
Speaker 1: gate waiting for your flight, and to see somebody run

529
00:38:48,480 --> 00:38:52,480
Speaker 1: to the next gate who has missed their flight, you

530
00:38:52,600 --> 00:38:56,239
Speaker 1: have go oh my god. You guys. First of all,

531
00:38:56,840 --> 00:39:00,120
Speaker 1: you gotta you gotta laugh inside. But you have to

532
00:39:00,200 --> 00:39:02,680
Speaker 1: say to that person. You have to to get the

533
00:39:02,760 --> 00:39:05,359
Speaker 1: full joy out of it, as you gotta say, did

534
00:39:05,400 --> 00:39:10,840
Speaker 1: you miss your flight? You gotta say that. Coming up

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00:39:11,520 --> 00:39:14,640
Speaker 1: at thirty four minutes after the hour, tell us about

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00:39:14,719 --> 00:39:18,759
Speaker 1: that time you dot dot dot Right after this you're

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00:39:18,840 --> 00:39:25,560
Speaker 1: listening to show. All right, guys comedians on this show,

538
00:39:28,080 --> 00:39:30,960
Speaker 1: this segment is called tell us about that time you

539
00:39:31,520 --> 00:39:35,200
Speaker 1: dot dot dot All right, tell us about that time

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00:39:35,280 --> 00:39:39,440
Speaker 1: you cursed really loud in public but didn't really mean

541
00:39:39,560 --> 00:39:43,160
Speaker 1: it that time. Oh, I can tell you that, all right?

542
00:39:43,320 --> 00:39:46,840
Speaker 1: Come on, so um we we live the club street

543
00:39:46,880 --> 00:39:50,439
Speaker 1: from Minnitt College where they played football. If you would

544
00:39:50,520 --> 00:39:53,279
Speaker 1: line the field with with line or whatever, they let

545
00:39:53,320 --> 00:39:54,960
Speaker 1: you in the game free. So you go over there

546
00:39:55,000 --> 00:39:56,880
Speaker 1: and line the field and then hop the fence and

547
00:39:57,000 --> 00:40:00,320
Speaker 1: come back up coming back over. My mom almos on

548
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Speaker 1: the other side, but I didn't see her, and I yelled,

549
00:40:03,239 --> 00:40:07,279
Speaker 1: dot man, get your m put out my m f

550
00:40:07,640 --> 00:40:13,880
Speaker 1: A and my mom was. I was just cussing. I

551
00:40:13,960 --> 00:40:17,239
Speaker 1: was in the free farm, cussing man, and my mom

552
00:40:17,400 --> 00:40:19,480
Speaker 1: was on the other side. I just slid back over

553
00:40:19,600 --> 00:40:28,040
Speaker 1: on the wall, just staying a man. All right, come on, nephews,

554
00:40:28,840 --> 00:40:31,000
Speaker 1: I got one. I got one. It has to be

555
00:40:31,120 --> 00:40:34,560
Speaker 1: about cussing a lot of them. It could be anything

556
00:40:34,960 --> 00:40:37,680
Speaker 1: you had to go to court. All right, come on, nephew,

557
00:40:37,719 --> 00:40:39,440
Speaker 1: I know you got one. Tell us about the time

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00:40:39,560 --> 00:40:42,439
Speaker 1: you dot dot dot cuss whatever you did. I gotta

559
00:40:42,520 --> 00:40:45,520
Speaker 1: cust dot dot dot. I my pops, my dad sent

560
00:40:45,640 --> 00:40:48,279
Speaker 1: me to uh to drop something off at the church.

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00:40:48,880 --> 00:40:50,800
Speaker 1: And I'm walking around the church and looking for the

562
00:40:50,960 --> 00:40:52,840
Speaker 1: looking for the past, and looking for the past. I

563
00:40:52,880 --> 00:40:56,360
Speaker 1: don't see the pastor, and I didn't. Got frustrated and said,

564
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Speaker 1: where in the blank is past? And when I said that,

565
00:41:01,680 --> 00:41:04,440
Speaker 1: I lied to you not he showed up. But you

566
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Speaker 1: know what, he came back and and said, I'm the

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00:41:06,880 --> 00:41:10,960
Speaker 1: blank right here. You ain't gonna be talking like that

568
00:41:11,080 --> 00:41:15,400
Speaker 1: at my church. That's gonna be I that's the bonded

569
00:41:15,600 --> 00:41:23,000
Speaker 1: very well. See I was. I was looking at it

570
00:41:23,120 --> 00:41:26,040
Speaker 1: from this right here. You ever have somebody just come

571
00:41:26,160 --> 00:41:28,800
Speaker 1: up to you and ask you to tell a story.

572
00:41:29,360 --> 00:41:32,800
Speaker 1: But the story was just meant for just them. But

573
00:41:33,000 --> 00:41:34,880
Speaker 1: now they're in the group and they want and they

574
00:41:34,960 --> 00:41:37,440
Speaker 1: come up to you and they're gonna like, hey man, Steve,

575
00:41:37,560 --> 00:41:40,839
Speaker 1: what's up? Hey man? That was funny as him, man,

576
00:41:41,840 --> 00:41:44,920
Speaker 1: tell tell them about that time you got called cheat.

577
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Speaker 1: Turn My head just turned sout. I'm looking at this

578
00:41:53,480 --> 00:41:57,560
Speaker 1: stude like, hey, damn, that story, that story just for

579
00:41:57,840 --> 00:42:01,160
Speaker 1: us to here's your funning all these people. I don't

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00:42:01,200 --> 00:42:05,200
Speaker 1: even know these damn people. You're talking about the time

581
00:42:05,239 --> 00:42:14,680
Speaker 1: you got you got called cheat? You maybe he didn't ask, Yeah, yeah,

582
00:42:15,600 --> 00:42:23,879
Speaker 1: you go ahead, all right, tell us about that time

583
00:42:23,960 --> 00:42:26,359
Speaker 1: you were playing. Tell us about that time you dot

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00:42:26,440 --> 00:42:28,520
Speaker 1: dot dot. What about what if you had to go

585
00:42:28,560 --> 00:42:31,000
Speaker 1: to court? Anybody have to go to quarter? Oh yeah,

586
00:42:31,200 --> 00:42:35,759
Speaker 1: hell yeah, I go to court. You don't eat the

587
00:42:35,840 --> 00:42:40,480
Speaker 1: caney what you court? Masters? Right? What you want divorce?

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00:42:40,719 --> 00:42:48,719
Speaker 1: You want what you want court? I went to court.

589
00:42:48,880 --> 00:42:50,680
Speaker 1: Can I talk about this one time I went to

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00:42:50,800 --> 00:42:54,880
Speaker 1: court and I had to give If anybody doesn't notice,

591
00:42:55,000 --> 00:42:57,319
Speaker 1: if you get married in the state of California, once

592
00:42:57,360 --> 00:43:00,040
Speaker 1: you get a divorce, the money that you made you

593
00:43:00,160 --> 00:43:03,239
Speaker 1: have to split that. And when I heard that, it

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00:43:03,360 --> 00:43:06,360
Speaker 1: didn't register in my mind. It's because I said, okay,

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00:43:06,560 --> 00:43:08,600
Speaker 1: I got that, and I didn't figure out the number

596
00:43:08,719 --> 00:43:11,399
Speaker 1: till my ass got outside. I'm like, I don't be damned.

597
00:43:11,800 --> 00:43:14,120
Speaker 1: That's a lot of money. That is a lot of money.

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00:43:14,160 --> 00:43:20,120
Speaker 1: I got it. Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, that was a

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00:43:20,280 --> 00:43:26,359
Speaker 1: start of it. I tell about the time I went

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Speaker 1: to court one time. I just want a settlement for

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00:43:30,680 --> 00:43:33,680
Speaker 1: this car accident. The six hundred seventy five a lot

602
00:43:33,760 --> 00:43:37,560
Speaker 1: of money to me, but my car got smashed and

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00:43:37,719 --> 00:43:40,719
Speaker 1: I old like three hundred four hundred to get the

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00:43:40,800 --> 00:43:43,719
Speaker 1: car fixed. And then because an accident, I had to

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Speaker 1: go to courts. So when I got to settlement a check,

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00:43:46,440 --> 00:43:49,719
Speaker 1: I got six hundred something. And then I got a

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00:43:49,760 --> 00:43:54,120
Speaker 1: speeding ticket in the school zone. And when I got

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Speaker 1: the court, they charged me the exact amount of money

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Speaker 1: that I had left sitting there. I went from six

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Speaker 1: seventy five and nothing. God, all right, thanks guys. Coming

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Speaker 1: up next the Nephew with today's prank phone call. Right

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Speaker 1: after this, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 1: Coming up at the top of the hour. Right about

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Speaker 1: four minutes after it's my Strawberry letter for today in

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Speaker 1: the subject Oh you guys, are gonna love this. This

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Speaker 1: drinking and cussin has got to stop this drinking and

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Speaker 1: cussin has to stop. Dun dunk. Yeah, we'll get to

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00:44:36,160 --> 00:44:38,280
Speaker 1: that a little bit later, but right now, the nephew

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Speaker 1: is here with today's prank phone call. What you got

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Speaker 1: for is nev three minute remarks. Three minute remark. I

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Speaker 1: think all of us as black people know what that means.

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Speaker 1: Three minute remarks. It happens at the funeral and people

623
00:44:54,600 --> 00:44:57,200
Speaker 1: want to go a lot longer than that and what's expected.

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00:44:57,320 --> 00:45:03,680
Speaker 1: So let's uh take a listen. Three minut Well, yes,

625
00:45:03,800 --> 00:45:07,719
Speaker 1: I'm trying to reach a brother, Keith, please, Yeah, this

626
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Speaker 1: is Keith Keith. How you doing this? Is Lawrence over

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00:45:12,040 --> 00:45:17,360
Speaker 1: at ill funeral Home. Okay. We are the ones that

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Speaker 1: have the uh doing the funeral for sister Dolores, and

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Speaker 1: that is uh your my understanding, right yeah okay, And

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Speaker 1: as you know, the funeral is uh this coming Thursday. Yes,

631
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Speaker 1: I'll be that Thursday. I'm giving you a call because

632
00:45:39,560 --> 00:45:44,440
Speaker 1: it's been brought to my attention, uh that you were

633
00:45:44,520 --> 00:45:51,360
Speaker 1: going to be giving remarks for the funeral. Is that correct? Yes? Absolutely, Okay.

634
00:45:51,480 --> 00:45:53,880
Speaker 1: I wanted to call you because we're getting ready to

635
00:45:54,000 --> 00:45:58,120
Speaker 1: print the programs for the funeral and let you know

636
00:45:58,400 --> 00:46:03,480
Speaker 1: that they have taken you you off for the remarks. Uh,

637
00:46:03,960 --> 00:46:07,719
Speaker 1: because they say that you're not going to be hold

638
00:46:07,760 --> 00:46:11,279
Speaker 1: on What do you mean taking me off? Well, what

639
00:46:11,360 --> 00:46:13,719
Speaker 1: I'm saying is they say that you're you're not going

640
00:46:13,840 --> 00:46:17,480
Speaker 1: to abide by the two three minute rule that they

641
00:46:17,600 --> 00:46:20,680
Speaker 1: have for remarks, and they wanted they've they've taken you off.

642
00:46:21,320 --> 00:46:25,040
Speaker 1: And uh uh who? Who? Who is they? Who? Who?

643
00:46:25,200 --> 00:46:30,320
Speaker 1: Who come off? Who? Who? What's your name is? Launch?

644
00:46:30,360 --> 00:46:34,839
Speaker 1: I'm Launched, I'm the actual funeral director lord. And who

645
00:46:34,960 --> 00:46:38,360
Speaker 1: who told you to take me off? One of the

646
00:46:38,880 --> 00:46:41,480
Speaker 1: one of the family members I'm assuming is who who

647
00:46:42,040 --> 00:46:45,839
Speaker 1: made the adjustment? And an adjustment that ain't no adjustment,

648
00:46:46,239 --> 00:46:49,200
Speaker 1: that's that's changing the whole program? Who else is on

649
00:46:49,280 --> 00:46:52,359
Speaker 1: the list? I mean there's quite a few family members

650
00:46:52,440 --> 00:46:57,759
Speaker 1: doing different things, uh throughout the funeral. Okay, So how

651
00:46:57,800 --> 00:46:59,440
Speaker 1: did you get to my name? Is what I'm trying

652
00:46:59,440 --> 00:47:03,120
Speaker 1: to figure out that they said that let listen to me. Listen,

653
00:47:03,239 --> 00:47:06,239
Speaker 1: listen to me. Listen to me, brother, keep listen to me.

654
00:47:06,320 --> 00:47:08,600
Speaker 1: What they said it is that you weren't going to

655
00:47:09,520 --> 00:47:13,560
Speaker 1: abide by the time you weren't going to do your

656
00:47:13,640 --> 00:47:18,320
Speaker 1: remarks in three minutes or less. Listen, listen, listen, listen.

657
00:47:18,960 --> 00:47:22,360
Speaker 1: Monty raised me. He put me through college. And you

658
00:47:22,480 --> 00:47:25,400
Speaker 1: think I'm ben I've Beenna goes there in her funeral

659
00:47:26,000 --> 00:47:30,799
Speaker 1: and be under two minutes. Well, well, listen to listen, brother,

660
00:47:30,920 --> 00:47:33,680
Speaker 1: keep brother, keep listen to me. Normally, when we have

661
00:47:33,920 --> 00:47:37,960
Speaker 1: these funerals, people who give remarks, we have them three

662
00:47:38,040 --> 00:47:42,279
Speaker 1: minutes or less. Okay, I'll tell you what. I'll tell

663
00:47:42,280 --> 00:47:48,160
Speaker 1: you what, mister lord. Don't list the list. We have

664
00:47:48,320 --> 00:47:52,879
Speaker 1: a sealer. Yes, there's a sealer that's singing your name

665
00:47:53,040 --> 00:47:55,239
Speaker 1: off the list. Take her off the list and put

666
00:47:55,360 --> 00:47:57,520
Speaker 1: me where she supposed to be with my turn, and

667
00:47:57,719 --> 00:48:06,400
Speaker 1: her time is Bobby Bobby um, Yes, Bobby Junior is

668
00:48:06,440 --> 00:48:12,480
Speaker 1: given remark. That's that's that's Delores'. That's mister Delores's son, right, Yes,

669
00:48:12,920 --> 00:48:15,320
Speaker 1: every son, the one that's been locked up. He just

670
00:48:15,600 --> 00:48:17,840
Speaker 1: got out of him. The truth be told. He the

671
00:48:17,920 --> 00:48:20,400
Speaker 1: one Dawn. Then put her in the coffee. You needn't

672
00:48:20,400 --> 00:48:22,719
Speaker 1: take him off the list too. Give me all that time,

673
00:48:22,719 --> 00:48:26,200
Speaker 1: because I mean, if I ain gonna take nothing that Keith,

674
00:48:26,320 --> 00:48:28,160
Speaker 1: let me let me let me just say this to you.

675
00:48:29,000 --> 00:48:33,439
Speaker 1: I cannot take Slaw or Bobby Junior off. I can't

676
00:48:33,520 --> 00:48:40,239
Speaker 1: make any alterations to this program unless they say that, actually, sir,

677
00:48:40,960 --> 00:48:44,399
Speaker 1: you already you already taking you already taking people name off,

678
00:48:44,480 --> 00:48:48,319
Speaker 1: you're taking my name off. But but they they orchestrated

679
00:48:48,360 --> 00:48:52,360
Speaker 1: this though, who is they? Who is day? They for

680
00:48:52,520 --> 00:48:54,640
Speaker 1: having my whole problem? They try to take me off

681
00:48:54,719 --> 00:48:59,879
Speaker 1: my hockey program? Who is date? Sir? I'm not gonna

682
00:49:00,160 --> 00:49:02,880
Speaker 1: into a family matter. But until they say that you

683
00:49:03,000 --> 00:49:07,360
Speaker 1: can't family matter, sure, I'm not gonna. I don't want to.

684
00:49:07,520 --> 00:49:10,279
Speaker 1: I don't want to have this turn out to be bad,

685
00:49:10,400 --> 00:49:14,840
Speaker 1: and we want to have a great homegoing for sister Deloyer. Okay,

686
00:49:14,920 --> 00:49:17,080
Speaker 1: damn right. And if I don't get to say nothing,

687
00:49:17,320 --> 00:49:19,880
Speaker 1: I guarantee you, I guarantee you it's gonna be a

688
00:49:19,920 --> 00:49:22,719
Speaker 1: truthful one in there. Somebody else gonna get those and

689
00:49:22,800 --> 00:49:25,839
Speaker 1: the call for tooth. I guarantees that if I don't

690
00:49:25,880 --> 00:49:28,600
Speaker 1: get to say nothing that my monkey funeral, Monethy didn't

691
00:49:28,760 --> 00:49:32,400
Speaker 1: pay for the college, I didn't put six thousand in

692
00:49:32,480 --> 00:49:35,200
Speaker 1: the funeral. I bet you, I tell you this. I'll

693
00:49:35,239 --> 00:49:38,000
Speaker 1: tell you this, mister Lord. I bet you whether I

694
00:49:38,000 --> 00:49:40,440
Speaker 1: don't want the program. I'm not. I'll bet you I

695
00:49:40,560 --> 00:49:42,839
Speaker 1: say it with the fool I want to. I'll bet

696
00:49:42,920 --> 00:49:48,000
Speaker 1: you that much. You tell Bay that I didn't. He

697
00:49:48,000 --> 00:49:51,320
Speaker 1: didn't put me through college. I put money on the funeral.

698
00:49:52,040 --> 00:49:54,040
Speaker 1: I called around a few. You ain't putting no money

699
00:49:54,040 --> 00:49:57,839
Speaker 1: on the funeral. Tell them they can't be on the program. Man,

700
00:49:59,120 --> 00:50:04,239
Speaker 1: keep the they when they decide who who Who's own it?

701
00:50:04,760 --> 00:50:08,160
Speaker 1: If they changed the format, then I will call you back.

702
00:50:08,840 --> 00:50:12,359
Speaker 1: Who who the is thegue? That's what I'm trying to get.

703
00:50:12,680 --> 00:50:15,200
Speaker 1: Get you understand who is back? Can I can? I

704
00:50:15,320 --> 00:50:17,359
Speaker 1: tell you something and I don't want you to get

705
00:50:17,400 --> 00:50:21,480
Speaker 1: to I raped Okay, ahead, go ahead, go ahead, man,

706
00:50:22,040 --> 00:50:24,800
Speaker 1: I just want to say this. Keep with them. This

707
00:50:25,000 --> 00:50:28,000
Speaker 1: is nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey Morty Show. You

708
00:50:28,239 --> 00:50:32,840
Speaker 1: just got breaked, Just gotten breaked by your cousin, Bobby Junior.

709
00:50:35,400 --> 00:50:43,840
Speaker 1: You bum, I'm Bobby Junior. Up. I'm kicking Bobby. I

710
00:50:44,000 --> 00:50:48,520
Speaker 1: know that my pressure is all. I ain't got time

711
00:50:48,560 --> 00:50:57,640
Speaker 1: to be playing man taking me on damn program. I'm Bobby.

712
00:50:57,960 --> 00:51:02,200
Speaker 1: Bobby's say, y'all grew up black brothers man, and you

713
00:51:02,360 --> 00:51:06,680
Speaker 1: was you was basically another son of mister Lord's that's right, Yes, yes,

714
00:51:06,800 --> 00:51:11,399
Speaker 1: I was. Man. Oh hey, let me ask you this man,

715
00:51:11,560 --> 00:51:14,440
Speaker 1: what is the baddest and I mean the baddest radio

716
00:51:14,680 --> 00:51:25,880
Speaker 1: show in the land. Steve Harvey morning shout when he

717
00:51:26,320 --> 00:51:31,480
Speaker 1: as soon as he was to find out who they Hey,

718
00:51:32,480 --> 00:51:40,440
Speaker 1: all of these problem for me, the people he was.

719
00:51:42,440 --> 00:51:44,359
Speaker 1: Let me let me hear who's on that? Because I'm

720
00:51:44,400 --> 00:51:46,359
Speaker 1: taking them off? Who's on the What the hell they

721
00:51:46,440 --> 00:51:52,799
Speaker 1: doing on that? She singing? Take off? I got her time.

722
00:51:55,200 --> 00:52:03,400
Speaker 1: I know where a little bobby ain't on that? Good man.

723
00:52:03,520 --> 00:52:04,960
Speaker 1: Let me put this out there because y'all got to

724
00:52:05,000 --> 00:52:06,719
Speaker 1: tune in. You got to tune in. I promise you,

725
00:52:07,080 --> 00:52:11,759
Speaker 1: Power Book three, Raising Cane, you do not. That's from

726
00:52:11,840 --> 00:52:14,920
Speaker 1: the executive producer, Curtis pit This cent Jackson and for

727
00:52:15,200 --> 00:52:17,560
Speaker 1: the ad kill, I'm telling you this is gonna be

728
00:52:17,600 --> 00:52:18,920
Speaker 1: a hit. Now, this is what I like about it.

729
00:52:19,400 --> 00:52:23,800
Speaker 1: Nineteen ninety one Southside, Jamaica Queens like neverb store before.

730
00:52:23,920 --> 00:52:26,640
Speaker 1: The story revolves around the coming of age of Canaan

731
00:52:26,680 --> 00:52:30,000
Speaker 1: Stark as he enters into the world of crime. Now,

732
00:52:30,400 --> 00:52:33,239
Speaker 1: this is a prequel to the original Power series, but

733
00:52:33,320 --> 00:52:35,400
Speaker 1: guess what it stands on its own. It's not like

734
00:52:35,520 --> 00:52:37,840
Speaker 1: you had to see Power in order to see this.

735
00:52:38,040 --> 00:52:40,040
Speaker 1: You can jump right in and had this story about yourself.

736
00:52:40,120 --> 00:52:43,200
Speaker 1: So all right. It premiered last night, July eighteenth, on

737
00:52:43,320 --> 00:52:46,279
Speaker 1: Stars and the Stars app. You gotta want you watch

738
00:52:46,360 --> 00:52:51,440
Speaker 1: it on Sunday nights on Stars. That is Power Book

739
00:52:51,680 --> 00:53:02,160
Speaker 1: three raising Canadan. Yes, does it again? H yeahs Pity

740
00:53:02,280 --> 00:53:05,840
Speaker 1: is talented man? Yeah, yes, you need to watch this.

741
00:53:05,960 --> 00:53:07,880
Speaker 1: You need to watch this one called thirteen Steve. You

742
00:53:08,000 --> 00:53:10,600
Speaker 1: elect that the number thirteen and fifties in it. But

743
00:53:10,680 --> 00:53:13,080
Speaker 1: he's also producing it. All right. If you think i't

744
00:53:13,120 --> 00:53:17,239
Speaker 1: some movies, y'all? Is that where he a computer guy? No? No, no,

745
00:53:17,440 --> 00:53:23,520
Speaker 1: this is like Russian Roulette. It's crazy Russia. Yes, all right,

746
00:53:23,920 --> 00:53:26,520
Speaker 1: all right, thank you, nephew. Coming up next Strawberry Letters.

747
00:53:26,600 --> 00:53:30,279
Speaker 1: Subject this drinking and cussing has to stop. We'll get

748
00:53:30,320 --> 00:53:33,600
Speaker 1: into it right after this. You're listening to the Steve

749
00:53:33,760 --> 00:53:38,239
Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. Time now for today's Strawberry Letter. And

750
00:53:38,480 --> 00:53:42,120
Speaker 1: if you need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting,

751
00:53:42,160 --> 00:53:45,040
Speaker 1: and more. Please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve Harvey

752
00:53:45,160 --> 00:53:48,600
Speaker 1: FM dot com and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could

753
00:53:48,640 --> 00:53:51,520
Speaker 1: be reading your letter just like We're gonna read this

754
00:53:51,680 --> 00:53:54,880
Speaker 1: one right here, right now. It could be yours. You

755
00:53:54,960 --> 00:53:58,600
Speaker 1: never know, you never know. Buckle oppinghold on tight, we

756
00:53:58,680 --> 00:54:00,560
Speaker 1: got it, pall you here it is is the straw

757
00:54:00,640 --> 00:54:05,520
Speaker 1: beveryletta subject. This drinking and cussing has to stop. Dear

758
00:54:05,600 --> 00:54:08,799
Speaker 1: Stephen Shirley, my husband of twenty two years, has made

759
00:54:08,840 --> 00:54:11,719
Speaker 1: a lot of changes in the last six months. He's

760
00:54:11,760 --> 00:54:14,200
Speaker 1: been in the military since I met him, and he

761
00:54:14,400 --> 00:54:17,160
Speaker 1: retired last year, but he still hangs out with his

762
00:54:17,280 --> 00:54:20,960
Speaker 1: co workers. He is always cursed like a sailor because

763
00:54:21,000 --> 00:54:23,759
Speaker 1: he was a sailor when he was younger. When we

764
00:54:23,920 --> 00:54:26,360
Speaker 1: had our first child, I asked him to watch what

765
00:54:26,480 --> 00:54:29,200
Speaker 1: he said around our daughter after he slacked up with

766
00:54:29,560 --> 00:54:33,360
Speaker 1: using profanity, and he did slack up with using profanity.

767
00:54:33,719 --> 00:54:36,920
Speaker 1: Now that he's retired, I think he's frustrated and bored

768
00:54:37,040 --> 00:54:41,040
Speaker 1: because he started using strong four letter words and he said,

769
00:54:41,120 --> 00:54:43,520
Speaker 1: the kids are old enough to understand. We have a

770
00:54:43,600 --> 00:54:46,560
Speaker 1: seventeen year old and a fifteen year old and he

771
00:54:46,719 --> 00:54:49,439
Speaker 1: curses at them like they are his age. Not only

772
00:54:49,520 --> 00:54:51,560
Speaker 1: do I have to put up with his bad language.

773
00:54:51,719 --> 00:54:55,000
Speaker 1: He put a bar in the basement and bought all

774
00:54:55,160 --> 00:54:58,480
Speaker 1: brands of alcohol and his former co workers pop up

775
00:54:58,480 --> 00:55:00,839
Speaker 1: at our house and they go down stairs and drink

776
00:55:00,920 --> 00:55:03,840
Speaker 1: up all of my husband's liquor. He gets very drunk,

777
00:55:04,160 --> 00:55:06,920
Speaker 1: and usually he falls asleep in the basement and I

778
00:55:07,040 --> 00:55:09,960
Speaker 1: have to usher his friends out. Money is not an

779
00:55:10,000 --> 00:55:12,640
Speaker 1: issue with all of the alcohol, but I get tired

780
00:55:12,680 --> 00:55:15,520
Speaker 1: of his buddies drinking up his premium liquor and they

781
00:55:15,560 --> 00:55:18,960
Speaker 1: don't give him one cent to buy more. I asked

782
00:55:19,080 --> 00:55:21,400
Speaker 1: my husband if he's going through something or if this

783
00:55:21,600 --> 00:55:24,960
Speaker 1: is a midlife crisis, and he told me that he's fine,

784
00:55:25,280 --> 00:55:27,840
Speaker 1: but ready to let his hair down a little because

785
00:55:27,880 --> 00:55:30,399
Speaker 1: he's not working anymore. I did not want to spend

786
00:55:30,480 --> 00:55:34,560
Speaker 1: my retirement with a drunk, foul mouth man. Here's the

787
00:55:34,640 --> 00:55:37,640
Speaker 1: worst part. The last time we were being intimate, he

788
00:55:37,880 --> 00:55:40,400
Speaker 1: was drunk and he called me a dirty name, and

789
00:55:40,480 --> 00:55:43,160
Speaker 1: he kept cursing so loudly. I was afraid our kids

790
00:55:43,200 --> 00:55:45,319
Speaker 1: would hear it. How can I stop him from being

791
00:55:45,440 --> 00:55:51,319
Speaker 1: so crude? I need the drinking and cussing to stop. Wow, well,

792
00:55:51,440 --> 00:55:54,280
Speaker 1: it doesn't look like it's gonna stop for a while anyway.

793
00:55:55,560 --> 00:55:58,680
Speaker 1: It sounds like your husband needs a seriously different kind

794
00:55:58,760 --> 00:56:02,400
Speaker 1: of hobby than just being downstairs drinking with his friends.

795
00:56:02,840 --> 00:56:04,520
Speaker 1: But he did tell you he wanted to let his

796
00:56:04,640 --> 00:56:07,440
Speaker 1: hair down a little bit. Maybe this is not gonna

797
00:56:07,520 --> 00:56:10,279
Speaker 1: last forever, but I see you want to cut it

798
00:56:10,360 --> 00:56:13,040
Speaker 1: off now, cut it off at the pass before it

799
00:56:13,120 --> 00:56:16,040
Speaker 1: gets any worse. He did say, like I said, he

800
00:56:16,160 --> 00:56:18,120
Speaker 1: wanted to let his hair down a little because he's

801
00:56:18,120 --> 00:56:20,880
Speaker 1: not working anymore. And that's you know, you set it too.

802
00:56:21,000 --> 00:56:24,200
Speaker 1: He's bored and frustrated. But he also has to realize

803
00:56:24,239 --> 00:56:26,600
Speaker 1: that this is your house too. When you guys do

804
00:56:26,800 --> 00:56:29,640
Speaker 1: have kids, he needs to be mindful and respectful of

805
00:56:29,760 --> 00:56:34,279
Speaker 1: his influence on them. He was able to curb his

806
00:56:34,360 --> 00:56:36,840
Speaker 1: cursing when your daughter was little, so you know he

807
00:56:36,920 --> 00:56:40,120
Speaker 1: can change if he wants to. I say, you tell

808
00:56:40,239 --> 00:56:42,040
Speaker 1: him you need a break from all the company and

809
00:56:42,120 --> 00:56:44,680
Speaker 1: the drinking and the cursing, because he's getting out of control,

810
00:56:44,760 --> 00:56:48,319
Speaker 1: and he's drinking way too much, maybe turning into an alcoholic.

811
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Speaker 1: You know, let him know he's setting a horrible example

812
00:56:51,840 --> 00:56:53,960
Speaker 1: for the kids. He needs to find out something, find

813
00:56:54,040 --> 00:56:57,440
Speaker 1: something else to do. Tell him you don't want drunk sex.

814
00:56:58,000 --> 00:57:00,759
Speaker 1: You don't want that, and you don't want his old

815
00:57:00,840 --> 00:57:03,799
Speaker 1: co workers just popping up at the house. Unannounced. Now

816
00:57:03,840 --> 00:57:05,600
Speaker 1: are you mad at that or are you mad at

817
00:57:05,680 --> 00:57:08,680
Speaker 1: the fact that they're drinking off all your husband's good liquor,

818
00:57:09,040 --> 00:57:11,480
Speaker 1: Because those are kind of two different issues. If they come,

819
00:57:11,680 --> 00:57:13,680
Speaker 1: you don't have to answer the door, especially if they

820
00:57:13,760 --> 00:57:16,880
Speaker 1: come unannounced, stop letting them in. If they do, just

821
00:57:17,040 --> 00:57:19,640
Speaker 1: don't answer the door. And if you do let them in,

822
00:57:20,200 --> 00:57:23,400
Speaker 1: hide the liquor. Hide the liquor. All right, that's what

823
00:57:23,560 --> 00:57:29,560
Speaker 1: you have to do, Steve. Well, this drinking and cussing

824
00:57:29,760 --> 00:57:32,800
Speaker 1: has to stop. I'm gonna just be up front with

825
00:57:32,920 --> 00:57:35,360
Speaker 1: you before we start this letter. I might can help

826
00:57:35,400 --> 00:57:40,720
Speaker 1: you with your drinking. What are you saying? I don't

827
00:57:40,760 --> 00:57:48,680
Speaker 1: want to be hypocritical. I think I can possibly help

828
00:57:48,760 --> 00:57:53,800
Speaker 1: you with this cussingm coulor. I know where it comes from. Anyway,

829
00:57:53,960 --> 00:57:56,920
Speaker 1: Your husband twenty two have made a lot of changes

830
00:57:57,000 --> 00:57:59,880
Speaker 1: in the last six months, been in the middle of

831
00:58:00,040 --> 00:58:02,160
Speaker 1: head since you met him. He retired last week, but

832
00:58:02,240 --> 00:58:05,160
Speaker 1: he still hangs around with his co workers. Well, he

833
00:58:05,280 --> 00:58:10,040
Speaker 1: miss his friends. They they had relationships. You know a

834
00:58:10,080 --> 00:58:11,960
Speaker 1: lot of people want to say stopped working. You know,

835
00:58:12,040 --> 00:58:15,800
Speaker 1: they missed the camaraderie at work, They missed the relationships

836
00:58:15,880 --> 00:58:17,880
Speaker 1: down at the job. They just his dudes, and he

837
00:58:18,000 --> 00:58:23,080
Speaker 1: missed them all right, So he's always cuss like a sailor,

838
00:58:23,400 --> 00:58:26,800
Speaker 1: and he said that's because he was. But marines cuss,

839
00:58:27,000 --> 00:58:30,520
Speaker 1: army people cause, post office workers cuse passed his cuss,

840
00:58:31,120 --> 00:58:35,959
Speaker 1: Comedians cuse, radio show host cuss. Shirley cuss. He acts

841
00:58:35,960 --> 00:58:39,200
Speaker 1: like she don't, but she probably do all that old

842
00:58:39,280 --> 00:58:42,240
Speaker 1: mess right there. Who the hell don't cuss anyway? Anyway,

843
00:58:42,320 --> 00:58:44,720
Speaker 1: let's just move on. I'll tell you for show calling

844
00:58:44,800 --> 00:58:47,840
Speaker 1: for real. Cus. So, now we had our first child.

845
00:58:47,880 --> 00:58:50,680
Speaker 1: I asked him to watch what he said around her daughter,

846
00:58:50,840 --> 00:58:54,440
Speaker 1: and he slacked up. Well, now he's retired and he's

847
00:58:54,480 --> 00:58:58,240
Speaker 1: frustrating the board because he'd started using full out of

848
00:58:58,280 --> 00:59:03,080
Speaker 1: words again. But he slacked up when the baby was young.

849
00:59:03,160 --> 00:59:05,280
Speaker 1: But see now you say, we have a seventeen year

850
00:59:05,280 --> 00:59:07,400
Speaker 1: old and a fifteen year old and he cusses at

851
00:59:07,440 --> 00:59:12,760
Speaker 1: them like they're his age. They probably heard these words before, ma'am. Now,

852
00:59:12,880 --> 00:59:17,520
Speaker 1: if if he's not cursing at his daughter, that's a

853
00:59:17,640 --> 00:59:22,280
Speaker 1: different thing. You know, cussing at your little girls is

854
00:59:22,360 --> 00:59:25,560
Speaker 1: wrong if you're a man. I just think it's wrong.

855
00:59:25,840 --> 00:59:27,920
Speaker 1: I do not only do I have to put up

856
00:59:28,000 --> 00:59:29,920
Speaker 1: his bad language. He put a bar in the basement.

857
00:59:29,960 --> 00:59:32,480
Speaker 1: He bought all brand's alcoholics. Former co workers pop up

858
00:59:32,480 --> 00:59:34,200
Speaker 1: at the house and they go downstairs and they drink

859
00:59:34,240 --> 00:59:37,120
Speaker 1: up all my husband's liquor. He gets very drunk and

860
00:59:37,240 --> 00:59:39,240
Speaker 1: usually falls asleep in the basement, and I have to

861
00:59:39,320 --> 00:59:42,760
Speaker 1: USh his friends out. Now, that's that's a little crazy.

862
00:59:43,120 --> 00:59:46,920
Speaker 1: Your husband drinking that hard that he fall asleep and

863
00:59:47,000 --> 00:59:50,560
Speaker 1: they steal down there. That's a problem. I have a

864
00:59:50,640 --> 00:59:53,439
Speaker 1: solution for that, though. When we come back. I asked

865
00:59:53,560 --> 00:59:56,280
Speaker 1: my husband if he's going through something in midlife Christis.

866
00:59:56,600 --> 00:59:58,480
Speaker 1: He said, he fine, he just read let his head

867
00:59:58,480 --> 01:00:01,520
Speaker 1: down a little bit because he working them all. Well,

868
01:00:01,880 --> 01:00:04,680
Speaker 1: I got that, but we gotta do something because y'all

869
01:00:04,760 --> 01:00:07,080
Speaker 1: can't be that old, because the kids ain't but seventeen

870
01:00:07,160 --> 01:00:10,360
Speaker 1: and fifteen. So now he retired, we gotta come up

871
01:00:10,400 --> 01:00:14,360
Speaker 1: with something else to do size drinking. I got the

872
01:00:14,440 --> 01:00:16,720
Speaker 1: restaurant our called back. All right, thank you, Steve. Hang on,

873
01:00:16,840 --> 01:00:19,240
Speaker 1: We'll have part two of Steve's response coming up at

874
01:00:19,240 --> 01:00:22,840
Speaker 1: twenty three minutes after the hour. Today's Strawberry Letters subject

875
01:00:23,040 --> 01:00:25,320
Speaker 1: the drinking and the cussing has to stop. We'll get

876
01:00:25,360 --> 01:00:30,080
Speaker 1: back into it right after this you're listening to show?

877
01:00:30,720 --> 01:00:33,480
Speaker 1: All right, Come on, Steve, let's recap today's Strawberry letter.

878
01:00:33,560 --> 01:00:38,200
Speaker 1: The subject this drinking and cussing has to stop. Well,

879
01:00:38,880 --> 01:00:41,760
Speaker 1: here's a deal. Been married twenty two years, he's always

880
01:00:41,840 --> 01:00:45,960
Speaker 1: cuss He started, he didn't put a bar in the basement,

881
01:00:45,960 --> 01:00:51,000
Speaker 1: and he missed his friends, those relationships. He just started

882
01:00:51,080 --> 01:00:55,000
Speaker 1: back to cussing again. And now the kids is seventeen

883
01:00:55,040 --> 01:00:57,920
Speaker 1: and fifteen, and you say he cussing at them like

884
01:00:58,000 --> 01:01:01,000
Speaker 1: that his age. They probably heard all these before. Like

885
01:01:01,160 --> 01:01:04,120
Speaker 1: I said before, as long as he's not cursing at

886
01:01:04,200 --> 01:01:06,840
Speaker 1: the daughter that way, I don't think that's cool at all,

887
01:01:07,160 --> 01:01:09,560
Speaker 1: because it sends a bad example to a young lady

888
01:01:09,640 --> 01:01:11,640
Speaker 1: that is okay for a man to talk to her

889
01:01:11,760 --> 01:01:14,600
Speaker 1: that way, and it's not. And as fathers, we have

890
01:01:14,720 --> 01:01:17,400
Speaker 1: to be very very conscious the example that we put

891
01:01:17,440 --> 01:01:20,000
Speaker 1: in front of our daughters and our sons. But you

892
01:01:20,200 --> 01:01:23,800
Speaker 1: really don't want a daughter to think that this is

893
01:01:23,920 --> 01:01:27,880
Speaker 1: acceptable coming from a person who's supposed to love her.

894
01:01:29,120 --> 01:01:33,280
Speaker 1: That's unacceptable, dog, And that you've got to get a

895
01:01:33,360 --> 01:01:35,920
Speaker 1: grip on that right there. Now, he respected her when

896
01:01:36,000 --> 01:01:40,040
Speaker 1: she was young, but now that they're older, I got

897
01:01:40,160 --> 01:01:43,000
Speaker 1: that they're old enough that they've heard this. But you

898
01:01:43,160 --> 01:01:46,880
Speaker 1: can't do that to your daughter, man, I'm telling you,

899
01:01:46,960 --> 01:01:50,320
Speaker 1: it's a dangerous slope. You're creating something in her that

900
01:01:50,400 --> 01:01:52,680
Speaker 1: she don't need to be. She needs to always look

901
01:01:52,720 --> 01:01:55,760
Speaker 1: at her father as a protector, somebody she can go

902
01:01:55,920 --> 01:01:58,480
Speaker 1: to and want to, you know, hold her father in

903
01:01:58,640 --> 01:02:01,800
Speaker 1: high esteem. He could be losing that. So point that

904
01:02:01,880 --> 01:02:05,560
Speaker 1: out to him. Tell him. I said that that's cool.

905
01:02:06,480 --> 01:02:08,480
Speaker 1: Steve said, you shouldn't do it. A run door, and

906
01:02:08,640 --> 01:02:11,680
Speaker 1: you shouldn't. And most men agree with me and all,

907
01:02:11,800 --> 01:02:15,200
Speaker 1: and we have daughters on this show. Me and Tommy

908
01:02:15,320 --> 01:02:17,840
Speaker 1: got daughters, and and that that ain't how we talk,

909
01:02:19,360 --> 01:02:21,520
Speaker 1: all right. Now, he don't put this bar downstairs. And

910
01:02:21,640 --> 01:02:23,840
Speaker 1: his workers pop up at the house and they go down, says,

911
01:02:23,880 --> 01:02:26,160
Speaker 1: they drink up all your husband's looking. He get drunk,

912
01:02:26,440 --> 01:02:28,760
Speaker 1: fall asleep, and then you got an usher your friends out.

913
01:02:29,160 --> 01:02:31,080
Speaker 1: Money ain't an issue with all alcohol. But I get

914
01:02:31,120 --> 01:02:33,280
Speaker 1: tired his buddy drinking up his premium looking in they

915
01:02:33,280 --> 01:02:37,200
Speaker 1: don't give him one cent to buy more. So now

916
01:02:37,520 --> 01:02:42,240
Speaker 1: here's the deal with that. I think the solution is

917
01:02:43,000 --> 01:02:46,720
Speaker 1: he get a night with his buddies downstairs. Pick the

918
01:02:46,840 --> 01:02:51,280
Speaker 1: knight that is the night for drinking. And then that

919
01:02:51,640 --> 01:02:54,640
Speaker 1: makes it once a week or once every two weeks,

920
01:02:54,720 --> 01:02:57,520
Speaker 1: whatever y'all decide. But he gets a night to go

921
01:02:57,640 --> 01:02:59,480
Speaker 1: down with his ball with his buddies. They can't just

922
01:02:59,560 --> 01:03:03,000
Speaker 1: pop up. I don't know what y'all running over there.

923
01:03:03,080 --> 01:03:06,280
Speaker 1: This ain't camp, and y'all ain't little kids coming over

924
01:03:06,320 --> 01:03:08,800
Speaker 1: tomb Hey, we want to play video games and ride

925
01:03:08,880 --> 01:03:11,919
Speaker 1: Joe bike. That ain't what this is. You got a family, dog,

926
01:03:12,240 --> 01:03:14,520
Speaker 1: and you can't have people just popping up at your house.

927
01:03:15,200 --> 01:03:18,439
Speaker 1: That's unacceptable because now you're not only disrespecting your daughter,

928
01:03:18,520 --> 01:03:21,920
Speaker 1: you're disrespecting your wife. So now you're asking me if

929
01:03:21,920 --> 01:03:24,080
Speaker 1: he going through something. He said he ready to tired

930
01:03:24,280 --> 01:03:26,560
Speaker 1: now and he won't let his head down a little.

931
01:03:27,120 --> 01:03:29,400
Speaker 1: I've been told that you can retire from the military

932
01:03:29,440 --> 01:03:32,440
Speaker 1: as earliers thirty eight. But you've been with him twenty

933
01:03:32,480 --> 01:03:34,560
Speaker 1: two years, so he must have been in the military

934
01:03:34,640 --> 01:03:37,880
Speaker 1: for twenty two years. So let's say y'all got married

935
01:03:37,960 --> 01:03:41,520
Speaker 1: at twenty Let's say twenty twenty two, because the kids

936
01:03:41,640 --> 01:03:46,960
Speaker 1: is fifteen and seventeen. So let's say he foughty forty

937
01:03:47,000 --> 01:03:51,240
Speaker 1: four years old. Okay, dog, So you ain't going to

938
01:03:51,280 --> 01:03:55,240
Speaker 1: do nothing sept drink because you don't retire. You gotta

939
01:03:55,320 --> 01:03:58,280
Speaker 1: do something else. Dog, you might live another forty fifty years.

940
01:03:58,360 --> 01:04:01,440
Speaker 1: What what this can't be it? You need to get

941
01:04:01,480 --> 01:04:05,320
Speaker 1: some hobbies. I didn't want to respend my retirement with

942
01:04:05,400 --> 01:04:08,120
Speaker 1: a drunk fire mouth man. His worst part last time

943
01:04:08,160 --> 01:04:10,240
Speaker 1: we were being an intimate. He was drunk and he

944
01:04:10,320 --> 01:04:13,320
Speaker 1: called me a dirty name, and he kept cussing so loud,

945
01:04:13,360 --> 01:04:15,120
Speaker 1: and I was afraid. Our kids were here. Well, they

946
01:04:15,240 --> 01:04:19,600
Speaker 1: heard it. They heard it. He loud. You know, drunk

947
01:04:19,640 --> 01:04:24,200
Speaker 1: people don't ever realize how loud they talk. I don't.

948
01:04:24,280 --> 01:04:26,760
Speaker 1: I don't know what happened, but I think drinking blocks

949
01:04:26,800 --> 01:04:31,400
Speaker 1: you'll hear it. That is, for damn, show a symptom

950
01:04:31,440 --> 01:04:36,560
Speaker 1: of being drunk. I think it blocks you'll hearing. So

951
01:04:37,360 --> 01:04:39,600
Speaker 1: I know he talking about and they heard it. How

952
01:04:39,680 --> 01:04:42,440
Speaker 1: could I stop him from being so crude? I need

953
01:04:42,520 --> 01:04:45,040
Speaker 1: the drinking and cussing to stop. First of all, Shirley

954
01:04:45,080 --> 01:04:47,760
Speaker 1: said it right, you don't have to have drunk sex.

955
01:04:49,280 --> 01:04:51,960
Speaker 1: So you're drinking. We're not having sex. That are cut

956
01:04:52,080 --> 01:04:55,600
Speaker 1: back on some of the drinking, and if you cuss me,

957
01:04:55,800 --> 01:05:00,600
Speaker 1: it's over. But not once again can help you with

958
01:05:00,680 --> 01:05:05,120
Speaker 1: the drinking. You know, sex and cussing is kind of

959
01:05:05,200 --> 01:05:11,280
Speaker 1: you know, let's go together, yeah, kind of kind kind

960
01:05:11,320 --> 01:05:16,520
Speaker 1: of head and hand. H oh really yeah, I'm just

961
01:05:16,600 --> 01:05:19,440
Speaker 1: trying to figure out how we're gonna you know, I

962
01:05:19,520 --> 01:05:22,040
Speaker 1: got we're gonna stop cussing at the kids, or I'm

963
01:05:22,040 --> 01:05:24,520
Speaker 1: trying to figure out how we're gonna stop this while

964
01:05:24,600 --> 01:05:28,440
Speaker 1: we having sex. I'm you know, what, what what are

965
01:05:28,480 --> 01:05:31,520
Speaker 1: we supposed to say? I mean that I don't know

966
01:05:31,640 --> 01:05:35,000
Speaker 1: substitute words like oh, goody goody. You know you can't

967
01:05:35,160 --> 01:05:37,400
Speaker 1: it just can't. I don't know what you're supposed to say?

968
01:05:38,120 --> 01:05:43,919
Speaker 1: Why you having it? That replaces all sugar, honey, iced tea. Oh,

969
01:05:45,400 --> 01:05:54,000
Speaker 1: I don't know how you replace that with jeepers jeeperson.

970
01:05:55,440 --> 01:06:02,680
Speaker 1: How about he? Oh this is swell, you know say that? Oh? Yeah,

971
01:06:02,920 --> 01:06:04,320
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't know. I don't. I don't know

972
01:06:04,400 --> 01:06:06,040
Speaker 1: what we're doing right here, you know, I don't. I

973
01:06:06,080 --> 01:06:07,800
Speaker 1: don't know how to do that. So once again, I

974
01:06:07,880 --> 01:06:12,160
Speaker 1: can't help you right there. He needs to stop the drinking.

975
01:06:12,240 --> 01:06:14,440
Speaker 1: Knowing you need to have the guys have a night

976
01:06:14,560 --> 01:06:16,320
Speaker 1: that they can come over and you know they're coming

977
01:06:16,360 --> 01:06:19,959
Speaker 1: and they leave. Uh. You know you all could also

978
01:06:20,160 --> 01:06:22,320
Speaker 1: implement where he just put that bart down and then

979
01:06:22,320 --> 01:06:25,280
Speaker 1: they come just just have a night that you can

980
01:06:25,360 --> 01:06:28,840
Speaker 1: do it, and then just set one bottle, two bottles out,

981
01:06:28,960 --> 01:06:31,480
Speaker 1: this is what we're drinking, and then that's it. They

982
01:06:31,560 --> 01:06:33,960
Speaker 1: can be premium, looka but once that's gone, it's over

983
01:06:34,080 --> 01:06:37,200
Speaker 1: with it. You know, we ain't drinking five six bottles.

984
01:06:37,760 --> 01:06:40,360
Speaker 1: All right, Steve, thank you. Post your comments on today's

985
01:06:40,360 --> 01:06:43,280
Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter at Steve Harvey FM on Instagram and Facebook.

986
01:06:43,520 --> 01:06:46,440
Speaker 1: Check out Strawberry Letter podcast on demand coming up at

987
01:06:46,480 --> 01:06:48,960
Speaker 1: forty six minutes after the hour. We'll have some sports

988
01:06:49,040 --> 01:06:58,240
Speaker 1: talk with Steve right after that you're listening to all right,

989
01:06:58,280 --> 01:07:01,200
Speaker 1: Steve juniors out. He's celebrating his birthday. You know, his

990
01:07:01,360 --> 01:07:08,280
Speaker 1: birthday was yesterday and he's out on vacation soon. So

991
01:07:08,400 --> 01:07:11,000
Speaker 1: I'll take over a little different way to do sports.

992
01:07:11,320 --> 01:07:14,320
Speaker 1: First of all, Happy birthday to my youngest son, went

993
01:07:14,400 --> 01:07:21,439
Speaker 1: to bryceling r. Lee Harvey. Congratulations my son four. He's

994
01:07:21,480 --> 01:07:25,240
Speaker 1: doing a three day or weekend birthday bash. I ain't

995
01:07:25,280 --> 01:07:29,760
Speaker 1: seen his ass. Okay, I was gonna roll out to

996
01:07:29,840 --> 01:07:33,720
Speaker 1: say happy birthday, but I was four. Worn probably don't

997
01:07:33,760 --> 01:07:37,120
Speaker 1: want to do that. Oh I did, but I'd rather

998
01:07:37,240 --> 01:07:39,680
Speaker 1: play golf, so I have birthday to work. All right,

999
01:07:39,760 --> 01:07:44,120
Speaker 1: let's get down to sports. Uh. First of all, congratulations

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01:07:44,200 --> 01:07:48,680
Speaker 1: to Jovic who won the woman to men's title. It

1001
01:07:48,800 --> 01:07:52,280
Speaker 1: has now tied the record with Fetter and the and

1002
01:07:52,480 --> 01:07:56,800
Speaker 1: the Dog saw that over the weekend, like to say

1003
01:07:57,000 --> 01:08:00,360
Speaker 1: the boxing match all the night on showtime Cholo whooped

1004
01:08:00,400 --> 01:08:03,520
Speaker 1: the boy asked like I knew he would contraglations to

1005
01:08:03,680 --> 01:08:11,160
Speaker 1: that all soul. Congratulations to Mark Cavendish off the Tour

1006
01:08:11,280 --> 01:08:14,800
Speaker 1: de France. See these all the sports I watched. Mark

1007
01:08:14,960 --> 01:08:19,200
Speaker 1: Cavendish tied the record for most stage wins in the

1008
01:08:19,320 --> 01:08:22,160
Speaker 1: Tour de France, and he didn't break it because he

1009
01:08:22,320 --> 01:08:25,680
Speaker 1: came in second in the sprint down the Schamsy Lay

1010
01:08:26,120 --> 01:08:29,080
Speaker 1: in the last day, which was Sunday or the Tour

1011
01:08:29,160 --> 01:08:31,760
Speaker 1: de Frances. But I like to say congratulations to my

1012
01:08:31,880 --> 01:08:35,160
Speaker 1: friends over in the UAE because their team won the

1013
01:08:35,280 --> 01:08:38,560
Speaker 1: title this year. The Yellow Jersey would not reside in

1014
01:08:38,640 --> 01:08:41,720
Speaker 1: the UAE for a year to Tour de France. Now,

1015
01:08:42,320 --> 01:08:44,240
Speaker 1: let's just get out the only thing we really know

1016
01:08:44,400 --> 01:08:48,240
Speaker 1: about the Milwaukee Bucks is up three games to two

1017
01:08:48,680 --> 01:08:52,280
Speaker 1: against the damn Phoenix Suns. I don't know what we're

1018
01:08:52,360 --> 01:08:54,880
Speaker 1: gonna do. They went out to the valley and won

1019
01:08:55,040 --> 01:08:58,960
Speaker 1: the game. I was stunned. They overcame a big league

1020
01:08:59,000 --> 01:09:03,600
Speaker 1: that Phoenix hand. So Phoenix is really I don't know.

1021
01:09:03,920 --> 01:09:07,240
Speaker 1: I really am pulling for Chris Paul because I love

1022
01:09:07,360 --> 01:09:11,799
Speaker 1: the guy. I love his game. But bare the Greek

1023
01:09:11,960 --> 01:09:15,639
Speaker 1: freak ain't nothing to play with. He bought the business

1024
01:09:15,880 --> 01:09:18,400
Speaker 1: and they ain't got no answer for him. So I

1025
01:09:18,520 --> 01:09:21,000
Speaker 1: don't know. And to be honest with you, we ain't

1026
01:09:21,040 --> 01:09:24,120
Speaker 1: on in the radio in Milwalk at all, Phoenix. So

1027
01:09:24,439 --> 01:09:27,760
Speaker 1: I really have spent way too much time talking about this,

1028
01:09:29,160 --> 01:09:32,280
Speaker 1: I really have. We was on in one of them cities.

1029
01:09:32,360 --> 01:09:34,639
Speaker 1: We was on. Then you know, I gonna do sports

1030
01:09:34,720 --> 01:09:37,080
Speaker 1: for you. But also I like to send a shout

1031
01:09:37,120 --> 01:09:39,880
Speaker 1: out to this little boy that I meant or effectually

1032
01:09:40,000 --> 01:09:42,840
Speaker 1: call his name Hippo. We got a bet that the

1033
01:09:42,960 --> 01:09:46,280
Speaker 1: Dallas Cowboys, he thinks they're gonna have a better season

1034
01:09:46,720 --> 01:09:50,120
Speaker 1: than the Cleveland Browns. I told him the quick crime,

1035
01:09:51,760 --> 01:09:55,479
Speaker 1: and then I told him you can better thousand. But

1036
01:09:55,560 --> 01:09:58,719
Speaker 1: I don't thank you. You young ass ain't got a thousand.

1037
01:09:59,640 --> 01:10:04,680
Speaker 1: That's Steve. Thank you Steve for sports Okay, we'll be

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01:10:04,760 --> 01:10:06,720
Speaker 1: back with more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show at

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01:10:06,720 --> 01:10:09,639
Speaker 1: the top of the hour. Right after this, you're listening

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01:10:09,920 --> 01:10:15,679
Speaker 1: to Steven Show. Well, we all have heard the saying.

1041
01:10:15,760 --> 01:10:20,160
Speaker 1: We know they're saying Detroit versus everybody. Okay, well, did

1042
01:10:20,240 --> 01:10:23,320
Speaker 1: you guys see the video this went viral of a

1043
01:10:23,400 --> 01:10:26,800
Speaker 1: Detroit woman. Her name was Bianca Chamber. She tracked down

1044
01:10:26,880 --> 01:10:32,840
Speaker 1: her stolen Mercedes via social media and okay, let's go

1045
01:10:32,960 --> 01:10:36,479
Speaker 1: back a bit. What had happened was Bianca was tired

1046
01:10:36,520 --> 01:10:39,160
Speaker 1: of waiting on the police, so she tracked down her

1047
01:10:39,160 --> 01:10:42,040
Speaker 1: stolen bins in a parking lot of a barbershop. She

1048
01:10:42,200 --> 01:10:47,120
Speaker 1: went inside the barbershop and dragged her suspect out by

1049
01:10:47,439 --> 01:10:51,599
Speaker 1: his lots the dreadlocks on his head while other people

1050
01:10:51,720 --> 01:10:55,320
Speaker 1: helped her make a citizen's arrest. Take a listen. Oh

1051
01:10:55,400 --> 01:10:59,679
Speaker 1: my god, yeah, I see Marker. The thief so bold

1052
01:11:00,120 --> 01:11:02,479
Speaker 1: even made a pit stop at the Strip mall where

1053
01:11:02,520 --> 01:11:05,840
Speaker 1: Bianca owns a boutique. They was driving. You know, they

1054
01:11:05,960 --> 01:11:08,439
Speaker 1: was having a good time. You know they was smoking.

1055
01:11:08,560 --> 01:11:11,599
Speaker 1: But yes, my car was very clean. He even got

1056
01:11:11,680 --> 01:11:15,040
Speaker 1: the car detailed. Sources tell Fox to the thief. Now,

1057
01:11:15,120 --> 01:11:18,240
Speaker 1: when police constantly has a history of stealing car since

1058
01:11:18,360 --> 01:11:22,640
Speaker 1: he was a team. He's just the dumbest criminal, that's all. Like,

1059
01:11:23,200 --> 01:11:26,400
Speaker 1: you're droid riding in my car, like want nobody going

1060
01:11:26,479 --> 01:11:30,280
Speaker 1: to see you? All right? And then wait, there's more, Wait,

1061
01:11:30,360 --> 01:11:35,080
Speaker 1: there's more. Come on, take a listen to this. Excuse me?

1062
01:11:35,200 --> 01:11:46,599
Speaker 1: You got that dance out there? Yes, should do. You've

1063
01:11:46,640 --> 01:11:50,120
Speaker 1: been driving around the bar for three days. He's gonna say,

1064
01:11:54,920 --> 01:12:02,479
Speaker 1: another mother, they've been driving in my shop. Okay, you

1065
01:12:02,600 --> 01:12:10,000
Speaker 1: just can't massa. That's how you do it. I love Detroit, everybody.

1066
01:12:10,160 --> 01:12:12,720
Speaker 1: I just had a family on family feud this week

1067
01:12:12,880 --> 01:12:17,120
Speaker 1: from Detroit. Boy. I had the best time with the

1068
01:12:17,680 --> 01:12:20,840
Speaker 1: Roger Detroit. I told him, I saying, my all the

1069
01:12:21,000 --> 01:12:24,080
Speaker 1: cities I've ever performed in, my all time favorite city

1070
01:12:24,160 --> 01:12:28,680
Speaker 1: to go to on tour was Detroit. I love some

1071
01:12:28,880 --> 01:12:36,080
Speaker 1: damn Detroit. It was my folk up down, can't vote Detroit. Yes,

1072
01:12:36,720 --> 01:12:40,479
Speaker 1: she put it on it good, dragged him. Did you

1073
01:12:40,600 --> 01:12:45,680
Speaker 1: see that video? I ain't see the video. She sent

1074
01:12:45,840 --> 01:12:51,400
Speaker 1: me the video I ain't even seen. Yeah, right out

1075
01:12:51,479 --> 01:12:54,400
Speaker 1: the chid and she went right up to him. I

1076
01:12:54,520 --> 01:12:57,600
Speaker 1: loved her boldness. You know, it's like, no, you're not

1077
01:12:57,680 --> 01:13:01,439
Speaker 1: gonna take this from me. This is this on today. Yeah,

1078
01:13:01,960 --> 01:13:04,400
Speaker 1: the minute he said yes, he was driving the card,

1079
01:13:04,680 --> 01:13:10,720
Speaker 1: the assent came from nowhere. You can't go back to

1080
01:13:10,800 --> 01:13:18,519
Speaker 1: that shop, you can't. You know they're still talking about that. Yeah,

1081
01:13:18,600 --> 01:13:25,120
Speaker 1: he's remember that time, remember that, Hey dog dog, Let

1082
01:13:25,200 --> 01:13:26,960
Speaker 1: me tell you something. He has to get out of

1083
01:13:27,000 --> 01:13:31,040
Speaker 1: the crime business. See, once you get your ass quiff

1084
01:13:31,120 --> 01:13:37,439
Speaker 1: and then go virals, you can't. Still sucks you show

1085
01:13:37,520 --> 01:13:40,040
Speaker 1: out the car business, but you got to get out

1086
01:13:40,080 --> 01:13:42,120
Speaker 1: of crime after this. You got to turn your life

1087
01:13:42,160 --> 01:13:44,600
Speaker 1: over to Christ. This is this is this is that

1088
01:13:44,680 --> 01:13:47,240
Speaker 1: you need to go get saved and use this as

1089
01:13:47,280 --> 01:13:51,400
Speaker 1: a teaching moment testimony. Yeah, because the only way you

1090
01:13:51,479 --> 01:13:54,920
Speaker 1: can get through this embarrassment is turning over into a

1091
01:13:55,080 --> 01:13:58,720
Speaker 1: teaching moment for key for other people. She owned the

1092
01:13:58,760 --> 01:14:02,960
Speaker 1: boutique store. Yeah, yea, so he stole the car from there.

1093
01:14:03,320 --> 01:14:10,040
Speaker 1: The handy washer was smoking car. Can we hear that

1094
01:14:10,120 --> 01:14:13,040
Speaker 1: one more time? Do we have the part where he

1095
01:14:13,120 --> 01:14:16,880
Speaker 1: she approached him, excuse me, you got that dance out there? Yes?

1096
01:14:16,880 --> 01:14:28,920
Speaker 1: Should do? You've been driving around for three days and

1097
01:14:29,040 --> 01:14:31,639
Speaker 1: he's gonna say I bought it for twenty five, Honey,

1098
01:14:31,880 --> 01:14:38,519
Speaker 1: I said card another mother for that's been driving in

1099
01:14:38,600 --> 01:14:45,880
Speaker 1: my shop. I love a good ass Whooper. Nothing like

1100
01:14:45,960 --> 01:14:51,439
Speaker 1: the good ass Whooper. All right, we'll have more of

1101
01:14:51,640 --> 01:14:54,400
Speaker 1: today's trending stories on the Sea Harvey Morning Show coming

1102
01:14:54,479 --> 01:14:57,360
Speaker 1: up in twenty minutes after right after this, you're listening

1103
01:14:58,920 --> 01:15:08,599
Speaker 1: morning show. All right, guys, this story out of Tokyo. Well, Tokyo.

1104
01:15:08,760 --> 01:15:13,959
Speaker 1: The officials there have installed cardboard beds now and inside

1105
01:15:14,000 --> 01:15:16,599
Speaker 1: of the Olympic village where the athletes will be staying.

1106
01:15:17,080 --> 01:15:20,160
Speaker 1: Why would you why you know, you might want to ask,

1107
01:15:20,400 --> 01:15:25,240
Speaker 1: why install cardboard beds? They need real beds to be comfortable. Well,

1108
01:15:25,280 --> 01:15:28,880
Speaker 1: they install the cardboard beds to discourage the athletes from

1109
01:15:28,960 --> 01:15:32,160
Speaker 1: having sex. All right, they thought card You think I

1110
01:15:32,240 --> 01:15:37,000
Speaker 1: can't get it through this cardboard? Think you really think

1111
01:15:37,040 --> 01:15:39,320
Speaker 1: I can't? I knew you guys would like this. Take

1112
01:15:39,360 --> 01:15:42,080
Speaker 1: it away. Well, I mean there's two things with this.

1113
01:15:42,760 --> 01:15:51,519
Speaker 1: First of all, why is cardboard stopping me? Clearly you

1114
01:15:51,720 --> 01:15:55,280
Speaker 1: must not have known. Well, this is capable of a

1115
01:15:55,400 --> 01:15:59,040
Speaker 1: current at card board. I've been on a pile of

1116
01:15:59,160 --> 01:16:04,040
Speaker 1: clothes in the flow in the basement. Card You got

1117
01:16:04,160 --> 01:16:06,280
Speaker 1: to be crazy. I don't even know why we got

1118
01:16:06,360 --> 01:16:08,840
Speaker 1: to get on this bed. What do you discourage it?

1119
01:16:09,360 --> 01:16:14,880
Speaker 1: We're athletes. Everybody in here is an athlete, right, all

1120
01:16:14,920 --> 01:16:17,719
Speaker 1: these shower poles in here. Me me to show everybody

1121
01:16:17,840 --> 01:16:22,920
Speaker 1: high God. Yeah, because they say they get it in

1122
01:16:23,080 --> 01:16:28,519
Speaker 1: those athletes. So that carboard, Yeah, we can slide around

1123
01:16:28,640 --> 01:16:30,519
Speaker 1: on this cardboard. It's a lot of getting we can

1124
01:16:30,560 --> 01:16:32,840
Speaker 1: do on it. You ain't never no box before. I know,

1125
01:16:32,960 --> 01:16:39,400
Speaker 1: I ain't the only one. Goody roller tarlet tissue for

1126
01:16:39,760 --> 01:16:42,160
Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up at thirty three

1127
01:16:42,200 --> 01:16:45,800
Speaker 1: minutes after. Right after this, you're listening to the Steve

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Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. Some sad news to report. Um, case

1129
01:16:50,080 --> 01:16:52,960
Speaker 1: you haven't heard. Hip hop legend Bismarck Key passed away

1130
01:16:53,040 --> 01:16:56,320
Speaker 1: Friday night at the age of fifty seven, with his

1131
01:16:56,439 --> 01:16:59,599
Speaker 1: wife Tara Hall by his side. Um. This was after

1132
01:16:59,680 --> 01:17:03,639
Speaker 1: a long fight with complications from diabetes. He was born

1133
01:17:03,720 --> 01:17:06,640
Speaker 1: in Harlem, of course, raised in Long Island, and he

1134
01:17:06,760 --> 01:17:08,920
Speaker 1: got to start as a DJ before he came on

1135
01:17:09,040 --> 01:17:12,000
Speaker 1: the scene in the mid eighties by bringing humor to

1136
01:17:12,160 --> 01:17:15,479
Speaker 1: the rap game. His presence added some much needed comic

1137
01:17:15,560 --> 01:17:19,200
Speaker 1: relief to the genre at the time that prioritized gritty

1138
01:17:19,280 --> 01:17:23,759
Speaker 1: raps about street life, including his biggest hit, Just a Friend.

1139
01:17:24,760 --> 01:17:28,640
Speaker 1: Bismarquis Yeah, was known as a human beatbox, and in

1140
01:17:28,720 --> 01:17:31,439
Speaker 1: addition to his career as an artist, he had a

1141
01:17:31,560 --> 01:17:35,559
Speaker 1: notable stint on children's shows and TV sitcoms. Biz suffered

1142
01:17:35,600 --> 01:17:38,519
Speaker 1: from health problems in his final years. In April of

1143
01:17:38,680 --> 01:17:42,280
Speaker 1: last year, he was hospitalized due to complications from type

1144
01:17:42,280 --> 01:17:48,040
Speaker 1: two diabetes. We say rest in peace, Bismarquis. That I

1145
01:17:48,160 --> 01:17:50,799
Speaker 1: worked with him a bunch here, really really nice man.

1146
01:17:51,240 --> 01:17:53,599
Speaker 1: How he worked with him a few times. Great father though.

1147
01:17:54,160 --> 01:17:56,559
Speaker 1: But you know what, he did not want to play

1148
01:17:56,640 --> 01:17:59,280
Speaker 1: that damn song. He didn't want to sing it. Just

1149
01:17:59,520 --> 01:18:02,560
Speaker 1: a friend. Really, you want to hit hitting him? He

1150
01:18:02,720 --> 01:18:06,439
Speaker 1: played it enough. He wouldn't play it like they're just friendly,

1151
01:18:06,520 --> 01:18:12,439
Speaker 1: like yea, I'm gonna get onto it. Yeah, I'm gonna playing. Yeah.

1152
01:18:12,560 --> 01:18:16,719
Speaker 1: So many tributes to him over the weekend on social media.

1153
01:18:17,320 --> 01:18:20,599
Speaker 1: You know, everybody talked about what a big teddy bear

1154
01:18:21,120 --> 01:18:25,840
Speaker 1: love of a guy. Yeah, yeah, yeah, that's all. Yeah.

1155
01:18:26,360 --> 01:18:29,160
Speaker 1: I saw l J talk about him. He was tearing

1156
01:18:29,280 --> 01:18:34,519
Speaker 1: up about his friend. Yeah yeah really really, kid was

1157
01:18:34,560 --> 01:18:37,639
Speaker 1: talking about him, man, hey man. He was at at

1158
01:18:37,720 --> 01:18:41,400
Speaker 1: Magic Johnson's twenty fifth way in the anniversary party that

1159
01:18:41,520 --> 01:18:47,479
Speaker 1: he threw Bis Markey was the DJ, and he DJ

1160
01:18:48,080 --> 01:18:52,160
Speaker 1: for Dougie Fresh and then l L came up impromptu

1161
01:18:53,040 --> 01:18:56,640
Speaker 1: and did the coldest thing impromptu I've ever seen. Just

1162
01:18:57,080 --> 01:19:02,720
Speaker 1: I've ever seen it right on a dock in Santrol Peg. Yes,

1163
01:19:03,040 --> 01:19:08,040
Speaker 1: the holiest thing I've ever seen. I said, Wow, this

1164
01:19:08,240 --> 01:19:12,760
Speaker 1: dude is talented. Man. Yeah, and Biz was the DJ.

1165
01:19:13,120 --> 01:19:17,120
Speaker 1: That's last time I saw Biz and Biz did DJ.

1166
01:19:17,280 --> 01:19:19,120
Speaker 1: And when you had the crates would do with the

1167
01:19:19,280 --> 01:19:24,080
Speaker 1: albums the whole you know, waving for from the you

1168
01:19:24,160 --> 01:19:29,920
Speaker 1: know what I mean, yeah, the final Yeah, he opened

1169
01:19:29,960 --> 01:19:33,600
Speaker 1: for Chris Rock during Chris Rock's tour. You know, I

1170
01:19:33,680 --> 01:19:36,960
Speaker 1: mean he did some some much different stuff, you know,

1171
01:19:37,720 --> 01:19:42,240
Speaker 1: and just was so in demand as that DJ. All

1172
01:19:42,280 --> 01:19:46,360
Speaker 1: the stars wanted him for their parties and stuff. You know. Yeah. Yeah,

1173
01:19:47,800 --> 01:19:51,200
Speaker 1: coming up, our last break of the day, Thanks everybody

1174
01:19:51,240 --> 01:19:53,400
Speaker 1: who came out to the Aunt Chill and Colombia. Watch

1175
01:19:53,439 --> 01:19:56,760
Speaker 1: out that. Okay, our last break of the day and

1176
01:19:57,120 --> 01:19:59,840
Speaker 1: some closing remarks from the one and only our fair

1177
01:20:00,040 --> 01:20:03,519
Speaker 1: this leader, Steve Harvey. At forty nine minutes after right

1178
01:20:03,600 --> 01:20:08,679
Speaker 1: after this, you're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, guys,

1179
01:20:08,760 --> 01:20:10,800
Speaker 1: here we are our last break of the day on

1180
01:20:10,920 --> 01:20:14,120
Speaker 1: this Monday. Wow, it went by pretty quickly. Huh on

1181
01:20:14,240 --> 01:20:18,800
Speaker 1: a Monday. Don't like Mondays? Yeah, but um here we

1182
01:20:18,880 --> 01:20:23,320
Speaker 1: are wed. Yeah blessing. So Tommy, you're back on the

1183
01:20:23,400 --> 01:20:27,040
Speaker 1: comedy circuit doing your yeah. Yeah. I did Virginia Beach.

1184
01:20:27,080 --> 01:20:29,120
Speaker 1: I did the Funny Bonus past weekend. So I want

1185
01:20:29,160 --> 01:20:31,920
Speaker 1: to thank all of those that came out gave me

1186
01:20:32,040 --> 01:20:35,960
Speaker 1: six sold out shows. I appreciate it. Nephew came through

1187
01:20:36,000 --> 01:20:39,439
Speaker 1: the end. Did the dog Gone thing? Sure did, And

1188
01:20:39,600 --> 01:20:42,120
Speaker 1: I'm back. I'm thinking I'm not gonna miss a month

1189
01:20:42,240 --> 01:20:44,360
Speaker 1: of perform as long as I can keep that damn

1190
01:20:44,439 --> 01:20:50,479
Speaker 1: pandemic down. I promise I'm gonna keep running, stop relations money.

1191
01:20:50,520 --> 01:20:53,479
Speaker 1: I did just feel good being on stage, Dude, blow

1192
01:20:53,560 --> 01:20:56,240
Speaker 1: the chief. It feels good for a year and a

1193
01:20:56,280 --> 01:21:00,000
Speaker 1: half of What About You Ja and our show Commie

1194
01:21:00,040 --> 01:21:02,360
Speaker 1: South Carolina. I saw I didn't sell a whole lot

1195
01:21:02,400 --> 01:21:04,320
Speaker 1: of art, but I have my art on these jackets

1196
01:21:04,400 --> 01:21:06,519
Speaker 1: and I'm so completely out of all my jackets. So

1197
01:21:06,720 --> 01:21:09,000
Speaker 1: that was pretty good. I'm pretty happy about that. I

1198
01:21:09,120 --> 01:21:14,400
Speaker 1: think that's that is. Are you playing that down? It's cool,

1199
01:21:14,520 --> 01:21:18,439
Speaker 1: It's cool. It's cool. My next coming show is I

1200
01:21:18,479 --> 01:21:22,040
Speaker 1: don't even know where I'm going coming. You know you're

1201
01:21:22,080 --> 01:21:27,880
Speaker 1: growing somewhere. Yeah, next Jake uh Saint Petersburg, Florida on

1202
01:21:28,000 --> 01:21:35,040
Speaker 1: the twenty first National Guard Armory. Yeah, yeah, so you're

1203
01:21:35,080 --> 01:21:37,800
Speaker 1: performing for the National Guard. I don't know who's gonna

1204
01:21:37,800 --> 01:21:39,760
Speaker 1: be in that bill at the time, but if the mic,

1205
01:21:40,160 --> 01:21:42,880
Speaker 1: if it's gonna be at the Armory, ain't at the

1206
01:21:43,720 --> 01:21:46,160
Speaker 1: you know, some places don't have a venue, so you

1207
01:21:46,240 --> 01:21:47,840
Speaker 1: gotta you know, you know how well they put a

1208
01:21:47,880 --> 01:21:50,840
Speaker 1: mic in some seats and then we'll do it the

1209
01:21:50,920 --> 01:21:59,000
Speaker 1: money right, all right? So I want to stay on

1210
01:21:59,080 --> 01:22:06,680
Speaker 1: this enlightenment path that I've been on of late. With

1211
01:22:06,840 --> 01:22:10,759
Speaker 1: my closing remarks, I want to remind people of something

1212
01:22:12,400 --> 01:22:16,680
Speaker 1: and it's a spiritual message again. But God has a

1213
01:22:16,800 --> 01:22:22,200
Speaker 1: plan for you. He has a design plan for all

1214
01:22:22,320 --> 01:22:26,599
Speaker 1: of us. When we were all created, he had something

1215
01:22:26,680 --> 01:22:31,280
Speaker 1: in mind for us. But now along the way, because

1216
01:22:31,400 --> 01:22:34,759
Speaker 1: we are more special than all the other creatures he created,

1217
01:22:36,439 --> 01:22:38,519
Speaker 1: we happen to be the only ones he created that

1218
01:22:38,640 --> 01:22:42,280
Speaker 1: He's given the power of choice too. So you have

1219
01:22:42,479 --> 01:22:47,280
Speaker 1: the choice to align yourself with God's plan or you

1220
01:22:47,400 --> 01:22:52,720
Speaker 1: can go your own way. I am here to tell

1221
01:22:52,840 --> 01:22:56,479
Speaker 1: you that it is always better to go his way.

1222
01:22:58,080 --> 01:23:00,960
Speaker 1: One of the things that was hibiting me from going

1223
01:23:01,160 --> 01:23:04,880
Speaker 1: his way was I thought, because of the way I

1224
01:23:05,000 --> 01:23:07,320
Speaker 1: was raised in the church, that I was going to

1225
01:23:07,479 --> 01:23:09,880
Speaker 1: sit at the church seven days a week and go

1226
01:23:10,680 --> 01:23:13,320
Speaker 1: every night and sit there, and I was looking at

1227
01:23:13,360 --> 01:23:16,320
Speaker 1: people who had lives I didn't really aspire to, I

1228
01:23:16,360 --> 01:23:20,200
Speaker 1: didn't really want, and so I was fighting against that.

1229
01:23:20,400 --> 01:23:24,640
Speaker 1: But once I lined myself up with his will, his

1230
01:23:24,880 --> 01:23:28,800
Speaker 1: purpose for me was pretty good. His purpose for me

1231
01:23:29,160 --> 01:23:32,400
Speaker 1: was to become what I am today. I didn't know it.

1232
01:23:32,560 --> 01:23:34,640
Speaker 1: I thought he wasn't going to allow that because it

1233
01:23:34,720 --> 01:23:38,519
Speaker 1: didn't line up with everything that the church said. For

1234
01:23:38,720 --> 01:23:42,120
Speaker 1: God works in mysterious ways. God has a plan for

1235
01:23:42,240 --> 01:23:45,800
Speaker 1: you that's always better than the one you got, and

1236
01:23:46,120 --> 01:23:49,840
Speaker 1: it would allow you to have a lot of contentment

1237
01:23:50,040 --> 01:23:54,880
Speaker 1: in your life. But the thing about it is, since

1238
01:23:54,960 --> 01:23:58,560
Speaker 1: we have this power of choice, we also have to

1239
01:23:58,720 --> 01:24:02,760
Speaker 1: deal with the enemy, and we got the devil is

1240
01:24:02,800 --> 01:24:04,920
Speaker 1: out there, and the devil got imps that work for

1241
01:24:05,040 --> 01:24:07,599
Speaker 1: him twenty four and seven. But let me share something

1242
01:24:07,680 --> 01:24:12,479
Speaker 1: with you. God's purpose is more powerful than the enemy's plan.

1243
01:24:14,000 --> 01:24:18,920
Speaker 1: All of you, every last one of us, has been.

1244
01:24:19,640 --> 01:24:24,599
Speaker 1: Someone has attempted to stop us, all of us. Someone

1245
01:24:24,720 --> 01:24:29,080
Speaker 1: has attempted to bury us, all of us out here.

1246
01:24:29,520 --> 01:24:34,280
Speaker 1: Somebody has attempted to do you wrong, to bring you down,

1247
01:24:34,800 --> 01:24:38,479
Speaker 1: to stop you. But God's purpose is more powerful than

1248
01:24:38,520 --> 01:24:42,040
Speaker 1: the enemy's plan. All you got to do is align

1249
01:24:42,160 --> 01:24:45,679
Speaker 1: yourself with God. All you have to do is claim

1250
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Speaker 1: him like he claim you. You got to know who

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Speaker 1: you are, and you got to know whose you are,

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Speaker 1: and you've got to just know that and align yourself

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Speaker 1: with that. And then it's nothing that the enemy can

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Speaker 1: do to you. Nothing. I don't care how hard they

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Speaker 1: try to bring you down, what lie they tell about you,

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Speaker 1: how they go on tack you on social media. It

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Speaker 1: don't matter what they say about your Oh his show,

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Speaker 1: ain't this or his show? Whatn't matter? He ain't this

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Speaker 1: or she ain't that? Oh she ain't this on the radio?

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Speaker 1: She don't hardly do this when they get through. If

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Speaker 1: you are in touch with your creator and you are

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Speaker 1: living the best life you can. And notice I said

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Speaker 1: the best life. You can not the perfect life because

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Speaker 1: you're not fitting to live that. You're not fit to

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Speaker 1: live no perfect life, and you're not fitling to live

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Speaker 1: this life sin free. But if you align yourself with God,

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Speaker 1: who is aware of the fact that there's none perfect,

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Speaker 1: no knot one, he will put you under the protection

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Speaker 1: of his wings. You just got to know who you

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Speaker 1: are and whose you are. And once you line yourself

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Speaker 1: up with your God, with your Creator, with your faith

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Speaker 1: and your purpose, God's purpose is more powerful than the

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Speaker 1: enemy's plan. That's nothing they can do to you. It

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Speaker 1: don't matter what they say or how many times they said.

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Speaker 1: If you keep your eye on the prize and you

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Speaker 1: keep your faith in your God, that is nothing, and

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Speaker 1: I mean absolutely nothing they can do about it. I

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Speaker 1: know this for a fact. But you don't have to

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Speaker 1: believe me. It's in his word that he will cover you,

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Speaker 1: that he will protect you, that no weapon formed against

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Speaker 1: you show prosper It's all in there. Align yourself with

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Speaker 1: the Creator and going about your business. And remember God's

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Speaker 1: purpose is more powerful than the enemy's planning. Those are

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Speaker 1: my clothing remarks today, stay with it. Talk to God.

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Speaker 1: He loved to hear from you for all. Steve Harvey

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