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<v Speaker 1>Hey, it's Delilah. Thank you for stopping by. I have

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<v Speaker 1>put together some of my favorite radio moments here to

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<v Speaker 1>share with you on our daily podcast. There is something

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<v Speaker 1>to celebrate every single day, birthdays, anniversaries, but even if

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<v Speaker 1>it's not a big day like that, celebrate people in

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<v Speaker 1>your life. Say I love you, I appreciate you. I

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<v Speaker 1>love the way you look at the world. I love

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<v Speaker 1>the way you put colors together. I love the way

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<v Speaker 1>you do your hair. I love the way you project

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<v Speaker 1>yourself into the world. I love the music you write,

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<v Speaker 1>the poems you write, the energy you share. I love you.

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<v Speaker 1>Let the people you know that you care about, let

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<v Speaker 1>them feel in the very morrow of their being how

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<v Speaker 1>much they matter. Hi, good evening, Welcome to the Delilah Show.

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<v Speaker 1>Who is this?

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<v Speaker 2>This is Nancy.

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<v Speaker 1>Nancy with who in the background.

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<v Speaker 2>That would be Brenna.

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<v Speaker 1>Brenda Is daughter.

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<v Speaker 2>Friend is my daughter. She's seven months old and she's

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<v Speaker 2>right now just loving this phone and want to talk

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<v Speaker 2>to you.

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<v Speaker 1>Of course she does. Everybody wants to be on the

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<v Speaker 1>Delilah Show.

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<v Speaker 2>Absolutely. How are you tonight, Delaia wonderful?

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<v Speaker 1>What can I do for you?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, she just turns seven months old and I've been

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<v Speaker 2>listening to your show on and off for many years,

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<v Speaker 2>but I really started listening to it when I became

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<v Speaker 2>pregnant with her, and lots of nice drives home, drive

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<v Speaker 2>home from work, you know, with the lyylan and thinking

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<v Speaker 2>about her and thinking about the stories, and I thought, well,

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<v Speaker 2>wouldn't that be fun to play a song for her?

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<v Speaker 2>This is a late pregnancy, and it was, and it

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<v Speaker 2>was a little bit of a rough road, but because

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<v Speaker 2>of the immense support, I mean, my doctor's office, they

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<v Speaker 2>became my family and they were amazing. And then my

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<v Speaker 2>family has been outstanding. I just I couldn't even tell you.

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<v Speaker 2>And then, you know, I imagined, I imagine, I imagine what

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<v Speaker 2>it would be and how it was going to be.

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<v Speaker 2>And it's just you didn't know until I held her,

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<v Speaker 2>until I fell her next to me, and can't you

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<v Speaker 2>just don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>There's no words to describe, there's no way to explain it.

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<v Speaker 3>That you can read books and talk to people and

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<v Speaker 3>talk to your own mother, and then when it finally

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<v Speaker 3>happens and you either adopt or give birth to a child,

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<v Speaker 3>and you hold that child and look in their eyes

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<v Speaker 3>and feel that instant bond, that connection, that goes deeper

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<v Speaker 3>than love, deeper than life.

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<v Speaker 2>It does, and then you're.

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<v Speaker 1>Like, oh, it was just an amazing moment. Hello, good evening.

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<v Speaker 1>You've called the Delilah Show. Who is this?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh my god, this is actually Julilah?

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<v Speaker 1>I am. Who are you?

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<v Speaker 5>Like?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh my gosh, I'm Christian. I'm a first time caller,

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<v Speaker 4>a long time listener. I've been listening to you since

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<v Speaker 4>I was five.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, welcome aboard, Christian, thank you for calling. How old

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<v Speaker 1>are you?

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<v Speaker 4>I'm twenty years old.

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<v Speaker 1>So are you in college? Are you in the workforce?

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<v Speaker 1>What are you doing?

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<v Speaker 4>I'm in college and the workforce.

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<v Speaker 1>You're doing both, so you're you're burning the candle at

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<v Speaker 1>both ends, yes, ma'am. Well, I'm glad I get to

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<v Speaker 1>be a part of that routine. What can I do

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<v Speaker 1>for you tonight?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, it's a long story.

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<v Speaker 5>I got my heart broken about a year ago and

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<v Speaker 5>it was the love of my life, and to this day,

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<v Speaker 5>I still love her, even though I don't talk to

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<v Speaker 5>her and I miss her deeply and I would want

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<v Speaker 5>to call her and I have her phone number, but

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<v Speaker 5>I tell myself not to you, and it's just it's

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<v Speaker 5>hard to move on, like you date other peace. People

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<v Speaker 5>say to other just it just every time I just

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<v Speaker 5>want to get back in a relationship, I just think

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<v Speaker 5>about her and how she made me feel, and if

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<v Speaker 5>I ever feel that way again, you.

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<v Speaker 1>Will never feel that way again. Let me just say that,

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<v Speaker 1>because she was your first true love and you gave

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<v Speaker 1>her a part of yourself that you cannot give to

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<v Speaker 1>someone else. It's a once in a lifetime thing. So

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<v Speaker 1>don't try to duplicate those feelings or don't think that

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<v Speaker 1>you have to feel that way again. Okay, give yourself

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<v Speaker 1>permission and just say, you know what, God, that was

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<v Speaker 1>a gift. It was a once in a lifetime experience.

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<v Speaker 1>But you will love again. You can love again, and

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<v Speaker 1>you can love again entirely and completely, but it won't

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<v Speaker 1>be the same. You can love again, and you will

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<v Speaker 1>love again. You're young. You will love again, but don't

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<v Speaker 1>think that it's going to be like your first true love,

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<v Speaker 1>because it won't be.

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<v Speaker 4>Thank you, Delilah, I very much appreciate it, and you

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<v Speaker 4>don't even know how excited I am to have finally

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<v Speaker 4>talked to you after fifteen years of comming.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I predict that the next time you make it through,

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<v Speaker 1>you're gonna make it through telling me, Delilah, do you

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<v Speaker 1>remember when we had that conversation and I didn't think

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<v Speaker 1>I would ever love again? Guess what? And you are

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<v Speaker 1>going to tell me about somebody that won your heart

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<v Speaker 1>and adores you completely.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh my God, thank you, Delilah. I love you so much.

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<v Speaker 4>You're incredible and I listen to you every day and

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<v Speaker 4>I'm gonna listen to you for the rest of my life.

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<v Speaker 1>God bless you. Bye bye, honey. Let's start over here, Anna.

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<v Speaker 1>So I've been talking to your daughter who's going through

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<v Speaker 1>a breakup, but I got to hear from you. Is

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<v Speaker 1>this guy a good guy? Is he worthy of your

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<v Speaker 1>daughter's life? Or is he a slacker?

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<v Speaker 6>No, he's a slacker.

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<v Speaker 7>He's not worthy of her loves. She doesn't serve him.

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<v Speaker 7>She has a chance to be in a relationship that

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<v Speaker 7>someone has a head on the shoulder. This guy is

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<v Speaker 7>he knows where he's.

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<v Speaker 5>Going in his life.

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<v Speaker 1>So you're hoping that she gets over this creepy axe

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<v Speaker 1>and gives the new guy a chance.

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<v Speaker 7>She's give him a chance. That's all that we ask

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<v Speaker 7>is that you know, give the guy a chance. And

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<v Speaker 7>I think that she's at a limbo right now. Like

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<v Speaker 7>she's kind of put in her life on hold, and

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<v Speaker 7>it upsets me because you know it's he's not worth it.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, no, no, no, no, we're not going to

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<v Speaker 1>let that happen.

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<v Speaker 7>Ma, I don't want that.

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<v Speaker 1>You and I are not going to let that happen.

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<v Speaker 7>She's gonna stand still at this moment, and she wants

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<v Speaker 7>this new guy. I think she's just just more afraid

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<v Speaker 7>of getting her time around. D Lailah.

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<v Speaker 6>I want to tell you something. I honestly think that

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<v Speaker 6>talking to you was a blessing in disguise and that

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<v Speaker 6>this was a really, really good night for me.

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<v Speaker 1>I gotta tell yeah, if you're going to be with somebody,

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<v Speaker 1>you have to beat with somebody who is as crazy

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<v Speaker 1>about you as you are them.

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<v Speaker 6>It's really true. And I hopefully I'll find that, and

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<v Speaker 6>I know I will. And from this moment on, Delilah,

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<v Speaker 6>I'm going to take your advice and I will call

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<v Speaker 6>you maybe six months from now, and something magical might happen,

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<v Speaker 6>and you will definitely be the first person that I

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<v Speaker 6>would think of if anything magical happens between this guy

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<v Speaker 6>and I.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, well, I know something magical is going to happen,

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<v Speaker 1>and I don't even think it's going to take six months.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh thank you, Delilah.

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<v Speaker 1>And give your mam a hug for me, because boy,

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<v Speaker 1>does she love you. Steve wrote to me and says,

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<v Speaker 1>I saw an elderly couple in my medical office. Both

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<v Speaker 1>were about eighty, and the husband was becoming frail, showing

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<v Speaker 1>his age. My medical assistant walked him down the hall

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<v Speaker 1>to get his way. His wife and I watched him

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<v Speaker 1>slowly shuffle down the hall, relying heavily on his cane.

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<v Speaker 1>She looked at him admiringly. I saw an elderly, weakened man,

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<v Speaker 1>as if reading my mind, she commented, most people when

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<v Speaker 1>they see my husband see an old man. I still

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<v Speaker 1>see that young, eighteen year old man I fell in

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<v Speaker 1>love with. I love that man. Thank God that love

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<v Speaker 1>is enduring and sometimes designed to last forever. Steve, thank

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<v Speaker 1>you for writing your sentiments and to everybody who is

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<v Speaker 1>still in love with that eighteen year old kid despite

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<v Speaker 1>what life and time and age has done. My hat

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<v Speaker 1>is off to you. I so hope you have enjoyed

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<v Speaker 1>these radio moments as much as I enjoy bringing them

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<v Speaker 1>to you. I'll share more with you each weekday on

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<v Speaker 1>Hey it's delilah

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<v Speaker 5>Famb