1 00:00:01,000 --> 00:00:04,480 Speaker 1: So, Steve. This is from Megan on Steve HARBFM. She says, 2 00:00:04,480 --> 00:00:06,600 Speaker 1: my boyfriend and I had a big talk a few 3 00:00:06,600 --> 00:00:11,160 Speaker 1: months ago where he promised to stop watching porn because 4 00:00:11,200 --> 00:00:14,000 Speaker 1: he knew how much it upset me. Things were good 5 00:00:14,080 --> 00:00:18,120 Speaker 1: for a while, but lately he's been acting secretive, closing 6 00:00:18,160 --> 00:00:21,360 Speaker 1: his laptop fast, and being weird with his phone, which 7 00:00:21,360 --> 00:00:24,599 Speaker 1: makes me think he's sneaking around again. It's making me 8 00:00:24,680 --> 00:00:27,440 Speaker 1: feel like I'm not enough for him, like he'd rather 9 00:00:27,480 --> 00:00:31,560 Speaker 1: be fantasizing about other women, and I'm starting to doubt 10 00:00:31,640 --> 00:00:35,479 Speaker 1: our whole relationship. Here's the question, should I give him 11 00:00:35,479 --> 00:00:40,160 Speaker 1: another chance? Or is this my sign to leave? That's 12 00:00:40,159 --> 00:00:40,519 Speaker 1: from Meg. 13 00:00:40,680 --> 00:00:45,880 Speaker 2: Well, the man could love you, but you not doing 14 00:00:46,000 --> 00:00:49,479 Speaker 2: what they doing in the point of here. That's just 15 00:00:49,520 --> 00:00:54,000 Speaker 2: all You're just not doing it, speaking true or you're 16 00:00:54,040 --> 00:01:02,040 Speaker 2: not doing you Shut up, man, he won't some of 17 00:01:02,040 --> 00:01:06,280 Speaker 2: this action that's happening in Defel. Yeah, you're not climbing 18 00:01:06,400 --> 00:01:11,080 Speaker 2: on the pool table, keep talking, Yeah, go ahead. You 19 00:01:11,120 --> 00:01:18,559 Speaker 2: ain't laying across the ballbody, You ain't got your rear 20 00:01:18,720 --> 00:01:20,440 Speaker 2: end hanging out the closet. You just. 21 00:01:22,640 --> 00:01:26,039 Speaker 1: That's what I'm talking about, really, Steve, Really. 22 00:01:26,760 --> 00:01:29,080 Speaker 2: He not getting out the car and you on the 23 00:01:29,160 --> 00:01:35,560 Speaker 2: back steps waiting with nothing on. You just ain't side side. 24 00:01:36,760 --> 00:01:38,520 Speaker 2: You know, he don't get out the car when he 25 00:01:38,600 --> 00:01:40,720 Speaker 2: get off working. You throw a comfort on the hood 26 00:01:40,760 --> 00:01:42,480 Speaker 2: and just go at it. You ain't doing You're not 27 00:01:42,680 --> 00:01:46,440 Speaker 2: you not making plane, Steve, make a plane. 28 00:01:46,720 --> 00:01:51,480 Speaker 1: Yes, I've asked you. 29 00:01:51,480 --> 00:01:54,840 Speaker 2: You know what. You ain't over there in the refrigerator 30 00:01:54,880 --> 00:01:56,960 Speaker 2: looking at the vegeman being at the bottom of the 31 00:01:57,040 --> 00:01:59,160 Speaker 2: thing and just standing there with no heels on, just 32 00:02:00,280 --> 00:02:02,640 Speaker 2: doing that, waiting on him to come up. You're just 33 00:02:02,680 --> 00:02:04,400 Speaker 2: not finna do that? What what are you? 34 00:02:04,640 --> 00:02:08,640 Speaker 1: Okay, So answer her question? Should she give him another chance? 35 00:02:08,800 --> 00:02:10,040 Speaker 1: Or is this her sign to. 36 00:02:10,280 --> 00:02:12,040 Speaker 2: By either You need to try that. You need to 37 00:02:12,040 --> 00:02:13,440 Speaker 2: try something to so you need to find out what's 38 00:02:13,440 --> 00:02:14,119 Speaker 2: having any. 39 00:02:14,000 --> 00:02:17,720 Speaker 1: Video So you're encouraging her to watch the videos with him, 40 00:02:17,800 --> 00:02:18,960 Speaker 1: watch porn with him. 41 00:02:19,360 --> 00:02:21,560 Speaker 2: You need to find out what's so interesting in that 42 00:02:21,960 --> 00:02:23,160 Speaker 2: she's not doing something? 43 00:02:23,919 --> 00:02:28,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, she ain't doing nothing. Why why is it on 44 00:02:29,040 --> 00:02:34,320 Speaker 1: her though? Why can't you say it was on her? 45 00:02:35,000 --> 00:02:37,079 Speaker 1: You said she's not doing something. 46 00:02:37,360 --> 00:02:39,720 Speaker 2: You did say that, that's what that's why he looking 47 00:02:39,760 --> 00:02:40,560 Speaker 2: at the field. 48 00:02:40,919 --> 00:02:44,959 Speaker 1: Okay, Well then it is what she said she feels 49 00:02:45,040 --> 00:02:46,760 Speaker 1: like she's not enough for him. 50 00:02:47,040 --> 00:02:54,600 Speaker 2: So exactly, I just told you that's exactly. You ain't enough. Wow, 51 00:02:54,639 --> 00:02:56,760 Speaker 2: if you want to be enough, you need to see 52 00:02:56,800 --> 00:03:01,760 Speaker 2: what's having any video. She don't have to do noning. 53 00:03:02,840 --> 00:03:06,680 Speaker 2: She is sacree to go on about her business. You 54 00:03:06,720 --> 00:03:10,000 Speaker 2: ain't got to be drooled down this dog path. Right. 55 00:03:10,800 --> 00:03:16,160 Speaker 2: You are not a porno star. Right, you are paralegal. 56 00:03:16,240 --> 00:03:21,320 Speaker 2: You work downtown. You dress up to go to work. 57 00:03:21,440 --> 00:03:22,800 Speaker 2: You don't undress to. 58 00:03:24,600 --> 00:03:29,800 Speaker 1: Come over. All right, we have time for another one, Steve. 59 00:03:29,880 --> 00:03:33,000 Speaker 1: This is Jerry on Steve Harvey FM. Jerry says, when 60 00:03:33,040 --> 00:03:35,720 Speaker 1: my wife and I bought our home, we loved how 61 00:03:35,760 --> 00:03:38,800 Speaker 1: peaceful and private the backyard felt. Even though the houses 62 00:03:38,800 --> 00:03:41,560 Speaker 1: are close together, our next door neighbor's yards that's a 63 00:03:41,560 --> 00:03:45,720 Speaker 1: few feet higher, giving them a clear view down into ours. 64 00:03:45,840 --> 00:03:48,680 Speaker 1: At first, it wasn't a big deal. We're friendly with them, 65 00:03:48,720 --> 00:03:50,520 Speaker 1: but as their kids have gotten to know us, they've 66 00:03:50,560 --> 00:03:53,720 Speaker 1: become more comfortable interacting with us when we're just trying 67 00:03:53,760 --> 00:03:56,360 Speaker 1: to relax in our own backyard. We get it they're 68 00:03:56,440 --> 00:04:00,360 Speaker 1: just being nice, but we miss having space that felt 69 00:04:00,400 --> 00:04:02,400 Speaker 1: like our own. Is there a way to reclaim that 70 00:04:02,480 --> 00:04:05,880 Speaker 1: privacy without seeming rude or starting tension with them. 71 00:04:06,200 --> 00:04:09,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, does she say where they live? What state? 72 00:04:09,560 --> 00:04:10,560 Speaker 1: No, she didn't say. 73 00:04:10,760 --> 00:04:14,560 Speaker 2: No. Okay, for tenias. For tenius is what you want. 74 00:04:14,920 --> 00:04:19,080 Speaker 2: It's a bush that you can buy already twelve feet high, 75 00:04:19,480 --> 00:04:23,360 Speaker 2: and it grows up to eighteen and they grow quickly, 76 00:04:23,440 --> 00:04:27,520 Speaker 2: and they grow thickly. Put them all along the fence. 77 00:04:29,360 --> 00:04:33,320 Speaker 2: I stop all that looking in your yard. Okay, now, Julia, 78 00:04:33,720 --> 00:04:36,520 Speaker 2: you need a fence first. 79 00:04:37,279 --> 00:04:43,200 Speaker 1: We'll have more of Steve right after this. You're listening 80 00:04:43,279 --> 00:04:45,040 Speaker 1: to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.