1 00:00:03,480 --> 00:00:08,119 Speaker 1: Rooking Jebels second day. You know what a surefire way 2 00:00:08,240 --> 00:00:10,480 Speaker 1: is to get a woman's attention. Oh God, don't tell me, 3 00:00:10,520 --> 00:00:12,360 Speaker 1: Please don't tell me. Try to run her off the road. 4 00:00:12,440 --> 00:00:14,400 Speaker 1: Yeah I knew. I didn't want you to tell me. Yeah. 5 00:00:14,560 --> 00:00:17,840 Speaker 1: And it works every single time, you guys, every time 6 00:00:17,960 --> 00:00:19,960 Speaker 1: I've tried to get a girl's attention and I just bam, 7 00:00:20,040 --> 00:00:22,400 Speaker 1: just check her, bump her a little bit in traffic, 8 00:00:22,440 --> 00:00:25,120 Speaker 1: she always notices me. That's the wrong type of attention. 9 00:00:25,280 --> 00:00:28,480 Speaker 1: That's what happened to Rachel. Hey, Rachel, what's going on? Hey? 10 00:00:28,480 --> 00:00:30,680 Speaker 1: How are you good? Now? The guy you emailed us about. 11 00:00:30,680 --> 00:00:33,199 Speaker 1: His name's Phil. You said that got in a car 12 00:00:33,240 --> 00:00:35,800 Speaker 1: accident with him, right, Yeah, I mean we got into 13 00:00:35,880 --> 00:00:38,760 Speaker 1: like a little fender bender. Did he hit you? He 14 00:00:38,920 --> 00:00:42,800 Speaker 1: hit me? Yeah? Hit me? What happened? Like? How hard 15 00:00:43,720 --> 00:00:46,720 Speaker 1: it wasn't It wasn't that hard? I think? All right, guys, 16 00:00:47,000 --> 00:00:49,879 Speaker 1: girl up a little bit. We're talking about a car accident, 17 00:00:50,159 --> 00:00:54,959 Speaker 1: are ye? Are you talking about? Yeah? Okay, continue tell 18 00:00:55,000 --> 00:00:57,720 Speaker 1: us about how he hit it, so you know he 19 00:00:58,040 --> 00:01:00,760 Speaker 1: he accidentally hit me. Um, you know it was enough 20 00:01:00,760 --> 00:01:02,720 Speaker 1: where we had to pull off the road and take 21 00:01:02,720 --> 00:01:04,840 Speaker 1: a look and see if there was any damage. So 22 00:01:05,040 --> 00:01:07,600 Speaker 1: we started talking. Were you excited about that, Like when 23 00:01:07,640 --> 00:01:10,679 Speaker 1: he got into the car, You're like, oh, well, I 24 00:01:10,720 --> 00:01:12,560 Speaker 1: mean not at first, but I did notice he was 25 00:01:12,640 --> 00:01:15,280 Speaker 1: kind of cute. Yeah. Did he ask you out right 26 00:01:15,280 --> 00:01:16,959 Speaker 1: there on the spot or did you just get a 27 00:01:16,959 --> 00:01:19,400 Speaker 1: text message from him later? Like, hey, well, we started 28 00:01:19,400 --> 00:01:21,959 Speaker 1: talking and then he asked me out eventually. You know, 29 00:01:22,000 --> 00:01:23,800 Speaker 1: I know, it's a little strange how he met. But 30 00:01:24,240 --> 00:01:26,240 Speaker 1: he had this like really great sense of humor when 31 00:01:26,240 --> 00:01:28,800 Speaker 1: we were talking, and he had progressive so I knew 32 00:01:30,800 --> 00:01:33,399 Speaker 1: that he was responsible. How was the date that you 33 00:01:33,400 --> 00:01:36,680 Speaker 1: went on. It was good. We went out to this 34 00:01:36,760 --> 00:01:42,000 Speaker 1: restaurant that he was raving about, and when we got there, 35 00:01:43,520 --> 00:01:45,840 Speaker 1: he didn't make a reservation. I guess. I guess he 36 00:01:45,920 --> 00:01:47,640 Speaker 1: kind of just thought, oh, like, he'll get us in 37 00:01:47,680 --> 00:01:49,880 Speaker 1: because you know, he knows the place so well. But 38 00:01:50,160 --> 00:01:53,160 Speaker 1: there was like an hour and a half wait. Yeah, 39 00:01:53,320 --> 00:01:57,520 Speaker 1: and he tried to slip the host like a five 40 00:01:57,560 --> 00:02:00,000 Speaker 1: dollar bill, which I don't know he kind of got 41 00:02:00,080 --> 00:02:03,960 Speaker 1: five dollar bills. Yeah, yeah, I know he kind of 42 00:02:03,960 --> 00:02:06,200 Speaker 1: got rejected big time. But you know, I know, I 43 00:02:06,240 --> 00:02:07,920 Speaker 1: know it says you don't have any tables on your list, 44 00:02:07,920 --> 00:02:13,799 Speaker 1: But what about for five American dollars? Now I wish 45 00:02:14,680 --> 00:02:20,880 Speaker 1: a roll of quarters? Yeah? Did you see him do that? Yeah? 46 00:02:20,919 --> 00:02:23,000 Speaker 1: I did. Then the look on her face was kind 47 00:02:23,000 --> 00:02:25,600 Speaker 1: of like, are you kidding me? So embarrassing, but it 48 00:02:25,720 --> 00:02:27,480 Speaker 1: was kind of cute, you know that he tried to 49 00:02:27,520 --> 00:02:29,480 Speaker 1: get us in and everything. Did you wait for the 50 00:02:29,520 --> 00:02:32,040 Speaker 1: table then for an hour? Day? Yeah, we waited an 51 00:02:32,080 --> 00:02:33,680 Speaker 1: hour and a half, but you know, we were talking 52 00:02:33,720 --> 00:02:35,760 Speaker 1: the whole time, kind of getting to know each other, 53 00:02:36,000 --> 00:02:38,880 Speaker 1: and the time I really fast. Actually, I didn't even 54 00:02:38,880 --> 00:02:41,200 Speaker 1: notice that that we were waiting that long, and to 55 00:02:41,360 --> 00:02:43,240 Speaker 1: know it was good it was. It was really good food. 56 00:02:43,240 --> 00:02:45,440 Speaker 1: We had great conversation, and then when the bill came, 57 00:02:45,440 --> 00:02:48,959 Speaker 1: he couldn't cover it because he only had five dollars, 58 00:02:49,200 --> 00:02:51,480 Speaker 1: So how did the data in? Then? So we finished 59 00:02:51,480 --> 00:02:53,880 Speaker 1: our date and then he walked me back to my car, 60 00:02:54,880 --> 00:02:58,919 Speaker 1: and you know, he was cute and he tried to 61 00:02:58,960 --> 00:03:01,560 Speaker 1: give me a kiss. Tried to give you a kiss? Yeah, 62 00:03:01,639 --> 00:03:04,320 Speaker 1: does that mean you turn it down? Well, I guess 63 00:03:04,680 --> 00:03:07,280 Speaker 1: when he reached in to give me a kiss, he 64 00:03:07,520 --> 00:03:09,480 Speaker 1: closed his eyes a little early and he kind of 65 00:03:09,560 --> 00:03:15,520 Speaker 1: ended up kissing me on my eyeball. Did you laugh awkward? 66 00:03:15,680 --> 00:03:18,320 Speaker 1: Did you laugh or how did you react? Well, he 67 00:03:18,400 --> 00:03:22,040 Speaker 1: was so embarrassed. He was so embarrassed after he did it. 68 00:03:22,080 --> 00:03:24,120 Speaker 1: I felt really bad. I mean I tried not to 69 00:03:24,200 --> 00:03:26,440 Speaker 1: laugh too much and just tell him, you know, don't 70 00:03:26,480 --> 00:03:29,280 Speaker 1: worry about it's fine whatever. But so you didn't correctly 71 00:03:29,320 --> 00:03:31,399 Speaker 1: kiss though. After he kissed your eyeball, he just left 72 00:03:31,400 --> 00:03:33,880 Speaker 1: it at that. Yeah, it was kind of like that 73 00:03:34,040 --> 00:03:39,400 Speaker 1: sucks the guy a bone at the end of the night. Yeah, 74 00:03:39,440 --> 00:03:40,960 Speaker 1: he was just so embarrassed. I was just like, no, 75 00:03:41,040 --> 00:03:42,600 Speaker 1: don't worry about it, you know, just kind of tried 76 00:03:42,640 --> 00:03:45,040 Speaker 1: to smile. And if I kissed you on your eyeball 77 00:03:45,040 --> 00:03:47,200 Speaker 1: on accident and then you didn't offer a follow up kiss, 78 00:03:47,200 --> 00:03:49,920 Speaker 1: I'd think that you hated me. So all right, we're 79 00:03:49,920 --> 00:03:51,440 Speaker 1: gonna play a song, come back, call him and get 80 00:03:51,440 --> 00:03:53,960 Speaker 1: your second date update. All right, okay, okay, hang on, 81 00:03:55,240 --> 00:04:01,000 Speaker 1: I want to be free in Jubila in the morning. 82 00:04:04,240 --> 00:04:07,160 Speaker 1: I think that this guy Phil just has to be embarrassed, 83 00:04:07,560 --> 00:04:09,400 Speaker 1: if you ask me. Yeah, yeah, he hit her and 84 00:04:09,400 --> 00:04:12,160 Speaker 1: then he kissed. He ran into Rachel's car. That's how 85 00:04:12,200 --> 00:04:15,000 Speaker 1: they initially met. Then he tried to take her out 86 00:04:15,000 --> 00:04:17,159 Speaker 1: to dinner at this place he was raving about didn't 87 00:04:17,160 --> 00:04:19,120 Speaker 1: make reservations, so they're waiting for what an hour and 88 00:04:19,160 --> 00:04:22,400 Speaker 1: a half? Rachel, Yeah, an hour and a half. He's 89 00:04:22,440 --> 00:04:25,320 Speaker 1: embarrassed when he tries to slip the host money. They 90 00:04:25,400 --> 00:04:27,320 Speaker 1: give him back to five dollars and he tried to 91 00:04:27,360 --> 00:04:29,720 Speaker 1: grease them with and then at the end of the 92 00:04:29,800 --> 00:04:31,680 Speaker 1: night he kisses her. Eyeball. I don't think i'd want 93 00:04:31,680 --> 00:04:33,640 Speaker 1: to call you back either, Rachel. I think i'd I 94 00:04:33,760 --> 00:04:35,880 Speaker 1: just chalk it up to a loss. I'd be like, dude, 95 00:04:35,680 --> 00:04:38,839 Speaker 1: I ruined that whole thing. No, not at all. The 96 00:04:38,880 --> 00:04:42,240 Speaker 1: surprising thing to me, Rachel, is that you're so into it. Yeah, 97 00:04:42,279 --> 00:04:44,840 Speaker 1: I mean those things they were kind of adorable, you know. 98 00:04:44,920 --> 00:04:47,080 Speaker 1: I found it to be really cute. I had a 99 00:04:47,120 --> 00:04:48,719 Speaker 1: really good time with him on that date, and I 100 00:04:48,760 --> 00:04:50,599 Speaker 1: would really want to see him again. And you made 101 00:04:50,600 --> 00:04:52,920 Speaker 1: that apparent to him. You were very clear about how 102 00:04:53,000 --> 00:04:55,360 Speaker 1: much he liked him. Yeah, I thought so. I thought. 103 00:04:55,400 --> 00:04:57,640 Speaker 1: I was Okay, all right, we're gonna call him now. 104 00:04:57,640 --> 00:05:12,080 Speaker 1: See we get on the phone, Okay, okay, great, Hello, Hey, 105 00:05:12,080 --> 00:05:16,719 Speaker 1: I was looking for Phil. Yeah speaking, This is Jewel 106 00:05:16,760 --> 00:05:18,280 Speaker 1: from brook and Jewel in the morning. I'm moving ninety 107 00:05:18,320 --> 00:05:21,200 Speaker 1: two point five. How are you ninety two point five? 108 00:05:21,279 --> 00:05:25,320 Speaker 1: Oh my god? Are you serious? Yes? This is the 109 00:05:25,360 --> 00:05:27,800 Speaker 1: reaction I get when I call most people about it. 110 00:05:29,760 --> 00:05:33,200 Speaker 1: What's up, man? How are you doing? I'm great? How 111 00:05:33,240 --> 00:05:35,240 Speaker 1: are you good? Do you know why I might be 112 00:05:35,240 --> 00:05:38,440 Speaker 1: calling you? No idea? Have you ever heard one of 113 00:05:38,480 --> 00:05:41,320 Speaker 1: the second day updates that we do? Kind of that 114 00:05:41,440 --> 00:05:43,880 Speaker 1: kind of sort of yeah, you sounds like you're not 115 00:05:43,920 --> 00:05:45,360 Speaker 1: too familiar if you don't know what a second day 116 00:05:45,440 --> 00:05:46,800 Speaker 1: update is. It's where you go out on a date 117 00:05:46,800 --> 00:05:49,560 Speaker 1: with someone and then blow them off after then they 118 00:05:49,880 --> 00:05:52,200 Speaker 1: email us and ask us to call you to find 119 00:05:52,200 --> 00:05:57,560 Speaker 1: out why. So I blew somebody off? Yep? Any idea 120 00:05:57,720 --> 00:06:04,560 Speaker 1: that could be m jeeves? I mean I did kind 121 00:06:04,560 --> 00:06:06,560 Speaker 1: of go on a date like last week was a 122 00:06:06,600 --> 00:06:10,040 Speaker 1: girl Rachel? And has Rachel texted you and called you 123 00:06:10,080 --> 00:06:11,920 Speaker 1: after the date to try to maybe hang out again? 124 00:06:13,040 --> 00:06:15,880 Speaker 1: A couple of times? I think she may have left 125 00:06:15,920 --> 00:06:18,880 Speaker 1: me a message and you haven't responded to her, which 126 00:06:19,200 --> 00:06:22,400 Speaker 1: technically means you blew her off. So here we are, 127 00:06:25,080 --> 00:06:28,520 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that Rachel wants to know why you won't 128 00:06:28,560 --> 00:06:32,440 Speaker 1: call her back. Is there any particular reason, well man, 129 00:06:32,560 --> 00:06:35,599 Speaker 1: to be completely honest, man, you know, she's just a 130 00:06:35,640 --> 00:06:39,120 Speaker 1: little a little weird. She was a little weird. I 131 00:06:39,200 --> 00:06:41,120 Speaker 1: figured that it was embarrassed. Man. I figured you weren't 132 00:06:41,120 --> 00:06:42,720 Speaker 1: calling her back because you were embarrassed. But you say 133 00:06:42,720 --> 00:06:46,800 Speaker 1: it's because she's weird. Oh yeah, yeah. It turns out, 134 00:06:46,839 --> 00:06:48,760 Speaker 1: you know, like all the stuff that we talked about, 135 00:06:49,680 --> 00:06:53,800 Speaker 1: she didn't really tell me everything about herself, you know, 136 00:06:53,920 --> 00:06:57,480 Speaker 1: like pertinent information. So what do you mean by that? 137 00:06:57,520 --> 00:07:00,760 Speaker 1: What do you mean by everything about herself? You go 138 00:07:00,800 --> 00:07:02,800 Speaker 1: on dates because you know, you want to get to 139 00:07:02,839 --> 00:07:04,760 Speaker 1: know somebody a little bit better. Maybe you see if 140 00:07:04,760 --> 00:07:06,520 Speaker 1: it leads to something else. Yeah, I was gonna say 141 00:07:06,560 --> 00:07:09,680 Speaker 1: hook up after it, but some people have different reasons 142 00:07:09,680 --> 00:07:12,000 Speaker 1: for dating. So what'd you find out though? Like, you know, 143 00:07:12,240 --> 00:07:15,480 Speaker 1: so after the date, you know, I went back and 144 00:07:15,760 --> 00:07:17,680 Speaker 1: I went to my friends and I was like, yo, 145 00:07:18,240 --> 00:07:20,280 Speaker 1: I went out with this awesome girl named Rachel, And 146 00:07:20,840 --> 00:07:23,880 Speaker 1: I actually showed them a picture of her, and uh, 147 00:07:24,640 --> 00:07:28,240 Speaker 1: my boy was like, this was the same girl that 148 00:07:28,440 --> 00:07:33,360 Speaker 1: was dating a mutual friend of ours. Who hold on, 149 00:07:33,520 --> 00:07:36,640 Speaker 1: how do you guys really know that that's the same person? Facebook? Yeah, 150 00:07:38,040 --> 00:07:41,360 Speaker 1: right now, we actually found the profile of the boyfriend, 151 00:07:41,440 --> 00:07:45,120 Speaker 1: right and we were going through his pictures. She's on 152 00:07:45,160 --> 00:07:49,720 Speaker 1: the profile picture making out with home dude, what she's cheating? 153 00:07:51,120 --> 00:07:55,320 Speaker 1: Apparently the status thing says they're in a relationship and 154 00:07:55,400 --> 00:08:06,240 Speaker 1: it says her name. No, not even just dating him. Wait, explain, hey, Phil, Yeah, 155 00:08:06,280 --> 00:08:07,880 Speaker 1: I should probably let you know that Rachel is on 156 00:08:07,880 --> 00:08:09,880 Speaker 1: the other line and heard everything that you just said. 157 00:08:11,160 --> 00:08:18,320 Speaker 1: Are you serious? Yeah? I Phil, high, Um, you would 158 00:08:18,360 --> 00:08:21,520 Speaker 1: just let me explain. Yes, that was my boyfriend, but 159 00:08:21,600 --> 00:08:24,400 Speaker 1: we're definitely not dating anymore. We've been broken up for 160 00:08:24,440 --> 00:08:26,920 Speaker 1: the last two months. I just live with him. It's 161 00:08:26,960 --> 00:08:29,920 Speaker 1: a little bit of a complicated situation, but we're definitely 162 00:08:30,520 --> 00:08:32,800 Speaker 1: not in a relationship. Rachel. Did you say you just 163 00:08:32,920 --> 00:08:36,640 Speaker 1: live with him? Yeah, it's a little complicated, you know, 164 00:08:36,800 --> 00:08:39,320 Speaker 1: but yeah, I live with him, but we're not together. 165 00:08:39,360 --> 00:08:43,800 Speaker 1: We're not officially together. Broke up. It's over. It's been over. 166 00:08:44,080 --> 00:08:46,679 Speaker 1: Wh Why are you living with him? It's just a 167 00:08:46,679 --> 00:08:50,000 Speaker 1: little complicated. I'm moving out soon, you know, I'm working 168 00:08:50,000 --> 00:08:53,160 Speaker 1: it out, but right now I'm we're still, you know, 169 00:08:53,400 --> 00:08:58,959 Speaker 1: sharing the same space. And how soon is soon? Like 170 00:08:59,160 --> 00:09:02,320 Speaker 1: as soon as I Rachel. I've been in a similar 171 00:09:02,360 --> 00:09:04,640 Speaker 1: situation where I've broken up with someone I lived with him. 172 00:09:04,679 --> 00:09:05,960 Speaker 1: We had to live together for a couple of months 173 00:09:05,960 --> 00:09:08,640 Speaker 1: because you know, things just didn't work out. Are you 174 00:09:08,640 --> 00:09:22,320 Speaker 1: guys still sleeping together? Well, I mean sometimes at least obvious. 175 00:09:22,640 --> 00:09:25,280 Speaker 1: It only has it's like happened like once or twice, 176 00:09:25,440 --> 00:09:28,520 Speaker 1: and honestly, like it's not an emotional thing at all. 177 00:09:28,679 --> 00:09:30,880 Speaker 1: It's just a physical thing. I mean, you know, like 178 00:09:30,920 --> 00:09:33,560 Speaker 1: we do see each other every single day. When I 179 00:09:33,600 --> 00:09:36,520 Speaker 1: say that we're officially over it, I'm glad that you 180 00:09:36,559 --> 00:09:37,959 Speaker 1: admit it, because like if you said no, I was 181 00:09:37,960 --> 00:09:39,880 Speaker 1: going to call you out because it's say, when I 182 00:09:39,920 --> 00:09:42,280 Speaker 1: was in that situation, you have your moments of weakness. Yeah, 183 00:09:42,320 --> 00:09:44,959 Speaker 1: she says it's physical, but you have an ex boyfriend 184 00:09:45,000 --> 00:09:47,200 Speaker 1: that still has a profile pick of you that is 185 00:09:47,240 --> 00:09:50,240 Speaker 1: not physical to him. I can guarantee it, I mean yeah, 186 00:09:50,280 --> 00:09:52,839 Speaker 1: But I mean I don't know why he still has 187 00:09:52,880 --> 00:09:54,640 Speaker 1: that on there because he's still in love with you 188 00:09:54,720 --> 00:10:01,440 Speaker 1: and a little obsessed. Yeah that's another good po I mean, 189 00:10:01,600 --> 00:10:04,400 Speaker 1: I guess, but I have I changed my Facebook profile. 190 00:10:04,760 --> 00:10:08,240 Speaker 1: For me, it's definitely over and for me, I definitely 191 00:10:08,280 --> 00:10:10,800 Speaker 1: want to date Phil. I really liked him. I had 192 00:10:10,840 --> 00:10:12,640 Speaker 1: a really good time on our date. I would. I 193 00:10:12,640 --> 00:10:14,760 Speaker 1: would love to see him again and see where this 194 00:10:14,800 --> 00:10:17,320 Speaker 1: can go. And I thought we had a really good time. 195 00:10:18,240 --> 00:10:21,040 Speaker 1: If you're doing this to this guy, you know, what's 196 00:10:21,040 --> 00:10:22,360 Speaker 1: to say that you're not going to do this to 197 00:10:22,440 --> 00:10:24,840 Speaker 1: me in a couple of months. Yeah, I mean you 198 00:10:24,840 --> 00:10:27,199 Speaker 1: can say that. I understand where you're coming from, but 199 00:10:27,440 --> 00:10:29,960 Speaker 1: it's a very particular situation. I can tell it to 200 00:10:30,040 --> 00:10:32,880 Speaker 1: you in detail later off the radio if you want. 201 00:10:32,960 --> 00:10:38,120 Speaker 1: But I mean, just give me a chance, you know. Hey, Rachel, Yeah, 202 00:10:38,160 --> 00:10:41,280 Speaker 1: how about you explained to Phil all about your relationship 203 00:10:41,400 --> 00:10:44,480 Speaker 1: or ex relationship on your next date, because I would 204 00:10:44,480 --> 00:10:46,559 Speaker 1: love to offer you, guys a second date. We will 205 00:10:46,600 --> 00:10:49,760 Speaker 1: pay for it. Phil, still painful? Would you go out 206 00:10:49,800 --> 00:10:54,520 Speaker 1: with Rachel again? I gotta say no, man, so you 207 00:10:54,559 --> 00:10:57,400 Speaker 1: do not blame him. Second date full of listening about 208 00:10:57,440 --> 00:11:00,520 Speaker 1: her ex boyfriend, that four of it sounds like a 209 00:11:00,520 --> 00:11:04,839 Speaker 1: lot of fun to me. I gotta say no because 210 00:11:04,840 --> 00:11:07,800 Speaker 1: because it's the tables were turned. You know, I can't 211 00:11:07,920 --> 00:11:11,679 Speaker 1: pull something like that off. Yeah, I got a girlfriend, 212 00:11:11,679 --> 00:11:13,200 Speaker 1: but you know, I want to go out and date 213 00:11:13,240 --> 00:11:17,680 Speaker 1: you like you know, so everybody would be calling you 214 00:11:17,720 --> 00:11:21,680 Speaker 1: a huge d bag at the moment. Yeah, Rachel, maybe 215 00:11:21,679 --> 00:11:25,400 Speaker 1: you should wait to date until you actually move out. Yeah, 216 00:11:25,520 --> 00:11:29,400 Speaker 1: you're probably right. This is getting really complicated and making 217 00:11:29,440 --> 00:11:32,160 Speaker 1: it pretty impossible for me to meet anyone new. It's 218 00:11:32,280 --> 00:11:35,040 Speaker 1: often complicated to date when you're still sleeping with your 219 00:11:35,040 --> 00:11:35,760 Speaker 1: old boyfriend.