WEBVTT - Ep34: 50 Shades of Play Feat King Noire 0:00:00.920 --> 0:00:07.960 Thank you. Tell me another song. You don't know you? 0:00:07.960 --> 0:00:14.600 You don't know this Pretty Ricky closer Baby, I want 0:00:14.600 --> 0:00:17.560 to get to you. Have to know Pretty Ricky. I'm 0:00:17.600 --> 0:00:20.279 so I mean, I know who Pretty Ricky is. I 0:00:20.320 --> 0:00:24.400 can't say I got the album, so I'm not gonna lie. 0:00:24.400 --> 0:00:26.480 I think I'm putting myself in the movie because Pretty 0:00:26.560 --> 0:00:31.800 Ricky comes to New York, UM November twenty something, and 0:00:31.880 --> 0:00:33.519 I'm still trying to go to the concert, and I 0:00:33.560 --> 0:00:35.520 have no one to go with because they're like Pretty 0:00:35.560 --> 0:00:40.080 Rickies back together. I am obsessed with um, Pretty Ricky. Now, 0:00:40.080 --> 0:00:41.599 I'm gonna have to send you the album because I'm 0:00:41.600 --> 0:00:44.040 sure it would be great to make love to. UM. 0:00:44.080 --> 0:00:45.680 It's one of those times. I mean, I can't throw 0:00:45.680 --> 0:00:47.360 it on in none of my movies. They'd sue the 0:00:47.400 --> 0:00:50.240 funk out of Okay, well you personal person, I only 0:00:50.280 --> 0:00:53.840 have sex on camera. I'm just playing. Yeah, I'm sure 0:00:53.840 --> 0:00:56.560 you are. Anyways, guys, UM, I wanted to say, Hi, 0:00:56.720 --> 0:00:59.920 welcome to you another episode of Horrible Decisions. This is 0:01:00.040 --> 0:01:02.600 your girl. Mandy and I am in the studio kind 0:01:02.600 --> 0:01:05.959 of solo. Wheezy is still in Japan, UM, but we 0:01:06.040 --> 0:01:07.840 had a guest who came up to the New York 0:01:07.880 --> 0:01:10.600 City area and I was like, bro, we're getting him 0:01:10.600 --> 0:01:12.720 on the Mother Package show. She was supposed to call in, 0:01:13.080 --> 0:01:15.560 but she is super jetlagged and she's been out there 0:01:15.560 --> 0:01:18.640 for like two and a half weeks. Um, so you 0:01:18.680 --> 0:01:20.680 guys just get to hear me and all of my rats. 0:01:20.760 --> 0:01:23.759 But luckily I have someone to cut that outside kind 0:01:23.800 --> 0:01:26.679 of sort of. Um, I guess I'll introduce our guests. 0:01:26.680 --> 0:01:30.600 We have King Noir in the building. Um, do you 0:01:30.600 --> 0:01:32.760 want to let our listeners know kind of just briefly 0:01:32.760 --> 0:01:34.920 what you do. We're gonna do a little icebreaker and 0:01:34.920 --> 0:01:37.680 then really get into the good stuff. But how would 0:01:37.720 --> 0:01:40.400 people know you? What do you do? Well? I am 0:01:40.680 --> 0:01:43.759 one of the co owners of Royal Fetish Films, Royal 0:01:43.760 --> 0:01:49.320 Fetish x x X dot Com, jet Setting, Jasmine, Body Altitudes, 0:01:49.840 --> 0:01:52.440 and some people probably know me from some music stuff, 0:01:52.520 --> 0:01:55.120 but I go by my actual name, Hassan Al. So 0:01:55.720 --> 0:01:57.920 between all of that, you've probably seen me on X 0:01:58.040 --> 0:02:03.880 videos somewhere, porn whatever, whatever, you're whatever you're you know, 0:02:04.200 --> 0:02:08.960 jerk offices, you know where you rub one out too, Okay, 0:02:09.000 --> 0:02:11.440 So and you do a little bit of everything in 0:02:11.440 --> 0:02:14.639 the industry. So we're gonna get into that. That's kind 0:02:14.639 --> 0:02:16.280 of going to be the horrible decision. You being a 0:02:16.320 --> 0:02:18.520 man in the industry, we have yet to have you know, 0:02:19.360 --> 0:02:21.480 anyone like you on. So I think we have a 0:02:21.520 --> 0:02:23.600 lot of questions to come forward, but we're gonna start 0:02:23.680 --> 0:02:26.240 with ice breakers. And so what we like to do 0:02:26.280 --> 0:02:28.720 with our guests, we either like to do would you rather? 0:02:28.880 --> 0:02:30.960 Or have you ever? Clearly I'm not gonna do have 0:02:31.080 --> 0:02:33.320 you ever with you because I don't think there's much 0:02:33.360 --> 0:02:36.120 you probably haven't done. Um, So we're gonna do the 0:02:36.120 --> 0:02:39.880 would you rather? And I got some kind of sex questions, 0:02:40.160 --> 0:02:43.680 um to make this fun. So would you rather only 0:02:43.720 --> 0:02:48.359 be able to have sex missionary or doggy style? Mm hmm. 0:02:48.440 --> 0:02:50.360 That's actually a really good question. I would I would 0:02:50.360 --> 0:02:53.680 actually say missionary really if I had one choice, because 0:02:53.680 --> 0:02:55.440 you know, you could throw the legs up on the shoulders. 0:02:55.440 --> 0:02:58.680 That's still missionary, right, Yeah, that's still missionary. That's so crazy, 0:02:58.680 --> 0:03:02.120 because of course me, I like love doggie style. I 0:03:02.240 --> 0:03:07.040 mean I would probably choose I just think that missionary 0:03:07.080 --> 0:03:08.800 if if it's just like for the rest of my 0:03:08.880 --> 0:03:11.640 life type situation. You know, the thing about mission every 0:03:11.760 --> 0:03:13.720 is for when you get you could look in your 0:03:13.760 --> 0:03:16.280 partner's eyes and be all romantical and stuff. But also 0:03:16.880 --> 0:03:19.799 it's good for clatoral stimulation and also hitting the G 0:03:19.960 --> 0:03:22.440 spot as well. You're you know, you're very right. As 0:03:22.440 --> 0:03:25.000 soon as as soon as I said that, I thought 0:03:25.000 --> 0:03:28.639 of the intimacy level that differs between doggy style and 0:03:28.720 --> 0:03:31.960 missionary and I guess you're right. I still like getting back. 0:03:32.040 --> 0:03:34.280 But I mean, you you gave me one of the 0:03:34.320 --> 0:03:38.960 other this or that you can't choose. Well, so here's 0:03:38.960 --> 0:03:40.360 a good one. Because you just talked about like some 0:03:40.440 --> 0:03:42.640 Russian roulette ship right there. It kind of is that. Well, 0:03:42.720 --> 0:03:44.480 all of these kind of are So you just talked 0:03:44.480 --> 0:03:48.600 about clatorial stimulation. So the second question is for play 0:03:48.720 --> 0:03:52.480 only with your hands or for play only with your mouth? Mouth? 0:03:52.520 --> 0:03:56.640 I love to eat, okay, so but you use fingers 0:03:56.680 --> 0:03:58.560 when you do it as well. And I mean, yeah, 0:03:58.600 --> 0:04:02.120 but you gave me a one of you would choose 0:04:02.120 --> 0:04:04.839 the mouth, okay, So here's a good one as well. 0:04:05.240 --> 0:04:07.560 Would you rather give up sex for a year or 0:04:07.600 --> 0:04:12.680 give up master? You said no whatever whatever that so 0:04:12.720 --> 0:04:15.280 you would give up masturbating for a year. That was 0:04:15.320 --> 0:04:19.359 the other. I mean, I love myself and all, I 0:04:19.440 --> 0:04:22.560 like the participation of sex. You're not giving up sex 0:04:22.600 --> 0:04:24.680 for a year at all. What's the longest you would 0:04:24.680 --> 0:04:27.520 give up sex for? Why this is horrible? This is 0:04:28.320 --> 0:04:30.640 you didn't tell me about this, this line of question, 0:04:30.680 --> 0:04:34.479 and was gonna be so so hard. I know, for 0:04:34.520 --> 0:04:36.760 the longest I would give it up for. I mean, 0:04:38.400 --> 0:04:40.120 just whatever was natural, Like if I was just in 0:04:40.160 --> 0:04:43.800 the space where I wasn't having sex at the time. Okay, Okay, 0:04:44.120 --> 0:04:46.599 I know I go two weeks without sex and I 0:04:46.600 --> 0:04:49.320 feel like it's months, So I don't know about a 0:04:49.400 --> 0:04:51.920 year without sex. I'd be like, I'd be like I'd 0:04:51.920 --> 0:04:53.320 be telling my home girls. I'd be like, girl, I 0:04:53.360 --> 0:04:56.000 haven't had sex and forever. They'd be like, girl, you 0:04:56.120 --> 0:04:57.880 was just went some and so three. I was like, 0:04:57.920 --> 0:05:00.920 oh damn, I was wasn't I'd be feeling it. I'll 0:05:00.920 --> 0:05:03.280 be feeling awful when I don't be having sex. So 0:05:03.360 --> 0:05:05.560 now we're gonna make it a little bit funnier. This 0:05:05.600 --> 0:05:07.400 is kind of this is kind of gonna be not 0:05:07.440 --> 0:05:11.279 as stressful, not as horrible. Would you rather cry every 0:05:11.320 --> 0:05:14.720 time you had sex or birth every time someone kissed you? 0:05:17.160 --> 0:05:19.520 I'd rather burt because that should probably be mad funny 0:05:19.560 --> 0:05:21.600 at a certain point, and I have sex way too 0:05:21.680 --> 0:05:23.719 much on time, or to be just crying all the time, 0:05:23.800 --> 0:05:28.839 that'd be a bad look. This motherfucker's romantic comedies are awful. 0:05:29.839 --> 0:05:33.200 You're right, that's a funny one. Um, oh that's for me. 0:05:33.320 --> 0:05:36.359 I don't even know what that one. Maybe maybe the 0:05:36.440 --> 0:05:39.719 bird Actually, you know what, I don't get recorded on 0:05:39.760 --> 0:05:42.840 the hill, And because I like doggy style so much, 0:05:42.880 --> 0:05:45.359 they possibly won't see the tears coming down my face. 0:05:45.880 --> 0:05:47.680 So I think I'm gonna take that. I would rather 0:05:47.800 --> 0:05:50.960 cry every time I had sex, and so this is 0:05:51.000 --> 0:05:53.920 gonna be the last one. Would you rather find out 0:05:53.960 --> 0:05:57.080 that someone you fucked was your long lost cousin or 0:05:57.120 --> 0:05:59.800 that they were a brutal murderer. I'd rather than be 0:05:59.839 --> 0:06:03.680 a murderer then your cousin? Is that? But does that 0:06:03.760 --> 0:06:05.599 kind of because if we have kids, they might have 0:06:05.640 --> 0:06:09.279 like web toes and a uni or something. Ever, is 0:06:09.279 --> 0:06:12.200 that part of incests? Like cousins? Did they go that far? 0:06:12.880 --> 0:06:15.880 It's not just sisters brothers, and I don't personally, I 0:06:15.880 --> 0:06:18.480 won't be hollering at my cousins. I don't know if 0:06:18.560 --> 0:06:20.960 I didn't know if that counted because it's like, aren't 0:06:21.000 --> 0:06:23.960 cousins through like marriage and ship. I don't even want 0:06:23.960 --> 0:06:26.360 to bark down. Okay, we can't. I don't know how 0:06:26.360 --> 0:06:31.120 many generations. Okay, so incests is not cool. You know 0:06:31.560 --> 0:06:33.520 you're not here for them. You know, it's a huge 0:06:33.560 --> 0:06:38.520 fetish online. Actually, um, incest porn doing serious numbers right now, 0:06:39.279 --> 0:06:42.040 but they're not actually related. You know. I'm sorry. If 0:06:42.040 --> 0:06:48.360 I've ruined somebody's fantasy, that'd be crazy. Though people would 0:06:48.360 --> 0:06:51.679 like providing a birth certificates. Yeah, no, I don't family 0:06:51.720 --> 0:06:54.120 tree porn or something. I would be lying if I 0:06:54.160 --> 0:06:57.280 sat here and said that I didn't kind of click 0:06:57.360 --> 0:07:02.320 taboo porn sometimes and that would definitely be at Unfortunately, Um, 0:07:02.360 --> 0:07:04.360 and this is just on a sexual manner. I don't 0:07:04.360 --> 0:07:06.520 want to offend anyone listening, but I have this kind 0:07:06.560 --> 0:07:13.400 of rapey fantasy. You can't find rapey porn really, like, 0:07:13.440 --> 0:07:16.720 it's really hard to find. And just the idea of like, 0:07:16.800 --> 0:07:19.720 you know, maybe someone taking control. Yeah, it's just and 0:07:19.760 --> 0:07:21.440 it's really a thing we're gonna talk about. I'm sure 0:07:21.440 --> 0:07:23.119 it's gonna be a kink coming up in the future, 0:07:23.120 --> 0:07:24.840 but I know it's just a real sensitive thing to 0:07:24.880 --> 0:07:26.600 talk about I think the thing is to say when 0:07:26.600 --> 0:07:30.720 you when you're watching porn, it's uh, you know, it's 0:07:30.720 --> 0:07:33.720 a controlled environment. So anybody that's on set, you know, 0:07:33.760 --> 0:07:36.360 they've spoken a safety word. They let everybody know what 0:07:36.440 --> 0:07:38.600 their limits and hard nose are and things like that. 0:07:38.640 --> 0:07:41.640 So even even with insects porn, you know, it's still 0:07:42.280 --> 0:07:44.640 all okay at the end of the day, you know 0:07:44.680 --> 0:07:47.360 what I'm saying, Like, it's it's enjoyed a fantasy, but 0:07:47.560 --> 0:07:50.560 everybody is still safe. Okay, guys. Now, So what we 0:07:50.680 --> 0:07:53.880 like to do every episode is doing kink of the week. 0:07:54.240 --> 0:07:58.160 So I made the kink apply directly to you. Um. 0:07:58.320 --> 0:08:02.520 And so the kink for this week is flogging. UM. 0:08:02.560 --> 0:08:04.560 So for our listeners that don't know, of course, we 0:08:04.640 --> 0:08:07.400 like to give the definition. So flogging is mainly an 0:08:07.480 --> 0:08:11.280 S and M termin terminology. Flogging is used UM to 0:08:11.440 --> 0:08:14.960 whip for sexual enjoyment. It says that a floggers shall 0:08:15.000 --> 0:08:19.640 remain for the moment any flexible, any flexible many tells 0:08:19.640 --> 0:08:22.640 striking tool, where the tails are simple strips of leather 0:08:22.720 --> 0:08:27.000 or similar substances designed for use on the human body. UM. 0:08:27.040 --> 0:08:32.080 And so you've brought a couple Um, this is I 0:08:32.120 --> 0:08:35.839 guess I want to explain to the listeners how someone 0:08:35.920 --> 0:08:38.679 would find us enjoying, how you got into doing this, 0:08:39.040 --> 0:08:41.360 and if it's something that's requested, because I'm not gonna lie. 0:08:41.400 --> 0:08:43.920 I'm looking at these right now and I'm absolutely like, 0:08:45.080 --> 0:08:47.079 what the fun is this? What's going on? And I've 0:08:47.120 --> 0:08:49.880 seen the videos of you doing flogging. I want to 0:08:49.920 --> 0:08:52.599 know how that I can't see how I would be 0:08:52.640 --> 0:08:56.520 sexually aroused by it. So explain, you know, flogging for 0:08:56.559 --> 0:08:59.480 our listeners. If you can't, well, I guess started doing it. Actually. 0:08:59.520 --> 0:09:01.200 I was at that come one year and I saw 0:09:01.240 --> 0:09:03.800 somebody using this style of flogger, Like I got two 0:09:03.840 --> 0:09:06.400 floggers up here. So this is considered a nun chuck 0:09:06.920 --> 0:09:10.320 or a swivel flogger. So I used to do martial 0:09:10.400 --> 0:09:11.920 arts as a kids. I was like, oh, that looks 0:09:11.960 --> 0:09:13.720 like a nun shuck. I can rock with that, like, 0:09:14.920 --> 0:09:20.200 but it's actually the precision of it I enjoy. And 0:09:20.320 --> 0:09:22.640 actually it's more of a thud than a whip Like 0:09:22.760 --> 0:09:24.880 this right here is a dragontail that has a lot. 0:09:25.000 --> 0:09:26.719 It's a lot more like. The feeling you'll get from 0:09:26.720 --> 0:09:30.280 that is like if somebody rolled up a towel and 0:09:30.320 --> 0:09:32.520 smell and snapped you with a towel like that's what 0:09:33.280 --> 0:09:36.200 that's that kind of feeling. It can hurt. This is yeah, 0:09:36.240 --> 0:09:39.320 this is like a double folded leather paddle, so that's 0:09:39.400 --> 0:09:43.240 that's more of a smack. This one is padded, so 0:09:43.720 --> 0:09:46.800 this side is softer. This side it's harder. So I 0:09:47.559 --> 0:09:51.720 understand the arousal from pain when I'm getting fun, especially 0:09:51.760 --> 0:09:55.000 from the back. I asked to be slapped on the 0:09:55.000 --> 0:09:59.440 ac so I get that arousal. But the flogging isn't painful, correct, 0:09:59.720 --> 0:10:03.360 It's more of a thud. So you use the perfect 0:10:03.360 --> 0:10:08.280 example when when we're turned on sexually. You know, if 0:10:08.320 --> 0:10:09.760 someone just ran up to you in the middle of 0:10:09.800 --> 0:10:11.200 the street and just smacks you want to ask. For 0:10:11.200 --> 0:10:12.679 the most part, you like, what the fund is wrong 0:10:12.720 --> 0:10:17.400 with you? Exactly exactly. But when you when we're turned on, 0:10:17.440 --> 0:10:20.960 our body starts to release dopamine and adrenaline that goes 0:10:21.000 --> 0:10:24.760 through our body that lets us know, uh, this is 0:10:24.840 --> 0:10:27.400 this is pleasurable or this isn't you know something that 0:10:27.400 --> 0:10:29.160 that has to deal with your fight, fight or flight. 0:10:29.880 --> 0:10:32.040 So with flogging being that it's more of a thud 0:10:32.559 --> 0:10:35.120 when I start when we try out. You know, I 0:10:35.160 --> 0:10:37.160 start up, I start up at the shoulders. There's certain 0:10:37.160 --> 0:10:39.200 places that you can't hit, certain places you can't hit. 0:10:39.679 --> 0:10:42.680 What those I got you, So we start We start 0:10:42.760 --> 0:10:45.120 up at the shoulders because the shoulders, there's muscle up 0:10:45.160 --> 0:10:49.000 there and it's the closest spot to your brain. So 0:10:49.040 --> 0:10:51.760 when it starts releasing all that adrenaline and dopamine, it 0:10:51.840 --> 0:10:54.160 starts to relax you. So it's kind of similar. I 0:10:54.200 --> 0:10:56.520 think it's like Shiatsu massage where they kind of do this. 0:10:57.080 --> 0:11:00.160 It's very similar to that. So just that in itself 0:11:00.440 --> 0:11:03.040 is relaxing to people. So that's part of where the 0:11:03.080 --> 0:11:05.560 arousal comes from. And then when you work your way down, 0:11:05.600 --> 0:11:07.719 you skip all those vital organs. You don't hit the 0:11:07.760 --> 0:11:11.160 spine right when you get to meaty parts of the body, 0:11:11.240 --> 0:11:15.720 so the ass thies. Some women, uh specifically like to 0:11:15.760 --> 0:11:20.600 get flogged on their breasts. Um, So when you get 0:11:20.640 --> 0:11:22.680 down to that area, there's there's something that we have 0:11:22.920 --> 0:11:25.400 down there, both men and women. It's called the podendal nerve. 0:11:25.920 --> 0:11:30.000 It's for men. It's where it's a real scientifical you 0:11:30.040 --> 0:11:35.720 know scientifical word it is, right, But it's like for 0:11:35.720 --> 0:11:37.880 for men, where where the taint is or for women, 0:11:37.880 --> 0:11:39.840 where the lady taint is. You know that's there's a 0:11:39.920 --> 0:11:43.280 nerve right there that when it when it feels like vibes. 0:11:43.360 --> 0:11:44.840 It's the same kind of thing is when you get 0:11:44.840 --> 0:11:47.440 spanked when you're feeling turned on. It sends that nice 0:11:47.440 --> 0:11:49.880 little shock wave through your ass and and through your 0:11:50.240 --> 0:11:52.800 through your insides. So it's that same kind of feeling. 0:11:52.840 --> 0:11:54.640 So if you start getting flogged the right way, it 0:11:54.760 --> 0:11:56.800 starts sending them same kind of waves through your body, 0:11:57.040 --> 0:11:59.360 just like there's a proper way to spank, like if 0:11:59.400 --> 0:12:02.160 you spank up as opposed to spanking down or side 0:12:02.280 --> 0:12:05.160 or there's different ways to send different sensations through the body. 0:12:05.360 --> 0:12:08.120 So it's rhythmic also, like the same way you like 0:12:08.120 --> 0:12:11.600 getting pounded when that nice rhythm is going. I'm also 0:12:11.679 --> 0:12:15.640 really big on communication, Like normally I asked to be 0:12:15.920 --> 0:12:18.760 you know, slap my ass. I tell them, is this 0:12:18.920 --> 0:12:22.120 something that normally a female or would ask a guy 0:12:22.200 --> 0:12:24.520 to do? Or is this something that a guy normally introduces? 0:12:24.960 --> 0:12:26.480 It could go either way. It could go either way. 0:12:27.600 --> 0:12:30.280 It's usually a dumb sub kind of thing. But there 0:12:30.320 --> 0:12:32.400 are people I know who like getting flocked that wouldn't 0:12:32.400 --> 0:12:34.880 consider themselves to be a sub. They just like the 0:12:34.920 --> 0:12:37.320 sensation and the feeling of getting flocked. And it could 0:12:37.360 --> 0:12:39.880 be something that for you who said earlier that you're 0:12:39.920 --> 0:12:42.640 not really into being a sub or anything, you can 0:12:42.679 --> 0:12:46.480 still speak on like if with the person that you're 0:12:46.480 --> 0:12:48.560 working with, if you're like, yo, I'm not don't just 0:12:48.600 --> 0:12:50.600 tell me what to do or whatever, like, you can 0:12:50.600 --> 0:12:53.520 still be communicative with your with your partner, like this 0:12:53.559 --> 0:12:55.280 is what I want to try. Please don't go past 0:12:55.320 --> 0:12:57.160 this limit. You know, when I when I work with 0:12:57.200 --> 0:12:59.280 people for the first time, I'm asking them what they're 0:12:59.640 --> 0:13:03.880 what they're pain tolerances. You know, let's say you have injury, 0:13:04.000 --> 0:13:05.839 things like that. There are certain questions I'm going to 0:13:05.920 --> 0:13:08.480 ask you to make it a pleasurable experience. Lethal lips 0:13:08.600 --> 0:13:12.160 Um came on the show and we discussed the scene 0:13:12.160 --> 0:13:14.160 with you, and she actually said it was one of 0:13:14.200 --> 0:13:17.040 the most enjoyable but also mentally hard scenes for her 0:13:17.040 --> 0:13:19.800 because she's more dominant and she actually had to be 0:13:20.080 --> 0:13:24.760 submissive to you. Um, how how does that work? Are 0:13:24.800 --> 0:13:27.760 you ever submissive to a woman? Are you constantly the 0:13:27.840 --> 0:13:30.200 dom in the bedroom? Like? Do you know what I mean? 0:13:30.559 --> 0:13:34.360 Like as a man dom are you always I think 0:13:34.600 --> 0:13:37.880 the scene with Lethal it was something that we both 0:13:38.040 --> 0:13:40.080 spoke about. It wasn't like I just showed up there 0:13:40.240 --> 0:13:43.120 was like you're about to submit. It wasn't nothing like that. 0:13:43.160 --> 0:13:47.199 It was she we we discussed like usually with with UH, 0:13:47.280 --> 0:13:49.400 a lot of our scenes when we work with with 0:13:49.920 --> 0:13:54.040 well known actors and acts, you know, we we like 0:13:54.160 --> 0:13:57.080 to say we want to try something that you've never 0:13:57.120 --> 0:13:59.880 tried before, or or a fetish that you're really in 0:14:00.040 --> 0:14:02.720 to that you know, maybe you haven't done on a 0:14:02.720 --> 0:14:05.199 film that you love in your personal life, to show 0:14:05.400 --> 0:14:09.240 the real honesty in you, in your in your sex. 0:14:09.920 --> 0:14:12.200 So she was like, you know, I've I've thought about it. 0:14:12.280 --> 0:14:14.280 I kind of like that chain thing that I've seen 0:14:14.320 --> 0:14:17.000 you used before. Like so it's kind of like that. 0:14:17.080 --> 0:14:20.880 But um me, I'm not a sub but I do work. 0:14:21.000 --> 0:14:24.320 I guess where you would say, like an equal level, 0:14:24.760 --> 0:14:28.200 I don't. I don't sub, but there is a certain 0:14:28.240 --> 0:14:31.320 amount of power in submission as well, because a person 0:14:31.320 --> 0:14:33.600 who's a true do like I'm considered more on the 0:14:33.680 --> 0:14:38.080 central side of dominant. I don't do dominant, UH. I 0:14:38.080 --> 0:14:42.920 don't dominate to cause injury or hurt. That's not my style. 0:14:43.440 --> 0:14:46.920 I do it because I enjoyed pleasing so much. So 0:14:46.960 --> 0:14:49.120 it's like I look at it like a blank canvas. 0:14:50.200 --> 0:14:54.240 So if if a woman is willing to give give 0:14:54.440 --> 0:14:56.800 give me her body and allow me to just try 0:14:56.840 --> 0:14:59.800 to take her to different levels of pleasure and pain 0:14:59.840 --> 0:15:02.720 and ecstasy and all of that, then there is still 0:15:03.000 --> 0:15:06.160 you still control the sit the scene of having your 0:15:06.160 --> 0:15:09.960 safety word. You still control the scene of even just 0:15:10.080 --> 0:15:13.160 being there and allowing me to paint this picture. So 0:15:13.440 --> 0:15:16.560 you mentioned that you spoke with me the lips before 0:15:16.600 --> 0:15:19.040 you speak with everyone. Um so, something that you do 0:15:19.240 --> 0:15:24.200 you consider yourself a master fetish trainer. So I want 0:15:24.240 --> 0:15:26.680 to talk about what you do when you come into 0:15:26.680 --> 0:15:29.000 the bedroom with couples, because not everything you do is 0:15:29.000 --> 0:15:31.800 on scene, it's not it's not on film. Not everyone 0:15:31.800 --> 0:15:34.080 can see what you do. Um So, I wanted to 0:15:34.120 --> 0:15:37.720 get into this part of the industry that you're in. 0:15:38.160 --> 0:15:41.440 So couples pretty much ask you to help them in 0:15:41.480 --> 0:15:44.640 the bedroom. What do you do? How how do they 0:15:44.640 --> 0:15:47.200 approach you about that? And what exactly do you do 0:15:47.240 --> 0:15:49.800 to help them? Are you fucking the couples or are 0:15:49.880 --> 0:15:52.840 you I don't know. You do a lot of ships, 0:15:52.920 --> 0:15:56.280 so explain to our listeners what a master fetish trainer 0:15:56.320 --> 0:15:59.400 does well. The best way to describe a master fetish 0:15:59.400 --> 0:16:04.320 trainer is is everybody has a fetish, but a lot 0:16:04.360 --> 0:16:06.520 of people don't know what that is. They don't know 0:16:06.720 --> 0:16:08.840 how to discover what it is, and they don't know 0:16:08.880 --> 0:16:11.360 how to live it. A lot of times there are 0:16:11.400 --> 0:16:13.320 people and I think that one of the problems in 0:16:13.360 --> 0:16:15.120 the world that we live in is that so many 0:16:15.160 --> 0:16:21.480 people are sexually repressed. Absolutely, I mean across the board. 0:16:21.480 --> 0:16:24.440 I mean women are sexually oppressed in this culture. But 0:16:24.560 --> 0:16:28.880 then on top of that, individuals sexually repressed themselves. And 0:16:28.960 --> 0:16:31.800 sometimes it's because of that oppression, and other times it's 0:16:31.880 --> 0:16:34.320 just because of how we were brought up or just 0:16:34.840 --> 0:16:39.040 things that go on in our head. So sometimes it's 0:16:39.080 --> 0:16:42.080 like people have this epiphany or an awakening where they're like, 0:16:42.600 --> 0:16:45.680 I just want to try things. But if you don't 0:16:45.680 --> 0:16:47.560 know how to use some of these things that we 0:16:47.640 --> 0:16:50.560 have on the table, you can seriously hurt somebody. You know, 0:16:50.600 --> 0:16:52.480 if someone's just like I'm a flog for the first time, 0:16:52.960 --> 0:16:55.920 and you know, I just hit somebody in the kidney, 0:16:56.120 --> 0:16:58.080 you know what I mean, Like that's not gonna turn 0:16:58.120 --> 0:17:01.320 out good. So one of the things that that we 0:17:01.400 --> 0:17:06.360 do as master Fetish trainers is guide people through trying 0:17:06.400 --> 0:17:10.919 out different items, toys, role playing scenarios. One of my 0:17:11.000 --> 0:17:13.639 favorite things that we did recently, Jasmine and I worked 0:17:13.640 --> 0:17:18.119 with a couple where the woman was more experienced in 0:17:18.200 --> 0:17:20.600 b D s M, like she knew who she was 0:17:20.640 --> 0:17:23.080 as a sub. She wanted her man to be more dominant, 0:17:24.240 --> 0:17:28.000 and he was like cool guy, like super chill, like 0:17:28.080 --> 0:17:31.840 he was just like, you know, like but but then 0:17:31.880 --> 0:17:34.199 like we got to speak to them, and you know, 0:17:34.240 --> 0:17:36.600 I'm talking to him and like finding out more about 0:17:36.640 --> 0:17:39.520 his personality and what he's into and his interests and 0:17:39.560 --> 0:17:41.200 all that, and I'm like, well, if yeah, yeah, into 0:17:41.560 --> 0:17:46.239 he was into like a role play type game. And 0:17:46.280 --> 0:17:48.440 I was like, well, if you're into that in your 0:17:48.560 --> 0:17:51.480 every day then you could seriously use that in the bedroom, 0:17:51.520 --> 0:17:54.480 in a in a in a more creative way to 0:17:54.560 --> 0:17:57.040 please your lady, you know. And it's and it's and 0:17:57.040 --> 0:17:58.440 it's definitely there are a lot of men out there 0:17:58.440 --> 0:18:00.399 who are like, I don't want to choke my wife 0:18:00.480 --> 0:18:02.439 or spank my wife because I don't want to hurt her. 0:18:02.880 --> 0:18:06.120 And I'm like, well, there's a difference between choking somebody 0:18:06.119 --> 0:18:09.520 to end their life, you know, and just choking them 0:18:09.560 --> 0:18:12.640 to add a little pressure because it heightens orgasm. Some 0:18:12.680 --> 0:18:15.159 people like to have that feeling of having just just 0:18:15.359 --> 0:18:17.400 having their air cut off for a little bit. There's 0:18:17.440 --> 0:18:20.160 different level. I just talked about this on my IG Live. 0:18:20.240 --> 0:18:22.040 I was like, I don't want to die because I 0:18:22.080 --> 0:18:25.840 got choked too hard during sex. There's there's but there's 0:18:25.880 --> 0:18:28.400 different levels to it. Like some people are extreme, They're 0:18:28.440 --> 0:18:30.879 like put a plastic bag over my head, you know, 0:18:31.200 --> 0:18:34.760 like I really want to have trouble, have trouble breathing, 0:18:34.760 --> 0:18:36.680 and then other people like I just like a little 0:18:36.720 --> 0:18:40.000 bit of pressure around here. I don't want to bruise, 0:18:40.640 --> 0:18:42.639 you know. And there's and there's ways to teach somebody 0:18:42.640 --> 0:18:43.879 how to do that in a way that's not going 0:18:43.920 --> 0:18:47.280 to injure somebody. So that's that's one way. Another way 0:18:47.560 --> 0:18:54.359 is I actually engage in domination for them and maybe 0:18:54.400 --> 0:18:58.840 flogging or spanking or whatever whatever their their role place 0:18:58.880 --> 0:19:01.000 scenario whiz, and I take them to the point where 0:19:01.000 --> 0:19:04.200 it's time for them to do their thing and I'll 0:19:04.200 --> 0:19:06.919 make my way out. Oh wow. And so these are 0:19:06.960 --> 0:19:10.200 done whether in a hotel or in the privacy of 0:19:10.240 --> 0:19:12.080 their own home or something like that, so it's not 0:19:12.119 --> 0:19:15.480 done with a whole bunch of camera crews or any 0:19:15.480 --> 0:19:18.399 other people. They literally call you to help them open 0:19:18.480 --> 0:19:21.920 up in the bedroom. And I think that's that's very important. Um, 0:19:22.080 --> 0:19:25.280 not only that you do that, but just I mentioned 0:19:25.320 --> 0:19:26.680 it all the time on the show, just the level 0:19:26.720 --> 0:19:29.840 of communication, because if she was expressing that she really 0:19:30.440 --> 0:19:33.200 likes being sub and she wasn't getting that in the bedroom, 0:19:33.240 --> 0:19:35.040 I think that is what leads a lot of people 0:19:35.080 --> 0:19:38.719 to stray away sometimes from their partners and cheat. And 0:19:39.240 --> 0:19:41.760 because we do all have these fetishes or we have 0:19:41.880 --> 0:19:45.639 these craving sexually that we do need to have done, 0:19:45.800 --> 0:19:48.240 I guess to get it out of our system. You know, 0:19:48.080 --> 0:19:51.480 you said the right word. Communication is key in any relationship. 0:19:51.880 --> 0:19:55.359 To make any relationship better, whether it be some B 0:19:55.440 --> 0:19:59.600 d s M. Polly Swinger, or your friendship or your 0:19:59.640 --> 0:20:02.840 relations ship with your people at work, whatever the case is, 0:20:03.160 --> 0:20:05.879 if you don't speak on it, chances are it won't 0:20:05.880 --> 0:20:08.080 happen for you. So let me ask you this question. 0:20:08.119 --> 0:20:11.560 I guess before UM, we had a ton of questions 0:20:11.600 --> 0:20:14.160 that are listeners sent in, But I guess I want 0:20:14.160 --> 0:20:16.480 to ask you, So you do the master fetish training, 0:20:16.720 --> 0:20:21.400 you do um engage in porn? Do you also provide 0:20:21.400 --> 0:20:24.200 services to women who just want to hit you because 0:20:24.200 --> 0:20:28.320 they need sex or they want to experience what they're 0:20:28.320 --> 0:20:33.840 not getting trying to get me arrested? Out the questions, 0:20:33.880 --> 0:20:38.680 that's what you'd be like, I guess I can't ask it. So, 0:20:39.480 --> 0:20:42.080