Speaker 1: Thank you. Tell me another song. You don't know you?
Speaker 1: You don't know this Pretty Ricky closer Baby, I want
Speaker 1: to get to you. Have to know Pretty Ricky. I'm
Speaker 1: so I mean, I know who Pretty Ricky is. I
Speaker 1: can't say I got the album, so I'm not gonna lie.
Speaker 1: I think I'm putting myself in the movie because Pretty
Speaker 1: Ricky comes to New York, UM November twenty something, and
Speaker 1: I'm still trying to go to the concert, and I
Speaker 1: have no one to go with because they're like Pretty
Speaker 1: Rickies back together. I am obsessed with um, Pretty Ricky. Now,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna have to send you the album because I'm
Speaker 1: sure it would be great to make love to. UM.
Speaker 1: It's one of those times. I mean, I can't throw
Speaker 1: it on in none of my movies. They'd sue the
Speaker 1: funk out of Okay, well you personal person, I only
Speaker 1: have sex on camera. I'm just playing. Yeah, I'm sure
Speaker 1: you are. Anyways, guys, UM, I wanted to say, Hi,
Speaker 1: welcome to you another episode of Horrible Decisions. This is
Speaker 1: your girl. Mandy and I am in the studio kind
Speaker 1: of solo. Wheezy is still in Japan, UM, but we
Speaker 1: had a guest who came up to the New York
Speaker 1: City area and I was like, bro, we're getting him
Speaker 1: on the Mother Package show. She was supposed to call in,
Speaker 1: but she is super jetlagged and she's been out there
Speaker 1: for like two and a half weeks. Um, so you
Speaker 1: guys just get to hear me and all of my rats.
Speaker 1: But luckily I have someone to cut that outside kind
Speaker 1: of sort of. Um, I guess I'll introduce our guests.
Speaker 1: We have King Noir in the building. Um, do you
Speaker 1: want to let our listeners know kind of just briefly
Speaker 1: what you do. We're gonna do a little icebreaker and
Speaker 1: then really get into the good stuff. But how would
Speaker 1: people know you? What do you do? Well? I am
Speaker 1: one of the co owners of Royal Fetish Films, Royal
Speaker 1: Fetish x x X dot Com, jet Setting, Jasmine, Body Altitudes,
Speaker 1: and some people probably know me from some music stuff,
Speaker 1: but I go by my actual name, Hassan Al. So
Speaker 1: between all of that, you've probably seen me on X
Speaker 1: videos somewhere, porn whatever, whatever, you're whatever you're you know,
Speaker 1: jerk offices, you know where you rub one out too, Okay,
Speaker 1: So and you do a little bit of everything in
Speaker 1: the industry. So we're gonna get into that. That's kind
Speaker 1: of going to be the horrible decision. You being a
Speaker 1: man in the industry, we have yet to have you know,
Speaker 1: anyone like you on. So I think we have a
Speaker 1: lot of questions to come forward, but we're gonna start
Speaker 1: with ice breakers. And so what we like to do
Speaker 1: with our guests, we either like to do would you rather?
Speaker 1: Or have you ever? Clearly I'm not gonna do have
Speaker 1: you ever with you because I don't think there's much
Speaker 1: you probably haven't done. Um, So we're gonna do the
Speaker 1: would you rather? And I got some kind of sex questions,
Speaker 1: um to make this fun. So would you rather only
Speaker 1: be able to have sex missionary or doggy style? Mm hmm.
Speaker 1: That's actually a really good question. I would I would
Speaker 1: actually say missionary really if I had one choice, because
Speaker 1: you know, you could throw the legs up on the shoulders.
Speaker 1: That's still missionary, right, Yeah, that's still missionary. That's so crazy,
Speaker 1: because of course me, I like love doggie style. I
Speaker 1: mean I would probably choose I just think that missionary
Speaker 1: if if it's just like for the rest of my
Speaker 1: life type situation. You know, the thing about mission every
Speaker 1: is for when you get you could look in your
Speaker 1: partner's eyes and be all romantical and stuff. But also
Speaker 1: it's good for clatoral stimulation and also hitting the G
Speaker 1: spot as well. You're you know, you're very right. As
Speaker 1: soon as as soon as I said that, I thought
Speaker 1: of the intimacy level that differs between doggy style and
Speaker 1: missionary and I guess you're right. I still like getting back.
Speaker 1: But I mean, you you gave me one of the
Speaker 1: other this or that you can't choose. Well, so here's
Speaker 1: a good one. Because you just talked about like some
Speaker 1: Russian roulette ship right there. It kind of is that. Well,
Speaker 1: all of these kind of are So you just talked
Speaker 1: about clatorial stimulation. So the second question is for play
Speaker 1: only with your hands or for play only with your mouth? Mouth?
Speaker 1: I love to eat, okay, so but you use fingers
Speaker 1: when you do it as well. And I mean, yeah,
Speaker 1: but you gave me a one of you would choose
Speaker 1: the mouth, okay, So here's a good one as well.
Speaker 1: Would you rather give up sex for a year or
Speaker 1: give up master? You said no whatever whatever that so
Speaker 1: you would give up masturbating for a year. That was
Speaker 1: the other. I mean, I love myself and all, I
Speaker 1: like the participation of sex. You're not giving up sex
Speaker 1: for a year at all. What's the longest you would
Speaker 1: give up sex for? Why this is horrible? This is
Speaker 1: you didn't tell me about this, this line of question,
Speaker 1: and was gonna be so so hard. I know, for
Speaker 1: the longest I would give it up for. I mean,
Speaker 1: just whatever was natural, Like if I was just in
Speaker 1: the space where I wasn't having sex at the time. Okay, Okay,
Speaker 1: I know I go two weeks without sex and I
Speaker 1: feel like it's months, So I don't know about a
Speaker 1: year without sex. I'd be like, I'd be like I'd
Speaker 1: be telling my home girls. I'd be like, girl, I
Speaker 1: haven't had sex and forever. They'd be like, girl, you
Speaker 1: was just went some and so three. I was like,
Speaker 1: oh damn, I was wasn't I'd be feeling it. I'll
Speaker 1: be feeling awful when I don't be having sex. So
Speaker 1: now we're gonna make it a little bit funnier. This
Speaker 1: is kind of this is kind of gonna be not
Speaker 1: as stressful, not as horrible. Would you rather cry every
Speaker 1: time you had sex or birth every time someone kissed you?
Speaker 1: I'd rather burt because that should probably be mad funny
Speaker 1: at a certain point, and I have sex way too
Speaker 1: much on time, or to be just crying all the time,
Speaker 1: that'd be a bad look. This motherfucker's romantic comedies are awful.
Speaker 1: You're right, that's a funny one. Um, oh that's for me.
Speaker 1: I don't even know what that one. Maybe maybe the
Speaker 1: bird Actually, you know what, I don't get recorded on
Speaker 1: the hill, And because I like doggy style so much,
Speaker 1: they possibly won't see the tears coming down my face.
Speaker 1: So I think I'm gonna take that. I would rather
Speaker 1: cry every time I had sex, and so this is
Speaker 1: gonna be the last one. Would you rather find out
Speaker 1: that someone you fucked was your long lost cousin or
Speaker 1: that they were a brutal murderer. I'd rather than be
Speaker 1: a murderer then your cousin? Is that? But does that
Speaker 1: kind of because if we have kids, they might have
Speaker 1: like web toes and a uni or something. Ever, is
Speaker 1: that part of incests? Like cousins? Did they go that far?
Speaker 1: It's not just sisters brothers, and I don't personally, I
Speaker 1: won't be hollering at my cousins. I don't know if
Speaker 1: I didn't know if that counted because it's like, aren't
Speaker 1: cousins through like marriage and ship. I don't even want
Speaker 1: to bark down. Okay, we can't. I don't know how
Speaker 1: many generations. Okay, so incests is not cool. You know
Speaker 1: you're not here for them. You know, it's a huge
Speaker 1: fetish online. Actually, um, incest porn doing serious numbers right now,
Speaker 1: but they're not actually related. You know. I'm sorry. If
Speaker 1: I've ruined somebody's fantasy, that'd be crazy. Though people would
Speaker 1: like providing a birth certificates. Yeah, no, I don't family
Speaker 1: tree porn or something. I would be lying if I
Speaker 1: sat here and said that I didn't kind of click
Speaker 1: taboo porn sometimes and that would definitely be at Unfortunately, Um,
Speaker 1: and this is just on a sexual manner. I don't
Speaker 1: want to offend anyone listening, but I have this kind
Speaker 1: of rapey fantasy. You can't find rapey porn really, like,
Speaker 1: it's really hard to find. And just the idea of like,
Speaker 1: you know, maybe someone taking control. Yeah, it's just and
Speaker 1: it's really a thing we're gonna talk about. I'm sure
Speaker 1: it's gonna be a kink coming up in the future,
Speaker 1: but I know it's just a real sensitive thing to
Speaker 1: talk about I think the thing is to say when
Speaker 1: you when you're watching porn, it's uh, you know, it's
Speaker 1: a controlled environment. So anybody that's on set, you know,
Speaker 1: they've spoken a safety word. They let everybody know what
Speaker 1: their limits and hard nose are and things like that.
Speaker 1: So even even with insects porn, you know, it's still
Speaker 1: all okay at the end of the day, you know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, Like, it's it's enjoyed a fantasy, but
Speaker 1: everybody is still safe. Okay, guys. Now, So what we
Speaker 1: like to do every episode is doing kink of the week.
Speaker 1: So I made the kink apply directly to you. Um.
Speaker 1: And so the kink for this week is flogging. UM.
Speaker 1: So for our listeners that don't know, of course, we
Speaker 1: like to give the definition. So flogging is mainly an
Speaker 1: S and M termin terminology. Flogging is used UM to
Speaker 1: whip for sexual enjoyment. It says that a floggers shall
Speaker 1: remain for the moment any flexible, any flexible many tells
Speaker 1: striking tool, where the tails are simple strips of leather
Speaker 1: or similar substances designed for use on the human body. UM.
Speaker 1: And so you've brought a couple Um, this is I
Speaker 1: guess I want to explain to the listeners how someone
Speaker 1: would find us enjoying, how you got into doing this,
Speaker 1: and if it's something that's requested, because I'm not gonna lie.
Speaker 1: I'm looking at these right now and I'm absolutely like,
Speaker 1: what the fun is this? What's going on? And I've
Speaker 1: seen the videos of you doing flogging. I want to
Speaker 1: know how that I can't see how I would be
Speaker 1: sexually aroused by it. So explain, you know, flogging for
Speaker 1: our listeners. If you can't, well, I guess started doing it. Actually.
Speaker 1: I was at that come one year and I saw
Speaker 1: somebody using this style of flogger, Like I got two
Speaker 1: floggers up here. So this is considered a nun chuck
Speaker 1: or a swivel flogger. So I used to do martial
Speaker 1: arts as a kids. I was like, oh, that looks
Speaker 1: like a nun shuck. I can rock with that, like,
Speaker 1: but it's actually the precision of it I enjoy. And
Speaker 1: actually it's more of a thud than a whip Like
Speaker 1: this right here is a dragontail that has a lot.
Speaker 1: It's a lot more like. The feeling you'll get from
Speaker 1: that is like if somebody rolled up a towel and
Speaker 1: smell and snapped you with a towel like that's what
Speaker 1: that's that kind of feeling. It can hurt. This is yeah,
Speaker 1: this is like a double folded leather paddle, so that's
Speaker 1: that's more of a smack. This one is padded, so
Speaker 1: this side is softer. This side it's harder. So I
Speaker 1: understand the arousal from pain when I'm getting fun, especially
Speaker 1: from the back. I asked to be slapped on the
Speaker 1: ac so I get that arousal. But the flogging isn't painful, correct,
Speaker 1: It's more of a thud. So you use the perfect
Speaker 1: example when when we're turned on sexually. You know, if
Speaker 1: someone just ran up to you in the middle of
Speaker 1: the street and just smacks you want to ask. For
Speaker 1: the most part, you like, what the fund is wrong
Speaker 1: with you? Exactly exactly. But when you when we're turned on,
Speaker 1: our body starts to release dopamine and adrenaline that goes
Speaker 1: through our body that lets us know, uh, this is
Speaker 1: this is pleasurable or this isn't you know something that
Speaker 1: that has to deal with your fight, fight or flight.
Speaker 1: So with flogging being that it's more of a thud
Speaker 1: when I start when we try out. You know, I
Speaker 1: start up, I start up at the shoulders. There's certain
Speaker 1: places that you can't hit, certain places you can't hit.
Speaker 1: What those I got you, So we start We start
Speaker 1: up at the shoulders because the shoulders, there's muscle up
Speaker 1: there and it's the closest spot to your brain. So
Speaker 1: when it starts releasing all that adrenaline and dopamine, it
Speaker 1: starts to relax you. So it's kind of similar. I
Speaker 1: think it's like Shiatsu massage where they kind of do this.
Speaker 1: It's very similar to that. So just that in itself
Speaker 1: is relaxing to people. So that's part of where the
Speaker 1: arousal comes from. And then when you work your way down,
Speaker 1: you skip all those vital organs. You don't hit the
Speaker 1: spine right when you get to meaty parts of the body,
Speaker 1: so the ass thies. Some women, uh specifically like to
Speaker 1: get flogged on their breasts. Um, So when you get
Speaker 1: down to that area, there's there's something that we have
Speaker 1: down there, both men and women. It's called the podendal nerve.
Speaker 1: It's for men. It's where it's a real scientifical you
Speaker 1: know scientifical word it is, right, But it's like for
Speaker 1: for men, where where the taint is or for women,
Speaker 1: where the lady taint is. You know that's there's a
Speaker 1: nerve right there that when it when it feels like vibes.
Speaker 1: It's the same kind of thing is when you get
Speaker 1: spanked when you're feeling turned on. It sends that nice
Speaker 1: little shock wave through your ass and and through your
Speaker 1: through your insides. So it's that same kind of feeling.
Speaker 1: So if you start getting flogged the right way, it
Speaker 1: starts sending them same kind of waves through your body,
Speaker 1: just like there's a proper way to spank, like if
Speaker 1: you spank up as opposed to spanking down or side
Speaker 1: or there's different ways to send different sensations through the body.
Speaker 1: So it's rhythmic also, like the same way you like
Speaker 1: getting pounded when that nice rhythm is going. I'm also
Speaker 1: really big on communication, Like normally I asked to be
Speaker 1: you know, slap my ass. I tell them, is this
Speaker 1: something that normally a female or would ask a guy
Speaker 1: to do? Or is this something that a guy normally introduces?
Speaker 1: It could go either way. It could go either way.
Speaker 1: It's usually a dumb sub kind of thing. But there
Speaker 1: are people I know who like getting flocked that wouldn't
Speaker 1: consider themselves to be a sub. They just like the
Speaker 1: sensation and the feeling of getting flocked. And it could
Speaker 1: be something that for you who said earlier that you're
Speaker 1: not really into being a sub or anything, you can
Speaker 1: still speak on like if with the person that you're
Speaker 1: working with, if you're like, yo, I'm not don't just
Speaker 1: tell me what to do or whatever, like, you can
Speaker 1: still be communicative with your with your partner, like this
Speaker 1: is what I want to try. Please don't go past
Speaker 1: this limit. You know, when I when I work with
Speaker 1: people for the first time, I'm asking them what they're
Speaker 1: what they're pain tolerances. You know, let's say you have injury,
Speaker 1: things like that. There are certain questions I'm going to
Speaker 1: ask you to make it a pleasurable experience. Lethal lips
Speaker 1: Um came on the show and we discussed the scene
Speaker 1: with you, and she actually said it was one of
Speaker 1: the most enjoyable but also mentally hard scenes for her
Speaker 1: because she's more dominant and she actually had to be
Speaker 1: submissive to you. Um, how how does that work? Are
Speaker 1: you ever submissive to a woman? Are you constantly the
Speaker 1: dom in the bedroom? Like? Do you know what I mean?
Speaker 1: Like as a man dom are you always I think
Speaker 1: the scene with Lethal it was something that we both
Speaker 1: spoke about. It wasn't like I just showed up there
Speaker 1: was like you're about to submit. It wasn't nothing like that.
Speaker 1: It was she we we discussed like usually with with UH,
Speaker 1: a lot of our scenes when we work with with
Speaker 1: well known actors and acts, you know, we we like
Speaker 1: to say we want to try something that you've never
Speaker 1: tried before, or or a fetish that you're really in
Speaker 1: to that you know, maybe you haven't done on a
Speaker 1: film that you love in your personal life, to show
Speaker 1: the real honesty in you, in your in your sex.
Speaker 1: So she was like, you know, I've I've thought about it.
Speaker 1: I kind of like that chain thing that I've seen
Speaker 1: you used before. Like so it's kind of like that.
Speaker 1: But um me, I'm not a sub but I do work.
Speaker 1: I guess where you would say, like an equal level,
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't sub, but there is a certain
Speaker 1: amount of power in submission as well, because a person
Speaker 1: who's a true do like I'm considered more on the
Speaker 1: central side of dominant. I don't do dominant, UH. I
Speaker 1: don't dominate to cause injury or hurt. That's not my style.
Speaker 1: I do it because I enjoyed pleasing so much. So
Speaker 1: it's like I look at it like a blank canvas.
Speaker 1: So if if a woman is willing to give give
Speaker 1: give me her body and allow me to just try
Speaker 1: to take her to different levels of pleasure and pain
Speaker 1: and ecstasy and all of that, then there is still
Speaker 1: you still control the sit the scene of having your
Speaker 1: safety word. You still control the scene of even just
Speaker 1: being there and allowing me to paint this picture. So
Speaker 1: you mentioned that you spoke with me the lips before
Speaker 1: you speak with everyone. Um so, something that you do
Speaker 1: you consider yourself a master fetish trainer. So I want
Speaker 1: to talk about what you do when you come into
Speaker 1: the bedroom with couples, because not everything you do is
Speaker 1: on scene, it's not it's not on film. Not everyone
Speaker 1: can see what you do. Um So, I wanted to
Speaker 1: get into this part of the industry that you're in.
Speaker 1: So couples pretty much ask you to help them in
Speaker 1: the bedroom. What do you do? How how do they
Speaker 1: approach you about that? And what exactly do you do
Speaker 1: to help them? Are you fucking the couples or are
Speaker 1: you I don't know. You do a lot of ships,
Speaker 1: so explain to our listeners what a master fetish trainer
Speaker 1: does well. The best way to describe a master fetish
Speaker 1: trainer is is everybody has a fetish, but a lot
Speaker 1: of people don't know what that is. They don't know
Speaker 1: how to discover what it is, and they don't know
Speaker 1: how to live it. A lot of times there are
Speaker 1: people and I think that one of the problems in
Speaker 1: the world that we live in is that so many
Speaker 1: people are sexually repressed. Absolutely, I mean across the board.
Speaker 1: I mean women are sexually oppressed in this culture. But
Speaker 1: then on top of that, individuals sexually repressed themselves. And
Speaker 1: sometimes it's because of that oppression, and other times it's
Speaker 1: just because of how we were brought up or just
Speaker 1: things that go on in our head. So sometimes it's
Speaker 1: like people have this epiphany or an awakening where they're like,
Speaker 1: I just want to try things. But if you don't
Speaker 1: know how to use some of these things that we
Speaker 1: have on the table, you can seriously hurt somebody. You know,
Speaker 1: if someone's just like I'm a flog for the first time,
Speaker 1: and you know, I just hit somebody in the kidney,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, Like that's not gonna turn
Speaker 1: out good. So one of the things that that we
Speaker 1: do as master Fetish trainers is guide people through trying
Speaker 1: out different items, toys, role playing scenarios. One of my
Speaker 1: favorite things that we did recently, Jasmine and I worked
Speaker 1: with a couple where the woman was more experienced in
Speaker 1: b D s M, like she knew who she was
Speaker 1: as a sub. She wanted her man to be more dominant,
Speaker 1: and he was like cool guy, like super chill, like
Speaker 1: he was just like, you know, like but but then
Speaker 1: like we got to speak to them, and you know,
Speaker 1: I'm talking to him and like finding out more about
Speaker 1: his personality and what he's into and his interests and
Speaker 1: all that, and I'm like, well, if yeah, yeah, into
Speaker 1: he was into like a role play type game. And
Speaker 1: I was like, well, if you're into that in your
Speaker 1: every day then you could seriously use that in the bedroom,
Speaker 1: in a in a in a more creative way to
Speaker 1: please your lady, you know. And it's and it's and
Speaker 1: it's definitely there are a lot of men out there
Speaker 1: who are like, I don't want to choke my wife
Speaker 1: or spank my wife because I don't want to hurt her.
Speaker 1: And I'm like, well, there's a difference between choking somebody
Speaker 1: to end their life, you know, and just choking them
Speaker 1: to add a little pressure because it heightens orgasm. Some
Speaker 1: people like to have that feeling of having just just
Speaker 1: having their air cut off for a little bit. There's
Speaker 1: different level. I just talked about this on my IG Live.
Speaker 1: I was like, I don't want to die because I
Speaker 1: got choked too hard during sex. There's there's but there's
Speaker 1: different levels to it. Like some people are extreme, They're
Speaker 1: like put a plastic bag over my head, you know,
Speaker 1: like I really want to have trouble, have trouble breathing,
Speaker 1: and then other people like I just like a little
Speaker 1: bit of pressure around here. I don't want to bruise,
Speaker 1: you know. And there's and there's ways to teach somebody
Speaker 1: how to do that in a way that's not going
Speaker 1: to injure somebody. So that's that's one way. Another way
Speaker 1: is I actually engage in domination for them and maybe
Speaker 1: flogging or spanking or whatever whatever their their role place
Speaker 1: scenario whiz, and I take them to the point where
Speaker 1: it's time for them to do their thing and I'll
Speaker 1: make my way out. Oh wow. And so these are
Speaker 1: done whether in a hotel or in the privacy of
Speaker 1: their own home or something like that, so it's not
Speaker 1: done with a whole bunch of camera crews or any
Speaker 1: other people. They literally call you to help them open
Speaker 1: up in the bedroom. And I think that's that's very important. Um,
Speaker 1: not only that you do that, but just I mentioned
Speaker 1: it all the time on the show, just the level
Speaker 1: of communication, because if she was expressing that she really
Speaker 1: likes being sub and she wasn't getting that in the bedroom,
Speaker 1: I think that is what leads a lot of people
Speaker 1: to stray away sometimes from their partners and cheat. And
Speaker 1: because we do all have these fetishes or we have
Speaker 1: these craving sexually that we do need to have done,
Speaker 1: I guess to get it out of our system. You know,
Speaker 1: you said the right word. Communication is key in any relationship.
Speaker 1: To make any relationship better, whether it be some B
Speaker 1: d s M. Polly Swinger, or your friendship or your
Speaker 1: relations ship with your people at work, whatever the case is,
Speaker 1: if you don't speak on it, chances are it won't
Speaker 1: happen for you. So let me ask you this question.
Speaker 1: I guess before UM, we had a ton of questions
Speaker 1: that are listeners sent in, But I guess I want
Speaker 1: to ask you, So you do the master fetish training,
Speaker 1: you do um engage in porn? Do you also provide
Speaker 1: services to women who just want to hit you because
Speaker 1: they need sex or they want to experience what they're
Speaker 1: not getting trying to get me arrested? Out the questions,
Speaker 1: that's what you'd be like, I guess I can't ask it. So,
Speaker 1: but what do most women ask from you if they're
Speaker 1: reaching out to Kingowa. I do erotic touch massages. I
Speaker 1: get a lot for fetish training, because that's that's probably
Speaker 1: the main one now, because people are interested in experiencing
Speaker 1: a dom subsituation or b D s M situation where
Speaker 1: they're safe. Oh okay, Like it's super easy to find
Speaker 1: me on the internet. Is really easy to know that
Speaker 1: I'm I'm I'm a person who you know, even outside
Speaker 1: of the the sex industry, who has a public persona.
Speaker 1: You can look me up. You can see that I'm
Speaker 1: You know, if I was a creeper, I would not
Speaker 1: have been in this industry as long as I am.
Speaker 1: I love that you kind of just segued into my
Speaker 1: next question when i't even have to ask you. So
Speaker 1: I wanted to ask what the misconception is Um, for
Speaker 1: you being a man in the sex industry. I know
Speaker 1: that you know, you being a porn star or everything
Speaker 1: involving sex, that there's kind of a stigma attached to it,
Speaker 1: or a stereotype about maybe someone being a creep. So
Speaker 1: how do you adjust when you meet someone and say, hey,
Speaker 1: this is what I do for a living. Um, yeah,
Speaker 1: if you want to talk talk, I think you're like,
Speaker 1: it's funny because when it comes to porn, whether you're
Speaker 1: male or female, there's kind of like this, that's what
Speaker 1: you do. I would never do that. But then there's
Speaker 1: also their next sentences. He's like, anybody could do that,
Speaker 1: and I'm like that, how does that work? Anybody could
Speaker 1: do it, but you could never do it. I think
Speaker 1: that people have so many stigmas attached to sex, so
Speaker 1: some people automatically they find out I do porn, they
Speaker 1: think that I don't know, like I'm just gonna bombard
Speaker 1: them with dick pigs, or I don't know what it
Speaker 1: is like, and and and and usually or that I
Speaker 1: can't have a conversation outside of sex, Like I wound
Speaker 1: up in this industry because I'm uneducated, or I wound
Speaker 1: up in this industry because I have like a drug
Speaker 1: problem or something like that. Like I heard a lot
Speaker 1: of them are like felons and can't get jobs. That's
Speaker 1: what I've heard. That's a misconception. I mean, I definitely
Speaker 1: in this industry have met people from all walks of life,
Speaker 1: the same way if I work that I don't know,
Speaker 1: costco or something. It meets people from all walks of life.
Speaker 1: And you know, I mean there's some people I know
Speaker 1: in the industry who who left like corporate jobs or
Speaker 1: jobs on Wall Street to do porn, you know, and
Speaker 1: then you'll meet uh, women who were I know, it's
Speaker 1: one woman she was like a serious, serious, like e
Speaker 1: R nurse and she was just like the job got
Speaker 1: too stressful, and you know, she wound up in porn
Speaker 1: and and it's just like so you'll be on set
Speaker 1: with her and she'll be talking about like all kinds
Speaker 1: of things about the human body or or we're talking
Speaker 1: about talent testing or something, and she's like the talent
Speaker 1: testingat and they do this and this this is how
Speaker 1: they check your blood and they separate the blood from
Speaker 1: the plasma and all this stuff. I'm like, wow, that's amazing,
Speaker 1: and it's it's cool and she just knew all of
Speaker 1: these different things. And I think that especially now in
Speaker 1: this day and age where anybody could make their own
Speaker 1: porn with their phone, you find people quite a few,
Speaker 1: you know, you know, like since anybody can do that,
Speaker 1: it's opened up the industry to even more people with
Speaker 1: from even more ranges of like connect pal um and
Speaker 1: just all of these little apps that allow people to
Speaker 1: subscribe to subscribe to only fans dot com slash. So,
Speaker 1: aside from the misconception and the stigma surrounding it, how
Speaker 1: is dating um? And I guess this can see also
Speaker 1: into you being polyamorous, are open to that? So how
Speaker 1: is dating while being in the sex industry? Is it impossible?
Speaker 1: Is harder? I don't think it's impossible, But I find
Speaker 1: myself very much not dating civilians for the most part,
Speaker 1: someone who's not in the industry. My sister who's in
Speaker 1: the army. I'm like, don't call it civilians, but in
Speaker 1: the in the sense of, you know, I've probably been
Speaker 1: tested within the last month more than most people have
Speaker 1: in the last five years. Most people do not get tested,
Speaker 1: And to me, it's like I don't want to ruin
Speaker 1: my career, right, you know, So that's very important to me.
Speaker 1: And then also just just how when you get to
Speaker 1: those stigmas where And it's funny, I actually get more
Speaker 1: stigmas for being polyamorous than I do for being imporn.
Speaker 1: But the main one from porn that I get when
Speaker 1: I meet women is that they somehow have to save
Speaker 1: me from being important. That sounds like men trying to
Speaker 1: save strippers. Yeah, and I'll be I'll be like, I
Speaker 1: don't want to be saved. So okay, so you're not
Speaker 1: currently looking because you are in a polyamorous relationship? Correct
Speaker 1: looking for? Like? I guess, like, how does that work? Yeah?
Speaker 1: So I guess breakdown because we have so I'm into
Speaker 1: kind of the swinger lifestyle. That's kind of what I
Speaker 1: would prefer, and Wheezy is in some sort of open relationship.
Speaker 1: We've been taggling as far as what exactly it is
Speaker 1: um in comparison to I guess polyamory. So can you
Speaker 1: break down for our listeners what polyamory is and then
Speaker 1: how it works from the male perspective, because we have
Speaker 1: yet to have a male on here who's polyamorous. Well,
Speaker 1: polyamory just basically breaks down to loving more than one person.
Speaker 1: So I believe for myself, and this isn't something that
Speaker 1: you know, I think all humans or whatever like. For me,
Speaker 1: I'm just the type of person I like to get
Speaker 1: to know. I like to get to know people. I
Speaker 1: like to meet women and like really know them, which
Speaker 1: you know, if I've done swinging thing, and swinging is
Speaker 1: cool for me to you know, my partner Jasmine is
Speaker 1: more of a swinger. I'm Polly, so I'm more like
Speaker 1: you know, I'll go out on dates or go hang
Speaker 1: out with people that I like or whatever, and I
Speaker 1: guess I'll break that down road and if we are,
Speaker 1: and if we are, if we're really digging each other,
Speaker 1: then there is a possibility for having a relationship with
Speaker 1: that person. So Jazz, on the other hand, when you
Speaker 1: say she's more into swinging, she's not looking for that
Speaker 1: emotional connection as as you are, which I guess to
Speaker 1: break down to our listeners, that's the kind of difference
Speaker 1: between the swinging and the amory is these people, not
Speaker 1: only are you engaging in sexual activity with, you do
Speaker 1: want to know them and like them personally. As far
Speaker 1: as swinging, you're just like, Okay, well fucking I don't
Speaker 1: care to know your I don't want to know anything
Speaker 1: about you. I think from I think for me also
Speaker 1: because you know, I started off like going to swingers
Speaker 1: clubs and all that kind of stuff. But it's like
Speaker 1: now that now that I'm shooting more films, it's like
Speaker 1: that aspect of like, hey, hello, how are you. We
Speaker 1: get it in and we're gone. Like I get that
Speaker 1: from work. So like, if I'm going to spend time
Speaker 1: with somebody, you know, I'm not really just trying to
Speaker 1: jump into bed with them, because you know, I just
Speaker 1: also have this thing now where it's like I get
Speaker 1: satisfied on that aspect of getting to know the person. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I actually I like that getting to know somebody level.
Speaker 1: So if we have a lot of male listeners, and
Speaker 1: I'm sure they all have this mindset too, then maybe
Speaker 1: they want to get to know multiple women, not all
Speaker 1: of them. I know, I know some. I think that's
Speaker 1: a misconception as well, that all men want. Yeah, I know,
Speaker 1: I know a lot of men that are like strictly
Speaker 1: monogamous and happy momous for the for the men that.
Speaker 1: But but I also know a lot of polyamorous women,
Speaker 1: you know, So I think that I think it's a
Speaker 1: misconception to just group men are this way, women are this.
Speaker 1: I think that it's just society wise, it's accepted for
Speaker 1: men to be like that and women aren't. Women are
Speaker 1: looked at differently if they're like that. So if a
Speaker 1: man wanted to try this for the first time, I
Speaker 1: feel like maybe he feels like he really relates to
Speaker 1: you and everything you're saying, how should he approach a woman?
Speaker 1: How do you approach women? To let them know that
Speaker 1: honestly and just but most people don't know. Most people
Speaker 1: are honest, whether it's monogamy, polyamory, swinging, most people are
Speaker 1: lying the asshole. So I think if you're polyamorous, for one,
Speaker 1: you have to be honest with yourself in the sense
Speaker 1: of can you also have your partner go out and
Speaker 1: date other people and sleep with other people? Because it's
Speaker 1: not polyamory if you and if you out there dating
Speaker 1: everybody and you're forcing your your significant other to only
Speaker 1: be with you, you're just an asshole. Now you're just
Speaker 1: an So from the other perspective, um, what is normally
Speaker 1: the reaction when you're meeting women, You have to let
Speaker 1: them know I do have a partner, but my partner
Speaker 1: allows me to have other partners. What is kind of
Speaker 1: the exchange when that happens, you let them know where
Speaker 1: I say, yeah, I let them know up front, because
Speaker 1: I don't want to waste my time, because you don't
Speaker 1: want to get like down the road and you're like, oh,
Speaker 1: by the way. That's one of the things that I
Speaker 1: think is is problematic and why you know people wind
Speaker 1: up in these cheating situations because they're being sneaky with
Speaker 1: who they are. I think this is where I run
Speaker 1: into a lot of the a lot of the things
Speaker 1: because I don't I don't really date as much as
Speaker 1: I used to because I'm super busy with work and
Speaker 1: all this other stuff. So meeting somebody is very specific
Speaker 1: to me, Like I know what I'm looking for in
Speaker 1: a in a in a person. So you know, if
Speaker 1: I meet a woman and tell her that, usually if
Speaker 1: their response is some kind of uh as if they're
Speaker 1: going to be in a competition with my partner, then
Speaker 1: now I'm good, I'm walking away from that. Or if
Speaker 1: they I think most most women don't get past a
Speaker 1: certain point because they don't see that it is to
Speaker 1: me like an inclusive thing. It's not, and it's it's
Speaker 1: I don't want the women to have an issue with
Speaker 1: one another, because you know, if Jasmine was dating somebody,
Speaker 1: I don't want to have a problem with do like,
Speaker 1: we should be cool? You know, they shouldn't not saying
Speaker 1: we got to hang out and ship, but it should
Speaker 1: be at least respectable, because if not, then how are
Speaker 1: you honoring the relationship that I'm already in. So there
Speaker 1: has to be a respect and an honor for the
Speaker 1: relationship I already have, and if and if it can't happen,
Speaker 1: then it won't happen. So when I speak to a
Speaker 1: lot of men on this um, they do exactly what
Speaker 1: you said. They think that they want this open relationship
Speaker 1: or polyamory um relationship. But they're like, but she can't
Speaker 1: fuck other guys. She can fun girls maybe, but not
Speaker 1: other guys. Mentally, where are you with allowing? I guess
Speaker 1: I would say, how does it work? Yet? How do
Speaker 1: any human being to do what they do? I am
Speaker 1: not interested in owning, controlling, or telling anybody what to do,
Speaker 1: except when we are in a domb subsituation. But in
Speaker 1: your everyday life, that's your business and you should do
Speaker 1: what makes you happy. And I want to I want
Speaker 1: to see a partner. I want to see my partner
Speaker 1: happy as she can be, regardless of whether we have
Speaker 1: been dating for years, we committed, or we just met.
Speaker 1: I want that person to be happy. And I for me,
Speaker 1: I don't think that one human at all times can
Speaker 1: fulfill everything another. So and and this and this is
Speaker 1: and this is where the poly aspect is different, because
Speaker 1: I don't think it's just about sex. It's about just
Speaker 1: in general, Like there's certain people like me and you
Speaker 1: might vibe on something like really, well, we're just like yo.
Speaker 1: All of our music is the same. And then you
Speaker 1: find out I don't listen to pretty Ricky, and then
Speaker 1: you're gonna have to go to that pretty Ricky concert
Speaker 1: with somebody else. So why why would I hate on
Speaker 1: somebody else going to enjoy what makes you happy? You
Speaker 1: know what I mean? Like that to me? That, to me,
Speaker 1: that's what it is. And it's not always sexual, Like
Speaker 1: I might meet somebody and will will be cool, and
Speaker 1: we'll vibe and we'll have some kind of emotional connection
Speaker 1: or intellectual connection and we don't particularly have to have sex,
Speaker 1: but we might have an intimacy with our conversation, or
Speaker 1: we might have an intimacy with you know, just the
Speaker 1: time we spend together. It doesn't exactly have to be
Speaker 1: about This sounds really actually good and it makes sense.
Speaker 1: And I actually feel like the huge problem with people
Speaker 1: can't think this way. I guess two factors, ego and insecurity,
Speaker 1: because I've heard a lot of guys say that it
Speaker 1: would funk up their ego to know that they can't
Speaker 1: fully please a woman in every aspect, whether it's sexually
Speaker 1: or conversationally, and then to know that they have to
Speaker 1: go out and get that from somebody else. That kind
Speaker 1: of bothers people. And then the insecurity that they're not
Speaker 1: perfect for this other person. But and I also don't
Speaker 1: think that I think perfection is perfect in its imperfections. Okay,
Speaker 1: that was just too I'm just saying, like, nobody nobody there,
Speaker 1: nobody's nobody's perfect in the sense of like, you're not
Speaker 1: going to find someone that likes every single thing that
Speaker 1: you like in every single moment that you like it.
Speaker 1: You're not going to find that. But the person that
Speaker 1: you do find that you that you love or you
Speaker 1: lust or you have this passionate intimate connection with, its
Speaker 1: perfect in that moment. It's perfect in that on that
Speaker 1: y'all are together, but like trying to think that, you know,
Speaker 1: it's we put so much pressure. And I think someone, um,
Speaker 1: someone I was speaking to recently says that, you know,
Speaker 1: human beings put the highest value on intimate love with
Speaker 1: your partners, but there's all kinds of other loves that
Speaker 1: are out there, So enjoy all of the love and
Speaker 1: then you won't put so much pressure on your partner
Speaker 1: because if you go hang out with like your cousin
Speaker 1: right now, I mean, I don't know because we talked
Speaker 1: about we talked at cousins. Let me go ahead and
Speaker 1: throw that out there. I'm also not into incest, but
Speaker 1: like you know, if somebody goes to hang out with
Speaker 1: with their family member, you still you have love for
Speaker 1: your family. You got love for your for your people's
Speaker 1: or whatever the case being you. If somebody was like,
Speaker 1: I'm jealous of you're hanging out with your brother, like
Speaker 1: what you know what I'm saying. So it's we have
Speaker 1: but we have this thing that when somebody is in
Speaker 1: a relationship with us, that we sess them and then
Speaker 1: that's not that's not love anymore. So I have a
Speaker 1: question from a listener, but I guess I'm gonna ask
Speaker 1: you to break it down. She actually said, do you
Speaker 1: engage in open or closed Polly relationships? Do you know
Speaker 1: if there's a difference or what that even means? What's
Speaker 1: the difference between an open and closed Polly relationship? She
Speaker 1: might be specifically talking. I mean, I would think that
Speaker 1: if you're in a Polly relationship. Okay, some people in
Speaker 1: an open relationship like to share with their partner or
Speaker 1: tell their partner, like X, Y and Z and other
Speaker 1: ones that might be like, I went out, this is
Speaker 1: the person, we did this, that's it, you know. So
Speaker 1: maybe maybe she could mean along those lines. Okay, that
Speaker 1: would make sense. That would absolutely make sense to me. Okay, Um,
Speaker 1: It's funny because everybody is different. Like for me, like Jazz,
Speaker 1: she when she shoots a scene or something like that
Speaker 1: with somebody else, I'm like, Oh, tell me all about it,
Speaker 1: you know. I'm like, I'm gonna go watch that ship
Speaker 1: when that should come out or whatever, you know what
Speaker 1: I mean. Like, I'm I'm very comfortable in that way,
Speaker 1: But then I know other people who are probably as
Speaker 1: like I just want to know that they're safe, even well,
Speaker 1: even in the swinging part of things. I think that's
Speaker 1: the thing. Like I've had guys say I can never
Speaker 1: see you with another man, and you're sitting here saying
Speaker 1: you want to see the scene when it's done, So yeah,
Speaker 1: and I love it when she watched me mentally. Is
Speaker 1: there something that you do to prepare yourself, Like if
Speaker 1: a man did want to go to a swingers club
Speaker 1: or engaged with a couple and there was swapping happening.
Speaker 1: Is there anything any type of advice that you would
Speaker 1: give a man to the same thing I said before,
Speaker 1: be honest with yourself, you know, if if whenever you're
Speaker 1: in any of these relationships, sit down with your partner,
Speaker 1: have a conversation about this is what I can this
Speaker 1: is what I can do, this is what I can't do.
Speaker 1: This is in the middle For me, there's some gray area.
Speaker 1: We'll see how it progresses, and how you feel sexually
Speaker 1: today might not be how you feel sexually a month
Speaker 1: or a year from that. Like, sex is something that's
Speaker 1: constantly evolving, and that's one of the good things about
Speaker 1: just being alive and trying new ship, you know. So
Speaker 1: I would say, if you know you can't, don't pretend
Speaker 1: that you can't, you know, especially when it comes to
Speaker 1: seeing seeing your partner with somebody, and it's another thing,
Speaker 1: Like it's funny because all this always leads to like,
Speaker 1: um horrible threesome uh stories that I've heard from people
Speaker 1: where it's like, yeah, I was so into it until
Speaker 1: I realized like she really really liked eating pussy and
Speaker 1: I was just sitting there by myself. It's so funny
Speaker 1: because I think that that happens a lot with with threeasons,
Speaker 1: where they think they're ready mentally, and then when they're
Speaker 1: putting into the situation, it's just like what am I doing?
Speaker 1: What am I doing? What am I doing? What am
Speaker 1: I doing? Has anything that could you think of any
Speaker 1: crazy stories or anything that kind of rings about it,
Speaker 1: Maybe when that happened like a crazy threesome story, either
Speaker 1: that or when you went to a couple and they
Speaker 1: thought they wanted to do the fattest training and then
Speaker 1: it turned kind of awkward. We vet people pretty well
Speaker 1: because it is such a personal like we we do
Speaker 1: consultation calls and all that, because sometimes people think they
Speaker 1: want something they don't. But I will say this, I
Speaker 1: was in the weirdest threesome. It was like I was
Speaker 1: just talking about this with my brother. So like, I
Speaker 1: have I have met this woman and she was like, yo,
Speaker 1: it was this like years years and years ago, and
Speaker 1: she was like trying to like trying to get it
Speaker 1: in or whatever. So like I showed up at a
Speaker 1: house and she was like, so this is the situation.
Speaker 1: My man's in jail, he knows about you, he's on
Speaker 1: the phone, and he wants to be on the phone
Speaker 1: the whole time while we sucking. Wait. Wait seriously, I
Speaker 1: mean I didn't. I didn't know what I was getting
Speaker 1: into when I got there. I mean there was three
Speaker 1: people involved. I mean he was he was via collect
Speaker 1: call from jail. But like it was, it was, it
Speaker 1: was different like to me this That's another thing, And
Speaker 1: that's why I'm using this as an example. There are
Speaker 1: many ways to have a threesome. You don't have to specifically,
Speaker 1: you don't specifically have to you don't specifically have to
Speaker 1: do the positions that you always see in movies or whatever.
Speaker 1: Like when you have your threesome, you might want to
Speaker 1: go in steps. You might want to start with kissing
Speaker 1: and oral before you ever do penetration. Because just as
Speaker 1: some men get jealous of their women, some women get
Speaker 1: jealous watching their man have sex with somebody else. So
Speaker 1: at least if you were like, I'm stopping this right
Speaker 1: now while y'are kissing, it's not gonna be the worst
Speaker 1: thing in the world. So, I mean, but this was
Speaker 1: to me, I have to I have to get a
Speaker 1: brother some credit. Like that's some creative way, you know,
Speaker 1: that was a creative way to to be there for
Speaker 1: your wife or whatever their relationship was. But it was
Speaker 1: it was just it was just so bugged to me
Speaker 1: because it was like I didn't know this was gonna happen.
Speaker 1: So it was just like in the moment, I'm like,
Speaker 1: what that is? Actually, that's really funny. UM. So I
Speaker 1: guess we're gonna segue this into our homemail. So what
Speaker 1: we do is we ask our lovely whores who listened
Speaker 1: to us to send us letters, um, either asking for
Speaker 1: advice or telling us something that's going on with them. Um.
Speaker 1: And I thought that this would be a great one
Speaker 1: to ask you. UM. So oh, by the way, if
Speaker 1: you guys do want to send in your homemail, you
Speaker 1: can send it to us at Horrible Decisions at gmail
Speaker 1: dot com or d m U S. But y'all, y'all
Speaker 1: becoming our friends so between the memes, the letters, the
Speaker 1: thank you's, and the responses to our I G stories,
Speaker 1: we can't keep up with the letters. So guys, please
Speaker 1: send your letters to the email. It's much easier for
Speaker 1: us to access. UM. So this is our homemale for
Speaker 1: this show. It says, hi, ladies right now, it's only
Speaker 1: one lady. Hey girl. I am in my mid twenties
Speaker 1: living in Jersey. I have been right, shout out right,
Speaker 1: you're from there. Um. I have been in a relationship
Speaker 1: with my man for three and a half years. We
Speaker 1: have pretty good sex, but I have a huge problem.
Speaker 1: I have some hormone issues. Luckily it's not too serious,
Speaker 1: but my hormones caused me to have a very very
Speaker 1: low slash non existent sex drive for most of the
Speaker 1: month during my period. My sex drive is way higher,
Speaker 1: but I would prefer not to funk on my period, yes, girl,
Speaker 1: because that is a bloody mess. My man. No, I
Speaker 1: hate bloody sex. My man knows about this, and he
Speaker 1: never forces me to do anything I don't want to do.
Speaker 1: But I also know a man has needs. I want
Speaker 1: to funk him more often, but it's hard to get
Speaker 1: into it when my drive is so low. Sometimes I
Speaker 1: watch porn when we're engaging to get me going. I
Speaker 1: don't want to do this every time we have sex.
Speaker 1: Do you have any suggestions as to how I can
Speaker 1: get my sex drive up? And are there any afrodesiacs
Speaker 1: that you guys know that actually work? Please get back
Speaker 1: to me. Thanks. I love y'all. That's a good question.
Speaker 1: Good question, right, I would say, don't don't spare the romance. Actually,
Speaker 1: I mean just in the sense of I think a
Speaker 1: lot of times when when we think about being in
Speaker 1: the mood, it's being like put on the spot, especially
Speaker 1: if she has hormonal issues and things like that. Just
Speaker 1: try to make it something that lasts. It doesn't exactly
Speaker 1: always have to end in penetrative sex. There's other ways
Speaker 1: that you can please him. There's other ways that y'all
Speaker 1: can keep that fire going instead of just kind of
Speaker 1: like cold turkey, like, hey, hey, I'm not in the mood.
Speaker 1: You know. Um, I think I think that that works. Definitely,
Speaker 1: have him, you know, work at turning you on, right,
Speaker 1: And I guess that kind don't want to add a
Speaker 1: question in there that relates to this, What about when
Speaker 1: you're maybe not done? What do you do if you
Speaker 1: have a partner who comes and then doesn't get back
Speaker 1: hard again, but you haven't been pleased. I know you're
Speaker 1: really into pleasing um. But as a female I feel
Speaker 1: like that's happened to me sometimes where I feel like
Speaker 1: even after sex, I'm gonna go home or I have
Speaker 1: to masturbate to come, and I don't like the feeling
Speaker 1: where I'm not even being pleasure during sex. So for this,
Speaker 1: this is a sex drive issue. But what about for
Speaker 1: a man who can't keep up with your sex drive
Speaker 1: and they're giving you sex, they're just not giving you enough. Well,
Speaker 1: I mean there's other things you could use besides your dick.
Speaker 1: You know, you got a tongue, You've got hands, you've
Speaker 1: got fingers, there's all kinds of toys out there. I
Speaker 1: think that a lot of times when I speak to
Speaker 1: women who have issues with their partner pleasing them, it's
Speaker 1: that once he busts, that nut is over, which is
Speaker 1: a lot of guys like just pick up and leave
Speaker 1: or go to Yes. Also, it's like, if you know
Speaker 1: that you have like a time limit on your nut,
Speaker 1: then more for play or you know, stop and start
Speaker 1: and take your time. I think that that's I think
Speaker 1: that's one thing, especially if if you're somebody who gets
Speaker 1: really excited. It's a way to kind of calm that
Speaker 1: down a little bit, is you know if you most men,
Speaker 1: I would think, no, that that feeling you get like
Speaker 1: right before you about to like yeo, if I do
Speaker 1: two more strokes, it's over, you know. And when you
Speaker 1: and when you get that feeling, that's when you fall
Speaker 1: back a little. God, you know, use your hands, use
Speaker 1: your tongue, kiss huh, find other things to do and
Speaker 1: play with so that way, you know your body will
Speaker 1: calm down again because it will do so and you
Speaker 1: can get right back to it. Okay, So I have
Speaker 1: another question, um, and then this will be it for
Speaker 1: the home mail. But I feel like we had to
Speaker 1: catch up on it. Um. So this is the second one.
Speaker 1: This is kind of different, kind of the same. UM.
Speaker 1: I also want to shout out all of the fucking
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Speaker 1: We get so many versions that write into us and
Speaker 1: it's just like what you want to listen to us
Speaker 1: talk about sex and you haven't even done yet. So
Speaker 1: this is a letter from a virgin. They might be
Speaker 1: getting some ideas or you know, can masturbate to this
Speaker 1: show so they don't have to go out there. The
Speaker 1: fact that people may be masturbating to us definitely creased
Speaker 1: me out a little bit. But this is this is
Speaker 1: this one. Hello, ladies. I'm a twenty two year old
Speaker 1: virgin woman, and I have this major issue with sex.
Speaker 1: I'm not into anything. I'm not into anything vanilla except
Speaker 1: for white dick. I'm I'm into both men and women
Speaker 1: in different ways. I'm romantically attracted to women but sexually
Speaker 1: attracted to men. UM. That doesn't mean I don't find
Speaker 1: women sexy. I just wouldn't fuck one, though I am
Speaker 1: capable of falling in love with one, probably amory, maybe
Speaker 1: a thing for her UM. When it comes to getting
Speaker 1: sexual with a guy, we just us doing all types
Speaker 1: of taboo stuff. The more perverted and taboo a man is,
Speaker 1: the more turned on I get. After sexting a guy
Speaker 1: for some time and finally meeting when it's time to
Speaker 1: get down, I lose my arousal and I have to
Speaker 1: leave due to my sudden lack of disinterest? What is
Speaker 1: wrong with me? Love Love loved the podcast with you, ladies,
Speaker 1: all of the suck sas so we actually responded to
Speaker 1: her because she wanted to get um people sometimes use
Speaker 1: taboo and weird and they're talking about spitting in someone's mouth.
Speaker 1: So we actually um wrote back to her because we
Speaker 1: wanted to know what level of taboo and weird sex
Speaker 1: she actually was turned on by. And she said to
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Speaker 1: age play, Omurashi, don't know what that is, exhibitionism, an
Speaker 1: anonymous encounters, pegging, and leash and neck I guess BDSM.
Speaker 1: So those are definitely um taboo things. I feel like
Speaker 1: even feel like that's taboo. I mean, I guess they
Speaker 1: file the incest and the rape and the play and
Speaker 1: even pegging. To me, that's kind of not normal. I
Speaker 1: hate to use the normal not normal thing. And now
Speaker 1: I'm just so, I guess immersed in this world and
Speaker 1: it's like I hear about all this ship every day.
Speaker 1: But I think when she gets into the actual setting,
Speaker 1: I wonder if that conversation she was having that turned
Speaker 1: her on in the first place is still continuing them,
Speaker 1: because if it's like it's it if you just get
Speaker 1: there and then it's kind of like and then it's
Speaker 1: like you're just like a regular and it starts the
Speaker 1: same way. Yeah, I could definitely see her her losing
Speaker 1: that feel like if she gets in person with somebody
Speaker 1: and they lost the character or they don't have their
Speaker 1: strap ones ready for pegging or whatever. You know, Like,
Speaker 1: I could definitely see that being a turn off because
Speaker 1: you know, a lot of people after Shades of Great
Speaker 1: came out, I thought that they was like they thought
Speaker 1: that they were into B D s M just because
Speaker 1: of the way it was presented, or you know, like
Speaker 1: a lot of people have have kind of I mean,
Speaker 1: it's been a good thing for how many people have
Speaker 1: opened up their minds, but then it's also bad because
Speaker 1: the way it was presented is and actually how it
Speaker 1: is in real life at times. So you know, depending
Speaker 1: on and I'm not saying this is her, but it
Speaker 1: could be another thing where just the the actuality of it,
Speaker 1: like something like I have a friend who she loves,
Speaker 1: loves not in the industry, but she loves. The only
Speaker 1: kind of porn that she watches is gang bang. That's it.
Speaker 1: That's all she watches her favorite poem. But she's like,
Speaker 1: I will never be in a gang bang, but that's
Speaker 1: what I like to fantasize. So it could also be
Speaker 1: that like when she gets there and in place, you know,
Speaker 1: I would have to ask her a bunch of questions,
Speaker 1: like I want to get on that email thread I got,
Speaker 1: I gotta ask her a couple of questions because things
Speaker 1: that she's into are definitely things that there are other
Speaker 1: people out there that are looking for and and you know,
Speaker 1: I could also see, you know, if she's a virgin,
Speaker 1: she might also be like, is this is this safe
Speaker 1: for it to be the first time? And there's so
Speaker 1: many factors that is like a lot of questions. Not
Speaker 1: only that I wanted to say. So her response back
Speaker 1: was fairly long, and it's actually funny because she felt
Speaker 1: the need to say, by the way, I don't contain rape,
Speaker 1: by the way, I don't want to my cousin, by
Speaker 1: the way I like So even though she is turned
Speaker 1: on by this stuff, she definitely felt the need to
Speaker 1: let us know I'm not rapey, I'm not you know,
Speaker 1: into intersts, I'm not into all of this stuff. And
Speaker 1: so I feel like maybe she's not even fully comfortable
Speaker 1: with what she's into as well. I mean possibly, but
Speaker 1: I mean, just as you said before, though, these things
Speaker 1: that are considered to be taboo or not normal. It
Speaker 1: definitely makes people feel a certain amount of shame, whether
Speaker 1: they know they're into it or not, Like, oh my god,
Speaker 1: that I just watched that. I was turned on by that,
Speaker 1: Like is there something wrong with me that I got
Speaker 1: turned on by that? And and that's why it's like
Speaker 1: where porn can be helpful to people, because it's like,
Speaker 1: this is something, you know, there are certain things in
Speaker 1: the world that are people. When we're in a car accident,
Speaker 1: people are watching the car accident as they go by,
Speaker 1: not just usually most people aren't watching to see to
Speaker 1: check if someone's okay. They're trying to look at carnage
Speaker 1: or something, you know what I mean, Like there's there's
Speaker 1: there's a certain part of humanity that's just like that.
Speaker 1: And so sometimes when we do watch those things like
Speaker 1: oh my god, why why did I just watch that?
Speaker 1: Why did I look at that? You know, it's it's
Speaker 1: that sense of danger or just just the sense of
Speaker 1: people think this is wrong and I'm doing it anyway
Speaker 1: that can turn people on. So sometimes you know, we
Speaker 1: we bust that nut, we come back to reality like
Speaker 1: oh oh my god, hold hold hold hold up, hold up.
Speaker 1: So we also um in our home I wanted to
Speaker 1: read this as well, because I think it just shows
Speaker 1: even what this conversation can do UM to both our
Speaker 1: male and female listeners. So we got a letter UM
Speaker 1: and it said, I love you guys. Literally started listening
Speaker 1: to you guys a few days ago, and the first
Speaker 1: day I felt so unbothered and so sexually free from
Speaker 1: listening to you guys talk about sex and just hearing
Speaker 1: how freely you guys think about sex that I decided
Speaker 1: to come out to my fiance. He's male and I'm female,
Speaker 1: but I'm bisexual. He's the only person I've ever had
Speaker 1: sex with and he is incredibly open minded sexually. Anyway,
Speaker 1: before I ran too much, I just wanted to thank
Speaker 1: you guys for that because I come from a West
Speaker 1: Indian family, so coming out to my fiance he's American,
Speaker 1: was terrifying for me. He didn't care and loved it.
Speaker 1: I'm looking forward to the three stoms we're gonna have.
Speaker 1: I feel like a weight has come off from my shoulders.
Speaker 1: So thank you definitely was definitely will stand for you
Speaker 1: guys from now on. Thank you. Bisexual, bilingual and bipolar
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Speaker 1: While we like to sit here and make you guys
Speaker 1: laugh and entertain you, I definitely know that this is
Speaker 1: the conversation where you like, like you said, people are
Speaker 1: uncomfortable still with this, and luckily books like fifty Shades
Speaker 1: of Great have gotten people a little bit out of
Speaker 1: their boxes. And that's kind of what we hope to
Speaker 1: do with the show is do the same and get
Speaker 1: you guys thinking and have these conversations with your partners.
Speaker 1: I mean, this world will be such a better place
Speaker 1: if people allowed their sexuality to just be free. I
Speaker 1: think that. I think that's one of the things that
Speaker 1: we're seeing just in society right now. You know, all
Speaker 1: these all these people are getting they riled up. They're
Speaker 1: not just getting riled up people getting called out right now.
Speaker 1: You know a lot of people are getting called out.
Speaker 1: And you know, this male dominated uh yeah, patriarchal society
Speaker 1: is being shaken. And then now you see, you know,
Speaker 1: all the tiki torches out there. They're they're getting scared
Speaker 1: of that. And you know it's funny because like when
Speaker 1: I look at like Trump, for example, like whether the
Speaker 1: darcier is true or not, whether he likes to get
Speaker 1: pete on or not. He definitely hates women like he
Speaker 1: hates women. He thinks that women are only objects. Based
Speaker 1: on his hatred for women, he can only see them
Speaker 1: in a capacity where they're beneath him because he is
Speaker 1: I mean not just the horrible human being, but who
Speaker 1: knows what kind of sexual issues that he has going on.
Speaker 1: And I mean he's also extremely obsessed with a black man.
Speaker 1: He's obsessed with a level that's very, very odd. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's super uncomfortable for me. And I think that, like
Speaker 1: you know, when you when you look at those two
Speaker 1: things together, I'm like wow, Like I think there's there's
Speaker 1: some interesting, interesting things that's going on, and you know America,
Speaker 1: and it's repression of sexuality and and also at the
Speaker 1: same time is over use of sexuality for selling everything,
Speaker 1: and then the exploitation of sexuality when it comes to
Speaker 1: people of color. It's just it's all like hitting the
Speaker 1: fan right now because because it's It's also like when
Speaker 1: I listened to how these fans speak about NFL players,
Speaker 1: you know, like I saw Brothers Jersey out and it
Speaker 1: automatically takes me to you know, the way when um,
Speaker 1: like when they burned Kevin Durants jersey, and whenever whenever
Speaker 1: a white player leaves a team, they don't burn his jersey.
Speaker 1: So it takes you automatically to lynching. And what did
Speaker 1: they do when they lynched this, They would cut off
Speaker 1: our reproductive organs, you know. So it's it's all coming
Speaker 1: to and just hitting the fan. And it really comes
Speaker 1: down to, like people, I commend her for coming out
Speaker 1: of the closet. I think every single person needs to
Speaker 1: come out of the closet. Not not people. People think
Speaker 1: that only if you're gay or bisexual you could come
Speaker 1: out the closet, not as a as a straight man,
Speaker 1: you can come out the closet. But saying like yeah,
Speaker 1: I like to get pegged, or yeah I like to
Speaker 1: be handcuffed, or I'm polyamorous or whatever whatever you are.
Speaker 1: And I think that that's one of the things now
Speaker 1: that because women have taken a lot of strides in
Speaker 1: society to where you know, first of all, having the
Speaker 1: same job, showing that a woman could do anything that
Speaker 1: a man can do mentally on the same level as men,
Speaker 1: and all these different things, a lot of men are
Speaker 1: feeling their sexuality is under attack, you know, like, oh,
Speaker 1: if she can do that, well, then how am I
Speaker 1: a man? The masculinity that a lot of men are
Speaker 1: scared they're gonna understand why men are just assuming things
Speaker 1: will demasculine or what the emasculator emasculating. There you go,
Speaker 1: that word. Goddamnit, that word, but that that specific word
Speaker 1: is always brought up if you mentioned even but play
Speaker 1: with a guy or licking the butter finger in the
Speaker 1: butter pegging or anything that they can you know kind
Speaker 1: of coin is quote unquote gay. And it's just like,
Speaker 1: I don't understand why where the masculation comes in into
Speaker 1: all of these things. And I think always people like
Speaker 1: when we have these conversations, I'm like, but do you masturbate?
Speaker 1: So why are you touching that guy? Because like people
Speaker 1: make people will make everything they people make everything gay,
Speaker 1: like to the point where I'm just like, I don't
Speaker 1: even understand. I don't even understand this anymore. Like, if
Speaker 1: you're doing that with a woman, then you're doing that
Speaker 1: with a woman, and that's your that's your choice. And
Speaker 1: if you do have uh you're bisexual or you are
Speaker 1: gay or whatever, that's not the worst thing you can be.
Speaker 1: That doesn't make you not a man anymore, Right, and
Speaker 1: which is what I said. And I don't even think
Speaker 1: people realize, like there's a ton of masculine gay men.
Speaker 1: So this idea that your masculinity will be what is
Speaker 1: this do you guys? Are y'all born with like a
Speaker 1: tag of masculinity? Why do people think it can be removed?
Speaker 1: I don't understand, Like, because it's only with him self, right,
Speaker 1: you don't have a masculinity level to everyone out in
Speaker 1: the world. I just don't understand why this is the issue.
Speaker 1: I think it's it's extra in America. It's very extra
Speaker 1: in America, and I think it it goes back and
Speaker 1: not to not to take it to you know, history
Speaker 1: lesson in Egypt stuff, you know what I mean. But
Speaker 1: I definitely think America's like, you know, I gotta have
Speaker 1: the biggest guns. I gotta have the this, that, and
Speaker 1: the other to be a man because men oppressed women
Speaker 1: here and now there's this guy's of equality and women
Speaker 1: are not having that bullshit no more. So it's like, well,
Speaker 1: if we're equal, then how come I don't get paid
Speaker 1: the same for the same work. So then now it
Speaker 1: becomes well, if a woman makes the same money as me,
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna be the breadwinner, and then how does
Speaker 1: that make me a man? Because I don't bring home
Speaker 1: the bacon and this I don't give a funk. I
Speaker 1: don't eat pork, so I ain't even worried about that.
Speaker 1: But it's just like, you know, but I mean just
Speaker 1: in the science, but I mean just in that that
Speaker 1: that that mentality that as the man, you know, you're
Speaker 1: still a man, you still have It's funny like they
Speaker 1: hold on a lot of men hold onto everything except
Speaker 1: the honor part. Yeah, you know, just you you your
Speaker 1: if your honor is there, your honorable man. You were
Speaker 1: stand up dude, you would stand up dude, you know,
Speaker 1: and your your wife making more money than you doesn't
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Speaker 1: you're saying, and I'm so glad um that you could
Speaker 1: come on and kind of kind of break this down.
Speaker 1: We've had so many I don't want to say it,
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Speaker 1: actually people have been asking can you have a real
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