1 00:00:00,920 --> 00:00:07,960 Speaker 1: Thank you. Tell me another song. You don't know you? 2 00:00:07,960 --> 00:00:14,600 Speaker 1: You don't know this Pretty Ricky closer Baby, I want 3 00:00:14,600 --> 00:00:17,560 Speaker 1: to get to you. Have to know Pretty Ricky. I'm 4 00:00:17,600 --> 00:00:20,279 Speaker 1: so I mean, I know who Pretty Ricky is. I 5 00:00:20,320 --> 00:00:24,400 Speaker 1: can't say I got the album, so I'm not gonna lie. 6 00:00:24,400 --> 00:00:26,480 Speaker 1: I think I'm putting myself in the movie because Pretty 7 00:00:26,560 --> 00:00:31,800 Speaker 1: Ricky comes to New York, UM November twenty something, and 8 00:00:31,880 --> 00:00:33,519 Speaker 1: I'm still trying to go to the concert, and I 9 00:00:33,560 --> 00:00:35,520 Speaker 1: have no one to go with because they're like Pretty 10 00:00:35,560 --> 00:00:40,080 Speaker 1: Rickies back together. I am obsessed with um, Pretty Ricky. Now, 11 00:00:40,080 --> 00:00:41,599 Speaker 1: I'm gonna have to send you the album because I'm 12 00:00:41,600 --> 00:00:44,040 Speaker 1: sure it would be great to make love to. UM. 13 00:00:44,080 --> 00:00:45,680 Speaker 1: It's one of those times. I mean, I can't throw 14 00:00:45,680 --> 00:00:47,360 Speaker 1: it on in none of my movies. They'd sue the 15 00:00:47,400 --> 00:00:50,240 Speaker 1: funk out of Okay, well you personal person, I only 16 00:00:50,280 --> 00:00:53,840 Speaker 1: have sex on camera. I'm just playing. Yeah, I'm sure 17 00:00:53,840 --> 00:00:56,560 Speaker 1: you are. Anyways, guys, UM, I wanted to say, Hi, 18 00:00:56,720 --> 00:00:59,920 Speaker 1: welcome to you another episode of Horrible Decisions. This is 19 00:01:00,040 --> 00:01:02,600 Speaker 1: your girl. Mandy and I am in the studio kind 20 00:01:02,600 --> 00:01:05,959 Speaker 1: of solo. Wheezy is still in Japan, UM, but we 21 00:01:06,040 --> 00:01:07,840 Speaker 1: had a guest who came up to the New York 22 00:01:07,880 --> 00:01:10,600 Speaker 1: City area and I was like, bro, we're getting him 23 00:01:10,600 --> 00:01:12,720 Speaker 1: on the Mother Package show. She was supposed to call in, 24 00:01:13,080 --> 00:01:15,560 Speaker 1: but she is super jetlagged and she's been out there 25 00:01:15,560 --> 00:01:18,640 Speaker 1: for like two and a half weeks. Um, so you 26 00:01:18,680 --> 00:01:20,680 Speaker 1: guys just get to hear me and all of my rats. 27 00:01:20,760 --> 00:01:23,759 Speaker 1: But luckily I have someone to cut that outside kind 28 00:01:23,800 --> 00:01:26,679 Speaker 1: of sort of. Um, I guess I'll introduce our guests. 29 00:01:26,680 --> 00:01:30,600 Speaker 1: We have King Noir in the building. Um, do you 30 00:01:30,600 --> 00:01:32,760 Speaker 1: want to let our listeners know kind of just briefly 31 00:01:32,760 --> 00:01:34,920 Speaker 1: what you do. We're gonna do a little icebreaker and 32 00:01:34,920 --> 00:01:37,680 Speaker 1: then really get into the good stuff. But how would 33 00:01:37,720 --> 00:01:40,400 Speaker 1: people know you? What do you do? Well? I am 34 00:01:40,680 --> 00:01:43,759 Speaker 1: one of the co owners of Royal Fetish Films, Royal 35 00:01:43,760 --> 00:01:49,320 Speaker 1: Fetish x x X dot Com, jet Setting, Jasmine, Body Altitudes, 36 00:01:49,840 --> 00:01:52,440 Speaker 1: and some people probably know me from some music stuff, 37 00:01:52,520 --> 00:01:55,120 Speaker 1: but I go by my actual name, Hassan Al. So 38 00:01:55,720 --> 00:01:57,920 Speaker 1: between all of that, you've probably seen me on X 39 00:01:58,040 --> 00:02:03,880 Speaker 1: videos somewhere, porn whatever, whatever, you're whatever you're you know, 40 00:02:04,200 --> 00:02:08,960 Speaker 1: jerk offices, you know where you rub one out too, Okay, 41 00:02:09,000 --> 00:02:11,440 Speaker 1: So and you do a little bit of everything in 42 00:02:11,440 --> 00:02:14,639 Speaker 1: the industry. So we're gonna get into that. That's kind 43 00:02:14,639 --> 00:02:16,280 Speaker 1: of going to be the horrible decision. You being a 44 00:02:16,320 --> 00:02:18,520 Speaker 1: man in the industry, we have yet to have you know, 45 00:02:19,360 --> 00:02:21,480 Speaker 1: anyone like you on. So I think we have a 46 00:02:21,520 --> 00:02:23,600 Speaker 1: lot of questions to come forward, but we're gonna start 47 00:02:23,680 --> 00:02:26,240 Speaker 1: with ice breakers. And so what we like to do 48 00:02:26,280 --> 00:02:28,720 Speaker 1: with our guests, we either like to do would you rather? 49 00:02:28,880 --> 00:02:30,960 Speaker 1: Or have you ever? Clearly I'm not gonna do have 50 00:02:31,080 --> 00:02:33,320 Speaker 1: you ever with you because I don't think there's much 51 00:02:33,360 --> 00:02:36,120 Speaker 1: you probably haven't done. Um, So we're gonna do the 52 00:02:36,120 --> 00:02:39,880 Speaker 1: would you rather? And I got some kind of sex questions, 53 00:02:40,160 --> 00:02:43,680 Speaker 1: um to make this fun. So would you rather only 54 00:02:43,720 --> 00:02:48,359 Speaker 1: be able to have sex missionary or doggy style? Mm hmm. 55 00:02:48,440 --> 00:02:50,360 Speaker 1: That's actually a really good question. I would I would 56 00:02:50,360 --> 00:02:53,680 Speaker 1: actually say missionary really if I had one choice, because 57 00:02:53,680 --> 00:02:55,440 Speaker 1: you know, you could throw the legs up on the shoulders. 58 00:02:55,440 --> 00:02:58,680 Speaker 1: That's still missionary, right, Yeah, that's still missionary. That's so crazy, 59 00:02:58,680 --> 00:03:02,120 Speaker 1: because of course me, I like love doggie style. I 60 00:03:02,240 --> 00:03:07,040 Speaker 1: mean I would probably choose I just think that missionary 61 00:03:07,080 --> 00:03:08,800 Speaker 1: if if it's just like for the rest of my 62 00:03:08,880 --> 00:03:11,640 Speaker 1: life type situation. You know, the thing about mission every 63 00:03:11,760 --> 00:03:13,720 Speaker 1: is for when you get you could look in your 64 00:03:13,760 --> 00:03:16,280 Speaker 1: partner's eyes and be all romantical and stuff. But also 65 00:03:16,880 --> 00:03:19,799 Speaker 1: it's good for clatoral stimulation and also hitting the G 66 00:03:19,960 --> 00:03:22,440 Speaker 1: spot as well. You're you know, you're very right. As 67 00:03:22,440 --> 00:03:25,000 Speaker 1: soon as as soon as I said that, I thought 68 00:03:25,000 --> 00:03:28,639 Speaker 1: of the intimacy level that differs between doggy style and 69 00:03:28,720 --> 00:03:31,960 Speaker 1: missionary and I guess you're right. I still like getting back. 70 00:03:32,040 --> 00:03:34,280 Speaker 1: But I mean, you you gave me one of the 71 00:03:34,320 --> 00:03:38,960 Speaker 1: other this or that you can't choose. Well, so here's 72 00:03:38,960 --> 00:03:40,360 Speaker 1: a good one. Because you just talked about like some 73 00:03:40,440 --> 00:03:42,640 Speaker 1: Russian roulette ship right there. It kind of is that. Well, 74 00:03:42,720 --> 00:03:44,480 Speaker 1: all of these kind of are So you just talked 75 00:03:44,480 --> 00:03:48,600 Speaker 1: about clatorial stimulation. So the second question is for play 76 00:03:48,720 --> 00:03:52,480 Speaker 1: only with your hands or for play only with your mouth? Mouth? 77 00:03:52,520 --> 00:03:56,640 Speaker 1: I love to eat, okay, so but you use fingers 78 00:03:56,680 --> 00:03:58,560 Speaker 1: when you do it as well. And I mean, yeah, 79 00:03:58,600 --> 00:04:02,120 Speaker 1: but you gave me a one of you would choose 80 00:04:02,120 --> 00:04:04,839 Speaker 1: the mouth, okay, So here's a good one as well. 81 00:04:05,240 --> 00:04:07,560 Speaker 1: Would you rather give up sex for a year or 82 00:04:07,600 --> 00:04:12,680 Speaker 1: give up master? You said no whatever whatever that so 83 00:04:12,720 --> 00:04:15,280 Speaker 1: you would give up masturbating for a year. That was 84 00:04:15,320 --> 00:04:19,359 Speaker 1: the other. I mean, I love myself and all, I 85 00:04:19,440 --> 00:04:22,560 Speaker 1: like the participation of sex. You're not giving up sex 86 00:04:22,600 --> 00:04:24,680 Speaker 1: for a year at all. What's the longest you would 87 00:04:24,680 --> 00:04:27,520 Speaker 1: give up sex for? Why this is horrible? This is 88 00:04:28,320 --> 00:04:30,640 Speaker 1: you didn't tell me about this, this line of question, 89 00:04:30,680 --> 00:04:34,479 Speaker 1: and was gonna be so so hard. I know, for 90 00:04:34,520 --> 00:04:36,760 Speaker 1: the longest I would give it up for. I mean, 91 00:04:38,400 --> 00:04:40,120 Speaker 1: just whatever was natural, Like if I was just in 92 00:04:40,160 --> 00:04:43,800 Speaker 1: the space where I wasn't having sex at the time. Okay, Okay, 93 00:04:44,120 --> 00:04:46,599 Speaker 1: I know I go two weeks without sex and I 94 00:04:46,600 --> 00:04:49,320 Speaker 1: feel like it's months, So I don't know about a 95 00:04:49,400 --> 00:04:51,920 Speaker 1: year without sex. I'd be like, I'd be like I'd 96 00:04:51,920 --> 00:04:53,320 Speaker 1: be telling my home girls. I'd be like, girl, I 97 00:04:53,360 --> 00:04:56,000 Speaker 1: haven't had sex and forever. They'd be like, girl, you 98 00:04:56,120 --> 00:04:57,880 Speaker 1: was just went some and so three. I was like, 99 00:04:57,920 --> 00:05:00,920 Speaker 1: oh damn, I was wasn't I'd be feeling it. I'll 100 00:05:00,920 --> 00:05:03,280 Speaker 1: be feeling awful when I don't be having sex. So 101 00:05:03,360 --> 00:05:05,560 Speaker 1: now we're gonna make it a little bit funnier. This 102 00:05:05,600 --> 00:05:07,400 Speaker 1: is kind of this is kind of gonna be not 103 00:05:07,440 --> 00:05:11,279 Speaker 1: as stressful, not as horrible. Would you rather cry every 104 00:05:11,320 --> 00:05:14,720 Speaker 1: time you had sex or birth every time someone kissed you? 105 00:05:17,160 --> 00:05:19,520 Speaker 1: I'd rather burt because that should probably be mad funny 106 00:05:19,560 --> 00:05:21,600 Speaker 1: at a certain point, and I have sex way too 107 00:05:21,680 --> 00:05:23,719 Speaker 1: much on time, or to be just crying all the time, 108 00:05:23,800 --> 00:05:28,839 Speaker 1: that'd be a bad look. This motherfucker's romantic comedies are awful. 109 00:05:29,839 --> 00:05:33,200 Speaker 1: You're right, that's a funny one. Um, oh that's for me. 110 00:05:33,320 --> 00:05:36,359 Speaker 1: I don't even know what that one. Maybe maybe the 111 00:05:36,440 --> 00:05:39,719 Speaker 1: bird Actually, you know what, I don't get recorded on 112 00:05:39,760 --> 00:05:42,840 Speaker 1: the hill, And because I like doggy style so much, 113 00:05:42,880 --> 00:05:45,359 Speaker 1: they possibly won't see the tears coming down my face. 114 00:05:45,880 --> 00:05:47,680 Speaker 1: So I think I'm gonna take that. I would rather 115 00:05:47,800 --> 00:05:50,960 Speaker 1: cry every time I had sex, and so this is 116 00:05:51,000 --> 00:05:53,920 Speaker 1: gonna be the last one. Would you rather find out 117 00:05:53,960 --> 00:05:57,080 Speaker 1: that someone you fucked was your long lost cousin or 118 00:05:57,120 --> 00:05:59,800 Speaker 1: that they were a brutal murderer. I'd rather than be 119 00:05:59,839 --> 00:06:03,680 Speaker 1: a murderer then your cousin? Is that? But does that 120 00:06:03,760 --> 00:06:05,599 Speaker 1: kind of because if we have kids, they might have 121 00:06:05,640 --> 00:06:09,279 Speaker 1: like web toes and a uni or something. Ever, is 122 00:06:09,279 --> 00:06:12,200 Speaker 1: that part of incests? Like cousins? Did they go that far? 123 00:06:12,880 --> 00:06:15,880 Speaker 1: It's not just sisters brothers, and I don't personally, I 124 00:06:15,880 --> 00:06:18,480 Speaker 1: won't be hollering at my cousins. I don't know if 125 00:06:18,560 --> 00:06:20,960 Speaker 1: I didn't know if that counted because it's like, aren't 126 00:06:21,000 --> 00:06:23,960 Speaker 1: cousins through like marriage and ship. I don't even want 127 00:06:23,960 --> 00:06:26,360 Speaker 1: to bark down. Okay, we can't. I don't know how 128 00:06:26,360 --> 00:06:31,120 Speaker 1: many generations. Okay, so incests is not cool. You know 129 00:06:31,560 --> 00:06:33,520 Speaker 1: you're not here for them. You know, it's a huge 130 00:06:33,560 --> 00:06:38,520 Speaker 1: fetish online. Actually, um, incest porn doing serious numbers right now, 131 00:06:39,279 --> 00:06:42,040 Speaker 1: but they're not actually related. You know. I'm sorry. If 132 00:06:42,040 --> 00:06:48,360 Speaker 1: I've ruined somebody's fantasy, that'd be crazy. Though people would 133 00:06:48,360 --> 00:06:51,679 Speaker 1: like providing a birth certificates. Yeah, no, I don't family 134 00:06:51,720 --> 00:06:54,120 Speaker 1: tree porn or something. I would be lying if I 135 00:06:54,160 --> 00:06:57,280 Speaker 1: sat here and said that I didn't kind of click 136 00:06:57,360 --> 00:07:02,320 Speaker 1: taboo porn sometimes and that would definitely be at Unfortunately, Um, 137 00:07:02,360 --> 00:07:04,360 Speaker 1: and this is just on a sexual manner. I don't 138 00:07:04,360 --> 00:07:06,520 Speaker 1: want to offend anyone listening, but I have this kind 139 00:07:06,560 --> 00:07:13,400 Speaker 1: of rapey fantasy. You can't find rapey porn really, like, 140 00:07:13,440 --> 00:07:16,720 Speaker 1: it's really hard to find. And just the idea of like, 141 00:07:16,800 --> 00:07:19,720 Speaker 1: you know, maybe someone taking control. Yeah, it's just and 142 00:07:19,760 --> 00:07:21,440 Speaker 1: it's really a thing we're gonna talk about. I'm sure 143 00:07:21,440 --> 00:07:23,119 Speaker 1: it's gonna be a kink coming up in the future, 144 00:07:23,120 --> 00:07:24,840 Speaker 1: but I know it's just a real sensitive thing to 145 00:07:24,880 --> 00:07:26,600 Speaker 1: talk about I think the thing is to say when 146 00:07:26,600 --> 00:07:30,720 Speaker 1: you when you're watching porn, it's uh, you know, it's 147 00:07:30,720 --> 00:07:33,720 Speaker 1: a controlled environment. So anybody that's on set, you know, 148 00:07:33,760 --> 00:07:36,360 Speaker 1: they've spoken a safety word. They let everybody know what 149 00:07:36,440 --> 00:07:38,600 Speaker 1: their limits and hard nose are and things like that. 150 00:07:38,640 --> 00:07:41,640 Speaker 1: So even even with insects porn, you know, it's still 151 00:07:42,280 --> 00:07:44,640 Speaker 1: all okay at the end of the day, you know 152 00:07:44,680 --> 00:07:47,360 Speaker 1: what I'm saying, Like, it's it's enjoyed a fantasy, but 153 00:07:47,560 --> 00:07:50,560 Speaker 1: everybody is still safe. Okay, guys. Now, So what we 154 00:07:50,680 --> 00:07:53,880 Speaker 1: like to do every episode is doing kink of the week. 155 00:07:54,240 --> 00:07:58,160 Speaker 1: So I made the kink apply directly to you. Um. 156 00:07:58,320 --> 00:08:02,520 Speaker 1: And so the kink for this week is flogging. UM. 157 00:08:02,560 --> 00:08:04,560 Speaker 1: So for our listeners that don't know, of course, we 158 00:08:04,640 --> 00:08:07,400 Speaker 1: like to give the definition. So flogging is mainly an 159 00:08:07,480 --> 00:08:11,280 Speaker 1: S and M termin terminology. Flogging is used UM to 160 00:08:11,440 --> 00:08:14,960 Speaker 1: whip for sexual enjoyment. It says that a floggers shall 161 00:08:15,000 --> 00:08:19,640 Speaker 1: remain for the moment any flexible, any flexible many tells 162 00:08:19,640 --> 00:08:22,640 Speaker 1: striking tool, where the tails are simple strips of leather 163 00:08:22,720 --> 00:08:27,000 Speaker 1: or similar substances designed for use on the human body. UM. 164 00:08:27,040 --> 00:08:32,080 Speaker 1: And so you've brought a couple Um, this is I 165 00:08:32,120 --> 00:08:35,839 Speaker 1: guess I want to explain to the listeners how someone 166 00:08:35,920 --> 00:08:38,679 Speaker 1: would find us enjoying, how you got into doing this, 167 00:08:39,040 --> 00:08:41,360 Speaker 1: and if it's something that's requested, because I'm not gonna lie. 168 00:08:41,400 --> 00:08:43,920 Speaker 1: I'm looking at these right now and I'm absolutely like, 169 00:08:45,080 --> 00:08:47,079 Speaker 1: what the fun is this? What's going on? And I've 170 00:08:47,120 --> 00:08:49,880 Speaker 1: seen the videos of you doing flogging. I want to 171 00:08:49,920 --> 00:08:52,599 Speaker 1: know how that I can't see how I would be 172 00:08:52,640 --> 00:08:56,520 Speaker 1: sexually aroused by it. So explain, you know, flogging for 173 00:08:56,559 --> 00:08:59,480 Speaker 1: our listeners. If you can't, well, I guess started doing it. Actually. 174 00:08:59,520 --> 00:09:01,200 Speaker 1: I was at that come one year and I saw 175 00:09:01,240 --> 00:09:03,800 Speaker 1: somebody using this style of flogger, Like I got two 176 00:09:03,840 --> 00:09:06,400 Speaker 1: floggers up here. So this is considered a nun chuck 177 00:09:06,920 --> 00:09:10,320 Speaker 1: or a swivel flogger. So I used to do martial 178 00:09:10,400 --> 00:09:11,920 Speaker 1: arts as a kids. I was like, oh, that looks 179 00:09:11,960 --> 00:09:13,720 Speaker 1: like a nun shuck. I can rock with that, like, 180 00:09:14,920 --> 00:09:20,200 Speaker 1: but it's actually the precision of it I enjoy. And 181 00:09:20,320 --> 00:09:22,640 Speaker 1: actually it's more of a thud than a whip Like 182 00:09:22,760 --> 00:09:24,880 Speaker 1: this right here is a dragontail that has a lot. 183 00:09:25,000 --> 00:09:26,719 Speaker 1: It's a lot more like. The feeling you'll get from 184 00:09:26,720 --> 00:09:30,280 Speaker 1: that is like if somebody rolled up a towel and 185 00:09:30,320 --> 00:09:32,520 Speaker 1: smell and snapped you with a towel like that's what 186 00:09:33,280 --> 00:09:36,200 Speaker 1: that's that kind of feeling. It can hurt. This is yeah, 187 00:09:36,240 --> 00:09:39,320 Speaker 1: this is like a double folded leather paddle, so that's 188 00:09:39,400 --> 00:09:43,240 Speaker 1: that's more of a smack. This one is padded, so 189 00:09:43,720 --> 00:09:46,800 Speaker 1: this side is softer. This side it's harder. So I 190 00:09:47,559 --> 00:09:51,720 Speaker 1: understand the arousal from pain when I'm getting fun, especially 191 00:09:51,760 --> 00:09:55,000 Speaker 1: from the back. I asked to be slapped on the 192 00:09:55,000 --> 00:09:59,440 Speaker 1: ac so I get that arousal. But the flogging isn't painful, correct, 193 00:09:59,720 --> 00:10:03,360 Speaker 1: It's more of a thud. So you use the perfect 194 00:10:03,360 --> 00:10:08,280 Speaker 1: example when when we're turned on sexually. You know, if 195 00:10:08,320 --> 00:10:09,760 Speaker 1: someone just ran up to you in the middle of 196 00:10:09,800 --> 00:10:11,200 Speaker 1: the street and just smacks you want to ask. For 197 00:10:11,200 --> 00:10:12,679 Speaker 1: the most part, you like, what the fund is wrong 198 00:10:12,720 --> 00:10:17,400 Speaker 1: with you? Exactly exactly. But when you when we're turned on, 199 00:10:17,440 --> 00:10:20,960 Speaker 1: our body starts to release dopamine and adrenaline that goes 200 00:10:21,000 --> 00:10:24,760 Speaker 1: through our body that lets us know, uh, this is 201 00:10:24,840 --> 00:10:27,400 Speaker 1: this is pleasurable or this isn't you know something that 202 00:10:27,400 --> 00:10:29,160 Speaker 1: that has to deal with your fight, fight or flight. 203 00:10:29,880 --> 00:10:32,040 Speaker 1: So with flogging being that it's more of a thud 204 00:10:32,559 --> 00:10:35,120 Speaker 1: when I start when we try out. You know, I 205 00:10:35,160 --> 00:10:37,160 Speaker 1: start up, I start up at the shoulders. There's certain 206 00:10:37,160 --> 00:10:39,200 Speaker 1: places that you can't hit, certain places you can't hit. 207 00:10:39,679 --> 00:10:42,680 Speaker 1: What those I got you, So we start We start 208 00:10:42,760 --> 00:10:45,120 Speaker 1: up at the shoulders because the shoulders, there's muscle up 209 00:10:45,160 --> 00:10:49,000 Speaker 1: there and it's the closest spot to your brain. So 210 00:10:49,040 --> 00:10:51,760 Speaker 1: when it starts releasing all that adrenaline and dopamine, it 211 00:10:51,840 --> 00:10:54,160 Speaker 1: starts to relax you. So it's kind of similar. I 212 00:10:54,200 --> 00:10:56,520 Speaker 1: think it's like Shiatsu massage where they kind of do this. 213 00:10:57,080 --> 00:11:00,160 Speaker 1: It's very similar to that. So just that in itself 214 00:11:00,440 --> 00:11:03,040 Speaker 1: is relaxing to people. So that's part of where the 215 00:11:03,080 --> 00:11:05,560 Speaker 1: arousal comes from. And then when you work your way down, 216 00:11:05,600 --> 00:11:07,719 Speaker 1: you skip all those vital organs. You don't hit the 217 00:11:07,760 --> 00:11:11,160 Speaker 1: spine right when you get to meaty parts of the body, 218 00:11:11,240 --> 00:11:15,720 Speaker 1: so the ass thies. Some women, uh specifically like to 219 00:11:15,760 --> 00:11:20,600 Speaker 1: get flogged on their breasts. Um, So when you get 220 00:11:20,640 --> 00:11:22,680 Speaker 1: down to that area, there's there's something that we have 221 00:11:22,920 --> 00:11:25,400 Speaker 1: down there, both men and women. It's called the podendal nerve. 222 00:11:25,920 --> 00:11:30,000 Speaker 1: It's for men. It's where it's a real scientifical you 223 00:11:30,040 --> 00:11:35,720 Speaker 1: know scientifical word it is, right, But it's like for 224 00:11:35,720 --> 00:11:37,880 Speaker 1: for men, where where the taint is or for women, 225 00:11:37,880 --> 00:11:39,840 Speaker 1: where the lady taint is. You know that's there's a 226 00:11:39,920 --> 00:11:43,280 Speaker 1: nerve right there that when it when it feels like vibes. 227 00:11:43,360 --> 00:11:44,840 Speaker 1: It's the same kind of thing is when you get 228 00:11:44,840 --> 00:11:47,440 Speaker 1: spanked when you're feeling turned on. It sends that nice 229 00:11:47,440 --> 00:11:49,880 Speaker 1: little shock wave through your ass and and through your 230 00:11:50,240 --> 00:11:52,800 Speaker 1: through your insides. So it's that same kind of feeling. 231 00:11:52,840 --> 00:11:54,640 Speaker 1: So if you start getting flogged the right way, it 232 00:11:54,760 --> 00:11:56,800 Speaker 1: starts sending them same kind of waves through your body, 233 00:11:57,040 --> 00:11:59,360 Speaker 1: just like there's a proper way to spank, like if 234 00:11:59,400 --> 00:12:02,160 Speaker 1: you spank up as opposed to spanking down or side 235 00:12:02,280 --> 00:12:05,160 Speaker 1: or there's different ways to send different sensations through the body. 236 00:12:05,360 --> 00:12:08,120 Speaker 1: So it's rhythmic also, like the same way you like 237 00:12:08,120 --> 00:12:11,600 Speaker 1: getting pounded when that nice rhythm is going. I'm also 238 00:12:11,679 --> 00:12:15,640 Speaker 1: really big on communication, Like normally I asked to be 239 00:12:15,920 --> 00:12:18,760 Speaker 1: you know, slap my ass. I tell them, is this 240 00:12:18,920 --> 00:12:22,120 Speaker 1: something that normally a female or would ask a guy 241 00:12:22,200 --> 00:12:24,520 Speaker 1: to do? Or is this something that a guy normally introduces? 242 00:12:24,960 --> 00:12:26,480 Speaker 1: It could go either way. It could go either way. 243 00:12:27,600 --> 00:12:30,280 Speaker 1: It's usually a dumb sub kind of thing. But there 244 00:12:30,320 --> 00:12:32,400 Speaker 1: are people I know who like getting flocked that wouldn't 245 00:12:32,400 --> 00:12:34,880 Speaker 1: consider themselves to be a sub. They just like the 246 00:12:34,920 --> 00:12:37,320 Speaker 1: sensation and the feeling of getting flocked. And it could 247 00:12:37,360 --> 00:12:39,880 Speaker 1: be something that for you who said earlier that you're 248 00:12:39,920 --> 00:12:42,640 Speaker 1: not really into being a sub or anything, you can 249 00:12:42,679 --> 00:12:46,480 Speaker 1: still speak on like if with the person that you're 250 00:12:46,480 --> 00:12:48,560 Speaker 1: working with, if you're like, yo, I'm not don't just 251 00:12:48,600 --> 00:12:50,600 Speaker 1: tell me what to do or whatever, like, you can 252 00:12:50,600 --> 00:12:53,520 Speaker 1: still be communicative with your with your partner, like this 253 00:12:53,559 --> 00:12:55,280 Speaker 1: is what I want to try. Please don't go past 254 00:12:55,320 --> 00:12:57,160 Speaker 1: this limit. You know, when I when I work with 255 00:12:57,200 --> 00:12:59,280 Speaker 1: people for the first time, I'm asking them what they're 256 00:12:59,640 --> 00:13:03,880 Speaker 1: what they're pain tolerances. You know, let's say you have injury, 257 00:13:04,000 --> 00:13:05,839 Speaker 1: things like that. There are certain questions I'm going to 258 00:13:05,920 --> 00:13:08,480 Speaker 1: ask you to make it a pleasurable experience. Lethal lips 259 00:13:08,600 --> 00:13:12,160 Speaker 1: Um came on the show and we discussed the scene 260 00:13:12,160 --> 00:13:14,160 Speaker 1: with you, and she actually said it was one of 261 00:13:14,200 --> 00:13:17,040 Speaker 1: the most enjoyable but also mentally hard scenes for her 262 00:13:17,040 --> 00:13:19,800 Speaker 1: because she's more dominant and she actually had to be 263 00:13:20,080 --> 00:13:24,760 Speaker 1: submissive to you. Um, how how does that work? Are 264 00:13:24,800 --> 00:13:27,760 Speaker 1: you ever submissive to a woman? Are you constantly the 265 00:13:27,840 --> 00:13:30,200 Speaker 1: dom in the bedroom? Like? Do you know what I mean? 266 00:13:30,559 --> 00:13:34,360 Speaker 1: Like as a man dom are you always I think 267 00:13:34,600 --> 00:13:37,880 Speaker 1: the scene with Lethal it was something that we both 268 00:13:38,040 --> 00:13:40,080 Speaker 1: spoke about. It wasn't like I just showed up there 269 00:13:40,240 --> 00:13:43,120 Speaker 1: was like you're about to submit. It wasn't nothing like that. 270 00:13:43,160 --> 00:13:47,199 Speaker 1: It was she we we discussed like usually with with UH, 271 00:13:47,280 --> 00:13:49,400 Speaker 1: a lot of our scenes when we work with with 272 00:13:49,920 --> 00:13:54,040 Speaker 1: well known actors and acts, you know, we we like 273 00:13:54,160 --> 00:13:57,080 Speaker 1: to say we want to try something that you've never 274 00:13:57,120 --> 00:13:59,880 Speaker 1: tried before, or or a fetish that you're really in 275 00:14:00,040 --> 00:14:02,720 Speaker 1: to that you know, maybe you haven't done on a 276 00:14:02,720 --> 00:14:05,199 Speaker 1: film that you love in your personal life, to show 277 00:14:05,400 --> 00:14:09,240 Speaker 1: the real honesty in you, in your in your sex. 278 00:14:09,920 --> 00:14:12,200 Speaker 1: So she was like, you know, I've I've thought about it. 279 00:14:12,280 --> 00:14:14,280 Speaker 1: I kind of like that chain thing that I've seen 280 00:14:14,320 --> 00:14:17,000 Speaker 1: you used before. Like so it's kind of like that. 281 00:14:17,080 --> 00:14:20,880 Speaker 1: But um me, I'm not a sub but I do work. 282 00:14:21,000 --> 00:14:24,320 Speaker 1: I guess where you would say, like an equal level, 283 00:14:24,760 --> 00:14:28,200 Speaker 1: I don't. I don't sub, but there is a certain 284 00:14:28,240 --> 00:14:31,320 Speaker 1: amount of power in submission as well, because a person 285 00:14:31,320 --> 00:14:33,600 Speaker 1: who's a true do like I'm considered more on the 286 00:14:33,680 --> 00:14:38,080 Speaker 1: central side of dominant. I don't do dominant, UH. I 287 00:14:38,080 --> 00:14:42,920 Speaker 1: don't dominate to cause injury or hurt. That's not my style. 288 00:14:43,440 --> 00:14:46,920 Speaker 1: I do it because I enjoyed pleasing so much. So 289 00:14:46,960 --> 00:14:49,120 Speaker 1: it's like I look at it like a blank canvas. 290 00:14:50,200 --> 00:14:54,240 Speaker 1: So if if a woman is willing to give give 291 00:14:54,440 --> 00:14:56,800 Speaker 1: give me her body and allow me to just try 292 00:14:56,840 --> 00:14:59,800 Speaker 1: to take her to different levels of pleasure and pain 293 00:14:59,840 --> 00:15:02,720 Speaker 1: and ecstasy and all of that, then there is still 294 00:15:03,000 --> 00:15:06,160 Speaker 1: you still control the sit the scene of having your 295 00:15:06,160 --> 00:15:09,960 Speaker 1: safety word. You still control the scene of even just 296 00:15:10,080 --> 00:15:13,160 Speaker 1: being there and allowing me to paint this picture. So 297 00:15:13,440 --> 00:15:16,560 Speaker 1: you mentioned that you spoke with me the lips before 298 00:15:16,600 --> 00:15:19,040 Speaker 1: you speak with everyone. Um so, something that you do 299 00:15:19,240 --> 00:15:24,200 Speaker 1: you consider yourself a master fetish trainer. So I want 300 00:15:24,240 --> 00:15:26,680 Speaker 1: to talk about what you do when you come into 301 00:15:26,680 --> 00:15:29,000 Speaker 1: the bedroom with couples, because not everything you do is 302 00:15:29,000 --> 00:15:31,800 Speaker 1: on scene, it's not it's not on film. Not everyone 303 00:15:31,800 --> 00:15:34,080 Speaker 1: can see what you do. Um So, I wanted to 304 00:15:34,120 --> 00:15:37,720 Speaker 1: get into this part of the industry that you're in. 305 00:15:38,160 --> 00:15:41,440 Speaker 1: So couples pretty much ask you to help them in 306 00:15:41,480 --> 00:15:44,640 Speaker 1: the bedroom. What do you do? How how do they 307 00:15:44,640 --> 00:15:47,200 Speaker 1: approach you about that? And what exactly do you do 308 00:15:47,240 --> 00:15:49,800 Speaker 1: to help them? Are you fucking the couples or are 309 00:15:49,880 --> 00:15:52,840 Speaker 1: you I don't know. You do a lot of ships, 310 00:15:52,920 --> 00:15:56,280 Speaker 1: so explain to our listeners what a master fetish trainer 311 00:15:56,320 --> 00:15:59,400 Speaker 1: does well. The best way to describe a master fetish 312 00:15:59,400 --> 00:16:04,320 Speaker 1: trainer is is everybody has a fetish, but a lot 313 00:16:04,360 --> 00:16:06,520 Speaker 1: of people don't know what that is. They don't know 314 00:16:06,720 --> 00:16:08,840 Speaker 1: how to discover what it is, and they don't know 315 00:16:08,880 --> 00:16:11,360 Speaker 1: how to live it. A lot of times there are 316 00:16:11,400 --> 00:16:13,320 Speaker 1: people and I think that one of the problems in 317 00:16:13,360 --> 00:16:15,120 Speaker 1: the world that we live in is that so many 318 00:16:15,160 --> 00:16:21,480 Speaker 1: people are sexually repressed. Absolutely, I mean across the board. 319 00:16:21,480 --> 00:16:24,440 Speaker 1: I mean women are sexually oppressed in this culture. But 320 00:16:24,560 --> 00:16:28,880 Speaker 1: then on top of that, individuals sexually repressed themselves. And 321 00:16:28,960 --> 00:16:31,800 Speaker 1: sometimes it's because of that oppression, and other times it's 322 00:16:31,880 --> 00:16:34,320 Speaker 1: just because of how we were brought up or just 323 00:16:34,840 --> 00:16:39,040 Speaker 1: things that go on in our head. So sometimes it's 324 00:16:39,080 --> 00:16:42,080 Speaker 1: like people have this epiphany or an awakening where they're like, 325 00:16:42,600 --> 00:16:45,680 Speaker 1: I just want to try things. But if you don't 326 00:16:45,680 --> 00:16:47,560 Speaker 1: know how to use some of these things that we 327 00:16:47,640 --> 00:16:50,560 Speaker 1: have on the table, you can seriously hurt somebody. You know, 328 00:16:50,600 --> 00:16:52,480 Speaker 1: if someone's just like I'm a flog for the first time, 329 00:16:52,960 --> 00:16:55,920 Speaker 1: and you know, I just hit somebody in the kidney, 330 00:16:56,120 --> 00:16:58,080 Speaker 1: you know what I mean, Like that's not gonna turn 331 00:16:58,120 --> 00:17:01,320 Speaker 1: out good. So one of the things that that we 332 00:17:01,400 --> 00:17:06,360 Speaker 1: do as master Fetish trainers is guide people through trying 333 00:17:06,400 --> 00:17:10,919 Speaker 1: out different items, toys, role playing scenarios. One of my 334 00:17:11,000 --> 00:17:13,639 Speaker 1: favorite things that we did recently, Jasmine and I worked 335 00:17:13,640 --> 00:17:18,119 Speaker 1: with a couple where the woman was more experienced in 336 00:17:18,200 --> 00:17:20,600 Speaker 1: b D s M, like she knew who she was 337 00:17:20,640 --> 00:17:23,080 Speaker 1: as a sub. She wanted her man to be more dominant, 338 00:17:24,240 --> 00:17:28,000 Speaker 1: and he was like cool guy, like super chill, like 339 00:17:28,080 --> 00:17:31,840 Speaker 1: he was just like, you know, like but but then 340 00:17:31,880 --> 00:17:34,199 Speaker 1: like we got to speak to them, and you know, 341 00:17:34,240 --> 00:17:36,600 Speaker 1: I'm talking to him and like finding out more about 342 00:17:36,640 --> 00:17:39,520 Speaker 1: his personality and what he's into and his interests and 343 00:17:39,560 --> 00:17:41,200 Speaker 1: all that, and I'm like, well, if yeah, yeah, into 344 00:17:41,560 --> 00:17:46,239 Speaker 1: he was into like a role play type game. And 345 00:17:46,280 --> 00:17:48,440 Speaker 1: I was like, well, if you're into that in your 346 00:17:48,560 --> 00:17:51,480 Speaker 1: every day then you could seriously use that in the bedroom, 347 00:17:51,520 --> 00:17:54,480 Speaker 1: in a in a in a more creative way to 348 00:17:54,560 --> 00:17:57,040 Speaker 1: please your lady, you know. And it's and it's and 349 00:17:57,040 --> 00:17:58,440 Speaker 1: it's definitely there are a lot of men out there 350 00:17:58,440 --> 00:18:00,399 Speaker 1: who are like, I don't want to choke my wife 351 00:18:00,480 --> 00:18:02,439 Speaker 1: or spank my wife because I don't want to hurt her. 352 00:18:02,880 --> 00:18:06,120 Speaker 1: And I'm like, well, there's a difference between choking somebody 353 00:18:06,119 --> 00:18:09,520 Speaker 1: to end their life, you know, and just choking them 354 00:18:09,560 --> 00:18:12,640 Speaker 1: to add a little pressure because it heightens orgasm. Some 355 00:18:12,680 --> 00:18:15,159 Speaker 1: people like to have that feeling of having just just 356 00:18:15,359 --> 00:18:17,400 Speaker 1: having their air cut off for a little bit. There's 357 00:18:17,440 --> 00:18:20,160 Speaker 1: different level. I just talked about this on my IG Live. 358 00:18:20,240 --> 00:18:22,040 Speaker 1: I was like, I don't want to die because I 359 00:18:22,080 --> 00:18:25,840 Speaker 1: got choked too hard during sex. There's there's but there's 360 00:18:25,880 --> 00:18:28,400 Speaker 1: different levels to it. Like some people are extreme, They're 361 00:18:28,440 --> 00:18:30,879 Speaker 1: like put a plastic bag over my head, you know, 362 00:18:31,200 --> 00:18:34,760 Speaker 1: like I really want to have trouble, have trouble breathing, 363 00:18:34,760 --> 00:18:36,680 Speaker 1: and then other people like I just like a little 364 00:18:36,720 --> 00:18:40,000 Speaker 1: bit of pressure around here. I don't want to bruise, 365 00:18:40,640 --> 00:18:42,639 Speaker 1: you know. And there's and there's ways to teach somebody 366 00:18:42,640 --> 00:18:43,879 Speaker 1: how to do that in a way that's not going 367 00:18:43,920 --> 00:18:47,280 Speaker 1: to injure somebody. So that's that's one way. Another way 368 00:18:47,560 --> 00:18:54,359 Speaker 1: is I actually engage in domination for them and maybe 369 00:18:54,400 --> 00:18:58,840 Speaker 1: flogging or spanking or whatever whatever their their role place 370 00:18:58,880 --> 00:19:01,000 Speaker 1: scenario whiz, and I take them to the point where 371 00:19:01,000 --> 00:19:04,200 Speaker 1: it's time for them to do their thing and I'll 372 00:19:04,200 --> 00:19:06,919 Speaker 1: make my way out. Oh wow. And so these are 373 00:19:06,960 --> 00:19:10,200 Speaker 1: done whether in a hotel or in the privacy of 374 00:19:10,240 --> 00:19:12,080 Speaker 1: their own home or something like that, so it's not 375 00:19:12,119 --> 00:19:15,480 Speaker 1: done with a whole bunch of camera crews or any 376 00:19:15,480 --> 00:19:18,399 Speaker 1: other people. They literally call you to help them open 377 00:19:18,480 --> 00:19:21,920 Speaker 1: up in the bedroom. And I think that's that's very important. Um, 378 00:19:22,080 --> 00:19:25,280 Speaker 1: not only that you do that, but just I mentioned 379 00:19:25,320 --> 00:19:26,680 Speaker 1: it all the time on the show, just the level 380 00:19:26,720 --> 00:19:29,840 Speaker 1: of communication, because if she was expressing that she really 381 00:19:30,440 --> 00:19:33,200 Speaker 1: likes being sub and she wasn't getting that in the bedroom, 382 00:19:33,240 --> 00:19:35,040 Speaker 1: I think that is what leads a lot of people 383 00:19:35,080 --> 00:19:38,719 Speaker 1: to stray away sometimes from their partners and cheat. And 384 00:19:39,240 --> 00:19:41,760 Speaker 1: because we do all have these fetishes or we have 385 00:19:41,880 --> 00:19:45,639 Speaker 1: these craving sexually that we do need to have done, 386 00:19:45,800 --> 00:19:48,240 Speaker 1: I guess to get it out of our system. You know, 387 00:19:48,080 --> 00:19:51,480 Speaker 1: you said the right word. Communication is key in any relationship. 388 00:19:51,880 --> 00:19:55,359 Speaker 1: To make any relationship better, whether it be some B 389 00:19:55,440 --> 00:19:59,600 Speaker 1: d s M. Polly Swinger, or your friendship or your 390 00:19:59,640 --> 00:20:02,840 Speaker 1: relations ship with your people at work, whatever the case is, 391 00:20:03,160 --> 00:20:05,879 Speaker 1: if you don't speak on it, chances are it won't 392 00:20:05,880 --> 00:20:08,080 Speaker 1: happen for you. So let me ask you this question. 393 00:20:08,119 --> 00:20:11,560 Speaker 1: I guess before UM, we had a ton of questions 394 00:20:11,600 --> 00:20:14,160 Speaker 1: that are listeners sent in, But I guess I want 395 00:20:14,160 --> 00:20:16,480 Speaker 1: to ask you, So you do the master fetish training, 396 00:20:16,720 --> 00:20:21,400 Speaker 1: you do um engage in porn? Do you also provide 397 00:20:21,400 --> 00:20:24,200 Speaker 1: services to women who just want to hit you because 398 00:20:24,200 --> 00:20:28,320 Speaker 1: they need sex or they want to experience what they're 399 00:20:28,320 --> 00:20:33,840 Speaker 1: not getting trying to get me arrested? Out the questions, 400 00:20:33,880 --> 00:20:38,680 Speaker 1: that's what you'd be like, I guess I can't ask it. So, 401 00:20:39,480 --> 00:20:42,080 Speaker 1: but what do most women ask from you if they're 402 00:20:42,080 --> 00:20:46,879 Speaker 1: reaching out to Kingowa. I do erotic touch massages. I 403 00:20:46,920 --> 00:20:50,800 Speaker 1: get a lot for fetish training, because that's that's probably 404 00:20:50,840 --> 00:20:54,560 Speaker 1: the main one now, because people are interested in experiencing 405 00:20:54,840 --> 00:20:58,880 Speaker 1: a dom subsituation or b D s M situation where 406 00:20:58,880 --> 00:21:02,320 Speaker 1: they're safe. Oh okay, Like it's super easy to find 407 00:21:02,359 --> 00:21:05,560 Speaker 1: me on the internet. Is really easy to know that 408 00:21:05,600 --> 00:21:08,840 Speaker 1: I'm I'm I'm a person who you know, even outside 409 00:21:08,840 --> 00:21:12,840 Speaker 1: of the the sex industry, who has a public persona. 410 00:21:12,960 --> 00:21:15,240 Speaker 1: You can look me up. You can see that I'm 411 00:21:15,280 --> 00:21:17,160 Speaker 1: You know, if I was a creeper, I would not 412 00:21:17,240 --> 00:21:19,400 Speaker 1: have been in this industry as long as I am. 413 00:21:19,560 --> 00:21:22,159 Speaker 1: I love that you kind of just segued into my 414 00:21:22,240 --> 00:21:24,320 Speaker 1: next question when i't even have to ask you. So 415 00:21:24,359 --> 00:21:28,160 Speaker 1: I wanted to ask what the misconception is Um, for 416 00:21:28,240 --> 00:21:31,159 Speaker 1: you being a man in the sex industry. I know 417 00:21:31,280 --> 00:21:35,960 Speaker 1: that you know, you being a porn star or everything 418 00:21:36,000 --> 00:21:39,560 Speaker 1: involving sex, that there's kind of a stigma attached to it, 419 00:21:39,680 --> 00:21:43,040 Speaker 1: or a stereotype about maybe someone being a creep. So 420 00:21:43,359 --> 00:21:45,800 Speaker 1: how do you adjust when you meet someone and say, hey, 421 00:21:45,840 --> 00:21:49,040 Speaker 1: this is what I do for a living. Um, yeah, 422 00:21:49,080 --> 00:21:51,320 Speaker 1: if you want to talk talk, I think you're like, 423 00:21:52,320 --> 00:21:55,720 Speaker 1: it's funny because when it comes to porn, whether you're 424 00:21:56,240 --> 00:22:00,560 Speaker 1: male or female, there's kind of like this, that's what 425 00:22:00,640 --> 00:22:03,240 Speaker 1: you do. I would never do that. But then there's 426 00:22:03,280 --> 00:22:05,720 Speaker 1: also their next sentences. He's like, anybody could do that, 427 00:22:06,359 --> 00:22:08,640 Speaker 1: and I'm like that, how does that work? Anybody could 428 00:22:08,680 --> 00:22:11,080 Speaker 1: do it, but you could never do it. I think 429 00:22:11,119 --> 00:22:15,520 Speaker 1: that people have so many stigmas attached to sex, so 430 00:22:16,000 --> 00:22:18,760 Speaker 1: some people automatically they find out I do porn, they 431 00:22:18,800 --> 00:22:23,000 Speaker 1: think that I don't know, like I'm just gonna bombard 432 00:22:23,040 --> 00:22:25,400 Speaker 1: them with dick pigs, or I don't know what it 433 00:22:25,480 --> 00:22:28,679 Speaker 1: is like, and and and and usually or that I 434 00:22:28,760 --> 00:22:33,359 Speaker 1: can't have a conversation outside of sex, Like I wound 435 00:22:33,440 --> 00:22:36,040 Speaker 1: up in this industry because I'm uneducated, or I wound 436 00:22:36,080 --> 00:22:38,000 Speaker 1: up in this industry because I have like a drug 437 00:22:38,080 --> 00:22:40,080 Speaker 1: problem or something like that. Like I heard a lot 438 00:22:40,119 --> 00:22:43,680 Speaker 1: of them are like felons and can't get jobs. That's 439 00:22:43,720 --> 00:22:47,159 Speaker 1: what I've heard. That's a misconception. I mean, I definitely 440 00:22:47,240 --> 00:22:49,960 Speaker 1: in this industry have met people from all walks of life, 441 00:22:50,000 --> 00:22:52,920 Speaker 1: the same way if I work that I don't know, 442 00:22:53,600 --> 00:22:56,879 Speaker 1: costco or something. It meets people from all walks of life. 443 00:22:57,040 --> 00:22:58,760 Speaker 1: And you know, I mean there's some people I know 444 00:22:58,800 --> 00:23:01,600 Speaker 1: in the industry who who left like corporate jobs or 445 00:23:01,680 --> 00:23:04,080 Speaker 1: jobs on Wall Street to do porn, you know, and 446 00:23:04,080 --> 00:23:07,560 Speaker 1: then you'll meet uh, women who were I know, it's 447 00:23:07,600 --> 00:23:10,760 Speaker 1: one woman she was like a serious, serious, like e 448 00:23:11,000 --> 00:23:13,480 Speaker 1: R nurse and she was just like the job got 449 00:23:13,520 --> 00:23:17,080 Speaker 1: too stressful, and you know, she wound up in porn 450 00:23:17,960 --> 00:23:19,960 Speaker 1: and and it's just like so you'll be on set 451 00:23:19,960 --> 00:23:24,320 Speaker 1: with her and she'll be talking about like all kinds 452 00:23:24,320 --> 00:23:27,359 Speaker 1: of things about the human body or or we're talking 453 00:23:27,359 --> 00:23:29,640 Speaker 1: about talent testing or something, and she's like the talent 454 00:23:29,640 --> 00:23:32,080 Speaker 1: testingat and they do this and this this is how 455 00:23:32,119 --> 00:23:34,080 Speaker 1: they check your blood and they separate the blood from 456 00:23:34,119 --> 00:23:36,360 Speaker 1: the plasma and all this stuff. I'm like, wow, that's amazing, 457 00:23:36,840 --> 00:23:40,119 Speaker 1: and it's it's cool and she just knew all of 458 00:23:40,119 --> 00:23:43,359 Speaker 1: these different things. And I think that especially now in 459 00:23:43,440 --> 00:23:45,800 Speaker 1: this day and age where anybody could make their own 460 00:23:45,800 --> 00:23:49,440 Speaker 1: porn with their phone, you find people quite a few, 461 00:23:50,320 --> 00:23:53,320 Speaker 1: you know, you know, like since anybody can do that, 462 00:23:53,560 --> 00:23:56,240 Speaker 1: it's opened up the industry to even more people with 463 00:23:56,600 --> 00:24:02,200 Speaker 1: from even more ranges of like connect pal um and 464 00:24:02,240 --> 00:24:04,800 Speaker 1: just all of these little apps that allow people to 465 00:24:04,880 --> 00:24:11,440 Speaker 1: subscribe to subscribe to only fans dot com slash. So, 466 00:24:12,240 --> 00:24:15,600 Speaker 1: aside from the misconception and the stigma surrounding it, how 467 00:24:15,720 --> 00:24:19,399 Speaker 1: is dating um? And I guess this can see also 468 00:24:19,480 --> 00:24:23,640 Speaker 1: into you being polyamorous, are open to that? So how 469 00:24:23,720 --> 00:24:28,399 Speaker 1: is dating while being in the sex industry? Is it impossible? 470 00:24:28,680 --> 00:24:31,840 Speaker 1: Is harder? I don't think it's impossible, But I find 471 00:24:31,880 --> 00:24:36,320 Speaker 1: myself very much not dating civilians for the most part, 472 00:24:37,480 --> 00:24:40,399 Speaker 1: someone who's not in the industry. My sister who's in 473 00:24:40,440 --> 00:24:44,520 Speaker 1: the army. I'm like, don't call it civilians, but in 474 00:24:44,560 --> 00:24:47,560 Speaker 1: the in the sense of, you know, I've probably been 475 00:24:47,560 --> 00:24:50,720 Speaker 1: tested within the last month more than most people have 476 00:24:50,800 --> 00:24:54,679 Speaker 1: in the last five years. Most people do not get tested, 477 00:24:55,520 --> 00:24:58,960 Speaker 1: And to me, it's like I don't want to ruin 478 00:24:59,080 --> 00:25:03,040 Speaker 1: my career, right, you know, So that's very important to me. 479 00:25:03,160 --> 00:25:05,560 Speaker 1: And then also just just how when you get to 480 00:25:05,600 --> 00:25:09,160 Speaker 1: those stigmas where And it's funny, I actually get more 481 00:25:09,200 --> 00:25:12,400 Speaker 1: stigmas for being polyamorous than I do for being imporn. 482 00:25:12,640 --> 00:25:14,360 Speaker 1: But the main one from porn that I get when 483 00:25:14,359 --> 00:25:16,440 Speaker 1: I meet women is that they somehow have to save 484 00:25:16,520 --> 00:25:19,439 Speaker 1: me from being important. That sounds like men trying to 485 00:25:19,440 --> 00:25:21,639 Speaker 1: save strippers. Yeah, and I'll be I'll be like, I 486 00:25:21,680 --> 00:25:26,160 Speaker 1: don't want to be saved. So okay, so you're not 487 00:25:26,600 --> 00:25:30,080 Speaker 1: currently looking because you are in a polyamorous relationship? Correct 488 00:25:30,600 --> 00:25:34,280 Speaker 1: looking for? Like? I guess, like, how does that work? Yeah? 489 00:25:34,320 --> 00:25:37,840 Speaker 1: So I guess breakdown because we have so I'm into 490 00:25:37,960 --> 00:25:40,040 Speaker 1: kind of the swinger lifestyle. That's kind of what I 491 00:25:40,040 --> 00:25:44,240 Speaker 1: would prefer, and Wheezy is in some sort of open relationship. 492 00:25:44,359 --> 00:25:48,000 Speaker 1: We've been taggling as far as what exactly it is 493 00:25:48,480 --> 00:25:53,679 Speaker 1: um in comparison to I guess polyamory. So can you 494 00:25:53,720 --> 00:25:57,200 Speaker 1: break down for our listeners what polyamory is and then 495 00:25:57,200 --> 00:25:59,720 Speaker 1: how it works from the male perspective, because we have 496 00:25:59,800 --> 00:26:03,160 Speaker 1: yet to have a male on here who's polyamorous. Well, 497 00:26:03,200 --> 00:26:08,399 Speaker 1: polyamory just basically breaks down to loving more than one person. 498 00:26:09,560 --> 00:26:12,840 Speaker 1: So I believe for myself, and this isn't something that 499 00:26:13,200 --> 00:26:15,800 Speaker 1: you know, I think all humans or whatever like. For me, 500 00:26:16,000 --> 00:26:18,280 Speaker 1: I'm just the type of person I like to get 501 00:26:18,320 --> 00:26:20,840 Speaker 1: to know. I like to get to know people. I 502 00:26:20,960 --> 00:26:24,680 Speaker 1: like to meet women and like really know them, which 503 00:26:24,960 --> 00:26:27,359 Speaker 1: you know, if I've done swinging thing, and swinging is 504 00:26:27,400 --> 00:26:30,359 Speaker 1: cool for me to you know, my partner Jasmine is 505 00:26:30,359 --> 00:26:34,199 Speaker 1: more of a swinger. I'm Polly, so I'm more like 506 00:26:34,320 --> 00:26:36,560 Speaker 1: you know, I'll go out on dates or go hang 507 00:26:36,560 --> 00:26:38,600 Speaker 1: out with people that I like or whatever, and I 508 00:26:38,600 --> 00:26:40,440 Speaker 1: guess I'll break that down road and if we are, 509 00:26:40,600 --> 00:26:42,840 Speaker 1: and if we are, if we're really digging each other, 510 00:26:42,880 --> 00:26:45,840 Speaker 1: then there is a possibility for having a relationship with 511 00:26:45,840 --> 00:26:49,359 Speaker 1: that person. So Jazz, on the other hand, when you 512 00:26:49,400 --> 00:26:52,199 Speaker 1: say she's more into swinging, she's not looking for that 513 00:26:52,320 --> 00:26:56,320 Speaker 1: emotional connection as as you are, which I guess to 514 00:26:56,359 --> 00:26:58,760 Speaker 1: break down to our listeners, that's the kind of difference 515 00:26:58,800 --> 00:27:02,359 Speaker 1: between the swinging and the amory is these people, not 516 00:27:02,480 --> 00:27:06,240 Speaker 1: only are you engaging in sexual activity with, you do 517 00:27:06,680 --> 00:27:09,439 Speaker 1: want to know them and like them personally. As far 518 00:27:09,480 --> 00:27:11,960 Speaker 1: as swinging, you're just like, Okay, well fucking I don't 519 00:27:11,960 --> 00:27:13,399 Speaker 1: care to know your I don't want to know anything 520 00:27:13,440 --> 00:27:15,879 Speaker 1: about you. I think from I think for me also 521 00:27:15,880 --> 00:27:20,440 Speaker 1: because you know, I started off like going to swingers 522 00:27:20,440 --> 00:27:22,439 Speaker 1: clubs and all that kind of stuff. But it's like 523 00:27:22,520 --> 00:27:26,439 Speaker 1: now that now that I'm shooting more films, it's like 524 00:27:26,520 --> 00:27:28,840 Speaker 1: that aspect of like, hey, hello, how are you. We 525 00:27:29,240 --> 00:27:31,240 Speaker 1: get it in and we're gone. Like I get that 526 00:27:31,280 --> 00:27:33,720 Speaker 1: from work. So like, if I'm going to spend time 527 00:27:33,760 --> 00:27:36,159 Speaker 1: with somebody, you know, I'm not really just trying to 528 00:27:36,480 --> 00:27:39,119 Speaker 1: jump into bed with them, because you know, I just 529 00:27:39,240 --> 00:27:44,120 Speaker 1: also have this thing now where it's like I get 530 00:27:44,200 --> 00:27:48,040 Speaker 1: satisfied on that aspect of getting to know the person. Yeah, 531 00:27:48,240 --> 00:27:51,359 Speaker 1: I actually I like that getting to know somebody level. 532 00:27:51,480 --> 00:27:53,960 Speaker 1: So if we have a lot of male listeners, and 533 00:27:54,000 --> 00:27:57,000 Speaker 1: I'm sure they all have this mindset too, then maybe 534 00:27:57,040 --> 00:27:59,199 Speaker 1: they want to get to know multiple women, not all 535 00:27:59,240 --> 00:28:02,160 Speaker 1: of them. I know, I know some. I think that's 536 00:28:02,160 --> 00:28:06,879 Speaker 1: a misconception as well, that all men want. Yeah, I know, 537 00:28:07,040 --> 00:28:09,280 Speaker 1: I know a lot of men that are like strictly 538 00:28:09,320 --> 00:28:12,360 Speaker 1: monogamous and happy momous for the for the men that. 539 00:28:12,480 --> 00:28:15,800 Speaker 1: But but I also know a lot of polyamorous women, 540 00:28:16,280 --> 00:28:18,679 Speaker 1: you know, So I think that I think it's a 541 00:28:18,720 --> 00:28:21,879 Speaker 1: misconception to just group men are this way, women are this. 542 00:28:22,520 --> 00:28:25,760 Speaker 1: I think that it's just society wise, it's accepted for 543 00:28:25,800 --> 00:28:28,159 Speaker 1: men to be like that and women aren't. Women are 544 00:28:28,160 --> 00:28:30,040 Speaker 1: looked at differently if they're like that. So if a 545 00:28:30,080 --> 00:28:32,760 Speaker 1: man wanted to try this for the first time, I 546 00:28:32,840 --> 00:28:35,480 Speaker 1: feel like maybe he feels like he really relates to 547 00:28:35,520 --> 00:28:38,680 Speaker 1: you and everything you're saying, how should he approach a woman? 548 00:28:39,320 --> 00:28:41,400 Speaker 1: How do you approach women? To let them know that 549 00:28:41,880 --> 00:28:45,640 Speaker 1: honestly and just but most people don't know. Most people 550 00:28:45,680 --> 00:28:49,680 Speaker 1: are honest, whether it's monogamy, polyamory, swinging, most people are 551 00:28:49,760 --> 00:28:55,160 Speaker 1: lying the asshole. So I think if you're polyamorous, for one, 552 00:28:55,960 --> 00:28:58,440 Speaker 1: you have to be honest with yourself in the sense 553 00:28:58,520 --> 00:29:02,400 Speaker 1: of can you also have your partner go out and 554 00:29:02,520 --> 00:29:05,040 Speaker 1: date other people and sleep with other people? Because it's 555 00:29:05,040 --> 00:29:07,440 Speaker 1: not polyamory if you and if you out there dating 556 00:29:07,440 --> 00:29:11,280 Speaker 1: everybody and you're forcing your your significant other to only 557 00:29:11,320 --> 00:29:15,680 Speaker 1: be with you, you're just an asshole. Now you're just 558 00:29:15,760 --> 00:29:20,959 Speaker 1: an So from the other perspective, um, what is normally 559 00:29:20,960 --> 00:29:23,560 Speaker 1: the reaction when you're meeting women, You have to let 560 00:29:23,560 --> 00:29:25,840 Speaker 1: them know I do have a partner, but my partner 561 00:29:25,880 --> 00:29:29,440 Speaker 1: allows me to have other partners. What is kind of 562 00:29:29,480 --> 00:29:33,160 Speaker 1: the exchange when that happens, you let them know where 563 00:29:33,160 --> 00:29:34,760 Speaker 1: I say, yeah, I let them know up front, because 564 00:29:34,760 --> 00:29:37,080 Speaker 1: I don't want to waste my time, because you don't 565 00:29:37,080 --> 00:29:39,680 Speaker 1: want to get like down the road and you're like, oh, 566 00:29:39,720 --> 00:29:43,480 Speaker 1: by the way. That's one of the things that I 567 00:29:43,520 --> 00:29:47,320 Speaker 1: think is is problematic and why you know people wind 568 00:29:47,360 --> 00:29:49,960 Speaker 1: up in these cheating situations because they're being sneaky with 569 00:29:50,000 --> 00:29:54,800 Speaker 1: who they are. I think this is where I run 570 00:29:54,840 --> 00:29:57,480 Speaker 1: into a lot of the a lot of the things 571 00:29:57,480 --> 00:29:59,239 Speaker 1: because I don't I don't really date as much as 572 00:29:59,280 --> 00:30:03,360 Speaker 1: I used to because I'm super busy with work and 573 00:30:03,400 --> 00:30:06,880 Speaker 1: all this other stuff. So meeting somebody is very specific 574 00:30:06,920 --> 00:30:09,360 Speaker 1: to me, Like I know what I'm looking for in 575 00:30:09,400 --> 00:30:11,880 Speaker 1: a in a in a person. So you know, if 576 00:30:11,880 --> 00:30:13,840 Speaker 1: I meet a woman and tell her that, usually if 577 00:30:13,840 --> 00:30:16,640 Speaker 1: their response is some kind of uh as if they're 578 00:30:16,640 --> 00:30:19,600 Speaker 1: going to be in a competition with my partner, then 579 00:30:19,800 --> 00:30:24,040 Speaker 1: now I'm good, I'm walking away from that. Or if 580 00:30:24,040 --> 00:30:28,040 Speaker 1: they I think most most women don't get past a 581 00:30:28,040 --> 00:30:32,240 Speaker 1: certain point because they don't see that it is to 582 00:30:32,360 --> 00:30:35,680 Speaker 1: me like an inclusive thing. It's not, and it's it's 583 00:30:36,040 --> 00:30:38,120 Speaker 1: I don't want the women to have an issue with 584 00:30:38,160 --> 00:30:40,840 Speaker 1: one another, because you know, if Jasmine was dating somebody, 585 00:30:40,880 --> 00:30:42,280 Speaker 1: I don't want to have a problem with do like, 586 00:30:42,280 --> 00:30:45,200 Speaker 1: we should be cool? You know, they shouldn't not saying 587 00:30:45,240 --> 00:30:47,840 Speaker 1: we got to hang out and ship, but it should 588 00:30:47,880 --> 00:30:51,320 Speaker 1: be at least respectable, because if not, then how are 589 00:30:51,320 --> 00:30:54,320 Speaker 1: you honoring the relationship that I'm already in. So there 590 00:30:54,360 --> 00:30:56,720 Speaker 1: has to be a respect and an honor for the 591 00:30:56,760 --> 00:30:59,920 Speaker 1: relationship I already have, and if and if it can't happen, 592 00:31:00,040 --> 00:31:02,360 Speaker 1: then it won't happen. So when I speak to a 593 00:31:02,400 --> 00:31:06,520 Speaker 1: lot of men on this um, they do exactly what 594 00:31:06,560 --> 00:31:10,200 Speaker 1: you said. They think that they want this open relationship 595 00:31:10,280 --> 00:31:14,640 Speaker 1: or polyamory um relationship. But they're like, but she can't 596 00:31:14,640 --> 00:31:16,880 Speaker 1: fuck other guys. She can fun girls maybe, but not 597 00:31:16,960 --> 00:31:22,200 Speaker 1: other guys. Mentally, where are you with allowing? I guess 598 00:31:22,360 --> 00:31:24,200 Speaker 1: I would say, how does it work? Yet? How do 599 00:31:24,880 --> 00:31:27,320 Speaker 1: any human being to do what they do? I am 600 00:31:27,360 --> 00:31:31,479 Speaker 1: not interested in owning, controlling, or telling anybody what to do, 601 00:31:31,560 --> 00:31:35,040 Speaker 1: except when we are in a domb subsituation. But in 602 00:31:35,080 --> 00:31:38,360 Speaker 1: your everyday life, that's your business and you should do 603 00:31:38,480 --> 00:31:41,240 Speaker 1: what makes you happy. And I want to I want 604 00:31:41,240 --> 00:31:43,280 Speaker 1: to see a partner. I want to see my partner 605 00:31:43,680 --> 00:31:47,360 Speaker 1: happy as she can be, regardless of whether we have 606 00:31:47,480 --> 00:31:50,360 Speaker 1: been dating for years, we committed, or we just met. 607 00:31:50,400 --> 00:31:53,880 Speaker 1: I want that person to be happy. And I for me, 608 00:31:54,000 --> 00:31:58,760 Speaker 1: I don't think that one human at all times can 609 00:31:58,760 --> 00:32:02,760 Speaker 1: fulfill everything another. So and and this and this is 610 00:32:02,880 --> 00:32:05,760 Speaker 1: and this is where the poly aspect is different, because 611 00:32:05,800 --> 00:32:08,920 Speaker 1: I don't think it's just about sex. It's about just 612 00:32:09,000 --> 00:32:12,560 Speaker 1: in general, Like there's certain people like me and you 613 00:32:12,640 --> 00:32:15,360 Speaker 1: might vibe on something like really, well, we're just like yo. 614 00:32:15,480 --> 00:32:17,200 Speaker 1: All of our music is the same. And then you 615 00:32:17,240 --> 00:32:19,400 Speaker 1: find out I don't listen to pretty Ricky, and then 616 00:32:19,840 --> 00:32:21,760 Speaker 1: you're gonna have to go to that pretty Ricky concert 617 00:32:21,800 --> 00:32:24,520 Speaker 1: with somebody else. So why why would I hate on 618 00:32:24,600 --> 00:32:27,640 Speaker 1: somebody else going to enjoy what makes you happy? You 619 00:32:27,640 --> 00:32:29,760 Speaker 1: know what I mean? Like that to me? That, to me, 620 00:32:29,880 --> 00:32:32,480 Speaker 1: that's what it is. And it's not always sexual, Like 621 00:32:32,520 --> 00:32:34,680 Speaker 1: I might meet somebody and will will be cool, and 622 00:32:34,720 --> 00:32:37,800 Speaker 1: we'll vibe and we'll have some kind of emotional connection 623 00:32:38,000 --> 00:32:42,880 Speaker 1: or intellectual connection and we don't particularly have to have sex, 624 00:32:43,760 --> 00:32:46,880 Speaker 1: but we might have an intimacy with our conversation, or 625 00:32:46,920 --> 00:32:50,000 Speaker 1: we might have an intimacy with you know, just the 626 00:32:50,040 --> 00:32:53,320 Speaker 1: time we spend together. It doesn't exactly have to be 627 00:32:53,360 --> 00:32:57,040 Speaker 1: about This sounds really actually good and it makes sense. 628 00:32:57,080 --> 00:33:00,480 Speaker 1: And I actually feel like the huge problem with people 629 00:33:00,640 --> 00:33:06,280 Speaker 1: can't think this way. I guess two factors, ego and insecurity, 630 00:33:07,080 --> 00:33:10,720 Speaker 1: because I've heard a lot of guys say that it 631 00:33:10,760 --> 00:33:13,440 Speaker 1: would funk up their ego to know that they can't 632 00:33:13,480 --> 00:33:17,240 Speaker 1: fully please a woman in every aspect, whether it's sexually 633 00:33:17,360 --> 00:33:19,880 Speaker 1: or conversationally, and then to know that they have to 634 00:33:19,880 --> 00:33:22,280 Speaker 1: go out and get that from somebody else. That kind 635 00:33:22,320 --> 00:33:25,000 Speaker 1: of bothers people. And then the insecurity that they're not 636 00:33:25,280 --> 00:33:29,080 Speaker 1: perfect for this other person. But and I also don't 637 00:33:29,120 --> 00:33:33,280 Speaker 1: think that I think perfection is perfect in its imperfections. Okay, 638 00:33:33,320 --> 00:33:39,560 Speaker 1: that was just too I'm just saying, like, nobody nobody there, 639 00:33:40,120 --> 00:33:43,040 Speaker 1: nobody's nobody's perfect in the sense of like, you're not 640 00:33:43,120 --> 00:33:46,320 Speaker 1: going to find someone that likes every single thing that 641 00:33:46,400 --> 00:33:48,840 Speaker 1: you like in every single moment that you like it. 642 00:33:49,640 --> 00:33:52,160 Speaker 1: You're not going to find that. But the person that 643 00:33:52,200 --> 00:33:54,240 Speaker 1: you do find that you that you love or you 644 00:33:54,360 --> 00:33:57,640 Speaker 1: lust or you have this passionate intimate connection with, its 645 00:33:57,680 --> 00:34:00,200 Speaker 1: perfect in that moment. It's perfect in that on that 646 00:34:00,280 --> 00:34:03,880 Speaker 1: y'all are together, but like trying to think that, you know, 647 00:34:03,920 --> 00:34:08,000 Speaker 1: it's we put so much pressure. And I think someone, um, 648 00:34:08,040 --> 00:34:10,360 Speaker 1: someone I was speaking to recently says that, you know, 649 00:34:10,640 --> 00:34:16,400 Speaker 1: human beings put the highest value on intimate love with 650 00:34:16,440 --> 00:34:20,120 Speaker 1: your partners, but there's all kinds of other loves that 651 00:34:20,160 --> 00:34:23,040 Speaker 1: are out there, So enjoy all of the love and 652 00:34:23,040 --> 00:34:25,040 Speaker 1: then you won't put so much pressure on your partner 653 00:34:26,640 --> 00:34:28,720 Speaker 1: because if you go hang out with like your cousin 654 00:34:28,800 --> 00:34:30,359 Speaker 1: right now, I mean, I don't know because we talked 655 00:34:30,360 --> 00:34:35,479 Speaker 1: about we talked at cousins. Let me go ahead and 656 00:34:35,680 --> 00:34:39,759 Speaker 1: throw that out there. I'm also not into incest, but 657 00:34:39,880 --> 00:34:42,200 Speaker 1: like you know, if somebody goes to hang out with 658 00:34:42,200 --> 00:34:44,160 Speaker 1: with their family member, you still you have love for 659 00:34:44,200 --> 00:34:46,680 Speaker 1: your family. You got love for your for your people's 660 00:34:46,760 --> 00:34:50,239 Speaker 1: or whatever the case being you. If somebody was like, 661 00:34:50,280 --> 00:34:52,279 Speaker 1: I'm jealous of you're hanging out with your brother, like 662 00:34:52,560 --> 00:34:55,200 Speaker 1: what you know what I'm saying. So it's we have 663 00:34:55,320 --> 00:34:58,600 Speaker 1: but we have this thing that when somebody is in 664 00:34:58,600 --> 00:35:01,160 Speaker 1: a relationship with us, that we sess them and then 665 00:35:01,200 --> 00:35:03,520 Speaker 1: that's not that's not love anymore. So I have a 666 00:35:03,600 --> 00:35:05,560 Speaker 1: question from a listener, but I guess I'm gonna ask 667 00:35:05,600 --> 00:35:08,000 Speaker 1: you to break it down. She actually said, do you 668 00:35:08,080 --> 00:35:11,880 Speaker 1: engage in open or closed Polly relationships? Do you know 669 00:35:11,920 --> 00:35:14,120 Speaker 1: if there's a difference or what that even means? What's 670 00:35:14,120 --> 00:35:18,839 Speaker 1: the difference between an open and closed Polly relationship? She 671 00:35:18,920 --> 00:35:22,080 Speaker 1: might be specifically talking. I mean, I would think that 672 00:35:22,120 --> 00:35:26,400 Speaker 1: if you're in a Polly relationship. Okay, some people in 673 00:35:26,440 --> 00:35:31,600 Speaker 1: an open relationship like to share with their partner or 674 00:35:31,800 --> 00:35:34,520 Speaker 1: tell their partner, like X, Y and Z and other 675 00:35:34,560 --> 00:35:37,319 Speaker 1: ones that might be like, I went out, this is 676 00:35:37,360 --> 00:35:40,920 Speaker 1: the person, we did this, that's it, you know. So 677 00:35:41,000 --> 00:35:43,040 Speaker 1: maybe maybe she could mean along those lines. Okay, that 678 00:35:43,040 --> 00:35:47,719 Speaker 1: would make sense. That would absolutely make sense to me. Okay, Um, 679 00:35:47,760 --> 00:35:51,840 Speaker 1: It's funny because everybody is different. Like for me, like Jazz, 680 00:35:51,920 --> 00:35:54,520 Speaker 1: she when she shoots a scene or something like that 681 00:35:54,600 --> 00:35:56,920 Speaker 1: with somebody else, I'm like, Oh, tell me all about it, 682 00:35:58,719 --> 00:36:00,680 Speaker 1: you know. I'm like, I'm gonna go watch that ship 683 00:36:00,719 --> 00:36:02,239 Speaker 1: when that should come out or whatever, you know what 684 00:36:02,239 --> 00:36:04,919 Speaker 1: I mean. Like, I'm I'm very comfortable in that way, 685 00:36:05,360 --> 00:36:07,200 Speaker 1: But then I know other people who are probably as 686 00:36:07,280 --> 00:36:10,680 Speaker 1: like I just want to know that they're safe, even well, 687 00:36:10,719 --> 00:36:14,160 Speaker 1: even in the swinging part of things. I think that's 688 00:36:14,239 --> 00:36:16,719 Speaker 1: the thing. Like I've had guys say I can never 689 00:36:16,880 --> 00:36:19,839 Speaker 1: see you with another man, and you're sitting here saying 690 00:36:19,880 --> 00:36:22,479 Speaker 1: you want to see the scene when it's done, So yeah, 691 00:36:22,520 --> 00:36:25,799 Speaker 1: and I love it when she watched me mentally. Is 692 00:36:25,840 --> 00:36:29,480 Speaker 1: there something that you do to prepare yourself, Like if 693 00:36:29,480 --> 00:36:31,759 Speaker 1: a man did want to go to a swingers club 694 00:36:31,840 --> 00:36:34,600 Speaker 1: or engaged with a couple and there was swapping happening. 695 00:36:34,880 --> 00:36:36,919 Speaker 1: Is there anything any type of advice that you would 696 00:36:36,920 --> 00:36:38,799 Speaker 1: give a man to the same thing I said before, 697 00:36:39,000 --> 00:36:42,680 Speaker 1: be honest with yourself, you know, if if whenever you're 698 00:36:42,719 --> 00:36:45,760 Speaker 1: in any of these relationships, sit down with your partner, 699 00:36:46,040 --> 00:36:48,719 Speaker 1: have a conversation about this is what I can this 700 00:36:48,760 --> 00:36:50,440 Speaker 1: is what I can do, this is what I can't do. 701 00:36:50,520 --> 00:36:53,000 Speaker 1: This is in the middle For me, there's some gray area. 702 00:36:53,200 --> 00:36:56,040 Speaker 1: We'll see how it progresses, and how you feel sexually 703 00:36:56,080 --> 00:36:58,799 Speaker 1: today might not be how you feel sexually a month 704 00:36:58,880 --> 00:37:01,600 Speaker 1: or a year from that. Like, sex is something that's 705 00:37:01,600 --> 00:37:04,520 Speaker 1: constantly evolving, and that's one of the good things about 706 00:37:05,000 --> 00:37:07,839 Speaker 1: just being alive and trying new ship, you know. So 707 00:37:08,640 --> 00:37:12,720 Speaker 1: I would say, if you know you can't, don't pretend 708 00:37:12,719 --> 00:37:15,000 Speaker 1: that you can't, you know, especially when it comes to 709 00:37:15,040 --> 00:37:19,160 Speaker 1: seeing seeing your partner with somebody, and it's another thing, 710 00:37:19,200 --> 00:37:21,759 Speaker 1: Like it's funny because all this always leads to like, 711 00:37:21,880 --> 00:37:26,400 Speaker 1: um horrible threesome uh stories that I've heard from people 712 00:37:26,400 --> 00:37:29,360 Speaker 1: where it's like, yeah, I was so into it until 713 00:37:29,440 --> 00:37:32,239 Speaker 1: I realized like she really really liked eating pussy and 714 00:37:32,360 --> 00:37:36,080 Speaker 1: I was just sitting there by myself. It's so funny 715 00:37:36,080 --> 00:37:38,640 Speaker 1: because I think that that happens a lot with with threeasons, 716 00:37:38,719 --> 00:37:40,879 Speaker 1: where they think they're ready mentally, and then when they're 717 00:37:40,920 --> 00:37:43,879 Speaker 1: putting into the situation, it's just like what am I doing? 718 00:37:43,880 --> 00:37:45,080 Speaker 1: What am I doing? What am I doing? What am 719 00:37:45,080 --> 00:37:48,399 Speaker 1: I doing? Has anything that could you think of any 720 00:37:48,480 --> 00:37:51,759 Speaker 1: crazy stories or anything that kind of rings about it, 721 00:37:52,120 --> 00:37:55,399 Speaker 1: Maybe when that happened like a crazy threesome story, either 722 00:37:55,520 --> 00:37:57,600 Speaker 1: that or when you went to a couple and they 723 00:37:57,640 --> 00:37:59,640 Speaker 1: thought they wanted to do the fattest training and then 724 00:37:59,640 --> 00:38:06,800 Speaker 1: it turned kind of awkward. We vet people pretty well 725 00:38:06,960 --> 00:38:10,360 Speaker 1: because it is such a personal like we we do 726 00:38:10,440 --> 00:38:14,640 Speaker 1: consultation calls and all that, because sometimes people think they 727 00:38:14,680 --> 00:38:16,719 Speaker 1: want something they don't. But I will say this, I 728 00:38:16,760 --> 00:38:20,600 Speaker 1: was in the weirdest threesome. It was like I was 729 00:38:20,640 --> 00:38:22,360 Speaker 1: just talking about this with my brother. So like, I 730 00:38:22,400 --> 00:38:25,080 Speaker 1: have I have met this woman and she was like, yo, 731 00:38:25,360 --> 00:38:27,560 Speaker 1: it was this like years years and years ago, and 732 00:38:27,600 --> 00:38:30,120 Speaker 1: she was like trying to like trying to get it 733 00:38:30,160 --> 00:38:32,279 Speaker 1: in or whatever. So like I showed up at a 734 00:38:32,400 --> 00:38:37,200 Speaker 1: house and she was like, so this is the situation. 735 00:38:37,400 --> 00:38:41,719 Speaker 1: My man's in jail, he knows about you, he's on 736 00:38:41,760 --> 00:38:44,480 Speaker 1: the phone, and he wants to be on the phone 737 00:38:44,480 --> 00:38:56,360 Speaker 1: the whole time while we sucking. Wait. Wait seriously, I 738 00:38:56,400 --> 00:38:58,360 Speaker 1: mean I didn't. I didn't know what I was getting 739 00:38:58,400 --> 00:39:01,319 Speaker 1: into when I got there. I mean there was three 740 00:39:01,360 --> 00:39:05,600 Speaker 1: people involved. I mean he was he was via collect 741 00:39:05,640 --> 00:39:08,880 Speaker 1: call from jail. But like it was, it was, it 742 00:39:08,960 --> 00:39:11,799 Speaker 1: was different like to me this That's another thing, And 743 00:39:11,800 --> 00:39:13,799 Speaker 1: that's why I'm using this as an example. There are 744 00:39:13,840 --> 00:39:17,279 Speaker 1: many ways to have a threesome. You don't have to specifically, 745 00:39:17,840 --> 00:39:21,080 Speaker 1: you don't specifically have to you don't specifically have to 746 00:39:21,120 --> 00:39:23,839 Speaker 1: do the positions that you always see in movies or whatever. 747 00:39:23,960 --> 00:39:26,640 Speaker 1: Like when you have your threesome, you might want to 748 00:39:26,960 --> 00:39:31,920 Speaker 1: go in steps. You might want to start with kissing 749 00:39:31,920 --> 00:39:35,120 Speaker 1: and oral before you ever do penetration. Because just as 750 00:39:35,200 --> 00:39:37,440 Speaker 1: some men get jealous of their women, some women get 751 00:39:37,520 --> 00:39:40,480 Speaker 1: jealous watching their man have sex with somebody else. So 752 00:39:40,520 --> 00:39:43,200 Speaker 1: at least if you were like, I'm stopping this right 753 00:39:43,280 --> 00:39:45,960 Speaker 1: now while y'are kissing, it's not gonna be the worst 754 00:39:45,960 --> 00:39:48,040 Speaker 1: thing in the world. So, I mean, but this was 755 00:39:48,080 --> 00:39:49,799 Speaker 1: to me, I have to I have to get a 756 00:39:49,840 --> 00:39:53,680 Speaker 1: brother some credit. Like that's some creative way, you know, 757 00:39:53,719 --> 00:39:56,880 Speaker 1: that was a creative way to to be there for 758 00:39:57,000 --> 00:39:59,960 Speaker 1: your wife or whatever their relationship was. But it was 759 00:40:00,520 --> 00:40:02,160 Speaker 1: it was just it was just so bugged to me 760 00:40:02,200 --> 00:40:04,240 Speaker 1: because it was like I didn't know this was gonna happen. 761 00:40:04,360 --> 00:40:05,920 Speaker 1: So it was just like in the moment, I'm like, 762 00:40:05,960 --> 00:40:13,000 Speaker 1: what that is? Actually, that's really funny. UM. So I 763 00:40:13,000 --> 00:40:17,759 Speaker 1: guess we're gonna segue this into our homemail. So what 764 00:40:17,840 --> 00:40:21,960 Speaker 1: we do is we ask our lovely whores who listened 765 00:40:22,000 --> 00:40:25,360 Speaker 1: to us to send us letters, um, either asking for 766 00:40:25,400 --> 00:40:29,279 Speaker 1: advice or telling us something that's going on with them. Um. 767 00:40:29,320 --> 00:40:31,480 Speaker 1: And I thought that this would be a great one 768 00:40:31,680 --> 00:40:34,560 Speaker 1: to ask you. UM. So oh, by the way, if 769 00:40:34,560 --> 00:40:37,239 Speaker 1: you guys do want to send in your homemail, you 770 00:40:37,239 --> 00:40:40,240 Speaker 1: can send it to us at Horrible Decisions at gmail 771 00:40:40,280 --> 00:40:43,120 Speaker 1: dot com or d m U S. But y'all, y'all 772 00:40:43,160 --> 00:40:47,400 Speaker 1: becoming our friends so between the memes, the letters, the 773 00:40:47,520 --> 00:40:51,160 Speaker 1: thank you's, and the responses to our I G stories, 774 00:40:51,440 --> 00:40:54,040 Speaker 1: we can't keep up with the letters. So guys, please 775 00:40:54,080 --> 00:40:56,960 Speaker 1: send your letters to the email. It's much easier for 776 00:40:57,040 --> 00:41:01,680 Speaker 1: us to access. UM. So this is our homemale for 777 00:41:01,719 --> 00:41:04,839 Speaker 1: this show. It says, hi, ladies right now, it's only 778 00:41:04,840 --> 00:41:08,040 Speaker 1: one lady. Hey girl. I am in my mid twenties 779 00:41:08,080 --> 00:41:11,160 Speaker 1: living in Jersey. I have been right, shout out right, 780 00:41:11,560 --> 00:41:14,560 Speaker 1: you're from there. Um. I have been in a relationship 781 00:41:14,600 --> 00:41:16,640 Speaker 1: with my man for three and a half years. We 782 00:41:16,719 --> 00:41:20,400 Speaker 1: have pretty good sex, but I have a huge problem. 783 00:41:20,440 --> 00:41:23,680 Speaker 1: I have some hormone issues. Luckily it's not too serious, 784 00:41:24,000 --> 00:41:26,960 Speaker 1: but my hormones caused me to have a very very 785 00:41:27,000 --> 00:41:30,400 Speaker 1: low slash non existent sex drive for most of the 786 00:41:30,440 --> 00:41:34,360 Speaker 1: month during my period. My sex drive is way higher, 787 00:41:34,360 --> 00:41:36,839 Speaker 1: but I would prefer not to funk on my period, yes, girl, 788 00:41:36,880 --> 00:41:40,680 Speaker 1: because that is a bloody mess. My man. No, I 789 00:41:40,760 --> 00:41:43,960 Speaker 1: hate bloody sex. My man knows about this, and he 790 00:41:44,000 --> 00:41:46,359 Speaker 1: never forces me to do anything I don't want to do. 791 00:41:46,719 --> 00:41:49,160 Speaker 1: But I also know a man has needs. I want 792 00:41:49,160 --> 00:41:51,520 Speaker 1: to funk him more often, but it's hard to get 793 00:41:51,560 --> 00:41:54,440 Speaker 1: into it when my drive is so low. Sometimes I 794 00:41:54,440 --> 00:41:57,120 Speaker 1: watch porn when we're engaging to get me going. I 795 00:41:57,120 --> 00:41:59,320 Speaker 1: don't want to do this every time we have sex. 796 00:41:59,640 --> 00:42:01,839 Speaker 1: Do you have any suggestions as to how I can 797 00:42:01,880 --> 00:42:05,319 Speaker 1: get my sex drive up? And are there any afrodesiacs 798 00:42:05,360 --> 00:42:07,719 Speaker 1: that you guys know that actually work? Please get back 799 00:42:07,719 --> 00:42:12,040 Speaker 1: to me. Thanks. I love y'all. That's a good question. 800 00:42:12,040 --> 00:42:21,360 Speaker 1: Good question, right, I would say, don't don't spare the romance. Actually, 801 00:42:22,000 --> 00:42:25,000 Speaker 1: I mean just in the sense of I think a 802 00:42:25,000 --> 00:42:26,960 Speaker 1: lot of times when when we think about being in 803 00:42:26,960 --> 00:42:30,120 Speaker 1: the mood, it's being like put on the spot, especially 804 00:42:30,120 --> 00:42:33,359 Speaker 1: if she has hormonal issues and things like that. Just 805 00:42:33,680 --> 00:42:36,560 Speaker 1: try to make it something that lasts. It doesn't exactly 806 00:42:36,600 --> 00:42:41,120 Speaker 1: always have to end in penetrative sex. There's other ways 807 00:42:41,160 --> 00:42:45,120 Speaker 1: that you can please him. There's other ways that y'all 808 00:42:45,160 --> 00:42:48,200 Speaker 1: can keep that fire going instead of just kind of 809 00:42:48,239 --> 00:42:51,040 Speaker 1: like cold turkey, like, hey, hey, I'm not in the mood. 810 00:42:51,920 --> 00:42:55,200 Speaker 1: You know. Um, I think I think that that works. Definitely, 811 00:42:56,520 --> 00:42:59,239 Speaker 1: have him, you know, work at turning you on, right, 812 00:42:59,280 --> 00:43:01,160 Speaker 1: And I guess that kind don't want to add a 813 00:43:01,280 --> 00:43:03,839 Speaker 1: question in there that relates to this, What about when 814 00:43:04,640 --> 00:43:06,560 Speaker 1: you're maybe not done? What do you do if you 815 00:43:06,600 --> 00:43:10,759 Speaker 1: have a partner who comes and then doesn't get back 816 00:43:10,800 --> 00:43:12,919 Speaker 1: hard again, but you haven't been pleased. I know you're 817 00:43:12,920 --> 00:43:15,719 Speaker 1: really into pleasing um. But as a female I feel 818 00:43:15,760 --> 00:43:18,799 Speaker 1: like that's happened to me sometimes where I feel like 819 00:43:18,840 --> 00:43:21,239 Speaker 1: even after sex, I'm gonna go home or I have 820 00:43:21,280 --> 00:43:24,200 Speaker 1: to masturbate to come, and I don't like the feeling 821 00:43:24,239 --> 00:43:28,520 Speaker 1: where I'm not even being pleasure during sex. So for this, 822 00:43:28,520 --> 00:43:30,920 Speaker 1: this is a sex drive issue. But what about for 823 00:43:30,960 --> 00:43:33,359 Speaker 1: a man who can't keep up with your sex drive 824 00:43:33,400 --> 00:43:36,600 Speaker 1: and they're giving you sex, they're just not giving you enough. Well, 825 00:43:36,640 --> 00:43:38,759 Speaker 1: I mean there's other things you could use besides your dick. 826 00:43:39,440 --> 00:43:41,600 Speaker 1: You know, you got a tongue, You've got hands, you've 827 00:43:41,600 --> 00:43:44,440 Speaker 1: got fingers, there's all kinds of toys out there. I 828 00:43:44,480 --> 00:43:47,239 Speaker 1: think that a lot of times when I speak to 829 00:43:47,280 --> 00:43:50,799 Speaker 1: women who have issues with their partner pleasing them, it's 830 00:43:50,840 --> 00:43:54,040 Speaker 1: that once he busts, that nut is over, which is 831 00:43:54,080 --> 00:43:56,600 Speaker 1: a lot of guys like just pick up and leave 832 00:43:56,760 --> 00:44:01,439 Speaker 1: or go to Yes. Also, it's like, if you know 833 00:44:01,880 --> 00:44:04,319 Speaker 1: that you have like a time limit on your nut, 834 00:44:05,080 --> 00:44:10,120 Speaker 1: then more for play or you know, stop and start 835 00:44:10,239 --> 00:44:12,920 Speaker 1: and take your time. I think that that's I think 836 00:44:12,960 --> 00:44:15,439 Speaker 1: that's one thing, especially if if you're somebody who gets 837 00:44:15,520 --> 00:44:18,759 Speaker 1: really excited. It's a way to kind of calm that 838 00:44:18,840 --> 00:44:22,440 Speaker 1: down a little bit, is you know if you most men, 839 00:44:22,480 --> 00:44:26,960 Speaker 1: I would think, no, that that feeling you get like 840 00:44:27,080 --> 00:44:29,279 Speaker 1: right before you about to like yeo, if I do 841 00:44:29,320 --> 00:44:32,680 Speaker 1: two more strokes, it's over, you know. And when you 842 00:44:32,800 --> 00:44:34,719 Speaker 1: and when you get that feeling, that's when you fall 843 00:44:34,719 --> 00:44:36,839 Speaker 1: back a little. God, you know, use your hands, use 844 00:44:36,880 --> 00:44:39,839 Speaker 1: your tongue, kiss huh, find other things to do and 845 00:44:39,880 --> 00:44:42,200 Speaker 1: play with so that way, you know your body will 846 00:44:42,239 --> 00:44:44,360 Speaker 1: calm down again because it will do so and you 847 00:44:44,400 --> 00:44:47,319 Speaker 1: can get right back to it. Okay, So I have 848 00:44:47,360 --> 00:44:50,560 Speaker 1: another question, um, and then this will be it for 849 00:44:50,600 --> 00:44:52,520 Speaker 1: the home mail. But I feel like we had to 850 00:44:52,520 --> 00:44:54,719 Speaker 1: catch up on it. Um. So this is the second one. 851 00:44:54,760 --> 00:44:57,640 Speaker 1: This is kind of different, kind of the same. UM. 852 00:44:57,680 --> 00:45:00,600 Speaker 1: I also want to shout out all of the fucking 853 00:45:00,719 --> 00:45:04,120 Speaker 1: virgins that listen to us, y'all are in the real image. 854 00:45:04,640 --> 00:45:07,239 Speaker 1: We get so many versions that write into us and 855 00:45:07,280 --> 00:45:11,040 Speaker 1: it's just like what you want to listen to us 856 00:45:11,040 --> 00:45:12,960 Speaker 1: talk about sex and you haven't even done yet. So 857 00:45:13,200 --> 00:45:15,799 Speaker 1: this is a letter from a virgin. They might be 858 00:45:15,840 --> 00:45:18,840 Speaker 1: getting some ideas or you know, can masturbate to this 859 00:45:18,880 --> 00:45:21,480 Speaker 1: show so they don't have to go out there. The 860 00:45:21,520 --> 00:45:24,520 Speaker 1: fact that people may be masturbating to us definitely creased 861 00:45:24,520 --> 00:45:26,239 Speaker 1: me out a little bit. But this is this is 862 00:45:26,280 --> 00:45:29,239 Speaker 1: this one. Hello, ladies. I'm a twenty two year old 863 00:45:29,400 --> 00:45:32,680 Speaker 1: virgin woman, and I have this major issue with sex. 864 00:45:33,160 --> 00:45:36,400 Speaker 1: I'm not into anything. I'm not into anything vanilla except 865 00:45:36,440 --> 00:45:42,360 Speaker 1: for white dick. I'm I'm into both men and women 866 00:45:42,400 --> 00:45:46,120 Speaker 1: in different ways. I'm romantically attracted to women but sexually 867 00:45:46,160 --> 00:45:49,560 Speaker 1: attracted to men. UM. That doesn't mean I don't find 868 00:45:49,600 --> 00:45:52,799 Speaker 1: women sexy. I just wouldn't fuck one, though I am 869 00:45:52,880 --> 00:45:56,080 Speaker 1: capable of falling in love with one, probably amory, maybe 870 00:45:56,080 --> 00:45:58,480 Speaker 1: a thing for her UM. When it comes to getting 871 00:45:58,520 --> 00:46:01,400 Speaker 1: sexual with a guy, we just us doing all types 872 00:46:01,440 --> 00:46:05,400 Speaker 1: of taboo stuff. The more perverted and taboo a man is, 873 00:46:05,680 --> 00:46:08,640 Speaker 1: the more turned on I get. After sexting a guy 874 00:46:08,719 --> 00:46:11,400 Speaker 1: for some time and finally meeting when it's time to 875 00:46:11,440 --> 00:46:13,920 Speaker 1: get down, I lose my arousal and I have to 876 00:46:14,000 --> 00:46:17,759 Speaker 1: leave due to my sudden lack of disinterest? What is 877 00:46:17,800 --> 00:46:20,880 Speaker 1: wrong with me? Love Love loved the podcast with you, ladies, 878 00:46:20,920 --> 00:46:25,200 Speaker 1: all of the suck sas so we actually responded to 879 00:46:25,200 --> 00:46:29,600 Speaker 1: her because she wanted to get um people sometimes use 880 00:46:29,680 --> 00:46:32,640 Speaker 1: taboo and weird and they're talking about spitting in someone's mouth. 881 00:46:32,880 --> 00:46:35,560 Speaker 1: So we actually um wrote back to her because we 882 00:46:35,600 --> 00:46:38,280 Speaker 1: wanted to know what level of taboo and weird sex 883 00:46:38,640 --> 00:46:41,040 Speaker 1: she actually was turned on by. And she said to 884 00:46:41,120 --> 00:46:45,480 Speaker 1: name a to name a few rape play incests, play 885 00:46:45,680 --> 00:46:50,359 Speaker 1: age play, Omurashi, don't know what that is, exhibitionism, an 886 00:46:50,880 --> 00:46:56,600 Speaker 1: anonymous encounters, pegging, and leash and neck I guess BDSM. 887 00:46:56,640 --> 00:46:59,839 Speaker 1: So those are definitely um taboo things. I feel like 888 00:47:00,040 --> 00:47:03,160 Speaker 1: even feel like that's taboo. I mean, I guess they 889 00:47:03,480 --> 00:47:06,680 Speaker 1: file the incest and the rape and the play and 890 00:47:06,719 --> 00:47:10,040 Speaker 1: even pegging. To me, that's kind of not normal. I 891 00:47:10,480 --> 00:47:12,359 Speaker 1: hate to use the normal not normal thing. And now 892 00:47:12,920 --> 00:47:15,239 Speaker 1: I'm just so, I guess immersed in this world and 893 00:47:15,400 --> 00:47:17,359 Speaker 1: it's like I hear about all this ship every day. 894 00:47:17,560 --> 00:47:23,120 Speaker 1: But I think when she gets into the actual setting, 895 00:47:23,200 --> 00:47:28,799 Speaker 1: I wonder if that conversation she was having that turned 896 00:47:28,800 --> 00:47:30,920 Speaker 1: her on in the first place is still continuing them, 897 00:47:31,840 --> 00:47:34,439 Speaker 1: because if it's like it's it if you just get 898 00:47:34,480 --> 00:47:36,279 Speaker 1: there and then it's kind of like and then it's 899 00:47:36,280 --> 00:47:38,880 Speaker 1: like you're just like a regular and it starts the 900 00:47:38,920 --> 00:47:41,440 Speaker 1: same way. Yeah, I could definitely see her her losing 901 00:47:41,480 --> 00:47:43,760 Speaker 1: that feel like if she gets in person with somebody 902 00:47:43,880 --> 00:47:48,640 Speaker 1: and they lost the character or they don't have their 903 00:47:48,920 --> 00:47:51,320 Speaker 1: strap ones ready for pegging or whatever. You know, Like, 904 00:47:51,360 --> 00:47:53,560 Speaker 1: I could definitely see that being a turn off because 905 00:47:54,239 --> 00:47:58,839 Speaker 1: you know, a lot of people after Shades of Great 906 00:47:58,880 --> 00:48:02,000 Speaker 1: came out, I thought that they was like they thought 907 00:48:02,040 --> 00:48:04,319 Speaker 1: that they were into B D s M just because 908 00:48:04,360 --> 00:48:06,680 Speaker 1: of the way it was presented, or you know, like 909 00:48:06,760 --> 00:48:08,520 Speaker 1: a lot of people have have kind of I mean, 910 00:48:08,560 --> 00:48:10,400 Speaker 1: it's been a good thing for how many people have 911 00:48:10,560 --> 00:48:14,400 Speaker 1: opened up their minds, but then it's also bad because 912 00:48:14,480 --> 00:48:17,480 Speaker 1: the way it was presented is and actually how it 913 00:48:17,560 --> 00:48:20,680 Speaker 1: is in real life at times. So you know, depending 914 00:48:20,719 --> 00:48:22,960 Speaker 1: on and I'm not saying this is her, but it 915 00:48:22,960 --> 00:48:27,120 Speaker 1: could be another thing where just the the actuality of it, 916 00:48:27,640 --> 00:48:31,240 Speaker 1: like something like I have a friend who she loves, 917 00:48:31,440 --> 00:48:33,440 Speaker 1: loves not in the industry, but she loves. The only 918 00:48:33,520 --> 00:48:36,600 Speaker 1: kind of porn that she watches is gang bang. That's it. 919 00:48:37,120 --> 00:48:40,120 Speaker 1: That's all she watches her favorite poem. But she's like, 920 00:48:40,200 --> 00:48:42,480 Speaker 1: I will never be in a gang bang, but that's 921 00:48:42,480 --> 00:48:47,359 Speaker 1: what I like to fantasize. So it could also be 922 00:48:47,400 --> 00:48:50,200 Speaker 1: that like when she gets there and in place, you know, 923 00:48:50,560 --> 00:48:52,440 Speaker 1: I would have to ask her a bunch of questions, 924 00:48:52,480 --> 00:48:56,919 Speaker 1: like I want to get on that email thread I got, 925 00:48:57,040 --> 00:49:00,200 Speaker 1: I gotta ask her a couple of questions because things 926 00:49:00,239 --> 00:49:02,560 Speaker 1: that she's into are definitely things that there are other 927 00:49:02,560 --> 00:49:05,880 Speaker 1: people out there that are looking for and and you know, 928 00:49:05,960 --> 00:49:07,640 Speaker 1: I could also see, you know, if she's a virgin, 929 00:49:07,760 --> 00:49:11,400 Speaker 1: she might also be like, is this is this safe 930 00:49:11,400 --> 00:49:13,440 Speaker 1: for it to be the first time? And there's so 931 00:49:13,480 --> 00:49:16,160 Speaker 1: many factors that is like a lot of questions. Not 932 00:49:16,160 --> 00:49:18,600 Speaker 1: only that I wanted to say. So her response back 933 00:49:18,800 --> 00:49:23,840 Speaker 1: was fairly long, and it's actually funny because she felt 934 00:49:23,880 --> 00:49:26,680 Speaker 1: the need to say, by the way, I don't contain rape, 935 00:49:26,719 --> 00:49:28,319 Speaker 1: by the way, I don't want to my cousin, by 936 00:49:28,360 --> 00:49:31,720 Speaker 1: the way I like So even though she is turned 937 00:49:31,760 --> 00:49:33,840 Speaker 1: on by this stuff, she definitely felt the need to 938 00:49:33,920 --> 00:49:36,160 Speaker 1: let us know I'm not rapey, I'm not you know, 939 00:49:36,200 --> 00:49:38,560 Speaker 1: into intersts, I'm not into all of this stuff. And 940 00:49:38,600 --> 00:49:41,680 Speaker 1: so I feel like maybe she's not even fully comfortable 941 00:49:41,760 --> 00:49:44,640 Speaker 1: with what she's into as well. I mean possibly, but 942 00:49:44,760 --> 00:49:46,919 Speaker 1: I mean, just as you said before, though, these things 943 00:49:46,960 --> 00:49:52,120 Speaker 1: that are considered to be taboo or not normal. It 944 00:49:52,160 --> 00:49:55,200 Speaker 1: definitely makes people feel a certain amount of shame, whether 945 00:49:55,200 --> 00:49:58,120 Speaker 1: they know they're into it or not, Like, oh my god, 946 00:49:58,120 --> 00:50:01,239 Speaker 1: that I just watched that. I was turned on by that, 947 00:50:02,000 --> 00:50:03,799 Speaker 1: Like is there something wrong with me that I got 948 00:50:03,840 --> 00:50:05,880 Speaker 1: turned on by that? And and that's why it's like 949 00:50:07,200 --> 00:50:11,040 Speaker 1: where porn can be helpful to people, because it's like, 950 00:50:11,080 --> 00:50:13,520 Speaker 1: this is something, you know, there are certain things in 951 00:50:13,560 --> 00:50:17,600 Speaker 1: the world that are people. When we're in a car accident, 952 00:50:17,600 --> 00:50:20,560 Speaker 1: people are watching the car accident as they go by, 953 00:50:20,760 --> 00:50:23,719 Speaker 1: not just usually most people aren't watching to see to 954 00:50:23,840 --> 00:50:26,000 Speaker 1: check if someone's okay. They're trying to look at carnage 955 00:50:26,080 --> 00:50:28,080 Speaker 1: or something, you know what I mean, Like there's there's 956 00:50:28,120 --> 00:50:30,839 Speaker 1: there's a certain part of humanity that's just like that. 957 00:50:31,239 --> 00:50:35,200 Speaker 1: And so sometimes when we do watch those things like 958 00:50:35,200 --> 00:50:37,200 Speaker 1: oh my god, why why did I just watch that? 959 00:50:37,200 --> 00:50:39,399 Speaker 1: Why did I look at that? You know, it's it's 960 00:50:39,440 --> 00:50:43,160 Speaker 1: that sense of danger or just just the sense of 961 00:50:43,520 --> 00:50:47,120 Speaker 1: people think this is wrong and I'm doing it anyway 962 00:50:47,160 --> 00:50:49,719 Speaker 1: that can turn people on. So sometimes you know, we 963 00:50:49,719 --> 00:50:52,319 Speaker 1: we bust that nut, we come back to reality like 964 00:50:52,360 --> 00:50:57,840 Speaker 1: oh oh my god, hold hold hold hold up, hold up. 965 00:50:58,840 --> 00:51:01,400 Speaker 1: So we also um in our home I wanted to 966 00:51:01,440 --> 00:51:04,040 Speaker 1: read this as well, because I think it just shows 967 00:51:04,080 --> 00:51:07,000 Speaker 1: even what this conversation can do UM to both our 968 00:51:07,080 --> 00:51:10,080 Speaker 1: male and female listeners. So we got a letter UM 969 00:51:10,120 --> 00:51:13,800 Speaker 1: and it said, I love you guys. Literally started listening 970 00:51:13,800 --> 00:51:16,240 Speaker 1: to you guys a few days ago, and the first 971 00:51:16,320 --> 00:51:19,359 Speaker 1: day I felt so unbothered and so sexually free from 972 00:51:19,360 --> 00:51:22,040 Speaker 1: listening to you guys talk about sex and just hearing 973 00:51:22,040 --> 00:51:24,840 Speaker 1: how freely you guys think about sex that I decided 974 00:51:24,880 --> 00:51:28,200 Speaker 1: to come out to my fiance. He's male and I'm female, 975 00:51:28,440 --> 00:51:31,399 Speaker 1: but I'm bisexual. He's the only person I've ever had 976 00:51:31,440 --> 00:51:34,960 Speaker 1: sex with and he is incredibly open minded sexually. Anyway, 977 00:51:35,000 --> 00:51:37,239 Speaker 1: before I ran too much, I just wanted to thank 978 00:51:37,280 --> 00:51:39,719 Speaker 1: you guys for that because I come from a West 979 00:51:39,760 --> 00:51:43,200 Speaker 1: Indian family, so coming out to my fiance he's American, 980 00:51:43,680 --> 00:51:46,799 Speaker 1: was terrifying for me. He didn't care and loved it. 981 00:51:47,000 --> 00:51:49,120 Speaker 1: I'm looking forward to the three stoms we're gonna have. 982 00:51:49,480 --> 00:51:51,560 Speaker 1: I feel like a weight has come off from my shoulders. 983 00:51:51,760 --> 00:51:55,560 Speaker 1: So thank you definitely was definitely will stand for you 984 00:51:55,560 --> 00:51:59,560 Speaker 1: guys from now on. Thank you. Bisexual, bilingual and bipolar 985 00:52:03,680 --> 00:52:07,719 Speaker 1: covered UM, and I just think that it's super great congratulations. 986 00:52:07,719 --> 00:52:09,719 Speaker 1: While we like to sit here and make you guys 987 00:52:09,800 --> 00:52:12,239 Speaker 1: laugh and entertain you, I definitely know that this is 988 00:52:12,239 --> 00:52:14,839 Speaker 1: the conversation where you like, like you said, people are 989 00:52:15,080 --> 00:52:18,840 Speaker 1: uncomfortable still with this, and luckily books like fifty Shades 990 00:52:18,840 --> 00:52:20,719 Speaker 1: of Great have gotten people a little bit out of 991 00:52:20,719 --> 00:52:22,719 Speaker 1: their boxes. And that's kind of what we hope to 992 00:52:22,760 --> 00:52:24,480 Speaker 1: do with the show is do the same and get 993 00:52:24,480 --> 00:52:27,280 Speaker 1: you guys thinking and have these conversations with your partners. 994 00:52:27,360 --> 00:52:29,880 Speaker 1: I mean, this world will be such a better place 995 00:52:30,040 --> 00:52:34,680 Speaker 1: if people allowed their sexuality to just be free. I 996 00:52:34,719 --> 00:52:36,560 Speaker 1: think that. I think that's one of the things that 997 00:52:37,280 --> 00:52:41,520 Speaker 1: we're seeing just in society right now. You know, all 998 00:52:41,560 --> 00:52:47,879 Speaker 1: these all these people are getting they riled up. They're 999 00:52:47,920 --> 00:52:49,960 Speaker 1: not just getting riled up people getting called out right now. 1000 00:52:50,320 --> 00:52:52,080 Speaker 1: You know a lot of people are getting called out. 1001 00:52:52,160 --> 00:53:00,960 Speaker 1: And you know, this male dominated uh yeah, patriarchal society 1002 00:53:01,239 --> 00:53:03,200 Speaker 1: is being shaken. And then now you see, you know, 1003 00:53:03,239 --> 00:53:05,760 Speaker 1: all the tiki torches out there. They're they're getting scared 1004 00:53:05,760 --> 00:53:08,920 Speaker 1: of that. And you know it's funny because like when 1005 00:53:08,920 --> 00:53:11,520 Speaker 1: I look at like Trump, for example, like whether the 1006 00:53:11,560 --> 00:53:13,640 Speaker 1: darcier is true or not, whether he likes to get 1007 00:53:13,680 --> 00:53:17,359 Speaker 1: pete on or not. He definitely hates women like he 1008 00:53:17,480 --> 00:53:20,960 Speaker 1: hates women. He thinks that women are only objects. Based 1009 00:53:20,960 --> 00:53:23,359 Speaker 1: on his hatred for women, he can only see them 1010 00:53:23,360 --> 00:53:28,239 Speaker 1: in a capacity where they're beneath him because he is 1011 00:53:28,480 --> 00:53:30,560 Speaker 1: I mean not just the horrible human being, but who 1012 00:53:30,560 --> 00:53:32,920 Speaker 1: knows what kind of sexual issues that he has going on. 1013 00:53:33,320 --> 00:53:36,120 Speaker 1: And I mean he's also extremely obsessed with a black man. 1014 00:53:39,480 --> 00:53:43,279 Speaker 1: He's obsessed with a level that's very, very odd. Yeah, 1015 00:53:43,280 --> 00:53:45,960 Speaker 1: it's super uncomfortable for me. And I think that, like 1016 00:53:46,000 --> 00:53:48,040 Speaker 1: you know, when you when you look at those two 1017 00:53:48,080 --> 00:53:51,719 Speaker 1: things together, I'm like wow, Like I think there's there's 1018 00:53:51,760 --> 00:53:56,920 Speaker 1: some interesting, interesting things that's going on, and you know America, 1019 00:53:57,160 --> 00:54:00,640 Speaker 1: and it's repression of sexuality and and also at the 1020 00:54:00,640 --> 00:54:04,920 Speaker 1: same time is over use of sexuality for selling everything, 1021 00:54:05,480 --> 00:54:08,279 Speaker 1: and then the exploitation of sexuality when it comes to 1022 00:54:08,280 --> 00:54:12,239 Speaker 1: people of color. It's just it's all like hitting the 1023 00:54:12,360 --> 00:54:15,120 Speaker 1: fan right now because because it's It's also like when 1024 00:54:15,160 --> 00:54:17,680 Speaker 1: I listened to how these fans speak about NFL players, 1025 00:54:18,560 --> 00:54:20,880 Speaker 1: you know, like I saw Brothers Jersey out and it 1026 00:54:21,280 --> 00:54:25,080 Speaker 1: automatically takes me to you know, the way when um, 1027 00:54:25,120 --> 00:54:29,320 Speaker 1: like when they burned Kevin Durants jersey, and whenever whenever 1028 00:54:29,440 --> 00:54:31,920 Speaker 1: a white player leaves a team, they don't burn his jersey. 1029 00:54:32,280 --> 00:54:34,440 Speaker 1: So it takes you automatically to lynching. And what did 1030 00:54:34,440 --> 00:54:36,160 Speaker 1: they do when they lynched this, They would cut off 1031 00:54:36,400 --> 00:54:39,920 Speaker 1: our reproductive organs, you know. So it's it's all coming 1032 00:54:39,960 --> 00:54:42,520 Speaker 1: to and just hitting the fan. And it really comes 1033 00:54:42,560 --> 00:54:46,120 Speaker 1: down to, like people, I commend her for coming out 1034 00:54:46,120 --> 00:54:48,360 Speaker 1: of the closet. I think every single person needs to 1035 00:54:48,360 --> 00:54:51,040 Speaker 1: come out of the closet. Not not people. People think 1036 00:54:51,120 --> 00:54:53,160 Speaker 1: that only if you're gay or bisexual you could come 1037 00:54:53,160 --> 00:54:55,920 Speaker 1: out the closet, not as a as a straight man, 1038 00:54:55,960 --> 00:54:57,759 Speaker 1: you can come out the closet. But saying like yeah, 1039 00:54:57,760 --> 00:55:00,160 Speaker 1: I like to get pegged, or yeah I like to 1040 00:55:00,200 --> 00:55:05,120 Speaker 1: be handcuffed, or I'm polyamorous or whatever whatever you are. 1041 00:55:05,520 --> 00:55:07,440 Speaker 1: And I think that that's one of the things now 1042 00:55:07,480 --> 00:55:11,040 Speaker 1: that because women have taken a lot of strides in 1043 00:55:11,080 --> 00:55:14,600 Speaker 1: society to where you know, first of all, having the 1044 00:55:14,640 --> 00:55:16,560 Speaker 1: same job, showing that a woman could do anything that 1045 00:55:16,600 --> 00:55:20,040 Speaker 1: a man can do mentally on the same level as men, 1046 00:55:20,400 --> 00:55:23,279 Speaker 1: and all these different things, a lot of men are 1047 00:55:23,400 --> 00:55:26,719 Speaker 1: feeling their sexuality is under attack, you know, like, oh, 1048 00:55:26,760 --> 00:55:28,279 Speaker 1: if she can do that, well, then how am I 1049 00:55:28,280 --> 00:55:30,960 Speaker 1: a man? The masculinity that a lot of men are 1050 00:55:31,200 --> 00:55:36,800 Speaker 1: scared they're gonna understand why men are just assuming things 1051 00:55:36,800 --> 00:55:41,000 Speaker 1: will demasculine or what the emasculator emasculating. There you go, 1052 00:55:41,160 --> 00:55:45,239 Speaker 1: that word. Goddamnit, that word, but that that specific word 1053 00:55:45,320 --> 00:55:48,520 Speaker 1: is always brought up if you mentioned even but play 1054 00:55:48,560 --> 00:55:51,279 Speaker 1: with a guy or licking the butter finger in the 1055 00:55:51,320 --> 00:55:55,480 Speaker 1: butter pegging or anything that they can you know kind 1056 00:55:55,480 --> 00:55:57,879 Speaker 1: of coin is quote unquote gay. And it's just like, 1057 00:55:58,680 --> 00:56:01,560 Speaker 1: I don't understand why where the masculation comes in into 1058 00:56:01,640 --> 00:56:05,360 Speaker 1: all of these things. And I think always people like 1059 00:56:05,360 --> 00:56:07,880 Speaker 1: when we have these conversations, I'm like, but do you masturbate? 1060 00:56:08,040 --> 00:56:12,320 Speaker 1: So why are you touching that guy? Because like people 1061 00:56:12,400 --> 00:56:15,520 Speaker 1: make people will make everything they people make everything gay, 1062 00:56:15,640 --> 00:56:17,160 Speaker 1: like to the point where I'm just like, I don't 1063 00:56:17,160 --> 00:56:20,160 Speaker 1: even understand. I don't even understand this anymore. Like, if 1064 00:56:20,200 --> 00:56:22,239 Speaker 1: you're doing that with a woman, then you're doing that 1065 00:56:22,280 --> 00:56:24,080 Speaker 1: with a woman, and that's your that's your choice. And 1066 00:56:24,280 --> 00:56:29,000 Speaker 1: if you do have uh you're bisexual or you are 1067 00:56:29,040 --> 00:56:31,120 Speaker 1: gay or whatever, that's not the worst thing you can be. 1068 00:56:31,160 --> 00:56:33,360 Speaker 1: That doesn't make you not a man anymore, Right, and 1069 00:56:33,360 --> 00:56:35,080 Speaker 1: which is what I said. And I don't even think 1070 00:56:35,080 --> 00:56:38,279 Speaker 1: people realize, like there's a ton of masculine gay men. 1071 00:56:38,880 --> 00:56:42,440 Speaker 1: So this idea that your masculinity will be what is 1072 00:56:42,480 --> 00:56:44,279 Speaker 1: this do you guys? Are y'all born with like a 1073 00:56:44,320 --> 00:56:47,240 Speaker 1: tag of masculinity? Why do people think it can be removed? 1074 00:56:47,360 --> 00:56:52,000 Speaker 1: I don't understand, Like, because it's only with him self, right, 1075 00:56:52,400 --> 00:56:55,520 Speaker 1: you don't have a masculinity level to everyone out in 1076 00:56:55,560 --> 00:56:59,000 Speaker 1: the world. I just don't understand why this is the issue. 1077 00:56:59,239 --> 00:57:03,040 Speaker 1: I think it's it's extra in America. It's very extra 1078 00:57:03,080 --> 00:57:06,600 Speaker 1: in America, and I think it it goes back and 1079 00:57:06,680 --> 00:57:09,240 Speaker 1: not to not to take it to you know, history 1080 00:57:09,320 --> 00:57:11,080 Speaker 1: lesson in Egypt stuff, you know what I mean. But 1081 00:57:12,000 --> 00:57:15,480 Speaker 1: I definitely think America's like, you know, I gotta have 1082 00:57:15,520 --> 00:57:18,000 Speaker 1: the biggest guns. I gotta have the this, that, and 1083 00:57:18,000 --> 00:57:21,040 Speaker 1: the other to be a man because men oppressed women 1084 00:57:21,120 --> 00:57:26,880 Speaker 1: here and now there's this guy's of equality and women 1085 00:57:26,920 --> 00:57:29,960 Speaker 1: are not having that bullshit no more. So it's like, well, 1086 00:57:30,000 --> 00:57:32,040 Speaker 1: if we're equal, then how come I don't get paid 1087 00:57:32,120 --> 00:57:35,120 Speaker 1: the same for the same work. So then now it 1088 00:57:35,120 --> 00:57:37,360 Speaker 1: becomes well, if a woman makes the same money as me, 1089 00:57:37,560 --> 00:57:40,280 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna be the breadwinner, and then how does 1090 00:57:40,320 --> 00:57:41,880 Speaker 1: that make me a man? Because I don't bring home 1091 00:57:41,920 --> 00:57:44,040 Speaker 1: the bacon and this I don't give a funk. I 1092 00:57:44,040 --> 00:57:46,880 Speaker 1: don't eat pork, so I ain't even worried about that. 1093 00:57:47,200 --> 00:57:48,800 Speaker 1: But it's just like, you know, but I mean just 1094 00:57:48,840 --> 00:57:52,080 Speaker 1: in the science, but I mean just in that that 1095 00:57:52,160 --> 00:57:55,760 Speaker 1: that that mentality that as the man, you know, you're 1096 00:57:55,840 --> 00:57:59,600 Speaker 1: still a man, you still have It's funny like they 1097 00:57:59,640 --> 00:58:02,280 Speaker 1: hold on a lot of men hold onto everything except 1098 00:58:02,360 --> 00:58:06,200 Speaker 1: the honor part. Yeah, you know, just you you your 1099 00:58:06,520 --> 00:58:08,600 Speaker 1: if your honor is there, your honorable man. You were 1100 00:58:08,640 --> 00:58:11,040 Speaker 1: stand up dude, you would stand up dude, you know, 1101 00:58:11,200 --> 00:58:13,840 Speaker 1: and your your wife making more money than you doesn't 1102 00:58:13,840 --> 00:58:16,880 Speaker 1: make you a stand up real jersey saying that. By 1103 00:58:16,920 --> 00:58:20,960 Speaker 1: the way, dude, you just got a real fucking jersey 1104 00:58:21,000 --> 00:58:24,560 Speaker 1: with that. But no, I get everything that you that 1105 00:58:24,640 --> 00:58:27,200 Speaker 1: you're saying, and I'm so glad um that you could 1106 00:58:27,200 --> 00:58:29,919 Speaker 1: come on and kind of kind of break this down. 1107 00:58:29,920 --> 00:58:31,240 Speaker 1: We've had so many I don't want to say it, 1108 00:58:31,280 --> 00:58:34,000 Speaker 1: but fun boys on the show lately, Um, and we've 1109 00:58:34,040 --> 00:58:36,400 Speaker 1: actually people have been asking can you have a real 1110 00:58:36,520 --> 00:58:38,880 Speaker 1: man on the show? And I definitely feel like you 1111 00:58:38,920 --> 00:58:42,080 Speaker 1: signify that and you've been able to help I think 1112 00:58:42,160 --> 00:58:45,080 Speaker 1: every listener with this episode and with everything that you 1113 00:58:45,720 --> 00:58:48,080 Speaker 1: had to share. Um So, I guess what I wanna 1114 00:58:48,200 --> 00:58:51,440 Speaker 1: do is where can all of our listeners find you? 1115 00:58:51,680 --> 00:58:55,560 Speaker 1: Because they're gonna be they're gonna be searching that your 1116 00:58:55,640 --> 00:58:57,640 Speaker 1: your Google ratings are about to go up because they've 1117 00:58:57,640 --> 00:59:00,520 Speaker 1: about to be googling your ass um So where can 1118 00:59:00,520 --> 00:59:02,320 Speaker 1: they find you on social media? And I guess your 1119 00:59:02,360 --> 00:59:03,960 Speaker 1: website and all of that. Where can they can find 1120 00:59:03,960 --> 00:59:05,960 Speaker 1: me on social media at King the Ward that's k 1121 00:59:06,160 --> 00:59:08,720 Speaker 1: I N G N O I R or forms of 1122 00:59:08,800 --> 00:59:13,960 Speaker 1: social media. Then Royal Fetish x x X dot com 1123 00:59:14,000 --> 00:59:16,280 Speaker 1: make sure you pay for your poorn. Royal Fetish Films 1124 00:59:16,880 --> 00:59:19,640 Speaker 1: is co owned by jet Seton, Jasmine and I and 1125 00:59:19,880 --> 00:59:23,240 Speaker 1: we actually put cameras in the hands of women producers 1126 00:59:23,320 --> 00:59:26,080 Speaker 1: or women, so we have a lot of different uh, 1127 00:59:26,240 --> 00:59:28,840 Speaker 1: I mean, we have we have male cameraman and producers too, 1128 00:59:28,920 --> 00:59:30,800 Speaker 1: but we actually have a lot of women who helped 1129 00:59:30,800 --> 00:59:33,200 Speaker 1: create our films. And that's one thing that is lacking 1130 00:59:33,240 --> 00:59:35,000 Speaker 1: in porn because it's like it's kind of like you 1131 00:59:35,040 --> 00:59:37,520 Speaker 1: watch porn and it's the same angles, it's the same 1132 00:59:38,120 --> 00:59:41,480 Speaker 1: everything over and over again. And you know now and 1133 00:59:41,480 --> 00:59:43,160 Speaker 1: and this goes for men as well. You know, not 1134 00:59:43,280 --> 00:59:45,960 Speaker 1: all of us look at sex the same way. So 1135 00:59:46,040 --> 00:59:49,080 Speaker 1: definitely check out Royal Fetish xxx dot com. We we 1136 00:59:49,160 --> 00:59:51,560 Speaker 1: won two awards last two years in a row best 1137 00:59:51,560 --> 00:59:55,240 Speaker 1: full Length Feature Films at at the Fetish Awards. Uh, 1138 00:59:55,360 --> 00:59:57,560 Speaker 1: definitely go to jet Setting Jasmine dot com. We do 1139 00:59:57,640 --> 01:00:01,200 Speaker 1: fantasy flight parties for couples, for singles and then also 1140 01:00:01,320 --> 01:00:03,920 Speaker 1: private fetish training. So you know, if you ladies want 1141 01:00:03,960 --> 01:00:05,960 Speaker 1: to have your bachelor rette, dudes want to have a 1142 01:00:05,960 --> 01:00:09,720 Speaker 1: bachelor party, we do goals, we do couples parties. Does 1143 01:00:11,520 --> 01:00:17,600 Speaker 1: we do everything that is legal? Everything everything legal out there. 1144 01:00:17,840 --> 01:00:23,360 Speaker 1: He accepts donations, roses. You know. Um, but I again 1145 01:00:23,520 --> 01:00:25,320 Speaker 1: thank you for coming on. We are going to go 1146 01:00:25,360 --> 01:00:28,240 Speaker 1: ahead and include everything on where they can contact you 1147 01:00:28,240 --> 01:00:30,760 Speaker 1: in the description of this episode. Um, and then we'll 1148 01:00:30,800 --> 01:00:33,680 Speaker 1: also be posting you once again once the episode drops 1149 01:00:33,680 --> 01:00:36,000 Speaker 1: to the horrible Decisions page, where's your where's your like 1150 01:00:36,320 --> 01:00:39,840 Speaker 1: ratchet page that I can send No, so guys, he 1151 01:00:39,920 --> 01:00:42,840 Speaker 1: sends he sent me like all these videos of him 1152 01:00:42,920 --> 01:00:45,560 Speaker 1: in the action, and I'm like, I actually want us 1153 01:00:45,560 --> 01:00:49,160 Speaker 1: to be able to keep our page so Instagram. I 1154 01:00:49,240 --> 01:00:51,320 Speaker 1: thought like a Twitter or something too. Oh, I do 1155 01:00:51,400 --> 01:00:53,320 Speaker 1: have a Twitter. We don't have a Twitter for the 1156 01:00:53,560 --> 01:00:57,600 Speaker 1: for the horrible Twitter West. You could post anything on Twitter. Well, 1157 01:00:57,640 --> 01:01:00,600 Speaker 1: then you guys follow me. You got us follow me 1158 01:01:00,840 --> 01:01:03,080 Speaker 1: on Twitter at full Core Pumps, and I'll go ahead 1159 01:01:03,080 --> 01:01:05,480 Speaker 1: and post some of his videos that you guys can see. 1160 01:01:05,520 --> 01:01:08,800 Speaker 1: I can definitely post it on my Instagram. Also, I 1161 01:01:08,880 --> 01:01:11,919 Speaker 1: want to go ahead and let you guys know that. Um, 1162 01:01:12,040 --> 01:01:14,640 Speaker 1: these tickets for the motherfucker Last show just about sold out. 1163 01:01:14,800 --> 01:01:18,360 Speaker 1: So we are super excited to be seeing you guys 1164 01:01:18,360 --> 01:01:20,720 Speaker 1: December one here in New York City for our very 1165 01:01:20,720 --> 01:01:23,080 Speaker 1: first live show. We want to send a great thanks 1166 01:01:23,120 --> 01:01:25,840 Speaker 1: to everyone who has purchased their tickets. We think we're 1167 01:01:25,840 --> 01:01:27,640 Speaker 1: gonna get all y'all holes to show up, but now 1168 01:01:27,680 --> 01:01:30,760 Speaker 1: we probably ain't gonna be able to accept all you os. Um. 1169 01:01:30,920 --> 01:01:32,560 Speaker 1: So yeah, tickets are pretty much sold out. We just 1170 01:01:32,600 --> 01:01:35,240 Speaker 1: wanted to let you guys know that, and you guys 1171 01:01:35,680 --> 01:01:37,680 Speaker 1: are gonna see us. I'm excited to see all. We 1172 01:01:37,760 --> 01:01:44,160 Speaker 1: even have people flying in shout out to London, Chicago, Baltimore, Atlanta, 1173 01:01:44,600 --> 01:01:46,240 Speaker 1: and of course both of our moms are coming up 1174 01:01:46,240 --> 01:01:49,160 Speaker 1: from Florida. If you guys are coming from any other cities, 1175 01:01:49,440 --> 01:01:51,800 Speaker 1: let us know. We specifically want to make sure that 1176 01:01:51,840 --> 01:01:54,640 Speaker 1: we not only give you guys a great show, but 1177 01:01:54,680 --> 01:01:57,000 Speaker 1: we want to meet you guys personally because we appreciate, 1178 01:01:57,080 --> 01:02:00,600 Speaker 1: appreciate you'all flying to fucking see us. Talk back up here. 1179 01:02:00,600 --> 01:02:02,479 Speaker 1: I want to be on the live show. We're gonna 1180 01:02:02,480 --> 01:02:04,000 Speaker 1: have to get you on the live show because I 1181 01:02:04,040 --> 01:02:08,040 Speaker 1: think that um weezy wouldn't mind being bent over um 1182 01:02:08,120 --> 01:02:11,120 Speaker 1: being flogged in front of a whole audience of two 1183 01:02:11,240 --> 01:02:13,600 Speaker 1: hundred plus people. I think that would be awesome. UM. 1184 01:02:13,640 --> 01:02:15,840 Speaker 1: I want to just thank you guys again again. You 1185 01:02:15,840 --> 01:02:18,800 Speaker 1: guys can catch us on just about everything SoundCloud, iTunes, 1186 01:02:18,840 --> 01:02:22,000 Speaker 1: at heart Radio, We're fucking everywhere, UM and follow us 1187 01:02:22,040 --> 01:02:26,640 Speaker 1: at Horrible Underscores Decisions on Instagram. Thank you guys so much. 1188 01:02:26,720 --> 01:02:31,640 Speaker 1: This has been yet another episode of horrible decisions by