1 00:00:03,240 --> 00:00:05,440 Speaker 1: Welcome back to More to It to show that takes 2 00:00:05,440 --> 00:00:08,480 Speaker 1: a deep dive into the biggest stories in sports, entertainment, 3 00:00:08,480 --> 00:00:11,159 Speaker 1: and culture. Start off with headline news, and then we 4 00:00:11,240 --> 00:00:14,680 Speaker 1: journey into deeper conversations, always finding those life lessons that 5 00:00:14,720 --> 00:00:18,239 Speaker 1: are presented in every single story. I'm your host, Marcel Swali, 6 00:00:18,320 --> 00:00:23,840 Speaker 1: dad dude, and today oh mowaalaha, let's chop up some woods, 7 00:00:23,880 --> 00:00:26,280 Speaker 1: starting with what's up with that? Dude? Y'all know where 8 00:00:26,320 --> 00:00:28,319 Speaker 1: I'm at. Y'all see these palm trees behind me for 9 00:00:28,400 --> 00:00:32,319 Speaker 1: those who can see, Oh man, your boys in the 10 00:00:32,440 --> 00:00:36,360 Speaker 1: land of Paradise. Yes, in the yesteryear of the NFL, 11 00:00:36,479 --> 00:00:39,560 Speaker 1: this is where the baller's dwelled, the best of the best. 12 00:00:39,600 --> 00:00:43,280 Speaker 1: The Pro Bowl used to be here, Yes, aloha from Hawaii. 13 00:00:43,720 --> 00:00:47,479 Speaker 1: Man is the land of relaxation. And that's everything. But 14 00:00:47,800 --> 00:00:50,199 Speaker 1: what I've been doing so far, dog, let me tell 15 00:00:50,240 --> 00:00:52,360 Speaker 1: you about this flight, which to me was simple. But 16 00:00:53,040 --> 00:00:56,560 Speaker 1: I am married, so my wife she just registers the 17 00:00:56,640 --> 00:01:00,480 Speaker 1: items that come across her counter a little different than 18 00:01:00,520 --> 00:01:04,360 Speaker 1: I do. Kids. Oh man, my wife was trying to 19 00:01:04,360 --> 00:01:06,839 Speaker 1: take a nap every five minutes on this five hour flight, 20 00:01:06,880 --> 00:01:08,360 Speaker 1: and I was like, dog, it ain't gonna work. I 21 00:01:08,360 --> 00:01:09,640 Speaker 1: don't know, why are you trying to get them in 22 00:01:09,720 --> 00:01:13,000 Speaker 1: these little cat naps. They're gonna scratch that cat right, 23 00:01:13,280 --> 00:01:16,760 Speaker 1: my kid. My kids kept going at her. I was dying, 24 00:01:16,880 --> 00:01:20,039 Speaker 1: like every time she dozes, all because my wife, she 25 00:01:20,600 --> 00:01:24,679 Speaker 1: is she's a narca like she's an narcaleptic, like she 26 00:01:25,600 --> 00:01:30,000 Speaker 1: no every five seconds, she just she goes there and 27 00:01:30,080 --> 00:01:32,840 Speaker 1: they wake her ass right back up. Man, It's crazy. 28 00:01:32,920 --> 00:01:35,360 Speaker 1: And I was really excited about doing this one the 29 00:01:35,440 --> 00:01:39,600 Speaker 1: day because this doesn't feel like work. It's so much fun. 30 00:01:39,640 --> 00:01:41,440 Speaker 1: And I'm like, yo, just give me thirty minutes to sell. 31 00:01:41,520 --> 00:01:43,000 Speaker 1: Let me just go chop it up, my people. This 32 00:01:43,080 --> 00:01:46,120 Speaker 1: is no longer a podcast or a show. It's my 33 00:01:46,200 --> 00:01:48,720 Speaker 1: damn journal. It's my diary, y'all. I'm sorry. I'm just 34 00:01:48,800 --> 00:01:50,920 Speaker 1: let y'all know what I'm really going through. And it's love. 35 00:01:51,680 --> 00:01:54,800 Speaker 1: So the flight was great. We got here, you know, 36 00:01:54,800 --> 00:01:57,600 Speaker 1: a little desolate out here where we are, but it's 37 00:01:57,600 --> 00:02:00,360 Speaker 1: all good bunch of families. We came like ten Emily's 38 00:02:00,400 --> 00:02:02,640 Speaker 1: deepest seems like everywhere you go, hey, hey, hey, chopping up, 39 00:02:02,680 --> 00:02:05,200 Speaker 1: chopping up, chopping up, kids just taking off journey. And 40 00:02:06,040 --> 00:02:08,360 Speaker 1: I'm a helicopter parent, which I really just call a 41 00:02:08,400 --> 00:02:11,760 Speaker 1: responsible parent, but they called us helicopters now. And I 42 00:02:11,760 --> 00:02:14,440 Speaker 1: don't like seeing my kids go way away and I 43 00:02:14,480 --> 00:02:16,840 Speaker 1: can't even reach them more. You screaming the top of 44 00:02:16,840 --> 00:02:20,359 Speaker 1: your lungs. They're like, whatever, I can't hear you. Bro, Like, damn. 45 00:02:21,280 --> 00:02:23,600 Speaker 1: But that's the phases, right, that's the evolution of all 46 00:02:23,600 --> 00:02:26,080 Speaker 1: these things. So it was kind of crazy to see 47 00:02:27,080 --> 00:02:29,320 Speaker 1: my kids just explore. I was like, damn, where they 48 00:02:29,360 --> 00:02:31,880 Speaker 1: going and going to a different island. They think the 49 00:02:31,880 --> 00:02:33,760 Speaker 1: probo still here or something. They gone. I was like, 50 00:02:33,760 --> 00:02:36,359 Speaker 1: where are these kids going? And they would just disappear 51 00:02:36,360 --> 00:02:38,480 Speaker 1: out of eyesight. Man, But you knew that they were 52 00:02:38,520 --> 00:02:41,240 Speaker 1: bunkered in and then they couldn't go anywhere and out 53 00:02:41,240 --> 00:02:44,080 Speaker 1: of harm's way other than them just having a ball 54 00:02:44,120 --> 00:02:48,079 Speaker 1: like seven year olds too. So that was fun. Last 55 00:02:48,160 --> 00:02:53,200 Speaker 1: night wasn't fun. My daughter slipped going into the shower, yeah, 56 00:02:53,320 --> 00:02:55,880 Speaker 1: and actually had to go to the doctor. Had to 57 00:02:55,919 --> 00:02:58,679 Speaker 1: go get some staples, not even stitches. I was like, 58 00:02:58,720 --> 00:03:01,000 Speaker 1: why are they staple your head? Um, yeah, you got 59 00:03:01,000 --> 00:03:03,480 Speaker 1: a couple of staples, man. Really scary obviously when you 60 00:03:03,520 --> 00:03:08,000 Speaker 1: see your child hurt and saw some blood and you're like, oh, 61 00:03:08,080 --> 00:03:11,639 Speaker 1: you know, but she was the first one up this morning. Mber, 62 00:03:11,760 --> 00:03:13,320 Speaker 1: We're going to the pool. I was like, I don't 63 00:03:13,320 --> 00:03:15,239 Speaker 1: think you're going to the pool with them staples unless 64 00:03:15,240 --> 00:03:17,240 Speaker 1: we can find us a Jerry Currel cap or shower 65 00:03:17,320 --> 00:03:20,480 Speaker 1: cap or something to try and really put it and 66 00:03:20,600 --> 00:03:24,440 Speaker 1: keep it dry. But that was scary. That was scary, y'all. 67 00:03:25,120 --> 00:03:28,520 Speaker 1: And I realized that I'm I'm different with my my 68 00:03:28,560 --> 00:03:32,720 Speaker 1: fear than everyone else. Obviously we all kind of unique 69 00:03:32,720 --> 00:03:36,280 Speaker 1: in our own ways, but there are some generalizations. I'm 70 00:03:36,360 --> 00:03:38,680 Speaker 1: not the one that yells, and I'm not the one 71 00:03:38,720 --> 00:03:41,360 Speaker 1: that is terrified. I'm the one that's like a little 72 00:03:41,400 --> 00:03:43,880 Speaker 1: too practical, like what do we do next? What do 73 00:03:43,920 --> 00:03:46,960 Speaker 1: we do next? And keeping that calm, just to emit 74 00:03:47,040 --> 00:03:50,760 Speaker 1: that energy of strength and emit that energy of action 75 00:03:51,120 --> 00:03:53,800 Speaker 1: and actionable items like we gotta get this done instead 76 00:03:53,840 --> 00:03:57,640 Speaker 1: of the emotional play. Maybe that's why I do my 77 00:03:57,800 --> 00:04:00,640 Speaker 1: content like this as well. And I'm were deep in 78 00:04:00,640 --> 00:04:02,920 Speaker 1: me I guess I'm storing all this emotional energy, but 79 00:04:03,240 --> 00:04:04,640 Speaker 1: in a moment, I'm just trying to get through it 80 00:04:04,800 --> 00:04:08,400 Speaker 1: as simple as that, and scared as all outdoors as 81 00:04:08,440 --> 00:04:10,960 Speaker 1: everyone else is, but just kind of not showing that 82 00:04:11,040 --> 00:04:13,320 Speaker 1: vulnerability just because I know others are relying on me. 83 00:04:13,400 --> 00:04:17,000 Speaker 1: So went through that moment. All's good. My wife hates Hawaii, 84 00:04:17,040 --> 00:04:19,680 Speaker 1: I thought, until you know, she can socialize and hang 85 00:04:19,680 --> 00:04:22,479 Speaker 1: with other families and awesome, it's amazing. And she's the 86 00:04:22,520 --> 00:04:25,159 Speaker 1: type that would lie to herself just to make herself 87 00:04:25,240 --> 00:04:27,719 Speaker 1: feel good about what she's lying about, you know what 88 00:04:27,760 --> 00:04:30,120 Speaker 1: I'm saying, Like she hates Hawaii, but now she's like, 89 00:04:30,160 --> 00:04:31,720 Speaker 1: oh my god, this is so perfect. Look at how 90 00:04:31,760 --> 00:04:33,440 Speaker 1: pretty this is and everything, because she wants to have 91 00:04:33,480 --> 00:04:34,920 Speaker 1: a great time. Now she didn't want to have a 92 00:04:34,960 --> 00:04:36,640 Speaker 1: great time. My wife would be all on this place. 93 00:04:36,680 --> 00:04:40,080 Speaker 1: So so far, so great. It's pretty, you can see, 94 00:04:40,080 --> 00:04:42,600 Speaker 1: it's lush in the background what you can see. And 95 00:04:42,880 --> 00:04:44,560 Speaker 1: the kids are waiting on me. So let's get to it. 96 00:04:44,720 --> 00:04:49,160 Speaker 1: Oh man, Tyler Perry, I saw that he was driving 97 00:04:49,240 --> 00:04:52,560 Speaker 1: his Geo metro car. That he had it, I guess 98 00:04:52,560 --> 00:04:56,200 Speaker 1: in his humble beginnings. And remember he was homeless everything, 99 00:04:56,440 --> 00:04:59,200 Speaker 1: and Tyler Perry was driving it just to remind himself 100 00:05:00,040 --> 00:05:02,320 Speaker 1: of the bad old days, not the good old days. 101 00:05:02,320 --> 00:05:04,200 Speaker 1: The bad old days, even though they were probably good 102 00:05:04,200 --> 00:05:06,640 Speaker 1: because it was fertile ground for him to become who 103 00:05:06,680 --> 00:05:10,120 Speaker 1: he's become. But we always say those where the good 104 00:05:10,160 --> 00:05:12,840 Speaker 1: old days. But sleeping in the Geo Metro may not 105 00:05:12,960 --> 00:05:15,600 Speaker 1: have been good for Tyler Perry, but look at him now, 106 00:05:15,760 --> 00:05:18,400 Speaker 1: good lord. And it made me think a lot of 107 00:05:18,440 --> 00:05:19,960 Speaker 1: people say what do you do to stay humble? And 108 00:05:20,000 --> 00:05:23,760 Speaker 1: I'm like, stay humble, man, I don't know another way. 109 00:05:24,560 --> 00:05:27,599 Speaker 1: Those feelings of adversity and pain and the stuff we 110 00:05:27,640 --> 00:05:32,080 Speaker 1: grew up enduring can't escape him. Like I wish, I 111 00:05:32,120 --> 00:05:35,640 Speaker 1: actually wish sometimes I could be distant from the trials 112 00:05:35,640 --> 00:05:38,640 Speaker 1: and tribulations of my upbringing, because then I would just 113 00:05:38,680 --> 00:05:42,320 Speaker 1: be free, kind of like of that experience, of that bondage, 114 00:05:42,600 --> 00:05:44,839 Speaker 1: of all that bad stuff I had to navigate through. 115 00:05:44,880 --> 00:05:47,640 Speaker 1: But then that's what keeps me humble. Um, I really 116 00:05:47,680 --> 00:05:51,040 Speaker 1: feel it. It's still flows through my veins. I don't 117 00:05:51,040 --> 00:05:55,320 Speaker 1: do anything in particular. I don't do one thing in particular. 118 00:05:55,360 --> 00:05:58,440 Speaker 1: Why because I don't need to be reminded that. Frankly 119 00:05:58,480 --> 00:06:01,000 Speaker 1: it like you ain't reminded me how bad this world 120 00:06:01,000 --> 00:06:03,040 Speaker 1: can be and how quick it could be bad, how 121 00:06:03,080 --> 00:06:06,279 Speaker 1: quick it could be good, even though it takes a 122 00:06:06,320 --> 00:06:09,960 Speaker 1: ton of time, you know, overnight sensation took forever, that's 123 00:06:09,960 --> 00:06:13,000 Speaker 1: what they say, And it feels that way in terms 124 00:06:13,040 --> 00:06:17,080 Speaker 1: of success, Like you know, they say what wrong was 125 00:06:17,800 --> 00:06:21,000 Speaker 1: destroyed him one day but took thousands of years to 126 00:06:21,080 --> 00:06:24,640 Speaker 1: build or some shit like that. So it feels that way, y'all. 127 00:06:24,640 --> 00:06:26,919 Speaker 1: I can't lie, man. I go to my old elementary school, 128 00:06:26,920 --> 00:06:28,480 Speaker 1: I just giggle. I'm like, damn, I used to run 129 00:06:28,520 --> 00:06:30,479 Speaker 1: on that track. I used to think that was Athens, Greece. 130 00:06:31,080 --> 00:06:33,680 Speaker 1: I just think that track was bigger than the Olympic Stadium. 131 00:06:33,839 --> 00:06:35,800 Speaker 1: I was like, you're go over there now it's like 132 00:06:36,960 --> 00:06:40,120 Speaker 1: four lanes of chalk and some weeds growing out the concrete, 133 00:06:40,120 --> 00:06:41,520 Speaker 1: and you're like, damn, that's why I used to run. 134 00:06:41,800 --> 00:06:43,920 Speaker 1: I used to think I was Jesse Owens or something. 135 00:06:44,279 --> 00:06:46,440 Speaker 1: And then you go back now you're just like, yeah, 136 00:06:46,600 --> 00:06:49,040 Speaker 1: look like Jesse Owens used to run here, the dusty 137 00:06:49,080 --> 00:06:52,680 Speaker 1: as hell, the old gym. Don't go to the old 138 00:06:52,720 --> 00:06:55,480 Speaker 1: auditorium where used to have the assembly, the school wide assembly. 139 00:06:55,839 --> 00:06:59,599 Speaker 1: Them seats so little people, them indy bities to be 140 00:06:59,600 --> 00:07:00,920 Speaker 1: sitting up up in there. You're like, I used to 141 00:07:00,960 --> 00:07:04,560 Speaker 1: be at anybody like that, Yes you did, man, And 142 00:07:04,640 --> 00:07:07,560 Speaker 1: I just I think playing with my kids is the 143 00:07:07,920 --> 00:07:10,000 Speaker 1: thing that if I had to say that it's intentional, 144 00:07:10,040 --> 00:07:14,680 Speaker 1: that's a reminder just the original experience. How their upbringing 145 00:07:14,720 --> 00:07:17,600 Speaker 1: is different than my upbringing, but a lot of it's 146 00:07:17,640 --> 00:07:20,000 Speaker 1: the same, like the principles and the things you got 147 00:07:20,000 --> 00:07:22,360 Speaker 1: to tell them and things that they experienced. You see 148 00:07:22,360 --> 00:07:25,280 Speaker 1: this right here for those out there checking me out. 149 00:07:25,600 --> 00:07:28,480 Speaker 1: You see this right here right that's nine stitches that 150 00:07:28,520 --> 00:07:30,840 Speaker 1: I took in the head seven years old, when my 151 00:07:30,880 --> 00:07:32,800 Speaker 1: daughter just took two staples. You know what I mean. 152 00:07:33,920 --> 00:07:36,440 Speaker 1: My son dislocated his thumb, what was that last year? 153 00:07:37,280 --> 00:07:39,920 Speaker 1: My other daughter she and these stitches, but boy did 154 00:07:39,960 --> 00:07:42,640 Speaker 1: she have a gals on her pinky, like trying to 155 00:07:42,680 --> 00:07:45,480 Speaker 1: play with the barbecue pit. So it's just like kids 156 00:07:45,480 --> 00:07:47,560 Speaker 1: gonna be kids no matter how you dress them up, right, 157 00:07:48,040 --> 00:07:50,880 Speaker 1: So it's just interesting to see how how do you 158 00:07:50,920 --> 00:07:54,960 Speaker 1: deal with your your newfound success or your same level 159 00:07:55,000 --> 00:07:58,160 Speaker 1: of greatness whatever it may be, or your adverse times 160 00:07:58,160 --> 00:07:59,800 Speaker 1: when you're going down to slope a little bit and 161 00:08:00,200 --> 00:08:02,840 Speaker 1: you're facing that adversity, like what do you do to 162 00:08:02,880 --> 00:08:05,720 Speaker 1: remind yourself of your beginnings or what do you do 163 00:08:05,760 --> 00:08:09,120 Speaker 1: to remind yourself of how it used to be um. 164 00:08:09,960 --> 00:08:12,320 Speaker 1: I'm one of those people that you know, people angle 165 00:08:12,400 --> 00:08:15,920 Speaker 1: never change, like shit, soon as I get a dollar, 166 00:08:15,960 --> 00:08:19,160 Speaker 1: I'm gonna change like a hundred pennies said yeah, give 167 00:08:19,200 --> 00:08:20,960 Speaker 1: me the no, no, no no, it's not a change. I 168 00:08:21,000 --> 00:08:23,680 Speaker 1: need one hundred penny for this dollar. I got to change. 169 00:08:23,880 --> 00:08:25,880 Speaker 1: Life's got to change, man. I don't know what's this 170 00:08:26,000 --> 00:08:28,480 Speaker 1: fascination what people want to just hold on to what 171 00:08:28,520 --> 00:08:30,880 Speaker 1: they used to have, especially when it was bad. You know, 172 00:08:31,400 --> 00:08:34,160 Speaker 1: the culture tells you or don't change or stay down. 173 00:08:34,559 --> 00:08:38,079 Speaker 1: You hear those words don't change, like don't evolve, don't grow. 174 00:08:38,360 --> 00:08:41,040 Speaker 1: Do you hear those words like oh man, stay down now? 175 00:08:41,120 --> 00:08:44,120 Speaker 1: I'm getting up some about time. I'm bringing you with 176 00:08:44,160 --> 00:08:45,880 Speaker 1: me too. If you want to ride, you're gonna do 177 00:08:45,920 --> 00:08:49,400 Speaker 1: what I do, which is put that work in. But godly, 178 00:08:50,240 --> 00:08:53,920 Speaker 1: just backwards ass thinking. Man, it's crazy. Man. I still 179 00:08:53,960 --> 00:08:58,040 Speaker 1: got family though, obviously that um uh, let's just say, hey, 180 00:08:58,040 --> 00:09:02,440 Speaker 1: are still in meek times? Uh, you know, going week 181 00:09:02,480 --> 00:09:06,280 Speaker 1: to week, month to month, just going through it and 182 00:09:07,280 --> 00:09:09,480 Speaker 1: don't tell me twice, don't invite me over. I'm coming 183 00:09:09,520 --> 00:09:11,600 Speaker 1: through and we're kicking it and we're still doing it 184 00:09:11,640 --> 00:09:15,800 Speaker 1: our way because I learned like dressing yourself up. Man, 185 00:09:15,840 --> 00:09:18,959 Speaker 1: it's still everywhere you go, there you are. I may 186 00:09:19,040 --> 00:09:21,199 Speaker 1: have a better car, but I'm still at your house. 187 00:09:21,280 --> 00:09:24,240 Speaker 1: I may have a better house, but we're still drinking 188 00:09:24,280 --> 00:09:26,240 Speaker 1: the same drink and eating the same food. Like I 189 00:09:26,320 --> 00:09:29,000 Speaker 1: just I find that no matter how how you go 190 00:09:29,080 --> 00:09:30,760 Speaker 1: or how low you go. And I know people way 191 00:09:30,840 --> 00:09:32,320 Speaker 1: higher than me, and I see them all the time 192 00:09:32,320 --> 00:09:34,320 Speaker 1: and hang with them, and I'm like, you know, I hang, 193 00:09:34,840 --> 00:09:36,920 Speaker 1: I ain't a billionaires, and I'll just be like dog 194 00:09:36,960 --> 00:09:38,560 Speaker 1: in my head, I'd be do be like yo, drop 195 00:09:38,600 --> 00:09:40,640 Speaker 1: a hundred million on me and it ain't gonna hurt you. 196 00:09:40,840 --> 00:09:44,080 Speaker 1: But I'm just like dog, were eating the same food, 197 00:09:44,120 --> 00:09:45,920 Speaker 1: Like those grapes are sweet to me and they're sweet 198 00:09:45,960 --> 00:09:48,400 Speaker 1: to him, you know. And I think the more that 199 00:09:48,960 --> 00:09:51,960 Speaker 1: we humanize our experiences, we just express them without fear 200 00:09:52,000 --> 00:09:54,640 Speaker 1: and just actually break down the borders and stop saying 201 00:09:54,640 --> 00:09:56,640 Speaker 1: stuff is taboo and just talk about it for real, 202 00:09:56,679 --> 00:10:00,000 Speaker 1: like how you feel, not narrative based or a gender based. Man, 203 00:10:00,880 --> 00:10:02,600 Speaker 1: find out we got a lot in common. But that's 204 00:10:03,280 --> 00:10:06,319 Speaker 1: that's biblical, man, whether you are Christian or not, it's 205 00:10:06,360 --> 00:10:09,720 Speaker 1: just in the Holy books. So like all y'all really 206 00:10:09,760 --> 00:10:11,960 Speaker 1: the same. Y'all just got caught up in your colors 207 00:10:12,040 --> 00:10:16,000 Speaker 1: and your height and your weight where you're from, you know, 208 00:10:16,080 --> 00:10:18,640 Speaker 1: tower babble stuff. But it's just simple, man. We're all 209 00:10:18,720 --> 00:10:21,760 Speaker 1: the same, damn there. We're all uniquely different. That's what 210 00:10:21,840 --> 00:10:24,280 Speaker 1: I love. So Tyler Perry and his own unique way 211 00:10:24,400 --> 00:10:28,120 Speaker 1: gets back into that old geometro Daddy used to push 212 00:10:28,120 --> 00:10:31,440 Speaker 1: when he was homeless, and me, I just breathe it in, 213 00:10:31,800 --> 00:10:33,800 Speaker 1: take it out, and just I'm thankful for it. And 214 00:10:33,800 --> 00:10:36,520 Speaker 1: then them little kids were remind me every single day daddy. 215 00:10:36,960 --> 00:10:39,080 Speaker 1: Oh man, you got it good, so make sure you 216 00:10:39,120 --> 00:10:42,000 Speaker 1: act good. All right, y'all, let's talk about Dion Sanders 217 00:10:42,000 --> 00:10:44,160 Speaker 1: and his advice to Lamar Jackson, because this was some 218 00:10:44,240 --> 00:10:48,319 Speaker 1: good advice. He said, quote, stop explaining yourself to fools 219 00:10:48,320 --> 00:10:51,480 Speaker 1: and allow fools to be fools. Okay, little jay z 220 00:10:51,679 --> 00:10:54,120 Speaker 1: up in there a little Shakespeare, and there a brother 221 00:10:54,200 --> 00:10:56,800 Speaker 1: trying to owe us. Look at me. I can't read 222 00:10:57,040 --> 00:11:01,120 Speaker 1: a brother trying that strong, believe in himself and will 223 00:11:01,200 --> 00:11:04,679 Speaker 1: understand for what he believes, will always be misunderstood and 224 00:11:04,880 --> 00:11:08,640 Speaker 1: judge by fools of all ethnicities. Love you, my brother, 225 00:11:08,800 --> 00:11:13,000 Speaker 1: and I believe in you. Hashtag coach prime man. You 226 00:11:13,080 --> 00:11:15,760 Speaker 1: know me, I don't let nobody tilt my crown give 227 00:11:15,800 --> 00:11:18,160 Speaker 1: a damn. I love y'all. I love y'all the death, 228 00:11:18,200 --> 00:11:20,599 Speaker 1: but trust me, YA ain't gonna kill me, not with 229 00:11:20,760 --> 00:11:23,559 Speaker 1: y'all comments, with yall thoughts, Oh you should have did this, 230 00:11:23,640 --> 00:11:26,640 Speaker 1: you should That's why did you let that happen? I 231 00:11:26,720 --> 00:11:29,319 Speaker 1: was like dog. First of all, I did the best 232 00:11:29,360 --> 00:11:31,920 Speaker 1: I could with the best I had. And then on 233 00:11:32,000 --> 00:11:34,480 Speaker 1: top of that, I can't listen to all y'all like 234 00:11:34,840 --> 00:11:38,120 Speaker 1: and I can't take all of y'all's advice, like best advice, 235 00:11:38,200 --> 00:11:40,840 Speaker 1: sometimes it's no advice. Shut up, Just do what you 236 00:11:40,840 --> 00:11:43,600 Speaker 1: gotta do and get to the next step. Right. Um. 237 00:11:43,640 --> 00:11:45,760 Speaker 1: I like what Dionne said to him now. It was 238 00:11:45,880 --> 00:11:49,120 Speaker 1: laced with a lot of brother and ethnicity, which is like, 239 00:11:49,520 --> 00:11:52,199 Speaker 1: I don't like that because this acts like his experience 240 00:11:52,280 --> 00:11:55,840 Speaker 1: is unique to him, Like it's unique to him in 241 00:11:55,960 --> 00:11:58,120 Speaker 1: terms of his ethnicity, Like, oh, you're going through it 242 00:11:58,120 --> 00:11:59,719 Speaker 1: because you're black, or you're going through it because you 243 00:12:00,040 --> 00:12:02,640 Speaker 1: other or you know, people don't understand because it's a 244 00:12:02,640 --> 00:12:05,680 Speaker 1: black thing. This is not a black thing getting paid 245 00:12:05,679 --> 00:12:07,920 Speaker 1: as a quarterback in the NFL, right, now. Patrick Mahomes 246 00:12:07,920 --> 00:12:10,880 Speaker 1: got paid as a quarterback, Dak Prescott got paid as 247 00:12:10,920 --> 00:12:14,120 Speaker 1: a quarterback. Keep going. They just paid Geno Smith after 248 00:12:14,160 --> 00:12:16,160 Speaker 1: they almost kicked him out the league. It's not a 249 00:12:16,200 --> 00:12:20,400 Speaker 1: black thing, it's who. It's a timing thing, though. It's 250 00:12:20,400 --> 00:12:23,920 Speaker 1: a timing thing. And right now it wasn't the best 251 00:12:23,920 --> 00:12:25,959 Speaker 1: time for Lamar Jackson. Real one was the best time 252 00:12:25,960 --> 00:12:29,240 Speaker 1: for Lamar Jackson get paid? Uh duh? Right after his 253 00:12:29,360 --> 00:12:32,360 Speaker 1: unanimous MVP. When's the best time for Jayla Hurts to 254 00:12:32,360 --> 00:12:34,559 Speaker 1: get paid? Uh dug? Like right now? Right because he 255 00:12:34,600 --> 00:12:36,240 Speaker 1: just went to the super Bowl. Now, if he goes 256 00:12:36,240 --> 00:12:37,839 Speaker 1: to the Super Bowl whins it, then that would be 257 00:12:37,880 --> 00:12:40,280 Speaker 1: the best time. But right now, of all the days 258 00:12:40,320 --> 00:12:44,040 Speaker 1: that had that he's lived and existed, what's the best 259 00:12:44,080 --> 00:12:46,679 Speaker 1: time for Jayla Hurts right now? And who's gonna get 260 00:12:46,679 --> 00:12:49,120 Speaker 1: paid right now? Jalen Hurts. It's not a black thing, 261 00:12:49,160 --> 00:12:54,040 Speaker 1: it's Jayla Hurts. Good timing thing, right And I always 262 00:12:54,040 --> 00:12:57,160 Speaker 1: tell people this story, man, there are three they're they're 263 00:12:57,200 --> 00:13:00,160 Speaker 1: three ways you can look at this situation. Right. It 264 00:13:00,200 --> 00:13:04,080 Speaker 1: could be your version, their version, and the truth that 265 00:13:04,240 --> 00:13:06,960 Speaker 1: lies somewhere in between. But let's use these two examples 266 00:13:07,000 --> 00:13:09,679 Speaker 1: right here. It's the same player, but two examples. I 267 00:13:09,679 --> 00:13:12,720 Speaker 1: always use this. They both got fifteen sacks, right, it's 268 00:13:12,720 --> 00:13:14,840 Speaker 1: time to pay them. It's time to pam. You're ready 269 00:13:14,840 --> 00:13:16,559 Speaker 1: to pay them, You're I'm about to pay them. Damn 270 00:13:16,600 --> 00:13:19,080 Speaker 1: GM all fired up? Whoa that boy? Then hit? We 271 00:13:19,200 --> 00:13:22,360 Speaker 1: got same player, but two different things, two different examples. 272 00:13:23,080 --> 00:13:28,120 Speaker 1: One player got his sacks fifteen of them right zero 273 00:13:28,320 --> 00:13:32,080 Speaker 1: his first year, five, his second year ten his third year. 274 00:13:32,480 --> 00:13:34,720 Speaker 1: Let's pay them. That boy trending in the right direction. 275 00:13:34,760 --> 00:13:37,480 Speaker 1: Let's pay them. The other one he got his this 276 00:13:37,520 --> 00:13:41,520 Speaker 1: way ten his first year five is second year none 277 00:13:41,559 --> 00:13:45,080 Speaker 1: his third year. They're the same player. Let's just use 278 00:13:45,160 --> 00:13:47,160 Speaker 1: them as the same player, but they live two lives. 279 00:13:47,880 --> 00:13:50,920 Speaker 1: Both got fifteen sacks. You're paying the second one ten 280 00:13:51,040 --> 00:13:54,760 Speaker 1: five zero, or you're paying zero five ten A. That's 281 00:13:54,840 --> 00:13:57,839 Speaker 1: Lamar Jackson in the nutshell, y'all like to do just 282 00:13:57,920 --> 00:14:01,240 Speaker 1: kind of trended in a different director. Like the trajectory. 283 00:14:01,240 --> 00:14:03,440 Speaker 1: If the arrow's pointing up or down right now compared 284 00:14:03,520 --> 00:14:06,200 Speaker 1: to y'all know what's pointing down now? Is it pointing 285 00:14:06,240 --> 00:14:08,560 Speaker 1: straight at the ground. No, it's not nos diving, but 286 00:14:08,600 --> 00:14:11,160 Speaker 1: it's certainly not pointing up because we've seen a better 287 00:14:11,240 --> 00:14:13,920 Speaker 1: version of Lamar Jackson. We've seen a healthier version of 288 00:14:13,960 --> 00:14:18,360 Speaker 1: Lamar Jackson, right, and a less noisy version. And that's 289 00:14:18,400 --> 00:14:20,400 Speaker 1: not all on him. But I'm just saying the conversation 290 00:14:20,840 --> 00:14:25,040 Speaker 1: that is now around him, surrounding him, that he's getting 291 00:14:25,040 --> 00:14:28,400 Speaker 1: consumed with because he's responding back on Twitter. What's different 292 00:14:28,400 --> 00:14:30,960 Speaker 1: a couple of years ago, right, And that's what this 293 00:14:31,040 --> 00:14:34,240 Speaker 1: is about. Zero five ten or ten five zero, same dude, 294 00:14:34,320 --> 00:14:39,480 Speaker 1: same results, same exact production. So it's not just what 295 00:14:39,720 --> 00:14:43,000 Speaker 1: you've done, is how you're doing it and being real 296 00:14:43,080 --> 00:14:47,400 Speaker 1: and contracts. When did you do it? I had zero sacks, 297 00:14:47,400 --> 00:14:50,000 Speaker 1: my first year three three and a half sacks, my 298 00:14:50,040 --> 00:14:54,080 Speaker 1: second year five sacks, my third year ten and a half, 299 00:14:54,160 --> 00:14:56,680 Speaker 1: my fourth year thirteen, a fifth year. Don't ask me 300 00:14:56,680 --> 00:15:01,120 Speaker 1: about a six year, but look at that. That's why 301 00:15:01,120 --> 00:15:03,360 Speaker 1: I got paid. Now, if I had broke out my 302 00:15:03,440 --> 00:15:07,120 Speaker 1: rookie year like von Curson got thirteen, then ten and 303 00:15:07,160 --> 00:15:12,280 Speaker 1: a half, then five, then three and then zero, you 304 00:15:12,400 --> 00:15:15,480 Speaker 1: know I I would have got paid. Nope, I would have 305 00:15:15,520 --> 00:15:17,720 Speaker 1: been on YouTube a lot earlier. I would have been 306 00:15:17,720 --> 00:15:19,920 Speaker 1: at first on YouTube or whoever owns you too. I 307 00:15:19,960 --> 00:15:21,800 Speaker 1: would have beat him to it, damn it. So that's 308 00:15:21,800 --> 00:15:25,520 Speaker 1: how it goes. Man, y'all gotta understand that. But I'm 309 00:15:25,560 --> 00:15:29,600 Speaker 1: trying to educate you guys and and tell you just 310 00:15:29,760 --> 00:15:31,720 Speaker 1: take you behind the veil, take you behind the curtain, 311 00:15:31,720 --> 00:15:33,840 Speaker 1: and that's the education. It's not like I'm smarter than y'all, 312 00:15:33,840 --> 00:15:37,120 Speaker 1: but I've had different experiences that I'm gonna enlightened you too, 313 00:15:37,360 --> 00:15:40,040 Speaker 1: if you're ready to be enlightened. But we all got 314 00:15:40,040 --> 00:15:43,000 Speaker 1: to know that there's a big difference between education and enlightenment, 315 00:15:43,000 --> 00:15:46,960 Speaker 1: all right, Like anyone could be educated. I really believe that, 316 00:15:47,080 --> 00:15:50,120 Speaker 1: like anybody. Hey, one plus one? What's that? Seven? H 317 00:15:50,240 --> 00:15:53,920 Speaker 1: Come on, man, one give me one bean one another 318 00:15:53,920 --> 00:15:55,800 Speaker 1: being how many beans you got two? Okay, now you 319 00:15:55,840 --> 00:15:57,760 Speaker 1: know one plus one is two, it's not seven. Right. 320 00:15:57,800 --> 00:16:02,720 Speaker 1: You can educate somebody. But enlightenment that's a little different 321 00:16:02,800 --> 00:16:05,120 Speaker 1: because that's not just based on Okay, can I have 322 00:16:05,160 --> 00:16:09,640 Speaker 1: a literal translation or memorization or regurgitation? Can you just 323 00:16:09,680 --> 00:16:12,400 Speaker 1: practically give me something? And lightning it has to deal 324 00:16:12,480 --> 00:16:17,600 Speaker 1: with your experiences and exposures as well. Right, the platform 325 00:16:17,680 --> 00:16:20,920 Speaker 1: the premise is not just how smart you are, it's 326 00:16:20,920 --> 00:16:26,040 Speaker 1: what you've been exposed to. What have you experienced? What 327 00:16:26,120 --> 00:16:29,200 Speaker 1: are you open to? Right? That's enlightenment. So when you 328 00:16:29,240 --> 00:16:32,440 Speaker 1: get on Twitter, Lamar Jackson and you're trying to educate people, 329 00:16:32,480 --> 00:16:35,360 Speaker 1: I get that. I've been I've been that guy before. 330 00:16:35,480 --> 00:16:38,000 Speaker 1: I've been trying to break break knowledge and break it 331 00:16:38,040 --> 00:16:39,760 Speaker 1: down to people like here you go, here, you go 332 00:16:39,880 --> 00:16:42,120 Speaker 1: learn this. Then I've also been a guy trying to 333 00:16:42,200 --> 00:16:44,160 Speaker 1: enlighten people and I get slapped in the face like, dog, 334 00:16:44,240 --> 00:16:47,160 Speaker 1: ain't you ready? Like somebody come to me at times, 335 00:16:47,160 --> 00:16:48,880 Speaker 1: like you know, Bruce Smith, my rookie year, trying to 336 00:16:48,880 --> 00:16:50,440 Speaker 1: tell me some stuff. I was like, dog, ain't ready. 337 00:16:51,080 --> 00:16:53,200 Speaker 1: You can educate me, but I ain't enlightened yet. I 338 00:16:53,240 --> 00:16:55,640 Speaker 1: gotta get some of this experience, right, and then you 339 00:16:55,680 --> 00:16:57,640 Speaker 1: start learning it. That's when the light turns on in 340 00:16:57,680 --> 00:17:00,480 Speaker 1: football and everything in life. It's not just okay, somebody 341 00:17:00,560 --> 00:17:03,440 Speaker 1: gonna protect all right, let's pretend you're there and then 342 00:17:03,520 --> 00:17:05,320 Speaker 1: let's talk through all the steps. All right, all right, 343 00:17:05,359 --> 00:17:07,720 Speaker 1: all right, you're ready. Yeah, now you go out there. 344 00:17:07,880 --> 00:17:10,640 Speaker 1: You gotta get enlightened. You gotta experience it. You gotta 345 00:17:10,640 --> 00:17:13,600 Speaker 1: go through these exposures, you gotta go through that whole 346 00:17:14,359 --> 00:17:18,400 Speaker 1: rigor before you were fully enlightened, right, so you could 347 00:17:18,400 --> 00:17:20,679 Speaker 1: be educated all you want. That script sounds good. What 348 00:17:20,760 --> 00:17:23,280 Speaker 1: did Mike Tysons say? Everybody got a plan until they 349 00:17:23,320 --> 00:17:26,520 Speaker 1: get punks in the face and all of a sudden, Oh, 350 00:17:26,600 --> 00:17:29,600 Speaker 1: I need to be enlightened. It's not just educated. So lamar, 351 00:17:32,560 --> 00:17:34,720 Speaker 1: don't try and break bread with everybody on the internet 352 00:17:34,720 --> 00:17:37,119 Speaker 1: man and Twitter and correct these cats. Educate them a 353 00:17:37,119 --> 00:17:39,359 Speaker 1: little bit. Yeah, but through your game because I actually 354 00:17:39,359 --> 00:17:44,000 Speaker 1: speak louder bro, but enlightening them. Save your time, man, 355 00:17:44,119 --> 00:17:47,720 Speaker 1: save your energy. And also let's direct that in a 356 00:17:47,760 --> 00:17:51,480 Speaker 1: positive way because right now they're trying to miss, construe, 357 00:17:51,600 --> 00:17:54,359 Speaker 1: misinterpret everything you're saying, what you're doing. That's just the 358 00:17:54,440 --> 00:17:56,880 Speaker 1: experience right now. Too much money is on the line. 359 00:17:56,880 --> 00:17:58,960 Speaker 1: They're gonna try and get that money back. Bro. Let 360 00:17:58,960 --> 00:18:01,120 Speaker 1: me just tell you from Mike's experience. Because I got 361 00:18:01,119 --> 00:18:04,080 Speaker 1: pay paid like I got paid when the cap I 362 00:18:04,119 --> 00:18:07,000 Speaker 1: think my agent hit me, he said, he said, because 363 00:18:07,000 --> 00:18:09,439 Speaker 1: he just signed some dude for one hundred and seventy millions, 364 00:18:09,440 --> 00:18:13,040 Speaker 1: some linemen in the Atlanta something crazy something crazy enough. 365 00:18:13,119 --> 00:18:15,400 Speaker 1: He got pay paid like twenty seven million a year. 366 00:18:15,440 --> 00:18:17,959 Speaker 1: I think a lineman or something something like that, and 367 00:18:18,000 --> 00:18:20,239 Speaker 1: he was like, you're still my biggest fish. And I 368 00:18:20,320 --> 00:18:22,560 Speaker 1: was like, you know, he's stoking my ego. I was like, 369 00:18:22,640 --> 00:18:24,600 Speaker 1: I ain't even want to hear. I said why. He said, um, 370 00:18:25,480 --> 00:18:27,680 Speaker 1: because the cap was so much lower when you got paid, 371 00:18:27,920 --> 00:18:30,479 Speaker 1: and you got paid. These keys like the caps higher now, 372 00:18:30,480 --> 00:18:32,520 Speaker 1: so it's easier to get paid. But the point being 373 00:18:33,320 --> 00:18:37,160 Speaker 1: the cap is high, Lamar, You're you're selling this high. Lamar. 374 00:18:37,240 --> 00:18:38,959 Speaker 1: What they want to give you is a lot, Lamar. 375 00:18:39,840 --> 00:18:42,040 Speaker 1: Don't give them any reasons to take it back, because 376 00:18:42,240 --> 00:18:43,960 Speaker 1: trust me, I've been high and I've been lower in 377 00:18:44,000 --> 00:18:46,080 Speaker 1: this game, and they're looking for reasons to get it 378 00:18:46,119 --> 00:18:49,040 Speaker 1: back because that's a value proposition. Do not help them 379 00:18:49,240 --> 00:18:51,760 Speaker 1: in their value proposition. Do not help them get that 380 00:18:51,840 --> 00:18:54,800 Speaker 1: money back. Man. And that includes your circle, your friends, 381 00:18:54,840 --> 00:18:58,600 Speaker 1: your family, moms, the agent. You're in a different space, man, 382 00:18:58,640 --> 00:19:00,560 Speaker 1: You're in a different place. You gotta move different. All 383 00:19:00,600 --> 00:19:04,040 Speaker 1: this staying down, staying real, or hipping everybody to the 384 00:19:04,119 --> 00:19:06,280 Speaker 1: game or keeping it one hunted like all that stuff 385 00:19:06,320 --> 00:19:09,880 Speaker 1: sound good, but get your paper boo boo. All right, 386 00:19:09,920 --> 00:19:12,159 Speaker 1: the last one is kind of fun. Man. The NFL 387 00:19:12,200 --> 00:19:16,720 Speaker 1: approved the rule of allowing players to wear Jersey number zero. 388 00:19:17,119 --> 00:19:18,920 Speaker 1: I don't even know why this was ever a rule. 389 00:19:19,520 --> 00:19:22,080 Speaker 1: Maybe because zero is not a number. I think my 390 00:19:22,119 --> 00:19:24,199 Speaker 1: son told me that recently. I don't know. I think 391 00:19:24,200 --> 00:19:27,600 Speaker 1: I remember hearing that when I was in first grade, 392 00:19:27,800 --> 00:19:30,720 Speaker 1: like zero's not a number, or it's a whole number. 393 00:19:30,680 --> 00:19:33,480 Speaker 1: I don't forgot all that. That's what's so crazy about 394 00:19:33,600 --> 00:19:36,680 Speaker 1: our education system. It's like, what do we really need 395 00:19:36,720 --> 00:19:39,280 Speaker 1: to know? Like when you're thirty forty fifty, teach me that, 396 00:19:39,560 --> 00:19:42,040 Speaker 1: don't teach me stuff I need to know, regurgitate on Friday, 397 00:19:42,080 --> 00:19:43,560 Speaker 1: and then all of a sudden, if you forget it, 398 00:19:43,560 --> 00:19:45,680 Speaker 1: it's okay, but you still got a. I hate that, 399 00:19:46,240 --> 00:19:50,000 Speaker 1: like state capitals, like what the whoa whoa? We losing 400 00:19:50,040 --> 00:19:52,840 Speaker 1: our mind and our little hair over my little Jerry 401 00:19:52,840 --> 00:19:55,720 Speaker 1: curl drying out because I'm sitting there trying to memorize 402 00:19:55,760 --> 00:19:57,560 Speaker 1: these fifty state capitals and I remember it took me 403 00:19:57,600 --> 00:19:59,679 Speaker 1: like two weeks and I got it though, and I 404 00:20:00,200 --> 00:20:02,480 Speaker 1: that test now, I ask me, Now, I know six 405 00:20:02,520 --> 00:20:04,920 Speaker 1: of them, and I need help on the fifth one. 406 00:20:05,359 --> 00:20:09,000 Speaker 1: Stupid oh man, But it's real. But let's go through 407 00:20:09,040 --> 00:20:10,840 Speaker 1: the numbers real quick, because I gotta let y'all know, 408 00:20:10,880 --> 00:20:12,640 Speaker 1: I ain't gonna talk about the experience of like who 409 00:20:12,640 --> 00:20:14,439 Speaker 1: gets the number, y'all know who it is. It's a 410 00:20:14,440 --> 00:20:18,800 Speaker 1: pecking order. The best man wins, right, but just generally 411 00:20:18,840 --> 00:20:22,480 Speaker 1: in the NFL, since zero wasn't a number, I'm not 412 00:20:22,480 --> 00:20:24,600 Speaker 1: even gonna speak on zero. But cats in college is 413 00:20:24,640 --> 00:20:26,480 Speaker 1: gonna be pumped because they get to wear zero. Now 414 00:20:27,640 --> 00:20:30,320 Speaker 1: number one, we already know who Number one was like 415 00:20:31,280 --> 00:20:33,600 Speaker 1: that cat. Number one just felt like he was that 416 00:20:33,800 --> 00:20:36,640 Speaker 1: dude like number one, and that's that's really a pop 417 00:20:36,680 --> 00:20:38,440 Speaker 1: one of high school kind of number that if you 418 00:20:38,480 --> 00:20:40,239 Speaker 1: can hold on to it, hold onto it because you 419 00:20:40,240 --> 00:20:43,600 Speaker 1: are the one. You are the man. Deuce Number two 420 00:20:43,720 --> 00:20:46,080 Speaker 1: was always to the guy who was like, I'm the man. 421 00:20:46,119 --> 00:20:48,560 Speaker 1: But yeah, y'all, yeah, it's not even like I'm the man. 422 00:20:48,680 --> 00:20:51,159 Speaker 1: Y'all just need me more than I need y'all. You know, 423 00:20:51,200 --> 00:20:54,760 Speaker 1: because I'm lucky. You know, they douce like I'm lucky. 424 00:20:54,800 --> 00:20:58,000 Speaker 1: I was all right, that's you deuces, right, always kind 425 00:20:58,000 --> 00:21:01,360 Speaker 1: of like a little flippant. Two was different than one. 426 00:21:01,480 --> 00:21:04,760 Speaker 1: One was in your face. Two was like, I guess 427 00:21:04,920 --> 00:21:08,480 Speaker 1: I mean number three, number threes. If I had to 428 00:21:08,520 --> 00:21:13,280 Speaker 1: generalize threes, they always were part lucky, like you're now 429 00:21:13,400 --> 00:21:15,639 Speaker 1: three and you know y'all keep trying to beat me. 430 00:21:15,680 --> 00:21:19,920 Speaker 1: But y'all know I'm three, Like three was always like whatever, whatever, 431 00:21:20,240 --> 00:21:23,439 Speaker 1: I'm still here. I'm the one I wore three. I 432 00:21:23,520 --> 00:21:25,360 Speaker 1: love three. Three is my favorite number of all of them. 433 00:21:25,400 --> 00:21:27,879 Speaker 1: Tell you truth, it's just sick because one is just 434 00:21:27,920 --> 00:21:30,640 Speaker 1: a little two in your face, look at me. Three 435 00:21:30,800 --> 00:21:33,040 Speaker 1: is like, nah, look at me. But I ain't say nothing, 436 00:21:33,040 --> 00:21:35,520 Speaker 1: did I did I say look at me? Oh y'all are, Oh, well, 437 00:21:35,720 --> 00:21:39,280 Speaker 1: we're thinking the same. Four. I never had love for four. 438 00:21:39,280 --> 00:21:41,320 Speaker 1: I don't know what four was doing. I guess two 439 00:21:41,400 --> 00:21:43,320 Speaker 1: was already taken. He was like, well, let me double 440 00:21:43,400 --> 00:21:47,000 Speaker 1: it up before four don't mean jack, I mean all 441 00:21:47,000 --> 00:21:49,679 Speaker 1: the fours I knew was just like all right. I 442 00:21:49,680 --> 00:21:51,800 Speaker 1: think Russell White was a four if you guys google him. 443 00:21:51,800 --> 00:21:54,640 Speaker 1: He was a monster for a minute high school, especially 444 00:21:54,640 --> 00:21:58,480 Speaker 1: goodness before it really didn't have much jumping off the page. 445 00:21:58,520 --> 00:22:01,040 Speaker 1: Four kind of wanted to hide, but still fresh, y'all 446 00:22:01,040 --> 00:22:04,000 Speaker 1: got friends like that, right, um, not driving the car, 447 00:22:04,359 --> 00:22:06,760 Speaker 1: not shotguns so he can hollow every girl out the window, 448 00:22:06,920 --> 00:22:09,480 Speaker 1: and not even behind shotgun because that's the next best seat. 449 00:22:09,600 --> 00:22:12,120 Speaker 1: He did one behind the driver, just like lokan. Get 450 00:22:12,119 --> 00:22:14,880 Speaker 1: comfortable that I'm right behind you. I'm good wherever I'm at. 451 00:22:14,920 --> 00:22:19,480 Speaker 1: That's four five Nickel man, that Nickel, Nicolas beast. I 452 00:22:19,520 --> 00:22:22,080 Speaker 1: like Nickel. Two. It's a step down from three. We 453 00:22:22,160 --> 00:22:24,520 Speaker 1: know what it is. Uh. Five just trying to get 454 00:22:24,520 --> 00:22:26,440 Speaker 1: in where he fits in him and four just hanging 455 00:22:26,480 --> 00:22:29,640 Speaker 1: out together. Four five, it's all up. I ain't going 456 00:22:29,640 --> 00:22:31,280 Speaker 1: through the rest of these damn numbers, man, because six 457 00:22:31,320 --> 00:22:35,000 Speaker 1: don't count. Seven is dope? Uh six got six? Oh 458 00:22:35,080 --> 00:22:39,439 Speaker 1: you got stuck. Seven. We already know seven, six, seven 459 00:22:39,480 --> 00:22:42,840 Speaker 1: and six seven and six vic. I ain't got nothing 460 00:22:42,840 --> 00:22:46,040 Speaker 1: else to say. Eight nine, eight, oh god lord, nine, 461 00:22:46,320 --> 00:22:50,400 Speaker 1: I can't stand nine eight nine. Just they're running out 462 00:22:50,960 --> 00:22:54,280 Speaker 1: and then zero's in the picture. What is zero gonna be? 463 00:22:56,200 --> 00:22:59,119 Speaker 1: Zero has to be the guy who wants to be 464 00:22:59,200 --> 00:23:05,440 Speaker 1: the man but also doesn't want everybody else to even 465 00:23:05,520 --> 00:23:07,640 Speaker 1: think of him like that, like a ah, man, I'm 466 00:23:07,640 --> 00:23:10,200 Speaker 1: just I'm out here just being me. Man, ain't nothing 467 00:23:10,280 --> 00:23:12,760 Speaker 1: to it. He gonna play that role. I know zero. 468 00:23:13,200 --> 00:23:15,280 Speaker 1: I don't even know a zero, but I know zero's 469 00:23:15,280 --> 00:23:18,919 Speaker 1: gonna be the one you know, got the most but 470 00:23:19,080 --> 00:23:21,600 Speaker 1: doing the least that's gonna be zero. Like what you mean? 471 00:23:21,680 --> 00:23:23,640 Speaker 1: What you mean? Like he that do that's what that's 472 00:23:23,640 --> 00:23:26,000 Speaker 1: what his jersey name should be. What you mean like 473 00:23:26,000 --> 00:23:30,280 Speaker 1: he ain't trying what you mean? Hilarious. Let's get into 474 00:23:30,280 --> 00:23:33,320 Speaker 1: this wildism. Man. I'm on vacation, so I'm getting out 475 00:23:33,320 --> 00:23:34,920 Speaker 1: of here. Y'all ain't gonna hold me too much, even 476 00:23:34,960 --> 00:23:39,720 Speaker 1: though y'all my therapy. Today's wildlyism is I learned to 477 00:23:39,760 --> 00:23:43,080 Speaker 1: do all the right things with the wrong girls. Damn 478 00:23:43,119 --> 00:23:45,840 Speaker 1: where I get that one from? I learned to do 479 00:23:45,880 --> 00:23:47,800 Speaker 1: all the right things with the wrong girls. It's actually 480 00:23:47,800 --> 00:23:49,680 Speaker 1: out of appreciation for my wife, man, because I bring 481 00:23:49,680 --> 00:23:52,240 Speaker 1: her up so much, because she's my popna. I love 482 00:23:52,280 --> 00:23:55,560 Speaker 1: that girl. But boy did I learned how to get 483 00:23:55,640 --> 00:23:58,080 Speaker 1: right with her by all the bad things I get in, 484 00:23:58,200 --> 00:24:00,520 Speaker 1: wrong things I did with the other girls before her. 485 00:24:01,119 --> 00:24:03,760 Speaker 1: You know, as they say to the women they're kissing frogs, Well, 486 00:24:03,800 --> 00:24:08,359 Speaker 1: I was kissing frogs to goodness, goodness, bad dog. I 487 00:24:08,400 --> 00:24:11,280 Speaker 1: have bad ass habits. Anybody else like me, just bad 488 00:24:11,320 --> 00:24:14,840 Speaker 1: habits that relationship habits gets you get selfish when you're 489 00:24:14,880 --> 00:24:17,080 Speaker 1: in a relationship. You know, that's why you break up 490 00:24:17,080 --> 00:24:19,240 Speaker 1: so much. Because you're like, I don't like that, it's over. 491 00:24:20,760 --> 00:24:23,520 Speaker 1: I don't want to eat this. I'm gone, I don't 492 00:24:23,560 --> 00:24:25,800 Speaker 1: want to talk about this. Call me tomorrow. You can't 493 00:24:25,800 --> 00:24:28,520 Speaker 1: do that in marriage, and that's what's tough about marriage. 494 00:24:28,600 --> 00:24:32,720 Speaker 1: You can't run. Yep, you gotta stick it out. You 495 00:24:32,760 --> 00:24:35,040 Speaker 1: gotta talk it out. And if you don't, resentment will 496 00:24:35,080 --> 00:24:38,000 Speaker 1: build a boy and you got more cavities and decay 497 00:24:38,119 --> 00:24:41,680 Speaker 1: and tartar and your relationship than anything. It's just sticky, 498 00:24:41,760 --> 00:24:44,000 Speaker 1: yicky icky. This is grown man talk over here. So 499 00:24:44,200 --> 00:24:47,000 Speaker 1: if y'all still single, man, just notice your ways, but 500 00:24:47,160 --> 00:24:51,680 Speaker 1: also notice that you're getting right because you're getting tired 501 00:24:51,720 --> 00:24:53,720 Speaker 1: of even running away from those problems. You're getting tired 502 00:24:53,720 --> 00:24:55,360 Speaker 1: of like, oh, these girls are the same. No, they're 503 00:24:55,400 --> 00:24:57,199 Speaker 1: not all the same. It's just you get to that 504 00:24:57,280 --> 00:25:00,680 Speaker 1: same place with different people and then you realize, oh, 505 00:25:00,720 --> 00:25:03,480 Speaker 1: I gotta go and aboard and your abort mission. Then 506 00:25:03,520 --> 00:25:05,399 Speaker 1: you come right back to where you work, because that's 507 00:25:05,400 --> 00:25:08,200 Speaker 1: how life works. It's universe works. It's like giving you 508 00:25:08,240 --> 00:25:12,320 Speaker 1: all these problems in stages and phases like dig dug right, 509 00:25:12,800 --> 00:25:14,760 Speaker 1: like miss pac Man or something like you can't go 510 00:25:14,840 --> 00:25:18,520 Speaker 1: to the next level until you handle this level, and 511 00:25:18,560 --> 00:25:20,639 Speaker 1: if you do get if dans pass this level, oh 512 00:25:20,680 --> 00:25:22,600 Speaker 1: you'll be back at this level. Tell my son this 513 00:25:22,680 --> 00:25:26,440 Speaker 1: all the time. You skip steps, don't skip steps. If 514 00:25:26,480 --> 00:25:28,480 Speaker 1: you skip steps, you're gonna be right back here. But 515 00:25:28,520 --> 00:25:32,480 Speaker 1: it's gonna be worse. Yep. So it's just funny about 516 00:25:32,520 --> 00:25:34,359 Speaker 1: this world, man, how you learn to do all the 517 00:25:34,440 --> 00:25:36,680 Speaker 1: right things with the wrong people as you're climbing up, 518 00:25:37,040 --> 00:25:38,840 Speaker 1: and then when you finally get to that place, you're 519 00:25:38,920 --> 00:25:41,399 Speaker 1: right as much as you can be. But at the 520 00:25:41,440 --> 00:25:45,840 Speaker 1: same time, nothing substitutes experience. Nothing. We were talking about 521 00:25:45,840 --> 00:25:51,080 Speaker 1: that with Lamar right, enlightenment, experience, etc. So in that respect, man, 522 00:25:51,680 --> 00:25:54,800 Speaker 1: go through it. It's wide open and absorb at all 523 00:25:54,840 --> 00:25:57,240 Speaker 1: because education is one thing. I think the education comes 524 00:25:57,240 --> 00:25:59,439 Speaker 1: to get you prepared for that. But what gets you 525 00:25:59,480 --> 00:26:02,840 Speaker 1: through that, it's gonna be your exposure, your enlightenment, and 526 00:26:02,960 --> 00:26:04,800 Speaker 1: that's what's gonna take you to the next level. Then 527 00:26:04,840 --> 00:26:07,600 Speaker 1: you evolved. Look at all these ease educated first, then 528 00:26:07,640 --> 00:26:10,000 Speaker 1: you get experience it, then you get exposed to it. 529 00:26:10,040 --> 00:26:17,320 Speaker 1: Then you we evolved. That's it. Educate experiences, tell them exposure. 530 00:26:17,400 --> 00:26:19,119 Speaker 1: There you go. Why he told you my head is 531 00:26:19,160 --> 00:26:22,200 Speaker 1: in in that swimming pool right there, and then we evolved. 532 00:26:22,400 --> 00:26:24,680 Speaker 1: Much love to you guys, man, I appreciate y'all every 533 00:26:24,720 --> 00:26:28,359 Speaker 1: single day coming out here listening to your boy wherever 534 00:26:28,480 --> 00:26:31,120 Speaker 1: y'all at. A lot of y'all say y'all in the gym. Boy, 535 00:26:31,840 --> 00:26:33,800 Speaker 1: life's changed because when I used to go to the gym, 536 00:26:33,840 --> 00:26:35,400 Speaker 1: it was a number of public endemy an ice cube 537 00:26:35,400 --> 00:26:37,800 Speaker 1: with mine. It's it. But now y'all like, now listen 538 00:26:37,840 --> 00:26:40,199 Speaker 1: to a podcast all because it's the best time to 539 00:26:40,240 --> 00:26:42,000 Speaker 1: do it. But do you, baby, because I'm about to 540 00:26:42,040 --> 00:26:44,679 Speaker 1: go do me. That's gonna do it. For More to It, 541 00:26:44,840 --> 00:26:46,520 Speaker 1: check the show notes for all the information on our 542 00:26:46,560 --> 00:26:50,840 Speaker 1: topics to day. I want to keep the conversation going. 543 00:26:50,960 --> 00:26:53,159 Speaker 1: Let's talk, y'all. Find me on all socials at mar 544 00:26:53,240 --> 00:26:55,520 Speaker 1: Sellers widely. More to It as a production of Dan 545 00:26:55,560 --> 00:26:58,840 Speaker 1: Patrick Productions, Put Up Homes Dad, Dude, Entertainment, What Baby, 546 00:26:58,920 --> 00:27:02,119 Speaker 1: That's Me and work House Media Shows executive produced by 547 00:27:02,200 --> 00:27:04,879 Speaker 1: Dan Patrick, Marcella's Waal, What Up Baby, Paul Anderson, and 548 00:27:04,960 --> 00:27:07,720 Speaker 1: Nick Vanella Marcella's Walte. Thanks for listening and thanks for 549 00:27:07,760 --> 00:27:10,560 Speaker 1: those reviews, keep them coming and those prayers for my 550 00:27:10,640 --> 00:27:13,120 Speaker 1: daughter and her two Staples and her done. But she's 551 00:27:13,160 --> 00:27:15,920 Speaker 1: all right. Thank God. There's more coming from, more to it. 552 00:27:16,000 --> 00:27:24,119 Speaker 1: Talks to y'all, Hella soon out gone, out come here gone. 553 00:27:25,240 --> 00:27:26,119 Speaker 1: I'm stupid.