1 00:00:05,680 --> 00:00:09,400 Speaker 1: Still the Place with Laura Layton, Courtney Thorn Smith. 2 00:00:09,400 --> 00:00:12,400 Speaker 2: And Daphnew's aiga an iHeartRadio podcast. 3 00:00:14,360 --> 00:00:15,840 Speaker 3: Well we're back for a Melroe's Minutes. 4 00:00:16,200 --> 00:00:16,759 Speaker 4: Hi, guys. 5 00:00:16,880 --> 00:00:19,160 Speaker 3: A couple of things came up on that last episode 6 00:00:19,200 --> 00:00:21,200 Speaker 3: that made us really think. 7 00:00:21,200 --> 00:00:23,959 Speaker 2: Yeah, Well it was the getting together of Billy and Allison, 8 00:00:23,960 --> 00:00:27,240 Speaker 2: who've been living together as roommates platonically. They've each like 9 00:00:27,360 --> 00:00:30,960 Speaker 2: seen each other have different dates and different relationships. 10 00:00:31,120 --> 00:00:33,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, Allison says, you know, I've watched you to clip 11 00:00:33,280 --> 00:00:34,760 Speaker 1: your toenails how many times? 12 00:00:34,800 --> 00:00:36,680 Speaker 4: Going from friends to romantic. 13 00:00:36,920 --> 00:00:38,800 Speaker 3: Well, now they've made it. They've had a number of 14 00:00:38,880 --> 00:00:41,120 Speaker 3: discussions about moving their relationship. 15 00:00:41,159 --> 00:00:43,160 Speaker 2: They have different plans, but they want to so they've 16 00:00:43,200 --> 00:00:44,199 Speaker 2: acknowledged that attraction. 17 00:00:44,280 --> 00:00:45,319 Speaker 4: They're going to go for it. 18 00:00:46,080 --> 00:00:49,279 Speaker 2: So we were thinking, have I asked you guys, and 19 00:00:49,360 --> 00:00:52,240 Speaker 2: I'm curious of if people out there, how often how 20 00:00:52,280 --> 00:00:54,640 Speaker 2: common is that to be friends with somebody first for 21 00:00:54,680 --> 00:00:54,920 Speaker 2: a lot? 22 00:00:54,960 --> 00:00:58,400 Speaker 1: Well, we were also overlapping that with keeping the spark 23 00:00:58,480 --> 00:01:01,400 Speaker 1: alive that Michael sort of loses interest. So two things like, 24 00:01:01,440 --> 00:01:03,840 Speaker 1: you've have a friend the two couples on our shows 25 00:01:03,880 --> 00:01:07,080 Speaker 1: and to romance, how do you keep that exciting? And 26 00:01:07,120 --> 00:01:09,480 Speaker 1: new because your friends, you've lived together, how do you 27 00:01:09,640 --> 00:01:10,800 Speaker 1: get excited about someone? 28 00:01:11,040 --> 00:01:13,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, so let's start with the first one, because that's 29 00:01:13,680 --> 00:01:16,880 Speaker 2: really interesting to me about the billion Allison, Let's start 30 00:01:16,920 --> 00:01:19,080 Speaker 2: with that, Like, how if you guys are friends and 31 00:01:19,160 --> 00:01:21,160 Speaker 2: you're used to being in a room and being together, 32 00:01:21,400 --> 00:01:23,759 Speaker 2: is there always like a crush? Was there a spark 33 00:01:23,880 --> 00:01:26,640 Speaker 2: before that you just didn't answer and then suddenly you're 34 00:01:26,680 --> 00:01:28,480 Speaker 2: gonna go with the spark. 35 00:01:28,880 --> 00:01:30,600 Speaker 3: I think it's so funny that, like when we were 36 00:01:30,640 --> 00:01:35,039 Speaker 3: talking about this away from the podcast, and I think 37 00:01:35,160 --> 00:01:37,880 Speaker 3: Daphne you said you'd never like dated a friend or 38 00:01:37,959 --> 00:01:40,399 Speaker 3: like you never started out as friends and then had 39 00:01:40,440 --> 00:01:41,959 Speaker 3: some of you, which I think I think is sort 40 00:01:41,959 --> 00:01:43,840 Speaker 3: of interesting because Courtney and I both Yeah, I think 41 00:01:43,840 --> 00:01:47,280 Speaker 3: we've done that, had that experience, but it also experienced 42 00:01:47,319 --> 00:01:47,640 Speaker 3: a lot. 43 00:01:48,600 --> 00:01:50,320 Speaker 4: So I just want to know, like how you care. 44 00:01:50,360 --> 00:01:52,520 Speaker 1: That's because you're both my friends, So watch your back's 45 00:01:53,720 --> 00:01:54,600 Speaker 1: billion Alison? 46 00:01:54,720 --> 00:01:56,680 Speaker 3: Or are we could make a plan and discuss it 47 00:01:56,720 --> 00:01:58,800 Speaker 3: ahead of time? Should we take our relationship to the 48 00:01:58,840 --> 00:01:59,320 Speaker 3: next level? 49 00:02:00,360 --> 00:02:01,440 Speaker 4: Was it awkward for you guys? 50 00:02:01,600 --> 00:02:04,160 Speaker 3: Maybe tomorrow night flipping toenails and then all of a 51 00:02:04,160 --> 00:02:04,840 Speaker 3: sudden you have to. 52 00:02:04,960 --> 00:02:06,560 Speaker 4: Make out with them was that what we know? What 53 00:02:06,720 --> 00:02:07,520 Speaker 4: is weird about it? 54 00:02:07,680 --> 00:02:09,480 Speaker 1: And it's fun to think about because I was thinking 55 00:02:09,480 --> 00:02:12,560 Speaker 1: about it with you know, Billy and Allison. And it's 56 00:02:12,600 --> 00:02:14,840 Speaker 1: true because especially if you're a good friends and you've 57 00:02:14,840 --> 00:02:16,840 Speaker 1: spent a lot of time like sitting on the couch 58 00:02:17,000 --> 00:02:19,440 Speaker 1: talking and you hang out with friends, that all of 59 00:02:19,480 --> 00:02:21,639 Speaker 1: a sudden you're sitting on the couch and it's like 60 00:02:22,280 --> 00:02:23,520 Speaker 1: are we holding hands now? 61 00:02:24,280 --> 00:02:25,200 Speaker 3: Are we making out? 62 00:02:25,320 --> 00:02:25,480 Speaker 1: Now? 63 00:02:25,639 --> 00:02:26,400 Speaker 4: Like you're into that. 64 00:02:26,600 --> 00:02:28,679 Speaker 1: It's almost like you get to that space in a 65 00:02:28,800 --> 00:02:31,480 Speaker 1: romantic relationship where you're through the initial like we can't 66 00:02:31,520 --> 00:02:33,239 Speaker 1: keep our hands off each other, and then you're sitting 67 00:02:34,000 --> 00:02:35,079 Speaker 1: on the couch watching TV. 68 00:02:35,200 --> 00:02:37,360 Speaker 4: But you go from sitting on the couch watching TV. 69 00:02:37,400 --> 00:02:40,919 Speaker 2: Too like making out every Yeah, so what is that 70 00:02:41,120 --> 00:02:42,359 Speaker 2: like for your experiences? 71 00:02:42,840 --> 00:02:45,079 Speaker 3: So I've sort of fall into the camp lake, you 72 00:02:45,160 --> 00:02:47,480 Speaker 3: know how there's that question like when Harry met Sally, 73 00:02:47,639 --> 00:02:50,799 Speaker 3: can can men and women just be friends? You know 74 00:02:51,680 --> 00:02:55,079 Speaker 3: that that question? I think that's sort of where it 75 00:02:55,160 --> 00:02:57,239 Speaker 3: lands for me, is that I think if you have 76 00:02:57,360 --> 00:03:01,600 Speaker 3: a really great friendship, or in my experience, had great 77 00:03:01,680 --> 00:03:05,239 Speaker 3: friendship with the guy that he clearly wanted to be 78 00:03:05,600 --> 00:03:09,639 Speaker 3: more like more in the relationship and it wasn't Yeah, 79 00:03:09,639 --> 00:03:12,600 Speaker 3: and it wasn't like out of the question. For me, 80 00:03:12,680 --> 00:03:16,839 Speaker 3: it just kind of wasn't like a spontaneous oh yeah, 81 00:03:17,960 --> 00:03:21,480 Speaker 3: of course, Like it was just I guess maybe try 82 00:03:21,600 --> 00:03:23,760 Speaker 3: and then. But for me, like I feel like it 83 00:03:23,960 --> 00:03:28,480 Speaker 3: ruins the friendship. Like to me, it's kind of my 84 00:03:28,680 --> 00:03:31,560 Speaker 3: experience of it, it ended up ruining the friendship, and 85 00:03:31,680 --> 00:03:36,360 Speaker 3: it wasn't like the right plan to try to have 86 00:03:36,520 --> 00:03:39,280 Speaker 3: it be a romantic relationship. For me, the friendship was 87 00:03:40,080 --> 00:03:43,400 Speaker 3: really meaningful in what it was, but I felt like 88 00:03:43,520 --> 00:03:45,800 Speaker 3: the guy wanted more and I was like, Okay, I 89 00:03:45,880 --> 00:03:47,480 Speaker 3: guess I'll give that a shot, but it's just that 90 00:03:47,880 --> 00:03:49,720 Speaker 3: that spark wasn't there or whatever that you say. 91 00:03:50,000 --> 00:03:51,840 Speaker 4: So and for me it ended up and then you 92 00:03:51,880 --> 00:03:52,760 Speaker 4: couldn't stay friends. 93 00:03:53,000 --> 00:03:55,320 Speaker 3: Yeah, it changed everything. Yeah, I was like, oh bummer. 94 00:03:55,480 --> 00:03:57,960 Speaker 1: But did you feel like he was saying I want 95 00:03:58,120 --> 00:03:59,840 Speaker 1: more and it's more or nothing? 96 00:04:00,160 --> 00:04:02,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't think it was that. It was just 97 00:04:02,760 --> 00:04:07,040 Speaker 3: changing the nature of our relationship and try and deliberately 98 00:04:07,120 --> 00:04:08,840 Speaker 3: like sort of changing it and trying to see, hey, 99 00:04:08,960 --> 00:04:13,680 Speaker 3: is this more ruined the first version of our relationship, 100 00:04:13,800 --> 00:04:16,040 Speaker 3: Like it just changed it forever. It just wasn't the same. 101 00:04:16,480 --> 00:04:20,400 Speaker 2: That's the first thing you that marks a difference, right, 102 00:04:20,480 --> 00:04:23,400 Speaker 2: you act on that holding, you kiss them, you guys kiss. 103 00:04:23,279 --> 00:04:25,560 Speaker 4: Each other, right then all of a sudden and just. 104 00:04:25,600 --> 00:04:28,400 Speaker 3: Like okay, that's different now, And like, I don't know. 105 00:04:28,480 --> 00:04:31,080 Speaker 2: To me, I don't understand about it is I have 106 00:04:31,360 --> 00:04:36,480 Speaker 2: such definite feelings for somebody or I don't. Like it's 107 00:04:36,560 --> 00:04:39,440 Speaker 2: just so organic and it's so like I have an 108 00:04:39,480 --> 00:04:43,000 Speaker 2: attraction or I don't. So I don't understand the I 109 00:04:43,160 --> 00:04:45,520 Speaker 2: love this guy and I have an attraction as a friend, 110 00:04:45,680 --> 00:04:48,000 Speaker 2: and then I guess it can grow out of that. 111 00:04:48,200 --> 00:04:50,360 Speaker 2: I mean, I've been with somebody for eighteen years now, 112 00:04:50,400 --> 00:04:54,080 Speaker 2: so there's been a whole you know, scope of feelings 113 00:04:54,120 --> 00:04:58,039 Speaker 2: and attractions and relating to each other. But I guess 114 00:04:58,080 --> 00:05:01,240 Speaker 2: I I don't underst I don't know. I don't get 115 00:05:01,279 --> 00:05:04,040 Speaker 2: it like giving it a go as someone who I 116 00:05:04,120 --> 00:05:07,960 Speaker 2: just don't feel that attraction to, or maybe it does. 117 00:05:08,040 --> 00:05:10,000 Speaker 4: That's why I'm curious. When it's happened. 118 00:05:10,040 --> 00:05:13,600 Speaker 1: For me, it's that you have a guy friend and 119 00:05:13,720 --> 00:05:15,560 Speaker 1: you end up spending a lot of time together and 120 00:05:15,640 --> 00:05:19,120 Speaker 1: spending so much time together and you call each other 121 00:05:19,160 --> 00:05:20,720 Speaker 1: a lot, and they're your first call in the morning 122 00:05:20,800 --> 00:05:22,760 Speaker 1: and your last call at night, and you start to think. 123 00:05:22,920 --> 00:05:23,839 Speaker 3: Well, this is silly. 124 00:05:24,680 --> 00:05:26,279 Speaker 1: Yeah, why do I want to go on a date 125 00:05:26,360 --> 00:05:28,280 Speaker 1: with someone with whom I don't have much in common 126 00:05:28,360 --> 00:05:32,360 Speaker 1: when this person's my best friend. Now, having said that, 127 00:05:33,960 --> 00:05:36,880 Speaker 1: you are right, Daphne in that there is such a 128 00:05:36,920 --> 00:05:41,080 Speaker 1: thing as chemistry, and I've had the experience of even 129 00:05:41,120 --> 00:05:42,960 Speaker 1: if the chemistry builds, like you start to think or 130 00:05:43,000 --> 00:05:45,640 Speaker 1: start to talk about it, that it doesn't actually work. 131 00:05:45,760 --> 00:05:50,040 Speaker 1: And then it's really uncomfortable because it's you know, you 132 00:05:50,200 --> 00:05:53,719 Speaker 1: missed that initial coming together attraction and you're like, ooh, 133 00:05:53,839 --> 00:05:55,880 Speaker 1: I just really want to be sitting on the couch 134 00:05:56,560 --> 00:05:58,600 Speaker 1: with this person. I don't want to be kissing. And 135 00:05:58,640 --> 00:06:00,320 Speaker 1: then if one of you wants to be making out 136 00:06:01,080 --> 00:06:03,000 Speaker 1: and the other one is like, ooh, that's not what 137 00:06:03,120 --> 00:06:03,560 Speaker 1: I wanted. 138 00:06:03,640 --> 00:06:04,359 Speaker 3: It's brutal and. 139 00:06:04,400 --> 00:06:06,080 Speaker 1: Maybe that's what you're talking Aboutlaura. 140 00:06:05,720 --> 00:06:08,800 Speaker 3: Like, yes, really, and it just changes the friendship. 141 00:06:09,360 --> 00:06:12,840 Speaker 1: Well, one persons so excited and you're like, can we 142 00:06:12,960 --> 00:06:14,800 Speaker 1: get to the point in a relationship where we're just 143 00:06:14,800 --> 00:06:17,760 Speaker 1: sitting on the couch a yet it's like it can 144 00:06:17,800 --> 00:06:20,240 Speaker 1: be really uncomfortable so it's a real risk, like you 145 00:06:20,360 --> 00:06:22,920 Speaker 1: can really risk a friendship, but for me, to the 146 00:06:23,000 --> 00:06:26,440 Speaker 1: point where you're spending all your time with them, so 147 00:06:26,520 --> 00:06:28,480 Speaker 1: it sort of sink or swim. It's like either we 148 00:06:28,680 --> 00:06:31,680 Speaker 1: go for it or we have to separate to the 149 00:06:31,720 --> 00:06:33,920 Speaker 1: point where we can meet somebody else, because if we're 150 00:06:33,960 --> 00:06:36,440 Speaker 1: taking up each other all of each other's intimate time, 151 00:06:37,120 --> 00:06:39,760 Speaker 1: we kind of have to see if it's more or not. 152 00:06:40,120 --> 00:06:42,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, I think that's why I've never been friends like 153 00:06:42,600 --> 00:06:44,640 Speaker 2: that close of a friends with a guy, because I 154 00:06:45,240 --> 00:06:49,840 Speaker 2: I have always hung out with really followed that attraction 155 00:06:50,400 --> 00:06:54,480 Speaker 2: and then it happens so fast. So I've never even before, 156 00:06:55,800 --> 00:06:57,320 Speaker 2: even when I was young, I never had like a 157 00:06:57,400 --> 00:06:59,680 Speaker 2: best buddy that was a guy. It always was like 158 00:06:59,720 --> 00:07:03,160 Speaker 2: a situation or and then oh he asked me out, 159 00:07:03,240 --> 00:07:04,480 Speaker 2: or he didn't, you know what I mean, Like, I've 160 00:07:04,560 --> 00:07:07,200 Speaker 2: never I didn't have brothers growing up. I have one 161 00:07:07,240 --> 00:07:09,360 Speaker 2: have brother who's twenty years younger, so I didn't. I 162 00:07:09,360 --> 00:07:11,080 Speaker 2: didn't have my dad wasn't around a lot, so I 163 00:07:11,120 --> 00:07:13,239 Speaker 2: didn't now that I'm thinking about it, I just didn't 164 00:07:13,240 --> 00:07:15,080 Speaker 2: have a lot of male energy around. So when I 165 00:07:15,200 --> 00:07:19,920 Speaker 2: started seeing men and in a little bit in high school, 166 00:07:19,960 --> 00:07:23,480 Speaker 2: but then in college and after that, it wasn't like. 167 00:07:23,520 --> 00:07:25,960 Speaker 4: A buddy buddy situation. I didn't don't don't even know 168 00:07:26,040 --> 00:07:28,880 Speaker 4: how to do that. They were like a foreign alien 169 00:07:29,000 --> 00:07:30,560 Speaker 4: to me, and I was like, I want to know 170 00:07:30,640 --> 00:07:32,280 Speaker 4: what that is, you know, And so I had to 171 00:07:32,320 --> 00:07:35,000 Speaker 4: move them in and we started so we. 172 00:07:36,760 --> 00:07:38,920 Speaker 2: You know. So then I had to learn how to 173 00:07:38,960 --> 00:07:40,840 Speaker 2: be friends. In fact, in the beginning, I remember one 174 00:07:40,840 --> 00:07:43,040 Speaker 2: of my earlier boyfriends was like, you can't break up 175 00:07:43,080 --> 00:07:45,400 Speaker 2: with me every time we have a fight, and I'm like, 176 00:07:46,040 --> 00:07:48,760 Speaker 2: why not? Get the hell And so I had to 177 00:07:48,840 --> 00:07:51,720 Speaker 2: learn I'm not even joking, like, oh, there's all this 178 00:07:51,880 --> 00:07:55,080 Speaker 2: other area to relate to the other person. So my 179 00:07:55,280 --> 00:07:58,680 Speaker 2: friendship comes later. Yeah, it has always come later, and 180 00:07:58,800 --> 00:08:00,280 Speaker 2: it's something that you have to learn. And if it 181 00:08:00,320 --> 00:08:02,240 Speaker 2: doesn't come natural, like it sounds like it came with you, 182 00:08:02,360 --> 00:08:04,640 Speaker 2: guys came really natural to be friends. 183 00:08:04,840 --> 00:08:07,600 Speaker 3: I have a lot of guy friends, or even in 184 00:08:07,720 --> 00:08:10,200 Speaker 3: my youth, you know, I guess that just was a thing. 185 00:08:11,800 --> 00:08:13,840 Speaker 1: It is a thing, but it often comes up right 186 00:08:14,000 --> 00:08:14,440 Speaker 1: like it does. 187 00:08:14,680 --> 00:08:15,400 Speaker 3: I have had that. 188 00:08:17,040 --> 00:08:17,280 Speaker 2: Ruin. 189 00:08:17,400 --> 00:08:21,240 Speaker 1: I only have one close male friend where it never 190 00:08:21,440 --> 00:08:27,520 Speaker 1: became more or different, and that's the friendship that survived. Yeah, yeah, 191 00:08:28,040 --> 00:08:31,480 Speaker 1: and we were just sort of saved by circumstance, meaning 192 00:08:32,920 --> 00:08:36,559 Speaker 1: we would be dating other people, and so the friendship 193 00:08:36,720 --> 00:08:42,400 Speaker 1: matured through the attraction phase and just became we're friends forever. 194 00:08:42,559 --> 00:08:44,360 Speaker 1: We sort of missed over it, but I got to 195 00:08:44,360 --> 00:08:46,480 Speaker 1: tell you now that we're talking about, like it actually 196 00:08:46,600 --> 00:08:50,120 Speaker 1: ruined a lot of friendships. But I also think it's 197 00:08:50,200 --> 00:08:53,880 Speaker 1: really challenging if you're single to be best friends with 198 00:08:53,960 --> 00:08:57,520 Speaker 1: a guy. It's just too complicated, right, So now my 199 00:08:57,679 --> 00:09:01,719 Speaker 1: really intimate relationships are with women, like those are my 200 00:09:02,360 --> 00:09:05,679 Speaker 1: intimate friendships. And I have some good guy friends who 201 00:09:05,679 --> 00:09:08,040 Speaker 1: I see occasionally, but I don't have any guy friends 202 00:09:08,080 --> 00:09:11,280 Speaker 1: that I hang out with all the time like I 203 00:09:11,440 --> 00:09:11,640 Speaker 1: used to. 204 00:09:12,120 --> 00:09:14,000 Speaker 4: Yeah, that was a young woman's game. 205 00:09:17,920 --> 00:09:21,280 Speaker 3: Once you do move in with someone, which you seem 206 00:09:21,320 --> 00:09:24,520 Speaker 3: to do right away, I do right away, immediate. 207 00:09:24,200 --> 00:09:27,319 Speaker 4: For Daphne on the sewing gate, right away, and you 208 00:09:27,400 --> 00:09:27,680 Speaker 4: know what this. 209 00:09:27,760 --> 00:09:28,199 Speaker 3: Means to you. 210 00:09:29,640 --> 00:09:32,760 Speaker 4: And by the way, like we're together eighteen years later, 211 00:09:32,880 --> 00:09:33,280 Speaker 4: and that was. 212 00:09:33,320 --> 00:09:33,960 Speaker 3: A good first day. 213 00:09:35,840 --> 00:09:37,760 Speaker 4: But I do remember when we first moved in, and 214 00:09:37,800 --> 00:09:38,320 Speaker 4: I've lived. 215 00:09:38,200 --> 00:09:39,880 Speaker 2: With other men too, and I was just like, oh 216 00:09:39,960 --> 00:09:42,680 Speaker 2: my god, it's they're totally different, you know, their bath 217 00:09:43,200 --> 00:09:44,560 Speaker 2: I think you have to have your own bathroom. 218 00:09:44,600 --> 00:09:45,319 Speaker 4: If that's positive. 219 00:09:45,440 --> 00:09:49,360 Speaker 1: Bathrooms are super cute. We're important if you can, ever 220 00:09:49,720 --> 00:09:52,559 Speaker 1: you can possibly have separate bathrooms, Yeah, if you can. 221 00:09:52,520 --> 00:09:56,160 Speaker 2: It's separate for sure. One entrance with two different apartments 222 00:09:56,240 --> 00:09:57,640 Speaker 2: would be lovely. 223 00:09:57,840 --> 00:10:03,599 Speaker 4: I would love that next door. Even better houses with 224 00:10:03,720 --> 00:10:08,199 Speaker 4: separate houses would be amazing. I think I think I'm 225 00:10:08,240 --> 00:10:09,960 Speaker 4: onto something there, to be honest, because you. 226 00:10:10,000 --> 00:10:10,480 Speaker 3: Know, there's set. 227 00:10:10,520 --> 00:10:12,480 Speaker 1: A friend of mine was talking to an architect friend 228 00:10:12,480 --> 00:10:14,319 Speaker 1: and they were saying, the new thing is you have 229 00:10:14,520 --> 00:10:15,720 Speaker 1: your own space. 230 00:10:15,600 --> 00:10:17,720 Speaker 3: Even that are like a duplex where. 231 00:10:18,440 --> 00:10:20,560 Speaker 4: Yes, that's what I'm saying now we're talking. 232 00:10:21,679 --> 00:10:24,599 Speaker 2: But definitely your own bathrooms, and definitely you just have 233 00:10:24,720 --> 00:10:28,360 Speaker 2: to learn to find the sexiness even though you've seen 234 00:10:28,400 --> 00:10:32,000 Speaker 2: all the other stuff. I've heard people say, like when 235 00:10:32,000 --> 00:10:34,280 Speaker 2: you're getting ready to go out to dinner, you just 236 00:10:34,320 --> 00:10:35,960 Speaker 2: don't want to be in the bathroom if you only 237 00:10:36,000 --> 00:10:38,079 Speaker 2: have one at the same time. You don't want to 238 00:10:38,320 --> 00:10:40,440 Speaker 2: get too familiar and comfortable with each other. 239 00:10:40,559 --> 00:10:41,640 Speaker 4: You just don't. 240 00:10:41,720 --> 00:10:44,079 Speaker 1: I don't know. I'm a believer in keeping the bathroom 241 00:10:44,200 --> 00:10:47,719 Speaker 1: door closed. People says, you know what, real intimacy is 242 00:10:48,200 --> 00:10:49,359 Speaker 1: being in the bathroom. 243 00:10:49,000 --> 00:10:53,400 Speaker 4: Together or pee with the door open. Yes, I agree. 244 00:10:53,559 --> 00:10:56,199 Speaker 4: I'm not a not a fan. I think for some 245 00:10:56,360 --> 00:10:58,200 Speaker 4: people that's the height of romance. 246 00:10:58,320 --> 00:10:59,600 Speaker 1: I am not one of those people. 247 00:11:00,080 --> 00:11:02,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's hard to unsee certain Yeah. 248 00:11:03,440 --> 00:11:05,439 Speaker 1: I see enough of my dogs going to the bathroom. 249 00:11:05,480 --> 00:11:08,040 Speaker 1: I don't need to bring that into my human life. 250 00:11:08,800 --> 00:11:10,840 Speaker 2: You know, it's funny because I would like to see 251 00:11:10,880 --> 00:11:14,680 Speaker 2: in our comments if people want to comment on their tricks, 252 00:11:14,760 --> 00:11:18,080 Speaker 2: because I think that it's a really good ongoing problem 253 00:11:18,200 --> 00:11:18,960 Speaker 2: issue for people. 254 00:11:19,000 --> 00:11:20,760 Speaker 4: If you're going to live with someone and if your 255 00:11:20,800 --> 00:11:21,920 Speaker 4: marriage is going to last. 256 00:11:21,920 --> 00:11:24,040 Speaker 1: And stay romantic and sexy and fun. 257 00:11:24,480 --> 00:11:29,360 Speaker 3: As someone who's about to celebrate twenty seven years of marriage. 258 00:11:30,120 --> 00:11:32,440 Speaker 4: Well give us your number one secret. 259 00:11:32,800 --> 00:11:37,440 Speaker 3: I'm going to admit that we have separate bathrooms. Yeah, 260 00:11:38,120 --> 00:11:40,920 Speaker 3: can I know not everybody has that luxury, and I do. 261 00:11:42,000 --> 00:11:43,680 Speaker 2: I do. They can always use the one down at 262 00:11:43,679 --> 00:11:47,520 Speaker 2: the gas station if they If you don't, they can. 263 00:11:47,559 --> 00:11:50,400 Speaker 4: Where they leave the seats up. Anyway, Guys, they can 264 00:11:50,480 --> 00:11:53,439 Speaker 4: go outside. They're fine pretending campaign. 265 00:11:53,920 --> 00:11:56,680 Speaker 3: It's got a perfect solution, all right, give. 266 00:11:56,559 --> 00:11:57,720 Speaker 1: Them a shovel and a leaf. 267 00:11:57,800 --> 00:12:01,200 Speaker 4: He'll be fine. Behind the shed. 268 00:12:01,320 --> 00:12:01,720 Speaker 1: You're good. 269 00:12:02,000 --> 00:12:04,319 Speaker 4: I put your shaving stuff in a little hanging mirror. 270 00:12:04,760 --> 00:12:06,360 Speaker 4: All right, good, this is good. 271 00:12:06,800 --> 00:12:10,000 Speaker 3: All right, Well that was that was super fun, alright, 272 00:12:10,040 --> 00:12:10,800 Speaker 3: super fuch fun. 273 00:12:10,840 --> 00:12:11,760 Speaker 4: You guys as always. 274 00:12:12,040 --> 00:12:13,079 Speaker 3: All right, You're gonna. 275 00:12:12,880 --> 00:12:14,120 Speaker 4: See you in a few days. 276 00:12:14,520 --> 00:12:14,800 Speaker 1: Bye.