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Speaker 1: First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys

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Speaker 1: online at advocates dot com. Willam is on the phone

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Speaker 1: today for a first date follow up and he's getting

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Speaker 1: ghosted or ghosts anyway. This is a different kind of

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Speaker 1: first day follow up. I'll let Liam explain.

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Speaker 2: Liam.

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Speaker 1: What's up, man, how are you?

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Speaker 3: Hey? Good?

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Speaker 1: So tell us your situation.

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Speaker 3: So about uh, it's been like I think four years, Yeah,

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Speaker 3: about four years since I ghosted this girl Abbey.

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Speaker 1: Oh okay, so you.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and I kind of want to she wants to

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Speaker 3: go on another date.

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Speaker 2: What what after four years are you supposed to respect

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Speaker 2: the down four years?

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I mean I got to give you a

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Speaker 1: hard time a little bit.

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Speaker 3: We Yeah, I had a great date and then we,

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Speaker 3: you know, started actually dating.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so you so you were actually dating her four

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Speaker 1: years ago?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, you know it was well, I mean it

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Speaker 3: was like it was still now. We were dating for

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Speaker 3: like a two months, I'd say. I mean we were

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Speaker 3: not like espicially boyfriend and girlfriend, but we were moving

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Speaker 3: on heavy. But I did get transferred with work, and

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Speaker 3: I mean we weren't exclusive, but we were just having fun,

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Speaker 3: you know, and getting.

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Speaker 1: To get ghosted after two months, just disappeared.

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Speaker 3: I just didn't think it was necessary to tell her

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Speaker 3: that I was. I know, it was pretty much stuff

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Speaker 3: that I did that to her. I just you know,

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Speaker 3: I didn't know what. I didn't know what to do,

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Speaker 3: and you know, because I knew I was gonna get transferred,

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Speaker 3: and I just I don't know, I'm not really good

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Speaker 3: with breakups, you know, And I just thought like, since

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Speaker 3: we're not like dating dating, I thought, you know, if

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Speaker 3: it's better if I just like disappear so messed up.

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Speaker 3: I understand. I know it's my fault, and I get it,

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Speaker 3: you know. And when I moved for work, you know,

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Speaker 3: I just keep thinking about her, Like for the last

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Speaker 3: four years, i'ld go on other dates and I'm like, wow,

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Speaker 3: she's not She's not as great as any was, you know,

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Speaker 3: so I you know, and I just like I thought

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Speaker 3: about her, and I was like, but then I had

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Speaker 3: the opportunity to come actually back, and I was like,

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Speaker 3: you know, this is the perfect time to like, you know,

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Speaker 1: And I mean, yeah, I just like on social media

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Speaker 1: and stuff.

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Speaker 3: I mean I tried that obviously, but she bought me,

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Speaker 3: which I get I get I understand why to do that.

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Speaker 3: I get it because I just like disappeared. But you know,

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Speaker 3: but I don't know she's great. I just see she's

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Speaker 3: the perfect girl. And it's like you know that you're

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Speaker 3: like get saying like the like in the movies, the

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Speaker 3: girl who got away, Like she's literally the girl who

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Speaker 3: got away. And even though I kind of like with,

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Speaker 3: you know, just obviously I should have manned up and

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Speaker 3: told her, you know, with the situation. I get it.

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Speaker 3: I know why she would be met at me, but

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Speaker 3: it it's been four years, so I figure maybe she's.

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Speaker 1: Not as mad. Remember she's got four years. I still

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Speaker 1: be mad about it. You never know.

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Speaker 3: Shoot, I actually want to call her, and she bocked

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Speaker 3: my number, so you guys can only get through her.

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Speaker 3: I can't, Okay, I want to. I want to tell

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Speaker 3: her how sorry I am. I should never go, sir.

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Speaker 3: I should have manned up and told her my situation.

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Speaker 3: But I really want her to be my Valentine.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Well, I don't know if it's all yet. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's like half all. We'll see, all right, man, Well

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Speaker 1: we'll play a song come back, and then we'll call

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Speaker 1: her and see if she still remembers you after four years,

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Speaker 1: which I'm sure she does because you ghosted her out

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Speaker 1: of the blue after you're dating for a couple of months.

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Speaker 1: And if we can get you see if we can

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Speaker 1: get you a Valentine, thank you? All right, we'll play

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Speaker 1: song come back and get your first day follow up

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Speaker 1: next if you're just joining us for today's first Day

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Speaker 1: follow up. It's a little different than most because Liam

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Speaker 1: is on the phone, and Liam actually ghosted the girl

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Speaker 1: that he wants us to call today. He actually ghosted

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Speaker 1: her four years ago, and he wants to call and

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Speaker 1: ask her to be his Valentine. Before Before we do that,

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Speaker 1: I'll let Liam King to recap his situation.

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Speaker 3: Go ahead, Liam, So four years ago I met this

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Speaker 3: great girl Abby. We were getting for a couple of months.

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Speaker 3: It was great, but I got transferred for work. I

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Speaker 3: and I want to call her apologize I should be

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Speaker 3: my Valentine. This year, I moved back, so I'm in

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Speaker 3: the same city she is, and I want to rekindle

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Speaker 3: what we had.

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Speaker 1: Could we have a term for this? Is it like

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Speaker 1: called zombie?

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Speaker 3: You know? I like that.

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Speaker 1: That's a good term.

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Speaker 3: I like that.

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Speaker 1: And the reason that we have to do it in

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Speaker 1: a first day followed is because she's blocked you on everything, right.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I can't get in touch with her. So okay,

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Speaker 3: she blocked my top phone and every social media platform

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Speaker 3: block So I had to call you guys because you

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Speaker 3: only want to get to her through them, you know,

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, here we go. You ready?

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Speaker 3: Yes, I'm ready?

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Speaker 1: Okay, here we go.

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Speaker 3: Hi is this Abby?

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Speaker 2: Ye?

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Speaker 1: Hi? Abby? How are you? My name is Jewbell and

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Speaker 1: I'm from a radio show called the Jewbell Show. Hi, Abby,

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Speaker 1: whole show. Here. My name's Nina, Hi, and I'm Victoria.

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Speaker 3: Hey.

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Speaker 1: How are you doing?

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Speaker 3: Hey?

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Speaker 1: I listened to the show you do sweet?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? Why are you calling?

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Speaker 1: Well, there's a couple of reasons phone prank, But it'd

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Speaker 1: be weird to do a prank phone call if I

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Speaker 1: was just introducing myself right away, So probably not that.

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Speaker 1: Are you cheating on anybody or suspecting anybody cheating on you?

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Speaker 3: No?

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Speaker 1: So another option will be the first.

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Speaker 3: Oh, I can't cheat on anyone that I'm not with.

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Speaker 1: Oh you are single? Interesting? Great? Because this is a

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Speaker 1: first night follow up. So you know, that's the segment

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Speaker 1: where if you go out on a date with somebody

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Speaker 1: why you're ghosting them.

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Speaker 3: Oh okay, I don't think I ghosted in anybody? Tho? Yeah? Positive?

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Speaker 1: Okay. Well have you been ghosted ever?

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Speaker 2: Uh? Yeah, yeah, a couple of times and it really sucked.

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Speaker 1: Yes, it does. We're calling you today because somebody would

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Speaker 1: like to say hi to you. Go ahead, sir, Hi Babby?

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Speaker 3: Is uh? Is that Liam?

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Speaker 1: Yes?

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Speaker 3: It is? Yes. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: You kind of led me down that path of like

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Speaker 2: who ghosted you?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? So yeah?

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Speaker 2: Is this the Liam that ghosted me like four years

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Speaker 2: ago after we've been dating.

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Speaker 3: A couple of months.

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Speaker 1: Yes?

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Speaker 3: Seriously, what the hell dude? Why? Why what is this?

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Speaker 3: After four years? What is this? Well? I'm back, I'm back,

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Speaker 3: first of all. First of all, okay, I just want

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Speaker 3: dating for a few months. That's on me, and I

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Speaker 3: just wanted to call you to apologize now, you know, I.

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Speaker 2: Mean, it's been four years. Why why did you ghost me?

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Speaker 3: Ram? Okay, So I got to actually transferred out out

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Speaker 3: I h that's why. And I just I'm really bad

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Speaker 2: As a person, and you just you just didn't feel

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Speaker 3: Well, I just me because I was moving. I just

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Speaker 3: discussing it? Uh? But now I'm back. I moved back,

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Speaker 3: And I we had such I mean, I mean, we

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Speaker 3: had such amazing time. You cannot deny that when we

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Speaker 3: And so for the last four years, you know, I

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Speaker 3: I left you. I mean, obviously I know why you

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Speaker 3: out to you, you know too, to have this conversation.

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Speaker 3: But you block my phone, you blocked everything. The radio

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Speaker 3: with you. You know, I didn't know what else to do.

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Speaker 3: And I really want to make this up to you.

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Speaker 3: I'm very sorry, and I want you to be my

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Speaker 3: Valentine and I wanted to take you out for around

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Speaker 3: time to day I show you how different I am.

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Speaker 1: And you know, Abby, would you like to be Liam's Valentine?

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Speaker 1: You said you were single? Would you like to go

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Speaker 1: out with them Valentine's Day? To reconnect after four years?

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Speaker 2: Well, I just don't know why. He couldn't have explained

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Speaker 2: all this four years ago. Yeah, absolutely, like just too

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Speaker 2: different years later?

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Speaker 3: Come back? What I was more immature four years ago?

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Speaker 3: I mean, I'm I'm a different man today. I know

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Speaker 3: I made a mistake and I thought about you every day.

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Speaker 3: My heartbreaks that I give this to you. Please, I'm

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Speaker 3: like begging you like, I want to show you how

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Speaker 3: I changed, and you know, if you just you know,

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Speaker 3: be my Valentine, you know, go out with me. Just

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Speaker 3: I'm just asking you for one date, just to show

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Speaker 3: you how sorry I am and how much I change.

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Speaker 3: And we could talk about this, you know what.

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Speaker 2: I you know what. I can't go out with you

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Speaker 2: on Valentine's Day. I'm very so I can go out

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Speaker 2: tonight if you want what really?

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Speaker 3: Okay, I'm down.

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Speaker 1: You will you will go out with him again?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'll go out tonight.

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Speaker 2: He seems like he's really sorry and I really feel

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Speaker 2: like I need to talk to him and.

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Speaker 3: Dinner, okay, wherever you want to know, so let me know.

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Speaker 1: Will you guys check in with us tomorrow so tell

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Speaker 1: us about your date please?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, definitely. All right guys. First of all, thank

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Speaker 3: you so much for giving me contact with a Thank

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Speaker 3: you for giving me a second chance. And I'm going

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Speaker 3: to make this up to you and I'll see you Tony.

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Speaker 3: I can't wait. Good, you want to go night?

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Speaker 2: Well, like, so I'll unblock your number and you can

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Speaker 2: text me and you'll figure it out, all.

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Speaker 1: Right, amazing, amazing, amazing, Okay, and we'll talk to you

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Speaker 1: guys the same time tomorrow to get an update on

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Speaker 1: how it went.

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Speaker 3: Okay, okay, well yeah, wonderful. Hopefully it's gonna be it's

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Speaker 3: gonna go great, I know it. Yeah, we'll see.

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Speaker 2: I mean, you've got a lot of talking to do.

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Speaker 3: So I know, I know, I'm gonna be ready.

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Speaker 1: Double's first Date follow up