WEBVTT - 2nd Date Update PODCAST: Hangry For Love

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<v Speaker 1>Looking cubile in the morning. Second date update. The guy

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<v Speaker 1>on the phone for a second date update today seems

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<v Speaker 1>to know why his date went wrong. He says it's

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<v Speaker 1>because he sort of kind of cat fished her. It's

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<v Speaker 1>not really, but he kind of cat fished her. I'll

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<v Speaker 1>let him explain. Daniel's up, how are you? Yeah? You

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<v Speaker 1>doing not too bad? So you sort of cat fished

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<v Speaker 1>your date. I guess you could say that I'm never

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<v Speaker 1>on the dating app and we end up going out

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<v Speaker 1>to lunch. I guess the background real quick, is just

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<v Speaker 1>that I am about sixty pounds heavier than like my

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<v Speaker 1>photo on there. Okay, so you've gained some weight since

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<v Speaker 1>posting your photo or you chose a skinny photo of

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<v Speaker 1>a post. Well, I actually gained a bunch of weight

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<v Speaker 1>because I had to move back home with my mom.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, let's play alongs her. But she's just like

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<v Speaker 1>heavy butter cooker, like just right, I feel right. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but you didn't update your picture with the weight gain. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>the thing is, I didn't want to post a picture

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<v Speaker 1>of me like heavy, just that would not be getting

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<v Speaker 1>me very many swipes. So I you know, I just

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<v Speaker 1>figured that I would be getting rid of that weight,

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<v Speaker 1>which is what I told her when I met her.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's true, like I've been on a diet like

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<v Speaker 1>no carbs, just like you know, trying to get rid

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<v Speaker 1>of this weight, and you know that I'm not gonna

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<v Speaker 1>look like this in a two months. I get that.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like the same reason I keep my skinny jeans

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<v Speaker 1>even though I can't fit into him eventually, don't still

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<v Speaker 1>work exactly. All right. What's her name, by the way,

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<v Speaker 1>her name's Kristen. Kristen. Okay, and you said that you

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<v Speaker 1>explained that to her, so obviously you felt self conscious

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<v Speaker 1>when you shot up. You're like, I know I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>look different than my picture. Yes, so I was pretty

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<v Speaker 1>upfront about that, and that seemed to be okay. What

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<v Speaker 1>was her reaction? It was chill, like she wasn't like mad,

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<v Speaker 1>and she didn't seem genuinely upset. Maybe a little prize,

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<v Speaker 1>but you know, it seemed okay. She didn't like body

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<v Speaker 1>shame you and walk out her. No, she's a really

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<v Speaker 1>nice person and I don't think particularly like shallow, so

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<v Speaker 1>I think that was really cool. Okay, So tell us

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<v Speaker 1>about the date then, how was it? Well, since I

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<v Speaker 1>just told her about how moms diet. I felt like

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<v Speaker 1>I had to order a salad, you know. So what

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<v Speaker 1>ended up happening was that she had ordered like this

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<v Speaker 1>chicken parm sandwich, and when the food came, she went

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<v Speaker 1>to the bathroom and I just, I don't know, I

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<v Speaker 1>hadn't had like a card in like three days or something.

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<v Speaker 1>The chicken parm just looks so good, So I was

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<v Speaker 1>just thinking I could just take like a nibble or something.

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<v Speaker 1>You ate her sandwich. I just took a bite and

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<v Speaker 1>then that was just the best thing I'd ever tasted

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<v Speaker 1>in my life. So I like, I had like another

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<v Speaker 1>bite or three. Anyway, you couldn't started what I know.

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<v Speaker 1>When she came back to the table and half her

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<v Speaker 1>food was gone, well I realized before she got back.

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<v Speaker 1>So I flagged down the waiter and they had a

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<v Speaker 1>soup and half a sandwich special for lunch. I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>can you bring super real quick? So, thinking maybe that

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<v Speaker 1>she would think that they brought that special and it

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<v Speaker 1>was just half a sandwich, would I say that's an

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<v Speaker 1>actually genius cover on. Yeah, it was a pretty good idea.

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<v Speaker 1>So he brought the soup and she came back and

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<v Speaker 1>she didn't seem to notice anything. I didn't think that

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<v Speaker 1>was the conversation good and everything else. Honestly, after like

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<v Speaker 1>I had that half a sandwich, I felt like better

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<v Speaker 1>than I felt in day. Oh my god, the conversation

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<v Speaker 1>was great and we had a great time. And I

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<v Speaker 1>mean the only thing like later there might have been

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<v Speaker 1>a time when I would have normally tried to kiss her,

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<v Speaker 1>but I didn't want to. I didn't want her to

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<v Speaker 1>smell the chicken parm sandwich. O. God, that sandwich. You'd

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<v Speaker 1>be busted. Yeah, I will say, if you're meeting for lunch,

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<v Speaker 1>it would be a weird thing to do. I'll kiss

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<v Speaker 1>I think at the end of a lunch date. I

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<v Speaker 1>just didn't want to risk it. You know, you just

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<v Speaker 1>feel guilty the whole time, Like, how's the sandwich? You've

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<v Speaker 1>never had that before? God? Yeah, did she seem into

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<v Speaker 1>you at the end of everything, it just seemed like

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<v Speaker 1>a nice time. I mean, that's why I'm trying to see,

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<v Speaker 1>like what might have happened, Like, yeah, I thought she

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<v Speaker 1>would definitely be responding to me, like I said, like

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<v Speaker 1>a nice person, but she's just totally ghosted me. And

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<v Speaker 1>I'm I'm trying to figure out which maybe what part

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<v Speaker 1>of it? Maybe she figured out that you ate her sandwich.

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<v Speaker 1>I'd be pissed. Do you know how pissed i'd be. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I can imagine. I just hope that that's not it. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>Well we'll play a song and then come back and

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<v Speaker 1>call and get your second date update. All right, oct Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>looking jubil in the morning. Second date update if you're

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<v Speaker 1>just tuning in today's second date update. Daniel is on

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<v Speaker 1>the phone and he thinks he might not be getting

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<v Speaker 1>a call back from a girl named Kristen because he

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<v Speaker 1>met her and he was actually sixty pounds heavier than

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<v Speaker 1>his profile picture because apparently he lived with his mom

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<v Speaker 1>for a little while and gained a bunch of weight

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<v Speaker 1>because his mom likes to cook with butter. That was

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<v Speaker 1>his excuse. So but also he ate half her sandwich

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<v Speaker 1>too on the date. So we're about to find out

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<v Speaker 1>if either one of those is the issue. All right, Daniel,

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<v Speaker 1>you're ready to give her a call? Yeah, I'm just

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<v Speaker 1>gonna say, if it's really because you ate half of

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<v Speaker 1>her sandwich, she's got to see the humor in it.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think that there's a woman alive that hasn't

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<v Speaker 1>been super hungry. At some point, it felt like she

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<v Speaker 1>couldn't eat what she wanted to. She should understand, I

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<v Speaker 1>really hope. So I still feel like, wow, I shouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>have done that. All right, Well, I'm gonna dollar phone

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<v Speaker 1>of her right now. Here we go. Okay, Okay, Hello, Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>may I speak to Kristin? Yes? Is this Kristen? Kristen,

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<v Speaker 1>how are you? This is Jewel from the radio show

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<v Speaker 1>Brook and Jewel in the Morning. Um, for real, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm on the radio right now and say that. I

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<v Speaker 1>just said, this is Jewil calling from Brook and Jewl

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<v Speaker 1>in the Morning. What's going on? Not much? What's going

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<v Speaker 1>on with you? The usual? I don't know you, so

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<v Speaker 1>I have no idea what the usual is. I'm actually,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, just taking a break from work and stuff

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<v Speaker 1>and I got this call im a number. Okay, I

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<v Speaker 1>guess I'll answer it. So nervous, you're like, giggle, nervous,

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<v Speaker 1>I am. I'm calling you today because we do a

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<v Speaker 1>segment on our show it's called a second date update.

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<v Speaker 1>That's where if you go out on a date with

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<v Speaker 1>somebody and then don't call them back after, they can

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<v Speaker 1>email us to get you on the phone and find

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<v Speaker 1>out what happened. And we got an email about you

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<v Speaker 1>from a dude named Daniel. From Daniel, yep, okay, you

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<v Speaker 1>remember going out with Daniel. Yeah, I went on a

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<v Speaker 1>date with Daniel, right, and Daniel emailed us and told

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<v Speaker 1>us about your date. He also said that you ghosted

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<v Speaker 1>him after and you guys aren't even talking anymore, and

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<v Speaker 1>he wants us to know if he did something wrong.

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<v Speaker 1>He really liked you. He said that you guys had

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<v Speaker 1>really good chemistry and lots of great conversation. What exactly

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<v Speaker 1>do you guys know about the situation. Well, you know

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<v Speaker 1>that you guys met online and that you met up

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<v Speaker 1>for lunch. He said everything seemed to be great between

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<v Speaker 1>you two. He did say that he's a little heavier

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<v Speaker 1>in person than his profile picture, and he thought maybe

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<v Speaker 1>that was the reason. Yes, that is part of it.

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<v Speaker 1>For sure, there were a lot of red flags. I'll

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<v Speaker 1>tell you that he said that you were super kind

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<v Speaker 1>about it, and that he explained that he had moved

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<v Speaker 1>back into his mom's house for a while. He gave

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<v Speaker 1>way and you were way understanding. I mean, look, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not judgmental, you know, and it just didn't seem like

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<v Speaker 1>if that's his issue, he's not mine, you know, so

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<v Speaker 1>I'll just kind of listen. Okay, But you said red flags?

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<v Speaker 1>So what red flags? Yeah, there were a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>red flags. He started out with it he's living with

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<v Speaker 1>his arrant with no explanation, and he ordered a salad

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<v Speaker 1>and I ordered what was it, like a sandwich, but

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<v Speaker 1>you know, not worrying about my weight or anything. But

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<v Speaker 1>he kept insisting that I would eat a salad. So

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<v Speaker 1>he just like ketling trying to falad job my salad.

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<v Speaker 1>When I finally said no, he just said okay, fine

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<v Speaker 1>and slammed his fork down on the table. Who I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, whoa, whoa okay, red flag? Yeah. Then after that,

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<v Speaker 1>the work pard does. He kept for rating me about

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<v Speaker 1>my food that I ordered, how well I ordered? And

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<v Speaker 1>I think it was an eggplant parmesan believe, and it's

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<v Speaker 1>just not as healthy as his salad, I guess. So

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<v Speaker 1>he just kept going, that's unhealthy. Do you know how

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<v Speaker 1>many carbs are in that? Do you how much calories

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<v Speaker 1>are in that? I'm like, just let me enjoy my

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<v Speaker 1>half a sandwich. You know what? The heck the guy

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<v Speaker 1>whom shows up sixty pounds heavier than his picture is

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<v Speaker 1>food shaping you over what you should and should not

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<v Speaker 1>be eating. I don't know. Maybe he was trying to

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<v Speaker 1>make himself feel better because he wasn't allowed to have it,

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<v Speaker 1>but it didn't come off well to me. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't even get dessert because I already knew what was

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<v Speaker 1>going on, and I said no, and he pressured me

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<v Speaker 1>to get the cheesecake. What he pressured you to get

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<v Speaker 1>cheesecake after all that, I don't know if he was

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<v Speaker 1>upset because he started to cry and walk away. No, wait,

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<v Speaker 1>cry because you wait, cry because you wouldn't order the cheesecake,

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<v Speaker 1>or because it was coming and he didn't eat any

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<v Speaker 1>because I wouldn't order the cheesecake. At this point, I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, oh, he's just gonna shame. I would to

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<v Speaker 1>try to eat my cheesecake. I want to enjoy it,

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<v Speaker 1>you know. But when he started to cry and walk away,

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<v Speaker 1>I was like very confused, like is he coming back?

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<v Speaker 1>Is he's skipping out on the bill? But he came

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<v Speaker 1>back and he paid the bill, and you know, we

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<v Speaker 1>said goodbye. And I didn't think i'd hear from him,

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<v Speaker 1>because I'd be embarrassed if I did that, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>But since then I received a bunch of texts, and

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<v Speaker 1>one of them would just put me over the edge.

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<v Speaker 1>It was asking for money for the bill because he

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<v Speaker 1>said he only ordered salad, And I'm like, what's with

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<v Speaker 1>this guy? I mean, no matter what, if you're going

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<v Speaker 1>a day was one and you pay, it's pretty bad

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<v Speaker 1>form to venmom after and be like, hey, you owe

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<v Speaker 1>me for that? Yeah, I mean Red Flag City And look,

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<v Speaker 1>I have only so many heartbeats in my life, and

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<v Speaker 1>why waste them on someone that would It wouldn't benefit

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<v Speaker 1>either of us, Like I'm not interesting. Yeah, I can

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<v Speaker 1>see why you actually ghosted him. Like I wouldn't give

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<v Speaker 1>him any explanation either. I wouldn't give him any more

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<v Speaker 1>of my time, makes sense, Christen, But can you give

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<v Speaker 1>him a few more minutes because he's actually on the

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<v Speaker 1>other line listening. I wants to talk to you. What Sorry, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>if unless you hung up? Daniel, are you still there?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm still here, Daniel? Oh, Christen, Hey, Wow, I can't

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<v Speaker 1>believe I'm sharing what I'm hearing. Like, no, I'm on

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<v Speaker 1>a diet, and it's just like, I don't know if

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<v Speaker 1>you've ever bound on one, It's like it really messes

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<v Speaker 1>with your head, So like I thought you would understand

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<v Speaker 1>what I'm going through. I can't empathize who what's you're

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<v Speaker 1>going through the other factors or the reasons, not the

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<v Speaker 1>fact that you want a diet or you look differently.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, you obviously are. You've got your own issues

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<v Speaker 1>and you could deal with that, aren't on me? Yeah? Okay, look, look, look,

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<v Speaker 1>look I'll explain the salad thing and what really happened. Okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>Well what happened, Well, basically, you went to the bathroom

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<v Speaker 1>and you had your chicken parm sandwich there, and I

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<v Speaker 1>tried it and then it was I basically ate half

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<v Speaker 1>of the sandwich. Oh my god, are you kidding me?

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<v Speaker 1>You ate my food? Well, I was weak with hunger.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess I didn't realize, and you could have told me, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess I could have. I just felt really bad.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm really sorry. I didn't care what Daniel. That doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>explain the anger over her not trying your salad, does it. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I just felt so guilty about the sandwich that I

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<v Speaker 1>just really wanted to eat the salad, and then I

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<v Speaker 1>would just feel like we were even you know, Oh

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<v Speaker 1>my gosh, she didn't make you feel better because she

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<v Speaker 1>didn't eat any of your salad. I didn't get mad

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<v Speaker 1>at her. It was just like the hunger, like the

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<v Speaker 1>low bloodshedar like I was like hungry. You know what

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<v Speaker 1>the hunger got mad at? Or? Did the hunger make

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<v Speaker 1>you cry over? Dessert too had to be I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>like I must have a severe low blood sugar count.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you cannot be in a total a hole on

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<v Speaker 1>your date on just being hungry? I don't think you

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<v Speaker 1>get it though, like three days of no carbs, like

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<v Speaker 1>I don't even know what I was saying, You know

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<v Speaker 1>what I mean? It's pretty if I obviously need some help, Daniel,

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<v Speaker 1>you really do you need to go see a dietician,

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<v Speaker 1>a therapist or something. You need to be honest with yourself.

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<v Speaker 1>Hamburger not a therapist. I needn't, Daniel. What she's tried

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<v Speaker 1>to say is try a different diet. If you can't

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<v Speaker 1>function as a normal person not eating carbs, then maybe

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<v Speaker 1>that's not the right avenue for you to lose weight.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe you need a lace that Hamburger with some psychotropic

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<v Speaker 1>medication and make you feel better. I don't know. Later

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<v Speaker 1>there's dating sites for this, you know, but I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>on that they're a dating site for people who get

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<v Speaker 1>really angry over food. I'm sure there is something like that. Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>you guys are looking at this the whole wrong way,

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<v Speaker 1>like I'm doing a good thing and you're seeing me

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<v Speaker 1>like struggle through the worst right here. So like it's

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<v Speaker 1>only going to get better from here. I'm gonna get

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<v Speaker 1>like looking and more control of this, so you know

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<v Speaker 1>what I mean. Like, Okay, Well, in that case, Kristen,

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<v Speaker 1>would you like to go out with Daniel on a

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<v Speaker 1>second date. We'll pay for it. He's getting better, you

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<v Speaker 1>know what they say, date an angry chubby guy, marry

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<v Speaker 1>a really stable hot guy. I think I'd wait till

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<v Speaker 1>the chubby guy gets stable and then try to hate him. Well, okay, fine,

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<v Speaker 1>don't have to be about it. I'm sorry. I'm just

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<v Speaker 1>like honestly, like I haven't even eaten anything today yet, Daniel,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry, no second day, man, but go get just

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<v Speaker 1>go shove a carrot up you behind and lea me alone.

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<v Speaker 1>Shove a carrot in you're behind and a donut in

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<v Speaker 1>your mouth or something so you get some carves and

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<v Speaker 1>calm down. You guys just aren't like getting that. I

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<v Speaker 1>mean I mean, seriously, don't listening to me. Whoa, oh buddy, Sorry, sorry, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just I'm oh my god, I'm just like feeling

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<v Speaker 1>kind of like dizzy and weak because, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>like I had like a canned peach earlier. It's like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh had, I'm so sorry. What kind of a diet

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<v Speaker 1>are you on? Broken juwil in the morning text in

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<v Speaker 1>it seven eight five nine two says I'm on a diet,

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<v Speaker 1>So I really understand where this guy's coming from. Talking

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<v Speaker 1>about today's second date update, This dude, Daniel wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>call this girl named Kristen. He's on a strict diet

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<v Speaker 1>and while they were out on their date, he actually

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<v Speaker 1>ate half of a sandwich while she was in the bathroom,

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<v Speaker 1>and he thought that might have been a turn off

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<v Speaker 1>for her. But when we called her, we found out

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<v Speaker 1>the problem was in fact Daniel's diet. She didn't notice

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<v Speaker 1>that half for a sandwich had been gone while she

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<v Speaker 1>was in the bathroom, but Daniel I was constantly telling

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<v Speaker 1>her how unhealthy or chicken parm sandwich was ate half off,

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<v Speaker 1>and then literally started crying when she didn't order the cheesecake.

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<v Speaker 1>Just eat something. Yeah, this is not this is not

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<v Speaker 1>a diet that's going to work for you. On top

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<v Speaker 1>of his will behavior at the dinner table, a few

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<v Speaker 1>days later, he contacted Kristen asking her to venmo him

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<v Speaker 1>half of the bill because he only got a salad.

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<v Speaker 1>He blames his behavior on his diet. Yeah, that's what

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<v Speaker 1>it is, says his mood swings will be worth it

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<v Speaker 1>in the end. If once he's all slimmed down, oh man,

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<v Speaker 1>if he can survive. Yeah. She says, you'd rather date

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<v Speaker 1>a stable, chubby guide than an unstable skinny one. So

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<v Speaker 1>no second date. Remember, if you want to do a

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<v Speaker 1>second at update, just email the show and we will

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<v Speaker 1>call the person who didn't call you back.