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Speaker 1: not really, but he kind of cat fished her. I'll

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Speaker 1: let him explain. Daniel's up, how are you? Yeah? You

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Speaker 1: doing not too bad? So you sort of cat fished

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Speaker 1: your date. I guess you could say that I'm never

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Speaker 1: that I am about sixty pounds heavier than like my

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Speaker 1: a post. Well, I actually gained a bunch of weight

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Speaker 1: because I had to move back home with my mom.

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Speaker 1: I mean, let's play alongs her. But she's just like

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Speaker 1: me very many swipes. So I you know, I just

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Speaker 1: which is what I told her when I met her.

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Speaker 1: And it's true, like I've been on a diet like

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Speaker 1: look like this in a two months. I get that.

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Speaker 1: It's like the same reason I keep my skinny jeans

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Speaker 1: her name's Kristen. Kristen. Okay, and you said that you

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Speaker 1: when you shot up. You're like, I know I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: look different than my picture. Yes, so I was pretty

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Speaker 1: You ate her sandwich. I just took a bite and

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Speaker 1: looking jubil in the morning. Second date update if you're

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Speaker 1: just tuning in today's second date update. Daniel is on

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Speaker 1: because his mom likes to cook with butter. That was

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Speaker 1: if either one of those is the issue. All right, Daniel,

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Speaker 1: I don't think that there's a woman alive that hasn't

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Speaker 1: of her right now. Here we go. Okay, Okay, Hello, Hey,

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Speaker 1: may I speak to Kristin? Yes? Is this Kristen? Kristen,

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Speaker 1: how are you? This is Jewel from the radio show

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Speaker 1: Brook and Jewel in the Morning. Um, for real, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'm on the radio right now and say that. I

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Speaker 1: in the Morning. What's going on? Not much? What's going

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Speaker 1: on with you? The usual? I don't know you, so

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Speaker 1: I have no idea what the usual is. I'm actually,

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Speaker 1: segment on our show it's called a second date update.

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Speaker 1: That's where if you go out on a date with

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Speaker 1: out what happened. And we got an email about you

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Speaker 1: from a dude named Daniel. From Daniel, yep, okay, you

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Speaker 1: remember going out with Daniel. Yeah, I went on a

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Speaker 1: He really liked you. He said that you guys had

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Speaker 1: for lunch. He said everything seemed to be great between

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Speaker 1: For sure, there were a lot of red flags. I'll

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Speaker 1: So what red flags? Yeah, there were a lot of

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Speaker 1: and I ordered what was it, like a sandwich, but

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Speaker 1: When I finally said no, he just said okay, fine

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Speaker 1: because I'd be embarrassed if I did that, you know.

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Speaker 1: But since then I received a bunch of texts, and

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Speaker 1: It was asking for money for the bill because he

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Speaker 1: form to venmom after and be like, hey, you owe

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Speaker 1: me for that? Yeah, I mean Red Flag City And look,

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Speaker 1: I have only so many heartbeats in my life, and

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Speaker 1: why waste them on someone that would It wouldn't benefit

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Speaker 1: of my time, makes sense, Christen, But can you give

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Speaker 1: other line listening. I wants to talk to you. What Sorry, yeah,

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Speaker 1: if unless you hung up? Daniel, are you still there?

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Speaker 1: I'm still here, Daniel? Oh, Christen, Hey, Wow, I can't

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