WEBVTT - 2nd Date Update PODCAST: Getting Around

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<v Speaker 1>Brooking Jewels. Second date update Today, a listener named Justin

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<v Speaker 1>is on the phone for a second date update and

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<v Speaker 1>his email said that he's shocked he's not getting a

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<v Speaker 1>call back because apparently doesn't happen very often for Justin.

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<v Speaker 1>So Justin's up, man, how are you? Hey? How are

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<v Speaker 1>you guys doing? Not too bad? So your email said that, well,

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<v Speaker 1>what's the girl's name? Who isn't calling you back? By

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<v Speaker 1>the way, Erica? Erica? All right, so you said that

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<v Speaker 1>Erica isn't calling you back and you're shocked by that.

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<v Speaker 1>You'll get a lot of people blowing you off. Is that? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Pretty much? What are you like? A model? Well, I

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<v Speaker 1>mean I'm I'm a bartender, a former male model. Oh god,

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<v Speaker 1>you are just like a huge red flag, that's what

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<v Speaker 1>you are, sir, Like I don't even know you and

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<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't date you. Yeah. But also, if you're a

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<v Speaker 1>bartender former male model, I believe you. You You don't you

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<v Speaker 1>don't have a lot of people not call you back.

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<v Speaker 1>So what do you think happened? You know, it's funny,

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<v Speaker 1>I've I've guarantee you trying to call me for a

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<v Speaker 1>second date update, but I just probably never picked up.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh you think she's trying to get a hold of

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<v Speaker 1>you too, No, not this one, but I'm I'm sure

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<v Speaker 1>there's been other girls I've been trying to get a

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<v Speaker 1>hold of me to you guys, Oh all right, well maybe, man,

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<v Speaker 1>So you date a lot, obviously, you know I've ghosted

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of woman in my life. Okay, that is

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<v Speaker 1>not that is not something to brag about. Okay, no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not bragging. I'm just telling you, guys, it's not

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<v Speaker 1>easy having a relationship. Everywhere I go and just get

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of intention. And you know, until I met

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<v Speaker 1>this girl, Erica, we just connected. Where'd you guys meet

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<v Speaker 1>a toy? I just met her up in tender Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't realize how cool she was until we started talking.

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<v Speaker 1>She had a brain. That's good, that's good. Most people

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<v Speaker 1>do have brains, but some don't use them very well.

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<v Speaker 1>I will agree with you on that. So you liked

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<v Speaker 1>her because she had a brain. Yeah, there was just

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<v Speaker 1>something about her when I met her, you know, and

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<v Speaker 1>there's like, you know, there's there's more to a physical body.

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<v Speaker 1>There's more you're saying. But yeah, so there's more to

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<v Speaker 1>this girl, Erica than just a physical body, and I'm

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<v Speaker 1>assuming most of the people you date it's only a

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<v Speaker 1>physical body thing. You know. There you are, yes, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>you're absolutely Okay. So she's rare for the kind of

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<v Speaker 1>girls that you date. Normally, the girls that you date

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<v Speaker 1>you guys just hook up. But you actually liked her

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<v Speaker 1>and want to see her again. Yes, she makes me

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<v Speaker 1>want to be a better person. Look, I'm not interesting

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<v Speaker 1>to anyone else, you know, I really love to see

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<v Speaker 1>this girl again and try to connect with her some more.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like we're witnessing your personal growth right now,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm i just in a few minutes i've known you.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm already proud. Oh oh, thank you. Well, tell us

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<v Speaker 1>about your date with Erica. How did it go? It

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<v Speaker 1>was kind of embarrassing from the moment that I picked

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<v Speaker 1>her up. As soon as I picked her up and

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<v Speaker 1>she had in my car my modeling portfully just slipped

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<v Speaker 1>under the seat and she picked up look at it

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<v Speaker 1>and we started talking about death stuff. Okay, So did

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<v Speaker 1>you come on, man? You play be real. You planted

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<v Speaker 1>your old modeling portfolio in the car so she would

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<v Speaker 1>see it and know that you used to model. It

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<v Speaker 1>was not like that, but it was it was embarrassing.

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<v Speaker 1>That's so embarrassing. I hate when people see my old modeling, like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh my, oh no, how could I ever come back

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<v Speaker 1>from this? From I was back when I only had

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<v Speaker 1>a six pack. Now I have an eight pack. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you're humiliating. Were you able to recover? Yeah? Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean it was I think I'm at a good impression.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, that was awkward for you and when

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<v Speaker 1>that happened. But did you recover from that? And what

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<v Speaker 1>did you actually do for a date. Well, we went

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<v Speaker 1>out to dinner. I wouldn't really had a reservation for

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<v Speaker 1>anywhere specific, but then she said suggesting places, and there's

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<v Speaker 1>places as you mentioned that, I just couldn't go. I

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<v Speaker 1>had to say no, why why? I was trying to

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<v Speaker 1>avoid a cat flight. You guys get my drift, all right.

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<v Speaker 1>So you've hooked up with other people there, and you

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<v Speaker 1>didn't want to walk in there and have them get

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<v Speaker 1>upset that you were on a day servers hostess servers. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>you're kind of an infamous bartender in the industry. People

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<v Speaker 1>know me. Yeah. Did you give her that reason or

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<v Speaker 1>did you just say I don't like the food there? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>I was just like you know what, the waiting time,

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<v Speaker 1>the food, anything that just came to my mind. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>did you find a place that actually worked, Like, go

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<v Speaker 1>a few cities over, maybe take a plane a few

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<v Speaker 1>thousand miles away, around somebody that you didn't sleep with. No, no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>Eventually we find a place where I honestly didn't know anyone. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So we sat down, we were having a conversation. We

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<v Speaker 1>started worrying, and then the waitress I was taking care

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<v Speaker 1>of us, and she she just started giving me the eye.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh gosh, are you sure. I feel like any woman

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<v Speaker 1>makes eye contact with you and you immediately think that No, no, no, totally, guys.

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<v Speaker 1>She really just started getting the Yeah. She was looking

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<v Speaker 1>at me up and now like I was a piece

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<v Speaker 1>of meat and I wasn't even doing anything. It was effortless. Hey, guys,

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<v Speaker 1>A year ago, I would have been all up in her,

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<v Speaker 1>you know. But now you know, I'm taking this check

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<v Speaker 1>and she hasn't return my my tech and I thought

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<v Speaker 1>we had an amazing night, you know. After I dropped

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<v Speaker 1>her off, I gave her a kiss and then I

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<v Speaker 1>went home. I totally could have gone in, but I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't want to pick that approach. Practice some restraint there, ye,

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<v Speaker 1>And why do you think she's not calling you back? Then?

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe I played it too cool. I waited two days

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<v Speaker 1>to call her back. Oh I do hate that, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I feel like that's such an old school rule. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>Well play a song and then come back and call

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<v Speaker 1>her and find out what it is with your second

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<v Speaker 1>day update. All right, okay, okay, brooking jubil in the

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<v Speaker 1>morning date. Right in the middle of a second day update.

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<v Speaker 1>And if you're just joining us, Justin is on the

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<v Speaker 1>phone and just met a girl named Erica, and he

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<v Speaker 1>really liked her because, unlike most women that Justin knows,

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<v Speaker 1>she had a brain. Weird, Yeah, she actually had a

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<v Speaker 1>brain and that's what he liked about her. Because Justin,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess, has never had a problem with the ladies.

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<v Speaker 1>He's a bartender, former male model, says he's hooked up

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<v Speaker 1>with a lot of people, but it's always just been

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<v Speaker 1>about body relationships. I think was the term that he used.

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<v Speaker 1>But anyway, he wants more than just a body relationship

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<v Speaker 1>with Erica and she's not calling him background and see

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<v Speaker 1>we can get on the phone and find out why.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, Justin, you're ready, let's do it. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know how to say this softly, but your confidence kind

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<v Speaker 1>of goes into just the incredible amounts of ego at times.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you feel like that happened on your date. I

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<v Speaker 1>was trying really hard not to be super confident. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe that's it. Maybe she doesn't want a humble guy

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<v Speaker 1>because he sounds all right. Most girls say, yeah, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>a dollar fun of her right now? Okay, okay, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>here we go. Hello him, speak to Erica. This is she.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey Erica, how are you? This is Jewel from the

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<v Speaker 1>radio show Brooke and Jewil in the Morning. Hi, Hi,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm fine, good me too. I'm all right. You didn't ask,

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<v Speaker 1>but I just told you. What's going on? I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know what's going on? What is what is this? Why

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<v Speaker 1>are you calling? Well broken? Jewil in the the Morning. It's

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<v Speaker 1>a radio show, and we do a segment on our

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<v Speaker 1>show called the second Date Update. It's where if you

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<v Speaker 1>go out on a date with somebody and then end

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<v Speaker 1>up not calling them after, they can email us to

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<v Speaker 1>get you on the phone and ask what happened. And

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<v Speaker 1>we actually got an email about you from somebody who

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<v Speaker 1>listens to the show. What Yeah, Yeah, kind of crazy.

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<v Speaker 1>Got any guesses. No, been out on a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>dates recently. Well no, but I mean it wouldn't be

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<v Speaker 1>like Justin. Oh, yes, it would be Justin. Justin emailed

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<v Speaker 1>us and told us a little bit about your date,

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<v Speaker 1>but he also said, God, you got to be kidding me. No.

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<v Speaker 1>He also said that he's been trying to get a

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<v Speaker 1>hold of you and you won't text him back. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not calling him, and why well, I'm not gonna lie.

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<v Speaker 1>It was a fun date. He's an interesting guy, he's

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<v Speaker 1>good looking, so those are all really good things. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean overall, the date was fine but interesting. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>there was a few weird moments. But I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>no specific reason why you don't want to see him again.

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<v Speaker 1>I do have a reason, but I don't know that

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<v Speaker 1>I feel comfortable sharing that. Okay, Well, like, is it

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<v Speaker 1>a personal reason for you or is it something about Justin? Both? Both? Okay? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>Well Justin. You know, whenever anybody does these, we always

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<v Speaker 1>tell them that they need to be willing to hear

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<v Speaker 1>whatever the other person says. So Justin is willing to

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<v Speaker 1>hear anything bad that you might have to say? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>it's just that he seems to know too many people,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, because I wasn't sure how I've felt about

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<v Speaker 1>the date, So then I showed my friends his picture.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like they all knew him, knew him really well, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>like they've hooked up with him or yeah, I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>talking about one of the girls. Like three of them

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<v Speaker 1>have hooked up with him. Wow, that's a lot he

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<v Speaker 1>gets around. Wow. Yeah, he's I mean, he told us

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<v Speaker 1>that he's never had a problem with women. But he

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<v Speaker 1>also said that he liked you so much that he

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<v Speaker 1>can only think about you and doesn't even want to

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<v Speaker 1>think about any other girls. But apparently your friends might

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<v Speaker 1>think about him. I haven't solid group of friends, and

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<v Speaker 1>I can't be the fourth girl and my girl group

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<v Speaker 1>to hook up with him. That's just crazy. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>when we talk to him, it sounded like he wants

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<v Speaker 1>more than a hook up from you. Yeah, like he

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<v Speaker 1>felt like he had an awakening of how he should

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<v Speaker 1>really be in a relationship after he met you, and

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<v Speaker 1>I find that hard to believe. You. I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>I was kind of convinced by it. Well, he didn't

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<v Speaker 1>say he wanted to grow or yeah, I mean, it

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<v Speaker 1>sounds like he can get a hook up whenever he

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<v Speaker 1>wants a hook up, and he's putting in a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of effort to get a hold of you. If he

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<v Speaker 1>just wanted to hook up, he could have had that

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<v Speaker 1>already with somebody else. Yeah, he seems to have a

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<v Speaker 1>good history of it, so you definitely, So that's what

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<v Speaker 1>it is. You don't want to be the fourth girl

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<v Speaker 1>in your friend group who has hooked up with Justin.

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<v Speaker 1>Obviously he sleeps around a lot, and I don't need that,

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<v Speaker 1>so I think it's best just to not call him. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>that seems pretty straightforward. Well, Erica, I do have to

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<v Speaker 1>let you know this before we let you go. Thank

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<v Speaker 1>you for being honest, And now I have to be

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<v Speaker 1>honest because Justin is actually on the other line listening

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<v Speaker 1>and wants to talk to you. So we've kind of yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we've also hung out with Justin a bit. Hi, Erica, Hi,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, listen. Yeah, I haven't met any friends. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know who they are, but most likely it's the truth.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, or any of them waitresses, hostesses, bartenders, got

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<v Speaker 1>a type of he just keeps lessening careers, teachers, nurses, luten.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not gonna lie. I was that guy but you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not just trying to get you in bed. You

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<v Speaker 1>can do that with anyone pretty much. But I'm interested

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<v Speaker 1>in you. They all know you from last year, all

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<v Speaker 1>of them, Oh, Dan, last year and Justin. Don't you

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<v Speaker 1>think that's weird if we slept with all my girlfriends?

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<v Speaker 1>This is weird. Yeah, Look it's true. I'll admit it.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll be the first one I met it. I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>recovering male skank covering. I feel like he's self aware.

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<v Speaker 1>That doesn't help your your mission here. I mean be

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<v Speaker 1>the first one I met it. I hooked up with

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of girls, probably every state, maybe maybe forty

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<v Speaker 1>five fifty. But I want to change. I'm acknowledging the

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<v Speaker 1>kind of person that I've been. I would love to

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<v Speaker 1>change because of you. We had one date, and now

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<v Speaker 1>you suddenly want to change because we've had one date.

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<v Speaker 1>I hardly believe that. Wow, Eric, I'm being honest with you.

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<v Speaker 1>Look that night I almost had a booty, almost made

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<v Speaker 1>that phone call, but I didn't. I can't stop thinking

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<v Speaker 1>about You're so not helping yourself here, Eric. Think about

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<v Speaker 1>it if the tables were turned, Like what if some

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<v Speaker 1>guy didn't want to go out with you because of

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<v Speaker 1>a couple of dudes. You more more that you slept with, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>you would be really upset about that, because you're also

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<v Speaker 1>more than just who you hooked up with in the past. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but I'd still see that It would be awkward that

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<v Speaker 1>his friends have seen me naked. Yeah, or it's easier

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<v Speaker 1>to bond. I mean you could look at it too.

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<v Speaker 1>I have to ask a question justin do you think

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<v Speaker 1>you like her because she's the only girl that doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>call you back? Nah? Man, this girl she has a brain.

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<v Speaker 1>You're very smart, you're funny, you get my movie references.

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<v Speaker 1>You're killing me small as you're killing me. That was

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<v Speaker 1>really dorky. Look, Destin, it's nice that you say all

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<v Speaker 1>these things and you feel it sway about me, but

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<v Speaker 1>it just doesn't change that you've been with my friends

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<v Speaker 1>like that. I mean, if we were to go out,

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<v Speaker 1>we could have sex for like six months, because I'd

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<v Speaker 1>have to know that you really really fell in love

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<v Speaker 1>with me. Who about that? Holy? Six months? Are you serious?

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<v Speaker 1>Like serious? Yeah? I mean like no booty calls, no nothing,

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<v Speaker 1>six months have just holding my hand in a kissing knight.

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<v Speaker 1>You need a freaking cleanse. Oh wow? Wow. All right,

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<v Speaker 1>well that is strange. Anybody, Erico, would you like to go?

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe I shouldn't even ask Erica at this point. Now, Erica,

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<v Speaker 1>would you like to run a second date with Justin?

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<v Speaker 1>We will pay for it if he agrees to not

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<v Speaker 1>having any sex for six months? Okay, Justin's your turn?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh Justin, Now I feel like she's just testing you,

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<v Speaker 1>trying to put the test find out how woke you

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<v Speaker 1>really are. Now you know what kind of personally I

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<v Speaker 1>know you do? Who do that to me? I mean

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<v Speaker 1>six months? She said? Six months? Yes she did, six months.

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<v Speaker 1>I know that probably hasn't happened to you since your teens,

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<v Speaker 1>but that's hap a year. You're not gonna explode. You're

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<v Speaker 1>not gonna explode. You'll be fine. I mean you will

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<v Speaker 1>at some point, but not the way. And I can't

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<v Speaker 1>think of any other way to prove to my friends

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<v Speaker 1>that it's okay we date, because you'd have to prove

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<v Speaker 1>you know that you really care about me. Oh just

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<v Speaker 1>imagine after six months, how amazing deffortin to be six months? Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>we've been over that, Justin. We've been over that a bunch.

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<v Speaker 1>Now six months? Can you wait? Six months? You'll get

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<v Speaker 1>your second date if you can abstain for six months.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I'm just throwing this package you, I mean

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<v Speaker 1>negotiooting like six days, six dates, so we're talking six months.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, you just said that you want to change,

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<v Speaker 1>and that you've never met anyone like me, and that

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<v Speaker 1>you made it sound like you do anything. There any

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<v Speaker 1>times that I can get back to you on this,

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<v Speaker 1>all right? Yeah, profess this, Erica. You you've blew Justin's mind.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah all right, well yeah, Justin, use some time to

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<v Speaker 1>think about it and then update us on if you

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<v Speaker 1>guys actually go on a second date. All right, gotcha?

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<v Speaker 1>Six months Jesus, yes, six months broken Jupil in the morning.