Speaker 1: Brooking Jewels. Second date update Today, a listener named Justin
Speaker 1: is on the phone for a second date update and
Speaker 1: his email said that he's shocked he's not getting a
Speaker 1: call back because apparently doesn't happen very often for Justin.
Speaker 1: So Justin's up, man, how are you? Hey? How are
Speaker 1: you guys doing? Not too bad? So your email said that, well,
Speaker 1: what's the girl's name? Who isn't calling you back? By
Speaker 1: the way, Erica? Erica? All right, so you said that
Speaker 1: Erica isn't calling you back and you're shocked by that.
Speaker 1: You'll get a lot of people blowing you off. Is that? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Pretty much? What are you like? A model? Well, I
Speaker 1: mean I'm I'm a bartender, a former male model. Oh god,
Speaker 1: you are just like a huge red flag, that's what
Speaker 1: you are, sir, Like I don't even know you and
Speaker 1: I wouldn't date you. Yeah. But also, if you're a
Speaker 1: bartender former male model, I believe you. You You don't you
Speaker 1: don't have a lot of people not call you back.
Speaker 1: So what do you think happened? You know, it's funny,
Speaker 1: I've I've guarantee you trying to call me for a
Speaker 1: second date update, but I just probably never picked up.
Speaker 1: Oh you think she's trying to get a hold of
Speaker 1: you too, No, not this one, but I'm I'm sure
Speaker 1: there's been other girls I've been trying to get a
Speaker 1: hold of me to you guys, Oh all right, well maybe, man,
Speaker 1: So you date a lot, obviously, you know I've ghosted
Speaker 1: a lot of woman in my life. Okay, that is
Speaker 1: not that is not something to brag about. Okay, no, no,
Speaker 1: I'm not bragging. I'm just telling you, guys, it's not
Speaker 1: easy having a relationship. Everywhere I go and just get
Speaker 1: a lot of intention. And you know, until I met
Speaker 1: this girl, Erica, we just connected. Where'd you guys meet
Speaker 1: a toy? I just met her up in tender Okay.
Speaker 1: I didn't realize how cool she was until we started talking.
Speaker 1: She had a brain. That's good, that's good. Most people
Speaker 1: do have brains, but some don't use them very well.
Speaker 1: I will agree with you on that. So you liked
Speaker 1: her because she had a brain. Yeah, there was just
Speaker 1: something about her when I met her, you know, and
Speaker 1: there's like, you know, there's there's more to a physical body.
Speaker 1: There's more you're saying. But yeah, so there's more to
Speaker 1: this girl, Erica than just a physical body, and I'm
Speaker 1: assuming most of the people you date it's only a
Speaker 1: physical body thing. You know. There you are, yes, yes,
Speaker 1: you're absolutely Okay. So she's rare for the kind of
Speaker 1: girls that you date. Normally, the girls that you date
Speaker 1: you guys just hook up. But you actually liked her
Speaker 1: and want to see her again. Yes, she makes me
Speaker 1: want to be a better person. Look, I'm not interesting
Speaker 1: to anyone else, you know, I really love to see
Speaker 1: this girl again and try to connect with her some more.
Speaker 1: I feel like we're witnessing your personal growth right now,
Speaker 1: and I'm i just in a few minutes i've known you.
Speaker 1: I'm already proud. Oh oh, thank you. Well, tell us
Speaker 1: about your date with Erica. How did it go? It
Speaker 1: was kind of embarrassing from the moment that I picked
Speaker 1: her up. As soon as I picked her up and
Speaker 1: she had in my car my modeling portfully just slipped
Speaker 1: under the seat and she picked up look at it
Speaker 1: and we started talking about death stuff. Okay, So did
Speaker 1: you come on, man? You play be real. You planted
Speaker 1: your old modeling portfolio in the car so she would
Speaker 1: see it and know that you used to model. It
Speaker 1: was not like that, but it was it was embarrassing.
Speaker 1: That's so embarrassing. I hate when people see my old modeling, like,
Speaker 1: oh my, oh no, how could I ever come back
Speaker 1: from this? From I was back when I only had
Speaker 1: a six pack. Now I have an eight pack. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you're humiliating. Were you able to recover? Yeah? Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean it was I think I'm at a good impression.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, that was awkward for you and when
Speaker 1: that happened. But did you recover from that? And what
Speaker 1: did you actually do for a date. Well, we went
Speaker 1: out to dinner. I wouldn't really had a reservation for
Speaker 1: anywhere specific, but then she said suggesting places, and there's
Speaker 1: places as you mentioned that, I just couldn't go. I
Speaker 1: had to say no, why why? I was trying to
Speaker 1: avoid a cat flight. You guys get my drift, all right.
Speaker 1: So you've hooked up with other people there, and you
Speaker 1: didn't want to walk in there and have them get
Speaker 1: upset that you were on a day servers hostess servers. Oh,
Speaker 1: you're kind of an infamous bartender in the industry. People
Speaker 1: know me. Yeah. Did you give her that reason or
Speaker 1: did you just say I don't like the food there? Yeah?
Speaker 1: I was just like you know what, the waiting time,
Speaker 1: the food, anything that just came to my mind. Okay,
Speaker 1: did you find a place that actually worked, Like, go
Speaker 1: a few cities over, maybe take a plane a few
Speaker 1: thousand miles away, around somebody that you didn't sleep with. No, no, no,
Speaker 1: Eventually we find a place where I honestly didn't know anyone. Okay,
Speaker 1: So we sat down, we were having a conversation. We
Speaker 1: started worrying, and then the waitress I was taking care
Speaker 1: of us, and she she just started giving me the eye.
Speaker 1: Oh gosh, are you sure. I feel like any woman
Speaker 1: makes eye contact with you and you immediately think that No, no, no, totally, guys.
Speaker 1: She really just started getting the Yeah. She was looking
Speaker 1: at me up and now like I was a piece
Speaker 1: of meat and I wasn't even doing anything. It was effortless. Hey, guys,
Speaker 1: A year ago, I would have been all up in her,
Speaker 1: you know. But now you know, I'm taking this check
Speaker 1: and she hasn't return my my tech and I thought
Speaker 1: we had an amazing night, you know. After I dropped
Speaker 1: her off, I gave her a kiss and then I
Speaker 1: went home. I totally could have gone in, but I
Speaker 1: didn't want to pick that approach. Practice some restraint there, ye,
Speaker 1: And why do you think she's not calling you back? Then?
Speaker 1: Maybe I played it too cool. I waited two days
Speaker 1: to call her back. Oh I do hate that, you know,
Speaker 1: Like I feel like that's such an old school rule. Okay,
Speaker 1: Well play a song and then come back and call
Speaker 1: her and find out what it is with your second
Speaker 1: day update. All right, okay, okay, brooking jubil in the
Speaker 1: morning date. Right in the middle of a second day update.
Speaker 1: And if you're just joining us, Justin is on the
Speaker 1: phone and just met a girl named Erica, and he
Speaker 1: really liked her because, unlike most women that Justin knows,
Speaker 1: she had a brain. Weird, Yeah, she actually had a
Speaker 1: brain and that's what he liked about her. Because Justin,
Speaker 1: I guess, has never had a problem with the ladies.
Speaker 1: He's a bartender, former male model, says he's hooked up
Speaker 1: with a lot of people, but it's always just been
Speaker 1: about body relationships. I think was the term that he used.
Speaker 1: But anyway, he wants more than just a body relationship
Speaker 1: with Erica and she's not calling him background and see
Speaker 1: we can get on the phone and find out why.
Speaker 1: All right, Justin, you're ready, let's do it. I don't
Speaker 1: know how to say this softly, but your confidence kind
Speaker 1: of goes into just the incredible amounts of ego at times.
Speaker 1: Do you feel like that happened on your date. I
Speaker 1: was trying really hard not to be super confident. Yeah.
Speaker 1: Maybe that's it. Maybe she doesn't want a humble guy
Speaker 1: because he sounds all right. Most girls say, yeah, I'm
Speaker 1: a dollar fun of her right now? Okay, okay, all right,
Speaker 1: here we go. Hello him, speak to Erica. This is she.
Speaker 1: Hey Erica, how are you? This is Jewel from the
Speaker 1: radio show Brooke and Jewil in the Morning. Hi, Hi,
Speaker 1: I'm fine, good me too. I'm all right. You didn't ask,
Speaker 1: but I just told you. What's going on? I don't
Speaker 1: know what's going on? What is what is this? Why
Speaker 1: are you calling? Well broken? Jewil in the the Morning. It's
Speaker 1: a radio show, and we do a segment on our
Speaker 1: show called the second Date Update. It's where if you
Speaker 1: go out on a date with somebody and then end
Speaker 1: up not calling them after, they can email us to
Speaker 1: get you on the phone and ask what happened. And
Speaker 1: we actually got an email about you from somebody who
Speaker 1: listens to the show. What Yeah, Yeah, kind of crazy.
Speaker 1: Got any guesses. No, been out on a lot of
Speaker 1: dates recently. Well no, but I mean it wouldn't be
Speaker 1: like Justin. Oh, yes, it would be Justin. Justin emailed
Speaker 1: us and told us a little bit about your date,
Speaker 1: but he also said, God, you got to be kidding me. No.
Speaker 1: He also said that he's been trying to get a
Speaker 1: hold of you and you won't text him back. No,
Speaker 1: I'm not calling him, and why well, I'm not gonna lie.
Speaker 1: It was a fun date. He's an interesting guy, he's
Speaker 1: good looking, so those are all really good things. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean overall, the date was fine but interesting. I mean,
Speaker 1: there was a few weird moments. But I don't know
Speaker 1: no specific reason why you don't want to see him again.
Speaker 1: I do have a reason, but I don't know that
Speaker 1: I feel comfortable sharing that. Okay, Well, like, is it
Speaker 1: a personal reason for you or is it something about Justin? Both? Both? Okay? Okay,
Speaker 1: Well Justin. You know, whenever anybody does these, we always
Speaker 1: tell them that they need to be willing to hear
Speaker 1: whatever the other person says. So Justin is willing to
Speaker 1: hear anything bad that you might have to say? Well,
Speaker 1: it's just that he seems to know too many people,
Speaker 1: you know, because I wasn't sure how I've felt about
Speaker 1: the date, So then I showed my friends his picture.
Speaker 1: It's like they all knew him, knew him really well, Okay,
Speaker 1: like they've hooked up with him or yeah, I'm not
Speaker 1: talking about one of the girls. Like three of them
Speaker 1: have hooked up with him. Wow, that's a lot he
Speaker 1: gets around. Wow. Yeah, he's I mean, he told us
Speaker 1: that he's never had a problem with women. But he
Speaker 1: also said that he liked you so much that he
Speaker 1: can only think about you and doesn't even want to
Speaker 1: think about any other girls. But apparently your friends might
Speaker 1: think about him. I haven't solid group of friends, and
Speaker 1: I can't be the fourth girl and my girl group
Speaker 1: to hook up with him. That's just crazy. I mean,
Speaker 1: when we talk to him, it sounded like he wants
Speaker 1: more than a hook up from you. Yeah, like he
Speaker 1: felt like he had an awakening of how he should
Speaker 1: really be in a relationship after he met you, and
Speaker 1: I find that hard to believe. You. I don't know,
Speaker 1: I was kind of convinced by it. Well, he didn't
Speaker 1: say he wanted to grow or yeah, I mean, it
Speaker 1: sounds like he can get a hook up whenever he
Speaker 1: wants a hook up, and he's putting in a lot
Speaker 1: of effort to get a hold of you. If he
Speaker 1: just wanted to hook up, he could have had that
Speaker 1: already with somebody else. Yeah, he seems to have a
Speaker 1: good history of it, so you definitely, So that's what
Speaker 1: it is. You don't want to be the fourth girl
Speaker 1: in your friend group who has hooked up with Justin.
Speaker 1: Obviously he sleeps around a lot, and I don't need that,
Speaker 1: so I think it's best just to not call him. Okay,
Speaker 1: that seems pretty straightforward. Well, Erica, I do have to
Speaker 1: let you know this before we let you go. Thank
Speaker 1: you for being honest, And now I have to be
Speaker 1: honest because Justin is actually on the other line listening
Speaker 1: and wants to talk to you. So we've kind of yeah,
Speaker 1: we've also hung out with Justin a bit. Hi, Erica, Hi,
Speaker 1: all right, listen. Yeah, I haven't met any friends. I
Speaker 1: don't know who they are, but most likely it's the truth.
Speaker 1: I mean, or any of them waitresses, hostesses, bartenders, got
Speaker 1: a type of he just keeps lessening careers, teachers, nurses, luten.
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie. I was that guy but you know,
Speaker 1: I'm not just trying to get you in bed. You
Speaker 1: can do that with anyone pretty much. But I'm interested
Speaker 1: in you. They all know you from last year, all
Speaker 1: of them, Oh, Dan, last year and Justin. Don't you
Speaker 1: think that's weird if we slept with all my girlfriends?
Speaker 1: This is weird. Yeah, Look it's true. I'll admit it.
Speaker 1: I'll be the first one I met it. I'm not
Speaker 1: recovering male skank covering. I feel like he's self aware.
Speaker 1: That doesn't help your your mission here. I mean be
Speaker 1: the first one I met it. I hooked up with
Speaker 1: a lot of girls, probably every state, maybe maybe forty
Speaker 1: five fifty. But I want to change. I'm acknowledging the
Speaker 1: kind of person that I've been. I would love to
Speaker 1: change because of you. We had one date, and now
Speaker 1: you suddenly want to change because we've had one date.
Speaker 1: I hardly believe that. Wow, Eric, I'm being honest with you.
Speaker 1: Look that night I almost had a booty, almost made
Speaker 1: that phone call, but I didn't. I can't stop thinking
Speaker 1: about You're so not helping yourself here, Eric. Think about
Speaker 1: it if the tables were turned, Like what if some
Speaker 1: guy didn't want to go out with you because of
Speaker 1: a couple of dudes. You more more that you slept with, Like,
Speaker 1: you would be really upset about that, because you're also
Speaker 1: more than just who you hooked up with in the past. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but I'd still see that It would be awkward that
Speaker 1: his friends have seen me naked. Yeah, or it's easier
Speaker 1: to bond. I mean you could look at it too.
Speaker 1: I have to ask a question justin do you think
Speaker 1: you like her because she's the only girl that doesn't
Speaker 1: call you back? Nah? Man, this girl she has a brain.
Speaker 1: You're very smart, you're funny, you get my movie references.
Speaker 1: You're killing me small as you're killing me. That was
Speaker 1: really dorky. Look, Destin, it's nice that you say all
Speaker 1: these things and you feel it sway about me, but
Speaker 1: it just doesn't change that you've been with my friends
Speaker 1: like that. I mean, if we were to go out,
Speaker 1: we could have sex for like six months, because I'd
Speaker 1: have to know that you really really fell in love
Speaker 1: with me. Who about that? Holy? Six months? Are you serious?
Speaker 1: Like serious? Yeah? I mean like no booty calls, no nothing,
Speaker 1: six months have just holding my hand in a kissing knight.
Speaker 1: You need a freaking cleanse. Oh wow? Wow. All right,
Speaker 1: well that is strange. Anybody, Erico, would you like to go?
Speaker 1: Maybe I shouldn't even ask Erica at this point. Now, Erica,
Speaker 1: would you like to run a second date with Justin?
Speaker 1: We will pay for it if he agrees to not
Speaker 1: having any sex for six months? Okay, Justin's your turn?
Speaker 1: Oh Justin, Now I feel like she's just testing you,
Speaker 1: trying to put the test find out how woke you
Speaker 1: really are. Now you know what kind of personally I
Speaker 1: know you do? Who do that to me? I mean
Speaker 1: six months? She said? Six months? Yes she did, six months.
Speaker 1: I know that probably hasn't happened to you since your teens,
Speaker 1: but that's hap a year. You're not gonna explode. You're
Speaker 1: not gonna explode. You'll be fine. I mean you will
Speaker 1: at some point, but not the way. And I can't
Speaker 1: think of any other way to prove to my friends
Speaker 1: that it's okay we date, because you'd have to prove
Speaker 1: you know that you really care about me. Oh just
Speaker 1: imagine after six months, how amazing deffortin to be six months? Yes,
Speaker 1: we've been over that, Justin. We've been over that a bunch.
Speaker 1: Now six months? Can you wait? Six months? You'll get
Speaker 1: your second date if you can abstain for six months.
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm just throwing this package you, I mean
Speaker 1: negotiooting like six days, six dates, so we're talking six months.
Speaker 1: I mean, you just said that you want to change,
Speaker 1: and that you've never met anyone like me, and that
Speaker 1: you made it sound like you do anything. There any
Speaker 1: times that I can get back to you on this,
Speaker 1: all right? Yeah, profess this, Erica. You you've blew Justin's mind.
Speaker 1: Yeah all right, well yeah, Justin, use some time to
Speaker 1: think about it and then update us on if you
Speaker 1: guys actually go on a second date. All right, gotcha?
Speaker 1: Six months Jesus, yes, six months broken Jupil in the morning.