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Speaker 1: Brooking Jewels. Second date update Today, a listener named Justin

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Speaker 1: is on the phone for a second date update and

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Speaker 1: his email said that he's shocked he's not getting a

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Speaker 1: call back because apparently doesn't happen very often for Justin.

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Speaker 1: So Justin's up, man, how are you? Hey? How are

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Speaker 1: you guys doing? Not too bad? So your email said that, well,

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Speaker 1: what's the girl's name? Who isn't calling you back? By

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Speaker 1: the way, Erica? Erica? All right, so you said that

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Speaker 1: Erica isn't calling you back and you're shocked by that.

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Speaker 1: You'll get a lot of people blowing you off. Is that? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Pretty much? What are you like? A model? Well, I

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Speaker 1: mean I'm I'm a bartender, a former male model. Oh god,

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Speaker 1: you are just like a huge red flag, that's what

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Speaker 1: you are, sir, Like I don't even know you and

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Speaker 1: I wouldn't date you. Yeah. But also, if you're a

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Speaker 1: bartender former male model, I believe you. You You don't you

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Speaker 1: don't have a lot of people not call you back.

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Speaker 1: So what do you think happened? You know, it's funny,

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Speaker 1: I've I've guarantee you trying to call me for a

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Speaker 1: second date update, but I just probably never picked up.

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Speaker 1: Oh you think she's trying to get a hold of

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Speaker 1: you too, No, not this one, but I'm I'm sure

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Speaker 1: there's been other girls I've been trying to get a

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Speaker 1: hold of me to you guys, Oh all right, well maybe, man,

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Speaker 1: So you date a lot, obviously, you know I've ghosted

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Speaker 1: a lot of woman in my life. Okay, that is

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Speaker 1: not that is not something to brag about. Okay, no, no,

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Speaker 1: I'm not bragging. I'm just telling you, guys, it's not

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Speaker 1: easy having a relationship. Everywhere I go and just get

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Speaker 1: a lot of intention. And you know, until I met

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Speaker 1: this girl, Erica, we just connected. Where'd you guys meet

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Speaker 1: a toy? I just met her up in tender Okay.

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Speaker 1: I didn't realize how cool she was until we started talking.

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Speaker 1: She had a brain. That's good, that's good. Most people

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Speaker 1: do have brains, but some don't use them very well.

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Speaker 1: I will agree with you on that. So you liked

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Speaker 1: her because she had a brain. Yeah, there was just

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Speaker 1: there's like, you know, there's there's more to a physical body.

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Speaker 1: There's more you're saying. But yeah, so there's more to

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Speaker 1: this girl, Erica than just a physical body, and I'm

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Speaker 1: assuming most of the people you date it's only a

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Speaker 1: physical body thing. You know. There you are, yes, yes,

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Speaker 1: you're absolutely Okay. So she's rare for the kind of

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Speaker 1: girls that you date. Normally, the girls that you date

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Speaker 1: you guys just hook up. But you actually liked her

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Speaker 1: and want to see her again. Yes, she makes me

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Speaker 1: want to be a better person. Look, I'm not interesting

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Speaker 1: to anyone else, you know, I really love to see

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Speaker 1: I feel like we're witnessing your personal growth right now,

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Speaker 1: and I'm i just in a few minutes i've known you.

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Speaker 1: I'm already proud. Oh oh, thank you. Well, tell us

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Speaker 1: about your date with Erica. How did it go? It

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Speaker 1: was kind of embarrassing from the moment that I picked

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Speaker 1: her up. As soon as I picked her up and

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Speaker 1: she had in my car my modeling portfully just slipped

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Speaker 1: and we started talking about death stuff. Okay, So did

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Speaker 1: you come on, man? You play be real. You planted

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Speaker 1: was not like that, but it was it was embarrassing.

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Speaker 1: That's so embarrassing. I hate when people see my old modeling, like,

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Speaker 1: oh my, oh no, how could I ever come back

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Speaker 1: a six pack. Now I have an eight pack. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you're humiliating. Were you able to recover? Yeah? Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, that was awkward for you and when

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Speaker 1: that happened. But did you recover from that? And what

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Speaker 1: did you actually do for a date. Well, we went

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Speaker 1: out to dinner. I wouldn't really had a reservation for

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Speaker 1: anywhere specific, but then she said suggesting places, and there's

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Speaker 1: avoid a cat flight. You guys get my drift, all right.

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Speaker 1: So you've hooked up with other people there, and you

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Speaker 1: upset that you were on a day servers hostess servers. Oh,

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Speaker 1: you're kind of an infamous bartender in the industry. People

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Speaker 1: did you just say I don't like the food there? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: I was just like you know what, the waiting time,

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Speaker 1: Eventually we find a place where I honestly didn't know anyone. Okay,

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Speaker 1: So we sat down, we were having a conversation. We

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Speaker 1: Oh gosh, are you sure. I feel like any woman

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Speaker 1: makes eye contact with you and you immediately think that No, no, no, totally, guys.

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Speaker 1: She really just started getting the Yeah. She was looking

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Speaker 1: A year ago, I would have been all up in her,

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Speaker 1: and she hasn't return my my tech and I thought

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Speaker 1: didn't want to pick that approach. Practice some restraint there, ye,

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Speaker 1: And why do you think she's not calling you back? Then?

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Speaker 1: Maybe I played it too cool. I waited two days

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Speaker 1: Like I feel like that's such an old school rule. Okay,

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Speaker 1: Well play a song and then come back and call

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Speaker 1: day update. All right, okay, okay, brooking jubil in the

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Speaker 1: morning date. Right in the middle of a second day update.

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Speaker 1: And if you're just joining us, Justin is on the

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Speaker 1: phone and just met a girl named Erica, and he

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Speaker 1: about body relationships. I think was the term that he used.

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Speaker 1: But anyway, he wants more than just a body relationship

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Speaker 1: with Erica and she's not calling him background and see

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Speaker 1: we can get on the phone and find out why.

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Speaker 1: All right, Justin, you're ready, let's do it. I don't

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Speaker 1: know how to say this softly, but your confidence kind

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Speaker 1: Do you feel like that happened on your date. I

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Speaker 1: Maybe that's it. Maybe she doesn't want a humble guy

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Speaker 1: because he sounds all right. Most girls say, yeah, I'm

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Speaker 1: a dollar fun of her right now? Okay, okay, all right,

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Speaker 1: here we go. Hello him, speak to Erica. This is she.

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Speaker 1: Hey Erica, how are you? This is Jewel from the

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Speaker 1: radio show Brooke and Jewil in the Morning. Hi, Hi,

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Speaker 1: I'm fine, good me too. I'm all right. You didn't ask,

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Speaker 1: but I just told you. What's going on? I don't

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Speaker 1: know what's going on? What is what is this? Why

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Speaker 1: are you calling? Well broken? Jewil in the the Morning. It's

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Speaker 1: a radio show, and we do a segment on our

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Speaker 1: show called the second Date Update. It's where if you

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Speaker 1: go out on a date with somebody and then end

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Speaker 1: up not calling them after, they can email us to

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Speaker 1: get you on the phone and ask what happened. And

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Speaker 1: we actually got an email about you from somebody who

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Speaker 1: listens to the show. What Yeah, Yeah, kind of crazy.

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Speaker 1: Got any guesses. No, been out on a lot of

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Speaker 1: dates recently. Well no, but I mean it wouldn't be

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Speaker 1: like Justin. Oh, yes, it would be Justin. Justin emailed

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Speaker 1: us and told us a little bit about your date,

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Speaker 1: but he also said, God, you got to be kidding me. No.

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Speaker 1: He also said that he's been trying to get a

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Speaker 1: hold of you and you won't text him back. No,

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Speaker 1: I'm not calling him, and why well, I'm not gonna lie.

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Speaker 1: It was a fun date. He's an interesting guy, he's

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Speaker 1: I mean overall, the date was fine but interesting. I mean,

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Speaker 1: there was a few weird moments. But I don't know

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Speaker 1: no specific reason why you don't want to see him again.

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Speaker 1: I do have a reason, but I don't know that

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Speaker 1: I feel comfortable sharing that. Okay, Well, like, is it

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Speaker 1: a personal reason for you or is it something about Justin? Both? Both? Okay? Okay,

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Speaker 1: Well Justin. You know, whenever anybody does these, we always

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Speaker 1: hear anything bad that you might have to say? Well,

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Speaker 1: it's just that he seems to know too many people,

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Speaker 1: you know, because I wasn't sure how I've felt about

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Speaker 1: the date, So then I showed my friends his picture.

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Speaker 1: It's like they all knew him, knew him really well, Okay,

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Speaker 1: to hook up with him. That's just crazy. I mean,

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Speaker 1: I find that hard to believe. You. I don't know,

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Speaker 1: I was kind of convinced by it. Well, he didn't

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Speaker 1: just wanted to hook up, he could have had that

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Speaker 1: Obviously he sleeps around a lot, and I don't need that,

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Speaker 1: so I think it's best just to not call him. Okay,

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Speaker 1: that seems pretty straightforward. Well, Erica, I do have to

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Speaker 1: you for being honest, And now I have to be

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Speaker 1: and wants to talk to you. So we've kind of yeah,

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Speaker 1: we've also hung out with Justin a bit. Hi, Erica, Hi,

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Speaker 1: all right, listen. Yeah, I haven't met any friends. I

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Speaker 1: don't know who they are, but most likely it's the truth.

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Speaker 1: I mean, or any of them waitresses, hostesses, bartenders, got

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Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie. I was that guy but you know,

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Speaker 1: of them, Oh, Dan, last year and Justin. Don't you

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Speaker 1: think that's weird if we slept with all my girlfriends?

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Speaker 1: This is weird. Yeah, Look it's true. I'll admit it.

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Speaker 1: I'll be the first one I met it. I'm not

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Speaker 1: That doesn't help your your mission here. I mean be

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Speaker 1: I hardly believe that. Wow, Eric, I'm being honest with you.

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Speaker 1: Look that night I almost had a booty, almost made

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Speaker 1: You're very smart, you're funny, you get my movie references.

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Speaker 1: You're killing me small as you're killing me. That was

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Speaker 1: really dorky. Look, Destin, it's nice that you say all

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Speaker 1: You need a freaking cleanse. Oh wow? Wow. All right,

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Speaker 1: well that is strange. Anybody, Erico, would you like to go?

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Speaker 1: Oh Justin, Now I feel like she's just testing you,

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Speaker 1: know you do? Who do that to me? I mean

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Speaker 1: imagine after six months, how amazing deffortin to be six months? Yes,

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Speaker 1: we've been over that, Justin. We've been over that a bunch.

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Speaker 1: Now six months? Can you wait? Six months? You'll get

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Speaker 1: your second date if you can abstain for six months.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I'm just throwing this package you, I mean

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Speaker 1: negotiooting like six days, six dates, so we're talking six months.

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Speaker 1: I mean, you just said that you want to change,

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Speaker 1: all right? Yeah, profess this, Erica. You you've blew Justin's mind.

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Speaker 1: Yeah all right, well yeah, Justin, use some time to

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Speaker 1: guys actually go on a second date. All right, gotcha?

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Speaker 1: Six months Jesus, yes, six months broken Jupil in the morning.