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Speaker 1: Still the Place with Laura Layton, Courtney thorn Smith and

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Speaker 1: Daphne's Aniga and iHeartRadio podcast.

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Speaker 2: We're back for part two because we had to take

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Speaker 2: a break and we went off to do the con

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Speaker 2: which I realize sounds.

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Speaker 1: Like the nineties the convention, the nineties convention. Yeah, a

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Speaker 1: lot of fans and we wanted to finish up your questions.

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Speaker 1: See what we can get our question. This is the

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Speaker 1: nighttime version, yep. Okay, talked about my splitzer and something

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Speaker 1: was so nice to get us at when I kept back,

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Speaker 1: some of us got casuals, changed our clothes. I love that.

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Speaker 3: Did you bring a board?

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Speaker 1: I know, I can't believe it with me here, I

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Speaker 1: wasn't sure. I didn't bring your partner either.

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Speaker 3: I love that given bring it next time?

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Speaker 1: I will next time. We okay, all right, we've got

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Speaker 1: plans people, anything you want to say? Grant before we started? No,

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Speaker 1: did you know that? Did you know that women, on average,

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Speaker 1: I think, speak three times as many more words as

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Speaker 1: men per day? Three times or was it thirty?

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Speaker 4: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: It might be thirty three, that's what I heard.

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Speaker 4: Maybe thirty times.

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Speaker 1: No, no, it's three right, So if you counted the

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Speaker 1: words of average men per day and women we would

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Speaker 1: like try and make we're talkers. Yeah right, aye, NonStop.

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Speaker 4: Like I feel bad sometimes because I just like, tune

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Speaker 4: it out.

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Speaker 1: Well, you're you know what you are training her because

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Speaker 1: we have husbands that tune it out. And it's like,

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Speaker 1: I can tell you have the glades. This is important

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Speaker 1: what I'm about to say. And you go to that

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Speaker 1: you can spacely talking too much? Yeah, I say, are

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Speaker 1: you listening? He's like no.

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Speaker 4: I'll be like, I'll be something. I will catch my ear.

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Speaker 4: I'll be like, wait, wait, what hadsten? What tell me

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Speaker 4: that again?

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Speaker 1: Wait?

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Speaker 2: Say that part again, just the last part, don't repeat,

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Speaker 2: repeat I say that.

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Speaker 1: Too any any I'm like, I can't even tell you

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Speaker 1: what I said. You got that wrong?

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Speaker 4: Wait a minute, I got I have gotten this from

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Speaker 4: my wife. While I'm looking at her, I'm like, I'm

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Speaker 4: like this, and she goes, I swear to guys, you

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Speaker 4: guys look at me when I'm talking to you.

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Speaker 1: I get that too. I do that too, looking right

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Speaker 1: at you. No, He'll be looking at me, and I'll go,

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Speaker 1: are you listening? Are you listening?

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Speaker 2: I think that's what she meant to say. I think

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Speaker 2: that's what she meant to say.

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Speaker 1: I see, look at me, look at me.

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Speaker 4: In some part of her brain she recognized that I

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Speaker 4: wasn't fully with her.

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Speaker 1: Yes, yes, that's a lot of it.

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Speaker 3: I never did that.

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Speaker 4: I'm looking right.

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Speaker 1: And what I love about that whole thing, and then

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Speaker 1: we'll get to the question sense. But what I love

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Speaker 1: about the whole thing is that we have a real honesty.

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Speaker 1: We have a thing now where I'll say to David,

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Speaker 1: I'll be like, what I'm going to say is important

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Speaker 1: because okay, start and he'll pay attention. He goes, I got,

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Speaker 1: you know, forty seconds, please, Daphne, you and then I

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Speaker 1: autumn okay, Or sometimes he's turned to me, he goes,

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Speaker 1: I can't listen to anymore. It's so beautiful. What what?

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Speaker 1: And I go, oh, you're right, because to myself part

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry. Sorry, I was still looking at you. Go

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Speaker 1: do be you.

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Speaker 4: We're still working on that.

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Speaker 1: But it's true. It's painful to men to listen to us.

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Speaker 1: Keep on going, keep on going. Come on, yeah, all right,

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Speaker 1: you're holding the car let somebody else talk. Yeah, Grant

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Speaker 1: you want to start.

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Speaker 4: Grand Okay there, let's give him to Grant.

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Speaker 1: Wait, you know then I have to talk.

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Speaker 4: What's the story on your cell phone wall paper?

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Speaker 1: Okay, this is another random question.

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Speaker 2: Oh it's the story about Oh what's the story behind

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Speaker 2: your cell phone wallpaper?

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Speaker 4: Oh, I had no idea what that even? Mist what's

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Speaker 2: What's the story behind your cell phone wallpaper? Like, we

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Speaker 2: all choose what goes on our phone, right, You're.

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Speaker 3: So like, I'm about to have to divulge so much.

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Speaker 1: I love that. See, this is what I was hoping.

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Speaker 2: Okay, my phone wallpaper is a picture of my son

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Speaker 2: on his like third birthday, where he's wearing a birthday

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Speaker 2: And it's one of my favorite pictures of him and

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Speaker 2: I have not changed it ever. But it makes my

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Speaker 2: then I'm putting a picture of myself on dad's phone.

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Speaker 1: So we both have like.

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Speaker 2: I have a fire Jack on my phone and Doug

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Speaker 2: has Lucy, and they like, never changed.

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Speaker 1: That's just the thing. I'm always gonna have Jack and

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Speaker 3: That's really cute. I am relieved to see that I

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Speaker 3: did change the other one I don't know why. But

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Speaker 3: this one's good too. This one's it's a quote by

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Speaker 3: A Picks. There isn't anything that I cannot be, or

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Speaker 3: do or have, and I have a huge non physical

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Speaker 3: staff that is ready to assist me, and I'm ready.

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Speaker 1: I love your quotes, I love your connection to spirit

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Speaker 1: and I just but but before that, I had you

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Speaker 1: had everybody it was stop, pause, Reflect, heal, Change. I

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Speaker 1: know it's a lot, No, I love it, but it's

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Speaker 1: like it's not a lot. It's simple.

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Speaker 3: Do you feel like that? Okay? Because I wrote that,

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Speaker 3: I like how simplistic it is.

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Speaker 1: Stop. I just feel like you reflect, heal, and change.

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Speaker 3: And that's how I feel like. My life has been

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Speaker 3: moving so fast for so many years, and I feel

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Speaker 3: like I have to stop, and I'm just like, stop

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Speaker 3: and just pause, Like it's okay to stop and pause.

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Speaker 3: And if I do that, by doing that, I will

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Speaker 3: be able to reflect on my life and what's working,

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Speaker 3: what's not. By doing that, I can heal and then

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Speaker 3: I can change. If I don't stop and pause, I'll

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Speaker 3: never get to the next three.

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Speaker 2: I love that you put it on your cell phone. Well, yeah,

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Speaker 2: because otherwise how will you remind yourself.

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Speaker 1: Look at our phones.

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Speaker 5: And also when I have my most when I'm just

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Speaker 5: and I I was like, god, Jose, you just need

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Speaker 5: to stop and pause and like and then so I

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Speaker 5: was like stop reflect, He'll change.

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Speaker 1: Did you write that? Yes? Oh yes, yeah. I thought

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Speaker 1: it was like another no a master, but look at you.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: So that's why I put it on there so I

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Speaker 1: I love it, Yeah, I love it. Dose grant beer.

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Speaker 1: Is it an image or.

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Speaker 2: Just the words my daughter and the word beer?

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Speaker 1: What's the story behind it? Where's the picture?

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Speaker 4: Gosh, it's just a picture of her with a school

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Speaker 4: butchered on, and it's just a great picture of her.

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Speaker 4: I've had they. I usually change them, you know, as

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Speaker 4: she goes from one phase of childhood to the next.

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Speaker 4: This has been on for probably a year. So oh

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Speaker 4: she has commandeered my pad.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, And she has.

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Speaker 4: A ton of wallpapers that she has put on my

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Speaker 4: pad that she chooses, picks back and forth and goes

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Speaker 4: through and most of them have something to do with dogs.

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Speaker 1: Dogs, that's gonna say they have her.

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Speaker 4: No, no, no, no, they're like graphics. We have a little terrier,

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Speaker 4: a little it's called a no Jack Russell or just

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Speaker 4: a Rustle. It's like a middle miniature. It's a smaller

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Speaker 3: Yeah Jack Cross so much energy.

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Speaker 4: This one's great. She's got two speeds like ninety. Or

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Speaker 4: if you come over here and she just lays in

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Speaker 4: your life and she'll turn off. She doesn't like force

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Speaker 4: it that. This is a great This is a great

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Speaker 4: Some people that like like colloquially it's a no Jack Russell,

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Speaker 4: Russell's where they have wire haired or short haired, or.

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Speaker 3: They're the best size.

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Speaker 1: Once I discovered the wallpaper stuff, I put it on

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Speaker 1: rotate like every okay, yeah, a few times a day,

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Speaker 1: so it's always a surprise, and it lets you pick

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Speaker 1: people or nature or something favorites. And I tried the

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Speaker 1: it's this river in Idaho where we went fly fishing.

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Speaker 1: I went I don't fly fish. My husband's fly fishes,

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Speaker 1: so we went there. It's a wonderful place. I think

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Speaker 1: it's called Henry's Fork. And it's right on the border

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Speaker 1: do fish Grant Okay, So it's right on the border

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Speaker 1: of Wyoming, Montana and Idaho. It's fairly really beautiful. We

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Speaker 1: But like tonight when I go to sleep, it'll say

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Speaker 1: them to remind you, like that's Nate for me. Lace

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Speaker 1: nature is like where I I don't know, I sounds it. Yeah, yeah, no,

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Speaker 1: showering nature. Yeah, I know you in that car with

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Speaker 6: Yeah, all right.

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Speaker 1: Past.

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Speaker 3: What do you regret doing or not doing during your

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Speaker 4: Regrets not the right word.

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Speaker 1: But do you wish you had done differently? Maybe that's

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Speaker 4: I wish I was like maybe a little took myself

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Speaker 4: of the stuff that kind of is encompassed with that.

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Speaker 4: I think I could have enjoyed my time there a

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Speaker 4: little bit more. It's not exactly regret, because like, I

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Speaker 4: the time. I didn't do anything where I'm like, where

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Speaker 4: I knew I shouldn't behave this way or you know,

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Speaker 4: to regret you know, yeah, exactly that. But I wish

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Speaker 4: I had been wiser to behave in a way that

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Speaker 4: was different than I did, not behave, but experience.

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Speaker 1: It, to feel it and appreciate it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I think that's sort of we're all nodding our

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Speaker 2: heads and a green because I think all of us

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Speaker 2: think that's sort of comes with age, Yeah, appreciating something

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Speaker 4: Yeah, when you look back on yourself, at least I do,

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Speaker 4: it's so clear to me where I was not getting

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Speaker 1: Can I change my mind? Can we all hang out?

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Speaker 1: was abused, Okay, all right, bam bam bam, bam bam bam.

439
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Speaker 1: What the hell? Yes, And it's Robert Montoya like we're

440
00:21:52,600 --> 00:21:55,000
Speaker 1: waiting for you, kid or whatever, not kid, but we're

441
00:21:55,000 --> 00:21:57,800
Speaker 1: waiting for you. I go, okay, I'm just getting ready.

442
00:21:57,960 --> 00:22:00,600
Speaker 1: No no, no, no, we're waiting for you. Get on your marks,

443
00:22:00,800 --> 00:22:03,160
Speaker 1: your lines. And I was like, that was the first

444
00:22:03,200 --> 00:22:06,560
Speaker 1: time I learned like this ship goes fast. Yeah, I

445
00:22:06,600 --> 00:22:09,359
Speaker 1: mean yeah fast. And I thought I was going to

446
00:22:09,400 --> 00:22:12,760
Speaker 1: be fired right that night, just going like oh my god.

447
00:22:13,040 --> 00:22:14,840
Speaker 1: So I got on it. I was like, Okay, maybe

448
00:22:14,840 --> 00:22:17,760
Speaker 1: it's not to get so deep into character, you know,

449
00:22:17,920 --> 00:22:20,159
Speaker 1: maybe so I would say, it's not a nickname, but

450
00:22:20,240 --> 00:22:23,720
Speaker 1: like something I think Josie you were known for is

451
00:22:24,440 --> 00:22:26,600
Speaker 1: like getting off the set as fast as you could

452
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Speaker 1: at the end, Like we talked about it.

453
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Speaker 2: When you were about it, do you remember Josie was

454
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Speaker 2: change into her pajama bottoms or something she'd have like

455
00:22:35,280 --> 00:22:36,960
Speaker 2: sweats on the bottom and her tenor shoes and.

456
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Speaker 4: She was ready to go, and a lot of us adopted.

457
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Speaker 1: Yeah. I was like, you showed people how to do

458
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Speaker 1: that rest of my career.

459
00:22:43,920 --> 00:22:46,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean it's smart.

460
00:22:46,119 --> 00:22:48,960
Speaker 1: You know you're not gonna be ready to go bottoms

461
00:22:49,000 --> 00:22:54,800
Speaker 1: down yours and your sweats and you've got your camera out.

462
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Speaker 3: Of your character from Europe.

463
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Speaker 1: Yep, you taught us all and I loved what like

464
00:23:00,160 --> 00:23:01,679
Speaker 1: are I don't know if Loana did this, but I

465
00:23:01,720 --> 00:23:04,800
Speaker 1: know greg Or make my makeup guy did. He had

466
00:23:04,840 --> 00:23:10,199
Speaker 1: the hot, the washing in the microwave and he'd have

467
00:23:10,320 --> 00:23:12,680
Speaker 1: him ready for after. And we were all so young

468
00:23:12,720 --> 00:23:15,159
Speaker 1: and dumb back then. It would be like but he

469
00:23:15,280 --> 00:23:17,040
Speaker 1: was like, you guys are wrecking your skin.

470
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Speaker 4: Take it, put it, wear makeup on that most of them.

471
00:23:23,440 --> 00:23:26,920
Speaker 1: You didn't get anything like really even most of the

472
00:23:27,440 --> 00:23:29,760
Speaker 1: So this might be a surprise to podcast listeners.

473
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Speaker 2: Well, of course Grant wouldn't wear makeup, but actually on

474
00:23:33,400 --> 00:23:38,280
Speaker 2: television show guys, guys, yeah, then have makeup, you know,

475
00:23:38,400 --> 00:23:40,480
Speaker 2: obviously to a modified extent.

476
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Speaker 1: But I'm not wearing it now, but yeah they smooth. Yeah,

477
00:23:45,400 --> 00:23:49,800
Speaker 1: something to be clear, he's not wearing it now now.

478
00:23:51,520 --> 00:23:57,320
Speaker 1: Shah who said I was wearing makeup? All right, who's next?

479
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Speaker 1: All right? We have a last question brand you.

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Speaker 4: It's a novel?

481
00:24:01,280 --> 00:24:04,760
Speaker 1: Well, it's like a I don't know, like a it's.

482
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Speaker 4: Another one of these. Do you have anything you need

483
00:24:07,520 --> 00:24:12,160
Speaker 4: to confess from your time on Melrose, any secrets you're

484
00:24:12,680 --> 00:24:15,879
Speaker 4: carrying around and now you want to come clean.

485
00:24:16,880 --> 00:24:18,200
Speaker 1: I just wanted chance.

486
00:24:18,920 --> 00:24:20,119
Speaker 4: Now's your chance to admit it.

487
00:24:20,720 --> 00:24:21,360
Speaker 1: Now's your chance.

488
00:24:21,920 --> 00:24:25,000
Speaker 2: Question marks, your chance to admit anybody?

489
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Speaker 4: Every time I got an, did you every time?

490
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Speaker 3: No? Ever?

491
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Speaker 1: Never? Are you in there often? I wasn't even.

492
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Speaker 3: Hated getting Yeah, I hated it. Did you didn't mind?

493
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Speaker 1: It was only there once? I didn't even remember it,

494
00:24:44,760 --> 00:24:48,919
Speaker 1: but a fan reminded me. Just yeah, I wasn't get

495
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Speaker 1: Do you think anyone pet in there? I can't imagine.

496
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Speaker 2: I just thought if there was anything like that, then

497
00:24:57,480 --> 00:24:59,560
Speaker 2: anybody wanted to get off their chest, like oh god, I.

498
00:24:59,600 --> 00:25:02,800
Speaker 4: Was very well behaved on that show, I believe was.

499
00:25:03,200 --> 00:25:04,639
Speaker 1: Yeah. No, I think everybody was.

500
00:25:04,680 --> 00:25:07,280
Speaker 2: I don't think anybody had bad behavior. It was more like,

501
00:25:07,440 --> 00:25:10,080
Speaker 2: you know, oh my gosh, once I did this like goofy,

502
00:25:10,200 --> 00:25:10,600
Speaker 2: like I.

503
00:25:10,520 --> 00:25:12,280
Speaker 3: Do have one thing? Okay, So it was in the

504
00:25:12,440 --> 00:25:14,840
Speaker 3: very beginning and I had to cry. I think it

505
00:25:14,880 --> 00:25:16,840
Speaker 3: was like, yeah, it was the first five shows or something.

506
00:25:16,840 --> 00:25:18,640
Speaker 3: In fact, I think we might have seen one of them.

507
00:25:18,680 --> 00:25:21,600
Speaker 3: And I was in the kitchen with Jane and Michael. Okay,

508
00:25:21,640 --> 00:25:25,760
Speaker 3: so there's these blowers for the audience where they're menthol

509
00:25:26,200 --> 00:25:28,879
Speaker 3: and if say Grant has to cry, I could blow

510
00:25:28,920 --> 00:25:31,880
Speaker 3: the menthol into his eye and he makes his eyes

511
00:25:31,920 --> 00:25:33,120
Speaker 3: water up right.

512
00:25:33,200 --> 00:25:33,640
Speaker 1: Well there.

513
00:25:34,000 --> 00:25:38,720
Speaker 3: I did not know about those. And I, you know,

514
00:25:38,840 --> 00:25:43,040
Speaker 3: like you were new into acting and stuff, and I

515
00:25:43,080 --> 00:25:46,919
Speaker 3: had like I had vix or something that I brought

516
00:25:47,119 --> 00:25:51,199
Speaker 3: because like I was panicked if I couldn't cry for

517
00:25:51,280 --> 00:25:51,840
Speaker 3: that scene.

518
00:25:52,320 --> 00:25:53,359
Speaker 1: Wow, uh huh.

519
00:25:53,400 --> 00:25:55,119
Speaker 3: And so I had it and I put it like

520
00:25:55,320 --> 00:25:59,280
Speaker 3: in my eye. Oh wow, yeah, yeah it works, especially

521
00:25:59,359 --> 00:25:59,840
Speaker 3: the same thing.

522
00:26:00,680 --> 00:26:00,880
Speaker 1: Yeah.

523
00:26:02,160 --> 00:26:02,360
Speaker 3: Yeah.

524
00:26:03,040 --> 00:26:05,880
Speaker 2: You had all sorts of fixes. You had all sorts

525
00:26:05,920 --> 00:26:10,280
Speaker 2: of like problem solving things. Well the changing into your sweatpants,

526
00:26:10,359 --> 00:26:10,720
Speaker 2: you like.

527
00:26:11,160 --> 00:26:13,280
Speaker 1: I had a lot of things figure out, Wait was

528
00:26:13,440 --> 00:26:18,240
Speaker 1: the problem solver? Yeah, all right, no other confession.

529
00:26:18,280 --> 00:26:20,600
Speaker 3: Then someone had the blower one time and I was like,

530
00:26:20,600 --> 00:26:23,080
Speaker 3: wait a minute, what you can blow that in their eye?

531
00:26:23,160 --> 00:26:24,040
Speaker 3: Like that's okay to do.

532
00:26:24,400 --> 00:26:28,760
Speaker 1: Yeah. We had a lot of crying, a lot of

533
00:26:28,840 --> 00:26:32,560
Speaker 1: drama a lot of at least Joe did you did too, Yeah,

534
00:26:32,880 --> 00:26:37,040
Speaker 1: Michael cheated on you like forty different times, but yeah different.

535
00:26:37,119 --> 00:26:39,680
Speaker 3: Here's the thing though, like now that I'm older and stuff,

536
00:26:39,720 --> 00:26:41,440
Speaker 3: like I didn't have to cry. I could have played

537
00:26:41,440 --> 00:26:42,000
Speaker 3: it differently.

538
00:26:42,400 --> 00:26:42,720
Speaker 1: Yeah.

539
00:26:42,760 --> 00:26:45,840
Speaker 3: But even if it said Jane breaks down.

540
00:26:45,800 --> 00:26:48,159
Speaker 1: Right, like it interpreted like oh right, I must cry here?

541
00:26:48,240 --> 00:26:51,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, says she cries. It's a tear going down.

542
00:26:51,680 --> 00:26:54,080
Speaker 1: I actually feel pressure. You feel like you yeah.

543
00:26:54,720 --> 00:26:57,000
Speaker 3: And then when the director was like, okay, cut, let's

544
00:26:57,040 --> 00:26:59,600
Speaker 3: try to get Josie like see if you can get there,

545
00:26:59,800 --> 00:27:02,520
Speaker 3: I'm already getting hot. Like I don't hate that conversation,

546
00:27:03,600 --> 00:27:06,040
Speaker 3: especially when they're yeah, the pressure's on. It's like your

547
00:27:06,040 --> 00:27:08,120
Speaker 3: emotions just go well.

548
00:27:08,160 --> 00:27:11,320
Speaker 1: I think you the it's like the well empties. It

549
00:27:11,320 --> 00:27:13,919
Speaker 1: may fill up again for tomorrow, but then it's like

550
00:27:13,960 --> 00:27:18,440
Speaker 1: bring on the month, al or like bring it on. Yeah,

551
00:27:18,480 --> 00:27:20,840
Speaker 1: but I remember a lot of emotion. I just was like,

552
00:27:20,920 --> 00:27:21,600
Speaker 1: oh my god.

553
00:27:22,160 --> 00:27:24,560
Speaker 2: Well, I think what we've learned is like there's so

554
00:27:25,000 --> 00:27:28,080
Speaker 2: much to talk about and remember, like it and even

555
00:27:28,160 --> 00:27:31,640
Speaker 2: just like hearing each other's stories triggers memories for everybody else,

556
00:27:31,760 --> 00:27:33,200
Speaker 2: and I think we're going to need to have more

557
00:27:33,200 --> 00:27:33,760
Speaker 2: game nights.

558
00:27:34,280 --> 00:27:36,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, just so we get back together.

559
00:27:37,480 --> 00:27:38,040
Speaker 3: I love it.

560
00:27:38,200 --> 00:27:41,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, anybody can let the fans know we are going

561
00:27:41,359 --> 00:27:43,479
Speaker 1: to have everyone on, Yeah, that we can get to

562
00:27:43,600 --> 00:27:45,440
Speaker 1: all the cast people. We're going to try to get

563
00:27:45,480 --> 00:27:48,199
Speaker 1: Darren and maybe a couple other writers, but all of

564
00:27:48,240 --> 00:27:51,639
Speaker 1: the cast. And also it's hard to get everyone in

565
00:27:51,640 --> 00:27:54,000
Speaker 1: the room like this, which is why we really we

566
00:27:54,000 --> 00:27:55,920
Speaker 1: were all here for this event. We wanted to all

567
00:27:55,960 --> 00:27:58,879
Speaker 1: be together because there's a wonderful hanging out and rapport.

568
00:27:59,560 --> 00:28:02,159
Speaker 1: But we all live in different areas. It's complicated, so

569
00:28:02,200 --> 00:28:03,959
Speaker 1: it's hard to get everybody together.

570
00:28:04,160 --> 00:28:06,080
Speaker 2: So we're so grateful that this worked out and we

571
00:28:06,160 --> 00:28:09,120
Speaker 2: got to see you guys twice and sit down and

572
00:28:09,240 --> 00:28:09,919
Speaker 2: chat twice.

573
00:28:10,080 --> 00:28:10,199
Speaker 3: No.

574
00:28:10,280 --> 00:28:15,040
Speaker 2: Great, really, thanks for coming and always we love hearing

575
00:28:15,080 --> 00:28:20,880
Speaker 2: fans feedback and we love hearing fans comments. Are still subscribe,

576
00:28:21,160 --> 00:28:24,080
Speaker 2: Thank you for listening, and we'll we'll see you next week.

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Speaker 1: I'm still the place