1 00:00:01,639 --> 00:00:06,160 Speaker 1: All right, So this is from Facebook from Dre. Dre writes, 2 00:00:06,240 --> 00:00:09,559 Speaker 1: I have a family friend who'd hit hard times. However, 3 00:00:09,760 --> 00:00:13,840 Speaker 1: this family friend also has a reputation for lying and 4 00:00:13,960 --> 00:00:17,239 Speaker 1: not paying people back. Now he's trying to guilt me 5 00:00:17,600 --> 00:00:20,720 Speaker 1: and my entire family talking about I'm turning my back 6 00:00:20,760 --> 00:00:23,720 Speaker 1: on him. Well that's where I am right now, and 7 00:00:23,760 --> 00:00:26,480 Speaker 1: I'm in the position to help. But I know darn 8 00:00:26,560 --> 00:00:30,560 Speaker 1: well I will never see the money back since no 9 00:00:30,640 --> 00:00:33,640 Speaker 1: one else can really help or is willing to. I'm 10 00:00:33,680 --> 00:00:36,640 Speaker 1: like Tupac, all eyes on me, man, I'm not going 11 00:00:36,720 --> 00:00:39,160 Speaker 1: to change my mind. So am I wrong? 12 00:00:39,760 --> 00:00:45,000 Speaker 2: No? No to see me. See, you can't create a 13 00:00:45,200 --> 00:00:49,520 Speaker 2: track record and then try to get off the track 14 00:00:50,560 --> 00:00:53,400 Speaker 2: in front of somebody you'd ran around on all this time. 15 00:00:53,520 --> 00:00:57,000 Speaker 2: It's just not how it works. Yes, man, When you 16 00:00:57,040 --> 00:01:01,240 Speaker 2: create a reputation, then you're gonna you You make a bed, 17 00:01:01,320 --> 00:01:01,840 Speaker 2: you gotta. 18 00:01:01,680 --> 00:01:02,080 Speaker 1: Lay in it. 19 00:01:02,160 --> 00:01:05,760 Speaker 2: Dog, I'm sorry you don't pay people back? Now you 20 00:01:05,840 --> 00:01:08,800 Speaker 2: backing me talking about y'all turning your back? Yeah, okay, cool, 21 00:01:09,080 --> 00:01:12,319 Speaker 2: But here's the deal with me. If you did not 22 00:01:12,640 --> 00:01:15,560 Speaker 2: have my number, what would you do? 23 00:01:16,240 --> 00:01:16,479 Speaker 1: Yeah? 24 00:01:17,000 --> 00:01:22,000 Speaker 2: See, naw, gonna get to doing that because you already 25 00:01:22,000 --> 00:01:24,200 Speaker 2: know I got it, So you don't save all that 26 00:01:24,280 --> 00:01:27,000 Speaker 2: with me. I tell people all the time. First of all, 27 00:01:27,160 --> 00:01:29,280 Speaker 2: hey man, let me holler at you now. Okay, I'm 28 00:01:29,280 --> 00:01:31,480 Speaker 2: gonna wait seventy two hours. Well I return that for him. 29 00:01:32,040 --> 00:01:34,399 Speaker 2: Don't text me or nothing. Hey man, hey man, when 30 00:01:34,440 --> 00:01:36,920 Speaker 2: you get a free moment, called me. Okay, I'm not 31 00:01:37,080 --> 00:01:40,959 Speaker 2: free for seventy two hours. I'm busying. Hey man, I 32 00:01:41,000 --> 00:01:42,880 Speaker 2: got an emergency. This is what I got. I got 33 00:01:42,920 --> 00:01:46,000 Speaker 2: a text from a dude. I have an emergency. He 34 00:01:46,080 --> 00:01:49,680 Speaker 2: texted me, I have an emergency. Who the hell got 35 00:01:49,680 --> 00:01:57,600 Speaker 2: an emergency in textis boy? Stop? So I waited my 36 00:01:57,760 --> 00:02:02,640 Speaker 2: seventy two hours and called him back because all emergencies 37 00:02:02,680 --> 00:02:05,000 Speaker 2: passed in seventy two hours. Trust me when I tell 38 00:02:05,040 --> 00:02:05,360 Speaker 2: you that. 39 00:02:05,680 --> 00:02:08,919 Speaker 1: Okay, he said, you're into crisis management anyway. 40 00:02:09,040 --> 00:02:13,079 Speaker 2: You know that. It's just James Jarvis. 41 00:02:12,840 --> 00:02:16,560 Speaker 1: No, No, you know why you asked? Why you asked? 42 00:02:16,639 --> 00:02:19,320 Speaker 1: Junior sound like somebody I might knows. 43 00:02:21,480 --> 00:02:22,040 Speaker 2: Everybody. 44 00:02:22,080 --> 00:02:26,600 Speaker 1: No, No, it's not Alvin. No, No, I was gonna 45 00:02:26,600 --> 00:02:29,240 Speaker 1: ask you. But he feels guilty, So how does he 46 00:02:29,320 --> 00:02:30,600 Speaker 1: deal with that guilt? 47 00:02:30,639 --> 00:02:33,760 Speaker 2: Feeling guilt is the most useless emotion that we have 48 00:02:33,919 --> 00:02:39,800 Speaker 2: as human beings. Yeahs, no purpose. What's the purpose of guilt? 49 00:02:40,880 --> 00:02:40,960 Speaker 1: No? 50 00:02:41,360 --> 00:02:44,000 Speaker 2: Stop? Why why you got to feel guilt that he's 51 00:02:44,040 --> 00:02:45,160 Speaker 2: not your child? 52 00:02:45,480 --> 00:02:48,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, he's your response friend, a family friend. 53 00:02:48,280 --> 00:02:51,160 Speaker 2: He's not your child, y'all. Ain't took no vows. He's 54 00:02:51,160 --> 00:02:55,480 Speaker 2: not your wife. Now he a family friend that ain't 55 00:02:55,520 --> 00:02:59,000 Speaker 2: been much of a friend, right, all right, you all 56 00:02:59,040 --> 00:03:01,920 Speaker 2: have a one side friendship. Now, I'm gonna let you 57 00:03:01,919 --> 00:03:04,040 Speaker 2: go over there and stay on your side for a while. 58 00:03:07,800 --> 00:03:10,679 Speaker 1: All right, Let's see if we have time for another one. 59 00:03:10,720 --> 00:03:14,120 Speaker 1: This one's from Nicole on Steve HARVFM. She says, my 60 00:03:14,200 --> 00:03:16,480 Speaker 1: husband and I went out of town to have Thanksgiving 61 00:03:16,800 --> 00:03:20,080 Speaker 1: with his family. He started drinking with his brother at noon, 62 00:03:20,120 --> 00:03:22,960 Speaker 1: and by the time dinner was served, they were both 63 00:03:23,080 --> 00:03:26,320 Speaker 1: drunk as heck. He embarrassed himself in front of his 64 00:03:26,400 --> 00:03:28,880 Speaker 1: whole family, and I was left to take care of 65 00:03:28,960 --> 00:03:32,760 Speaker 1: him and then drive us home afterwards. We're supposed to 66 00:03:32,760 --> 00:03:35,160 Speaker 1: go again at Christmas, and I told him I'm not going. 67 00:03:35,600 --> 00:03:35,800 Speaker 2: Now. 68 00:03:35,840 --> 00:03:38,520 Speaker 1: He thinks I'm being unreasonable and is mad at me. 69 00:03:39,040 --> 00:03:42,000 Speaker 1: I haven't done anything wrong and I shouldn't be made 70 00:03:42,000 --> 00:03:44,960 Speaker 1: to feel bad after what he put me through. Steve, 71 00:03:45,040 --> 00:03:47,320 Speaker 1: back me up? Am I wrong? Am I overreacting? 72 00:03:48,120 --> 00:03:52,360 Speaker 2: Best office is a good excuse me. The best defense 73 00:03:52,640 --> 00:03:56,920 Speaker 2: is a good offense. So now he defensive about what 74 00:03:57,040 --> 00:03:59,760 Speaker 2: he did, and so now he'd have took the. 75 00:04:01,800 --> 00:04:01,960 Speaker 1: Nah. 76 00:04:02,000 --> 00:04:06,880 Speaker 2: He mad at you for his getting drunk, and you 77 00:04:07,040 --> 00:04:11,800 Speaker 2: not understep man. Please bye, ladies, stop letting these men 78 00:04:12,040 --> 00:04:13,640 Speaker 2: out mad you. 79 00:04:13,760 --> 00:04:17,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, you what you do? 80 00:04:17,560 --> 00:04:18,679 Speaker 2: Do your job? 81 00:04:19,440 --> 00:04:20,680 Speaker 1: Yeah? 82 00:04:21,200 --> 00:04:26,320 Speaker 2: Man, I cannot out mad Marjorie, I don't give it. 83 00:04:26,880 --> 00:04:32,520 Speaker 2: How I tried, Braby baby, how you gonna do that? 84 00:04:32,800 --> 00:04:33,400 Speaker 2: When mis Steve? 85 00:04:36,240 --> 00:04:39,840 Speaker 1: We gotta run Steve. You're listening to the Steve Harvey 86 00:04:39,880 --> 00:04:40,480 Speaker 1: Morning Show.