1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:03,120 Speaker 1: Hey, PT sixers, this is Willie One show. You're about 2 00:00:03,160 --> 00:00:05,280 Speaker 1: to listen to an automated ad read after this call 3 00:00:05,320 --> 00:00:07,240 Speaker 1: to action. If you're on the Busting with the Boys 4 00:00:07,320 --> 00:00:09,479 Speaker 1: audio channel. If you want to listen to For the 5 00:00:09,560 --> 00:00:12,640 Speaker 1: Dads automated AD free, be sure to head over to 6 00:00:12,680 --> 00:00:14,800 Speaker 1: the For the Dad's channel. And wherever you listen to 7 00:00:14,840 --> 00:00:17,880 Speaker 1: us on audio, enjoy this episode of For the Dads. 8 00:00:18,000 --> 00:00:20,759 Speaker 1: Papa Team six Welcome to another episode of For the Dads. 9 00:00:20,760 --> 00:00:24,000 Speaker 1: Today is a very special day. Today is the day 10 00:00:24,600 --> 00:00:28,080 Speaker 1: we have our very first guest on For the Dads. 11 00:00:28,160 --> 00:00:30,720 Speaker 1: He's a PT sixer. I'll get to let's say, if 12 00:00:30,760 --> 00:00:33,080 Speaker 1: you haven't followed our socials, our socials ad for the dadspot. 13 00:00:33,120 --> 00:00:34,720 Speaker 1: If you've been on those, you know who the guess 14 00:00:34,760 --> 00:00:36,040 Speaker 1: is going to be. But if not, I'm going to 15 00:00:36,120 --> 00:00:38,000 Speaker 1: keep you hanging for a little bit longer. I hope 16 00:00:38,000 --> 00:00:40,000 Speaker 1: your power is back on. I hope your trash is 17 00:00:40,040 --> 00:00:42,040 Speaker 1: taken out. It is. We are recording because we're going 18 00:00:42,080 --> 00:00:43,800 Speaker 1: to the Super Bowl next week. I know by the 19 00:00:43,840 --> 00:00:46,320 Speaker 1: time this drops we had to backlog this one, YEP, 20 00:00:46,360 --> 00:00:49,760 Speaker 1: but right now it is January thirtieth, it's a Friday, YEP. 21 00:00:49,760 --> 00:00:51,880 Speaker 2: We're on day six right now. No power. 22 00:00:52,080 --> 00:00:55,080 Speaker 1: Fortunately, the power is onto the shop. It just went 23 00:00:55,120 --> 00:00:58,080 Speaker 1: out when we were five minutes ago, five minutes ago, 24 00:00:58,080 --> 00:01:00,000 Speaker 1: when we were about eight minutes deep of this episod. 25 00:01:00,080 --> 00:01:02,840 Speaker 1: So we're gonna try and recreate the energy because again optimism. 26 00:01:02,960 --> 00:01:04,240 Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah yeah. 27 00:01:04,240 --> 00:01:08,120 Speaker 1: But our guests that we have on today, he's a 28 00:01:08,160 --> 00:01:08,840 Speaker 1: special one. 29 00:01:09,840 --> 00:01:13,679 Speaker 2: He's a special boy, A rumored siko, a rumored. 30 00:01:13,280 --> 00:01:17,440 Speaker 1: Sicco three time pro bowler, ten years in the NFL. 31 00:01:17,880 --> 00:01:20,080 Speaker 1: You know him from Busting with the Boys, Michigan man. 32 00:01:20,200 --> 00:01:22,839 Speaker 1: You know him from ESPN. You know him from Michigan, 33 00:01:23,360 --> 00:01:25,759 Speaker 1: and you also know him as an all time dad 34 00:01:26,000 --> 00:01:29,039 Speaker 1: of two beautiful girls winning Willow at pet Sikos. Give 35 00:01:29,040 --> 00:01:38,120 Speaker 1: it up in the comments for Taylor Lewan like that introduction. 36 00:01:38,360 --> 00:01:40,560 Speaker 3: I like it's so nice. We did it twice, buddy, Yeah, 37 00:01:40,600 --> 00:01:43,360 Speaker 3: it's yeah, optimism. 38 00:01:43,440 --> 00:01:44,920 Speaker 1: Can you allude to some of the magic that we 39 00:01:45,000 --> 00:01:46,600 Speaker 1: had that we're gonna do what We're gonna do our 40 00:01:46,640 --> 00:01:47,400 Speaker 1: best to keep it there. 41 00:01:47,480 --> 00:01:49,480 Speaker 3: I'll say this, man, like I've been watching from afar. 42 00:01:49,520 --> 00:01:51,480 Speaker 3: I remember when the first time you kind of came 43 00:01:51,520 --> 00:01:52,720 Speaker 3: to me in our little team meeting room as I 44 00:01:52,720 --> 00:01:55,720 Speaker 3: ham'm thinking about starting this show about Dad's I want 45 00:01:55,760 --> 00:01:57,680 Speaker 3: to Essentially, you're asking for the blessing, Like, are you 46 00:01:57,720 --> 00:01:59,160 Speaker 3: cool if I go and start this show? And I 47 00:01:59,200 --> 00:02:02,200 Speaker 3: was like planning of the yeah, I was like, yeah, 48 00:02:02,560 --> 00:02:04,760 Speaker 3: I think it would be awesome. Like you're obviously big 49 00:02:04,800 --> 00:02:07,680 Speaker 3: into it all that you bring up shirm he's gonna 50 00:02:07,680 --> 00:02:09,640 Speaker 3: be able soon to be father. At the time, He's like, 51 00:02:09,639 --> 00:02:11,799 Speaker 3: he would be great. There's no doubt, sherm in front 52 00:02:11,800 --> 00:02:13,720 Speaker 3: of a camera is better than behind the camera. You're 53 00:02:13,720 --> 00:02:15,799 Speaker 3: actually great behind the camera. That's not a shot. Well, no, 54 00:02:16,520 --> 00:02:18,760 Speaker 3: you're a phenomenal talent. I'll take that, is what I'm saying. 55 00:02:18,760 --> 00:02:23,120 Speaker 3: I'll take that. And I knew eventually this would happen, 56 00:02:23,160 --> 00:02:25,040 Speaker 3: This like would merge of like you guys would want 57 00:02:25,040 --> 00:02:27,720 Speaker 3: guests eventually, and I thought, hopefully, you know. 58 00:02:29,960 --> 00:02:32,640 Speaker 2: God willing, I would become one of those guests. 59 00:02:32,680 --> 00:02:35,880 Speaker 3: And it's really cool for me because the way my 60 00:02:35,960 --> 00:02:38,040 Speaker 3: family operates, the way my wife and I operate, is 61 00:02:38,080 --> 00:02:42,760 Speaker 3: we uh protect, trying to protect and preserve like our children. 62 00:02:42,880 --> 00:02:45,200 Speaker 3: We don't want in the public light. We see anything, 63 00:02:45,840 --> 00:02:48,799 Speaker 3: and I get to see you guys post about your kids, 64 00:02:48,800 --> 00:02:50,080 Speaker 3: and there's a level of fulm with that. I have 65 00:02:50,120 --> 00:02:52,079 Speaker 3: at times being like, oh, look how happy that beautiful 66 00:02:52,080 --> 00:02:53,720 Speaker 3: family is. And a lot of times you play the 67 00:02:53,760 --> 00:02:55,480 Speaker 3: game he's like, well it is the Instagram family happy. 68 00:02:55,520 --> 00:02:57,720 Speaker 3: But I knowing both of you, I'm like, this is 69 00:02:57,760 --> 00:03:00,160 Speaker 3: truly them and it's just really cool to see. And 70 00:03:00,200 --> 00:03:03,400 Speaker 3: so this will be the first time in my podcasting 71 00:03:03,440 --> 00:03:05,720 Speaker 3: professional career that I will truly be talking about my 72 00:03:05,720 --> 00:03:06,160 Speaker 3: family in. 73 00:03:06,160 --> 00:03:07,440 Speaker 2: A way the entire episode. 74 00:03:07,560 --> 00:03:09,720 Speaker 3: Yeah that I have not really done on Busting with 75 00:03:09,760 --> 00:03:12,160 Speaker 3: the Boys. There's been emotional times, there's been great stories 76 00:03:12,200 --> 00:03:13,760 Speaker 3: and stuff like that, but this is a time where 77 00:03:14,080 --> 00:03:17,840 Speaker 3: it's truly based around my family. Our families. Yeah, how 78 00:03:17,840 --> 00:03:20,520 Speaker 3: we're all integrated together. And dude, I'm fired up. 79 00:03:20,680 --> 00:03:23,080 Speaker 1: You're a great storyteller because it's spotty, like you were 80 00:03:23,080 --> 00:03:25,639 Speaker 1: alluding to, it's it's spotty on in the bust and universe, 81 00:03:25,680 --> 00:03:27,160 Speaker 1: and you talk about on Busting with the Boys, But 82 00:03:27,200 --> 00:03:29,679 Speaker 1: the fact that we're going to have a dedicated keeping 83 00:03:29,800 --> 00:03:32,480 Speaker 1: under an hour, all fake keep under an hour, that's 84 00:03:32,560 --> 00:03:34,800 Speaker 1: the thing, is like, I gotta go in an hour, right, 85 00:03:35,000 --> 00:03:36,520 Speaker 1: we can't do this any longer than an hour. I 86 00:03:36,520 --> 00:03:38,600 Speaker 1: can't do this any longer than an hour. And luckily 87 00:03:38,640 --> 00:03:40,240 Speaker 1: we all got a hard app your Patcico. 88 00:03:40,880 --> 00:03:42,440 Speaker 2: People say that people, there's. 89 00:03:42,320 --> 00:03:44,320 Speaker 1: Rumors swirling, and it's only it's up to me to 90 00:03:44,840 --> 00:03:47,320 Speaker 1: prove to the viewer today that I'm a ptsico. Are 91 00:03:47,360 --> 00:03:50,800 Speaker 1: you aware that this is the strongest fatherhood community going 92 00:03:50,800 --> 00:03:51,920 Speaker 1: on right now in the modern day? 93 00:03:51,960 --> 00:03:53,360 Speaker 2: Can I say something else? Please? 94 00:03:53,720 --> 00:03:55,920 Speaker 3: I know you guys are like thirty six thirty seven 95 00:03:55,960 --> 00:03:57,160 Speaker 3: episodes into this whole thing. 96 00:03:57,240 --> 00:03:58,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, and it. 97 00:03:58,080 --> 00:04:01,560 Speaker 3: Is incredible to see the village of the tribe that 98 00:04:01,640 --> 00:04:03,600 Speaker 3: the two of you have established, not only in the 99 00:04:03,640 --> 00:04:08,560 Speaker 3: continental United States, but worldwide internationally. These people coming out 100 00:04:08,600 --> 00:04:10,040 Speaker 3: of nowhere. And the thing that's been the most mind 101 00:04:10,080 --> 00:04:11,840 Speaker 3: blowing to me because it doesn't happen. I'm bustling with 102 00:04:11,840 --> 00:04:15,400 Speaker 3: the boys. Got a lot of ladies over here at. 103 00:04:17,800 --> 00:04:18,040 Speaker 1: YEP. 104 00:04:18,440 --> 00:04:23,360 Speaker 3: Yes, so I am very excited to meet these people, 105 00:04:23,480 --> 00:04:28,279 Speaker 3: to embrace fatherhood, embrace family all that on this show. 106 00:04:29,000 --> 00:04:30,919 Speaker 1: You can be more excited. Yeah. And again, for the 107 00:04:31,000 --> 00:04:33,839 Speaker 1: audience out there watching, listening, wherever you're getting your podcast, 108 00:04:33,839 --> 00:04:37,400 Speaker 1: please make sure you're following and subscribe. Please. But this 109 00:04:37,440 --> 00:04:39,760 Speaker 1: won't be just a This isn't like an interview. This 110 00:04:39,880 --> 00:04:42,279 Speaker 1: is the boy is co hosting. Anything we have on 111 00:04:42,320 --> 00:04:43,719 Speaker 1: a guest, they will be co hosting, they will be 112 00:04:43,760 --> 00:04:47,239 Speaker 1: immersed in our show. Tailor's got a lot of cards 113 00:04:47,279 --> 00:04:49,960 Speaker 1: around them because again we love to engage with our 114 00:04:50,000 --> 00:04:52,560 Speaker 1: audience at for the Dad's Pod on social media. So 115 00:04:52,600 --> 00:04:55,080 Speaker 1: if you drop comments, we get them on cards. If 116 00:04:55,120 --> 00:04:57,000 Speaker 1: you want to go the extra mile and be featured 117 00:04:57,040 --> 00:04:59,560 Speaker 1: featured on the show, you call into a hotline six 118 00:04:59,600 --> 00:05:01,880 Speaker 1: on one that Dads. That is where if we feature 119 00:05:01,920 --> 00:05:04,720 Speaker 1: your voicemail, your calling, whether it's a dad win, Dad lost, 120 00:05:04,760 --> 00:05:07,599 Speaker 1: anything you want to vent to the boys, we play it. 121 00:05:07,640 --> 00:05:08,599 Speaker 2: We send you some merch. 122 00:05:08,720 --> 00:05:11,000 Speaker 1: If you can't, if you're international and you can't call 123 00:05:11,040 --> 00:05:13,240 Speaker 1: into the hotline, or you don't want your voice to 124 00:05:13,279 --> 00:05:15,960 Speaker 1: be heard, you simply just write in an email six 125 00:05:16,000 --> 00:05:17,839 Speaker 1: and one The Dad's at gmail dot com. So we 126 00:05:17,880 --> 00:05:20,719 Speaker 1: do comments, We do engagement all throughout the episode. Taylor's 127 00:05:20,720 --> 00:05:22,680 Speaker 1: got a lot here in front of him right now. 128 00:05:23,000 --> 00:05:25,119 Speaker 1: Oh and big news that we got during that little 129 00:05:25,120 --> 00:05:27,120 Speaker 1: power Yes five minutes that we just had. 130 00:05:27,480 --> 00:05:30,000 Speaker 2: We just hit twenty thousand on YouTube. We just hit 131 00:05:30,000 --> 00:05:32,839 Speaker 2: twenty thousand subscribers on YouTube. And that's it. 132 00:05:32,960 --> 00:05:36,520 Speaker 4: That's really just thinking PT six. I mean truly like 133 00:05:36,600 --> 00:05:39,760 Speaker 4: thank you PT six for subscribing, but also huge shout 134 00:05:39,760 --> 00:05:42,960 Speaker 4: out to PT six because he had a really good 135 00:05:43,040 --> 00:05:46,760 Speaker 4: number of like comments and questions with what Two days 136 00:05:46,800 --> 00:05:49,599 Speaker 4: before we were recording, we put out a tweet, a 137 00:05:49,680 --> 00:05:52,559 Speaker 4: post and some stuff and they came through. So shout 138 00:05:52,560 --> 00:05:54,120 Speaker 4: out PT six and Empty six. 139 00:05:54,240 --> 00:05:55,960 Speaker 2: Derek was dropped in the chat the other day too. 140 00:05:56,080 --> 00:05:59,160 Speaker 1: The reddit, the reddit page, Oh you drop in the 141 00:05:59,200 --> 00:06:01,000 Speaker 1: little clip for the video. 142 00:06:01,040 --> 00:06:03,800 Speaker 5: We talked about, uh, I guess technically two episodes ago 143 00:06:03,800 --> 00:06:05,400 Speaker 5: about how they were like, oh, our time will come, 144 00:06:05,440 --> 00:06:08,479 Speaker 5: Our time will come. We have a discussion here Taylor 145 00:06:08,520 --> 00:06:10,680 Speaker 5: about like reddit and just we don't use it and 146 00:06:10,720 --> 00:06:12,720 Speaker 5: so what does it mean? And we found that Peticos 147 00:06:12,720 --> 00:06:15,800 Speaker 5: had made us a reddit so lastep or two episodes ago, 148 00:06:15,839 --> 00:06:17,800 Speaker 5: we shouted it out and then I sent a link 149 00:06:17,839 --> 00:06:20,240 Speaker 5: to the boys. They posted and said we're famous with 150 00:06:20,279 --> 00:06:23,359 Speaker 5: the clip of us discussing, let's go created reddit page. 151 00:06:23,400 --> 00:06:25,039 Speaker 2: So the community is absurd. 152 00:06:25,240 --> 00:06:28,320 Speaker 3: Reddit is a world that I've never like truly been in. 153 00:06:29,360 --> 00:06:32,560 Speaker 3: I've touched a link or two in my life and 154 00:06:32,640 --> 00:06:36,880 Speaker 3: I've looked, buddy, you had some you had some on 155 00:06:36,920 --> 00:06:40,960 Speaker 3: that not even yeah, you had sickos in general, and 156 00:06:41,000 --> 00:06:43,600 Speaker 3: you gotta love them too, because that's as the heartbeat 157 00:06:43,640 --> 00:06:46,479 Speaker 3: right there, you're heartbeat. They will make you rise and 158 00:06:46,560 --> 00:06:49,840 Speaker 3: fall baba in a lot of ways. 159 00:06:51,040 --> 00:06:55,039 Speaker 2: Take your ass out if you don't, if you'll correct, Yeah, 160 00:06:55,040 --> 00:06:55,240 Speaker 2: you know. 161 00:06:55,480 --> 00:06:57,719 Speaker 1: You're in the pocket of Reddit, where I would assume 162 00:06:57,760 --> 00:07:00,320 Speaker 1: it's the same. But you click the link that you 163 00:07:00,320 --> 00:07:02,600 Speaker 1: do click, you hit it and then when Safari opens up, 164 00:07:02,600 --> 00:07:03,720 Speaker 1: it's like, do you want to open it up in 165 00:07:03,720 --> 00:07:05,200 Speaker 1: the app or do you want to stay on you 166 00:07:05,360 --> 00:07:06,880 Speaker 1: stay on the browser. Oh you got to make a 167 00:07:06,920 --> 00:07:09,840 Speaker 1: profile to get on Reddit. You feel like you always 168 00:07:09,880 --> 00:07:11,120 Speaker 1: stay on the browser the. 169 00:07:11,120 --> 00:07:14,800 Speaker 3: Minute use your name and you have a password and 170 00:07:14,840 --> 00:07:17,680 Speaker 3: you have to verify the pastor there's email involved. That's 171 00:07:17,720 --> 00:07:20,520 Speaker 3: when you are now in the cold. You're you're in 172 00:07:20,600 --> 00:07:24,160 Speaker 3: this your your official sicko speaking. We did have a 173 00:07:24,200 --> 00:07:28,240 Speaker 3: cicco right in this from Joe Vir's on Instagram. And 174 00:07:28,280 --> 00:07:29,920 Speaker 3: this is for you to read before we kick off. 175 00:07:30,080 --> 00:07:31,880 Speaker 2: Now, we did, we did read this call. 176 00:07:32,000 --> 00:07:33,920 Speaker 3: We did, we did, and I just wanted to do 177 00:07:34,120 --> 00:07:36,920 Speaker 3: the reason why I brought that up is my reading abilities. 178 00:07:36,920 --> 00:07:39,720 Speaker 3: Anybody who watches Bus with the Boy's nose subpar. It's 179 00:07:39,760 --> 00:07:42,240 Speaker 3: not great Uh, so I have to pre read. I 180 00:07:42,280 --> 00:07:44,840 Speaker 3: got to pre read before I actually read live. 181 00:07:45,040 --> 00:07:46,480 Speaker 1: Now I'm in my head, I'm like, do I do 182 00:07:46,520 --> 00:07:48,760 Speaker 1: the thing where I like Taylor? He needed the room 183 00:07:48,800 --> 00:07:50,360 Speaker 1: for ten minutes while we have to walk out of 184 00:07:50,400 --> 00:07:52,360 Speaker 1: the shop and hey, if you want to say that 185 00:07:52,400 --> 00:07:58,720 Speaker 1: you're more than would it again? It was Taylor? 186 00:07:59,400 --> 00:08:00,400 Speaker 2: And then we gave the cards. 187 00:08:00,400 --> 00:08:02,080 Speaker 1: You saw the cards and he was like, gentlemen, can 188 00:08:02,120 --> 00:08:04,760 Speaker 1: we all leave the office. Can you all step outside 189 00:08:04,760 --> 00:08:05,720 Speaker 1: and give me ten minutes? 190 00:08:12,280 --> 00:08:16,960 Speaker 2: You're not You're not? Do I do the clipper with 191 00:08:16,960 --> 00:08:17,640 Speaker 2: the big red doll? 192 00:08:17,800 --> 00:08:18,000 Speaker 6: Yeah? 193 00:08:18,520 --> 00:08:20,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, we got the same book? 194 00:08:22,760 --> 00:08:23,480 Speaker 7: Yes, all right? 195 00:08:23,520 --> 00:08:27,640 Speaker 2: This is Joe Vieers underscore Instagram Joe Viers Why why 196 00:08:27,640 --> 00:08:31,960 Speaker 2: am I actually excited for this? The crossover every MT 197 00:08:32,120 --> 00:08:35,560 Speaker 2: sixer probably dreaded after years of hearing bust with the 198 00:08:35,559 --> 00:08:38,959 Speaker 2: boys prior to f t D. It's your time to 199 00:08:39,000 --> 00:08:41,960 Speaker 2: shine as a pt sico. Taylor, please don't let us 200 00:08:42,000 --> 00:08:44,520 Speaker 2: down and you want It's from an empty six er 201 00:08:44,800 --> 00:08:48,319 Speaker 2: MT sixer, I am going to do my absolute best. 202 00:08:48,480 --> 00:08:53,480 Speaker 2: Then here theres hear us do we do on busts? 203 00:08:53,520 --> 00:08:54,040 Speaker 2: And just think? 204 00:08:54,360 --> 00:08:56,559 Speaker 1: What? Why do we got to listen to this? In 205 00:08:56,600 --> 00:08:59,080 Speaker 1: our long drive. Now they have for the dads. Moms 206 00:08:59,080 --> 00:09:01,600 Speaker 1: get included a little bit. Okay, that's that's the same 207 00:09:01,640 --> 00:09:03,960 Speaker 1: monoxious guy that I hate listening to that you listened to. 208 00:09:04,120 --> 00:09:07,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, now the other I like to picture these beautiful 209 00:09:07,480 --> 00:09:10,160 Speaker 3: women sitting passenger side in the cars, are driving listening 210 00:09:10,160 --> 00:09:10,480 Speaker 3: to Pt. 211 00:09:10,640 --> 00:09:13,800 Speaker 2: Six before the dads and smiling. 212 00:09:13,400 --> 00:09:15,800 Speaker 3: To themselves, and every two or three times an episode 213 00:09:15,840 --> 00:09:17,160 Speaker 3: looking over and goes, that's so you. 214 00:09:17,400 --> 00:09:18,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, you do the same thing. 215 00:09:18,640 --> 00:09:21,320 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's crazy you do that, You do that, And 216 00:09:21,320 --> 00:09:22,800 Speaker 3: then he'll have a chance to look over and be like, 217 00:09:22,840 --> 00:09:23,600 Speaker 3: you've done that to me. 218 00:09:23,640 --> 00:09:25,960 Speaker 2: And then now we're having fun. We're having fun, and 219 00:09:26,000 --> 00:09:26,600 Speaker 2: that's all that matter. 220 00:09:26,679 --> 00:09:29,040 Speaker 1: Like see babble tell you when I when I want 221 00:09:29,040 --> 00:09:30,480 Speaker 1: to get a little action, that's right. 222 00:09:30,559 --> 00:09:33,600 Speaker 2: It ain't personal. All the guys feel this way. Electricity 223 00:09:33,640 --> 00:09:38,040 Speaker 2: in there and there's a bit of a shockwave. It 224 00:09:38,040 --> 00:09:40,400 Speaker 2: ain't just me out there. We're all trying to scratch 225 00:09:40,480 --> 00:09:41,319 Speaker 2: that age a little bit. 226 00:09:41,360 --> 00:09:41,520 Speaker 1: You know what. 227 00:09:42,760 --> 00:09:43,480 Speaker 2: Part of that deal. 228 00:09:43,880 --> 00:09:46,559 Speaker 4: Part of that deal, I will say, there is very 229 00:09:46,600 --> 00:09:49,520 Speaker 4: little difference between will comptent on busting with the boys 230 00:09:49,600 --> 00:09:52,439 Speaker 4: and will competent on for the dads. It's really that 231 00:09:52,480 --> 00:09:56,520 Speaker 4: they're just seeing a completely different side of you as 232 00:09:56,520 --> 00:09:58,280 Speaker 4: far as like the humanity of you. 233 00:09:58,679 --> 00:10:01,120 Speaker 2: So it just get married to that household. You said, 234 00:10:01,160 --> 00:10:03,920 Speaker 2: what jokes, get married to in the house Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. 235 00:10:04,200 --> 00:10:06,120 Speaker 2: I'm sitting there like I do see a little bit 236 00:10:06,160 --> 00:10:07,079 Speaker 2: of a difference. 237 00:10:07,040 --> 00:10:10,599 Speaker 3: Much more positive, like not in a negative way, like 238 00:10:10,640 --> 00:10:13,080 Speaker 3: straightforward busting like whatever wills feeling that day. 239 00:10:13,600 --> 00:10:15,280 Speaker 2: That's the way you're gonna get. This feels like a 240 00:10:16,160 --> 00:10:16,920 Speaker 2: like a. 241 00:10:17,000 --> 00:10:20,960 Speaker 3: Light positive and it's not saying you're not Yeah yeah 242 00:10:21,080 --> 00:10:22,920 Speaker 3: positive guy, catching the cat. 243 00:10:25,600 --> 00:10:27,240 Speaker 2: Take it a different way. Let's not take it that way. 244 00:10:27,320 --> 00:10:28,800 Speaker 2: Let's take the way it was meant to be presented 245 00:10:28,800 --> 00:10:30,199 Speaker 2: to you. It's hard to be taking that way. 246 00:10:30,200 --> 00:10:32,559 Speaker 1: When we got on these beautiful hats, no doubt you 247 00:10:32,679 --> 00:10:37,760 Speaker 1: look good going on, Taylor looks good? Well, yeah, like 248 00:10:37,800 --> 00:10:40,360 Speaker 1: what you've been married for? What s for? Four years? 249 00:10:40,480 --> 00:10:40,960 Speaker 1: Five years? 250 00:10:41,000 --> 00:10:41,600 Speaker 2: Four years? 251 00:10:41,960 --> 00:10:44,000 Speaker 1: Rooster four? Yeah? So four years? 252 00:10:44,920 --> 00:10:48,400 Speaker 3: What is How has Valentine's Day changed for you since 253 00:10:48,440 --> 00:10:52,839 Speaker 3: being established? Because I know it's changed a lot for me. Yeah, 254 00:10:52,920 --> 00:10:55,199 Speaker 3: it changed a lot for me, and it's a I'm 255 00:10:55,240 --> 00:10:56,880 Speaker 3: being honest with you, it's really nice now. 256 00:10:57,520 --> 00:10:58,880 Speaker 1: I think you just know what time. It is on 257 00:10:58,960 --> 00:11:01,440 Speaker 1: Valentine's Day, you know, I mean there's no second guess. 258 00:11:01,440 --> 00:11:03,680 Speaker 1: There's a question like, hey, you know all the hoops 259 00:11:03,720 --> 00:11:06,320 Speaker 1: you jump through to set up maybe a perfect little 260 00:11:06,360 --> 00:11:07,319 Speaker 1: Valentine's Day night? 261 00:11:07,400 --> 00:11:09,240 Speaker 2: Do they want that? Do I want that? Are they 262 00:11:09,280 --> 00:11:10,360 Speaker 2: expecting me to have this? 263 00:11:10,640 --> 00:11:12,120 Speaker 1: I don't really want to do it, but I also 264 00:11:12,280 --> 00:11:15,000 Speaker 1: I'm into you, so maybe I should do this. Yeah. 265 00:11:15,240 --> 00:11:17,199 Speaker 1: Now it's just more a little straightforward. We're going to 266 00:11:17,240 --> 00:11:19,480 Speaker 1: do it date night. We're gonna go out. We know 267 00:11:19,880 --> 00:11:23,160 Speaker 1: we're gonna Hey, nobody getting too full tonight. Yeah, yeah, 268 00:11:23,960 --> 00:11:26,959 Speaker 1: you want oysters, oysters in Blue bearry. Okay, they're a 269 00:11:27,000 --> 00:11:28,600 Speaker 1: little more into it. They know what's going to happen. 270 00:11:28,640 --> 00:11:30,760 Speaker 1: Instead of fighting it. Hey do I want to do? 271 00:11:30,800 --> 00:11:31,280 Speaker 1: I not want to? 272 00:11:31,320 --> 00:11:32,720 Speaker 2: They know they're going to. Yeah. 273 00:11:32,760 --> 00:11:34,640 Speaker 3: So now it's like we got these walls down. We're 274 00:11:34,679 --> 00:11:37,560 Speaker 3: having a little more fun with Yeah. Pressure, Pressure's way 275 00:11:37,600 --> 00:11:40,240 Speaker 3: down on Valentine's d Yeah, yeah, pressure's way down in 276 00:11:40,280 --> 00:11:44,280 Speaker 3: that instance for me younger, like we like early married, 277 00:11:44,320 --> 00:11:46,680 Speaker 3: because anyone who knows my story about me and my 278 00:11:46,720 --> 00:11:48,520 Speaker 3: wife is we got engaged in five weeks, married in 279 00:11:48,559 --> 00:11:51,320 Speaker 3: two months. So there was a very quick courting process 280 00:11:51,360 --> 00:11:53,680 Speaker 3: for me. But we've been in April will be married 281 00:11:53,679 --> 00:11:57,280 Speaker 3: for ten years and we looked at, hey, we got 282 00:11:57,360 --> 00:12:00,760 Speaker 3: Valentine's Day coming up, and it turns into there's not 283 00:12:00,760 --> 00:12:01,600 Speaker 3: an expectation on. 284 00:12:01,559 --> 00:12:03,480 Speaker 2: Me anymore where it's like what are you gonna do? 285 00:12:04,120 --> 00:12:05,000 Speaker 1: What are we up to? 286 00:12:05,120 --> 00:12:05,200 Speaker 7: Like? 287 00:12:05,240 --> 00:12:06,920 Speaker 1: What's your playing for Valentine's Day? Now? It's like, hey, 288 00:12:06,920 --> 00:12:08,719 Speaker 1: what do we want to do on this special day 289 00:12:08,720 --> 00:12:11,959 Speaker 1: that we get to be ours? Yeah, people's massages, grab. 290 00:12:11,840 --> 00:12:14,439 Speaker 3: A little yeah, whatever, way up to It's really like, 291 00:12:14,559 --> 00:12:16,480 Speaker 3: let's just have a nice time together, Let's make let's 292 00:12:16,480 --> 00:12:18,520 Speaker 3: be intentional about the two of us as opposed to 293 00:12:19,000 --> 00:12:22,080 Speaker 3: got to make sure there's a little rose petals going. Yeah, 294 00:12:22,160 --> 00:12:24,560 Speaker 3: kind of the theatrics that I might not be great at. 295 00:12:24,800 --> 00:12:27,920 Speaker 1: But do you do you approaching Valentine's Day? Do you 296 00:12:28,000 --> 00:12:30,440 Speaker 1: think or maybe what are the holidays? And it could 297 00:12:30,440 --> 00:12:32,960 Speaker 1: be Valentine's Day where you might think like let me 298 00:12:33,000 --> 00:12:34,640 Speaker 1: get her on her toes here, let me throw her 299 00:12:34,640 --> 00:12:38,840 Speaker 1: off guard. She thinks nothing's gonna happen. Now, it might 300 00:12:38,840 --> 00:12:41,400 Speaker 1: not be I do it might it might not be huge, 301 00:12:41,440 --> 00:12:44,600 Speaker 1: but just something little I knew that wasn't coming. 302 00:12:44,720 --> 00:12:48,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know if comfort's been my enemy, but 303 00:12:48,160 --> 00:12:50,360 Speaker 3: I used to a lot more than I do now. 304 00:12:50,640 --> 00:12:53,120 Speaker 3: I think as we get older and I'm almost ten 305 00:12:53,200 --> 00:12:54,199 Speaker 3: years married, I'm. 306 00:12:54,000 --> 00:12:55,199 Speaker 2: Like, hey, we're good. 307 00:12:55,679 --> 00:12:58,320 Speaker 3: I do this like, I know you're happy. I'm extremely happy. 308 00:12:58,320 --> 00:12:59,760 Speaker 3: If you ever leave me, I'll you know. 309 00:13:02,640 --> 00:13:05,240 Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. So yeah, I tell my 310 00:13:05,280 --> 00:13:06,760 Speaker 2: wife like, hey, if you ever left me, I just 311 00:13:06,760 --> 00:13:09,320 Speaker 2: follow you and hang out like I'd be like, what 312 00:13:09,320 --> 00:13:10,920 Speaker 2: are you doing? But Taylor, you did this. I'm like, 313 00:13:11,400 --> 00:13:14,760 Speaker 2: come on, man, we're gonna be boys still right, no 314 00:13:14,800 --> 00:13:16,079 Speaker 2: matter what. I still love you. 315 00:13:16,120 --> 00:13:18,360 Speaker 3: But so yeah, for me, it's like, let's just have 316 00:13:18,400 --> 00:13:20,240 Speaker 3: a good time. Let stop at the expectation. I think 317 00:13:20,280 --> 00:13:23,199 Speaker 3: communication as we've gotten older has gone a lot better to. 318 00:13:23,120 --> 00:13:24,000 Speaker 2: Where there's not this. 319 00:13:24,520 --> 00:13:26,400 Speaker 3: If there's ever been a level which Tail's really good 320 00:13:26,400 --> 00:13:29,000 Speaker 3: about communication, but there's never if there ever has been 321 00:13:29,040 --> 00:13:31,520 Speaker 3: a you need to know what I'm thinking, that's gone 322 00:13:31,559 --> 00:13:33,800 Speaker 3: for us to where she's like this is how I feel, Like, well, 323 00:13:33,840 --> 00:13:35,120 Speaker 3: this is how I feel. And then you get a 324 00:13:35,120 --> 00:13:37,160 Speaker 3: little pillow talk in, you try to work it out, 325 00:13:37,480 --> 00:13:39,280 Speaker 3: make a little little shock wave. 326 00:13:39,559 --> 00:13:43,719 Speaker 1: Yeah, buddy, something going. 327 00:13:44,600 --> 00:13:48,400 Speaker 2: It feels like the super Bowl too, is more like anniversary. Yeah, 328 00:13:48,520 --> 00:13:50,679 Speaker 2: I agree with that. Wait, wait what do you mean 329 00:13:50,679 --> 00:13:51,040 Speaker 2: by that? 330 00:13:51,600 --> 00:13:54,959 Speaker 1: So like the pressure of like Valentine's Day when you're married, 331 00:13:55,000 --> 00:13:57,160 Speaker 1: I feel like more of that pressure that ball gets 332 00:13:57,200 --> 00:14:01,199 Speaker 1: fully into got because you're married, Like obviously you celebrate 333 00:14:01,200 --> 00:14:03,720 Speaker 1: anniversary like if you're dating or you're series and stuff 334 00:14:03,720 --> 00:14:03,960 Speaker 1: like that. 335 00:14:04,120 --> 00:14:04,320 Speaker 2: Yeah. 336 00:14:04,480 --> 00:14:07,559 Speaker 1: I think the expectation of pressure that might be felt 337 00:14:07,720 --> 00:14:10,680 Speaker 1: seeing all that gets put more towards anniversary than Valentine. 338 00:14:10,679 --> 00:14:13,560 Speaker 4: We are so close to the actual NFL Super Bowl 339 00:14:13,600 --> 00:14:14,800 Speaker 4: that I took that way. 340 00:14:14,559 --> 00:14:15,800 Speaker 1: Too literally, Yeah that's fair. 341 00:14:17,280 --> 00:14:20,640 Speaker 2: I was like, why would that be an anniversary? You 342 00:14:20,680 --> 00:14:21,080 Speaker 2: should do it? 343 00:14:21,120 --> 00:14:23,640 Speaker 3: Maybe we should change that. PT six Ors like change 344 00:14:23,720 --> 00:14:25,960 Speaker 3: Valentine's Day and put it on Super Bowl weekend. 345 00:14:26,240 --> 00:14:28,360 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, so Saturday. You just get it. 346 00:14:28,400 --> 00:14:31,080 Speaker 5: You know next year that's happening. Next year Valentine's Day 347 00:14:31,080 --> 00:14:33,640 Speaker 5: will be on Super Bowl. Hey really, I was informed 348 00:14:33,680 --> 00:14:35,160 Speaker 5: by my fiance two days ago. 349 00:14:35,640 --> 00:14:37,080 Speaker 2: They just made the rule because it just sirt. 350 00:14:37,120 --> 00:14:40,760 Speaker 1: Taylors say, it breaking coming out from for the dads. 351 00:14:41,240 --> 00:14:42,240 Speaker 1: You guys are welcome for that. 352 00:14:42,920 --> 00:14:45,200 Speaker 4: Do you all have a go to for Valentine's Day? 353 00:14:45,320 --> 00:14:47,400 Speaker 4: I do not, But like, do you have something that 354 00:14:47,480 --> 00:14:49,720 Speaker 4: you do no matter what, every single year. 355 00:14:49,840 --> 00:14:50,800 Speaker 2: But I have a go to. 356 00:14:51,040 --> 00:14:55,400 Speaker 1: My go to is, oh shit, Valentine's Days this weekend, yeah, 357 00:14:55,600 --> 00:14:56,160 Speaker 1: or oh shit. 358 00:14:56,120 --> 00:14:58,640 Speaker 2: Valentine's Days in a cup. I have a go to. 359 00:14:58,800 --> 00:15:00,280 Speaker 2: I have to go to what you're go to? 360 00:15:00,360 --> 00:15:00,560 Speaker 1: Shame? 361 00:15:01,360 --> 00:15:06,440 Speaker 3: Oh my go to on Valentine's Day. Every Valentine's Day, 362 00:15:06,480 --> 00:15:08,200 Speaker 3: I get twelve dozen bouquets of flowers. 363 00:15:08,240 --> 00:15:10,480 Speaker 2: Tails are a rose girl. She's like she likes more 364 00:15:10,560 --> 00:15:11,440 Speaker 2: like wild flowers. 365 00:15:11,640 --> 00:15:15,840 Speaker 3: Yeah, twelve dozen or sorry, one dozen, twelve total bouquets 366 00:15:15,880 --> 00:15:18,040 Speaker 3: of flowers. And I'll be like establishing like one month 367 00:15:18,800 --> 00:15:20,120 Speaker 3: for every month since the last time I. 368 00:15:20,120 --> 00:15:23,880 Speaker 1: Had a Valentine's Day her what we do is just 369 00:15:23,920 --> 00:15:24,200 Speaker 1: so be. 370 00:15:24,200 --> 00:15:28,160 Speaker 3: Year ten and I told her every year ten it resets. 371 00:15:28,720 --> 00:15:32,560 Speaker 3: So every year I've gotten her a dozen bouquets of 372 00:15:32,600 --> 00:15:36,280 Speaker 3: flowers per year. So last year I got her nine 373 00:15:36,520 --> 00:15:40,000 Speaker 3: dozen bouquets of flowers. And I just have people. It's 374 00:15:40,040 --> 00:15:43,840 Speaker 3: a totally financially irresponsible thing to do. It's just ridiculous. 375 00:15:44,400 --> 00:15:46,240 Speaker 3: But it's the theatrics in my head that I'm like, 376 00:15:46,280 --> 00:15:48,800 Speaker 3: how do I want to when my kids are older 377 00:15:48,840 --> 00:15:51,600 Speaker 3: and I am dead and gone? Are they to explain 378 00:15:51,640 --> 00:15:54,280 Speaker 3: their father And it's like dad love theatrics, And that's 379 00:15:54,320 --> 00:15:55,600 Speaker 3: where I have to really buy into it. 380 00:15:55,680 --> 00:15:59,280 Speaker 1: So and I think, too, great work. You're setting a 381 00:15:59,280 --> 00:16:02,840 Speaker 1: standard for your little You are exactly dude. I can't 382 00:16:02,840 --> 00:16:03,840 Speaker 1: wait to get in that conversation. 383 00:16:03,880 --> 00:16:05,160 Speaker 3: I talked to my eight year old all the time 384 00:16:05,160 --> 00:16:08,400 Speaker 3: about this is why fathers and daughters and mothers are. 385 00:16:08,280 --> 00:16:10,400 Speaker 1: Important, and this is what you can learn. Yeah, I 386 00:16:10,440 --> 00:16:12,440 Speaker 1: have that as a as a as a massive topic 387 00:16:12,520 --> 00:16:15,280 Speaker 1: as you being the cat here that is the closest 388 00:16:15,720 --> 00:16:16,840 Speaker 1: to the dating face. 389 00:16:17,360 --> 00:16:21,760 Speaker 4: We'll say, do we want to do comments before we. 390 00:16:21,800 --> 00:16:22,280 Speaker 1: Got an hour? 391 00:16:23,200 --> 00:16:25,000 Speaker 2: But you gotta keep but you gotta know. 392 00:16:25,440 --> 00:16:28,600 Speaker 3: But just we said this year ten ten dozen bouquets 393 00:16:28,600 --> 00:16:30,520 Speaker 3: of flowers will be delivered to my house. Tale and 394 00:16:30,520 --> 00:16:32,200 Speaker 3: then goes and like gives them to like old folks 395 00:16:32,240 --> 00:16:33,920 Speaker 3: homes and stuff like that before they die. 396 00:16:34,080 --> 00:16:36,640 Speaker 2: Very sweet of Hey, yo involved does she go in 397 00:16:36,640 --> 00:16:38,040 Speaker 2: the old homes and be like which ones? 398 00:16:38,560 --> 00:16:39,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, which ones are which? 399 00:16:40,640 --> 00:16:47,360 Speaker 3: John Cena a little bit? 400 00:16:47,120 --> 00:16:48,000 Speaker 1: We joke. 401 00:16:53,360 --> 00:16:53,640 Speaker 2: Did it? 402 00:16:53,720 --> 00:16:55,640 Speaker 3: But the ones that got it, that's a that's a 403 00:16:55,680 --> 00:16:57,840 Speaker 3: good joke. You keep that in your back pocket. 404 00:16:58,600 --> 00:17:03,280 Speaker 4: But you're eleven hits if I get fly I saw 405 00:17:03,640 --> 00:17:04,520 Speaker 4: Zita yesterday. 406 00:17:04,520 --> 00:17:05,119 Speaker 2: What was that? 407 00:17:05,520 --> 00:17:06,080 Speaker 1: It's not good. 408 00:17:07,040 --> 00:17:10,159 Speaker 2: Here's the book. We're sitting next to their bed. Oh ship. 409 00:17:14,119 --> 00:17:15,920 Speaker 3: April twentieth hits on the twenty first, you get a 410 00:17:15,920 --> 00:17:20,920 Speaker 3: bouquet of flyers. There's no give them all right, but yeah, yeah, 411 00:17:21,119 --> 00:17:23,840 Speaker 3: you're you're eleven. It goes back down to one dozen 412 00:17:23,880 --> 00:17:24,600 Speaker 3: book half ooh. 413 00:17:25,119 --> 00:17:26,280 Speaker 1: I like that reset. 414 00:17:26,280 --> 00:17:29,879 Speaker 3: You can only be financially responsible for so long. You're 415 00:17:29,920 --> 00:17:31,520 Speaker 3: thirty for thirty anyway onward. 416 00:17:31,960 --> 00:17:34,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm just gonna say I'm in here. I'll come 417 00:17:34,359 --> 00:17:36,200 Speaker 2: back and kick off a fun little a fun little 418 00:17:36,240 --> 00:17:37,639 Speaker 2: trivia segment. Yes please. 419 00:17:37,800 --> 00:17:41,480 Speaker 1: It's from Loan Shark seventen on Instagram. There were rumors 420 00:17:41,480 --> 00:17:45,439 Speaker 1: swirling around the rumor mill that Taylor wasn't a pt SIKO. 421 00:17:45,680 --> 00:17:47,760 Speaker 1: Hopefully this sets things straight. 422 00:17:47,560 --> 00:17:49,880 Speaker 2: Okay, And who is that from? It's from Loan Shark 423 00:17:49,960 --> 00:17:53,040 Speaker 2: seven ten. Those are big words. Those are those are 424 00:17:53,280 --> 00:17:53,919 Speaker 2: big words. 425 00:17:54,080 --> 00:17:56,720 Speaker 3: That is so let me ask this question, what how 426 00:17:56,760 --> 00:17:59,879 Speaker 3: do I establish to the people that I'm a PTC. 427 00:18:00,480 --> 00:18:02,520 Speaker 2: I think if Loan Shark is listening right now, which 428 00:18:02,560 --> 00:18:04,280 Speaker 2: I assume that he is, whether it be on any 429 00:18:04,320 --> 00:18:10,639 Speaker 2: of the channels, Apple Spotify, Amazon, Google, YouTube, Galaxy, doncast 430 00:18:12,119 --> 00:18:12,680 Speaker 2: sound clap. 431 00:18:12,880 --> 00:18:16,120 Speaker 1: Yeah. But Taylor's already kind of said it good. He's 432 00:18:16,119 --> 00:18:18,080 Speaker 1: already said a really good tone, like you hear the 433 00:18:18,200 --> 00:18:20,520 Speaker 1: the pt sicos out there, hearing the inside jokes. He's 434 00:18:20,520 --> 00:18:23,919 Speaker 1: speaking like, we do have some we do have some 435 00:18:25,040 --> 00:18:27,320 Speaker 1: we do have some fun trivia here to establish the 436 00:18:27,359 --> 00:18:28,520 Speaker 1: PT and and this. 437 00:18:28,640 --> 00:18:31,280 Speaker 2: Is a safe space, right like if I get one judge, 438 00:18:31,320 --> 00:18:34,280 Speaker 2: oh buddy, yeah, there is no buzzer, yeah, no buzzer yeah, 439 00:18:34,400 --> 00:18:34,960 Speaker 2: just a time limit. 440 00:18:35,160 --> 00:18:35,360 Speaker 1: Yeah. 441 00:18:35,960 --> 00:18:38,040 Speaker 2: What does PT six stand for? 442 00:18:38,720 --> 00:18:39,439 Speaker 1: Team six? Ye? 443 00:18:40,200 --> 00:18:42,840 Speaker 3: Now, which is established after Seal Team six, which is 444 00:18:43,000 --> 00:18:46,800 Speaker 3: one of the Navy seal things that don't exist at 445 00:18:46,800 --> 00:18:49,560 Speaker 3: this moment, one of the most dangerous of dangerous so 446 00:18:49,800 --> 00:18:51,720 Speaker 3: beIN London past. 447 00:18:52,320 --> 00:18:55,399 Speaker 1: There's three answers here and extra credit. There is some 448 00:18:55,480 --> 00:19:01,800 Speaker 1: extra credit. Can you spell pt sicico Yeah? 449 00:19:02,800 --> 00:19:10,359 Speaker 2: Uh P T yeah, hot start, hot star dash s 450 00:19:10,400 --> 00:19:10,960 Speaker 2: I c k O. 451 00:19:12,440 --> 00:19:16,840 Speaker 4: That is technically one way to T six. 452 00:19:17,600 --> 00:19:23,680 Speaker 3: I see k oh credit credit. Thank you well, wive 453 00:19:23,760 --> 00:19:24,640 Speaker 3: studio audience. 454 00:19:26,200 --> 00:19:27,720 Speaker 2: What is MT six stand for? 455 00:19:28,280 --> 00:19:32,600 Speaker 3: That is Mama Team six That is for the mothers. Oh, 456 00:19:32,680 --> 00:19:36,160 Speaker 3: I'm sorry, milk team, which is ridiculous. 457 00:19:36,200 --> 00:19:39,520 Speaker 1: That's the hat I'm wearing right, and you're looking at 458 00:19:39,520 --> 00:19:43,120 Speaker 1: the answer answer on top of your bwt. 459 00:19:42,720 --> 00:19:43,119 Speaker 2: B dot com. 460 00:19:43,160 --> 00:19:47,119 Speaker 1: You can go get him there on uh, February second, 461 00:19:47,520 --> 00:19:50,480 Speaker 1: February second, the merch shops, the Valentine's say, Milk Team 462 00:19:50,520 --> 00:19:51,880 Speaker 1: six merch shops. Can they find that murder? 463 00:19:51,920 --> 00:19:54,280 Speaker 2: It will be out bwt B that well, yeah, when 464 00:19:54,320 --> 00:19:57,280 Speaker 2: this is going on, so go check it out right now. Okay, 465 00:19:57,280 --> 00:19:57,960 Speaker 2: here's a big one. 466 00:19:58,000 --> 00:19:58,280 Speaker 1: All right. 467 00:19:59,800 --> 00:20:06,120 Speaker 3: But buds training, Okay, budgs training. Buds another Navy Seals reference. 468 00:20:06,640 --> 00:20:08,800 Speaker 3: They go through buds before they go through hellwave, before 469 00:20:08,800 --> 00:20:11,960 Speaker 3: they are inducted as a Navy Seal. That is breeding 470 00:20:12,359 --> 00:20:19,840 Speaker 3: until is a dad status god grading until dad status checked. 471 00:20:21,800 --> 00:20:26,040 Speaker 2: I have through buds twice. Yeah, yeah, you have twice. 472 00:20:26,080 --> 00:20:27,720 Speaker 2: You've been through buds once? Just once. 473 00:20:28,160 --> 00:20:33,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a fun training st six. You're talking about 474 00:20:33,640 --> 00:20:34,320 Speaker 1: Semen Team six. 475 00:20:36,800 --> 00:20:40,240 Speaker 4: Yes, we're talking about that's no longer a heat check. 476 00:20:40,320 --> 00:20:40,960 Speaker 4: He's hot. 477 00:20:41,200 --> 00:20:43,240 Speaker 2: I don't even think I need a cooismal shock wave. 478 00:20:43,720 --> 00:20:46,200 Speaker 2: Yeah he knows that. See, I have my own little 479 00:20:46,200 --> 00:20:47,360 Speaker 2: thought process on shotwave. 480 00:20:47,600 --> 00:20:51,280 Speaker 3: You share shockwave is from my understanding of watching the 481 00:20:51,320 --> 00:20:53,480 Speaker 3: show is that you go and do the things you 482 00:20:53,480 --> 00:20:56,320 Speaker 3: need to do. You you exceed a bar, you come downstairs, 483 00:20:56,320 --> 00:20:58,160 Speaker 3: and there's the electricity in there for you to hurt. 484 00:20:58,359 --> 00:21:00,959 Speaker 3: Am I correct and generally stating what shock wave is 485 00:21:02,000 --> 00:21:02,520 Speaker 3: and then. 486 00:21:03,240 --> 00:21:05,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, so context of shockwave? Do you know the 487 00:21:05,760 --> 00:21:07,000 Speaker 1: background of shockwave? This is? 488 00:21:07,200 --> 00:21:09,200 Speaker 2: This would be full on insane extra credit. 489 00:21:09,760 --> 00:21:13,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, Like, I guess the only way to answer your 490 00:21:13,160 --> 00:21:15,199 Speaker 3: question is with the question is that have you been 491 00:21:15,240 --> 00:21:16,360 Speaker 3: the six Flags in Texas? 492 00:21:19,080 --> 00:21:19,280 Speaker 6: Yo? 493 00:21:20,160 --> 00:21:23,359 Speaker 2: Hey, yo, I didn't even know what to do to 494 00:21:23,440 --> 00:21:29,280 Speaker 2: that one. That's crazy. That's crazy. Yeah, so, man, let 495 00:21:29,359 --> 00:21:32,520 Speaker 2: me tell you something. Rides, not long loops. 496 00:21:33,440 --> 00:21:38,320 Speaker 3: It's now My thought process on shockwave is that you 497 00:21:38,359 --> 00:21:40,400 Speaker 3: go and we talk about the scoreboard all the time. 498 00:21:40,440 --> 00:21:41,040 Speaker 1: You go home. 499 00:21:41,359 --> 00:21:43,359 Speaker 3: You don't want to have a scoreboard. However, there's always 500 00:21:43,359 --> 00:21:46,320 Speaker 3: a scoreboard. You go home, long day of work, come back, 501 00:21:46,520 --> 00:21:47,159 Speaker 3: hit the chores. 502 00:21:47,320 --> 00:21:47,960 Speaker 1: I hit the chores. 503 00:21:48,320 --> 00:21:50,480 Speaker 3: Then all of a sudden, wife's not feeling so great. 504 00:21:50,480 --> 00:21:52,399 Speaker 3: You go upstairs and hey, honey, you laid back for 505 00:21:52,480 --> 00:21:54,399 Speaker 3: the rest of the night. I'm gonna go ahead and take 506 00:21:54,400 --> 00:21:55,840 Speaker 3: care of these kids. You play with them, You do 507 00:21:55,880 --> 00:21:58,360 Speaker 3: the thing. They're happy, jovial, happy, jumping up and down, dad, 508 00:21:58,400 --> 00:22:00,560 Speaker 3: we love you so much. You put them down. There's 509 00:22:00,560 --> 00:22:03,600 Speaker 3: no fighting. They don't hear any loud noises downstairs or upstairs. 510 00:22:03,880 --> 00:22:05,360 Speaker 3: Put I'm asleep, go to bed. 511 00:22:05,480 --> 00:22:06,960 Speaker 2: You walk into the room. 512 00:22:07,320 --> 00:22:10,000 Speaker 3: That to me is where there's electricity in the air. 513 00:22:10,680 --> 00:22:14,200 Speaker 3: Chock wave is whether or not that electricity strikes. 514 00:22:14,480 --> 00:22:14,760 Speaker 2: I do. 515 00:22:14,920 --> 00:22:18,000 Speaker 4: I do like that extra element of like he's doing 516 00:22:18,040 --> 00:22:21,760 Speaker 4: all these things and like checking things off the list, 517 00:22:21,880 --> 00:22:23,840 Speaker 4: and he's creating evidence. 518 00:22:24,200 --> 00:22:27,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's a wife creating evidence. Your your great core 519 00:22:27,359 --> 00:22:27,880 Speaker 3: value of bustle. 520 00:22:28,200 --> 00:22:30,480 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, you're hitting a lot of great responsibilities that 521 00:22:30,520 --> 00:22:33,840 Speaker 1: need to be done. Yeah, you're also in that you're 522 00:22:33,880 --> 00:22:35,040 Speaker 1: taking care of mama's needs. 523 00:22:35,119 --> 00:22:37,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, not that has got some needs because Valentine's Day. 524 00:22:37,840 --> 00:22:40,440 Speaker 3: Hey listen, I got needs. And let's be honest, you've 525 00:22:40,440 --> 00:22:42,920 Speaker 3: got a couple of Yeah, all right. It isn't a 526 00:22:43,000 --> 00:22:45,080 Speaker 3: selfish game, because this is love. 527 00:22:47,040 --> 00:22:49,119 Speaker 1: This ain't like you know, heavy breathing. 528 00:22:49,200 --> 00:22:52,320 Speaker 2: This is heavy. I will say this. 529 00:22:52,840 --> 00:22:56,200 Speaker 4: On Valentine's Day, I could do chocolate, flowers, all that stuff. 530 00:22:56,720 --> 00:23:00,159 Speaker 4: But if Jilly Bean came home to a made bed's 531 00:23:00,240 --> 00:23:01,920 Speaker 4: just done, bottles cleaned. 532 00:23:02,320 --> 00:23:06,400 Speaker 2: D oh, dude, that's. 533 00:23:06,240 --> 00:23:09,920 Speaker 1: What's the words of inform are not words, ermation, love languages. 534 00:23:10,080 --> 00:23:11,879 Speaker 2: Yeah, acts of service, acts of service. 535 00:23:11,880 --> 00:23:13,000 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, dude, big one. 536 00:23:13,080 --> 00:23:16,800 Speaker 4: Yeah yeah, Now she'll take chocolate and flowers for sure. 537 00:23:16,760 --> 00:23:20,600 Speaker 2: But she will will or she got a little sweet tooth, 538 00:23:20,680 --> 00:23:22,800 Speaker 2: and she does. She has a huge sweet tooth. 539 00:23:22,840 --> 00:23:27,760 Speaker 4: And if you do, uh, Dominos does heart shaped Pepperoni's 540 00:23:28,520 --> 00:23:31,480 Speaker 4: just figured that out. Really, Yeah, no free shouts of 541 00:23:31,480 --> 00:23:33,360 Speaker 4: Domino Dominos. 542 00:23:33,520 --> 00:23:35,600 Speaker 2: We brought that over. No free shouts is brought over. 543 00:23:35,800 --> 00:23:36,000 Speaker 6: Yeah. 544 00:23:36,040 --> 00:23:39,160 Speaker 1: Well, anytime you're just shouting out brains like I feel 545 00:23:39,200 --> 00:23:42,000 Speaker 1: like it's just ingrained. Don't want to just give anybody 546 00:23:42,040 --> 00:23:45,320 Speaker 1: free shout outs. Yeah, there's a new one, very new, 547 00:23:45,640 --> 00:23:48,280 Speaker 1: maybe a couple of weeks old, a few weeks old. 548 00:23:48,480 --> 00:23:51,200 Speaker 2: This one's hard empty six a PR. 549 00:23:51,720 --> 00:23:57,080 Speaker 3: Empty six a p R so a PR. I don't 550 00:23:57,080 --> 00:24:00,400 Speaker 3: know what a PR is, but MT six is milk 551 00:24:00,400 --> 00:24:07,520 Speaker 3: team six a p R. Is it like I have 552 00:24:07,600 --> 00:24:11,359 Speaker 3: to do with pregnancy? No, So we've learned this week. 553 00:24:14,000 --> 00:24:16,560 Speaker 1: Maybe as I tell the context of it, you might 554 00:24:16,600 --> 00:24:19,320 Speaker 1: start putting, like you might start blocking out pregnant things 555 00:24:19,320 --> 00:24:24,159 Speaker 1: that we're thinking. But we've learned on this show that 556 00:24:24,240 --> 00:24:27,399 Speaker 1: when we tell stories, we also have dad brain, you know, 557 00:24:27,440 --> 00:24:29,560 Speaker 1: what I mean. You you forget a lot of things. 558 00:24:29,560 --> 00:24:32,240 Speaker 1: Sometimes you make stuff up. Who knows you're you're remembering 559 00:24:32,280 --> 00:24:34,199 Speaker 1: it as well as you can. But we've learned on 560 00:24:34,240 --> 00:24:37,359 Speaker 1: the show, our wives are listeners of the show because 561 00:24:37,359 --> 00:24:40,120 Speaker 1: we're obviously talking about family dynamics, that we're talking about 562 00:24:40,119 --> 00:24:41,640 Speaker 1: family stuff, so they want to, you know, they want 563 00:24:41,680 --> 00:24:45,080 Speaker 1: to make sure we're doing everything justice. So we've learned 564 00:24:45,080 --> 00:24:49,199 Speaker 1: on the show that we get feedback after pretty much 565 00:24:49,280 --> 00:24:51,840 Speaker 1: every episode, depending on if we butcher story. So I 566 00:24:51,840 --> 00:24:54,760 Speaker 1: told the story a few weeks ago about when Rue 567 00:24:54,800 --> 00:24:56,440 Speaker 1: went to the hospital for that seizure she had. 568 00:24:56,760 --> 00:24:58,440 Speaker 2: When I was like, what did I say about about 569 00:24:58,440 --> 00:25:00,159 Speaker 2: a year and a half? Eight months? You say she 570 00:25:00,240 --> 00:25:00,720 Speaker 2: was eight months? 571 00:25:00,960 --> 00:25:02,640 Speaker 1: I did say she was eight months. I was saying 572 00:25:02,680 --> 00:25:03,119 Speaker 1: she was like a. 573 00:25:03,240 --> 00:25:03,879 Speaker 2: Year and a half. 574 00:25:04,240 --> 00:25:06,000 Speaker 3: This is how it happens right now, This is how 575 00:25:06,760 --> 00:25:09,199 Speaker 3: can I say something? Yeah, Minor detailed how old she 576 00:25:09,320 --> 00:25:14,359 Speaker 3: was child a little put right, and it's like and 577 00:25:14,480 --> 00:25:17,480 Speaker 3: also listen, I know this positive show. Yeah, can we 578 00:25:17,520 --> 00:25:19,000 Speaker 3: stop with the months after twelve? 579 00:25:19,640 --> 00:25:23,720 Speaker 2: I like that? Oh artily, here's why, here's why I 580 00:25:23,760 --> 00:25:24,320 Speaker 2: don't mind it. 581 00:25:24,359 --> 00:25:26,040 Speaker 1: And I get it too. I get it's like, oh, 582 00:25:26,080 --> 00:25:27,879 Speaker 1: they're one year there, you could say a year and 583 00:25:27,920 --> 00:25:30,040 Speaker 1: a half. You do halves up until what, well, how 584 00:25:30,040 --> 00:25:31,840 Speaker 1: long did you guys go? I went to about nineteen Well, 585 00:25:31,880 --> 00:25:33,399 Speaker 1: and you could do year and some change. 586 00:25:33,440 --> 00:25:38,040 Speaker 2: I love, yeah change, yeah, but has whatever for yourself? 587 00:25:38,800 --> 00:25:39,480 Speaker 2: Nineteen years old? 588 00:25:39,480 --> 00:25:42,240 Speaker 1: I'm thinking how many Scarlett six. 589 00:25:42,160 --> 00:25:43,280 Speaker 2: Months of detailed month? 590 00:25:43,920 --> 00:25:48,160 Speaker 1: I like, uh, I've enjoyed breaking down under two because 591 00:25:48,160 --> 00:25:50,800 Speaker 1: I feel like the sixteenth month mark are the fifteen 592 00:25:50,880 --> 00:25:53,359 Speaker 1: sixteen mark is when their personalities really start to come alive. 593 00:25:53,440 --> 00:25:56,880 Speaker 2: So if I hear somebody like, sure Scarlett is what 594 00:25:57,080 --> 00:26:00,200 Speaker 2: six month weeks now, she would be seven months. That's 595 00:26:00,280 --> 00:26:00,800 Speaker 2: months old. 596 00:26:00,880 --> 00:26:03,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, but once if you were to tell me thirteen months, 597 00:26:03,280 --> 00:26:04,959 Speaker 1: I'm thinking of my head man, they're about to hit 598 00:26:05,000 --> 00:26:08,400 Speaker 1: a little spin on when their personality starts coming out 599 00:26:08,400 --> 00:26:10,240 Speaker 1: to where you're starting to get a little taste of it. 600 00:26:10,320 --> 00:26:12,200 Speaker 1: But when it really comes alive is around that fifteen 601 00:26:12,200 --> 00:26:14,520 Speaker 1: to six month market. That's the only reason I don't 602 00:26:14,560 --> 00:26:16,840 Speaker 1: mind the details under two years. 603 00:26:16,960 --> 00:26:19,800 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I do feel you though. Yeah, to me, 604 00:26:19,840 --> 00:26:23,320 Speaker 3: it's get to twelve months after that? Hell was they won? 605 00:26:24,400 --> 00:26:28,600 Speaker 4: Yeah, I think I'm going to be that more more so. Yeah, 606 00:26:28,800 --> 00:26:30,960 Speaker 4: just because it's an easy quick answer. But if I 607 00:26:31,040 --> 00:26:34,080 Speaker 4: were talking, like talking to you on the show, obviously 608 00:26:34,119 --> 00:26:35,760 Speaker 4: I would have it broken down by mine. 609 00:26:35,920 --> 00:26:37,840 Speaker 2: But how old's the giddo? Oh she's a year and 610 00:26:37,840 --> 00:26:38,920 Speaker 2: some chance. Yeah you're in change. 611 00:26:38,960 --> 00:26:40,359 Speaker 3: Yeah, he in change like is at the end of 612 00:26:40,359 --> 00:26:42,959 Speaker 3: the day, like this person's asked that question for filler. 613 00:26:43,160 --> 00:26:46,359 Speaker 2: Some might some might take some kiddles might take fifteen 614 00:26:46,400 --> 00:26:47,000 Speaker 2: months to walk. 615 00:26:47,600 --> 00:26:48,719 Speaker 1: Yeah that is you know what I mean? 616 00:26:48,840 --> 00:26:51,639 Speaker 2: Was that you no, no, no, no, We always training 617 00:26:51,720 --> 00:26:54,000 Speaker 2: them early. Rue's probably by. 618 00:26:53,960 --> 00:26:58,080 Speaker 1: You as a child, not Rue or Scottie. Rumor has it. No, 619 00:26:58,440 --> 00:27:00,840 Speaker 1: Willie boy was walking in nine months? Hey, come on, 620 00:27:01,200 --> 00:27:01,879 Speaker 1: rumor has it? 621 00:27:02,119 --> 00:27:02,840 Speaker 2: That's early. 622 00:27:03,680 --> 00:27:08,240 Speaker 3: That's nice that there's no evidence, but I'll believe that. 623 00:27:07,480 --> 00:27:10,160 Speaker 1: It comes from Billy c. It comes from my parents. 624 00:27:10,240 --> 00:27:18,520 Speaker 1: You were walking the nine nine months? You got going? 625 00:27:18,560 --> 00:27:18,920 Speaker 2: All right? 626 00:27:19,080 --> 00:27:24,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm but a pr after pod report after pod 627 00:27:24,320 --> 00:27:28,280 Speaker 1: because s I'm also total story with what. 628 00:27:27,320 --> 00:27:28,920 Speaker 2: Would be cream? 629 00:27:29,040 --> 00:27:31,639 Speaker 4: Oh god, yeah, Jill has this drink that she was 630 00:27:31,680 --> 00:27:37,280 Speaker 4: doing during pregnancy. She had gestational diabetes just through like 631 00:27:37,480 --> 00:27:38,760 Speaker 4: some stuff with the placenta. 632 00:27:39,400 --> 00:27:41,560 Speaker 2: Pregnant parents giving people game. 633 00:27:41,680 --> 00:27:44,640 Speaker 4: Hey if your wife has just stational diabetes too, here's 634 00:27:44,640 --> 00:27:48,800 Speaker 4: a little sweet treat, instead of well here we go okay, 635 00:27:49,000 --> 00:27:55,320 Speaker 4: instead of saying Chavani sweet creamer with Hollie pop banana cream, 636 00:27:55,320 --> 00:27:58,359 Speaker 4: banana cream, thank you. This is why we're Yeah, this 637 00:27:58,400 --> 00:28:00,320 Speaker 4: is why we're a team. So I'm saying that I 638 00:28:00,359 --> 00:28:03,919 Speaker 4: said that she was using heavy cream, like whipping creamy 639 00:28:04,520 --> 00:28:07,600 Speaker 4: with ollipop cream, soad cream soda. 640 00:28:07,840 --> 00:28:10,760 Speaker 8: Yeah, it's and it's a different dish. And I got stripped. 641 00:28:10,760 --> 00:28:13,960 Speaker 8: I got stripped down when I got home. But truly, 642 00:28:14,560 --> 00:28:17,520 Speaker 8: she she's still to this day. Well she'll get pissed 643 00:28:17,560 --> 00:28:20,240 Speaker 8: if I get like any type of detail of Srman, 644 00:28:20,280 --> 00:28:23,720 Speaker 8: you're making me look like a psychopath, Like you go 645 00:28:23,880 --> 00:28:27,080 Speaker 8: back on the show and like dialed this out because 646 00:28:27,080 --> 00:28:28,000 Speaker 8: I look like an idiot. 647 00:28:28,040 --> 00:28:31,280 Speaker 3: A lot of responsibility being authoritative figure in this world, yeah, 648 00:28:31,320 --> 00:28:34,280 Speaker 3: a lot of moms ones right, ones you're obviously married to. 649 00:28:34,320 --> 00:28:36,480 Speaker 3: And then mom's all over the place that are watching 650 00:28:36,680 --> 00:28:39,440 Speaker 3: learning judging, well she's using heavy cream and cream soda. 651 00:28:39,480 --> 00:28:41,120 Speaker 3: I kind of want to do that too. People did 652 00:28:41,280 --> 00:28:42,520 Speaker 3: know that she's making a mistake. 653 00:28:42,640 --> 00:28:46,600 Speaker 1: We goes by, hey, that's the wrong and now three 654 00:28:46,600 --> 00:28:48,280 Speaker 1: times it's a little key kind of sounds. 655 00:28:48,080 --> 00:28:51,120 Speaker 2: Nice, Yeah, nice, someone tried it correct. 656 00:28:51,480 --> 00:28:54,120 Speaker 5: Somebody was like someone basically write in and be like, hey, 657 00:28:54,120 --> 00:28:55,080 Speaker 5: my wife tried it and. 658 00:28:55,040 --> 00:28:57,080 Speaker 2: I think she liked it and wasn't quite sure. 659 00:28:57,160 --> 00:28:59,120 Speaker 5: And then sherman also messed up the amount of hot 660 00:28:59,120 --> 00:29:01,040 Speaker 5: dogs and bears you out on their first date. 661 00:29:01,360 --> 00:29:03,040 Speaker 2: It was another awkward dad brain moment. 662 00:29:03,120 --> 00:29:05,880 Speaker 3: And that's okay. Dad brain happens all the time. Happens 663 00:29:05,920 --> 00:29:10,680 Speaker 3: all the time. Here's here's something for empty six that 664 00:29:10,920 --> 00:29:13,719 Speaker 3: just would help me as a PT six guy. Is 665 00:29:14,120 --> 00:29:16,480 Speaker 3: I'm telling a story and I'm only got a couple 666 00:29:16,480 --> 00:29:20,400 Speaker 3: of minor details wrong that don't necessarily change the trajectory 667 00:29:20,520 --> 00:29:22,800 Speaker 3: or the landing spot of the story. Let me keep going, 668 00:29:22,880 --> 00:29:24,680 Speaker 3: let me go, let me rip a little bit. You 669 00:29:24,680 --> 00:29:26,880 Speaker 3: know what I'm saying, defin and I know I'm wrong, 670 00:29:27,200 --> 00:29:28,720 Speaker 3: But then make a nice little joke, be like, he 671 00:29:28,760 --> 00:29:30,920 Speaker 3: got it most right, and then I can laugh with you, 672 00:29:31,000 --> 00:29:32,480 Speaker 3: and then you can correct me on the thing. 673 00:29:32,400 --> 00:29:34,960 Speaker 4: You got to even bigger laugh with the he got something. 674 00:29:35,040 --> 00:29:37,520 Speaker 3: But if I'm going down the yellow brick road right 675 00:29:37,560 --> 00:29:39,400 Speaker 3: and we're hopping and skipping and we're singing, I'm telling 676 00:29:39,400 --> 00:29:41,600 Speaker 3: a nice little fun story, I don't want my vibe 677 00:29:41,600 --> 00:29:43,520 Speaker 3: to get checked because I might, you know, dad, brain 678 00:29:43,640 --> 00:29:44,640 Speaker 3: might hit me right there. 679 00:29:44,840 --> 00:29:47,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, and that's CT six or whatever you guys want to. 680 00:29:47,280 --> 00:29:50,720 Speaker 3: Call just all of a sudden started reading my brain 681 00:29:50,760 --> 00:29:51,800 Speaker 3: starts rerouting a little bit. 682 00:29:51,960 --> 00:29:53,480 Speaker 2: I don't know where I picked up. 683 00:29:53,360 --> 00:29:54,040 Speaker 1: Where I left off. 684 00:29:54,200 --> 00:29:57,440 Speaker 3: Yeah maybe I got CT six. 685 00:29:59,120 --> 00:30:01,040 Speaker 2: Yeah we got see these? How many times can I 686 00:30:01,040 --> 00:30:01,440 Speaker 2: say it before? 687 00:30:02,920 --> 00:30:04,880 Speaker 1: You know? That's a gold Joe. 688 00:30:04,960 --> 00:30:07,800 Speaker 4: I'll give Jill that at least of like she she 689 00:30:07,920 --> 00:30:10,400 Speaker 4: lets the story ride out. She does a good job 690 00:30:10,440 --> 00:30:12,560 Speaker 4: of like, oh my god, the APR has. 691 00:30:12,480 --> 00:30:13,240 Speaker 2: Become a fun thing. 692 00:30:13,560 --> 00:30:16,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like the it's like, you know, every every 693 00:30:16,560 --> 00:30:18,680 Speaker 1: husband and wife out there, it's it's all the same stuff. 694 00:30:18,720 --> 00:30:21,360 Speaker 1: Dad's out there telling a story. He exaggerates a little bit. Yeah, 695 00:30:21,520 --> 00:30:23,640 Speaker 1: don't let h you know what's the saying. It was 696 00:30:23,640 --> 00:30:25,320 Speaker 1: the saying out there don't have a good story getting 697 00:30:25,320 --> 00:30:28,720 Speaker 1: the way of a little bit of exaggeration, right, Yeah, yeah, 698 00:30:28,920 --> 00:30:32,080 Speaker 1: but you know wives are out there. It wasn't you 699 00:30:32,080 --> 00:30:34,480 Speaker 1: know when we were at Taylor's Halloween party, you know 700 00:30:34,920 --> 00:30:39,720 Speaker 1: that was about how old was something charges. 701 00:30:40,200 --> 00:30:46,080 Speaker 4: She was was like that was. 702 00:30:46,080 --> 00:30:48,960 Speaker 3: Funny if you interject funny, But I it's like know 703 00:30:49,080 --> 00:30:51,000 Speaker 3: she was he by the way, she was you know, 704 00:30:51,080 --> 00:30:53,320 Speaker 3: six months old, Actually she was five months, doesn't matter. 705 00:30:53,400 --> 00:30:56,000 Speaker 1: Yeah right, Hey, I heard your telling the story. Just 706 00:30:56,120 --> 00:30:58,480 Speaker 1: you know something small she was she was eight months? 707 00:30:58,600 --> 00:31:00,560 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, I thought she was about to years old. 708 00:31:00,560 --> 00:31:03,000 Speaker 4: And the confidence at which you were telling the story, 709 00:31:03,080 --> 00:31:05,800 Speaker 4: because Will and Jill they have interactions with each other 710 00:31:06,040 --> 00:31:09,200 Speaker 4: similar to you and Jill, but you know, you're really 711 00:31:09,280 --> 00:31:11,400 Speaker 4: trying to get to nowhere in that moment, you're confidently 712 00:31:11,400 --> 00:31:14,480 Speaker 4: telling that story, and char was a good forty yards 713 00:31:14,520 --> 00:31:15,800 Speaker 4: away and overheard it. 714 00:31:15,800 --> 00:31:19,240 Speaker 2: It was like, that is really wrong, way wrong. 715 00:31:19,320 --> 00:31:23,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's hilarious. That is hilarious. 716 00:31:23,480 --> 00:31:25,960 Speaker 4: Do we want to jump into some of the comments 717 00:31:26,000 --> 00:31:28,760 Speaker 4: that would love to We could do new dads? 718 00:31:28,800 --> 00:31:31,280 Speaker 2: Okay, I got new dads right here, Yeah, new dads. 719 00:31:32,800 --> 00:31:34,920 Speaker 1: Here's here's a Before we get into new dads, we 720 00:31:34,960 --> 00:31:36,080 Speaker 1: do have a hobby shout out. 721 00:31:36,440 --> 00:31:37,920 Speaker 2: You have a hubby shout out to come here. 722 00:31:37,960 --> 00:31:39,720 Speaker 1: This is from a This is a hubby shout out 723 00:31:39,720 --> 00:31:44,520 Speaker 1: from Katie Joe on Spotify. Get comments are live on Spotify, 724 00:31:44,600 --> 00:31:47,880 Speaker 1: Katie Joe. Okay, empty six here. Husband is a first 725 00:31:47,920 --> 00:31:50,560 Speaker 1: responder and has been working NonStop through this storm. We 726 00:31:50,640 --> 00:31:52,880 Speaker 1: are north of Nashville and this ice is no joke. 727 00:31:52,920 --> 00:31:55,200 Speaker 1: It's been quite the week listening to this while I 728 00:31:55,240 --> 00:31:58,080 Speaker 1: work from home with our toddler. Daycare is closed too. 729 00:31:58,520 --> 00:32:00,560 Speaker 1: Thank you for the laughs. We needed it. And shout 730 00:32:00,560 --> 00:32:03,000 Speaker 1: out to my husband for working NonStop and helping us 731 00:32:03,000 --> 00:32:06,160 Speaker 1: at home. Helping us at home make the best of 732 00:32:06,200 --> 00:32:06,920 Speaker 1: this chaos. 733 00:32:07,640 --> 00:32:08,560 Speaker 2: Helly great coming. 734 00:32:09,360 --> 00:32:12,200 Speaker 1: Shout out County Jetta her giving love to the husband. 735 00:32:12,360 --> 00:32:13,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, he's probably out working right now. 736 00:32:13,800 --> 00:32:15,400 Speaker 3: While he is probably out there working right now, and 737 00:32:15,400 --> 00:32:16,680 Speaker 3: she's out there grinding with her little ones. 738 00:32:16,760 --> 00:32:19,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, nothing, and he's got to come home, flip that 739 00:32:20,000 --> 00:32:23,080 Speaker 1: dad switch ye, leave all the baggage in the truck 740 00:32:23,160 --> 00:32:25,320 Speaker 1: exactly and be dad, which is difficult to do. 741 00:32:25,440 --> 00:32:27,280 Speaker 3: But just for saying that, email knows that you know, 742 00:32:27,280 --> 00:32:29,760 Speaker 3: he comes home and she's very aware of everything she's doing. Yes, 743 00:32:30,040 --> 00:32:32,560 Speaker 3: shout out Katie on that. Yes, seems like you're uh, 744 00:32:32,880 --> 00:32:34,480 Speaker 3: you got to put together mentally there. 745 00:32:34,760 --> 00:32:37,440 Speaker 4: Those are those are our favorite. We've been doing those 746 00:32:37,480 --> 00:32:41,400 Speaker 4: a lot recently. The empty six er shoutouts of their hobbies. 747 00:32:41,520 --> 00:32:43,720 Speaker 4: I love every single one. Yeah, yeah, because we were 748 00:32:44,080 --> 00:32:47,320 Speaker 4: empty six ers are in on this thing. Dune Okay, 749 00:32:48,400 --> 00:32:51,640 Speaker 4: similar Bilt on Instagram Dad new dad. 750 00:32:52,200 --> 00:32:53,960 Speaker 2: Do you shure all have a hobby and wifey shout 751 00:32:53,960 --> 00:32:55,719 Speaker 2: out if you want to through all those? Oh I do, 752 00:32:55,800 --> 00:32:57,360 Speaker 2: I do? Taylor the one you have one as well. 753 00:32:57,400 --> 00:33:00,160 Speaker 2: Thank you for the reminder, Dark Donnie, I got too. 754 00:33:01,720 --> 00:33:03,160 Speaker 2: Taylor's on the New Dads. You're saying he has a 755 00:33:03,240 --> 00:33:03,960 Speaker 2: hobby shout out. 756 00:33:04,160 --> 00:33:06,040 Speaker 5: Taylor should have a wife your hubby shout out in 757 00:33:06,040 --> 00:33:08,000 Speaker 5: front of him. That is not in the new dad category. 758 00:33:08,160 --> 00:33:09,960 Speaker 2: Do you want me to hit the Hubby show? 759 00:33:10,000 --> 00:33:12,320 Speaker 1: First time co host of the show with us, first 760 00:33:12,360 --> 00:33:13,920 Speaker 1: time working through. 761 00:33:13,960 --> 00:33:17,920 Speaker 2: We're working through. Yeah, A hobby shout out is undercore 762 00:33:18,000 --> 00:33:21,440 Speaker 2: page Burger spot. 763 00:33:22,880 --> 00:33:23,160 Speaker 1: All right. 764 00:33:23,240 --> 00:33:26,240 Speaker 3: Dad's first comment of the mini of Here we Go, 765 00:33:26,640 --> 00:33:30,320 Speaker 3: first comment of mini to get my PT sixer featured 766 00:33:30,440 --> 00:33:34,120 Speaker 3: on Socials. He's hangley, faithful and always turned in to 767 00:33:34,440 --> 00:33:37,160 Speaker 3: turn me into one. I just want to feature a 768 00:33:37,160 --> 00:33:39,160 Speaker 3: shout out for not only being the best dad to 769 00:33:39,240 --> 00:33:43,480 Speaker 3: our boy twenty two months old Ace, but for doing 770 00:33:43,520 --> 00:33:46,640 Speaker 3: it while working and training for the Boston Marathon. Thank you, 771 00:33:47,240 --> 00:33:51,000 Speaker 3: Dad's for being relatable and giving this milk team six 772 00:33:51,120 --> 00:33:55,200 Speaker 3: Mama something to listen to on Thursdays. Stay safe out there, Let's. 773 00:33:55,080 --> 00:33:59,680 Speaker 2: Go on Hey, well done, Taylor, well done. Six page dude, 774 00:33:59,720 --> 00:34:02,200 Speaker 2: shout beautiful, we have. 775 00:34:02,280 --> 00:34:06,080 Speaker 4: Wifey shout out. This one comes from Samuel Valroy. This 776 00:34:06,240 --> 00:34:10,640 Speaker 4: was an email, he says, boys background about me. Played 777 00:34:10,640 --> 00:34:13,920 Speaker 4: football at the Air Force Academy for a year, hung up, 778 00:34:14,840 --> 00:34:18,040 Speaker 4: hung up the pads to focus on school, graduated and 779 00:34:18,080 --> 00:34:21,399 Speaker 4: married my beautiful wife in twenty nineteen, and since then 780 00:34:21,560 --> 00:34:24,960 Speaker 4: we've moved four times in six years. Just welcomed our 781 00:34:25,000 --> 00:34:29,600 Speaker 4: first child in June. Congratulations lations of this past year 782 00:34:29,960 --> 00:34:33,839 Speaker 4: and have been loving mostly every second of it. Deployment 783 00:34:34,040 --> 00:34:37,840 Speaker 4: six weeks after daughters born. Good Air Force tells you 784 00:34:37,920 --> 00:34:41,479 Speaker 4: to move. Three months after getting back good eight month 785 00:34:41,520 --> 00:34:45,640 Speaker 4: old hates car rides. Good wife wants to fly, so 786 00:34:45,719 --> 00:34:48,680 Speaker 4: you lug all of your belongings fifteen hundred miles with 787 00:34:48,719 --> 00:34:53,560 Speaker 4: your two dogs. Good winter storm hits even better. House 788 00:34:53,600 --> 00:34:56,840 Speaker 4: has it sold yet? Good dude, Samuel's going through it 789 00:34:56,960 --> 00:34:59,360 Speaker 4: right now. Just wanted to give a shout out to 790 00:34:59,440 --> 00:35:02,759 Speaker 4: my bride, Mara. She's always been my rock, and with 791 00:35:02,840 --> 00:35:05,120 Speaker 4: the birth of our first child, she has. 792 00:35:05,000 --> 00:35:06,600 Speaker 2: Been killing the mom game. 793 00:35:06,800 --> 00:35:10,480 Speaker 4: Anytime I'm stressed out about finances, work, or being a 794 00:35:10,520 --> 00:35:12,839 Speaker 4: good dad, She's the one that always finds a way 795 00:35:13,320 --> 00:35:15,720 Speaker 4: to get me out of the slump. Not enough credit 796 00:35:15,880 --> 00:35:20,040 Speaker 4: is given to these milk teams spouse ladies riding this 797 00:35:20,120 --> 00:35:21,880 Speaker 4: from a gas station in the middle of nowhere. 798 00:35:22,200 --> 00:35:24,560 Speaker 2: I'll see you on the other side, Sam, I love 799 00:35:24,640 --> 00:35:26,120 Speaker 2: Valroy same. 800 00:35:26,239 --> 00:35:29,279 Speaker 1: Thank you brother, nice, beautiful, Thank you brother. We got 801 00:35:29,320 --> 00:35:32,360 Speaker 1: some new dad comments here. This one is from Patrick. 802 00:35:33,239 --> 00:35:37,960 Speaker 1: Patrick isam on Spotify. Yeah, good morning boys, Patrick. Here, 803 00:35:38,000 --> 00:35:40,480 Speaker 1: I am a new listener about three fources of the 804 00:35:40,480 --> 00:35:42,879 Speaker 1: way caught up on the pod soon to be Dad 805 00:35:43,000 --> 00:35:45,839 Speaker 1: super stoked. Me and my lady are in full prep mode. 806 00:35:45,920 --> 00:35:47,440 Speaker 1: Little dad hack here, boys, here we go. 807 00:35:47,600 --> 00:35:48,719 Speaker 2: Listen up. We got a dad hack. 808 00:35:49,080 --> 00:35:51,719 Speaker 1: Get a three ring binder who print out a full 809 00:35:51,760 --> 00:35:54,759 Speaker 1: monthly menu with shopping list for each week and a 810 00:35:54,880 --> 00:35:58,160 Speaker 1: daily meal plan day for three meals each day, and 811 00:35:58,280 --> 00:36:01,920 Speaker 1: add a short cooking instruction for the meal. Wow, make 812 00:36:02,600 --> 00:36:06,239 Speaker 1: make each day one page. Already, this is proving to 813 00:36:06,320 --> 00:36:09,360 Speaker 1: be a very useful tool in our house. Cheers boys, 814 00:36:09,440 --> 00:36:10,920 Speaker 1: pt siico out. 815 00:36:11,040 --> 00:36:13,520 Speaker 2: That's insane. That's insane. 816 00:36:13,719 --> 00:36:16,080 Speaker 3: That's that's when I listen to you while you're reading it. 817 00:36:16,200 --> 00:36:18,719 Speaker 3: I'm just like, yeah, I'll never do that. Yeah, But 818 00:36:18,920 --> 00:36:20,600 Speaker 3: I love the fact that there's somebody. 819 00:36:20,520 --> 00:36:22,360 Speaker 1: There put the way I think about myself doing that 820 00:36:22,480 --> 00:36:24,320 Speaker 1: right now, I'm operating like David. 821 00:36:25,120 --> 00:36:27,319 Speaker 3: If I thought to myself, yeah, if I actually did that, 822 00:36:27,480 --> 00:36:28,640 Speaker 3: like I hit a whole different level. 823 00:36:29,040 --> 00:36:31,440 Speaker 2: I would hit full potential. You're driving the rest of 824 00:36:31,440 --> 00:36:32,799 Speaker 2: the way home, and you've already done it. 825 00:36:33,080 --> 00:36:36,880 Speaker 1: Then you get inside, right, you get inside, and then 826 00:36:36,880 --> 00:36:39,120 Speaker 1: the day go. 827 00:36:37,440 --> 00:36:38,720 Speaker 2: And God forbid. 828 00:36:38,840 --> 00:36:41,600 Speaker 1: You mentioned the idea of doing that to your spouse. Yeah, 829 00:36:42,320 --> 00:36:44,480 Speaker 1: you've mentioned that idea to three different people, and then 830 00:36:44,520 --> 00:36:46,440 Speaker 1: a month from a month later, they follow age you 831 00:36:46,480 --> 00:36:48,319 Speaker 1: do that three binding you're oh shit, I forgot all 832 00:36:48,320 --> 00:36:48,600 Speaker 1: about that. 833 00:36:48,640 --> 00:36:50,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, oh interesting, Yeah, I probably won't do that. Man, 834 00:36:51,000 --> 00:36:52,000 Speaker 2: it's been working for us. 835 00:36:52,320 --> 00:36:55,040 Speaker 3: I got one a new dad from Donnie Hearing. I've 836 00:36:55,040 --> 00:36:56,839 Speaker 3: been a Day one listener and I have held back 837 00:36:56,840 --> 00:36:59,560 Speaker 3: from buying any merch because I was not a dad yet. 838 00:36:59,760 --> 00:37:02,719 Speaker 3: But a couple of weeks ago, my wife and I 839 00:37:02,800 --> 00:37:05,319 Speaker 3: finally got a positive pregnancy test. I don't know if 840 00:37:05,360 --> 00:37:07,240 Speaker 3: it's going to be a boy or a girl yet, 841 00:37:07,440 --> 00:37:09,839 Speaker 3: but you better believe I'm gonna cop some Papa Team 842 00:37:09,920 --> 00:37:13,720 Speaker 3: six gear love the pod, keep them coming, Come on, graduate, 843 00:37:15,400 --> 00:37:19,799 Speaker 3: Donnie Hearing. Donnie congratulations, dude, shout out Donnie that hey, 844 00:37:19,800 --> 00:37:22,000 Speaker 3: that test comes up. Do you have you guys talked 845 00:37:22,000 --> 00:37:24,279 Speaker 3: about the first time you saw a positive pregnancy test 846 00:37:24,280 --> 00:37:24,920 Speaker 3: on the show. 847 00:37:25,440 --> 00:37:28,000 Speaker 4: We have a show we have Maybe yeah, maybe, I 848 00:37:28,040 --> 00:37:29,839 Speaker 4: don't think so. I don't think I've fully gone into 849 00:37:29,840 --> 00:37:30,080 Speaker 4: the mind. 850 00:37:30,400 --> 00:37:32,759 Speaker 2: Was Jill sending you the text of the pregnancy test 851 00:37:32,840 --> 00:37:38,399 Speaker 2: as a prank? Which that was fucked up? Did Shoe 852 00:37:38,760 --> 00:37:39,960 Speaker 2: did Joe? 853 00:37:40,480 --> 00:37:43,680 Speaker 4: Was Taylor there for the stream room text? I don't 854 00:37:43,680 --> 00:37:44,759 Speaker 4: know if he was there that day. 855 00:37:44,840 --> 00:37:45,400 Speaker 2: I'm not sure. 856 00:37:45,560 --> 00:37:48,560 Speaker 4: Jill sent me she was having like stomach aches, all 857 00:37:48,560 --> 00:37:50,520 Speaker 4: the fun stuff, and she was like, I hope I'm 858 00:37:50,560 --> 00:37:52,640 Speaker 4: not pregnant, and I'm you know, this is right after 859 00:37:52,680 --> 00:37:56,520 Speaker 4: we had Scarlet, and so I'm like, yeah, you know whatever, 860 00:37:56,560 --> 00:38:00,000 Speaker 4: and she just sends me a picture of a pregnant 861 00:38:00,040 --> 00:38:02,840 Speaker 4: and sea tests and that's all it was, was just 862 00:38:02,880 --> 00:38:04,640 Speaker 4: the picture of the pregnancy. 863 00:38:04,160 --> 00:38:05,680 Speaker 2: Test with no words under it. 864 00:38:05,840 --> 00:38:08,040 Speaker 4: So I see that while we're live on stream for 865 00:38:08,120 --> 00:38:09,360 Speaker 4: Thursday night football. 866 00:38:09,640 --> 00:38:11,800 Speaker 1: Hopefully it was a good game, right. 867 00:38:12,640 --> 00:38:15,120 Speaker 7: A little bit, he stood up so fast and I 868 00:38:15,440 --> 00:38:18,200 Speaker 7: start to walk out, and then like you know, forty 869 00:38:18,239 --> 00:38:21,160 Speaker 7: five seconds like a minute after, it's uh, you know, 870 00:38:21,360 --> 00:38:22,400 Speaker 7: not pregnant woo. 871 00:38:22,640 --> 00:38:23,920 Speaker 2: And I'm like, oh my god. 872 00:38:26,200 --> 00:38:26,840 Speaker 6: You can do it. 873 00:38:27,000 --> 00:38:28,800 Speaker 2: Kind of fun though, kind of fun. It was a 874 00:38:28,840 --> 00:38:32,120 Speaker 2: little fun. It was a little fun. What was your 875 00:38:32,160 --> 00:38:35,399 Speaker 2: first reaction when you saw the first pregnancy test? 876 00:38:36,080 --> 00:38:37,640 Speaker 3: So if you guys have a minute, I know we 877 00:38:37,680 --> 00:38:39,600 Speaker 3: all have an hour for the show, but I would 878 00:38:40,440 --> 00:38:43,960 Speaker 3: the story win rebel a wand was actually a very 879 00:38:43,960 --> 00:38:47,160 Speaker 3: interesting one. So wife and I meet twenty sixteen. I've 880 00:38:47,160 --> 00:38:48,960 Speaker 3: already said it gauged in five weeks. 881 00:38:48,719 --> 00:38:52,760 Speaker 2: Married in two months. It is a Tuesday, and we're. 882 00:38:52,600 --> 00:38:55,120 Speaker 3: About to play the Jacksonville Jaguars on Thursday night football. 883 00:38:55,200 --> 00:38:59,160 Speaker 3: Quinn Talon's brother is in town and I come home 884 00:39:00,080 --> 00:39:02,319 Speaker 3: to a bag in Tailn's like, I have something to 885 00:39:02,320 --> 00:39:03,759 Speaker 3: show you. She's kind of you can tell, She's like, 886 00:39:03,840 --> 00:39:06,800 Speaker 3: panic's her, you know you can tell. The bpms are up. Yeah, yeah, 887 00:39:06,840 --> 00:39:09,680 Speaker 3: And I'm like, oh, what's what's what's going on? And 888 00:39:09,719 --> 00:39:11,359 Speaker 3: She's like, turn around and I turn around. I hear 889 00:39:11,400 --> 00:39:14,600 Speaker 3: this bag rustling, and I turned back around and there 890 00:39:14,600 --> 00:39:18,319 Speaker 3: are eight pregnancy tests, yeah that are out. Seven of 891 00:39:18,360 --> 00:39:22,600 Speaker 3: them say positive. And I'm like, what about that one? 892 00:39:22,719 --> 00:39:23,960 Speaker 2: What is this? What is this one? 893 00:39:24,040 --> 00:39:24,439 Speaker 1: Right here? 894 00:39:24,680 --> 00:39:26,399 Speaker 3: As you goes Quinn took that one because we didn't 895 00:39:26,400 --> 00:39:29,160 Speaker 3: know if it was broken. Fun fact about pregnancy tests. 896 00:39:29,200 --> 00:39:31,319 Speaker 3: If you if you're a male and you pan a 897 00:39:31,320 --> 00:39:34,360 Speaker 3: pensity test and it's positive, that is a sign of 898 00:39:34,400 --> 00:39:38,759 Speaker 3: tiesticular cancer. So quiets, yes, very kind of like, hey, 899 00:39:38,760 --> 00:39:41,319 Speaker 3: I guess we're gonna kind of find out if we 900 00:39:41,360 --> 00:39:45,520 Speaker 3: have anything going on. So Tayling, we just met, right, 901 00:39:45,600 --> 00:39:48,239 Speaker 3: she is twenty two at the time, maybe just turned 902 00:39:48,280 --> 00:39:51,960 Speaker 3: twenty three, and we barely know each other. I know 903 00:39:52,040 --> 00:39:53,480 Speaker 3: I'm gonna know that the show of us in my life, 904 00:39:53,480 --> 00:39:55,160 Speaker 3: I always make the joke to Tail like I feel 905 00:39:55,160 --> 00:39:57,120 Speaker 3: like you weren't fully investing in this relationship. Yeah, year 906 00:39:57,120 --> 00:39:58,440 Speaker 3: and a half and they're like, all right, yeah, maybe 907 00:39:58,480 --> 00:40:01,120 Speaker 3: I will maryor the stuff forever get the Yeah, I 908 00:40:01,120 --> 00:40:04,239 Speaker 3: guess we'll do it. And uh so I go. And 909 00:40:04,280 --> 00:40:06,080 Speaker 3: I really hope that one's okay with me telling the story, 910 00:40:06,800 --> 00:40:11,200 Speaker 3: but she's she's nervous. I go right into super positive mode, like, hey, 911 00:40:11,840 --> 00:40:14,800 Speaker 3: there's never a convenient time to like, hey, let's have children, 912 00:40:14,880 --> 00:40:17,920 Speaker 3: Like we all have dreams, aspirations, what we want. Yeah, 913 00:40:18,080 --> 00:40:20,960 Speaker 3: and I'm so I'm super positive. Internally, I'm freaking out 914 00:40:21,080 --> 00:40:23,960 Speaker 3: so we go to the doctor. We go in there, 915 00:40:24,000 --> 00:40:26,160 Speaker 3: we get the thing done, and we put it up. 916 00:40:26,160 --> 00:40:28,600 Speaker 3: We did a little and we see like a little 917 00:40:28,640 --> 00:40:31,680 Speaker 3: sack and a tiny little flick there, and I'm like 918 00:40:31,840 --> 00:40:34,560 Speaker 3: a ship that's a heartbeat, and yeah, yeah, it's a heartbeat. 919 00:40:35,480 --> 00:40:38,799 Speaker 1: This is real. And I'm like, hey, so what to do? 920 00:40:39,000 --> 00:40:41,320 Speaker 3: Like, yeah, you're pregnant. It says like a four to 921 00:40:41,400 --> 00:40:43,560 Speaker 3: six weeks or whatever. I'm probably messing that up right now. 922 00:40:43,640 --> 00:40:47,000 Speaker 4: And the ap that does sound right for being able 923 00:40:47,000 --> 00:40:49,319 Speaker 4: to see heartbeats six weeks because it is just this 924 00:40:49,360 --> 00:40:50,120 Speaker 4: little tiny flick. 925 00:40:50,160 --> 00:40:53,160 Speaker 1: Take yes, And I'm like, hey, it's gonna be fine. 926 00:40:53,160 --> 00:40:54,160 Speaker 1: Blah blah blah blah. 927 00:40:54,200 --> 00:40:56,760 Speaker 3: And then I'm like, I gotta go to the hotel 928 00:40:56,880 --> 00:40:58,400 Speaker 3: now because we have a game the next day. So 929 00:40:58,400 --> 00:41:00,080 Speaker 3: this is actually a Wednesday, not a Thursday. 930 00:41:00,880 --> 00:41:02,960 Speaker 1: I go to the game. We play. 931 00:41:03,040 --> 00:41:04,880 Speaker 3: I think that was like the game that Derek had 932 00:41:05,719 --> 00:41:07,840 Speaker 3: nine yard run and like two hundred and thirty eight 933 00:41:07,920 --> 00:41:08,560 Speaker 3: yards rushing. 934 00:41:08,600 --> 00:41:09,680 Speaker 1: It was like, hell of it? 935 00:41:09,760 --> 00:41:10,959 Speaker 2: So you played out of your mind? 936 00:41:11,280 --> 00:41:14,160 Speaker 1: Uh no, no, this is uh this is the night 937 00:41:14,200 --> 00:41:16,640 Speaker 1: nine yard run I was on the Okay, so this is. 938 00:41:19,680 --> 00:41:20,560 Speaker 2: What we beat the Jacks. 939 00:41:20,680 --> 00:41:26,080 Speaker 3: Now, during the games, I would always like, uh, every 940 00:41:26,120 --> 00:41:27,600 Speaker 3: time I would run out, the first thing I would 941 00:41:27,640 --> 00:41:30,000 Speaker 3: do is like look for Tailor. I'd see her smile away, 942 00:41:30,120 --> 00:41:32,840 Speaker 3: but a little kiss. And then every series after I finished, 943 00:41:32,840 --> 00:41:35,600 Speaker 3: I'd go looking and find her, see her, just to 944 00:41:35,640 --> 00:41:38,000 Speaker 3: see her sit down and go over the playbook stuff 945 00:41:38,000 --> 00:41:42,520 Speaker 3: like that. Well, during the game, she's like, uh, quiet 946 00:41:42,800 --> 00:41:45,360 Speaker 3: and she's like not really like you just tell She 947 00:41:45,360 --> 00:41:46,680 Speaker 3: just kind of like seems like depress. 948 00:41:46,800 --> 00:41:48,960 Speaker 2: Like, man, she's really taking this thing hard, it seems like. 949 00:41:49,840 --> 00:41:51,839 Speaker 3: And after the game we win, I go to give 950 00:41:51,840 --> 00:41:54,080 Speaker 3: her a hug, and the Titans at the slot is 951 00:41:54,080 --> 00:41:55,239 Speaker 3: where they had it, and it was all like this 952 00:41:55,320 --> 00:41:56,840 Speaker 3: gated in area with. 953 00:41:56,760 --> 00:41:58,000 Speaker 1: Like you'll look really see. 954 00:41:58,040 --> 00:42:00,319 Speaker 3: But I get in and I see Tailor and I 955 00:42:00,360 --> 00:42:02,520 Speaker 3: give her a big hug and she goes, hey, don't 956 00:42:02,520 --> 00:42:04,520 Speaker 3: say anything, but I was bleeding during the game and 957 00:42:04,560 --> 00:42:07,719 Speaker 3: I think I lost a baby. And I'm like, like, 958 00:42:07,719 --> 00:42:10,439 Speaker 3: even right now to feel yourself tear up a little 959 00:42:10,440 --> 00:42:12,520 Speaker 3: bit because you're like so scared in that moment, but 960 00:42:12,560 --> 00:42:15,680 Speaker 3: you're also like like, hey, this is like a new 961 00:42:15,800 --> 00:42:18,200 Speaker 3: journey and new experience, like I have a shot at 962 00:42:18,200 --> 00:42:19,799 Speaker 3: being a great dad here, Like you think of all 963 00:42:19,880 --> 00:42:22,000 Speaker 3: the opportunity as opposed to the scared, or at least 964 00:42:22,040 --> 00:42:25,400 Speaker 3: you try to. So we go and a couple of 965 00:42:25,440 --> 00:42:27,400 Speaker 3: days later we go and get a test or we 966 00:42:27,480 --> 00:42:30,719 Speaker 3: go to the ultrasound again and they go, yeah, you're 967 00:42:30,920 --> 00:42:32,200 Speaker 3: the heart rate is not there. 968 00:42:32,239 --> 00:42:33,200 Speaker 1: We don't see a heart rate. 969 00:42:33,239 --> 00:42:34,920 Speaker 3: We don't and that little stack was there, and I 970 00:42:34,920 --> 00:42:37,520 Speaker 3: didn't see a flick, and I'm thinking, oh my god, 971 00:42:37,520 --> 00:42:41,000 Speaker 3: we actually we actually lost this baby. And so they 972 00:42:41,080 --> 00:42:44,680 Speaker 3: tell us, hey, you seems like it's like a chemical pregnancy. 973 00:42:45,239 --> 00:42:47,800 Speaker 3: We're gonna give it a couple of weeks and if 974 00:42:48,000 --> 00:42:50,680 Speaker 3: you got if you're still reading at these higher levels, 975 00:42:50,680 --> 00:42:53,239 Speaker 3: whatever those levels are, then we're gonna have to do 976 00:42:53,280 --> 00:42:55,000 Speaker 3: like a quickly. It's like a scope where you kind 977 00:42:55,000 --> 00:42:57,480 Speaker 3: of take out the egg and everything and you remove it. 978 00:42:58,120 --> 00:43:00,880 Speaker 3: So a couple of weeks go by and and I jokingly, 979 00:43:00,920 --> 00:43:03,160 Speaker 3: I'm like, well, I joke with Tailing about this. I'm 980 00:43:03,160 --> 00:43:05,680 Speaker 3: like kind of being a bee during these last two weeks, 981 00:43:05,719 --> 00:43:08,959 Speaker 3: like emotional, really emotional, And. 982 00:43:08,880 --> 00:43:10,000 Speaker 2: I'm like, what's going on with. 983 00:43:11,840 --> 00:43:12,600 Speaker 1: That's what's going on? 984 00:43:12,680 --> 00:43:16,040 Speaker 2: When emotional? Right now? You were scared, Now you're not scared. 985 00:43:16,080 --> 00:43:21,360 Speaker 2: The football he's I like in my brain, I'm like, 986 00:43:21,600 --> 00:43:23,319 Speaker 2: I'm in the middle of the football season. 987 00:43:23,400 --> 00:43:25,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, so I'm like, yeah, I'm like, I go home. 988 00:43:25,920 --> 00:43:28,160 Speaker 3: I handled it. I like, I'm with her, We're feeling 989 00:43:28,160 --> 00:43:29,719 Speaker 3: the emotions together. But then I go to sleep. I 990 00:43:29,760 --> 00:43:31,520 Speaker 3: wake up at five thirty whatever it is, and I 991 00:43:31,600 --> 00:43:33,719 Speaker 3: go right to the facility and it's like that's now 992 00:43:33,760 --> 00:43:36,440 Speaker 3: has to go away for these next you know, twelve hours. 993 00:43:37,200 --> 00:43:40,200 Speaker 3: So a couple of weeks go by and uh, tailing's 994 00:43:40,200 --> 00:43:43,240 Speaker 3: on ourself. Talings are very even kill from emotional standpoint, 995 00:43:43,360 --> 00:43:44,560 Speaker 3: very emotionally mature woman. 996 00:43:45,160 --> 00:43:47,880 Speaker 2: And we go back and I'm like, hey, doc, sums up. 997 00:43:48,000 --> 00:43:49,160 Speaker 2: We like, come back and check. 998 00:43:49,560 --> 00:43:53,319 Speaker 3: We do the ultrasound, and buddy, that little sac is 999 00:43:53,320 --> 00:43:58,120 Speaker 3: still there, but that flick is back. And they're like, 1000 00:43:58,200 --> 00:44:00,480 Speaker 3: so is is what's going on? And I'm thinking to myself, 1001 00:44:00,520 --> 00:44:02,600 Speaker 3: I'm just seeing something that is like hieroglyphics to me. 1002 00:44:03,239 --> 00:44:03,839 Speaker 1: The ultra sound. 1003 00:44:03,840 --> 00:44:05,600 Speaker 3: Girls like I can't say anything. The doctor's gonna come in. 1004 00:44:05,680 --> 00:44:08,000 Speaker 3: Comes in and Doctor's like, yeah, you guys are pregnant. 1005 00:44:08,440 --> 00:44:10,680 Speaker 3: And I don't know what happened a couple of weeks ago, 1006 00:44:10,719 --> 00:44:12,640 Speaker 3: but you're you yet you're having kids reading at nine 1007 00:44:12,680 --> 00:44:14,479 Speaker 3: weeks right now or whatever the number was at the time. 1008 00:44:14,760 --> 00:44:17,440 Speaker 3: What And it was the craziest thing in the world. 1009 00:44:17,920 --> 00:44:20,840 Speaker 3: Taylor says all the time that when she was pregnant 1010 00:44:20,880 --> 00:44:24,560 Speaker 3: she was so scared about what was going on that 1011 00:44:24,680 --> 00:44:27,600 Speaker 3: like when who's our oldest daughter had to like remove 1012 00:44:27,600 --> 00:44:29,040 Speaker 3: herself for a second for tailing to be like, you 1013 00:44:29,120 --> 00:44:31,080 Speaker 3: know what, it would actually been kind of great just 1014 00:44:31,080 --> 00:44:35,319 Speaker 3: to come back. So that was it was nuts. Man, 1015 00:44:36,520 --> 00:44:38,759 Speaker 3: was like three or four week emotional period. It was 1016 00:44:38,840 --> 00:44:41,960 Speaker 3: just nuts about thinking you have a kid and you're like, Okay, 1017 00:44:41,960 --> 00:44:43,239 Speaker 3: I guess I'm not having a kid, but then do 1018 00:44:43,280 --> 00:44:44,839 Speaker 3: we have kids eventually? And it's like, no, by the way, 1019 00:44:44,840 --> 00:44:47,040 Speaker 3: you're having a kid, And it was it was a 1020 00:44:47,080 --> 00:44:48,720 Speaker 3: crazy crazy dude, that's hard. 1021 00:44:49,239 --> 00:44:50,200 Speaker 2: The bean was boring. 1022 00:44:50,280 --> 00:44:50,680 Speaker 1: The bean. 1023 00:44:50,880 --> 00:44:54,640 Speaker 2: We just called it the bean over and over. Yeah, yeah, dude, 1024 00:44:54,640 --> 00:44:57,120 Speaker 2: it was awesome. It is like so. 1025 00:44:57,320 --> 00:44:58,920 Speaker 3: Scary finding out you're gonna be a kid for the 1026 00:44:58,920 --> 00:45:00,239 Speaker 3: first time or you're gonna have a kid for the 1027 00:45:00,280 --> 00:45:00,760 Speaker 3: first time. 1028 00:45:01,239 --> 00:45:02,080 Speaker 2: But yeah, it's nuts. 1029 00:45:02,320 --> 00:45:04,000 Speaker 1: Do you remember the first day you brought back by 1030 00:45:04,040 --> 00:45:04,880 Speaker 1: home your kid? 1031 00:45:05,200 --> 00:45:08,480 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, yeah, and you just sit there and they're like, 1032 00:45:08,480 --> 00:45:10,200 Speaker 3: you have all the nurses helping you with everything, and 1033 00:45:10,200 --> 00:45:12,080 Speaker 3: then you get in the car. You slap them in 1034 00:45:12,160 --> 00:45:13,520 Speaker 3: the cars and you're. 1035 00:45:13,400 --> 00:45:16,200 Speaker 1: Like that carr And then you get in the car 1036 00:45:16,239 --> 00:45:18,200 Speaker 1: and kind of drive off and you're like, all right, 1037 00:45:18,239 --> 00:45:19,000 Speaker 1: I guess we're doing this. 1038 00:45:19,080 --> 00:45:23,439 Speaker 2: I guess we're parents now. Itllegal. It feels illegal. You're 1039 00:45:23,480 --> 00:45:24,880 Speaker 2: just like a car seat on the floor. 1040 00:45:25,760 --> 00:45:27,279 Speaker 1: Ours is like in the kitchen to the car seat 1041 00:45:27,280 --> 00:45:30,240 Speaker 1: on floor when we came inside with like, hey, waffle, 1042 00:45:30,280 --> 00:45:32,560 Speaker 1: here's here's here's rue, kind of just look at it 1043 00:45:32,600 --> 00:45:35,160 Speaker 1: for a little bit and you're like, it's ours. 1044 00:45:36,120 --> 00:45:36,799 Speaker 2: Do I feed it now? 1045 00:45:37,000 --> 00:45:37,480 Speaker 1: Yeah? 1046 00:45:37,640 --> 00:45:40,000 Speaker 2: Like it's not only talking a whole lot. What's the 1047 00:45:40,960 --> 00:45:42,640 Speaker 2: getting Let's start getting the sounds going. 1048 00:45:42,719 --> 00:45:46,680 Speaker 4: I was I was overly worried about introing the dogs 1049 00:45:46,880 --> 00:45:49,520 Speaker 4: to Scarlet because I had read something that if you 1050 00:45:49,600 --> 00:45:54,200 Speaker 4: let the dogs find the baby, and it's like them 1051 00:45:54,280 --> 00:45:56,640 Speaker 4: finding and kind of showing you the baby, it's like 1052 00:45:56,680 --> 00:45:59,120 Speaker 4: it's their idea and it kind of helps with the intro. 1053 00:46:00,280 --> 00:46:01,840 Speaker 4: And I'm like, all right, Jill, when we get to 1054 00:46:01,880 --> 00:46:04,200 Speaker 4: the house, like I'll I'll get out, I'll take the 1055 00:46:04,239 --> 00:46:05,399 Speaker 4: dogs outside, you. 1056 00:46:05,400 --> 00:46:07,759 Speaker 2: Sneak Scarlet in, and then we'll do that, and. 1057 00:46:07,719 --> 00:46:09,600 Speaker 4: After like two minutes of trying to do that, Jill 1058 00:46:09,719 --> 00:46:12,360 Speaker 4: was like, Hey, I don't give a ship about the dogs. 1059 00:46:12,440 --> 00:46:15,360 Speaker 1: Like, I'll get the dogs outside. You go, you go in, 1060 00:46:15,480 --> 00:46:18,000 Speaker 1: put scarlet somewhere in the corner. You sit on the couch. 1061 00:46:18,239 --> 00:46:19,839 Speaker 1: I'll come in, we'll kick up the feet, we'll throw 1062 00:46:19,840 --> 00:46:20,360 Speaker 1: on Netflix. 1063 00:46:20,880 --> 00:46:29,240 Speaker 2: Well, what is that? Good boy? 1064 00:46:29,880 --> 00:46:33,439 Speaker 4: Yeah, the things that I was worried about, you know 1065 00:46:33,719 --> 00:46:36,239 Speaker 4: how many ever hours that was in the fatherhood. But 1066 00:46:37,280 --> 00:46:42,000 Speaker 4: and then with our pregnancy test story, Jill got a 1067 00:46:42,560 --> 00:46:44,680 Speaker 4: dad's I don't know, I still don't know who gave 1068 00:46:44,719 --> 00:46:47,520 Speaker 4: her the sweater from up here, but she got a 1069 00:46:47,560 --> 00:46:51,120 Speaker 4: sweater from up here that said dad on it, laid 1070 00:46:51,120 --> 00:46:54,080 Speaker 4: it on our kitchen counter, and similar to Taylan how 1071 00:46:54,280 --> 00:46:57,880 Speaker 4: she was like, oh, this one pregnancy test says I'm pregnant, 1072 00:46:57,880 --> 00:46:59,759 Speaker 4: but let me take nine more. And so there was 1073 00:46:59,840 --> 00:47:01,800 Speaker 4: like twelve pregnancy tests on the sweater. 1074 00:47:02,120 --> 00:47:03,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, And. 1075 00:47:04,880 --> 00:47:06,719 Speaker 4: I came home and she just had like the most 1076 00:47:06,719 --> 00:47:10,200 Speaker 4: awkward smile ever and was just like standing there. 1077 00:47:10,080 --> 00:47:12,320 Speaker 2: And I'm like, what's going on here? And see the 1078 00:47:12,440 --> 00:47:13,080 Speaker 2: kitchen counter. 1079 00:47:13,480 --> 00:47:16,560 Speaker 4: And the reason she never posted the video was I 1080 00:47:16,680 --> 00:47:19,759 Speaker 4: jokingly told Jill we had just started trying, and I 1081 00:47:19,840 --> 00:47:23,120 Speaker 4: jokingly told her we're going to be that couple, that 1082 00:47:23,360 --> 00:47:25,480 Speaker 4: it's going to be the very first time, Like I 1083 00:47:25,640 --> 00:47:28,279 Speaker 4: just I have one of those feelings. It ended up 1084 00:47:28,320 --> 00:47:30,960 Speaker 4: being the very first try. And so when I see 1085 00:47:30,960 --> 00:47:33,600 Speaker 4: all these pregnancy tests, I scream out, I. 1086 00:47:33,640 --> 00:47:39,080 Speaker 2: Fucking told you. I told you that's crazy. 1087 00:47:38,800 --> 00:47:41,160 Speaker 4: And it like is not a cute reaction at all. 1088 00:47:41,200 --> 00:47:43,520 Speaker 4: So we never posted it, but I was stoked. 1089 00:47:43,960 --> 00:47:46,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, Rue was a very first try. And then Scotty, 1090 00:47:46,880 --> 00:47:48,640 Speaker 1: I've obviously talked about the IVF stuff. 1091 00:47:48,719 --> 00:47:50,960 Speaker 3: Yeah, buddy, but we just talked about real quick. The 1092 00:47:51,000 --> 00:47:53,719 Speaker 3: first try for Will the state that Will comm I 1093 00:47:53,760 --> 00:47:54,480 Speaker 3: saw Will Combs of. 1094 00:47:54,480 --> 00:47:57,600 Speaker 1: The night that Rue was conceived, and I'm glad you 1095 00:47:57,640 --> 00:48:00,400 Speaker 1: stamped me on that because Charles like a honeymoon. I'm like, Sowe, 1096 00:48:00,440 --> 00:48:01,400 Speaker 1: you know what I'm telling. 1097 00:48:01,200 --> 00:48:04,719 Speaker 2: Dude, Wait was she wedding night? I mean we I 1098 00:48:04,840 --> 00:48:06,400 Speaker 2: somehow made it happen. 1099 00:48:06,760 --> 00:48:09,359 Speaker 1: Yeah, but yeah, that little guy was ready to work. 1100 00:48:09,400 --> 00:48:13,719 Speaker 2: They're doing they're doing to send off. It was bubbles sparklers. 1101 00:48:13,760 --> 00:48:18,640 Speaker 2: Will like, Charles looks outstanding the whole night. She's been 1102 00:48:19,000 --> 00:48:21,480 Speaker 2: dancing and drinking, have fun. 1103 00:48:21,719 --> 00:48:23,920 Speaker 1: She looks like a queen. Princess. 1104 00:48:24,000 --> 00:48:31,239 Speaker 3: That is just like gliding across the floor with this fus. 1105 00:48:29,200 --> 00:48:34,080 Speaker 2: Like my boy had something going on, like hey, hey, 1106 00:48:34,360 --> 00:48:38,880 Speaker 2: what is that? They put a healing front of me. 1107 00:48:39,080 --> 00:48:44,080 Speaker 2: You'll walk on? Yeah, fell will Good tell you here 1108 00:48:44,400 --> 00:48:50,080 Speaker 2: you Good's has never been told. 1109 00:48:50,200 --> 00:48:54,000 Speaker 3: I look at you staying doing nothing night seven, eight 1110 00:48:54,040 --> 00:48:55,120 Speaker 3: weeks twelve whatever it was. 1111 00:48:55,200 --> 00:48:56,480 Speaker 1: Later he like got a kid. 1112 00:48:56,560 --> 00:49:00,560 Speaker 2: I'm I thinking, oh my god, ain't no way. Was 1113 00:49:02,080 --> 00:49:02,920 Speaker 2: what I can remember. 1114 00:49:03,400 --> 00:49:05,800 Speaker 1: I remember being in the little sweet or whatever, and 1115 00:49:05,840 --> 00:49:07,799 Speaker 1: I was like, you gotta get you gotta help get 1116 00:49:07,800 --> 00:49:08,400 Speaker 1: me undressed. 1117 00:49:09,800 --> 00:49:12,920 Speaker 2: We made it happen. Will's inevitable made it happen. He's 1118 00:49:12,960 --> 00:49:16,000 Speaker 2: inevitable was inevitable for sure. 1119 00:49:16,080 --> 00:49:17,680 Speaker 1: You know. I was like, let's just go to bed. 1120 00:49:17,800 --> 00:49:26,520 Speaker 2: We can concentrate. Yes, oh my god, that's incredible. I 1121 00:49:27,200 --> 00:49:37,920 Speaker 2: have starfishing a couple of buns. You alive. I love you, honey, 1122 00:49:38,000 --> 00:49:39,960 Speaker 2: you love you. You have a good Lean's over. 1123 00:49:40,200 --> 00:49:40,760 Speaker 1: You're welcome. 1124 00:49:43,960 --> 00:49:44,320 Speaker 6: That was it. 1125 00:49:44,640 --> 00:49:53,040 Speaker 2: I love you, raise your last names, just huge bite 1126 00:49:53,080 --> 00:49:53,520 Speaker 2: of pizza. 1127 00:49:55,480 --> 00:50:00,319 Speaker 1: Tidn't change your name, oh gallaghery yeah. And it wasn't 1128 00:50:00,360 --> 00:50:01,200 Speaker 1: like when we got married. 1129 00:50:01,239 --> 00:50:02,520 Speaker 3: I was like, you gotta change the lawns like, oh, 1130 00:50:02,520 --> 00:50:05,640 Speaker 3: I'm absolutely gonna change the one. But because she's Canadian, right. 1131 00:50:05,520 --> 00:50:08,680 Speaker 1: There's probably is there just like such a twenty sixteen 1132 00:50:08,760 --> 00:50:10,960 Speaker 1: so like forty five is in who is now forty 1133 00:50:11,000 --> 00:50:13,160 Speaker 1: seven and he's doing all this stuff with immigration, so 1134 00:50:13,280 --> 00:50:15,520 Speaker 1: like the immigrations of us very difficult to do anything. 1135 00:50:15,560 --> 00:50:17,759 Speaker 2: We're like, hey, we'll wait till it calms down. Now 1136 00:50:17,800 --> 00:50:18,759 Speaker 2: it's been almost ten years. 1137 00:50:18,760 --> 00:50:21,120 Speaker 3: And she to her and I've got it. Well, it 1138 00:50:21,200 --> 00:50:23,759 Speaker 3: was like kind of funny if you just keep it now, like, hey, 1139 00:50:24,200 --> 00:50:25,879 Speaker 3: do you want to be a little one Yeah? 1140 00:50:25,920 --> 00:50:28,600 Speaker 2: No, She like I'll walk in on butter that. We 1141 00:50:28,680 --> 00:50:30,680 Speaker 2: got three lawns and a Gallagher in the room. It's like, dude, 1142 00:50:30,719 --> 00:50:33,800 Speaker 2: stop them on the wan like Gallagher. Yeah, got legally 1143 00:50:33,960 --> 00:50:36,239 Speaker 2: change the name though, right now? 1144 00:50:36,719 --> 00:50:39,560 Speaker 4: Yeah, I got a time time version cats and help 1145 00:50:39,600 --> 00:50:43,320 Speaker 4: you out with something timing around her passport renewal. 1146 00:50:44,120 --> 00:50:45,799 Speaker 2: That's a nice little two bird one stone. 1147 00:50:46,000 --> 00:50:48,040 Speaker 1: That's a nice that's a that's honest, husband hack. 1148 00:50:48,400 --> 00:50:50,000 Speaker 2: That's a that's a husband hack. Yeah. 1149 00:50:50,080 --> 00:50:53,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, she's trying to change something, like she's legally changed 1150 00:50:53,760 --> 00:50:56,439 Speaker 1: the conftent, but she's doing something around the passport right now. Yeah, 1151 00:50:56,560 --> 00:50:58,600 Speaker 1: I'm always owner about like ts am sweet, you got 1152 00:50:58,719 --> 00:51:00,600 Speaker 1: to get to TSA. She's like the ask war coming 1153 00:51:00,640 --> 00:51:03,279 Speaker 1: in when we all right, whatever you do? 1154 00:51:04,000 --> 00:51:08,840 Speaker 4: Oh my gosh, pt sickos. Why why has the episode stopped? 1155 00:51:08,920 --> 00:51:10,080 Speaker 4: Why are we taking a break? 1156 00:51:10,440 --> 00:51:15,279 Speaker 2: Take a wild guess. I'll just for audio listeners, Listen up, 1157 00:51:15,560 --> 00:51:16,000 Speaker 2: listen to this. 1158 00:51:18,760 --> 00:51:20,800 Speaker 4: You tell me what we just podsed that episode for. 1159 00:51:21,400 --> 00:51:26,040 Speaker 4: It's Ollipop, guys. We're talking the classics. 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We've gotten lamps, We've gotten to core 1227 00:55:46,920 --> 00:55:51,000 Speaker 4: for this set, and it was in the shop in days. 1228 00:55:52,080 --> 00:55:55,359 Speaker 4: Super easy to work with the Wayfair team. You can 1229 00:55:55,440 --> 00:55:59,440 Speaker 4: find your furniture, decre and asistentials essentials that fit your 1230 00:55:59,560 --> 00:56:03,799 Speaker 4: unique style and budget by just heading to wayfair dot 1231 00:56:04,040 --> 00:56:07,360 Speaker 4: com right now to shop all things home. That's w 1232 00:56:07,840 --> 00:56:14,000 Speaker 4: A Y F A I R dot com Wayfair, every. 1233 00:56:13,880 --> 00:56:14,759 Speaker 2: Cell, every home. 1234 00:56:15,760 --> 00:56:20,399 Speaker 4: Let's get back to the episode for time's sake, really quick. 1235 00:56:20,520 --> 00:56:23,000 Speaker 4: I thought we could jump into crack a cold one 1236 00:56:23,239 --> 00:56:24,759 Speaker 4: and then we can do some voicemails. 1237 00:56:25,040 --> 00:56:26,799 Speaker 2: Let's do it. Let we can do some voicemails. 1238 00:56:26,960 --> 00:56:28,960 Speaker 1: Yeah you got you got a crack a Cold one 1239 00:56:29,000 --> 00:56:31,840 Speaker 1: A win, a recent win, and of course so this 1240 00:56:31,960 --> 00:56:33,239 Speaker 1: is a this is a recent win for me. 1241 00:56:33,480 --> 00:56:35,880 Speaker 4: Uh, crack a Cold One is brought to us by Ollipop. 1242 00:56:37,600 --> 00:56:42,600 Speaker 4: Taylor's been sucking down on the Shirley Temple. Ollipop guys, 1243 00:56:42,840 --> 00:56:45,719 Speaker 4: they are doing a buy any two cans of ollipop 1244 00:56:45,840 --> 00:56:47,920 Speaker 4: in store and they will pay you back for one. 1245 00:56:48,440 --> 00:56:52,600 Speaker 4: It works on any flavor at any retailer Drinkollipop dot 1246 00:56:52,719 --> 00:56:57,720 Speaker 4: com forward slash b w tb Ollipop is sold online 1247 00:56:57,800 --> 00:57:00,840 Speaker 4: at drinkolipop dot com or Amazon and available in the 1248 00:57:00,920 --> 00:57:04,840 Speaker 4: soda aisle and with the chilled beverages at thousands of 1249 00:57:04,920 --> 00:57:08,280 Speaker 4: retailers nationwide, including Walmart and Target. 1250 00:57:08,640 --> 00:57:11,600 Speaker 1: Target. Nice nice, oh, good timing. 1251 00:57:12,000 --> 00:57:17,120 Speaker 2: Let's crack it and Taylor, I'm sorry, I'll cut you off. Brother. Yes, cheers, cheers, 1252 00:57:18,680 --> 00:57:20,000 Speaker 2: Dolly popping crack and a cole on. 1253 00:57:20,440 --> 00:57:20,640 Speaker 1: Yeah. 1254 00:57:20,760 --> 00:57:25,000 Speaker 2: Absolutely, So my crack a Cold one. 1255 00:57:27,040 --> 00:57:28,720 Speaker 3: Is just a big dad win for me. That I 1256 00:57:28,840 --> 00:57:30,520 Speaker 3: was like, you know what, maybe I'm doing this right 1257 00:57:30,560 --> 00:57:32,640 Speaker 3: as a father. Maybe I'm actually figuring it out. So 1258 00:57:33,480 --> 00:57:36,840 Speaker 3: I think it was Monday or Tuesdays were like maybe 1259 00:57:36,920 --> 00:57:38,360 Speaker 3: maybe it was Wednesday, who knows. 1260 00:57:38,400 --> 00:57:40,920 Speaker 1: Anyway, it was like three four days into having no 1261 00:57:41,120 --> 00:57:42,440 Speaker 1: power generators running. 1262 00:57:42,600 --> 00:57:43,320 Speaker 2: Every night the. 1263 00:57:43,400 --> 00:57:45,800 Speaker 1: Lights dim and you're like, is this the end of time? 1264 00:57:46,040 --> 00:57:46,080 Speaker 6: We? 1265 00:57:46,280 --> 00:57:48,600 Speaker 3: Is it done now for us? So the kid's been 1266 00:57:48,600 --> 00:57:50,120 Speaker 3: staying up a lot later and they've been getting up 1267 00:57:50,120 --> 00:57:52,560 Speaker 3: earlier because of it. There's been a lot of like 1268 00:57:53,840 --> 00:57:56,720 Speaker 3: less sleep nights to where emotionally both my children are 1269 00:57:56,760 --> 00:58:00,200 Speaker 3: having a more difficult time understandably so stir crazy in 1270 00:58:00,240 --> 00:58:03,040 Speaker 3: the house crazy my five year old in particular, she 1271 00:58:03,200 --> 00:58:06,840 Speaker 3: is like five year olds to me are as such 1272 00:58:06,880 --> 00:58:08,840 Speaker 3: a unique phase to where they're really coming out of 1273 00:58:08,840 --> 00:58:11,560 Speaker 3: the toddler stage and they're getting into like the kids stage, 1274 00:58:12,200 --> 00:58:16,280 Speaker 3: kids stage where they understand the idea of independence, but 1275 00:58:16,320 --> 00:58:18,440 Speaker 3: they're still very dependent on parents, but they're finding the 1276 00:58:18,560 --> 00:58:21,360 Speaker 3: envelope of like where can I kind of find more 1277 00:58:21,440 --> 00:58:24,560 Speaker 3: of like me, I do this thing? And my kids 1278 00:58:24,600 --> 00:58:27,800 Speaker 3: were graced with the decision for a dessert. It was 1279 00:58:27,920 --> 00:58:30,760 Speaker 3: going to be my wife Can's peaches, So it'll be 1280 00:58:30,920 --> 00:58:37,400 Speaker 3: warm peaches and vanilla ice cream or a popsicle. Right now, 1281 00:58:37,480 --> 00:58:39,320 Speaker 3: we're all sitting here and you're if you're listening on 1282 00:58:39,440 --> 00:58:42,280 Speaker 3: Spotify or wherever you're at right now. You're clearly thinking 1283 00:58:42,360 --> 00:58:45,440 Speaker 3: to yourself, warm peaches and vanilla ice cream. Yeah, the 1284 00:58:45,640 --> 00:58:48,240 Speaker 3: move right now. Five year olds don't think that way. 1285 00:58:48,920 --> 00:58:51,160 Speaker 3: Five year olds have been talking about pop school since 1286 00:58:51,480 --> 00:58:52,360 Speaker 3: morning breakfast. 1287 00:58:52,440 --> 00:58:53,880 Speaker 2: Hit can I get a popsicle? 1288 00:58:53,960 --> 00:58:54,320 Speaker 1: Too early? 1289 00:58:54,360 --> 00:58:54,919 Speaker 2: For a pop scle. 1290 00:58:56,280 --> 00:58:56,840 Speaker 1: We're not doing that. 1291 00:58:57,120 --> 00:58:59,040 Speaker 3: So they are given the decision. I have an eight 1292 00:58:59,120 --> 00:59:01,720 Speaker 3: year old, and then there's a neighbor girl, Mackenzie. She's 1293 00:59:01,720 --> 00:59:03,480 Speaker 3: staying at her house as well as along with her parents. 1294 00:59:03,680 --> 00:59:04,160 Speaker 2: She's ten. 1295 00:59:04,960 --> 00:59:09,560 Speaker 3: These kids identify, understand, and execute. They say, I'll wait 1296 00:59:09,600 --> 00:59:11,960 Speaker 3: a little bit longer, but I want the peaches and 1297 00:59:12,000 --> 00:59:14,280 Speaker 3: I want the vanilla. That's that's what I want. I'm 1298 00:59:14,320 --> 00:59:17,800 Speaker 3: thinking to myself, good move. Five year old's over here 1299 00:59:18,040 --> 00:59:20,160 Speaker 3: really having a hard time, ends up settling for the 1300 00:59:20,200 --> 00:59:23,640 Speaker 3: pop school, gets the pop school. Maybe three licks in 1301 00:59:24,640 --> 00:59:27,160 Speaker 3: and here comes the peaches in the vanilla on the screen, 1302 00:59:27,400 --> 00:59:30,320 Speaker 3: choking on the warmer. She decides she's made the wrong decision. 1303 00:59:30,840 --> 00:59:33,400 Speaker 3: She wants to take it back in our household. You 1304 00:59:33,520 --> 00:59:35,880 Speaker 3: make a decision. Whether you're happy with the decision, you 1305 00:59:35,920 --> 00:59:38,560 Speaker 3: may or not. You gotta stick with your decision going 1306 00:59:38,800 --> 00:59:42,760 Speaker 3: there's no going back, and like next time, now, you've learned, Hey, 1307 00:59:43,240 --> 00:59:44,800 Speaker 3: I'm gonna make the correct decision for myself. 1308 00:59:45,280 --> 00:59:46,560 Speaker 2: Back a little bit and identifying. 1309 00:59:47,320 --> 00:59:49,440 Speaker 3: She doesn't take coldly to that. She starts getting the mad. 1310 00:59:49,560 --> 00:59:51,160 Speaker 3: She starts having a little bit of a temper tantrum. 1311 00:59:51,280 --> 00:59:52,800 Speaker 3: All good five year olds do it. We all know 1312 00:59:52,800 --> 00:59:55,520 Speaker 3: anybody who's listening with a five year old and storms upstairs, 1313 00:59:56,280 --> 00:59:58,560 Speaker 3: storms upstairs. We say, hey, let's let let's let her 1314 00:59:58,680 --> 01:00:00,520 Speaker 3: sit there, sit with her emotions for a little bit. 1315 01:00:01,160 --> 01:00:03,520 Speaker 3: She lets out the every once in a while loud scream, Hey, 1316 01:00:03,680 --> 01:00:06,600 Speaker 3: just to let you know I'm still mad, screams and 1317 01:00:06,640 --> 01:00:09,680 Speaker 3: as a daddy, sit there and kind of like tails 1318 01:00:09,720 --> 01:00:10,880 Speaker 3: like I should go up there. I was like, let 1319 01:00:11,080 --> 01:00:14,280 Speaker 3: me go, I'm gonna go all handle this. You've been cooking, 1320 01:00:14,400 --> 01:00:16,280 Speaker 3: you just clean, Like, let me do this. 1321 01:00:16,680 --> 01:00:19,400 Speaker 2: Boom check. That is a preshock wave. Move by the way, 1322 01:00:19,720 --> 01:00:20,440 Speaker 2: that is, and that's. 1323 01:00:20,320 --> 01:00:21,400 Speaker 1: At one pm. 1324 01:00:21,600 --> 01:00:24,120 Speaker 2: All right, I'll get the light. 1325 01:00:24,240 --> 01:00:26,640 Speaker 3: But I'm just letting you know, like you put work 1326 01:00:26,720 --> 01:00:29,240 Speaker 3: in for these types of things. Yeah, I walk upstairs. 1327 01:00:29,320 --> 01:00:31,440 Speaker 3: My daughter wants nothing to do with me. She's like, 1328 01:00:31,600 --> 01:00:34,800 Speaker 3: where's mom my mom sitting? That daddy came up on 1329 01:00:34,880 --> 01:00:36,040 Speaker 3: his own. I wanted to talk to you, but this 1330 01:00:36,080 --> 01:00:37,520 Speaker 3: do you want to you want to come sit over here? No? 1331 01:00:37,680 --> 01:00:38,920 Speaker 1: Do you want me to sit over there? No? Do 1332 01:00:38,960 --> 01:00:39,920 Speaker 1: you want me to stay in the room? 1333 01:00:40,120 --> 01:00:40,160 Speaker 7: No. 1334 01:00:41,320 --> 01:00:43,920 Speaker 3: I am at a dead end. To the corner of 1335 01:00:44,000 --> 01:00:46,720 Speaker 3: my eye, I see two small, little stuffed animals. I 1336 01:00:46,800 --> 01:00:48,000 Speaker 3: think she might not want to talk to me. She 1337 01:00:48,080 --> 01:00:48,880 Speaker 3: might want to talk to them. 1338 01:00:49,840 --> 01:00:52,200 Speaker 2: I get these little stuff I get these little stuffies out. 1339 01:00:52,200 --> 01:00:58,600 Speaker 2: I'm like, oh, hey, you did puppet therapy. Puppet therapy, 1340 01:00:58,840 --> 01:01:01,640 Speaker 2: take it through it? Why are you sad? 1341 01:01:02,280 --> 01:01:04,640 Speaker 1: My mom? She said, I can, and then I couldn't 1342 01:01:04,640 --> 01:01:06,360 Speaker 1: even did I get it? Well, I can't understand you 1343 01:01:06,400 --> 01:01:07,040 Speaker 1: when you talk like that. 1344 01:01:07,160 --> 01:01:09,440 Speaker 2: Maybe I can help you for you do We started 1345 01:01:09,480 --> 01:01:12,120 Speaker 2: breaking it down. I got too. She had a signed 1346 01:01:12,400 --> 01:01:15,520 Speaker 2: way through done like this one. Uh huh. She switches 1347 01:01:15,520 --> 01:01:17,800 Speaker 2: it out with another one. You got a different voice? 1348 01:01:17,840 --> 01:01:18,480 Speaker 6: Hy, Yeah, we do it. 1349 01:01:18,560 --> 01:01:19,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, I know, I feel you. 1350 01:01:19,640 --> 01:01:22,240 Speaker 2: We're gonna get that figured out for you. Ends up. 1351 01:01:22,480 --> 01:01:24,920 Speaker 1: This is the conclusion of the story. No, we only 1352 01:01:24,960 --> 01:01:25,360 Speaker 1: have an hour. 1353 01:01:25,920 --> 01:01:27,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, we go downstairs. 1354 01:01:27,800 --> 01:01:30,440 Speaker 3: WILLI apologizes to her mother and says, I'm sorry for 1355 01:01:30,480 --> 01:01:33,040 Speaker 3: the way I acted, but next time I'm gonna I'm 1356 01:01:33,080 --> 01:01:35,360 Speaker 3: gonna choose peaches and cream, and I hope that I 1357 01:01:35,440 --> 01:01:37,880 Speaker 3: can have good behavior and do my chores so I 1358 01:01:37,920 --> 01:01:39,040 Speaker 3: can earn peaches and cream. 1359 01:01:39,360 --> 01:01:41,720 Speaker 2: Let's go, buddy, thank you. 1360 01:01:41,920 --> 01:01:43,160 Speaker 1: That is my crack cold one. 1361 01:01:43,440 --> 01:01:45,920 Speaker 4: Hey, how hard was she fighting that smile when you 1362 01:01:46,000 --> 01:01:47,480 Speaker 4: broke those characters out to. 1363 01:01:47,640 --> 01:01:50,560 Speaker 2: No, she's good with the staying mad. 1364 01:01:50,680 --> 01:01:53,320 Speaker 3: She's oh, really in there and then she sees it 1365 01:01:53,360 --> 01:01:55,120 Speaker 3: and she's like, look at me, and then all of 1366 01:01:55,120 --> 01:01:57,200 Speaker 3: a sudden, I kind of vanished and she's just talking 1367 01:01:57,280 --> 01:01:57,640 Speaker 3: to them. 1368 01:01:58,080 --> 01:02:01,800 Speaker 1: If I butt it, She's like that. So you think. 1369 01:02:03,840 --> 01:02:06,160 Speaker 2: Taylor and Taylor in that situation, he's dad. 1370 01:02:06,280 --> 01:02:09,720 Speaker 1: It's not. It's not the funny tailor lawan all the time, like, no, 1371 01:02:09,840 --> 01:02:11,240 Speaker 1: that's dead, Like I am pissed off. 1372 01:02:11,400 --> 01:02:13,280 Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, yeah, I see you're trying to make me lafe. 1373 01:02:13,320 --> 01:02:16,480 Speaker 3: You look dumb, and as a dad, a lot of 1374 01:02:16,520 --> 01:02:17,960 Speaker 3: times you have to be the guy that is like 1375 01:02:18,480 --> 01:02:20,320 Speaker 3: comes in and puts your foot down a little bit, 1376 01:02:20,400 --> 01:02:22,040 Speaker 3: like when we go out of town tailor and be 1377 01:02:22,080 --> 01:02:23,680 Speaker 3: like yeah, kids, they had to get on the kids 1378 01:02:23,720 --> 01:02:24,120 Speaker 3: a little bit. 1379 01:02:24,200 --> 01:02:25,480 Speaker 1: I didn't like it, so I talked to him for 1380 01:02:25,520 --> 01:02:28,040 Speaker 1: an hour. I'm like, go to bed, like. 1381 01:02:28,080 --> 01:02:31,960 Speaker 3: What is bedtime, Like, I'll play all day long bedtime hends. Buddy, 1382 01:02:32,720 --> 01:02:34,600 Speaker 3: we understand the operation. Your night has fallen. 1383 01:02:34,840 --> 01:02:35,320 Speaker 1: You see it. 1384 01:02:35,400 --> 01:02:38,080 Speaker 3: I've read the book. It's time to sleep. I can't sleep. 1385 01:02:38,160 --> 01:02:40,640 Speaker 3: Here's the best way to sleep. Close your eyes, breathe 1386 01:02:40,640 --> 01:02:41,720 Speaker 3: through your nose, out through your mouth. 1387 01:02:42,000 --> 01:02:43,160 Speaker 1: Does we don't work through it with them. 1388 01:02:43,200 --> 01:02:46,360 Speaker 3: It's like, sweetie, all the issues you're having in your head, 1389 01:02:46,800 --> 01:02:48,640 Speaker 3: if you talk about it, like we'll talk about in 1390 01:02:48,640 --> 01:02:49,920 Speaker 3: the morning, and so you make sure and bring them 1391 01:02:50,000 --> 01:02:52,600 Speaker 3: up in the morning, you learn to yourself. I can 1392 01:02:52,680 --> 01:02:54,760 Speaker 3: go to sleep and then in the morning I can 1393 01:02:54,840 --> 01:02:57,200 Speaker 3: figure out all these issues. Yeah, right, that way, you're 1394 01:02:57,200 --> 01:02:59,400 Speaker 3: not causing nighttime anxiety. We feel you have to talk about. 1395 01:02:59,400 --> 01:03:00,680 Speaker 3: What if you don't have some talk about it now 1396 01:03:00,680 --> 01:03:02,960 Speaker 3: you're twenty three years old, it's like boom, well right, 1397 01:03:03,160 --> 01:03:03,520 Speaker 3: all right. 1398 01:03:03,840 --> 01:03:05,480 Speaker 1: I'll sit there listen because I'm a sucker for like 1399 01:03:05,560 --> 01:03:07,000 Speaker 1: crawling in bed and just laying there because I. 1400 01:03:07,080 --> 01:03:10,200 Speaker 2: Like Rubberru's back. Like I'm like, I'm the closer, no 1401 01:03:10,280 --> 01:03:12,360 Speaker 2: matter what, I'm the closer. I'll either be doing Ruth's 1402 01:03:12,360 --> 01:03:15,960 Speaker 2: bedtime or mom does bedtime and then she comes out. Dad, 1403 01:03:16,040 --> 01:03:16,400 Speaker 2: you're up. 1404 01:03:16,560 --> 01:03:18,280 Speaker 1: I go up because she knows she gets a little 1405 01:03:18,560 --> 01:03:20,440 Speaker 1: she gets a little backscratch from Dad. But I'm sure 1406 01:03:20,480 --> 01:03:21,840 Speaker 1: that'll change whenever they get older. 1407 01:03:21,840 --> 01:03:22,560 Speaker 2: And you lay it on the law. 1408 01:03:22,600 --> 01:03:25,800 Speaker 1: It's like the other night, all the stir craziness from 1409 01:03:25,840 --> 01:03:29,040 Speaker 1: being locked in the house. It's like Rue comes down, 1410 01:03:29,240 --> 01:03:33,480 Speaker 1: Charles's doing Scotti's bedtime, and the whole thought before Charlo 1411 01:03:33,560 --> 01:03:35,560 Speaker 1: took Scotti up to do bedtime, and you go, you 1412 01:03:36,000 --> 01:03:38,320 Speaker 1: help that head downstairs, clean the kitchen, clean up the stuff, 1413 01:03:38,360 --> 01:03:40,880 Speaker 1: tidy everything up, and then you know, Rue gets to 1414 01:03:40,880 --> 01:03:42,320 Speaker 1: stay up a little bit longer and then we go 1415 01:03:42,440 --> 01:03:44,440 Speaker 1: up and do Ruth's bedtime. But she's kind of attached 1416 01:03:44,480 --> 01:03:47,760 Speaker 1: to like following Charlie around. Yeah, and so she goes up. 1417 01:03:48,160 --> 01:03:50,760 Speaker 1: And then whenever Rue comes downstairs, she just gets on 1418 01:03:50,840 --> 01:03:52,640 Speaker 1: the couch and I'm like doing the dishes and everything, 1419 01:03:53,000 --> 01:03:57,040 Speaker 1: and Rue just starts whining. She's just like, m you know, 1420 01:03:57,200 --> 01:03:59,080 Speaker 1: kind of just like won your attention. I kind of 1421 01:03:59,120 --> 01:04:02,120 Speaker 1: want you to ask ye. But it's the point of 1422 01:04:02,160 --> 01:04:03,680 Speaker 1: the day to where there's so many things going on, 1423 01:04:03,840 --> 01:04:05,760 Speaker 1: like between the power outage, the internet. 1424 01:04:06,280 --> 01:04:06,440 Speaker 2: You know. 1425 01:04:06,800 --> 01:04:08,280 Speaker 1: The next day we learned that there was like a 1426 01:04:08,320 --> 01:04:10,960 Speaker 1: slight gas leak. But even being in the new house, 1427 01:04:11,040 --> 01:04:14,840 Speaker 1: like all the delivery shipping stuff just gets derailed. So 1428 01:04:14,920 --> 01:04:16,560 Speaker 1: you're learning through the day, like all the things that 1429 01:04:16,640 --> 01:04:18,840 Speaker 1: need to get done in the house. Everything's kind of 1430 01:04:18,880 --> 01:04:20,080 Speaker 1: weighing on you. When you're there at the end of 1431 01:04:20,120 --> 01:04:21,680 Speaker 1: the day and you're thinking, all right, we're finally getting 1432 01:04:21,680 --> 01:04:22,160 Speaker 1: the bedtime. 1433 01:04:23,160 --> 01:04:23,680 Speaker 2: Rue comes down. 1434 01:04:23,760 --> 01:04:25,200 Speaker 1: She starts doing the whining thing, and I'm just doing 1435 01:04:25,240 --> 01:04:28,880 Speaker 1: the dish. I'm just thinking, like, the whining stuff just. 1436 01:04:29,160 --> 01:04:31,960 Speaker 2: It drives you. It drives you, drives me a little crazy, buddy. 1437 01:04:32,560 --> 01:04:35,640 Speaker 1: It's the worst. And it's okay to say, yeah, it's awful. 1438 01:04:35,720 --> 01:04:37,880 Speaker 1: And she's just on the couch, she's whining. I'm like, hey, Rue, 1439 01:04:38,040 --> 01:04:40,320 Speaker 1: I've told you we ain't doing this wining stuff. If 1440 01:04:40,360 --> 01:04:43,160 Speaker 1: you want, you need, you need, you need to talk 1441 01:04:43,200 --> 01:04:44,560 Speaker 1: to that and let me know what you want. And 1442 01:04:44,600 --> 01:04:46,120 Speaker 1: then I kind of take whatever it is. I go 1443 01:04:46,200 --> 01:04:48,440 Speaker 1: back to the pantry to put something away. She's now 1444 01:04:48,560 --> 01:04:51,360 Speaker 1: gone from the couch. She went upstairs, so I fill 1445 01:04:51,400 --> 01:04:53,280 Speaker 1: the milk up, get ready, you know, prep to go 1446 01:04:53,360 --> 01:04:57,520 Speaker 1: upstairs and bedtime. I walk into Scotti's room. Scotti is 1447 01:04:57,600 --> 01:05:00,280 Speaker 1: on mom's lap. Rue is also sitting in the with 1448 01:05:00,400 --> 01:05:02,120 Speaker 1: them both, and she's like curled up on mom. 1449 01:05:02,560 --> 01:05:04,440 Speaker 2: Now walk in. I'm like, hey, sweetheart, let's let's go. 1450 01:05:04,560 --> 01:05:05,520 Speaker 2: Let's go hit your bedtime. 1451 01:05:05,560 --> 01:05:06,760 Speaker 1: And she's just kind of sitting there looking at me, 1452 01:05:06,760 --> 01:05:08,680 Speaker 1: and I'm staring. I look at Charles and I look 1453 01:05:08,720 --> 01:05:10,360 Speaker 1: back down the room and I'm like, what's going on? 1454 01:05:12,480 --> 01:05:14,360 Speaker 1: And Charles looks at her. She's like, go ahead. She's 1455 01:05:14,400 --> 01:05:19,800 Speaker 1: like that that was mean to me. She said you 1456 01:05:19,840 --> 01:05:22,920 Speaker 1: were meaning to her down there, and I kinda I 1457 01:05:23,080 --> 01:05:26,080 Speaker 1: kind of smile because I'm thinking it's it's kind of funny. 1458 01:05:26,080 --> 01:05:27,560 Speaker 1: I go in there and I'm staring to both of them, 1459 01:05:27,600 --> 01:05:29,000 Speaker 1: and then was like that that was mean to me. 1460 01:05:29,040 --> 01:05:29,960 Speaker 2: And I'm like, here we go. 1461 01:05:31,720 --> 01:05:34,200 Speaker 1: I go and sit down on the little poof go there, 1462 01:05:35,960 --> 01:05:36,600 Speaker 1: hit my thighs. 1463 01:05:36,640 --> 01:05:42,520 Speaker 2: I sit down. I said, sweetheart, I'm sorry for being 1464 01:05:42,600 --> 01:05:49,040 Speaker 2: mean to you, but hard butt. 1465 01:05:49,160 --> 01:05:52,320 Speaker 1: I hit the butt, all right? There run the apology 1466 01:05:52,360 --> 01:05:56,960 Speaker 1: with the butt. Yeah, but that it tells you all 1467 01:05:57,040 --> 01:06:01,960 Speaker 1: the time. I don't like to respond to whining. So 1468 01:06:02,120 --> 01:06:04,160 Speaker 1: when you came downstairs, because mom, I look over at 1469 01:06:04,240 --> 01:06:06,360 Speaker 1: Chart and I say, because Mom, what happened was I 1470 01:06:06,480 --> 01:06:09,400 Speaker 1: was doing rude? Just came now I'm telling on room 1471 01:06:09,720 --> 01:06:12,360 Speaker 1: R just comes downstairs, doesn't say a word to me. 1472 01:06:12,440 --> 01:06:14,000 Speaker 1: She just gets on the couch and she just starts 1473 01:06:14,080 --> 01:06:16,800 Speaker 1: moaning and whining. So I'm like, hey, I'm not doing 1474 01:06:16,840 --> 01:06:19,600 Speaker 1: this whining stuff, like I'm trying to justify all my 1475 01:06:19,720 --> 01:06:22,680 Speaker 1: decisions with my wife, because she's gonna ask, so, what 1476 01:06:22,720 --> 01:06:24,840 Speaker 1: happened when you basically get down in front of it. 1477 01:06:25,200 --> 01:06:29,520 Speaker 1: I was like, so, rue, sweetheart, when you just come 1478 01:06:29,560 --> 01:06:32,320 Speaker 1: downstairs and don't say anything to Deadad and you just whine, 1479 01:06:32,840 --> 01:06:34,520 Speaker 1: Deadad starts feeling emotions inside. 1480 01:06:34,680 --> 01:06:37,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, I start feeling some bigger emotions than myself. 1481 01:06:37,200 --> 01:06:38,880 Speaker 1: So I just say, hey, we don't do the whining, 1482 01:06:39,200 --> 01:06:41,320 Speaker 1: and I'm not paying any mine because I need you 1483 01:06:41,440 --> 01:06:43,240 Speaker 1: to communicate with me when you feel that. 1484 01:06:43,360 --> 01:06:43,680 Speaker 2: I need you. 1485 01:06:43,960 --> 01:06:46,640 Speaker 1: Deada needs you to use your strong voice. She's kind 1486 01:06:46,640 --> 01:06:47,840 Speaker 1: of sitting there looking at me, and we kind of 1487 01:06:47,920 --> 01:06:49,640 Speaker 1: just paused. I look at your and I'm kind of 1488 01:06:49,680 --> 01:06:51,840 Speaker 1: like smiling because I realized, like I'm telling her that 1489 01:06:52,000 --> 01:06:54,560 Speaker 1: it does big emotions too, but that that feels stuff too, 1490 01:06:55,160 --> 01:06:56,200 Speaker 1: and this is a two way. 1491 01:06:56,080 --> 01:06:56,880 Speaker 2: Street, sweetheart. 1492 01:06:57,240 --> 01:06:58,360 Speaker 1: And I'm like, you want to come get dead A 1493 01:06:58,520 --> 01:06:59,960 Speaker 1: hug And she's like yeah, so we give a hug, 1494 01:07:00,080 --> 01:07:03,480 Speaker 1: we do bad time and uh de escalate the situation. 1495 01:07:03,600 --> 01:07:06,960 Speaker 1: But the whole coming down and the whining stuff drives 1496 01:07:07,080 --> 01:07:09,680 Speaker 1: me nuts. Bro yea sweet. You got to use a 1497 01:07:09,720 --> 01:07:11,960 Speaker 1: strong voice. We can't stop doing the whining. 1498 01:07:12,120 --> 01:07:16,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, the whinding thing to me is just a full stop. 1499 01:07:16,280 --> 01:07:17,240 Speaker 2: You're they We're not doing that. 1500 01:07:17,440 --> 01:07:19,840 Speaker 3: If you find this house like, if you have an 1501 01:07:19,840 --> 01:07:22,560 Speaker 3: emotion like we I always tell my kids, like, we 1502 01:07:22,640 --> 01:07:25,200 Speaker 3: communicate in this family. So if you feel that, you're 1503 01:07:25,240 --> 01:07:28,360 Speaker 3: okay to feel any emotion you want. Yeah, be mad, 1504 01:07:28,400 --> 01:07:29,840 Speaker 3: you can be happy, you can be everything in between, 1505 01:07:29,960 --> 01:07:33,720 Speaker 3: any variety of that emotion. But if you don't say 1506 01:07:33,760 --> 01:07:35,280 Speaker 3: how you feel, no one can help you. 1507 01:07:35,640 --> 01:07:37,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, so just speak. 1508 01:07:39,200 --> 01:07:42,360 Speaker 2: Just beat the sixers vent. Yeah, talking to me. That's 1509 01:07:42,400 --> 01:07:44,200 Speaker 2: a good note. And I loved the game. 1510 01:07:44,280 --> 01:07:47,439 Speaker 4: I wrote it down the if you can't talk about 1511 01:07:47,480 --> 01:07:48,960 Speaker 4: it that night, make sure you bring it up in 1512 01:07:49,040 --> 01:07:51,560 Speaker 4: the morning. I like that because it probably makes it 1513 01:07:51,640 --> 01:07:53,920 Speaker 4: feel very important to them that it's like, hey. 1514 01:07:53,840 --> 01:07:56,760 Speaker 2: That has remembered. He's bringing it back up. 1515 01:07:56,920 --> 01:07:57,120 Speaker 1: Yeah. 1516 01:07:57,200 --> 01:07:59,520 Speaker 2: Sometimes you don't, though, and that's that's probably you gotta 1517 01:07:59,520 --> 01:08:02,880 Speaker 2: go to the back issues. But yeah, you have a 1518 01:08:02,920 --> 01:08:03,600 Speaker 2: cracker cool one. 1519 01:08:04,360 --> 01:08:06,600 Speaker 4: I do have a crack a Cold one, and then 1520 01:08:06,600 --> 01:08:08,400 Speaker 4: we got get into voicemails because we got to keep 1521 01:08:08,400 --> 01:08:09,000 Speaker 4: it under and out. 1522 01:08:09,040 --> 01:08:12,040 Speaker 2: I know, time is flying. Yeah, you know what that means. 1523 01:08:12,240 --> 01:08:14,560 Speaker 1: Where are we at right now? Like thirty minutes? Maybe? 1524 01:08:15,200 --> 01:08:15,360 Speaker 6: Yeah? 1525 01:08:15,480 --> 01:08:16,000 Speaker 2: Like fifteen? 1526 01:08:16,120 --> 01:08:19,560 Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, you have thirty fifteen give or take. But 1527 01:08:19,640 --> 01:08:21,320 Speaker 1: you know what this means, all this fun and excitement. 1528 01:08:21,800 --> 01:08:24,560 Speaker 1: What this can't be the only time? Yeah, I know. 1529 01:08:25,520 --> 01:08:26,320 Speaker 2: I was thinking that too. 1530 01:08:26,360 --> 01:08:27,680 Speaker 1: I was like, no one should get through this. There's 1531 01:08:27,720 --> 01:08:29,519 Speaker 1: a couple things I just want to ask you. But yeah, 1532 01:08:29,640 --> 01:08:31,400 Speaker 1: and we'll get there. We'll get there. But no matter what, 1533 01:08:31,680 --> 01:08:34,200 Speaker 1: I think, we all know the magic, that's the shockwave 1534 01:08:34,240 --> 01:08:34,759 Speaker 1: that's happening. 1535 01:08:34,920 --> 01:08:36,240 Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, they. 1536 01:08:36,160 --> 01:08:40,439 Speaker 4: Say four times sake, I'll skip my crack a Cold one. 1537 01:08:40,439 --> 01:08:42,640 Speaker 4: I'll just dive into voicemails because I know we have 1538 01:08:42,760 --> 01:08:46,600 Speaker 4: some voicemails directed for Taylor, Okay, so I want to 1539 01:08:46,680 --> 01:08:47,920 Speaker 4: make sure that we give some good time. 1540 01:08:48,080 --> 01:08:50,640 Speaker 5: Sure, and they're technically not directed at Taylor. They are 1541 01:08:50,760 --> 01:08:52,720 Speaker 5: just three open voicemails. So if you would like to 1542 01:08:53,040 --> 01:08:55,120 Speaker 5: cut down on voicemails, there are none directed at him. 1543 01:08:55,160 --> 01:08:56,640 Speaker 5: So run the show as you would like, can I 1544 01:08:57,280 --> 01:08:57,559 Speaker 5: I know. 1545 01:08:57,680 --> 01:08:59,720 Speaker 2: That I just kind of got to invite back and 1546 01:08:59,800 --> 01:09:00,680 Speaker 2: I don't want to ruin it. 1547 01:09:00,840 --> 01:09:05,760 Speaker 1: Yeah yah, yeah, he really bad, is potty breast. And 1548 01:09:05,840 --> 01:09:07,360 Speaker 1: you can talk about your crack of cold one. 1549 01:09:07,320 --> 01:09:08,360 Speaker 2: Okay, crack a cold one. 1550 01:09:08,640 --> 01:09:12,160 Speaker 4: Okay, So I'll I'll segue crack a cold one into 1551 01:09:12,240 --> 01:09:14,599 Speaker 4: dad loss, because I actually had a really big dad loss, 1552 01:09:15,280 --> 01:09:16,920 Speaker 4: like a big one. 1553 01:09:18,760 --> 01:09:20,800 Speaker 2: Scarlet had her first booboo and it was on dead 1554 01:09:20,840 --> 01:09:25,759 Speaker 2: A's watch. Hey, and that is a tough pill to swallow. 1555 01:09:25,880 --> 01:09:29,679 Speaker 4: Bro and dude, it was really really bad because Jill 1556 01:09:30,120 --> 01:09:33,240 Speaker 4: saw me on my phone five minutes before said boo 1557 01:09:33,280 --> 01:09:37,080 Speaker 4: boo happened, and I was not on my phone when booby, 1558 01:09:37,240 --> 01:09:40,559 Speaker 4: Like I will, dude, I cannot wait to get up 1559 01:09:40,600 --> 01:09:42,360 Speaker 4: to heaven and say that I was not on my phone, 1560 01:09:42,520 --> 01:09:44,479 Speaker 4: like I will, I will die, I will go to 1561 01:09:44,560 --> 01:09:44,920 Speaker 4: the grave. 1562 01:09:45,640 --> 01:09:46,800 Speaker 2: I was not on my phone. 1563 01:09:47,520 --> 01:09:50,479 Speaker 7: And I'm talking out him right now to Jill as 1564 01:09:50,920 --> 01:09:56,800 Speaker 7: Scarlet's on her shoulder. I'm going, honey, I was watching 1565 01:09:56,840 --> 01:09:58,360 Speaker 7: the whole time, I can tell you. And she's like, 1566 01:09:58,600 --> 01:10:01,760 Speaker 7: check check your tone, check your tone, and I literally. 1567 01:10:01,560 --> 01:10:02,680 Speaker 6: Go, I go. 1568 01:10:03,200 --> 01:10:05,320 Speaker 1: I was watching the whole time. I was not on 1569 01:10:05,439 --> 01:10:05,960 Speaker 1: my phone. 1570 01:10:06,080 --> 01:10:06,559 Speaker 2: It starts. 1571 01:10:07,880 --> 01:10:12,280 Speaker 7: I started squeam scream whispering, dude, because I was so debiant. 1572 01:10:12,720 --> 01:10:15,080 Speaker 7: I was like, I swear to god, I was on 1573 01:10:15,240 --> 01:10:19,640 Speaker 7: my phone and uh, Scarlet. Basically what happened is she 1574 01:10:19,920 --> 01:10:23,200 Speaker 7: was She's propping herself up very very well. She's arching 1575 01:10:23,280 --> 01:10:26,519 Speaker 7: her back. She can like kind of one hand a 1576 01:10:26,560 --> 01:10:28,920 Speaker 7: little bit and like get this hand going on a toy. 1577 01:10:29,520 --> 01:10:33,240 Speaker 7: And so I'm very loosely holding her top like the 1578 01:10:33,400 --> 01:10:36,639 Speaker 7: back of her sweater, and I thought that I had 1579 01:10:36,680 --> 01:10:40,560 Speaker 7: her tight, and this arm completely gives out and she 1580 01:10:40,920 --> 01:10:46,040 Speaker 7: just nose dives into a hard toy and it bro 1581 01:10:46,400 --> 01:10:47,280 Speaker 7: As soon as she did it. 1582 01:10:47,400 --> 01:10:47,800 Speaker 2: There was a. 1583 01:10:49,520 --> 01:10:53,200 Speaker 4: Noise and like Mom instincts she had her back turned 1584 01:10:53,320 --> 01:10:56,439 Speaker 4: and was in the kitchen what what happened? And I'm 1585 01:10:56,520 --> 01:11:01,040 Speaker 4: already picked up Scarlet, and Scarlet is going into the 1586 01:11:01,200 --> 01:11:04,639 Speaker 4: biggest It felt like dragon ball Z, where like Goku 1587 01:11:04,800 --> 01:11:10,000 Speaker 4: like charges up his thing like Charlie was. And then 1588 01:11:10,160 --> 01:11:13,160 Speaker 4: it finally just came out. As soon as Mom was 1589 01:11:13,240 --> 01:11:16,400 Speaker 4: like walking up, I'm like, oh my god, it was 1590 01:11:16,640 --> 01:11:17,200 Speaker 4: you just doing. 1591 01:11:17,120 --> 01:11:18,760 Speaker 2: What time it was gonna be too since I saw 1592 01:11:18,800 --> 01:11:20,519 Speaker 2: you on the phone not too long ago. 1593 01:11:20,920 --> 01:11:23,360 Speaker 4: Oh yeah, Jill. Jill thought I was on my phone. 1594 01:11:23,760 --> 01:11:25,519 Speaker 4: I was selling them I will go to my grave. 1595 01:11:25,600 --> 01:11:28,800 Speaker 4: I was not on my phone. I was watching and 1596 01:11:29,040 --> 01:11:31,000 Speaker 4: I got a little hot with Jill and not on 1597 01:11:31,120 --> 01:11:35,080 Speaker 4: my phone. And anyways, a dad hacked to come out 1598 01:11:35,120 --> 01:11:37,040 Speaker 4: of that. If your kid is going to daycare the 1599 01:11:37,120 --> 01:11:40,280 Speaker 4: next day, make sure to tell the daycare worker about 1600 01:11:40,479 --> 01:11:43,720 Speaker 4: said boo boo so they don't think if they don't 1601 01:11:43,760 --> 01:11:46,800 Speaker 4: see the booboo when you come in, they don't go, 1602 01:11:47,400 --> 01:11:49,400 Speaker 4: oh my gosh, did that happen on our watch? And 1603 01:11:49,479 --> 01:11:51,880 Speaker 4: then they're sitting there the whole day freaking out of 1604 01:11:52,200 --> 01:11:55,280 Speaker 4: how do we tell mister and missus young that you know, 1605 01:11:56,040 --> 01:11:58,200 Speaker 4: lump on, yeah, this happened on our watch. So I 1606 01:11:58,280 --> 01:12:01,960 Speaker 4: had to very embarrassingly be like, hey, remember when you 1607 01:12:01,960 --> 01:12:05,280 Speaker 4: all d md us that she needs wipers or wipes 1608 01:12:05,400 --> 01:12:06,400 Speaker 4: and diapers today? 1609 01:12:06,840 --> 01:12:07,879 Speaker 2: Forgot about those. 1610 01:12:07,960 --> 01:12:11,240 Speaker 4: And slash guess why she had her first movie last 1611 01:12:11,280 --> 01:12:14,120 Speaker 4: night on dad's watch And it's right here and right there. 1612 01:12:14,840 --> 01:12:16,840 Speaker 2: They were like, thank you very much for letting us know. 1613 01:12:16,960 --> 01:12:19,559 Speaker 2: Blah blah blah. I'm I'm kind of in the doghouse 1614 01:12:19,640 --> 01:12:21,679 Speaker 2: right now. It's okay, it's okay. 1615 01:12:21,840 --> 01:12:24,120 Speaker 1: It reminds me when I told this story, but when 1616 01:12:24,200 --> 01:12:25,840 Speaker 1: because I got to tell it after the fact. But 1617 01:12:25,880 --> 01:12:27,640 Speaker 1: when Charle was out of town and Scotty fell off 1618 01:12:27,680 --> 01:12:30,920 Speaker 1: the first step and it was remember the final two minutes. 1619 01:12:31,000 --> 01:12:34,479 Speaker 2: Yeah, like maybe missoo Kansas, I forgot and when it happened, 1620 01:12:34,479 --> 01:12:39,200 Speaker 2: I like, God, yeah, yeah, okay, kind of yeah. 1621 01:12:39,560 --> 01:12:41,680 Speaker 1: She fell earlier when I'm on FaceTime with you, and 1622 01:12:41,720 --> 01:12:43,160 Speaker 1: then the next week I'm like telling the story on 1623 01:12:43,240 --> 01:12:43,760 Speaker 1: four the Dads. 1624 01:12:43,800 --> 01:12:46,040 Speaker 2: Oh my god, I was watching football. 1625 01:12:48,720 --> 01:12:50,920 Speaker 1: And you just feel, God, you just feel so shooty 1626 01:12:50,920 --> 01:12:52,679 Speaker 1: because then when they're acting up that way, like having 1627 01:12:52,720 --> 01:12:55,679 Speaker 1: that dragon ball z kind of compulsion. 1628 01:12:56,520 --> 01:12:57,200 Speaker 2: Just charging up. 1629 01:12:57,200 --> 01:12:59,920 Speaker 1: The biggest crime, know where to put it? So fell 1630 01:13:00,160 --> 01:13:03,400 Speaker 1: was yesterday because Taylor called checked in when he saw that, 1631 01:13:03,600 --> 01:13:06,680 Speaker 1: uh the gas leak, that the slight gas leak and 1632 01:13:06,720 --> 01:13:08,920 Speaker 1: shot out Piedmont. They got over, no free shots of Piedmont, 1633 01:13:09,360 --> 01:13:11,680 Speaker 1: but they got uh they got over pretty quickly and 1634 01:13:11,720 --> 01:13:12,360 Speaker 1: fixed everything. 1635 01:13:13,439 --> 01:13:16,599 Speaker 2: But we were like, I don't know what was happening. 1636 01:13:16,640 --> 01:13:18,479 Speaker 1: We were kind of checking the power out of situation 1637 01:13:19,840 --> 01:13:23,479 Speaker 1: and come to find out, our service is not transferred over. 1638 01:13:24,320 --> 01:13:26,320 Speaker 2: Power is still power was still out no matter what 1639 01:13:29,400 --> 01:13:35,200 Speaker 2: he at and t no, no, not the talk about 1640 01:13:35,280 --> 01:13:39,160 Speaker 2: power and yes, we're still at the old house. 1641 01:13:39,479 --> 01:13:41,439 Speaker 1: We didn't get it, we didn't get transferred over, so 1642 01:13:41,520 --> 01:13:42,840 Speaker 1: it's still under the builder's name. 1643 01:13:43,439 --> 01:13:48,400 Speaker 2: I forgot how it came up. But again I forget 1644 01:13:48,439 --> 01:13:49,120 Speaker 2: how it came up. 1645 01:13:49,240 --> 01:13:52,439 Speaker 1: But the ball's basically sitting in my hands, because there's texts, 1646 01:13:52,840 --> 01:13:55,719 Speaker 1: there's exchanges that I was the one responsible for transferring 1647 01:13:55,760 --> 01:13:58,280 Speaker 1: the power over from the old house to the new house, 1648 01:13:58,320 --> 01:14:02,160 Speaker 1: which is the only place you don't ever want to be. Yeah, 1649 01:14:03,240 --> 01:14:05,600 Speaker 1: and so I'm calling ANYS not about power out. It 1650 01:14:05,640 --> 01:14:08,599 Speaker 1: is probably like, hey, can I need to transfer service over. 1651 01:14:11,280 --> 01:14:15,639 Speaker 1: The problem was is I couldn't find the account information 1652 01:14:15,880 --> 01:14:18,200 Speaker 1: and all our all of our information like billing and 1653 01:14:18,240 --> 01:14:20,960 Speaker 1: all that with ANYS because it was connected to like 1654 01:14:21,080 --> 01:14:23,599 Speaker 1: my logging and password is connected to my old EG 1655 01:14:24,280 --> 01:14:25,960 Speaker 1: that just stopped working all of a sudden, like a 1656 01:14:26,040 --> 01:14:26,920 Speaker 1: couple of years ago. 1657 01:14:27,920 --> 01:14:29,400 Speaker 2: So I'm trying to find it. I'm like, son of 1658 01:14:29,439 --> 01:14:32,040 Speaker 2: a bitch. I was like, I can't figure this out. 1659 01:14:32,360 --> 01:14:36,000 Speaker 1: And Charles like, so you said that you were going 1660 01:14:36,080 --> 01:14:38,880 Speaker 1: to handle the electric Because Charles trying to look through 1661 01:14:38,920 --> 01:14:41,759 Speaker 1: her stuff figuring out like cool different parts of moving houses, 1662 01:14:41,800 --> 01:14:43,160 Speaker 1: like who had what responsibility? 1663 01:14:43,320 --> 01:14:47,240 Speaker 2: Oh no, and I'm like, yeah, yeah, that one. It's 1664 01:14:47,320 --> 01:14:48,040 Speaker 2: solely on me. 1665 01:14:48,360 --> 01:14:49,320 Speaker 1: I said I was going to do it on like 1666 01:14:49,400 --> 01:14:52,640 Speaker 1: December twenty second, just you know, probably figured out like, oh, 1667 01:14:52,680 --> 01:14:54,479 Speaker 1: I can't find the account information. I'll try and find 1668 01:14:54,520 --> 01:14:57,320 Speaker 1: it later than fleading the brain Dad brains kicked the 1669 01:14:57,360 --> 01:15:05,639 Speaker 1: game down the six and I just get lucky eventually, 1670 01:15:05,680 --> 01:15:09,280 Speaker 1: probably my third try logging into NES through my old email, 1671 01:15:09,640 --> 01:15:12,160 Speaker 1: like finally getting the password right and I'm like, hey, 1672 01:15:12,280 --> 01:15:13,040 Speaker 1: got on the phone. 1673 01:15:13,320 --> 01:15:16,519 Speaker 2: Lady was awesome. They fixed and they get everything transferred over. 1674 01:15:16,640 --> 01:15:18,400 Speaker 1: Like the old house is actually getting shut down today, 1675 01:15:18,439 --> 01:15:21,560 Speaker 1: the new one it's getting transferred over today. That was 1676 01:15:21,640 --> 01:15:24,639 Speaker 1: a moment too where I'm like, fuck, I won't because 1677 01:15:24,640 --> 01:15:27,120 Speaker 1: I feel like Charles feeling that. I'm feeling it again. 1678 01:15:27,200 --> 01:15:29,479 Speaker 1: It's a late latter part of the day where just 1679 01:15:29,680 --> 01:15:32,040 Speaker 1: all of the obstacles that have just been coming through 1680 01:15:32,080 --> 01:15:34,240 Speaker 1: all the yeah, the five days of the power outage 1681 01:15:34,280 --> 01:15:36,280 Speaker 1: and everything else going on with the house, and again 1682 01:15:36,760 --> 01:15:38,640 Speaker 1: kids have just been in the house. School has been 1683 01:15:38,680 --> 01:15:41,200 Speaker 1: canceled all week long, like you swim at any lesson, 1684 01:15:41,240 --> 01:15:45,960 Speaker 1: they're all canceled, the delivery stuff derailed, and I'm just 1685 01:15:46,080 --> 01:15:48,080 Speaker 1: I feel in charge, and I'm just thinking to myself, 1686 01:15:50,320 --> 01:15:52,800 Speaker 1: oh god, that was that was that was like a 1687 01:15:53,000 --> 01:15:54,559 Speaker 1: that was like a dad husband. 1688 01:15:54,600 --> 01:15:56,160 Speaker 2: Low, that's a responsibility, yes. 1689 01:15:56,200 --> 01:15:59,280 Speaker 1: Ye part yeah alone in that I have a dad. 1690 01:15:59,479 --> 01:16:01,720 Speaker 2: But it's thing you know that you know then the 1691 01:16:01,800 --> 01:16:04,000 Speaker 2: White fees like, all right, let's see this. You hear 1692 01:16:04,080 --> 01:16:06,639 Speaker 2: the the size every now and then. 1693 01:16:07,120 --> 01:16:09,160 Speaker 1: And maybe I'm making it up in my head because 1694 01:16:09,160 --> 01:16:10,960 Speaker 1: I don't want to put her on full blast right now, 1695 01:16:11,000 --> 01:16:13,040 Speaker 1: but I'm just thinking, please don't. I'm thinking in my head, 1696 01:16:13,200 --> 01:16:16,920 Speaker 1: don't mention the electric to me again, because I know 1697 01:16:17,320 --> 01:16:18,040 Speaker 1: this is all. 1698 01:16:18,000 --> 01:16:21,519 Speaker 2: My fault and I'm handling it. Yeah, you haven't handled 1699 01:16:21,560 --> 01:16:23,880 Speaker 2: it for the last few weeks. I'm handling it now. 1700 01:16:23,920 --> 01:16:25,680 Speaker 3: It's getting handled, no't matter what it in and out 1701 01:16:25,720 --> 01:16:28,439 Speaker 3: of what happened a month ago, we're here now. 1702 01:16:28,760 --> 01:16:31,839 Speaker 1: Yeah, getting it done. That is just like let somebody 1703 01:16:31,960 --> 01:16:34,519 Speaker 1: down and you just know it's all on you, and 1704 01:16:34,640 --> 01:16:37,400 Speaker 1: you're just like you're already beating the shit out of yourself. 1705 01:16:37,760 --> 01:16:37,880 Speaker 2: Right. 1706 01:16:38,000 --> 01:16:41,400 Speaker 1: But when she comes down from a preventime because I 1707 01:16:41,479 --> 01:16:42,920 Speaker 1: got to do Scottie so I was done first. 1708 01:16:42,960 --> 01:16:43,760 Speaker 2: She's up there with Rue. 1709 01:16:44,600 --> 01:16:46,120 Speaker 1: I get it figured out the rest of way while 1710 01:16:46,160 --> 01:16:46,960 Speaker 1: she's up there with rue. 1711 01:16:47,000 --> 01:16:48,280 Speaker 2: So that one when she came down on my Hey, 1712 01:16:49,240 --> 01:16:50,960 Speaker 2: power stands for over. Got to take care of it. 1713 01:16:51,040 --> 01:16:53,800 Speaker 2: Let's go kind of like the the power just worked 1714 01:16:53,840 --> 01:16:54,320 Speaker 2: in your favor. 1715 01:16:54,479 --> 01:16:57,080 Speaker 1: It's like, hey, yeah, but then you do the retroactive 1716 01:16:57,120 --> 01:16:59,280 Speaker 1: thinking on I needed to have the surgency. If I 1717 01:16:59,280 --> 01:17:02,000 Speaker 1: would have just had urgency back when I needed to 1718 01:17:02,080 --> 01:17:02,320 Speaker 1: do it. 1719 01:17:02,840 --> 01:17:03,680 Speaker 2: This is my own war. 1720 01:17:03,760 --> 01:17:05,679 Speaker 1: This is my own self talking at this point, because 1721 01:17:05,680 --> 01:17:08,120 Speaker 1: I'm thinking, I just caught a slight dub. Hey, it's 1722 01:17:08,120 --> 01:17:08,639 Speaker 1: all handled. 1723 01:17:09,320 --> 01:17:10,200 Speaker 2: You can relax, right. 1724 01:17:11,240 --> 01:17:13,680 Speaker 4: A very simple dad hack, by the way, with the 1725 01:17:14,040 --> 01:17:17,360 Speaker 4: NES or any water bill or anything I cut out 1726 01:17:17,640 --> 01:17:19,599 Speaker 4: on the when they mail it to you, I cut 1727 01:17:19,640 --> 01:17:22,280 Speaker 4: out the account number and I tape it to like 1728 01:17:22,479 --> 01:17:25,080 Speaker 4: somewhere where you know where to find it, like the 1729 01:17:25,240 --> 01:17:27,680 Speaker 4: inside of our pantry, and I keep it there, and 1730 01:17:27,760 --> 01:17:30,200 Speaker 4: then I know, whenever I need to check all my stuff, 1731 01:17:30,200 --> 01:17:31,280 Speaker 4: where my info's at. 1732 01:17:31,400 --> 01:17:34,600 Speaker 1: That is a good hack. I think about things of 1733 01:17:34,720 --> 01:17:37,439 Speaker 1: that nature, and I just also think, like I'm so dumb, 1734 01:17:37,880 --> 01:17:40,680 Speaker 1: I'm going to forget where I put whatever it is. 1735 01:17:41,479 --> 01:17:43,640 Speaker 4: Oh yeah, well, And the only time that Jill has 1736 01:17:43,680 --> 01:17:45,760 Speaker 4: ever threatened to leave me was when we came home 1737 01:17:45,840 --> 01:17:48,640 Speaker 4: to no power because I thought we were on autopay 1738 01:17:48,920 --> 01:17:51,920 Speaker 4: and we were not on autopay, so our electricity was out. 1739 01:17:51,960 --> 01:17:54,519 Speaker 4: And she said, if I ever come back to a 1740 01:17:54,640 --> 01:17:57,560 Speaker 4: home with you where the power is out because you 1741 01:17:57,600 --> 01:17:59,080 Speaker 4: forgot to pay the bill, I'm done. 1742 01:18:00,080 --> 01:18:02,040 Speaker 2: I said, no taking, no taking? 1743 01:18:02,720 --> 01:18:04,760 Speaker 1: What? Oh done? Heating out the gate? 1744 01:18:04,800 --> 01:18:05,040 Speaker 2: Don't? 1745 01:18:05,120 --> 01:18:05,280 Speaker 1: Yeah? 1746 01:18:06,080 --> 01:18:09,879 Speaker 2: No, Yeah, she said that hit me with the APR. 1747 01:18:10,040 --> 01:18:12,080 Speaker 2: You said that, honey, because. 1748 01:18:11,880 --> 01:18:13,360 Speaker 1: She hit she did? 1749 01:18:14,439 --> 01:18:18,080 Speaker 2: Or I'm done or I'm done, walk out of the 1750 01:18:18,160 --> 01:18:20,840 Speaker 2: room immediately. This whole thing. You'll be turning in your 1751 01:18:20,880 --> 01:18:25,200 Speaker 2: iPad tomorrow. You don't get this figured out. Yeah, I'm heated. 1752 01:18:25,360 --> 01:18:28,000 Speaker 2: We do need to get to voicema. 1753 01:18:28,720 --> 01:18:28,880 Speaker 1: Yeah. 1754 01:18:29,320 --> 01:18:33,320 Speaker 2: Yeah. This one is titled just wait until. 1755 01:18:38,560 --> 01:18:42,439 Speaker 6: Hey guys, this is Dwayne Davis from Valdosta, Georgia, and uh, 1756 01:18:42,880 --> 01:18:46,360 Speaker 6: I am in the trenches right now, but this call 1757 01:18:46,560 --> 01:18:49,080 Speaker 6: isn't really a motherfucker or I guess it could be 1758 01:18:49,120 --> 01:18:49,559 Speaker 6: a crack of. 1759 01:18:49,560 --> 01:18:53,040 Speaker 2: Coal one just for all the dads. My wife and 1760 01:18:53,160 --> 01:18:54,160 Speaker 2: I heard a. 1761 01:18:54,240 --> 01:18:59,320 Speaker 9: Million times to wait, untils, wait until they poot on 1762 01:18:59,439 --> 01:19:02,560 Speaker 9: your hand, wait until they wake up. It was so 1763 01:19:02,720 --> 01:19:05,800 Speaker 9: frustrating hearing all that because we're six months in and 1764 01:19:06,320 --> 01:19:09,680 Speaker 9: we're still waiting because you haven't got shit on our 1765 01:19:09,760 --> 01:19:10,920 Speaker 9: hands and we're not sleeping. 1766 01:19:11,080 --> 01:19:15,720 Speaker 1: But it's the most awesome thing I've ever done, such 1767 01:19:15,760 --> 01:19:18,639 Speaker 1: a huge calling and a blessing. But uh, I heard 1768 01:19:18,680 --> 01:19:20,559 Speaker 1: a caller one time on the. 1769 01:19:20,560 --> 01:19:25,479 Speaker 9: Show say he couldn't wait for the kids that put 1770 01:19:25,520 --> 01:19:27,200 Speaker 9: themselves to sleep, and I agree with Will. 1771 01:19:27,439 --> 01:19:29,640 Speaker 1: What you said, man was enjoy it. 1772 01:19:29,720 --> 01:19:30,920 Speaker 2: It's gonna go by so fast. 1773 01:19:30,960 --> 01:19:34,920 Speaker 9: So yeah, everybody expecting are in the trenches, and you 1774 01:19:35,120 --> 01:19:37,400 Speaker 9: keep hearing people say, well, just wait until this or 1775 01:19:37,439 --> 01:19:40,439 Speaker 9: wait until that, just telling them to go fuck themselves. 1776 01:19:40,960 --> 01:19:43,800 Speaker 6: It's all guys, keep fighting a good fight. 1777 01:19:47,760 --> 01:19:50,960 Speaker 1: Love that calling because I like, I agree with that 1778 01:19:51,080 --> 01:19:55,679 Speaker 1: the whole wait until stuff like time goes by so fast, 1779 01:19:55,760 --> 01:19:57,320 Speaker 1: and I try to It's like I even try to 1780 01:19:57,360 --> 01:19:59,519 Speaker 1: reserve myself when I'm talking about, you know, waiting until 1781 01:19:59,560 --> 01:20:02,080 Speaker 1: they get to sixteen months when the personality comes live, 1782 01:20:02,160 --> 01:20:03,160 Speaker 1: or wait until they can walk. 1783 01:20:03,240 --> 01:20:05,080 Speaker 2: It's gonna be so much better this than that. 1784 01:20:05,240 --> 01:20:08,080 Speaker 1: I do my best to bite my tongue because it's 1785 01:20:08,160 --> 01:20:10,400 Speaker 1: so finite how long we get to be with the 1786 01:20:10,520 --> 01:20:12,680 Speaker 1: kids to where there are gonna be times where you're 1787 01:20:12,720 --> 01:20:15,120 Speaker 1: missing little footsteps. So you're missing to having to go 1788 01:20:15,200 --> 01:20:16,880 Speaker 1: up in their room or whatever it is that She's 1789 01:20:16,880 --> 01:20:19,880 Speaker 1: just like, dude, do your best because it's impossible, Like 1790 01:20:20,000 --> 01:20:23,040 Speaker 1: you're gonna get frustrated all the time. Yeah, but do 1791 01:20:23,240 --> 01:20:26,639 Speaker 1: your best to try and embrace all the moments because again, 1792 01:20:26,800 --> 01:20:29,360 Speaker 1: when it's gone, Like I talk about that digital frame 1793 01:20:29,439 --> 01:20:31,840 Speaker 1: that we have up in the house where you see 1794 01:20:31,840 --> 01:20:33,800 Speaker 1: all the old photos and this that the other, and 1795 01:20:33,840 --> 01:20:36,080 Speaker 1: you just miss them being little. I made the comment 1796 01:20:36,080 --> 01:20:38,280 Speaker 1: the other day to try, I'm like, I don't want 1797 01:20:38,320 --> 01:20:40,400 Speaker 1: Scotty to get any bigger because I just know them 1798 01:20:40,439 --> 01:20:42,840 Speaker 1: both now as rude, being three, having long hair, having 1799 01:20:42,840 --> 01:20:45,960 Speaker 1: her personality, putting words and sentences, like doing all this stuff, 1800 01:20:46,439 --> 01:20:48,400 Speaker 1: coming into her own and just kind of towering over 1801 01:20:48,479 --> 01:20:50,960 Speaker 1: Scotty right now. And Scotty's just you know, a little 1802 01:20:51,000 --> 01:20:52,760 Speaker 1: one year old and she's just got a little her 1803 01:20:52,800 --> 01:20:55,320 Speaker 1: little stains and stature where she's just kind of you know, 1804 01:20:56,000 --> 01:20:58,960 Speaker 1: rolls around the house, walks around, does her little stop. 1805 01:20:59,200 --> 01:20:59,400 Speaker 6: Ah. 1806 01:21:00,600 --> 01:21:02,160 Speaker 1: That's like all of her little things to where it's 1807 01:21:02,200 --> 01:21:04,400 Speaker 1: like I don't want that to be gone. I know 1808 01:21:04,520 --> 01:21:06,719 Speaker 1: there's better things that's gonna come and all that's gonna 1809 01:21:06,720 --> 01:21:08,960 Speaker 1: be awesome. But I just always like, I'm such a 1810 01:21:09,240 --> 01:21:11,160 Speaker 1: we talk about all the time, we cry all the time. 1811 01:21:11,200 --> 01:21:12,920 Speaker 1: Now I'm just such a sad boy when it comes 1812 01:21:12,960 --> 01:21:15,599 Speaker 1: to the Kenno's growing up and getting out of his face. 1813 01:21:15,880 --> 01:21:16,920 Speaker 2: This morning, I was telling. 1814 01:21:16,760 --> 01:21:18,759 Speaker 1: Rue, hey, rude, do you remember how you say together? 1815 01:21:19,439 --> 01:21:21,240 Speaker 1: And she was butchering and I'm like, no, you say 1816 01:21:21,320 --> 01:21:25,439 Speaker 1: todayga todaga because she's like togay 'or togay you're together. 1817 01:21:26,360 --> 01:21:28,920 Speaker 1: But now she's like because she's she'll let me know 1818 01:21:29,080 --> 01:21:31,760 Speaker 1: that she says together and like rolls the th h 1819 01:21:31,960 --> 01:21:32,280 Speaker 1: p r. 1820 01:21:32,680 --> 01:21:34,920 Speaker 2: She's got it down. Now you know, I just missed 1821 01:21:34,960 --> 01:21:35,200 Speaker 2: the good. 1822 01:21:36,520 --> 01:21:39,360 Speaker 1: I miss the todaygas. I just miss all those little words. 1823 01:21:39,600 --> 01:21:42,280 Speaker 1: So it is it's like I'm with yeah the whole. 1824 01:21:42,400 --> 01:21:44,200 Speaker 1: Like when people are like, oh, just wait until this 1825 01:21:44,320 --> 01:21:46,360 Speaker 1: or wait untill that, it's like, yeah, I get you, 1826 01:21:46,520 --> 01:21:49,160 Speaker 1: but just embrace every moment that you have, like it's all. 1827 01:21:49,240 --> 01:21:51,360 Speaker 1: Every phase is gonna be shitty, every phase is gonna 1828 01:21:51,360 --> 01:21:53,920 Speaker 1: have the ups and downs with it, but don't rush it. 1829 01:21:54,000 --> 01:21:55,920 Speaker 2: It's old age is like the days are long and 1830 01:21:55,960 --> 01:21:56,599 Speaker 2: the years are short. 1831 01:21:56,800 --> 01:21:59,519 Speaker 3: Yeah, because it really is like there's days you're just like, bro, 1832 01:22:00,080 --> 01:22:02,040 Speaker 3: if I could just get twenty minutes to myself kind 1833 01:22:02,080 --> 01:22:03,759 Speaker 3: of recharge my batteries and get back to neutral. 1834 01:22:03,760 --> 01:22:04,360 Speaker 1: That'd be amazing. 1835 01:22:04,439 --> 01:22:07,360 Speaker 3: But at the end of the day, like every opportunity 1836 01:22:07,400 --> 01:22:08,800 Speaker 3: to take with your kids now is going to pay 1837 01:22:08,840 --> 01:22:12,040 Speaker 3: dividends in the future. Yeah, just like rolling, rolling, and 1838 01:22:12,160 --> 01:22:14,599 Speaker 3: like investing in a stock over and over again, Eventually 1839 01:22:14,600 --> 01:22:16,320 Speaker 3: it's going to be massive. It's just been how much 1840 01:22:16,320 --> 01:22:16,920 Speaker 3: you want to invest? 1841 01:22:17,040 --> 01:22:19,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, like that one day when you crack a cold 1842 01:22:19,040 --> 01:22:21,240 Speaker 1: beer with them or crack a cold lollipop and they're 1843 01:22:21,240 --> 01:22:23,720 Speaker 1: older and they're adults, those those moments and memories are 1844 01:22:23,760 --> 01:22:24,600 Speaker 1: going to be incredible. 1845 01:22:24,720 --> 01:22:24,920 Speaker 6: Yeah. 1846 01:22:25,000 --> 01:22:26,640 Speaker 2: Like I'm not I'm not above saying that I'm not 1847 01:22:26,680 --> 01:22:28,000 Speaker 2: a huge fan of the diaper face. 1848 01:22:28,240 --> 01:22:31,120 Speaker 1: I'm not. I don't, I don't, I'm not. I'm not 1849 01:22:31,200 --> 01:22:31,519 Speaker 1: into that. 1850 01:22:31,600 --> 01:22:35,679 Speaker 3: But like looking at my eight year old now and remembering, 1851 01:22:35,800 --> 01:22:38,040 Speaker 3: like you talking about together and how they pronounce it. 1852 01:22:38,120 --> 01:22:40,040 Speaker 3: Like when when she was really young, she would say 1853 01:22:40,080 --> 01:22:43,599 Speaker 3: a home all the time, talking about a home, a home, 1854 01:22:43,640 --> 01:22:45,679 Speaker 3: a home, and she would give kiss his mouth wide 1855 01:22:45,720 --> 01:22:48,240 Speaker 3: open and it was yeah, yeah, you like do you 1856 01:22:48,240 --> 01:22:49,799 Speaker 3: want to give her kisses to the lips would. 1857 01:22:49,600 --> 01:22:50,360 Speaker 2: Just go over yours. 1858 01:22:50,560 --> 01:22:53,600 Speaker 3: I guess that's a kiss, and you think like you 1859 01:22:53,880 --> 01:22:56,439 Speaker 3: remember being in that moment so stressed with the situation. 1860 01:22:57,439 --> 01:22:59,080 Speaker 3: But then you like, sit here now and I'm looking 1861 01:22:59,120 --> 01:23:00,800 Speaker 3: at her, like and the wing goes to bed. Now, 1862 01:23:00,840 --> 01:23:03,080 Speaker 3: I'll put Willow asleep and I'll go and Win and 1863 01:23:03,160 --> 01:23:05,559 Speaker 3: I will just read and she will she has her 1864 01:23:05,640 --> 01:23:07,840 Speaker 3: book out, like she's like these comic style books called 1865 01:23:07,880 --> 01:23:10,439 Speaker 3: Wings of Fire, and she like, we'll just reach she'll 1866 01:23:10,479 --> 01:23:11,519 Speaker 3: go in, I'll come home and she'll just. 1867 01:23:11,520 --> 01:23:13,800 Speaker 1: Be reading like we just like do things together. 1868 01:23:13,880 --> 01:23:15,640 Speaker 2: I'm like, yeah, like just wait till this. 1869 01:23:15,960 --> 01:23:16,160 Speaker 1: Yeah. 1870 01:23:16,320 --> 01:23:18,120 Speaker 3: But then you get a moment where like literally last night, 1871 01:23:18,160 --> 01:23:20,880 Speaker 3: we're telling telling stories to the family that we that 1872 01:23:20,960 --> 01:23:22,439 Speaker 3: are staying with us beause their powers out they have 1873 01:23:22,479 --> 01:23:25,479 Speaker 3: no generator or nothing. And I'm like, we're talking about 1874 01:23:25,479 --> 01:23:28,040 Speaker 3: twenty nineteen when we were in California and we'll Win 1875 01:23:28,240 --> 01:23:30,240 Speaker 3: was there and blah blah blah. And you started to 1876 01:23:30,240 --> 01:23:32,200 Speaker 3: look at old photos and you're like, dude, I missed that. 1877 01:23:32,520 --> 01:23:34,680 Speaker 3: I miss like how little and how they used to 1878 01:23:35,040 --> 01:23:38,000 Speaker 3: the way they operated. But it's like, yeah, every phase 1879 01:23:38,000 --> 01:23:40,160 Speaker 3: you gotta do embrace and enjoy as much as possible, 1880 01:23:40,439 --> 01:23:45,840 Speaker 3: because my next phase is dating and I'm gonna kill 1881 01:23:46,080 --> 01:23:46,360 Speaker 3: how much? 1882 01:23:46,400 --> 01:23:46,599 Speaker 1: Sure? 1883 01:23:48,080 --> 01:23:48,479 Speaker 2: How much? 1884 01:23:48,880 --> 01:23:50,320 Speaker 1: Like is it? 1885 01:23:50,600 --> 01:23:50,880 Speaker 2: Fear? 1886 01:23:51,200 --> 01:23:53,360 Speaker 1: Stuff goes on it in your mind that like the 1887 01:23:53,439 --> 01:23:55,880 Speaker 1: older they get, obviously the kids separate more from us, 1888 01:23:55,960 --> 01:23:57,760 Speaker 1: like when they have their own friends, and that's not 1889 01:23:57,880 --> 01:24:00,400 Speaker 1: as cool because you're you're getting like closer. 1890 01:24:00,600 --> 01:24:02,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, there's already a phase of that going on in 1891 01:24:02,720 --> 01:24:07,160 Speaker 3: my household right now. With Win, she's she has friends 1892 01:24:07,200 --> 01:24:09,200 Speaker 3: over all the time. They always want to come over, 1893 01:24:09,320 --> 01:24:14,080 Speaker 3: whether it's like Natalie Bates's girl, she'll bring She'll bring 1894 01:24:14,120 --> 01:24:15,680 Speaker 3: all the kids over and they'll play the whole time. 1895 01:24:15,760 --> 01:24:18,800 Speaker 3: But like, uh, they're they're still in the phase where 1896 01:24:18,800 --> 01:24:20,599 Speaker 3: like they want me to play too. And if there's 1897 01:24:20,600 --> 01:24:22,280 Speaker 3: anything as a father that I can be like, I'm 1898 01:24:22,320 --> 01:24:23,960 Speaker 3: really good at this, it's playing. 1899 01:24:24,160 --> 01:24:27,400 Speaker 1: Yea, I will go into playing and I'll be like. 1900 01:24:27,439 --> 01:24:28,880 Speaker 3: The next three hours of my life is just this 1901 01:24:29,000 --> 01:24:32,040 Speaker 3: is what I'm doing. So I can go in there 1902 01:24:32,080 --> 01:24:33,519 Speaker 3: and play and the kids can have fun with me. 1903 01:24:33,560 --> 01:24:36,040 Speaker 3: They enjoy being around me more because they'll know that 1904 01:24:36,120 --> 01:24:38,000 Speaker 3: I'll go do the things they want to do. But 1905 01:24:38,080 --> 01:24:40,680 Speaker 3: you see her Win, Like I'd have the conversation with 1906 01:24:40,800 --> 01:24:44,760 Speaker 3: Win one time. It was like probably less than six 1907 01:24:44,840 --> 01:24:47,760 Speaker 3: months ago, and she told me, she's like, hey, Dad, 1908 01:24:47,840 --> 01:24:50,719 Speaker 3: like I feel kind of weird when you kiss. 1909 01:24:50,520 --> 01:24:51,080 Speaker 1: Me on the lips. 1910 01:24:51,680 --> 01:24:55,080 Speaker 2: Oh man, what do you What do you mean? She's like, 1911 01:24:55,800 --> 01:24:58,400 Speaker 2: because you're a boy, and she goes, well, you're a man. 1912 01:24:58,439 --> 01:24:59,400 Speaker 1: I'm like, damn right. 1913 01:25:01,320 --> 01:25:03,560 Speaker 3: She's like correct, I just feel like when you know, 1914 01:25:03,800 --> 01:25:05,920 Speaker 3: when I'm with people and all that, Like maybe we 1915 01:25:06,040 --> 01:25:08,000 Speaker 3: do a kiss in the cheek now. And I told her, 1916 01:25:08,000 --> 01:25:10,560 Speaker 3: I was like, sweetie, I'll always be willing to kiss you, 1917 01:25:10,880 --> 01:25:12,880 Speaker 3: like give you a kiss and love you up. But 1918 01:25:12,960 --> 01:25:15,160 Speaker 3: whatever makes you feel comfortable, And however you want this 1919 01:25:15,439 --> 01:25:18,400 Speaker 3: shit to go, it's up to you because eventually you're 1920 01:25:18,439 --> 01:25:20,960 Speaker 3: going to be we have. Like the thing about when 1921 01:25:21,240 --> 01:25:22,880 Speaker 3: and Willow is getting there too, is like when is 1922 01:25:23,240 --> 01:25:25,760 Speaker 3: says very profound things at times, like the way she 1923 01:25:26,000 --> 01:25:28,400 Speaker 3: she's very observant and very aware, which is really cool 1924 01:25:28,400 --> 01:25:31,400 Speaker 3: to see, but like sometimes you just got to be like, yeah, man, 1925 01:25:31,600 --> 01:25:33,040 Speaker 3: all right, if you don't want me to kiss you 1926 01:25:33,080 --> 01:25:35,160 Speaker 3: in the lips anymore, that's perfectly fine. So every day's 1927 01:25:35,160 --> 01:25:36,840 Speaker 3: a kissing the cheek now and I haven't kissed it. 1928 01:25:36,960 --> 01:25:40,679 Speaker 3: We we accidentally kissing the lips like a week ago 1929 01:25:41,120 --> 01:25:42,400 Speaker 3: and was like, Oh, I was like. 1930 01:25:42,439 --> 01:25:46,120 Speaker 2: Hey, am I bad? It mean to you? Blah blah blah. 1931 01:25:46,640 --> 01:25:48,080 Speaker 1: But uh, it's just crazy. 1932 01:25:48,439 --> 01:25:51,479 Speaker 3: It's crazy like how things are changing, and when's so 1933 01:25:51,640 --> 01:25:55,080 Speaker 3: good about being aware of feeling the feeling of wanting 1934 01:25:55,080 --> 01:25:57,080 Speaker 3: to be around friends a little bit more like when 1935 01:25:57,080 --> 01:25:58,880 Speaker 3: I'm playing my friends, Hey can I play with my friends? 1936 01:25:59,200 --> 01:26:00,960 Speaker 3: But yeah, I'll fall back, no problem. And then she'll 1937 01:26:00,960 --> 01:26:02,720 Speaker 3: be like, all right, come come hang out now. But 1938 01:26:02,760 --> 01:26:05,719 Speaker 3: it's constant communication about it because we sit there in bed, dude, 1939 01:26:06,320 --> 01:26:08,960 Speaker 3: and I'll tell when I'll be like, dude, someday, you're 1940 01:26:09,000 --> 01:26:10,680 Speaker 3: not gonna want to hang out with me, and Mom like, 1941 01:26:10,760 --> 01:26:13,200 Speaker 3: you're gonna it's She's like, why would you say that. 1942 01:26:13,200 --> 01:26:14,200 Speaker 1: I was like, it's just what happens. 1943 01:26:15,040 --> 01:26:18,599 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, And I'm like, you're gonna you're gonna want 1944 01:26:18,640 --> 01:26:23,639 Speaker 3: to like explore friendships, explore relationships, explore boys, like you're 1945 01:26:23,680 --> 01:26:26,679 Speaker 3: gonna learn about all these things and Mommy and Daddy 1946 01:26:26,720 --> 01:26:29,559 Speaker 3: will like be like lesser than for a little bit. 1947 01:26:29,640 --> 01:26:32,320 Speaker 3: And our hope is that we create this foundation for 1948 01:26:32,400 --> 01:26:34,479 Speaker 3: you and a loving households where you just eventually like 1949 01:26:34,560 --> 01:26:36,720 Speaker 3: come back around, because that's what happens when you go 1950 01:26:36,760 --> 01:26:39,719 Speaker 3: through puberty and all these things, and we talk about kissing, 1951 01:26:39,880 --> 01:26:43,320 Speaker 3: we talk about how it all works and relationships and that, 1952 01:26:43,520 --> 01:26:47,040 Speaker 3: and it's like it's it's very weird. It's weird, but 1953 01:26:47,080 --> 01:26:50,640 Speaker 3: it's like also fulfilling because a lot of kids like me, 1954 01:26:50,720 --> 01:26:52,840 Speaker 3: I don't know how you guys were you kind of 1955 01:26:52,920 --> 01:26:57,479 Speaker 3: just found out about this stuff watching TV. Your friend 1956 01:26:57,520 --> 01:27:00,599 Speaker 3: would tell you about it, like you know, know all 1957 01:27:00,680 --> 01:27:03,439 Speaker 3: all like all those things. And so with Whin, it's 1958 01:27:03,479 --> 01:27:06,080 Speaker 3: like she's curious enough to ask me and mom questions 1959 01:27:06,080 --> 01:27:09,040 Speaker 3: about it. So I tell him, Like Teling's mom at 1960 01:27:09,080 --> 01:27:11,519 Speaker 3: a young age, she told and this is Miss Tanna, 1961 01:27:11,640 --> 01:27:14,360 Speaker 3: she's absolute queen. She's like, hey, just so you know, 1962 01:27:14,479 --> 01:27:18,439 Speaker 3: boys will fuck anything. Two they will go Taylor was 1963 01:27:18,439 --> 01:27:21,280 Speaker 3: like twelve years old. Yeah, she goes, they'll fuck anything, 1964 01:27:21,360 --> 01:27:24,040 Speaker 3: and they'll have sex with a pillow. They'll do this, 1965 01:27:24,160 --> 01:27:25,800 Speaker 3: they'll do that, Like these are how this is how 1966 01:27:25,920 --> 01:27:29,439 Speaker 3: boys operate, Like they will just want to know the 1967 01:27:29,479 --> 01:27:31,400 Speaker 3: wind Wind talks to me about kissing, but I have 1968 01:27:31,560 --> 01:27:33,479 Speaker 3: it when we talk about kissing, like as like the 1969 01:27:33,600 --> 01:27:36,599 Speaker 3: talk like I might like, hey, listen, boys will tell 1970 01:27:36,640 --> 01:27:38,800 Speaker 3: you anything they can to you to kiss them. 1971 01:27:39,080 --> 01:27:40,000 Speaker 2: And when you kiss them. 1972 01:27:40,240 --> 01:27:43,080 Speaker 3: There's gonna be a level of like fulfillment that some 1973 01:27:43,240 --> 01:27:45,280 Speaker 3: boys don't want to stay around. But some boys I 1974 01:27:45,320 --> 01:27:46,880 Speaker 3: want to kiss somebody else now to see if I 1975 01:27:47,000 --> 01:27:47,880 Speaker 3: like kissing them better. 1976 01:27:48,200 --> 01:27:49,240 Speaker 2: And that's just how it goes. 1977 01:27:49,360 --> 01:27:51,280 Speaker 1: And me like, how many people have you kissed? 1978 01:27:51,320 --> 01:27:58,120 Speaker 2: I'm like, couple? You know, No, I'm honest. I'm like, well, 1979 01:27:58,160 --> 01:28:03,120 Speaker 2: I'm not like, you know honestly, no, No, I tell her, 1980 01:28:04,200 --> 01:28:06,120 Speaker 2: you know, I'm like, hey, I've kissed people. I've kissed 1981 01:28:06,120 --> 01:28:06,439 Speaker 2: other people. 1982 01:28:06,439 --> 01:28:09,040 Speaker 3: And she asked me about other girlfriends and why didn't 1983 01:28:09,080 --> 01:28:11,400 Speaker 3: work and all these things, and she's like learning about 1984 01:28:11,720 --> 01:28:14,240 Speaker 3: how to established relationships. And she asked me, She's like, 1985 01:28:14,240 --> 01:28:15,320 Speaker 3: how do I know if I'm going to find the 1986 01:28:15,400 --> 01:28:16,880 Speaker 3: right person. I was like, can I just tell you 1987 01:28:17,000 --> 01:28:19,519 Speaker 3: how it universally works? And then it moves in a 1988 01:28:19,560 --> 01:28:22,160 Speaker 3: lot of different ways. Is you're going to watch your mom, 1989 01:28:22,560 --> 01:28:25,800 Speaker 3: and your your mom is going to show you how 1990 01:28:26,000 --> 01:28:27,840 Speaker 3: you should allow a man to treat you. So the 1991 01:28:27,920 --> 01:28:29,760 Speaker 3: way I treat your mom and the way your mom 1992 01:28:29,880 --> 01:28:31,639 Speaker 3: accepts the way I treat her is the way you're 1993 01:28:31,640 --> 01:28:33,280 Speaker 3: going to accept the way another man treats you. 1994 01:28:33,680 --> 01:28:34,680 Speaker 2: So that's going to help you. 1995 01:28:34,720 --> 01:28:35,519 Speaker 1: Find those borders. 1996 01:28:35,960 --> 01:28:38,040 Speaker 3: Your dad is going to show you what kind of 1997 01:28:38,120 --> 01:28:39,680 Speaker 3: man you should be with, because you're around me more 1998 01:28:39,720 --> 01:28:42,599 Speaker 3: than anybody, Like I am technically your I am your 1999 01:28:42,640 --> 01:28:43,080 Speaker 3: first love. 2000 01:28:43,240 --> 01:28:44,200 Speaker 2: She gets all bashfully. 2001 01:28:44,760 --> 01:28:48,559 Speaker 3: So we love each other. And I am the only 2002 01:28:48,640 --> 01:28:50,400 Speaker 3: man in your life that you see every single day. 2003 01:28:50,600 --> 01:28:52,640 Speaker 3: And you see the way I operate. You see how 2004 01:28:52,680 --> 01:28:54,439 Speaker 3: I talk to people. You see how I treat people. 2005 01:28:54,560 --> 01:28:56,400 Speaker 3: You see I treat your mother. What I do for 2006 01:28:56,479 --> 01:28:57,360 Speaker 3: your mother, what I don't do. 2007 01:28:57,400 --> 01:28:57,760 Speaker 1: For your mother. 2008 01:28:57,760 --> 01:29:00,320 Speaker 3: Where the friction is when every time me and has 2009 01:29:00,320 --> 01:29:02,519 Speaker 3: ever been in a fight, it's only been like two 2010 01:29:02,680 --> 01:29:05,320 Speaker 3: or three times in front of our kids. We make 2011 01:29:05,360 --> 01:29:07,320 Speaker 3: sure to have resolution in front of them so they 2012 01:29:07,439 --> 01:29:09,200 Speaker 3: know that, like, you don't just fight and you move on. 2013 01:29:09,320 --> 01:29:09,920 Speaker 1: You have resolution. 2014 01:29:10,320 --> 01:29:12,640 Speaker 2: So I tell them, like, hey, you're going to. 2015 01:29:12,680 --> 01:29:15,880 Speaker 3: Look for qualities in a man that you marry based 2016 01:29:15,920 --> 01:29:18,320 Speaker 3: off of me, whether you kind of like that or not. 2017 01:29:18,800 --> 01:29:20,479 Speaker 2: And that is God Like, that's how it's gonna be. 2018 01:29:20,520 --> 01:29:22,880 Speaker 2: And it's it's tough, dude, It's tough to have. 2019 01:29:22,920 --> 01:29:25,559 Speaker 4: Those Do you have a framework in your head right 2020 01:29:25,640 --> 01:29:29,400 Speaker 4: now of when you will allow her to start dating, 2021 01:29:29,560 --> 01:29:32,240 Speaker 4: or like what you want dating to look. 2022 01:29:32,160 --> 01:29:35,800 Speaker 2: Like at all not really, because. 2023 01:29:37,000 --> 01:29:40,760 Speaker 3: If she's like me, it'll be whatever boundaries you put 2024 01:29:40,800 --> 01:29:42,760 Speaker 3: in front of me, I'm gonna go across those boundaries. Yeah, 2025 01:29:42,960 --> 01:29:46,960 Speaker 3: And so it truly is just foundation and communication for 2026 01:29:47,040 --> 01:29:49,080 Speaker 3: me right now, and like you're going to be able 2027 01:29:49,080 --> 01:29:52,960 Speaker 3: to identify but not good boys is a good boy? Yeah, 2028 01:29:53,479 --> 01:29:55,000 Speaker 3: and like kind of helping her be like this is 2029 01:29:55,080 --> 01:29:57,559 Speaker 3: how a not good boy as, this is how good 2030 01:29:57,600 --> 01:30:00,160 Speaker 3: boy acts. Your daddy's been both me. 2031 01:30:00,200 --> 01:30:00,960 Speaker 1: Show you how they are. 2032 01:30:01,040 --> 01:30:03,360 Speaker 3: And we literally will role play these things with our 2033 01:30:03,400 --> 01:30:06,080 Speaker 3: hands and I'll be like, boys, do you think to kiss? 2034 01:30:06,080 --> 01:30:06,960 Speaker 3: You're like, well, how's that working. 2035 01:30:07,040 --> 01:30:13,800 Speaker 2: I'll be like, hey, you trying to kiss off. I'll 2036 01:30:13,840 --> 01:30:14,519 Speaker 2: be like what do you like? 2037 01:30:14,640 --> 01:30:16,080 Speaker 3: And she's like, well, I like animals, I like being 2038 01:30:16,080 --> 01:30:18,080 Speaker 3: outside all this, and I'll I'll be the boy. I'll 2039 01:30:18,080 --> 01:30:18,920 Speaker 3: be like, I love animals. 2040 01:30:18,920 --> 01:30:21,120 Speaker 1: Do you love animals? I love Oh, I love being outside. 2041 01:30:21,160 --> 01:30:21,679 Speaker 1: It's amazing. 2042 01:30:21,680 --> 01:30:23,640 Speaker 3: But we hang out like, yeah, i'd love to hang out. 2043 01:30:23,720 --> 01:30:26,680 Speaker 3: I'll see you tomorrow, go to sleep, come back, hey, so, 2044 01:30:26,800 --> 01:30:28,320 Speaker 3: And then he keeps going like can I kiss you? 2045 01:30:28,400 --> 01:30:30,600 Speaker 2: And she's like, well, no, I don't really know, just 2046 01:30:30,680 --> 01:30:31,439 Speaker 2: go I. 2047 01:30:31,400 --> 01:30:35,120 Speaker 3: Actually don't even like animals and I'll walk away. It'll 2048 01:30:35,120 --> 01:30:37,599 Speaker 3: be like that's kind of how Yeah, boys will tell 2049 01:30:37,640 --> 01:30:40,040 Speaker 3: you whatever you want to hear. Just get that kiss 2050 01:30:40,560 --> 01:30:41,880 Speaker 3: and it's heartbreaking. 2051 01:30:42,120 --> 01:30:44,559 Speaker 1: I like the I like the approach though, because again 2052 01:30:44,640 --> 01:30:47,679 Speaker 1: you're like, if you feel boundaries, you'll there are people 2053 01:30:47,720 --> 01:30:50,120 Speaker 1: out there that understand the mentality of the rebellious or 2054 01:30:50,160 --> 01:30:52,320 Speaker 1: I'm going to find and go over those boundaries. But 2055 01:30:52,400 --> 01:30:54,439 Speaker 1: it feels like too, it's like you can almost create 2056 01:30:54,520 --> 01:30:57,240 Speaker 1: the boundaries through all the foundational work of everything. So 2057 01:30:57,360 --> 01:30:59,519 Speaker 1: it's like almost the boundaries established. It's not like you're 2058 01:30:59,560 --> 01:31:02,799 Speaker 1: creating be like, hey, here's the boundary, right because I said. 2059 01:31:02,680 --> 01:31:06,800 Speaker 3: So, the boundary is foundationally We've said it right. I 2060 01:31:06,840 --> 01:31:09,679 Speaker 3: haven't said it, but we together, like father and daughter, 2061 01:31:09,760 --> 01:31:12,640 Speaker 3: have set this boundary for us and we know and 2062 01:31:12,800 --> 01:31:15,240 Speaker 3: what I One thing I've realized too is kids do 2063 01:31:15,600 --> 01:31:18,759 Speaker 3: so much better. My kids do so well with visually 2064 01:31:19,320 --> 01:31:22,040 Speaker 3: things like the win and will both want to like 2065 01:31:22,160 --> 01:31:24,920 Speaker 3: do more, they want to be more independent. Yeah, so 2066 01:31:24,920 --> 01:31:26,680 Speaker 3: all they show up like, Okay, this is you, this 2067 01:31:26,800 --> 01:31:28,360 Speaker 3: is your life. These are the things we allow you 2068 01:31:28,400 --> 01:31:29,640 Speaker 3: to do as parents, and this is you right in 2069 01:31:29,640 --> 01:31:31,519 Speaker 3: the middle of this allipop as you get. 2070 01:31:31,439 --> 01:31:34,040 Speaker 2: Older, this goes farther and farther, and if you go 2071 01:31:34,080 --> 01:31:36,320 Speaker 2: over here, I got to bring you back here. And 2072 01:31:36,400 --> 01:31:38,479 Speaker 2: then they like see that now, like okay, that's this 2073 01:31:38,560 --> 01:31:41,920 Speaker 2: is the amount of freedom you have now nine, ten, eleven, twelve. 2074 01:31:42,360 --> 01:31:44,760 Speaker 2: And the kids that resonates with them for whatever reason, 2075 01:31:45,080 --> 01:31:47,439 Speaker 2: the hand gestures, the talk like instead of just like 2076 01:31:47,560 --> 01:31:50,479 Speaker 2: telling them things petty more a quote once in a while. 2077 01:31:50,400 --> 01:31:52,000 Speaker 1: That they're like, what the what are we doing here 2078 01:31:52,080 --> 01:31:52,639 Speaker 1: with this quote? 2079 01:31:53,040 --> 01:31:55,479 Speaker 2: Yes, let's bring it? Yeah, yeah exactly. It's like using 2080 01:31:55,920 --> 01:32:00,759 Speaker 2: the can it goes exactly. It's just crazy. 2081 01:32:00,840 --> 01:32:00,920 Speaker 1: Man. 2082 01:32:01,000 --> 01:32:04,559 Speaker 3: Parent is so so fulfilling, so scary because you think 2083 01:32:04,560 --> 01:32:06,040 Speaker 3: you're doing good, but you don't know you're doing good. 2084 01:32:06,080 --> 01:32:08,400 Speaker 3: And then they're like adults. 2085 01:32:08,040 --> 01:32:10,160 Speaker 1: Till they become adult and if they're they're doing well 2086 01:32:10,280 --> 01:32:12,200 Speaker 1: or operating well, people speak well of them. 2087 01:32:12,640 --> 01:32:15,240 Speaker 3: How do you measure them doing well? Is it a 2088 01:32:15,360 --> 01:32:17,559 Speaker 3: successful job? Is the relationship they have, is the friends 2089 01:32:17,600 --> 01:32:19,040 Speaker 3: they have around them? Is because they want to be 2090 01:32:19,080 --> 01:32:21,320 Speaker 3: around you, Like, what are the things that make you 2091 01:32:21,360 --> 01:32:25,320 Speaker 3: a successful parent? And it's kind of it's terrifying, but 2092 01:32:25,439 --> 01:32:27,040 Speaker 3: every day if you like have that approach, it's like, 2093 01:32:27,400 --> 01:32:29,280 Speaker 3: now you're taking care of the little things. You're not 2094 01:32:29,320 --> 01:32:30,479 Speaker 3: as annoyed at the end of the night. 2095 01:32:30,720 --> 01:32:34,160 Speaker 1: Have you have you thought about what your first combos 2096 01:32:34,280 --> 01:32:37,000 Speaker 1: or anything will be like with the first boy that 2097 01:32:37,080 --> 01:32:39,800 Speaker 1: comes to the house in taking say, takes Win on 2098 01:32:39,840 --> 01:32:43,880 Speaker 1: a date? Yeah, lots? 2099 01:32:44,560 --> 01:32:46,760 Speaker 2: How does it go? God bless that? What's the movie 2100 01:32:46,800 --> 01:32:48,519 Speaker 2: with fifty cent when the guy comes over to this 2101 01:32:48,600 --> 01:32:49,240 Speaker 2: girl of problems? 2102 01:32:49,760 --> 01:32:50,080 Speaker 1: Thieves? 2103 01:32:53,439 --> 01:32:55,280 Speaker 2: You know we've been raised, You got the bad? Is 2104 01:32:55,360 --> 01:32:56,519 Speaker 2: your response? Exactly? 2105 01:32:57,160 --> 01:32:59,400 Speaker 3: I thought about that. I thought about like they're walking 2106 01:32:59,479 --> 01:33:02,800 Speaker 3: out the door and hey, hey, buddy, John's. 2107 01:33:02,479 --> 01:33:03,519 Speaker 1: Home, John John. 2108 01:33:03,680 --> 01:33:05,559 Speaker 3: He looks back at me and I taught toss a shotgun, 2109 01:33:05,640 --> 01:33:07,679 Speaker 3: sholl at him. I go comes a lot faster after. 2110 01:33:07,520 --> 01:33:11,680 Speaker 1: Ten pm something like that, like him with the bar. 2111 01:33:11,760 --> 01:33:13,640 Speaker 3: But it's also twenty twenty six, so I can you 2112 01:33:13,760 --> 01:33:17,200 Speaker 3: do that? Hey Taylor, the one tried to kill me 2113 01:33:17,720 --> 01:33:18,560 Speaker 3: or threaten to kill me? 2114 01:33:18,840 --> 01:33:21,080 Speaker 1: What did we had a eighty six or riding one 2115 01:33:21,120 --> 01:33:22,880 Speaker 1: time saying that whenever say they have to be home 2116 01:33:22,920 --> 01:33:25,400 Speaker 1: by nine, Yeah, nine o'clock, rows around to where the 2117 01:33:25,479 --> 01:33:27,960 Speaker 1: cars pulling in. Dad's just outside doing oh you chores 2118 01:33:27,960 --> 01:33:30,160 Speaker 1: around the house. They you know, the guy know, like, 2119 01:33:30,240 --> 01:33:31,799 Speaker 1: you're not gonna be able to sit in the driveway 2120 01:33:31,880 --> 01:33:32,240 Speaker 1: very long. 2121 01:33:32,479 --> 01:33:32,679 Speaker 7: Yeah. 2122 01:33:32,880 --> 01:33:35,000 Speaker 2: I like that, Yeah, a little longer out there, just 2123 01:33:35,120 --> 01:33:37,759 Speaker 2: like raking and what do we do with snow? Went outside? 2124 01:33:37,760 --> 01:33:38,599 Speaker 2: You're raking snow? 2125 01:33:39,680 --> 01:33:40,960 Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah. 2126 01:33:41,000 --> 01:33:43,320 Speaker 3: I guess I really haven't thought of how that conversation 2127 01:33:43,360 --> 01:33:44,800 Speaker 3: because it was to sit down like what are your 2128 01:33:44,840 --> 01:33:47,519 Speaker 3: intentions of my daughter? Yeah, but I like to be 2129 01:33:47,680 --> 01:33:50,479 Speaker 3: more like I don't care if they like me or not, 2130 01:33:51,280 --> 01:33:53,720 Speaker 3: but I want them to know how involved I am 2131 01:33:53,800 --> 01:33:55,960 Speaker 3: in my daughter's life, right right, And so I guess 2132 01:33:56,000 --> 01:33:57,759 Speaker 3: that's like figure out a way to land that plane 2133 01:33:58,080 --> 01:34:00,519 Speaker 3: that I haven't really dove too much into a few 2134 01:34:00,560 --> 01:34:00,960 Speaker 3: more years. 2135 01:34:01,200 --> 01:34:04,040 Speaker 1: Maybe I've thought about maybe just like putting a montage 2136 01:34:04,120 --> 01:34:06,519 Speaker 1: video together of all the father daughter moments. And you're 2137 01:34:06,560 --> 01:34:08,439 Speaker 1: sitting there and as he's watching, you start to cry, 2138 01:34:08,840 --> 01:34:12,479 Speaker 1: like as as he's watching the video, and you just 2139 01:34:12,560 --> 01:34:16,360 Speaker 1: let him know like she's been my responsibility my entire life. 2140 01:34:16,800 --> 01:34:18,160 Speaker 2: She's gonna go and get in the car with you, 2141 01:34:18,760 --> 01:34:21,439 Speaker 2: and now she's about to be your responsibility. It almost 2142 01:34:21,479 --> 01:34:22,040 Speaker 2: makes me theary. 2143 01:34:22,640 --> 01:34:24,840 Speaker 1: You're talking like God, I told well, well, and Jimy 2144 01:34:24,960 --> 01:34:27,680 Speaker 1: like hey, when she talks about seat belt, anything going 2145 01:34:27,760 --> 01:34:31,400 Speaker 1: on her instinct has been navigated by her being our 2146 01:34:31,479 --> 01:34:33,360 Speaker 1: responsibility her entire life. 2147 01:34:33,800 --> 01:34:36,120 Speaker 2: And now she's going to go in your vehicle because 2148 01:34:36,120 --> 01:34:37,360 Speaker 2: you have a seat belt story. 2149 01:34:37,560 --> 01:34:40,240 Speaker 1: I think you dated, she's going to go in your 2150 01:34:40,360 --> 01:34:44,160 Speaker 1: vehicle and now she's going to be your responsibility and 2151 01:34:44,280 --> 01:34:46,320 Speaker 1: the not I don't know if it's paying whatever you 2152 01:34:46,720 --> 01:34:50,000 Speaker 1: revolve to bring that back around, but hopefully you just 2153 01:34:50,160 --> 01:34:52,360 Speaker 1: make the gentleman feel that. 2154 01:34:53,920 --> 01:34:56,439 Speaker 2: They're now taking out like the most important thing in 2155 01:34:56,479 --> 01:34:58,680 Speaker 2: the world. Yeah, there's an element of pressure that is 2156 01:34:58,720 --> 01:34:59,200 Speaker 2: a good. 2157 01:34:59,320 --> 01:35:02,040 Speaker 4: Dad hack as as far as like I wasn't dating 2158 01:35:02,120 --> 01:35:05,640 Speaker 4: said girl, but I had a father essentially one he 2159 01:35:05,720 --> 01:35:08,320 Speaker 4: got my number without asking me for my number, so 2160 01:35:08,479 --> 01:35:12,559 Speaker 4: that was a little jarring, and then also just told 2161 01:35:12,600 --> 01:35:16,679 Speaker 4: me essentially what will said of like, hey, she's seventeen 2162 01:35:16,760 --> 01:35:19,880 Speaker 4: years old, she's she's gotten here because of me, Like 2163 01:35:20,439 --> 01:35:23,200 Speaker 4: I am the reason that she is here. She is 2164 01:35:23,280 --> 01:35:26,280 Speaker 4: now in your vehicle, So anything that happens from that 2165 01:35:26,400 --> 01:35:29,679 Speaker 4: point on, that's because of you. And he never threatened 2166 01:35:29,720 --> 01:35:32,519 Speaker 4: me or anything, but he was like, my daughter's safety 2167 01:35:32,600 --> 01:35:34,960 Speaker 4: is in your hands. I need both hands on the 2168 01:35:35,000 --> 01:35:37,800 Speaker 4: steering wheel, and that just let me know with her, 2169 01:35:38,280 --> 01:35:40,720 Speaker 4: like hey, if you're And I wasn't looking to date her, 2170 01:35:40,760 --> 01:35:43,599 Speaker 4: but I was like, whoever's dating that girl? Like they're 2171 01:35:43,640 --> 01:35:45,479 Speaker 4: going to be on their p's and q's because Dad's 2172 01:35:45,520 --> 01:35:47,800 Speaker 4: letting them know. Yeah, I'm on my p's and q's, 2173 01:35:47,840 --> 01:35:50,519 Speaker 4: so you better be too, buddy. Yeah, Which I liked it, 2174 01:35:50,720 --> 01:35:51,719 Speaker 4: like it was cool to give. 2175 01:35:51,600 --> 01:35:54,599 Speaker 1: Him to like respect their instinct like if you're out 2176 01:35:54,680 --> 01:35:57,479 Speaker 1: at a wherever you're at, there's a little maybe discomfort 2177 01:35:57,600 --> 01:35:59,000 Speaker 1: or you ask a question and you might see a 2178 01:35:59,040 --> 01:36:01,800 Speaker 1: little double taker up pause, like trying to get them 2179 01:36:01,840 --> 01:36:03,200 Speaker 1: to feel or respect. 2180 01:36:02,880 --> 01:36:05,360 Speaker 2: With that instinct. I don't know. It's something that I 2181 01:36:06,120 --> 01:36:07,400 Speaker 2: feel like all dads sit there. 2182 01:36:07,240 --> 01:36:11,080 Speaker 1: In juggle on, like, man, what's it gonna be like, Yeah, 2183 01:36:11,240 --> 01:36:18,599 Speaker 1: when that first boy knocks at the door, what I yeah, yeah, mister. 2184 01:36:18,479 --> 01:36:23,800 Speaker 2: Law, sit your ass down. I think it's just I 2185 01:36:23,800 --> 01:36:24,040 Speaker 2: don't know. 2186 01:36:24,120 --> 01:36:27,880 Speaker 3: With our kids, we are extremely blunt, like clear. You 2187 01:36:27,960 --> 01:36:30,280 Speaker 3: try to be as clear as possible on every situation, 2188 01:36:30,439 --> 01:36:33,519 Speaker 3: whether it's them understanding the concept of death, Like when 2189 01:36:33,560 --> 01:36:36,360 Speaker 3: Taylor's grandmother died, like it wasn't like well she went, 2190 01:36:36,400 --> 01:36:39,320 Speaker 3: it's like, hey, she is gone, and we're all gonna 2191 01:36:39,360 --> 01:36:41,200 Speaker 3: miss her, and we're all aot to feel these emotions, 2192 01:36:41,240 --> 01:36:44,320 Speaker 3: but like she can't come back because that's what it is. 2193 01:36:45,000 --> 01:36:47,040 Speaker 3: And with them and dating, it'll be the same thing. 2194 01:36:47,160 --> 01:36:51,360 Speaker 3: Like boys, I will tell when listen, the're gonna try 2195 01:36:51,360 --> 01:36:54,320 Speaker 3: to fuck you. I know it's crazy to say. 2196 01:36:54,360 --> 01:36:57,200 Speaker 2: And it's kind of like age here. It's like if 2197 01:36:57,240 --> 01:36:59,400 Speaker 2: you're if you're sixteen years old, it's like, dude, this 2198 01:36:59,680 --> 01:37:02,360 Speaker 2: is the reality. And like every boys and well, you're 2199 01:37:02,360 --> 01:37:04,599 Speaker 2: basically letting them know, like, yeah, I speak the language. 2200 01:37:04,600 --> 01:37:08,080 Speaker 3: You hear about it, right, right, I've been down this road, ye, 2201 01:37:08,240 --> 01:37:11,000 Speaker 3: like trying to date a girl and with hormones and 2202 01:37:11,040 --> 01:37:13,760 Speaker 3: the way they are, like this is how they're all 2203 01:37:13,840 --> 01:37:16,360 Speaker 3: gonna think. They're all gonna think like my kids both 2204 01:37:16,520 --> 01:37:19,479 Speaker 3: like their mother. They're both me very beautiful girls and 2205 01:37:20,240 --> 01:37:23,960 Speaker 3: that sucks, but it's also nice and it's like, understand 2206 01:37:24,000 --> 01:37:26,040 Speaker 3: your beauty is not your identity. That to me is 2207 01:37:26,160 --> 01:37:26,920 Speaker 3: one of the biggest things. 2208 01:37:27,000 --> 01:37:29,519 Speaker 1: Yeah, when those when the dads come up to you 2209 01:37:29,640 --> 01:37:31,800 Speaker 1: that you might just be acquaintances or just meet out 2210 01:37:31,800 --> 01:37:33,280 Speaker 1: and about out in the wild and they just come 2211 01:37:33,360 --> 01:37:34,840 Speaker 1: up they like you are you a girl? Dad? 2212 01:37:35,160 --> 01:37:36,960 Speaker 2: They see that you're two girls and they're like, good luck. 2213 01:37:37,000 --> 01:37:43,479 Speaker 4: Buddy, I know, I hate to cut it short because 2214 01:37:43,520 --> 01:37:47,160 Speaker 4: we are past Will's cut off officially by ten minutes. 2215 01:37:48,479 --> 01:37:51,200 Speaker 2: Would we want to go into our lesson of the week? 2216 01:37:51,800 --> 01:37:53,320 Speaker 2: Do we have any other themes? Hang on with me? 2217 01:37:54,240 --> 01:37:57,240 Speaker 3: Oh, here we go the notes go to kids stack. 2218 01:37:57,560 --> 01:38:06,519 Speaker 3: Ooh yeah, go to kids stack. This is not gonna 2219 01:38:06,560 --> 01:38:10,640 Speaker 3: be like, this is not gonna be one that one's like, 2220 01:38:10,640 --> 01:38:11,479 Speaker 3: oh yeah for sure. 2221 01:38:11,800 --> 01:38:12,680 Speaker 1: But jerky. 2222 01:38:15,080 --> 01:38:17,880 Speaker 2: Mature palate. Yeah maybe maybe. Back in the day, is 2223 01:38:17,920 --> 01:38:19,960 Speaker 2: there was there like a go to snack that you're like, 2224 01:38:20,040 --> 01:38:21,640 Speaker 2: I need it. We need to make sure we have this. 2225 01:38:22,320 --> 01:38:24,400 Speaker 1: There's ours ours right now it feels like it's apple 2226 01:38:24,479 --> 01:38:26,479 Speaker 1: sauce and it's gotta be the cupped apple sauce. 2227 01:38:26,560 --> 01:38:30,720 Speaker 2: Can't be the squeeze anymore. The squeeze. It's yeah, yeah, yes. 2228 01:38:31,280 --> 01:38:32,040 Speaker 2: By the way, we got to. 2229 01:38:34,640 --> 01:38:39,520 Speaker 1: Go to the go to snack is like yogurt, honey granola, 2230 01:38:39,800 --> 01:38:43,439 Speaker 1: like that's that's that's the bakfast, yeah staple. 2231 01:38:43,840 --> 01:38:45,479 Speaker 3: And it's like I'm hungry, I want this, and we 2232 01:38:45,560 --> 01:38:50,479 Speaker 3: got all the tailing. Dylan does not care about designer bags, 2233 01:38:50,680 --> 01:38:52,720 Speaker 3: she doesn't care about nice vehicles, she doesn't. 2234 01:38:52,439 --> 01:38:55,160 Speaker 2: Care about jewelry. She cares about. 2235 01:38:54,960 --> 01:38:55,719 Speaker 1: Quality of food. 2236 01:38:55,840 --> 01:38:59,400 Speaker 2: That's that's Tailings like number one thing. 2237 01:39:00,200 --> 01:39:01,880 Speaker 3: She's a huge jokes Like even when I would have 2238 01:39:01,960 --> 01:39:03,640 Speaker 3: like eighty dollars to my name, I spend more than 2239 01:39:03,680 --> 01:39:06,599 Speaker 3: half of it on a good steak like that. Yeah, 2240 01:39:06,760 --> 01:39:09,640 Speaker 3: like that's what she cares about. She dresses essentially if 2241 01:39:09,640 --> 01:39:11,439 Speaker 3: you see me, like she's the girl version of how 2242 01:39:11,479 --> 01:39:15,360 Speaker 3: I dress. Yeah, yeah, yeah, the same amount exactly. 2243 01:39:16,000 --> 01:39:16,120 Speaker 1: Uh. 2244 01:39:16,439 --> 01:39:19,840 Speaker 3: And so she's like big on like preparing snacks, having 2245 01:39:19,920 --> 01:39:22,519 Speaker 3: the best. If you're gonna have a bag like essentially 2246 01:39:22,640 --> 01:39:25,680 Speaker 3: processed snack, it's like gotta be no seat oil, no this, 2247 01:39:25,920 --> 01:39:29,240 Speaker 3: no that yeah perfect and so but jerky for us 2248 01:39:29,400 --> 01:39:33,080 Speaker 3: is like our kids are we cut it, Jason cuts 2249 01:39:33,120 --> 01:39:36,000 Speaker 3: it and then we put it in dehydrator season that. 2250 01:39:36,080 --> 01:39:38,800 Speaker 2: But oh you'll are doing your own jerky on jerky. 2251 01:39:38,880 --> 01:39:41,400 Speaker 3: Tailing cans her own peaches. She cans her own tomatoes 2252 01:39:42,120 --> 01:39:44,040 Speaker 3: in the summertime. So we have like a whole like 2253 01:39:44,080 --> 01:39:46,760 Speaker 3: a backstock of everything. Yeah, we have bees, so we 2254 01:39:46,840 --> 01:39:51,000 Speaker 3: have over every single year. So Tailing is she's dial. 2255 01:39:51,439 --> 01:39:54,160 Speaker 2: We still have a lot of colors, a lot of 2256 01:39:54,200 --> 01:39:54,879 Speaker 2: good colors. 2257 01:39:56,400 --> 01:39:56,599 Speaker 1: Yeah. 2258 01:39:57,000 --> 01:40:01,439 Speaker 2: I love that breast milk in her out man. Yeah, 2259 01:40:01,600 --> 01:40:03,320 Speaker 2: tasting it. Yeah, you see is that right? 2260 01:40:03,400 --> 01:40:05,120 Speaker 1: Now? Come on man, come on man. 2261 01:40:05,400 --> 01:40:06,680 Speaker 2: I'm just trying to make sure you know. 2262 01:40:06,960 --> 01:40:09,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, a couple of switch back in the day when 2263 01:40:09,880 --> 01:40:11,640 Speaker 3: they first what was it called colostrum? 2264 01:40:11,880 --> 01:40:14,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, throw it in some coffee that's got a 2265 01:40:14,760 --> 01:40:15,640 Speaker 2: little some extra to it. 2266 01:40:15,760 --> 01:40:16,439 Speaker 1: Now yeah. 2267 01:40:16,520 --> 01:40:16,680 Speaker 6: Yeah. 2268 01:40:16,720 --> 01:40:18,640 Speaker 2: If it's good for kids in development, why can't it 2269 01:40:18,680 --> 01:40:20,400 Speaker 2: be good for a thirty four year old. Come on, man, 2270 01:40:20,560 --> 01:40:23,960 Speaker 2: let's go get a little Our brains are still developing. Yeah, 2271 01:40:24,120 --> 01:40:26,240 Speaker 2: no doubt. We need to rebuild our brains a little bit. 2272 01:40:26,360 --> 01:40:27,519 Speaker 1: Fifty six, Ye have it? 2273 01:40:28,280 --> 01:40:31,720 Speaker 4: A little colostrum? Calclostum will say, I've never tasted it. 2274 01:40:32,400 --> 01:40:37,559 Speaker 2: Oh you have it? Oh breast milk or colostrum? Both? Okay, both, okay. 2275 01:40:37,560 --> 01:40:40,240 Speaker 1: I never got a couple of SIPs. Yeah, I took 2276 01:40:40,240 --> 01:40:42,240 Speaker 1: a couple of SIPs. It's really not that bad. And 2277 01:40:42,360 --> 01:40:46,040 Speaker 1: even doing that, I felt like intentionally because one of 2278 01:40:46,080 --> 01:40:48,000 Speaker 1: my old neighbors he's like, bro, you gotta drink the 2279 01:40:48,040 --> 01:40:48,559 Speaker 1: breast milk. 2280 01:40:48,600 --> 01:40:49,200 Speaker 2: He's big on bro. 2281 01:40:49,640 --> 01:40:51,200 Speaker 1: A matter of fact, he was so far on its 2282 01:40:51,200 --> 01:40:53,639 Speaker 1: where he's like, uh, if you have any left overall, 2283 01:40:53,680 --> 01:40:53,880 Speaker 1: take it? 2284 01:40:54,080 --> 01:40:56,800 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, no, no, I'm done. 2285 01:40:57,640 --> 01:41:00,280 Speaker 7: Charlie was standing there, sorry, jar was standing in there 2286 01:41:00,280 --> 01:41:02,679 Speaker 7: when he right, Yes, that's the story. 2287 01:41:03,960 --> 01:41:10,800 Speaker 1: That's bold, dude, and found the youth. He's like, I'm 2288 01:41:10,880 --> 01:41:13,760 Speaker 1: telling you, I'm telling you dive in. I think there's 2289 01:41:13,800 --> 01:41:17,840 Speaker 1: I think there is a lot of like science. That's 2290 01:41:17,880 --> 01:41:19,120 Speaker 1: a true empty stick though. 2291 01:41:19,640 --> 01:41:24,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, crazy, but some people are about it like good 2292 01:41:24,120 --> 01:41:27,400 Speaker 2: for them. You've never tried it. It didn't it taste bad? 2293 01:41:28,080 --> 01:41:28,400 Speaker 7: Is mine? 2294 01:41:28,479 --> 01:41:28,599 Speaker 2: Now? 2295 01:41:28,840 --> 01:41:29,360 Speaker 1: Maybe on the. 2296 01:41:31,080 --> 01:41:35,760 Speaker 2: Come on now, we'll. 2297 01:41:33,760 --> 01:41:35,639 Speaker 3: Slip up and say, I know, and I think it's 2298 01:41:35,640 --> 01:41:37,240 Speaker 3: a good time because we are running over your time 2299 01:41:37,280 --> 01:41:38,080 Speaker 3: that you do have to leave. 2300 01:41:39,240 --> 01:41:39,920 Speaker 2: You guys know this. 2301 01:41:40,080 --> 01:41:40,720 Speaker 1: You guys know this. 2302 01:41:40,800 --> 01:41:43,960 Speaker 3: In the back, I did lie at the beginning of 2303 01:41:43,960 --> 01:41:46,719 Speaker 3: this podcast, I said, I've only been through buds twice. 2304 01:41:47,000 --> 01:41:49,559 Speaker 3: He did, I have now been through buds three times, 2305 01:41:50,080 --> 01:41:51,400 Speaker 3: and I am having a third child. 2306 01:41:54,479 --> 01:41:56,840 Speaker 2: Let's go. I thought this would be the most fitting 2307 01:41:56,880 --> 01:41:58,080 Speaker 2: place to announce it to the world. 2308 01:41:58,240 --> 01:41:58,560 Speaker 1: Let's go. 2309 01:41:59,600 --> 01:42:04,479 Speaker 2: Yes, So did we go any farther? Oh, you want 2310 01:42:04,479 --> 01:42:05,519 Speaker 2: to talk about the journey? 2311 01:42:06,280 --> 01:42:14,240 Speaker 1: You know, the gender of my young boy? I did? 2312 01:42:14,560 --> 01:42:14,760 Speaker 6: I did? 2313 01:42:14,880 --> 01:42:17,880 Speaker 1: No, I did hear something really scary. We're waiting. 2314 01:42:18,080 --> 01:42:21,120 Speaker 3: We gotta do the geneic testing. Okay, and then I'll 2315 01:42:21,240 --> 01:42:23,920 Speaker 3: it'll confirm that it's a boy. But everything I've seen 2316 01:42:23,960 --> 01:42:25,559 Speaker 3: on that ultrasound, buddy, we got. 2317 01:42:26,040 --> 01:42:27,920 Speaker 2: We got all right. 2318 01:42:28,600 --> 01:42:31,920 Speaker 10: The curse is broken, allegedly alleged allegedly because there were 2319 01:42:32,000 --> 01:42:34,800 Speaker 10: some things that scared me since I've told you guys 2320 01:42:34,840 --> 01:42:36,559 Speaker 10: about it, where they're like, hey, you got to make 2321 01:42:36,560 --> 01:42:38,280 Speaker 10: sure the twenty week thing and then you dial that 2322 01:42:38,360 --> 01:42:39,320 Speaker 10: in then we'll know for sure. 2323 01:42:39,600 --> 01:42:42,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, could be this could be just swollen labia. 2324 01:42:43,360 --> 01:42:44,080 Speaker 1: That's a big as. 2325 01:42:45,840 --> 01:42:47,200 Speaker 2: It was the movie foty year old version. 2326 01:42:47,800 --> 01:42:49,160 Speaker 1: Are you sure you don't use it? You lose it? 2327 01:42:49,400 --> 01:42:51,760 Speaker 2: No, No, where he's got it. He's got the ultrasound 2328 01:42:51,920 --> 01:42:53,559 Speaker 2: on the TV. Look at his day. 2329 01:42:54,280 --> 01:42:58,280 Speaker 1: Yeah. Is that not his foot? Yeah? 2330 01:42:59,760 --> 01:43:01,880 Speaker 3: But if it is actually a boy, which I'm ninety 2331 01:43:01,920 --> 01:43:05,439 Speaker 3: five percent sure it is, I can't wait. Man. I'm 2332 01:43:05,479 --> 01:43:07,519 Speaker 3: so excited to find out what it's like. I told 2333 01:43:07,600 --> 01:43:10,080 Speaker 3: I've told tale, I'll have a mini off as many 2334 01:43:10,160 --> 01:43:10,720 Speaker 3: kids as you want. 2335 01:43:11,040 --> 01:43:12,240 Speaker 1: This is. This is in the beginning, But if we 2336 01:43:12,280 --> 01:43:13,200 Speaker 1: have two girls, I'm done. 2337 01:43:13,720 --> 01:43:16,080 Speaker 3: I've been around too many guys and I've chased the 2338 01:43:16,160 --> 01:43:18,040 Speaker 3: boy over and over again. Then she's like, hey, move, 2339 01:43:18,040 --> 01:43:19,439 Speaker 3: we shd have another one. I don't feel like we're 2340 01:43:19,479 --> 01:43:22,439 Speaker 3: like finished yet. Yeah, I'm like kind of in Then 2341 01:43:22,479 --> 01:43:24,160 Speaker 3: I pulled back out and then I'm like, you know what, 2342 01:43:24,240 --> 01:43:27,160 Speaker 3: maybe we will. So I was playing this toxic relationship 2343 01:43:27,160 --> 01:43:29,800 Speaker 3: still little cat and mouse game, not a fun game 2344 01:43:29,840 --> 01:43:32,560 Speaker 3: for Tailing to play. Finally, I'm like, okay, let's do it. 2345 01:43:33,200 --> 01:43:35,599 Speaker 4: And you asked me to put a power point together? 2346 01:43:36,240 --> 01:43:37,280 Speaker 4: Uh one time? 2347 01:43:37,400 --> 01:43:39,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, because I was like because I eventually went to Taylor, 2348 01:43:39,800 --> 01:43:41,400 Speaker 3: I was like, we got to have another kid, and 2349 01:43:41,600 --> 01:43:43,479 Speaker 3: the conversation stem from us be on the bus where 2350 01:43:43,600 --> 01:43:46,960 Speaker 3: all you guys got a bully movie called Tail, like 2351 01:43:48,160 --> 01:43:49,680 Speaker 3: they have a third I guess after third. She's like, 2352 01:43:49,720 --> 01:43:51,280 Speaker 3: I'm not gonna have a third because you guys, just 2353 01:43:52,080 --> 01:43:53,640 Speaker 3: if you want to have one, you need to like 2354 01:43:54,000 --> 01:43:57,519 Speaker 3: prove it to me. So I went to Sherman and 2355 01:43:57,520 --> 01:43:58,839 Speaker 3: I was like, we might have to make a PowerPoint 2356 01:43:58,880 --> 01:44:02,000 Speaker 3: of why we actually all the cute ship you Jill 2357 01:44:02,200 --> 01:44:05,599 Speaker 3: gone through, we're having a third child. My kids will 2358 01:44:05,640 --> 01:44:07,559 Speaker 3: be nine and six when this one is born. 2359 01:44:07,680 --> 01:44:07,880 Speaker 2: Come on. 2360 01:44:08,760 --> 01:44:11,439 Speaker 3: Scary but also kind of fired up about that, dude, 2361 01:44:11,479 --> 01:44:14,559 Speaker 3: because both of them are very they're very like great 2362 01:44:14,600 --> 01:44:17,040 Speaker 3: with young kids. Like Rufe for example, when she comes over, 2363 01:44:17,360 --> 01:44:19,960 Speaker 3: when Willow will come up her, grab her hand, take 2364 01:44:19,960 --> 01:44:22,320 Speaker 3: her upstairs, like they've all owned so good with little kids. 2365 01:44:23,320 --> 01:44:26,080 Speaker 1: That's the girls too, Like it's boys, like I'm sixty 2366 01:44:26,160 --> 01:44:28,040 Speaker 1: years older than Wyatt. I don't feel like I was 2367 01:44:28,120 --> 01:44:34,040 Speaker 1: that you're nurturing. Yeahsx years old. But it feels like girls, dude, 2368 01:44:34,040 --> 01:44:35,160 Speaker 1: they just they're different. Man. 2369 01:44:35,200 --> 01:44:38,040 Speaker 3: I've looked at when in the eyes you're raising this one. Yeah, 2370 01:44:38,640 --> 01:44:40,680 Speaker 3: I'm here, like you need some of me to let 2371 01:44:40,720 --> 01:44:41,800 Speaker 3: me know, but I'm falling back. 2372 01:44:41,920 --> 01:44:43,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, like you know, I don't do the diaper face. 2373 01:44:44,000 --> 01:44:46,360 Speaker 2: You know, we're gonna have to some training, buddy, bro 2374 01:44:46,520 --> 01:44:49,599 Speaker 2: when Win's gonna crush it. That's one thing Willow too, 2375 01:44:49,680 --> 01:44:50,120 Speaker 2: man like. 2376 01:44:50,240 --> 01:44:53,920 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's the crazy thing too, is when's like I 2377 01:44:53,920 --> 01:44:55,080 Speaker 3: don't know, I don't know if you were going to 2378 01:44:55,120 --> 01:44:58,439 Speaker 3: feel this way, but like when all the first her 2379 01:44:58,520 --> 01:44:59,800 Speaker 3: first or my first as well. 2380 01:45:00,040 --> 01:45:01,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, and then walks and them talking. 2381 01:45:01,400 --> 01:45:08,280 Speaker 3: Yes, it's more like it's like, oh awesome, Willow, she's walking, 2382 01:45:08,400 --> 01:45:10,720 Speaker 3: Oh awesome, she's talking. But it wasn't like it wasn't 2383 01:45:10,760 --> 01:45:13,920 Speaker 3: the first. Yeah, so it feels like she's kind of 2384 01:45:13,960 --> 01:45:16,479 Speaker 3: getting a little overshadowed a little bit, and so we've 2385 01:45:16,560 --> 01:45:18,800 Speaker 3: recently been like, look how great Willow is all things 2386 01:45:18,800 --> 01:45:21,280 Speaker 3: will is doing, because Willows like way more developed at 2387 01:45:21,320 --> 01:45:23,880 Speaker 3: five the Win was, and we tell why, just listen, 2388 01:45:24,400 --> 01:45:26,760 Speaker 3: your sister might be a damn genius. And it's just 2389 01:45:26,880 --> 01:45:29,000 Speaker 3: interesting how like the second one works and now having 2390 01:45:29,080 --> 01:45:29,679 Speaker 3: a third. 2391 01:45:31,000 --> 01:45:32,599 Speaker 1: And you can almost kind of foresee you a little 2392 01:45:32,640 --> 01:45:35,120 Speaker 1: bit like the middle child stuff because again, all the 2393 01:45:35,200 --> 01:45:37,559 Speaker 1: first with the first one, then you got in your 2394 01:45:37,640 --> 01:45:40,479 Speaker 1: situation Willow, and then the baby's gonna come in right, 2395 01:45:40,680 --> 01:45:42,720 Speaker 1: and it's like the baby's going to be catered to 2396 01:45:43,439 --> 01:45:45,640 Speaker 1: when Willow is the one being catered to a lot 2397 01:45:45,680 --> 01:45:47,360 Speaker 1: of the time because they were the baby for a while. 2398 01:45:47,760 --> 01:45:50,679 Speaker 1: And then this kind of middle child stuff formed because 2399 01:45:50,920 --> 01:45:53,000 Speaker 1: they're not experiencing the first of everything. They now have 2400 01:45:53,080 --> 01:45:55,000 Speaker 1: the awareness to be like, oh, Win's going through all 2401 01:45:55,000 --> 01:45:55,840 Speaker 1: the first of these things. 2402 01:45:56,120 --> 01:45:58,000 Speaker 2: Now I got somebody younger than me that all the 2403 01:45:58,320 --> 01:46:00,960 Speaker 2: entire worlds around this baby right now, age gap, will 2404 01:46:01,439 --> 01:46:02,320 Speaker 2: will benefit. 2405 01:46:02,600 --> 01:46:05,360 Speaker 3: Like I think the boy that have like two girls 2406 01:46:05,400 --> 01:46:07,040 Speaker 3: that are like and like Win and will They're great 2407 01:46:07,080 --> 01:46:10,320 Speaker 3: at they love playing and so like they can go 2408 01:46:10,400 --> 01:46:11,920 Speaker 3: do the thing all day and when it's great about 2409 01:46:11,920 --> 01:46:13,720 Speaker 3: bringing her along even when her older friends are there. 2410 01:46:14,000 --> 01:46:16,600 Speaker 3: Who's older than when Win's like, come on, Willow, she 2411 01:46:16,640 --> 01:46:18,200 Speaker 3: does a good job of being all the time. But 2412 01:46:18,280 --> 01:46:20,240 Speaker 3: she does a good job of it, so will It's 2413 01:46:20,280 --> 01:46:23,320 Speaker 3: like being intentional about like there's a hey, by the way, 2414 01:46:23,520 --> 01:46:25,400 Speaker 3: you're as much a part of this family as anybody, 2415 01:46:25,479 --> 01:46:27,559 Speaker 3: like you want to juice them up a little bit without. 2416 01:46:27,439 --> 01:46:28,799 Speaker 2: Like being too babying. 2417 01:46:29,120 --> 01:46:32,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, and so it'll be it'll be an interesting dynamic 2418 01:46:32,200 --> 01:46:34,000 Speaker 3: for sure, but you're very aware of like, oh, I 2419 01:46:34,080 --> 01:46:37,080 Speaker 3: understand why the the middle child, you know, stigma kind 2420 01:46:37,120 --> 01:46:40,360 Speaker 3: of comes up a little bit for sure. Yeah, fired, bro, 2421 01:46:40,760 --> 01:46:44,519 Speaker 3: I'm I dude, got your little little spring and comeback, coaches. 2422 01:46:44,800 --> 01:46:45,559 Speaker 2: I did say. 2423 01:46:46,960 --> 01:46:47,519 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. 2424 01:46:47,600 --> 01:46:50,120 Speaker 4: I said broke the curse earlier. I do just want 2425 01:46:50,160 --> 01:46:53,600 Speaker 4: to put out there that is not uh, that's not 2426 01:46:53,720 --> 01:46:56,240 Speaker 4: a bad thing. It's just an inside joke at the 2427 01:46:56,400 --> 01:46:58,960 Speaker 4: office that if you work at Bust and that you 2428 01:46:59,040 --> 01:47:01,320 Speaker 4: will only have a girl has become a joke. 2429 01:47:01,520 --> 01:47:02,280 Speaker 2: Is not a curse to you. 2430 01:47:02,360 --> 01:47:05,559 Speaker 3: I'm sure he'll understands that, Oh, it's not a girls. 2431 01:47:05,920 --> 01:47:07,440 Speaker 3: Having girls is the best because. 2432 01:47:07,160 --> 01:47:10,439 Speaker 4: I've been around Inside guide joke, inside busting guy. 2433 01:47:10,600 --> 01:47:11,680 Speaker 2: Takes a man to make a man. 2434 01:47:13,800 --> 01:47:16,360 Speaker 1: Come on, Willie, what you got the girls? 2435 01:47:17,920 --> 01:47:19,760 Speaker 3: The girls are like I've been around a bunch of boys, 2436 01:47:19,760 --> 01:47:23,160 Speaker 3: young boys, psychopaths, fit for a straight jacket. They they 2437 01:47:23,160 --> 01:47:24,720 Speaker 3: don't want to swim, but they jump at the deep end. 2438 01:47:25,600 --> 01:47:26,160 Speaker 1: What are we doing? 2439 01:47:27,240 --> 01:47:30,080 Speaker 3: And I do love like like Instagram parent stuff when 2440 01:47:30,120 --> 01:47:32,000 Speaker 3: like the has a slow mover like a kid, a 2441 01:47:32,040 --> 01:47:33,720 Speaker 3: guy pretending to be a kid, when kids, he's a 2442 01:47:33,760 --> 01:47:37,000 Speaker 3: corner and they're just like dive head that It's hilarious 2443 01:47:37,040 --> 01:47:37,160 Speaker 3: to me. 2444 01:47:37,240 --> 01:47:38,080 Speaker 2: I'm like, that's a boy. 2445 01:47:38,560 --> 01:47:39,680 Speaker 1: Has a boy right there. 2446 01:47:40,040 --> 01:47:44,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, get him a helmet, let him roll. Okay, topic 2447 01:47:44,439 --> 01:47:45,400 Speaker 2: quote less than a week. 2448 01:47:45,600 --> 01:47:47,879 Speaker 1: There's one I found speaking of dad stuff on Instagram. 2449 01:47:47,960 --> 01:47:52,560 Speaker 1: This one comes from a level of dad. This is 2450 01:47:52,600 --> 01:47:55,360 Speaker 1: a little This could be a tear jerker, okay, trying 2451 01:47:55,360 --> 01:47:58,720 Speaker 1: to keeping over under, trying not to cry here. 2452 01:47:59,520 --> 01:48:01,880 Speaker 2: I don't think so. I just I have no clue 2453 01:48:01,920 --> 01:48:04,120 Speaker 2: where my feelings start going when I'm reading something. 2454 01:48:04,200 --> 01:48:07,760 Speaker 1: Okay, one day, Uh, they won't run to the door 2455 01:48:07,800 --> 01:48:10,400 Speaker 1: when I walk in, and I won't know it was 2456 01:48:10,479 --> 01:48:13,519 Speaker 1: the last time. No little footsteps racing down the hallway, 2457 01:48:13,960 --> 01:48:17,160 Speaker 1: No shouts of Dad's home echoing to the house. Just quiet, 2458 01:48:17,960 --> 01:48:20,160 Speaker 1: the kind that reminds you how fast it all went. 2459 01:48:20,800 --> 01:48:23,400 Speaker 1: The toys will all be packed away, the message will 2460 01:48:23,400 --> 01:48:26,559 Speaker 1: be gone. The bedtime stories will turn into phone calls 2461 01:48:26,800 --> 01:48:29,639 Speaker 1: that come less and less, so while they still run 2462 01:48:29,680 --> 01:48:31,760 Speaker 1: to you, drop your bag, get on the floor, and 2463 01:48:31,880 --> 01:48:34,840 Speaker 1: soak it in because one day you'll miss the chaos 2464 01:48:34,920 --> 01:48:37,800 Speaker 1: more than you can imagine. Don't rush these days. They're 2465 01:48:37,800 --> 01:48:39,160 Speaker 1: the ones you wish you could run back to. 2466 01:48:40,640 --> 01:48:42,160 Speaker 2: It's a good thing that goes with the call in. 2467 01:48:42,640 --> 01:48:46,439 Speaker 1: I hate that one. I want to say, Yeah, all 2468 01:48:46,520 --> 01:48:49,200 Speaker 1: this stuff we're talking about with your kiddos being older, Yeah, 2469 01:48:49,640 --> 01:48:55,639 Speaker 1: so dude, yeah that is a nightmare thought. Yeah, dude, 2470 01:48:55,640 --> 01:48:57,000 Speaker 1: I watched The Parent Trap the other day with my 2471 01:48:57,080 --> 01:48:58,040 Speaker 1: kids and I cried during that. 2472 01:48:58,400 --> 01:49:01,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, bro, triithering anything. 2473 01:49:01,560 --> 01:49:03,960 Speaker 4: Now movies are hitting different for me, and I'm only 2474 01:49:04,120 --> 01:49:04,720 Speaker 4: six months in. 2475 01:49:05,600 --> 01:49:07,840 Speaker 2: When I just really get to do. 2476 01:49:07,960 --> 01:49:14,439 Speaker 1: It, who's there? I do it to you all the time. 2477 01:49:14,760 --> 01:49:14,960 Speaker 6: I know. 2478 01:49:15,560 --> 01:49:20,360 Speaker 2: It's never like uh, it's never like so like waiting 2479 01:49:20,439 --> 01:49:20,640 Speaker 2: till this. 2480 01:49:20,760 --> 01:49:22,920 Speaker 1: It's like awesome moments you're talking about it, never like 2481 01:49:23,000 --> 01:49:24,760 Speaker 1: the way this guy's talking. Oh yeah, wait, until you 2482 01:49:24,800 --> 01:49:26,160 Speaker 1: have to clean up this you don't know. 2483 01:49:26,800 --> 01:49:29,760 Speaker 3: And like, because my kids are so much older than 2484 01:49:29,800 --> 01:49:32,600 Speaker 3: your kids, I'm just like I feel like I'm like 2485 01:49:32,720 --> 01:49:35,080 Speaker 3: passing something down. I feel like a sense of like, hey, 2486 01:49:35,160 --> 01:49:36,759 Speaker 3: this is gonna be yeah, this is gonna be awesome. 2487 01:49:36,960 --> 01:49:39,840 Speaker 3: And you tell me stories about and I remember that face. 2488 01:49:40,040 --> 01:49:43,120 Speaker 1: Yeah. It's just really it's really cool because you think too, 2489 01:49:43,280 --> 01:49:45,160 Speaker 1: like as a parent, you know, for the most part, 2490 01:49:45,280 --> 01:49:48,599 Speaker 1: like between the ages of like what zero four, they 2491 01:49:48,680 --> 01:49:51,479 Speaker 1: probably won't remember a whole lot of ship. Yeah, So 2492 01:49:51,640 --> 01:49:54,000 Speaker 1: in my brain, I almost feel like it's like whether 2493 01:49:54,040 --> 01:49:57,320 Speaker 1: it's like a spiritual thing or universal thing that the 2494 01:49:57,479 --> 01:50:00,880 Speaker 1: first few years they're on the is like for us 2495 01:50:00,960 --> 01:50:03,160 Speaker 1: to enjoy as tough and as hard as it is, 2496 01:50:03,320 --> 01:50:05,800 Speaker 1: like as parents, they're like in there like in the 2497 01:50:05,840 --> 01:50:08,040 Speaker 1: world for you to soak in and enjoy more so 2498 01:50:08,240 --> 01:50:10,160 Speaker 1: than you know, you get to this spostor where you 2499 01:50:10,320 --> 01:50:12,520 Speaker 1: enjoy more when they are older and they can communicate 2500 01:50:12,560 --> 01:50:14,160 Speaker 1: with you better and you're having more fun with them, 2501 01:50:15,080 --> 01:50:17,519 Speaker 1: and just like not try my best to like not 2502 01:50:17,680 --> 01:50:19,760 Speaker 1: lose sight of that. Like when it is you know, 2503 01:50:20,160 --> 01:50:23,000 Speaker 1: you're getting stir crazy in the house and you're like, man, 2504 01:50:23,080 --> 01:50:24,920 Speaker 1: they just need you all the time. 2505 01:50:25,120 --> 01:50:27,120 Speaker 2: When they're a three year old and especially the. 2506 01:50:27,160 --> 01:50:29,400 Speaker 1: One year old, they just need you all the time, 2507 01:50:29,439 --> 01:50:31,240 Speaker 1: which can like weigh on you, especially when you start 2508 01:50:31,520 --> 01:50:33,040 Speaker 1: going back and forth with the wife a little bit, 2509 01:50:33,160 --> 01:50:35,519 Speaker 1: or you can just feel the chaos kind of taking 2510 01:50:35,560 --> 01:50:37,280 Speaker 1: all of us in one moment. 2511 01:50:37,760 --> 01:50:40,400 Speaker 4: That's the toughest battle for me, and y'all brought it 2512 01:50:40,520 --> 01:50:43,479 Speaker 4: up earlier with like the diaper stage. Is I really 2513 01:50:43,600 --> 01:50:46,559 Speaker 4: do find myself after a long day of work, I'm 2514 01:50:46,600 --> 01:50:49,760 Speaker 4: doing that final diaper change, that fine old bottle, and 2515 01:50:49,880 --> 01:50:53,920 Speaker 4: I am powering through it. I am going as fast 2516 01:50:53,960 --> 01:50:56,280 Speaker 4: as possible to get her down as fast as possible. 2517 01:50:56,680 --> 01:50:59,719 Speaker 4: And I truly do have to remind myself of like, dude, 2518 01:50:59,720 --> 01:51:01,640 Speaker 4: take your time and enjoyed that. Like she is so 2519 01:51:01,760 --> 01:51:03,840 Speaker 4: happy right now. She's not even crying. 2520 01:51:04,800 --> 01:51:06,040 Speaker 2: She's smiling in. 2521 01:51:06,040 --> 01:51:08,000 Speaker 3: The middle yourself, think, God, she's not crying. Like I 2522 01:51:08,120 --> 01:51:10,840 Speaker 3: get this baby to sleep, Yeah, I got it, man, 2523 01:51:10,960 --> 01:51:12,240 Speaker 3: there's made a good bedtime. 2524 01:51:12,280 --> 01:51:13,200 Speaker 2: Right in the middle of the night. 2525 01:51:13,240 --> 01:51:14,800 Speaker 1: And you're kind of like playing a weird little game 2526 01:51:14,880 --> 01:51:16,639 Speaker 1: with the wife, like can I just pretend to sleep 2527 01:51:16,720 --> 01:51:18,280 Speaker 1: right now? Like is she gonna get up quick? Is 2528 01:51:18,320 --> 01:51:21,400 Speaker 1: she gonna nudge me, am I gonna you know, oh buddy, Yeah, 2529 01:51:23,360 --> 01:51:26,479 Speaker 1: sometimes I personally believe no one can sleep like that. 2530 01:51:26,600 --> 01:51:28,559 Speaker 1: We have alarms go off. The girls like, hey, you. 2531 01:51:31,160 --> 01:51:35,400 Speaker 2: Make a little sleep talking too, just to really sell it. Yeah, 2532 01:51:36,720 --> 01:51:39,439 Speaker 2: hey boys, great, so great. 2533 01:51:39,920 --> 01:51:41,560 Speaker 3: I really appreciate you guys having me on I know 2534 01:51:42,320 --> 01:51:44,800 Speaker 3: lot of the buses right there. It's like I'm not 2535 01:51:44,880 --> 01:51:46,120 Speaker 3: around it, but appreciate. 2536 01:51:45,800 --> 01:51:47,000 Speaker 2: You guys having me in my buildings. 2537 01:51:47,160 --> 01:51:49,920 Speaker 3: Yeah, it is really cool to see you guys like 2538 01:51:50,600 --> 01:51:53,160 Speaker 3: build this. I see how fascet it's growing. Be a 2539 01:51:53,200 --> 01:51:55,120 Speaker 3: part of it in this this one episode. Would love 2540 01:51:55,160 --> 01:51:57,639 Speaker 3: to do it again with you. Yes, this is truly 2541 01:51:57,880 --> 01:52:00,160 Speaker 3: awesome and you're doing like you see the comment. It's 2542 01:52:00,160 --> 01:52:02,479 Speaker 3: like the community is growing and it's like a therapy session. 2543 01:52:02,800 --> 01:52:06,000 Speaker 3: It's been fun, bro, but this is they gotta do 2544 01:52:06,040 --> 01:52:07,760 Speaker 3: it more. It's like, I'm upset that I have to 2545 01:52:08,200 --> 01:52:10,240 Speaker 3: say because we could literally go for four hours. I 2546 01:52:10,360 --> 01:52:13,320 Speaker 3: was thinking the same and just asking him questions. Since 2547 01:52:13,360 --> 01:52:15,320 Speaker 3: he's got he's got the older ones. 2548 01:52:15,439 --> 01:52:15,760 Speaker 1: I want. 2549 01:52:15,840 --> 01:52:17,599 Speaker 2: I want to ask you guys like, yeah, this could 2550 01:52:17,600 --> 01:52:18,519 Speaker 2: be a three hour podcast. 2551 01:52:18,600 --> 01:52:21,519 Speaker 1: Let's do it against him too. You'll be you'll be 2552 01:52:21,560 --> 01:52:24,519 Speaker 1: almost getting reintroduced. You'll be having to go back in 2553 01:52:24,600 --> 01:52:26,760 Speaker 1: time and get reintroduced. Yeah, the things. 2554 01:52:26,920 --> 01:52:28,760 Speaker 2: Oh I kind of forgot about that. Oh dude. Yeah, 2555 01:52:29,479 --> 01:52:33,760 Speaker 2: baby boy, come in to the diaper, call me a 2556 01:52:33,800 --> 01:52:38,360 Speaker 2: bad person. I don't don't do that. Yeah, no, no, 2557 01:52:38,680 --> 01:52:42,240 Speaker 2: what's the emoji? What is the emoji? What should we do? 2558 01:52:42,520 --> 01:52:45,519 Speaker 4: Well, let's do let's do a h a blue heart 2559 01:52:45,920 --> 01:52:48,519 Speaker 4: for a little baby boy, blue hard. There we go, 2560 01:52:49,120 --> 01:52:51,479 Speaker 4: blue heart emoji. Listen to the end of the show. 2561 01:52:51,560 --> 01:52:53,920 Speaker 2: Blue heart emojis in the chat Dan, do you have 2562 01:52:53,960 --> 01:52:54,599 Speaker 2: a Dan Gable? 2563 01:52:54,800 --> 01:52:55,680 Speaker 1: I do? Uh? 2564 01:52:56,080 --> 01:52:56,479 Speaker 2: I shoot? 2565 01:52:56,560 --> 01:52:57,000 Speaker 1: I score? 2566 01:52:57,080 --> 01:53:01,479 Speaker 2: He shoots. I scored Dan Gable. Boom baby, Dan Gable, 2567 01:53:02,080 --> 01:53:07,080 Speaker 2: boom baby. Best man. Yeah, one of the goats. He 2568 01:53:07,160 --> 01:53:08,840 Speaker 2: can correct if they correct. 2569 01:53:09,160 --> 01:53:11,120 Speaker 1: Listen, I'm gonna beat you sick o boys. What can 2570 01:53:11,200 --> 01:53:11,720 Speaker 1: I say? Come on? 2571 01:53:12,360 --> 01:53:12,560 Speaker 6: Come on? 2572 01:53:12,680 --> 01:53:13,519 Speaker 2: How Tanny kisses