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Speaker 1: Hi, guys, Welcome to another episode of Diamonds in the Run.

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Speaker 2: Diamonds in the Rough, Episode three, Episode three.

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Speaker 1: I'm really feeling and I'm just taking off your energy

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Speaker 1: of being a diamond at this moment, because, hello, you're

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Speaker 1: going back to Broadway.

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Speaker 3: How does this happen? Explain to me the details?

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Speaker 2: Okay, Well, so I did over eighty shows exactly five

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Speaker 2: years ago. Okay, in twenty twenty, I am returning to

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Speaker 2: Broadway to you know, basically I have unfinished business, right,

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Speaker 2: so I'm returning to Broadway to complete those shows.

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Speaker 3: Because it's shut down for COVID.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, COVID shutdown, well really two weeks before my contract

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Speaker 2: was over. But this time I'm doing three limited weeks.

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Speaker 3: That is so fun. And what are the dates? When

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Speaker 3: is it?

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, January twenty three, February ninth.

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Speaker 1: So maybe I need to come so I can watch

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Speaker 1: again without having to deal with Suttens pain in the ass.

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Speaker 1: And you're also not pregnant and I'm not pregnant, and

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Speaker 1: then we can pod and do all the things.

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Speaker 2: We need to pod from New York City. You need

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Speaker 2: to come and we can have a nice time, and

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Speaker 2: also too, if you'll remember like I did not meet

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Speaker 2: your daughter Dove until like a few weeks ago, and

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Speaker 2: it was five years ago. Think about your life five

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Speaker 2: years ago, everything that's trans I mean that's happened to

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Speaker 2: you five years ago, everything that's happened to me five

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Speaker 2: years ago, and the planet. I'm not leaving anybody. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: but think about how life has changed so much since

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Speaker 2: exactly five years ago.

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Speaker 1: Going back and doing Chicago again, are there things that

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Speaker 1: you're going to change?

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Speaker 2: Like?

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Speaker 1: Are there things that still to this day you're like, gosh,

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Speaker 1: I wish you would have done that.

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Speaker 2: Yes.

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Speaker 3: Yes.

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Speaker 2: And I was on the phone this morning with Greg Butler,

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Speaker 2: who's the choreographer who gets all the Roxy's ready. And

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Speaker 2: there's a very cool article you can read about it

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Speaker 2: was just published like two days ago, about Greg getting

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Speaker 2: all of the Roxy's ready. I said to him, you know, Greg,

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Speaker 2: this run of shows, I really want to be present,

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Speaker 2: So I want to make sure that I calumb over

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Speaker 2: all the choreo. I'll go over all the musical stuff,

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Speaker 2: all the notes, all the vocals, so that I can

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Speaker 2: just be so present on stage and have a good

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Speaker 1: Does that mean that that's something I mean, this is

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Speaker 1: the topic that we're going to bring up today, which

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Speaker 1: is resilience. Yes, the actual definition is the capacity to

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Speaker 1: withstand or to recover quickly from difficulties, toughness. We as

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Speaker 1: your friends or we as the audience, however you want

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Speaker 1: to look at. It had no idea everything that you

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Speaker 1: were going through when you were roxy.

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Speaker 2: No, it was falling apart fast. And that's not it

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Speaker 2: was true like there was. I mean it was rough.

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Speaker 2: It was so rough, and you know, Tom never came

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Speaker 3: I remember Andy asked that, yes, and while.

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Speaker 2: What people don't realize now, and I don't want to

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Speaker 2: stay on this too long because we've got other people

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Speaker 2: by day in Los Angeles as I did eight shows

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Speaker 2: a week in New York City, and then COVID came

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Speaker 2: and then everybody's life burned down around them. So it

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Speaker 2: was just it was nuts. I was holding all of

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Speaker 1: I even remember thinking, like, when I came to see

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Speaker 1: you in your dressing room, how strong certain like actors,

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Speaker 1: especially stage actors, have to be because you're in a small,

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Speaker 1: especially if you're going through something I can't imagine, like.

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Speaker 2: That's well, the show kept me busy and kept me

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Speaker 2: just keeps you super focused. But without that, I mean,

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Speaker 2: I really don't know what would have happened. It was rough,

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Speaker 2: and I'm glad it's over.

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Speaker 1: Is there anyone that didn't come to the show that

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Speaker 2: Yeah? There's, yeah, there is. There's a couple people that

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Speaker 3: I'm really excited. And congratulations.

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Speaker 2: Thank you so much. Thank you, Thank you to everybody

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Speaker 2: who wished me well, all of the nice little moments

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Speaker 2: on social media, Thank you so much. It really means

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Speaker 2: and especially when some people around you said it'd never

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so there you go.

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Speaker 1: And I think I watched the documentary on Pamela Anderson.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, who also was rock She was roxy too,

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Speaker 2: and now she's up for a Golden Glove. And I mean,

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Speaker 2: have you seen the last show Girl? I have not,

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Speaker 2: but I understand it's really good.

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Speaker 3: I have loved I loved her book. I loved her story.

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Speaker 1: I loved her for years, for years, But I think

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Speaker 1: she's also a true testament of somebody with resilience.

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Speaker 2: Yes, she is, like she has you know, so are

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Speaker 2: you well? I mean I think if you're in this

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Speaker 1: But I think we everybody loves to judge, and so

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Speaker 1: watching Pamela Anderson back in her you know, bay Watch

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Speaker 1: just now how she's just like a beacon of like, listen,

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Speaker 1: I don't even want to wear a makeup good for her, but.

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Speaker 2: She's earned the right not to. That's what's so cool

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Speaker 2: about it. I mean, pam is and I don't know her,

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Speaker 2: Greg loves her. Everybody do you know her?

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Speaker 1: I don't know her well, I've only like hung around her,

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Speaker 1: not enough to people really like her.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, So it's nice to see her have her her

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Speaker 3: Yeah, on her own terms, and also be able to share.

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Speaker 1: I think that sometimes people think, like oh, to be resilient,

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Speaker 1: have moments that you regret or things that you're ashamed of. No,

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Speaker 1: that's the whole fucking point.

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Speaker 2: The whole point is to be knocked down, shake it off,

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Speaker 2: This is called life. And everybody fucks up. That's just

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Speaker 2: the truth. You know, everybody fucks up.

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Speaker 1: Everybody fucks up, and then everybody is going to have

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Speaker 1: some amazing some of their best times ever.

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Speaker 2: Then, know what, You're gonna fuck up again, and you're

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Speaker 2: You're gonna pick yourself back up again. And that's life.

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Speaker 2: It's the fact. What makes you resilient is that you

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Speaker 2: very proud of you. I'm very proud of you. And

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Speaker 2: you got some ways to go, but you're gonna have

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Speaker 2: some really good wins.

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Speaker 3: The holidays are gonna make it.

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Speaker 1: We'll get into holiday stuff later, but that's definitely going

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Speaker 1: to add another level.

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Speaker 2: Of Yeah, it's sadness and it's stressed.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but somebody else in the public eye who I

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Speaker 1: think has shown a lot of resilience, as Kelly clarkson.

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Speaker 2: Oh gosh, do you know I saw this woman say

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Speaker 2: she sounds better live than on the fucking record. That

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Speaker 2: it is a gift from God above.

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Speaker 3: And so is her personality. She's a sweet person, she's.

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Speaker 1: Funny, she can be self deprecating. I think she has

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Speaker 1: But she says she has no regrets moving to New

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Speaker 2: Good for her.

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Speaker 3: It was the best decision for her.

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Speaker 1: She put her happiness first when she moved to New

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Speaker 1: her kids used to go to my kids right, people

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Speaker 1: will go now they didn't you move New York whatever?

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Speaker 2: You know what alone, you know what we meant.

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Speaker 1: After years in Los Angeles, Kelly packed up her life

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Speaker 1: New York City was a fresh start for her that

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Speaker 1: she has never regretted. The Insider says she had not

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Speaker 1: been happy in Los Angeles for a while, but was

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Speaker 1: though they thrive as a fan.

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Speaker 2: Isn't that wonderful because you know that it's like imagine

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Speaker 2: I mean, even though Kelly.

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Speaker 3: A really damn good at your job, for them to go, okay, yeah.

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Speaker 2: Sure, roots up and then just go play, you know,

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Speaker 3: And I haven't, to be perfectly honest, I haven't loved

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Speaker 2: I don't even know who he is.

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Speaker 3: Well, I know that he makes a lot of money

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Speaker 2: Mister Kelly Clarkson.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. Ow, And to me, I'm like.

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Speaker 2: Kelly, you know, I'm happy or happy. Yeah you get that, dude.

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Speaker 1: Well it got renewed for season seven by NBC Universal,

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Speaker 1: so it comes very clear that she is thriving.

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Speaker 2: See, there's life after all of these things. Yeah, got

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Speaker 3: Her show averages is a one point two million viewers

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Speaker 3: per day and increase from the fall twenty twenty three

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Speaker 3: and consistently ranks as one of the top syndicated talk shows,

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Speaker 3: which for people that aren't like talk shows used to

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Speaker 2: Well, now there's so much content or media however you

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Speaker 2: get that rating is still big.

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Speaker 1: That's huge because think about how many talk shows no

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Speaker 1: longer exist.

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Speaker 2: Well there aren't Anny, and how big they used to had, Oprah,

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Speaker 2: Phil Donah, Sally, I Love Me Some, Mauri Montel, Williams, Montell, Jenny, Jenny,

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Speaker 2: Raphael but the Glasses, Joan Rivers, everybody had a talk show.

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Speaker 3: This is something I am a little curious about.

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Speaker 2: Oh, the kids wanting to date, the kids not wanting

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Speaker 2: her to date.

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Speaker 1: She says she's very satisfied with life, loves being a mom,

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Speaker 1: and she's fine, Uh with not dating because their kids

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Speaker 1: don't want her to. I want to ask one question,

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Speaker 1: go ahead, is she getting it in?

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Speaker 2: We'll see that. Only she can answer that, right, Do

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Speaker 2: you think that there's a difference, Like, yeah, there's a

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Speaker 2: very big difference.

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Speaker 3: Oh. I think there's a difference too.

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Speaker 1: But like the question though, is does she mean dating

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Speaker 2: Oh no, my mother never did that. My mother never

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Speaker 3: She's still here, and she's better than ever.

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Speaker 3: I have them for New Year's ey Oh my gosh.

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Speaker 3: I need I need him to drink.

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Speaker 3: It's so good. It's just because I love a micromanager.

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Speaker 2: Well you are a micro manager, So I love it.

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Speaker 2: Right, or this this camera, there's a camera.

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Speaker 3: This will be everywhere tomorrow.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: No, we want good stuff, and part of that is

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Speaker 3: I mean, I'm not. I'm not that cool. We do

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Speaker 2: Oh so you're in bed by twelve, we're in bed

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Speaker 2: by nine.

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Speaker 2: Wow, Well you need to do no thing. I'm watching

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Speaker 3: What will you be by yourself or will you be

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Speaker 3: Yeah, ordering what food?

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Speaker 2: As shit? I don't know yet. I don't know something bad.

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Speaker 1: But I think I think the thing that's hard about

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Speaker 2: And you know what I'm saying, that's to.

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Speaker 2: You're a terrible human. How could you be this way?

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Speaker 2: It's like, guys, I'm trying to protect myself and pick

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Speaker 1: You have you can't, and I'm just trying to care

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Speaker 1: about like the kids and what matters, like showing up

442
00:20:09,400 --> 00:20:12,160
Speaker 1: to work, my kids, you know.

443
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Speaker 3: Keeping it. But there are gonna like I you can't lie.

444
00:20:14,600 --> 00:20:16,359
Speaker 1: There are moments where I'm like, God, I kind of

445
00:20:16,359 --> 00:20:18,640
Speaker 1: wish I was traveling somewhere for Christmas kids.

446
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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I don't have nothing wrong with that. Like

447
00:20:20,880 --> 00:20:23,320
Speaker 3: there's just those like, well, listen, I miss.

448
00:20:23,240 --> 00:20:25,679
Speaker 2: My beautiful home with all the trees and all the

449
00:20:25,760 --> 00:20:28,760
Speaker 2: love that was in that We had fun Inbasadena. I mean,

450
00:20:28,800 --> 00:20:31,159
Speaker 2: it was a great time. I miss all of that.

451
00:20:31,240 --> 00:20:34,000
Speaker 2: But things are different now and I have to make Look,

452
00:20:34,040 --> 00:20:36,280
Speaker 2: my dog's no longer with me, and you know, so

453
00:20:36,640 --> 00:20:38,040
Speaker 2: like it's just me and the tree.

454
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Speaker 3: Yes, so it's Yeave decorated a tree. I think Tam

455
00:20:42,640 --> 00:20:44,600
Speaker 3: said she still hasn't decorated a tree. I'm like, get

456
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Speaker 3: your shit together.

457
00:20:45,440 --> 00:20:48,320
Speaker 2: Tam is late. You are late to the celebration.

458
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Speaker 3: I'm like, I get that you had COVID, but or

459
00:20:50,640 --> 00:20:51,040
Speaker 3: she did.

460
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Speaker 2: Oh god, that's around again.

461
00:20:53,840 --> 00:20:55,200
Speaker 3: I know still exists.

462
00:20:55,240 --> 00:20:59,600
Speaker 2: My god, my dreams five years later, but now the

463
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Speaker 2: bird lose around.

464
00:21:01,720 --> 00:21:04,600
Speaker 3: What are the signs now? I haven't don't say that.

465
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Speaker 2: Remember when I when I was psychotic, Yes.

466
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Speaker 3: You guys thought I had mold poisoning.

467
00:21:10,119 --> 00:21:13,560
Speaker 2: No you thought. No, you guys you were also pregnant

468
00:21:13,600 --> 00:21:14,840
Speaker 2: and not telling us, and we didn't know what was

469
00:21:14,880 --> 00:21:16,720
Speaker 2: wrong with you. So be clear.

470
00:21:17,200 --> 00:21:20,159
Speaker 3: I didn't know I was preggening at first. Oh well,

471
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Speaker 3: I mean it took sixteen weeks before me. Whoa, Yes,

472
00:21:23,800 --> 00:21:26,320
Speaker 3: I didn't know which I was sixteen weeks pregnant. Holy shit,

473
00:21:27,000 --> 00:21:29,200
Speaker 3: Wow geez and the other ones are IBF.

474
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Speaker 2: So you know what resilience dove dove, and then serve

475
00:21:33,960 --> 00:21:36,320
Speaker 2: finger and then the murder at your house and then

476
00:21:36,320 --> 00:21:38,840
Speaker 2: the oh my god, you know what. That's why I

477
00:21:38,880 --> 00:21:40,520
Speaker 2: said at the top of this show, the last five

478
00:21:40,560 --> 00:21:43,040
Speaker 2: years for you and I've just been fucking insane. Here's

479
00:21:43,240 --> 00:21:46,800
Speaker 2: you know what, cheers to us for a peaceful calm

480
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Speaker 2: twenty twenty five.

481
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Speaker 3: How long do you think we'll make it forever that's

482
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Speaker 3: as peaceful? Yeah, I don't believe you.

483
00:21:55,320 --> 00:21:57,240
Speaker 2: You have to start changing your mind. I'm telling you

484
00:21:57,640 --> 00:22:01,760
Speaker 2: all this neuroscience stuff the way you think you We're

485
00:22:01,760 --> 00:22:03,199
Speaker 2: gonna have to have a real sit down and I'm

486
00:22:03,200 --> 00:22:05,520
Speaker 2: gonna have to convince you that your words and your

487
00:22:05,560 --> 00:22:07,520
Speaker 2: thoughts are gonna be your future. So you cannot say

488
00:22:07,520 --> 00:22:10,160
Speaker 2: that even in joking, Okay.

489
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Speaker 1: Just because what would you say was your biggest aha moment.

490
00:22:15,800 --> 00:22:16,520
Speaker 3: To create that?

491
00:22:16,720 --> 00:22:19,480
Speaker 1: Like, because there was, in lack of a better word,

492
00:22:19,960 --> 00:22:22,000
Speaker 1: when you were kind of getting it on the show.

493
00:22:22,200 --> 00:22:26,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, you were angry. I've been angry for years. You

494
00:22:26,359 --> 00:22:29,600
Speaker 2: know what my friend Mikey said to me. He said,

495
00:22:29,680 --> 00:22:32,399
Speaker 2: you know, Andy said, you know, Eric is much lighter

496
00:22:32,440 --> 00:22:35,120
Speaker 2: because well, yeah, Erica, you've been fighting for the last

497
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Speaker 2: four years, and even before that, you were fighting to

498
00:22:37,000 --> 00:22:39,000
Speaker 2: hold up the walls of a marriage that was crumbling.

499
00:22:39,160 --> 00:22:42,680
Speaker 2: So they've never really known you as who you really are.

500
00:22:42,840 --> 00:22:45,640
Speaker 2: It's always been in a state of decline and then destruction.

501
00:22:46,720 --> 00:22:48,639
Speaker 2: So I'm sorry, what was your question?

502
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Speaker 1: You're like, shit, hold on, no, but what was that

503
00:22:51,720 --> 00:22:54,560
Speaker 1: moment that you were like, Okay, I'm I'm I'm gonna

504
00:22:54,560 --> 00:22:57,000
Speaker 1: switch off that anger button. I mean, of course it's

505
00:22:57,040 --> 00:22:59,479
Speaker 1: always gonna come up, but like I did see like

506
00:22:59,560 --> 00:23:02,680
Speaker 1: a shift in you as your friend that I was like, okay.

507
00:23:02,960 --> 00:23:05,000
Speaker 2: Well I just stuck it out in therapy. I don't

508
00:23:05,040 --> 00:23:07,280
Speaker 2: know that it was. It was it was a choice

509
00:23:07,400 --> 00:23:11,960
Speaker 2: every day to make incremental steps towards being less angry

510
00:23:12,040 --> 00:23:16,120
Speaker 2: or less reactive. I guess, yeah, and not to respond,

511
00:23:16,280 --> 00:23:19,840
Speaker 2: but to think about how I should respond and not

512
00:23:19,920 --> 00:23:23,280
Speaker 2: allow my emotions or what my therapist calls part X

513
00:23:25,080 --> 00:23:27,600
Speaker 2: run the game, you know, to step back and say,

514
00:23:27,600 --> 00:23:31,880
Speaker 2: hold on, what I'm feeling right now? Is me being

515
00:23:31,920 --> 00:23:34,600
Speaker 2: reactive to a situation? Like is does this really call

516
00:23:34,720 --> 00:23:37,560
Speaker 2: for that? And nine times out of ten the answer

517
00:23:37,600 --> 00:23:38,359
Speaker 2: is no, it doesn't.

518
00:23:38,920 --> 00:23:41,679
Speaker 1: You did say something last week on the pod. You said, well,

519
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Speaker 1: I or maybe it was on the show. I don't

520
00:23:43,200 --> 00:23:45,520
Speaker 1: even know, but you're like, well, yeah, I've been diagnosed

521
00:23:45,520 --> 00:23:48,080
Speaker 1: with things. I'm happy to share what I've been dying

522
00:23:48,240 --> 00:23:52,880
Speaker 1: anxiety depression, anxiety depression, so I'm anxiety and OCD Are

523
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Speaker 1: you really OC?

524
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Speaker 3: Yeah?

525
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Speaker 2: I don't have that at all, otherwise my house would

526
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Speaker 2: be much.

527
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Speaker 1: No, but mine, sadly, mine is an about things being clean.

528
00:24:01,480 --> 00:24:02,800
Speaker 1: It's about like lists.

529
00:24:03,800 --> 00:24:05,800
Speaker 2: Oh well I can give you something. Let me give

530
00:24:05,840 --> 00:24:07,560
Speaker 2: you some things to list out for me.

531
00:24:07,720 --> 00:24:10,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, lists on lists on lists and lists.

532
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Speaker 2: Do you use post it or do you use I have?

533
00:24:13,760 --> 00:24:15,640
Speaker 3: I have a note pad and then I also.

534
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Speaker 2: Have Can we count between that and being organized? I

535
00:24:18,720 --> 00:24:20,679
Speaker 2: mean that just sounds like something I would want to be.

536
00:24:21,359 --> 00:24:23,239
Speaker 3: You want to be until it like keeps you up

537
00:24:23,240 --> 00:24:23,640
Speaker 3: at night?

538
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Speaker 2: Well, how many lists do you? Is it something that

539
00:24:26,080 --> 00:24:30,120
Speaker 2: you keep making these your list over and over the.

540
00:24:30,160 --> 00:24:32,720
Speaker 3: Same list like one little thing?

541
00:24:32,840 --> 00:24:35,240
Speaker 2: What are you looking for when you make it over?

542
00:24:35,480 --> 00:24:35,600
Speaker 3: Like?

543
00:24:35,680 --> 00:24:37,400
Speaker 2: Is it a SLFE change?

544
00:24:38,000 --> 00:24:41,320
Speaker 1: Like something something small will change where somebody could maybe

545
00:24:41,359 --> 00:24:44,480
Speaker 1: like just and I'm like no, wow, well gotta go

546
00:24:44,480 --> 00:24:47,240
Speaker 1: by this way as long as I can remember.

547
00:24:47,720 --> 00:24:50,560
Speaker 2: Oh okay, so from the time you really so.

548
00:24:51,600 --> 00:24:55,040
Speaker 1: When do you think that your anxiety and depression started

549
00:24:55,080 --> 00:24:56,959
Speaker 1: with when you.

550
00:24:56,480 --> 00:24:58,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think it started when I was little. But

551
00:24:58,520 --> 00:25:00,640
Speaker 2: I have my first anxiety attack at thirty years old,

552
00:25:00,680 --> 00:25:02,639
Speaker 2: and I remember what it was because I had to

553
00:25:02,640 --> 00:25:04,840
Speaker 2: go to the hospital. This was long before I was

554
00:25:04,840 --> 00:25:07,439
Speaker 2: on TV or anything. I had taken a medication. I

555
00:25:07,440 --> 00:25:11,199
Speaker 2: had had food poisoning, like really bad food poisoning, and

556
00:25:11,240 --> 00:25:14,040
Speaker 2: I took this medication to make you stop vomiting. So

557
00:25:14,240 --> 00:25:18,400
Speaker 2: fan yeah, and just for me, I had a massive

558
00:25:18,440 --> 00:25:20,560
Speaker 2: anxiety attack and I didn't know what it was. I

559
00:25:20,560 --> 00:25:22,960
Speaker 2: thought I was dying, and it was everything that you think.

560
00:25:22,960 --> 00:25:27,000
Speaker 2: It is, elevated heart rate, you're shallow breathing. And I

561
00:25:27,040 --> 00:25:29,480
Speaker 2: remember being in the emergency room in this very nice

562
00:25:29,560 --> 00:25:31,960
Speaker 2: older doctor looked at me and he goes, you're having

563
00:25:32,000 --> 00:25:35,720
Speaker 2: an anxiety attack. And I literally said to him, I'm sorry,

564
00:25:35,760 --> 00:25:37,800
Speaker 2: what is that excuse? I don't I don't know what

565
00:25:37,920 --> 00:25:41,080
Speaker 2: that is, and he's like okay. And so from there,

566
00:25:41,800 --> 00:25:44,880
Speaker 2: of course, I shoved it under the rug because Tom

567
00:25:44,880 --> 00:25:47,720
Speaker 2: told me, you know what, do you have to be anxiety?

568
00:25:47,840 --> 00:25:49,440
Speaker 2: You know you aren't too happy, look at those place

569
00:25:49,480 --> 00:25:51,359
Speaker 2: like look at your life. You don't reason you have

570
00:25:51,359 --> 00:25:54,359
Speaker 2: no anxiety. It's wrong with you. So I as if

571
00:25:54,400 --> 00:25:58,320
Speaker 2: anxiety is a choice, well exactly, which I didn't know.

572
00:25:58,359 --> 00:26:00,119
Speaker 2: And I was too young to understand an abba k

573
00:26:00,240 --> 00:26:02,640
Speaker 2: for myself and to an experienced end of it, you know,

574
00:26:03,520 --> 00:26:05,280
Speaker 2: So I shoved it under the rug and under the

575
00:26:05,359 --> 00:26:07,720
Speaker 2: rug and under the rug. And then, if you'll recall

576
00:26:07,800 --> 00:26:11,760
Speaker 2: I've shared this before before my marriage blew up like

577
00:26:11,800 --> 00:26:13,959
Speaker 2: in the worst way, you know, I used to uh

578
00:26:14,080 --> 00:26:18,920
Speaker 2: secretly go to therapy because yeah, because I wasn't allowed

579
00:26:18,960 --> 00:26:24,120
Speaker 2: to go to therapy because he, well, something's wrong with you, right,

580
00:26:24,160 --> 00:26:24,880
Speaker 2: something's wrong.

581
00:26:24,680 --> 00:26:26,960
Speaker 3: With me or something sharing something about him.

582
00:26:26,920 --> 00:26:28,840
Speaker 2: Or something was wrong with our marriage, or something was

583
00:26:28,880 --> 00:26:31,080
Speaker 2: wrong with he didn't do enough, so it was insulting

584
00:26:31,119 --> 00:26:33,879
Speaker 2: to him that I would have to go get help.

585
00:26:34,359 --> 00:26:36,080
Speaker 2: But when it had nothing to do with him, he

586
00:26:36,119 --> 00:26:38,439
Speaker 2: took it personally as if havn't I provided enough for you?

587
00:26:38,840 --> 00:26:41,080
Speaker 2: Are you not happy with this life? But the whole

588
00:26:41,119 --> 00:26:42,879
Speaker 2: time it had nothing to do with him and everything

589
00:26:42,960 --> 00:26:45,240
Speaker 2: to do with me. It was unresolved childhood shit and

590
00:26:45,359 --> 00:26:48,000
Speaker 2: a whole bunch of other stuff. So that's my story,

591
00:26:48,240 --> 00:26:50,560
Speaker 2: and that's why doctor Jen has been so important to me.

592
00:26:50,640 --> 00:26:52,320
Speaker 2: And when I was fifty, so I'm fifty three now.

593
00:26:52,480 --> 00:26:54,240
Speaker 2: I remember when I turned fifty, I said, I'm here

594
00:26:54,240 --> 00:26:56,840
Speaker 2: to drop off fifty years of bullshit and I'm going

595
00:26:57,080 --> 00:26:58,480
Speaker 2: full in on this therapy thing.

596
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Speaker 1: Well, I've learned a lot in therapy too, Like there's

597
00:27:01,560 --> 00:27:08,000
Speaker 1: been moments that I take personally. Yeah, like like my

598
00:27:08,080 --> 00:27:09,720
Speaker 1: relationship with money, for example.

599
00:27:09,920 --> 00:27:12,520
Speaker 2: Oh, that's a big one we talk about in therapy, like.

600
00:27:12,920 --> 00:27:15,919
Speaker 3: I will unfreaking hinge me.

601
00:27:16,560 --> 00:27:18,400
Speaker 2: But it does everybody? I asked my therapist. I asked

602
00:27:18,400 --> 00:27:21,200
Speaker 2: doctor gin, I said, does everybody have this? She goes,

603
00:27:21,280 --> 00:27:23,760
Speaker 2: everybody has their own unique relationship to money.

604
00:27:23,960 --> 00:27:25,280
Speaker 1: And I think, you know, I think it was because

605
00:27:25,320 --> 00:27:27,200
Speaker 1: my mom had a lot of money and then you know,

606
00:27:27,240 --> 00:27:29,720
Speaker 1: I lost it all and I saw that happen.

607
00:27:29,760 --> 00:27:31,480
Speaker 3: So I am such a certain way about that.

608
00:27:31,560 --> 00:27:34,879
Speaker 1: So that and then if anybody talks about like my

609
00:27:35,000 --> 00:27:37,639
Speaker 1: relationship with my mom.

610
00:27:37,000 --> 00:27:40,119
Speaker 2: Is that a self side, I can't take it.

611
00:27:40,200 --> 00:27:41,240
Speaker 3: I cannot take it.

612
00:27:41,480 --> 00:27:44,359
Speaker 1: That's okay, And it's it really it's coming up in

613
00:27:44,400 --> 00:27:47,120
Speaker 1: therapy because you know when you talk about things back

614
00:27:47,160 --> 00:27:50,520
Speaker 1: and forth, and I feel myself even getting defensive with

615
00:27:50,600 --> 00:27:51,600
Speaker 1: the therapist.

616
00:27:51,840 --> 00:27:54,960
Speaker 2: That's normal, by the way, Like that's very normal.

617
00:27:54,760 --> 00:27:57,200
Speaker 3: Like she's she must not be hearing what I'm saying.

618
00:27:57,480 --> 00:27:59,920
Speaker 2: That's very normal, by the way. And it's you trying

619
00:27:59,920 --> 00:28:03,880
Speaker 2: to rationalize and yeah, but you know what, the more

620
00:28:03,920 --> 00:28:07,600
Speaker 2: you the fact that you recognize that you're doing that

621
00:28:07,760 --> 00:28:10,879
Speaker 2: will help you overcome it. It's a long road because

622
00:28:10,880 --> 00:28:12,640
Speaker 2: it took a long way to get here. Yeah, it's

623
00:28:12,680 --> 00:28:14,159
Speaker 2: gonna take a long way to get back. But just

624
00:28:14,200 --> 00:28:16,960
Speaker 2: stay in it. You'll you'll appreciate it later. Listen, I

625
00:28:17,080 --> 00:28:20,439
Speaker 2: rage on my mom on the television show I Am

626
00:28:20,480 --> 00:28:23,840
Speaker 2: so mean to my mom. And does she deserve it? No?

627
00:28:24,240 --> 00:28:25,159
Speaker 2: But does she deserve it?

628
00:28:25,200 --> 00:28:25,440
Speaker 3: Most?

629
00:28:25,480 --> 00:28:28,160
Speaker 2: Sometimes I think, yeah, she' all don't see the way

630
00:28:28,160 --> 00:28:32,639
Speaker 2: she treats me. But that ain't write either. Yeah, you know,

631
00:28:32,800 --> 00:28:33,640
Speaker 2: but that ain't write either.

632
00:28:33,920 --> 00:28:37,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's you know, none of it's always right. We

633
00:28:37,280 --> 00:28:42,040
Speaker 1: can't always have it. Okay, when you think Bravo celebrities

634
00:28:42,240 --> 00:28:48,520
Speaker 1: who show resilience, clearly we can't say ourselves or Temera

635
00:28:49,200 --> 00:28:54,040
Speaker 1: or Kyle or one of the like obvious choices choices

636
00:28:54,080 --> 00:28:54,680
Speaker 1: of our friends.

637
00:28:54,760 --> 00:28:56,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, no, one outside of the box.

638
00:28:56,200 --> 00:28:59,880
Speaker 2: That's outside of our box. Here, who you got?

639
00:29:00,800 --> 00:29:01,600
Speaker 1: Uh? One?

640
00:29:01,640 --> 00:29:02,040
Speaker 3: I got?

641
00:29:02,320 --> 00:29:04,040
Speaker 2: This is probably not going to be a popular It

642
00:29:04,080 --> 00:29:06,560
Speaker 2: doesn't matter if it's popular. You just have to admire

643
00:29:06,640 --> 00:29:10,080
Speaker 2: the resilience. I would say, la la kent Yep, it's

644
00:29:10,080 --> 00:29:10,480
Speaker 2: just tough.

645
00:29:10,880 --> 00:29:11,360
Speaker 3: I think.

646
00:29:12,200 --> 00:29:15,080
Speaker 1: Yes, there are times which I hate using this word

647
00:29:15,120 --> 00:29:17,360
Speaker 1: because you guys love to use it against me. There's

648
00:29:17,440 --> 00:29:23,719
Speaker 1: times where her accountability is askew. But what I think that,

649
00:29:25,120 --> 00:29:26,520
Speaker 1: you know, at the end of the day, she stands

650
00:29:26,600 --> 00:29:27,160
Speaker 1: up for her ship.

651
00:29:27,520 --> 00:29:28,320
Speaker 2: Yeah.

652
00:29:28,360 --> 00:29:30,920
Speaker 1: And it may maybe maybe not in the moment, which

653
00:29:30,960 --> 00:29:33,080
Speaker 1: I don't think we all have the capability of doing.

654
00:29:33,320 --> 00:29:37,040
Speaker 1: But I think she always comes back around yeah and

655
00:29:37,080 --> 00:29:37,360
Speaker 1: does it.

656
00:29:37,400 --> 00:29:38,840
Speaker 3: And I think she's been through a lot.

657
00:29:39,040 --> 00:29:42,320
Speaker 2: She's been through a lot, she's and she's grown a lot,

658
00:29:42,320 --> 00:29:44,560
Speaker 2: and she has a lot. She she's on the right track.

659
00:29:44,640 --> 00:29:46,080
Speaker 2: Like she gets a hard.

660
00:29:47,480 --> 00:29:49,360
Speaker 3: She gets a hard. Yeah.

661
00:29:49,680 --> 00:29:51,320
Speaker 2: Those girls in Jersey are tough. Man.

662
00:29:52,280 --> 00:29:54,000
Speaker 3: I would say Dolores Catania.

663
00:29:54,360 --> 00:29:58,840
Speaker 2: She's sweet like, but she's fun. She's f those women

664
00:29:59,000 --> 00:30:02,840
Speaker 2: because they all have different things going on. I don't

665
00:30:02,840 --> 00:30:05,720
Speaker 2: know the New York girls, so I know the older

666
00:30:05,760 --> 00:30:06,520
Speaker 2: New York girls.

667
00:30:06,880 --> 00:30:09,160
Speaker 1: Oh, can I ask you a question? Yeah? I mean,

668
00:30:09,200 --> 00:30:11,520
Speaker 1: I guess this has nothing to do with resilience. But

669
00:30:11,560 --> 00:30:15,440
Speaker 1: would you be mad? Okay, So we're sitting together. Let's

670
00:30:15,440 --> 00:30:20,200
Speaker 1: pretend we're both married, Okay, and we're talking about one

671
00:30:20,240 --> 00:30:21,400
Speaker 1: of our husband's penises.

672
00:30:21,960 --> 00:30:22,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't.

673
00:30:22,840 --> 00:30:26,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, and you made a joke like about my potential

674
00:30:26,920 --> 00:30:29,040
Speaker 1: husband's penis and I showed you a picture of it.

675
00:30:29,160 --> 00:30:31,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, too far, too far, too far.

676
00:30:32,280 --> 00:30:34,760
Speaker 2: I don't need to know. I also don't want to

677
00:30:34,760 --> 00:30:38,040
Speaker 2: know about your husband's penis size. Now, if you're dating somebody,

678
00:30:38,320 --> 00:30:40,320
Speaker 2: I'll be like, oh girl, what's what's going on? Yeah,

679
00:30:40,320 --> 00:30:42,400
Speaker 2: but your husband, Like, that's not a place for me.

680
00:30:42,640 --> 00:30:44,360
Speaker 3: That's actually a good point that I didn't think of.

681
00:30:44,520 --> 00:30:45,160
Speaker 2: That's not a place.

682
00:30:45,240 --> 00:30:49,400
Speaker 1: Funny thing if you're in the early stages and we're

683
00:30:49,480 --> 00:30:52,000
Speaker 1: girl talking, but like, once you're married, you have kids,

684
00:30:52,000 --> 00:30:52,720
Speaker 1: and you have all that.

685
00:30:52,800 --> 00:30:54,680
Speaker 2: It's just I don't need to know. It's none of

686
00:30:54,680 --> 00:30:57,320
Speaker 2: my business. But that's me, you know. I don't need

687
00:30:57,320 --> 00:31:00,600
Speaker 2: to know about what you're doing in the bedroom. I

688
00:31:00,600 --> 00:31:03,000
Speaker 2: don't need to know about that stuff. Now, if you

689
00:31:03,000 --> 00:31:05,920
Speaker 2: want to show me like oh gosh, Erica, you know,

690
00:31:06,040 --> 00:31:07,680
Speaker 2: or if I came to how about this better? I

691
00:31:07,680 --> 00:31:11,360
Speaker 2: came to you and I said look at this, and

692
00:31:11,400 --> 00:31:13,160
Speaker 2: you were like, oh wow, and I said, yeah, you know,

693
00:31:13,200 --> 00:31:15,560
Speaker 2: because when you're single and you're out there, it's completely

694
00:31:15,640 --> 00:31:16,880
Speaker 2: different than if you're married.

695
00:31:16,920 --> 00:31:19,720
Speaker 3: That's not that would you send a nude to who?

696
00:31:19,920 --> 00:31:26,600
Speaker 2: You know, if you were like texting with a guy, yeah,

697
00:31:26,720 --> 00:31:30,640
Speaker 2: with your face in or out? Probably out Yeah, I

698
00:31:30,640 --> 00:31:33,200
Speaker 2: don't think it. I don't need that out there.

699
00:31:34,080 --> 00:31:35,720
Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, I don't think so.

700
00:31:35,840 --> 00:31:36,040
Speaker 2: Yeah.

701
00:31:36,120 --> 00:31:38,520
Speaker 3: No, well so you haven't really given us.

702
00:31:38,800 --> 00:31:40,040
Speaker 2: Don't crack my phone.

703
00:31:40,360 --> 00:31:42,480
Speaker 3: Don't let me guess your code.

704
00:31:43,840 --> 00:31:46,320
Speaker 2: No, I can't so encrypted. You never will. Even the

705
00:31:46,320 --> 00:31:47,080
Speaker 2: government doesn't know.

706
00:31:47,240 --> 00:31:52,000
Speaker 1: Even even the government, Uh, you know, I need the

707
00:31:52,040 --> 00:31:54,120
Speaker 1: government government on my side?

708
00:31:55,080 --> 00:31:56,520
Speaker 3: What there on? No one's side.

709
00:31:56,520 --> 00:32:00,160
Speaker 2: By the way, what's up with those fucking drones in Jersey?

710
00:32:00,360 --> 00:32:00,800
Speaker 3: What's up?

711
00:32:01,040 --> 00:32:03,200
Speaker 1: Not just the drones and Jersey, what's up with the

712
00:32:03,240 --> 00:32:05,600
Speaker 1: fucking cars. I was in Beverly Hills the other day

713
00:32:05,960 --> 00:32:07,320
Speaker 1: with no humans in the.

714
00:32:08,320 --> 00:32:10,840
Speaker 2: This is your this is your absolute brilliant you know

715
00:32:10,920 --> 00:32:13,960
Speaker 2: what you are perfect for. Weymo, Weymo, if you're listening.

716
00:32:13,760 --> 00:32:18,640
Speaker 3: Guess what what? Someone got my number when I was there?

717
00:32:18,800 --> 00:32:19,280
Speaker 2: What do you mean?

718
00:32:19,520 --> 00:32:20,520
Speaker 3: I know? This is crazy.

719
00:32:21,080 --> 00:32:22,680
Speaker 2: So a guy comes phone number.

720
00:32:22,880 --> 00:32:25,360
Speaker 1: So I didn't ask me for the number. He asked

721
00:32:25,400 --> 00:32:27,600
Speaker 1: Justin Sylvester the lady, and he gave it.

722
00:32:27,800 --> 00:32:30,880
Speaker 2: Well, I didn't text Justin you. I know Justice is

723
00:32:30,880 --> 00:32:32,880
Speaker 2: one of my good friends. Well, we get together and

724
00:32:32,960 --> 00:32:34,280
Speaker 2: go to the French place up the street.

725
00:32:34,280 --> 00:32:36,800
Speaker 3: Even your neighbors, I know, I love Justin. He's the

726
00:32:36,840 --> 00:32:37,240
Speaker 3: best ever.

727
00:32:37,280 --> 00:32:40,600
Speaker 1: But I didn't text back fast enough to say no,

728
00:32:40,840 --> 00:32:44,320
Speaker 1: I'm not actually interested in this particular person. So he

729
00:32:44,480 --> 00:32:46,680
Speaker 1: just gave out and the numbers knew by the way,

730
00:32:46,720 --> 00:32:48,880
Speaker 1: so very very few people have this number.

731
00:32:49,560 --> 00:32:52,000
Speaker 3: I have it, but I need and listen.

732
00:32:52,040 --> 00:32:54,640
Speaker 1: I'm never gonna call out this person, but I need

733
00:32:54,640 --> 00:32:56,160
Speaker 1: to read to you.

734
00:32:56,240 --> 00:32:56,480
Speaker 3: What.

735
00:32:56,960 --> 00:33:00,200
Speaker 2: Oh I am so jealous, you bitch up.

736
00:33:00,960 --> 00:33:03,480
Speaker 3: But I couldn't respond because it was so cramped.

737
00:33:03,600 --> 00:33:05,760
Speaker 2: Oh please send it. Oh, please read it right now,

738
00:33:05,880 --> 00:33:07,880
Speaker 2: and then you show me who it is. Oh my,

739
00:33:08,120 --> 00:33:12,280
Speaker 2: oh my god, I'm so delighted. I feel like I'm seven. See,

740
00:33:12,320 --> 00:33:15,760
Speaker 2: I get excited for my friends. This was so nobody

741
00:33:15,800 --> 00:33:18,040
Speaker 2: texted me unless it's really naughty ship.

742
00:33:18,800 --> 00:33:19,880
Speaker 3: No, I couldn't.

743
00:33:20,000 --> 00:33:23,720
Speaker 1: I had Hi, Teddy, this is blank blank. It was

744
00:33:23,840 --> 00:33:27,680
Speaker 1: nice meeting you briefly today at Elpasta with Justin. That's

745
00:33:27,920 --> 00:33:31,160
Speaker 1: let's make a plan and go have fun. We deserve it.

746
00:33:32,160 --> 00:33:41,479
Speaker 3: Br bur Oh now who is you know?

747
00:33:41,760 --> 00:33:44,680
Speaker 2: And it's a Now it's remind me to get my

748
00:33:44,680 --> 00:33:45,360
Speaker 2: eyes checked on.

749
00:33:45,680 --> 00:33:48,640
Speaker 1: Let's make a plan and go have fun.

750
00:33:48,440 --> 00:33:51,320
Speaker 3: I know we don't. No, we're not you know what?

751
00:33:51,680 --> 00:33:55,360
Speaker 1: Can just delete that any that's the screenshot of me

752
00:33:55,440 --> 00:33:58,160
Speaker 1: sending it to Kyle. I didn't actually respond, I deleted.

753
00:33:58,240 --> 00:33:59,480
Speaker 2: Wait what was Kyle's response?

754
00:33:59,600 --> 00:34:02,840
Speaker 1: They both like, that is the worst pickup text I've

755
00:34:02,880 --> 00:34:03,400
Speaker 1: ever seen.

756
00:34:03,800 --> 00:34:06,200
Speaker 3: We deserve it. I don't know.

757
00:34:06,360 --> 00:34:08,279
Speaker 2: I mean, you do deserve it, but maybe not with

758
00:34:08,360 --> 00:34:14,440
Speaker 2: that guy. No, yeah, no, oh Lord.

759
00:34:15,000 --> 00:34:17,160
Speaker 3: To start next thing? How do you navigate the holidays?

760
00:34:19,440 --> 00:34:19,880
Speaker 2: Navigate?

761
00:34:19,960 --> 00:34:21,640
Speaker 3: What? Well?

762
00:34:21,800 --> 00:34:22,200
Speaker 2: Hold on?

763
00:34:22,239 --> 00:34:24,880
Speaker 3: What were you saying? What you got mad on the

764
00:34:24,880 --> 00:34:27,000
Speaker 3: show and you're like, what, oh.

765
00:34:26,920 --> 00:34:29,120
Speaker 2: God, girl, that was when I blew up Kathy Hilton's

766
00:34:29,160 --> 00:34:32,320
Speaker 2: dinner party. Let's just move on Christmas. I don't know,

767
00:34:32,520 --> 00:34:35,759
Speaker 2: can you do the mouth or what? Yeah?

768
00:34:36,120 --> 00:34:36,600
Speaker 3: Or what?

769
00:34:37,000 --> 00:34:38,520
Speaker 2: It was? Years ago? I was going through drama.

770
00:34:38,800 --> 00:34:41,759
Speaker 3: Even though Edwin has the kids on Christmas, even Christmas Day,

771
00:34:42,440 --> 00:34:44,040
Speaker 3: I will, of course you should.

772
00:34:44,120 --> 00:34:46,319
Speaker 1: Yeah, I will be with the kid. I'm gonna go

773
00:34:46,840 --> 00:34:48,799
Speaker 1: sleep in the guest room and.

774
00:34:48,760 --> 00:34:49,600
Speaker 2: Do Santa Claus.

775
00:34:49,880 --> 00:34:52,799
Speaker 1: Santa Claus the next day, so I'll come, probably go

776
00:34:52,840 --> 00:34:57,040
Speaker 1: to church with them on Christmas Eve night, Like, are

777
00:34:57,080 --> 00:34:57,760
Speaker 1: you guys Catholic?

778
00:34:58,040 --> 00:34:58,440
Speaker 3: Christian?

779
00:35:00,520 --> 00:35:02,880
Speaker 2: But I need to go to midnight Mass.

780
00:35:03,360 --> 00:35:05,879
Speaker 1: Ours is at six and Pasadena. If you want to come,

781
00:35:07,160 --> 00:35:10,319
Speaker 1: you go to Pasadena well, normally it's in Hollywood, but

782
00:35:10,600 --> 00:35:12,920
Speaker 1: on Christmas they have multiple places.

783
00:35:13,680 --> 00:35:15,000
Speaker 3: Are you gonna drive by your own Yeah?

784
00:35:15,000 --> 00:35:17,279
Speaker 2: No, I'm not gonna drive by my own place. I'm

785
00:35:17,280 --> 00:35:20,560
Speaker 2: not gonna so I can burst into tears, my eyes

786
00:35:20,680 --> 00:35:21,560
Speaker 2: up develop.

787
00:35:23,040 --> 00:35:25,239
Speaker 1: So yes, I'll be with them Christmas Eve, and then

788
00:35:25,320 --> 00:35:30,160
Speaker 1: Christmas Day will do Sanna and then I guess that's

789
00:35:30,200 --> 00:35:32,600
Speaker 1: when I peace out, and then I get them back

790
00:35:32,640 --> 00:35:35,840
Speaker 1: on the New Year's twenty ninth, and I need to

791
00:35:35,840 --> 00:35:37,440
Speaker 1: figure out somewhere to go or somewhere to do.

792
00:35:37,880 --> 00:35:39,120
Speaker 2: Well, I'm available.

793
00:35:39,640 --> 00:35:40,840
Speaker 3: Do you want to take care of all of my

794
00:35:40,920 --> 00:35:41,520
Speaker 3: children with me?

795
00:35:41,680 --> 00:35:45,799
Speaker 2: No? Unless I can get really drunk and be like

796
00:35:45,840 --> 00:35:48,319
Speaker 2: the bad friend Mommy's naughty friend.

797
00:35:48,960 --> 00:35:51,440
Speaker 3: Maybe you're my friend solely on the nesting night.

798
00:35:51,520 --> 00:35:53,439
Speaker 2: Well, here's the thing. After I leave here, I'm gonna

799
00:35:53,440 --> 00:35:56,080
Speaker 2: go have a double laser dump by my dermatologist, doctor

800
00:35:56,160 --> 00:35:59,279
Speaker 2: Jason Emmer, so I will be looking like a ghoul. Oh,

801
00:35:59,320 --> 00:36:00,480
Speaker 2: I don't want to scare the kids.

802
00:36:00,719 --> 00:36:02,560
Speaker 1: Well, I went to go get botox the other day,

803
00:36:02,640 --> 00:36:05,239
Speaker 1: the same lady who did my necklift. Yeah, and she

804
00:36:05,640 --> 00:36:07,839
Speaker 1: mentioned that it might be time for me to get

805
00:36:07,840 --> 00:36:08,880
Speaker 1: my eyelids.

806
00:36:09,440 --> 00:36:11,080
Speaker 2: Everybody's doing an Upper Bluff.

807
00:36:11,320 --> 00:36:12,160
Speaker 3: That's what she said.

808
00:36:12,239 --> 00:36:13,239
Speaker 2: Everybody's doing it.

809
00:36:13,440 --> 00:36:15,560
Speaker 3: But do I need it? Do I want it? I

810
00:36:15,600 --> 00:36:16,120
Speaker 3: don't know.

811
00:36:16,760 --> 00:36:18,520
Speaker 2: How about we got bigger fish to fry for you

812
00:36:18,600 --> 00:36:21,520
Speaker 2: right now now? I, on the other hand, I need it.

813
00:36:21,960 --> 00:36:24,880
Speaker 3: You do not have hooded eyes. I do. Hold on,

814
00:36:24,960 --> 00:36:27,160
Speaker 3: Look who has bigger hoods?

815
00:36:27,880 --> 00:36:41,880
Speaker 2: I don't know. So I was thinking of going to

816
00:36:41,920 --> 00:36:43,759
Speaker 2: midnight Mass. I told you, did I tell you? I

817
00:36:43,760 --> 00:36:46,520
Speaker 2: was looking at Mass times. I'm Catholic. I'm the only

818
00:36:46,560 --> 00:36:48,640
Speaker 2: Catholic in my family. And I said to my son,

819
00:36:48,680 --> 00:36:49,920
Speaker 2: who was over at my house, I said, why am

820
00:36:49,920 --> 00:36:52,719
Speaker 2: I looking at Mass times? And he's like, you're searching them? Yeah,

821
00:36:52,760 --> 00:36:54,680
Speaker 2: you're really searching for something.

822
00:36:55,120 --> 00:36:57,319
Speaker 3: I like it. I like the worship aspect. I love

823
00:36:57,360 --> 00:36:58,000
Speaker 3: the songs.

824
00:36:58,040 --> 00:36:59,960
Speaker 2: I love that it's beautiful.

825
00:37:00,360 --> 00:37:00,560
Speaker 3: Yeah.

826
00:37:01,440 --> 00:37:03,239
Speaker 2: Do they bring animals? Like did they do that?

827
00:37:03,560 --> 00:37:07,600
Speaker 3: Oh no? Oh man, but they already did.

828
00:37:07,640 --> 00:37:11,120
Speaker 1: Like the kids performance the Christmas pageant, Yeah, where Cruise

829
00:37:11,280 --> 00:37:13,319
Speaker 1: was the star but he like a star?

830
00:37:13,520 --> 00:37:15,279
Speaker 3: Oh no, he was a star, but he was too

831
00:37:15,280 --> 00:37:16,840
Speaker 3: big for the costumes.

832
00:37:17,760 --> 00:37:18,680
Speaker 2: Do you have pictures of this?

833
00:37:19,280 --> 00:37:21,440
Speaker 3: I have to see we were dying live because he's

834
00:37:21,440 --> 00:37:21,600
Speaker 3: like this.

835
00:37:22,360 --> 00:37:23,000
Speaker 2: I love that.

836
00:37:24,360 --> 00:37:25,719
Speaker 3: Yeah, So I love to go.

837
00:37:26,040 --> 00:37:29,600
Speaker 2: I just think it's so special when everybody's kids and families.

838
00:37:30,120 --> 00:37:32,560
Speaker 2: However you worship, you know on Christmas that you know

839
00:37:32,640 --> 00:37:36,719
Speaker 2: that everybody goes and has fun, and it's like the

840
00:37:36,760 --> 00:37:39,520
Speaker 2: one time of the year that you can feel that warmth.

841
00:37:39,560 --> 00:37:43,640
Speaker 2: I think everybody, everybody wants to feel love everybody and

842
00:37:43,800 --> 00:37:47,920
Speaker 2: should I really should. But I'm not going to confession.

843
00:37:48,080 --> 00:37:50,279
Speaker 3: Is your mom coming.

844
00:37:50,080 --> 00:37:52,080
Speaker 2: She's coming out? My mom is in My mom is

845
00:37:52,120 --> 00:37:56,640
Speaker 2: in graduate school. Yeah, no, not for art, and so

846
00:37:56,680 --> 00:37:59,960
Speaker 2: she's coming out here after the first year at cal Arts.

847
00:38:00,640 --> 00:38:02,319
Speaker 2: I know. It's fucking nuts. My mom was in her

848
00:38:02,360 --> 00:38:06,440
Speaker 2: seventies and grad school. My son's going back to school

849
00:38:06,440 --> 00:38:07,120
Speaker 2: to get his masters.

850
00:38:07,320 --> 00:38:08,440
Speaker 3: Did I go back to high school?

851
00:38:08,640 --> 00:38:11,279
Speaker 2: I was going to say, because I never. I'm the

852
00:38:11,320 --> 00:38:13,680
Speaker 2: only one out of my family that did not go

853
00:38:13,760 --> 00:38:16,319
Speaker 2: to college and beyond. So my mom's coming out. So

854
00:38:16,360 --> 00:38:17,799
Speaker 2: she'll be out after the first of the year, and

855
00:38:17,800 --> 00:38:19,480
Speaker 2: then I'll see her and then I go to New

856
00:38:19,520 --> 00:38:20,600
Speaker 2: York for Roxy.

857
00:38:21,000 --> 00:38:22,520
Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, what shall I'll be going to New

858
00:38:22,560 --> 00:38:23,120
Speaker 3: York then? Too?

859
00:38:23,200 --> 00:38:23,319
Speaker 2: Right?

860
00:38:23,400 --> 00:38:27,320
Speaker 3: I heard thank you so much. What is your best

861
00:38:27,400 --> 00:38:28,360
Speaker 3: Christmas memory?

862
00:38:30,520 --> 00:38:34,719
Speaker 2: Okay, two things. Christmas Eve was at my grandmother's. We

863
00:38:34,760 --> 00:38:36,840
Speaker 2: always had a really big dinner and then the family

864
00:38:36,840 --> 00:38:40,040
Speaker 2: would exchange gifts, meaning my aunts, my uncles, everybody came over.

865
00:38:40,440 --> 00:38:42,760
Speaker 2: It was a great dinner, and then you went home.

866
00:38:43,080 --> 00:38:45,880
Speaker 2: Santa Claus came the next morning. That's always great. But

867
00:38:45,920 --> 00:38:48,359
Speaker 2: then you went back to my grandmother's for lunch and

868
00:38:48,400 --> 00:38:53,279
Speaker 2: we saw everybody again. So that was probably the coolest thing.

869
00:38:53,320 --> 00:38:56,000
Speaker 2: The lights were on. My grandmother used to make all

870
00:38:56,000 --> 00:38:59,080
Speaker 2: her own well made her own bows, and we would

871
00:38:59,080 --> 00:39:01,279
Speaker 2: wrap and so like a whole thing. It was a

872
00:39:01,280 --> 00:39:01,640
Speaker 2: big deal.

873
00:39:01,680 --> 00:39:05,879
Speaker 1: What about you, Well, when I'm in Indiana, I would say,

874
00:39:05,880 --> 00:39:09,880
Speaker 1: it's it's similar. We're on Christmas Day. We all go

875
00:39:09,920 --> 00:39:12,040
Speaker 1: to my grandpa's. Who's like, I.

876
00:39:11,960 --> 00:39:13,920
Speaker 3: Mean, how old is Richard? Now ninety?

877
00:39:14,239 --> 00:39:18,319
Speaker 1: This is John's dad, my dad's dad who they how

878
00:39:18,400 --> 00:39:23,640
Speaker 1: much ninety looks just like him, but you know, ninety

879
00:39:23,760 --> 00:39:27,680
Speaker 1: ninety two year old version. And I mean he has

880
00:39:27,719 --> 00:39:28,719
Speaker 1: six kids.

881
00:39:29,120 --> 00:39:30,320
Speaker 2: Your dad is one of six?

882
00:39:30,480 --> 00:39:33,000
Speaker 1: Yes, and then all there, I mean one has passed

883
00:39:33,040 --> 00:39:36,160
Speaker 1: away and then they have all their kids and like

884
00:39:36,280 --> 00:39:39,120
Speaker 1: every year, I mean we have it like that. Every

885
00:39:39,200 --> 00:39:41,239
Speaker 1: year we've ever gone where we all sit on the

886
00:39:41,400 --> 00:39:43,800
Speaker 1: stairs like and take and take a pick.

887
00:39:43,680 --> 00:39:44,680
Speaker 3: And then all the kids.

888
00:39:44,680 --> 00:39:47,600
Speaker 1: So it's just really metamorphosed into like now only the

889
00:39:47,640 --> 00:39:50,080
Speaker 1: babies fit on the staircase so many of you.

890
00:39:50,600 --> 00:39:52,440
Speaker 3: And we play a family football game. We do that.

891
00:39:52,920 --> 00:39:53,840
Speaker 2: I've seen that online.

892
00:39:55,360 --> 00:39:59,279
Speaker 1: So that's that's always really fun in regards to like

893
00:39:59,360 --> 00:40:01,440
Speaker 1: my family and stuff that we like to do.

894
00:40:02,239 --> 00:40:05,480
Speaker 3: We're so on the go all the time. Yeah, that

895
00:40:05,600 --> 00:40:06,640
Speaker 3: the ability to.

896
00:40:08,640 --> 00:40:10,200
Speaker 2: Just be is this a big deal?

897
00:40:10,400 --> 00:40:11,520
Speaker 3: But my kids.

898
00:40:11,600 --> 00:40:13,440
Speaker 1: Really do want to see snow this year, so that

899
00:40:13,480 --> 00:40:15,040
Speaker 1: I need to I need to figure that out.

900
00:40:15,080 --> 00:40:17,680
Speaker 2: Dree just took her kids to Salt Lake City.

901
00:40:17,960 --> 00:40:18,920
Speaker 3: That's where they want to go.

902
00:40:19,440 --> 00:40:21,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, or park City? Excuse me, park City.

903
00:40:21,440 --> 00:40:23,239
Speaker 1: No, that's where my kids want to go. They want

904
00:40:23,239 --> 00:40:25,160
Speaker 1: to go the day after Christmas and it's only an

905
00:40:25,160 --> 00:40:25,720
Speaker 1: hour flight.

906
00:40:25,880 --> 00:40:27,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's pretty close. You should go.

907
00:40:27,440 --> 00:40:31,200
Speaker 1: Did she go by herself with the kids. Yeah, okay,

908
00:40:31,200 --> 00:40:32,359
Speaker 1: so it's doable for me.

909
00:40:32,400 --> 00:40:32,880
Speaker 2: Yeah it is.

910
00:40:33,000 --> 00:40:34,919
Speaker 3: Do you know some places you go with your kids

911
00:40:34,960 --> 00:40:35,520
Speaker 3: by yourself?

912
00:40:35,520 --> 00:40:38,040
Speaker 2: And then it's no, apparently, like I haven't talked to

913
00:40:38,040 --> 00:40:39,920
Speaker 2: her since she's come home, but I know that that's

914
00:40:39,920 --> 00:40:42,520
Speaker 2: where she was going when I saw her last and all.

915
00:40:42,440 --> 00:40:45,120
Speaker 1: Right, I'm gonna text her give her a text. How

916
00:40:45,160 --> 00:40:46,359
Speaker 1: much would she hate me these days?

917
00:40:46,600 --> 00:40:46,960
Speaker 2: She doesn't.

918
00:40:47,000 --> 00:40:47,640
Speaker 3: Nobody hates you.

919
00:40:47,800 --> 00:40:52,440
Speaker 2: Get off that. Yeah, all right, no more negative self talk.

920
00:40:52,480 --> 00:40:55,200
Speaker 2: I'm fucking serious. You canna stop all that, Erica.

921
00:40:55,520 --> 00:40:57,480
Speaker 1: Oh you're also going to have to know that I'm

922
00:40:57,600 --> 00:40:59,520
Speaker 1: self deprecating by nature only once.

923
00:41:00,320 --> 00:41:03,080
Speaker 2: Like you, You've used up your value. You used up

924
00:41:03,080 --> 00:41:07,560
Speaker 2: your my value, your credit, I said, credit said credits. Goddamn, Erica,

925
00:41:07,640 --> 00:41:10,360
Speaker 2: shut your mouth up. Subconscious raging.

926
00:41:10,719 --> 00:41:12,319
Speaker 3: Do you have an all time favorite Christmas movie?

927
00:41:12,400 --> 00:41:15,960
Speaker 2: Yes? Uh White, uh White Christmas? You know, the one

928
00:41:16,080 --> 00:41:19,839
Speaker 2: with Bing Crosby. Yes, and they go and they save

929
00:41:20,120 --> 00:41:25,919
Speaker 2: the inn from being shut down. It's Rosemary Clooney and

930
00:41:26,120 --> 00:41:29,680
Speaker 2: Vera Gosh, I forget Vera's last name, and it's you

931
00:41:29,719 --> 00:41:33,440
Speaker 2: know I'm dreaming of. It's musical, and yes, we have

932
00:41:33,480 --> 00:41:34,520
Speaker 2: to watch it all the time.

933
00:41:35,120 --> 00:41:38,319
Speaker 3: I pretty much end up always watching the alf because

934
00:41:38,360 --> 00:41:38,520
Speaker 3: of the.

935
00:41:39,040 --> 00:41:40,520
Speaker 2: Of course, that's the kids. See when you come to

936
00:41:40,600 --> 00:41:43,520
Speaker 2: my place with the gays, we get out the champagne

937
00:41:43,600 --> 00:41:46,440
Speaker 2: and the liquor and then recreate all the dance numbers,

938
00:41:46,520 --> 00:41:47,719
Speaker 2: and well that.

939
00:41:47,680 --> 00:41:48,200
Speaker 3: I love that.

940
00:41:48,320 --> 00:41:52,640
Speaker 1: But also at the Pinjury, they play Christmas movies from

941
00:41:52,840 --> 00:41:55,480
Speaker 1: five pm on and the Night.

942
00:41:55,600 --> 00:41:57,600
Speaker 2: Oh do you like? I also watch It's a Wonderful Life.

943
00:41:57,600 --> 00:41:58,600
Speaker 2: I know it's kind of corny.

944
00:41:58,680 --> 00:42:01,040
Speaker 3: No, wonderful Life. I love that.

945
00:42:01,120 --> 00:42:03,480
Speaker 1: I like that one Christmas Story I used to like.

946
00:42:03,520 --> 00:42:05,359
Speaker 1: My kids hate it, so we don't watch that.

947
00:42:05,840 --> 00:42:12,040
Speaker 2: Oh they're gonna shoot your eye on. I love with

948
00:42:12,080 --> 00:42:16,640
Speaker 2: the leg. I'm telling you the leg. I love Christmas Story.

949
00:42:16,920 --> 00:42:18,799
Speaker 2: I will watch Gremlins.

950
00:42:19,280 --> 00:42:20,960
Speaker 3: Gremlin is that Halloween?

951
00:42:21,480 --> 00:42:24,200
Speaker 2: No, it takes it. It's it's around because you're thinking

952
00:42:24,280 --> 00:42:29,120
Speaker 2: of Jack Skellingtons. I'll watch that one too. I'll watch

953
00:42:29,440 --> 00:42:33,640
Speaker 2: Home Alone. I love Home Alone, Love Home Alone, love classics.

954
00:42:34,880 --> 00:42:38,279
Speaker 2: Do you bake or cook or are you going to order? Well,

955
00:42:38,400 --> 00:42:41,439
Speaker 2: I've threatened to bake and we're getting our recipes out.

956
00:42:41,520 --> 00:42:46,000
Speaker 2: I have an apron. Listen, guys, it's a big deal. Yeah,

957
00:42:46,040 --> 00:42:46,600
Speaker 2: I'll bake something.

958
00:42:46,920 --> 00:42:48,080
Speaker 3: What do you what? Are you going to bake?

959
00:42:48,160 --> 00:42:49,239
Speaker 2: Cookies or cakes?

960
00:42:49,600 --> 00:42:53,280
Speaker 1: Okay, dessert, some sort of not like a chicken pop pie.

961
00:42:53,800 --> 00:42:56,239
Speaker 2: No, but I can make a turkey can I have

962
00:42:56,280 --> 00:42:58,239
Speaker 2: a cool glass turkey plot? Yep, it's the one thing

963
00:42:58,280 --> 00:43:00,360
Speaker 2: I can do, guys. I can only make two things.

964
00:43:00,600 --> 00:43:02,759
Speaker 2: I can make a birthday cake from scratch via the

965
00:43:02,760 --> 00:43:07,000
Speaker 2: Magnolia Bakery cookbook. And I can make a turkey. My

966
00:43:07,040 --> 00:43:08,319
Speaker 2: grandmother taught me how to make it.

967
00:43:08,680 --> 00:43:11,120
Speaker 3: So those two things more than I know how to make.

968
00:43:11,160 --> 00:43:12,640
Speaker 2: It's the only two things I can make. So if

969
00:43:12,640 --> 00:43:15,359
Speaker 2: you need it, if you need a birthday came from

970
00:43:15,400 --> 00:43:17,640
Speaker 2: scratch and I can make the frosty, or if you

971
00:43:17,680 --> 00:43:19,600
Speaker 2: need a turkey, which means it's only two times a year.

972
00:43:19,600 --> 00:43:20,600
Speaker 2: I got to show up for this shit.

973
00:43:21,360 --> 00:43:23,120
Speaker 3: But those are two good things to be able to

974
00:43:23,120 --> 00:43:23,840
Speaker 3: bring the.

975
00:43:23,719 --> 00:43:26,480
Speaker 2: Only thing I can make. And I have a cool

976
00:43:26,520 --> 00:43:29,960
Speaker 2: turkey platter that I took specifically from Pasadena.

977
00:43:30,360 --> 00:43:30,600
Speaker 3: Wow.

978
00:43:30,600 --> 00:43:32,480
Speaker 2: And my friends were asking me like, why are you

979
00:43:32,520 --> 00:43:34,359
Speaker 2: taking this, Like we have to leave. I was like,

980
00:43:34,560 --> 00:43:37,600
Speaker 2: but this turkey platter and the dog needs to come.

981
00:43:37,920 --> 00:43:40,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, you never know if I needed.

982
00:43:40,080 --> 00:43:44,279
Speaker 1: It, I'll show you this later in a social But

983
00:43:44,680 --> 00:43:47,600
Speaker 1: my favorite thing to do is thread the popcorn with

984
00:43:47,640 --> 00:43:48,320
Speaker 1: the cranberry.

985
00:43:48,360 --> 00:43:49,319
Speaker 3: I love that on the tree.

986
00:43:49,640 --> 00:43:52,400
Speaker 2: A very southern thing to do, very southern. And do

987
00:43:52,440 --> 00:43:54,839
Speaker 2: you use a thimble because your fingers.

988
00:43:55,040 --> 00:43:57,080
Speaker 3: Because then if not, you poke through your fingers and.

989
00:43:56,920 --> 00:43:57,799
Speaker 2: Her fingers get hurt.

990
00:43:57,840 --> 00:44:00,560
Speaker 1: But here's also the thing pro to for those of

991
00:44:00,560 --> 00:44:03,920
Speaker 1: you with young kids. It takes a long time, so

992
00:44:03,960 --> 00:44:05,040
Speaker 1: they can be busy.

993
00:44:05,239 --> 00:44:06,000
Speaker 3: They're booked up.

994
00:44:06,520 --> 00:44:08,720
Speaker 2: That's a good thing. And that's because they get sugared

995
00:44:08,800 --> 00:44:10,239
Speaker 2: up around this time of the year two and I

996
00:44:10,280 --> 00:44:11,760
Speaker 2: want to make her she kisses cookies.

997
00:44:12,120 --> 00:44:15,000
Speaker 1: Oh, that would be good. I would come over for those. Yeah,

998
00:44:15,080 --> 00:44:16,040
Speaker 1: I thought I come over to you.

999
00:44:16,040 --> 00:44:17,160
Speaker 2: You have a bigger Oh no, no.

1000
00:44:17,200 --> 00:44:20,160
Speaker 3: It depends if i'm depends if I'm nesting or not.

1001
00:44:20,200 --> 00:44:23,279
Speaker 1: Hold on, it's Army Hammer's place available right now.

1002
00:44:23,440 --> 00:44:26,000
Speaker 2: No, the real people live in that. But he has

1003
00:44:26,040 --> 00:44:31,360
Speaker 2: a podcast called Army Hammer Time. No. I watched his

1004
00:44:31,440 --> 00:44:32,000
Speaker 2: mom on it.

1005
00:44:32,000 --> 00:44:32,879
Speaker 3: It's wild.

1006
00:44:33,320 --> 00:44:36,880
Speaker 2: I living in like a very humble abode.

1007
00:44:37,520 --> 00:44:40,920
Speaker 1: Well, that's how he had to sell his truck at CarMax. CarMax,

1008
00:44:40,960 --> 00:44:43,240
Speaker 1: if you'd like to reach out, I'm open for your car.

1009
00:44:43,440 --> 00:44:46,000
Speaker 2: Are you really we don't even drive?

1010
00:44:46,040 --> 00:44:46,399
Speaker 3: What the fuck?

1011
00:44:46,440 --> 00:44:47,719
Speaker 2: Don't swindle Carmacks?

1012
00:44:47,920 --> 00:44:50,000
Speaker 3: Well listen, No, my car is pretty big. I don't

1013
00:44:50,000 --> 00:44:53,960
Speaker 3: know car. Do you have a Lincoln like extended Lincoln.

1014
00:44:53,800 --> 00:44:55,440
Speaker 2: Like a Navigator something?

1015
00:44:55,719 --> 00:44:57,640
Speaker 3: Yes, it's so big.

1016
00:44:57,760 --> 00:44:58,680
Speaker 2: What are you doing with that?

1017
00:44:58,920 --> 00:45:01,200
Speaker 1: Because I thought that I was gonna drive more and

1018
00:45:01,280 --> 00:45:03,200
Speaker 1: I don't, and so I just need something that's up

1019
00:45:03,239 --> 00:45:05,200
Speaker 1: around with the kids, fit in.

1020
00:45:05,400 --> 00:45:09,080
Speaker 2: But whatever, whatever you need to go electric like I did,

1021
00:45:09,400 --> 00:45:10,120
Speaker 2: I don't like it.

1022
00:45:10,520 --> 00:45:13,840
Speaker 1: Why it's fast, I get I feel really nauseous in

1023
00:45:13,880 --> 00:45:15,120
Speaker 1: the Tesla.

1024
00:45:15,600 --> 00:45:16,719
Speaker 2: We'll get in the Porsche.

1025
00:45:17,120 --> 00:45:19,279
Speaker 3: Uh yeah, let me get right on that. Right after

1026
00:45:19,320 --> 00:45:21,480
Speaker 3: I'm done with every lawyer.

1027
00:45:21,200 --> 00:45:23,080
Speaker 2: Bill Oh no, no, no, no, no no no.

1028
00:45:23,960 --> 00:45:28,439
Speaker 1: After my god only after my only fans page takes off,

1029
00:45:28,480 --> 00:45:30,279
Speaker 1: I'll go ahead and get that porch I want.

1030
00:45:30,360 --> 00:45:34,720
Speaker 2: So then CarMax, CarMax set us up. Hit her up, Porsche,

1031
00:45:34,760 --> 00:45:35,239
Speaker 2: hit me up.

1032
00:45:37,080 --> 00:45:42,840
Speaker 3: Let's see favorite Christmas gifts from your ex. Ah, I

1033
00:45:42,840 --> 00:45:43,839
Speaker 3: can tell you a funny one.

1034
00:45:43,960 --> 00:45:46,319
Speaker 2: Okay, So one year I said, Tom, you know what

1035
00:45:46,360 --> 00:45:49,200
Speaker 2: I want for Christmas is a toolbox. And I literally

1036
00:45:49,280 --> 00:45:51,080
Speaker 2: meant like this little thing I saw at home depot,

1037
00:45:51,120 --> 00:45:52,839
Speaker 2: which was a hammer, and you know, cause you need

1038
00:45:52,840 --> 00:45:54,800
Speaker 2: like a screwdriver and a hammer at a big house,

1039
00:45:55,120 --> 00:45:58,160
Speaker 2: so the finials on the doors. So I just wanted that.

1040
00:45:58,719 --> 00:46:01,000
Speaker 2: This man went to see you. I know, he didn't

1041
00:46:01,000 --> 00:46:03,520
Speaker 2: do it. His driver did it, and bought me an

1042
00:46:03,560 --> 00:46:07,799
Speaker 2: automotive car tool set from snap On Tools. And it

1043
00:46:07,840 --> 00:46:10,160
Speaker 2: weighed a thousand pounds and he's like, look, I got

1044
00:46:10,200 --> 00:46:13,759
Speaker 2: the biggest one. I said, Tom, this is for cars, like,

1045
00:46:13,920 --> 00:46:17,759
Speaker 2: I don't change oil like, I'm not a mechanic, and

1046
00:46:17,880 --> 00:46:20,800
Speaker 2: he literally looks at me. We cried for fifteen minutes.

1047
00:46:20,920 --> 00:46:23,799
Speaker 2: It was funny. I said, I just wanted the little.

1048
00:46:23,800 --> 00:46:26,040
Speaker 3: Like thing to do the house.

1049
00:46:26,520 --> 00:46:29,120
Speaker 2: I asked for the top of the line. I said, Tom,

1050
00:46:29,239 --> 00:46:33,000
Speaker 2: I am not a mechanic. That shows you how disconnected

1051
00:46:33,000 --> 00:46:36,280
Speaker 2: the man was. He was just like Jose go, go,

1052
00:46:36,280 --> 00:46:39,480
Speaker 2: go and get Erica some tools and he said okay,

1053
00:46:39,760 --> 00:46:42,200
Speaker 2: went to Sears and came back with snap on tools

1054
00:46:42,680 --> 00:46:44,840
Speaker 2: and it was literally rapped and the shit was heavy

1055
00:46:45,000 --> 00:46:46,560
Speaker 2: and it was wrapped up under the tree.

1056
00:46:46,920 --> 00:46:50,839
Speaker 3: What's that home improvement? And that's what I'm picturing now? Yeah, Well,

1057
00:46:50,920 --> 00:46:52,239
Speaker 3: I just want what about you?

1058
00:46:52,280 --> 00:46:55,399
Speaker 2: What I mean, Tom, God bless you, My God got

1059
00:46:55,440 --> 00:46:58,520
Speaker 2: the man truly was checked out and got me an

1060
00:46:58,560 --> 00:47:01,920
Speaker 2: automotive toolkit. I do not do oil changes.

1061
00:47:02,520 --> 00:47:06,279
Speaker 1: Edwin was more like a Stacker gift type of person like,

1062
00:47:07,400 --> 00:47:09,920
Speaker 1: and I didn't mind it. It would be like I

1063
00:47:09,960 --> 00:47:12,680
Speaker 1: am going to do something for your anniversary, this, this,

1064
00:47:12,960 --> 00:47:15,960
Speaker 1: and it all kind of became one bigger gift that No,

1065
00:47:16,920 --> 00:47:19,400
Speaker 1: that is what he did, which.

1066
00:47:19,200 --> 00:47:21,920
Speaker 2: Is just once a year you and what was it?

1067
00:47:21,920 --> 00:47:24,160
Speaker 3: It would depend like on the situation.

1068
00:47:24,320 --> 00:47:28,000
Speaker 1: Which here's what I started saying, which was please at

1069
00:47:28,080 --> 00:47:29,880
Speaker 1: least like write me a letter or something.

1070
00:47:29,920 --> 00:47:31,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, why don't you send me a card or like

1071
00:47:31,640 --> 00:47:32,000
Speaker 2: have the.

1072
00:47:32,000 --> 00:47:34,600
Speaker 3: Kids get me little things with drawing?

1073
00:47:36,160 --> 00:47:37,680
Speaker 2: But a Starbucks give?

1074
00:47:37,920 --> 00:47:38,600
Speaker 3: I mean I was.

1075
00:47:40,160 --> 00:47:43,200
Speaker 2: I hate something that just acknowledges the fact. Well, this

1076
00:47:43,239 --> 00:47:43,759
Speaker 2: is a question.

1077
00:47:43,800 --> 00:47:45,439
Speaker 1: I've gotten a bunch and now I need to ask

1078
00:47:45,520 --> 00:47:48,560
Speaker 1: you what this is not Christmas gifts? This is just

1079
00:47:48,880 --> 00:47:50,640
Speaker 1: gifts or I don't know if a wedding ring is

1080
00:47:50,680 --> 00:47:51,520
Speaker 1: considered a gift.

1081
00:47:52,120 --> 00:47:55,560
Speaker 2: I don't. Oh you're a lawyer, I don't know.

1082
00:47:55,840 --> 00:47:59,360
Speaker 1: Where is yours? When do you think, like do you

1083
00:47:59,440 --> 00:48:01,200
Speaker 1: think people after I have to give it back?

1084
00:48:01,800 --> 00:48:04,200
Speaker 2: No? I think if you give someone a gift, that's it.

1085
00:48:04,560 --> 00:48:07,040
Speaker 2: I don't give with if I gave you something, I

1086
00:48:07,080 --> 00:48:08,000
Speaker 2: gave it to you, I don't.

1087
00:48:08,320 --> 00:48:09,680
Speaker 3: But would you ever wear it again?

1088
00:48:11,600 --> 00:48:12,200
Speaker 2: I don't think. So.

1089
00:48:12,719 --> 00:48:16,799
Speaker 1: Okay, let's discuss a little self care during the holidays.

1090
00:48:17,200 --> 00:48:19,560
Speaker 1: How do you treat yourself when you have time off?

1091
00:48:21,040 --> 00:48:21,840
Speaker 3: Ah?

1092
00:48:23,440 --> 00:48:28,279
Speaker 2: Okay, how do I treat myself when I have time off?

1093
00:48:28,480 --> 00:48:29,640
Speaker 3: Can I ask you to ask you a question?

1094
00:48:29,760 --> 00:48:33,120
Speaker 1: Yeah? Because when Andy asks what she always does, which

1095
00:48:33,239 --> 00:48:36,600
Speaker 1: it really irritates some housewives, and some housewives just answer

1096
00:48:37,080 --> 00:48:41,799
Speaker 1: very authentically when he asks about plastic surgery. Yeah, I've

1097
00:48:41,840 --> 00:48:46,839
Speaker 1: noticed you will sometimes get annoyed. Yeah, but then when

1098
00:48:46,880 --> 00:48:49,040
Speaker 1: we're talking about it, like even on the show, like

1099
00:48:49,080 --> 00:48:49,879
Speaker 1: you're fine with it.

1100
00:48:50,040 --> 00:48:52,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's the way you ask me, okay, yeah, because

1101
00:48:52,760 --> 00:48:54,840
Speaker 2: I don't think that it requires an answer. If I

1102
00:48:55,000 --> 00:48:57,680
Speaker 2: volunteer the information, if I want to share it, I

1103
00:48:57,719 --> 00:48:59,360
Speaker 2: should be able to share it because at the end

1104
00:48:59,360 --> 00:49:02,240
Speaker 2: of the day, it's like my choice to do so, right.

1105
00:49:02,239 --> 00:49:04,759
Speaker 3: Right, Well, what is your thought when somebody lies about it?

1106
00:49:06,160 --> 00:49:07,560
Speaker 3: Like if somebody said to.

1107
00:49:07,520 --> 00:49:11,960
Speaker 1: Me, I don't care, you wouldn't care, but I would

1108
00:49:12,000 --> 00:49:15,040
Speaker 1: feel weird lying about having a necklift, like to me,

1109
00:49:15,280 --> 00:49:18,680
Speaker 1: like I had one, yeah, and I've been very open

1110
00:49:18,719 --> 00:49:21,359
Speaker 1: about it and my next significantly changed. I wouldn't want

1111
00:49:21,360 --> 00:49:23,640
Speaker 1: to lie to people that follow me on Instagram or

1112
00:49:23,640 --> 00:49:25,960
Speaker 1: anything and be like, oh, no, I was just doing this.

1113
00:49:25,960 --> 00:49:29,080
Speaker 2: But I think that No, but I think that's your choice.

1114
00:49:29,440 --> 00:49:31,799
Speaker 2: I don't think that everybody has to do that. Like

1115
00:49:31,840 --> 00:49:35,400
Speaker 2: if I came in here with a facelift and you said, oh, Erica,

1116
00:49:35,520 --> 00:49:37,040
Speaker 2: did you have a facelift, and I go, yeah, I

1117
00:49:37,080 --> 00:49:38,880
Speaker 2: had a facelift. Like it's I've said I've had a

1118
00:49:39,000 --> 00:49:41,080
Speaker 2: nose job. I said, I've had it, you know my

1119
00:49:41,120 --> 00:49:43,600
Speaker 2: boomstead No once, but twice I need to do it again.

1120
00:49:43,719 --> 00:49:46,439
Speaker 3: I'm too Should we get joint?

1121
00:49:46,560 --> 00:49:47,919
Speaker 2: I don't know you're going to work as a deal.

1122
00:49:47,960 --> 00:49:51,160
Speaker 2: Do we have to be on Instagram for these free tits?

1123
00:49:51,400 --> 00:49:53,560
Speaker 3: Yesh? We do free titch on the ground.

1124
00:49:53,680 --> 00:49:55,839
Speaker 2: Oh my god, I don't know about that. Everybody got

1125
00:49:55,880 --> 00:49:57,040
Speaker 2: their teeth done there.

1126
00:49:57,560 --> 00:49:59,760
Speaker 3: I don't know mine are there?

1127
00:50:00,000 --> 00:50:00,520
Speaker 2: Why was I not?

1128
00:50:02,160 --> 00:50:02,239
Speaker 1: So?

1129
00:50:02,320 --> 00:50:03,760
Speaker 2: What was the point of your question?

1130
00:50:04,280 --> 00:50:06,840
Speaker 1: No, the point of the question was in regards to

1131
00:50:06,880 --> 00:50:09,200
Speaker 1: self care or a surgery. How much do you think

1132
00:50:09,320 --> 00:50:11,000
Speaker 1: somebody is required to share?

1133
00:50:11,160 --> 00:50:14,399
Speaker 2: Well, I feel differently because now you're talking about somebody's health,

1134
00:50:15,080 --> 00:50:18,239
Speaker 2: Like how much of that do you disclose? And I

1135
00:50:18,280 --> 00:50:22,160
Speaker 2: know that you feel very differently about like even having melanoma,

1136
00:50:22,200 --> 00:50:24,759
Speaker 2: and you feel that way. But what if somebody had

1137
00:50:24,800 --> 00:50:26,120
Speaker 2: melanoma they didn't want to.

1138
00:50:26,120 --> 00:50:28,839
Speaker 3: Say anything, right, See, So it's a personal.

1139
00:50:28,600 --> 00:50:31,439
Speaker 2: Choice, that's my point in making. So even if someone says,

1140
00:50:31,440 --> 00:50:34,720
Speaker 2: oh my god, it's so obvious you've had your nose done, Okay,

1141
00:50:34,719 --> 00:50:38,160
Speaker 2: but let that person tell you. Does that make sense?

1142
00:50:38,280 --> 00:50:41,920
Speaker 1: What was the moment you decided I'm going to get

1143
00:50:41,960 --> 00:50:43,880
Speaker 1: my nose done because you did it later in life?

1144
00:50:43,920 --> 00:50:46,360
Speaker 2: Right, I was in my forties. I didn't have botox

1145
00:50:46,440 --> 00:50:47,480
Speaker 2: until I was in my forties.

1146
00:50:48,640 --> 00:50:50,920
Speaker 3: I mean I think I got botox in my early twenties.

1147
00:50:50,960 --> 00:50:51,279
Speaker 2: I did not.

1148
00:50:51,520 --> 00:50:53,719
Speaker 3: I got botox after I was forty forty one.

1149
00:50:54,400 --> 00:50:56,400
Speaker 2: So what was the I didn't my nose was I

1150
00:50:56,440 --> 00:50:59,319
Speaker 2: had always been told my nose was wide and that

1151
00:50:59,360 --> 00:51:03,520
Speaker 2: the tip of myn was trying pulling down pre Yeah,

1152
00:51:03,800 --> 00:51:07,960
Speaker 2: it's just it was wide. And I remember an agent

1153
00:51:08,000 --> 00:51:09,640
Speaker 2: telling me I should have a nose job at sixteen,

1154
00:51:09,680 --> 00:51:11,360
Speaker 2: and I didn't do it. I didn't even know what

1155
00:51:11,360 --> 00:51:13,960
Speaker 2: a nose job was, so I just never did it.

1156
00:51:14,040 --> 00:51:16,279
Speaker 2: And then when I got older, you know, your nose

1157
00:51:16,320 --> 00:51:18,880
Speaker 2: and your ears grow, Yeah, and it got bigger, and

1158
00:51:18,920 --> 00:51:21,399
Speaker 2: I thought, you know what, it could get slimmed down.

1159
00:51:21,440 --> 00:51:23,040
Speaker 2: I do to do it again. I would do it

1160
00:51:23,040 --> 00:51:23,520
Speaker 2: again too.

1161
00:51:23,880 --> 00:51:24,839
Speaker 3: So you don't regret it.

1162
00:51:25,000 --> 00:51:27,879
Speaker 2: Oh gosh, No, I don't regret anything I've ever done

1163
00:51:27,920 --> 00:51:28,480
Speaker 2: to my body.

1164
00:51:28,680 --> 00:51:32,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, right, I don't regret my necklift, not for one.

1165
00:51:32,239 --> 00:51:33,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, it looks great.

1166
00:51:33,239 --> 00:51:34,000
Speaker 3: I love.

1167
00:51:34,719 --> 00:51:38,120
Speaker 1: Sometimes I read the symptoms of breast and plant illness

1168
00:51:38,160 --> 00:51:40,120
Speaker 1: and I start diagnosing myself.

1169
00:51:39,800 --> 00:51:42,239
Speaker 2: With no, you don't have that, or wouldn't be able

1170
00:51:42,239 --> 00:51:44,120
Speaker 2: to keep the schedule you keep. I don't think anyway.

1171
00:51:44,480 --> 00:51:47,600
Speaker 3: But other than that, like, I have no regrets.

1172
00:51:47,680 --> 00:51:49,880
Speaker 2: I really needed breast implants. I had one that was

1173
00:51:49,920 --> 00:51:52,520
Speaker 2: bigger than the other, and I'm really glad. I've loved

1174
00:51:52,520 --> 00:51:53,560
Speaker 2: my result both times.

1175
00:51:53,800 --> 00:51:56,359
Speaker 1: Well, now for my next pair, because I'm duing because

1176
00:51:56,360 --> 00:51:59,160
Speaker 1: I'm over ten years me too. Once I had my

1177
00:51:59,480 --> 00:52:02,839
Speaker 1: melon up my final like big melano by the congratulations,

1178
00:52:02,880 --> 00:52:03,839
Speaker 1: thank you? Do you feel good?

1179
00:52:03,920 --> 00:52:06,400
Speaker 3: I feel good. I was ready for it to be.

1180
00:52:06,719 --> 00:52:08,239
Speaker 1: I mean that was like, that's not what that was

1181
00:52:08,400 --> 00:52:12,480
Speaker 1: over two years just bad, bad, bad. But when they

1182
00:52:12,480 --> 00:52:15,040
Speaker 1: did the skin graph and they pulled all my skin

1183
00:52:15,160 --> 00:52:17,400
Speaker 1: like on my back and pulled it up over my shoulder.

1184
00:52:17,840 --> 00:52:19,960
Speaker 1: Now one of my boobs is like up here.

1185
00:52:19,880 --> 00:52:23,960
Speaker 2: At higher and this side is skinnier, I'm like, does

1186
00:52:24,000 --> 00:52:24,399
Speaker 2: it hurt.

1187
00:52:25,040 --> 00:52:27,160
Speaker 3: It doesn't hurt. It's like numb.

1188
00:52:27,560 --> 00:52:29,560
Speaker 2: Oh you have nomb okay, yeah in the back right

1189
00:52:29,600 --> 00:52:31,440
Speaker 2: in the bat in the back there.

1190
00:52:31,600 --> 00:52:33,319
Speaker 1: But I like crack up all the time when I

1191
00:52:33,360 --> 00:52:34,920
Speaker 1: like stand in the mirror. I'm like, this side has

1192
00:52:34,960 --> 00:52:36,640
Speaker 1: like this whole angle, beautiful curve.

1193
00:52:36,800 --> 00:52:39,359
Speaker 3: I'm like, my cancer side is looking good.

1194
00:52:39,480 --> 00:52:42,280
Speaker 2: My my my regular, my regular side is a little

1195
00:52:42,280 --> 00:52:44,560
Speaker 2: frunked out. Well, we need to get user a little.

1196
00:52:45,120 --> 00:52:47,799
Speaker 2: We need to get you a plastic surgeon to even

1197
00:52:47,840 --> 00:52:48,200
Speaker 2: you out.

1198
00:52:48,280 --> 00:52:49,640
Speaker 3: Well. I think that's what I do when I get

1199
00:52:49,640 --> 00:52:51,320
Speaker 3: my newbies. But I gotta get a mammogram.

1200
00:52:51,360 --> 00:52:54,480
Speaker 2: Here's also a thing for the I'm for mammogram myself.

1201
00:52:54,600 --> 00:52:56,680
Speaker 2: Please get your mammogram.

1202
00:52:56,000 --> 00:53:01,560
Speaker 1: New Year's reminders, mammogram, skin check, skin chat check, mold check.

1203
00:53:02,000 --> 00:53:03,240
Speaker 3: Uh, get your.

1204
00:53:03,080 --> 00:53:06,719
Speaker 1: Eyes checked, get you know what, an ocular exam. When

1205
00:53:06,760 --> 00:53:07,680
Speaker 1: was the last time you did that?

1206
00:53:08,239 --> 00:53:10,800
Speaker 2: It's funny you should say. My eye doctor canceled my

1207
00:53:10,840 --> 00:53:13,160
Speaker 2: appointment on me in November, and I need to reschedule

1208
00:53:13,320 --> 00:53:15,560
Speaker 2: because I I think I need reading glasses and I'm

1209
00:53:15,560 --> 00:53:15,799
Speaker 2: just not.

1210
00:53:16,000 --> 00:53:16,440
Speaker 3: I can't.

1211
00:53:16,840 --> 00:53:17,440
Speaker 2: I'm over it.

1212
00:53:17,680 --> 00:53:18,480
Speaker 3: You're gonna need it.

1213
00:53:18,920 --> 00:53:19,520
Speaker 2: Stop.

1214
00:53:19,960 --> 00:53:22,040
Speaker 1: I have to wear reading I have to wear far

1215
00:53:22,160 --> 00:53:23,920
Speaker 1: glasses with closed glasses.

1216
00:53:23,960 --> 00:53:25,280
Speaker 2: We already had lasik once.

1217
00:53:25,680 --> 00:53:27,720
Speaker 3: Oh see, I don't qualify for lasik.

1218
00:53:28,040 --> 00:53:30,319
Speaker 2: I had lasik once and I think it's why I

1219
00:53:30,320 --> 00:53:35,680
Speaker 2: have dry eye, but maybe not. But yeah, so now

1220
00:53:35,719 --> 00:53:37,759
Speaker 2: I have to read, like I'm fifty.

1221
00:53:37,480 --> 00:53:39,840
Speaker 1: Three, but how much are you reading? I do a

1222
00:53:39,840 --> 00:53:41,160
Speaker 1: lot of audiobook listening.

1223
00:53:41,480 --> 00:53:43,080
Speaker 2: Well, I used to read a lot, and I want

1224
00:53:43,080 --> 00:53:45,560
Speaker 2: to do that again without getting a migraine. So hence

1225
00:53:45,600 --> 00:53:49,319
Speaker 2: I need glasses because I'm at that place where the

1226
00:53:49,360 --> 00:53:50,080
Speaker 2: eyeball's hurt.

1227
00:53:50,640 --> 00:53:53,360
Speaker 3: Can you see can you go from the remote to

1228
00:53:53,400 --> 00:53:54,000
Speaker 3: the television?

1229
00:53:54,040 --> 00:53:56,640
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, absolutely, But it's like the finer It's like

1230
00:53:56,680 --> 00:53:58,920
Speaker 2: the finer print on boxes and things. Let's say this

1231
00:53:59,080 --> 00:54:02,359
Speaker 2: was let's sit down right, No, I can rebrown. Let's

1232
00:54:02,360 --> 00:54:05,400
Speaker 2: say that we had a white box with silver printing.

1233
00:54:05,760 --> 00:54:09,720
Speaker 2: Oh wow, wait, now that's just brags, you know. Sometimes

1234
00:54:09,719 --> 00:54:12,320
Speaker 2: some of the ingredients, I'm like, what the that say?

1235
00:54:12,520 --> 00:54:13,280
Speaker 3: Yeah?

1236
00:54:13,440 --> 00:54:15,560
Speaker 2: And then I like to scroll at nighttime, so I

1237
00:54:15,560 --> 00:54:17,080
Speaker 2: think my eyeball is just like well.

1238
00:54:17,160 --> 00:54:19,560
Speaker 3: Also, sometimes I'll forget and I'll turn.

1239
00:54:19,440 --> 00:54:23,399
Speaker 1: Down my yes you're light light, and then the next

1240
00:54:23,480 --> 00:54:24,960
Speaker 1: day I feel like I've gone blind.

1241
00:54:25,080 --> 00:54:26,719
Speaker 3: I'm like I can't see anything, and them I'm.

1242
00:54:26,640 --> 00:54:27,800
Speaker 2: Like, oh yeah, I straight.

1243
00:54:28,040 --> 00:54:30,680
Speaker 3: Plus, now I have the privacy screen. Do you have that?

1244
00:54:32,239 --> 00:54:33,279
Speaker 2: I should have one?

1245
00:54:33,400 --> 00:54:34,759
Speaker 3: Can you see my text right now?

1246
00:54:35,600 --> 00:54:38,160
Speaker 2: No, bitch, I can't. I can see that you've opened

1247
00:54:38,160 --> 00:54:42,080
Speaker 2: a window, but you can't. I can't see anything good

1248
00:54:42,239 --> 00:54:44,560
Speaker 2: because you know, I saw a guy cheating on his

1249
00:54:44,600 --> 00:54:49,240
Speaker 2: wife on Southwest. Yeah, on my way to Vegas, had

1250
00:54:49,280 --> 00:54:52,839
Speaker 2: his phone open, and I almost said, like, Yo, this.

1251
00:54:52,880 --> 00:54:53,640
Speaker 3: Is going to backfire.

1252
00:54:53,719 --> 00:54:56,520
Speaker 2: Dude, don't be you know you need a privacy screen.

1253
00:54:58,080 --> 00:54:59,319
Speaker 3: Now, you shouldn't be doing this.

1254
00:54:59,440 --> 00:55:01,400
Speaker 2: You needn't I need a privacy screen. I can tell

1255
00:55:01,440 --> 00:55:02,719
Speaker 2: this is going to be a great weekend for you.

1256
00:55:02,760 --> 00:55:04,160
Speaker 2: I was doing bed at all on Blonde in my

1257
00:55:04,239 --> 00:55:06,520
Speaker 2: residency in Vegas. I was flying there and the guy

1258
00:55:07,000 --> 00:55:09,520
Speaker 2: we were flying all Southwest and the guy next to

1259
00:55:09,560 --> 00:55:11,560
Speaker 2: me and I was in the aisle. The guy next

1260
00:55:11,600 --> 00:55:15,600
Speaker 2: to me on his aisle, he had his phone open

1261
00:55:15,640 --> 00:55:18,319
Speaker 2: and he was texting his Vegas moment, his Vegas girl,

1262
00:55:18,320 --> 00:55:20,719
Speaker 2: And I was like, yeah, I can see everything over there,

1263
00:55:22,040 --> 00:55:23,719
Speaker 2: and you need a privacy screen. I'm not going to

1264
00:55:23,760 --> 00:55:25,440
Speaker 2: get into anybody's morals. I'm just trying to.

1265
00:55:25,440 --> 00:55:28,080
Speaker 3: Help you out, Like, just figure it out. I'll close

1266
00:55:28,120 --> 00:55:30,040
Speaker 3: that up a little smaller.

1267
00:55:30,120 --> 00:55:34,239
Speaker 2: Yeah. No, it was pictures and stuff, not racy, you know,

1268
00:55:34,440 --> 00:55:35,440
Speaker 2: Just like I'm so excited.

1269
00:55:37,760 --> 00:55:39,760
Speaker 3: I love that. We'll just go deep down the rabbit

1270
00:55:39,760 --> 00:55:41,279
Speaker 3: hole of somebody we don't know their name.

1271
00:55:42,160 --> 00:55:43,760
Speaker 2: I can't help it. It was right there.

1272
00:55:44,080 --> 00:55:45,840
Speaker 3: No, but you realized that then I would have to

1273
00:55:45,880 --> 00:55:47,440
Speaker 3: figure out who he was on Instagram.

1274
00:55:47,480 --> 00:55:48,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, I would left it right now.

1275
00:55:48,400 --> 00:55:49,800
Speaker 3: I would have had to find the wife.

1276
00:55:50,000 --> 00:55:51,800
Speaker 1: Then I would have had to go through and figure

1277
00:55:51,800 --> 00:55:53,480
Speaker 1: out who his brother was and his sister.

1278
00:55:54,120 --> 00:55:56,719
Speaker 3: I can't help myself. I can't. I can't do that.

1279
00:55:57,239 --> 00:55:58,040
Speaker 3: I had a show to do.

1280
00:55:59,360 --> 00:56:02,200
Speaker 2: Well, do you have anything planned? Are you going to

1281
00:56:02,280 --> 00:56:04,560
Speaker 2: get a facial? Are you gonna go hiking? Are you

1282
00:56:04,560 --> 00:56:06,800
Speaker 2: gonna have a girl's night out with Kyle in the attic?

1283
00:56:09,440 --> 00:56:11,120
Speaker 2: Are you going to pack up and go to Aspen?

1284
00:56:11,640 --> 00:56:18,959
Speaker 3: You know what? I actually I was thinking that maybe

1285
00:56:19,000 --> 00:56:21,680
Speaker 3: you and I could do something special. What Yeah, I

1286
00:56:21,719 --> 00:56:24,640
Speaker 3: don't know. Oh my gosh, don't know what we could do.

1287
00:56:24,760 --> 00:56:26,240
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, I'm gonna look crazy.

1288
00:56:26,239 --> 00:56:29,560
Speaker 1: But maybe we should go somewhere like in in conspicuous,

1289
00:56:29,640 --> 00:56:30,520
Speaker 1: like Craigs.

1290
00:56:30,920 --> 00:56:34,759
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, that's it, because what that requires glam? I

1291
00:56:34,800 --> 00:56:37,239
Speaker 2: know what, one of these low budget nights.

1292
00:56:37,239 --> 00:56:40,840
Speaker 1: Well make us pay. Maybe we do the Pendry. Maybe

1293
00:56:40,880 --> 00:56:42,920
Speaker 1: we have some sort of holiday at the Pendry and

1294
00:56:42,960 --> 00:56:43,520
Speaker 1: we'll go live.

1295
00:56:44,160 --> 00:56:46,880
Speaker 3: We will go live with no glam. But here's the

1296
00:56:46,960 --> 00:56:47,799
Speaker 3: problem done.

1297
00:56:47,920 --> 00:56:50,319
Speaker 2: I'm getting my face burned off in like an hour.

1298
00:56:50,840 --> 00:56:52,759
Speaker 2: Don't be telling people we're going live.

1299
00:56:53,600 --> 00:56:53,920
Speaker 3: Listen.

1300
00:56:54,000 --> 00:56:56,560
Speaker 2: I know, hell, I need better heal from this.

1301
00:56:56,800 --> 00:57:00,000
Speaker 3: I need to get some laser. I have downtime now. Guys.

1302
00:57:00,120 --> 00:57:02,440
Speaker 1: We don't have another pod for two weeks and then

1303
00:57:02,440 --> 00:57:04,000
Speaker 1: I'm going to New York for Chicago.

1304
00:57:04,520 --> 00:57:07,319
Speaker 2: I book you off. You are booked and ready and

1305
00:57:07,400 --> 00:57:09,359
Speaker 2: blessed and well.

1306
00:57:09,480 --> 00:57:10,479
Speaker 3: Happy New Year's guys.

1307
00:57:10,520 --> 00:57:13,160
Speaker 1: We'll be back after the holidays to talk all things

1308
00:57:13,200 --> 00:57:14,080
Speaker 1: Diamonds in the Rough.

1309
00:57:14,200 --> 00:57:16,200
Speaker 3: Let us know anything else you'd like us to discuss,

1310
00:57:16,240 --> 00:57:16,480
Speaker 3: and you.

1311
00:57:16,440 --> 00:57:19,440
Speaker 2: Know what, We're going to discuss our twenty twenty five intentions.

1312
00:57:19,520 --> 00:57:22,680
Speaker 2: I don't say resolutions, I say intentions. I agree because

1313
00:57:22,720 --> 00:57:25,080
Speaker 2: I intend on you having better self talk.

1314
00:57:25,440 --> 00:57:27,920
Speaker 3: Thanks you guys for tuning in to another episode of

1315
00:57:28,000 --> 00:57:30,760
Speaker 3: Diamonds in the Rough with myself, Teddy Mellencamp.

1316
00:57:30,360 --> 00:57:33,439
Speaker 2: And Erica Jane. Thank you for listening, and we hope

1317
00:57:33,440 --> 00:57:34,080
Speaker 2: you enjoy it.

1318
00:57:34,320 --> 00:57:36,920
Speaker 3: Happy holidays and get your tickets for Chicago.

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Speaker 2: That's right, January twentieth through February ninth, and happy holidays, everybody.

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Speaker 3: I'll be there. Yay