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Speaker 1: It's Radio Survivor. I've been saying this for years. This

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Speaker 1: is Radio Survivor. We're going to find out in ten

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Speaker 1: years it was a science experiment. No, it's just like,

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Speaker 1: let's just let's just mess with everything and see if

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Speaker 1: they can manage to get people to continue listening.

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Speaker 2: Fred's show is chet.

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Speaker 1: That brings him a good point. I forgot about. Do

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Speaker 1: you still pee in the bushes every morning?

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Speaker 2: Uh? No, I do not.

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Speaker 3: I stopped peeing outside now in the morning. What about

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Speaker 3: in your bedroom? I don't pee in my bedroom on

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Speaker 3: my bedroom floor anymore either. Oh wow, trying to trade

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Speaker 3: my bladder used.

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Speaker 2: To do that. Wait what Yeah, Like growing up I was.

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Speaker 3: A kid, I would pee on the carpet in my

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Speaker 2: Oh my god.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so then my parents had a ripped the carpet

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Speaker 3: out because they probably spelled like pee.

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Speaker 2: You were a kid, but like he was old enough

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Speaker 2: to know. Yeah, yeah, I was training.

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Speaker 1: That's what I mean, Like you were making a choice. Wow, Okay,

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Speaker 1: that one. I must have forgotten about it. It's the

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Speaker 1: Fread Show. Good morning, Thanks for having us on the radio.

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Speaker 1: On the iHeart app live and anytime search for the

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Speaker 1: Fred Show on demand. Shelley, I'm curious in all of

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Speaker 1: you guys with partners as well, but bird theory?

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Speaker 2: Have you heard about bird theory?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: This is another test? It sure is a test. Another test.

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Speaker 2: I don't like a test.

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Speaker 1: I don't like a situation where I'm in a relationship

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Speaker 1: or a friendship and someone is doing something intentionally to

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Speaker 1: test my reaction. I don't like that, and then they

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Speaker 1: already know what I'm supposed to do in their heads ahead,

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Speaker 1: or whomever's asking me to do this. The bird theory

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Speaker 1: the bird test is a social media trend in relationship

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Speaker 1: concept where a person points out something mundane like a bird,

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Speaker 1: to gauge their partner's reaction as a measure of attentiveness

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Speaker 1: and connection.

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Speaker 2: Did you try it?

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Speaker 4: I'm way too scared because I already know what the

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Speaker 4: answer is going to be and I'll probably end up

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Speaker 4: a fight, Like, he's not going to care that I

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Speaker 4: said there's a bird, like, take a look. He My

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Speaker 4: husband supports me and all that I do, But my

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Speaker 4: husband's too logical and he's not going to care about

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Speaker 4: a bird at that moment.

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Speaker 1: So he would say, you would say, hey, look that's

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Speaker 1: a that's a pretty bird out there, and you'd go, okay.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, he would just be like, I don't know, like

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Speaker 2: Like he'd be like, okay, what would Mike do if

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Speaker 2: you pointed out a bird? Yeah, I mean he would

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Speaker 2: do the same thing.

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Speaker 1: We got two mist Now we got military, We got

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Speaker 1: the mechanic.

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Speaker 2: Okay, military you apologies.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, just know which one I'm talking about. I didn't

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Speaker 1: say like the mechanic, so it's not your fault. What

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Speaker 1: would what would what would like the mechanic do?

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Speaker 2: I think?

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Speaker 3: I mean I do this like if we're like driving

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Speaker 3: my god, deer, Like I don't know, I don't know

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Speaker 3: if it's that, but I think like we just like animals,

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Speaker 3: the bird. Okay, what if it were something else?

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Speaker 1: What if it were like look at look at the pothole,

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Speaker 1: I mean something that was like less of an interest.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know, like I'll show him like I'm like, oh, man,

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Speaker 3: I look at this picture of Kim Kardashian on Instagram,

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Speaker 2: They'll still look okay, all right? And then and then

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Speaker 1: But what would so he if you just pointed out

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Speaker 2: What would what would he do?

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Speaker 4: When you look at it the lines of hobby He'd

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Speaker 2: Doing, like he yeah, I don't know that he would

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Speaker 1: Any anything I'm that you already are looking for an

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Speaker 1: outcome from me, and then you've already established what the

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Speaker 1: outcome means. I don't like it, especially if you got

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Speaker 1: it on TikTok. But the bid is one partner makes

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Speaker 1: look at that bird the turn the other partner responds

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Speaker 1: turning forward. A partner who turns to look responds with

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Speaker 1: be a connected person if you don't pay attention and

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Speaker 1: don't care. A partner who ignores, dismisses, or gets annoyed

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Speaker 1: obvious to me. Okay, I'm either into what you're pointing

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Speaker 1: out or I'm not. But I think the amount of

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Speaker 2: In what you're pointing out.

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Speaker 1: Like if you're pointing out that you're choking and I

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Speaker 1: turn away, then that's the problem. But if you're pointing

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Speaker 1: out that you're choking and then I try and save you,

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Speaker 1: call it, you know, for help and do the Heimlich maneuver, well,

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Speaker 1: then I obviously care.

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Speaker 2: But I mean that's different.

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Speaker 1: Then hey, look it's something very normal that you see

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Speaker 1: every day. I don't know that I would necessarily. I

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Speaker 1: think it comes down to not everything that my partner

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Speaker 1: says is the most brilliant thing I've ever heard, And

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Speaker 1: that doesn't make me a bad person. That just means,

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Speaker 1: like we're living together, we're together every day. We spend

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Speaker 1: But I don't think that makes me inattentive, does it?

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Speaker 2: That's what they're saying. But I don't know.

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Speaker 4: I feel like you and my husband Hobby are very

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Speaker 4: logical people that you would take it a little too

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Speaker 4: far with this dumb trend, Like I'm just asking you

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Speaker 4: to pay attention for five seconds and look at this bird.

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Speaker 1: So the VERD test is a simplified way to illustrate

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Speaker 1: concepts from the Gotman Institute. Doctor John Gottman's research found

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Speaker 1: that happy couples turn toward each other's bids for connection

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Speaker 1: eighty six percent of the time. In contrast, couples who

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Speaker 1: are headed for divorce only turned towards these bits about

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Speaker 1: thirty three percent of the time. A positive reaction suggests

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Speaker 1: a healthy and supportive relationship where partners feel seen and heard.

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Speaker 1: A negative reaction can indicate a lack of attention, emotional distance,

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Speaker 1: or that the relationship might be in trouble considerations. The

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Speaker 1: test can be applied to anything, not just birds. It

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Speaker 1: works in various relationships, not just romantic ones. While the

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Speaker 1: theory has a basis in relationship science, it's a simplified

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Speaker 1: tool factor. It's like partner being tired, distracted, or genuinely

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Speaker 1: uninterested in birds can lead to a negative reaction that

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Speaker 1: isn't a true reflection of the relationship's health. Some argue

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Speaker 1: that constantly using the tests for minor things could become

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Speaker 1: annoying over time. That's the other thing is I feel

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Speaker 1: like you're gonna try this many many times and then

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Speaker 1: either you're gonna get a false positive where finally someone

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Speaker 1: picks up on it is like oh cool, another bird,

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Speaker 1: or or they're gonna get annoyed with you, and then

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Speaker 1: it's not really a test of whether they care, they're

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Speaker 1: just like, why are you using a stupid Internet test?

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Speaker 2: On me. I don't do trends or tests. I really don't.

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Speaker 2: You don't do tests. I'm very testy. I am very

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Speaker 2: a testy person.

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Speaker 5: I know.

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Speaker 4: I wanted to say that five minutes ago, but I

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Speaker 2: But I don't like.

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Speaker 4: Doing them for the show, like I only doing them

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Speaker 4: for like the TikTok or like the look this, I'm

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Speaker 2: I don't want to get you. But you're not a prank.

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Speaker 2: I'm not a prank.

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Speaker 4: No, I'm pranks, but I don't test people to their limits.

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Speaker 1: That is true that I have a feeling. I just

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Speaker 1: I think this is going to set you up for failure.

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Speaker 1: It is because most people are not all that impressed

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Speaker 1: like like, hey, look at this amazing adult video I found,

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Speaker 1: Like boom, I'm paying attention, like look at the airplane.

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Speaker 1: Look there's an airplane. What kind of airplanes? And I'm

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Speaker 1: I'm paying attention like like come on, like come on,

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Speaker 1: like let's let's come up with ways that. Like if

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Speaker 1: if you walk in a new lingerie and new skims and.

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Speaker 2: And Mike's a mechanic.

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Speaker 1: Becuse now Harry specified which Mike I'm talking about, because

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Speaker 1: their military Mike walked in, that's weird. But if Michael

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Speaker 1: that's bad. But if you're like, look at the pigeon

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Speaker 1: and it's just pigeoning and he doesn't turn to look

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Speaker 1: at you, I don't know that I think your relationship

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Speaker 1: is doomed.

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Speaker 2: No, I don't think so.

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Speaker 3: I think it's like situational too, Like I know if

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Speaker 3: he's in his phone, like he is a very one

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Speaker 3: So like if he's in his phone, I know that

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Speaker 3: I cannot tell him anything because he's not paying attention

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Speaker 2: You'd be like, look at that house is on fire,

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Speaker 2: and he like won't even hear me. I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Maybe I'm just flailing at this test. And I'm just

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Speaker 1: publicly proclaiming that I'm flailing at this test, and everyone's

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Speaker 1: listening now going, this is why you're not in a relationship, dude,

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Speaker 1: because because if she points out the bird, look at

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Speaker 1: the damn bird, and I'm like, yeah, but I'd fall

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Speaker 1: for this. I would fall for this kitch in the

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Speaker 1: lives here because I wouldn't pay. I don't necessarily think

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Speaker 1: I would be impressed by a bird, Like, give me

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Speaker 1: something better, Like, hey, look at the lion walking down

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Speaker 2: Like okay, right now, we look at that zebra.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, wow, Like I'm about to tell you, but monkeys

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Speaker 1: that got released and have herpes and hepatitis. Look at

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Speaker 1: the monkeypatia Now I am now let me see where

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Speaker 1: He is the Fred Show. Good morning, thanks for having

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Speaker 1: anytime search for a freend show on demand. Have you guys,

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Speaker 1: ever caught a cheater? Have you ever had to catch

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Speaker 1: a cheater. Yes, Yes, you've been cheated on.

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Speaker 2: Yes, I know.

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Speaker 7: I couldn't believe it either. I couldn't believe that man

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Speaker 2: I mean unbelievable how much you feel now. I don't

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Speaker 1: You just maybe this is why you seem to wear

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Speaker 1: The last seven or eight years, I figured you got

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Speaker 2: I'm never at home. I'm the perfect person to cheat.

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Speaker 2: I don't mean literally, I just mean like out of

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Speaker 1: But now you're distracted by TikTok all the time, so

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Speaker 2: If I wanted to cheat on you, I would just

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Speaker 1: Hey, look, baby, I got you a bigger iPad with

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Speaker 2: In the meantime, I'm.

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Speaker 6: Umping Jalo, Beyonce, Shakira, Kiki, I've all been cheated on,

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Speaker 2: But never Paulina.

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Speaker 4: Never, Paulina, You've never been cheated on, not that I

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Speaker 2: First of all, that's a sense by itself. I can't

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Speaker 1: that I find out what that we're not. I bring

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Speaker 2: They're gonna hate me for announcing this.

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Speaker 1: I get, but I don't care if the cheaters are

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Speaker 1: Your supermarket loyalty card is the latest way to reveal

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Speaker 1: investigator says it apps like Club Card or similar grocery

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Speaker 1: The app logs wear and when purchases are made.

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Speaker 1: If your partner says, while I'm working late, then the

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Speaker 2: So valid, so valid.

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Speaker 4: So I share the loyalty app for one of the

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Speaker 1: I'm like, not for your boyfriend to dip in chocolate,

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Speaker 1: right and then he eat off your body. That's that's

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Speaker 1: what they were, right.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you know me, I always hearing the whip cream chew,

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Speaker 4: These are five dollars, like absolutely, so I'm all excited

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Speaker 1: And and for whom who was he dining with to

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Speaker 2: Dining with the fire department? I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, a bunch of fire fighters. I want to see

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Speaker 1: They got to save you visual I know. Well, like

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Speaker 4: So sometimes they'll go like stock up or whatever, whoever's

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Speaker 4: who was going, so he took my strawberries for a dollar.

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Speaker 4: I learned yesterday they got a whole gym in those firehouses.

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Speaker 6: Well obviously a kitchen, but I didn't know you could

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Speaker 1: my friend Chris is a firefighter there and and I

441
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Speaker 1: went there for I'm been there a couple of times,

442
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Speaker 1: and he was a check this out, and it's like

443
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Speaker 1: if you're looking at the building to the right, you

444
00:18:40,680 --> 00:18:42,480
Speaker 1: go kind of around the corner. It's like this half

445
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Speaker 1: court indoor basketball court because they're there all day. So

446
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Speaker 1: and then they made I get you know, who knows

447
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Speaker 1: what they're gonna get called. So there's a gym, there's

448
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Speaker 1: a basketball court in there. I'm sure they have like

449
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Speaker 1: TVs and video games. Is they get occupied themselves and

450
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Speaker 1: so someone's their lives save.

451
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Speaker 6: I almost was convinced to become a firefighter at this

452
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Speaker 6: career day, Like, I it sounds great.

453
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Speaker 2: I mean they're risking their lives. No, of course, of course,

454
00:19:03,560 --> 00:19:04,800
Speaker 2: Oh I think it's a great job.

455
00:19:04,880 --> 00:19:07,320
Speaker 4: Like obviously, like there's a risk and yeah, you know,

456
00:19:07,400 --> 00:19:08,399
Speaker 4: better be ready for that.

457
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Speaker 2: The cop was like, don't be a cop, Like be

458
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Speaker 2: a firefighter. I was like, okay, wow.

459
00:19:12,840 --> 00:19:15,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, with the career change, she would be the volunteer

460
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Speaker 1: fire chief for her village.

461
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Speaker 2: And listen. Yeah, I don't know. I just was really

462
00:19:21,280 --> 00:19:25,000
Speaker 2: overthinking everything. Yeah, those benefits, ooh girl something. Yeah, they

463
00:19:25,040 --> 00:19:28,520
Speaker 2: deserve it, they do, of course, but you know, back

464
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Speaker 2: to cheating.

465
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Speaker 1: I'm sorry, no, no, don't be I'm just trying to

466
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Speaker 1: think if I've ever caught anyone I know that, Like,

467
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Speaker 1: I've been in some loose situations where I was told

468
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Speaker 1: that the previous person was no longer involved and that

469
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Speaker 1: turned out to like, for example, I have a history

470
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Speaker 1: of this. I did one girl and she interviewed for

471
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Speaker 1: a job in another city, and I, again, we weren't

472
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Speaker 1: like we were messing around consistently. But the most important

473
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Speaker 1: part of the story is the only reason we were

474
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Speaker 1: doing that is because I was told that the ex

475
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Speaker 1: fiance was no longer in the picture. And so I

476
00:20:00,280 --> 00:20:03,560
Speaker 1: sent Champagne to her room to celebrate her job interview

477
00:20:03,600 --> 00:20:06,880
Speaker 1: in this city, and he was there. So the Champagne

478
00:20:06,880 --> 00:20:09,119
Speaker 1: shows up at the door. I heard the story later

479
00:20:09,480 --> 00:20:11,480
Speaker 1: because she told it to someone else, who then told

480
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Speaker 1: it to me. The Champagne shows up at the door,

481
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Speaker 1: and it's delivered and he accepts it, and I guess

482
00:20:18,640 --> 00:20:21,600
Speaker 1: there was a card, right, I don't know. I didn't

483
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Speaker 1: get all the details, but like, that's happened more than

484
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Speaker 1: once where I've done something like that, only for the

485
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Speaker 1: person who's not supposed to be there to be there

486
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Speaker 1: to see it, and well where'd that come from? Only

487
00:20:29,960 --> 00:20:32,639
Speaker 1: see the card? Who sent you champagne your room? She

488
00:20:32,760 --> 00:20:35,040
Speaker 1: didn't get the job, by the way, or the guy.

489
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Speaker 2: Dang. I walked in on cheating and it's really content.

490
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Speaker 2: It's one of the worst pains that I've ever Like, no,

491
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Speaker 2: you were.

492
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Speaker 1: Just like I have no idea, and then what happened?

493
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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, can you relive it briefly or it's traumatic?

494
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Speaker 2: It was really bad.

495
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Speaker 6: I walked in and this girl was in a thong

496
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Speaker 6: with her butt up in the air on top of

497
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Speaker 6: my man.

498
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Speaker 1: It was, yeah, just making sure he didn't have any

499
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Speaker 1: like canters mold or something.

500
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Speaker 2: That's what it was.

501
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Speaker 6: I actually like blacked out, like I don't even in

502
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Speaker 6: that moment, I was so like, oh my was this

503
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Speaker 6: in college?

504
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Speaker 2: So this was actually a year ago. Yeah, this is thanks.

505
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Speaker 6: For asking No, no, yeah, yeah it was And yeah,

506
00:21:18,080 --> 00:21:19,879
Speaker 6: there it was a party and everyone was there and

507
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Speaker 6: so everybody saw me goo baalistic and.

508
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Speaker 1: But it just still I've never been No, I haven't

509
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Speaker 1: been shooter down. But I mean, to your point, this

510
00:21:29,000 --> 00:21:32,520
Speaker 1: is not the same. But I have had, like in college,

511
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Speaker 1: I have had the nightmare of the girl that I liked,

512
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Speaker 1: you like, walk out.

513
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Speaker 2: Of your fraternity bedroom or whatever.

514
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Speaker 1: You know, for Saturday morning you go to brunch or

515
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Speaker 1: breakfast or whatever, and the girl that I like, the

516
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Speaker 1: girl that I wanted to hook up with, is walking

517
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Speaker 1: out of my fraternity brothers And it's like, oh, man,

518
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Speaker 1: first of all, I announced, I made the announced all

519
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Speaker 1: the bulletin board downstairs. I was targeting this young lady.

520
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Speaker 1: Second of all, but it's like heartbreaking. It's like, oh,

521
00:22:02,680 --> 00:22:04,879
Speaker 1: you chose somebody else, But no, that's nothing like being

522
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Speaker 1: in love with someone. And oh my god, I can't

523
00:22:07,520 --> 00:22:11,120
Speaker 1: imagine other ways that people get caught cheating. The one

524
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Speaker 1: that's tails so oldest time. And if you've got a

525
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Speaker 1: good one eight five five five nine one one o

526
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Speaker 1: three five I thought I want to bring back trauma.

527
00:22:17,080 --> 00:22:18,760
Speaker 1: But if you've got a good way that you cut

528
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Speaker 1: someone cheating, the tale's the oldest time. And I think

529
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Speaker 1: people are getting smart to this is the Apple idea.

530
00:22:22,960 --> 00:22:26,080
Speaker 1: But for a long time people were idiots because they'd

531
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Speaker 1: have the same like their iPad that was unlocked or

532
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Speaker 1: that they gave the password to. They're like, oh see,

533
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Speaker 1: I'm gonna outsmart the system. You could have my iPad

534
00:22:35,720 --> 00:22:39,280
Speaker 1: password or my MacBook password, but you don't.

535
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Speaker 2: You don't.

536
00:22:40,040 --> 00:22:42,239
Speaker 1: I'm not giving you my phone password. That's where all

537
00:22:42,280 --> 00:22:42,959
Speaker 1: this stuff is.

538
00:22:43,119 --> 00:22:44,680
Speaker 2: No, it's not. It's on all of them.

539
00:22:44,880 --> 00:22:46,880
Speaker 1: So like I know so many people who have been

540
00:22:46,960 --> 00:22:50,160
Speaker 1: on their iPad, married couple. They use one person's ID

541
00:22:50,720 --> 00:22:52,520
Speaker 1: and they're just going to you know, doing whatever, and

542
00:22:52,560 --> 00:22:54,280
Speaker 1: they're not even trying to snoop. And then they see

543
00:22:54,280 --> 00:22:56,640
Speaker 1: a little green message box down there because all your

544
00:22:56,640 --> 00:22:58,520
Speaker 1: text if you set it up that way, go right

545
00:22:58,560 --> 00:23:00,520
Speaker 1: to that. And then people click on it and they're

546
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Speaker 1: like wait a minute, and then they read a.

547
00:23:02,480 --> 00:23:07,639
Speaker 2: Whole dialogue and that's it. Tales the oldest time, so old.

548
00:23:07,880 --> 00:23:10,680
Speaker 1: If you're going to be a cheater, different Apple IDs

549
00:23:10,880 --> 00:23:15,280
Speaker 1: or whatever whatever, you use. The email trash folder is

550
00:23:15,680 --> 00:23:18,000
Speaker 1: a way that people go through stuff like do you

551
00:23:18,040 --> 00:23:21,159
Speaker 1: think that you deleted the evidence? But a lot of

552
00:23:21,200 --> 00:23:24,720
Speaker 1: people don't go as far as to like, that's sophisticated

553
00:23:24,800 --> 00:23:25,320
Speaker 1: cheating email.

554
00:23:25,400 --> 00:23:27,080
Speaker 2: Cheating cheating email.

555
00:23:27,359 --> 00:23:29,000
Speaker 1: I always like to email ahead of time. I hope

556
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Speaker 1: this email finds you. Well, this evening I plan to

557
00:23:31,680 --> 00:23:37,800
Speaker 1: cheat with you. Here's a calendar. Invite this cheating seven o'clock.

558
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Speaker 1: I learned fifteen minutes.

559
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Speaker 2: You know.

560
00:23:42,800 --> 00:23:45,199
Speaker 1: I guess people think that like they're being Okay, Well,

561
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Speaker 1: I erase the email, and then I can't remember the

562
00:23:47,480 --> 00:23:50,040
Speaker 1: last time at work I do it. But because for

563
00:23:50,040 --> 00:23:52,760
Speaker 1: so long, you only have so much storage. But like

564
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Speaker 1: other emails, I don't go in and delete the trash. Yeah,

565
00:23:58,400 --> 00:23:59,120
Speaker 1: but I'm also.

566
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Speaker 2: Not doing anything I shouldn't do rouser history.

567
00:24:01,440 --> 00:24:04,960
Speaker 1: I guess, how would you use this automatic log in

568
00:24:05,040 --> 00:24:06,200
Speaker 1: and passwords storage?

569
00:24:06,240 --> 00:24:06,840
Speaker 2: How would you do that?

570
00:24:07,040 --> 00:24:09,280
Speaker 1: Someone with physical access to your computer could use software

571
00:24:09,280 --> 00:24:11,760
Speaker 1: to discover passwords to various services and then log into

572
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Speaker 1: your accounts. Okay, I guess I don't know what I mean.

573
00:24:16,160 --> 00:24:17,960
Speaker 1: They could see if you were sending flowers or something.

574
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Speaker 1: They could see, you know, where you were spending your money.

575
00:24:21,600 --> 00:24:24,320
Speaker 1: I suppose, like so if I had your like if

576
00:24:24,320 --> 00:24:26,760
Speaker 1: I had your laptop password, then I could if I

577
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Speaker 1: got into that, then a lot of times I could

578
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Speaker 1: then log into anything.

579
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Speaker 2: Else because everything saved, right. Yeah, okay, I get that.

580
00:24:33,080 --> 00:24:36,399
Speaker 1: Key loggers and stalking apps like you can put stuff,

581
00:24:36,440 --> 00:24:38,479
Speaker 1: I know on computers where it will just track everything,

582
00:24:38,480 --> 00:24:40,840
Speaker 1: everything that's been putting the keyboard and like print it

583
00:24:40,880 --> 00:24:42,040
Speaker 1: out for you or give it to you in like

584
00:24:42,080 --> 00:24:44,879
Speaker 1: a document so you can see just the raw data

585
00:24:45,000 --> 00:24:47,359
Speaker 1: like what you know what I mean, like like what

586
00:24:47,400 --> 00:24:48,280
Speaker 1: people have been typing.

587
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Speaker 2: I mean, I don't know if it's on there, but

588
00:24:49,560 --> 00:24:51,720
Speaker 2: your deleted text folder. A lot of people don't even

589
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Speaker 2: know that that's a folder yet. Oh, I'm better take

590
00:24:55,000 --> 00:24:56,640
Speaker 2: a look at that, right, Yeah, you want to clear

591
00:24:56,680 --> 00:24:59,160
Speaker 2: that out first, man, I knew about that.

592
00:24:59,280 --> 00:25:04,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, let me see here. GPS trackers. Of course, sexting

593
00:25:04,560 --> 00:25:08,000
Speaker 1: apps give users a false sense of security, like Snapchat.

594
00:25:08,040 --> 00:25:10,000
Speaker 2: I guess that's I guess that's a sexting app.

595
00:25:10,000 --> 00:25:14,040
Speaker 1: According to these people, they allow you to send photos, captions,

596
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Speaker 1: and videos that self delete after a set amount of

597
00:25:16,280 --> 00:25:17,680
Speaker 1: time used after a few seconds.

598
00:25:19,240 --> 00:25:21,560
Speaker 2: Signal. Oh god, signal. We all know about that.

599
00:25:21,600 --> 00:25:24,680
Speaker 1: In the government, say, similar service, but for text messages

600
00:25:24,760 --> 00:25:29,080
Speaker 1: rather than images. I guess there's no guarantee that images

601
00:25:29,119 --> 00:25:32,560
Speaker 1: will be deleted, says the company's privacy policy. Oh that's

602
00:25:32,640 --> 00:25:36,840
Speaker 1: not it's encouraging. Hey, Laura, y Laura, how did you

603
00:25:36,880 --> 00:25:37,680
Speaker 1: catch your eggs cheating?

604
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Speaker 2: What happened?

605
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Speaker 9: Okay, so back in the day when flip phones were

606
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Speaker 9: a thing and you were able to call your voicemail

607
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Speaker 9: from another like your host phone. So one night I

608
00:25:49,800 --> 00:25:52,320
Speaker 9: let my actually use my phone because he didn't have one,

609
00:25:52,440 --> 00:25:54,320
Speaker 9: and he said he needed.

610
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Speaker 10: To use it, so I let't use it. And that morning,

611
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Speaker 10: when I woke up, I called my phone. I had

612
00:26:00,400 --> 00:26:03,600
Speaker 10: any miss calls. There was a voicemail on there from

613
00:26:03,640 --> 00:26:08,040
Speaker 10: the other woman's boyfriend saying you can go ahead and

614
00:26:08,160 --> 00:26:11,920
Speaker 10: keep the bee. I don't want her back. And when

615
00:26:12,080 --> 00:26:14,680
Speaker 10: I ended up going to the house, she was there

616
00:26:14,680 --> 00:26:15,440
Speaker 10: in bed with him.

617
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Speaker 2: I'm so sorry. That's terrible. Sorry.

618
00:26:19,640 --> 00:26:21,960
Speaker 10: Yeah, so thank the cell phone.

619
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Speaker 2: They've been great.

620
00:26:25,480 --> 00:26:28,520
Speaker 1: Threw it face and shoved it in it somewhere.

621
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Speaker 2: Yeah, what'd you do? What was your reaction?

622
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Speaker 9: Oh?

623
00:26:32,440 --> 00:26:35,119
Speaker 10: I went there and I started taking all of my

624
00:26:35,240 --> 00:26:37,159
Speaker 10: stuff out of the house, and I packed up my

625
00:26:37,280 --> 00:26:38,560
Speaker 10: vehicle and never went back.

626
00:26:38,640 --> 00:26:39,200
Speaker 2: There. You go.

627
00:26:40,119 --> 00:26:42,880
Speaker 10: She was so scared she would not come out from

628
00:26:42,960 --> 00:26:46,080
Speaker 10: underneath the blanket, and my ex at the time kept

629
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Speaker 10: pushing me out of the room while I was trying

630
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Speaker 10: to get myself because he didn't want me in there,

631
00:26:51,520 --> 00:26:53,879
Speaker 10: and seeing what was going on, and my sister and

632
00:26:53,960 --> 00:26:56,560
Speaker 10: her boy side were in the house and they ran

633
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Speaker 10: to the other side of the house with the kids

634
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Speaker 10: because they had young kids at the time, and they

635
00:27:00,720 --> 00:27:02,800
Speaker 10: took off the one to the other side because he

636
00:27:03,040 --> 00:27:05,000
Speaker 10: let me in the door when he wasn't supposed to.

637
00:27:05,440 --> 00:27:08,120
Speaker 1: Man, Laura, I'm sorry that happened, but thank you for calling.

638
00:27:08,200 --> 00:27:08,920
Speaker 1: Have a good weekend.

639
00:27:09,880 --> 00:27:10,640
Speaker 10: Thank you you guys.

640
00:27:10,960 --> 00:27:11,480
Speaker 2: Let you guys.

641
00:27:11,800 --> 00:27:14,639
Speaker 1: I love you too. Kenny G, Hi, Kenny G. It's

642
00:27:14,680 --> 00:27:19,960
Speaker 1: an honor. I got man for my money. When you're singing,

643
00:27:20,240 --> 00:27:22,639
Speaker 1: why can't we be lovers if we can't be friends? So,

644
00:27:22,680 --> 00:27:24,760
Speaker 1: I mean, for me on a Friday night, there's nothing better.

645
00:27:24,800 --> 00:27:28,440
Speaker 1: But how did you catch? You caught your cousin's boyfriend.

646
00:27:29,920 --> 00:27:32,840
Speaker 11: Yeah, so it's my cousin's boyfriend. At the time, they're

647
00:27:32,880 --> 00:27:37,199
Speaker 11: not not together. But I was actually this girl I

648
00:27:37,240 --> 00:27:40,200
Speaker 11: went to college with was like, yeah, I'm dating this guy,

649
00:27:40,440 --> 00:27:42,320
Speaker 11: and she tells me about him, and I'm like, wait

650
00:27:42,320 --> 00:27:44,520
Speaker 11: a minute, and then I see who it is and

651
00:27:44,560 --> 00:27:48,000
Speaker 11: I'm like, oh, that's my cousin's boyfriend. So I'm like,

652
00:27:48,040 --> 00:27:50,560
Speaker 11: we need to set this up. So set it up.

653
00:27:50,680 --> 00:27:54,240
Speaker 11: She was supposed to meet over to his house, like

654
00:27:54,400 --> 00:27:55,919
Speaker 11: and uh, well, he was supposed to go.

655
00:27:55,880 --> 00:27:56,359
Speaker 2: To her house.

656
00:27:56,760 --> 00:27:59,080
Speaker 11: I stayed a block away, saw a car pull up.

657
00:27:59,560 --> 00:28:01,560
Speaker 11: I pulled behind him like cheater.

658
00:28:01,400 --> 00:28:04,280
Speaker 2: Styles oh yeah, and had him come out of the house.

659
00:28:04,359 --> 00:28:06,720
Speaker 11: And I'm like, all right, dude, we gotta have a conversation.

660
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Speaker 5: Man.

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Speaker 1: This guy's Joey del Greco over here from Cheaters Man

662
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Speaker 1: on this day of the investigation.

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Speaker 2: Wow.

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Speaker 11: And then the funny part is this now I'm married

665
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Speaker 11: to his sister.

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Speaker 2: Wow. Wow. Y'all keep in the family, don't you. It's

667
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Speaker 2: a little weird.

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Speaker 1: But okay, Oh, thank you for clarifying, Kenny g all right,

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Speaker 1: well keep making great music. Okay, bye, have a nice day.

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Speaker 2: I love this.

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Speaker 1: This is from HowStuffWorks dot Com. Ten ways the technology

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Speaker 1: betrays cheaters reason number one human.

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Speaker 2: Error, right.

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Speaker 5: Right.

675
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Speaker 1: If you're gonna be a cheater, don't be a dumb cheaters.

676
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Speaker 1: I mean, that's the world of story.

677
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Speaker 2: This is the Fred Show. It's friend for the frend Show.

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Speaker 2: My friend Amy with a righty is here on one

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Speaker 2: of three five. Kiss good morning, Amy, Hey.

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Speaker 8: Hey, Hey, we got some more wedding, wedding, wedding, what,

681
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Speaker 8: wedding events, wedding.

682
00:29:05,520 --> 00:29:08,160
Speaker 2: Money, wedding morning, wedding.

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Speaker 1: Now. Last week, Kiki tried to disconnect the wire attached

684
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Speaker 1: to the phone because she's hoping that if people don't

685
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Speaker 1: answer that she gets the money. You guys are gonna

686
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Speaker 1: have to work that out separately. But you did give

687
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Speaker 1: away two grand last week, and we're hooking people up

688
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Speaker 1: with money for their wedding and the grand prize. After all,

689
00:29:24,840 --> 00:29:27,920
Speaker 1: this one couple gets five thousand dollars from Amy wither

690
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Speaker 1: Right and one one hundred truck wrec.

691
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Speaker 2: At least good morning, Hi, good morning, How are you Hill?

692
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Speaker 2: How about yourself? Do you ingreat the whole crews year?

693
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Speaker 1: And my friend Amy wither Right from one one hundred

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Speaker 1: truck reck say, Hi, guys married in.

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Speaker 8: October of this year. It's pretty exciting you and Ryan

696
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Speaker 8: time to not Yes, absolutely, very exciting.

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Speaker 2: Lots of work to do.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, So I'm looking at your note it says you

699
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Speaker 1: could use one thousand bucks for some decor that you

700
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Speaker 1: still need. You're also trying to make sure that you

701
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Speaker 1: have an amazing memory table in honor of your late father,

702
00:30:01,280 --> 00:30:04,959
Speaker 1: my fiance's grandfather, and other family members that you've lost.

703
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Speaker 1: The wedding date that we chose a significant to my

704
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Speaker 1: late father and my fiance's late grandfather. We'd like to

705
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Speaker 1: have a physical presence to honor them on our special day,

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Speaker 1: which is extremely sweet.

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Speaker 2: Amy. What should we do for Alisha?

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Speaker 8: Well, Alisha, I have no idea what this kind of

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Speaker 8: thing cost, but can you do it up the decor

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Speaker 8: you want for one thousand dollars?

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Speaker 2: Oh? Yeah, absolutely anything for my dad and his grandfather.

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Speaker 8: Oh my god, she has not listened to us enough.

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Speaker 8: Fred Geeking, I'm gonna need you to call Alisha on

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Speaker 8: the side.

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Speaker 2: You got a coach, you know.

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Speaker 8: The answer is a thousand would be great, but I

717
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Speaker 8: could do so much more if I had more than

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Speaker 8: one thousand dollars. And then I would say from one

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Speaker 8: eight hundred truck, right, you're getting two thousand dollars for

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Speaker 8: your wedding, Alisha?

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Speaker 2: Two thousand? Well, are you serious? No, she's very seriously.

722
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Speaker 2: You got eight.

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Speaker 1: But I will say you gotta learn to be grateful

724
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Speaker 1: what you are. But also a little negotiation skilled with

725
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Speaker 1: the lawyer. You know, if you said it were I

726
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Speaker 1: don't know, Amy, I think that table is gonna cost

727
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Speaker 1: seven million dollars, you know, with more.

728
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Speaker 2: I'm just grateful for whatever we can get. Oh my goodness,

729
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Speaker 2: thank you so much. I believe that.

730
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Speaker 1: I believe it, and you sound you sell like you

731
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Speaker 1: got a lot of energy and a great spirit. I'm

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Speaker 1: so happy and excited for you. I know, Amy is

733
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Speaker 1: two in the whole show. But enjoy your two thousand dollars.

734
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Speaker 1: You signed up for the five grand. You might win

735
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Speaker 1: that too at the end of all of this. So

736
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Speaker 1: congratulations and have an amazing wedding, and enjoy your money.

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Speaker 2: Thank you, Thank you so much.

738
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Speaker 3: You guys just means to watch us.

739
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Speaker 2: You know, there are a lot of hot threads. I

740
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Speaker 2: don't know if there are. Was kind of fun. Oh yeah,

741
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Speaker 2: he was. I like a man go to work.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, his feet on the ground. That's get there, you know.

743
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Speaker 1: That's on Fred's show is on how do you eat

744
00:32:08,600 --> 00:32:13,040
Speaker 1: your banana? More importantly, how do you I guess open

745
00:32:13,160 --> 00:32:16,320
Speaker 1: the banana. There's really debate about this, like you're not

746
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Speaker 1: in your head like you've heard this before.

747
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Speaker 6: Yeah, because there's a way that we're all supposed to

748
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Speaker 6: be doing it, and there's the way that we all

749
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Speaker 6: do do it?

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Speaker 2: Well, what is the way that you are supposed to

751
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Speaker 2: be doing.

752
00:32:23,960 --> 00:32:27,480
Speaker 6: It at the opposite end, like not the top stem.

753
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Speaker 2: So there's the antenna side, yeah, and there's the butthole side. Yeah,

754
00:32:30,600 --> 00:32:33,480
Speaker 2: you're supposed to open it from the butthole. How can

755
00:32:33,480 --> 00:32:34,160
Speaker 2: that even be?

756
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Speaker 1: How would you even do that? After the monkey, I

757
00:32:36,760 --> 00:32:40,440
Speaker 1: don't know, rip it? You ripped the antenna side, like

758
00:32:40,480 --> 00:32:42,080
Speaker 1: you break it a little bit. You have a little

759
00:32:42,160 --> 00:32:44,880
Speaker 1: leverage there and then you peel it down, and then

760
00:32:44,920 --> 00:32:45,800
Speaker 1: you peel it down and.

761
00:32:45,800 --> 00:32:47,240
Speaker 2: Then you eat it. That's not how they were made.

762
00:32:47,280 --> 00:32:48,480
Speaker 2: Apparently that is how.

763
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Speaker 1: You eat a banana. There is no other way. There's

764
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Speaker 1: no other way to eat it. And I don't know monkeys,

765
00:32:52,640 --> 00:32:54,440
Speaker 1: they can do whatever they want, but like they obviously

766
00:32:54,440 --> 00:32:59,200
Speaker 1: haven't been todd the proper way. It's ever been left

767
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Speaker 1: waiting by the phone. It's the Fred Show. Hey, Paul,

768
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Speaker 1: good morning, Welcome to the show. How are you?

769
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Speaker 2: Hey?

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Speaker 12: Good morning?

771
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Speaker 2: Good to hear from me.

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Speaker 1: So what's going on with Easy? Because we want to

773
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Speaker 1: try and help you out here. You feel like maybe

774
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Speaker 1: you've been ghosted by Easy? How did you meet? Tell

775
00:33:13,320 --> 00:33:15,680
Speaker 1: us about any dates you've been on and what's going

776
00:33:15,720 --> 00:33:16,160
Speaker 1: on now?

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Speaker 12: Yeah, so I met Izzy originally on a dating app,

778
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Speaker 12: but from the second I saw her, I just I

779
00:33:22,520 --> 00:33:25,760
Speaker 12: knew she had a good vibe. So we ended up

780
00:33:25,760 --> 00:33:28,760
Speaker 12: meeting up for drinks and it was a good time.

781
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Speaker 12: I felt like personally, I felt like we were meant

782
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Speaker 12: to meet.

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Speaker 2: Like I said, I.

784
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Speaker 12: Like she kind of seemed like a good match, both

785
00:33:38,800 --> 00:33:43,680
Speaker 12: spiritually and emotionally. So yeah, I'm hoping to open to

786
00:33:43,720 --> 00:33:45,400
Speaker 12: find her and see what happened.

787
00:33:45,440 --> 00:33:49,360
Speaker 1: Look at this guy talking about spiritually and emotionally, Like,

788
00:33:49,400 --> 00:33:51,200
Speaker 1: you don't hear a lot about that on dating apps.

789
00:33:51,240 --> 00:33:52,720
Speaker 2: I feel like it's more like i'd hit it.

790
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Speaker 1: That's kind of like, you know, that's where we start

791
00:33:55,600 --> 00:33:57,520
Speaker 1: and then we you know, hopefully evolved from there. But

792
00:33:57,560 --> 00:34:00,720
Speaker 1: you're talking about you felt a spiritual vibe vibe from her.

793
00:34:01,160 --> 00:34:03,680
Speaker 12: Yeah, I felt like we were connected and more than

794
00:34:03,720 --> 00:34:04,400
Speaker 12: just the physical.

795
00:34:04,760 --> 00:34:07,680
Speaker 1: That is fantastic. Okay, well, then I can understand why

796
00:34:07,720 --> 00:34:09,319
Speaker 1: you you would like to hear from her again, but

797
00:34:09,400 --> 00:34:11,520
Speaker 1: you have it. So here's what we're gonna do. We're

798
00:34:11,520 --> 00:34:13,480
Speaker 1: gonna call, We're gonna play a song, come back. We'll

799
00:34:13,520 --> 00:34:15,600
Speaker 1: call easy, You'll be on the phone we're gonna ask

800
00:34:15,640 --> 00:34:17,600
Speaker 1: some questions on your behalf. At some point, you're welcome

801
00:34:17,640 --> 00:34:19,200
Speaker 1: to jump in on the call. And you know, we're

802
00:34:19,200 --> 00:34:21,279
Speaker 1: always trying to make this work and set you guys

803
00:34:21,360 --> 00:34:24,480
Speaker 1: up on another date and pay for it. That's the hope. Okay, awesome,

804
00:34:24,520 --> 00:34:27,480
Speaker 1: thank you, Hey Paul, Hey, all right, let's call Easy.

805
00:34:27,560 --> 00:34:29,520
Speaker 1: You guys met on a dating app and you like

806
00:34:29,600 --> 00:34:32,040
Speaker 1: the vibe. You know, you were feeling good vibes about this.

807
00:34:33,200 --> 00:34:35,440
Speaker 1: You're you're looking at this more from like a spiritual

808
00:34:35,520 --> 00:34:39,399
Speaker 1: emotional perspective, which we don't often hear, but that's that's

809
00:34:39,440 --> 00:34:40,160
Speaker 1: what you were feeling.

810
00:34:40,280 --> 00:34:41,040
Speaker 2: Oh definitely.

811
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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, well let's call Easy and see if

812
00:34:44,040 --> 00:34:46,640
Speaker 1: we can connect with her ourselves, and hopefully we can

813
00:34:46,640 --> 00:34:48,480
Speaker 1: straighten this out and set you guys up on another

814
00:34:48,520 --> 00:34:49,200
Speaker 1: date that we pay for.

815
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Speaker 2: Okay, thank you so much. Hell, Hi is this Easy? Yes?

816
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Speaker 2: He is a high. Good morning. My name is Fred.

817
00:35:01,320 --> 00:35:03,239
Speaker 1: I'm calling for the Fred Show of the morning radio show,

818
00:35:03,280 --> 00:35:04,400
Speaker 1: and I have to tell you that we are on

819
00:35:04,440 --> 00:35:07,040
Speaker 1: the radio right now and I would need your permission

820
00:35:07,040 --> 00:35:08,640
Speaker 1: to continue. Can we chat for just a second, would

821
00:35:08,640 --> 00:35:08,959
Speaker 1: you mind?

822
00:35:09,520 --> 00:35:10,120
Speaker 2: Okay?

823
00:35:10,239 --> 00:35:11,759
Speaker 5: I guess what's what's going on?

824
00:35:11,920 --> 00:35:14,600
Speaker 2: Well, thank you very much. Super into it.

825
00:35:14,960 --> 00:35:16,920
Speaker 1: We're calling on behalf of a guy named Paul, who

826
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Speaker 1: I guess you you matched with on a dating app

827
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Speaker 1: and you you went out recently.

828
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Speaker 2: Do you remember meeting this this gentleman.

829
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Speaker 5: Yes, I mean I'm a pretty upply person. But the

830
00:35:29,960 --> 00:35:35,160
Speaker 5: second we sat down and he started shushing me, I

831
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Speaker 5: know him.

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Speaker 1: It's like, wait, okay, hold on, hold on, so you

833
00:35:39,680 --> 00:35:41,759
Speaker 1: you obviously remember this guy. You go on a date,

834
00:35:41,920 --> 00:35:44,200
Speaker 1: you sit down and he said he was shushing you.

835
00:35:44,280 --> 00:35:46,080
Speaker 1: What do you mean, like you start talking and he'd

836
00:35:46,080 --> 00:35:47,600
Speaker 1: go no, no, wait, no more me or like what

837
00:35:47,640 --> 00:35:47,920
Speaker 1: do we.

838
00:35:47,960 --> 00:35:48,480
Speaker 2: What do you mean?

839
00:35:48,880 --> 00:35:51,200
Speaker 5: Yeah, he literally told me, hold on, let's sit in

840
00:35:51,239 --> 00:35:54,520
Speaker 5: silence with each other for a second, just to get

841
00:35:54,560 --> 00:35:57,880
Speaker 5: to know each other. Was super odd. I mean, he

842
00:35:58,000 --> 00:36:00,440
Speaker 5: just told me he wanted to feel my road for

843
00:36:00,480 --> 00:36:02,840
Speaker 5: a second and put his finger up to my mouth

844
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Speaker 5: and it just kind of just kind of shocks.

845
00:36:08,880 --> 00:36:12,560
Speaker 1: Like like he was like like the shish included the

846
00:36:12,600 --> 00:36:14,480
Speaker 1: fingers and like your lips wouldn't.

847
00:36:14,080 --> 00:36:18,239
Speaker 5: Move, Yes, but he wanted to feel your word came

848
00:36:18,320 --> 00:36:21,160
Speaker 5: to break the silence. But through the rest of the

849
00:36:21,239 --> 00:36:23,080
Speaker 5: night he kept telling me to stop talking so we

850
00:36:23,120 --> 00:36:24,719
Speaker 5: could feel each other energetically.

851
00:36:29,400 --> 00:36:31,080
Speaker 2: I mean, who doesn't want to feel the aura?

852
00:36:31,239 --> 00:36:35,520
Speaker 1: I'm always trying to get the aura. I gotta I

853
00:36:35,520 --> 00:36:38,120
Speaker 1: gotta feel your aura. I've been saying that forever.

854
00:36:39,200 --> 00:36:39,480
Speaker 2: Wow.

855
00:36:39,520 --> 00:36:41,640
Speaker 1: Okay, so he wouldn't let you talk because he wanted

856
00:36:41,680 --> 00:36:44,759
Speaker 1: to get the vibes. And how long did this go on?

857
00:36:46,120 --> 00:36:48,640
Speaker 5: I mean probably least another hour or so. I mean

858
00:36:48,680 --> 00:36:50,160
Speaker 5: I knew I wasn't going to see him again, so

859
00:36:50,200 --> 00:36:52,120
Speaker 5: I just pretend to get drunk in the front out.

860
00:36:52,640 --> 00:36:52,879
Speaker 2: Wow.

861
00:36:52,920 --> 00:36:54,759
Speaker 1: So not a lot of words, just a whole lot

862
00:36:54,760 --> 00:36:58,760
Speaker 1: of vibes, right, all right, but let me I forgot

863
00:36:58,760 --> 00:37:00,920
Speaker 1: to mention that Paul was here. I guess he's vibing

864
00:37:01,040 --> 00:37:04,759
Speaker 1: right now. Paul, you didn't mention that you wouldn't let

865
00:37:04,760 --> 00:37:05,240
Speaker 1: her talk?

866
00:37:07,000 --> 00:37:09,919
Speaker 12: Yeah, you know this, This is just helping me see.

867
00:37:09,920 --> 00:37:12,520
Speaker 12: You know, this is what's wrong with our society, you know.

868
00:37:13,440 --> 00:37:14,360
Speaker 2: With all of society.

869
00:37:15,120 --> 00:37:17,560
Speaker 12: Okay, Yeah, we're all we're uncomfortable with silence and can't

870
00:37:17,560 --> 00:37:20,640
Speaker 12: sit in it. So I feel like I feel like

871
00:37:20,640 --> 00:37:22,480
Speaker 12: if we all just gave it a chance, you know,

872
00:37:22,560 --> 00:37:25,640
Speaker 12: we all see what I was talking about. I'm willing

873
00:37:25,640 --> 00:37:27,239
Speaker 12: to be silent right now, if we all just kind

874
00:37:27,239 --> 00:37:28,279
Speaker 12: of sit here in silence and.

875
00:37:28,680 --> 00:37:30,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, let's try Let's try it for just a second.

876
00:37:30,600 --> 00:37:34,000
Speaker 2: Let's try it. Hold on. Oh, I'm feeling the vibes

877
00:37:34,040 --> 00:37:36,120
Speaker 2: right now. I feel the vibes. Yeah, kill your energy

878
00:37:36,160 --> 00:37:36,640
Speaker 2: in your aura.

879
00:37:37,160 --> 00:37:40,720
Speaker 1: It's it's just radiating, it's emanating through the phone. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: But is it normal, Paul, would you say to go

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Speaker 1: on a date and then not speak? I mean, I

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Speaker 1: think that's not really that's that's sort of strange for

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Speaker 1: a lot of people.

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Speaker 2: And I get that that people.

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Speaker 1: You're right, I think a lot of people are uncomfortable

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Speaker 1: being a loner in silence, but like you're on a

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Speaker 1: date to get to know someone communicatively.

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Speaker 13: That and of course the vibe is part of that.

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Speaker 13: But most people talk on a date. I understand, and

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Speaker 13: talking is something I'm okay with. But I just think

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Speaker 13: to start to kind of just understand each other in

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Speaker 13: our purest sense, if we just sit in silence and

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Speaker 13: look at each other, that's.

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Speaker 12: You know, we're going to get so much more on that.

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Speaker 2: Is that what a nine inch Nail song is about?

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Speaker 13: Is that?

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Speaker 2: Is it just about vibes? Is that song about Paul?

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Speaker 2: Is that? What? I think? That? Is that? What he is.

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Speaker 2: Are you not familiar with that work of art.

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Speaker 12: I'm not familiar.

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Speaker 2: You're not familiar with its Okay, that's all right.

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Speaker 1: Well, because he's, you know, mostly silent, I guess, so

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Speaker 1: this is extremely strange. I mean I can see why

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Speaker 1: you would, you know, you go on a date expecting

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Speaker 1: to have some light conversation and drink and whatever, and

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Speaker 1: maybe you get to the whole ViBe's part.

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Speaker 2: But like, I don't know, I can see why. Don't

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Speaker 2: shush me. Okay, well that's that's another thing. Yeah, don't

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Speaker 2: be shushing. There's away from my lips. Don't shush me.

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Speaker 2: You can't silence me, are you there? Is?

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Speaker 5: He?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm here. Oh I just did you have any

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Speaker 2: thoughts on that? Or you can talk to us?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, a lot of silence, but like this is the

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Speaker 1: safe place to speak. Actually, yeah, I'm not shushing you

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Speaker 1: at all. Yeah, my hands are nowhere near your mouth.

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Speaker 1: I'll take my hands away your mouth. I'm sorry.

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Speaker 5: I don't know this is I mean, the whole situation

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Speaker 5: was just really really strange. It just felt really controlling,

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Speaker 5: and I was just like immediately no, yeah.

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Speaker 1: For just a moment, she slipped back into the trava

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Speaker 1: of not being able to speak at this No, it's okay.

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Speaker 2: You can talk to us just like. All right, Look,

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Speaker 2: I'll ask the question. I know the answer.

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Speaker 1: But would you like to go out with Paul again?

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Speaker 1: You can speak and we'll pay for it.

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Speaker 5: No, I'm okay, all.

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Speaker 2: Right, Paul, Paul, I'll give you the final word if

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Speaker 2: you have any words, or if you'd just like to,

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Speaker 2: you know, meditate.

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Speaker 5: No.

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Speaker 12: I understand why you guys are afraid of silence, but

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Speaker 12: I think that if you are embraced it, it.

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Speaker 2: Would make Yeah. I mean typically silence in our business

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Speaker 2: is not great. But okay, I got it, guys? Is

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Speaker 2: he Paul? Best of luck to both of you. Thank

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Speaker 2: you for your time.

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Speaker 1: It's the French show that Jonas Brothers in Las Vegas

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Speaker 1: the word thunder. Thunder. You know what I want Now,

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna say the word. I want you to make it.

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Speaker 1: I want a sound effect from you, Jason to go

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Speaker 1: along with the word thunder.

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Speaker 2: I was gonna say, ooh is not thunder. Isn't thunder?

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Speaker 2: Like ooh your house? Maybe it's thunder from down under?

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Speaker 2: You know what I mean.

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Speaker 1: Maybe that's our next trip. Actually we're giving you a

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Speaker 1: trip to see something thunder. Work on that. Jason's like

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Speaker 1: the actual one, really down under thunder, like the real guys,

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Speaker 1: not these guys in you know where. I'll pass tho

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Speaker 1: the dress up I'm talking about, Okay showed his brothers

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Speaker 1: in Vegas. Leave us a talkback message on the iHeart app.

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Speaker 1: Thunder is the word entered as many times as you want.

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Speaker 1: The more times you enter, the better chance you have

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Speaker 1: to win the trip. It's the frend Show entered and

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Speaker 1: he's on the Bread Show.

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Speaker 6: The cancelation of The Bachelorette continues to just dominate the headlines.

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Speaker 6: I mean, if you have a phone, you've seen it.

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Speaker 6: With many wondering what kind of deal time Taylor could

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Speaker 6: receive if prosecutors charge her for the latest domestic incident

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Speaker 6: with her Execota Mortensen and if you somehow live under

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Speaker 6: a rock Taylor. Frankie paul Is. She started this group.

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Speaker 2: On TikTok called mom talk. Then she started a reality show.

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Speaker 6: Called The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives. It's a twelve

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Speaker 6: out of ten. It's a great show. And then she

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Speaker 6: was picked to.

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Speaker 2: Be the first Bachelorette.

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Speaker 6: Or anyone that was picked that was not in the

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Speaker 6: franchise of The Bachelor Bachelorette. Well, all this drama is

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Speaker 6: happening because a video was released from twenty twenty three

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Speaker 6: of her throwing chairs at her ex and he also

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Speaker 6: filed i restraining order against her. As prosecutors are now

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Speaker 6: investigating their latest incident. So again, we knew about this incident.

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Speaker 6: We're seeing an old video. However, there's a new incident

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Speaker 6: that they're investigating on both sides, so domestic on both sides.

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Speaker 6: But ABC is just livid over the situation. They had

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Speaker 6: to cancel her whole season. Taylor had a breach of

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Speaker 6: contract and they are internally investigating.

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Speaker 2: They've already lost so much.

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Speaker 6: Money, they losing forty to fifty million dollars now that

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Speaker 6: they've canceled. E News spoke with one of the Bachelorette

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Speaker 6: contestants exclusively, who said, part of me is just so

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Speaker 6: effing pissed. We all gave up so much to do this.

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Speaker 6: We came in with open hearts. We treated her kindly

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Speaker 6: and respectfully and gave her a second chance. And yeah,

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Speaker 6: I mean the contestants aren't going to be on TV

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Speaker 6: at all now either. Cast members from Taylor's other show,

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Speaker 6: The Secret Lives and Mormon Wives told ABC execs at

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Speaker 6: a meeting earlier this month that they had concerns about

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Speaker 6: continuing this show if Taylor remained involved. So I think

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Speaker 6: is ABC and Hulu is all that connected.

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 6: This is a major issue for her and I think

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Speaker 6: that they are. So it's not looking good because both

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Speaker 6: shows obviously are tied into this. One cast member said

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Speaker 6: they didn't feel comfortable filming as long as she's being investigated, saying,

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Speaker 6: it's a dangerous situation. It's a sad situation and we

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Speaker 6: don't know how to navigate it because Taylor is our friend,

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Speaker 6: which is really sad. They, I guess, had this virtual

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Speaker 6: meeting on March seventh.

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Speaker 1: It was a.

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Speaker 6: Zoom and the network wanted to tell those girls, the

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Speaker 6: girls on Secret Lives and Mormon Wives, that they care

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Speaker 6: about their safety. They shouldn't feel pressure to do press

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Speaker 6: or film the show. So a lot of stuff going

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Speaker 6: on behind the scenes. I'll keep you updated. Debbie Levado

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Speaker 6: is clearing up that very viral moment that's puzzled fans

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Speaker 6: for years, her performance of the song heart Attack at

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Speaker 6: an American Heart Association event. So in a new interview

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Speaker 6: with our friends on the Elvis Duran Show, and shout

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Speaker 6: out to Elvis, this is an amazing question, but she

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Speaker 6: said the controversial song choice wasn't her idea. She explained

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Speaker 6: she actually questioned whether it fit the tone of the

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Speaker 6: Heart health charity event, but organizers did insist that the

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Speaker 6: audience wanted to hear it, so she reluctantly agreed. The

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Speaker 6: performance parked backlash at the time, of course, because of

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Speaker 6: the obvious irony, but she says she tried.

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Speaker 2: To give a meaning by speaking about.

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Speaker 6: The connection between mental and heart heal ding the event.

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Speaker 6: Now she's simply setting it all straight, seeing the moment

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Speaker 6: wasn't meant to be tone deaf.

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Speaker 2: It was a request she felt.

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Speaker 6: Obliged or obligated I should say to honor, even if

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Speaker 6: she knew I might raise eyebrows.

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Speaker 2: Now I'm interested to hear if.

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Speaker 6: The people who through that event are going to come

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Speaker 6: for it and be like yo, that's not what happened,

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Speaker 6: but that is what she's saying happened. Lastly, where does

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Speaker 6: Usher and Justin Bieber had some sort of tense run

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Speaker 6: in at Beyonce and jay.

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Speaker 2: Z's Oscars after party.

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Speaker 6: I was looking for Taylor, so I wasn't really paying attention,

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Speaker 6: but there's photos of this. There's now rumors of some

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Speaker 6: sort of fallout between the longtime friends and collaborators.

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Speaker 2: So, according to people.

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Speaker 6: Who were there, Usher approached approached Bieber with visible frustration.

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Speaker 6: The two got into what witnesses described as a heated exchange.

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Speaker 6: Some partygoers initially speculated it could have turned physical, but

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Speaker 6: people close to Bieber say there was no actual fight, just.

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Speaker 2: An intense argument.

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Speaker 6: It's so unclear what triggered the confrontation though, but they

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00:45:08,480 --> 00:45:11,040
Speaker 6: say that it was brief, it didn't escalate further, people

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Speaker 6: kept partying. There's a lot of attention on this though,

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Speaker 6: because Usher played a very key role in launching Bieber's career,

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Speaker 6: making it, you know, an interesting situation like what could

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Speaker 6: they be arguing over.

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Speaker 2: They've been in each other's lives for so long, so

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Speaker 2: I of course will update you on that as.

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Speaker 6: Well, and if you want to get updated, I don't

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00:45:29,120 --> 00:45:31,759
Speaker 6: know why I sound British. From anything you missed from

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00:45:31,800 --> 00:45:33,959
Speaker 6: the show this week or any week. The Fred Show

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Speaker 6: on Demand is where you'll find that on the free

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Speaker 2: It's the Fread Show.

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Speaker 1: Good morning, thanks for having us on the radio, on

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Speaker 1: the iHeart app live and anytime search for the Freends

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Speaker 1: Show on demand. It turns out, guys, that if we

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Speaker 1: want to be if we want to experience less burnout

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Speaker 1: and we want to feel completely and totally fulfilled in

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Speaker 1: our lives, the kind of job that we have would

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Speaker 1: dictate whether that we can do that. And I think

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Speaker 1: we're just in a wrong kind of job. I think

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Speaker 1: that's why I'm so burnt out. I'm burnt Ei. It's

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Speaker 1: not because this place is full of skitch and lies.

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Speaker 1: It's not that at all.

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Speaker 2: It's not.

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Speaker 1: It has nothing to do with the skitch and lies

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Speaker 1: that going around here all the time.

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Speaker 2: Well, I'll do that for you and then nothing happens.

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Speaker 1: It has to do with the fact that we need

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Speaker 1: a more physically demanding or dirty job to feel less burnout. Sanitation, construction,

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Speaker 1: even exotic dancers, Yes, I may experience less burnout than

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Speaker 1: those in office roles. This could be because they have clear,

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Speaker 1: more tangible tasks and feel less self conscious about their work.

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Speaker 2: So this is the problem.

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Speaker 1: What we need is a dirty job, like apparently dirty

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Speaker 1: meaning any dirty physically dirty, morally.

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Speaker 2: We need a dirty job. Take it off. But I can,

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Speaker 2: I can kind of see how this is true.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I agree with that too, because, like I suppose,

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Speaker 1: if you're doing a job and it's like, here's the

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Speaker 1: here's the like, build this, yes, this is the task

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Speaker 1: in hands exactly exactly, stack these bricks, you know whatever,

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Speaker 1: Build this wall?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, make this, make this person give you a hundred bucks?

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Speaker 2: Do you build this?

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Speaker 10: Well?

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Speaker 2: Why is it? Well?

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Speaker 13: Why?

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Speaker 7: Why here you going back on his schedule?

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Speaker 2: You know what?

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Speaker 1: You didn't have to spend that. Okay, you know exactly

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Speaker 1: what I meant. All right, don't build that wall, build

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00:47:37,480 --> 00:47:42,040
Speaker 1: another kind of hole. And your construction job. I didn't

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00:47:42,080 --> 00:47:44,640
Speaker 1: say your construction job in Arizona. I didn't say that.

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00:47:45,200 --> 00:47:49,960
Speaker 1: I never said that. Okay, do not miss enjoyed the suck.

1100
00:47:52,719 --> 00:47:56,759
Speaker 1: I hate you. I'm no longer looking at you admiringly.

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00:47:57,120 --> 00:48:02,200
Speaker 1: And that took three minutes whatever whatever the thing is.

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00:48:02,880 --> 00:48:04,640
Speaker 1: But do you have one I'm gonna have? Do you

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00:48:04,680 --> 00:48:06,680
Speaker 1: have one of these jobs eight five, five, five, nine,

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00:48:06,719 --> 00:48:08,040
Speaker 1: one one oh three five Do you have one of

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00:48:08,080 --> 00:48:08,560
Speaker 1: these jobs?

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00:48:08,600 --> 00:48:09,680
Speaker 2: And do you think that's true?

1107
00:48:09,920 --> 00:48:12,719
Speaker 1: Because you know around here it can be a little obscure.

1108
00:48:13,080 --> 00:48:14,719
Speaker 1: You know, we come in here, we do a good job.

1109
00:48:14,760 --> 00:48:16,560
Speaker 1: We think we do a good jobs. Some people tell

1110
00:48:16,600 --> 00:48:19,359
Speaker 1: us that we suck, but it's okay, that will always happen.

1111
00:48:19,480 --> 00:48:21,160
Speaker 1: And then and then we kind of cross our fingers

1112
00:48:21,200 --> 00:48:23,840
Speaker 1: and we wait. We wait to see what the what

1113
00:48:23,920 --> 00:48:27,239
Speaker 1: the ratings people will tell us, and usually it's it's

1114
00:48:27,320 --> 00:48:29,360
Speaker 1: decent news. And then every now and again it's all

1115
00:48:29,400 --> 00:48:31,000
Speaker 1: of a sudden, You guys are a bunch of morons.

1116
00:48:31,080 --> 00:48:33,280
Speaker 2: But we have no idea. We have no idea.

1117
00:48:34,200 --> 00:48:37,640
Speaker 1: Office workers, though, have unclear tasks and are always getting

1118
00:48:37,960 --> 00:48:41,320
Speaker 1: interrupted by emails, messages, notifications, which can lead to stress

1119
00:48:41,360 --> 00:48:44,919
Speaker 1: and exhaustion. Apparently, having a straightforward, hands on job might

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Speaker 1: help reduce burnout.

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00:48:47,200 --> 00:48:49,960
Speaker 2: Which I think is also true. I see that if

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00:48:50,000 --> 00:48:51,640
Speaker 2: I'm constructing a roof.

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00:48:53,400 --> 00:48:57,480
Speaker 1: Or the house, or a wall that's part of a

1124
00:48:57,560 --> 00:49:05,280
Speaker 1: house for a resident whatever, if okay, if I'm doing drywall.

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00:49:06,280 --> 00:49:09,560
Speaker 1: I mean again, it's like cleaning, though, Like think about

1126
00:49:09,600 --> 00:49:12,680
Speaker 1: when you clean your house or vacuuming especially, it's a

1127
00:49:12,880 --> 00:49:16,399
Speaker 1: very very fulfilling activity because when you're mowing the lawn,

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00:49:16,480 --> 00:49:19,560
Speaker 1: when you're done, look I just did that. I can

1129
00:49:19,680 --> 00:49:23,200
Speaker 1: see my work as where if I write a thousand emails,

1130
00:49:23,800 --> 00:49:26,720
Speaker 1: I don't necessarily walk away feeling like I did something.

1131
00:49:27,040 --> 00:49:28,759
Speaker 2: I really did something right.

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00:49:28,840 --> 00:49:31,759
Speaker 3: Yeah, you don't feel completion because it never ends, you know,

1133
00:49:32,040 --> 00:49:34,600
Speaker 3: exactly like with this type of job, like our brains

1134
00:49:34,640 --> 00:49:35,359
Speaker 3: are always on.

1135
00:49:36,239 --> 00:49:37,680
Speaker 2: It's not like we just get to clock out.

1136
00:49:38,040 --> 00:49:41,320
Speaker 1: Like when I used to dance at Labert in Dallas.

1137
00:49:41,480 --> 00:49:46,239
Speaker 1: You know, the housewives they left feeling great. You know,

1138
00:49:46,360 --> 00:49:49,000
Speaker 1: I made them. I made their evening better. I could see.

1139
00:49:49,040 --> 00:49:52,000
Speaker 1: I could see them turn that front upside down as

1140
00:49:52,000 --> 00:49:53,000
Speaker 1: they handed me at twenty.

1141
00:49:53,400 --> 00:49:55,120
Speaker 2: And then when you got home, the work was done,

1142
00:49:55,320 --> 00:49:57,000
Speaker 2: The work was done, and nobody was eating.

1143
00:49:57,040 --> 00:49:59,480
Speaker 1: There were no emails from Labert No, no, mainly because

1144
00:49:59,520 --> 00:49:59,960
Speaker 1: we didn't have.

1145
00:50:01,719 --> 00:50:03,520
Speaker 2: House phone. Occasionally, yeah, no they did.

1146
00:50:03,680 --> 00:50:05,840
Speaker 1: They did, just to tell me to come in because

1147
00:50:05,880 --> 00:50:06,880
Speaker 1: the people were lighting up.

1148
00:50:06,920 --> 00:50:09,480
Speaker 2: They were like, where's the master blaster? Where is he?

1149
00:50:10,520 --> 00:50:13,120
Speaker 1: He's like, he can't beat here all the time. The

1150
00:50:13,120 --> 00:50:16,080
Speaker 1: guy's gotta go stretch, work out, you know.

1151
00:50:16,719 --> 00:50:20,040
Speaker 7: Okay, I've had this argument in my house before where

1152
00:50:20,040 --> 00:50:22,759
Speaker 7: I'm like, you know, your job, you get to turn

1153
00:50:22,800 --> 00:50:25,560
Speaker 7: it off when you come home. It's yes, And he's like, girls,

1154
00:50:25,600 --> 00:50:28,000
Speaker 7: shut up, you go to work and talk like you go,

1155
00:50:28,040 --> 00:50:29,280
Speaker 7: you go have fun with your friends.

1156
00:50:29,280 --> 00:50:31,040
Speaker 2: And I'm like, it's so much more than that. You

1157
00:50:31,080 --> 00:50:32,080
Speaker 2: do not understand.

1158
00:50:32,280 --> 00:50:35,040
Speaker 7: But he will argue that his job is much more

1159
00:50:35,080 --> 00:50:38,920
Speaker 7: stressful because it's physically draining, it's you know, time consuming,

1160
00:50:38,960 --> 00:50:42,080
Speaker 7: and I'm just like, yeah, so people I don't know.

1161
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Speaker 7: This has been a hot button in my house before.

1162
00:50:44,400 --> 00:50:47,640
Speaker 7: Same here, like first responder life. Yeah, because like he

1163
00:50:47,680 --> 00:50:50,160
Speaker 7: can come home and put the axe down or whatever, and.

1164
00:50:52,400 --> 00:50:55,759
Speaker 1: He doesn't carry around the house the fire man. For

1165
00:50:55,800 --> 00:50:59,480
Speaker 1: the record, he's a fireman, fireman saving lives.

1166
00:51:01,239 --> 00:51:05,960
Speaker 4: Maybe I just feel like, you know, because you can

1167
00:51:06,080 --> 00:51:07,520
Speaker 4: turn it off, you could leave it at work whatever.

1168
00:51:07,560 --> 00:51:09,200
Speaker 2: But with me, it's not like that. I think a

1169
00:51:09,200 --> 00:51:10,839
Speaker 2: lot of people can relate, you know.

1170
00:51:11,400 --> 00:51:14,480
Speaker 1: No, I remember in college I get a job before

1171
00:51:14,560 --> 00:51:17,640
Speaker 1: radio at a sports internship at a sports marketing firm.

1172
00:51:17,640 --> 00:51:21,720
Speaker 1: And I'm a sports marketing Oh wow, I'm fancy. I'm

1173
00:51:21,719 --> 00:51:23,600
Speaker 1: one more khaki is and a button down shirt. I'm

1174
00:51:23,600 --> 00:51:26,960
Speaker 1: gonna go to a sports marketing I'm really going places.

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00:51:27,200 --> 00:51:28,400
Speaker 2: Well, they had a side business.

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00:51:28,400 --> 00:51:32,319
Speaker 1: They sold bobbleheads of like sports figures in sets. And

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00:51:32,440 --> 00:51:34,560
Speaker 1: what really I did most of the time was I

1178
00:51:35,239 --> 00:51:39,000
Speaker 1: packed boxes with the six bobbleheads that came from a warehouse.

1179
00:51:39,280 --> 00:51:41,680
Speaker 1: So I was essentially a manual worker. I did not

1180
00:51:41,760 --> 00:51:43,480
Speaker 1: do a whole lot in the office. It was kind

1181
00:51:43,480 --> 00:51:46,480
Speaker 1: of a scheme. Actually, with a scheme, I got paid

1182
00:51:46,480 --> 00:51:48,640
Speaker 1: at least. But my point is, I remember the first

1183
00:51:48,680 --> 00:51:50,319
Speaker 1: day to go go to this warehouse. And so I

1184
00:51:50,360 --> 00:51:52,640
Speaker 1: go to this warehouse and I walk in and it's

1185
00:51:52,719 --> 00:51:56,240
Speaker 1: literally a warehouse as big as you can imagine, stacked

1186
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Speaker 1: from top to bottom with boxes. Like you couldn't walk

1187
00:52:00,160 --> 00:52:02,719
Speaker 1: into the warehouse. There were so many boxes. And my job,

1188
00:52:02,800 --> 00:52:05,279
Speaker 1: with some other people was to grab one of each

1189
00:52:05,719 --> 00:52:08,239
Speaker 1: of the six Cowboys characters or whatever they were, and

1190
00:52:08,239 --> 00:52:10,080
Speaker 1: put them in a box and tape it and then

1191
00:52:10,160 --> 00:52:12,359
Speaker 1: someone else shipped them. The reason I bring this up

1192
00:52:12,600 --> 00:52:16,120
Speaker 1: is because at first it was daunting, but after like

1193
00:52:16,160 --> 00:52:18,839
Speaker 1: two weeks, the warehouse was empty because we packed them

1194
00:52:18,840 --> 00:52:21,040
Speaker 1: all and that was an amazing feeling.

1195
00:52:21,440 --> 00:52:22,359
Speaker 2: It's like du it and.

1196
00:52:22,320 --> 00:52:24,480
Speaker 1: You could see it like you could see as you

1197
00:52:24,560 --> 00:52:27,640
Speaker 1: did this job. Like the boxes started to disappear, and

1198
00:52:27,680 --> 00:52:30,440
Speaker 1: that was it was really very It felt very good.

1199
00:52:30,480 --> 00:52:35,200
Speaker 1: I haven't really felt that feeling in radio ever. But

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00:52:35,239 --> 00:52:37,319
Speaker 1: I just I just think, like, you know, it's you

1201
00:52:37,360 --> 00:52:39,440
Speaker 1: don't really have to think about it. You know what

1202
00:52:39,480 --> 00:52:42,400
Speaker 1: your objective is. No one's going to email you and

1203
00:52:42,440 --> 00:52:45,160
Speaker 1: tell you that you didn't you know, probably that you didn't.

1204
00:52:44,920 --> 00:52:45,319
Speaker 2: Do it right.

1205
00:52:45,400 --> 00:52:47,440
Speaker 1: Maybe they will if you really screwed it up. But

1206
00:52:47,480 --> 00:52:49,080
Speaker 1: I mean, for the most part, it's if I show

1207
00:52:49,120 --> 00:52:51,360
Speaker 1: up and I do my thing, then I leave and

1208
00:52:51,960 --> 00:52:54,040
Speaker 1: I have the satisfaction of knowing that I completed the

1209
00:52:54,080 --> 00:52:54,760
Speaker 1: task at hand.

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Speaker 3: Yep, yeah, I like that. I missed that. Yes, Like

1211
00:52:58,080 --> 00:53:01,160
Speaker 3: I said, it never we never feel done there. You go,

1212
00:53:01,239 --> 00:53:02,279
Speaker 3: all right, well, there it is.

1213
00:53:03,120 --> 00:53:06,120
Speaker 1: I'm a carpenter, finished carpenter, and I still get burnt town.

1214
00:53:06,560 --> 00:53:09,319
Speaker 1: Someone said, yeah, I guess. So my husband to team

1215
00:53:09,360 --> 00:53:12,160
Speaker 1: stur and delivers beer in the summer. They're working like

1216
00:53:12,239 --> 00:53:15,880
Speaker 1: fourteen hour days a union iron worker here. There's definitely

1217
00:53:15,880 --> 00:53:17,680
Speaker 1: burned out at the end of a hard day. But

1218
00:53:17,719 --> 00:53:20,319
Speaker 1: you get the satisfaction of driving on bridges and going

1219
00:53:20,480 --> 00:53:23,319
Speaker 1: in buildings that you helped build. That's what I mean,

1220
00:53:24,239 --> 00:53:26,440
Speaker 1: like if you build a skyscraper, if you're part of that,

1221
00:53:26,600 --> 00:53:28,360
Speaker 1: you know, and then when the thing's done, you like

1222
00:53:28,360 --> 00:53:30,239
Speaker 1: look at the skyline like I helped build that.

1223
00:53:30,640 --> 00:53:30,879
Speaker 2: Yeah?

1224
00:53:31,000 --> 00:53:32,640
Speaker 1: They Hell am I going to walk away with? And

1225
00:53:32,800 --> 00:53:34,759
Speaker 1: you know, whenever this is over right and.

1226
00:53:34,680 --> 00:53:37,200
Speaker 2: They get a pension show? Is I think we're a

1227
00:53:37,200 --> 00:53:38,799
Speaker 2: good looking thing? You know?

1228
00:53:38,920 --> 00:53:43,080
Speaker 7: Some radio people are ugly, like we we belong on

1229
00:53:43,120 --> 00:53:45,960
Speaker 7: a magazine, you know what we are to know?

1230
00:53:46,000 --> 00:53:48,880
Speaker 2: Some people can be on the Hispanic Weekly? Would you

1231
00:53:49,040 --> 00:53:51,680
Speaker 2: like weekly? That's where we should go?

1232
00:53:53,200 --> 00:53:53,319
Speaker 5: Right?

1233
00:53:53,480 --> 00:53:56,120
Speaker 2: Well, I know I think we should be. You're Hispanic

1234
00:53:56,160 --> 00:54:00,719
Speaker 2: and we're on weekly. That's weekly. Yeah, I like it.

1235
00:54:01,280 --> 00:54:04,920
Speaker 2: Caitlin's Entertainment Report, he's on the Press Show. Of course.

1236
00:54:05,040 --> 00:54:06,479
Speaker 2: The biggest news of the day.

1237
00:54:06,680 --> 00:54:09,600
Speaker 6: By now you've probably heard is that ABC has decided

1238
00:54:09,640 --> 00:54:12,840
Speaker 6: to scrap the Secret Lives of Mormon Wives stars Tula

1239
00:54:12,880 --> 00:54:17,000
Speaker 6: Frankie Paul's entire season of The Bachelorette like set to

1240
00:54:17,000 --> 00:54:20,320
Speaker 6: air next week, after that horrible video from twenty twenty

1241
00:54:20,360 --> 00:54:23,160
Speaker 6: three of her throwing chairs at her X in front

1242
00:54:23,160 --> 00:54:25,960
Speaker 6: of her children was leaked online. It's it's everywhere. I

1243
00:54:26,000 --> 00:54:29,480
Speaker 6: can't look anywhere without seeing it. There's also a current

1244
00:54:29,560 --> 00:54:33,040
Speaker 6: domestic violence case that's being investigated on both sides, so

1245
00:54:33,120 --> 00:54:36,560
Speaker 6: both she and her ex he's also filed a restraining order.

1246
00:54:36,800 --> 00:54:39,800
Speaker 6: The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives has also paused filming,

1247
00:54:39,880 --> 00:54:41,360
Speaker 6: with the cast said to be at.

1248
00:54:41,200 --> 00:54:42,440
Speaker 2: An absolute loss.

1249
00:54:42,760 --> 00:54:45,040
Speaker 6: They're worried about their friend, as we've seen throughout the

1250
00:54:45,120 --> 00:54:48,720
Speaker 6: four seasons, most specifically the recent one that just aired.

1251
00:54:49,160 --> 00:54:51,960
Speaker 6: ABC of course said to be fuming about the scrap

1252
00:54:52,000 --> 00:54:54,760
Speaker 6: season of The Bachelorette. They're losing upwards of fifty million dollars.

1253
00:54:54,800 --> 00:54:57,040
Speaker 6: I've heard that was the most recent number. Some of

1254
00:54:57,080 --> 00:55:00,680
Speaker 6: the contestants on Taylor's season are also speaking out spoke

1255
00:55:00,719 --> 00:55:03,000
Speaker 6: about that in earlier reports, so you can catch up

1256
00:55:03,040 --> 00:55:06,120
Speaker 6: on the iHeartRadio app if you miss that. Taylor Swift

1257
00:55:06,200 --> 00:55:09,160
Speaker 6: will make her first public appearance of twenty twenty six

1258
00:55:09,239 --> 00:55:13,319
Speaker 6: at our iHeartRadio Music Awards next week. She is the

1259
00:55:13,360 --> 00:55:17,120
Speaker 6: most nominated artist of the night with nine nominations, and

1260
00:55:17,160 --> 00:55:21,000
Speaker 6: the iHeartRadio Music Awards will air live Thursday, March twenty

1261
00:55:21,040 --> 00:55:23,360
Speaker 6: six on Fox from the Adobey Theater in LA. The

1262
00:55:23,440 --> 00:55:26,480
Speaker 6: event will also air right here as well as on

1263
00:55:26,600 --> 00:55:29,640
Speaker 6: the iHeartRadio app, so look out for that rapper Lotto

1264
00:55:29,840 --> 00:55:32,680
Speaker 6: is going to be a mama, I should say Big Mama.

1265
00:55:32,960 --> 00:55:35,640
Speaker 6: The twenty seven year old rapper whose real name is

1266
00:55:35,719 --> 00:55:38,680
Speaker 6: Alyssa Michelle Stevens and now she's expecting her first baby

1267
00:55:38,719 --> 00:55:43,239
Speaker 6: this morning dropping the cover for her upcoming album, Big

1268
00:55:43,280 --> 00:55:46,120
Speaker 6: Mama and the music video for her latest single, Business

1269
00:55:46,160 --> 00:55:49,480
Speaker 6: and Personal Now. The cover of the fourth studio album

1270
00:55:49,640 --> 00:55:52,839
Speaker 6: is she Looks Beautiful. She's cuddling a little baby Cheetah

1271
00:55:52,960 --> 00:55:55,959
Speaker 6: while showing off her bear baby bump in a sheer

1272
00:55:56,000 --> 00:55:59,040
Speaker 6: crop top and a black cape, with a caption Big Mama.

1273
00:55:59,080 --> 00:56:02,960
Speaker 6: The album five twenty nine Business and Personal intro song

1274
00:56:03,360 --> 00:56:05,680
Speaker 6: out now, as well as the video than Cube God.

1275
00:56:05,960 --> 00:56:07,960
Speaker 2: She also shared a stippit of the music.

1276
00:56:07,760 --> 00:56:10,200
Speaker 6: Video, with her once again showing off that really cute

1277
00:56:10,239 --> 00:56:13,160
Speaker 6: bump in a white lace bra and shorts. In the video,

1278
00:56:13,880 --> 00:56:17,239
Speaker 6: she's heard rapping Maybach that's the Bends of the Day,

1279
00:56:17,360 --> 00:56:19,200
Speaker 6: car seat got a kid on the way as she

1280
00:56:19,239 --> 00:56:21,960
Speaker 6: winks smiles at the camera while sitting in a rocking chair.

1281
00:56:22,000 --> 00:56:23,720
Speaker 2: We also see a very.

1282
00:56:23,560 --> 00:56:26,200
Speaker 6: Tattered hand in one of the scenes, which belongs to

1283
00:56:26,239 --> 00:56:29,400
Speaker 6: her man wrapper twenty one Savage. She also referred to

1284
00:56:29,480 --> 00:56:33,120
Speaker 6: twenty one as her husband Olivia Rodrigo, is subtenly shutting

1285
00:56:33,120 --> 00:56:36,680
Speaker 6: down breakup rumors with actor Lewis Partridge or Louie I.

1286
00:56:36,600 --> 00:56:37,319
Speaker 2: Don't know which one.

1287
00:56:37,360 --> 00:56:40,560
Speaker 6: He's British or maybe Louie, by revealing that she's been

1288
00:56:40,600 --> 00:56:43,720
Speaker 6: spending time in his hometown of London while working.

1289
00:56:43,560 --> 00:56:44,120
Speaker 2: On new music.

1290
00:56:44,160 --> 00:56:46,560
Speaker 6: In a recent interview, she said that the city has

1291
00:56:46,560 --> 00:56:49,239
Speaker 6: inspired parts of her album, hinting that her experience is

1292
00:56:49,280 --> 00:56:53,160
Speaker 6: there and likely her relationship, are shaping her life and creativity.

1293
00:56:53,200 --> 00:56:56,240
Speaker 6: The couple has largely kept their romance private, but people

1294
00:56:56,239 --> 00:56:59,640
Speaker 6: thought they weren't dating anymore because of that, but nope.

1295
00:56:59,640 --> 00:57:02,000
Speaker 6: I think they're still very much together. Otherwise I don't

1296
00:57:02,000 --> 00:57:05,440
Speaker 6: think she'd still be in London. And lastly, the world

1297
00:57:05,680 --> 00:57:07,880
Speaker 6: is very ready, but they're gonna have to wait. Spider

1298
00:57:07,960 --> 00:57:11,160
Speaker 6: Man brand New Day set a twenty four hour trailer

1299
00:57:11,239 --> 00:57:12,000
Speaker 6: record with a.

1300
00:57:11,960 --> 00:57:14,320
Speaker 2: Seven hundred and eighteen million views.

1301
00:57:14,320 --> 00:57:16,680
Speaker 6: I heard our coworker Mares absolutely screaming about it in.

1302
00:57:16,680 --> 00:57:19,160
Speaker 2: The hallway earlier this week, so it has to be good.

1303
00:57:19,200 --> 00:57:21,439
Speaker 6: You're gonna have to wait, though, until July twenty third,

1304
00:57:21,800 --> 00:57:23,840
Speaker 6: to get that. If you want to catch up on

1305
00:57:23,920 --> 00:57:26,320
Speaker 6: anything for Marshall, you don't have to wait. The Fread

1306
00:57:26,320 --> 00:57:27,920
Speaker 6: Show on demand is where you can find that on

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Speaker 2: It's the Fred Show.

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Speaker 1: Good morning, thanks for having us on the radio, on

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Speaker 1: the iHeart app live and anytime search for a Fred

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Speaker 1: Show on demand. Have you ever had an issue with

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Speaker 1: your phone such that you had to carry your iPad

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Speaker 1: with you because that was all you had? They tried

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Speaker 1: to suggest that to me when I accidentally dropped my

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Speaker 1: phone at a very high intensity. I may have accidentally

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Speaker 1: dropped it right right, I dropped it. It was going very

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Speaker 1: fast speed when I dropped it into a wall and

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Speaker 1: I dropped it in damage. Well, but anyway, so I

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Speaker 1: may have done that once and I went to the store,

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Speaker 1: and their may have been much phone left from the

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Speaker 1: dropping that I dropped it. I know, it's crazy. I

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Speaker 1: was just what an accident, And I may truly have

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Speaker 1: only been able to provide the SIM card kind of.

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Speaker 1: So I may have walked in with the sim card

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Speaker 1: and they were like, well, why don't you bring us

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Speaker 1: the phone and we can I'm like, well we can

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Speaker 1: trade that in.

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Speaker 2: I'm like you not anymore. And then they understood.

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Speaker 1: They understood the assignment like they knew like immediately they

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Speaker 1: work in a phone store, like okay, got it. Well,

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Speaker 1: you know, here's what we can do. We can get

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Speaker 1: you a warranty phone, I guess, or something. You can

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Speaker 1: buy a new phone, but the one phone's gonna.

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Speaker 2: Take a while.

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Speaker 1: So what you could do is just carry your iPad

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Speaker 1: around for a while and like that'll, you know, until Monday,

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Speaker 1: because I think this was a Saturday when the dropping

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Speaker 1: of the phone occurred, and.

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Speaker 2: Then it was like, hey, we'll get your phone by monday.

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Speaker 1: But like, you can just carry your iPad around like

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Speaker 1: you want me to carry my iPad around like a phone,

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Speaker 1: Like you want me to go to a date with

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Speaker 1: my iPad? And it's case, like how you doing? What's

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Speaker 1: going on?

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Speaker 13: Well?

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Speaker 2: What's that about?

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Speaker 5: What is?

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Speaker 2: In case it gets boring?

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna watch it right in the middle of something

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Speaker 1: on Netflix, and I really didn't want to have to

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Speaker 1: interrupt it. So if you you know, if you see

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Speaker 1: me look down at the iPad, that means you're boring

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Speaker 1: as hell.

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Speaker 12: Yikes.

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Speaker 2: The Fread Show is on Fred's Fun.

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Speaker 6: Fact Fred's Fun.

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Speaker 2: You can learn so much right now.

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Speaker 1: Jis you know there is a planet made almost entirely

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Speaker 1: of a diamond. Oh that's the one Big Tim should

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Speaker 1: have given you. Yes, he should have been like, baby,

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Speaker 1: you know, I know this is just this is token

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Speaker 1: of my appreciation. But really the ring I wanted you

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Speaker 1: to have is the size of that planet the sky

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Speaker 1: called fifty five cankari e.

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Speaker 7: Yes, yes, I'm here for it.

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Speaker 1: Let me ask oh my, let me how to use

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Speaker 1: that other dating app or something. Man, I could take

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Speaker 1: all the stars in the sky and put them in

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Speaker 1: your eye.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, take it, take me, take me. Yes.

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Speaker 1: Scientists believe that there's an exo planet called fifty five

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Speaker 1: cancree Eve. It's a carbon based world where about a

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Speaker 1: third of the mass could be a crystalline diamond. So

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Speaker 1: maybe space is cool. I don't know, maybe we should

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Speaker 1: go there diamonds like that. That is like, let's go

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Speaker 1: to the diamond planet, you know what I mean, Like,

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Speaker 1: forget about this, man, this is this is a racket

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Speaker 1: down here.

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Speaker 2: Let's take me to the diamond planet. Man more freadshell

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Speaker 2: next