1 00:00:00,160 --> 00:00:06,600 Speaker 1: Hello, gorgeous, it's Lala Kent. Welcome to Untraditionally, Lala. Hello, 2 00:00:06,760 --> 00:00:10,680 Speaker 1: my loves, Welcome back to Untraditionally, Lala. I have the 3 00:00:10,720 --> 00:00:18,280 Speaker 1: whole pod here today. Eatin. How you doing it? 4 00:00:16,000 --> 00:00:19,320 Speaker 2: You deserve it? 5 00:00:22,280 --> 00:00:25,720 Speaker 1: What's going on with your baby? I'm just in my feelings. 6 00:00:26,280 --> 00:00:28,960 Speaker 1: Are we discussing it this podcast? Are we saving it 7 00:00:29,000 --> 00:00:32,880 Speaker 1: for an unlikely affair? Like? What are we doing? I'm processing? 8 00:00:32,920 --> 00:00:34,920 Speaker 1: So let's see how it unfolds. I may have to. 9 00:00:35,680 --> 00:00:38,199 Speaker 3: I mean, if I start talking about it, I might 10 00:00:38,240 --> 00:00:40,080 Speaker 3: cry and then you might see me get really angry 11 00:00:40,120 --> 00:00:40,960 Speaker 3: like I did last night. 12 00:00:41,080 --> 00:00:46,760 Speaker 1: But well, I will say one thing. Last night I 13 00:00:46,880 --> 00:00:52,720 Speaker 1: realized that Amber and I are identical human beings. In short, 14 00:00:52,760 --> 00:00:55,880 Speaker 1: it's your story, but I will say this, someone did 15 00:00:55,880 --> 00:00:59,040 Speaker 1: her dirty. And when I tell you, she's on FaceTime 16 00:00:59,560 --> 00:01:02,400 Speaker 1: laid back like this. He says one wrong thing and 17 00:01:02,440 --> 00:01:06,360 Speaker 1: she goes, I don't know who the fuck you think 18 00:01:06,400 --> 00:01:09,880 Speaker 1: you're dealing with, but I'm not dealing with you fucking around. 19 00:01:10,040 --> 00:01:13,600 Speaker 1: I was like, we are cut from the exact same cloth. 20 00:01:13,640 --> 00:01:15,720 Speaker 1: It was beautiful to watch, but then I tapped into like, 21 00:01:16,840 --> 00:01:19,000 Speaker 1: you know, we really should work on having more productive 22 00:01:19,000 --> 00:01:20,600 Speaker 1: conversations with people. 23 00:01:21,120 --> 00:01:24,160 Speaker 3: No, sometimes listen, there's there's a room for a productive conversation. 24 00:01:24,720 --> 00:01:27,039 Speaker 3: Not with that man in this moment. There is no 25 00:01:27,120 --> 00:01:28,759 Speaker 3: room for a fucking conversation. 26 00:01:28,920 --> 00:01:32,240 Speaker 1: MM I agree. I agree. I can't stay home. I'm 27 00:01:32,240 --> 00:01:32,840 Speaker 1: a female. 28 00:01:32,840 --> 00:01:35,080 Speaker 3: God made me a female, and I can only like 29 00:01:35,640 --> 00:01:37,880 Speaker 3: I can't even imagine, like this is me I was. 30 00:01:38,040 --> 00:01:39,759 Speaker 3: I was sober and so it's like, you know what 31 00:01:39,840 --> 00:01:42,360 Speaker 3: I was. I was calm enough. I wasn't unhinged. That 32 00:01:42,480 --> 00:01:44,160 Speaker 3: was not I wouldn't you were not that. It was 33 00:01:44,200 --> 00:01:44,840 Speaker 3: not unhinged. 34 00:01:44,880 --> 00:01:47,600 Speaker 1: That was just like at all, don't fuck around. I 35 00:01:47,640 --> 00:01:50,800 Speaker 1: think we wanted to catch him in more lies because 36 00:01:50,880 --> 00:01:53,240 Speaker 1: women want more lives and more lives. It's like, okay, 37 00:01:53,240 --> 00:01:55,480 Speaker 1: well the other ten don't really count. Let's see if 38 00:01:55,520 --> 00:01:58,160 Speaker 1: you can lie eleven times like that's just who we are. 39 00:01:58,320 --> 00:02:02,920 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I'm mourning a lot. Keep talking anyways. 40 00:02:03,200 --> 00:02:05,160 Speaker 1: All is well in the world. All is well in 41 00:02:05,200 --> 00:02:10,000 Speaker 1: the world. Ocean has a loose tooth, you guys, I 42 00:02:10,000 --> 00:02:13,320 Speaker 1: didn't realize it starts before five and a half. Yeah, 43 00:02:13,360 --> 00:02:15,960 Speaker 1: the loose teeth. I felt like I had until at 44 00:02:16,000 --> 00:02:19,280 Speaker 1: least six before my baby lost her first tooth. 45 00:02:19,520 --> 00:02:21,000 Speaker 3: It needs to come out though, because the other tooth 46 00:02:21,080 --> 00:02:24,000 Speaker 3: behind it really wants to. It's like the tooth behind 47 00:02:24,000 --> 00:02:26,800 Speaker 3: its coming out between two teeth, So she may lose 48 00:02:27,200 --> 00:02:29,160 Speaker 3: both of the front twobe fairly quickly. 49 00:02:29,360 --> 00:02:31,520 Speaker 4: Okay, I just am excited for her to lose her 50 00:02:31,520 --> 00:02:36,840 Speaker 4: two front ones. Well, not even that they're great, just 51 00:02:36,880 --> 00:02:39,040 Speaker 4: because it's so funny to see kids with just no 52 00:02:39,160 --> 00:02:39,959 Speaker 4: two front teeth. 53 00:02:40,240 --> 00:02:42,560 Speaker 1: Oh, you're going to the cuteness and I'm going to 54 00:02:42,600 --> 00:02:45,840 Speaker 1: the esthetic of the gray teeth. I'm like in pearly 55 00:02:45,880 --> 00:02:46,799 Speaker 1: wife to show up. 56 00:02:47,160 --> 00:02:50,040 Speaker 2: I can't wait to either gray teeth. 57 00:02:50,240 --> 00:02:55,120 Speaker 1: It's her and when she introduces herself because she noticed 58 00:02:55,400 --> 00:02:57,320 Speaker 1: that when I took her to her first day of 59 00:02:57,360 --> 00:03:00,240 Speaker 1: pre K, I told the school, by the way, either 60 00:03:00,320 --> 00:03:03,040 Speaker 1: great not because because everyone was like, she's got bottle rot. 61 00:03:03,120 --> 00:03:05,440 Speaker 1: I'm like, no, she hit her face, so I felt 62 00:03:05,440 --> 00:03:07,560 Speaker 1: it was on me. So I explained to everybody, like, 63 00:03:07,760 --> 00:03:09,239 Speaker 1: by the way, her teeth are grain, and then I'd 64 00:03:09,240 --> 00:03:12,320 Speaker 1: have to tell her and you're beautiful. They're beautiful, baby. 65 00:03:12,440 --> 00:03:14,560 Speaker 1: So now when she meets people, she goes and I 66 00:03:14,600 --> 00:03:16,760 Speaker 1: have two great teeth because I was riding a bike 67 00:03:16,800 --> 00:03:21,320 Speaker 1: and hit my face on the ground. She's so freaking cute. 68 00:03:21,680 --> 00:03:24,000 Speaker 1: But my fear and I don't know if you had 69 00:03:24,000 --> 00:03:28,440 Speaker 1: this Amber, but because your kids were still young when 70 00:03:28,440 --> 00:03:31,480 Speaker 1: you left our ex but a little bit older, in 71 00:03:31,520 --> 00:03:34,960 Speaker 1: a different stage than Ocean obviously. But I'm like, I 72 00:03:34,960 --> 00:03:38,360 Speaker 1: don't want her to lose that tooth when she's with him, Like, 73 00:03:38,440 --> 00:03:39,920 Speaker 1: I want to be a part of the I know 74 00:03:40,400 --> 00:03:42,440 Speaker 1: she goes mom. If I lose it with my dad, 75 00:03:42,680 --> 00:03:44,760 Speaker 1: I will tell him he's not allowed to touch it and 76 00:03:44,800 --> 00:03:48,120 Speaker 1: I must take it home to my mom where it's safe. Oh. 77 00:03:48,200 --> 00:03:51,400 Speaker 1: I was like, tell him that. Tell him that. Also 78 00:03:51,400 --> 00:03:53,240 Speaker 1: tell me how much he leaves you, because I'll double it. 79 00:03:56,320 --> 00:03:59,600 Speaker 1: I'm on Ocean's shit list right now. Let's just be real. 80 00:04:00,080 --> 00:04:02,200 Speaker 3: And by the way, it's like dealing with a little 81 00:04:02,280 --> 00:04:04,040 Speaker 3: Lalla when you're on her ship list, You're like. 82 00:04:05,280 --> 00:04:11,240 Speaker 1: What did I do? What does she say? You always 83 00:04:11,240 --> 00:04:13,120 Speaker 1: want to participate on the podcast when you don't have 84 00:04:13,160 --> 00:04:14,760 Speaker 1: a mic, Then I put a mic in front of 85 00:04:14,800 --> 00:04:18,480 Speaker 1: you and you become become cute. I want to hear 86 00:04:18,680 --> 00:04:21,159 Speaker 1: how she vented to you. But I every time she 87 00:04:21,200 --> 00:04:23,479 Speaker 1: sees Amber. When we went to Montana, she had no issue. 88 00:04:23,520 --> 00:04:27,000 Speaker 1: She loves Amber. But when Amber appears at our house. 89 00:04:27,320 --> 00:04:31,200 Speaker 1: She knows that it means Amber is sleeping in mom's 90 00:04:31,200 --> 00:04:33,720 Speaker 1: bed with me, and Ocean has to sleep in her 91 00:04:33,720 --> 00:04:36,400 Speaker 1: own bed, And so she gets very funky with Amber 92 00:04:36,440 --> 00:04:38,440 Speaker 1: and goes, how long are you going to be here? 93 00:04:39,400 --> 00:04:42,200 Speaker 1: And then right in front of Amber, will say, Mom, 94 00:04:42,320 --> 00:04:44,719 Speaker 1: I don't like when Amber comes here? Why does she 95 00:04:44,720 --> 00:04:46,760 Speaker 1: always come here? And I have to teach her like 96 00:04:46,760 --> 00:04:48,479 Speaker 1: that is rude. How would you feel if someone said 97 00:04:48,480 --> 00:04:50,920 Speaker 1: I don't like when Ocean's here? How long is she 98 00:04:50,920 --> 00:04:53,279 Speaker 1: going to be here? She said no, But Mom, I 99 00:04:53,279 --> 00:04:54,800 Speaker 1: want to sleep in the bed with you anyway, she's 100 00:04:54,800 --> 00:04:57,440 Speaker 1: so cute. I put her in her room. She stomps 101 00:04:57,520 --> 00:05:00,880 Speaker 1: up the stairs, Amber and iron bed dealing with that. 102 00:05:01,240 --> 00:05:03,400 Speaker 4: But hold on, I have to take it back because 103 00:05:03,440 --> 00:05:06,920 Speaker 4: after all that happened, Ocean goes over and is asking 104 00:05:07,000 --> 00:05:09,520 Speaker 4: for help, and. 105 00:05:08,800 --> 00:05:11,800 Speaker 2: She goes Amber and Lauren la goes go over and 106 00:05:11,800 --> 00:05:12,680 Speaker 2: help her. She'll like, you. 107 00:05:14,279 --> 00:05:16,239 Speaker 1: Go help her. She's gonna like your face. Amber. 108 00:05:17,800 --> 00:05:24,560 Speaker 2: You have to Oh. She was getting the checking somewhere. 109 00:05:24,360 --> 00:05:26,760 Speaker 1: Lying so much, and then she has so three sleeps, 110 00:05:26,760 --> 00:05:30,279 Speaker 1: but tonight counts mom, so there's only one two more. 111 00:05:30,440 --> 00:05:35,200 Speaker 1: There's gonna only be one more sleep I'm like, mm hmmm, yeah, yeah, and. 112 00:05:35,320 --> 00:05:37,080 Speaker 3: You mean well, but but then you said, you said 113 00:05:37,080 --> 00:05:39,560 Speaker 3: to her, what we're taking a bath. She's like, but 114 00:05:39,680 --> 00:05:43,479 Speaker 3: Amber's family, and we don't treat family that. She goes, huh, 115 00:05:44,200 --> 00:05:46,720 Speaker 3: she does that little stink face. Huh, Like what she goes, 116 00:05:46,760 --> 00:05:47,719 Speaker 3: how is she family? 117 00:05:47,839 --> 00:05:50,280 Speaker 1: She doesn't even live with us, which makes sense because 118 00:05:50,320 --> 00:05:53,400 Speaker 1: she's got the geeeds living with with her and tt so. 119 00:05:53,600 --> 00:05:55,160 Speaker 1: And I said, well, your dad doesn't live with you, 120 00:05:55,279 --> 00:05:57,200 Speaker 1: and he's family, And then that really got her mind. 121 00:05:57,360 --> 00:05:58,960 Speaker 3: Out of state just because I live out of state, 122 00:05:59,040 --> 00:06:00,720 Speaker 3: she thinks that, like, we're. 123 00:06:00,279 --> 00:06:01,600 Speaker 2: Not your dad lives. 124 00:06:02,920 --> 00:06:07,160 Speaker 1: Ocean, He's still family, Disney. I had to explain to her, 125 00:06:07,680 --> 00:06:10,160 Speaker 1: this is the mother of your sisters. And then she 126 00:06:10,240 --> 00:06:13,599 Speaker 1: does that thing where she goes, that's weird. I'm leaving 127 00:06:13,960 --> 00:06:15,760 Speaker 1: where she taps into like a teenager. I'm like, what 128 00:06:15,839 --> 00:06:18,120 Speaker 1: the fuck is this? So then we're in bed, she 129 00:06:18,400 --> 00:06:21,880 Speaker 1: stomps up and she goes, mom, I have a letter 130 00:06:22,000 --> 00:06:25,520 Speaker 1: for you, and she leaves it on me, walks out 131 00:06:25,560 --> 00:06:27,279 Speaker 1: the door, looks at me, and I blow her kiss 132 00:06:27,320 --> 00:06:29,640 Speaker 1: and she shuts the door. I look at it. She's 133 00:06:29,760 --> 00:06:35,520 Speaker 1: drawn herself crying with a broken heart, and then it says, Mama, 134 00:06:37,160 --> 00:06:39,240 Speaker 1: I've said it on the podcast a million times. The 135 00:06:39,360 --> 00:06:43,159 Speaker 1: girl bathes with me, face masks with me. I don't 136 00:06:43,200 --> 00:06:45,880 Speaker 1: even I don't have one moment. And that's great. I 137 00:06:46,040 --> 00:06:48,880 Speaker 1: love it so much. But she's got to be able 138 00:06:49,000 --> 00:06:52,640 Speaker 1: to adjust when she's at my house. And I get it, 139 00:06:52,720 --> 00:06:54,320 Speaker 1: she already has to adjust at the other house. But 140 00:06:54,400 --> 00:06:56,040 Speaker 1: this is not a huge day. She doesn't want to 141 00:06:56,040 --> 00:06:57,960 Speaker 1: share her mom. She does want to share mom, and 142 00:06:58,040 --> 00:07:01,200 Speaker 1: I understand that, and I do everything in my power 143 00:07:01,320 --> 00:07:05,040 Speaker 1: to make her understand that. Like, I'm still right here. 144 00:07:05,240 --> 00:07:08,240 Speaker 1: I haven't gone anywhere. I did go down there because 145 00:07:08,279 --> 00:07:09,640 Speaker 1: she came back up and said, I need to have 146 00:07:09,720 --> 00:07:12,360 Speaker 1: a serious talk with you, Mom. Can you please come downstairs, 147 00:07:12,640 --> 00:07:14,760 Speaker 1: because she goes, I need to tell you something. Don't 148 00:07:14,800 --> 00:07:17,720 Speaker 1: tell amber, and then she whispers in my ear, I've 149 00:07:17,880 --> 00:07:21,880 Speaker 1: been crying. So I went downstairs with her and we 150 00:07:21,960 --> 00:07:24,360 Speaker 1: had a little chat, and she had drawn something, and 151 00:07:24,400 --> 00:07:26,840 Speaker 1: she goes, this is how I will manage my emotions. 152 00:07:26,920 --> 00:07:28,320 Speaker 1: If you see that there is a heart in the 153 00:07:28,400 --> 00:07:31,960 Speaker 1: center that is my heart. And when I push certain buttons, 154 00:07:32,400 --> 00:07:35,120 Speaker 1: then my emotions will fill the heart, and sometimes I 155 00:07:35,160 --> 00:07:37,640 Speaker 1: will be happy and sometimes I will be angry. And 156 00:07:37,720 --> 00:07:42,120 Speaker 1: I was like, got it understood. I go upstairs. She 157 00:07:42,280 --> 00:07:44,080 Speaker 1: comes up to ask me again, can you put the 158 00:07:44,160 --> 00:07:45,920 Speaker 1: Quiet Show on? I've been trying to do it through 159 00:07:46,080 --> 00:07:48,160 Speaker 1: her little Siri thing which I need to set up 160 00:07:48,200 --> 00:07:51,320 Speaker 1: for her on her TV. I go down. I get 161 00:07:51,360 --> 00:07:54,520 Speaker 1: her situated with the Quiet Show, and she said, Mom, 162 00:07:55,360 --> 00:07:57,280 Speaker 1: I want to let you know I've had a little 163 00:07:57,320 --> 00:08:01,920 Speaker 1: time by myself and now I'm happy. Literally she did that. 164 00:08:02,400 --> 00:08:04,640 Speaker 1: I said, I'm so proud of you. I'm never going 165 00:08:04,680 --> 00:08:06,920 Speaker 1: to be I'm upstairs. You want to come lay with me? 166 00:08:07,000 --> 00:08:09,600 Speaker 1: Come upstairs? She said she was fine, all was good, 167 00:08:09,880 --> 00:08:13,080 Speaker 1: she worked through her emotions. I was very proud of her. Absolutely, 168 00:08:13,200 --> 00:08:15,640 Speaker 1: there's my long winded She is so smart. 169 00:08:15,800 --> 00:08:17,720 Speaker 2: What did she do when she came into your room? 170 00:08:18,240 --> 00:08:18,520 Speaker 1: Yeah? What? 171 00:08:18,760 --> 00:08:20,880 Speaker 5: She wanted to know how many nights. 172 00:08:22,680 --> 00:08:23,040 Speaker 4: She thought? 173 00:08:23,120 --> 00:08:25,720 Speaker 1: I was lying? I meanwhile, I'm upstairs dealing with a liar. 174 00:08:26,200 --> 00:08:28,000 Speaker 2: Why am I lying? I should have? 175 00:08:28,920 --> 00:08:29,720 Speaker 1: I got to tell you something. 176 00:08:29,800 --> 00:08:30,560 Speaker 2: You know who's lying. 177 00:08:32,120 --> 00:08:34,800 Speaker 1: But I've been tracking him for the last three hours 178 00:08:35,240 --> 00:08:37,120 Speaker 1: and he's not at one spot he said he is. 179 00:08:37,720 --> 00:08:42,880 Speaker 1: That's a liar right there. Her dates old men who 180 00:08:42,960 --> 00:08:51,520 Speaker 1: are seen island forget you. Okay, the frog, let's go 181 00:08:52,000 --> 00:08:54,880 Speaker 1: Kermit the frog. I love my cur at least my 182 00:08:54,960 --> 00:08:58,840 Speaker 1: goat what at least my guys go through puberty. 183 00:09:02,760 --> 00:09:03,520 Speaker 2: You could get up. 184 00:09:04,320 --> 00:09:06,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, but he's six seven, so I'm gonna let 185 00:09:06,920 --> 00:09:07,280 Speaker 1: it slide. 186 00:09:07,960 --> 00:09:08,160 Speaker 5: Yeah. 187 00:09:08,320 --> 00:09:09,440 Speaker 2: Oh, is this the man? 188 00:09:10,679 --> 00:09:16,240 Speaker 1: The Google, the man, the goober? We like, he's so cute. 189 00:09:16,280 --> 00:09:19,880 Speaker 2: He is a goober. I like the menu Amber. They're 190 00:09:20,040 --> 00:09:23,600 Speaker 2: very great. I haven't met one, but we've seen pictures. 191 00:09:23,760 --> 00:09:25,439 Speaker 2: We've seen pictures and we're judging you. 192 00:09:28,800 --> 00:09:33,880 Speaker 1: You trying to make you feel better. No, you have 193 00:09:34,000 --> 00:09:35,800 Speaker 1: such a guys. 194 00:09:35,960 --> 00:09:38,120 Speaker 2: I know, my beautiful you are these men. 195 00:09:39,679 --> 00:09:40,040 Speaker 5: Mhmm. 196 00:09:41,240 --> 00:09:43,360 Speaker 1: Here here's the like, okay, on a scale of one 197 00:09:43,400 --> 00:09:44,240 Speaker 1: to ten, are. 198 00:09:44,240 --> 00:09:45,720 Speaker 5: They make the scale? 199 00:09:46,960 --> 00:09:50,040 Speaker 1: They're in the negatives. 200 00:09:51,880 --> 00:09:57,040 Speaker 2: We're about to be back on the men that you date. 201 00:09:57,679 --> 00:10:02,480 Speaker 1: Is take the out of it because all like, it's 202 00:10:02,559 --> 00:10:05,280 Speaker 1: not like I go, beauty is in the eye of 203 00:10:05,320 --> 00:10:13,360 Speaker 1: the beholder, doesn't matter. But they put something very different. Yeah. 204 00:10:13,400 --> 00:10:15,680 Speaker 1: But you you look at men and you're like, he's 205 00:10:15,720 --> 00:10:18,040 Speaker 1: really cute, Lauren, And I'm like, that guy is not 206 00:10:18,120 --> 00:10:19,560 Speaker 1: gonna have any hair in a year and a half. 207 00:10:19,679 --> 00:10:24,679 Speaker 1: So I'm solid ury Jewish guys, I can't help it. 208 00:10:24,840 --> 00:10:27,520 Speaker 1: I don't know why. I don't know. It's not even 209 00:10:27,559 --> 00:10:32,040 Speaker 1: about that. It's the men that you're attracting, by the way, 210 00:10:32,160 --> 00:10:37,599 Speaker 1: same with me. We're attracting men who the pattern is 211 00:10:37,679 --> 00:10:39,520 Speaker 1: the same with them all, and at some point we 212 00:10:39,640 --> 00:10:42,360 Speaker 1: have to go this may be a me thing, which 213 00:10:42,400 --> 00:10:45,640 Speaker 1: is why after this guy and I've been there where 214 00:10:45,679 --> 00:10:48,360 Speaker 1: your heart is in pieces, I want you to go 215 00:10:48,559 --> 00:10:51,800 Speaker 1: out and have fun with me like I want my 216 00:10:51,880 --> 00:10:54,520 Speaker 1: little like wing women all be yours. We like very 217 00:10:54,600 --> 00:10:56,280 Speaker 1: different types of men, so we'll be going to very 218 00:10:56,360 --> 00:11:02,880 Speaker 1: different places, but we're attracting the same quality. Has nothing 219 00:11:02,960 --> 00:11:06,800 Speaker 1: to do with the looks, has everything to do with 220 00:11:06,960 --> 00:11:09,840 Speaker 1: the personality. Where they come in on a white horse 221 00:11:10,400 --> 00:11:12,719 Speaker 1: and you feel like this one's gonna be different, but 222 00:11:12,800 --> 00:11:15,079 Speaker 1: then they end up doing the exact same thing that 223 00:11:15,200 --> 00:11:17,719 Speaker 1: the one before that did and the one before that did, 224 00:11:18,200 --> 00:11:20,400 Speaker 1: and they plug into our wounds. We have to make 225 00:11:20,440 --> 00:11:23,160 Speaker 1: sure that right off the bat we don't tell men 226 00:11:23,600 --> 00:11:25,679 Speaker 1: what we've been through, because sometimes I feel like the 227 00:11:25,760 --> 00:11:29,880 Speaker 1: men were bringing in clock that and use it against 228 00:11:29,960 --> 00:11:32,439 Speaker 1: us to manipulate and do whatever it is that they do. 229 00:11:32,720 --> 00:11:34,719 Speaker 1: And that's that's an US issue. Because we can only 230 00:11:34,760 --> 00:11:35,560 Speaker 1: control ourselves. 231 00:11:36,240 --> 00:11:41,040 Speaker 3: So what if what if you choose the next guy 232 00:11:41,200 --> 00:11:43,280 Speaker 3: I get to go out on a date with, and 233 00:11:43,440 --> 00:11:45,040 Speaker 3: I get to choose the next guy you. 234 00:11:45,200 --> 00:11:48,080 Speaker 1: Go out on a date with. Oh god, I don't 235 00:11:48,240 --> 00:11:53,599 Speaker 1: love that. I don't love that. All right, well, just 236 00:11:53,640 --> 00:11:55,520 Speaker 1: because I want to be able to get laid at 237 00:11:55,520 --> 00:11:57,400 Speaker 1: the end of sorry, plug your ears, Easton, And I 238 00:11:57,440 --> 00:11:59,080 Speaker 1: don't think that the guy you pick for me, I'm 239 00:11:59,120 --> 00:12:01,560 Speaker 1: gonna want to touch you. You don't know what I'm 240 00:12:01,600 --> 00:12:01,959 Speaker 1: gonna pick. 241 00:12:02,120 --> 00:12:03,880 Speaker 2: I feel like she's not gonna pick her type of 242 00:12:03,960 --> 00:12:05,559 Speaker 2: guy for you. She's going to pick a guy that 243 00:12:05,679 --> 00:12:06,320 Speaker 2: is in your realm. 244 00:12:06,440 --> 00:12:09,599 Speaker 1: But she is going like, yeah, I love this for you, 245 00:12:09,720 --> 00:12:11,240 Speaker 1: all dark and handsome, Ye done. 246 00:12:11,559 --> 00:12:13,959 Speaker 4: Yeah, She's not going to go find and say now 247 00:12:14,000 --> 00:12:18,240 Speaker 4: you're dating Yeah, well your type, and you will date him, 248 00:12:18,280 --> 00:12:20,559 Speaker 4: but it will be of her choice of in your type. 249 00:12:21,120 --> 00:12:22,760 Speaker 1: Can I tell you the quote that Amber and I 250 00:12:22,920 --> 00:12:24,000 Speaker 1: keep repeating to each. 251 00:12:23,880 --> 00:12:25,160 Speaker 2: Other, No, the Lady. 252 00:12:26,600 --> 00:12:30,720 Speaker 1: The Lady Gaga quote where she is accepting an award, 253 00:12:30,760 --> 00:12:33,440 Speaker 1: and I apologize to my listeners that I'm repeating this again, 254 00:12:33,520 --> 00:12:35,480 Speaker 1: but in case you missed it, because it's so iconic, 255 00:12:35,559 --> 00:12:38,840 Speaker 1: and I live by this accepting an award, and at 256 00:12:38,880 --> 00:12:41,959 Speaker 1: the very end of her speech, she says, for the 257 00:12:42,040 --> 00:12:46,440 Speaker 1: women out there who are trying to choose between men 258 00:12:47,000 --> 00:12:50,880 Speaker 1: and your career, just remember your career will never wake 259 00:12:51,000 --> 00:12:52,480 Speaker 1: up in the middle of the night and tell you 260 00:12:52,600 --> 00:12:55,360 Speaker 1: it doesn't love you anymore. And then she walks off stage, 261 00:12:55,480 --> 00:13:01,040 Speaker 1: And that was so fucking powerful to me. You and 262 00:13:01,160 --> 00:13:04,800 Speaker 1: I have to really just know that we have found 263 00:13:04,880 --> 00:13:08,880 Speaker 1: at this point in time, the love of our lives, ourselves, 264 00:13:09,280 --> 00:13:13,160 Speaker 1: what we want, our children, and our career. And after 265 00:13:13,360 --> 00:13:17,400 Speaker 1: we have conquered what we need, the right guy is 266 00:13:17,440 --> 00:13:18,280 Speaker 1: going to come into place. 267 00:13:18,440 --> 00:13:18,559 Speaker 2: You Know. 268 00:13:18,640 --> 00:13:21,120 Speaker 3: What I realized lately is that it's okay to say 269 00:13:21,240 --> 00:13:24,360 Speaker 3: I want something until someone said to me recently because 270 00:13:24,360 --> 00:13:27,439 Speaker 3: I'm up for a role and I really want it. 271 00:13:27,520 --> 00:13:30,360 Speaker 3: And I was like spiraling after I send myself tape, 272 00:13:30,400 --> 00:13:32,760 Speaker 3: and I was like, what else can I do? And 273 00:13:33,520 --> 00:13:36,839 Speaker 3: then I felt like I felt gross about it, like 274 00:13:37,320 --> 00:13:40,160 Speaker 3: almost like I was retracting, like I felt rejection before 275 00:13:40,200 --> 00:13:43,559 Speaker 3: the rejection actually hadn't even come yet, right, I was 276 00:13:43,640 --> 00:13:45,360 Speaker 3: like having that feeling of what it would be like 277 00:13:45,400 --> 00:13:47,040 Speaker 3: when I get the call saying that I didn't get it, 278 00:13:47,520 --> 00:13:49,959 Speaker 3: and my girlfriend's like, what if you do it is 279 00:13:50,000 --> 00:13:53,120 Speaker 3: okay to say I want this job and to say that, 280 00:13:53,240 --> 00:13:56,319 Speaker 3: like for me, no one. I haven't said that in 281 00:13:56,360 --> 00:13:59,080 Speaker 3: my life before, Like I want this kind of love, 282 00:13:59,240 --> 00:14:01,000 Speaker 3: I want this kind of career, And now I feel 283 00:14:01,040 --> 00:14:04,079 Speaker 3: like I'm stepping into a new chapter of my life 284 00:14:04,160 --> 00:14:04,800 Speaker 3: and saying. 285 00:14:04,880 --> 00:14:10,160 Speaker 1: It's fucking okay to want something. I I never tell 286 00:14:10,320 --> 00:14:13,920 Speaker 1: people when I really want something, because if I don't 287 00:14:13,960 --> 00:14:16,960 Speaker 1: get it, I feel shame and embarrassment, and it's like. 288 00:14:17,080 --> 00:14:18,640 Speaker 5: Why it's fear of failure. 289 00:14:19,200 --> 00:14:22,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, but I have not been like that sunk in 290 00:14:22,800 --> 00:14:29,160 Speaker 1: for me. After the final season of the show that 291 00:14:29,240 --> 00:14:33,880 Speaker 1: I was on, Yeah, everything changed, my confidence plummeted, and 292 00:14:34,080 --> 00:14:38,480 Speaker 1: everything shifted where I felt very unwanted, unworthy. I question 293 00:14:38,840 --> 00:14:42,080 Speaker 1: every single thing about what I say, what I do. 294 00:14:43,120 --> 00:14:48,680 Speaker 1: I'm like already preparing myself to not be embarrassed, not 295 00:14:49,000 --> 00:14:53,520 Speaker 1: feel like I like saying if I want something and 296 00:14:53,560 --> 00:14:55,120 Speaker 1: then I don't get it and I have to explain 297 00:14:55,200 --> 00:14:57,600 Speaker 1: to someone. It's like I don't want them in their 298 00:14:58,000 --> 00:14:59,800 Speaker 1: their head to be like, well, of course you didn't, 299 00:14:59,880 --> 00:15:02,040 Speaker 1: Like You're not good enough for that. So I try 300 00:15:02,080 --> 00:15:05,200 Speaker 1: to save myself from the embarrassment yes, yes, that's what 301 00:15:05,240 --> 00:15:07,920 Speaker 1: I've been doing, and I lately changed that. 302 00:15:08,200 --> 00:15:10,600 Speaker 3: And to take that a fucking step further is like, 303 00:15:11,320 --> 00:15:15,280 Speaker 3: fear is the anticipation of suffering. If I carried that 304 00:15:15,400 --> 00:15:17,840 Speaker 3: with me, if I if I fear this, what is fear? 305 00:15:17,880 --> 00:15:19,760 Speaker 3: It's like, oh my god, I'm gonna feel rejected. I'm 306 00:15:19,760 --> 00:15:21,440 Speaker 3: gonna feel stupid. I'm not gonna feel worthy, I'm not 307 00:15:21,440 --> 00:15:24,080 Speaker 3: gonna feel loved. I'm gonna have financial insecurity. I'm not 308 00:15:24,120 --> 00:15:26,440 Speaker 3: gonna you know what I mean. It's like that I 309 00:15:26,600 --> 00:15:29,280 Speaker 3: don't want to suffer. Suffering is too painful, So I'm 310 00:15:29,320 --> 00:15:33,920 Speaker 3: going to like choose fear to cover up the suffering, right, No, 311 00:15:34,120 --> 00:15:34,600 Speaker 3: I get it. 312 00:15:35,040 --> 00:15:37,520 Speaker 5: No more, no more, no more. 313 00:15:37,880 --> 00:15:42,120 Speaker 1: I don't know. Is that Pixar Billy Madison? I should 314 00:15:42,160 --> 00:15:44,720 Speaker 1: know that he says like this, no more? 315 00:15:45,520 --> 00:15:47,400 Speaker 4: Isn't it funny though, that we're all afraid of failure 316 00:15:47,560 --> 00:15:49,680 Speaker 4: and you talk to any billionaire or anything like that 317 00:15:49,760 --> 00:15:51,920 Speaker 4: and they're like, yeah, how to fail along to get here? 318 00:15:52,040 --> 00:15:54,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, well, it's really admit your failures when you're a billionaire. 319 00:15:57,520 --> 00:15:58,640 Speaker 1: I'll admit all my failures. 320 00:16:00,520 --> 00:16:02,400 Speaker 2: They had to admit him when they worked the billionaire 321 00:16:02,640 --> 00:16:05,200 Speaker 2: try It failed all right, Well that didn't work it. 322 00:16:06,160 --> 00:16:08,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, go back to being a brokester and let's see 323 00:16:08,400 --> 00:16:13,360 Speaker 1: how you fare with rejection. Yeah, it's you're gonna hear 324 00:16:13,480 --> 00:16:15,200 Speaker 1: no more than you hear yes, and you have to 325 00:16:15,240 --> 00:16:17,920 Speaker 1: be completely okay with that. And I'm having to rewire myself. 326 00:16:18,520 --> 00:16:21,680 Speaker 1: You just completed your south note hitting your north note. 327 00:16:21,720 --> 00:16:25,480 Speaker 1: So I look forward to seeing your evolution now my blossom, 328 00:16:25,800 --> 00:16:29,960 Speaker 1: your blossom, because I'm I'm in muddy territory, just trying 329 00:16:30,040 --> 00:16:32,640 Speaker 1: to find the lighting. What is the lotus? I'm the 330 00:16:32,680 --> 00:16:37,000 Speaker 1: lotus that just I just came out of the Yeah. 331 00:16:37,760 --> 00:16:40,600 Speaker 1: I also realized in a lot of this because I 332 00:16:40,680 --> 00:16:43,680 Speaker 1: had this guy reach out to me and he was like, Hey, 333 00:16:43,760 --> 00:16:45,200 Speaker 1: I'm going to be in town. I would love to 334 00:16:45,240 --> 00:16:47,480 Speaker 1: take you on a date. Let me know what part 335 00:16:47,520 --> 00:16:49,440 Speaker 1: of town you live in, and he's cute, my type 336 00:16:49,480 --> 00:16:51,200 Speaker 1: of guy. Let me know what part of town you 337 00:16:51,320 --> 00:16:53,600 Speaker 1: live in and I will make a reservation. Do you 338 00:16:53,680 --> 00:16:55,040 Speaker 1: think that I responded to him. 339 00:16:55,360 --> 00:16:56,160 Speaker 5: Oh that's sad. 340 00:16:56,440 --> 00:16:58,360 Speaker 1: No, But I'll respond to the guy who won't fucking 341 00:16:58,440 --> 00:17:03,920 Speaker 1: show up because I don't like commitment. I'm on a whim. 342 00:17:04,000 --> 00:17:06,560 Speaker 1: It's something I have to look into. I have abandonment issues, 343 00:17:06,840 --> 00:17:09,240 Speaker 1: but I also have a fear of commitment. It is 344 00:17:09,440 --> 00:17:12,439 Speaker 1: much easier when I say I like a long distance relationship. 345 00:17:12,800 --> 00:17:15,040 Speaker 1: I thrive there. You want to know why, because it 346 00:17:15,200 --> 00:17:17,760 Speaker 1: doesn't fuck with my routine. 347 00:17:18,040 --> 00:17:18,240 Speaker 5: Yeah. 348 00:17:18,840 --> 00:17:21,320 Speaker 1: I can do exactly what I want but still have 349 00:17:21,400 --> 00:17:24,440 Speaker 1: a connection through the phone. I can take this anywhere. 350 00:17:24,760 --> 00:17:26,800 Speaker 1: I can be with my kids, I can go be 351 00:17:27,040 --> 00:17:29,080 Speaker 1: have a girls' night with my friends and not worry 352 00:17:29,119 --> 00:17:31,560 Speaker 1: about you. It's really weird. It's something I need to 353 00:17:31,600 --> 00:17:35,000 Speaker 1: look into. I might need therapy. No, I don't think. 354 00:17:35,080 --> 00:17:35,400 Speaker 4: I think. 355 00:17:35,680 --> 00:17:37,560 Speaker 1: I think that you do me too much. 356 00:17:38,320 --> 00:17:41,520 Speaker 3: You said you don't like commitment, Well, what else would 357 00:17:41,520 --> 00:17:43,600 Speaker 3: it be. I think you say that to keep yourself safe. 358 00:17:43,840 --> 00:17:46,480 Speaker 2: I need too for the fact of what you just 359 00:17:46,600 --> 00:17:50,119 Speaker 2: brought up and what failure and what you want and 360 00:17:50,240 --> 00:17:51,879 Speaker 2: things like that. And if you say you don't want it, 361 00:17:51,960 --> 00:17:53,359 Speaker 2: then you're not it's a failure. 362 00:17:53,680 --> 00:17:56,240 Speaker 4: Yeah, both do you want it with what you just 363 00:17:56,400 --> 00:17:58,680 Speaker 4: said and afraid of failure. I feel like you're taking 364 00:17:58,720 --> 00:18:00,800 Speaker 4: this into relationships like if it doesn't work, is out 365 00:18:00,800 --> 00:18:01,240 Speaker 4: a failure? 366 00:18:02,000 --> 00:18:05,440 Speaker 1: Okay, I could be, but also easton, you and I 367 00:18:05,520 --> 00:18:07,120 Speaker 1: are on the same page with this. When you get 368 00:18:07,320 --> 00:18:09,320 Speaker 1: nervous to link up with someone, and I find when 369 00:18:09,359 --> 00:18:12,919 Speaker 1: it's long distance and you have to communicate through texting 370 00:18:13,040 --> 00:18:15,639 Speaker 1: or FaceTime, by the time we link up, I'm going 371 00:18:15,680 --> 00:18:19,439 Speaker 1: to feel so comfortable, Like I hate feeling uncomfortable. 372 00:18:20,240 --> 00:18:21,960 Speaker 5: Well, I don't think anyone enjoys that. 373 00:18:25,160 --> 00:18:27,200 Speaker 1: Amber. Someone could text her right now and say I 374 00:18:27,200 --> 00:18:28,800 Speaker 1: would love to take you on a date tonight, and 375 00:18:29,000 --> 00:18:31,120 Speaker 1: she would go, You want to know where my head 376 00:18:31,160 --> 00:18:33,119 Speaker 1: would go? Oh my gosh, I need an outfit. I 377 00:18:33,160 --> 00:18:34,560 Speaker 1: don't know him. What are we going to talk about? 378 00:18:34,600 --> 00:18:36,280 Speaker 1: What if my hair doesn't work the way that I 379 00:18:36,359 --> 00:18:36,920 Speaker 1: want it to work? 380 00:18:36,960 --> 00:18:39,080 Speaker 2: Oh my god, just something weird? What if she says 381 00:18:39,119 --> 00:18:41,200 Speaker 2: something weird throws me off and I just want to leave? 382 00:18:41,400 --> 00:18:42,720 Speaker 2: Oh now, I just don't even. 383 00:18:42,560 --> 00:18:45,440 Speaker 1: Want to go right Like so, I understand like the 384 00:18:45,680 --> 00:18:50,440 Speaker 1: fear of rejection, but I think this is leaning more 385 00:18:50,560 --> 00:18:54,000 Speaker 1: towards like once I'm in it, then I fear a 386 00:18:54,080 --> 00:18:57,720 Speaker 1: fear of abandonment that But then beforehand, if someonere to 387 00:18:57,760 --> 00:18:58,960 Speaker 1: text me right now I want to take you on 388 00:18:59,000 --> 00:19:03,399 Speaker 1: a date, I would fucking spiral. Yeah, unless I have 389 00:19:03,600 --> 00:19:10,719 Speaker 1: had banter with them or a beta blocker. Try twelve 390 00:19:11,160 --> 00:19:13,560 Speaker 1: God damn it. Lisa, there's just a lot to unpass. 391 00:19:14,760 --> 00:19:21,000 Speaker 1: I do I know you're crushing it is happening, Yes, yeah. 392 00:19:21,000 --> 00:19:22,040 Speaker 2: How are you feeling about it? 393 00:19:23,480 --> 00:19:23,720 Speaker 5: Good? 394 00:19:24,840 --> 00:19:26,880 Speaker 2: You got your shoes off in the studio. 395 00:19:27,400 --> 00:19:29,120 Speaker 5: Feeling a little anxious. 396 00:19:28,960 --> 00:19:29,359 Speaker 2: About what. 397 00:19:31,800 --> 00:19:34,840 Speaker 1: Before? It's when you're put on the spot. Doctor talked 398 00:19:34,840 --> 00:19:36,840 Speaker 1: about this today. Do you find when you're put on 399 00:19:36,920 --> 00:19:39,240 Speaker 1: the spot you freeze up and you get foggy? You're 400 00:19:39,240 --> 00:19:41,760 Speaker 1: getting foggy? You had no problem just participating? 401 00:19:42,320 --> 00:19:45,520 Speaker 5: No, my legs fill because you're. 402 00:19:47,359 --> 00:19:47,920 Speaker 2: Felt that way. 403 00:19:48,240 --> 00:19:50,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, don't worry about it, kick your dogs up and 404 00:19:50,400 --> 00:19:55,159 Speaker 1: just let me woof blue pill here we come. What 405 00:19:55,359 --> 00:19:56,880 Speaker 1: kind of blue pillar are you talking about? 406 00:19:56,920 --> 00:20:01,240 Speaker 2: Little is a boner? Say that you're gonna. 407 00:20:03,760 --> 00:20:05,640 Speaker 1: Pill for the man gives them a heart on blue 408 00:20:05,680 --> 00:20:08,240 Speaker 1: pill for women just gets us to fucking zone out 409 00:20:08,320 --> 00:20:10,280 Speaker 1: and by the way, shuts down. I think we just 410 00:20:11,480 --> 00:20:13,200 Speaker 1: we've been taking the wrong medication. 411 00:20:13,960 --> 00:20:16,640 Speaker 2: The wrong blue pill. I wonder you're anxious. 412 00:20:20,280 --> 00:20:25,719 Speaker 1: She's like my vainsul. I know everyone listening, clutch your 413 00:20:25,800 --> 00:20:28,960 Speaker 1: fucking pearls. Who talks that way in front of their mom? 414 00:20:29,720 --> 00:20:48,840 Speaker 6: I okay, Easton, speaking of dating, I know, yeah, you girl, 415 00:20:49,119 --> 00:20:49,840 Speaker 6: tell us about it. 416 00:20:50,280 --> 00:20:53,480 Speaker 2: I'm very happy and excited. She she flew in. She 417 00:20:54,280 --> 00:20:57,600 Speaker 2: she does not live in the United States as number one, so. 418 00:20:57,720 --> 00:20:59,120 Speaker 1: Easan's gone hell a long to stay. 419 00:20:59,359 --> 00:21:05,480 Speaker 2: Hell you we like long distance. But yeah, she flew in. 420 00:21:05,640 --> 00:21:08,399 Speaker 2: She works for an airline. That's all I'll share. But 421 00:21:08,520 --> 00:21:10,959 Speaker 2: she flew in from She lives in Dubai, that's all 422 00:21:11,000 --> 00:21:11,400 Speaker 2: I'll say. 423 00:21:12,200 --> 00:21:17,639 Speaker 4: Lives in Dubai Romanian and yeah, so pretty, She's beautiful, 424 00:21:19,280 --> 00:21:20,520 Speaker 4: very very pretty. 425 00:21:22,040 --> 00:21:22,640 Speaker 2: This podcast. 426 00:21:24,119 --> 00:21:24,600 Speaker 4: I love that. 427 00:21:24,760 --> 00:21:26,000 Speaker 1: What are you going to hit her on the FaceTime? 428 00:21:26,280 --> 00:21:26,520 Speaker 2: Yeah? 429 00:21:27,119 --> 00:21:29,399 Speaker 1: We hit on the face always the face time, always 430 00:21:29,560 --> 00:21:30,240 Speaker 1: with her, that's it. 431 00:21:30,359 --> 00:21:34,240 Speaker 2: I hate facetiming, but with her, it's easy. And then 432 00:21:34,280 --> 00:21:35,919 Speaker 2: she comes into town in. 433 00:21:35,960 --> 00:21:37,560 Speaker 4: Like a month, so I'm gonna go up to San 434 00:21:37,600 --> 00:21:39,560 Speaker 4: Francisco to see her, and then I'm gonna have to 435 00:21:39,600 --> 00:21:41,359 Speaker 4: get my ass on a plan to go to Dubai. 436 00:21:41,400 --> 00:21:44,320 Speaker 1: I guess hey, count me in. I'm you guys, Yeah, 437 00:21:45,119 --> 00:21:48,120 Speaker 1: to make a pit stop somewhere. We have some work 438 00:21:48,160 --> 00:21:49,879 Speaker 1: to do. We have a lot of work to do. 439 00:21:50,280 --> 00:21:52,480 Speaker 2: But yeah, So I've been talking to a girl and 440 00:21:52,520 --> 00:21:53,560 Speaker 2: I'm very happy about it. 441 00:21:55,080 --> 00:21:57,280 Speaker 1: This is very very sweet. 442 00:21:58,080 --> 00:21:58,760 Speaker 2: It's been a minute. 443 00:21:58,880 --> 00:21:59,680 Speaker 5: He deserves talks. 444 00:22:01,720 --> 00:22:04,680 Speaker 1: Yes, yes, all right, I wanted to hear you say 445 00:22:04,720 --> 00:22:05,560 Speaker 1: that too. I deserve it. 446 00:22:05,680 --> 00:22:08,480 Speaker 4: I want I want this, I want everything I've been 447 00:22:08,560 --> 00:22:10,239 Speaker 4: asking for in a woman. I feel like shut up, 448 00:22:10,280 --> 00:22:10,840 Speaker 4: which is good. 449 00:22:11,359 --> 00:22:12,960 Speaker 1: You know, did you make an ideals list? 450 00:22:13,800 --> 00:22:13,840 Speaker 3: No? 451 00:22:17,880 --> 00:22:19,840 Speaker 2: Right, but yeah, I know there was little certain things. 452 00:22:21,480 --> 00:22:25,760 Speaker 1: She speaks like five languages, and he has no choice. 453 00:22:26,040 --> 00:22:27,920 Speaker 1: That's good to take it slow because she's all the 454 00:22:27,960 --> 00:22:28,520 Speaker 1: way in Dubai. 455 00:22:28,840 --> 00:22:31,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, so it's perfect. I perfect. 456 00:22:31,680 --> 00:22:34,159 Speaker 4: Well, it's not perfect, but yeah, it's a long distance 457 00:22:34,680 --> 00:22:36,119 Speaker 4: it is, but we're going to figure it out. 458 00:22:36,200 --> 00:22:37,040 Speaker 2: We'll see what we can do. 459 00:22:37,320 --> 00:22:39,320 Speaker 1: You know what, I love this for you, and you 460 00:22:39,440 --> 00:22:41,960 Speaker 1: do deserve it. You have taken on a lot in 461 00:22:42,040 --> 00:22:47,359 Speaker 1: the past. Well, dad's been gone eight years, over eight years, 462 00:22:48,840 --> 00:22:52,120 Speaker 1: and you were consumed with his health and making sure 463 00:22:52,160 --> 00:22:55,320 Speaker 1: he was okay. And then you know, taking care of 464 00:22:55,640 --> 00:22:58,040 Speaker 1: mom's house while she was out here taking care of me. 465 00:22:58,640 --> 00:23:03,600 Speaker 1: You took on two kids, You've helped with you know, 466 00:23:03,800 --> 00:23:07,400 Speaker 1: mom and this health journey, and you're an incredible human being. 467 00:23:07,520 --> 00:23:08,680 Speaker 1: I think it's amazing. 468 00:23:09,160 --> 00:23:11,760 Speaker 2: Thank you. That makes me happy. No, I'm very happy 469 00:23:11,840 --> 00:23:13,840 Speaker 2: with with this little lady. 470 00:23:14,000 --> 00:23:15,040 Speaker 5: And I'm talking to that. 471 00:23:15,560 --> 00:23:18,159 Speaker 1: Even Janet's mom the other day, had called you on 472 00:23:18,240 --> 00:23:20,119 Speaker 1: the way to on the way to the desert, and 473 00:23:20,240 --> 00:23:23,600 Speaker 1: we said, she's staying home. He's got like a cute 474 00:23:23,640 --> 00:23:25,600 Speaker 1: girl he's talking to. And she goes, you know what, 475 00:23:26,240 --> 00:23:29,040 Speaker 1: what a lucky girl to be talking to the. 476 00:23:29,119 --> 00:23:31,919 Speaker 2: Crazy deserves I feel, she said, that's the thing. 477 00:23:32,040 --> 00:23:35,720 Speaker 1: I feel lucky though, So that's why you're a good human. 478 00:23:36,119 --> 00:23:38,480 Speaker 1: And you know you showed me that reel the other day. 479 00:23:38,520 --> 00:23:40,000 Speaker 1: I think I told you about this real amber. 480 00:23:40,119 --> 00:23:41,879 Speaker 2: How funny that I showed you that. And then like 481 00:23:42,040 --> 00:23:43,960 Speaker 2: within a couple of days, I started talking to this 482 00:23:44,040 --> 00:23:45,760 Speaker 2: girl from when I sent. 483 00:23:45,640 --> 00:23:49,280 Speaker 1: You about I've talked about it now. I think on 484 00:23:49,400 --> 00:23:50,919 Speaker 1: two podcasts this will be the third. 485 00:23:52,560 --> 00:23:52,720 Speaker 2: One. 486 00:23:53,200 --> 00:23:56,040 Speaker 1: The guy who says he's not attracted to women right now, 487 00:23:56,080 --> 00:23:59,200 Speaker 1: and he's a very handsome guy, and I know what 488 00:23:59,240 --> 00:24:01,280 Speaker 1: people are going to say, the comments like you're gay. 489 00:24:01,440 --> 00:24:03,280 Speaker 1: He's like, I'm not gay, never been gay, and never 490 00:24:03,320 --> 00:24:05,200 Speaker 1: will be gay. I'm just not attracted to like the 491 00:24:05,359 --> 00:24:07,560 Speaker 1: energy that women are bringing to the table right now. 492 00:24:08,000 --> 00:24:12,520 Speaker 1: And my perspective was immediately, well, we wouldn't bring this 493 00:24:12,760 --> 00:24:15,920 Speaker 1: energy if there were quality men like we've had to 494 00:24:16,160 --> 00:24:18,560 Speaker 1: level up in like a big dick energy way you 495 00:24:18,640 --> 00:24:21,879 Speaker 1: think we like this, like we're born to be feminine 496 00:24:21,960 --> 00:24:25,040 Speaker 1: and sweet and maternal and all of these things. But 497 00:24:25,280 --> 00:24:27,440 Speaker 1: you guys have made it so we can't be that 498 00:24:27,520 --> 00:24:29,879 Speaker 1: way anymore, because if we are that way, we'll be 499 00:24:29,920 --> 00:24:33,720 Speaker 1: in the fucking fetal position. YEA, unable to recover. And 500 00:24:33,840 --> 00:24:38,040 Speaker 1: then Easton brought up what you said, something like, I 501 00:24:38,200 --> 00:24:42,639 Speaker 1: understand because I'm where this guy is there. It's the same. 502 00:24:43,160 --> 00:24:47,200 Speaker 1: There's such a select group of men, good people. 503 00:24:47,400 --> 00:24:51,000 Speaker 4: Like good like good dudes that I just feel like 504 00:24:51,080 --> 00:24:53,159 Speaker 4: when he was talking about it, I felt like I 505 00:24:53,359 --> 00:24:56,800 Speaker 4: was in his same boat. And the guys that he 506 00:24:56,960 --> 00:24:59,800 Speaker 4: was talking about are the guys who are making women 507 00:25:00,119 --> 00:25:03,240 Speaker 4: feel the need to be more masculine. 508 00:25:03,400 --> 00:25:06,600 Speaker 1: In a sense, I was in Palm Springs, the fucking 509 00:25:06,680 --> 00:25:09,040 Speaker 1: smoke detectors going off. I had to take a ladder 510 00:25:09,119 --> 00:25:12,080 Speaker 1: that was as long as this fucking room, all in 511 00:25:12,640 --> 00:25:17,560 Speaker 1: one hundred and two, but it was huge. Go through there, 512 00:25:18,840 --> 00:25:20,240 Speaker 1: now you know what we go through. 513 00:25:20,560 --> 00:25:26,159 Speaker 2: You're right, I'm petit. And I went there with my mom. 514 00:25:26,520 --> 00:25:29,639 Speaker 1: With a bum hip holding the ladder as if she's 515 00:25:29,720 --> 00:25:33,800 Speaker 1: gonna prevent me from tipping over on this face, disconnecting 516 00:25:33,920 --> 00:25:35,080 Speaker 1: these fucking wires. 517 00:25:35,640 --> 00:25:36,760 Speaker 5: You were a rock star. 518 00:25:37,119 --> 00:25:39,840 Speaker 2: I did to do it four times because it doesn't work. 519 00:25:39,880 --> 00:25:41,920 Speaker 1: The first I'm like, how does a man expect me 520 00:25:42,000 --> 00:25:44,080 Speaker 1: to get rid of my big dig energy? And when 521 00:25:44,119 --> 00:25:46,720 Speaker 1: I'm fucking try potting it through life every day? 522 00:25:47,160 --> 00:25:50,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, just leaning forward, you won't tip. 523 00:25:50,840 --> 00:25:54,960 Speaker 1: I'm like, it's a lot, it is, Geez the Louise, 524 00:25:55,520 --> 00:25:56,240 Speaker 1: but you killed it. 525 00:25:56,720 --> 00:25:57,239 Speaker 5: Thank you, mom? 526 00:25:58,240 --> 00:25:58,560 Speaker 2: I did? 527 00:25:59,000 --> 00:25:59,480 Speaker 4: You killed it? 528 00:25:59,800 --> 00:26:00,680 Speaker 1: And you know what I said? 529 00:26:00,800 --> 00:26:03,040 Speaker 5: It was one hundred and twenty in the garage and 530 00:26:03,200 --> 00:26:04,440 Speaker 5: she was burning her hands. 531 00:26:04,920 --> 00:26:07,760 Speaker 1: The ladder was like as hot as a pan on 532 00:26:07,840 --> 00:26:12,240 Speaker 1: a stove. What I You know what I loved about 533 00:26:12,280 --> 00:26:18,359 Speaker 1: that my two little girls sitting behind the gate in 534 00:26:18,720 --> 00:26:21,800 Speaker 1: the house, the baby gate, watching their mother haul this 535 00:26:22,000 --> 00:26:25,240 Speaker 1: thing in and out up changing things, and my little 536 00:26:25,280 --> 00:26:29,640 Speaker 1: five year old ocean going, wow, Mom, you're strong. That's 537 00:26:29,720 --> 00:26:32,080 Speaker 1: what my two little girls are witness. So welcome to 538 00:26:32,280 --> 00:26:35,159 Speaker 1: twenty twenty six. And you know what I love it. 539 00:26:35,280 --> 00:26:37,840 Speaker 1: I'm okay with it. So if a man. 540 00:26:39,240 --> 00:26:41,480 Speaker 2: Can say one thing I always watched you, can I 541 00:26:41,560 --> 00:26:45,479 Speaker 2: say one thing? If I'm around, I will not let 542 00:26:45,560 --> 00:26:47,800 Speaker 2: you guys, it's I already know that, okay. 543 00:26:48,400 --> 00:26:51,320 Speaker 1: I was like the one time that fucking. 544 00:26:53,320 --> 00:26:53,520 Speaker 2: Yeah. 545 00:26:53,600 --> 00:26:54,720 Speaker 6: One of the things that I was like, oh, the 546 00:26:54,800 --> 00:26:57,040 Speaker 6: long time I doned so no, we walked into the 547 00:26:57,119 --> 00:26:58,360 Speaker 6: house to the beeping. 548 00:26:58,680 --> 00:27:00,640 Speaker 1: It's my worst nightmare. I you know what I said. 549 00:27:00,800 --> 00:27:03,600 Speaker 1: I said, I want to find someone that when I'm 550 00:27:04,400 --> 00:27:06,760 Speaker 1: when I'm coming to Palm Springs, I give them my 551 00:27:06,840 --> 00:27:10,359 Speaker 1: grocery list. I have them stalk everything up, come in 552 00:27:10,400 --> 00:27:14,240 Speaker 1: the house. If anything's beeping, fucking fix it. Like that's 553 00:27:14,280 --> 00:27:16,840 Speaker 1: what I want. But then I felt so accomplished after 554 00:27:16,960 --> 00:27:17,760 Speaker 1: I had done work. 555 00:27:18,000 --> 00:27:20,159 Speaker 3: I know that's the that's the trade off you're like, oh, 556 00:27:20,200 --> 00:27:21,440 Speaker 3: should I could do this myself? 557 00:27:21,800 --> 00:27:24,600 Speaker 1: Is to be completely honest, what were you going to 558 00:27:24,680 --> 00:27:27,639 Speaker 1: do if you didn't do that listen to a beeping? 559 00:27:27,720 --> 00:27:28,440 Speaker 1: That's not an option. 560 00:27:28,600 --> 00:27:30,680 Speaker 2: We'll no like say it wasn't beeping or anything. I 561 00:27:30,720 --> 00:27:34,200 Speaker 2: feel like it was one anything my trip. 562 00:27:34,040 --> 00:27:38,879 Speaker 1: That's what I would have done. That's not done anything, sul. 563 00:27:40,000 --> 00:27:40,359 Speaker 2: It was. 564 00:27:40,680 --> 00:27:42,480 Speaker 1: It was not stressful. It was annoying. 565 00:27:42,880 --> 00:27:47,440 Speaker 5: Yeah, that stressful you get wait for the next. 566 00:27:49,960 --> 00:27:50,440 Speaker 2: It's OK. 567 00:27:50,800 --> 00:27:53,440 Speaker 5: I was waiting for the next beep, and it was stressful. 568 00:27:53,560 --> 00:27:54,159 Speaker 2: Were you breathing? 569 00:27:55,400 --> 00:27:57,560 Speaker 3: Have you guys seen that that uh that scene in 570 00:27:57,920 --> 00:28:01,560 Speaker 3: Rainman where the beepers going off in his home, Dustin 571 00:28:01,600 --> 00:28:03,600 Speaker 3: hof Hoffmin's home, and he can't stand and he starts 572 00:28:03,640 --> 00:28:06,000 Speaker 3: like freaking out and like rocking, and then Tom Cruise 573 00:28:06,040 --> 00:28:07,560 Speaker 3: goes and gets a thing and he's like beating the 574 00:28:08,080 --> 00:28:08,880 Speaker 3: Have you seen that scene? 575 00:28:11,760 --> 00:28:13,480 Speaker 1: That scene is the greatest scene. 576 00:28:13,520 --> 00:28:17,280 Speaker 3: He's like freaking desn't hus been freaking out, freaking out, rocking, 577 00:28:17,400 --> 00:28:18,960 Speaker 3: banging on the window, trying to get out, and Tom 578 00:28:19,040 --> 00:28:20,640 Speaker 3: Cruise is like running around trying to get the smoke 579 00:28:20,680 --> 00:28:22,920 Speaker 3: detectors stopped. He's like banging in and he's like yelling 580 00:28:22,960 --> 00:28:23,920 Speaker 3: at his brother to stop. 581 00:28:24,240 --> 00:28:31,280 Speaker 1: It's yeah, this, and then we're going to move into 582 00:28:31,320 --> 00:28:36,080 Speaker 1: pop culture. I disconnected because we don't have batteries. And 583 00:28:36,160 --> 00:28:39,240 Speaker 1: it's ten thirty at night. It's the same room that 584 00:28:39,680 --> 00:28:44,040 Speaker 1: Sosa is going to sleep in. And the next morning 585 00:28:44,080 --> 00:28:45,880 Speaker 1: I wake up, I don't hear it, and then all 586 00:28:45,920 --> 00:28:47,840 Speaker 1: of a sudden, I'm like, what the fuck it's going 587 00:28:47,880 --> 00:28:51,760 Speaker 1: off again. I go into her room. My baby is 588 00:28:51,880 --> 00:28:54,760 Speaker 1: covering her ears, just laying in the fetal position. 589 00:28:55,480 --> 00:28:58,920 Speaker 5: It was awful, but it didn't go very long. Let's 590 00:28:58,960 --> 00:29:01,400 Speaker 5: hope not it didn't because I was in the next bedroom. 591 00:29:01,720 --> 00:29:04,760 Speaker 1: Then the next morning or the next night, I was 592 00:29:04,840 --> 00:29:07,440 Speaker 1: so worried because it was so hot outside and I 593 00:29:07,520 --> 00:29:11,040 Speaker 1: felt like the air wasn't working. So I didn't put 594 00:29:11,040 --> 00:29:12,520 Speaker 1: her in pajamas. I just put her in a diaper 595 00:29:12,560 --> 00:29:15,560 Speaker 1: in her sleepsack. Well, the air definitely worked. The next morning, 596 00:29:15,640 --> 00:29:19,560 Speaker 1: Lisa goes in there. My baby is in her crib 597 00:29:20,120 --> 00:29:23,200 Speaker 1: in the corner with her hands tucked in her sleepsack, freezing. 598 00:29:23,320 --> 00:29:25,680 Speaker 1: So the first time I almost made her death. Second 599 00:29:25,760 --> 00:29:28,120 Speaker 1: I almost froze her to death. The third night, it 600 00:29:28,320 --> 00:29:32,400 Speaker 1: was no wonder why when Cynthia walked in today, she 601 00:29:32,520 --> 00:29:40,920 Speaker 1: was choking up. That was so funny. 602 00:29:43,760 --> 00:29:44,360 Speaker 2: Doesn't know. 603 00:29:44,960 --> 00:29:48,080 Speaker 5: I was so cold. I was had covers over my head. 604 00:29:48,600 --> 00:29:50,600 Speaker 1: Great, So I just frozed the whole house. 605 00:29:50,680 --> 00:29:52,720 Speaker 2: So nobody wanted to get up and turn I did 606 00:29:53,080 --> 00:29:53,600 Speaker 2: I sound. 607 00:29:53,440 --> 00:29:55,440 Speaker 1: Like a baby. Anyway, we could drost this up and 608 00:29:55,520 --> 00:30:00,440 Speaker 1: say they really missed you, because that's. 609 00:30:00,320 --> 00:30:01,720 Speaker 2: The other thing they always put it. 610 00:30:01,800 --> 00:30:03,320 Speaker 4: I don't know what you guys do when you're there, 611 00:30:03,400 --> 00:30:05,280 Speaker 4: but I always, right before I go to bed, I 612 00:30:05,360 --> 00:30:07,360 Speaker 4: look at it, and you guys have it at like 613 00:30:07,480 --> 00:30:08,400 Speaker 4: the most odd. 614 00:30:09,000 --> 00:30:11,320 Speaker 2: Like sixty six, sixty seven. I'm like, no, this is 615 00:30:11,840 --> 00:30:15,400 Speaker 2: like sixty nine no, I'm in your loan just to 616 00:30:15,480 --> 00:30:16,880 Speaker 2: let you know it is perfect. 617 00:30:17,160 --> 00:30:20,680 Speaker 5: No, you did at seventy, but we had the ceiling 618 00:30:20,760 --> 00:30:22,600 Speaker 5: fans going one hundred miles an hour. 619 00:30:23,360 --> 00:30:25,280 Speaker 1: You guys, it was one hundred and twenty in the desert. 620 00:30:25,320 --> 00:30:28,680 Speaker 1: All right, Okay, pop culture Bunny Exo just bought a 621 00:30:28,760 --> 00:30:32,280 Speaker 1: five hundred thousand dollars custom Rules Royce and it should. 622 00:30:32,080 --> 00:30:33,640 Speaker 2: Be out of the other guy's pocket. If you know 623 00:30:33,680 --> 00:30:34,200 Speaker 2: what I'm saying. 624 00:30:34,360 --> 00:30:35,640 Speaker 1: It sounds like she's living her best. 625 00:30:35,840 --> 00:30:38,120 Speaker 2: And not only that, if it was out of his pocket, 626 00:30:38,360 --> 00:30:39,719 Speaker 2: she should get that reinburst. 627 00:30:40,640 --> 00:30:42,240 Speaker 1: By the way, I should pay for it. 628 00:30:42,600 --> 00:30:44,720 Speaker 2: Oh, Meg and White, I think it's al. 629 00:30:46,600 --> 00:30:48,240 Speaker 1: Can I tell you a really funny story about the 630 00:30:48,280 --> 00:30:50,800 Speaker 1: Rules Royce culin In for my push present. That's what 631 00:30:50,880 --> 00:30:53,880 Speaker 1: I wanted. I like begged for it, instaid, I got 632 00:30:53,920 --> 00:31:00,400 Speaker 1: patio furniture whatever. And after I left him we would 633 00:31:00,400 --> 00:31:03,360 Speaker 1: do the exchange. There was a white rolls Royce culin 634 00:31:03,400 --> 00:31:04,920 Speaker 1: In parked in his driveway. 635 00:31:04,640 --> 00:31:08,640 Speaker 5: Not driveway. It was parked right outside the gate so 636 00:31:08,720 --> 00:31:09,280 Speaker 5: I could see it. 637 00:31:09,480 --> 00:31:11,120 Speaker 1: And you know how funny he was about his gate. 638 00:31:11,720 --> 00:31:13,200 Speaker 1: But it was open so I could see it. And 639 00:31:13,240 --> 00:31:16,400 Speaker 1: I'm like, homeboy. I would leave in a I would 640 00:31:16,440 --> 00:31:20,040 Speaker 1: live in a box and flintstone my ass around Los 641 00:31:20,040 --> 00:31:24,080 Speaker 1: Angeles before I ever came back into this fucking house. 642 00:31:24,120 --> 00:31:25,240 Speaker 3: Do you think that was a way for him to 643 00:31:25,280 --> 00:31:26,840 Speaker 3: get you back? I think it was a way to 644 00:31:26,960 --> 00:31:32,680 Speaker 3: like kind of I don't know, carrot, I don't know. Yeah, yes, probably, 645 00:31:33,520 --> 00:31:35,800 Speaker 3: Like look at what I got. It was either to 646 00:31:35,880 --> 00:31:38,720 Speaker 3: dangle the carrot or make me feel like. 647 00:31:38,960 --> 00:31:42,760 Speaker 1: Oh that could be mine and it's like, oh boy, 648 00:31:43,800 --> 00:31:46,720 Speaker 1: I will stab my eyes out with little cocktails. 649 00:31:46,920 --> 00:31:47,600 Speaker 5: Let's not say that. 650 00:31:49,080 --> 00:31:50,240 Speaker 2: Before I went back with him. 651 00:31:50,920 --> 00:31:51,600 Speaker 1: Are you joking? 652 00:31:52,160 --> 00:31:53,720 Speaker 2: I would let her do it to herself. 653 00:31:54,720 --> 00:31:58,160 Speaker 1: We would hold her down. Please, don't worry. Oh do 654 00:31:58,200 --> 00:32:00,200 Speaker 1: you think I just called the universe on to Yeah? 655 00:32:00,200 --> 00:32:01,320 Speaker 5: I don't like that kind of stuff. 656 00:32:01,360 --> 00:32:04,560 Speaker 1: Okay, okay, take get back. I take it back. I 657 00:32:04,680 --> 00:32:07,080 Speaker 1: said that only for entertainment purposes. 658 00:32:07,240 --> 00:32:07,520 Speaker 5: Thank you. 659 00:32:20,960 --> 00:32:25,200 Speaker 1: The next thing that I have here is people want 660 00:32:25,280 --> 00:32:28,120 Speaker 1: to know my thoughts on Real Housewives of OC so far, 661 00:32:28,360 --> 00:32:30,760 Speaker 1: and do I like the fact that the og of 662 00:32:30,800 --> 00:32:34,840 Speaker 1: the OC, Vicky Gumboelson, is back. We're at this point 663 00:32:35,040 --> 00:32:38,920 Speaker 1: three episodes in the fourth airs tomorrow, I'm all in 664 00:32:39,120 --> 00:32:42,480 Speaker 1: heavy duty. So in that I have gone back with 665 00:32:42,680 --> 00:32:43,440 Speaker 1: my beautiful mother. 666 00:32:44,520 --> 00:32:45,720 Speaker 2: Watch all. 667 00:32:47,080 --> 00:32:50,040 Speaker 5: We watch it, don't want to watch it again? 668 00:32:50,080 --> 00:32:52,200 Speaker 1: Tonight we will and by the way, I've seen it 669 00:32:52,280 --> 00:32:55,040 Speaker 1: a hundred times, right, but we still press pot when 670 00:32:55,080 --> 00:32:58,480 Speaker 1: someone talks on like an episode that was eleven twelve 671 00:32:58,560 --> 00:32:58,960 Speaker 1: years ago. 672 00:32:59,080 --> 00:33:00,880 Speaker 5: Yeah, I Amber came in and last night we had 673 00:33:00,920 --> 00:33:01,360 Speaker 5: to pause it. 674 00:33:02,160 --> 00:33:05,200 Speaker 1: Yeah. I love having VICKI gun will sit back and 675 00:33:05,200 --> 00:33:10,120 Speaker 1: it feels amazing. Tamra Judge, she does no wrong in 676 00:33:10,160 --> 00:33:14,920 Speaker 1: my I love her. I'm obsessed with her. Love Carmela 677 00:33:15,000 --> 00:33:18,120 Speaker 1: the new One, the playmate. She's so open and honest, 678 00:33:18,320 --> 00:33:22,240 Speaker 1: and I obsessed with her. Her kids are also really 679 00:33:22,280 --> 00:33:24,800 Speaker 1: fun to watch because they're wild talking about vibrators. I'm like, 680 00:33:24,840 --> 00:33:27,040 Speaker 1: holy shit, this is how people feel when they're watching 681 00:33:27,440 --> 00:33:29,440 Speaker 1: She gives talks like that in front of their mother. 682 00:33:29,960 --> 00:33:31,000 Speaker 2: She gives judging. 683 00:33:31,480 --> 00:33:33,880 Speaker 1: But I'm loving it, and I'm like, bitch, now I'm 684 00:33:33,920 --> 00:33:36,920 Speaker 1: clutching my pearls, like, oh, you wouldn't talk about vibrators 685 00:33:36,920 --> 00:33:37,560 Speaker 1: in front of your. 686 00:33:37,520 --> 00:33:39,720 Speaker 5: Mom and she gives really good gifts. 687 00:33:40,840 --> 00:33:48,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, your bad, me too. Family here, I want to 688 00:33:48,920 --> 00:33:53,240 Speaker 1: do this one first on Brandy Glanville's podcast, Do you 689 00:33:53,280 --> 00:33:55,520 Speaker 1: know who that is? She was married to Eddie Cibrian. 690 00:33:55,640 --> 00:33:57,680 Speaker 1: I think yeah lee and rhymes. 691 00:33:57,800 --> 00:33:59,200 Speaker 5: And she had the parasite in her face. 692 00:33:59,400 --> 00:33:59,560 Speaker 2: Yes. 693 00:33:59,840 --> 00:34:02,800 Speaker 1: She called her son This is on Our podcast, called 694 00:34:02,840 --> 00:34:06,720 Speaker 1: her son boring for never trying cocaine. All right, I'm 695 00:34:06,760 --> 00:34:10,319 Speaker 1: a lit fucking bitch, right, I'm like to each his own, 696 00:34:10,760 --> 00:34:13,040 Speaker 1: go have some fun. That is wild. 697 00:34:13,320 --> 00:34:13,919 Speaker 5: That's not great. 698 00:34:13,920 --> 00:34:14,400 Speaker 2: I wouldn't. 699 00:34:14,560 --> 00:34:22,200 Speaker 1: That is so foul. That joking no boring? Do you understand, like. 700 00:34:23,760 --> 00:34:24,560 Speaker 5: That's not cool? 701 00:34:24,760 --> 00:34:24,840 Speaker 2: Now? 702 00:34:24,920 --> 00:34:29,680 Speaker 1: I think I've never done cocaine. Amber, you've never done 703 00:34:29,719 --> 00:34:30,000 Speaker 1: it done. 704 00:34:30,760 --> 00:34:31,760 Speaker 2: I've done cocaine. 705 00:34:32,520 --> 00:34:32,960 Speaker 4: I have not. 706 00:34:33,360 --> 00:34:35,120 Speaker 2: I know it. When I was like twenty one too. 707 00:34:35,719 --> 00:34:38,000 Speaker 1: I find it to be I'd rather try disgusting. 708 00:34:38,840 --> 00:34:41,120 Speaker 2: But my buddy said, I don't like it. I already 709 00:34:41,160 --> 00:34:43,160 Speaker 2: have a d D. So what like made me? Really? 710 00:34:43,600 --> 00:34:45,000 Speaker 2: I hate it? Like I didn't like it. 711 00:34:45,120 --> 00:34:47,719 Speaker 1: It makes you judging for even trying it. 712 00:34:48,560 --> 00:34:51,239 Speaker 4: There's a buddy, a buddy of mine said when we 713 00:34:51,320 --> 00:34:54,200 Speaker 4: were young, he goes, I rather regret doing drugs than 714 00:34:54,239 --> 00:34:57,319 Speaker 4: not trying them, And I said, you know what, that is. 715 00:34:57,440 --> 00:34:59,319 Speaker 5: So personal in. 716 00:35:01,280 --> 00:35:03,080 Speaker 1: Here's the thing. There's a lot of things that the 717 00:35:03,200 --> 00:35:06,040 Speaker 1: FDA is, Like, I think ketamine is one of them. 718 00:35:06,560 --> 00:35:15,240 Speaker 1: I've had my sponsor from years ago, sober over fifteen years, 719 00:35:16,440 --> 00:35:20,040 Speaker 1: was suffering from anxiety, depression, all these things they recommended 720 00:35:20,120 --> 00:35:24,080 Speaker 1: she do this like ketamine treatment, completely fucking relapsed. Couldn't 721 00:35:24,080 --> 00:35:26,799 Speaker 1: get a hold of her. Someone called me and said, 722 00:35:27,360 --> 00:35:29,239 Speaker 1: I'm sure that you've been trying to get a hold 723 00:35:29,280 --> 00:35:31,800 Speaker 1: of her, just so you know. She's in treatment for X, 724 00:35:31,920 --> 00:35:36,000 Speaker 1: Y and Z. Finally she calls me, I don't fuck 725 00:35:36,160 --> 00:35:39,920 Speaker 1: with any of it, okay, and especially cocaine, because I 726 00:35:40,000 --> 00:35:45,239 Speaker 1: have my own personal relationship with someone who was doing it. 727 00:35:45,880 --> 00:35:47,840 Speaker 1: You never know how it's gonna go. You may be 728 00:35:47,960 --> 00:35:50,520 Speaker 1: the type that becomes fully addicted. I find it to 729 00:35:50,600 --> 00:35:54,120 Speaker 1: be disgusting, and I would never in my life tell 730 00:35:54,800 --> 00:35:57,360 Speaker 1: Ocean or so said that I find them boring for 731 00:35:57,560 --> 00:36:00,080 Speaker 1: never doing it. I would actually be extremely pros. 732 00:36:00,440 --> 00:36:02,719 Speaker 5: That's where I would like it could be laced with 733 00:36:02,840 --> 00:36:04,680 Speaker 5: something I would feel as. 734 00:36:04,680 --> 00:36:08,120 Speaker 2: The kid very I don't know. I would feel like 735 00:36:08,160 --> 00:36:10,520 Speaker 2: I lost a lot a part of me in a sense. 736 00:36:10,800 --> 00:36:11,359 Speaker 1: What do you mean? 737 00:36:11,719 --> 00:36:14,080 Speaker 2: Like if I like, if I didn't do that, my 738 00:36:14,160 --> 00:36:15,920 Speaker 2: mom was like, oh you're boring, I would be like 739 00:36:16,640 --> 00:36:18,920 Speaker 2: what else? You know? Like I'd be like, what else. 740 00:36:19,040 --> 00:36:23,480 Speaker 1: Is she to raise you to like help you through life? Right? 741 00:36:23,600 --> 00:36:25,439 Speaker 2: Yeah, no, that's what I'm saying, Like I would feel 742 00:36:25,520 --> 00:36:27,279 Speaker 2: very lost have a mother. 743 00:36:27,520 --> 00:36:31,320 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah. I found that very diceaseful. And I 744 00:36:31,560 --> 00:36:34,200 Speaker 1: like her, like I love how unfiltered she is, and 745 00:36:34,280 --> 00:36:36,760 Speaker 1: she's always been like I know this is so overused, 746 00:36:36,760 --> 00:36:38,240 Speaker 1: but unapologetically herself. 747 00:36:38,320 --> 00:36:41,000 Speaker 5: But this is just like, come on, man, be kidding. 748 00:36:41,480 --> 00:36:42,279 Speaker 1: It doesn't matter. 749 00:36:42,520 --> 00:36:45,239 Speaker 5: I know it doesn't matter, but I'm saying, I don't know. 750 00:36:45,400 --> 00:36:47,640 Speaker 1: It's a headline and we clicked and we're talking about it. 751 00:36:47,760 --> 00:36:50,160 Speaker 2: So that's what you got to be careful of. Lisa 752 00:36:50,360 --> 00:36:50,960 Speaker 2: the headline. 753 00:36:51,360 --> 00:36:54,560 Speaker 1: All right, Yeah, we're gonna round this back. It's a 754 00:36:54,640 --> 00:36:59,279 Speaker 1: well rounded podcast. Two couples from Real Housewives of Salt 755 00:36:59,360 --> 00:37:02,880 Speaker 1: Lake have a fish split, Whitney Rose and Justin Sad sad. 756 00:37:03,320 --> 00:37:05,719 Speaker 1: I know it's very sad. And you know what, I 757 00:37:05,800 --> 00:37:09,200 Speaker 1: already know what the comments are. Story shaded a storyline. 758 00:37:09,200 --> 00:37:12,040 Speaker 1: I'm so sick of people going this whole thing about 759 00:37:12,040 --> 00:37:15,319 Speaker 1: the storyline. You cannot win. It's like, when your life 760 00:37:15,400 --> 00:37:17,600 Speaker 1: goes to shit, you're doing it for a storyline, and 761 00:37:17,680 --> 00:37:20,440 Speaker 1: when you have a peaceful life, you have no storyline. 762 00:37:20,480 --> 00:37:23,279 Speaker 1: It's like, I'm just here my life and I'm on 763 00:37:23,400 --> 00:37:25,640 Speaker 1: this show and if you want to watch it, great, like. 764 00:37:26,360 --> 00:37:28,640 Speaker 2: And I'm sorry if that was for a storyline, I 765 00:37:28,840 --> 00:37:31,600 Speaker 2: just have to I'd like to believe that they people 766 00:37:31,640 --> 00:37:32,240 Speaker 2: don't alter. 767 00:37:32,239 --> 00:37:34,880 Speaker 1: Their entire fair for a storyline. 768 00:37:34,960 --> 00:37:35,160 Speaker 3: Yeah. 769 00:37:35,239 --> 00:37:37,720 Speaker 1: By the way, they for sixteen years. 770 00:37:37,840 --> 00:37:40,200 Speaker 3: They had a pretty solid relationship. 771 00:37:41,080 --> 00:37:44,239 Speaker 1: It was not pretty. They were both involved in the 772 00:37:44,280 --> 00:37:48,200 Speaker 1: Mormon Church. He had an affair, they both were excommunicated 773 00:37:48,239 --> 00:37:52,800 Speaker 1: from the church, and he lost He got tired because 774 00:37:54,320 --> 00:37:59,279 Speaker 1: on Salt Lake like body painting. They yeah, they rocked 775 00:37:59,320 --> 00:38:04,759 Speaker 1: with each other. I've interviewed this girl before. Yes, yeah, I. 776 00:38:06,160 --> 00:38:07,280 Speaker 2: Loved both of them together. 777 00:38:07,640 --> 00:38:11,040 Speaker 1: I guess who else split? Angie k my favorite Greek. 778 00:38:10,960 --> 00:38:15,239 Speaker 5: What and Sean after how many years of marriage. 779 00:38:15,000 --> 00:38:18,319 Speaker 1: I mean twenty plus twenty two years and they've got 780 00:38:18,680 --> 00:38:23,839 Speaker 1: their young daughter, Electra, and they had yes Electra? Yeah good, Yes, 781 00:38:24,600 --> 00:38:26,279 Speaker 1: you say you don't have a good memory. That's been 782 00:38:26,440 --> 00:38:28,920 Speaker 1: years since we watched. Wait it's Aie Kay and who 783 00:38:29,400 --> 00:38:34,080 Speaker 1: his name is? Sean? So they own a salon call 784 00:38:34,560 --> 00:38:37,680 Speaker 1: exactly lunatic fringe And that was all the rage when 785 00:38:37,680 --> 00:38:40,040 Speaker 1: I lived in Utah. Like if you went to Lunatic fringe. 786 00:38:40,280 --> 00:38:43,200 Speaker 1: You were that you were that big. 787 00:38:43,400 --> 00:38:46,480 Speaker 5: I went there at times because yes, and one of. 788 00:38:46,520 --> 00:38:52,719 Speaker 1: My dearest friends from like junior high on. Then we 789 00:38:52,840 --> 00:38:55,840 Speaker 1: lost touch obviously because I moved, but her mom worked 790 00:38:55,920 --> 00:38:59,200 Speaker 1: there with her stepdad, and she would always come and 791 00:38:59,280 --> 00:39:03,440 Speaker 1: she would have like a red extension when like you know, 792 00:39:03,640 --> 00:39:07,560 Speaker 1: like the colored extensions, and she was so cool and edgy, 793 00:39:08,360 --> 00:39:10,280 Speaker 1: and it was like I got it done at Lunatic. 794 00:39:10,440 --> 00:39:13,960 Speaker 5: It's like, oh, where do you go, lunatic friend? 795 00:39:14,560 --> 00:39:18,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, they were married for twenty seven years. That's a 796 00:39:18,200 --> 00:39:20,160 Speaker 1: good freaking run. That's a good run. 797 00:39:20,239 --> 00:39:22,040 Speaker 3: Like if you could say that I lived in this 798 00:39:22,200 --> 00:39:25,399 Speaker 3: lifetime and had a twenty seven year marriage, that's yeah. 799 00:39:25,440 --> 00:39:27,479 Speaker 2: But I want to die when that twenty seven is done. 800 00:39:27,560 --> 00:39:30,359 Speaker 1: Let me tell you see, I think where my mind goes, 801 00:39:30,480 --> 00:39:32,959 Speaker 1: my wounded soul is I'm like, what the fucking point? 802 00:39:33,320 --> 00:39:37,160 Speaker 5: Yeah, maybe they'll come back really get reconciled. 803 00:39:37,280 --> 00:39:39,800 Speaker 1: So that I wonder how filed for divorce and was 804 00:39:39,880 --> 00:39:42,919 Speaker 1: there That is my I want to know, and why, 805 00:39:43,320 --> 00:39:45,600 Speaker 1: like was there some sort of scandal? I mean, I'm 806 00:39:45,719 --> 00:39:49,040 Speaker 1: sure I have to believe that they've either filmed already 807 00:39:49,239 --> 00:39:51,439 Speaker 1: or are filming, because It's been a while since salt 808 00:39:51,480 --> 00:39:56,120 Speaker 1: Lake has aired, but it does make me sad because 809 00:39:56,840 --> 00:40:01,000 Speaker 1: we did see a glimpse into Whitney and justin having 810 00:40:01,120 --> 00:40:06,200 Speaker 1: marital issues. I do not think that reality TV makes 811 00:40:06,480 --> 00:40:09,920 Speaker 1: or breaks your relationship, Like you're already on the trajectory 812 00:40:10,400 --> 00:40:12,320 Speaker 1: whether you do it or not. Because I always go 813 00:40:12,480 --> 00:40:17,680 Speaker 1: back to the O g Roney couple, Kristen Takman and 814 00:40:17,800 --> 00:40:21,680 Speaker 1: her husband. When you watched them their first season, you 815 00:40:21,800 --> 00:40:24,200 Speaker 1: were like, this couple needs to end it now. Like 816 00:40:24,320 --> 00:40:26,760 Speaker 1: they were so mean to each other, had no problem fighting, 817 00:40:26,840 --> 00:40:30,680 Speaker 1: had no problems slamming each other. They are still together 818 00:40:31,120 --> 00:40:33,880 Speaker 1: today because they watched that and said we need to 819 00:40:33,920 --> 00:40:37,359 Speaker 1: make a decision either fucking pull it together or we don't. 820 00:40:38,440 --> 00:40:40,359 Speaker 1: And that was like the one couple that you thought 821 00:40:40,480 --> 00:40:44,719 Speaker 1: was like they come back, they're done for I'm in 822 00:40:44,920 --> 00:40:48,279 Speaker 1: la now with their kids, like they have from what 823 00:40:48,400 --> 00:40:50,759 Speaker 1: I see on the internet, a beautiful marriage. But the 824 00:40:50,840 --> 00:40:52,680 Speaker 1: last time they appeared on reality TV. 825 00:40:54,000 --> 00:40:58,399 Speaker 4: Years ago, say yeah, like that's the biggest one where 826 00:40:58,520 --> 00:41:01,080 Speaker 4: I mean I remember watching that gun, I know. 827 00:41:02,680 --> 00:41:03,840 Speaker 1: They're rocking. 828 00:41:04,800 --> 00:41:06,680 Speaker 3: I would actually love to have them on the podcast 829 00:41:06,719 --> 00:41:07,560 Speaker 3: to talk about marriage. 830 00:41:07,560 --> 00:41:10,000 Speaker 1: Oh, they would do it in two seconds. Yeah, they 831 00:41:10,040 --> 00:41:12,480 Speaker 1: would one hundred percent do it in two seconds. That 832 00:41:12,680 --> 00:41:18,279 Speaker 1: was so fun. Thank you Amber. Untraditionally Lala, Thank you, 833 00:41:18,400 --> 00:41:19,640 Speaker 1: T T, thank you Mama. 834 00:41:20,760 --> 00:41:21,640 Speaker 2: I love you guys. 835 00:41:21,800 --> 00:41:26,440 Speaker 1: A reminder of the bonus episodes of Untraditionally Lala Air 836 00:41:26,600 --> 00:41:31,920 Speaker 1: is the Monday. Regular episodes of Untraditionally Lala airs on Wednesday, 837 00:41:32,160 --> 00:41:36,600 Speaker 1: Don't Forget Sex Unlocked with Me and Sally Carson airs 838 00:41:36,640 --> 00:41:40,000 Speaker 1: on Tuesdays, and an Unlikely Affair with myself and my 839 00:41:40,080 --> 00:41:44,000 Speaker 1: writer Die Amber is every Thursday. Thank you guys again, 840 00:41:44,040 --> 00:41:44,959 Speaker 1: I let you back.