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So this will make some of 11 00:00:34,760 --> 00:00:36,920 Speaker 1: you laugh in the room, I think. But being a 12 00:00:36,920 --> 00:00:42,199 Speaker 1: bridesmaid hope. So Boy is now costing us women as 13 00:00:42,280 --> 00:00:46,000 Speaker 1: much as rent yep, and that sounds a little low 14 00:00:46,320 --> 00:00:49,000 Speaker 1: based on the things I've heard around here, fifteen hundred 15 00:00:49,040 --> 00:00:52,000 Speaker 1: to twenty five hundred dollars on average for local weddings, 16 00:00:52,600 --> 00:00:54,920 Speaker 1: this is more realistic. And then for destination weddings that 17 00:00:54,960 --> 00:00:57,440 Speaker 1: member can jump to between three and five thousand dollars. 18 00:00:57,440 --> 00:01:01,280 Speaker 1: The average rent monthly rent in the US two thousand dollars. 19 00:01:02,080 --> 00:01:04,640 Speaker 1: So basically, for a local wedding, to be a bridesmaid, 20 00:01:04,680 --> 00:01:06,520 Speaker 1: you spend as much as you do on your rent 21 00:01:07,680 --> 00:01:09,959 Speaker 1: just said, there's a math math on that issue. 22 00:01:10,000 --> 00:01:12,319 Speaker 2: A trigger warning before you, that's. 23 00:01:12,200 --> 00:01:13,880 Speaker 1: What I just said. Well, what I just said was 24 00:01:13,920 --> 00:01:15,880 Speaker 1: I think you're gonna laugh when I say this laugh. 25 00:01:15,959 --> 00:01:17,160 Speaker 2: I was ready to have some fun. 26 00:01:17,280 --> 00:01:18,360 Speaker 1: That was my warning to you. 27 00:01:18,840 --> 00:01:21,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, no, I'm none of this is funny. As Jason 28 00:01:21,560 --> 00:01:24,319 Speaker 3: said one day, I think it was Jason. I don't 29 00:01:24,319 --> 00:01:28,120 Speaker 3: know who said that, but none of this is funny. 30 00:01:26,920 --> 00:01:28,559 Speaker 1: Is it right? I mean, I don't know. I've never 31 00:01:28,680 --> 00:01:32,160 Speaker 1: been a bridesmaid, not yet at leastad Okay, so. 32 00:01:32,360 --> 00:01:34,560 Speaker 3: You obviously don't know how I deal with my problems 33 00:01:34,560 --> 00:01:37,400 Speaker 3: because I also have a ton of unread emails, not workwise, 34 00:01:37,440 --> 00:01:41,880 Speaker 3: but for other emails, and I don't ever calculate how 35 00:01:41,959 --> 00:01:43,040 Speaker 3: much it costs me in total. 36 00:01:43,040 --> 00:01:45,480 Speaker 2: I don't want to be hurt in that way, you know, So. 37 00:01:45,560 --> 00:01:46,960 Speaker 1: You have no idea. Maybe that's why you don't have 38 00:01:47,000 --> 00:01:52,520 Speaker 1: any money what you spent. Well, no, you just said 39 00:01:52,520 --> 00:01:54,560 Speaker 1: about ten seconds ago the way, I have zero dollars, So. 40 00:01:55,040 --> 00:01:56,520 Speaker 2: That's why I was, Yeah, that's true. 41 00:01:56,800 --> 00:01:58,680 Speaker 1: But when you called yourself a broken so I'm not 42 00:01:58,720 --> 00:02:02,040 Speaker 1: saying I don't know how much that might be why. 43 00:02:02,280 --> 00:02:04,320 Speaker 1: I mean, who knows. Maybe people are coming and taking 44 00:02:04,360 --> 00:02:06,000 Speaker 1: money from you left and right. You don't even know. 45 00:02:06,160 --> 00:02:08,560 Speaker 3: Well, in your like logic, I got to pay it 46 00:02:08,600 --> 00:02:10,280 Speaker 3: either way, So why am I going to calculate the 47 00:02:10,320 --> 00:02:12,000 Speaker 3: total and hurt my own feelings. I got to pay 48 00:02:12,000 --> 00:02:13,680 Speaker 3: it off somehow, so I know, I just want to 49 00:02:13,720 --> 00:02:14,679 Speaker 3: get the number to zero. 50 00:02:14,880 --> 00:02:16,239 Speaker 1: Well, I guess if I don't have any if I 51 00:02:16,240 --> 00:02:18,240 Speaker 1: don't have enough money, then I might tell someone like, 52 00:02:18,280 --> 00:02:19,079 Speaker 1: I'm not going to do that. 53 00:02:19,280 --> 00:02:21,720 Speaker 3: I would never dare oh someone down in that way. 54 00:02:23,000 --> 00:02:25,800 Speaker 1: I let someone down. So what are the expenses? How 55 00:02:25,840 --> 00:02:28,680 Speaker 1: are you letting someone down in your spending being a bridesmaid? 56 00:02:29,160 --> 00:02:30,840 Speaker 3: I just think it's an honor to be asked. I 57 00:02:30,880 --> 00:02:33,080 Speaker 3: know I might be in the minority. 58 00:02:32,639 --> 00:02:35,200 Speaker 1: Which is than just whatever I'm asking, though I'm not judging. 59 00:02:35,240 --> 00:02:37,799 Speaker 1: I don't know the answers. So then anything, anything they 60 00:02:37,840 --> 00:02:40,079 Speaker 1: say they want, then you just buy it because you've 61 00:02:40,120 --> 00:02:42,440 Speaker 1: been asked, because it's an honor. Yeah, I don't know 62 00:02:42,440 --> 00:02:44,320 Speaker 1: how it works. I don't know what you're expected to do. 63 00:02:44,560 --> 00:02:46,360 Speaker 3: Yeah, I've never been in a situation where it's like 64 00:02:46,400 --> 00:02:50,360 Speaker 3: I want this, I want that, But certainly there are expectations, 65 00:02:50,400 --> 00:02:53,079 Speaker 3: at least that we've set amongst our friend group, and 66 00:02:53,200 --> 00:02:56,560 Speaker 3: there's usually a bachelorette trip, there's you know, and there's 67 00:02:56,560 --> 00:02:58,079 Speaker 3: a certain way that we do it in our friend group. 68 00:02:58,120 --> 00:02:59,839 Speaker 3: You really don't pay for anything but your own flight 69 00:02:59,840 --> 00:03:02,320 Speaker 3: of Like, it's just how we do it. And I 70 00:03:02,320 --> 00:03:05,520 Speaker 3: would hope that people would do it for me. I mean, 71 00:03:05,520 --> 00:03:06,920 Speaker 3: I would be conscious of it. 72 00:03:07,000 --> 00:03:08,640 Speaker 1: But it sounds like you should get married just to 73 00:03:08,639 --> 00:03:09,359 Speaker 1: get your money back. 74 00:03:09,720 --> 00:03:11,640 Speaker 3: Well, Hillary and I think I've talked about this on 75 00:03:11,680 --> 00:03:13,760 Speaker 3: the show. Hillary and I Hot Hillary as we call her, 76 00:03:14,120 --> 00:03:17,960 Speaker 3: have discussed, like actually discussed, not joking, having a bachelorette 77 00:03:17,960 --> 00:03:21,760 Speaker 3: party joint and taking our front and they just have 78 00:03:21,800 --> 00:03:24,280 Speaker 3: to celebrate us in that way because both of us 79 00:03:24,360 --> 00:03:25,200 Speaker 3: may never get married. 80 00:03:25,360 --> 00:03:27,440 Speaker 1: I don't think that's a bad idea. In fact, I'm 81 00:03:27,440 --> 00:03:30,280 Speaker 1: starting to think now who all I I had to 82 00:03:30,880 --> 00:03:33,480 Speaker 1: you know, do things for in that regard, Like whose 83 00:03:33,560 --> 00:03:36,120 Speaker 1: weddings have I stood in and had to go to 84 00:03:36,160 --> 00:03:38,640 Speaker 1: bachelor parties and things like that? Or excuse me, I 85 00:03:38,720 --> 00:03:40,560 Speaker 1: had the honor of being asked to go to a 86 00:03:40,600 --> 00:03:45,320 Speaker 1: bachelor guards honor? Is that weird to say no? It's 87 00:03:45,360 --> 00:03:46,760 Speaker 1: not that it's not an honor to be in, No, 88 00:03:46,800 --> 00:03:48,120 Speaker 1: one's saying it's not an honor to be in a 89 00:03:48,120 --> 00:03:50,600 Speaker 1: wedding party. I think what I'm saying is it's not 90 00:03:50,640 --> 00:03:52,640 Speaker 1: necessarily because of that honor that I'm going to go 91 00:03:52,720 --> 00:03:56,440 Speaker 1: broke trying to make you happy on your bachelor party. 92 00:03:56,480 --> 00:03:58,280 Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. If I don't have the money, 93 00:03:58,320 --> 00:04:00,680 Speaker 1: I can't spend it. That's just like if you, like, 94 00:04:00,800 --> 00:04:04,080 Speaker 1: we're going to SANCHOPEI I'd be like, we're not or 95 00:04:04,120 --> 00:04:07,320 Speaker 1: for you? Are I mean, I don't know. I guess 96 00:04:07,400 --> 00:04:10,839 Speaker 1: the honor can extend to like, I'm your friend. I've 97 00:04:10,880 --> 00:04:12,680 Speaker 1: done enough for you that you're asking me to be 98 00:04:12,720 --> 00:04:14,200 Speaker 1: in it, So I'm gonna do the best I can. 99 00:04:14,320 --> 00:04:16,040 Speaker 1: But I'm also going to stand there and support you, 100 00:04:16,080 --> 00:04:19,679 Speaker 1: which I thought was the point. Not necessarily the beach vacation. 101 00:04:20,080 --> 00:04:21,680 Speaker 3: Yeah, No one's asking for it to be an honor. 102 00:04:21,720 --> 00:04:23,680 Speaker 3: It's just how I personally view it, and I'm just 103 00:04:23,720 --> 00:04:24,560 Speaker 3: willing to do whatever. 104 00:04:25,640 --> 00:04:26,440 Speaker 2: Yeah that's yah. 105 00:04:27,040 --> 00:04:28,679 Speaker 1: Well I'm not that sweet thing, I guess. 106 00:04:28,800 --> 00:04:29,240 Speaker 2: Yeah. 107 00:04:29,480 --> 00:04:31,919 Speaker 4: No, I probably won't be in any weddings at this 108 00:04:31,920 --> 00:04:34,440 Speaker 4: point in my life because I'm thirty three. Honestly, now, 109 00:04:34,440 --> 00:04:36,359 Speaker 4: my friends really got married like that, except for me 110 00:04:36,520 --> 00:04:38,680 Speaker 4: like I've never been in a wedding, Like I've been 111 00:04:38,680 --> 00:04:41,120 Speaker 4: a flower girl once and that's it, and that was 112 00:04:41,120 --> 00:04:43,839 Speaker 4: for my cousin. I think it was like last year yea, yeah, yeah, 113 00:04:43,920 --> 00:04:45,680 Speaker 4: literally last year was by default. They're like, you got 114 00:04:45,720 --> 00:04:46,680 Speaker 4: to be in this, I guess, and I'm like, I 115 00:04:46,680 --> 00:04:49,040 Speaker 4: guess I got it because we're family. But I've never 116 00:04:49,080 --> 00:04:51,760 Speaker 4: been asked. But when I had my wedding, I truly 117 00:04:51,800 --> 00:04:54,320 Speaker 4: try to be like the Chillis bride. It could be 118 00:04:54,320 --> 00:04:56,240 Speaker 4: because well, I was pregnant, I couldn't do much. But 119 00:04:56,440 --> 00:04:58,120 Speaker 4: I also felt like I didn't want to do the 120 00:04:58,120 --> 00:05:01,120 Speaker 4: whole beach vacation in Kenkun or wherever, like the other 121 00:05:01,160 --> 00:05:02,760 Speaker 4: spot that to Loom or whatever, because I'm like, I 122 00:05:02,760 --> 00:05:04,240 Speaker 4: know it's going to cost a lot of money, and 123 00:05:04,240 --> 00:05:06,000 Speaker 4: I'm already asking you guys to be a part of this. 124 00:05:06,080 --> 00:05:07,560 Speaker 4: I know, just to get to the wedding. It's going 125 00:05:07,600 --> 00:05:08,440 Speaker 4: to cost you money, you. 126 00:05:08,400 --> 00:05:10,960 Speaker 2: Know, Yeah, for a destination wedding. I would understand why 127 00:05:11,000 --> 00:05:12,560 Speaker 2: you would take that into consideration. 128 00:05:12,720 --> 00:05:15,400 Speaker 1: I don't know that I paid. We paid for food. 129 00:05:15,680 --> 00:05:18,240 Speaker 1: I think we paid for hotel. The last bachelor party 130 00:05:18,279 --> 00:05:19,880 Speaker 1: I went to, I don't think we paid we didn't 131 00:05:19,880 --> 00:05:20,559 Speaker 1: pay for his flight. 132 00:05:20,960 --> 00:05:22,960 Speaker 2: We don't pay for flights. That's like how we do it. 133 00:05:23,000 --> 00:05:23,920 Speaker 2: We pay for everything else. 134 00:05:24,000 --> 00:05:26,880 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, But I mean, I think if 135 00:05:26,880 --> 00:05:28,560 Speaker 1: someone in the group hadn't been able to afford it, 136 00:05:28,600 --> 00:05:30,440 Speaker 1: or didn't have the money, or it was too extreme, 137 00:05:30,520 --> 00:05:31,840 Speaker 1: then we would have figured that out. You know what 138 00:05:31,880 --> 00:05:34,839 Speaker 1: I mean? I guess, I guess no one. I'm honored 139 00:05:34,839 --> 00:05:37,919 Speaker 1: that you asked me to be part of that group, 140 00:05:38,040 --> 00:05:40,080 Speaker 1: especially because most of the people in that group had 141 00:05:40,120 --> 00:05:42,360 Speaker 1: known each other a lot longer in this particular group 142 00:05:42,400 --> 00:05:44,240 Speaker 1: than I had known them, So it was nice to 143 00:05:44,279 --> 00:05:45,920 Speaker 1: have been included in that. I wasn't in the wedding. 144 00:05:45,960 --> 00:05:48,400 Speaker 1: I was invited at the bachelor party. I wasn't invited. 145 00:05:48,440 --> 00:05:50,520 Speaker 1: I don't. I don't know that anyone was standing up there. 146 00:05:50,600 --> 00:05:51,960 Speaker 1: I don't know. I didn't go to the wedding. I 147 00:05:51,960 --> 00:05:54,719 Speaker 1: couldn't go, But anyway, I guess I didn't. That was 148 00:05:54,720 --> 00:05:57,200 Speaker 1: the honor for me. It was the gesture. The rest 149 00:05:57,240 --> 00:05:59,800 Speaker 1: of it was, I was not asked to stand in 150 00:05:59,800 --> 00:06:02,479 Speaker 1: my brother in law's wedding party, and I also wasn't 151 00:06:02,520 --> 00:06:04,960 Speaker 1: asked to go to the bachelor party. I love the guy, 152 00:06:04,960 --> 00:06:07,040 Speaker 1: but Shenanigan's. I want to know what sort of low 153 00:06:07,040 --> 00:06:09,240 Speaker 1: rent strippers were there, That's what I want to know. 154 00:06:09,480 --> 00:06:11,159 Speaker 1: I want to know what was going on at this 155 00:06:11,240 --> 00:06:14,359 Speaker 1: bachelor party that I couldn't see as the brother of 156 00:06:14,440 --> 00:06:14,920 Speaker 1: the bride. 157 00:06:15,360 --> 00:06:17,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, Amanda's nice because I would have forced you to go. 158 00:06:18,000 --> 00:06:21,359 Speaker 5: Yeah, me too, literally, like I would have all my 159 00:06:21,400 --> 00:06:22,880 Speaker 5: spies at Timothy's bachelor right. 160 00:06:22,960 --> 00:06:23,520 Speaker 2: That's right, girl. 161 00:06:23,600 --> 00:06:25,640 Speaker 1: But we've talked about this before. I was not the 162 00:06:25,720 --> 00:06:28,240 Speaker 1: least benefendive. I would have found it disingenuous if he 163 00:06:28,320 --> 00:06:30,559 Speaker 1: had asked me to be in his wedding party because 164 00:06:30,560 --> 00:06:32,320 Speaker 1: I didn't know him that well. I'd only known him 165 00:06:32,360 --> 00:06:34,840 Speaker 1: for like a year. So you're saying, if you've only 166 00:06:34,839 --> 00:06:37,360 Speaker 1: got seven or eight spots, because I think it was 167 00:06:37,360 --> 00:06:40,160 Speaker 1: supposed to be even on both sides, and Amanda obviously 168 00:06:40,360 --> 00:06:43,719 Speaker 1: drove that, then I take the spot of somebody that 169 00:06:43,760 --> 00:06:48,400 Speaker 1: you've known since childhood because I'm the brother, Like, no. 170 00:06:48,200 --> 00:06:49,760 Speaker 2: You're the exactly, you're the new brother. 171 00:06:50,720 --> 00:06:55,280 Speaker 1: No people standing up there should be the closest people 172 00:06:55,360 --> 00:06:58,360 Speaker 1: to you. And you know, I officiated the wedding, which 173 00:06:58,400 --> 00:07:00,440 Speaker 1: was also my sister's idea, which was very nice. But 174 00:07:00,520 --> 00:07:02,840 Speaker 1: if I hadn't been included, it wouldn't upset me at all. 175 00:07:03,040 --> 00:07:05,960 Speaker 1: I should not take a spot. He was in a band. 176 00:07:06,000 --> 00:07:09,320 Speaker 1: He toured the entire country for years with five of 177 00:07:09,360 --> 00:07:13,920 Speaker 1: these people. The band broke up, so the White Arms 178 00:07:13,920 --> 00:07:16,320 Speaker 1: of Athena are no longer with us. But that being said, 179 00:07:16,320 --> 00:07:19,440 Speaker 1: I wouldn't have been least offended because again, like I 180 00:07:19,440 --> 00:07:23,480 Speaker 1: can come up right now with five, six, seven guys 181 00:07:23,640 --> 00:07:25,160 Speaker 1: that I would ask, and I could probably come up 182 00:07:25,200 --> 00:07:27,800 Speaker 1: with twenty honestly that would stand up there right. So 183 00:07:27,880 --> 00:07:30,240 Speaker 1: then my future bride, let's say I'm not all that 184 00:07:30,280 --> 00:07:32,480 Speaker 1: close with the brother I haven't really met that, I've 185 00:07:32,480 --> 00:07:35,840 Speaker 1: only met the brother a handful of times. Whatever. If 186 00:07:35,920 --> 00:07:37,760 Speaker 1: she wanted that, then she's going to get that. But 187 00:07:37,840 --> 00:07:42,160 Speaker 1: I would not necessarily think, well, now you know, Steve 188 00:07:42,240 --> 00:07:45,400 Speaker 1: can't stand up here, because you know, Bruce has to 189 00:07:45,400 --> 00:07:49,720 Speaker 1: stand up here instead a guy who I just met. Oh, So, like, 190 00:07:50,240 --> 00:07:53,640 Speaker 1: if that's your request, fine, but I think that that's 191 00:07:53,680 --> 00:07:57,000 Speaker 1: a space that should go to someone who's who represents 192 00:07:57,040 --> 00:07:59,160 Speaker 1: what that's supposed to stand for, which are the closest 193 00:07:59,200 --> 00:07:59,960 Speaker 1: people in your life. 194 00:08:00,360 --> 00:08:02,720 Speaker 2: My brothers will be included in my wedding. 195 00:08:02,440 --> 00:08:05,440 Speaker 5: But period with them he is, but if he wasn't, 196 00:08:06,000 --> 00:08:07,680 Speaker 5: Bruce would have to just sit it out or we 197 00:08:07,720 --> 00:08:08,600 Speaker 5: would find another girl. 198 00:08:09,120 --> 00:08:10,680 Speaker 2: Go find a girl for Bruce the same. 199 00:08:10,800 --> 00:08:14,280 Speaker 3: I know it's weirder to care about, like the numbers matching. 200 00:08:14,360 --> 00:08:16,440 Speaker 2: I've always thought that is so odd. 201 00:08:16,160 --> 00:08:18,320 Speaker 3: Like figuring out my best friend and I held hands 202 00:08:18,520 --> 00:08:21,040 Speaker 3: getting down my friend Maddy's aisle because it was an 203 00:08:21,120 --> 00:08:24,200 Speaker 3: uneven number. Yes, what You're never going to look back 204 00:08:24,240 --> 00:08:25,240 Speaker 3: at your wedding photos and go. 205 00:08:25,440 --> 00:08:27,520 Speaker 2: Wow, you were there. 206 00:08:27,600 --> 00:08:27,760 Speaker 6: Yeah. 207 00:08:27,800 --> 00:08:30,280 Speaker 4: And I also had two people take up hobby spots 208 00:08:30,320 --> 00:08:32,920 Speaker 4: because I had two men right on my side and 209 00:08:33,240 --> 00:08:35,040 Speaker 4: my other two men. So I was like, well I 210 00:08:35,080 --> 00:08:37,880 Speaker 4: need those two spots. So you know, Bruce and whoever 211 00:08:38,120 --> 00:08:39,600 Speaker 4: failed anymore, What. 212 00:08:39,559 --> 00:08:41,240 Speaker 1: If you'd been like, hey, hovey, they have to be 213 00:08:41,400 --> 00:08:43,800 Speaker 1: they have to be groomsmen, those two because we got 214 00:08:43,840 --> 00:08:44,920 Speaker 1: to get them up there somehow. 215 00:08:45,120 --> 00:08:45,520 Speaker 3: I did. 216 00:08:45,800 --> 00:08:47,920 Speaker 1: No, no, no, But but I thought they were on 217 00:08:47,960 --> 00:08:48,600 Speaker 1: your side. 218 00:08:48,960 --> 00:08:50,440 Speaker 2: No, they stood, they had to stay with the men. 219 00:08:50,559 --> 00:08:52,520 Speaker 1: I can't remember. I thought you had men stand on 220 00:08:52,600 --> 00:08:53,720 Speaker 1: your side. I can't remember. 221 00:08:53,920 --> 00:08:56,920 Speaker 3: Jason was not in a pink power suit, was shorts? 222 00:08:57,080 --> 00:08:58,840 Speaker 1: No, I can't remember the layout. 223 00:08:58,920 --> 00:09:00,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, I have to look at photos now I know. 224 00:09:00,559 --> 00:09:02,480 Speaker 1: Of weddings where men have stood on the women's side 225 00:09:02,520 --> 00:09:03,640 Speaker 1: because they're close with the women. 226 00:09:03,760 --> 00:09:05,920 Speaker 4: Oh, I think they did another thing about it. I 227 00:09:05,920 --> 00:09:08,560 Speaker 4: think like Jonathan and Jason were on my side. But yeah, 228 00:09:08,600 --> 00:09:10,520 Speaker 4: they weren't in pink power suits. But you can tell 229 00:09:11,120 --> 00:09:11,960 Speaker 4: they absolute should have. 230 00:09:11,960 --> 00:09:13,960 Speaker 2: Don't know why they was. 231 00:09:13,120 --> 00:09:18,480 Speaker 1: I thought that was what I spent good money on 232 00:09:18,520 --> 00:09:20,240 Speaker 1: that Paulina, and I wasn't even in the wedding. 233 00:09:20,320 --> 00:09:24,839 Speaker 2: That's a outfit. Yes, Oh, will Ryan stand up there 234 00:09:24,840 --> 00:09:25,520 Speaker 2: with the ladies. 235 00:09:25,600 --> 00:09:28,720 Speaker 5: No, he has appointed himself as the chief of staff, 236 00:09:29,400 --> 00:09:32,440 Speaker 5: so he will walk down what he wants to Yeah, 237 00:09:32,440 --> 00:09:38,760 Speaker 5: with his own moment in life, maybe the aunts or 238 00:09:38,760 --> 00:09:41,520 Speaker 5: something like. He's like, I'm the chief of staff. Because 239 00:09:41,520 --> 00:09:42,680 Speaker 5: I was like, would you like to be my man 240 00:09:42,679 --> 00:09:45,720 Speaker 5: of honor or? He was like, no, I'm giving more 241 00:09:45,800 --> 00:09:48,160 Speaker 5: chief of staff And I said, okay, whatever you want 242 00:09:48,200 --> 00:09:48,360 Speaker 5: to be. 243 00:09:49,400 --> 00:09:51,600 Speaker 1: You invited him to be the man of honor. Yes, 244 00:09:52,040 --> 00:09:53,560 Speaker 1: I thought I was the main man in your life. 245 00:09:53,800 --> 00:09:55,719 Speaker 2: You are my flatwer girl. We talked about this. 246 00:09:56,040 --> 00:09:58,199 Speaker 1: Happy to do it, Happy to do it? 247 00:09:58,600 --> 00:09:58,840 Speaker 7: Honor? 248 00:09:59,200 --> 00:10:02,400 Speaker 1: What an incredible I'm back. I'm so excited about this. 249 00:10:02,880 --> 00:10:04,960 Speaker 2: To show up right, Please if. 250 00:10:04,800 --> 00:10:07,640 Speaker 1: Someone texted, I definitely prioritize my bridemaid by the way, 251 00:10:07,679 --> 00:10:09,199 Speaker 1: I will be at your wedding. I don't come to 252 00:10:09,240 --> 00:10:15,200 Speaker 1: a lot of stuff, but you keep saying it. After 253 00:10:15,240 --> 00:10:18,320 Speaker 1: we see a video about it, then maybe we'll get 254 00:10:18,360 --> 00:10:23,280 Speaker 1: to attend the exclusive screening at AMC theaters. 255 00:10:21,720 --> 00:10:25,280 Speaker 2: Like that would be iconic. 256 00:10:25,840 --> 00:10:27,480 Speaker 1: That's what that's what we're going to be invited to 257 00:10:27,640 --> 00:10:28,040 Speaker 1: go to do it. 258 00:10:28,040 --> 00:10:29,319 Speaker 2: They don't want to support me the. 259 00:10:29,280 --> 00:10:34,200 Speaker 1: Exclusive the screening. I definitely prioritize my bridesmaids being able 260 00:10:34,240 --> 00:10:36,120 Speaker 1: to afford going to the Bachelor read party. We did 261 00:10:36,160 --> 00:10:38,160 Speaker 1: it in Madison, Wisconsin, which I guess is close to 262 00:10:38,160 --> 00:10:42,000 Speaker 1: where this person lives. But yeah, because some people wouldn't 263 00:10:42,000 --> 00:10:43,839 Speaker 1: be able to go. I've also heard about I've told 264 00:10:43,840 --> 00:10:46,080 Speaker 1: the story before, but I've heard about people having not 265 00:10:46,120 --> 00:10:50,000 Speaker 1: having to but offering to pay for someone who couldn't 266 00:10:50,000 --> 00:10:53,559 Speaker 1: attend a destination wedding. Like there's the story about my 267 00:10:53,840 --> 00:10:56,600 Speaker 1: buddy Grant who got married. Sadly he's divorced. I'm tryl 268 00:10:56,640 --> 00:11:00,040 Speaker 1: standing his next wedding too, but bless his heart. But 269 00:11:00,800 --> 00:11:04,120 Speaker 1: one of the guys who was there weren't Peel didn't 270 00:11:04,160 --> 00:11:08,640 Speaker 1: stand at this wedding, but we were honorary roomsmen, I guess, 271 00:11:08,640 --> 00:11:11,040 Speaker 1: and one of them we were all in college together, 272 00:11:11,080 --> 00:11:12,599 Speaker 1: and one of them couldn't afford to go because he 273 00:11:12,640 --> 00:11:15,160 Speaker 1: was in dental school, so they picked it up so 274 00:11:15,200 --> 00:11:16,599 Speaker 1: that he could go. And then he's the guy that 275 00:11:16,679 --> 00:11:18,960 Speaker 1: wound up with the honeymoon suite. He wound up with 276 00:11:18,960 --> 00:11:21,360 Speaker 1: the presidential suite because because he got Louis, he got 277 00:11:21,400 --> 00:11:24,160 Speaker 1: grouped into like the wedding budget, so they somehow got 278 00:11:24,160 --> 00:11:25,920 Speaker 1: the room mixed up. So when the when the bride 279 00:11:25,920 --> 00:11:27,640 Speaker 1: and groom checked in, they were like, yeah, I don't 280 00:11:27,679 --> 00:11:29,840 Speaker 1: know the presidential suite book. Sorry, and they're like what 281 00:11:29,880 --> 00:11:31,160 Speaker 1: was supposed to be ours? And they're like, I don't 282 00:11:31,160 --> 00:11:32,960 Speaker 1: know what happened, sorry about that. Well, turned out that 283 00:11:33,000 --> 00:11:35,120 Speaker 1: the guy they were paying for our fraternity brother got 284 00:11:35,120 --> 00:11:37,160 Speaker 1: the presidential suite because they because it was on the 285 00:11:37,200 --> 00:11:39,920 Speaker 1: same like bill. And so this dude like if he 286 00:11:39,960 --> 00:11:42,240 Speaker 1: hadn't said anything, he would have had the week of 287 00:11:42,880 --> 00:11:46,160 Speaker 1: the long weekend from like you know, of heaven, you know, 288 00:11:46,240 --> 00:11:49,040 Speaker 1: because he goes to his he comes down from seeing 289 00:11:49,040 --> 00:11:51,079 Speaker 1: his room and he was like, did I have four bedrooms? 290 00:11:51,280 --> 00:11:53,880 Speaker 1: I have a pool and my Buddy's like, wait, what, 291 00:11:54,280 --> 00:11:56,160 Speaker 1: I have a regular room. What I'm paying for you? 292 00:11:56,160 --> 00:11:58,000 Speaker 1: What are you talking about? He's like, dude, double doors 293 00:11:58,000 --> 00:11:59,640 Speaker 1: at the end of the hallway. The whole thing, got 294 00:11:59,720 --> 00:12:01,760 Speaker 1: I gotta view of like the entire beach from it. 295 00:12:02,240 --> 00:12:05,120 Speaker 1: Guys like, get out of my room, give me the key, like. 296 00:12:05,120 --> 00:12:07,200 Speaker 2: That's my room. 297 00:12:08,520 --> 00:12:10,480 Speaker 1: But if I hadn't said anything, then this dude would 298 00:12:10,520 --> 00:12:12,959 Speaker 1: have been just balling all weekend. They were like, dude, 299 00:12:12,960 --> 00:12:17,280 Speaker 1: they brought me like food and like you're feeding me 300 00:12:17,400 --> 00:12:19,360 Speaker 1: things and there's saw this champagne in the room. 301 00:12:19,640 --> 00:12:22,160 Speaker 2: Vary's congratulations and child ate like. 302 00:12:21,960 --> 00:12:24,000 Speaker 1: Like I didn't know I got to be congratulated. You 303 00:12:24,080 --> 00:12:32,000 Speaker 1: don't get out of my room. Hey, Valerie, Valerie, good morning. 304 00:12:32,080 --> 00:12:34,240 Speaker 1: So you tell me about this. This this is a 305 00:12:34,240 --> 00:12:36,040 Speaker 1: bachelorette experience. 306 00:12:37,200 --> 00:12:38,440 Speaker 6: Bachelor and wedding. 307 00:12:38,640 --> 00:12:39,320 Speaker 1: What happened? 308 00:12:40,760 --> 00:12:43,319 Speaker 6: So my best friend I met her down in Texas. 309 00:12:43,559 --> 00:12:46,040 Speaker 6: Her father was German Air Force Air Force, so he 310 00:12:46,080 --> 00:12:50,320 Speaker 6: was stationed over there, Okay, and then years down the 311 00:12:50,360 --> 00:12:53,360 Speaker 6: line while she got married in Germany and then her 312 00:12:53,800 --> 00:12:56,480 Speaker 6: bachelorette party was in London. So I did that whole 313 00:12:56,480 --> 00:12:58,400 Speaker 6: thing and they lasted like two whole weeks. 314 00:12:58,800 --> 00:12:59,840 Speaker 1: And how much did that cost? 315 00:13:01,600 --> 00:13:02,760 Speaker 6: Oh that was quite a bit. 316 00:13:03,080 --> 00:13:04,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, and there was no part of you. It's like 317 00:13:05,360 --> 00:13:08,200 Speaker 1: I can't if you didn't have the money, then would 318 00:13:08,200 --> 00:13:09,679 Speaker 1: you have said I can only do part of it 319 00:13:09,920 --> 00:13:11,480 Speaker 1: or do you just say forget about I'm going into 320 00:13:11,480 --> 00:13:11,880 Speaker 1: debt for this. 321 00:13:16,640 --> 00:13:18,520 Speaker 6: I would have tried anything that I could have. 322 00:13:18,920 --> 00:13:23,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's kind of cool. Friends. That's a two week 323 00:13:23,520 --> 00:13:25,920 Speaker 1: European vacation too, Like you know, you get to that 324 00:13:26,040 --> 00:13:28,120 Speaker 1: vacation but because you're probably doing stuff, but like that's 325 00:13:28,120 --> 00:13:30,920 Speaker 1: a cool experience as well. So I get to thank you, 326 00:13:31,640 --> 00:13:35,959 Speaker 1: have a good day, thank you, and I love you guys, 327 00:13:36,040 --> 00:13:36,480 Speaker 1: and thank you. 328 00:13:36,600 --> 00:13:38,280 Speaker 6: I listened to you guys every single morning. 329 00:13:38,440 --> 00:13:42,760 Speaker 1: Thank you, appreciate that, have a good day. I'd be 330 00:13:42,800 --> 00:13:44,520 Speaker 1: so mad if I were like, you know, I don't 331 00:13:44,559 --> 00:13:47,640 Speaker 1: know in between jobs and other than my buddies, like hey, 332 00:13:47,960 --> 00:13:52,400 Speaker 1: we're going to Dubai and you know we're going and 333 00:13:52,480 --> 00:13:54,640 Speaker 1: it's going to cost eight thousand dollars and we're going 334 00:13:54,840 --> 00:13:57,560 Speaker 1: and like you better be there, buddy, And here I am, like, 335 00:13:57,600 --> 00:14:00,000 Speaker 1: you know, taking up payday loans I could pick up 336 00:14:00,000 --> 00:14:05,800 Speaker 1: he look yeah, yeah, hey Kim Hi, good morning, Hi 337 00:14:05,880 --> 00:14:08,440 Speaker 1: Kim so you're the you prioritize your bridesmaids. You said, 338 00:14:08,440 --> 00:14:11,480 Speaker 1: we're going to have a bachelor at party that's closer 339 00:14:11,520 --> 00:14:13,319 Speaker 1: to homes that everyone doesn't go broke on this thing. 340 00:14:14,360 --> 00:14:15,600 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, Like. 341 00:14:15,559 --> 00:14:18,440 Speaker 7: Three of my bridesmaids don't even live in Illinois. So 342 00:14:18,600 --> 00:14:20,960 Speaker 7: I was like, I'm already asking you to fly in 343 00:14:21,320 --> 00:14:25,920 Speaker 7: plus like multiple times. And I was like, if I want. 344 00:14:25,640 --> 00:14:27,600 Speaker 1: Everybody to show up. 345 00:14:27,600 --> 00:14:29,720 Speaker 7: And be there for me, like when I'm having fun, 346 00:14:30,160 --> 00:14:32,280 Speaker 7: versus like two or three being able to come, Like, 347 00:14:32,400 --> 00:14:33,720 Speaker 7: to me, that was more important. 348 00:14:33,880 --> 00:14:36,200 Speaker 1: See, I like that. I like that. I think you're 349 00:14:36,240 --> 00:14:41,160 Speaker 1: asking especially bachelorettes or bridesmaids. I should say you're asking 350 00:14:41,200 --> 00:14:43,440 Speaker 1: a lot. Is there's day of planning this help with. 351 00:14:43,560 --> 00:14:45,560 Speaker 1: I didn't realize how much goes into this and how 352 00:14:45,720 --> 00:14:49,200 Speaker 1: much is expected. You know, Kiki's developing a little army 353 00:14:49,200 --> 00:14:52,120 Speaker 1: here and they all have jobs and positions and business 354 00:14:52,160 --> 00:14:55,000 Speaker 1: cards and whatever else. But I mean, you're asking a lot. 355 00:14:55,080 --> 00:14:57,720 Speaker 1: So like I get it's your day, but the idea 356 00:14:57,760 --> 00:15:00,480 Speaker 1: of you have to have this particular drastic cost this much, 357 00:15:00,560 --> 00:15:01,920 Speaker 1: or we have to do this, or we have to 358 00:15:01,920 --> 00:15:03,320 Speaker 1: do that, or we have to go to this place. 359 00:15:03,440 --> 00:15:05,000 Speaker 1: I mean you're asking a lot, so you got to 360 00:15:05,040 --> 00:15:07,080 Speaker 1: make it like kind of user friendly on the people 361 00:15:07,080 --> 00:15:09,800 Speaker 1: who you're asking to help work for you. Basically, right, 362 00:15:09,840 --> 00:15:13,480 Speaker 1: I think you should you consider it, well, Kim, Yeah 363 00:15:13,520 --> 00:15:13,920 Speaker 1: go ahead. 364 00:15:14,080 --> 00:15:15,600 Speaker 7: Yeah I was gonna say yeah for sure, because like, 365 00:15:15,600 --> 00:15:17,160 Speaker 7: those are the people that you want to be in 366 00:15:17,200 --> 00:15:19,040 Speaker 7: your life after the wedding too, Like you don't want 367 00:15:19,080 --> 00:15:20,600 Speaker 7: to make them made it. 368 00:15:20,640 --> 00:15:22,760 Speaker 1: Wouldn't that be something By the time the wedding comes 369 00:15:22,760 --> 00:15:24,360 Speaker 1: and ends the next day, everyone's like, probably I'm not 370 00:15:24,400 --> 00:15:26,640 Speaker 1: your friend anymore. I I want nothing to do with you. 371 00:15:26,960 --> 00:15:29,720 Speaker 1: You're absolutely terrible. Thank you, Kim. Have a good day 372 00:15:30,880 --> 00:15:33,840 Speaker 1: you guys. I lost an entire friend group because I 373 00:15:33,880 --> 00:15:37,400 Speaker 1: couldn't afford to go on a bachelor party. That's insane. 374 00:15:37,480 --> 00:15:41,360 Speaker 2: That's insane. So you are better for it because they suck. 375 00:15:41,640 --> 00:15:44,360 Speaker 1: That is terrible. I'm divorced now, but by ex wife. 376 00:15:44,400 --> 00:15:46,840 Speaker 1: She wanted to put her brothers, her friends and people 377 00:15:46,920 --> 00:15:49,680 Speaker 1: I didn't know on my side. Oh yeah, that's what 378 00:15:49,720 --> 00:15:52,920 Speaker 1: I mean. That's what I'm talking about. Like you should 379 00:15:53,000 --> 00:15:55,080 Speaker 1: get to pick and you shouldn't be pressured to pick 380 00:15:55,160 --> 00:15:56,720 Speaker 1: the weird random sibling. 381 00:15:58,400 --> 00:16:02,560 Speaker 2: Don't put them on friend You're not weird or random. 382 00:16:02,600 --> 00:16:04,600 Speaker 1: But I'm just saying like I was not the least 383 00:16:04,600 --> 00:16:06,320 Speaker 1: bit offended, and I wouldn't have been offended if I 384 00:16:06,360 --> 00:16:08,640 Speaker 1: had no role, because, like again, I looked at everybody 385 00:16:08,720 --> 00:16:11,760 Speaker 1: up there, and everybody up there had a deep, significant, 386 00:16:11,760 --> 00:16:14,400 Speaker 1: long term meaning to my brother in law. They should 387 00:16:14,440 --> 00:16:17,560 Speaker 1: be up there. I shouldn't, No, you should. I didn't 388 00:16:17,560 --> 00:16:18,520 Speaker 1: know the guy's middle name. 389 00:16:18,720 --> 00:16:20,920 Speaker 5: You and Amanda are a package deal. You come with her, 390 00:16:21,000 --> 00:16:23,000 Speaker 5: yes exactly, Yes you happy. 391 00:16:22,720 --> 00:16:24,080 Speaker 1: But I'm not going anywhere. 392 00:16:24,120 --> 00:16:25,600 Speaker 2: You are her only begotten brother. 393 00:16:25,880 --> 00:16:31,640 Speaker 1: This is a symbolic gesture. It's not like, if you're 394 00:16:31,680 --> 00:16:33,280 Speaker 1: not up there, we're gonna have to offer you. We're 395 00:16:33,280 --> 00:16:35,160 Speaker 1: gonna have to offer you and your God forever. It's 396 00:16:35,240 --> 00:16:35,720 Speaker 1: really sad.