Speaker 1: Okay, you're in it. It is Brooke and Jeffrey, and
Speaker 1: you found the Second Date podcast, the official one. So
Speaker 1: thanks for being with the real us and not the
Speaker 1: one where they, you know, steal our audio and then
Speaker 1: put weird AI pictures.
Speaker 2: Oh well yeah, and get more vis than us.
Speaker 1: Why am I in so many sequence in those AI
Speaker 1: pictures too? It's very strange because I don't actually have
Speaker 1: many in my wardrobe. But before we get to the episode, alexis,
Speaker 1: what do you see in comments?
Speaker 3: I mean, speaking of weird eye photo, John Hernandez said,
Speaker 3: I feel like they're making Brooke more and more like
Speaker 3: a grandma and these.
Speaker 1: To no. Lie, Okay, find the official site. That's really
Speaker 1: my picture maybe.
Speaker 3: Where she looks the youngest.
Speaker 1: Yeah right, yeah, because it was taking five years.
Speaker 2: Ago, the more real it is, Thank you, jose.
Speaker 1: If my eyeballs are magnified, you know that's actually me.
Speaker 1: All right, let's get to your episode right now. Brooke
Speaker 1: and Jeffrey in the morning Second Date Updates.
Speaker 2: Eating alone at a restaurant isn't necessarily taboo.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it could be really nice alone.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, A lot of people enjoyed dining by themselves
Speaker 2: because it can be very peaceful, reflective, very fulfilling experience.
Speaker 1: Still have to share.
Speaker 2: Especially it's especially fulfilling if you loudly moan after every
Speaker 2: single bite you take. Oh my god, oh yeah, oh
Speaker 2: my god. Have you guys tried this?
Speaker 1: X planter?
Speaker 2: Later, pass my plate over the table there, they need
Speaker 2: to take a bite of this.
Speaker 1: Okay, you may be someone who shouldn't eat alone. Yeah.
Speaker 2: Well, one of our listeners, Lauren, is also comfortable at
Speaker 2: a table for one, and curiously, that's how she ended
Speaker 2: up meeting a guy the other night. Oh so it
Speaker 2: works out in a whole lot of ways.
Speaker 4: Lauren.
Speaker 2: Welcome to the show.
Speaker 3: Thank you so much.
Speaker 1: I want to know, Lauren, is it something that you
Speaker 1: do often going out to eat by yourself?
Speaker 3: Actually? Yes, and I love it because I'm kind of
Speaker 3: a foodie.
Speaker 2: Oh okay, I'm kind of a drinky so yeah, but
Speaker 2: it's good that we.
Speaker 1: All usually past tense for that drunk.
Speaker 2: Whatever it is comes in liquid form. So you went
Speaker 2: out by yourself the other night to.
Speaker 3: A restaurant I did. It was this super nice restaurant
Speaker 3: in town that I've been I've really been wanting to
Speaker 3: try it. Yeah, and I heard really good things. But
Speaker 3: it's super hard to get a reservation, even for one,
Speaker 3: even for one.
Speaker 2: Wow, that's how you know it's good.
Speaker 3: Exactly exactly. I went there the other night by myself,
Speaker 3: hoping that you know, I could do a walk in.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah with one person. That's kind of reasonable.
Speaker 2: Like sometimes you can scope the bar and one person leaves,
Speaker 2: you just slide on it.
Speaker 3: Exactly when I go up to the host stand and
Speaker 3: they told me it was almost a two hour wait
Speaker 3: to get a table.
Speaker 1: Who You're like, I don't take up much room exactly
Speaker 1: like a chair.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'll just leave whatever's left at somebody's table once
Speaker 2: they get up stall on.
Speaker 1: Wow, so did you wait or what did you do?
Speaker 3: So this is what happened. This guy he overheard the
Speaker 3: interaction at the host stand and he walks up to
Speaker 3: me and says, you're only one person. We have a
Speaker 3: reservation for four, but one of our friends couldn't make it.
Speaker 4: Want to join up? Wow?
Speaker 2: Sis, you would totally do that for a stranger, right, don't.
Speaker 1: Get free you know them. Maybe you're with friends you
Speaker 1: don't really want to talk to, so you add one
Speaker 1: more person to the mix.
Speaker 2: And whatever the reason, it's cool. You got an invite.
Speaker 2: What did you say? So nice?
Speaker 3: Okay? So at first I was like, you know, no,
Speaker 3: I don't want to impose, but it was really nice, right,
Speaker 3: And he was like, don't even worry about it, it's fine.
Speaker 3: So I agreed, that's all same.
Speaker 1: I think that's really cool.
Speaker 2: Okay.
Speaker 1: I mean, and if he's attractive, you're not going to.
Speaker 3: Say, oh yeah, sure, definitely easy on the eyes for sure.
Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, this is right.
Speaker 1: So who did you end up sitting with? It was
Speaker 1: him and who else?
Speaker 3: It was him and a couple of his friends, which
Speaker 3: were two other women. Okay, I got to know all
Speaker 3: of them. Yes, they work together, they're coworkers.
Speaker 2: Okay, it's like all also went to lunch. Yeah, man,
Speaker 2: it's a good look on him. What's his name by
Speaker 2: the way, Adam?
Speaker 3: His name is Adam.
Speaker 2: Okay.
Speaker 1: For a minute, I was like, oh my god, I'm
Speaker 1: going to totally do this with my husband next time.
Speaker 1: We got to eat and I'm like, no, it looks weird.
Speaker 1: A couple asks a single per.
Speaker 2: Not the same. You're at this dinner table with Adam
Speaker 2: and his two female co workers. How was that was
Speaker 2: that weird or did it feel normal?
Speaker 3: Well? It was funny because he kept telling me, it's okay,
Speaker 3: I've been ditched on first days before.
Speaker 1: Don't be Did you correct him? Did you tell him?
Speaker 2: No?
Speaker 1: No, no, no, I wasn't ditched.
Speaker 3: Absolutely. I told him like, I actually came by myself.
Speaker 3: I don't have a problem eating alone. I just love
Speaker 3: eating good food.
Speaker 1: And then they all laughed, like, what a funny joke.
Speaker 3: Okay, they definitely thought I was strange for sure. Okay,
Speaker 3: they still were kind and sweet to me. So and
Speaker 3: the real was phenomenal. It was absolutely phenomenal.
Speaker 1: Then, I mean, and that makes for easy conversation even
Speaker 1: with strangers when the food's good, because you can talk
Speaker 1: about it all.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and you're like try this, here comes the airplane,
Speaker 2: new stranger.
Speaker 1: Was there sharing that would be weird?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 3: Well, there was sharing of bottles of wine for sure.
Speaker 1: We did a couple of Now we're all best friends
Speaker 1: by the end of the dinner. And were you feeling
Speaker 1: a vibe with this guy at all? Ever?
Speaker 3: Totally, I was totally feeling a connection with that, okay,
Speaker 3: And I think it would be more fun if it
Speaker 3: was just me and him.
Speaker 1: Ah, were you able to get out any info, like
Speaker 1: if he was single or what his status was.
Speaker 2: No, No, But I do think if there's a guy
Speaker 2: that's eating by himself with two female co workers, he's
Speaker 2: probably not in a relationship.
Speaker 1: About my husband just had dinner with two co workers like.
Speaker 2: That, exactly, exactly, Yeah, I'd be checking his phone out. Yeah,
Speaker 2: I think if anything, the vibe itself, you could always
Speaker 2: feel some kind of vibe.
Speaker 1: Sometimes he's not going to flirt in front of his
Speaker 1: coworkers with you. Well, I don't know, but sometimes people
Speaker 1: feel safe that way, or you misinterpret the flirting.
Speaker 2: He's at least a nice guy who is willing to
Speaker 2: invite a stranger into the group, and that that must
Speaker 2: be absolutely So have you reached out to him since
Speaker 2: that dinner?
Speaker 3: I did. I suggested to him over text because we
Speaker 3: all at some point exchange numbers.
Speaker 1: Okay, everyone exchanged Okay, exactly.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 3: I suggested to him via text that, you know, we
Speaker 3: should hang out again, just me and him, you know, okay,
Speaker 3: And he's been avoiding it, like he'll respond but not
Speaker 3: agree to meet up. So I don't know what's going on.
Speaker 1: Well, and it's not like he actually asked for your number.
Speaker 1: It was like a group exchange of numbers, which is
Speaker 1: a little bit different, you know, And did.
Speaker 2: You make him pay for your food that night because
Speaker 2: that could factor?
Speaker 3: No, no, no, I didn't do that.
Speaker 2: Okay, well, maybe there's something here. We're gonna come back
Speaker 2: try and get you a second date update with Adam.
Speaker 2: Table for two, one chair. We're gonna do it.
Speaker 3: We're doing it, Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 1: Second date updates.
Speaker 2: Okay, So I've been thinking worst case scenario. Our listener
Speaker 2: Lauren is eating dinner with three strangers.
Speaker 4: Here.
Speaker 2: She says she's attracted to one, the guy, Adam, But
Speaker 2: what if a different stranger at that table was attracted
Speaker 2: to her?
Speaker 4: Oh?
Speaker 1: Is that best case scenario?
Speaker 2: We don't know that because we've had that happened before
Speaker 2: on this segment. That's all I'm saying.
Speaker 1: Oh, like, maybe his friend called DIBs on her. Oh
Speaker 1: my god, it just came to me what you were saying.
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I didn't understand, Lauren.
Speaker 2: We need to know what were the vibes from the
Speaker 2: other two ladies that you ate with that night. Did
Speaker 2: you feel anything happening from them?
Speaker 1: Oh?
Speaker 3: No, no, Actually they were super helpful. They actually helped
Speaker 3: me with a lot of the pictures that I took. Yeah, okay,
Speaker 3: they were into it, you know, they were super into it.
Speaker 4: It's always nice to have someone there for lighting the
Speaker 4: light exactly.
Speaker 3: But there was no romantic vibe though.
Speaker 2: The only romantic vibe you were getting was from Adam
Speaker 2: or given correct.
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, how did you guys leave it? That's the
Speaker 1: one thing that I don't think.
Speaker 3: We heard well, you know, we we said goodbye and
Speaker 3: went our separate ways, and you know, like I mentioned before,
Speaker 3: I had texted him after the fact.
Speaker 1: Yea, yeah, we knew that part. I didn't know if
Speaker 1: there was like a hey, I want to see.
Speaker 2: You again, or like a four way kiss or like
Speaker 2: something or whatever. It was a very friendly though.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, cordial, you know, sure, just four lips at once.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that final flavor, whatever it was. We're just trying
Speaker 2: to get Adam to go out with you one on one,
Speaker 2: because that's what you're most interested in. So let's give
Speaker 2: him a call right now. You ready, I'm ready, I'm
Speaker 2: ready to here we go.
Speaker 4: Hello.
Speaker 2: Hey is this Adam?
Speaker 4: Oh?
Speaker 2: Yeah, hey Adam. I hope you're up for being on
Speaker 2: the radio this morning, because you already are.
Speaker 1: Really Yeah, it's a show Jeff Brock and jeffy.
Speaker 2: Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning, that's our show.
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, yeah, I've heard you guys a few times
Speaker 4: before you Oh yeah.
Speaker 2: You calling me though, Well, if you've heard of us,
Speaker 2: maybe you know our segment second date Update.
Speaker 4: I have heard of that, but I haven't been on
Speaker 4: a date and been months.
Speaker 2: Oh well, yeah, I guess technically this wasn't a first
Speaker 2: date that you went on.
Speaker 1: I don't think in any form was it a date.
Speaker 1: I mean maybe, I don't know what to call it.
Speaker 2: There you were at dinner with a group of women,
Speaker 2: one of whom wants to see you again outside of
Speaker 2: their workplace. Her names Lauren.
Speaker 4: Lauren. Oh okay.
Speaker 1: Did she told us about how she was like waiting
Speaker 1: for a table for herself, and then you came in
Speaker 1: and said, hey, sit with us. I thought that was
Speaker 1: so cool. Yeah, that's really nice thing. Yeah.
Speaker 4: I did see her there. I thought she was attractive.
Speaker 4: I was trying to be nice. But I guess no
Speaker 4: good deed goes unpunished.
Speaker 1: I like how you're trying to be nice, but you
Speaker 1: only offered it to her because she was attractive.
Speaker 2: You said you did you say no, no good deed
Speaker 2: goes on. Punished, You felt punished.
Speaker 4: I was trying to do something nice. I didn't think
Speaker 4: what was going to unfold? What unfold?
Speaker 1: What unfolded? Didn't you have a nice time?
Speaker 4: Yeah, we were all having fun getting to know each
Speaker 4: other before the actual meal started, and that was all fine.
Speaker 4: It was the actual eating part that happened when things
Speaker 4: took a us turns.
Speaker 2: Is Lauren like a messy eater?
Speaker 3: No?
Speaker 4: No, there has nothing to do with how she ate.
Speaker 4: It was once the meals were presented, we were picking
Speaker 4: up our forks, were excited, and then Lauren stops everything,
Speaker 4: tells everyone wait, wait, wait, stop, and of course everyone
Speaker 4: in the restaurant look that loud, and we were thinking
Speaker 4: why why, why, why would we stop? And so she
Speaker 4: stands up in our booths and she says to me, quick, quickick, give.
Speaker 2: Me your phone.
Speaker 4: And I'm thinking, why why do you need my phone?
Speaker 4: So I hand her my phone because I think, okay, okay,
Speaker 4: give it the crazy person what they want. She pulls
Speaker 4: out her phone and starts recording and then hovering over
Speaker 4: over the meal with both phones, last light blazing. She's
Speaker 4: waving her arms around, zooming in and out on the plate.
Speaker 2: Going why it's okay? Okay, So we still haven't gotten
Speaker 2: to what part of the meal was weird?
Speaker 1: Did you sound upset?
Speaker 4: Still it sounds it was embarrassing to Mike. I was
Speaker 4: with my co workers and we were all just trying
Speaker 4: to be nice, like just give her your phone. They
Speaker 4: gave her bones too free in her hands at one point,
Speaker 4: but what are you doing.
Speaker 2: It okay alone? We had a rule in the foodie
Speaker 2: world that gets some in trouble, and it's the camera eats. First,
Speaker 2: Lauren did mention that you guys helped her take pictures.
Speaker 2: We didn't know it was like a full Academy Award
Speaker 2: winning production.
Speaker 1: Honestly, though, even when she mentioned it, it was just
Speaker 1: like a side like it wasn't a big talking point
Speaker 1: for her.
Speaker 2: A little bit of light or something.
Speaker 1: She thought that you guys were helping.
Speaker 4: I mean, we were just trying to be nice. And
Speaker 4: when she told us she was a foodie before this happened,
Speaker 4: we thought, oh, that's interesting. But this wasn't just the
Speaker 4: first course. This was the appetizers, this was the main port.
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, well that is some information that we did
Speaker 2: not know before we got you on the phone. So
Speaker 2: I apologize for that.
Speaker 4: So I want you to know this wasn't just me
Speaker 4: ghosting her. Okay. My my friends afterwards said do not
Speaker 4: date her.
Speaker 2: Oh okay, Okay. I regret bringing Lauren into the conversation
Speaker 2: at that morning, Laurah, Yeah.
Speaker 3: That's okay. Look, I understand why you might be skeptical
Speaker 3: of what I was conducting at the table, but listen,
Speaker 3: what I do is actually pretty legit. I have a
Speaker 3: pretty big following on TikTok, and the camera work is
Speaker 3: part of it, like going the extra mile is. But
Speaker 3: I do Look, I'm going to send you a link
Speaker 3: right now. I haven't followers, Adam.
Speaker 1: Would it make a difference if she made money doing this,
Speaker 1: you know, like if it was her bread and butter?
Speaker 4: Yeah, I love capitalized Quarantino for all I care. It's
Speaker 4: just it was. It was obnoxious the way you get it.
Speaker 3: I did not mean to be obnoxious, okay, And I
Speaker 3: think you might be exaggerating just a little bit. I
Speaker 3: just need to capitalize on what might have been the
Speaker 3: only opportunity for me to eat there, as you could see.
Speaker 2: And if it's hard to get into restaurant, those videos go.
Speaker 3: Viral, Yes, exactly.
Speaker 1: I mean, Adam, don't you think that, like, maybe it
Speaker 1: was on you to say something at the table, because
Speaker 1: she obviously did not realize that you guys were uncomfortable.
Speaker 4: Yeah. Well, clearly from what you guys know of Wauren,
Speaker 4: you gotten to know her better than I at this point.
Speaker 4: She's a very assertive, young young woman. So even if
Speaker 4: I had said anything, I don't think she would have
Speaker 4: stopped me.
Speaker 2: Oh, he doesn't have a point.
Speaker 1: I can see her. What do you mean, so don't
Speaker 1: even give her a chance? Okay, don't Yeah, that's Adam.
Speaker 3: Have you gotten the link yet? I sent you a link?
Speaker 4: Oh?
Speaker 2: Okay? Are we going to do this right now in
Speaker 2: the middle of the segment? Oh, Adam, I.
Speaker 1: Mean, wouldn't make a difference at him if the video
Speaker 1: was really cool?
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, if he sees it has a million views,
Speaker 2: just just open it up real quick, Adam, take a look.
Speaker 2: It might change your mind.
Speaker 4: If it'll put this to bad fine, I'll look at
Speaker 4: your TikTok.
Speaker 2: Okay, all right, this is a first for this segment
Speaker 2: where we're having somebody go on to social media and
Speaker 2: watch videos.
Speaker 1: No, no, what we're talking well, I.
Speaker 2: Mean outside of the people in this room. We're having
Speaker 2: the listeners on the phone watch videos on TikTok.
Speaker 1: Because we can't see it. Can you describe what you're seeing?
Speaker 4: I see the one that was posted from the restaurant. Wait,
Speaker 4: how did you get like a smoke effect back there?
Speaker 4: And it looks like there's a light show going there?
Speaker 4: Weren't lights like? That?
Speaker 3: Is what I do, Adam, this is what I do.
Speaker 1: Advertised.
Speaker 2: There's a lot of people sing on TikTok, Adam sounding
Speaker 2: a little bit impressed though by what he's seeing is it?
Speaker 1: Does it look like you want to eat there again, Adam?
Speaker 4: I mean I would. I was gonna eat there again anyway.
Speaker 4: But obviously this is a great advertisement. They should hire you.
Speaker 4: This looks really good.
Speaker 2: So maybe you're just biased because you already ate there, No, Jeff,
Speaker 2: hold on, we just made progress. Okay, it's really what
Speaker 2: I said.
Speaker 3: I agree they should hire me, and that's why I
Speaker 3: do this.
Speaker 1: I mean, would have made a difference if she had
Speaker 1: given you a.
Speaker 4: Head hold on, hold on, I'm looking at some other
Speaker 4: videos here. There's tiger in the back there.
Speaker 2: Well, this has definitely taken a different twist. We started
Speaker 2: off very angry and agitated when we first had Adam on,
Speaker 2: but now he's sounding very impressed with Yeah, all of
Speaker 2: her abilities. It's great. I'm not going to waste any
Speaker 2: more time. I'm just going to ask, Adam, would you
Speaker 2: like to go out on another date with Lauren? No
Speaker 2: cameras this time, he gets you. Just do conversation, keep
Speaker 2: it boring, but to you, we'll pay for it.
Speaker 3: We can go somewhere I've already been before.
Speaker 1: Oh that makes sense. Doesn't need to do a video there,
Speaker 1: as long as we.
Speaker 2: Have a gift card for it.
Speaker 4: Adam, what you said, I mean that sounds intriguing. Yes,
Speaker 4: I'm sorry. I flew off the handle, but it's there.
Speaker 4: Was like taking a stray cat and realizing they're a ninja.
Speaker 4: I didn't I didn't know what to expect.
Speaker 1: Analogy.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think you guys are weird enough. Maybe watch
Speaker 2: some tiktoks on how to properly compliment it.
Speaker 1: But TikTok though, to all of us, Lauren, we want
Speaker 1: to those are some powerful food videos.
Speaker 2: Okay, well, congratulations you two you got a second date.
Speaker 3: Thank you, Adam, and I forgive you for all the
Speaker 3: mean things you said earlier on the call.
Speaker 2: Just don't tell your two female co workers that you're
Speaker 2: going out with you they're going to be that's Brook
Speaker 2: and Jeffrey in the morning. Well, that was definitely a
Speaker 2: first for this segment.
Speaker 1: I did not think it was going to take that turn.
Speaker 1: I really did not think he was going to change
Speaker 1: his mind.
Speaker 2: It's funny that we actually had to wait to let
Speaker 2: someone watch TikTok videos while we're in the middle of
Speaker 2: a segment.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I means that just happens for Alexis right without
Speaker 1: us waiting.
Speaker 2: But you know what, it worked. My question though, is
Speaker 2: did we miss out on an opportunity to send him
Speaker 2: a link to our TikTok page at Brook and Jeffrey.
Speaker 2: Why didn't we do that during the.
Speaker 1: Call he hung up.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think we should do it from now on.
Speaker 1: It's actually really good TikTok.
Speaker 2: Okay, I'm about to ask you if you want to
Speaker 2: go on a second date with her. You can say
Speaker 2: yes or no. But before you answer, go check out
Speaker 2: jose doing the cabbage patch dance on our social media
Speaker 2: at Brook and Jeffrey. We're gonna wait for your.
Speaker 1: Answer, Okay, And why did we make that video sixty
Speaker 1: seconds last?
Speaker 2: The bottom line is it worked. We were able to
Speaker 2: get him a second date. Yeah, he can do it
Speaker 2: for you too. Maybe if you email the show, we'll
Speaker 2: call that person wasn't calling you back.