WEBVTT - Second Date Update Classic: Dine For One But I'm Not Done

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, you're in it. It is Brooke and Jeffrey, and

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<v Speaker 1>you found the Second Date podcast, the official one. So

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<v Speaker 1>thanks for being with the real us and not the

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<v Speaker 1>one where they, you know, steal our audio and then

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<v Speaker 1>put weird AI pictures.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh well yeah, and get more vis than us.

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<v Speaker 1>Why am I in so many sequence in those AI

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<v Speaker 1>pictures too? It's very strange because I don't actually have

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<v Speaker 1>many in my wardrobe. But before we get to the episode, alexis,

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<v Speaker 1>what do you see in comments?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, speaking of weird eye photo, John Hernandez said,

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like they're making Brooke more and more like

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<v Speaker 3>a grandma and these.

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<v Speaker 1>To no. Lie, Okay, find the official site. That's really

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<v Speaker 1>my picture maybe.

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<v Speaker 3>Where she looks the youngest.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah right, yeah, because it was taking five years.

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<v Speaker 2>Ago, the more real it is, Thank you, jose.

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<v Speaker 1>If my eyeballs are magnified, you know that's actually me.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, let's get to your episode right now. Brooke

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<v Speaker 1>and Jeffrey in the morning Second Date Updates.

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<v Speaker 2>Eating alone at a restaurant isn't necessarily taboo.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it could be really nice alone.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, A lot of people enjoyed dining by themselves

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<v Speaker 2>because it can be very peaceful, reflective, very fulfilling experience.

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<v Speaker 1>Still have to share.

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<v Speaker 2>Especially it's especially fulfilling if you loudly moan after every

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<v Speaker 2>single bite you take. Oh my god, oh yeah, oh

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<v Speaker 2>my god. Have you guys tried this?

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<v Speaker 1>X planter?

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<v Speaker 2>Later, pass my plate over the table there, they need

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<v Speaker 2>to take a bite of this.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, you may be someone who shouldn't eat alone. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, one of our listeners, Lauren, is also comfortable at

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<v Speaker 2>a table for one, and curiously, that's how she ended

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<v Speaker 2>up meeting a guy the other night. Oh so it

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<v Speaker 2>works out in a whole lot of ways.

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<v Speaker 4>Lauren.

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<v Speaker 2>Welcome to the show.

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<v Speaker 3>Thank you so much.

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<v Speaker 1>I want to know, Lauren, is it something that you

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<v Speaker 1>do often going out to eat by yourself?

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<v Speaker 3>Actually? Yes, and I love it because I'm kind of

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<v Speaker 3>a foodie.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh okay, I'm kind of a drinky so yeah, but

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<v Speaker 2>it's good that we.

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<v Speaker 1>All usually past tense for that drunk.

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<v Speaker 2>Whatever it is comes in liquid form. So you went

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<v Speaker 2>out by yourself the other night to.

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<v Speaker 3>A restaurant I did. It was this super nice restaurant

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<v Speaker 3>in town that I've been I've really been wanting to

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<v Speaker 3>try it. Yeah, and I heard really good things. But

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<v Speaker 3>it's super hard to get a reservation, even for one,

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<v Speaker 3>even for one.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow, that's how you know it's good.

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<v Speaker 3>Exactly exactly. I went there the other night by myself,

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<v Speaker 3>hoping that you know, I could do a walk in.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, yeah with one person. That's kind of reasonable.

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<v Speaker 2>Like sometimes you can scope the bar and one person leaves,

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<v Speaker 2>you just slide on it.

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<v Speaker 3>Exactly when I go up to the host stand and

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<v Speaker 3>they told me it was almost a two hour wait

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<v Speaker 3>to get a table.

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<v Speaker 1>Who You're like, I don't take up much room exactly

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<v Speaker 1>like a chair.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I'll just leave whatever's left at somebody's table once

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<v Speaker 2>they get up stall on.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow, so did you wait or what did you do?

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<v Speaker 3>So this is what happened. This guy he overheard the

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<v Speaker 3>interaction at the host stand and he walks up to

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<v Speaker 3>me and says, you're only one person. We have a

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<v Speaker 3>reservation for four, but one of our friends couldn't make it.

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<v Speaker 4>Want to join up? Wow?

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<v Speaker 2>Sis, you would totally do that for a stranger, right, don't.

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<v Speaker 1>Get free you know them. Maybe you're with friends you

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<v Speaker 1>don't really want to talk to, so you add one

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<v Speaker 1>more person to the mix.

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<v Speaker 2>And whatever the reason, it's cool. You got an invite.

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<v Speaker 2>What did you say? So nice?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay? So at first I was like, you know, no,

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<v Speaker 3>I don't want to impose, but it was really nice, right,

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<v Speaker 3>And he was like, don't even worry about it, it's fine.

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<v Speaker 3>So I agreed, that's all same.

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<v Speaker 1>I think that's really cool.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, and if he's attractive, you're not going to.

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<v Speaker 3>Say, oh yeah, sure, definitely easy on the eyes for sure.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Okay, this is right.

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<v Speaker 1>So who did you end up sitting with? It was

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<v Speaker 1>him and who else?

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<v Speaker 3>It was him and a couple of his friends, which

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<v Speaker 3>were two other women. Okay, I got to know all

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<v Speaker 3>of them. Yes, they work together, they're coworkers.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, it's like all also went to lunch. Yeah, man,

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<v Speaker 2>it's a good look on him. What's his name by

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<v Speaker 2>the way, Adam?

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<v Speaker 3>His name is Adam.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>For a minute, I was like, oh my god, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>going to totally do this with my husband next time.

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<v Speaker 1>We got to eat and I'm like, no, it looks weird.

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<v Speaker 1>A couple asks a single per.

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<v Speaker 2>Not the same. You're at this dinner table with Adam

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<v Speaker 2>and his two female co workers. How was that was

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<v Speaker 2>that weird or did it feel normal?

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<v Speaker 3>Well? It was funny because he kept telling me, it's okay,

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<v Speaker 3>I've been ditched on first days before.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't be Did you correct him? Did you tell him?

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<v Speaker 2>No?

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<v Speaker 1>No, no, no, I wasn't ditched.

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<v Speaker 3>Absolutely. I told him like, I actually came by myself.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't have a problem eating alone. I just love

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<v Speaker 3>eating good food.

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<v Speaker 1>And then they all laughed, like, what a funny joke.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, they definitely thought I was strange for sure. Okay,

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<v Speaker 3>they still were kind and sweet to me. So and

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<v Speaker 3>the real was phenomenal. It was absolutely phenomenal.

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<v Speaker 1>Then, I mean, and that makes for easy conversation even

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<v Speaker 1>with strangers when the food's good, because you can talk

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<v Speaker 1>about it all.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and you're like try this, here comes the airplane,

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<v Speaker 2>new stranger.

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<v Speaker 1>Was there sharing that would be weird?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, there was sharing of bottles of wine for sure.

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<v Speaker 1>We did a couple of Now we're all best friends

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<v Speaker 1>by the end of the dinner. And were you feeling

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<v Speaker 1>a vibe with this guy at all? Ever?

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<v Speaker 3>Totally, I was totally feeling a connection with that, okay,

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<v Speaker 3>And I think it would be more fun if it

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<v Speaker 3>was just me and him.

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<v Speaker 1>Ah, were you able to get out any info, like

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<v Speaker 1>if he was single or what his status was.

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<v Speaker 2>No, No, But I do think if there's a guy

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<v Speaker 2>that's eating by himself with two female co workers, he's

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<v Speaker 2>probably not in a relationship.

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<v Speaker 1>About my husband just had dinner with two co workers like.

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<v Speaker 2>That, exactly, exactly, Yeah, I'd be checking his phone out. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I think if anything, the vibe itself, you could always

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<v Speaker 2>feel some kind of vibe.

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<v Speaker 1>Sometimes he's not going to flirt in front of his

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<v Speaker 1>coworkers with you. Well, I don't know, but sometimes people

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<v Speaker 1>feel safe that way, or you misinterpret the flirting.

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<v Speaker 2>He's at least a nice guy who is willing to

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<v Speaker 2>invite a stranger into the group, and that that must

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<v Speaker 2>be absolutely So have you reached out to him since

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<v Speaker 2>that dinner?

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<v Speaker 3>I did. I suggested to him over text because we

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<v Speaker 3>all at some point exchange numbers.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, everyone exchanged Okay, exactly.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>I suggested to him via text that, you know, we

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<v Speaker 3>should hang out again, just me and him, you know, okay,

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<v Speaker 3>And he's been avoiding it, like he'll respond but not

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<v Speaker 3>agree to meet up. So I don't know what's going on.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, and it's not like he actually asked for your number.

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<v Speaker 1>It was like a group exchange of numbers, which is

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit different, you know, And did.

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<v Speaker 2>You make him pay for your food that night because

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<v Speaker 2>that could factor?

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<v Speaker 3>No, no, no, I didn't do that.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, well, maybe there's something here. We're gonna come back

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<v Speaker 2>try and get you a second date update with Adam.

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<v Speaker 2>Table for two, one chair. We're gonna do it.

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<v Speaker 3>We're doing it, Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 1>Second date updates.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, So I've been thinking worst case scenario. Our listener

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<v Speaker 2>Lauren is eating dinner with three strangers.

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<v Speaker 4>Here.

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<v Speaker 2>She says she's attracted to one, the guy, Adam, But

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<v Speaker 2>what if a different stranger at that table was attracted

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<v Speaker 2>to her?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>Is that best case scenario?

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<v Speaker 2>We don't know that because we've had that happened before

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<v Speaker 2>on this segment. That's all I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, like, maybe his friend called DIBs on her. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>my god, it just came to me what you were saying.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry, I didn't understand, Lauren.

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<v Speaker 2>We need to know what were the vibes from the

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<v Speaker 2>other two ladies that you ate with that night. Did

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<v Speaker 2>you feel anything happening from them?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh?

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<v Speaker 3>No, no, Actually they were super helpful. They actually helped

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<v Speaker 3>me with a lot of the pictures that I took. Yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 3>they were into it, you know, they were super into it.

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<v Speaker 4>It's always nice to have someone there for lighting the

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<v Speaker 4>light exactly.

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<v Speaker 3>But there was no romantic vibe though.

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<v Speaker 2>The only romantic vibe you were getting was from Adam

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<v Speaker 2>or given correct.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. Yeah, how did you guys leave it? That's the

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<v Speaker 1>one thing that I don't think.

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<v Speaker 3>We heard well, you know, we we said goodbye and

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<v Speaker 3>went our separate ways, and you know, like I mentioned before,

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<v Speaker 3>I had texted him after the fact.

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<v Speaker 1>Yea, yeah, we knew that part. I didn't know if

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<v Speaker 1>there was like a hey, I want to see.

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<v Speaker 2>You again, or like a four way kiss or like

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<v Speaker 2>something or whatever. It was a very friendly though.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, cordial, you know, sure, just four lips at once.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that final flavor, whatever it was. We're just trying

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<v Speaker 2>to get Adam to go out with you one on one,

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<v Speaker 2>because that's what you're most interested in. So let's give

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<v Speaker 2>him a call right now. You ready, I'm ready, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>ready to here we go.

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<v Speaker 4>Hello.

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<v Speaker 2>Hey is this Adam?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, hey Adam. I hope you're up for being on

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<v Speaker 2>the radio this morning, because you already are.

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<v Speaker 1>Really Yeah, it's a show Jeff Brock and jeffy.

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<v Speaker 2>Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning, that's our show.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh yeah, yeah, I've heard you guys a few times

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<v Speaker 4>before you Oh yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>You calling me though, Well, if you've heard of us,

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<v Speaker 2>maybe you know our segment second date Update.

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<v Speaker 4>I have heard of that, but I haven't been on

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<v Speaker 4>a date and been months.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh well, yeah, I guess technically this wasn't a first

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<v Speaker 2>date that you went on.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think in any form was it a date.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean maybe, I don't know what to call it.

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<v Speaker 2>There you were at dinner with a group of women,

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<v Speaker 2>one of whom wants to see you again outside of

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<v Speaker 2>their workplace. Her names Lauren.

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<v Speaker 4>Lauren. Oh okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Did she told us about how she was like waiting

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<v Speaker 1>for a table for herself, and then you came in

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<v Speaker 1>and said, hey, sit with us. I thought that was

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<v Speaker 1>so cool. Yeah, that's really nice thing. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>I did see her there. I thought she was attractive.

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<v Speaker 4>I was trying to be nice. But I guess no

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<v Speaker 4>good deed goes unpunished.

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<v Speaker 1>I like how you're trying to be nice, but you

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<v Speaker 1>only offered it to her because she was attractive.

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<v Speaker 2>You said you did you say no, no good deed

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<v Speaker 2>goes on. Punished, You felt punished.

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<v Speaker 4>I was trying to do something nice. I didn't think

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<v Speaker 4>what was going to unfold? What unfold?

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<v Speaker 1>What unfolded? Didn't you have a nice time?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, we were all having fun getting to know each

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<v Speaker 4>other before the actual meal started, and that was all fine.

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<v Speaker 4>It was the actual eating part that happened when things

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<v Speaker 4>took a us turns.

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<v Speaker 2>Is Lauren like a messy eater?

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<v Speaker 3>No?

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<v Speaker 4>No, there has nothing to do with how she ate.

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<v Speaker 4>It was once the meals were presented, we were picking

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<v Speaker 4>up our forks, were excited, and then Lauren stops everything,

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<v Speaker 4>tells everyone wait, wait, wait, stop, and of course everyone

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<v Speaker 4>in the restaurant look that loud, and we were thinking

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<v Speaker 4>why why, why, why would we stop? And so she

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<v Speaker 4>stands up in our booths and she says to me, quick, quickick, give.

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<v Speaker 2>Me your phone.

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<v Speaker 4>And I'm thinking, why why do you need my phone?

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<v Speaker 4>So I hand her my phone because I think, okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 4>give it the crazy person what they want. She pulls

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<v Speaker 4>out her phone and starts recording and then hovering over

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<v Speaker 4>over the meal with both phones, last light blazing. She's

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<v Speaker 4>waving her arms around, zooming in and out on the plate.

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<v Speaker 2>Going why it's okay? Okay, So we still haven't gotten

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<v Speaker 2>to what part of the meal was weird?

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<v Speaker 1>Did you sound upset?

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<v Speaker 4>Still it sounds it was embarrassing to Mike. I was

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<v Speaker 4>with my co workers and we were all just trying

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<v Speaker 4>to be nice, like just give her your phone. They

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<v Speaker 4>gave her bones too free in her hands at one point,

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<v Speaker 4>but what are you doing.

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<v Speaker 2>It okay alone? We had a rule in the foodie

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<v Speaker 2>world that gets some in trouble, and it's the camera eats. First,

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<v Speaker 2>Lauren did mention that you guys helped her take pictures.

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<v Speaker 2>We didn't know it was like a full Academy Award

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<v Speaker 2>winning production.

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<v Speaker 1>Honestly, though, even when she mentioned it, it was just

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<v Speaker 1>like a side like it wasn't a big talking point

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<v Speaker 1>for her.

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<v Speaker 2>A little bit of light or something.

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<v Speaker 1>She thought that you guys were helping.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, we were just trying to be nice. And

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<v Speaker 4>when she told us she was a foodie before this happened,

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<v Speaker 4>we thought, oh, that's interesting. But this wasn't just the

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<v Speaker 4>first course. This was the appetizers, this was the main port.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, okay, well that is some information that we did

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<v Speaker 2>not know before we got you on the phone. So

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<v Speaker 2>I apologize for that.

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<v Speaker 4>So I want you to know this wasn't just me

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<v Speaker 4>ghosting her. Okay. My my friends afterwards said do not

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<v Speaker 4>date her.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh okay, Okay. I regret bringing Lauren into the conversation

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<v Speaker 2>at that morning, Laurah, Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>That's okay. Look, I understand why you might be skeptical

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<v Speaker 3>of what I was conducting at the table, but listen,

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<v Speaker 3>what I do is actually pretty legit. I have a

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<v Speaker 3>pretty big following on TikTok, and the camera work is

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<v Speaker 3>part of it, like going the extra mile is. But

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<v Speaker 3>I do Look, I'm going to send you a link

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<v Speaker 3>right now. I haven't followers, Adam.

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<v Speaker 1>Would it make a difference if she made money doing this,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, like if it was her bread and butter?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I love capitalized Quarantino for all I care. It's

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<v Speaker 4>just it was. It was obnoxious the way you get it.

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<v Speaker 3>I did not mean to be obnoxious, okay, And I

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<v Speaker 3>think you might be exaggerating just a little bit. I

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<v Speaker 3>just need to capitalize on what might have been the

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<v Speaker 3>only opportunity for me to eat there, as you could see.

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<v Speaker 2>And if it's hard to get into restaurant, those videos go.

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<v Speaker 3>Viral, Yes, exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, Adam, don't you think that, like, maybe it

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<v Speaker 1>was on you to say something at the table, because

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<v Speaker 1>she obviously did not realize that you guys were uncomfortable.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah. Well, clearly from what you guys know of Wauren,

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<v Speaker 4>you gotten to know her better than I at this point.

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<v Speaker 4>She's a very assertive, young young woman. So even if

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<v Speaker 4>I had said anything, I don't think she would have

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<v Speaker 4>stopped me.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, he doesn't have a point.

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<v Speaker 1>I can see her. What do you mean, so don't

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<v Speaker 1>even give her a chance? Okay, don't Yeah, that's Adam.

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<v Speaker 3>Have you gotten the link yet? I sent you a link?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay? Are we going to do this right now in

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<v Speaker 2>the middle of the segment? Oh, Adam, I.

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<v Speaker 1>Mean, wouldn't make a difference at him if the video

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<v Speaker 1>was really cool?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I mean, if he sees it has a million views,

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<v Speaker 2>just just open it up real quick, Adam, take a look.

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<v Speaker 2>It might change your mind.

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<v Speaker 4>If it'll put this to bad fine, I'll look at

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<v Speaker 4>your TikTok.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, all right, this is a first for this segment

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<v Speaker 2>where we're having somebody go on to social media and

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<v Speaker 2>watch videos.

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<v Speaker 1>No, no, what we're talking well, I.

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<v Speaker 2>Mean outside of the people in this room. We're having

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<v Speaker 2>the listeners on the phone watch videos on TikTok.

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<v Speaker 1>Because we can't see it. Can you describe what you're seeing?

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<v Speaker 4>I see the one that was posted from the restaurant. Wait,

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<v Speaker 4>how did you get like a smoke effect back there?

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<v Speaker 4>And it looks like there's a light show going there?

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<v Speaker 4>Weren't lights like? That?

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<v Speaker 3>Is what I do, Adam, this is what I do.

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<v Speaker 1>Advertised.

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<v Speaker 2>There's a lot of people sing on TikTok, Adam sounding

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<v Speaker 2>a little bit impressed though by what he's seeing is it?

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<v Speaker 1>Does it look like you want to eat there again, Adam?

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<v Speaker 4>I mean I would. I was gonna eat there again anyway.

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<v Speaker 4>But obviously this is a great advertisement. They should hire you.

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<v Speaker 4>This looks really good.

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<v Speaker 2>So maybe you're just biased because you already ate there, No, Jeff,

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<v Speaker 2>hold on, we just made progress. Okay, it's really what

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<v Speaker 2>I said.

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<v Speaker 3>I agree they should hire me, and that's why I

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<v Speaker 3>do this.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, would have made a difference if she had

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<v Speaker 1>given you a.

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<v Speaker 4>Head hold on, hold on, I'm looking at some other

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<v Speaker 4>videos here. There's tiger in the back there.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, this has definitely taken a different twist. We started

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<v Speaker 2>off very angry and agitated when we first had Adam on,

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<v Speaker 2>but now he's sounding very impressed with Yeah, all of

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<v Speaker 2>her abilities. It's great. I'm not going to waste any

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<v Speaker 2>more time. I'm just going to ask, Adam, would you

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<v Speaker 2>like to go out on another date with Lauren? No

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<v Speaker 2>cameras this time, he gets you. Just do conversation, keep

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<v Speaker 2>it boring, but to you, we'll pay for it.

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<v Speaker 3>We can go somewhere I've already been before.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh that makes sense. Doesn't need to do a video there,

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<v Speaker 1>as long as we.

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<v Speaker 2>Have a gift card for it.

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<v Speaker 4>Adam, what you said, I mean that sounds intriguing. Yes,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm sorry. I flew off the handle, but it's there.

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<v Speaker 4>Was like taking a stray cat and realizing they're a ninja.

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<v Speaker 4>I didn't I didn't know what to expect.

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<v Speaker 1>Analogy.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I think you guys are weird enough. Maybe watch

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<v Speaker 2>some tiktoks on how to properly compliment it.

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<v Speaker 1>But TikTok though, to all of us, Lauren, we want

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<v Speaker 1>to those are some powerful food videos.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, well, congratulations you two you got a second date.

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<v Speaker 3>Thank you, Adam, and I forgive you for all the

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<v Speaker 3>mean things you said earlier on the call.

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<v Speaker 2>Just don't tell your two female co workers that you're

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<v Speaker 2>going out with you they're going to be that's Brook

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<v Speaker 2>and Jeffrey in the morning. Well, that was definitely a

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<v Speaker 2>first for this segment.

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<v Speaker 1>I did not think it was going to take that turn.

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<v Speaker 1>I really did not think he was going to change

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<v Speaker 1>his mind.

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<v Speaker 2>It's funny that we actually had to wait to let

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<v Speaker 2>someone watch TikTok videos while we're in the middle of

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<v Speaker 2>a segment.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I means that just happens for Alexis right without

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<v Speaker 1>us waiting.

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<v Speaker 2>But you know what, it worked. My question though, is

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<v Speaker 2>did we miss out on an opportunity to send him

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<v Speaker 2>a link to our TikTok page at Brook and Jeffrey.

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<v Speaker 2>Why didn't we do that during the.

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<v Speaker 1>Call he hung up.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I think we should do it from now on.

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<v Speaker 1>It's actually really good TikTok.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, I'm about to ask you if you want to

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<v Speaker 2>go on a second date with her. You can say

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<v Speaker 2>yes or no. But before you answer, go check out

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<v Speaker 2>jose doing the cabbage patch dance on our social media

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<v Speaker 2>at Brook and Jeffrey. We're gonna wait for your.

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<v Speaker 1>Answer, Okay, And why did we make that video sixty

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<v Speaker 1>seconds last?

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<v Speaker 2>The bottom line is it worked. We were able to

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<v Speaker 2>get him a second date. Yeah, he can do it

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<v Speaker 2>for you too. Maybe if you email the show, we'll

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<v Speaker 2>call that person wasn't calling you back.