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Speaker 1: now I'm just stuck here in this situation. Okay, here's

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Speaker 1: have your freaking shoes here because I don't have any

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Speaker 1: other shoes to wear tonight. Well that's all right, I

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Speaker 1: I have to wear those your tributes that I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: Just to give you a backstory, thoullon dollars, you shouldn't

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Speaker 1: I don't have another option because I'm doing no, not

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Speaker 1: But now I'm like, Okay, let's go, let's live life,

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Speaker 1: Very happy. I can't even tell you. I mean all

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Speaker 1: this marriage, marriage or tweet retreat situation because we tweet. Okay,

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Speaker 1: any information. Just okay, going on this marriage retreat, I

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Speaker 1: because especially something reparable, something it's something reparable, but it

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Speaker 1: I said, listen, I he goes, there's a difference between

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Speaker 1: We had this downtime between our morning side and then dinner,

428
00:22:01,400 --> 00:22:02,600
Speaker 1: and he's like, do you want to work out? And

429
00:22:02,720 --> 00:22:05,440
Speaker 1: like the thought of like going to the gym right now,

430
00:22:05,720 --> 00:22:07,800
Speaker 1: and like I'm going to try to amp myself up. Yeah,

431
00:22:07,840 --> 00:22:09,720
Speaker 1: I can't work out later in the day. It's not

432
00:22:09,760 --> 00:22:11,800
Speaker 1: for me. But like it was a way for us

433
00:22:11,800 --> 00:22:15,560
Speaker 1: to just effortlessly communicate. I mean, either us are good terrible,

434
00:22:15,680 --> 00:22:17,879
Speaker 1: but yeah, but it's a way for you guys to reconnect.

435
00:22:17,960 --> 00:22:20,359
Speaker 1: And that reminds me, Like, you know, filming in the

436
00:22:20,400 --> 00:22:22,919
Speaker 1: past three and a half months, it's been all about me,

437
00:22:22,960 --> 00:22:25,280
Speaker 1: and I've been super busy, even like my daughter said, Mom,

438
00:22:25,320 --> 00:22:27,119
Speaker 1: you're on the phone all the time. Are you're filming,

439
00:22:27,119 --> 00:22:29,600
Speaker 1: are you're doing this? Or you're talking about housewives? And

440
00:22:29,600 --> 00:22:31,000
Speaker 1: and I have to be mindful, like now that we

441
00:22:31,000 --> 00:22:33,879
Speaker 1: stopped filming, I gotta let that go. But Eddy, I

442
00:22:33,920 --> 00:22:35,800
Speaker 1: really hadn't done much in the past three and a

443
00:22:35,800 --> 00:22:38,960
Speaker 1: half months together. So I told him, I said, let's go.

444
00:22:39,119 --> 00:22:41,600
Speaker 1: He had bought me a new dirt bike six months ago,

445
00:22:41,640 --> 00:22:44,640
Speaker 1: but it was offesome. I thought you looking hot, So

446
00:22:44,720 --> 00:22:47,040
Speaker 1: I said, let's go. Let's go for a day trip.

447
00:22:47,080 --> 00:22:49,240
Speaker 1: And he loves riding the dirt bike. So we went

448
00:22:49,240 --> 00:22:52,199
Speaker 1: out to started Wells out by Barstow and just for

449
00:22:52,240 --> 00:22:54,040
Speaker 1: a day, went out for a couple of hours, rode

450
00:22:54,040 --> 00:22:56,320
Speaker 1: the bike and then turn around and came back home.

451
00:22:56,920 --> 00:22:59,959
Speaker 1: But I definitely felt during filming like a disconnect each

452
00:23:00,000 --> 00:23:04,720
Speaker 1: tween us, for sure. But also if you're surrounding yourself,

453
00:23:04,760 --> 00:23:09,800
Speaker 1: you know, with unhealthy and I'm not saying I don't know,

454
00:23:09,960 --> 00:23:12,960
Speaker 1: but if you're surrounding yourself with people that are also

455
00:23:13,000 --> 00:23:16,200
Speaker 1: in unhealthy marriages and they're doing the same thing, it's

456
00:23:16,280 --> 00:23:20,200
Speaker 1: hard to kind of go all right, I gotta check myself, yeah,

457
00:23:20,280 --> 00:23:22,520
Speaker 1: and remind myself I am making this all about me

458
00:23:23,880 --> 00:23:25,879
Speaker 1: and vice versa. It's hard not to be about you.

459
00:23:25,960 --> 00:23:28,359
Speaker 1: It's like, you know, you're busy all day long, and

460
00:23:28,359 --> 00:23:30,240
Speaker 1: then you're filming in your hair and makeup and this

461
00:23:30,400 --> 00:23:35,960
Speaker 1: and that, you know, and it's plus we're raging narcissus

462
00:23:37,640 --> 00:23:42,440
Speaker 1: and now it's all about Thanksgiving and Christmas. I get

463
00:23:42,440 --> 00:23:44,840
Speaker 1: through New York right now, Yeah, Okay, I talk about

464
00:23:44,880 --> 00:23:47,280
Speaker 1: New York. Okay, So I just got to New York

465
00:23:47,320 --> 00:23:50,720
Speaker 1: and I'm dying, because dying it's an extreme term. But

466
00:23:50,920 --> 00:23:53,840
Speaker 1: I get to the hotel and my dad has an

467
00:23:53,880 --> 00:23:56,040
Speaker 1: apartment here, so I knew he wasn't staying here, but

468
00:23:56,080 --> 00:24:00,680
Speaker 1: there's obviously two rooms and I not at the Games

469
00:24:00,680 --> 00:24:04,040
Speaker 1: of different There was a request because I wanted to

470
00:24:04,040 --> 00:24:06,560
Speaker 1: be near where my dad stays. Okay, so I did

471
00:24:06,600 --> 00:24:09,720
Speaker 1: here and I'm like, Hi, how are you um checking in?

472
00:24:09,840 --> 00:24:11,800
Speaker 1: And I see the room that they had me checking

473
00:24:11,840 --> 00:24:16,399
Speaker 1: into and I'm like, uh doch. But to be douchy,

474
00:24:16,440 --> 00:24:18,199
Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm pretty sure I got the upgrade and

475
00:24:18,200 --> 00:24:22,480
Speaker 1: they're like, no, there's already another meloncamp in the upgrade.

476
00:24:22,600 --> 00:24:27,560
Speaker 1: And I'm like and I'm like, oh there is Okay.

477
00:24:27,880 --> 00:24:29,720
Speaker 1: So I'm like maybe he had a you know, I

478
00:24:29,720 --> 00:24:32,119
Speaker 1: go to all these places. Maybe there's a flood, maybe

479
00:24:32,119 --> 00:24:33,800
Speaker 1: they're you know, like whatever. So I go into my

480
00:24:33,840 --> 00:24:35,959
Speaker 1: shoe box that I'm in right now with this is

481
00:24:36,040 --> 00:24:39,160
Speaker 1: my closet, which is just that little thing right there

482
00:24:39,200 --> 00:24:42,159
Speaker 1: with my seven thousand clothes, and then I get the

483
00:24:42,200 --> 00:24:44,199
Speaker 1: text for my dad like come to the apartment. You know,

484
00:24:44,240 --> 00:24:46,439
Speaker 1: like we are very much like now, why did you

485
00:24:46,480 --> 00:24:49,879
Speaker 1: stay at the apartment. It's it's like a studio, like

486
00:24:49,920 --> 00:24:52,359
Speaker 1: it's a huge loss, but like I'm not gonna like

487
00:24:52,400 --> 00:24:54,119
Speaker 1: lay on the couch by like him and his profriend.

488
00:24:54,200 --> 00:24:59,399
Speaker 1: I'm goodfriend with him. Yes, we're all here together. I

489
00:24:59,440 --> 00:25:03,480
Speaker 1: worked out with this morning. But I get there and

490
00:25:04,720 --> 00:25:07,200
Speaker 1: still trying to like figure out the whole room situation.

491
00:25:07,200 --> 00:25:09,200
Speaker 1: I just put my bag down, went to his room

492
00:25:09,520 --> 00:25:12,399
Speaker 1: and then had my brother comes over too, and we

493
00:25:12,440 --> 00:25:15,840
Speaker 1: all are sitting around my dad's table like it's so weird.

494
00:25:15,880 --> 00:25:18,159
Speaker 1: They wouldn't give me an up They didn't give me

495
00:25:18,200 --> 00:25:22,040
Speaker 1: my upgrade they promised me because they said another mollen

496
00:25:22,040 --> 00:25:25,879
Speaker 1: Camp took it. And Hud looks at me, He's like, oh,

497
00:25:26,040 --> 00:25:32,360
Speaker 1: is that your sweet? It's like he just came here

498
00:25:32,400 --> 00:25:35,440
Speaker 1: to have fun. But in his suite there's a guitar,

499
00:25:35,960 --> 00:25:38,840
Speaker 1: there's all kinds of ship like it's so did they

500
00:25:38,880 --> 00:25:41,919
Speaker 1: think it was They thought it was your dad? My dad?

501
00:25:42,320 --> 00:25:45,000
Speaker 1: So I am dead. So now all day long all

502
00:25:45,000 --> 00:25:46,800
Speaker 1: we do is text like I'm like, oh, down here,

503
00:25:46,880 --> 00:25:48,359
Speaker 1: can't get the hot water to work. It's like do

504
00:25:48,359 --> 00:25:50,600
Speaker 1: you want to come up to the suite, Like but

505
00:25:51,240 --> 00:25:56,639
Speaker 1: I've been together, and they're like it's festive holiday. So

506
00:25:56,720 --> 00:25:59,640
Speaker 1: I send a text to like the person that's managing

507
00:25:59,760 --> 00:26:01,560
Speaker 1: is the week and I'm like, hey, can someone pick

508
00:26:01,640 --> 00:26:05,120
Speaker 1: up my suit? I don't realize HUDs on the horn

509
00:26:05,240 --> 00:26:06,800
Speaker 1: and he was like, hey, I just saw that your

510
00:26:06,840 --> 00:26:10,159
Speaker 1: suits velvet green. I just got a red velvet. Can

511
00:26:10,240 --> 00:26:15,840
Speaker 1: I walk the red carpet with you? I'm like, so, wait,

512
00:26:15,840 --> 00:26:18,560
Speaker 1: when are you on Watch The Heavens Life tomorrow? We

513
00:26:19,359 --> 00:26:22,560
Speaker 1: thought it was tonight. Okay, so pre take go in.

514
00:26:23,640 --> 00:26:26,240
Speaker 1: It's not live this week. No, it's not live. We

515
00:26:26,400 --> 00:26:29,800
Speaker 1: pre tap. It's at three thirty. Yeah. Yeah, I hear

516
00:26:29,880 --> 00:26:32,400
Speaker 1: Andy pre tapes. So now he has two kids at home.

517
00:26:32,600 --> 00:26:35,560
Speaker 1: He pre tapes a lot of his shows. I actually

518
00:26:35,600 --> 00:26:39,560
Speaker 1: like it rather than at ten o'clock. Um thing, But

519
00:26:39,680 --> 00:26:44,600
Speaker 1: did you I've been getting a lot of messages about

520
00:26:44,640 --> 00:26:50,959
Speaker 1: it because everyone's like, the the amount of responses about

521
00:26:51,040 --> 00:26:54,520
Speaker 1: your watch what happens live blah blah blah blah blah blah.

522
00:26:54,520 --> 00:26:56,199
Speaker 1: I'm like, I don't even care. I just want to

523
00:26:56,200 --> 00:27:01,720
Speaker 1: survive on Twitter, yeah, because yeah, yeah, they're like, you're

524
00:27:01,800 --> 00:27:04,880
Speaker 1: engagingly tirer than the fans. Like, my engagements are high

525
00:27:04,880 --> 00:27:06,800
Speaker 1: because people want to hate on it. That's because you

526
00:27:06,840 --> 00:27:09,440
Speaker 1: pissed people off for some strange reason. I don't get

527
00:27:09,480 --> 00:27:13,879
Speaker 1: it myself, but you tend to piss people off. But

528
00:27:13,960 --> 00:27:15,840
Speaker 1: I guess you know, I'd rather piss people off. And

529
00:27:16,320 --> 00:27:19,479
Speaker 1: I mean, hey, at least they're talking. I don't know

530
00:27:19,520 --> 00:27:21,919
Speaker 1: what they're talking. People can't just let things go. I

531
00:27:21,960 --> 00:27:26,159
Speaker 1: just don't even know why you piss them off. So,

532
00:27:26,200 --> 00:27:28,800
Speaker 1: I mean, guys, we've gotten a little you know. We

533
00:27:28,800 --> 00:27:30,600
Speaker 1: we haven't seen each other for a while, so we

534
00:27:30,640 --> 00:27:33,879
Speaker 1: wanted to catch up. And we think that maybe the

535
00:27:33,920 --> 00:27:38,120
Speaker 1: rest of this episode will do some of the listener questions. Yeah,

536
00:27:38,960 --> 00:27:43,520
Speaker 1: and I have to recap. Yeah, I have some that

537
00:27:43,720 --> 00:27:45,560
Speaker 1: I just printed out. I didn't even put it in

538
00:27:45,560 --> 00:27:58,280
Speaker 1: the lineup, So some really good questions. Have you watched

539
00:27:58,480 --> 00:28:02,879
Speaker 1: Buying Beverly Hills and what are your opinions. I haven't

540
00:28:02,880 --> 00:28:05,480
Speaker 1: watched all of Buying Beverly Hills, but I have watched

541
00:28:05,560 --> 00:28:12,800
Speaker 1: some and I think it's it's good, it's glossy, it's houseborn. Yes, yeah,

542
00:28:12,960 --> 00:28:15,800
Speaker 1: so as a somebody has a real estate license and

543
00:28:15,960 --> 00:28:20,919
Speaker 1: loves interior decorating, I love watching anything house related. So, um,

544
00:28:20,960 --> 00:28:23,520
Speaker 1: any house show that's out there, I watch it and

545
00:28:23,600 --> 00:28:25,880
Speaker 1: I thought it was great. I thought it was amazing.

546
00:28:26,040 --> 00:28:29,680
Speaker 1: I am blown away how Alexeia sounds exactly like her

547
00:28:29,680 --> 00:28:33,440
Speaker 1: mom and when she is glammed up. Um. She looks

548
00:28:33,440 --> 00:28:35,920
Speaker 1: a lot like her mom, and fair is absolutely beautiful.

549
00:28:36,119 --> 00:28:42,000
Speaker 1: But I love how she's just so you can you

550
00:28:42,040 --> 00:28:45,760
Speaker 1: can see the difference in the personality. She's still it stoetics,

551
00:28:47,720 --> 00:28:52,320
Speaker 1: stoetic still, but it's here's the thing. All of those

552
00:28:52,360 --> 00:28:57,400
Speaker 1: girls are so warm and loving and like the second

553
00:28:57,720 --> 00:28:59,600
Speaker 1: I went to the premiere, Oh I can't I got

554
00:28:59,640 --> 00:29:01,360
Speaker 1: it today the story about did I tell you about

555
00:29:01,360 --> 00:29:05,200
Speaker 1: to read at the premiere? Oh? Please tell give it away?

556
00:29:06,960 --> 00:29:09,000
Speaker 1: So we go to the premiere and it's at this

557
00:29:09,120 --> 00:29:12,960
Speaker 1: house and I'm trying to leave with the Readdred always

558
00:29:12,960 --> 00:29:16,240
Speaker 1: says the same driver and you know, I'm trying to

559
00:29:16,240 --> 00:29:18,240
Speaker 1: get her to go and getting to read. I'm like

560
00:29:18,280 --> 00:29:22,040
Speaker 1: an Irish goodbyeer. So like when I'm done, we just

561
00:29:22,080 --> 00:29:23,840
Speaker 1: did that on a wedding. We just did that. And

562
00:29:23,920 --> 00:29:25,840
Speaker 1: he goes, I have never done this before because he

563
00:29:25,920 --> 00:29:28,200
Speaker 1: is such a loving Kring's gotta hug everybody, say goodbye.

564
00:29:28,600 --> 00:29:30,560
Speaker 1: It was so cold. WI into the bathroom, like let's go.

565
00:29:30,960 --> 00:29:34,560
Speaker 1: He's like, I've never done this before. I'd just like

566
00:29:34,680 --> 00:29:37,720
Speaker 1: to go. Like I already talked to everybody. I gave everybody,

567
00:29:37,800 --> 00:29:40,800
Speaker 1: you know, their accolades. I gave love. Now I'm done.

568
00:29:40,840 --> 00:29:43,720
Speaker 1: I don't want to have this this awkward goodbye for me.

569
00:29:43,880 --> 00:29:47,720
Speaker 1: Goodbyes are awkward. Not to Read is happy to put

570
00:29:47,760 --> 00:29:51,239
Speaker 1: in the time, like there was somebody, Yeah, so there

571
00:29:51,280 --> 00:29:53,080
Speaker 1: was someone that saying it at the premiere, so like

572
00:29:53,120 --> 00:29:55,400
Speaker 1: all these things are happening and to Read and I

573
00:29:55,440 --> 00:29:57,920
Speaker 1: are like think that we're investigators, like walking around trying

574
00:29:57,920 --> 00:30:00,480
Speaker 1: to figure out what happened. But and it's time for

575
00:30:00,560 --> 00:30:04,320
Speaker 1: us to go. I'm talking God knows who by the

576
00:30:04,320 --> 00:30:06,240
Speaker 1: front door because I'm just trying to leave, like I'm

577
00:30:06,240 --> 00:30:09,000
Speaker 1: like Doret now and she's like, I'm just gonna go

578
00:30:09,000 --> 00:30:11,560
Speaker 1: to the restroom. And there's a security guard that doesn't

579
00:30:11,560 --> 00:30:15,160
Speaker 1: know who Dread is and he says, no, there's a

580
00:30:15,280 --> 00:30:21,480
Speaker 1: v I P that needs to go. So then comes

581
00:30:21,480 --> 00:30:24,040
Speaker 1: out all wrapped up. We need to find the guy,

582
00:30:24,160 --> 00:30:25,880
Speaker 1: We need to find who the v I P is.

583
00:30:26,280 --> 00:30:29,440
Speaker 1: So then we spent another thirty minutes searching for who

584
00:30:29,600 --> 00:30:32,560
Speaker 1: wouldn't let Durt go to the bathroom. Then we find

585
00:30:32,560 --> 00:30:34,680
Speaker 1: the security guard. We had to get the producers and well,

586
00:30:34,760 --> 00:30:38,440
Speaker 1: I mean this is like I was like, really, this

587
00:30:38,440 --> 00:30:42,520
Speaker 1: this is actually the story, And I'm like did you

588
00:30:42,600 --> 00:30:46,600
Speaker 1: actually pee though? And she's like, no, I didn't know.

589
00:30:46,880 --> 00:30:51,840
Speaker 1: I did not tinkle. But she really, she really does

590
00:30:51,920 --> 00:30:54,400
Speaker 1: have a good heart and always one thousand candies in

591
00:30:54,440 --> 00:30:57,600
Speaker 1: her car, so I was happy. She's very sweet. Yeah,

592
00:30:57,760 --> 00:31:02,080
Speaker 1: so it was definitely. But all the all the girls

593
00:31:02,080 --> 00:31:04,520
Speaker 1: are so amazing and so supportive of each other, and

594
00:31:04,680 --> 00:31:07,600
Speaker 1: that kind of the show is great. It's on Netflix.

595
00:31:07,600 --> 00:31:11,400
Speaker 1: It's a must watch. It's eight episodes. I'm dying for

596
00:31:11,440 --> 00:31:14,400
Speaker 1: a second season. Yeah, I think so too, And I

597
00:31:14,400 --> 00:31:17,520
Speaker 1: think it'll just start to more become more organic as

598
00:31:17,560 --> 00:31:25,440
Speaker 1: they go. Yeah, it's good, Teddy. The next question is

599
00:31:25,920 --> 00:31:28,760
Speaker 1: what do you guys think about Leah not being included

600
00:31:28,840 --> 00:31:31,840
Speaker 1: in the Legacy cast. Don't have a problem with it.

601
00:31:31,920 --> 00:31:34,040
Speaker 1: I don't think that she was on the show long

602
00:31:34,160 --> 00:31:37,480
Speaker 1: enough to be in the Legacy. How many how many

603
00:31:37,480 --> 00:31:39,760
Speaker 1: seasons did she do in New York? A couple? I

604
00:31:39,760 --> 00:31:41,680
Speaker 1: don't I don't mind her not being in the Legacy,

605
00:31:41,800 --> 00:31:43,959
Speaker 1: But I mean, how long has Kelly ben Simona on?

606
00:31:44,280 --> 00:31:46,920
Speaker 1: I didn't watch, but she's from the beginning, so I

607
00:31:46,960 --> 00:31:48,880
Speaker 1: don't know. I feel like people in Legacy should be

608
00:31:48,880 --> 00:31:51,040
Speaker 1: from the beginning that been on for a hot second.

609
00:31:51,880 --> 00:31:54,680
Speaker 1: Um I'm not happy that Ramona is not on it.

610
00:31:54,840 --> 00:31:59,440
Speaker 1: I feel like Ramona is New York. Um. You know,

611
00:31:59,560 --> 00:32:03,120
Speaker 1: she actually text me and told me that life is

612
00:32:03,160 --> 00:32:06,040
Speaker 1: so easy and simple now and she's really loving life

613
00:32:06,040 --> 00:32:08,480
Speaker 1: without the cameras, and I can see that. I felt

614
00:32:08,520 --> 00:32:12,480
Speaker 1: like that for a long time. I'm sorry, I mean, Okay,

615
00:32:12,520 --> 00:32:16,240
Speaker 1: I hear her, she says. Ramona tells page six, I

616
00:32:16,280 --> 00:32:18,680
Speaker 1: do not want the show any longer. She told us

617
00:32:18,720 --> 00:32:21,240
Speaker 1: Friday it's not for me at this time, but sources

618
00:32:21,280 --> 00:32:23,880
Speaker 1: tell us that Bravo didn't offer the longest serving member

619
00:32:23,880 --> 00:32:26,600
Speaker 1: of the cast an opportunity to return the revamp lineup.

620
00:32:27,040 --> 00:32:30,760
Speaker 1: Then on her Rhett On her interview with Carlos King,

621
00:32:30,920 --> 00:32:34,760
Speaker 1: she says, um Ramona agreed to do the show to

622
00:32:34,920 --> 00:32:37,240
Speaker 1: promote her business, but she was worried she'd be boring,

623
00:32:37,320 --> 00:32:40,640
Speaker 1: but the producers told her, Ramona, You're nothing but boring, right.

624
00:32:41,000 --> 00:32:43,320
Speaker 1: She she thinks Real House Lives in New York put

625
00:32:43,360 --> 00:32:46,240
Speaker 1: Bravo in the map because of big time advertising. Exect

626
00:32:46,280 --> 00:32:50,520
Speaker 1: told her, so, okay, enough of that. Just because something

627
00:32:50,600 --> 00:32:54,160
Speaker 1: is politically correct doesn't mean it's right or good for

628
00:32:54,280 --> 00:32:56,760
Speaker 1: viewers or add money. I just I don't want to

629
00:32:56,760 --> 00:33:00,400
Speaker 1: hear the ship from Ramona, I just don't. And then

630
00:33:00,720 --> 00:33:03,560
Speaker 1: Carlos tells Ramona about his interview with Ebony and how

631
00:33:03,600 --> 00:33:07,160
Speaker 1: politics need to be kept off these shows. We can

632
00:33:07,200 --> 00:33:09,520
Speaker 1: watch the view for that, and she says Ebony felt

633
00:33:09,560 --> 00:33:11,720
Speaker 1: she was a cast to discuss current as she was

634
00:33:11,760 --> 00:33:14,640
Speaker 1: regarding race. Ramona says she wasn't cast for that, and

635
00:33:14,800 --> 00:33:17,640
Speaker 1: Ebony test tape to Bluelanne first and was a totally

636
00:33:17,640 --> 00:33:20,240
Speaker 1: different person to what we saw. She said. At the time,

637
00:33:20,280 --> 00:33:23,160
Speaker 1: Ebony was engaged for a Jewish man was about to

638
00:33:23,160 --> 00:33:25,840
Speaker 1: become Jewish, but the relationship ended, so maybe the only

639
00:33:25,880 --> 00:33:27,560
Speaker 1: thing she had to fall back on was the talk

640
00:33:27,600 --> 00:33:31,640
Speaker 1: about her struggle for race. I don't watch you and

641
00:33:31,720 --> 00:33:34,360
Speaker 1: I want Yeah, I don't watch Housewives shows to talk about,

642
00:33:34,920 --> 00:33:39,880
Speaker 1: you know, politics or things like that, are religion, race

643
00:33:39,960 --> 00:33:43,880
Speaker 1: and all that. It's just it's hard to um put

644
00:33:43,920 --> 00:33:47,120
Speaker 1: those into a show that's all about arguing and yelling

645
00:33:47,240 --> 00:33:49,480
Speaker 1: and screaming and all those things. I just I don't

646
00:33:49,520 --> 00:33:52,760
Speaker 1: want to see it. But I don't also find taking

647
00:33:52,760 --> 00:33:56,280
Speaker 1: a little break from Ramona. I'm I'm, I'm. We had

648
00:33:56,320 --> 00:33:58,800
Speaker 1: a little bit a little bit, yeah, but Legacy, I

649
00:33:58,840 --> 00:34:02,640
Speaker 1: think it's for the The O G S Legacies for

650
00:34:02,680 --> 00:34:06,480
Speaker 1: the O G S, I think, which which leads me

651
00:34:06,600 --> 00:34:09,040
Speaker 1: to one of my questions. If you both end up

652
00:34:09,040 --> 00:34:12,200
Speaker 1: back on your original shows, would you continue the podcast?

653
00:34:13,360 --> 00:34:18,440
Speaker 1: I would say, I think that hearing camera's point of

654
00:34:18,480 --> 00:34:21,799
Speaker 1: view on Beverly Hills without me on the pod and

655
00:34:21,840 --> 00:34:24,799
Speaker 1: me giving you know one, we'll both have guests, which

656
00:34:24,800 --> 00:34:27,200
Speaker 1: I think changes it up, but I think it gives

657
00:34:27,200 --> 00:34:30,319
Speaker 1: a different inside view that you would not be able

658
00:34:30,360 --> 00:34:33,680
Speaker 1: to get anywhere else. Yeah. Um, which leads to me

659
00:34:33,960 --> 00:34:37,520
Speaker 1: my other question was why can't Tamera recap O see

660
00:34:37,560 --> 00:34:43,759
Speaker 1: there's so many other housewives out there that recap their shows. Um.

661
00:34:43,880 --> 00:34:47,000
Speaker 1: I would say. Our response to this is we are

662
00:34:47,080 --> 00:34:50,480
Speaker 1: the only Housewives podcast that is aligned with Bravo. We

663
00:34:50,480 --> 00:34:53,399
Speaker 1: were the only ones at Bravo Con. We were able

664
00:34:53,440 --> 00:34:55,799
Speaker 1: to put out so much incredible content that you guys

665
00:34:55,800 --> 00:34:58,520
Speaker 1: were listening to listening to. So we need to abide

666
00:34:58,560 --> 00:35:01,319
Speaker 1: by some rules. We know we can. We know we

667
00:35:01,400 --> 00:35:05,160
Speaker 1: are great together, but we can also crush it alone

668
00:35:05,719 --> 00:35:08,560
Speaker 1: with other guests coming in, So like, why don't we

669
00:35:08,560 --> 00:35:11,040
Speaker 1: just play by the world. I do know one of

670
00:35:11,080 --> 00:35:15,480
Speaker 1: my cast members did complain about our podcast from Provo

671
00:35:15,600 --> 00:35:19,960
Speaker 1: Con and I'm just gonna leave it out that yeah, jealousy.

672
00:35:20,040 --> 00:35:27,359
Speaker 1: I had a feeling that what's going to happen? I mean, yeah, yeah,

673
00:35:27,440 --> 00:35:29,279
Speaker 1: But you know what, I'm happy to say. I don't

674
00:35:29,360 --> 00:35:33,359
Speaker 1: want to recap Orange County. I don't want to. It's

675
00:35:33,400 --> 00:35:36,399
Speaker 1: hard to not live. I lived it and I'm gonna

676
00:35:36,480 --> 00:35:40,319
Speaker 1: see it and I just don't want to. And and

677
00:35:40,440 --> 00:35:42,960
Speaker 1: that's just something like, even if I'm asked to, I

678
00:35:43,000 --> 00:35:46,320
Speaker 1: don't want to because then I be here. Do you

679
00:35:46,360 --> 00:35:48,800
Speaker 1: think there's anything that you are going to have done

680
00:35:48,960 --> 00:35:53,319
Speaker 1: during oh see that I'm going to fully disagree with

681
00:35:53,360 --> 00:35:55,000
Speaker 1: what you did, and then you're gonna be mad at me.

682
00:35:55,280 --> 00:35:57,200
Speaker 1: I won't be mad at you, because I'm already mad

683
00:35:57,239 --> 00:36:03,439
Speaker 1: at myself. There's definitely things, you know, alcohol driven conversations

684
00:36:03,480 --> 00:36:06,920
Speaker 1: that happened that you know me, I get explosive and

685
00:36:07,239 --> 00:36:09,239
Speaker 1: I look back and I'm like, oh god, that it's

686
00:36:09,280 --> 00:36:11,640
Speaker 1: not my best look. But that's me. And I give

687
00:36:11,680 --> 00:36:13,640
Speaker 1: you my all and I don't hold back in anything,

688
00:36:13,680 --> 00:36:17,040
Speaker 1: and I'm I judge me. I don't care. I don't care.

689
00:36:17,560 --> 00:36:19,080
Speaker 1: You know what is a friend for if you can't say?

690
00:36:19,080 --> 00:36:20,560
Speaker 1: You know what? Time when you're acting like an asshole,

691
00:36:20,680 --> 00:36:22,960
Speaker 1: or you were out of line or whatever I've expected.

692
00:36:23,120 --> 00:36:25,040
Speaker 1: The hard part for me is I won't be able

693
00:36:25,080 --> 00:36:27,000
Speaker 1: to say it to your face. I'll have to be

694
00:36:27,080 --> 00:36:31,400
Speaker 1: saying it. Essentially, it's a confessional podcast is a confessional

695
00:36:31,400 --> 00:36:34,800
Speaker 1: on crack because it's like, you know, a full hour

696
00:36:34,960 --> 00:36:40,120
Speaker 1: dedicated to recapping what you saw. And but I feel

697
00:36:40,160 --> 00:36:43,600
Speaker 1: like as we go on, we're both able to like, yeah,

698
00:36:43,719 --> 00:36:45,200
Speaker 1: you know, we I don't really, I don't. I don't

699
00:36:45,200 --> 00:36:47,759
Speaker 1: have a lot of feelings, so I don't. I don't

700
00:36:47,800 --> 00:36:50,839
Speaker 1: get my feelings hurt so bad. But I would say

701
00:36:50,880 --> 00:36:53,359
Speaker 1: that more people to this day come up to me

702
00:36:53,400 --> 00:36:58,799
Speaker 1: and talk about our podcast, then they talk about real house.

703
00:37:00,040 --> 00:37:02,359
Speaker 1: I know, it's crazy. I can go anywhere the grocery store,

704
00:37:02,520 --> 00:37:05,160
Speaker 1: Turcker Treaters came up and mothers were talking about twats

705
00:37:05,200 --> 00:37:08,640
Speaker 1: and all that. It was just insane. And by the way,

706
00:37:08,920 --> 00:37:14,040
Speaker 1: cheers to two point five million downloads last months months

707
00:37:14,040 --> 00:37:18,839
Speaker 1: of October, two point five million downlards like I think, oh,

708
00:37:19,160 --> 00:37:21,840
Speaker 1: by the way, our producers just sent it's a message

709
00:37:21,840 --> 00:37:25,200
Speaker 1: that said, actually it's over two point five millions. Because

710
00:37:25,200 --> 00:37:28,359
Speaker 1: I go mone of us talked about it, because that's

711
00:37:28,360 --> 00:37:29,759
Speaker 1: just how we are. We got a hard on, so

712
00:37:29,800 --> 00:37:33,000
Speaker 1: we got to admit it, and then we got so

713
00:37:33,040 --> 00:37:35,839
Speaker 1: many more downloads. And this is a moment for us

714
00:37:35,960 --> 00:37:40,000
Speaker 1: to thank our team at my heart because Tam and

715
00:37:40,040 --> 00:37:42,960
Speaker 1: I are huge ship talkers and do all that we

716
00:37:43,040 --> 00:37:44,719
Speaker 1: can disture it and all the way, but they do

717
00:37:44,840 --> 00:37:47,200
Speaker 1: so much for us. It is really a group like

718
00:37:47,239 --> 00:37:49,360
Speaker 1: they give us an outline. Of course we get to

719
00:37:49,440 --> 00:37:51,279
Speaker 1: say what we want to say and get to take

720
00:37:51,280 --> 00:37:52,879
Speaker 1: out what we want to take out. And of course

721
00:37:52,920 --> 00:37:56,920
Speaker 1: we have attorneys at Takeout Stuck as well, but they

722
00:37:56,960 --> 00:37:58,960
Speaker 1: are an amazing team to work with and we are

723
00:37:59,040 --> 00:38:03,520
Speaker 1: very blessed and thankful off We are beyond um this

724
00:38:03,560 --> 00:38:06,640
Speaker 1: one I keep getting. I sent it over on the thing. Teddy,

725
00:38:06,680 --> 00:38:09,800
Speaker 1: would you consider returning to Real Housewives of Beverly Hills

726
00:38:09,880 --> 00:38:13,200
Speaker 1: with a huge offer? Okay, listen that for one, it

727
00:38:13,239 --> 00:38:16,120
Speaker 1: doesn't exist. You get a huge offer after you've been fired.

728
00:38:16,200 --> 00:38:19,160
Speaker 1: You're gonna get whatever offered is that you left on.

729
00:38:19,320 --> 00:38:22,520
Speaker 1: You're gonna get that next season offer. For me, it's

730
00:38:22,560 --> 00:38:26,160
Speaker 1: not about that um as you know, like a year ago,

731
00:38:26,160 --> 00:38:28,280
Speaker 1: I would have said a percent, know all, I wanted

732
00:38:28,320 --> 00:38:33,160
Speaker 1: girls trips and my dad as like my dad likes

733
00:38:33,160 --> 00:38:36,440
Speaker 1: to say this, close your legs, Teddy, close your legs.

734
00:38:36,480 --> 00:38:39,800
Speaker 1: Don't tell anybody like He's like, no, you need to

735
00:38:39,840 --> 00:38:42,320
Speaker 1: play hard to get and all the things, and I'm like, listen,

736
00:38:42,840 --> 00:38:45,560
Speaker 1: here's what I saw when it came to Beverly Hills.

737
00:38:45,560 --> 00:38:48,879
Speaker 1: At the reunion. We saw so much of a storyline

738
00:38:49,080 --> 00:38:52,960
Speaker 1: that happened off camera, that happened between these relationships. And

739
00:38:53,000 --> 00:38:55,640
Speaker 1: I saw a lot of people pandering to Twitter and

740
00:38:55,680 --> 00:38:58,240
Speaker 1: what they think fans think. If I was to return,

741
00:38:58,280 --> 00:39:00,239
Speaker 1: it wouldn't be about the huge offer. It would be

742
00:39:00,280 --> 00:39:04,239
Speaker 1: a season four housewife offered the same way that everybody

743
00:39:04,440 --> 00:39:08,440
Speaker 1: come back. Of course you would take it, but of course,

744
00:39:08,480 --> 00:39:12,840
Speaker 1: but mainly because there are things like which I couldn't

745
00:39:12,880 --> 00:39:16,000
Speaker 1: really say before Now I would change. But you're a

746
00:39:16,040 --> 00:39:19,000
Speaker 1: different person now, And I think that people can actually

747
00:39:19,040 --> 00:39:22,080
Speaker 1: see that on the podcast and they listen like, you're

748
00:39:22,080 --> 00:39:25,200
Speaker 1: more open about life. But I mean, I think that's

749
00:39:25,360 --> 00:39:28,520
Speaker 1: part of the conversation we had earlier. When I started

750
00:39:28,520 --> 00:39:30,680
Speaker 1: the show, I was a shell of a human being

751
00:39:30,680 --> 00:39:32,080
Speaker 1: because of what was going on with me and that

752
00:39:32,200 --> 00:39:35,600
Speaker 1: one and I was and then I went into a

753
00:39:35,600 --> 00:39:39,160
Speaker 1: group of women who you guys know, they are very

754
00:39:39,280 --> 00:39:41,839
Speaker 1: like if you show a sign of weakness, They're going

755
00:39:41,840 --> 00:39:45,600
Speaker 1: to attack you. It's pathetic and I wish I would

756
00:39:45,640 --> 00:39:48,640
Speaker 1: have shown my weaknesses instead of trying to measure up

757
00:39:48,640 --> 00:39:52,719
Speaker 1: to their strength. Yeah, what I mean, I think it's

758
00:39:52,800 --> 00:39:56,040
Speaker 1: very different. So I don't know. I have I there's

759
00:39:56,080 --> 00:39:58,239
Speaker 1: been no offer that's since slipped under my door in

760
00:39:58,320 --> 00:40:02,160
Speaker 1: my closet since I've been Yeah, who knows. You never know.

761
00:40:02,680 --> 00:40:06,319
Speaker 1: Now this question comes from England. Did you realize that

762
00:40:06,400 --> 00:40:11,239
Speaker 1: twats means idiot in England? I'm like tracks. I'm like, well,

763
00:40:11,280 --> 00:40:15,120
Speaker 1: twats means a lot worse in the States, but we

764
00:40:15,200 --> 00:40:19,600
Speaker 1: spell it different. Okay, okay, well it tracks. Yeah, And

765
00:40:19,600 --> 00:40:21,360
Speaker 1: people want to know if I saw. I'm still selling

766
00:40:21,360 --> 00:40:23,160
Speaker 1: real estate. I still have my real estate license. I

767
00:40:23,200 --> 00:40:26,239
Speaker 1: renew it every four years. I will never let that go. Yes,

768
00:40:26,320 --> 00:40:28,239
Speaker 1: I sell a few houses here and there, but don't

769
00:40:28,239 --> 00:40:30,040
Speaker 1: really have the time for it. But you know what,

770
00:40:30,239 --> 00:40:35,600
Speaker 1: it's always a good fallback. Um. The next one is

771
00:40:36,880 --> 00:40:43,600
Speaker 1: which housewives are most supportive of our friendship and the podcast? Um.

772
00:40:43,760 --> 00:40:46,840
Speaker 1: For me, I would say I could probably get like

773
00:40:47,160 --> 00:40:51,120
Speaker 1: eight percent of the housewives on all the franchise franchises

774
00:40:51,239 --> 00:40:53,440
Speaker 1: on the phone right now, like I did before this

775
00:40:53,480 --> 00:40:57,760
Speaker 1: podcast and talk about something that was just late. Um,

776
00:40:57,920 --> 00:41:01,200
Speaker 1: I think most people are supported, unless you're someone that

777
00:41:01,280 --> 00:41:04,480
Speaker 1: like takes yourself too seriously, because they're gonna be time

778
00:41:04,520 --> 00:41:07,160
Speaker 1: where Tamra is gonna be pros somebody and I'm gonna

779
00:41:07,160 --> 00:41:10,600
Speaker 1: be pro somebody. That's just what it is. But um,

780
00:41:10,719 --> 00:41:14,640
Speaker 1: unless I mean even we came around with reasonably shady

781
00:41:14,640 --> 00:41:16,480
Speaker 1: because we all support each other, we want each other

782
00:41:16,520 --> 00:41:19,359
Speaker 1: to do well. Of course, of course, I feel like

783
00:41:19,480 --> 00:41:23,160
Speaker 1: I'm I can pretty much contact any housewife. Yeah, and

784
00:41:23,239 --> 00:41:25,360
Speaker 1: they'll talk to me. I mean unless they hate me.

785
00:41:26,239 --> 00:41:29,360
Speaker 1: I don't know. Okay, I have a question for you, Teddy.

786
00:41:29,760 --> 00:41:32,400
Speaker 1: It says, why does Teddy always say she had no

787
00:41:32,520 --> 00:41:38,560
Speaker 1: money when her daddy obviously is so very wealthy. Um,

788
00:41:38,719 --> 00:41:41,360
Speaker 1: and I think you're just a trust fund baby that

789
00:41:41,560 --> 00:41:45,080
Speaker 1: just lives on your dad's coattails. So when my parents

790
00:41:45,160 --> 00:41:47,000
Speaker 1: got a divorce, I was in the third grade. My

791
00:41:47,040 --> 00:41:50,480
Speaker 1: mom got a significant amount of money, but she was

792
00:41:50,520 --> 00:41:52,920
Speaker 1: a young girl. She married my dad when she was eighteen,

793
00:41:53,480 --> 00:41:57,000
Speaker 1: so we moved to a completely different state, new place. Whatever.

794
00:41:57,440 --> 00:42:00,239
Speaker 1: She got a like a lump sum and then would

795
00:42:00,239 --> 00:42:03,200
Speaker 1: get child support. Um, she didn't know how to manage

796
00:42:03,200 --> 00:42:05,640
Speaker 1: her money, and she By the time I was in

797
00:42:05,719 --> 00:42:10,399
Speaker 1: high school, we didn't have any money. And then my

798
00:42:10,520 --> 00:42:12,360
Speaker 1: woo with my dad was that if I wanted to

799
00:42:12,400 --> 00:42:17,520
Speaker 1: move to California UM and not go to college, I

800
00:42:17,520 --> 00:42:19,960
Speaker 1: had to support myself. So I don't have I mean,

801
00:42:20,040 --> 00:42:23,720
Speaker 1: I have no trust fund. There was no trust fund. Crazy.

802
00:42:23,920 --> 00:42:26,239
Speaker 1: That's crazy because you think, like, of course you feel

803
00:42:26,360 --> 00:42:29,680
Speaker 1: I mean people, viewers, whatever, listeners think oh, he's got

804
00:42:29,719 --> 00:42:32,880
Speaker 1: more money than God. He's John Mellencamp. In fact, Eddie

805
00:42:33,960 --> 00:42:38,440
Speaker 1: had a truck on his whatever Spotify John Mellencamp and

806
00:42:38,480 --> 00:42:42,600
Speaker 1: he's like, oh, oh my god, I didn't know that

807
00:42:42,760 --> 00:42:46,040
Speaker 1: was Teddy's dad. That's Teddy. I go, yeah, he goes

808
00:42:46,280 --> 00:42:48,480
Speaker 1: I grew up with these songs. I'm like, yeah, theybe

809
00:42:48,840 --> 00:42:52,200
Speaker 1: I know, I know. So people just think that you have,

810
00:42:52,560 --> 00:42:55,279
Speaker 1: you know, unlimited money because your dad's rich. And that's

811
00:42:55,280 --> 00:42:57,279
Speaker 1: like saying like, we have money. Does that mean like

812
00:42:57,840 --> 00:43:02,759
Speaker 1: Ryan my son, Ryan's rich? Oh yeah no, And I

813
00:43:02,800 --> 00:43:05,680
Speaker 1: don't say it because listen any chance that I can,

814
00:43:05,719 --> 00:43:08,040
Speaker 1: I mean, hello, I'm here doing watch What Happens Live

815
00:43:08,160 --> 00:43:10,799
Speaker 1: with my dad because we are capitalizing on the joke

816
00:43:11,120 --> 00:43:13,720
Speaker 1: of me living in his shadow. And all of those things,

817
00:43:14,000 --> 00:43:17,120
Speaker 1: but financially I never had his back. Actually, when I

818
00:43:17,160 --> 00:43:19,759
Speaker 1: was fifteen years old, we got into an argument and

819
00:43:19,760 --> 00:43:25,840
Speaker 1: we didn't talk for three years over money. And we always,

820
00:43:25,920 --> 00:43:27,880
Speaker 1: because we you know, want to pretend that we have

821
00:43:27,920 --> 00:43:30,080
Speaker 1: no feelings, we will say things like the best three

822
00:43:30,160 --> 00:43:33,760
Speaker 1: years of my life, you know, like we make those jokes.

823
00:43:33,760 --> 00:43:36,440
Speaker 1: So he like tough love, like like a tough love

824
00:43:36,600 --> 00:43:39,400
Speaker 1: type of guy, Like if you got to somewhere and

825
00:43:39,480 --> 00:43:42,680
Speaker 1: do this for school, I'm not paying for it. Yeah,

826
00:43:42,719 --> 00:43:46,160
Speaker 1: he's very um with with the girls, with my sisters,

827
00:43:46,200 --> 00:43:50,680
Speaker 1: and I um, but here, here's where he will and

828
00:43:50,719 --> 00:43:53,439
Speaker 1: I will. I will always say here's where he will

829
00:43:54,320 --> 00:43:56,879
Speaker 1: give us money. If he wants us to come home

830
00:43:56,920 --> 00:44:01,480
Speaker 1: for Thanksgiving, he will fly us all everybody but Black

831
00:44:03,520 --> 00:44:07,640
Speaker 1: stop it, everyone but Edwin, well the significant others. He

832
00:44:07,680 --> 00:44:10,279
Speaker 1: doesn't fly the significant others, but he'll fly. Oh is

833
00:44:10,360 --> 00:44:13,400
Speaker 1: that extra tickets gonna kill him? Yeah? So that like

834
00:44:13,480 --> 00:44:15,960
Speaker 1: if he says come home for Thanksgiving and I'm like no,

835
00:44:16,000 --> 00:44:17,440
Speaker 1: we already have plans in l A. And He's like,

836
00:44:17,560 --> 00:44:20,680
Speaker 1: I'll get your plane tickets, Like that's his thing for

837
00:44:20,840 --> 00:44:24,960
Speaker 1: you and the kids, but not not for Edwin. That

838
00:44:25,480 --> 00:44:28,960
Speaker 1: is classic, But same with my sister. It's just like

839
00:44:29,000 --> 00:44:31,280
Speaker 1: how it does. It's like the husband's Does your sister

840
00:44:31,440 --> 00:44:34,560
Speaker 1: live close to him? No, she lives in South Carolina.

841
00:44:34,600 --> 00:44:38,400
Speaker 1: She lives where I grew up, and he lives in Indiana, Indiana,

842
00:44:38,560 --> 00:44:40,399
Speaker 1: but he has a house me or where she is

843
00:44:40,440 --> 00:44:42,279
Speaker 1: now too. But like my sister and I are very

844
00:44:42,400 --> 00:44:44,920
Speaker 1: very similar. Everybody thinks that we grew up with the

845
00:44:45,000 --> 00:44:46,840
Speaker 1: silver spoon in our mouth, but we grew up with

846
00:44:46,880 --> 00:44:53,160
Speaker 1: my mom who you know. So, but your dad's new girlfriend,

847
00:44:53,560 --> 00:44:56,440
Speaker 1: is it new? Yes, because the last time was for

848
00:44:56,480 --> 00:45:00,600
Speaker 1: a while. He's dating Meg Ryan, right, Well yeah, um,

849
00:45:00,719 --> 00:45:03,279
Speaker 1: I mean she's not. I mean she's new ish. Do

850
00:45:03,360 --> 00:45:06,000
Speaker 1: I know who she is? I mean she used to

851
00:45:06,040 --> 00:45:10,520
Speaker 1: be my best friend? Stop it? She used to be

852
00:45:10,560 --> 00:45:14,680
Speaker 1: your best friend. Uh huh, she used to be one

853
00:45:14,680 --> 00:45:17,400
Speaker 1: of your best friends. M hm, So she's your right.

854
00:45:18,840 --> 00:45:23,839
Speaker 1: She's a couple of years older, buddy, I I still like,

855
00:45:24,600 --> 00:45:27,000
Speaker 1: I mean, you could probably do the real He's very private,

856
00:45:27,000 --> 00:45:28,359
Speaker 1: so I'm not even gonna say her name, but I'm

857
00:45:28,360 --> 00:45:30,200
Speaker 1: sure if you go through my Instagram you can figure

858
00:45:30,200 --> 00:45:34,520
Speaker 1: it out. And it's not. Is it weird? Is it weird? No?

859
00:45:34,880 --> 00:45:37,680
Speaker 1: Except when they're like talking, like my dad is very

860
00:45:37,719 --> 00:45:40,359
Speaker 1: like straightforward, and so is she. She's Puerto Rican, so

861
00:45:41,239 --> 00:45:43,440
Speaker 1: she's just so they both Okay, I'm gonna look for

862
00:45:43,440 --> 00:45:49,320
Speaker 1: the Puerto Rican girl on your Instagram. So I actually

863
00:45:49,320 --> 00:45:52,080
Speaker 1: met her through Edwin. So when I first met Edwin,

864
00:45:52,480 --> 00:45:54,319
Speaker 1: she was one of the first girl, like she was

865
00:45:54,360 --> 00:45:58,319
Speaker 1: like his road dog. And how long they six months

866
00:45:58,400 --> 00:46:02,520
Speaker 1: or something? But they met ten years ago through me

867
00:46:02,640 --> 00:46:05,239
Speaker 1: at a concert. She came as mine and adwas when

868
00:46:05,280 --> 00:46:09,919
Speaker 1: she was a teenager. She's four five years old or something.

869
00:46:10,160 --> 00:46:15,480
Speaker 1: How seven, he's the same age as my mom. Oh

870
00:46:15,480 --> 00:46:19,120
Speaker 1: my god. Um. Normally I would never even talk about

871
00:46:19,120 --> 00:46:20,560
Speaker 1: it at all, but like he's been figuring with her

872
00:46:20,600 --> 00:46:22,080
Speaker 1: a couple of times now, so I'm like, all right,

873
00:46:22,120 --> 00:46:24,279
Speaker 1: I must be in the I'm sure we watched her

874
00:46:24,320 --> 00:46:30,120
Speaker 1: happens five have the flash tour in the sobody somebody

875
00:46:30,200 --> 00:46:33,960
Speaker 1: somebody asked me, how does Tarma deal with hot flashes? Well,

876
00:46:34,000 --> 00:46:35,600
Speaker 1: for the record, I've never had a hot flash in

877
00:46:35,600 --> 00:46:40,680
Speaker 1: my life, so there's that I don't know. Um. I

878
00:46:40,719 --> 00:46:42,719
Speaker 1: got this multiple times and debated if I was even

879
00:46:42,760 --> 00:46:44,200
Speaker 1: gonna bring it up because I don't remember to bring

880
00:46:44,200 --> 00:46:47,720
Speaker 1: this girl's name up. But there was multiple questions asking

881
00:46:47,880 --> 00:46:51,160
Speaker 1: thoughts on Heathery're hanging out with Gretchen? Um, don't care,

882
00:46:51,840 --> 00:46:55,640
Speaker 1: no opinion, do not care, haven't seen the girl in

883
00:46:55,800 --> 00:46:59,680
Speaker 1: over ten years, have no relationship, friendship whatsoever with her?

884
00:47:00,160 --> 00:47:01,759
Speaker 1: And how there's a grown as woman if that's who

885
00:47:01,760 --> 00:47:03,480
Speaker 1: she wants to hang out with, and so be it?

886
00:47:04,560 --> 00:47:06,839
Speaker 1: Did you notice? Okay, I don't know if you follow

887
00:47:06,920 --> 00:47:11,440
Speaker 1: Heather right now? I do not? Okay, Well I do? Um.

888
00:47:11,480 --> 00:47:14,600
Speaker 1: So I was looking through her carousel of photos from

889
00:47:14,640 --> 00:47:18,600
Speaker 1: this baby shower? Which is the girl? Correct? Oh, Heather?

890
00:47:18,640 --> 00:47:22,759
Speaker 1: It was Heather baby shower. Yeah, Heather. I don't know

891
00:47:22,800 --> 00:47:24,640
Speaker 1: her name, but I don't watch that show. But I

892
00:47:24,719 --> 00:47:28,040
Speaker 1: was telling Sunset, it's a great show, uh with that

893
00:47:28,080 --> 00:47:30,960
Speaker 1: guy with me? To us anyways? Not true? Well, her

894
00:47:31,000 --> 00:47:34,680
Speaker 1: boss was a douche to us. Just how they're actually

895
00:47:34,719 --> 00:47:37,320
Speaker 1: work for him? Yeah? Or does she work in the

896
00:47:37,320 --> 00:47:40,719
Speaker 1: one in I see? Um, he owns both of them,

897
00:47:40,760 --> 00:47:44,480
Speaker 1: so it doesn't really matter any who. When I was

898
00:47:44,520 --> 00:47:50,200
Speaker 1: going through Heather's post of the baby shower, I remember

899
00:47:50,200 --> 00:47:52,680
Speaker 1: having a conversation with Heather where she says she does

900
00:47:52,719 --> 00:48:00,760
Speaker 1: not use filters and and and every photo I believe

901
00:48:01,000 --> 00:48:04,360
Speaker 1: except the first one and the one of her angregion.

902
00:48:04,560 --> 00:48:10,320
Speaker 1: There is no filters took the picture and I'm curious,

903
00:48:10,719 --> 00:48:14,120
Speaker 1: digretgien Curate because we all learned group photos and all

904
00:48:14,120 --> 00:48:16,000
Speaker 1: of a sudden you're like, oh, he looks like how

905
00:48:16,080 --> 00:48:18,920
Speaker 1: why did that one make that? I'm wondering, did Gretchen

906
00:48:19,000 --> 00:48:21,840
Speaker 1: take the photo? Filter them? Bow know how that's like

907
00:48:21,960 --> 00:48:26,920
Speaker 1: a completely different and how there doesn't use filters. She doesn't,

908
00:48:27,480 --> 00:48:29,479
Speaker 1: she really doesn't. Like. When we were on the plane,

909
00:48:29,560 --> 00:48:31,800
Speaker 1: I was like, let me put on subtle filter. She said,

910
00:48:32,120 --> 00:48:35,319
Speaker 1: Now I'd rather people be surprised in a good way

911
00:48:35,320 --> 00:48:36,680
Speaker 1: when they see me. And I was like, you know what,

912
00:48:36,680 --> 00:48:39,920
Speaker 1: I like that? Yeah, You're like anyways, to move on,

913
00:48:40,000 --> 00:48:44,600
Speaker 1: pitch Um. People have been asked me about what I

914
00:48:44,600 --> 00:48:46,600
Speaker 1: posted the other day about when I've frown on my skin.

915
00:48:46,760 --> 00:48:50,920
Speaker 1: I do this on off season normally about every three months.

916
00:48:51,040 --> 00:48:54,319
Speaker 1: It's skin suticles. It is retinal. I used the point

917
00:48:54,400 --> 00:48:57,920
Speaker 1: five because it's very strong. Well, I put it on

918
00:48:57,960 --> 00:48:59,600
Speaker 1: for three days in a row because I knew that

919
00:48:59,640 --> 00:49:03,040
Speaker 1: I had thing going on and I'm going on a

920
00:49:03,080 --> 00:49:05,880
Speaker 1: trip this week and I'd be out camping, not wearing

921
00:49:05,960 --> 00:49:08,840
Speaker 1: the makeup. Well, I got a call. I have to

922
00:49:08,840 --> 00:49:12,680
Speaker 1: do an interview today for my confessional. My skin is

923
00:49:12,960 --> 00:49:16,520
Speaker 1: flaking so bad. I can feel like this and the

924
00:49:16,600 --> 00:49:20,439
Speaker 1: skin will come off of me. Um, it's dry under

925
00:49:20,480 --> 00:49:22,759
Speaker 1: my eyes, so I have all this dry wrinkled. I'm like,

926
00:49:22,880 --> 00:49:25,520
Speaker 1: you guys, really, They're like, oh, it's gonna be fine,

927
00:49:25,560 --> 00:49:28,759
Speaker 1: we can fix it and post. I'm like, okay, oh yeah,

928
00:49:28,800 --> 00:49:30,799
Speaker 1: I'm sure they'll take the time to make sure. I'm

929
00:49:30,800 --> 00:49:33,280
Speaker 1: sure they will. So when you see that interview when

930
00:49:33,280 --> 00:49:36,479
Speaker 1: my skins falling off my face and creepy under my eyes,

931
00:49:36,520 --> 00:49:38,680
Speaker 1: it's because I was using that. But it's a great product,

932
00:49:39,120 --> 00:49:51,040
Speaker 1: telling you it takes away everything on your skin. This

933
00:49:51,160 --> 00:49:53,960
Speaker 1: wasn't another good one. Would you guys discuss housewives for fun?

934
00:49:54,040 --> 00:49:56,759
Speaker 1: If not on the pot? The one time that we

935
00:49:56,840 --> 00:49:59,200
Speaker 1: hung out before doing the pot, other than when we

936
00:49:59,200 --> 00:50:03,520
Speaker 1: were at church, tam we went on like a It

937
00:50:03,640 --> 00:50:08,440
Speaker 1: was me Edwin, Edwin and Eddie and Tamma and I

938
00:50:08,520 --> 00:50:13,120
Speaker 1: were on such a big discussion about housewives. Yeah. Well,

939
00:50:13,160 --> 00:50:15,360
Speaker 1: our husbands were like, we're leaving now, but you're like,

940
00:50:15,560 --> 00:50:19,040
Speaker 1: come on. They did, but they were like, guys, we're done.

941
00:50:19,080 --> 00:50:20,840
Speaker 1: Like they had to tear us apart because they're like

942
00:50:21,239 --> 00:50:25,239
Speaker 1: conversation stop. Hence why the podcast was made, which I

943
00:50:25,280 --> 00:50:29,120
Speaker 1: read something about like because we were in the top whatever.

944
00:50:30,480 --> 00:50:32,960
Speaker 1: There was some article about what makes the best podcast

945
00:50:32,960 --> 00:50:35,160
Speaker 1: and it was something wrong, you have to be able

946
00:50:35,200 --> 00:50:38,719
Speaker 1: to have something that somebody else can't say that you

947
00:50:38,760 --> 00:50:41,920
Speaker 1: guys can say. And I was like, we truly, whether

948
00:50:41,960 --> 00:50:44,200
Speaker 1: we were on this podcast or not, we couldn't help ourselves.

949
00:50:44,239 --> 00:50:49,920
Speaker 1: We would dissect every single thing. Um. One last question

950
00:50:49,920 --> 00:50:52,120
Speaker 1: of mine is when are you guys gonna go live

951
00:50:52,680 --> 00:50:57,399
Speaker 1: live shows? I know we have talked about that. I mean,

952
00:50:57,440 --> 00:50:59,200
Speaker 1: you didn't have to deal with it as much, but

953
00:50:59,320 --> 00:51:03,600
Speaker 1: I can tell you Bravo con and there and us

954
00:51:03,680 --> 00:51:08,279
Speaker 1: having to play those out was the next level of exhausting.

955
00:51:09,600 --> 00:51:12,480
Speaker 1: But I'm talking about on a stage like at the Improv,

956
00:51:12,640 --> 00:51:16,680
Speaker 1: seeing on stage and doing a whole show. Okay, Well,

957
00:51:16,800 --> 00:51:19,120
Speaker 1: if you could have your dream, where would it be? First?

958
00:51:19,960 --> 00:51:23,279
Speaker 1: I see, No, I honestly think I'd rather go out

959
00:51:23,280 --> 00:51:26,319
Speaker 1: of state. I'd rather go like, oh see, like I'm

960
00:51:26,440 --> 00:51:32,960
Speaker 1: I'm a nobody here and I have you know, post traumatics, distress,

961
00:51:33,040 --> 00:51:36,399
Speaker 1: synder whatever it's called from the Improv and Irvine because

962
00:51:36,400 --> 00:51:39,200
Speaker 1: that's where I got sued. So, um, that's not a

963
00:51:39,239 --> 00:51:42,040
Speaker 1: place I ever want to go unless some money's right.

964
00:51:42,360 --> 00:51:44,520
Speaker 1: But I mean, I would love to go out of

965
00:51:44,680 --> 00:51:48,040
Speaker 1: state to states that I haven't visited and people that

966
00:51:48,080 --> 00:51:50,560
Speaker 1: I haven't seen, and I just think it would be

967
00:51:50,600 --> 00:51:53,040
Speaker 1: fun to do that. I think, which leads me to

968
00:51:53,120 --> 00:51:55,720
Speaker 1: my final question is when we ever do a show

969
00:51:56,040 --> 00:51:58,760
Speaker 1: like that's not a podcast, and I think it's Teddy

970
00:51:58,840 --> 00:52:03,120
Speaker 1: and Tamra road show would be pretty hilarious. Um, alright,

971
00:52:03,160 --> 00:52:06,000
Speaker 1: so before we end this episode, we should do Houselive

972
00:52:06,040 --> 00:52:08,200
Speaker 1: headlines so that our next spot we can just be

973
00:52:08,280 --> 00:52:12,440
Speaker 1: recapping Potomac and Salt Lake because where we find and guys,

974
00:52:12,480 --> 00:52:15,520
Speaker 1: there's no scandal between. Why were we sign we're only

975
00:52:15,560 --> 00:52:17,600
Speaker 1: a week behind? Because I went on the Week's couple

976
00:52:18,040 --> 00:52:21,399
Speaker 1: retreat and I just I just wanted a week off.

977
00:52:21,840 --> 00:52:23,719
Speaker 1: They I heard asked me, do you want to do

978
00:52:23,760 --> 00:52:25,799
Speaker 1: a podcast, you know with somebody else? And I said,

979
00:52:25,840 --> 00:52:28,520
Speaker 1: I would really love a week off, which I needed.

980
00:52:28,680 --> 00:52:32,920
Speaker 1: I finally feel human now. Um, okay, so the first

981
00:52:32,960 --> 00:52:36,719
Speaker 1: one is actually Darby and Luke from Summer House are

982
00:52:36,719 --> 00:52:39,279
Speaker 1: getting to know each other, including a weekend long day

983
00:52:39,440 --> 00:52:42,120
Speaker 1: d C. Okay, I don't know about I don't really

984
00:52:42,160 --> 00:52:43,880
Speaker 1: know who Luke is. He seemed really nice when we

985
00:52:43,920 --> 00:52:46,320
Speaker 1: met him at Bramo Con. But what I did see

986
00:52:46,600 --> 00:52:50,520
Speaker 1: is actually doing a TikTok in his apartment. I could

987
00:52:50,520 --> 00:52:53,759
Speaker 1: see the same painting, even though whatever, I'm sure she

988
00:52:53,800 --> 00:52:56,759
Speaker 1: did that on purpose. But that's my thing, Like, if

989
00:52:56,800 --> 00:53:00,640
Speaker 1: you're gonna don't play coy with me, I don't just

990
00:53:00,840 --> 00:53:03,400
Speaker 1: tell me we're hooking up, Like, I don't need to

991
00:53:03,440 --> 00:53:06,279
Speaker 1: see the TikTok and try to decipher it all. Just

992
00:53:06,480 --> 00:53:09,160
Speaker 1: give it to me. We're boning down, that's what I

993
00:53:09,160 --> 00:53:12,759
Speaker 1: want to come, boning down. We're boning down. It ain't

994
00:53:12,760 --> 00:53:15,399
Speaker 1: gonna last, but this is where we are. But I mean, well,

995
00:53:15,480 --> 00:53:18,120
Speaker 1: good for her. I mean, like it was said in

996
00:53:18,360 --> 00:53:21,120
Speaker 1: one of the episodes, she does not deserve saggy balls.

997
00:53:22,080 --> 00:53:27,239
Speaker 1: I mean he deserves some balls, you know what the

998
00:53:27,320 --> 00:53:29,400
Speaker 1: thought of saggy balls is. Bring me back to the

999
00:53:29,400 --> 00:53:32,839
Speaker 1: bottlip scene of Meredith and I feel when she kept

1000
00:53:32,840 --> 00:53:37,279
Speaker 1: making that face where she's like and he's like and

1001
00:53:37,320 --> 00:53:44,480
Speaker 1: talk from talking, and that that little girl voice, no,

1002
00:53:44,680 --> 00:53:49,360
Speaker 1: like there's an give sexy voice. I'm one of them, Meredith,

1003
00:53:49,480 --> 00:53:53,360
Speaker 1: one of them. Stop stop stop stop stop, And I

1004
00:53:53,440 --> 00:53:57,640
Speaker 1: don't need to see that speaking. Actually, she is rumored

1005
00:53:57,680 --> 00:53:59,600
Speaker 1: for Real house Lives and Girls Trip season four. Do

1006
00:53:59,640 --> 00:54:02,319
Speaker 1: you want to get the cast that we're getting right here? Yeah? So,

1007
00:54:02,360 --> 00:54:05,160
Speaker 1: according to Bravos and Cocktails because they have all the

1008
00:54:05,239 --> 00:54:10,160
Speaker 1: dirt to Laura's Margaret, Robin Ashley, Garcela's Sutton, Emily Gina

1009
00:54:10,520 --> 00:54:13,160
Speaker 1: are part of season four Real Housewife Ultimate Girls Trip.

1010
00:54:13,200 --> 00:54:15,359
Speaker 1: The season will take place in Hong Kong and will

1011
00:54:15,360 --> 00:54:18,480
Speaker 1: film for one week in January. I don't know that

1012
00:54:18,520 --> 00:54:21,879
Speaker 1: there's any truth to that, but one of my good

1013
00:54:21,960 --> 00:54:24,680
Speaker 1: friends reached out to one of the girls on this

1014
00:54:24,840 --> 00:54:28,960
Speaker 1: cast supposed cast, and they said there was absolutely zero

1015
00:54:29,040 --> 00:54:32,759
Speaker 1: truth to it. However, I will tell you this, when

1016
00:54:32,800 --> 00:54:36,520
Speaker 1: you do get asked, you are not allowed to say

1017
00:54:36,520 --> 00:54:42,960
Speaker 1: anything UM. And this is supposedly called Dynamic Duos. I

1018
00:54:42,960 --> 00:54:47,759
Speaker 1: know for a fact that season four is cast. I

1019
00:54:47,760 --> 00:54:49,920
Speaker 1: am not on it, but you guys know. But I

1020
00:54:50,040 --> 00:54:51,600
Speaker 1: do know for a fact that it is cast. Do

1021
00:54:51,680 --> 00:54:55,280
Speaker 1: I know that this is the cast? There's also another

1022
00:54:55,360 --> 00:54:58,759
Speaker 1: rumor that's going around that has been um sent to

1023
00:54:58,800 --> 00:55:03,360
Speaker 1: me that they're gonna redo season two, which I was

1024
00:55:03,440 --> 00:55:05,879
Speaker 1: on the X Wives Club because from what I hear,

1025
00:55:05,960 --> 00:55:09,520
Speaker 1: the ratings were through the roof and they were going

1026
00:55:09,560 --> 00:55:14,600
Speaker 1: to send them to UM Australia and everybody was coming

1027
00:55:14,600 --> 00:55:17,399
Speaker 1: back except for me and Taylor because we're on we're

1028
00:55:17,440 --> 00:55:20,319
Speaker 1: no longer X wives, so UM, I don't know there's

1029
00:55:20,360 --> 00:55:22,520
Speaker 1: any truth to that either. No, I mean I would

1030
00:55:22,560 --> 00:55:24,480
Speaker 1: have known. Vicky would have said something, Brandy would have

1031
00:55:24,480 --> 00:55:27,880
Speaker 1: said something to me. Nobody has said anything, but but

1032
00:55:27,920 --> 00:55:29,640
Speaker 1: they're not a lot to say anything either. But that

1033
00:55:29,760 --> 00:55:32,319
Speaker 1: being said, I would probably rather go to Australia than

1034
00:55:32,360 --> 00:55:35,000
Speaker 1: Hong Kong's have been to Hong Kong already. I haven't

1035
00:55:35,000 --> 00:55:37,239
Speaker 1: been to Hong Kong. I have been to Australia, to

1036
00:55:37,239 --> 00:55:40,280
Speaker 1: be honest with you. So so nobody really knows. Lots

1037
00:55:40,280 --> 00:55:43,319
Speaker 1: of rumors out there. Bravo and Cocktails loves to put

1038
00:55:43,320 --> 00:55:46,399
Speaker 1: a story out there. Okay. The next one is Tom

1039
00:55:46,440 --> 00:55:51,000
Speaker 1: Girardi Sperms c fo embeziled ten millions, spent thousands on

1040
00:55:51,320 --> 00:55:54,399
Speaker 1: esport and real estate, the chief financial officer of Tom

1041
00:55:54,520 --> 00:55:57,000
Speaker 1: Girardi's law firm and best at least ten millions from

1042
00:55:57,040 --> 00:56:00,480
Speaker 1: bank accounts, and he's stolen funds to renovates sans was

1043
00:56:00,560 --> 00:56:03,440
Speaker 1: home purchase the Caribbean mansion and shower and escort with

1044
00:56:03,480 --> 00:56:06,000
Speaker 1: a monthly stipend and gifts, including a hundred and twenty

1045
00:56:06,400 --> 00:56:10,320
Speaker 1: dollar first a federal prosecutor setting court. Thursday, government lawyers

1046
00:56:10,360 --> 00:56:14,960
Speaker 1: disclosed allegations against for Majority and Keys CFO Christopher kmone

1047
00:56:15,280 --> 00:56:18,000
Speaker 1: Camon don't know how to say it and not obviously

1048
00:56:18,080 --> 00:56:24,000
Speaker 1: the sport he was hiring. Um and yeah, I mean.

1049
00:56:24,200 --> 00:56:29,000
Speaker 1: And then Erica posted something about it. What did she post?

1050
00:56:30,040 --> 00:56:32,719
Speaker 1: She just posted that it happened. I think just her

1051
00:56:32,800 --> 00:56:36,880
Speaker 1: posting that it happened was once again her saying I

1052
00:56:36,920 --> 00:56:40,160
Speaker 1: had no idea this was going down. Well, it sounds

1053
00:56:40,200 --> 00:56:45,040
Speaker 1: like the entire from this point, let's say, let's say

1054
00:56:45,080 --> 00:56:48,480
Speaker 1: how to add in real quart. Hey babe, I'm podcasting

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Speaker 1: right now with sam Hi Edwin. I love you too.

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Speaker 1: I have one question, because we were just talking about

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Speaker 1: the couple's retreat. What would you you're on speaker, what

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00:57:00,360 --> 00:57:02,799
Speaker 1: would you say? I pretty much said that we were

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00:57:02,800 --> 00:57:05,000
Speaker 1: going through tough times, We've gone through highs and lows,

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Speaker 1: and our one takeaway from the trip I gave mine.

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Speaker 1: What would you say? Your one takeaway was I think

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Speaker 1: that many today. That's kind of what you said. It's

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Speaker 1: the same thing. Oh, my god, did you guys rehearse this?

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Speaker 1: We didn't. Um. I love you so much. I'll call

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Speaker 1: you when we finish. Okay, let me too. But that's

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Speaker 1: so sweet, guys. So Erica's captain was actually h for

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Speaker 1: the ten millions for the ten outsorry. Erica's captain actually

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00:57:50,600 --> 00:57:55,680
Speaker 1: was this ship gets crazier and crazier. Wow, it is crazier.

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Speaker 1: Compare her to jin Shaw maybe Innanna's there's no comparison.

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Speaker 1: And to say I'm biased because I say that is

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Speaker 1: one person. Even people have also compared to Teresa, and

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Speaker 1: I'm like, no, Teresa, have no idea, what's going on?

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00:58:14,520 --> 00:58:17,280
Speaker 1: How many times have I signed tax papers or whatever

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Speaker 1: with my to Teresa, I'm like, no, no comparison whatsoever.

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Speaker 1: Speaking of Teresa, Teresa praises Caroline Manzo for not outing

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00:58:27,200 --> 00:58:31,520
Speaker 1: family feud shades Melissa and Joe Gorga over disgrace on

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Speaker 1: her NOMA State a Bitches podcast. Teresa complimented Caroline as

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00:58:35,040 --> 00:58:38,200
Speaker 1: well as Dina and Jacqueline. They've never aired their dirty

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Speaker 1: laundry out there, said Teresa of the three former castmates.

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00:58:41,680 --> 00:58:44,400
Speaker 1: Like I know stuff of course behind the scenes. She

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00:58:44,440 --> 00:58:46,880
Speaker 1: went on to say that's why I like, I knew

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Speaker 1: what was going on, and I was like, lots of likes,

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00:58:50,520 --> 00:58:53,280
Speaker 1: lots of likes. Look, they never aired their dirty laundry

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00:58:53,280 --> 00:58:56,160
Speaker 1: on National TV, you see, for everyone to know that,

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Speaker 1: they kept it private. And I have to say, she added,

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Speaker 1: I compliment them for that. Teresa indicated that her own

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00:59:01,840 --> 00:59:05,280
Speaker 1: family isn't nearly as so private. She also claimed that

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00:59:05,400 --> 00:59:09,040
Speaker 1: before this family fame thing, her family had none of this,

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Speaker 1: perhaps alluding to their dirty laundry. So Teresa is very

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00:59:14,120 --> 00:59:19,400
Speaker 1: much um. She keeps things in. She's very very like families.

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Speaker 1: Everything private. You don't talk about things like. It's very mafia.

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00:59:25,320 --> 00:59:28,360
Speaker 1: So if you are to guess, would you think who

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00:59:28,400 --> 00:59:31,720
Speaker 1: do you think the bigger problem is Joe or Melissa?

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00:59:32,160 --> 00:59:34,760
Speaker 1: I think Joe is very you know he and I

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00:59:34,800 --> 00:59:38,080
Speaker 1: love Joe, but I feel like he he's outspoken. He

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00:59:38,120 --> 00:59:40,240
Speaker 1: says how he feels and he puts it out there.

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00:59:40,720 --> 00:59:45,720
Speaker 1: I don't hear Melissa. He's on like a comedy tour

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Speaker 1: right now or something. I mean I saw on Melissa's story,

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Speaker 1: Joe Gorga calls out crazy Jennifer Aiden for lies of

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Speaker 1: a Brookon Drama, Joe Gorga is clearing up the alleged

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00:59:57,200 --> 01:00:00,880
Speaker 1: lies about Jennifer's now infamous drink throwing incident. Everything that

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01:00:00,920 --> 01:00:02,960
Speaker 1: you heard is a lie, Grega said on The Chicks

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01:00:02,960 --> 01:00:06,720
Speaker 1: and the Office podcast on Friday. Aiden's social media assistant Erica,

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Speaker 1: said a video shared TikTok that Gorga called her effing

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01:00:09,800 --> 01:00:13,240
Speaker 1: dirty b I t h However, Gorga maintains that Aiden

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Speaker 1: was the instigator of the altercation. The story is out

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Speaker 1: there that she threw a drink on me and I

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Speaker 1: was saying these vulgar things to her. No, first of all,

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Speaker 1: I was fifty feet away with my wife. Jennifer likes

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Speaker 1: to dig a lot, and she gets involved with my

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01:00:27,720 --> 01:00:31,560
Speaker 1: family business. Grega then admitted that his wife, Georga, did

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Speaker 1: say something to of course co star that may have

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01:00:33,840 --> 01:00:36,560
Speaker 1: ticked her off. However, he said he expected the women

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Speaker 1: to not get into a verbal argument as how euselid

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Speaker 1: to do. But he noted that Aiden is not like that.

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Speaker 1: If you watched her on the TV show through the year,

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Speaker 1: she drinks a lot, she's violent, she throws things, she

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Speaker 1: breaks glasses, she wants to stab you with it, she

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01:00:48,800 --> 01:00:51,120
Speaker 1: throws knives throughout it. I mean, this is who she is.

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Speaker 1: She's crazy. That's the whole career, and that's the whole cast.

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01:00:54,160 --> 01:00:59,240
Speaker 1: They drink, they throw their Italian, they do all the things. Um.

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Speaker 1: All I know is the night after that happened, we

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01:01:03,080 --> 01:01:05,760
Speaker 1: got our food delivered to our room and the girl

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Speaker 1: that delivered the food had all the dirt on it. Yeah,

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01:01:09,240 --> 01:01:11,440
Speaker 1: and we we we didn't know anything about it, so

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Speaker 1: it was a big deal. Who knows what happened. It

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01:01:14,200 --> 01:01:25,120
Speaker 1: was kind of it was dramatic, dramatic and embarrassing. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Bethany response to Carol and Luanne for podcast bashing. Okay,

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Speaker 1: you guys know how we feel about the podcast bashing.

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Speaker 1: But Bethany Frankel says she can't apologize for being successful. Okay,

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01:01:40,680 --> 01:01:47,640
Speaker 1: right there, Yeah yeah sorry. Interview for Access Hollywood House

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Speaker 1: Life Nightcap with Lauren Hubert, Bethany reacted to Carol Luan's

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Speaker 1: negative comments about her new Rewives podcast. I'm sorry they

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01:01:55,360 --> 01:01:57,200
Speaker 1: are having a hard time with this. It makes sense.

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01:01:57,400 --> 01:02:00,400
Speaker 1: It's already very successful. It's an incredible I yeah, it's

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01:02:00,440 --> 01:02:03,840
Speaker 1: got buzz. It's interesting, said Bethany. I can't apologize and

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01:02:04,200 --> 01:02:07,160
Speaker 1: I can't apologize for having great ideas for being successful.

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01:02:07,200 --> 01:02:09,280
Speaker 1: To start, added, I've tried to do that for so

1139
01:02:09,320 --> 01:02:11,000
Speaker 1: many years. Part of the reason I left your house

1140
01:02:11,000 --> 01:02:13,160
Speaker 1: I was in New York was having to do with

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01:02:13,360 --> 01:02:16,720
Speaker 1: feeling self conscious about my success and the great opportunities

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01:02:16,720 --> 01:02:18,840
Speaker 1: that I have had first and that other people have

1143
01:02:18,920 --> 01:02:21,800
Speaker 1: been inspired and done them themselves. She said. Her co

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01:02:21,960 --> 01:02:25,120
Speaker 1: stars negative comments were predictable, and Bethany hopes they feel

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01:02:25,160 --> 01:02:28,800
Speaker 1: better soon. Whatever your preconceived notion and an expectation are

1146
01:02:28,920 --> 01:02:31,280
Speaker 1: of this podcast, it's not that it's not the run

1147
01:02:31,280 --> 01:02:33,680
Speaker 1: of the mill. It's giving everything that you want. You

1148
01:02:33,760 --> 01:02:37,080
Speaker 1: just didn't realize, she shared. It's so much information that

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01:02:37,160 --> 01:02:39,720
Speaker 1: I didn't even realize. I have just for my ability

1150
01:02:39,760 --> 01:02:42,840
Speaker 1: to break down the genre. It's sort of how it started.

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01:02:43,240 --> 01:02:47,840
Speaker 1: I said, I think her podcast is probably great. I'm

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01:02:47,840 --> 01:02:50,480
Speaker 1: sure it is, I said. I started to watch it

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01:02:50,560 --> 01:02:52,400
Speaker 1: on my I listened to it on my in my

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01:02:52,480 --> 01:02:54,320
Speaker 1: car on my way to Trader Joe's the other day,

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01:02:54,360 --> 01:02:56,160
Speaker 1: which is another amazing thing I got to do. I've

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01:02:56,240 --> 01:02:58,920
Speaker 1: been a Trader jose in four months. But anyways, um,

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01:02:59,040 --> 01:03:01,640
Speaker 1: I ordered to get into it, and then I had

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Speaker 1: to go into the store. I haven't watched listen to

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Speaker 1: the rest, but truthfully, everything Bethany does. She pretty much

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01:03:06,720 --> 01:03:09,480
Speaker 1: blows it up. She does, it's gonna be great. I

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01:03:09,480 --> 01:03:12,080
Speaker 1: mean the fact that people like watching her wash her

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01:03:12,120 --> 01:03:17,400
Speaker 1: face and talk about her drug store. Well, here's the thing.

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Speaker 1: I think that it is gonna be a great show.

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01:03:19,680 --> 01:03:22,240
Speaker 1: The only part that I had issue with in regards

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01:03:22,280 --> 01:03:26,600
Speaker 1: to this was her repeatedly saying, you know, I'm above Housewives.

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01:03:26,720 --> 01:03:30,680
Speaker 1: I've moved on. They are not a lot of people women.

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01:03:31,120 --> 01:03:34,520
Speaker 1: A lot of people have said that, and that is

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01:03:34,880 --> 01:03:37,240
Speaker 1: that's the part that bothers me. Like, here's the thing,

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01:03:37,680 --> 01:03:40,440
Speaker 1: you know what, just say it, be authentic about it

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01:03:40,520 --> 01:03:43,720
Speaker 1: the way we are and say, hey, listen, people want

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01:03:43,760 --> 01:03:46,360
Speaker 1: to hear us talk sh it on on Housewives. We're

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Speaker 1: gonna get paid to do it. Let's go for it.

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Speaker 1: I think that people's biggest problem is that she's talked

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01:03:51,440 --> 01:03:53,800
Speaker 1: down on Housewives and said so many horrible things about

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01:03:54,320 --> 01:03:57,400
Speaker 1: you know, the show and her cast mates. That now

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01:03:57,480 --> 01:04:00,280
Speaker 1: she's doing this, which is a great idea. Yeah, and

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Speaker 1: I hope, I hope she gets a lot of success.

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Speaker 1: We did get one tweet that made me laugh because

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Speaker 1: I am having a feeling that you don't know what

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01:04:06,680 --> 01:04:08,880
Speaker 1: this word means either, but I'm taking it as a compliment.

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01:04:09,240 --> 01:04:12,040
Speaker 1: Having listened to be first episode, I can say Teddy

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01:04:12,040 --> 01:04:14,600
Speaker 1: Mellencamp and tam Ra Judge OC do it better and

1183
01:04:14,640 --> 01:04:18,880
Speaker 1: without supercilious undertones. Everyone listened to two teas in a pot.

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01:04:19,560 --> 01:04:25,959
Speaker 1: What is super supercilious? I would say, like funny, but mean.

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01:04:28,960 --> 01:04:31,080
Speaker 1: I have absolutely no idea what I mean. I saw this.

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01:04:31,320 --> 01:04:33,520
Speaker 1: I was dying, so I'm like, there's no way that

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01:04:33,640 --> 01:04:40,160
Speaker 1: tam Google's Alexa. There's gotta be ask. Can't you ask? Alexa?

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01:04:40,400 --> 01:04:44,480
Speaker 1: She's right there? I see her behind your back, Alexa.

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01:04:44,640 --> 01:04:46,840
Speaker 1: Oh she's not plugged in. Sorry I had to. I

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Speaker 1: had to unplug her. Supercilious behaving or looking as though

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01:04:51,680 --> 01:04:56,120
Speaker 1: one thinks one is superior to others. So I was.

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Speaker 1: I was absolutely wrong behaving or looking as the one

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Speaker 1: thing inks one is superior to others. Now we know

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01:05:03,600 --> 01:05:06,200
Speaker 1: we're just as bad as everybody else. Supercilious people think

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01:05:06,320 --> 01:05:10,040
Speaker 1: very highly of themselves, more highly than others. If your

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01:05:10,080 --> 01:05:13,000
Speaker 1: sister tends to act snobby and superior, you can describe

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01:05:13,000 --> 01:05:17,320
Speaker 1: her as supercilious. Well we add that to our vocab. No,

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Speaker 1: I don't know. You know, I was thinking about that

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Speaker 1: because my vocab is you know, I barely made it

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Speaker 1: through high school, didn't go to college, however, But I

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01:05:24,840 --> 01:05:28,120
Speaker 1: thought if i'd feel superior to you because I made

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01:05:28,160 --> 01:05:30,480
Speaker 1: it to eleventh grade UM and then had to take

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01:05:30,520 --> 01:05:34,800
Speaker 1: an EXEAS and my junior year. Yeah, but I seriously

1204
01:05:34,800 --> 01:05:37,600
Speaker 1: feel like I grew up with a learned disability. My

1205
01:05:37,720 --> 01:05:39,760
Speaker 1: dad has one, and I know I have one, so

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01:05:39,840 --> 01:05:43,080
Speaker 1: it's very hard for me to retain anything. So um

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01:05:43,120 --> 01:05:46,480
Speaker 1: I thought about like taking a class online class or

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01:05:46,520 --> 01:05:50,080
Speaker 1: something to expand my vocabulary. But then I'm like, I'm

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01:05:50,120 --> 01:05:53,480
Speaker 1: fifty five years old, doesn't really matter anymore. No, we're

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Speaker 1: not going to know what supercilious means. I also can't

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01:05:55,840 --> 01:05:58,600
Speaker 1: do my son's second grade math. It is what it is.

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Speaker 1: Um Uh. The next second, the next of those Real

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01:06:06,080 --> 01:06:08,920
Speaker 1: Housewives of Salt Lake City star jin Shaw blowout in

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01:06:09,080 --> 01:06:13,000
Speaker 1: public argument family drama on video full TMZ link here.

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01:06:13,400 --> 01:06:18,160
Speaker 1: Jen Sauce jin Shaw sentencing and her fraud case isn't

1216
01:06:18,200 --> 01:06:20,280
Speaker 1: the only thing she's on the edge about these days.

1217
01:06:20,520 --> 01:06:24,960
Speaker 1: The Real Housewives absolutely lost it during an explosive argument,

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01:06:25,080 --> 01:06:27,480
Speaker 1: screaming and cutting on the streets of Salt Lake City.

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01:06:27,760 --> 01:06:30,800
Speaker 1: TMZ obtained the intense footage of jin and four other

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01:06:30,840 --> 01:06:34,000
Speaker 1: people having a blowout downtown Salt Lake City, and you

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01:06:34,000 --> 01:06:37,640
Speaker 1: hear Jim screen, and you hear Jen screen several times.

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01:06:37,880 --> 01:06:42,360
Speaker 1: F you were told this heated showdown happened around nine

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01:06:42,360 --> 01:06:45,800
Speaker 1: pm on November five, as they say, Saturday nights all

1224
01:06:45,880 --> 01:06:49,440
Speaker 1: right for fighting. It's unclear what sparked the dispute or

1225
01:06:49,520 --> 01:06:53,160
Speaker 1: who the other combatants are, but there are some clear

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Speaker 1: chatter about this about someone's husband. There's also one person,

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01:06:56,920 --> 01:07:00,840
Speaker 1: not Jen, who hurls a homophobics or a few times.

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Speaker 1: I didn't hear that. I didn't, did you hear? I

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01:07:03,040 --> 01:07:05,640
Speaker 1: didn't hear. I didn't hear that either, Um, but I did.

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01:07:06,120 --> 01:07:11,160
Speaker 1: I thought the person and the video was um Angie,

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01:07:11,440 --> 01:07:15,040
Speaker 1: not Angie Harrington, the other Angie, And it's not it's

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01:07:15,080 --> 01:07:18,400
Speaker 1: not it's not her. Was that was that Heather gay

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01:07:18,480 --> 01:07:21,320
Speaker 1: with her or not? It's very hard to make out

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01:07:21,360 --> 01:07:24,360
Speaker 1: who's in that video or not. I mean, there are

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01:07:24,400 --> 01:07:26,320
Speaker 1: so many rumors. I mean, there are even rumors that

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Speaker 1: this fight is happening between gen Shaw and her child.

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01:07:29,200 --> 01:07:34,320
Speaker 1: But well they said family drama, So family drama. Somebody

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01:07:34,440 --> 01:07:37,640
Speaker 1: saying it's her oldest son. I don't want to report

1239
01:07:37,680 --> 01:07:40,720
Speaker 1: on that as knowing, because we do not know. I

1240
01:07:40,800 --> 01:07:43,320
Speaker 1: do know that if you are in a situation where

1241
01:07:43,320 --> 01:07:46,280
Speaker 1: you could potentially be spending fifty plus years in jail,

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01:07:47,200 --> 01:07:51,560
Speaker 1: leading quit fighting on the freaking streets, yeah, where you

1243
01:07:51,600 --> 01:07:54,560
Speaker 1: can be recorded. Like I really start to wonder now

1244
01:07:54,600 --> 01:07:56,840
Speaker 1: at this point if all these fights and all this

1245
01:07:57,120 --> 01:08:01,000
Speaker 1: curated drama is not just like an attention and grab

1246
01:08:01,320 --> 01:08:03,840
Speaker 1: all the time, no matter if it's her family, friends,

1247
01:08:04,040 --> 01:08:05,960
Speaker 1: whoever it is. I don't know who's in that video,

1248
01:08:06,360 --> 01:08:10,360
Speaker 1: but like, make it stop or if you can't, you

1249
01:08:10,520 --> 01:08:13,640
Speaker 1: much don't leave your house. Yeah, but we got a

1250
01:08:13,680 --> 01:08:17,679
Speaker 1: little tasty gnshaw when she came into our hotel room.

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01:08:19,520 --> 01:08:24,120
Speaker 1: It's just crazy. Um. And then the final headline and

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01:08:24,160 --> 01:08:27,479
Speaker 1: you can go for that one, um. Andy Cohen in

1253
01:08:27,720 --> 01:08:31,080
Speaker 1: Serious XM three year d O renewer expands daily radio

1254
01:08:31,160 --> 01:08:35,000
Speaker 1: show three more deal, contract extension, Way to Go Andy,

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01:08:35,320 --> 01:08:38,559
Speaker 1: Um continues on and on. But guys, we are at

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Speaker 1: our capacity for today and I look forward to seeing

1257
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Speaker 1: you tomorrow. Damn. If you were to guess, what do

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01:08:44,760 --> 01:08:46,920
Speaker 1: you think? The hardest question, and he's gonna ask me, is,

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Speaker 1: oh my god, why did you do a podcast with

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Speaker 1: Tara Judge? What were you thinking? Do you want to

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Speaker 1: ruin your career. I'm gonna say I needed somebody that's

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Speaker 1: um what Okay? So maybe maybe it's at Lisa vanner

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Speaker 1: Pump question. Maybe it's where you left off your last season.

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Speaker 1: That wasn't my last season, Banner Pump, but already left

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Speaker 1: it wasn't your last season, that's right. So I think

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Speaker 1: I'm going to get a lot of this season questions

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Speaker 1: with my guests. You might be surprised. Did you look

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Speaker 1: at the tweets that were sent to Andy? Do you

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Speaker 1: have any idea? Yeah? And was that where you said

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Speaker 1: you wanted off yourself U? But then people are like

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Speaker 1: I was like, damn, um, yeah. So the problem isn't

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Speaker 1: gonna be me answering any of these questions. I'm fine.

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Speaker 1: If I was there with you sitting on those two chairs, fine,

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Speaker 1: I could go as bananas as I want. You don't

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Speaker 1: have to remember, my dad's going to be in my

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Speaker 1: other chair. And if you think I'm gredgy to know

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Speaker 1: it all, I Daddy Mellencamp to the rescue. Like, my

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Speaker 1: question is who's getting first chair? Oh my gosh, Well

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Speaker 1: I went back and looked, and I always had first

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Speaker 1: chair except for my last season, which makes sense. Well,

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Speaker 1: it also depends on who the guest is. If it's

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Speaker 1: like an A lister, like of course they're always going

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Speaker 1: to get first season actually airless, No, it's the one.

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Speaker 1: But one time I was second chair. I mean she

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Speaker 1: was great, she was like a comedian, but like it

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Speaker 1: wasn't a a I think only whatever I was in

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Speaker 1: at that moment. M M. I never know how they picked.

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Speaker 1: I really don't. I don't know how they picked. But

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Speaker 1: I just I really looked at my dad. I'm like, Dad, please,

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Speaker 1: because you don't understand if you want to talk about intimidating.

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Speaker 1: I was like, I need you to please just go

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Speaker 1: into this, this show a little bit of like I

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Speaker 1: want fun, fun, cougs fun. His responses, what does he drink? No? No,

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Speaker 1: and I won't be able to drink either. He looks

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Speaker 1: at me and he goes, why Andy Cohen can't fire me?

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Speaker 1: Oh he's a hardass. I'm scared of him. I'm scared, scared.

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Speaker 1: I'm scared for tomorrow. All right, Well, you guys you're

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Speaker 1: gonna be fine. Thank you for listening. Please tune in

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Speaker 1: to watch What Happens five and we will be doing

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Speaker 1: a recap episode next So we will have multiple ups

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Speaker 1: this week. Thanks for tuning in. Bye