WEBVTT - Boobs, Bachelorette Blows, and Bye Bye WeHo 0:00:00.160 --> 0:00:10.000 Hello, gorgeous. It's Lala Kent. Welcome to untraditionally, Laala, Hello, gorgeous, 0:00:10.080 --> 0:00:16.400 Welcome back to untraditionally, Lala. I am A couple days, No, 0:00:16.560 --> 0:00:20.080 A couple of days, A couple of weeks, no money? 0:00:20.120 --> 0:00:21.959 Am I? How many days has it been since. 0:00:21.760 --> 0:00:23.640 I had surgery? What's today? 0:00:24.760 --> 0:00:24.840 Like? 0:00:24.960 --> 0:00:25.480 Ten days? 0:00:25.600 --> 0:00:29.520 Like? Ten days? Almost two weeks? And I gotta say, 0:00:29.600 --> 0:00:32.440 I'm not going to get too into the surgery because 0:00:32.520 --> 0:00:35.000 I just find that to be a topic that Easton's 0:00:35.040 --> 0:00:37.159 not going to want to deal with. I just so 0:00:37.240 --> 0:00:42.239 I'll discuss it on an unlikely affair with Amber. But 0:00:43.760 --> 0:00:49.720 I will say it has been tough. It's been tough. 0:00:50.360 --> 0:00:54.160 It has been tough. I didn't think that the mental 0:00:54.240 --> 0:00:58.320 aspect would be as hard as it's been. Someone tells 0:00:58.360 --> 0:01:00.560 you can't hold your kid for four weeks, you already 0:01:00.560 --> 0:01:02.760 go into like a full on spiral, but you're like, 0:01:02.800 --> 0:01:05.440 it's gonna fly by the factor only ten days in. 0:01:05.600 --> 0:01:07.200 I look at my children and I'm like, what I 0:01:07.200 --> 0:01:10.360 would give to like pick you up, taking out the 0:01:10.680 --> 0:01:14.319 bedtime routine, you know, Like I walk around Sosa's room 0:01:14.360 --> 0:01:16.160 and she lays on me while I like sing her 0:01:16.200 --> 0:01:19.199 a song and it's just a bonding moment. And last 0:01:19.280 --> 0:01:23.080 night I was laying on not laying sitting on the ground, 0:01:23.080 --> 0:01:25.480 and she kind of like fell into me, and so 0:01:25.520 --> 0:01:27.679 I just kind of rocked her back and forth, like 0:01:27.720 --> 0:01:30.679 while sitting on the ground with enough distance between my 0:01:30.800 --> 0:01:33.560 chest and her body. There's just little things that have 0:01:33.640 --> 0:01:37.119 been messing with me and the workout. Like I've been 0:01:37.120 --> 0:01:39.480 really into starting my day with like wake up, have 0:01:39.560 --> 0:01:42.280 my coffee, throw the bed together, go in my room, 0:01:42.440 --> 0:01:47.320 get in my workout stuff, and you know, plump the bum, 0:01:48.000 --> 0:01:50.240 and I'm just really worried that my body's gonna lose 0:01:50.280 --> 0:01:53.760 its shape. Do you even care about what the fuck 0:01:53.800 --> 0:01:55.200 I'm saying now? 0:01:55.320 --> 0:02:07.560 I turned it out turn into a anyway, the vaping 0:02:07.800 --> 0:02:08.960 during recovery. 0:02:09.680 --> 0:02:11.520 Sorry, I smacked the shit out of it. 0:02:16.320 --> 0:02:19.320 Oh, I can't even talk about it. I look at Easton, 0:02:19.400 --> 0:02:21.800 I'm like, I know the feeling of like the first 0:02:21.960 --> 0:02:24.680 puff of the day. I'm so jealous. 0:02:24.760 --> 0:02:26.840 Can I be honest to you? Always? 0:02:27.160 --> 0:02:29.920 I was going to We talked about it yesterday, A 0:02:30.040 --> 0:02:33.400 break for Eastern Yeah. I woke up this morning and 0:02:33.400 --> 0:02:35.360 I was like, I don't need it. And then I 0:02:35.360 --> 0:02:37.880 got on Instagram and I just saw my buddy's story 0:02:37.880 --> 0:02:39.720 and like he was reading a book and his vapes 0:02:39.760 --> 0:02:40.239 on his chest. 0:02:40.280 --> 0:02:42.680 I was like, yeah, I'm gonna hit the vapes. I'm 0:02:42.680 --> 0:02:43.400 gonna hit that thing. 0:02:44.120 --> 0:02:48.959 I know it's it's really delicious. I don't have much 0:02:51.919 --> 0:02:56.840 is stoph so, but I haven't. I have not actively 0:02:56.880 --> 0:03:02.639 been thinking about it because I just est is on 0:03:03.040 --> 0:03:07.799 fire and I need very sore. And then the thought 0:03:07.880 --> 0:03:13.120 of like what the vape or nicotine does to healing 0:03:13.280 --> 0:03:15.800 it just immediately turns you off. You're like, I'm not 0:03:16.080 --> 0:03:18.560 I'm not touching that fucking thing. Are you crazy? I 0:03:18.560 --> 0:03:23.480 did not go through all of this the va by that. 0:03:23.800 --> 0:03:26.560 I also thought there was just something like very unwell 0:03:26.720 --> 0:03:29.279 about smacking a vape while I have, like Drake. 0:03:32.000 --> 0:03:37.120 They have smokeing them. Now that's when you know you 0:03:37.240 --> 0:03:42.720 need fucking help. It just seemed a little trashy. 0:03:43.240 --> 0:03:47.120 Aastin, can you grab me my? What are they? 0:03:47.720 --> 0:03:52.320 I don't know those pills the the people get addicted 0:03:52.360 --> 0:03:56.200 to hydro Easton, can you give me a hydra code 0:03:56.320 --> 0:03:58.280 and the vape? 0:03:58.640 --> 0:04:01.240 That's what we we do, go into full tree, stop 0:04:01.360 --> 0:04:05.080 the hydrot right. Actually though I only took the hydros 0:04:05.160 --> 0:04:10.000 for like two three days. They only gave you. 0:04:10.880 --> 0:04:12.800 I want to say, they only gave you like eight 0:04:12.960 --> 0:04:15.200 and you still had it. Gave me enough for a week. 0:04:15.320 --> 0:04:19.359 I did not. I'm not into those. I'm not into pills. 0:04:19.440 --> 0:04:22.080 I'm not into pillies. We come from Utah. We're not 0:04:22.120 --> 0:04:22.799 into pillies. 0:04:23.320 --> 0:04:26.520 People in Utah into because we're from there. We're like 0:04:26.680 --> 0:04:28.960 that just seems we're just gonna have a dream. 0:04:30.520 --> 0:04:32.080 We'll just really go down. 0:04:32.480 --> 0:04:36.560 I have a really addictive personality, So don't pills, just liquor. 0:04:37.880 --> 0:04:41.360 But I only I only took them like before bed 0:04:41.400 --> 0:04:44.239 because it's been painful and like my armpits are numb 0:04:44.800 --> 0:04:47.599 parts of my arm. Yeah, I was just starting to 0:04:47.640 --> 0:04:51.400 come back. I don't know. It was an intense surgery. Anyway, 0:04:52.000 --> 0:04:54.520 you had a fun weekend hold on you guys before 0:04:54.560 --> 0:04:58.440 we before we talked about it, though my identity showed 0:04:58.440 --> 0:05:00.680 me no, we're going to talk about your But that's 0:05:00.720 --> 0:05:02.960 a long winded story. I have to talk about this 0:05:03.200 --> 0:05:08.240 because over the weekend Easton told me about this guy, 0:05:08.360 --> 0:05:11.320 this basketball player, and his name is Grady Dick Okay, 0:05:11.320 --> 0:05:14.280 and I was like, that is an awful name name. 0:05:14.400 --> 0:05:17.920 Why would he not change his name? His last name 0:05:17.960 --> 0:05:22.680 to something else or even or even like sent the 0:05:22.800 --> 0:05:24.839 end of his name so it's great day, Dick. It's 0:05:24.880 --> 0:05:30.800 not something Yeah, I'm like, you just do something to like, 0:05:30.880 --> 0:05:34.640 either make it funny or changed the whole name. 0:05:34.839 --> 0:05:39.599 Parents fault for gritty Dick. I know it's grady, But 0:05:40.200 --> 0:05:42.400 wouldn't you with that last name Dick. Wouldn't you be like, 0:05:42.520 --> 0:05:43.760 let's just name him like? 0:05:44.000 --> 0:05:46.159 No, I would have Jack Dick. 0:05:52.200 --> 0:05:56.320 No, will you jack my Dick? 0:05:57.480 --> 0:06:00.440 I would have changed my last name. You can do that, 0:06:00.800 --> 0:06:03.360 and I don't even think the office is wherever you 0:06:03.400 --> 0:06:04.680 go to have that done. 0:06:05.160 --> 0:06:08.440 Would fight you on it. The last name Dick than Burningham, 0:06:09.360 --> 0:06:12.240 I would. I'm sick of telling people how to spell Burningham. 0:06:12.279 --> 0:06:14.840 I would have saved years off my life with just 0:06:14.880 --> 0:06:18.280 saying my last name is Dick burning Ham. 0:06:18.680 --> 0:06:21.440 I just say, like you're burning chicken, but burning Ham 0:06:21.520 --> 0:06:27.800 and they go to the that's so funny. Yeah, I 0:06:27.920 --> 0:06:31.160 read every time I'm on the phone with someone, this 0:06:31.279 --> 0:06:34.440 bitch could be as cold as an ice queen. And 0:06:34.560 --> 0:06:37.360 the moment I say my last name and drop that, 0:06:38.000 --> 0:06:42.280 they warm up. They do they warm up? Or how 0:06:42.279 --> 0:06:44.360 many times have you said that? And I go too 0:06:44.480 --> 0:06:47.000 many to count, and then I don't think it's even funny. 0:06:47.080 --> 0:06:49.120 Yeah, yeah, they get fun. Then they're like, ah, so 0:06:49.160 --> 0:06:51.680 how are you And I'm like, we go but Grady Dick. 0:06:51.800 --> 0:06:53.800 But now I don't want him to change it because 0:06:53.880 --> 0:06:56.480 of what you showed it on TikTok. 0:06:56.640 --> 0:07:01.080 So this man, his last name is band from the 0:07:01.200 --> 0:07:03.520 NBA for jersey. 0:07:03.200 --> 0:07:05.520 Swaps, Greedy Dick, Grady Dick. 0:07:05.920 --> 0:07:07.279 So usually we've all seen it. 0:07:07.360 --> 0:07:10.320 After a game, you know, opponent, you fight it out 0:07:10.360 --> 0:07:12.800 and then new jersey swap because you respect one another 0:07:12.840 --> 0:07:14.400 and you want their jersey and dah da dah they 0:07:14.400 --> 0:07:14.800 sign it. 0:07:15.080 --> 0:07:18.040 So Grady Dick went. 0:07:19.200 --> 0:07:25.600 And there's a dude named White. No, I think it 0:07:25.680 --> 0:07:28.000 was black and black. Well, no, there's two of them. 0:07:28.040 --> 0:07:30.720 There was started started with. 0:07:32.560 --> 0:07:34.040 Yeah, did it start or end with that? 0:07:34.240 --> 0:07:36.240 I think it ended with him. I think they had. 0:07:37.920 --> 0:07:40.080 And there was a one with a little The guy 0:07:40.160 --> 0:07:43.080 the gentleman's last name was little, So every jersey swap 0:07:43.200 --> 0:07:47.480 they'd put the the person in front and then Dick, 0:07:47.600 --> 0:07:50.559 so it was Black Dick, White Dick. 0:07:51.240 --> 0:07:52.120 Little Dick. 0:07:53.440 --> 0:07:55.559 Immediately wanted him as my friend. 0:07:55.800 --> 0:07:57.880 I was like, I hope he never changed his name. 0:07:58.160 --> 0:08:03.360 He's fun he is why we laugh, but I can't 0:08:04.160 --> 0:08:07.720 how like, how would you feel if they were like, 0:08:07.920 --> 0:08:10.960 you're banned from jersey swapping and you're like, so, my 0:08:11.080 --> 0:08:12.600 last name is Ban Paston. 0:08:12.960 --> 0:08:15.720 His last name isn't Ban. It's like, do a jersey swap. 0:08:15.760 --> 0:08:18.040 But we kind of are onto you, like, don't don't 0:08:18.040 --> 0:08:23.760 insult my intelligence you're posting. And who was it? Orlando Magic? Yeah, 0:08:24.200 --> 0:08:27.360 who posted on their socials after he did the black 0:08:27.440 --> 0:08:27.840 dick thing. 0:08:28.640 --> 0:08:31.160 Yeah, and then they immediately got fired and they were 0:08:32.280 --> 0:08:32.959 social media. 0:08:35.320 --> 0:08:36.520 That guy deserves a raise. 0:08:36.960 --> 0:08:40.040 I think it's so funny anyway that that's what made 0:08:40.320 --> 0:08:41.840 that and a big bowl. 0:08:44.679 --> 0:08:48.200 A big Grady take just reminded me of the dild 0:08:48.200 --> 0:08:51.440 all that flew onto the NBA court the w NBA court. 0:08:51.440 --> 0:08:55.720 Don't you remember the flying dildo who just stuck you guys. 0:08:56.160 --> 0:08:59.160 There's nothing funnier. She's been dying at this for the 0:08:59.160 --> 0:09:01.760 past week, and I think it's great. We've been on 0:09:01.760 --> 0:09:05.840 to triple bes. Laren has been dying at a big 0:09:05.880 --> 0:09:11.160 bull of berries before bad. I want a big bull 0:09:11.200 --> 0:09:12.840 of berries before bad. 0:09:13.000 --> 0:09:19.120 I'm crying. I not get it out my mind. I 0:09:19.200 --> 0:09:22.120 will sit there and have gut. 0:09:21.679 --> 0:09:24.480 She was laughing by herself last night, Let's just put 0:09:24.480 --> 0:09:29.600 it that way. She's at the kitchen table, she is talking, 0:09:30.200 --> 0:09:33.240 her mind knows where she's going, so she's pre laughing 0:09:33.360 --> 0:09:36.160 because she's getting to the big bull of berries. She 0:09:36.360 --> 0:09:43.520 looks at me already winded, couldn't even say it. I'm 0:09:43.600 --> 0:09:51.960 laughing because oh my god, oh it hurts, Oh my god. 0:09:52.160 --> 0:09:56.200 So every time you see this bitch laughing for no reason, 0:09:56.720 --> 0:09:59.880 just no big bullet berries is going through her fucking mind, 0:10:00.000 --> 0:10:05.960 all right, Jesus Christ. And then not only that, I 0:10:06.080 --> 0:10:09.440 was playing in my base in my softball league, and 0:10:09.679 --> 0:10:12.480 I'm about to leave, and I go, I'm going to 0:10:12.520 --> 0:10:17.280 go to CBS because I'm going to get braces, and 0:10:17.320 --> 0:10:19.320 she goes for what, And I go because I've been 0:10:19.360 --> 0:10:23.000 wearing these big bulky braces. And I lost her right there. 0:10:23.080 --> 0:10:25.200 And then from there I just went and plaid softball 0:10:25.960 --> 0:10:28.880 my stomach. Yeah, this is what the exact reaction was. 0:10:28.880 --> 0:10:30.240 And I was like, all right, have a good one. 0:10:31.080 --> 0:10:33.400 So if you really want to get this one to laugh, 0:10:33.600 --> 0:10:37.560 triple b it, big bulky braces, big bull oft berries 0:10:38.679 --> 0:10:40.760 or big brown breeches, you're there. 0:10:48.360 --> 0:10:51.760 So you need where's the inside track. 0:10:54.200 --> 0:11:03.960 Who oh my god, it's so funny. So that was 0:11:04.080 --> 0:11:07.800 our weekend, was this triple bass but faller brand. 0:11:07.880 --> 0:11:10.440 And it's not. It's not because I'm on drugs. 0:11:10.760 --> 0:11:12.160 It really is that fine. 0:11:12.240 --> 0:11:14.000 No, we thought it was at first, but now she's 0:11:14.040 --> 0:11:16.200 off of them and it's still getting her. 0:11:16.520 --> 0:11:21.880 You guys still getting my stomach. Wow, that is so funny. 0:11:22.160 --> 0:11:26.360 There's nothing better than laughing mouth dry. I'm so happy 0:11:26.400 --> 0:11:30.280 that just happened. Anyway, moving on, so Eastan tell us 0:11:30.280 --> 0:11:33.200 about your weekend. Let me say one thing before we 0:11:33.240 --> 0:11:36.760 move on from this. Easton has told us multiple times 0:11:37.640 --> 0:11:40.959 that he wants to find his own identity. I have 0:11:41.080 --> 0:11:43.760 no problem with this. I'm like, God, identify, I don't 0:11:43.760 --> 0:11:45.320 give a five. It's a fie. 0:11:46.600 --> 0:11:48.480 They say that until I go into it, and then 0:11:48.480 --> 0:11:50.920 they're like, we means you that's not true. 0:11:51.160 --> 0:11:57.200 Oh really, Sunday, what happened Sunday? Back burner, front burner? 0:11:58.840 --> 0:12:02.520 What are you talking about? When we went to Blue Jam? 0:12:03.240 --> 0:12:07.960 Oh yeah, she already forgot because it was my daughter's birthday, 0:12:08.480 --> 0:12:13.119 March fifteenth. She's with her dad. 0:12:12.880 --> 0:12:14.560 That day and they're at Disneyland. 0:12:14.559 --> 0:12:16.760 They're at Disneyland and I'm like, oh, what sounds more 0:12:16.800 --> 0:12:19.280 fun popping in to see your mom, who you see 0:12:19.320 --> 0:12:22.440 every fucking day of your life, and taking away from 0:12:22.480 --> 0:12:25.000 Disneyland or just like staying at Disneyland. So I made 0:12:25.040 --> 0:12:30.240 the selfless decision keep her at Disney I'll catch her 0:12:30.400 --> 0:12:32.360 when you guys are finished whatever. Like I didn't see 0:12:32.360 --> 0:12:36.360 her on her birthday, which is a travesty if you 0:12:36.400 --> 0:12:38.680 really think about it. She spent nine months in my body, 0:12:38.679 --> 0:12:41.360 and that like he was like never around, and then 0:12:41.440 --> 0:12:43.200 all of the sudden the day of her birth, like 0:12:43.360 --> 0:12:45.760 you're going to take her to Disneyland. That's a whole 0:12:45.760 --> 0:12:49.240 different set of balls. Yeah, let's just like not even 0:12:49.280 --> 0:12:52.320 go there because I don't need to light anyone up today. Anyway, 0:12:52.440 --> 0:12:54.360 it was fine, and then the next day I go 0:12:54.440 --> 0:12:58.239 in for surgery. So I'm a little sensitive and emotional. 0:13:00.080 --> 0:13:04.320 Okay, you wanted the Here's the thing, guys, everybody wants 0:13:05.080 --> 0:13:05.760 my energy. 0:13:05.920 --> 0:13:08.560 I've got great energy. When you meet me, you'll know 0:13:08.720 --> 0:13:12.600 I'm a good guy. I will say that I'm selfless. 0:13:13.120 --> 0:13:16.199 That's where I'm signing very finding my identity because I'm 0:13:16.280 --> 0:13:20.520 very selfless, and I'll put what I want to do 0:13:21.120 --> 0:13:23.160 on the side and do other things. So like, I'm 0:13:23.200 --> 0:13:26.400 taking my life back and having my own identity, and 0:13:26.559 --> 0:13:29.680 in that I had to hang out with Jenna, which 0:13:29.800 --> 0:13:35.160 was not had to it just that's so rude. I'm 0:13:35.200 --> 0:13:36.040 taking my identity. 0:13:36.200 --> 0:13:40.440 All this started was it was Ocean's birthday. I was 0:13:40.520 --> 0:13:44.400 sensitive the family, me and my mom are like, let's 0:13:44.440 --> 0:13:48.240 go celebrate Ocean by going to Blue Jam. Let's walk 0:13:48.240 --> 0:13:50.520 to Blue Jam. It's like ten thirty. Easton has a 0:13:50.520 --> 0:13:53.480 friend over. He walks through the front door. Easton, we 0:13:53.520 --> 0:13:56.040 had a very late ly night, We're going to breakfast. 0:13:56.120 --> 0:13:59.880 Let's go, and this guy chooses to be so insensitive 0:14:00.080 --> 0:14:01.400 and so fucking rude. 0:14:01.600 --> 0:14:04.400 No, I had knives out, and I do apologize. I 0:14:04.559 --> 0:14:07.960 was very Here's the thing I just said it. I'm 0:14:08.080 --> 0:14:11.960 very selfless. I always put myself last, and in that 0:14:12.160 --> 0:14:14.559 I was like, okay, we're waking up and I did this. 0:14:14.760 --> 0:14:18.120 I didn't think about your surgery. I did think about 0:14:18.120 --> 0:14:20.600 your daughter's birthday, but I thought we had already celebrated. 0:14:20.640 --> 0:14:23.880 Okay, But he's like being a dick. So I'm like, 0:14:23.920 --> 0:14:25.680 you know what, fuck this. I take my daughter for 0:14:25.720 --> 0:14:28.040 a walk because now I feel the daggers coming out 0:14:28.160 --> 0:14:32.760 of my vocal cords. Wanting to exit off of my 0:14:32.880 --> 0:14:35.640 tongue and ruin everyone's fucking day, because that's what I 0:14:35.640 --> 0:14:37.640 love to do. There's just times where I'm like, you 0:14:37.640 --> 0:14:39.200 know what, I'm going to launch a grenade and I'm 0:14:39.200 --> 0:14:42.360 going to ruin everyone's fucking day. Trying not to do 0:14:42.440 --> 0:14:45.560 that though, So I take a little walk. I get 0:14:45.680 --> 0:14:49.479 back to the house. Everyone's calmed down. We walk to breakfast. 0:14:49.600 --> 0:14:51.840 We can have a productive conversation now, and I say 0:14:51.880 --> 0:14:55.200 to Easton, I'll sorry about his knees. 0:14:55.320 --> 0:14:59.040 Let's all listened to what she says to that right now? 0:14:59.320 --> 0:15:06.080 I said, Easton, what you want and your identity is important, 0:15:06.080 --> 0:15:11.080 Like your needs in life are very important. But when 0:15:11.120 --> 0:15:14.120 I have needs, they trump yours. She goes. 0:15:14.440 --> 0:15:18.240 Your needs are a front burner. Yes, you have to 0:15:18.360 --> 0:15:21.320 tend to them, she goes. But when my life hits 0:15:21.560 --> 0:15:24.640 she goes, I then have to take that front burner. 0:15:25.240 --> 0:15:26.840 And I go, did you just listen to yourself? 0:15:26.840 --> 0:15:29.680 And you go That came off wrong, and that came. 0:15:29.560 --> 0:15:33.600 Off definitely sounded better. What I was meaning was your 0:15:33.680 --> 0:15:36.560 ship is unimportant right now because think of my I 0:15:36.600 --> 0:15:38.840 need you to like put yourself in my shoes to 0:15:38.920 --> 0:15:43.040 day any other day any other day today, I need 0:15:43.120 --> 0:15:46.160 you to think this family. You know, this is called dealing, 0:15:46.480 --> 0:15:51.240 this is just called men and any other day. But 0:15:51.320 --> 0:15:53.080 I need you in this moment to be like, you 0:15:53.080 --> 0:15:57.680 know what, my sister is not with her child today 0:15:57.680 --> 0:16:01.000 and it's her child's birthday. She's having surgery tomorrow. I'm 0:16:01.000 --> 0:16:04.840 sure she's a little stressed and in that healing phase, 0:16:05.000 --> 0:16:07.040 she's not going to be able to hold her children. 0:16:07.280 --> 0:16:10.440 That's where I wanted his mind to go. Okay, so 0:16:10.440 --> 0:16:14.640 where I want everyone's fucking mind to go. He didn't. 0:16:14.760 --> 0:16:16.840 It didn't go there. But that's what I was trying 0:16:16.880 --> 0:16:20.600 to convey, that like that stuff trumps your stuff. But 0:16:20.800 --> 0:16:28.280 the good thing is we're not doing that anymore. So 0:16:28.320 --> 0:16:29.239 he's identifying. 0:16:29.960 --> 0:16:32.840 If everyone is asked, yes, maybe I am in prison. 0:16:32.960 --> 0:16:38.640 At this house, do you feel that way? No? 0:16:39.120 --> 0:16:40.920 Just when people say it, I always just have to 0:16:40.920 --> 0:16:41.280 say it. 0:16:41.560 --> 0:16:41.800 No. 0:16:42.120 --> 0:16:44.760 I here's the thing. People say that I'm very selfless, 0:16:44.880 --> 0:16:46.080 and I do. 0:16:46.280 --> 0:17:01.920 Tell your selfless one more time. They all know. So 0:17:02.040 --> 0:17:06.120 this last weekend I was like, go identify, find who 0:17:06.160 --> 0:17:08.640 you are, what you like, guys, I don't give a shit. 0:17:08.720 --> 0:17:08.840 Go. 0:17:09.000 --> 0:17:14.040 Also, I didn't know this, but been talking to just 0:17:14.280 --> 0:17:17.679 you know, just chatting with people, just talking. 0:17:17.880 --> 0:17:19.320 So I was talking to this girl. 0:17:19.200 --> 0:17:23.560 And she was like, so do you have friends or 0:17:23.600 --> 0:17:25.800 do you just or do you just hang out with 0:17:25.840 --> 0:17:26.520 your family? 0:17:27.119 --> 0:17:29.560 Oh I didn't know that. She asked if you have friend. 0:17:29.640 --> 0:17:32.119 Yeah, so, and I was thinking of it and she 0:17:32.240 --> 0:17:35.080 was like, yeah, you just never post like anything. 0:17:35.119 --> 0:17:38.240 And I was thinking, like, how funny that that. 0:17:39.080 --> 0:17:42.080 But probably everybody thinks that because I go out with 0:17:42.119 --> 0:17:44.560 my friends a good amount and I never post me 0:17:44.720 --> 0:17:46.720 with my friends or what I'm doing. 0:17:47.040 --> 0:17:51.040 Oh really the moment, but like post your things? 0:17:51.040 --> 0:17:52.880 Are all post things when I'm with you guys, because 0:17:52.920 --> 0:17:54.080 I don't need to be in the moment. I'm with 0:17:54.119 --> 0:17:55.800 you guys all the time. I'm in the moment with 0:17:55.840 --> 0:17:58.000 my homies. No, I agree, But like I was, I 0:17:58.040 --> 0:17:59.760 was thinking about it, and I was like, wow, do 0:17:59.840 --> 0:18:02.359 I need to post my friends for people to think 0:18:02.400 --> 0:18:05.400 that I'm out away from my family because I am 0:18:05.560 --> 0:18:08.480 away from my family probably seventy percent of the time. 0:18:09.040 --> 0:18:14.320 I just don't post. But amazing weekend. But what were 0:18:14.320 --> 0:18:14.840 you going to say? 0:18:14.920 --> 0:18:20.560 I want to talk about your weekend? But two things. So, yes, 0:18:20.720 --> 0:18:22.520 I'm very there are times where I'm very much in 0:18:22.560 --> 0:18:24.439 the moment as well, where like I look back on 0:18:24.480 --> 0:18:27.439 my phone, I'm like, I didn't get any photos, Like 0:18:27.560 --> 0:18:29.760 fuck Instagram. I don't even have a memory of form 0:18:29.840 --> 0:18:32.960 me to like look back on. So I've been trying 0:18:33.000 --> 0:18:35.159 to be better about that and going to what that 0:18:35.240 --> 0:18:38.120 girl said, like do people think this because I don't 0:18:38.119 --> 0:18:38.560 post on this? 0:18:38.680 --> 0:18:40.840 She want saying it in a rude way, like she 0:18:41.000 --> 0:18:43.199 was like you say, like you're a family guy, like 0:18:43.240 --> 0:18:45.240 do you have friends or you just. 0:18:45.640 --> 0:18:50.800 I was like, wow, that is true, but you think 0:18:50.840 --> 0:18:54.320 about it and you're like social media is not real life, right, 0:18:54.359 --> 0:18:56.560 It's just like what I want you to see, what 0:18:56.600 --> 0:18:58.440 I want you to see, and then like people can 0:18:58.880 --> 0:19:02.720 perceive it however they want. We all know that perception 0:19:02.880 --> 0:19:07.360 is reality. So if if the reality is no one 0:19:07.400 --> 0:19:12.439 can get to know you other than watching your social 0:19:12.480 --> 0:19:14.879 media because that is a window just the day and 0:19:14.920 --> 0:19:17.280 age we live in, that is a window into your life. 0:19:18.359 --> 0:19:20.359 I go to people's social media, what are they posting 0:19:20.400 --> 0:19:22.200 If they don't have pictures that they haven't posted since 0:19:22.240 --> 0:19:24.920 like that's me twenty twenty three, I'm like, well, I'm 0:19:24.920 --> 0:19:26.879 moving on, like what did you die or something? 0:19:27.040 --> 0:19:29.840 Oh see, maybe I should post more. I have a 0:19:29.880 --> 0:19:30.520 post coming. 0:19:31.800 --> 0:19:34.280 They steal what I'm saying, and I can't wait to 0:19:34.280 --> 0:19:35.800 see that. And I'm so excited to talk about it 0:19:35.800 --> 0:19:37.520 because I know you had the best time and you 0:19:37.600 --> 0:19:43.480 identified your ass on. But that is the window into 0:19:44.040 --> 0:19:45.159 what your life is about, and. 0:19:45.760 --> 0:19:48.040 That's where and that's where I was thinking about it. 0:19:48.080 --> 0:19:50.280 I feeling mad at that girl. No, Like that's where 0:19:50.280 --> 0:19:54.440 I'm saying, like, I am that as well. 0:19:54.520 --> 0:19:56.119 Just like you said, if I go to a girl's 0:19:56.119 --> 0:19:57.800 page and she's not posting, I'm like, oh, she's not 0:19:57.880 --> 0:19:58.960 even active, why move? 0:19:59.320 --> 0:20:00.560 And that is me. 0:20:00.880 --> 0:20:03.879 I will post a story maybe once a week, maybe 0:20:04.520 --> 0:20:09.320 in a post once a year. Yeah, I need to 0:20:09.359 --> 0:20:09.880 get on that. 0:20:10.600 --> 0:20:12.280 Yeah, I think just like, would you guys like to 0:20:12.280 --> 0:20:13.240 see in my life? 0:20:13.680 --> 0:20:17.320 Yes, everyone wants to see into your life, we all do. 0:20:18.040 --> 0:20:19.960 But no, my weekend was amazing. 0:20:20.520 --> 0:20:23.120 If you are, yeah, talk about your identity. What did 0:20:23.119 --> 0:20:25.359 you do to identify this weekend? Guys? 0:20:25.520 --> 0:20:30.280 I identified so fucking hard, so fucking great. I went 0:20:30.320 --> 0:20:36.480 to on Saturday Friday night, I went to a play okay, 0:20:36.480 --> 0:20:41.040 and it was it's called Wait Until Dark and it's 0:20:41.080 --> 0:20:42.560 in you. 0:20:42.600 --> 0:20:46.000 Got it in Santa Clarita, right, yes, Wow. 0:20:46.440 --> 0:20:52.480 I went to Yes, the best little like theater cute 0:20:52.680 --> 0:20:56.560 older had so much character in it. But one of 0:20:56.560 --> 0:21:01.399 my good friends, Calvin Cobb, the cob Measter, his girlfriend 0:21:01.680 --> 0:21:04.359 was like the main character in this play and she 0:21:04.440 --> 0:21:07.199 plays like a blind girl. It's a it's a remake 0:21:07.240 --> 0:21:09.320 of a play. You've probably seen it. But went that 0:21:09.440 --> 0:21:11.680 day if you're looking for a play to go see. 0:21:11.760 --> 0:21:13.959 I had an amazing time, So went and did that. 0:21:14.000 --> 0:21:16.280 When got some food and just hung out after for 0:21:16.280 --> 0:21:22.239 a minute. Saturday, Yeah, Saturday, I was freaking out all 0:21:22.320 --> 0:21:27.000 day for no reason. The East Awards read. Yeah, and 0:21:27.080 --> 0:21:29.440 I hate reading. If anyone knows, I forget how to 0:21:29.480 --> 0:21:32.760 read too become dyslexic. It's like all the words, No, 0:21:32.920 --> 0:21:35.560 there's anything wrong with that. No, I just I'm dyslexic 0:21:35.600 --> 0:21:39.360 to that. Yeah, like yes, It's almost like I get 0:21:39.359 --> 0:21:41.320 so nervous that all of them jumble up that I 0:21:41.359 --> 0:21:44.280 can't read when it's just like breathe and read, you know, 0:21:44.720 --> 0:21:46.040 I scare myself. 0:21:46.359 --> 0:21:47.760 Yeah, totally so. 0:21:48.200 --> 0:21:51.040 But I went to the East Awards. When I tell you, 0:21:51.119 --> 0:21:53.439 this was the most fun award show I've ever been to. 0:21:54.080 --> 0:21:56.360 And I will be posting some things I do want 0:21:56.400 --> 0:21:59.560 to say thank you to Easton Allen, who is on 0:21:59.640 --> 0:22:03.440 the other side of this computer that is bringing you guys. 0:22:02.560 --> 0:22:06.639 Never that is also what we talked about. And I 0:22:06.680 --> 0:22:10.080 don't like my name. We talked about it. Every Easton 0:22:11.080 --> 0:22:14.959 is I've never met an Easton other than our Eastern 0:22:15.000 --> 0:22:18.000 Allen my age. We talked about this. Every one of 0:22:18.040 --> 0:22:22.000 them is ten years and younger. Believe it or not, 0:22:22.080 --> 0:22:24.280