1 00:00:00,160 --> 00:00:10,000 Speaker 1: Hello, gorgeous. It's Lala Kent. Welcome to untraditionally, Laala, Hello, gorgeous, 2 00:00:10,080 --> 00:00:16,400 Speaker 1: Welcome back to untraditionally, Lala. I am A couple days, No, 3 00:00:16,560 --> 00:00:20,080 Speaker 1: A couple of days, A couple of weeks, no money? 4 00:00:20,120 --> 00:00:21,959 Speaker 1: Am I? How many days has it been since. 5 00:00:21,760 --> 00:00:23,640 Speaker 2: I had surgery? What's today? 6 00:00:24,760 --> 00:00:24,840 Speaker 1: Like? 7 00:00:24,960 --> 00:00:25,480 Speaker 2: Ten days? 8 00:00:25,600 --> 00:00:29,520 Speaker 1: Like? Ten days? Almost two weeks? And I gotta say, 9 00:00:29,600 --> 00:00:32,440 Speaker 1: I'm not going to get too into the surgery because 10 00:00:32,520 --> 00:00:35,000 Speaker 1: I just find that to be a topic that Easton's 11 00:00:35,040 --> 00:00:37,159 Speaker 1: not going to want to deal with. I just so 12 00:00:37,240 --> 00:00:42,239 Speaker 1: I'll discuss it on an unlikely affair with Amber. But 13 00:00:43,760 --> 00:00:49,720 Speaker 1: I will say it has been tough. It's been tough. 14 00:00:50,360 --> 00:00:54,160 Speaker 1: It has been tough. I didn't think that the mental 15 00:00:54,240 --> 00:00:58,320 Speaker 1: aspect would be as hard as it's been. Someone tells 16 00:00:58,360 --> 00:01:00,560 Speaker 1: you can't hold your kid for four weeks, you already 17 00:01:00,560 --> 00:01:02,760 Speaker 1: go into like a full on spiral, but you're like, 18 00:01:02,800 --> 00:01:05,440 Speaker 1: it's gonna fly by the factor only ten days in. 19 00:01:05,600 --> 00:01:07,200 Speaker 1: I look at my children and I'm like, what I 20 00:01:07,200 --> 00:01:10,360 Speaker 1: would give to like pick you up, taking out the 21 00:01:10,680 --> 00:01:14,319 Speaker 1: bedtime routine, you know, Like I walk around Sosa's room 22 00:01:14,360 --> 00:01:16,160 Speaker 1: and she lays on me while I like sing her 23 00:01:16,200 --> 00:01:19,199 Speaker 1: a song and it's just a bonding moment. And last 24 00:01:19,280 --> 00:01:23,080 Speaker 1: night I was laying on not laying sitting on the ground, 25 00:01:23,080 --> 00:01:25,480 Speaker 1: and she kind of like fell into me, and so 26 00:01:25,520 --> 00:01:27,679 Speaker 1: I just kind of rocked her back and forth, like 27 00:01:27,720 --> 00:01:30,679 Speaker 1: while sitting on the ground with enough distance between my 28 00:01:30,800 --> 00:01:33,560 Speaker 1: chest and her body. There's just little things that have 29 00:01:33,640 --> 00:01:37,119 Speaker 1: been messing with me and the workout. Like I've been 30 00:01:37,120 --> 00:01:39,480 Speaker 1: really into starting my day with like wake up, have 31 00:01:39,560 --> 00:01:42,280 Speaker 1: my coffee, throw the bed together, go in my room, 32 00:01:42,440 --> 00:01:47,320 Speaker 1: get in my workout stuff, and you know, plump the bum, 33 00:01:48,000 --> 00:01:50,240 Speaker 1: and I'm just really worried that my body's gonna lose 34 00:01:50,280 --> 00:01:53,760 Speaker 1: its shape. Do you even care about what the fuck 35 00:01:53,800 --> 00:01:55,200 Speaker 1: I'm saying now? 36 00:01:55,320 --> 00:02:07,560 Speaker 3: I turned it out turn into a anyway, the vaping 37 00:02:07,800 --> 00:02:08,960 Speaker 3: during recovery. 38 00:02:09,680 --> 00:02:11,520 Speaker 2: Sorry, I smacked the shit out of it. 39 00:02:16,320 --> 00:02:19,320 Speaker 1: Oh, I can't even talk about it. I look at Easton, 40 00:02:19,400 --> 00:02:21,800 Speaker 1: I'm like, I know the feeling of like the first 41 00:02:21,960 --> 00:02:24,680 Speaker 1: puff of the day. I'm so jealous. 42 00:02:24,760 --> 00:02:26,840 Speaker 2: Can I be honest to you? Always? 43 00:02:27,160 --> 00:02:29,920 Speaker 4: I was going to We talked about it yesterday, A 44 00:02:30,040 --> 00:02:33,400 Speaker 4: break for Eastern Yeah. I woke up this morning and 45 00:02:33,400 --> 00:02:35,360 Speaker 4: I was like, I don't need it. And then I 46 00:02:35,360 --> 00:02:37,880 Speaker 4: got on Instagram and I just saw my buddy's story 47 00:02:37,880 --> 00:02:39,720 Speaker 4: and like he was reading a book and his vapes 48 00:02:39,760 --> 00:02:40,239 Speaker 4: on his chest. 49 00:02:40,280 --> 00:02:42,680 Speaker 2: I was like, yeah, I'm gonna hit the vapes. I'm 50 00:02:42,680 --> 00:02:43,400 Speaker 2: gonna hit that thing. 51 00:02:44,120 --> 00:02:48,959 Speaker 1: I know it's it's really delicious. I don't have much 52 00:02:51,919 --> 00:02:56,840 Speaker 1: is stoph so, but I haven't. I have not actively 53 00:02:56,880 --> 00:03:02,639 Speaker 1: been thinking about it because I just est is on 54 00:03:03,040 --> 00:03:07,799 Speaker 1: fire and I need very sore. And then the thought 55 00:03:07,880 --> 00:03:13,120 Speaker 1: of like what the vape or nicotine does to healing 56 00:03:13,280 --> 00:03:15,800 Speaker 1: it just immediately turns you off. You're like, I'm not 57 00:03:16,080 --> 00:03:18,560 Speaker 1: I'm not touching that fucking thing. Are you crazy? I 58 00:03:18,560 --> 00:03:23,480 Speaker 1: did not go through all of this the va by that. 59 00:03:23,800 --> 00:03:26,560 Speaker 1: I also thought there was just something like very unwell 60 00:03:26,720 --> 00:03:29,279 Speaker 1: about smacking a vape while I have, like Drake. 61 00:03:32,000 --> 00:03:37,120 Speaker 5: They have smokeing them. Now that's when you know you 62 00:03:37,240 --> 00:03:42,720 Speaker 5: need fucking help. It just seemed a little trashy. 63 00:03:43,240 --> 00:03:47,120 Speaker 2: Aastin, can you grab me my? What are they? 64 00:03:47,720 --> 00:03:52,320 Speaker 4: I don't know those pills the the people get addicted 65 00:03:52,360 --> 00:03:56,200 Speaker 4: to hydro Easton, can you give me a hydra code 66 00:03:56,320 --> 00:03:58,280 Speaker 4: and the vape? 67 00:03:58,640 --> 00:04:01,240 Speaker 1: That's what we we do, go into full tree, stop 68 00:04:01,360 --> 00:04:05,080 Speaker 1: the hydrot right. Actually though I only took the hydros 69 00:04:05,160 --> 00:04:10,000 Speaker 1: for like two three days. They only gave you. 70 00:04:10,880 --> 00:04:12,800 Speaker 2: I want to say, they only gave you like eight 71 00:04:12,960 --> 00:04:15,200 Speaker 2: and you still had it. Gave me enough for a week. 72 00:04:15,320 --> 00:04:19,359 Speaker 4: I did not. I'm not into those. I'm not into pills. 73 00:04:19,440 --> 00:04:22,080 Speaker 4: I'm not into pillies. We come from Utah. We're not 74 00:04:22,120 --> 00:04:22,799 Speaker 4: into pillies. 75 00:04:23,320 --> 00:04:26,520 Speaker 1: People in Utah into because we're from there. We're like 76 00:04:26,680 --> 00:04:28,960 Speaker 1: that just seems we're just gonna have a dream. 77 00:04:30,520 --> 00:04:32,080 Speaker 2: We'll just really go down. 78 00:04:32,480 --> 00:04:36,560 Speaker 1: I have a really addictive personality, So don't pills, just liquor. 79 00:04:37,880 --> 00:04:41,360 Speaker 1: But I only I only took them like before bed 80 00:04:41,400 --> 00:04:44,239 Speaker 1: because it's been painful and like my armpits are numb 81 00:04:44,800 --> 00:04:47,599 Speaker 1: parts of my arm. Yeah, I was just starting to 82 00:04:47,640 --> 00:04:51,400 Speaker 1: come back. I don't know. It was an intense surgery. Anyway, 83 00:04:52,000 --> 00:04:54,520 Speaker 1: you had a fun weekend hold on you guys before 84 00:04:54,560 --> 00:04:58,440 Speaker 1: we before we talked about it, though my identity showed 85 00:04:58,440 --> 00:05:00,680 Speaker 1: me no, we're going to talk about your But that's 86 00:05:00,720 --> 00:05:02,960 Speaker 1: a long winded story. I have to talk about this 87 00:05:03,200 --> 00:05:08,240 Speaker 1: because over the weekend Easton told me about this guy, 88 00:05:08,360 --> 00:05:11,320 Speaker 1: this basketball player, and his name is Grady Dick Okay, 89 00:05:11,320 --> 00:05:14,280 Speaker 1: and I was like, that is an awful name name. 90 00:05:14,400 --> 00:05:17,920 Speaker 1: Why would he not change his name? His last name 91 00:05:17,960 --> 00:05:22,680 Speaker 1: to something else or even or even like sent the 92 00:05:22,800 --> 00:05:24,839 Speaker 1: end of his name so it's great day, Dick. It's 93 00:05:24,880 --> 00:05:30,800 Speaker 1: not something Yeah, I'm like, you just do something to like, 94 00:05:30,880 --> 00:05:34,640 Speaker 1: either make it funny or changed the whole name. 95 00:05:34,839 --> 00:05:39,599 Speaker 4: Parents fault for gritty Dick. I know it's grady, But 96 00:05:40,200 --> 00:05:42,400 Speaker 4: wouldn't you with that last name Dick. Wouldn't you be like, 97 00:05:42,520 --> 00:05:43,760 Speaker 4: let's just name him like? 98 00:05:44,000 --> 00:05:46,159 Speaker 1: No, I would have Jack Dick. 99 00:05:52,200 --> 00:05:56,320 Speaker 2: No, will you jack my Dick? 100 00:05:57,480 --> 00:06:00,440 Speaker 1: I would have changed my last name. You can do that, 101 00:06:00,800 --> 00:06:03,360 Speaker 1: and I don't even think the office is wherever you 102 00:06:03,400 --> 00:06:04,680 Speaker 1: go to have that done. 103 00:06:05,160 --> 00:06:08,440 Speaker 4: Would fight you on it. The last name Dick than Burningham, 104 00:06:09,360 --> 00:06:12,240 Speaker 4: I would. I'm sick of telling people how to spell Burningham. 105 00:06:12,279 --> 00:06:14,840 Speaker 4: I would have saved years off my life with just 106 00:06:14,880 --> 00:06:18,280 Speaker 4: saying my last name is Dick burning Ham. 107 00:06:18,680 --> 00:06:21,440 Speaker 1: I just say, like you're burning chicken, but burning Ham 108 00:06:21,520 --> 00:06:27,800 Speaker 1: and they go to the that's so funny. Yeah, I 109 00:06:27,920 --> 00:06:31,160 Speaker 1: read every time I'm on the phone with someone, this 110 00:06:31,279 --> 00:06:34,440 Speaker 1: bitch could be as cold as an ice queen. And 111 00:06:34,560 --> 00:06:37,360 Speaker 1: the moment I say my last name and drop that, 112 00:06:38,000 --> 00:06:42,280 Speaker 1: they warm up. They do they warm up? Or how 113 00:06:42,279 --> 00:06:44,360 Speaker 1: many times have you said that? And I go too 114 00:06:44,480 --> 00:06:47,000 Speaker 1: many to count, and then I don't think it's even funny. 115 00:06:47,080 --> 00:06:49,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, they get fun. Then they're like, ah, so 116 00:06:49,160 --> 00:06:51,680 Speaker 2: how are you And I'm like, we go but Grady Dick. 117 00:06:51,800 --> 00:06:53,800 Speaker 1: But now I don't want him to change it because 118 00:06:53,880 --> 00:06:56,480 Speaker 1: of what you showed it on TikTok. 119 00:06:56,640 --> 00:07:01,080 Speaker 4: So this man, his last name is band from the 120 00:07:01,200 --> 00:07:03,520 Speaker 4: NBA for jersey. 121 00:07:03,200 --> 00:07:05,520 Speaker 1: Swaps, Greedy Dick, Grady Dick. 122 00:07:05,920 --> 00:07:07,279 Speaker 2: So usually we've all seen it. 123 00:07:07,360 --> 00:07:10,320 Speaker 4: After a game, you know, opponent, you fight it out 124 00:07:10,360 --> 00:07:12,800 Speaker 4: and then new jersey swap because you respect one another 125 00:07:12,840 --> 00:07:14,400 Speaker 4: and you want their jersey and dah da dah they 126 00:07:14,400 --> 00:07:14,800 Speaker 4: sign it. 127 00:07:15,080 --> 00:07:18,040 Speaker 1: So Grady Dick went. 128 00:07:19,200 --> 00:07:25,600 Speaker 4: And there's a dude named White. No, I think it 129 00:07:25,680 --> 00:07:28,000 Speaker 4: was black and black. Well, no, there's two of them. 130 00:07:28,040 --> 00:07:30,720 Speaker 4: There was started started with. 131 00:07:32,560 --> 00:07:34,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, did it start or end with that? 132 00:07:34,240 --> 00:07:36,240 Speaker 1: I think it ended with him. I think they had. 133 00:07:37,920 --> 00:07:40,080 Speaker 4: And there was a one with a little The guy 134 00:07:40,160 --> 00:07:43,080 Speaker 4: the gentleman's last name was little, So every jersey swap 135 00:07:43,200 --> 00:07:47,480 Speaker 4: they'd put the the person in front and then Dick, 136 00:07:47,600 --> 00:07:50,559 Speaker 4: so it was Black Dick, White Dick. 137 00:07:51,240 --> 00:07:52,120 Speaker 1: Little Dick. 138 00:07:53,440 --> 00:07:55,559 Speaker 2: Immediately wanted him as my friend. 139 00:07:55,800 --> 00:07:57,880 Speaker 1: I was like, I hope he never changed his name. 140 00:07:58,160 --> 00:08:03,360 Speaker 6: He's fun he is why we laugh, but I can't 141 00:08:04,160 --> 00:08:07,720 Speaker 6: how like, how would you feel if they were like, 142 00:08:07,920 --> 00:08:10,960 Speaker 6: you're banned from jersey swapping and you're like, so, my 143 00:08:11,080 --> 00:08:12,600 Speaker 6: last name is Ban Paston. 144 00:08:12,960 --> 00:08:15,720 Speaker 1: His last name isn't Ban. It's like, do a jersey swap. 145 00:08:15,760 --> 00:08:18,040 Speaker 1: But we kind of are onto you, like, don't don't 146 00:08:18,040 --> 00:08:23,760 Speaker 1: insult my intelligence you're posting. And who was it? Orlando Magic? Yeah, 147 00:08:24,200 --> 00:08:27,360 Speaker 1: who posted on their socials after he did the black 148 00:08:27,440 --> 00:08:27,840 Speaker 1: dick thing. 149 00:08:28,640 --> 00:08:31,160 Speaker 6: Yeah, and then they immediately got fired and they were 150 00:08:32,280 --> 00:08:32,959 Speaker 6: social media. 151 00:08:35,320 --> 00:08:36,520 Speaker 2: That guy deserves a raise. 152 00:08:36,960 --> 00:08:40,040 Speaker 1: I think it's so funny anyway that that's what made 153 00:08:40,320 --> 00:08:41,840 Speaker 1: that and a big bowl. 154 00:08:44,679 --> 00:08:48,200 Speaker 4: A big Grady take just reminded me of the dild 155 00:08:48,200 --> 00:08:51,440 Speaker 4: all that flew onto the NBA court the w NBA court. 156 00:08:51,440 --> 00:08:55,720 Speaker 4: Don't you remember the flying dildo who just stuck you guys. 157 00:08:56,160 --> 00:08:59,160 Speaker 4: There's nothing funnier. She's been dying at this for the 158 00:08:59,160 --> 00:09:01,760 Speaker 4: past week, and I think it's great. We've been on 159 00:09:01,760 --> 00:09:05,840 Speaker 4: to triple bes. Laren has been dying at a big 160 00:09:05,880 --> 00:09:11,160 Speaker 4: bull of berries before bad. I want a big bull 161 00:09:11,200 --> 00:09:12,840 Speaker 4: of berries before bad. 162 00:09:13,000 --> 00:09:19,120 Speaker 1: I'm crying. I not get it out my mind. I 163 00:09:19,200 --> 00:09:22,120 Speaker 1: will sit there and have gut. 164 00:09:21,679 --> 00:09:24,480 Speaker 4: She was laughing by herself last night, Let's just put 165 00:09:24,480 --> 00:09:29,600 Speaker 4: it that way. She's at the kitchen table, she is talking, 166 00:09:30,200 --> 00:09:33,240 Speaker 4: her mind knows where she's going, so she's pre laughing 167 00:09:33,360 --> 00:09:36,160 Speaker 4: because she's getting to the big bull of berries. She 168 00:09:36,360 --> 00:09:43,520 Speaker 4: looks at me already winded, couldn't even say it. I'm 169 00:09:43,600 --> 00:09:51,960 Speaker 4: laughing because oh my god, oh it hurts, Oh my god. 170 00:09:52,160 --> 00:09:56,200 Speaker 4: So every time you see this bitch laughing for no reason, 171 00:09:56,720 --> 00:09:59,880 Speaker 4: just no big bullet berries is going through her fucking mind, 172 00:10:00,000 --> 00:10:05,960 Speaker 4: all right, Jesus Christ. And then not only that, I 173 00:10:06,080 --> 00:10:09,440 Speaker 4: was playing in my base in my softball league, and 174 00:10:09,679 --> 00:10:12,480 Speaker 4: I'm about to leave, and I go, I'm going to 175 00:10:12,520 --> 00:10:17,280 Speaker 4: go to CBS because I'm going to get braces, and 176 00:10:17,320 --> 00:10:19,320 Speaker 4: she goes for what, And I go because I've been 177 00:10:19,360 --> 00:10:23,000 Speaker 4: wearing these big bulky braces. And I lost her right there. 178 00:10:23,080 --> 00:10:25,200 Speaker 4: And then from there I just went and plaid softball 179 00:10:25,960 --> 00:10:28,880 Speaker 4: my stomach. Yeah, this is what the exact reaction was. 180 00:10:28,880 --> 00:10:30,240 Speaker 4: And I was like, all right, have a good one. 181 00:10:31,080 --> 00:10:33,400 Speaker 4: So if you really want to get this one to laugh, 182 00:10:33,600 --> 00:10:37,560 Speaker 4: triple b it, big bulky braces, big bull oft berries 183 00:10:38,679 --> 00:10:40,760 Speaker 4: or big brown breeches, you're there. 184 00:10:48,360 --> 00:10:51,760 Speaker 2: So you need where's the inside track. 185 00:10:54,200 --> 00:11:03,960 Speaker 4: Who oh my god, it's so funny. So that was 186 00:11:04,080 --> 00:11:07,800 Speaker 4: our weekend, was this triple bass but faller brand. 187 00:11:07,880 --> 00:11:10,440 Speaker 1: And it's not. It's not because I'm on drugs. 188 00:11:10,760 --> 00:11:12,160 Speaker 2: It really is that fine. 189 00:11:12,240 --> 00:11:14,000 Speaker 4: No, we thought it was at first, but now she's 190 00:11:14,040 --> 00:11:16,200 Speaker 4: off of them and it's still getting her. 191 00:11:16,520 --> 00:11:21,880 Speaker 1: You guys still getting my stomach. Wow, that is so funny. 192 00:11:22,160 --> 00:11:26,360 Speaker 1: There's nothing better than laughing mouth dry. I'm so happy 193 00:11:26,400 --> 00:11:30,280 Speaker 1: that just happened. Anyway, moving on, so Eastan tell us 194 00:11:30,280 --> 00:11:33,200 Speaker 1: about your weekend. Let me say one thing before we 195 00:11:33,240 --> 00:11:36,760 Speaker 1: move on from this. Easton has told us multiple times 196 00:11:37,640 --> 00:11:40,959 Speaker 1: that he wants to find his own identity. I have 197 00:11:41,080 --> 00:11:43,760 Speaker 1: no problem with this. I'm like, God, identify, I don't 198 00:11:43,760 --> 00:11:45,320 Speaker 1: give a five. It's a fie. 199 00:11:46,600 --> 00:11:48,480 Speaker 4: They say that until I go into it, and then 200 00:11:48,480 --> 00:11:50,920 Speaker 4: they're like, we means you that's not true. 201 00:11:51,160 --> 00:11:57,200 Speaker 1: Oh really, Sunday, what happened Sunday? Back burner, front burner? 202 00:11:58,840 --> 00:12:02,520 Speaker 1: What are you talking about? When we went to Blue Jam? 203 00:12:03,240 --> 00:12:07,960 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, she already forgot because it was my daughter's birthday, 204 00:12:08,480 --> 00:12:13,119 Speaker 1: March fifteenth. She's with her dad. 205 00:12:12,880 --> 00:12:14,560 Speaker 2: That day and they're at Disneyland. 206 00:12:14,559 --> 00:12:16,760 Speaker 1: They're at Disneyland and I'm like, oh, what sounds more 207 00:12:16,800 --> 00:12:19,280 Speaker 1: fun popping in to see your mom, who you see 208 00:12:19,320 --> 00:12:22,440 Speaker 1: every fucking day of your life, and taking away from 209 00:12:22,480 --> 00:12:25,000 Speaker 1: Disneyland or just like staying at Disneyland. So I made 210 00:12:25,040 --> 00:12:30,240 Speaker 1: the selfless decision keep her at Disney I'll catch her 211 00:12:30,400 --> 00:12:32,360 Speaker 1: when you guys are finished whatever. Like I didn't see 212 00:12:32,360 --> 00:12:36,360 Speaker 1: her on her birthday, which is a travesty if you 213 00:12:36,400 --> 00:12:38,680 Speaker 1: really think about it. She spent nine months in my body, 214 00:12:38,679 --> 00:12:41,360 Speaker 1: and that like he was like never around, and then 215 00:12:41,440 --> 00:12:43,200 Speaker 1: all of the sudden the day of her birth, like 216 00:12:43,360 --> 00:12:45,760 Speaker 1: you're going to take her to Disneyland. That's a whole 217 00:12:45,760 --> 00:12:49,240 Speaker 1: different set of balls. Yeah, let's just like not even 218 00:12:49,280 --> 00:12:52,320 Speaker 1: go there because I don't need to light anyone up today. Anyway, 219 00:12:52,440 --> 00:12:54,360 Speaker 1: it was fine, and then the next day I go 220 00:12:54,440 --> 00:12:58,239 Speaker 1: in for surgery. So I'm a little sensitive and emotional. 221 00:13:00,080 --> 00:13:04,320 Speaker 4: Okay, you wanted the Here's the thing, guys, everybody wants 222 00:13:05,080 --> 00:13:05,760 Speaker 4: my energy. 223 00:13:05,920 --> 00:13:08,560 Speaker 2: I've got great energy. When you meet me, you'll know 224 00:13:08,720 --> 00:13:12,600 Speaker 2: I'm a good guy. I will say that I'm selfless. 225 00:13:13,120 --> 00:13:16,199 Speaker 4: That's where I'm signing very finding my identity because I'm 226 00:13:16,280 --> 00:13:20,520 Speaker 4: very selfless, and I'll put what I want to do 227 00:13:21,120 --> 00:13:23,160 Speaker 4: on the side and do other things. So like, I'm 228 00:13:23,200 --> 00:13:26,400 Speaker 4: taking my life back and having my own identity, and 229 00:13:26,559 --> 00:13:29,680 Speaker 4: in that I had to hang out with Jenna, which 230 00:13:29,800 --> 00:13:35,160 Speaker 4: was not had to it just that's so rude. I'm 231 00:13:35,200 --> 00:13:36,040 Speaker 4: taking my identity. 232 00:13:36,200 --> 00:13:40,440 Speaker 1: All this started was it was Ocean's birthday. I was 233 00:13:40,520 --> 00:13:44,400 Speaker 1: sensitive the family, me and my mom are like, let's 234 00:13:44,440 --> 00:13:48,240 Speaker 1: go celebrate Ocean by going to Blue Jam. Let's walk 235 00:13:48,240 --> 00:13:50,520 Speaker 1: to Blue Jam. It's like ten thirty. Easton has a 236 00:13:50,520 --> 00:13:53,480 Speaker 1: friend over. He walks through the front door. Easton, we 237 00:13:53,520 --> 00:13:56,040 Speaker 1: had a very late ly night, We're going to breakfast. 238 00:13:56,120 --> 00:13:59,880 Speaker 1: Let's go, and this guy chooses to be so insensitive 239 00:14:00,080 --> 00:14:01,400 Speaker 1: and so fucking rude. 240 00:14:01,600 --> 00:14:04,400 Speaker 4: No, I had knives out, and I do apologize. I 241 00:14:04,559 --> 00:14:07,960 Speaker 4: was very Here's the thing I just said it. I'm 242 00:14:08,080 --> 00:14:11,960 Speaker 4: very selfless. I always put myself last, and in that 243 00:14:12,160 --> 00:14:14,559 Speaker 4: I was like, okay, we're waking up and I did this. 244 00:14:14,760 --> 00:14:18,120 Speaker 4: I didn't think about your surgery. I did think about 245 00:14:18,120 --> 00:14:20,600 Speaker 4: your daughter's birthday, but I thought we had already celebrated. 246 00:14:20,640 --> 00:14:23,880 Speaker 1: Okay, But he's like being a dick. So I'm like, 247 00:14:23,920 --> 00:14:25,680 Speaker 1: you know what, fuck this. I take my daughter for 248 00:14:25,720 --> 00:14:28,040 Speaker 1: a walk because now I feel the daggers coming out 249 00:14:28,160 --> 00:14:32,760 Speaker 1: of my vocal cords. Wanting to exit off of my 250 00:14:32,880 --> 00:14:35,640 Speaker 1: tongue and ruin everyone's fucking day, because that's what I 251 00:14:35,640 --> 00:14:37,640 Speaker 1: love to do. There's just times where I'm like, you 252 00:14:37,640 --> 00:14:39,200 Speaker 1: know what, I'm going to launch a grenade and I'm 253 00:14:39,200 --> 00:14:42,360 Speaker 1: going to ruin everyone's fucking day. Trying not to do 254 00:14:42,440 --> 00:14:45,560 Speaker 1: that though, So I take a little walk. I get 255 00:14:45,680 --> 00:14:49,479 Speaker 1: back to the house. Everyone's calmed down. We walk to breakfast. 256 00:14:49,600 --> 00:14:51,840 Speaker 1: We can have a productive conversation now, and I say 257 00:14:51,880 --> 00:14:55,200 Speaker 1: to Easton, I'll sorry about his knees. 258 00:14:55,320 --> 00:14:59,040 Speaker 2: Let's all listened to what she says to that right now? 259 00:14:59,320 --> 00:15:06,080 Speaker 1: I said, Easton, what you want and your identity is important, 260 00:15:06,080 --> 00:15:11,080 Speaker 1: Like your needs in life are very important. But when 261 00:15:11,120 --> 00:15:14,120 Speaker 1: I have needs, they trump yours. She goes. 262 00:15:14,440 --> 00:15:18,240 Speaker 4: Your needs are a front burner. Yes, you have to 263 00:15:18,360 --> 00:15:21,320 Speaker 4: tend to them, she goes. But when my life hits 264 00:15:21,560 --> 00:15:24,640 Speaker 4: she goes, I then have to take that front burner. 265 00:15:25,240 --> 00:15:26,840 Speaker 1: And I go, did you just listen to yourself? 266 00:15:26,840 --> 00:15:29,680 Speaker 2: And you go That came off wrong, and that came. 267 00:15:29,560 --> 00:15:33,600 Speaker 1: Off definitely sounded better. What I was meaning was your 268 00:15:33,680 --> 00:15:36,560 Speaker 1: ship is unimportant right now because think of my I 269 00:15:36,600 --> 00:15:38,840 Speaker 1: need you to like put yourself in my shoes to 270 00:15:38,920 --> 00:15:43,040 Speaker 1: day any other day any other day today, I need 271 00:15:43,120 --> 00:15:46,160 Speaker 1: you to think this family. You know, this is called dealing, 272 00:15:46,480 --> 00:15:51,240 Speaker 1: this is just called men and any other day. But 273 00:15:51,320 --> 00:15:53,080 Speaker 1: I need you in this moment to be like, you 274 00:15:53,080 --> 00:15:57,680 Speaker 1: know what, my sister is not with her child today 275 00:15:57,680 --> 00:16:01,000 Speaker 1: and it's her child's birthday. She's having surgery tomorrow. I'm 276 00:16:01,000 --> 00:16:04,840 Speaker 1: sure she's a little stressed and in that healing phase, 277 00:16:05,000 --> 00:16:07,040 Speaker 1: she's not going to be able to hold her children. 278 00:16:07,280 --> 00:16:10,440 Speaker 1: That's where I wanted his mind to go. Okay, so 279 00:16:10,440 --> 00:16:14,640 Speaker 1: where I want everyone's fucking mind to go. He didn't. 280 00:16:14,760 --> 00:16:16,840 Speaker 1: It didn't go there. But that's what I was trying 281 00:16:16,880 --> 00:16:20,600 Speaker 1: to convey, that like that stuff trumps your stuff. But 282 00:16:20,800 --> 00:16:28,280 Speaker 1: the good thing is we're not doing that anymore. So 283 00:16:28,320 --> 00:16:29,239 Speaker 1: he's identifying. 284 00:16:29,960 --> 00:16:32,840 Speaker 2: If everyone is asked, yes, maybe I am in prison. 285 00:16:32,960 --> 00:16:38,640 Speaker 1: At this house, do you feel that way? No? 286 00:16:39,120 --> 00:16:40,920 Speaker 2: Just when people say it, I always just have to 287 00:16:40,920 --> 00:16:41,280 Speaker 2: say it. 288 00:16:41,560 --> 00:16:41,800 Speaker 1: No. 289 00:16:42,120 --> 00:16:44,760 Speaker 2: I here's the thing. People say that I'm very selfless, 290 00:16:44,880 --> 00:16:46,080 Speaker 2: and I do. 291 00:16:46,280 --> 00:17:01,920 Speaker 1: Tell your selfless one more time. They all know. So 292 00:17:02,040 --> 00:17:06,120 Speaker 1: this last weekend I was like, go identify, find who 293 00:17:06,160 --> 00:17:08,640 Speaker 1: you are, what you like, guys, I don't give a shit. 294 00:17:08,720 --> 00:17:08,840 Speaker 3: Go. 295 00:17:09,000 --> 00:17:14,040 Speaker 4: Also, I didn't know this, but been talking to just 296 00:17:14,280 --> 00:17:17,679 Speaker 4: you know, just chatting with people, just talking. 297 00:17:17,880 --> 00:17:19,320 Speaker 1: So I was talking to this girl. 298 00:17:19,200 --> 00:17:23,560 Speaker 4: And she was like, so do you have friends or 299 00:17:23,600 --> 00:17:25,800 Speaker 4: do you just or do you just hang out with 300 00:17:25,840 --> 00:17:26,520 Speaker 4: your family? 301 00:17:27,119 --> 00:17:29,560 Speaker 1: Oh I didn't know that. She asked if you have friend. 302 00:17:29,640 --> 00:17:32,119 Speaker 4: Yeah, so, and I was thinking of it and she 303 00:17:32,240 --> 00:17:35,080 Speaker 4: was like, yeah, you just never post like anything. 304 00:17:35,119 --> 00:17:38,240 Speaker 2: And I was thinking, like, how funny that that. 305 00:17:39,080 --> 00:17:42,080 Speaker 4: But probably everybody thinks that because I go out with 306 00:17:42,119 --> 00:17:44,560 Speaker 4: my friends a good amount and I never post me 307 00:17:44,720 --> 00:17:46,720 Speaker 4: with my friends or what I'm doing. 308 00:17:47,040 --> 00:17:51,040 Speaker 2: Oh really the moment, but like post your things? 309 00:17:51,040 --> 00:17:52,880 Speaker 4: Are all post things when I'm with you guys, because 310 00:17:52,920 --> 00:17:54,080 Speaker 4: I don't need to be in the moment. I'm with 311 00:17:54,119 --> 00:17:55,800 Speaker 4: you guys all the time. I'm in the moment with 312 00:17:55,840 --> 00:17:58,000 Speaker 4: my homies. No, I agree, But like I was, I 313 00:17:58,040 --> 00:17:59,760 Speaker 4: was thinking about it, and I was like, wow, do 314 00:17:59,840 --> 00:18:02,359 Speaker 4: I need to post my friends for people to think 315 00:18:02,400 --> 00:18:05,400 Speaker 4: that I'm out away from my family because I am 316 00:18:05,560 --> 00:18:08,480 Speaker 4: away from my family probably seventy percent of the time. 317 00:18:09,040 --> 00:18:14,320 Speaker 2: I just don't post. But amazing weekend. But what were 318 00:18:14,320 --> 00:18:14,840 Speaker 2: you going to say? 319 00:18:14,920 --> 00:18:20,560 Speaker 1: I want to talk about your weekend? But two things. So, yes, 320 00:18:20,720 --> 00:18:22,520 Speaker 1: I'm very there are times where I'm very much in 321 00:18:22,560 --> 00:18:24,439 Speaker 1: the moment as well, where like I look back on 322 00:18:24,480 --> 00:18:27,439 Speaker 1: my phone, I'm like, I didn't get any photos, Like 323 00:18:27,560 --> 00:18:29,760 Speaker 1: fuck Instagram. I don't even have a memory of form 324 00:18:29,840 --> 00:18:32,960 Speaker 1: me to like look back on. So I've been trying 325 00:18:33,000 --> 00:18:35,159 Speaker 1: to be better about that and going to what that 326 00:18:35,240 --> 00:18:38,120 Speaker 1: girl said, like do people think this because I don't 327 00:18:38,119 --> 00:18:38,560 Speaker 1: post on this? 328 00:18:38,680 --> 00:18:40,840 Speaker 4: She want saying it in a rude way, like she 329 00:18:41,000 --> 00:18:43,199 Speaker 4: was like you say, like you're a family guy, like 330 00:18:43,240 --> 00:18:45,240 Speaker 4: do you have friends or you just. 331 00:18:45,640 --> 00:18:50,800 Speaker 1: I was like, wow, that is true, but you think 332 00:18:50,840 --> 00:18:54,320 Speaker 1: about it and you're like social media is not real life, right, 333 00:18:54,359 --> 00:18:56,560 Speaker 1: It's just like what I want you to see, what 334 00:18:56,600 --> 00:18:58,440 Speaker 1: I want you to see, and then like people can 335 00:18:58,880 --> 00:19:02,720 Speaker 1: perceive it however they want. We all know that perception 336 00:19:02,880 --> 00:19:07,360 Speaker 1: is reality. So if if the reality is no one 337 00:19:07,400 --> 00:19:12,439 Speaker 1: can get to know you other than watching your social 338 00:19:12,480 --> 00:19:14,879 Speaker 1: media because that is a window just the day and 339 00:19:14,920 --> 00:19:17,280 Speaker 1: age we live in, that is a window into your life. 340 00:19:18,359 --> 00:19:20,359 Speaker 1: I go to people's social media, what are they posting 341 00:19:20,400 --> 00:19:22,200 Speaker 1: If they don't have pictures that they haven't posted since 342 00:19:22,240 --> 00:19:24,920 Speaker 1: like that's me twenty twenty three, I'm like, well, I'm 343 00:19:24,920 --> 00:19:26,879 Speaker 1: moving on, like what did you die or something? 344 00:19:27,040 --> 00:19:29,840 Speaker 2: Oh see, maybe I should post more. I have a 345 00:19:29,880 --> 00:19:30,520 Speaker 2: post coming. 346 00:19:31,800 --> 00:19:34,280 Speaker 1: They steal what I'm saying, and I can't wait to 347 00:19:34,280 --> 00:19:35,800 Speaker 1: see that. And I'm so excited to talk about it 348 00:19:35,800 --> 00:19:37,520 Speaker 1: because I know you had the best time and you 349 00:19:37,600 --> 00:19:43,480 Speaker 1: identified your ass on. But that is the window into 350 00:19:44,040 --> 00:19:45,159 Speaker 1: what your life is about, and. 351 00:19:45,760 --> 00:19:48,040 Speaker 2: That's where and that's where I was thinking about it. 352 00:19:48,080 --> 00:19:50,280 Speaker 6: I feeling mad at that girl. No, Like that's where 353 00:19:50,280 --> 00:19:54,440 Speaker 6: I'm saying, like, I am that as well. 354 00:19:54,520 --> 00:19:56,119 Speaker 4: Just like you said, if I go to a girl's 355 00:19:56,119 --> 00:19:57,800 Speaker 4: page and she's not posting, I'm like, oh, she's not 356 00:19:57,880 --> 00:19:58,960 Speaker 4: even active, why move? 357 00:19:59,320 --> 00:20:00,560 Speaker 1: And that is me. 358 00:20:00,880 --> 00:20:03,879 Speaker 4: I will post a story maybe once a week, maybe 359 00:20:04,520 --> 00:20:09,320 Speaker 4: in a post once a year. Yeah, I need to 360 00:20:09,359 --> 00:20:09,880 Speaker 4: get on that. 361 00:20:10,600 --> 00:20:12,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, I think just like, would you guys like to 362 00:20:12,280 --> 00:20:13,240 Speaker 2: see in my life? 363 00:20:13,680 --> 00:20:17,320 Speaker 1: Yes, everyone wants to see into your life, we all do. 364 00:20:18,040 --> 00:20:19,960 Speaker 2: But no, my weekend was amazing. 365 00:20:20,520 --> 00:20:23,120 Speaker 1: If you are, yeah, talk about your identity. What did 366 00:20:23,119 --> 00:20:25,359 Speaker 1: you do to identify this weekend? Guys? 367 00:20:25,520 --> 00:20:30,280 Speaker 4: I identified so fucking hard, so fucking great. I went 368 00:20:30,320 --> 00:20:36,480 Speaker 4: to on Saturday Friday night, I went to a play okay, 369 00:20:36,480 --> 00:20:41,040 Speaker 4: and it was it's called Wait Until Dark and it's 370 00:20:41,080 --> 00:20:42,560 Speaker 4: in you. 371 00:20:42,600 --> 00:20:46,000 Speaker 1: Got it in Santa Clarita, right, yes, Wow. 372 00:20:46,440 --> 00:20:52,480 Speaker 4: I went to Yes, the best little like theater cute 373 00:20:52,680 --> 00:20:56,560 Speaker 4: older had so much character in it. But one of 374 00:20:56,560 --> 00:21:01,399 Speaker 4: my good friends, Calvin Cobb, the cob Measter, his girlfriend 375 00:21:01,680 --> 00:21:04,359 Speaker 4: was like the main character in this play and she 376 00:21:04,440 --> 00:21:07,199 Speaker 4: plays like a blind girl. It's a it's a remake 377 00:21:07,240 --> 00:21:09,320 Speaker 4: of a play. You've probably seen it. But went that 378 00:21:09,440 --> 00:21:11,680 Speaker 4: day if you're looking for a play to go see. 379 00:21:11,760 --> 00:21:13,959 Speaker 4: I had an amazing time, So went and did that. 380 00:21:14,000 --> 00:21:16,280 Speaker 4: When got some food and just hung out after for 381 00:21:16,280 --> 00:21:22,239 Speaker 4: a minute. Saturday, Yeah, Saturday, I was freaking out all 382 00:21:22,320 --> 00:21:27,000 Speaker 4: day for no reason. The East Awards read. Yeah, and 383 00:21:27,080 --> 00:21:29,440 Speaker 4: I hate reading. If anyone knows, I forget how to 384 00:21:29,480 --> 00:21:32,760 Speaker 4: read too become dyslexic. It's like all the words, No, 385 00:21:32,920 --> 00:21:35,560 Speaker 4: there's anything wrong with that. No, I just I'm dyslexic 386 00:21:35,600 --> 00:21:39,360 Speaker 4: to that. Yeah, like yes, It's almost like I get 387 00:21:39,359 --> 00:21:41,320 Speaker 4: so nervous that all of them jumble up that I 388 00:21:41,359 --> 00:21:44,280 Speaker 4: can't read when it's just like breathe and read, you know, 389 00:21:44,720 --> 00:21:46,040 Speaker 4: I scare myself. 390 00:21:46,359 --> 00:21:47,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, totally so. 391 00:21:48,200 --> 00:21:51,040 Speaker 4: But I went to the East Awards. When I tell you, 392 00:21:51,119 --> 00:21:53,439 Speaker 4: this was the most fun award show I've ever been to. 393 00:21:54,080 --> 00:21:56,360 Speaker 4: And I will be posting some things I do want 394 00:21:56,400 --> 00:21:59,560 Speaker 4: to say thank you to Easton Allen, who is on 395 00:21:59,640 --> 00:22:03,440 Speaker 4: the other side of this computer that is bringing you guys. 396 00:22:02,560 --> 00:22:06,639 Speaker 4: Never that is also what we talked about. And I 397 00:22:06,680 --> 00:22:10,080 Speaker 4: don't like my name. We talked about it. Every Easton 398 00:22:11,080 --> 00:22:14,959 Speaker 4: is I've never met an Easton other than our Eastern 399 00:22:15,000 --> 00:22:18,000 Speaker 4: Allen my age. We talked about this. Every one of 400 00:22:18,040 --> 00:22:22,000 Speaker 4: them is ten years and younger. Believe it or not, 401 00:22:22,080 --> 00:22:24,280 Speaker 4: Me and Easton. You'll see the picture. We had the 402 00:22:24,320 --> 00:22:27,200 Speaker 4: same hair before I locked it up. Yeah, never met 403 00:22:27,200 --> 00:22:29,880 Speaker 4: an Easton with straight hair. They all have curly hair, okay, 404 00:22:30,840 --> 00:22:34,399 Speaker 4: all white, yes, and they're all playing like some sort 405 00:22:34,400 --> 00:22:38,920 Speaker 4: of baseball or baseball well. 406 00:22:38,840 --> 00:22:41,040 Speaker 1: Because Easton bats and all of you think. 407 00:22:40,920 --> 00:22:43,440 Speaker 2: There'd be a hockey one though, no, can I tell you? 408 00:22:44,640 --> 00:22:46,120 Speaker 2: But no, it's the most fun. 409 00:22:46,440 --> 00:22:48,199 Speaker 1: I'm so happy that you had a good time. And 410 00:22:48,720 --> 00:22:51,240 Speaker 1: I really enjoy the fact that you gave the award 411 00:22:51,280 --> 00:22:55,920 Speaker 1: to cheese because I love cheese. I so just felt 412 00:22:55,960 --> 00:22:57,639 Speaker 1: like very honest for the family. 413 00:22:57,760 --> 00:23:01,160 Speaker 4: Yeah, I know, but it did. Yeah, cold freaks, the 414 00:23:01,200 --> 00:23:02,240 Speaker 4: cold cheese one. 415 00:23:02,960 --> 00:23:04,920 Speaker 1: I like it. I like a slice of cold cheese 416 00:23:04,920 --> 00:23:09,280 Speaker 1: on a cracker. I'd actually prefer it super melt, melty. 417 00:23:09,640 --> 00:23:11,520 Speaker 1: It was room tap, room tap, great. 418 00:23:11,600 --> 00:23:14,080 Speaker 2: I can't remember. All I know is I was very 419 00:23:14,119 --> 00:23:16,800 Speaker 2: pissed off. But if you know cold. 420 00:23:16,520 --> 00:23:19,080 Speaker 1: To room tent. My favorite thing is to grab like 421 00:23:19,680 --> 00:23:24,760 Speaker 1: a pack of Sargento some ritz crackers and just fucking 422 00:23:24,800 --> 00:23:29,359 Speaker 1: go at it super melty cheese, like when I like 423 00:23:29,440 --> 00:23:31,680 Speaker 1: the cheese when it like and they like separate a 424 00:23:31,720 --> 00:23:34,280 Speaker 1: case id. I'm like too much cheese. Yeah, but like 425 00:23:34,320 --> 00:23:38,240 Speaker 1: you're you're gonna like creamy? Are we talking about vita? 426 00:23:38,480 --> 00:23:41,840 Speaker 4: I'm talking like chilish like the caseou. 427 00:23:42,520 --> 00:23:46,439 Speaker 1: I'm going off. I like chilies right now? Should we 428 00:23:47,160 --> 00:23:53,480 Speaker 1: not even noon? It's not even eleven, and I could 429 00:23:53,480 --> 00:23:57,480 Speaker 1: go crazy on chilies. Yeah, and get my idea. Isn't 430 00:23:57,520 --> 00:23:58,640 Speaker 1: even done yet? 431 00:23:59,040 --> 00:24:00,000 Speaker 2: Softball Sunday? 432 00:24:00,480 --> 00:24:03,920 Speaker 1: Oh you identified further? Hold on? Can I tell you though? 433 00:24:04,000 --> 00:24:06,880 Speaker 1: You and Easton? First of all, your dug came from 434 00:24:06,880 --> 00:24:09,920 Speaker 1: a man who was like in his seventies. Mom was 435 00:24:09,960 --> 00:24:12,120 Speaker 1: working at a dental office and there was a little 436 00:24:12,200 --> 00:24:15,439 Speaker 1: old man named Easton. Yeah, and she said, I'm going 437 00:24:15,480 --> 00:24:18,119 Speaker 1: to name my son after you. She was pregnant, very pregnant. 438 00:24:18,320 --> 00:24:19,920 Speaker 1: Was Oh, I feel like I should bring you flowers, 439 00:24:19,920 --> 00:24:22,199 Speaker 1: and he did. He did bring her flowers after she 440 00:24:22,280 --> 00:24:25,439 Speaker 1: had you and named you Easton and as Easton. My 441 00:24:25,520 --> 00:24:30,880 Speaker 1: brother is talking about the Easty Awards. How you and Easton? 442 00:24:31,240 --> 00:24:35,399 Speaker 1: We're saying that name a lot today. Spoke about liking 443 00:24:35,440 --> 00:24:38,600 Speaker 1: your name. I love that name, but my mom goes 444 00:24:39,040 --> 00:24:41,240 Speaker 1: Easton is such a bomb ass bitch. 445 00:24:41,000 --> 00:24:41,560 Speaker 4: And name. 446 00:24:43,560 --> 00:24:45,640 Speaker 2: Coming from the bitch. He used to call me reasty 447 00:24:45,760 --> 00:24:50,399 Speaker 2: easty when I was young. Is so if she wonders 448 00:24:50,440 --> 00:24:51,760 Speaker 2: why I am the way I am. 449 00:24:51,640 --> 00:24:54,080 Speaker 1: Today, rasty easty, it's. 450 00:24:53,920 --> 00:24:59,800 Speaker 4: Like, wow, my friends, she was about bullying. 451 00:25:00,080 --> 00:25:00,920 Speaker 2: It wasn't endearing. 452 00:25:01,320 --> 00:25:04,919 Speaker 1: Mom called you reesty east because you would toot, and 453 00:25:04,960 --> 00:25:08,040 Speaker 1: then Dad called you Irene because you would scream like 454 00:25:08,119 --> 00:25:10,840 Speaker 1: a fucking chick. I don't know, can I be honest, 455 00:25:10,880 --> 00:25:14,480 Speaker 1: I don't know if it was the highest pitch squeal ever. 456 00:25:14,840 --> 00:25:17,159 Speaker 4: Yeah, that's because Brandon was a little ship bag and 457 00:25:17,160 --> 00:25:19,639 Speaker 4: becoming grabby in the crap, don't. 458 00:25:19,880 --> 00:25:23,959 Speaker 1: You fucking assphole? Now you know why I would scream? 459 00:25:24,280 --> 00:25:27,000 Speaker 1: Oh why is my back hurt? Though? Oh? I wonder 460 00:25:27,119 --> 00:25:27,760 Speaker 1: what wouch? 461 00:25:28,200 --> 00:25:32,320 Speaker 2: No, Lauren, this is what fucking pisses me off about 462 00:25:32,320 --> 00:25:34,320 Speaker 2: this one. Why does my back hurt? 463 00:25:34,600 --> 00:25:37,640 Speaker 4: You just got ripped through your whole chest of course 464 00:25:37,680 --> 00:25:39,480 Speaker 4: you're gonna have pain in areas. 465 00:25:39,760 --> 00:25:43,400 Speaker 2: My god, up in the night, this one. 466 00:25:43,119 --> 00:25:47,120 Speaker 1: And Easton Easton would also he had these tiny, little 467 00:25:47,200 --> 00:25:49,919 Speaker 1: chick lit teeth, and he was such a biter. And 468 00:25:49,960 --> 00:25:52,199 Speaker 1: I remember I would hold his forehead back like this, 469 00:25:52,320 --> 00:25:56,359 Speaker 1: and his eyebrows would get like mind you, and the 470 00:25:56,359 --> 00:25:58,359 Speaker 1: whites of his eyes would show because I'd be pushing 471 00:25:58,400 --> 00:25:59,160 Speaker 1: his forehead back. 472 00:25:59,200 --> 00:26:04,280 Speaker 4: I wouldn't give up need I got a little fucking piranha. 473 00:26:04,680 --> 00:26:08,679 Speaker 1: He's terrifying. He was a terrifying child. You were not 474 00:26:08,880 --> 00:26:12,000 Speaker 1: nice anyway. You also went and played in your gay 475 00:26:12,040 --> 00:26:16,480 Speaker 1: softball league with the Swingers. How was that two dubs? Had? 476 00:26:16,560 --> 00:26:18,520 Speaker 1: You gots two dubs? 477 00:26:18,560 --> 00:26:20,840 Speaker 4: That's to be a team that hadn't lost and I 478 00:26:20,880 --> 00:26:22,639 Speaker 4: want to say, like a year and a half or 479 00:26:22,640 --> 00:26:24,360 Speaker 4: two seasons or something like that. 480 00:26:24,560 --> 00:26:27,600 Speaker 2: Fucking huge deal. You add me to the team, we 481 00:26:27,640 --> 00:26:28,199 Speaker 2: get dubs. 482 00:26:28,200 --> 00:26:31,080 Speaker 1: Come on, now, I know I heard you're only like 483 00:26:31,200 --> 00:26:34,680 Speaker 1: two points away or something from having to go up, 484 00:26:35,880 --> 00:26:38,600 Speaker 1: So everybody, because right now you're in the d's right. Yeah. 485 00:26:38,760 --> 00:26:41,280 Speaker 2: I liked it. So it's like you like playing I 486 00:26:41,400 --> 00:26:42,760 Speaker 2: like playing with the team i'm with. 487 00:26:42,840 --> 00:26:45,439 Speaker 4: But I was in I was in the field and 488 00:26:45,480 --> 00:26:50,240 Speaker 4: I roped a ball into the infield and they they 489 00:26:50,359 --> 00:26:53,080 Speaker 4: base you off points, and they told me that that 490 00:26:53,200 --> 00:26:55,280 Speaker 4: throw was worth a lot of points and that I'm 491 00:26:56,480 --> 00:26:59,720 Speaker 4: fiddling with going into the C or B group. And 492 00:26:59,760 --> 00:27:02,240 Speaker 4: I said, ooh, so I'm gonna have to miss a 493 00:27:02,280 --> 00:27:04,040 Speaker 4: couple of things next week. 494 00:27:05,760 --> 00:27:08,119 Speaker 1: Yeah, just so I can keep playing with my friends. 495 00:27:08,119 --> 00:27:11,840 Speaker 1: Throw the game, throw the Did you feel like you 496 00:27:11,920 --> 00:27:13,520 Speaker 1: identified You're You're good. 497 00:27:14,920 --> 00:27:17,119 Speaker 2: Yeah, There's still so many things I still have to 498 00:27:17,160 --> 00:27:18,440 Speaker 2: identify with, but you know. 499 00:27:19,119 --> 00:27:20,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, there's a lot. I get it. 500 00:27:20,720 --> 00:27:22,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, no, I'm no, it was. 501 00:27:23,480 --> 00:27:26,280 Speaker 4: I was exhausted, Yeah, I was very it was a 502 00:27:26,320 --> 00:27:28,240 Speaker 4: long weekend for you mentally. 503 00:27:28,680 --> 00:27:31,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, just a lot, But I enjoyed it. 504 00:27:31,320 --> 00:27:34,840 Speaker 1: I think my biggest thing with not only Easton, but 505 00:27:34,920 --> 00:27:38,040 Speaker 1: even my mom, and we've spoken about this with her, 506 00:27:38,680 --> 00:27:42,840 Speaker 1: I don't want everyone to get so caught up and 507 00:27:42,920 --> 00:27:46,479 Speaker 1: being at home and being with kids and us feeling 508 00:27:46,640 --> 00:27:49,080 Speaker 1: just like it's so easy to kick it with your 509 00:27:49,080 --> 00:27:52,040 Speaker 1: family to where like you don't have an identity outside 510 00:27:52,040 --> 00:27:55,680 Speaker 1: of the family, especially for Easton who's only what thirty 511 00:27:55,720 --> 00:28:01,040 Speaker 1: two years old or three thirty three? Even my mom, 512 00:28:01,040 --> 00:28:02,960 Speaker 1: I'm like, I want you to have independence and She's like, 513 00:28:02,960 --> 00:28:04,359 Speaker 1: but I love hanging out with you guys. I'm like, 514 00:28:04,400 --> 00:28:08,159 Speaker 1: I understand, but like we also need to go and. 515 00:28:08,280 --> 00:28:10,720 Speaker 4: Oh I love my family. No, I do too, but 516 00:28:10,880 --> 00:28:13,000 Speaker 4: I love going out and then coming back home. 517 00:28:14,080 --> 00:28:17,320 Speaker 1: But I think when Mom moved to La, you know, 518 00:28:17,400 --> 00:28:20,240 Speaker 1: she was pretty much ripped away from her life of 519 00:28:20,320 --> 00:28:22,679 Speaker 1: however many years that she had lived in Utah and 520 00:28:22,760 --> 00:28:24,120 Speaker 1: friendships that she had created. 521 00:28:24,240 --> 00:28:27,080 Speaker 4: And do you want to know my favorite days is 522 00:28:27,119 --> 00:28:30,040 Speaker 4: when I come home and the geeg is in the 523 00:28:30,080 --> 00:28:32,280 Speaker 4: backyard with like a couple of friends by the pool 524 00:28:32,760 --> 00:28:35,439 Speaker 4: and they're just talking and chatting and then you just 525 00:28:35,480 --> 00:28:38,000 Speaker 4: say like hey, and then you go into your own thing, 526 00:28:38,040 --> 00:28:40,960 Speaker 4: but you're like, fuck youre my mom's hanging with her homies. 527 00:28:41,080 --> 00:28:49,960 Speaker 1: Yes, that's how I Oh my god, I cannot. I 528 00:28:50,000 --> 00:28:51,400 Speaker 1: don't think anyone's going to relate to this. 529 00:28:51,480 --> 00:28:56,040 Speaker 2: But that's okay, Oh my god. Ours isn't no no, 530 00:28:56,040 --> 00:28:56,760 Speaker 2: no other. 531 00:28:57,000 --> 00:28:59,520 Speaker 1: To get her hip fixed. And she'll be She'll be great. 532 00:28:59,560 --> 00:29:02,640 Speaker 1: She'll be running into yourself. I'll be identifying as well. 533 00:29:02,760 --> 00:29:06,400 Speaker 1: Oh thank god. Anyway, let's move on to some pop culture. 534 00:29:07,480 --> 00:29:13,480 Speaker 1: The Yeah, how I feel about it? She is she 535 00:29:13,680 --> 00:29:17,080 Speaker 1: getting more praise than heat I don't know. 536 00:29:17,520 --> 00:29:20,080 Speaker 2: No, she's getting hate and rare. 537 00:29:20,600 --> 00:29:23,880 Speaker 4: Yeah, there was a dude who made a TikTok video 538 00:29:24,760 --> 00:29:26,880 Speaker 4: real whatever it was. I can't remember what I was on, 539 00:29:27,040 --> 00:29:29,640 Speaker 4: but he like made a video like everyone is about 540 00:29:29,680 --> 00:29:30,680 Speaker 4: Taylor Frankie Paul. 541 00:29:31,760 --> 00:29:34,680 Speaker 2: She comments and says, what do you want me to do? 542 00:29:34,920 --> 00:29:38,200 Speaker 4: Stare at the wall and yes, Taylor Frankie Paul, and 543 00:29:38,280 --> 00:29:42,240 Speaker 4: think about your fucking actions instead of watching more tiktoks, 544 00:29:43,000 --> 00:29:47,960 Speaker 4: sit watch a fucking wall and think about your fucking actions. 545 00:29:48,200 --> 00:29:50,360 Speaker 4: That's what I want you to fucking do. The fact 546 00:29:50,400 --> 00:29:53,440 Speaker 4: that she is still online rebuttaling. She even had a 547 00:29:53,520 --> 00:29:56,520 Speaker 4: TMZ thing that was like the fact that you guys 548 00:29:56,560 --> 00:29:59,840 Speaker 4: are putting this out now with all the work that 549 00:30:00,040 --> 00:30:01,840 Speaker 4: I have done with my daughter, and now she has 550 00:30:01,880 --> 00:30:05,760 Speaker 4: to relive this, and it's like, I promise you, sweetheart, 551 00:30:05,800 --> 00:30:08,080 Speaker 4: she's gonna remember this for her fucking life. 552 00:30:20,480 --> 00:30:23,520 Speaker 1: Here's where I think people are getting lost. Anyone who 553 00:30:23,760 --> 00:30:28,800 Speaker 1: is stepping up to the plate to defend her. There's 554 00:30:28,920 --> 00:30:32,760 Speaker 1: absolutely no defending okay, And this back and forth of 555 00:30:32,920 --> 00:30:38,280 Speaker 1: like if it were a man, you know, we no, San, 556 00:30:38,360 --> 00:30:39,360 Speaker 1: That's entirely not true. 557 00:30:39,560 --> 00:30:41,840 Speaker 2: Okay, That's what I would like everyone to do. 558 00:30:42,240 --> 00:30:45,640 Speaker 1: Is instead of saying if this were a man, it 559 00:30:45,720 --> 00:30:49,480 Speaker 1: would be different, She's already owned up to it. Whatever 560 00:30:49,760 --> 00:30:52,880 Speaker 1: the case may be. Okay, let's focus on this girl 561 00:30:53,080 --> 00:30:56,640 Speaker 1: and this girl only. Yes, there's a tremendous amount of 562 00:30:56,840 --> 00:31:02,200 Speaker 1: toxicity between she and this Dakota person that she pro 563 00:31:02,400 --> 00:31:07,880 Speaker 1: created with. Taylor Frankie Paul clearly has a drinking problem. 564 00:31:08,080 --> 00:31:11,720 Speaker 1: I think we can all agree with that. Yes, this 565 00:31:11,920 --> 00:31:16,080 Speaker 1: happened in twenty twenty three. Takes that off the fucking table. Yes, 566 00:31:16,200 --> 00:31:20,720 Speaker 1: she's talked about it. The season opened with her being arrested. 567 00:31:21,680 --> 00:31:25,160 Speaker 1: Something happened within the last two to three weeks that 568 00:31:25,360 --> 00:31:30,400 Speaker 1: caused production to press pause on Mormon Wives to wear. 569 00:31:30,480 --> 00:31:33,760 Speaker 1: The cast did not feel safe around this girl. I 570 00:31:33,840 --> 00:31:35,120 Speaker 1: think it was one of the girls. 571 00:31:36,920 --> 00:31:39,880 Speaker 2: Demi is the biggest one who she talks about it. 572 00:31:39,880 --> 00:31:41,680 Speaker 1: But it was recent. I think her name is Layla. 573 00:31:42,440 --> 00:31:45,880 Speaker 1: Someone reached out to Layla and said, why is everyone 574 00:31:46,000 --> 00:31:48,640 Speaker 1: making such a big deal about this video when you 575 00:31:48,760 --> 00:31:51,120 Speaker 1: already knew about it and it was in twenty twenty three. 576 00:31:51,640 --> 00:31:57,479 Speaker 1: Layla responds that something happened recently. Okay, let's only focus 577 00:31:57,600 --> 00:32:00,360 Speaker 1: on the Taylor Frankie Paul of it and not if 578 00:32:00,440 --> 00:32:04,000 Speaker 1: this were someone else, or if where are you seeing that? 579 00:32:04,160 --> 00:32:06,880 Speaker 4: Because in all of mine I'm not seeing any go 580 00:32:07,200 --> 00:32:10,320 Speaker 4: anybody saying if this were a man, I'm not seeing. 581 00:32:11,520 --> 00:32:16,320 Speaker 2: I'm just seeing. Why is she not taking responsibility? 582 00:32:16,640 --> 00:32:19,080 Speaker 4: Still saying the fact that this video came out, I 583 00:32:19,200 --> 00:32:22,560 Speaker 4: have not seen one thing between man woman what. 584 00:32:22,720 --> 00:32:24,720 Speaker 1: I've seen a lot of it. I've seen a lot 585 00:32:24,760 --> 00:32:24,920 Speaker 1: of it. 586 00:32:25,200 --> 00:32:26,959 Speaker 2: Yeah, No, I've just been seeing internet. 587 00:32:27,000 --> 00:32:31,120 Speaker 1: Of course, the algorithms are different. People are very torn 588 00:32:31,200 --> 00:32:33,000 Speaker 1: down the middle, people talking about we need to have 589 00:32:33,120 --> 00:32:37,080 Speaker 1: compassion for this girl, and here's where you lose me 590 00:32:38,080 --> 00:32:44,880 Speaker 1: as a mother. Okay, who thank god, thank god I 591 00:32:45,000 --> 00:32:49,240 Speaker 1: got sober before I brought children into this world. Okay. 592 00:32:50,400 --> 00:32:54,080 Speaker 1: Instead of defending this girl and pointing out her traumas, 593 00:32:55,000 --> 00:32:57,920 Speaker 1: or instead of comparing her to other people, I think 594 00:32:58,000 --> 00:33:01,360 Speaker 1: we can all take a step back and say, whatever 595 00:33:01,520 --> 00:33:05,560 Speaker 1: you've been through, there's compassion there, okay. But where you 596 00:33:05,760 --> 00:33:08,360 Speaker 1: lose me is when you can't get your shit together 597 00:33:08,520 --> 00:33:12,240 Speaker 1: enough to provide a safe environment for your children. That's 598 00:33:12,240 --> 00:33:13,200 Speaker 1: your fucking job. 599 00:33:13,320 --> 00:33:17,040 Speaker 2: Well, she lost them, well as she should, but that's 600 00:33:17,080 --> 00:33:17,760 Speaker 2: where I'll. 601 00:33:17,680 --> 00:33:20,680 Speaker 1: Fixated on it. She shouldn't have lost the bachelorette. Who 602 00:33:20,760 --> 00:33:25,640 Speaker 1: gives a fuck about the bachelorette? Yeah, have children? 603 00:33:25,800 --> 00:33:27,680 Speaker 4: Well, like not only that, if you really wanted to 604 00:33:27,720 --> 00:33:30,000 Speaker 4: deep dive into it, if that happened in twenty twenty. 605 00:33:29,840 --> 00:33:32,320 Speaker 2: Three, I think you know. Dakota is a part of it. 606 00:33:32,440 --> 00:33:34,640 Speaker 2: Why are you still in maiborhood is a real piece 607 00:33:34,680 --> 00:33:35,000 Speaker 2: of shit. 608 00:33:35,080 --> 00:33:38,480 Speaker 1: That's where it's like, Okay, it's so calculated, the differences. 609 00:33:39,120 --> 00:33:41,000 Speaker 1: Who No one gives a shit about Dakota. He has 610 00:33:41,080 --> 00:33:42,320 Speaker 1: nothing to lose, so. 611 00:33:42,440 --> 00:33:45,520 Speaker 2: Let me post there and take it right. He posted 612 00:33:45,560 --> 00:33:48,360 Speaker 2: that because he was like, this will get things, and 613 00:33:48,840 --> 00:33:49,200 Speaker 2: it did. 614 00:33:49,160 --> 00:33:49,880 Speaker 1: Everything he wanted. 615 00:33:50,040 --> 00:33:52,440 Speaker 2: He has nothing to lose and he got her fucking 616 00:33:52,480 --> 00:33:53,200 Speaker 2: show taken off. 617 00:33:53,800 --> 00:33:56,800 Speaker 4: But if they're saying something worse had happened there is 618 00:33:57,120 --> 00:34:00,160 Speaker 4: That's my thing of like, if I'm with somebody and 619 00:34:00,280 --> 00:34:04,840 Speaker 4: we are crazy together, I'm not going to keep going 620 00:34:05,040 --> 00:34:07,520 Speaker 4: back to that. So for him to keep going back 621 00:34:07,560 --> 00:34:10,480 Speaker 4: into Taylor Frankie Paul's life, to me is because you 622 00:34:10,680 --> 00:34:11,759 Speaker 4: wanted some sort of. 623 00:34:11,840 --> 00:34:14,960 Speaker 1: Light in your life, some fame. That's not at all. 624 00:34:15,120 --> 00:34:18,640 Speaker 1: And that's how I disagree with that, because I've I 625 00:34:19,080 --> 00:34:22,719 Speaker 1: was in a toxic relationship with an X of mine 626 00:34:23,080 --> 00:34:26,440 Speaker 1: and you get addicted to the high highs and the 627 00:34:26,640 --> 00:34:28,480 Speaker 1: low lows, especially when you. 628 00:34:28,600 --> 00:34:33,840 Speaker 4: Addu or alcohol or pills whatever. You don't there's something 629 00:34:34,160 --> 00:34:40,040 Speaker 4: any better. Yeah, No, there's mind altering you know, things 630 00:34:40,120 --> 00:34:45,360 Speaker 4: that they're on, whether that be liquored pills. They're not sober. 631 00:34:45,840 --> 00:34:47,800 Speaker 4: She's been posting about like how her house is a 632 00:34:47,840 --> 00:34:50,120 Speaker 4: mess in all of this, and how she's depressed in this, 633 00:34:50,239 --> 00:34:52,399 Speaker 4: and it's like, so you're gonna say how you love 634 00:34:52,480 --> 00:34:54,080 Speaker 4: to be drinking, Well, yeah. 635 00:34:54,400 --> 00:34:57,520 Speaker 1: Because that's yeah, I relate to that. I'm depressed, so 636 00:34:57,719 --> 00:35:00,600 Speaker 1: I'm going to drink to nom and we'll deal with 637 00:35:00,760 --> 00:35:06,080 Speaker 1: the aftermath later. It's the vicious cycle. You know this, 638 00:35:06,200 --> 00:35:07,800 Speaker 1: you're in the program. Yeah, no, I do. 639 00:35:08,200 --> 00:35:11,480 Speaker 4: But at some point like this would be I don't know, 640 00:35:11,880 --> 00:35:14,799 Speaker 4: rock bottom. And it seems like it still hasn't hit 641 00:35:14,880 --> 00:35:17,840 Speaker 4: for her. She's like out smiling and laughing with friends, still. 642 00:35:18,400 --> 00:35:20,680 Speaker 1: Right, but no one knows what she's talking about. I mean, 643 00:35:20,840 --> 00:35:24,440 Speaker 1: even after dad died, there were moments that I was smiling. 644 00:35:24,480 --> 00:35:27,239 Speaker 1: And that's a human being that was wiped off the 645 00:35:27,280 --> 00:35:32,760 Speaker 1: face of the judge from afar. We have no idea 646 00:35:33,560 --> 00:35:36,840 Speaker 1: what she's we can all you know, look at photos 647 00:35:36,920 --> 00:35:39,280 Speaker 1: and think, look at this still shot of her laughing. 648 00:35:39,320 --> 00:35:41,440 Speaker 1: What a piece of shit? You know, it's a video, 649 00:35:41,960 --> 00:35:44,239 Speaker 1: whatever it may be, I don't care. We don't even 650 00:35:44,320 --> 00:35:45,479 Speaker 1: know what they're talking about. 651 00:35:45,560 --> 00:35:47,600 Speaker 2: We have no I know is the video is the 652 00:35:48,920 --> 00:35:51,680 Speaker 2: hours after she just lost her child. 653 00:35:52,120 --> 00:35:56,560 Speaker 4: So for you to even find any laughter in that, Yes, 654 00:35:56,680 --> 00:35:58,920 Speaker 4: my dad died, but my dad is dead. 655 00:35:59,200 --> 00:36:00,239 Speaker 1: I don't have to. 656 00:36:00,960 --> 00:36:04,040 Speaker 4: I can't not see him. There wasn't somebody taking my 657 00:36:04,200 --> 00:36:07,279 Speaker 4: dad away where he's alive, Like, actually can laugh about that? 658 00:36:07,480 --> 00:36:07,719 Speaker 6: God? 659 00:36:07,960 --> 00:36:11,520 Speaker 2: Well, yes, but he's I can't keeping me away. 660 00:36:11,640 --> 00:36:12,279 Speaker 1: I understand. You know. 661 00:36:12,360 --> 00:36:14,480 Speaker 2: There's a difference of me saying how would. 662 00:36:14,280 --> 00:36:15,880 Speaker 1: You laugh when this is the same day that your 663 00:36:15,920 --> 00:36:19,319 Speaker 1: kids got taken away? Why are you even out at home? 664 00:36:19,440 --> 00:36:21,520 Speaker 4: Yes, and maybe go out and about and see Like 665 00:36:21,600 --> 00:36:23,840 Speaker 4: if if my kid got taken away, maybe I'd go. 666 00:36:23,920 --> 00:36:24,640 Speaker 1: Over and see holme. 667 00:36:24,960 --> 00:36:26,600 Speaker 2: But I it wouldn't be laughing. 668 00:36:26,840 --> 00:36:31,200 Speaker 1: I would be crying. Yes, So there are things. I'm sorry, and. 669 00:36:31,280 --> 00:36:33,360 Speaker 4: I might be seeing things out of context, like we 670 00:36:33,480 --> 00:36:36,680 Speaker 4: all might be on social media, but the way that 671 00:36:36,800 --> 00:36:41,600 Speaker 4: she's doings and all of that, just get your kids 672 00:36:41,640 --> 00:36:45,080 Speaker 4: taken away. You're laughing in your car with people around it. 673 00:36:45,480 --> 00:36:48,600 Speaker 4: That's fucked up. People are talking about you. Then you 674 00:36:48,840 --> 00:36:51,560 Speaker 4: say what you want me to sit and stare at 675 00:36:51,600 --> 00:36:54,919 Speaker 4: a wall. Yes, think about your actions like there is things. 676 00:36:55,000 --> 00:36:57,799 Speaker 4: Get off social media. This is your rock bottom. See 677 00:36:57,920 --> 00:36:59,000 Speaker 4: actually shind help. 678 00:36:59,400 --> 00:37:01,840 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, no, you're very much correct. 679 00:37:01,960 --> 00:37:04,080 Speaker 4: Like that's where I'm at. I don't care if it's 680 00:37:04,120 --> 00:37:06,319 Speaker 4: a man, if it's a woman. It's a human action. 681 00:37:06,520 --> 00:37:09,600 Speaker 4: And it was a fucking shitty one. Yeah, no, you're right, 682 00:37:09,880 --> 00:37:11,320 Speaker 4: that's where I like, I don't care if it was 683 00:37:11,360 --> 00:37:13,400 Speaker 4: a man or a woman. I don't care who you are. 684 00:37:13,560 --> 00:37:15,440 Speaker 4: You're a human being. And at the end of the day, 685 00:37:15,520 --> 00:37:17,960 Speaker 4: we all know what fucking right and wrong is. And 686 00:37:18,080 --> 00:37:20,080 Speaker 4: that was wrong right, And you know what. 687 00:37:20,320 --> 00:37:22,840 Speaker 1: We've all been dealt a different hand in life and 688 00:37:23,000 --> 00:37:25,200 Speaker 1: I've and I'm not going to say like that, and 689 00:37:25,280 --> 00:37:26,080 Speaker 1: you make a good point. 690 00:37:26,160 --> 00:37:28,520 Speaker 4: I was laughing, but like I was laughing at the 691 00:37:29,040 --> 00:37:33,440 Speaker 4: experience and that my dad has been gone. I was. 692 00:37:34,000 --> 00:37:37,240 Speaker 2: I wasn't trying the point though, because they're very they're similar. 693 00:37:37,360 --> 00:37:43,280 Speaker 4: You're losing your kid to what CP Child Protective Services CPS, 694 00:37:43,360 --> 00:37:45,800 Speaker 4: and it's like, okay, she lost. 695 00:37:45,640 --> 00:37:48,040 Speaker 1: Her kids to that. I think a judge came in 696 00:37:48,120 --> 00:37:48,919 Speaker 1: and granted. 697 00:37:48,640 --> 00:37:53,319 Speaker 2: Well granted Dakota. See, and that's just what's wrong. 698 00:37:53,920 --> 00:37:57,600 Speaker 4: You wouldn't have given him no, Like, that's where it's 699 00:37:57,640 --> 00:38:00,360 Speaker 4: like you're giving the kid to the guy who was 700 00:38:00,600 --> 00:38:01,800 Speaker 4: stirring the pot. 701 00:38:02,920 --> 00:38:05,399 Speaker 1: Well that's the other thing is like we I think 702 00:38:05,400 --> 00:38:09,799 Speaker 1: we can all agree they're both they're both nut jobs. Yes, 703 00:38:10,280 --> 00:38:13,120 Speaker 1: But the hard thing is, I've been in reality television 704 00:38:13,239 --> 00:38:18,280 Speaker 1: for over a decade and the thing that you're rewarded 705 00:38:18,400 --> 00:38:23,239 Speaker 1: for can also be the thing that just demolishes what 706 00:38:23,320 --> 00:38:31,680 Speaker 1: you've built. Yeah, and it can be very confusing. And also, 707 00:38:34,760 --> 00:38:37,359 Speaker 1: I mean there are times, and I've said this a lot, 708 00:38:37,719 --> 00:38:40,399 Speaker 1: you know where reality TV at times is like doing 709 00:38:40,440 --> 00:38:45,080 Speaker 1: the devil's work, and when you're at your lowest of 710 00:38:45,200 --> 00:38:48,719 Speaker 1: low where you're like I need to get help, they 711 00:38:48,760 --> 00:38:52,160 Speaker 1: want to pick cameras up and they want to show 712 00:38:52,200 --> 00:38:56,359 Speaker 1: the bodycam footage Season one, episode one of that night, 713 00:38:57,239 --> 00:39:04,160 Speaker 1: and then that very incident is shown in a more 714 00:39:04,280 --> 00:39:07,440 Speaker 1: intimate level. We're watching it go down, not the aftermath. 715 00:39:07,760 --> 00:39:11,600 Speaker 2: Was that bad call the chair throwing night? Yes? 716 00:39:12,360 --> 00:39:16,920 Speaker 1: Wow? Yes I didn't. So that same thing that was 717 00:39:17,000 --> 00:39:21,960 Speaker 1: your opener for your show is now what takes everything away? 718 00:39:22,000 --> 00:39:26,840 Speaker 1: From you, and I just think a lot of people 719 00:39:27,040 --> 00:39:32,360 Speaker 1: dropped the ball. I don't watch the Bachelor Bachelorette. What 720 00:39:32,560 --> 00:39:36,440 Speaker 1: I do know is it's a very wholesome show. I 721 00:39:36,840 --> 00:39:40,440 Speaker 1: from what I know of the Mormon Wives show, and 722 00:39:40,520 --> 00:39:43,000 Speaker 1: by the way, I like nasty and gritty, right like, 723 00:39:43,560 --> 00:39:47,640 Speaker 1: I'm all about it. There's no judgment here. Mormon Wives 724 00:39:47,719 --> 00:39:50,680 Speaker 1: is not a wholesome show or anybody to come in 725 00:39:50,760 --> 00:39:52,040 Speaker 1: and be like, you want to know who would be 726 00:39:52,120 --> 00:39:55,959 Speaker 1: a great get for the Bachelorette? That Taylor, Franky Paul, 727 00:39:56,120 --> 00:39:59,120 Speaker 1: that girl. I'm sorry, don't feel bad for you. Don't 728 00:39:59,120 --> 00:40:01,600 Speaker 1: feel bad that that you had to yank the whole series. 729 00:40:01,680 --> 00:40:04,480 Speaker 1: I think you probably should have known that this girl 730 00:40:04,880 --> 00:40:10,520 Speaker 1: has domestic violence, is swinging around all over like serboos 731 00:40:11,120 --> 00:40:15,400 Speaker 1: uh pro creates with different men. By the way, again, 732 00:40:15,800 --> 00:40:20,000 Speaker 1: no fucking judgment, but it's not an alignment with what 733 00:40:20,239 --> 00:40:24,560 Speaker 1: the Bachelor has created. These people come from like very 734 00:40:24,760 --> 00:40:29,840 Speaker 1: cookie cutter homes and he he who like, it's just 735 00:40:30,120 --> 00:40:34,359 Speaker 1: very wholesome, right, Like you may sleep with them at 736 00:40:34,400 --> 00:40:36,719 Speaker 1: the villa or whatever. Maybe I'm combining Love Island with 737 00:40:37,719 --> 00:40:42,680 Speaker 1: but what I'm saying is your problem. This doesn't feel 738 00:40:42,880 --> 00:40:44,919 Speaker 1: in this capacity like a Taylor Freaky part. 739 00:40:45,200 --> 00:40:50,000 Speaker 4: No, Taylor, this is a problem that you chose her. 740 00:40:50,520 --> 00:40:55,080 Speaker 4: And this is Disney, this is ABC, this is all 741 00:40:55,160 --> 00:41:00,960 Speaker 4: of them. Ship had domestic violence, knowing that it could 742 00:41:01,040 --> 00:41:03,279 Speaker 4: come out, but still backing it. 743 00:41:04,000 --> 00:41:06,640 Speaker 1: That to me is just the girl to have all 744 00:41:06,719 --> 00:41:08,880 Speaker 1: this shit stacked against her and then she's got this 745 00:41:09,000 --> 00:41:12,240 Speaker 1: come up story where she's got custody of her kid's 746 00:41:12,560 --> 00:41:19,080 Speaker 1: primary caregiver, she's sober for X amount of years. That's like, Wow, 747 00:41:19,200 --> 00:41:22,879 Speaker 1: this girl has been through some shit and now she's 748 00:41:22,920 --> 00:41:25,480 Speaker 1: our Like, this is a beautiful story. We all love 749 00:41:25,600 --> 00:41:29,120 Speaker 1: to watch people go from like the shit and rise above. 750 00:41:29,480 --> 00:41:31,239 Speaker 1: We don't love it as much as them rising above 751 00:41:31,280 --> 00:41:34,520 Speaker 1: and then pulling them to the ground. Obviously, but it 752 00:41:34,880 --> 00:41:37,960 Speaker 1: just it didn't make any sense why they would bring 753 00:41:38,040 --> 00:41:41,239 Speaker 1: her in. It felt like a money grab and only 754 00:41:41,320 --> 00:41:43,759 Speaker 1: a money grab, and now and now you get to 755 00:41:43,760 --> 00:41:44,120 Speaker 1: pay for it. 756 00:41:45,200 --> 00:41:51,640 Speaker 2: You got nothing, they got negative. They're like ten debt because. 757 00:41:51,680 --> 00:41:54,799 Speaker 1: You made a deal with the devil for an empty eye. 758 00:41:57,320 --> 00:41:59,319 Speaker 2: Shake it off, just shake it, give up. 759 00:42:00,239 --> 00:42:03,040 Speaker 1: Wow, I just fucking made so much sense. 760 00:42:03,120 --> 00:42:04,200 Speaker 2: I don't even feel bad. 761 00:42:04,320 --> 00:42:06,640 Speaker 1: This ain't a TSP problem. 762 00:42:06,960 --> 00:42:08,719 Speaker 2: When you were kidding her back a little bit. I 763 00:42:08,840 --> 00:42:10,120 Speaker 2: was like, what the fuck's going on here? 764 00:42:10,480 --> 00:42:14,040 Speaker 4: No, I no, I'm actually having her back right now. 765 00:42:14,040 --> 00:42:17,120 Speaker 4: I'm like you, guys, oh yeah, having her. I'm having 766 00:42:17,239 --> 00:42:19,319 Speaker 4: her back against ABC and all that. You knew, damn 767 00:42:19,360 --> 00:42:21,760 Speaker 4: well what you were fucking signing up and you're saying, 768 00:42:22,000 --> 00:42:22,279 Speaker 4: go to. 769 00:42:22,320 --> 00:42:25,359 Speaker 1: The circus and juggle the little fire things, not knowing 770 00:42:25,480 --> 00:42:27,320 Speaker 1: what the fuck you were doing. But then your pants 771 00:42:27,360 --> 00:42:30,080 Speaker 1: got play but you just wanted to play, and then 772 00:42:30,120 --> 00:42:32,359 Speaker 1: you got burned and you're looking around being like, oh 773 00:42:32,440 --> 00:42:35,680 Speaker 1: my god, this is horrible. Think about how much advertisements 774 00:42:35,760 --> 00:42:39,080 Speaker 1: we lost. I didn't see what's coming from a mile away. 775 00:42:39,360 --> 00:42:42,480 Speaker 1: You didn't know you could get with fire who was 776 00:42:42,680 --> 00:42:45,800 Speaker 1: running shit Like I'm a little nobody and feel like that. 777 00:42:46,040 --> 00:42:48,080 Speaker 1: Probably if someone brought that to me, I'd be like, 778 00:42:48,160 --> 00:42:50,080 Speaker 1: I just doesn't seem like the guys. 779 00:42:50,200 --> 00:42:52,800 Speaker 4: It doesn't seem like this, So yeah, no, let's not 780 00:42:52,920 --> 00:42:55,279 Speaker 4: do this one and more stuff. I would like to 781 00:42:55,400 --> 00:43:00,400 Speaker 4: know what Layla has in her pocket, because there's still 782 00:43:00,480 --> 00:43:04,600 Speaker 4: more going on with this Mormon Wives. It goes outside 783 00:43:04,800 --> 00:43:07,640 Speaker 4: of Taylor, Frankie Paul. All of it's hitting the fucking 784 00:43:08,040 --> 00:43:14,320 Speaker 4: Jesse her and her husband Jordan got filed for divorce. Okay, 785 00:43:14,760 --> 00:43:19,920 Speaker 4: she he filed because he wanted restrictions on what she 786 00:43:20,040 --> 00:43:23,200 Speaker 4: could talk about in their marriage, because she was going 787 00:43:23,280 --> 00:43:26,000 Speaker 4: to call her daddy to what was. 788 00:43:26,040 --> 00:43:27,080 Speaker 1: She gonna call her out about. 789 00:43:27,560 --> 00:43:29,920 Speaker 2: No, she was going to the podcast call her daddy 790 00:43:30,520 --> 00:43:35,560 Speaker 2: to kind of spill everything about Jordan, and Jordan has been. 791 00:43:35,719 --> 00:43:37,440 Speaker 4: I don't know what he does for a living, from 792 00:43:37,480 --> 00:43:39,319 Speaker 4: what it sounds like, lives off her, but has been 793 00:43:39,440 --> 00:43:44,719 Speaker 4: using her money for escorts and shady business dealings, and 794 00:43:45,400 --> 00:43:48,040 Speaker 4: they were all they're also now talking about spinning it 795 00:43:48,160 --> 00:43:51,520 Speaker 4: off with Layla, Miranda and a couple other of the 796 00:43:51,600 --> 00:43:53,200 Speaker 4: girls and not and getting away. 797 00:43:53,280 --> 00:43:55,600 Speaker 2: So I think this more Miranda's. 798 00:43:55,080 --> 00:43:58,160 Speaker 1: Friend who you brought to this house, who then started 799 00:43:58,239 --> 00:44:02,440 Speaker 1: fucking with Dakota. Yeah, happy dog. When I told you, 800 00:44:02,520 --> 00:44:03,640 Speaker 1: I was like, I don't like this car. 801 00:44:03,800 --> 00:44:05,719 Speaker 2: No, you knew, I do not get a. 802 00:44:05,719 --> 00:44:07,759 Speaker 1: Good vibe from this girl at all. And you were 803 00:44:07,840 --> 00:44:10,040 Speaker 1: like I like her. He was like writing so hard, 804 00:44:10,080 --> 00:44:11,840 Speaker 1: and then I showed him her social media and I'm like, 805 00:44:11,880 --> 00:44:14,280 Speaker 1: she just fucking hard launched you with about nine photos 806 00:44:14,400 --> 00:44:19,200 Speaker 1: and yeah, I was like, you gotta you gotta listen 807 00:44:19,280 --> 00:44:22,879 Speaker 1: to me. And then start talking to her. Thank God, 808 00:44:24,560 --> 00:44:26,480 Speaker 1: she's all up in that bullshit too. No, I got 809 00:44:26,520 --> 00:44:29,040 Speaker 1: out right to win. Please do, because as much as 810 00:44:29,080 --> 00:44:31,120 Speaker 1: it's fun to talk about, I want no part of 811 00:44:31,200 --> 00:44:32,239 Speaker 1: any of this. Sh know. 812 00:44:32,360 --> 00:44:35,399 Speaker 4: What happened was my buddy was dating Miranda. They ended 813 00:44:35,480 --> 00:44:38,520 Speaker 4: up breaking up. I ended up stopping like talking to her, 814 00:44:38,600 --> 00:44:40,680 Speaker 4: so like the whole thing kind of went that way, 815 00:44:40,880 --> 00:44:42,839 Speaker 4: and I'm very happy about it. But I will say 816 00:44:43,120 --> 00:44:48,040 Speaker 4: I do love Miranda and great and her baby daddy. 817 00:44:48,239 --> 00:44:51,239 Speaker 4: Chase hated him at first, just off of what I 818 00:44:51,280 --> 00:44:52,040 Speaker 4: saw season one. 819 00:44:52,080 --> 00:44:53,680 Speaker 1: You know, Oh, so you watched the show. 820 00:44:53,800 --> 00:44:56,400 Speaker 4: Well, no, I've just seen clips because they're fucking everywhere 821 00:44:56,480 --> 00:44:59,040 Speaker 4: now because you can't get away from it see any 822 00:44:59,120 --> 00:45:01,440 Speaker 4: of this. Oh, I'm s Chase because he's yelling at 823 00:45:01,520 --> 00:45:03,759 Speaker 4: Jordan because now I'm in that thing about like being 824 00:45:03,760 --> 00:45:05,680 Speaker 4: a piece of shit. Now he's going under. But like 825 00:45:05,840 --> 00:45:09,320 Speaker 4: Chase is like, you're a piece of shit, Chase. Like 826 00:45:09,560 --> 00:45:12,000 Speaker 4: Miranda and Chase have now become my favorite. Oh my gosh, 827 00:45:12,040 --> 00:45:13,600 Speaker 4: I love how much you know about the morning. 828 00:45:13,600 --> 00:45:14,160 Speaker 2: I have to Chase. 829 00:45:14,200 --> 00:45:17,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, No, his uh, his style is dope. He's putting, 830 00:45:17,239 --> 00:45:20,080 Speaker 1: he's doing his thing. I'm fucking with him, all right, 831 00:45:20,280 --> 00:45:22,080 Speaker 1: if you're fucking with him, I guess I will too. 832 00:45:22,680 --> 00:45:25,600 Speaker 1: Lisa vander Pump puts Tom Tom Restaurant up for sale 833 00:45:25,680 --> 00:45:28,800 Speaker 1: three years after Scannaval, So I did see this. And 834 00:45:29,080 --> 00:45:33,680 Speaker 1: with Tom Tom comes Pump, which is the closed down 835 00:45:33,800 --> 00:45:38,880 Speaker 1: restaurant that was on the corner of Santa Monica and Robertson. 836 00:45:39,080 --> 00:45:41,759 Speaker 1: Is she just getting off of that. She spends a 837 00:45:41,960 --> 00:45:45,239 Speaker 1: lot of time in Vegas. That's I feel like she's 838 00:45:45,280 --> 00:45:48,600 Speaker 1: shutting everything down here, popping off in Vegas. 839 00:45:48,360 --> 00:45:48,960 Speaker 2: And moving there. 840 00:45:49,560 --> 00:45:54,239 Speaker 1: Yes, and she's got three restaurants there she's got Yes, 841 00:45:54,560 --> 00:45:58,760 Speaker 1: then she has one in Wolf or whatever. But Wolf 842 00:45:58,960 --> 00:46:05,279 Speaker 1: is in Lake Tahoe and Scottsdale. She the Cromwell just 843 00:46:05,360 --> 00:46:09,080 Speaker 1: turned into Vanderpump Hotel. So it's just I don't know 844 00:46:09,320 --> 00:46:12,840 Speaker 1: if I think ELA's where she'll probably bop in just 845 00:46:12,920 --> 00:46:14,920 Speaker 1: to see her grand babies and have a hat day 846 00:46:14,920 --> 00:46:16,000 Speaker 1: because Ella's and everything. 847 00:46:16,080 --> 00:46:19,480 Speaker 2: And I think Sir, I think Sir for her will 848 00:46:19,520 --> 00:46:20,960 Speaker 2: always be now. 849 00:46:21,080 --> 00:46:24,120 Speaker 1: Well, you hope. I don't know. I don't West Hollywood 850 00:46:24,160 --> 00:46:25,160 Speaker 1: is not what to be. 851 00:46:25,760 --> 00:46:28,200 Speaker 2: I don't think she would close Sir down without it. 852 00:46:29,719 --> 00:46:33,839 Speaker 1: Needing to be I know, But Carmel and Natalie also 853 00:46:34,000 --> 00:46:37,680 Speaker 1: own most of sir, it's not just Lisa Vanner pump. 854 00:46:38,080 --> 00:46:39,480 Speaker 2: Oh well then fuck it, I don't. 855 00:46:40,320 --> 00:46:44,479 Speaker 1: She doesn't have the entire say over that. But West 856 00:46:44,520 --> 00:46:46,799 Speaker 1: Hollywood is just different. Ever since twenty twenty, I think 857 00:46:46,800 --> 00:46:49,880 Speaker 1: it's very hard to keep things in business anyway. Oh 858 00:46:50,000 --> 00:46:55,760 Speaker 1: my god, this podcast, you guys, I like sang Celine Dion. 859 00:46:56,239 --> 00:47:03,160 Speaker 1: I cackled over a big bull apes feel so fulfilled. Wait, 860 00:47:03,360 --> 00:47:05,520 Speaker 1: Miranda should be the next Bachelorette. 861 00:47:05,800 --> 00:47:09,560 Speaker 4: Everybody was saying like Miranda and even doing like somebody else, 862 00:47:09,719 --> 00:47:10,800 Speaker 4: like a Layla and all that. 863 00:47:10,920 --> 00:47:14,120 Speaker 1: But then everybody's like, you're just idea get away from 864 00:47:14,160 --> 00:47:20,120 Speaker 1: the morning idea. Why don't you keep the franchise as 865 00:47:20,440 --> 00:47:22,560 Speaker 1: is and how you've been doing it for the past 866 00:47:22,680 --> 00:47:25,920 Speaker 1: four hundred years, Because I swear I've been watching The 867 00:47:26,000 --> 00:47:31,320 Speaker 1: Bachelor turning into Chicago Kindergarten. Oh my god, if The 868 00:47:31,360 --> 00:47:34,400 Speaker 1: Bachelor turns into Chicago the Broadway, I feel like that's 869 00:47:34,440 --> 00:47:36,560 Speaker 1: where they're kind of where it is going. 870 00:47:36,800 --> 00:47:37,880 Speaker 2: Like Chicago only. 871 00:47:37,800 --> 00:47:41,040 Speaker 1: Brings BRA celebrities in, just like well not reality TV 872 00:47:41,160 --> 00:47:43,640 Speaker 1: people in one by one, like that's their shtick. The 873 00:47:43,719 --> 00:47:44,880 Speaker 1: Bachelor just turns. 874 00:47:44,640 --> 00:47:48,160 Speaker 4: Into bringing just reality stars. I mean, this could have 875 00:47:48,200 --> 00:47:51,000 Speaker 4: been their kickoff didn't go well, so who knows, but 876 00:47:51,320 --> 00:47:54,080 Speaker 4: I could see it because I'm not kidding because Alex 877 00:47:54,239 --> 00:47:55,160 Speaker 4: Earl is that. 878 00:47:56,840 --> 00:47:58,000 Speaker 2: She's oh call her daddy. 879 00:47:58,239 --> 00:48:02,120 Speaker 4: Yeah no, No, Alex is like she's just famous for 880 00:48:02,280 --> 00:48:04,560 Speaker 4: like just being hot and on TikTok and all of 881 00:48:04,640 --> 00:48:08,120 Speaker 4: these things and dating high profile guys. She was like 882 00:48:08,520 --> 00:48:10,640 Speaker 4: a scene with Tom Brady, but she was dating a 883 00:48:10,719 --> 00:48:13,879 Speaker 4: dude that played Miami football. This girl is just well 884 00:48:13,960 --> 00:48:18,200 Speaker 4: known TikTok influencer, got a well, they should put someone 885 00:48:18,320 --> 00:48:20,800 Speaker 4: like that in because she just got well, no, she 886 00:48:21,000 --> 00:48:22,719 Speaker 4: just got her and her family and just got a 887 00:48:22,800 --> 00:48:23,879 Speaker 4: reality TV show. 888 00:48:24,000 --> 00:48:25,640 Speaker 2: Okay, let me tell you. That's where I'm just saying. 889 00:48:26,160 --> 00:48:29,200 Speaker 1: They may have gotten a reality TV show. Will it last? 890 00:48:29,480 --> 00:48:31,880 Speaker 1: Most likely not, because let me tell you something, it 891 00:48:32,000 --> 00:48:35,879 Speaker 1: is really fucking hard to make a great reality TV show. 892 00:48:36,520 --> 00:48:41,120 Speaker 1: Even those girls who were TikTokers, the family who was it, 893 00:48:41,440 --> 00:48:47,400 Speaker 1: they were dancers, Damilio couldn't make it last. Like so 894 00:48:47,640 --> 00:48:51,120 Speaker 1: many people who think that they I think Olivia Colpo 895 00:48:51,280 --> 00:48:54,240 Speaker 1: had a show on her family on like Discovery or something. 896 00:48:54,719 --> 00:48:56,000 Speaker 1: Does that exist still. 897 00:48:57,680 --> 00:49:03,719 Speaker 4: Now doubtful because it's fucking hard. Great, But that's what 898 00:49:03,880 --> 00:49:07,320 Speaker 4: I'm all. I'm saying for The Bachelor and The Bachelor 899 00:49:07,400 --> 00:49:11,480 Speaker 4: rat whatever. Even those type of people that would be 900 00:49:11,560 --> 00:49:14,680 Speaker 4: so great are like trying for reality TV. So it's 901 00:49:14,680 --> 00:49:17,160 Speaker 4: almost to the point where like that's where you get 902 00:49:17,239 --> 00:49:21,680 Speaker 4: your people reality TV. I know, yeah, yeah, that an 903 00:49:21,719 --> 00:49:23,600 Speaker 4: influencer who hasn't been on it. Wow. 904 00:49:23,800 --> 00:49:26,960 Speaker 1: I'm sitting here like getting offended by these like well 905 00:49:27,000 --> 00:49:29,160 Speaker 1: known people who get reality shows. I'm like, you don't 906 00:49:29,160 --> 00:49:31,759 Speaker 1: even understand how fucking hard that art is. Are you 907 00:49:31,880 --> 00:49:33,840 Speaker 1: joking that you're gonna step in here and. 908 00:49:33,920 --> 00:49:35,080 Speaker 2: Make great reality TV? 909 00:49:35,360 --> 00:49:39,040 Speaker 1: They don't, you know? Might? It's kind of like the actors. 910 00:49:39,080 --> 00:49:41,439 Speaker 1: They're like you, it's very hard to be an actor. 911 00:49:41,480 --> 00:49:43,879 Speaker 1: It's very hard to make great reality TV. Well guess 912 00:49:43,920 --> 00:49:47,919 Speaker 1: what motherfucker would It's hard to make a great live 913 00:49:48,040 --> 00:49:52,239 Speaker 1: stream that people keep trying. Everything people is hard, and 914 00:49:52,320 --> 00:49:53,440 Speaker 1: everything saturated. 915 00:49:53,520 --> 00:49:56,840 Speaker 2: Ying is hard. Oh fuck, it is hard, doesn't it. 916 00:49:57,520 --> 00:49:59,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, Alex are all, I wish you the best on 917 00:49:59,280 --> 00:50:03,799 Speaker 1: your whatever. She's like, fuck you. You have like one 918 00:50:03,880 --> 00:50:04,840 Speaker 1: hundred million. 919 00:50:04,640 --> 00:50:06,600 Speaker 2: Followers probably if I'm not one of them. 920 00:50:07,400 --> 00:50:12,799 Speaker 1: Anyway, you listen to another episode Tangent episode of Untraditionally 921 00:50:12,880 --> 00:50:14,320 Speaker 1: La La. I Love you guys. I'm gonna catch you 922 00:50:14,480 --> 00:50:21,120 Speaker 1: on Thursday Thursday night for an unlikely affair, Monday for 923 00:50:21,280 --> 00:50:25,040 Speaker 1: Untraditionally La La bonus episode, and again next week for 924 00:50:25,120 --> 00:50:27,880 Speaker 1: a regular old episode. Love you guys, bye by