Speaker 1: From Hollywood to you. Thank you for listening to us.
Speaker 1: Ryan Air on Air with a Ryan Seacrest.
Speaker 2: Right, good morning, everybody.
Speaker 1: What's the report? Is the coffee working?
Speaker 3: So I haven't we haven't purchased, sorry myself, Oh, the
Speaker 3: is the coffee working?
Speaker 4: I thought you were talking about your pacha, mamah.
Speaker 2: Let's let's explain that also to the back room too.
Speaker 2: Good morning, back room, good morning. Only bring this up
Speaker 2: because it is Wednesday. I did not get the same
Speaker 2: spunk out of my coffee this morning that I did yesterday.
Speaker 1: And I looked it up. I researched.
Speaker 2: It has to do with either less sleep has to
Speaker 2: do with a tolerance issue, like perhaps perhaps this doesn't
Speaker 2: work as well, but it does work, so it's not
Speaker 2: that right. But I guess maybe if you don't get
Speaker 2: the best night sleep, it doesn't give you the kick
Speaker 2: that it always gives you.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I think it's more dependent on you the vessel
Speaker 4: than the coffee itself.
Speaker 2: It's kind of a bummer when it like you're expecting
Speaker 2: it the vessel to kick the same way it always kicks,
Speaker 2: and it doesn't.
Speaker 5: I know.
Speaker 4: But the days when it really kicks good, it's nice.
Speaker 1: I get into creative mode.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but I think you should maybe switch it up
Speaker 3: every once in a while to what, I don't know,
Speaker 3: different brands, different No.
Speaker 2: I spent my life, my life, my life's work has
Speaker 2: been to find the right coffee bean.
Speaker 1: And I tell everyone about it, and.
Speaker 2: Even your boyfriend fiance husband, yes, is starting to believe
Speaker 2: that maybe I'm onto something with it.
Speaker 3: It was so cute because we were in the kitchen
Speaker 3: and he literally just looks over and goes, and by
Speaker 3: the way, we love our coffee, like we found we
Speaker 3: just found this really good stuff that we're.
Speaker 1: Just obsessed with it.
Speaker 4: It's it's called like Joshua Tree coffee.
Speaker 3: It's in a pink bag, and it's just so luxuriously tasting.
Speaker 1: Is the bean shiny or dry? Sh Is it rosy?
Speaker 5: No?
Speaker 1: It's dry? Yeah, you're missing out.
Speaker 3: No, no, no, I'm going to tell you this is
Speaker 3: some good stuff. But anyway, so we're really obsessed with
Speaker 3: our coffee. But he looks over, I mean, he goes,
Speaker 3: should we should we try Ryan's Pachamama coffee? And I
Speaker 3: was like, huh no, and he goes. I feel like
Speaker 3: the guy knows what he's talking about. When it comes
Speaker 3: to coffee. He's really passionate about I think we should
Speaker 3: try it.
Speaker 2: I stand on street corners and just shout Pacha Mama
Speaker 2: because I know it's life changing. I will tell you this,
Speaker 2: I have no interest in the company at all. Right,
Speaker 2: just love it because it does make my morning, and
Speaker 2: I'm a morning person.
Speaker 1: I will tell you this.
Speaker 2: Every person that I have gotten to date pachamamah has
Speaker 2: married them. Really.
Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, so we're gonna give it a whirl. We
Speaker 4: but we need that. We don't do coffee, we do espresso.
Speaker 4: So we're going to get the espresso.
Speaker 1: You know, it just goes to by it fast. It's
Speaker 1: like a.
Speaker 4: Short fat ook to it.
Speaker 1: We ad too bad.
Speaker 2: Uh. Anyway, We're not gonna talk about this all morning.
Speaker 2: I do want to congratulate, as I said, Garden Grove unified.
Speaker 2: They are done. We're gonna start telling you, congratulating, saluting
Speaker 2: last days of school, Garden Grove parents, Garden Grove students
Speaker 2: and faculty. Your last day, let's hear from you here.
Speaker 2: Eight hundred five to one to two seven, class of
Speaker 2: twenty four.
Speaker 1: You did it. You never thought it was going to
Speaker 1: get here, and it did.
Speaker 2: It got here. Your morning hack is coming up. How
Speaker 2: many people will you have to date before finding the one?
Speaker 1: There's some science that just came out. We'll take twenty four.
Speaker 2: No, six fifty five is the time. We'll tell you that.
Speaker 2: I was just reading this morning. Nutritionists say that pizza
Speaker 2: is healthier for breakfast than most cereals.
Speaker 3: You know what's interesting, I believe it? Why because I
Speaker 3: think that we're a programmed to think that our breakfast
Speaker 3: should be some sort of like a lot of breakfast
Speaker 3: are sweet oatmeals sere Yeah, you're programmed to think that
Speaker 3: it can't pancakes.
Speaker 2: Wall Remember we talked to the Blue Zone guy. They
Speaker 2: did that documentary How to Live to Be one hundred
Speaker 2: on Netflix and Dan Butteennur's his name, and he was
Speaker 2: saying that it's just marketing that we eat those sweet
Speaker 2: things first that he eats to live to one hundred.
Speaker 2: MINESTRONI Yeah, soup, beans and soup for breakfast. It's just
Speaker 2: a matter of like sort of rep paradigm, shifting your
Speaker 2: psyche your mind on it. Yeah, pizza is packed a
Speaker 2: much larger portion of protein and will keep you full
Speaker 2: and boost your mood throughout the morning, whereas cereals can
Speaker 2: make you crash. Yeah, I believe it not so obvious,
Speaker 2: but then when you dive into it. Could you eat soup?
Speaker 1: Could you eat minestrone for breakfast? I've started soup.
Speaker 3: Yes, I've started eating basically egg drop soup for breakfast.
Speaker 1: Everybody that's good? Is that sweet and sour?
Speaker 3: I make it so it's Robbie makes a broth for
Speaker 3: us and so, and then I just make eggs and
Speaker 3: I put the eggs in it.
Speaker 4: It sounds really weird.
Speaker 1: Actually it sounds good on us on my stomach saying
Speaker 1: a warm of my stomach.
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's really good.
Speaker 1: All right, if you just waken up, Thanks for being here.
Speaker 2: Got Todd Dodger tickets and Disneyland tickets every few minutes,
Speaker 2: every single hour. Sisney is out this week. Tanya in
Speaker 2: with what happened last night while we were sleeps?
Speaker 1: What happened? All right?
Speaker 6: Well?
Speaker 3: Residents in the Redlands area are on high alert after
Speaker 3: home surveillance cameras have spotted several Mountain lions roaming neighborhoods.
Speaker 3: LA Metro is testing a program that would require Metro
Speaker 3: writers to tap their transit cards as they exit the
Speaker 3: station as well as when they enter to make sure
Speaker 3: everybody paid to get on in the first place. And
Speaker 3: California lawmakers approved bills that would completely ban grocery stores
Speaker 3: from offering reusable plastic bags. They say the current restrictions
Speaker 3: haven't done enough to stop plastic pollution.
Speaker 4: And that's what happened overnight.
Speaker 2: You know, I don't read the texts in their entirety
Speaker 2: here at one to two point seventy PISFM. I actually
Speaker 2: thought in the group text that Ruby got married in
Speaker 2: Costa Rica and it was a surprise wedding. And I
Speaker 2: was like, oh my gosh, she another secret kept. Because
Speaker 2: another week, another wedding, another week, another proposal around here.
Speaker 2: Can somebody just get a Tubs just got if you didn't.
Speaker 2: My mother is still not satisfied. Matter of fact, I
Speaker 2: might invite her in one of these days, Jeffrey Tubbs.
Speaker 2: She cannot believe that you kept your engagement from her
Speaker 2: for a month or two months, whatever it was. So
Speaker 2: another week, another engagement. You know, the weddings are gonna
Speaker 2: start just popping up.
Speaker 7: Yeah, so I.
Speaker 2: Thought you got married over the weekend in cost Rica.
Speaker 2: That's not the case.
Speaker 7: No, I'm still a fiance. Yeah, just went to a wedding.
Speaker 2: So you were a guest at a wedding, at an
Speaker 2: exotic wedding in Costa Rica.
Speaker 8: It was my first time in Costa Rica. And it
Speaker 8: was so beautiful. It felt so magical. There's like all
Speaker 8: these like monkeys, Iguana's tropical birds, like it just was
Speaker 8: like it felt like.
Speaker 7: Something out of like a story book. It was really
Speaker 7: really nice.
Speaker 2: We talk about the blue Zone, these regions in the
Speaker 2: world where people can more people lived to a hundred
Speaker 2: than other parts of the world, Right, so what do
Speaker 2: they do? What's the climate? Like, what are the things
Speaker 2: that are similar in these regions? Costa Rica is one
Speaker 2: of them.
Speaker 7: Yes, no, it was.
Speaker 8: It was, like I said, incredible, but we I did
Speaker 8: have my first howler monkey experience. Like we stayed at
Speaker 8: the Ondas Resort and in the middle of the night
Speaker 8: was probably like three am, we just heard these crazy
Speaker 8: sounding monkeys.
Speaker 7: It was so intense.
Speaker 2: I've been there. That's where I learned to surf. Wait, what,
Speaker 2: that's where I learned to surf. My buddy Jim and
Speaker 2: I went down there and learned to surf. It was
Speaker 2: before it's pre COVID. That's where I learn to surf.
Speaker 2: And we would see the monkeys up in the trees.
Speaker 2: Were they just sort of like they were just branching
Speaker 2: to branch to branch, right.
Speaker 8: Just hanging out like literally just hanging out by the
Speaker 8: pool on the branch.
Speaker 1: Wh Did they tell you to be careful? Yeah?
Speaker 7: Yeah, they told you don't feed them.
Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly.
Speaker 2: I remember my briefing when I got there, like, do
Speaker 2: not offer a banana to the monkey?
Speaker 7: I know, but they're so cute you just want to
Speaker 7: like pet them, and like.
Speaker 1: But we have you ever seen a monkey out in
Speaker 1: the wild.
Speaker 4: I've never seen a monkey on the wild.
Speaker 1: So that's a he Hall monkey. Okay, that's a hell
Speaker 1: he Hall monkey.
Speaker 7: Did you no so howlers right, howlers?
Speaker 1: Yeah, right, here's a howler.
Speaker 7: Yeah.
Speaker 1: That sounds like Halloween, very scary.
Speaker 7: Sounds like a.
Speaker 1: Now are these at night?
Speaker 7: Yeah?
Speaker 8: This was there at night. When we heard him, it
Speaker 8: was three am. It woke me up and I was like,
Speaker 8: oh my god, what is that And my sister's like,
Speaker 8: it's them.
Speaker 1: They're coming.
Speaker 7: Very intense.
Speaker 1: Did you get did they get married on the beach?
Speaker 8: So they'd had the ceremony on like in the Marina area,
Speaker 8: and then the reception was back.
Speaker 1: At the where in Costa Rica? Was it this.
Speaker 8: Area called the Papa Peninsula?
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeahs to ride there.
Speaker 2: Really it's a it's a very good place to learn
Speaker 2: how to surf. Yeah, surf is easy.
Speaker 3: What's so interesting is these destination weddings. They really are
Speaker 3: equivalent to price wise getting married in La these days,
Speaker 3: and so a lot of people are just choosing to.
Speaker 2: That's interesting because what you pay for it there when
Speaker 2: you get there is less correct. Yeah, so you had
Speaker 2: the travel and it's still less correct it.
Speaker 3: I mean, obviously it depends, but it basically you can
Speaker 3: even out.
Speaker 1: Yeah, what about the food? What food did you have
Speaker 1: in Costa Rica?
Speaker 7: Rubib The food was really good.
Speaker 8: We had guyo pinto, which is basically rice and beans,
Speaker 8: which is like corn pancakes, and then the tropicals of
Speaker 8: each other was just chef's kiss.
Speaker 7: It was so good.
Speaker 1: Chef's kiss. CEVICHA.
Speaker 2: Look at you living the life going to other people's
Speaker 2: weddings far far away lands. Just take a note, right,
Speaker 2: I'm sure you're there. Take a note what to do
Speaker 2: and what not to do? Did you learn of something
Speaker 2: to not do at your wedding?
Speaker 8: I haven't been to a wedding where people were on
Speaker 8: the dance floor before anyone even ate. The dance floor
Speaker 8: was packed, and I was like, I want that at
Speaker 8: my wedding. It was my friend Savin Tyler's wedding, and
Speaker 8: everyone was on the dance floor.
Speaker 7: It was just like the whole night, NonStop.
Speaker 8: Like you know sometimes DJs have to like get people
Speaker 8: to get on the dance floor.
Speaker 7: There's none of that.
Speaker 2: I have not been to a wedding in a very
Speaker 2: long time, in a decade.
Speaker 3: But no, it's true that the traditional ways, like you know,
Speaker 3: you have the cocktail hour, everybody just like drinks and
Speaker 3: it's like it's like slow to the dance floor.
Speaker 2: Would you guys make it unstructured? Like you ever heard
Speaker 2: of the deconstructed burger? Will you do a deconstructed wedding?
Speaker 7: Yes.
Speaker 3: Robbie's big thing, my fiancees big thing is he wants
Speaker 3: the party to start even before the ceremony. So he
Speaker 3: wants me and him to like go out when everybody's arriving.
Speaker 1: And so what does that mean for when I do
Speaker 1: my performance with you guys, you'll.
Speaker 3: Be out there too, Like you'll be out there and
Speaker 3: my loy'll be food and drinks.
Speaker 1: I like let's break the ice early so it's not
Speaker 1: so tense.
Speaker 2: Yeah, all right, well Ruby, welcome back, and let's shout
Speaker 2: out your happily married friends.
Speaker 7: Yeah, sav and Tyler Scott.
Speaker 1: Tyler Scott doesn't, that's sad. Scott. Tyler Scott reporting line.
Speaker 1: All right, your morning.
Speaker 2: Next, how many people do you think you need to date?
Speaker 2: This is what the science tells me. How many people
Speaker 2: do you think you need to date before finding the one?
Speaker 2: This is like data that just came out. How many
Speaker 2: do they say is the average that you date before
Speaker 2: you find the one.
Speaker 3: I do want to go back to you surfing at
Speaker 3: some point, so we'll just put a pin in that
Speaker 3: and go, Well.
Speaker 1: You know I got a surfboard way back.
Speaker 4: Yes, I know.
Speaker 1: Okay.
Speaker 2: A friend of mine is a surfer, Jim, down in
Speaker 2: Costa Rica, and he just said, come down, come down,
Speaker 2: come down. Well years ago before COVID, I went down
Speaker 2: there on our spring break trip and I learned to surf,
Speaker 2: and I got up a few times.
Speaker 4: I'm so surprised by this because you're so scared of sharks,
Speaker 4: and like.
Speaker 1: I was less fraidy back then, I'm afraidy of things now. Okay,
Speaker 1: I think I'm afraidy of a lot.
Speaker 2: I'm trying to put myself in less life threatening situations
Speaker 2: these days.
Speaker 4: The water of the ocean isn't life It can.
Speaker 1: Be in you don't know that water is warm and
Speaker 1: the sharks are there.
Speaker 3: I understand, like not jumping out of a plane or
Speaker 3: bungey jumping or any of that stuff, but like swim you.
Speaker 2: Seen the sharks sometimes when it's really warm. Watched this summer.
Speaker 2: You mark my words, this summer you'll be afraids. You'll
Speaker 2: be fraid's fraids afraid.
Speaker 4: Well, there were sharks off San Clementy, wasn't.
Speaker 2: There like some sort of yeah, and all kinds of
Speaker 2: things going on down there. And that's only what we see.
Speaker 2: That's the surface. If that's just the surface, what's really
Speaker 2: in that water? They just closed Sanclemente. Dude, aggressive shark activity, yeah, aggres.
Speaker 2: That combination of vocabulary keeps me out of the water.
Speaker 2: Aggressive shark attacks make okay, No, I will scuba in
Speaker 2: the pool. So there's a new dating book and they
Speaker 2: did all the math and they say you're going to
Speaker 2: date this many people before finding the one. Maybe you
Speaker 2: don't want to know because it's a little depressing.
Speaker 4: Why why depressing?
Speaker 1: Because it's a lot of dead ends. Oh yeah, it's
Speaker 1: actually I didn't want to tell you.
Speaker 4: It was my guests.
Speaker 1: Right, what'd you say?
Speaker 4: Seventy four?
Speaker 2: No, that's nuts. Seventy four you'll date seventy four people?
Speaker 2: There's kay, how many people have you dated?
Speaker 7: I would say like five?
Speaker 1: No, yes, you're off on this no date.
Speaker 3: No, think about every single person you've been at least
Speaker 3: on one date with in your life, not dated like you.
Speaker 4: Yeah, thank you.
Speaker 3: I mean it's still not seventy five, but it's probably
Speaker 3: like twenties, thirties.
Speaker 2: Okay, that's not seventy five. So what are you saying?
Speaker 2: The average is twenty nine? Yeah, twenty nine dead end
Speaker 2: losers before you end up with the one.
Speaker 4: Yeah, sounds about right.
Speaker 2: Twenty nine lame attempt set loving you before you end
Speaker 2: up with the one.
Speaker 3: You know what that says to me? Though, twenty nine
Speaker 3: chances to have your spirit shattered just a little bit.
Speaker 3: But it makes when you find the one, that one
Speaker 3: person even more beautiful.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's all depressing, that's what you're trying to say. No,
Speaker 1: I tell you to do it. Twenty nine.
Speaker 2: People take that fact with you and tell your single
Speaker 2: friends about that. See how they react today at work.
Speaker 2: All right, today's quote. It's a Wednesday. It's May twenty ninth.
Speaker 1: Everyone. This is a great quote. It's a bit spiritual.
Speaker 4: Oh.
Speaker 2: Everyone comes into a relationship with baggage. You can either
Speaker 2: trip over each other's stuff or unpack it together. Oh, right,
Speaker 2: person will help you unpack it.
Speaker 1: Get over it, bro, We all have baggage, but get
Speaker 1: over it like we all got it. So get pasted.
Speaker 1: Its FM headlines with Tanya.
Speaker 4: Rad that's right.
Speaker 3: UCLA workers walked off the job yesterday to protest the
Speaker 3: university's response to demonstrations on campus, saying workers' rights have
Speaker 3: been violated. Dozens of students at Boyle Heights High School
Speaker 3: walked out of class yesterday to protest the unexplained removal
Speaker 3: of their longtime principal. La Metro ruled out a new
Speaker 3: program requiring Metro writers to tap their transit cards as
Speaker 3: they exit the subway station as well as when they entered.
Speaker 3: The goal is to stop fair evaders, and Disney debuted
Speaker 3: a new trailer for Mowana Too.
Speaker 4: Ali E.
Speaker 3: Cravalio and Dwayne Johnson are set to return as Mowana and.
Speaker 1: Maui on air with Ryan Seacrest.
Speaker 2: Ryan Seacrest here, Siciny is out on vacation this week.
Speaker 2: Tanya holding down all the duties. So when you hear weather, Tanya,
Speaker 2: when you hear news, Tanya, right the services, Yeah, I
Speaker 2: got the back room.
Speaker 1: Everybody's here from there.
Speaker 2: And we did have this conversation the other day about
Speaker 2: breaking your comfort zone. It is important, I think in
Speaker 2: life not to become complaint. Like it's a very fine line.
Speaker 1: Here is my head.
Speaker 2: I got a lot of voices this morning because I
Speaker 2: find it very dichotomous the route.
Speaker 1: It's like, I love.
Speaker 4: Routine, love routine, crazy.
Speaker 2: Also don't want to fall into the trap of complacency.
Speaker 2: But routine breeds complacency.
Speaker 1: I know.
Speaker 3: And you don't realize you're complacent until you're ready complacent.
Speaker 1: Can you can you hear the voices in your head
Speaker 1: right now?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 2: Like we're very complex. The brain is a complex instrument, right.
Speaker 2: You can have several competing thoughts all at the same time.
Speaker 2: Can you just listen to everyone listening to all of
Speaker 2: them right now? Can you suck yourself up above it
Speaker 2: like a little plane looking down on the voices in
Speaker 2: your head and laugh at them because they're they are
Speaker 2: really not reality. They're just making They're just creating this
Speaker 2: stir for no reason. Can you suck yourself above and
Speaker 2: stop and stop hearing them because the thoughts are not real.
Speaker 3: I feel like we should dive into something with you
Speaker 3: right now, if I'm being honest.
Speaker 2: I'm reading e Card toll Oh The Agreements and The
Speaker 2: Power of Now. I read it every five to ten years, Yeah,
Speaker 2: it's good, or every two years, maybe as long I read.
Speaker 2: I read the Four Agreements in the Power of Now
Speaker 2: every cycle or so. So anyway, we're talking about the
Speaker 2: power of now and breaking complacency and the power of
Speaker 2: doing something that you would never do in the powerful
Speaker 2: feeling that it gives you when you send a tape
Speaker 2: of you walking in a baby souit in your driveway
Speaker 2: to the espresso song from the Suprint Carpenter to Miami's
Speaker 2: Swim Week producers and they say, you're in your That's
Speaker 2: what we're talking about.
Speaker 3: Yeah, And uh so I'm leaving on Friday, and I.
Speaker 1: Am I try.
Speaker 3: I tried to get one of my best friends to
Speaker 3: come with me because I'm actually terrified, and neither of
Speaker 3: them can come, and so I'm literally going solo, which
Speaker 3: is also terrifying. If you're free this weekend and wanna Yeah.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna go to swim week with you, But I
Speaker 1: just don't.
Speaker 7: Know what to do.
Speaker 4: Like, I'm like, it's such a long runway.
Speaker 3: I walked like five steps in my driveway and I'm like,
Speaker 3: what do I do with my hands like this?
Speaker 1: So let's break this down. This is the song you
Speaker 1: are you gonna walk to this as well?
Speaker 4: No, I don't know what song.
Speaker 1: There's going to be a generic.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't even know what the vibe is.
Speaker 1: I will tell you this.
Speaker 2: Anybody that's ever walked by themselves in their mirror, or
Speaker 2: walked professionally, or walked for a charity event the sky,
Speaker 2: tickle the fingers.
Speaker 1: Tickling the sky is a good mood. Yeah. Is you
Speaker 1: put your hands up like.
Speaker 2: A why and then you tickle the sky the sky,
Speaker 2: tickle the sky.
Speaker 4: It's called crowd engagement.
Speaker 1: Oh well, I call it tickling the sky. People can't
Speaker 1: look away.
Speaker 4: But you can't do that the whole time.
Speaker 3: You can't just walk around with your hands up in
Speaker 3: the air and go tickling the sky the whole time.
Speaker 1: Your hand do that. I would you can't shoes? Do
Speaker 1: you have to wear? That's my concern.
Speaker 4: I don't know.
Speaker 3: I could go barefoot, I could be in heels, like
Speaker 3: I have no idea.
Speaker 2: I think it's hard to walk on a runway. I
Speaker 2: mean he heels in general, right, but it is hard
Speaker 2: to walk on that shiny.
Speaker 4: Floor like slippery.
Speaker 3: It just all of it is truly so outside my comforts.
Speaker 2: Basically, you need someone to go with you and accomplish
Speaker 2: this goal and come back and share the story.
Speaker 9: Yeah.
Speaker 3: I just also I feel like I need like because
Speaker 3: I am so out of my comfort zone. I can
Speaker 3: do things alone. Like it's not about showing up to
Speaker 3: things alone. It's just like I think I'm gonna need
Speaker 3: a little bit of like a you know, like the
Speaker 3: best the encouragement, like you got this, you go.
Speaker 1: Girl, all right, call it one oh two on your own.
Speaker 2: Dime can go to Miami with Tanya and be her
Speaker 2: wing person.
Speaker 4: Yeah the you go girl.
Speaker 2: But you go girl girl or boy go girl girl? Yeah, no,
Speaker 2: you can't go with it. You can't go with a dude. No,
Speaker 2: I think Robbie would. I mean it's crazy, but yeah,
Speaker 2: that's true, that's true. Okay, So who can call.
Speaker 4: In, so you're out, everybody else.
Speaker 1: Can call in. Well, good luck. I'm happy for you.
Speaker 3: I know I'm excited and scared and like all the things.
Speaker 3: But I have had a couple like girls that have,
Speaker 3: you know, that do model professionally, reach out and they're like,
Speaker 3: you're gonna feel so empowered after you do it, Like.
Speaker 1: You're gonna men model too.
Speaker 4: I'm sure they do.
Speaker 1: Should I walk a driveway later?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 3: I mean, honestly, I think I think it's gonna shake
Speaker 3: me up. I think it's gonna give me something internally
Speaker 3: that I've never experienced before.
Speaker 2: This is good for the show, Mark, this is all
Speaker 2: good for the show. Right, She's gonna come back with
Speaker 2: something like that. I mean, wow, this is like the
Speaker 2: whole new season.
Speaker 3: It was supposed to be camping this weekend with Robbing
Speaker 3: the Kids.
Speaker 2: This week Miami, all right, traveling with your pet, it
Speaker 2: can happen if you've got a small one and put
Speaker 2: in the bag. Heartbreaking when you can't travel with your pet,
Speaker 2: it's definitely heartbreak. I cannot I cannot think of putting Georgia.
Speaker 4: And underneath the underneath, I know, I.
Speaker 1: Know makes me so nervous.
Speaker 4: A lot of people do it?
Speaker 2: So what do you do? Well, there's apparently a new
Speaker 2: airline called.
Speaker 1: Fair It's called bark Air, Barkare, It's called bark.
Speaker 2: Air, and the whole premise here is you get to
Speaker 2: fly with your is it your pet or your dog?
Speaker 2: Can you go with a lama or is that have
Speaker 2: to be a dog?
Speaker 7: I believe it's only dogs?
Speaker 1: Yeah? Okay, yeah, what's the story here?
Speaker 8: So they successfully launched their first sold out flight last
Speaker 8: week and it is called bark Air from New York
Speaker 8: to LA But they cadter to dogs that are too
Speaker 8: big to fit under seats on traditional flights. And it's
Speaker 8: a white pause service, which I thought was really really
Speaker 8: cute because the dogs can interact with other pups on
Speaker 8: the fly. They can have their own noise canceling ear muffs. Uh,
Speaker 8: and they have their drink of their choice.
Speaker 1: Okay, and it is it is going to be cheap.
Speaker 7: It is price.
Speaker 4: How much is a ticket to New York?
Speaker 7: A one way trip from New York to LA is
Speaker 7: six grand?
Speaker 2: Okay?
Speaker 1: What who is doing that?
Speaker 2: But you can't you buy a seat for your dog
Speaker 2: on United Thirds.
Speaker 4: Literally for like twenty nine ninety nine or something.
Speaker 8: It includes a human companion, so it would be you
Speaker 8: and your pooch. I know, it's very very expensive.
Speaker 2: Wait, so the dog is the one that gets the
Speaker 2: ticket and you're the companion.
Speaker 7: Yes, essentially, that's the other way around.
Speaker 3: It does get expensive, like even if you do go
Speaker 3: on a trip and you need to put your dog somewhere,
Speaker 3: like if you don't have family, like we always have
Speaker 3: to fucause I'm not going to drive down to San
Speaker 3: Diego and drop my dog off with my parents.
Speaker 2: So I like get a This is a product of
Speaker 2: right now, low volume. If they have a lot of takers,
Speaker 2: they're going to bring the price down, right exactly.
Speaker 8: I think that's what even the CEO mentioned that, he's like,
Speaker 8: you know, when we first had like the first human
Speaker 8: flights were very very very expensive, the first TVs were
Speaker 8: very expensive. But once there's more demand, it can drive
Speaker 8: down the cost.
Speaker 2: So that's what's the potty situation on this, Like I
Speaker 2: can't even stand the human potty situation on planes.
Speaker 7: That I don't know. That's a good question.
Speaker 3: They probably have those rooms like they have you know, lax,
Speaker 3: they have those the rooms where you take your dog
Speaker 3: to do to the bathroom.
Speaker 1: So what do you do you take the dog.
Speaker 3: Yeah, you take the There's there's rooms at ELIAX on
Speaker 3: the plane. I'm sure they have those same rooms where
Speaker 3: it's a room and then there's.
Speaker 1: Like the thing. What kind of rooms do you think
Speaker 1: they have on a plane.
Speaker 4: Like a bathroom that they have on the plane. But
Speaker 4: it's just like green, it's like fake pane.
Speaker 2: Four legs can't get in there. Well some people try.
Speaker 2: It's called pup one instead of plus one.
Speaker 1: You and one?
Speaker 2: Yeah, oh well, I keep me posting on that.
Speaker 3: You posted this picture over the long weekend. Yeah, and
Speaker 3: it was you and your dog. And all I saw
Speaker 3: in this photo was your muscle.
Speaker 2: Well, I appreciate you just featuring that your eyes because
Speaker 2: there's more to it.
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm not a piece of meat.
Speaker 4: No, I'm not.
Speaker 3: Saying, but I think you like it when we say
Speaker 3: we notice that you've been working out, and I can
Speaker 3: really notice in this photo that you've been working out.
Speaker 1: Well, tell you, did you come it? Yeah?
Speaker 4: I sure did.
Speaker 1: What did you say?
Speaker 4: I said, have you been going to the gym? Because
Speaker 4: I can tell?
Speaker 1: How come you just ask me that? Here I have
Speaker 1: to do that?
Speaker 2: It's so weird, like why not take the four hours
Speaker 2: we're together to ask me, and I tell you every morning,
Speaker 2: what do you mean?
Speaker 1: Have every going to a gym? I literally tell you
Speaker 1: every day I'm going to the gym.
Speaker 2: I'm trying to get volume, build some mass, put some
Speaker 2: size on, girt it up.
Speaker 1: And yet you act like we don't even know each other.
Speaker 3: That's I'm trying to be. I'm trying to be a
Speaker 3: positive reinforcement.
Speaker 1: You're creating a little buzz.
Speaker 4: It's nice.
Speaker 2: Thanks, I'm glad you. Thanks for pointing that out. You're
Speaker 2: welcome a lot of amino acid in reps.
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's right.
Speaker 1: All right, Elle, how are you?
Speaker 10: I'm good?
Speaker 5: How are you guys?
Speaker 2: Well, I can't speak for anybody but me, but seems
Speaker 2: like they're fine. So's talk about your dating life. That's
Speaker 2: why we're here, I.
Speaker 1: Think, right.
Speaker 5: Yeah, So I wish I could say the same for myself.
Speaker 5: I've been seeing a guy for a few months and
Speaker 5: it's been going really well. But something happened recently and
Speaker 5: I can't tell if it's a red flag or not,
Speaker 5: and I just wanted to get your your opinion.
Speaker 2: Oh, we're very good at identifying red flags for other people.
Speaker 10: Yeah.
Speaker 5: So we're both music people and we talk about our
Speaker 5: favorite music and we share songs with each other. And
Speaker 5: the other day he shared a playlist with me that
Speaker 5: he said are the songs that make him think of me,
Speaker 5: and I was like, oh my, that's so cute, right,
Speaker 5: and like the title and everything is like an insight
Speaker 5: joke between us. It's like really secret and intimate, and
Speaker 5: so I thought it was so sweet, right, And then
Speaker 5: I found out later that this playlist is actually the
Speaker 5: same one that he made for his ex.
Speaker 2: So when yeah, so he didn't make it repeated.
Speaker 1: It for you.
Speaker 5: Yeah, it's like exactly the same songs, like in exactly
Speaker 5: the same order too. I okay, Well, he shared the
Speaker 5: playlist with with the playlist with me, and I could
Speaker 5: see his user name on the app, right, so I
Speaker 5: like kind of went through his profile, you know, like
Speaker 5: this is the normal stuff, like when you're this is
Speaker 5: what you do, right, And I was able to say
Speaker 5: all this playlist and then I saw one called for Jenna,
Speaker 5: which I know is his ex's name, so I was curious.
Speaker 5: I just opened it and then I saw it's the
Speaker 5: exact same thing he sent me.
Speaker 1: So I don't hate it, Oh, yes you do.
Speaker 4: No, I don't.
Speaker 1: What's Robbie's exes name?
Speaker 4: You aren't.
Speaker 3: I don't hate the playlist, I would hate other thing.
Speaker 1: I hate the player. I hate the game.
Speaker 2: Really, I don't want to say hate as much as
Speaker 2: I'm saying it, but I don't like it's a It's
Speaker 2: complete disingenuousness.
Speaker 3: I'm sure that you have used what's that song, Conrad
Speaker 3: School's Firestone on not just one gal but two or three.
Speaker 1: Used it on a goal? What do I do? Whip
Speaker 1: out my comrades?
Speaker 4: Your Conrad souol?
Speaker 1: That was like our song there comes, yes exactly.
Speaker 4: I'm sure like we've all done that before. I've done
Speaker 4: used playlists.
Speaker 2: Playlist in my phone, named things I cannot figure out
Speaker 2: how to get out, like they are so and so's
Speaker 2: you know, mood songs.
Speaker 1: I'm like, why are.
Speaker 7: They still here?
Speaker 1: I don't know why I'm there?
Speaker 2: And are they put it there in my stuff in
Speaker 2: my chest of drawers? Yeah, but now I still don't
Speaker 2: like it. So the question is you don't like it either,
Speaker 2: you wouldn't be calling us. The question is what do
Speaker 2: we do about it? Have you called him out on this?
Speaker 5: No? I haven't talked to him yet because I don't
Speaker 5: really want him to know that I kind of stalk
Speaker 5: him online, you know, like, yeah, I just I feel
Speaker 5: like it's weird that I bring it up, right, because like,
Speaker 5: I don't know, maybe some people think it's weird. I
Speaker 5: just I don't know.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't. I don't know if it's worth breaking
Speaker 2: up over. But I think that this is a little
Speaker 2: cringey for me. But you know, you don't want to know.
Speaker 2: It's like you don't want to know you're sneaking around
Speaker 2: checking him out. He doesn't want you to know he's
Speaker 2: reusing songs on you. Let's call it a day, just
Speaker 2: I mean, I guess it's even just move on from here,
Speaker 2: but it's not my favorite move. Maybe he can add
Speaker 2: to the playlist, or maybe you can suggest that you
Speaker 2: create and evolve one there. All right, Yeah, well good
Speaker 2: luck dating. You know how many people you have to
Speaker 2: date before finding the one?
Speaker 1: Well?
Speaker 5: How many?
Speaker 1: Twenty nine? But numbers?
Speaker 5: See, gosh, can I just say I don't keep counting.
Speaker 2: He's If he's not twenty plus, just move on, because
Speaker 2: it's the dead end, that's what the she's What if
Speaker 2: he's like forty though, well.
Speaker 4: Twenty one is really the average. So you could go
Speaker 4: up and down.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but forty somethings a whole set of problems. I
Speaker 2: can't get into that. I think, all right, oh thank you.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Twenty nine we learned that, and I can't get it
Speaker 2: out of my head. Twenty nine people, twenty nine dead ends,
Speaker 2: twenty nine lane dates until you meet the person. There's
Speaker 2: a training report coming up, Kate Hudson in the training report,
Speaker 2: very interesting concept.
Speaker 3: Yes, the concept is a year of being single, intentionally
Speaker 3: being single.
Speaker 2: So I'm putting one in one together. You're saying, Kate
Speaker 2: Hudson may have taken a year off of dating, yes,
Speaker 2: to create space for the one.
Speaker 4: Yes, I did this as well, And you took a
Speaker 4: year off. I took it. It was my year, Yeah, my
Speaker 4: year of single.
Speaker 1: You didn't go out with anyone for a year.
Speaker 4: So I did a little differently than Kate.
Speaker 1: No, No, did you go out with anyone in a year?
Speaker 4: Yes?
Speaker 3: I did, but I was not in a committed relationship.
Speaker 3: I was not allowing myself to be in a relationship.
Speaker 3: You dated, Yeah, she did the opposite.
Speaker 2: She went completely cold turkey. Well we'll get to that
Speaker 2: in just a minute. And Kate, if you're listening, feel
Speaker 2: free to tell us the real story because I feel
Speaker 2: like she listens sometimes.
Speaker 4: I love Kate Hudson.
Speaker 1: I need too.
Speaker 2: Yeah, well, Kate, we love you and we're gonna talk
Speaker 2: about you here in just a second. So if you're listening,
Speaker 2: hold on, it's coming. I promise you it's coming fast.
Speaker 2: Let's play. It's time for Disney four Ikia. Yeah, famous
Speaker 2: game we just landed on here Disney or Ikea. Good morning,
Speaker 2: Jennifer and La. Tell us about yourself, Jennifer.
Speaker 3: Hi, Yes, I have.
Speaker 10: Three kids who really love Disney with but I'm hoping
Speaker 10: I can get.
Speaker 1: How perfect is that four pack?
Speaker 5: Then it would be perfect.
Speaker 2: Okay, So I've got a four pack for you to win.
Speaker 2: I'm going to give you a word. You tell me
Speaker 2: if it's a Disney character or a popular product at Ikea.
Speaker 6: Oh okay, yeah.
Speaker 1: It's a reaction.
Speaker 2: I thought i'd get you gotta get three right before
Speaker 2: you get three wrong. But I think you're gonna get this.
Speaker 2: I feel good about it, Jennifer, for the kids. We're
Speaker 2: doing for your kids. Here's the first one, and feel
Speaker 2: free to play along in your car.
Speaker 1: Here's the first one.
Speaker 2: Moum moum m a l m moum.
Speaker 1: Disney character, I key of furniture furniture that is that's right.
Speaker 2: You know the mountain is it is a dresser? You
Speaker 2: have a moum.
Speaker 10: I do not call.
Speaker 2: All right, here's the next one. Can I can I
Speaker 2: Disney character ikea furniture.
Speaker 1: Can I? I?
Speaker 2: You no, it's the main character of the Brother Bear movies.
Speaker 1: Disney still in it.
Speaker 2: Here we go, uh kluon cakluon ca Disney character or
Speaker 2: I kea furniture.
Speaker 1: Cola.
Speaker 6: I will go with iq.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's right. You knew that it's a sixteen gallon
Speaker 2: laundry bagging. Oh yeah, it's actually Swedish for sip.
Speaker 1: I'm told so, I don't know if you speak the language,
Speaker 1: let me know. That's right. All right.
Speaker 2: So for the wind, now for the wind, toughing, toughing
Speaker 2: t u f f I g toughing for the wind.
Speaker 1: Is it a Disney.
Speaker 2: Character or a Kia furniture for your three kids, Jennifer,
Speaker 2: what is.
Speaker 10: It is this Disney?
Speaker 2: Oh no, it's a twin size frame.
Speaker 1: It's Swedish as well. For tough guy for the wind,
Speaker 1: TAFFEEDI TRAFFEEDI Disney.
Speaker 2: Yeah, congratulations, that's it the goddess suit with the power
Speaker 2: to create a life of ya Milana. Congratulations Jennifer, You're
Speaker 2: going to disne Land for free with all your kids.
Speaker 3: Oh, thank you.
Speaker 1: I would be a.
Speaker 2: Terrible person if you told me you were trying to
Speaker 2: win that for your three kids and then you didn't win.
Speaker 1: It's like bad a karma.
Speaker 4: Yeah, so nice.
Speaker 1: So I was probab going to go until you won.
Speaker 1: But you did it. Good job. Thank you for listening.
Speaker 10: Thank you so much, Thank you, Jennifer.
Speaker 2: We were just there together and enjoy Thank you. All right,
Speaker 2: and we got like, what happened to you guys? Did
Speaker 2: you guys get lost your Sysney go lost?
Speaker 5: All right?
Speaker 1: We were on our way out and we lost half
Speaker 1: the group. Mark you were lost.
Speaker 9: I got lost the bathroom and then you guys all
Speaker 9: want a different way.
Speaker 2: Yeah, he didn't announce. You got to announce if you're
Speaker 2: stopping go to the bathroom at Disneyland.
Speaker 7: Especially when you're in a group.
Speaker 9: I was trying to do it kind of covertly, just
Speaker 9: sneak off and expect to go to the next land. Well,
Speaker 9: I just figured you guys wouldn't even notice that I
Speaker 9: was gone back.
Speaker 2: We didn't right, because he didn't know you were gone,
Speaker 2: so we were almost in the car half way. Yeah, exactly,
Speaker 2: All right, coming up, Tony's got a trying to report.
Speaker 2: Could you take a year off from completely to great
Speaker 2: space to meet the one? That's what Kate Hudson did, right.
Speaker 4: That's right.
Speaker 2: The final day of school for Garden Grove Unified. Each
Speaker 2: day will celebrate all the schools last day.
Speaker 1: But you did it, you got through it.
Speaker 2: You thought I would never get here, and here it
Speaker 2: is that last day, Johnny with the training report.
Speaker 3: So a year of being single, that's the concept I
Speaker 3: want you to think about because I in twenty sixteen,
Speaker 3: I did this. I did a year of single and
Speaker 3: it was to rewire my brain from all of my
Speaker 3: toxic dating habits. And so I read the story about
Speaker 3: Kate Hudson and she did something very similar but with
Speaker 3: a twist. So she said she decided to go through
Speaker 3: the process when she was thirty somethings, so we don't
Speaker 3: know exactly what age. And she said I was at
Speaker 3: that place where I was like, I don't want to
Speaker 3: keep repeating my patterns anymore. I have a great therapist
Speaker 3: who was like, I can help you, but you have
Speaker 3: to do it. So she explained that while the process
Speaker 3: was strangely empowering, it got very uncomfortable after it started
Speaker 3: to affect her mojo because think about it. You know,
Speaker 3: when you're single and you're dating and you're getting like
Speaker 3: that feedback and stuff, like, your mojo is good, like
Speaker 3: you're feeling yourself, you know, and if you don't have
Speaker 3: that flirtation, you start to lose your mojo, which can
Speaker 3: be very deflating. But she wasn't doing anything. She wasn't flirting,
Speaker 3: not texting, like nothing with men for a year because
Speaker 3: she really wanted to do this inner work with her
Speaker 3: therapist that she didn't want any distractions. But she does
Speaker 3: credit the process for now being engaged to her fiance.
Speaker 3: And so I'm wondering if that is the key to
Speaker 3: success as basically just like a year off.
Speaker 1: Okay, could you do it? We'll talk about that in
Speaker 1: a second.
Speaker 2: So when you say dating, you lose your mojo because
Speaker 2: you're not getting feedback. Do you get a comment card
Speaker 2: after you date? Like, what do you mean feedback?
Speaker 3: And correct me if I'm wrong. But I feel like
Speaker 3: when you're flirting and you're.
Speaker 1: There's a dopamine release there's like a chemical release.
Speaker 3: Yes, and when someone flirts with you, you get that
Speaker 3: whatever that dopamine is, so your mojo or your ego
Speaker 3: or whatever it is kind of you know, it just
Speaker 3: keeps keeps you going. So if you take that out,
Speaker 3: your mojo's gone.
Speaker 1: Which seems like a long time.
Speaker 4: Three and sixty five days.
Speaker 2: I how long the year is, but it seems like
Speaker 2: a long time to say you're not going to be
Speaker 2: open to anybody about loneliness.
Speaker 1: I mean she clearly, I mean she's got a family.
Speaker 2: So she's not like doing it on her own, right
Speaker 2: she she probably was busy with her family.
Speaker 3: Yeah, and the thing is too, like it's not lonely,
Speaker 3: like you could take a trip with your friends and
Speaker 3: do stuff with friends. It's just you cannot flirt, date.
Speaker 2: Text strategically, you cannot, even if you find the person
Speaker 2: that makes you want to do that.
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's just the rule. Yeah, that's the rule. Because
Speaker 4: she needed to really focus and do this like inner work.
Speaker 1: What it worked.
Speaker 4: It worked.
Speaker 2: So maybe it's something that if you're in that situation
Speaker 2: right now you could try to do. Could you ever go?
Speaker 2: I was watching Pray, Eat in Love or Eat and
Speaker 2: pray in love with Julie Roberts and they go to
Speaker 2: a silent retreat. Could you ever go to a silent retreat?
Speaker 2: People will do it for a week ten days you
Speaker 2: don't speak.
Speaker 4: I can't even do silence, like in my sleep.
Speaker 2: But I think I could never do it, and who
Speaker 2: has the time? And I just watched it in the movie.
Speaker 2: But I couldn't make it till noon.
Speaker 3: I was trying to speech fast for like two weekends
Speaker 3: and I couldn't even I couldn't do it till.
Speaker 1: Fast in two weekends.
Speaker 2: Yes, and that was not having any conversation until noon.
Speaker 1: Yeah. So I don't know.
Speaker 2: These goal these long and rigid deadlines are difficult for
Speaker 2: anyone in this room.
Speaker 4: But look, I mean I did this year of single
Speaker 4: twenty sixteen. I met Robbie in twenty nineteen. Yes, I did.
Speaker 1: You went out with other people.
Speaker 4: It wasn't for me.
Speaker 3: It was I will not I will not commit to anybody.
Speaker 1: You dated and got the dopamine rush.
Speaker 3: But that was my problem is I was dating and
Speaker 3: I was kind of interviewing then like I found that
Speaker 3: I was just interviewing for my husband, and so I
Speaker 3: was like, you know what, I'm going to just take
Speaker 3: that off the table.
Speaker 4: I'm not I can't even like, actually.
Speaker 2: What would you say? Would you sit them down and
Speaker 2: say what do you want?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Like what do you want? What do you really want?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 3: All the resume stuff that was like, you know, I
Speaker 3: look back my cringe, like you know all that stuff.
Speaker 1: Yeah, Well, hey worked for you. You got there. That's true
Speaker 1: that you got there.
Speaker 2: You're walking in a swim show week thing this weekend,
Speaker 2: I mean Robbie's camping. Good morning, Sarah Norwalk, thanks for
Speaker 2: listening to How are you good?
Speaker 10: How are you?
Speaker 2: We're good? We're ready for another dating advice call. Somehow
Speaker 2: these come our way often frequently, uh, and we try
Speaker 2: to do our best. So tell me you've been dating
Speaker 2: someone for a month.
Speaker 10: I hear, Yes, I've been seeing him for a month,
Speaker 10: and I just found out that he doesn't have my name,
Speaker 10: says on his phone?
Speaker 1: What does he have saved in his floating?
Speaker 10: He just has my numbers. So this weekend he lost
Speaker 10: his phone in the car and I called it and
Speaker 10: the number just came on like I had no saved
Speaker 10: nor my name or anything like that.
Speaker 1: Does he when he speaks to you? Does he call you?
Speaker 2: Eight?
Speaker 1: One eight, four nine two? Or does he call you
Speaker 1: by your name?
Speaker 4: Eight?
Speaker 10: He called me play my name? So I don't know.
Speaker 10: I feel a little but hurt about it, But I
Speaker 10: don't know if I should tell him.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's one of the hurts that hurt.
Speaker 3: Why don't you bring it up in a playful way,
Speaker 3: like just kind of what Ryan said you'd be like
Speaker 3: when you talk about me?
Speaker 4: Do you call me eight one eight? Blah blah blah
Speaker 4: blah blah.
Speaker 10: Yeah I should. I'm gonna play that.
Speaker 1: It's all new.
Speaker 2: Let's give him the benefit of the doubt. Let's not
Speaker 2: look for ways to shut it down already. You just
Speaker 2: met a guy. He sounds like you're But our question
Speaker 2: for you, Sarah, Uh, you've been dating him for a month.
Speaker 2: How many dates does that mean.
Speaker 1: In a month?
Speaker 10: Every weekend so.
Speaker 2: It's pretty frequent. And do you text every day or
Speaker 2: night we do? What's the last picture you sent or
Speaker 2: he sent.
Speaker 10: Of meet out with my girls on Sunday?
Speaker 1: Okay? Do you have kids.
Speaker 8: Now?
Speaker 1: Are your girlfriends?
Speaker 5: Yeah?
Speaker 1: My girlfriend got it okay? And what did he send
Speaker 1: most recently?
Speaker 10: Just him and just hanging out in his house by himself.
Speaker 1: Oh, it sounds like you without you.
Speaker 10: Yeah, all right.
Speaker 2: Well I don't think we shut this down, but yeah,
Speaker 2: let's to our point. Playfully bring it up. Bro, let
Speaker 2: me put my name in your phone.
Speaker 3: Or or or or you can be cute with it
Speaker 3: and be like, why don't we come up with the
Speaker 3: nickname that we can like, let's create a nickname.
Speaker 4: No, nobody seems to.
Speaker 8: You.
Speaker 2: I need several options here, Sarah. We love you for calling,
Speaker 2: thank you for listening, and keep us posting on this.
Speaker 2: Hope it goes well for you.
Speaker 10: Thank you.
Speaker 5: A little love.
Speaker 3: Nickname, yeah, is a month charming?
Speaker 4: No, prince charming is not quite the It's a nickname.
Speaker 4: It's like what you name like your dog.
Speaker 2: Do you call it dog? Prince charming? Prince charming is
Speaker 2: too many syllables. Got your clouds? Typical sunshine later, they say,
Speaker 2: Hopefully it hits you sooner than later. In the seventies
Speaker 2: and eighties, Sydney's on vacation this week, So Tony and
Speaker 2: I are here with the back room. I will give
Speaker 2: you a four pack to Disneyland in just a second.
Speaker 2: And if you sent some talkbacks or want to send
Speaker 2: any talkback in this morning, you can do that inside
Speaker 2: the iHeartRadio app and the red mic and send it
Speaker 2: to us.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna play some back.
Speaker 2: So if you want to get something in you heard
Speaker 2: the morning, you want us to play your voice back?
Speaker 2: Do that's it works like that thing on your phone
Speaker 2: where you just sit record and send a message. Same
Speaker 2: same drill essentially there all right, So Ruby is planning
Speaker 2: her wedding.
Speaker 1: It sounds like a lot faster than Tany's planning hers.
Speaker 3: No excuse me date for your No, but we potentially
Speaker 3: have a venue.
Speaker 4: I know, we like stumbled upon it.
Speaker 3: It was so crazy and there's all these leaves that
Speaker 3: looked like butterflies everywhere, and I was like, this feels significant.
Speaker 1: Floor farm.
Speaker 4: No, but around that around there.
Speaker 1: Or farms is called Yeah, I think it's called Flora Farms.
Speaker 1: But no, that's my niece's name. So I remember that
Speaker 1: place always. Oh that's cute floor farms. It's in Cabo.
Speaker 4: Yeah it is.
Speaker 2: Yeah, your wedding in Mexico not so large.
Speaker 1: That's a large land mask.
Speaker 4: It is it is, it is. I don't want to
Speaker 4: jinx anything.
Speaker 3: I don't because like we don't we don't know for sure,
Speaker 3: but we're pretty it's we're feeling pretty excited.
Speaker 1: Is this twenty six or twenty five?
Speaker 4: Twenty five?
Speaker 2: Twenty five? Want rubies moving faster? Ruby's putting hers together
Speaker 2: right now. I don't know what is the what are
Speaker 2: the rules on the sequencing of this stuff?
Speaker 4: Stuff before that Ruby's talking about. We've talked about all.
Speaker 1: Right, So what is the issue with your wedding planning? Ruby?
Speaker 8: Uh, we're just kind of on the fence about whether
Speaker 8: or not we should have kids, or whether or not
Speaker 8: the wedding should be no kids.
Speaker 2: Well, I think it's well, I don't let me back
Speaker 2: up a step. What does normally happened? I think that
Speaker 2: our kids standard.
Speaker 8: It depends. I've been weddings with kids. I've been two
Speaker 8: weddings without kids.
Speaker 2: I've never seen anybody say don't bring kids.
Speaker 7: Some of them some of the invites say that they do.
Speaker 1: Again, I haven't been in many weddings.
Speaker 7: In a long time, like adults only.
Speaker 1: And so what's the downside to kids coming?
Speaker 4: Oh my gosh, take a.
Speaker 3: Look at the price tag of a wedding and you'll
Speaker 3: see the downside of inviting kids to a wedding.
Speaker 1: Well, then cut them out.
Speaker 7: Yeah, I think that's one of them.
Speaker 8: The other is like having, you know, kids crying while
Speaker 8: you're you know, saying your vows to each other, or
Speaker 8: your first dance together. There's like kids dancing under your dress,
Speaker 8: like those sort of things.
Speaker 2: It sounds like you should call it off. This is
Speaker 2: a lot of drama. Yeah, you put it like that.
Speaker 2: Maybe what about the kid that the ring bear?
Speaker 5: Well?
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, so one kid gets to come, lucky kid.
Speaker 8: I know some people will do only like their siblings
Speaker 8: kids can come that sort of thing.
Speaker 7: So we're just on the fence. Do we allow kids
Speaker 7: do we not?
Speaker 8: Or And also what's the age cut off, like fifteen
Speaker 8: and up or thirteen and up?
Speaker 7: I don't know.
Speaker 2: I do think if you're trying to limit the budget
Speaker 2: and the people, you should probably have some sort of
Speaker 2: framework of limitation where it's not just everybody's kids are
Speaker 2: running around like a like a a free for all.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but also kids don't want to go to weddings,
Speaker 3: you know what I mean, Like I mean, it depends
Speaker 3: on their age obviously. And I think a lot of
Speaker 3: people because we kind of Rob and I did this
Speaker 3: and we talked to our friends that have kids, and
Speaker 3: a lot of them want to come to a wedding
Speaker 3: without their kids, you know, like they want to enjoy
Speaker 3: and yeah, so I don't think it's gonna be.
Speaker 1: We vote no kids.
Speaker 2: Yeah easy, let us know what you guys decide will do.
Speaker 1: Flora's standing by if it's with kids, okay, Well.
Speaker 2: First of all, it needs to bring kids, can't I'm
Speaker 2: gonna bring my niece if she says kids.
Speaker 4: Are a large kids your children?
Speaker 2: No, it's if kids are invited, then I will invite
Speaker 2: a kid around. I don't just come with a kid, Okay, kid,
Speaker 2: any kids want to come with me to a wedding.
Speaker 1: No, it's not like that, got it? Yeah, well she
Speaker 1: is family, it's not he's like a random kid.
Speaker 10: I know.
Speaker 4: But your kid.
Speaker 2: I don't have a kid, so would be in the
Speaker 2: role of that. No, Tanya is in the kid or
Speaker 2: not kid?
Speaker 1: Is she with yours? I don't know which way is up.
Speaker 1: Shout out to Nile.
Speaker 2: Horn kicking off his tour in Florida tonight, and shout
Speaker 2: out to it's Sharon.
Speaker 1: It's Sharon.
Speaker 2: Not too long ago. The other day went to the
Speaker 2: children's hospital in Boston.
Speaker 4: I love that.
Speaker 2: They went to the Seacrest studio there at the pediatric
Speaker 2: hospital and he performed and he talked with the kids,
Speaker 2: he let them interview him, and he stayed around, took
Speaker 2: pictures with over one hundred patients and their families.
Speaker 1: Whow and Ed has been.
Speaker 2: A major supporter of going to the different pediatric hospitals,
Speaker 2: to the Seacrest studios to connect with those kids. And
Speaker 2: I gotta tell you, it not only makes their day,
Speaker 2: they look they hear about it, they look forward to it,
Speaker 2: They talk about it after and they might forget some
Speaker 2: of the pain they're going through.
Speaker 4: Yeah, it really is such a special thing.
Speaker 2: So we appreciate that Ed Sheeran for doing that. In Boston,
Speaker 2: kids were just I mean, I couldn't hear enough about
Speaker 2: it afterwards. And their families too. He had families talking
Speaker 2: about how they didn't seen their child smile in a week. Right,
Speaker 2: I hadn't seen him get out of bed in a
Speaker 2: couple of days, and because he was there, they did
Speaker 2: and they were excited about it.
Speaker 1: So thank you, Ed.
Speaker 2: So We've got this iHeartRadio app and inside of it
Speaker 2: there's a talkback mic and it's a red thing and
Speaker 2: you press it and you talk and he comes right here.
Speaker 2: That's the best description of it. So I've got some
Speaker 2: different things that if you you can obviously call, but
Speaker 2: if you can't get through or want to send clarity,
Speaker 2: like your voice real clear.
Speaker 1: Here's Sergi in the Valley.
Speaker 11: I still cannot believe that you guys not washing your feet.
Speaker 11: The first thing that you do when you go in
Speaker 11: the shower, you wash your feet and then you wash
Speaker 11: everything else before you go to bed.
Speaker 1: How hard is it? So this is because Tanya mentioned
Speaker 1: she's not purposely washed.
Speaker 4: He never touched the ground, so they're not that dirty.
Speaker 2: Did you hear the frustration Surgey's voice. I don't need
Speaker 2: to play that again. You're getting under his clean skin.
Speaker 2: Sergi in the Valley, he is beside him something sad
Speaker 2: Sonny's not purposely washed for just as the runoff takes
Speaker 2: care of it.
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's all clean down there, So.
Speaker 1: You I apologize. We'll try and do better.
Speaker 2: Susanna and Nevada has thoughts on why Olivia Rodrigo is popular.
Speaker 12: So I'm not completely obsessed with Olivia, but what I
Speaker 12: am impressed with is the fact that she allows herself
Speaker 12: to be vulnerable and loves and loves hard, and turns
Speaker 12: right around and lets herself heal. She shows the young
Speaker 12: people of today, that she can be vulnerable and at
Speaker 12: the same time be strong.
Speaker 1: It's true. It's just about being open and honest.
Speaker 12: Yep.
Speaker 1: I feel like if if we could do it through
Speaker 1: a song, maybe we'd be better at it.
Speaker 4: I did it through a song once, Remember, just like that.
Speaker 1: Someone forgot how'd you forget that? Well? Maybe it didn't
Speaker 1: have a catchy hook.
Speaker 4: I just like that.
Speaker 1: You just like that?
Speaker 2: Well what was the song? It was the only lyric,
Speaker 2: just like that yeast title? Who but what else did
Speaker 2: it say?
Speaker 1: One day?
Speaker 4: You would hurt me?
Speaker 2: That so bad?
Speaker 1: Just like just like that? Yeah, yeah, all right, let
Speaker 1: me check the charts.
Speaker 4: And then when do we have had James Maslow coming in,
Speaker 4: like do a remix or something?
Speaker 1: So we've been off for twenty years? Who knows? Probably
Speaker 1: all right.
Speaker 2: Remember we talked about clothes that are worn but not dirty. Yeah,
Speaker 2: you said, if you Robbie's hoodie or my sweatpants, I'll
Speaker 2: wear them in the evening with my ug slippers and
Speaker 2: they'll wear them again for three nights.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but then you should fold them and put them
Speaker 3: back in your clothes, and I'll leave them on the chair.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Uh, clearly Robbie does that. You would have gotten so
Speaker 2: pipy about it. Cynthia the five six two has a system.
Speaker 8: No, you guys should take the clean slash dirty, so
Speaker 8: the clerty clothes and put it on some hooks. That's
Speaker 8: what I have.
Speaker 2: I have a couple of hooks in my room that
Speaker 2: are specifically for.
Speaker 7: The clerty clothes, so I can see them when I
Speaker 7: know I want to wear them again.
Speaker 8: And they're all kind of spread out and it doesn't
Speaker 8: look as ugly as.
Speaker 7: A pile of clothes.
Speaker 1: I've never used that word, but I'm putting it into
Speaker 1: my life. Clerity. You guys, these are no no, no,
Speaker 1: no no. Them like the clardy and my socks that
Speaker 1: I wear twice clerity.
Speaker 4: No, those are just dirty.
Speaker 1: They're not dirty.
Speaker 2: I don't sweat in them. Let's see one more edline
Speaker 2: and Tarzana has a nice message.
Speaker 6: Good morning, Ryan and the rest of the Kiss of
Speaker 6: Them crew. This is Edlin from Tarzana. Just want to
Speaker 6: say I love your radio station and I listen to
Speaker 6: it every chance that I get, and I hope you
Speaker 6: and everyone else have a great day, week, month, year.
Speaker 12: Take care.
Speaker 2: I mean she's not calling back in a long time.
Speaker 2: Then for the yeah, thank you. I appreciate that. Talk
Speaker 2: back anytime I'm inside the iHeart radio. AB Okay, thanks
Speaker 2: for joining us for this ride in on a Wednesday,
Speaker 2: almost the end of May. Tanya here is isn't out
Speaker 2: on vacation. She'll be back with us next week. But
Speaker 2: tomorrow we're gonna do more Disneyland tickets also tomorrow, so
Speaker 2: Ryan's roses. I think I know it's what we're doing.
Speaker 2: I think is she found a super inappropriate text, like
Speaker 2: really inappropriate text from one of her best friends to
Speaker 2: her husband, best friend to your husband, and she's in yeah, exactly,
Speaker 2: like can you trust your best friend? We have heard such,
Speaker 2: we have heard, we have been here for stories of
Speaker 2: sisters and best friends hooking up with husbands of the other.
Speaker 3: Those aren't real sisters and those aren't real best friends.
Speaker 4: No, we have had no I know, I know, I
Speaker 4: know we've had it.
Speaker 3: I'm just saying, just just because somebody's your sister doesn't
Speaker 3: mean that you're super tight.
Speaker 4: Not everybody's close to their family.
Speaker 2: Like a sister hooked up with his sister's husband. It's gross,
Speaker 2: and we've had best friends do it too. I was
Speaker 2: heading in a good direction looking north. Your love hit
Speaker 2: me out of nowhere, snuck up on me from the South.
Speaker 1: I wasn't looking to fall in love. It was only
Speaker 1: a matter of time before I was yours.
Speaker 4: Can't even put into words how much I loved you.
Speaker 1: I always thought you felt the same. Oh no, it's
Speaker 1: gonna get sad.
Speaker 4: Our love was untouchable.
Speaker 2: Like that.
Speaker 1: This is the song of Tanya.
Speaker 6: Yeah.
Speaker 1: I wrote this after a breakup.
Speaker 2: Who's singing, Joe Day.
Speaker 1: Who's singing it? Mile Mile?
Speaker 4: Just like, just like, just like that, turn to nothing,
Speaker 4: just like this.
Speaker 1: Is depressing inside.
Speaker 2: I can't, I can't in the show like this.
Speaker 1: I'm made. My organs are in tears.
Speaker 4: Oh my gosh, that.
Speaker 2: Was after a breakup. You wrote that. I gotta tell you,
Speaker 2: sounds much better now.
Speaker 1: We did do it.
Speaker 4: We A, it's not so bad, right, got of catchy.
Speaker 1: But it's super downer.
Speaker 3: Yeah that's remember that's when I was at my down,
Speaker 3: Like I could not have been lower than low.
Speaker 2: Yeah, even Miles sounds down. And he's the guy that
Speaker 2: goes kis a EBB kids, a E pays your bills?
Speaker 2: All right, everybody back round. We had so much going
Speaker 2: on over here. I was distracted. I'm sure the microphone
Speaker 2: was off back there and we missed something.
Speaker 1: Ruby, Mikayla.
Speaker 8: We were just talking again about the breakfast situation and
Speaker 8: how you know, like I bring in random food all
Speaker 8: the time, like dumplings, kim.
Speaker 7: Chi for breakfast, and it just smells something back here,
Speaker 7: and we're like, that's competing right now.
Speaker 1: Who's wait, you're having pasta this morning.
Speaker 7: I may or may not have had something.
Speaker 1: What kind of pasta bolonese?
Speaker 2: Wow? So this all came because we read that pizza
Speaker 2: is healthier than breakfast cereal.
Speaker 4: For you, well, certain breakfast cereals.
Speaker 2: Certain breakfast cereals, right, but bolonnese.
Speaker 1: I don't know where that falls for breakfast.
Speaker 7: I feel like it's healthy ish sauce.
Speaker 2: I mean it's pasta, it's hamburger meat and tomato sauce.
Speaker 2: It's heavy on the bellanty for the nine o'clock hour.
Speaker 2: All right, everybody, thanks for coming in and doing what
Speaker 2: you do. We'll do it again tomorrow.
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