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Speaker 3: very similar situations. And this week a listener wants to
Speaker 3: know if they are a cheater now.
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Speaker 1: probably are.
Speaker 3: That's one of those things where it's really black and white.
Speaker 3: Like I know, there's like gray areas of things, But
Speaker 3: am I a cheater?
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Speaker 3: All right, so let's get into it, Hey, ladies and gentlemen.
Speaker 3: I love this show and have been listening since I
Speaker 3: was sixteen. Now I'm nineteen, in college and in a relationship.
Speaker 1: I need some advice.
Speaker 3: This is my first official relationship, but not the first
Speaker 3: guy I've entertained. The situation I need advice on is this.
Speaker 3: My boyfriend and I have been officially together for four months,
Speaker 3: but before that, we were in a talking stage and
Speaker 3: situationship for about seven months before he actually asked me
Speaker 3: to be his girlfriend. During that time, I did talk
Speaker 3: to and entertain other guys here and there to keep
Speaker 3: my options open.
Speaker 1: Yes, I asked if we were exclusive and he said no.
Speaker 3: However, I never had physical relations with anyone other than him.
Speaker 1: Oh oh, so entertaining is probably dating. She's young, y'all know.
Speaker 1: I know. Look at y'all looking lost. I know.
Speaker 3: Seven months is a long time to wait for someone
Speaker 3: to commit, But I gave him grace because he was
Speaker 3: still healing from past relationships.
Speaker 1: Right, all right, God, both of all outreas.
Speaker 3: A month before he officially asked me to be his girlfriend,
Speaker 3: I tested the waters one last time with someone new,
Speaker 3: but quickly realized I didn't like anyone as much as
Speaker 3: I liked him. That's when I decided to put all
Speaker 3: my eggs in his basket. Okay, a little while into
Speaker 3: our relationship, he went through my messages and saw that
Speaker 3: I had talked to other people during our seven months
Speaker 3: of talking and dating. Now he says I cheated on
Speaker 3: him and keeps throwing it in my face. What But
Speaker 3: I don't believe I did, because he never officially asked
Speaker 3: me to be his girlfriend. We were in a situationship,
Speaker 3: which isn't an official relationship with clear rules.
Speaker 1: What do you guys think? Am I a cheater?
Speaker 5: No?
Speaker 1: So I have two parts that I want to take
Speaker 1: from this.
Speaker 3: Oh, first off, let's start with the question, and then
Speaker 3: there's another tidbit that I want to get into that
Speaker 3: is new for me with my relationship. But the do
Speaker 3: you guys think I'm a cheater? And his reaction, I'm
Speaker 3: gonna tell you something, you're not gonna want to hear
Speaker 3: him making it seem like you're cheating because he went
Speaker 3: through messages of you entertaining men.
Speaker 1: While you weren't really with him.
Speaker 3: I agree, is a clear indication that, bitch, he's cheating
Speaker 3: on you.
Speaker 6: Oh, I don't know about all that.
Speaker 1: Let me tell you why. In my last relationship, I
Speaker 1: actually agree.
Speaker 3: In my last relationship, damn, he was convinced that every
Speaker 3: time I was on a trip, every time I hopped
Speaker 3: on a plane on a dick, when the reality was
Speaker 3: he was actually entertaining women every time I was out
Speaker 3: of town. And so he projected what he knew his
Speaker 3: actions to actually be to you to making it seem
Speaker 3: like and making it like literally wanting to argue with
Speaker 3: me about something I was not doing, almost to where
Speaker 3: a little piece of me was like well, he's gonna
Speaker 3: think I'm doing it anyways, I may as well just
Speaker 3: fucking cheat because the nigga think I'm cheating and I'm not.
Speaker 1: I'm not entertaining anyone. I'm busy.
Speaker 3: And so what I ended up realizing in hindsight was
Speaker 3: literally when he traveled, he was actually fucking another bitch.
Speaker 3: I thought he went to Panama for suits. He was
Speaker 3: in Panama would have been big yea, literally, you know
Speaker 3: what I mean. So he projected his own actions onto
Speaker 3: me a lot. And so he literally said, y'all weren't exclusive.
Speaker 3: And so for him to be making this big fuss
Speaker 3: about messages that he knows predated the relationship is guilt
Speaker 3: seeping through his fucking pores that he's doing that same
Speaker 3: thing right now.
Speaker 1: And so in his mind, this is this is making it.
Speaker 3: It's validating his actions because now he's saying, well, you
Speaker 3: cheated on me.
Speaker 5: Or even if not, he's being very controlling.
Speaker 7: That is also a red flag, like why why is
Speaker 7: he getting on you when you weren't together. He was
Speaker 7: the one who made the decision. Didn't he need the time?
Speaker 7: He didn't he was healing, He was healing.
Speaker 1: Oh I don't like Edam's.
Speaker 6: Faith as the other man in this uh in this panel.
Speaker 1: As the only man in this panel.
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, oh yeah, that's fact over there.
Speaker 1: See.
Speaker 4: When I first started to hear all this, right, I
Speaker 4: was like, this is some bullshit they say right now, right,
Speaker 4: but as man talking right, I started getting a little
Speaker 4: bit mad. But then I started getting mad realizing something.
Speaker 4: She just realized. No, not me.
Speaker 6: I realized, I, look, he probably got cheated during COVID.
Speaker 4: Oh my god, because I'm realizing this shorty was projecting
Speaker 4: a lot when I was out doing nothing, and I'm like,
Speaker 4: and it was a it was a complicated situation too, yes,
Speaker 4: And I just realized I might have been getting cheated.
Speaker 3: You might have been getting gas lit, Purdue into a
Speaker 3: porsonary getting tired because they're doing the wrong thing. And
Speaker 3: so that's what that's what happens lot, right, Like, when
Speaker 3: you're doing something you don't you don't want, or you
Speaker 3: shouldn't be doing while you're in a relationship, either you
Speaker 3: start projecting and pointing fingers because the only thing to
Speaker 3: validate you doing or you being in the wrong is
Speaker 3: if they're.
Speaker 4: Also in the wrong and you going through a phone
Speaker 4: any mind that through and then it.
Speaker 1: Cancels each other out right, You're right.
Speaker 3: Not only is it the red flag that he's making
Speaker 3: this argument prior to you, it's a red flag that
Speaker 3: he feels the need, four months into your relationship to
Speaker 3: be going through your phone why you've.
Speaker 4: Been together find I'm gonna say this every single time.
Speaker 4: Anytime you go through a phone, you won't find something,
Speaker 4: So it don't matter. It won't even be the context.
Speaker 3: Cause yeah, it ain't even gotta be me texting another nigga.
Speaker 3: It could be me and my group chat talking about time.
Speaker 3: When you know what I mean, It's like you're you're
Speaker 3: gonna find something that makes you angry.
Speaker 1: Let's not even get into it.
Speaker 3: If you're looking for that, you you might be mad
Speaker 3: that a nigga in my d I can't control that,
Speaker 3: this nigga slid.
Speaker 6: Y'all still use Facebook?
Speaker 4: No?
Speaker 6: I want to. I want to. I want to tell
Speaker 6: you that Facebook is for the cheaters.
Speaker 1: Let me tell you what Facebook is for the cheater.
Speaker 4: So let's say if you log in or you logged
Speaker 4: out of Facebook on one device or let's say your computer. Now,
Speaker 4: Facebook will let you log in, right, They'll they'll be
Speaker 4: like cool, you could just say yes on this device,
Speaker 4: you long in cool. Now you need an extra code
Speaker 4: to get into the chat history.
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, damn it's given Snapchat.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean kind of yeah. So like now that's
Speaker 4: definitely for the cheatings. I'm gonna say, if a man
Speaker 4: is going to go through your phone he wants to
Speaker 4: find something, yes, or he got something. He's high, he's
Speaker 4: he's got something, or a woman whoever. I love your
Speaker 4: face was like I was tight, this.
Speaker 1: Big dounds nuts. And then as I kept explaining myself,
Speaker 1: you were like it changed.
Speaker 4: Oh shit, I'm the victim. I realized I was the
Speaker 4: victim the whole time in this story.
Speaker 3: Well before we get to the next part of this
Speaker 3: letter that I want to get into, where do you
Speaker 3: stand with do you believe that she is a cheater?
Speaker 3: It's oh you wait, you say you said yes, she's cheating.
Speaker 1: Oh she was cheating because she was entertaining other men
Speaker 1: while they were in a situation. She's not cheating.
Speaker 6: She's she's not cheating. Okay, yeah, happened before you.
Speaker 3: By all, I mean, I ain't gonna hold you and
Speaker 3: y'all don't heard it. It's why the fuck I got
Speaker 3: a boyfriend. Now, he literally heard I was entertaining another
Speaker 3: nigga and he said, oh, she's slipping away. I gotta
Speaker 3: make this official.
Speaker 1: So he did, Oh no, no, no. So I shared the
Speaker 1: story on Patreon. Oh this is alone Patreon.
Speaker 3: Basically while we were in while we were in Vegas together,
Speaker 3: mind you, after breakfast club happened, I had to tell
Speaker 3: him I had sex in Saint Croix.
Speaker 1: I fucking shared it on the breakfast club. However.
Speaker 3: You ready, We're at our last dinner in Vegas thereing
Speaker 3: av and ords, and this nigga facetimes me mind you
Speaker 3: with an Island emoji. So I'm like, man, don't know
Speaker 3: why this nigga calling me, but my phone is straight up.
Speaker 3: So he sees this nigga calling yeah, and I'm like, man,
Speaker 3: I dinner, I ain't gonna answer.
Speaker 1: Whole energy shifted. Hell yeah.
Speaker 3: He literally he literally asked me at dinner, Damn, since
Speaker 3: you've been here with me, have you talked to him?
Speaker 6: Ooh?
Speaker 3: I said, well yeah, I showed him my outfit and
Speaker 3: everything for the av A Awards, and it hit him
Speaker 3: like a ton of breaks.
Speaker 1: If y'all want to hear the full story, it's on Patreon.
Speaker 3: But basically I looked at him and was like, what
Speaker 3: the fuck you jealous about? Red down all the ways
Speaker 3: he ain't show up for me, nigga. Of course I
Speaker 3: got other niggasa, And I said, so, if you want
Speaker 3: to change that, go sit with yourself. First off, get
Speaker 3: out this jealousy you got right now, because I don't
Speaker 3: know why you're jealous. Please go sit with yourself and
Speaker 3: figure out how you see this looking, because as of
Speaker 3: right now, I'm talking to other nigga. Yeah, and literally
Speaker 3: took him a day, three hours on the phone with
Speaker 3: his dad. Next week, hours on the phone with his
Speaker 3: dad through the things. If y'all want to hear how
Speaker 3: that conversation went also on Patreon, and.
Speaker 1: He booked his flight, came to Atlanta, and we're together.
Speaker 4: Okay again, he asked, I'm gonna say it. That's the
Speaker 4: thing that you gotta do now. It's like as important
Speaker 4: as asking a woman to be your valentine.
Speaker 6: You have to ask to be your boyfriend girl from whatever.
Speaker 1: Oh it has to be.
Speaker 4: That's the real shit. It's not we've been together for someone, no,
Speaker 4: because if they don't ask, it ain't even if it's.
Speaker 3: Not like like and That's what girls do a lot,
Speaker 3: right boy my man, my man, my man to the
Speaker 3: home girls. That's the boyfriend that nigga don't think he
Speaker 3: in a relationship right, Like it has to be intentional
Speaker 3: and then once you're in that, then which is the
Speaker 3: faith I'm in right now? Now we start talking about
Speaker 3: what our boundaries look like, what we can and cannot do.
Speaker 3: I love how we keep respect for each other while
Speaker 3: we know that we are together and claiming each other
Speaker 3: to the world, and that's when that comes. I do
Speaker 3: want to bring up another element of this because I
Speaker 3: found it to be interesting and also what I'm going
Speaker 3: through now in my relationship.
Speaker 1: She says they were in a talking stage.
Speaker 3: And situationship quote unquote for seven months before he officially
Speaker 3: asked her to be his girlfriend.
Speaker 4: Now.
Speaker 3: She literally also says that I know seven months is
Speaker 3: a long time to wait for someone to commit, but
Speaker 3: I gave him grace quote unquote, and he was still
Speaker 3: healing from past relationships. I want to remove that as
Speaker 3: a thing.
Speaker 1: I will say.
Speaker 3: It's been beating me up that me and Actorvey went
Speaker 3: about this relationship different than I've ever gone about Like
Speaker 3: I'm just a fucking on the first night, I end
Speaker 3: up liking.
Speaker 1: You because the dick is so good.
Speaker 3: Then now I want it again, and now they start
Speaker 3: hanging out, Now I want you around. I'm used to
Speaker 3: starting relationships or situationships or feeling like I love a
Speaker 3: nigga based on the sex and me and connection bed
Speaker 3: me and actor Bay complete opposite.
Speaker 6: We was when you were sober.
Speaker 3: It was when I was sober. Well, no, when we
Speaker 3: first met. I was dating that couple and he thought
Speaker 3: I was fucking nuts.
Speaker 6: Oh that don't count.
Speaker 1: We amassed it.
Speaker 6: The first day was when.
Speaker 3: The first the first date we went on, I was sober.
Speaker 3: The first date, he didn't come up to my room,
Speaker 3: not even you know, they didn't the forehead. You know,
Speaker 3: they didn't kids, they don't do that. We already did
Speaker 3: that on a headache. We already did that on an
Speaker 3: episode and the verdict came in most people agreed with me,
Speaker 3: thank you very much.
Speaker 5: But we went through it took a long time to
Speaker 5: get anything.
Speaker 6: Oh I want to hear that. But oh yeah.
Speaker 3: So we started the relationship off though, with learning each other,
Speaker 3: with becoming friends, with learning our traumas, our triggers, where
Speaker 3: we are in our mental health, where we are in
Speaker 3: our financial journeys, where we are in our careers, who
Speaker 3: our friends were, who our family members are completely opposite
Speaker 3: from what I ever thought would happen for me getting
Speaker 3: into a relationship your life.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I fucking like that, nigga.
Speaker 6: Why is that completely opposite of what you ever thought?
Speaker 3: Because most of us lean into physical attraction first, then
Speaker 3: sexual attraction. It especially like if it's not a friend, say,
Speaker 3: you even start dating first. Me and this nigga didn't
Speaker 3: go on our first date until four months after we
Speaker 3: had been talking on the phone for hours every day.
Speaker 3: And I guess, yes, that kind of is what happens
Speaker 3: if you meet a nigga on a dating app or
Speaker 3: you decide to go to inmates dot com and date
Speaker 3: a prisoner. But no, in the normal rum of things,
Speaker 3: you're meeting quickly.
Speaker 5: You're hanging out, you're attracted, you're.
Speaker 3: Attracted, you're spending a lot of time together and you
Speaker 3: fucking and then you fall into a relationship. We fell
Speaker 3: into really caring for each other before sex was even introduced,
Speaker 3: which was not and day so I just wanted to
Speaker 3: where you said, I know, it's weird, and she said,
Speaker 3: I know, it's weird that we just talk. You know,
Speaker 3: we were in this way for seven months before a commitment.
Speaker 3: I find it beautiful to actually get to know somebody
Speaker 3: before commitment.
Speaker 1: Yah. I mean she's a teenager, she's a hall teen,
Speaker 1: very young.
Speaker 4: Nineteen and like everything moves fast and slow at the
Speaker 4: same time. Yes, yeah, seven months prob Yeah, and it.
Speaker 1: Ain't and it ain't. So what you said, it took
Speaker 1: a while for your husband to show up for you.
Speaker 5: Oh, I didn't let him kiss me for three months.
Speaker 1: I made it's a kiss.
Speaker 5: I made him take me on dates. He's like, I
Speaker 5: never spent so much for dinners in my life.
Speaker 1: How many dates before a kiss like that?
Speaker 5: So many? Like so many?
Speaker 7: And he finally we were at a show watching a
Speaker 7: band and he was like, he finally just grabbed me
Speaker 7: and kissed me.
Speaker 5: He's like, I can't take this anymore. This shit is crazy.
Speaker 3: Well, let's say, and there was consent. Yeah, you wanted
Speaker 3: to consent how you described? Yeah, there was consent. Why
Speaker 3: why did you take so long to kiss him?
Speaker 7: Because I really wanted to know I had been through
Speaker 7: I've already been divorced, Okay, I've been through several relationships
Speaker 7: with Ben at this age and I wanted to know
Speaker 7: that this person was going to really be.
Speaker 5: My best friend.
Speaker 7: That's cool, oh wow, And if we couldn't vibe and
Speaker 7: have things in common without being sexual then But then
Speaker 7: when I decided after the kiss, then I literally called
Speaker 7: him and I was like, oh, we have to have
Speaker 7: sex now.
Speaker 5: And I never had someone show up so fast pick
Speaker 5: me up. I was like, wait, what's all the way?
Speaker 1: This time?
Speaker 5: Called off work and then he came to get me.
Speaker 5: The sex was a bomb. There you go, boo. And
Speaker 5: we've been together for almost fifteen years.
Speaker 1: Damn god.
Speaker 6: I love that.
Speaker 1: I love it. I mean, I'm not gonna lie.
Speaker 3: I in my maturity, y'all aren't gonna get probably the
Speaker 3: same sex stories. Weezy tried to get it out of
Speaker 3: me on Patreon and I said, she's like, so tell
Speaker 3: us how was the sex.
Speaker 1: I said, well, bitch for together, that doesn't tell you.
Speaker 5: Yeah, like, oh yeah, that's.
Speaker 1: That's the depth getting.
Speaker 3: He's a public person, so I'm being Yes, I'm being
Speaker 3: very particular and very sensitive with what details I share.
Speaker 3: The last nigga was an old hit like I was like,
Speaker 3: I think I don't nobody know your old heads. You
Speaker 3: cain't even got to Instagram nigga, fuck got it, I'm
Speaker 3: gonna tell everybody that you like yours e. No, it was,
Speaker 3: it was, it was. It was insensitive in me to
Speaker 3: do so, and I learned from my last relationship those mistakes.
Speaker 3: I will say to our listener, to anyone listening, beware
Speaker 3: of red flags with your partners. Yes, and also if
Speaker 3: you know that you're not doing something wrong and you
Speaker 3: were being accused of doing something wrong, nine times out
Speaker 3: of ten, it's a projection and your partner is probably
Speaker 3: living foul.
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, I agreed.
Speaker 6: No, I agree. I'm just thinking about it that you're
Speaker 6: a victim.
Speaker 2: I know ed.
Speaker 6: I'm not gonna lie.
Speaker 4: As you were explaining more and more, I was like, damn,
Speaker 4: I definitegot God, but I was gonna say is that.
Speaker 4: I was like, mind you, I'm thirty right, So it's like, yeah,
Speaker 4: I was in a situationship not that long ago. But
Speaker 4: there was this form of communication amongst the fact that
Speaker 4: it's like if we do interact with other people, we
Speaker 4: have to let each other know. Yeah, I'm saying, and
Speaker 4: it wasn't an official thing. I did not ask her
Speaker 4: to be my girlfriend nothing. In fact, that's actually faded
Speaker 4: away now. But my thing is that we had that
Speaker 4: communication and if you are going to do a situationship,
Speaker 4: protect yourself, communicate and like that's really what.
Speaker 1: I will say.
Speaker 3: I deal with free code niggas, so they actually want
Speaker 3: me to FaceTime am all on with other niggas. Strange
Speaker 3: And this was in the past before my relationship. And
Speaker 3: then for me, I never cared about when any of
Speaker 3: my sexual partners had other partners because.
Speaker 1: I was always protected. So I think that if you
Speaker 1: are having casual, unprotected.
Speaker 3: Sex, right that is where fucker relationship and boundaries, you
Speaker 3: absolutely need to be transparent about testing and what other
Speaker 3: partners you're having and if you're not using condoms. But
Speaker 3: for me, I wasn't a asking like a nigga probably
Speaker 3: fucked a bitch before he came and fucked me. We
Speaker 3: was in a condom, so I didn't really you know,
Speaker 3: And I'm someone who gets tested every three months now
Speaker 3: like regardless, and so yeah, that's funny.
Speaker 6: I wasn't letting letting all your other hose down. What
Speaker 6: you mean, like, when you got into this relationship, did
Speaker 6: you let them know?
Speaker 1: No, I haven't know.
Speaker 4: I had a friend who had to do that too
Speaker 4: recently who had to like let people down.
Speaker 1: I'm like, you know what's crazy. I only had one
Speaker 1: hole this whole time.
Speaker 3: I've been healing, like after the couple and you know
Speaker 3: the one and and he's flot he got his own
Speaker 3: situation happened anyways, Like I said, he showed up for
Speaker 3: me for my birthday, which he knows who that guy is.
Speaker 3: And he was like, yeah, I knew you told me
Speaker 3: about that that bag to rub it in my face.
Speaker 3: I said, yeah, cuz, nigga, you have been talking to
Speaker 3: me four months before my birthday and you ain't get
Speaker 3: me a gift. So he actually admitted that he knew
Speaker 3: me sharing about that birthday gift was to.
Speaker 1: Was was on purpose?
Speaker 6: Oh yeah, he was like.
Speaker 3: Oh a nigga got you a four thousand dollars bag
Speaker 3: and oldest nigg don't worry about it.
Speaker 1: We ain't nothing right, So yeah, it's funny.
Speaker 3: He admitted that he knew that was done to hurt him,
Speaker 3: and it wasn't not to hurt you.
Speaker 1: I just wanted to let you.
Speaker 6: Know you knew it was gonna hurt.
Speaker 1: And didn't care. I ain't got what I wanted and
Speaker 1: didn't care. I'm gonna let you know. If you don't
Speaker 1: show up, the next nigga will.
Speaker 3: But yeah, no, we're in a place now where I
Speaker 3: didn't really have to let no hose down. That was
Speaker 3: my only person that was really in the picture, and
Speaker 3: to be fair, it's the same person that every time
Speaker 3: me and my ex broke up, I went and entertained.
Speaker 3: So he's been in the picture for three years just
Speaker 3: as someone there. I think I've been intentional on wanting
Speaker 3: to date this year, so I don't have hoes. He
Speaker 3: was an easy hole to have shout out to him,
Speaker 3: but I don't really but I'm in a relationship now
Speaker 3: with someone that I value. He's aware, and so that's
Speaker 3: been cut off off up.
Speaker 6: Yeah, and that's how it should be.
Speaker 1: And that's it. He know I'm good.
Speaker 3: Don't talk to me again until I'm all broken and
Speaker 3: min will come back, Oh my god, until I'm crying.
Speaker 3: But yeah, no, I didn't have to cut off any
Speaker 3: holes luckily. Like mind you y'all know, if y'all listen
Speaker 3: to a wild I've looked through my I was fucking porn
Speaker 3: stars and workers last year, not anyone like and yeah,
Speaker 3: they was cut off by the summertime So anyways, guys again,
Speaker 3: if you want us to give you advice on your questions,
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