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Speaker 3: We are just hoping to help people find answers in

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Speaker 3: very similar situations. And this week a listener wants to

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Speaker 3: know if they are a cheater now.

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Speaker 1: Before we get there. If you got to ask, you

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Speaker 3: That's one of those things where it's really black and white.

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Speaker 3: Like I know, there's like gray areas of things, But

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Speaker 3: am I a cheater?

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Speaker 1: Actually?

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Speaker 3: That is a great area. Let's your partner decide. My

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Speaker 3: partner will tell you if you're a cheater. But today

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Speaker 3: you're asking myself. I have tempest X, who is the

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Speaker 1: And then, of course Eden, are you miked up over there? Wolf?

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Speaker 5: Oh?

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Speaker 6: Yes?

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Speaker 1: And Wolf?

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Speaker 3: By the way, the ladies have been loving the both

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Speaker 3: of you, are y'all being on the comments, they'd be like.

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Speaker 1: Who I know Eden was licking this way.

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Speaker 6: We're gonna get match at tattoo soon.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, y'all gotta listen to that episode.

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Speaker 3: If you haven't go to the You've Got Decisions that

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Speaker 3: asks if a tattoo is a deal breaker, It's somewhere

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Speaker 1: Y'all will laugh if you haven't listened to it yet.

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Speaker 3: All right, so let's get into it, Hey, ladies and gentlemen.

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Speaker 3: I love this show and have been listening since I

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Speaker 3: was sixteen. Now I'm nineteen, in college and in a relationship.

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Speaker 1: I need some advice.

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Speaker 3: This is my first official relationship, but not the first

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Speaker 3: guy I've entertained. The situation I need advice on is this.

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Speaker 3: My boyfriend and I have been officially together for four months,

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Speaker 3: but before that, we were in a talking stage and

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Speaker 3: situationship for about seven months before he actually asked me

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Speaker 3: to be his girlfriend. During that time, I did talk

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Speaker 3: to and entertain other guys here and there to keep

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Speaker 3: my options open.

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Speaker 1: Yes, I asked if we were exclusive and he said no.

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Speaker 3: However, I never had physical relations with anyone other than him.

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Speaker 1: Oh oh, so entertaining is probably dating. She's young, y'all know.

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Speaker 1: I know. Look at y'all looking lost. I know.

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Speaker 3: Seven months is a long time to wait for someone

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Speaker 1: Right, all right, God, both of all outreas.

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Speaker 3: A month before he officially asked me to be his girlfriend,

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Speaker 3: I had talked to other people during our seven months

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Speaker 3: him and keeps throwing it in my face. What But

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Speaker 3: I don't believe I did, because he never officially asked

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Speaker 1: What do you guys think? Am I a cheater?

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Speaker 5: No?

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Speaker 1: So I have two parts that I want to take

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Speaker 3: there's another tidbit that I want to get into that

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Speaker 3: you guys think I'm a cheater? And his reaction, I'm

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Speaker 3: him making it seem like you're cheating because he went

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Speaker 3: through messages of you entertaining men.

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Speaker 1: While you weren't really with him.

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Speaker 3: I agree, is a clear indication that, bitch, he's cheating

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Speaker 6: Oh, I don't know about all that.

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Speaker 1: Let me tell you why. In my last relationship, I

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Speaker 3: In my last relationship, damn, he was convinced that every

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Speaker 3: think I'm doing it anyways, I may as well just

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Speaker 3: fucking cheat because the nigga think I'm cheating and I'm not.

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Speaker 1: I'm not entertaining anyone. I'm busy.

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Speaker 3: And so what I ended up realizing in hindsight was

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Speaker 3: literally when he traveled, he was actually fucking another bitch.

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Speaker 3: I thought he went to Panama for suits. He was

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Speaker 3: in Panama would have been big yea, literally, you know

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Speaker 3: And so for him to be making this big fuss

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Speaker 3: seeping through his fucking pores that he's doing that same

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Speaker 1: And so in his mind, this is this is making it.

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Speaker 3: It's validating his actions because now he's saying, well, you

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Speaker 3: cheated on me.

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Speaker 5: Or even if not, he's being very controlling.

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Speaker 7: That is also a red flag, like why why is

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Speaker 7: he getting on you when you weren't together. He was

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Speaker 7: the one who made the decision. Didn't he need the time?

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Speaker 7: He didn't he was healing, He was healing.

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Speaker 1: Oh I don't like Edam's.

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Speaker 6: Faith as the other man in this uh in this panel.

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Speaker 1: As the only man in this panel.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, oh yeah, that's fact over there.

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Speaker 1: See.

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Speaker 4: When I first started to hear all this, right, I

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Speaker 4: was like, this is some bullshit they say right now, right,

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Speaker 4: but as man talking right, I started getting a little

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Speaker 4: bit mad. But then I started getting mad realizing something.

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Speaker 4: She just realized. No, not me.

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Speaker 6: I realized, I, look, he probably got cheated during COVID.

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Speaker 4: Oh my god, because I'm realizing this shorty was projecting

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Speaker 4: a lot when I was out doing nothing, and I'm like,

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Speaker 4: and it was a it was a complicated situation too, yes,

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Speaker 4: And I just realized I might have been getting cheated.

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Speaker 3: You might have been getting gas lit, Purdue into a

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Speaker 3: so that's what that's what happens lot, right, Like, when

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Speaker 3: you're doing something you don't you don't want, or you

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Speaker 3: shouldn't be doing while you're in a relationship, either you

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Speaker 3: start projecting and pointing fingers because the only thing to

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Speaker 3: if they're.

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Speaker 4: Also in the wrong and you going through a phone

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Speaker 4: any mind that through and then it.

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Speaker 1: Cancels each other out right, You're right.

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Speaker 3: Not only is it the red flag that he's making

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Speaker 3: this argument prior to you, it's a red flag that

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Speaker 4: Been together find I'm gonna say this every single time.

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Speaker 4: Anytime you go through a phone, you won't find something,

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Speaker 4: So it don't matter. It won't even be the context.

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Speaker 3: Cause yeah, it ain't even gotta be me texting another nigga.

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Speaker 3: It could be me and my group chat talking about time.

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Speaker 3: When you know what I mean, It's like you're you're

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Speaker 1: Let's not even get into it.

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Speaker 3: If you're looking for that, you you might be mad

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Speaker 3: that a nigga in my d I can't control that,

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Speaker 3: this nigga slid.

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Speaker 6: Y'all still use Facebook?

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Speaker 4: No?

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Speaker 6: I want to. I want to. I want to tell

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Speaker 1: Let me tell you what Facebook is for the cheater.

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Speaker 4: So let's say if you log in or you logged

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Speaker 4: Facebook will let you log in, right, They'll they'll be

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Speaker 4: like cool, you could just say yes on this device,

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Speaker 4: you long in cool. Now you need an extra code

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Speaker 4: to get into the chat history.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, damn it's given Snapchat.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean kind of yeah. So like now that's

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Speaker 4: definitely for the cheatings. I'm gonna say, if a man

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Speaker 4: he's got something, or a woman whoever. I love your

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Speaker 4: face was like I was tight, this.

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Speaker 1: Big dounds nuts. And then as I kept explaining myself,

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Speaker 1: you were like it changed.

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Speaker 4: Oh shit, I'm the victim. I realized I was the

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Speaker 4: victim the whole time in this story.

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Speaker 3: Well before we get to the next part of this

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Speaker 3: letter that I want to get into, where do you

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Speaker 3: stand with do you believe that she is a cheater?

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Speaker 3: It's oh you wait, you say you said yes, she's cheating.

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Speaker 1: Oh she was cheating because she was entertaining other men

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Speaker 1: while they were in a situation. She's not cheating.

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Speaker 6: She's she's not cheating. Okay, yeah, happened before you.

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Speaker 3: By all, I mean, I ain't gonna hold you and

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Speaker 3: y'all don't heard it. It's why the fuck I got

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Speaker 3: a boyfriend. Now, he literally heard I was entertaining another

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Speaker 3: nigga and he said, oh, she's slipping away. I gotta

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Speaker 3: make this official.

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Speaker 1: So he did, Oh no, no, no. So I shared the

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Speaker 1: story on Patreon. Oh this is alone Patreon.

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Speaker 3: Basically while we were in while we were in Vegas together,

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Speaker 3: I said, well yeah, I showed him my outfit and

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Speaker 3: But basically I looked at him and was like, what

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Speaker 4: That's the real shit. It's not we've been together for someone, no,

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Speaker 3: And situationship quote unquote for seven months before he officially

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Speaker 3: It was when I was sober. Well, no, when we

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Speaker 6: Oh that don't count.

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Speaker 5: But we went through it took a long time to

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Speaker 6: Oh I want to hear that. But oh yeah.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I fucking like that, nigga.

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Speaker 6: Why is that completely opposite of what you ever thought?

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Speaker 5: You're hanging out, you're attracted, you're.

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Speaker 3: I find it beautiful to actually get to know somebody

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Speaker 4: Nineteen and like everything moves fast and slow at the

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Speaker 1: Ain't and it ain't. So what you said, it took

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Speaker 5: Oh, I didn't let him kiss me for three months.

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Speaker 1: I made it's a kiss.

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Speaker 5: I made him take me on dates. He's like, I

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Speaker 1: How many dates before a kiss like that?

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Speaker 5: So many? Like so many?

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Speaker 7: And he finally we were at a show watching a

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Speaker 5: He's like, I can't take this anymore. This shit is crazy.

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Speaker 7: Because I really wanted to know I had been through

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Speaker 7: I've already been divorced, Okay, I've been through several relationships

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Speaker 5: My best friend.

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Speaker 5: And I never had someone show up so fast pick

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Speaker 5: Called off work and then he came to get me.

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Speaker 5: The sex was a bomb. There you go, boo. And

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Speaker 1: Damn god.

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Speaker 6: I love that.

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Speaker 1: I love it. I mean, I'm not gonna lie.

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Speaker 3: I in my maturity, y'all aren't gonna get probably the

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Speaker 1: I said, well, bitch for together, that doesn't tell you.

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Speaker 6: I'm not gonna lie.

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Speaker 4: it wasn't an official thing. I did not ask her

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Speaker 3: I deal with free code niggas, so they actually want

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Speaker 6: I wasn't letting letting all your other hose down. What

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Speaker 3: I've been healing, like after the couple and you know

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Speaker 3: about that that bag to rub it in my face.

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